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I wish group sex wasn’t so triggering for me. It just brings up jealousy and self hate. I am a former sex educator and queer health advocate - but I never could care for myself. Even watching this makes me feel pangs of jealousy for the guest, wishing I could be sexy like that.

12:05 swoon

THE BEST episode❤ 50 year old openly bi, non-binary person, who has been het married twice and only experienced their sexuality and identity minimized and overlooked. Realizing that my traumatized witch-wound is OVER.. and I am done with all men within this patriarchy.

Loved this episode , thank u all sm 🙂‍↔️🫶🏻🫶🏻

❤❤❤... OMG so complex and such a necessary episode. Thank you!!!

Such a good one! ❤So informative, so fun, Yaz is so cute!

Apart from a few times sadly you are just interviewing him as if hes a gay guy who used to have sex with women. I know hes able to speak freely but its the questions you ask tgey are all about men but you dont ask how he feels about women

Non-binary? I only saw women and men. Some bi/homosexual, yes, but that doesn't make them any less of a woman or a man.

Dang I wish you guys had asked about birds😭😭cause I always heard the “fact” growing up that birds were the most monogamous animals on the planet, I still don’t know to this day if that’s true or not🤔

I always assume nobody would be getting periods in the zombie apocalypse because of malnutrition. Menstruation generally stops in elite athletes or people with restrictive EDs, so I can't imagine they'd be happening when very little food is available.

loved this. thank you thank you for mirroring me

If he was smart he would sue. 0:35 RIDICULOUS this is sooooo common in gay community and YOU CAN ABSOLUTELY GET SUED FOR THAT!!!! So bad. Just be honest and the right person will come along. I dated a man that was Undectable; he told me upfront and let me decided to pursue and it made me like him all the more for his honesty and it wasn’t a big deal but going and not disclosing that knowing the background of the 1980s AIDS epidemic and how it affected us…and you know disclosing that honestly to someone and putting your desires to have sex first, CANCELLED!!! This not talking about our status and just wanting to have pleasure needs to stop. Literally the AHF campaign billboards talk about disclose your statusssss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I think it’s OK for lesbians to have the sentiment that bisexual women most of the time end up with women because it can be true in your community and what you see. When I identified as bisexual, I only dated men. When I came out as lesbian, even though I find a few men, attractive, my whole whole mindset changed. I saw myself with a woman, getting married, having kids, growing old, doing life together. When I was bisexual, I did not have to do that work because I only looked at it as sexual experiences, other than a lifetime of love and romance.

Women are gayer than men, it's as simple as that.

Poly is the only way you can keep your relationship happy, fun and successful.

Men never admit they like to flirt with each other specially straight men simply gross out of this thought... As a lesbian i know women are more comfortable with each other, admiring, flirting with each other... Untill that tough shell of masculinity " men will be men" myth is dismantled bi men are unfortunately about to still have it difficult... Specially fan of Tate and other men with mic 🎤... always tear gay or bi men apart... As if they are betraying their " bro code"

Good to see you again, and doing well, Brock! Welcome.

Im aceflux. I resonate more with this label

As a man, I personally Don't give a shit if my woman dates. Another woman because. If she's going to be seeing a woman while together with me, im going to be seeing other women as well, Because I know I can. I was lucky enough to be born on the more attractive side and my financial situation is great, so I know it would be extremely easy for me. But I know she won't because she's more worried about losing me than I am about losing her.

Love the pod and you guys. Was such an awesome, interesting and eye-opening conversation! Gonna binge a bunch more of your vids now =)

Thanks all three of you for this podcast ! I'm a french bi guy but i've never felt bi. I've had a night with a guy few years ago, like Brock i'm always watching topless men wherever they are etc... But i mostly date women (mostly bi women lately) because I'm scared to try and learn with guys. It scares me to feel unsafe or like a beginner and even though know that, I can't...

Why bi ? So u don't recognise trans..... It should be LGPTQ community... I use queer now not lgbt coz they don't recognise trans indivials

I'd love to be my ol' dual-gender loving self. Unfortunately I have HIV. And while gay men and trans women are pretty cool with the realities of modern HIV, cis women as a whole are not. So even knowing Im bi, it's way easier to live life as a gay man and form relationships with cis men, trans men, & trans women than it is to do the same with cis women.

Thank you Jenna!

Thank you Jenna!

so, this will be the 4th place i copy pasta this, but heres my theory as to why sexuality and gender queerness exists in so many animals today, not just humans. sooo... long long time ago, millions of years ago existed the common ancestor to all life on earth. that ancestor was likely able to switch its biologic sex as needed dependent on environmental pressures. and being able to change their biological sex like that likely meant their brain had to be adapted in someway for that too. and that adaptation can present itself today in animals and humans that can no longer change their biological sex, resulting in the gender and sexual diversity we see today. something of a vestigial trait or an atavism. thank you for coming to my TED talk xD

Thank you Jenna!

Thank you Jenna!

Hi! Just wanted to say I really appreciated this podcast episode. I'm non-binary, polysexual, and identify with relationship anarchy. I really appreciate that you all can come on and share about your experiences, your feelings, and provide information for the people who are ready to receive it. Yaz is amazing and y'all are amazing too. Much love.

A Kinder World is a similar mental health app that can be reallyuseful as well 😊 looking after plants instead of a pet 😅

Adulthood demands you to define who and what you are and that's unfair.

i have no stigma sleeping with poz dudes, but I still expect them to fucking tell me they're poz.

people do not go to social media to relax. they go to distract. if youre a person who is so used to chaos and distress we dont know what it feels like to truly relax. so if theres a moment i can focus on what other people are doing and stop thinking about whats going on with me… then thats the closest thing to “relaxing”.

I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos but I really wanted to just say thank you for this. I reccently came out as genderfluid/non-binary and have been really struggling navigating my identity and the dysphoria that comes from it and have been trying to fill a mold as what non-binary was. I shaved my mustache, I hated my body hair, my body shape, my voice. I considered seeking out hormone therapy as well. After watching this video though I realized that I was compromising myself to fit a mold and the great thing about gender is that there is no mold to fill! Listening to Heath and Halal's experiences opened up my mind and really did wonders for me. I have also been loving your videos on polyamory as I am discovering myself in that front as well. Thank you so much for all you all do and the wonderful guests you bring on. I really appreciate y'all and all you do for the queer community ❤

Why is it bad? Because a large part of the population hates us. Simple.

The fact that you think its okay is actually concerning

Emily, I can’t get over your skin! Pearlescent. You’re glowing.

This was such a great talk. Future second collab with June Lam?

You need to disclose your status before you have any sexual contact with another person. Y’all just nodded along as your guest justified him giving a life threatening disease to another person. The fuck is wrong with yall. The problem is that he disclosed it AFTER giving it to them it’s just selfish there’s no way around it. He really tried to talk his way around the deed he committed and only idiots like yall could not pick up on his manipulative language. Maybe bring a guest on who actually has some compassion and self control.

This podcast definitely deserves a lot more attention. The episodes are so informative, helpful, and as a queer person from a homo phobic country I definitely find them reassuring. Keep working on your mission to provide a safe and informative space for queer folks or allies, it's highly appreciated!!❤❤

Most bisexual American women are straight women either willing to experiment with other women or, especially the White bisexual women, just women searching for oppression points for them to claim systemic victimhood and put themselves in a position in which they’re deserving of people’s empathy.

so, hot take i guess? this seems like something that is going to make attractive and/or charismatic people happy but everyone else frustrated and sad? i hope this doesn’t offend anyone but it just seems that way from the outside.

the better question would be "why are there more OUT bi women then men?". when you realize they exist, just most of them are not out, the answer becomes a lot more obvious

Please stop asking "is it natural" as it only serves to promote the conservative standpoint that we should only do what they consider natural. The only relevent question on the topic of determining if people should be allowed to do this is "is it ethical?". And ofcourse for ETHICAL polyamory the answer is always yes. End of discussion. Giving bigots more room for discussion after this is doing yourself a disservice.

This polyamorous thing is complicated.

I have frequently had trepidation about dating bisexual men (perhaps not now as an older guy). I knew that I did not have anything that could compete with the kids wife and picket fence. He is going to have fun with me but eventually hes gonna have an opportunity to leave the queer life and settle down for the Norman Rockwell thing.

Thanks for this episode I have HIV and I’m struggling to find reasons to stay sober I’m glad he can do it. I have a hard time because I’m bi living with it.

this is SO gross . you are gross . THE TWO WOMAN WHO DECIDED TO AGREE TO THIS AND AGGREEING WITH HIM IS GROSS

i love bi men 💟

I don’t think my life would be the same if I was straight as a bi woman. I’m also Black so there’s that too but being over sexualized, more likely to experience IPV, and constantly questioned doesn’t make things stay the same. Societally things change for all people who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community as a minoritized group.