5 things that men hate | Things that make him fall out of love
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5 things guys hate | How to lose s guy
Things that make him fall out of love.
Guys hate these 5 things and how to lose a guy.
Women always talk about how bad they have it. Guys fall out if love when you don’t seem to be aware of yourself. They talk about what guys have done to them but almost never acknowledge what they have done to contribute to their relationships failing. Some women run guys off not being self aware. They do the very things guys hate and don’t know why their relationships are terrible. Don’t ruin your chances with a good man. Don’t exhibit these 5 toxic behaviors. - Навчання та стиль
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Kev, I have no questions to ask you but, I would like to listen to see if I'm still up on my wopman skills, to remain on track in my relationship, is that okay? ( I will PAY to listen).
@ywah ywah good suggestion!
@@itsover123 im 3/5... (runs to psychiatrist)
Kev! Not sure if you have the tools to discuss this. But do you have any advice for a woman whose partner has an addiction/dependence? Specifically with alcohol
Could you make 5 signs he is falling out of love or changed his mind about you
Powerful
1. Don’t be bossy and don’t try to control him
2.Don’t monopolize his time
3. Don’t constantly evaluate the relationship
4.Being insecure within yourself
5. Being ungrateful and not acknowledging his good qualities
Thank you
Thanks
Ty!
Thank you lol
Thanks
Its time to write. A book. It will sell.
Word.
I'll buy it
I absolutely agree with this!!!
I thought there was 1 in the works?
Love this. Great idea! I would definitely buy it.
If a woman feels insecure about a man she needs to pay attention to what her gut is telling her. His actions or words or lack of is likely the cause imo.
Or past traumas are typically the cause of insecurity in general
You can have both past trauma and that can cause insecurity, but also past trauma can cause you to become hypervigilant and see changes in men or see inconsistent behavior. That inconsistent behavior can be the thing to cause insecurity. For example if a man's behavior changes negatively.
@@cappygurl Exactly, not always the woman. Men rarely analyze or address their traumas. I hear all he has said, it can’t always be on us.
This. 💯
Sometimes its the woman that has the issues and she needs to pay attention as to what is occurring in her own head before looking at the man and blaming him. I am a woman btw and I am tired of interacting with men who have had bad experiences with insecure and immature women.
Oftentimes a man will play games with his womans heart, she's LOYAL, Hard working, fun, kind, committed to him and I only him and he'll do stupid SHIT, then cry and lie. Sometimes a man brings about the insecurities of a woman because
HE, DIDN'T "SECURE"
" the one who kept him" SECURE
Women need to stop being LOYAL and COMMITTED to these types of men.
@@drea4373 exactly
That's not a man. Sounds like someone with alot of issues and growing up to do.
🙌🏼 yes!!!!!!!
This is why I'm starting to feel like I should forever be alone, as sad as that may sound. All I have accepted in life is people just like that because of how my family conditioned me when I was growing up. I feel like I gave my all and have nothing left to give or accept. We all need love but I just feel that it just wasn't in the cards for me. That's just my opinion.
I am extremely independent so guys tend to think that I don't actually like them because I don't trip if we don't spend every second together.
Peace and tranquility is a must in my relationship
Facts! Same here
Yep. Nice profile pic.
Worrrd! A guy brings stress and problems into your life? Run.
@@karadiberlino but this is about men not women it’s the opposite
In any healthy relationship
My favorite thing about my relationship is the tenderness we give each other especially when we have disagreement.
That's very healthy
Here's to better Relationship Communication in 2021 and beyond...
Amen 🙏
I respect a guy who will not raise his voice. Once I was talking so much (over a guy ) I wasn't listening. He said in an even voice, "Can you let me talk?" He made me think without embarrassing me. I appreciated it.
Aww♥️♥️
Exactly ♥️♥️
The first one🤧 I felt that!! But I only become aggressive when I feel something is wrong( which it usually is) and I get on the defensive side. But one thing I am learning is, if a man stops communicating with me, I’m not going to say anything, I’m just going to fall back and keep it pushing instead of messing up my peace
FACTS!!
Me too, except I'm not bossy, just straight up. Personally, I admire that in people, but I'm noticing that not everyone likes to be told about themselves and likes to be treated with kid gloves.
Yeah I’m bossy but is to protect myself.. cus when I show my nice side they take me for granted and he’ll no , if u don’t put up with my actitud keep moving
🙌🏻🙌🏻
I learned something about when someone stops communicating with you is to learn on to divorce the outcome, meaning don't put alot of energy into why their not calling/texting back in a timely fashion or just plain out ignore you. Turn that negative energy into positive and keep it moving. For some reason they understand better when you handle someone like they handle you, then they get it.
Over analyzing is definitely a major problem ! I notice I have to keep myself busy and away to enjoy a relationship! I caught myself in the past too invested in the person ! Ewww I cringe thinking about it
Hmm. I see. Ok 😎
How do you keep yourself away if you are married to the person
@@LindaFrankv girl I ain’t never been married but I would invest in some hobbies and join some groups !
@@maverlinrivas317 witkneemenyon
Far too many women need to hear this.
I know I did.
True but some men do this as well. It's not just women doing this
The first one is so true. When a woman starts talking to you any and every kind of way all the love and respect that she has for you is gone.
I dated a man like this. And yes, it’s awful for any gender to withstand.
Oh wow. I was just about to say that l feel like I'm the man in this relationship 😐
@@su-enaahleebeautifulcontra3617 yeah, the behaviors he mentioned are toxic and come from all genders. It’s not just women who do this
Great video but I’m done... this relationship stuff is too much for me. I don’t want one.... I’m good on this. This is exhausting....
OMG!!! Why wasn't this video posted last night?? I made a HUGE mistake earlier today... Lawd🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ This video is the truth! I think I have a good one but my emotions and anxiety is gonna ruin what we may be building... GIRL GET YOUR MIND RIGHT AND ENJOY THE MOMENTS AND RELAX!!!
I just went through the same thing 😫😫😫. We really need to take it 1 day at a time 🙏🏾🙏🏾
How do we undo this 😪😭
I messed up too big time yesterday especially concerning the 5th point😣
@@lornavasselljames2160 Yes we do! And I have an issue with overthinking... Lawd I just need to relax🤷🏾♀️ 1 day at a time
@@tuyakulamusheko169 I was trying to figure that out too! If you find out let me know and I'll definitely let you know if I do!
Never mind being taken for granted, men in this day and age are ridiculed, slandered, and lambasted at every turn. If you want to stand out to a guy, any guy, show respect and appreciation (only if they deserve it ofc).
True
Show too much appreciation and you could end up being the doormat.
Lee Steal Exactly!! 😂
@@leesteal4458 The 2 are not necessarily mutually exclusive actually.
@@jayc5756 Well, you don't know what mutually exclusive means my dear.
I wish I had seen this video a few months ago, I may have still been with the man of my dreams but instead I drove him away with my own insecurities and anxiety. Tough lesson learned, thanks Kev xx
Sending good vibes 2 u, girl!💜 Ur not alone!
Then he’s not the man of your dreams.
Maybe offer a sincere apology over the holidays?
Most people are more open to that type of communication during holiday season. 😁
@@marythecommutegirl284 thankyou for your comment, I have apologised to him and all I asked for was a break as I was having a tough time. I am going to leave fate in gods hands to decide the future. Sending you best wishes for the holidays ❤
I love this video, it’s so true. We as women don’t realize that we need to address our issues as well. Men and women both must be willing to change. Yes....Gratitude is huge.
watching videos on feminine energy has helped me too.
I watch these videos and I'm still lost! I am naturally laid back, submissive, loving, I think I'm pretty 🤷♀️, I try to make my man laugh and have fun, I am very encouraging, and loyal....yet! I still get shitted on! I feel like I'm going to be the old lady with mad pets or something because it's frustrating! Lol 😂
I pray God send the divine man for you😍
@@EleaseLLC I try...I don't fight, I am so loving, caring and it just isn't happening for me! I feel like giving up! Every man wants sex right away and I don't want to do that.... it's bad out here on these dating streets! Smh 😔
@@lwats6436 Thank you my sister, I appreciate you! ❤️
Kimberly, you are a good woman but you need to understand that the man is always on the receiving end because you are giving too much. To balance your relationship & receive love too you should act sometimes like you don't care. He'll come begging for your attention thus showing you love. If you continue being nice always to a man, then every man will treat you the same, facts! No matter how rich & cute he is, men want to feel sometimes like they work to sustain their relationship, so give him hard times from time to time. Works for me like magic
Yeah me too so upsetting
Ive done 3/5 of these things...yikers 😬. Glad i know now so I dont do it in the future
👌
Salaam, Family. I missed you all. We had illness in the family but everyone is better now.
Stop making other people (ie: your mate) responsible for your happiness.
Nothing is more suffocating.
Appreciation for this video. Knowledge never hurts anyone.
Lol, most men like having their egos stroked...and it's very hard sometimes as a staunch feminist. Relationships are hard work yall🙈...I agree with you though Kev
Another feminist here...I feel heterosexual relationships are generally harder when you identify as a feminist. It def is hard work...
Because the tenents of feminism are the opposite of what makes heterosexual relationships work. Males and females are yin and yang, nature of the universe, how god created us. Acting like a man, challenging him, blaming him, not being soft, gentle, warm or welcoming as a woman will keep you single. Or with partners who never fullfill your true desires. You have to be open to hearing that and self reflecting. Otherwise you wilk continue to have issues.
@@healthychick9450 I agree🙂
I go through the same, the ideal is a partner that wants to have actual equality with us (not just financial) and it's hard to find. Most men are insecure and go for insecure women they can prey upon and control. That's definitely not what I want for me.
@@gioovannabp 🙌
I met a man that did all these things. He was so bad, it made me reflect on how I may have exhibited some of these behaviors in past. It was like dealing with a controlling toxic woman.
After dealing with him, I swore on my life I'd never treat anyone in those ways again.
I truly didn't understand until it happened to me.
I dated a guy recently that was so insecure of himself and that he had his own issues too. So he left me for somebody else . I couldn’t handle his him being toxic and insecurities
You chose You! Good choice ❤️
How did he find someone else?
Sounds like you dodged a bullet
@@j-tenn226 beats me . Probably online . Pretty much that is how people now are meeting each other. He made it official with her and not with me . He never told me anything . Not even his own family and friends never knew about her.🤷🏼♀️
Kevin tell these chicks to seek therapy before and during these relationships. We ALL need it! Be Blessed luv ❤
Would Never Smother A
Man.. & Where’s the
COMPASSION?? ITS About being a good
Listener 👂without
Interrupting‼️ Let’s Go
OMG 😱 sounds like
Someone needs 2 LOVE ❤️ themselves FIRST ☝️
Feel bad 😢 4 the Man
That Doesn’t Get
RECOGNITION HE
MOST CERTAINLY
DESERVES IN EVERY
WAY...LOVE UR MAN
❤️❤️❤️ As Tomorrow Is Not A GIVEN‼️
STAY BLESSED ALWAYS
🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️
WELL SPOKEN 👍🏽👍🏽‼️
Soooo much truth in this video!! The self reflection was definitely needed!
I appreciate you being straight up & not sugar coating anything. Keep it real Kev. Thanks!!!
Thank you again, Kev!❤️🙌🏽
Every video always contains golden information explained to perfection. Thank you! 🙏🏾 ✨
Thanks again. You always give me the business when I need to be reminded.
Absolutely. This was much needed. So true. Thanks. 100% on point.
I love the things you address bring it to the forefront.💕 Learning
You are on point Kev. God bless you
Thank you, Kev. May you , family Have a Merry Christmas.
I hit all these points when im going through PMS and i cant help it. So a whole week out of the month. This is how i play out. I need a man who is mature and secure within himself to be my rock when im at my most unstable time of the month.
Exactly!!!👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿🎯🎯🎯
Right
omg same!!! literally just went thru this
Thank you! Its amazing how much society gets in our life in some type of way.
U hit the nail on the head with this Kev...Thank you😊
This is a really down to earth and good summary. Thank you
Thank you for this, I can honestly say if I don't get it together yesterday, I will loose a good man!
Kev, how do you know so much about men\women patterns and personalities? Did you take psychology in school and just decided to take a different career path? This seems like your true calling. Thank you for doing all this for your followers, you give us hope and let us know that what we are thinking isn't wrong, strange or crazy. May God bless you with 1 million followers.
Although I'm not sure, he's probably just very observant and notices patterns and behaviours.
Maybe he used to be a player. 💁
He's a Libra, he naturally understands relationships.
@@Mmmmkaaay 😂
@@lilis.9355 and has a strong sense of Justice..that explains a lot
Kevin thanks you for inspiration and creative speaking 🗣️ and the positivity advice you shared 😊
Clear cut advice! 🙌🏼
Thank you Kev for this positive message much needed to hear this😊
Thank you for posting this video! I found this information to be very helpful! 🙂
On point ! Great video
He's straight forward, with his advice!
Thank you. Very insightful
Fantastic Teaching, Very Well Done 👍🏽
He is definitely the best ! Thanks Kev happy holidays as well
Great advice sweetheart thank you!🤗
Well said and so true !!! ♥️♥️♥️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks for this! 💕
Thank you Kevin 👏🏽👏🏽 🙏🏽
Wow KEV I needed this!!!! THANK YOU!!! Wishing you & yours a blessed holiday!!!
I needed to hear this 😩
3. Well what about when they go radio silent can you then trust that something is wrong in a relationship? When you have given space and it becomes too much space and they forget you exist no matter how good you've been to them.
Just bumped into this . Well said. Thank you 😊
This was perfectly said👍👍💖
Well said! You r 100% correct! You confirmed somethings and gave me food for thought. Our delivery is funny and real. Thank you.
You are spot on this ruins a relationship so fast
Omg amazing video Kev🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽
Remember the house song by Envogue, Hold on to your love, her first mistake was she wanted too much time. She had to have him morning, noon and night.
I kid you not, I appreciate how Kev be letting us lady’s have it!💯 keep these videos coming! Nothin but life savers!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It felt like you were speaking directly to me in this video. I really needed to hear this advice.
Thanks Kev👍🏾👍🏾
Great advice!
I actually needed too hear this x
Thanks Kev! You on point..we can't try to consume all of a man's time and not be insecure..Sometimes we want more too soon..bc me and my friend are just dating and not in a relationship
Another great no nonsense video ❤
Thanks...point taken
Thanks a lot. The lesson have touched me
Super Facts!
This video hits so hard...thanks fo this man👍🏽
Thankyou so much for this
This is really helpful.
You’re amazing. I appreciate this channel so much ❤️
Thank you!
Great advice thanks 👍😊
Totally agree. We enhance each other’s positive energy. Like magic.
KEV!!!! this is so on point. I'm guilty of #1 and didn't even realize it. And it's for the EXACT reason you said, the previous relationship I was in was very controlling and manipulative. The new guy recognized that even when I didn't. HOW DO I FIX THIS?? 😩
Thank you sooo much.. ☺️🙏🏼
Wow.....awesome content💯 What a wake-up call!
The wisdom you have wow 🙌🏽🙌🏽 You need more views 🔥
#3 alone would annoy me! Great list...I learned to live in the present, and have my own life.
Damn. I needed to hear this a long time ago…
This is so real to hear..
Binge watching your content man. Legit!
I have to work on some stuff lol thanks for the great video
Significant and informative.
Absolutely appreciate your knowledge,love and energy. 🥺 going to do my best January 15th to support. Duty calls 1st but I'm gonna be running home or watching from my car 🚗 lol
Awesome video Kev.
You are the truth. For real
Im a very kind, big hearted person. Yet the guys I attract are broken guys. Guys who tell many stories. N i get treated like crap....i just don't understand...
It’s the lack of boundaries that get you caught up. Its easy to spot if there aren’t any. Nice finish last. Say no my dear & don’t be afraid of the reactions. 😽
Don't change. Just gotta be aware that everybody....well a lot of ppl are not as good hearted like you. So once you know that...then just try to choose better. Gotta feel out the guys good in the beginning. Stay guarded. There's a lot of users and disgusting ppl out there. So u gotta protect that good heart of yours. Understand sis? How i know?? Cause I'm the same. Lol. I meet a few very good hearted ppl...not much. But I remember 1 I used to talk to...but she was very naive. She didn't have much experience. I tried to educate her on certain things like this...but she didn't believe me or want to...so I figured she is the type that gotta feel it 1st...to learn...unfortunately. SMH 😔
@@jenesaisquoi9538 😩😩
@@jayc5756 I'm sorry to hear that, i wish wish wish she'd listen to you though..it's not a nice feeling to be heartbroken...thanks for telling me, i appreciate that😩
@@ninafrederick6048 Np sweetie. Let me know if you need any other advice on things. 👍
This video is calling me out on my behavior 😩.
This was a nice video.
Really good explanation
The way you say things I seriously never feel offended it’s like you’re the dad I never had!