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  • @bruna9302
    @bruna9302 2 роки тому +175

    It's difficult to forget past mistakes that affect our present life and that have changed our life forever.

    • @mariovallego5214
      @mariovallego5214 2 роки тому +19

      I know, feels bad, bad.😪

    • @Pemu137
      @Pemu137 Рік тому +14

      yeah ,in beginning it is difficult to forget about past but when you start to forgive yourself or either someone else ,you will feel good then you will realised that you were thinking about past are pointless ,take past as a lesson which you had been through and i must say that i have experienced it.....Namo Buddhaya🙏🕊️

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Рік тому +3

      @@mariovallego5214have you managed to forgive yourself now?

    • @mariovallego5214
      @mariovallego5214 Рік тому +9

      @@ShaunHolden Well I would be lying if I say I feel ok now, I have my ups and downs still but as soon as I have extra money to go to a therapy, I will do that, I'm just waiting for that right now, there's so much to tell, but I have to push and help my self otherwise who will, god can help me but if I'm willing to help my self none one will, but my self, that's where am at right now, just waiting for some extra money and trust me, I'mma go with a psychology and let everything know how I feel and get a little help.

    • @ziziroberts8041
      @ziziroberts8041 Рік тому +2

      Everything changes at every moment. We don't live forever.

  • @ianlewis6258
    @ianlewis6258 2 роки тому +76

    "Those that don't learned from history are doomed to repeat it, but those who obsess over history repeat it throw anger"

  • @anaalvarez1925
    @anaalvarez1925 2 роки тому +52

    I’m an atheist which means I don’t believe in any gods, but lately I’ve been reading a lot about the teachings of Buddhism.
    Namo Buddhay

  • @pasindumethshan7236
    @pasindumethshan7236 2 роки тому +52

    This is very valuable . I am from Srilanka. I offer my gratitude deep in my heart as you all try to wake up people by the merit of the universe. Buddhism is the law of universe. I'm proud to be a congenital buddhism soul.❤

    • @sheharasiri
      @sheharasiri 2 роки тому +2

      same , proud buddhist i respect my religion and thus undestand the values of it also!

    • @stefaniakonstantinidou981
      @stefaniakonstantinidou981 2 роки тому +1

      What s it like in shri lanka with rstrictions? Wish all people great awakening

  • @svillevoontheroad7054
    @svillevoontheroad7054 2 роки тому +15

    Thank the Supreme Buddha for giving me the best chance to change my thinking.

  • @jaffnafinearts
    @jaffnafinearts 2 роки тому +5

    I worried my life before being here but fortunately I found Buddha medication speech in you tube channel. I so happy to listening too and I change the my life style.

  • @nisargan9535
    @nisargan9535 2 роки тому +26

    I was waiting for this video😭😭😭

  • @emmanuellaunuakpor8046
    @emmanuellaunuakpor8046 2 роки тому +10

    Even if I belong to another religion I found this helpful, thank you

  • @pradnyashivsharan6000
    @pradnyashivsharan6000 2 роки тому +4

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏 Vandami Bhanteji🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐

  • @padmasariadiwidya1474
    @padmasariadiwidya1474 2 роки тому +5

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏Anumodana bhante 🙏🙏🙏
    May all beings be happy, free from suffering.
    Sadhu, sadhu, sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sharmilasharmila8974
    @sharmilasharmila8974 Рік тому +49

    i am a follower of Jesus Christ and i like Buddha's teaching 🙏

    • @nihalkumarasinghe5507
      @nihalkumarasinghe5507 Рік тому +1

      🌷🌷🌷🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @brookebenoit129
      @brookebenoit129 Рік тому +5

      Muslim here appreciating Buddhist wisdom 😻

    • @samsoso6456
      @samsoso6456 10 місяців тому

      If u still can't change it, then don't focus on it nor worry about it, it's better for u, what u an change and focus in the now so don't waste that on regretting your past, best of luck, u can still do what's best for u

    • @Psyfi85
      @Psyfi85 3 місяці тому

      Jesus was a yogi, spent much time in TM.

    • @Butterflygyal97
      @Butterflygyal97 2 місяці тому

      Same ❤

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 роки тому +4

    Namo Buddhaya!
    Thank you v.much Rev. Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sukanyabarua1231
    @sukanyabarua1231 2 роки тому +3

    Take my respect Bhante 🙏🌹. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌹

  • @princess0584
    @princess0584 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for all your videos sir .im born again christian but i watch your videos

  • @OutYourShell
    @OutYourShell 2 роки тому +9

    This took me a long time to find, self forgiveness, for actions that changed the lives of others forever. And now finding a meaning to life. To move to Cambodia and create a healing space for all.

    • @arcane2307
      @arcane2307 2 роки тому +1

      How was that possible?? Can u please share with us ur experience..really i dont understand thz concept..m living in the thoughts of my past deeds since years, its really verry tough for me to move forward, to face the present..so i want to know how was it possible for u...

    • @OutYourShell
      @OutYourShell 2 роки тому

      @@arcane2307 hey Arcane. Hope your well. I will make a vid around this for you and others from my mindset and how my life went :)

    • @arcane2307
      @arcane2307 2 роки тому +1

      @@OutYourShell 🙏🏻

    • @OutYourShell
      @OutYourShell 2 роки тому

      @@arcane2307 hey, just made a video on my channel around your comment. Hope it helps ☮️☮️☮️

    • @arcane2307
      @arcane2307 2 роки тому

      @@OutYourShell sure sure.. Thanks a loot 🙏🏻

  • @geetgalaxy1406
    @geetgalaxy1406 2 роки тому +7

    Namooo Buddhayyy..🙏😌💐

  • @aaronbcallaghan
    @aaronbcallaghan Місяць тому

    These teachings have helped me so much through out my life.

  • @janakachandrasekera39
    @janakachandrasekera39 2 роки тому +1

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය .
    Venerable Bhikku Ariyavimukthi Thero,
    May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation.
    තෙරුවන් සරණයි!

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 роки тому +3

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @Angelcatsun
    @Angelcatsun Рік тому +4

    It’s NOT over with when past mistakes effect your children, whom are effected daily.

  • @rajarajeshwarirajarajeshwa4987
    @rajarajeshwarirajarajeshwa4987 2 роки тому +6

    Namo Buddham 🌺

  • @krishanmohan5120
    @krishanmohan5120 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for choosing this topic 🙏🙏

  • @Ruhi-th3zs
    @Ruhi-th3zs 7 місяців тому

    I never killed, steal, engaged in sexual misconduct or lied too big, if I have lied to anyone it was so small that I was always ready to accept it. Or may be those lies like, I have always pretend like I do not care about unnecessary things but sometime I did were my biggest mistakes for myself, but I will never do the same again. And, one more thing I find bad about myself is I yell sometime but I have lessen it so far. Thanks how you taught it so well that it is about being good in own self and realize our mistakes and never do the same thing again.

  • @jordanwood183
    @jordanwood183 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for this video, very helpful. Instead of watching it once, I think I’ll make a habit of watching this brief talk every morning, & deepen my understanding more later on.

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Рік тому +1

      Have you been able to solve this problem now?

    • @jordanwood183
      @jordanwood183 Рік тому +1

      @@ShaunHolden MUCH improved. I’ve learned to talk to myself the way I would do with a friend. Instead of “you’re so stupid, why’d you do that”, I’ll think “well, you’re human, we’re all fallible, & you’ve been improving”. ☮️

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Рік тому

      @@jordanwood183 I love this! If you would like to learn more about self forgiveness and compassion, feel free to check my channel out but well done that is incredible! Keep at it!

  • @fx.nugraha9586
    @fx.nugraha9586 2 роки тому +9

    That stright of teach for person.and wisdom. 🙏☸️ shadu sahdu sahdu.namo buddhaya 🙂

  • @Digidragon55
    @Digidragon55 6 місяців тому +2

    I do care about getting over the past. But, I can’t get over it yet!

  • @Blacksky_003
    @Blacksky_003 9 місяців тому +2

    Regret is painful than any other thing

  • @nikhilbabhulkar1637
    @nikhilbabhulkar1637 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for giving us valuable guidance. Vandami bhante 🙏

  • @tommyp.naknakorn8298
    @tommyp.naknakorn8298 2 роки тому +6

    สาธุครับหลวงพี่ 🙏🏻

  • @happycorner850
    @happycorner850 2 роки тому +3

    🌸🌹Namo buddhaya. Good to hear you,!!

  • @shannonpmitchell
    @shannonpmitchell 2 роки тому +3

    Exactly what I needed to hear today.

  • @klanderkal
    @klanderkal 7 місяців тому +1

    I needed more than just making a little mistake...
    There are way more serious mistakes that affect your present and your future... that's the kind of " how to forgive yourself ".. some of us really were searching for.

  • @MR.KAVIYAGAMING
    @MR.KAVIYAGAMING 2 роки тому +3

    Namo buddhaya! I like this video . 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shashanidhanujika6415
    @shashanidhanujika6415 2 роки тому +3

    Namo Buddhaya🙏🌼

  • @TheStudyofBodiesologyNWC
    @TheStudyofBodiesologyNWC 2 роки тому +10

    There is no mistake. You have chosen your,
    Own Life experience in this Life time .
    The creator he created only God’s.
    💕🌸😅🙏❤️

  • @rahulpatil124
    @rahulpatil124 2 роки тому +1

    I learn about lot of knowledge in the video.... thank you

  • @justingrimmer9245
    @justingrimmer9245 6 місяців тому

    This is truth. Live and learn.

  • @pawsusanmoewin1915
    @pawsusanmoewin1915 2 роки тому +4

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lslanka
    @lslanka 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you , this is really helpful to heal my soul.

  • @cottrosbc
    @cottrosbc 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much!!

  • @stubbornsoul302
    @stubbornsoul302 2 роки тому +2

    Namo buddhay sir

  • @madhuri2551
    @madhuri2551 2 роки тому +3

    Nice explained thank you so much❤❤

  • @pianointheloophoustontexas599
    @pianointheloophoustontexas599 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best videos on your tube.

  • @sam_2102
    @sam_2102 2 роки тому +9

    Please sir, also tell us about our great teacher Buddha's teaching or thought, or how to approach our life... Or sometimes you use to say "namo buddhay" Or you use something like shlok, please tell us more about it.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻.
    You are too nice 💜

    • @ashanadithya1592
      @ashanadithya1592 2 роки тому +4

      namo buddhya [pali]= homage to the supreem buddha
      theruwan saranay [sinhala] = bless u triple gems[ buddha dhamma and sangha]

  • @bahujanbichar
    @bahujanbichar 2 роки тому +1

    Sadhu sadhu bandami Bhante ji

  • @deepalitambe5008
    @deepalitambe5008 2 роки тому +1

    Sadhu 🌺 Sadhu 🌺 Sadhu 🌺
    🙏🙏🙏 💐🌹Namo Buddhay 🌹 💐
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @lotusae
    @lotusae 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much. I’m a sri lankan buddhist and this was very pleasing.

  • @shanirosh699
    @shanirosh699 Рік тому

    Thank u very much venerable Thero...💗🙏🌷🌻

  • @rangi6885
    @rangi6885 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you very much venerable Thero 🙏really enjoyed 🌼🌼🌼🙏🙏🙏🌼🌼🌼

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you! 🙏🌷

  • @tishazainal1522
    @tishazainal1522 Місяць тому

    Needed this, thankyou🙏🏻

  • @vanisekharjayasriharsha
    @vanisekharjayasriharsha 2 роки тому +2

    ☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️

  • @budhhasdhamma9749
    @budhhasdhamma9749 2 роки тому +4

    Namo budhhya 🙏

  • @tecno6900
    @tecno6900 2 роки тому +2

    Namo Buddaya 🙏☸️

  • @ali15478
    @ali15478 9 місяців тому +1

    I forgiven my self. I forgiven all human.

  • @ronsandefur9788
    @ronsandefur9788 7 місяців тому

    I would change his theory to : "Once we purify our behavior and soul, we make far fewer mistakes. The mistakes we still make are much more easily corrected".

  • @dec66.18
    @dec66.18 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this important lesson bhante.☸️

  • @malawwechandima4633
    @malawwechandima4633 2 роки тому +1

    Well speech bhante 🙏🙏🙏

  • @alefiaa8266
    @alefiaa8266 Рік тому

    Thank you. Great tips and teachings...

  • @user-gu9qz5ns7v
    @user-gu9qz5ns7v 2 роки тому +2

    Sadhu ! Sadhu! Sadhu !🌷🙏

  • @naduniayodya2459
    @naduniayodya2459 2 роки тому +1

    Sadu sadu sadu 🙏🏽

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 роки тому

    🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!

  • @jonathantan3690
    @jonathantan3690 Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya. Namo Amitabha.

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 10 місяців тому +1

    Namo Buddhaya

  • @nishanthasubasinghe7811
    @nishanthasubasinghe7811 2 роки тому +1

    Most important a preach.

  • @Vani_Vox1213
    @Vani_Vox1213 Рік тому

    Yes I want to change myself many things

  • @lourencofernando0014
    @lourencofernando0014 4 місяці тому +1

    Is being hard to forgive my self

  • @tansuee7757
    @tansuee7757 2 роки тому

    Sowing good seeds as cause would result in reaping marvelous fruits as effects.
    Giving away little would bring considerable in return.
    To help others is to help yourself.

  • @somarathnasethunga9765
    @somarathnasethunga9765 2 роки тому +1

    My great respect

  • @rejanisreevalsom8818
    @rejanisreevalsom8818 2 роки тому +1

    Harekrishna 🙏🌷❤️

  • @Truthseekerandteller
    @Truthseekerandteller Рік тому

    I needed this. Thank you

  • @aruniidaayu9424
    @aruniidaayu9424 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏

  • @gregpantelides1355
    @gregpantelides1355 Рік тому

    Thank you, Bhante.

  • @bindu492
    @bindu492 2 роки тому +3

    Yes sir ,
    we cant change the past ? Shoud we not try to change the present and future , the enviorent around us ,the people around us ? Thank you !

  • @anuragtigga8569
    @anuragtigga8569 2 роки тому +2

    How to be free from addiction ? Make a video on this ?

  • @MKhantiMUi
    @MKhantiMUi 2 роки тому +1

    Nice bhantê Ji NAMO Buddhay 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mackythekingsthought9843
    @mackythekingsthought9843 2 роки тому +1

    Seeing those teachings, mindfulness see so many small amount of people chose narrow path but all of majority beings of this planet Walk wide and wrong path, that's why these channels have very low views rate. These are universal truth.

  • @EvelynCarreon-f4q
    @EvelynCarreon-f4q 9 місяців тому

    Thank you sir ❤️🙏will you please recommend some effectively ways on how to not thinking anymore some mistakes ,inorder to forget totally the past just to achieve totally healing ,forgiveness and most of all peace of mind🙏❤️

  • @patriciadeboeck3219
    @patriciadeboeck3219 Рік тому

    Heel goed uitgelegd 👍 dank u wel 👍♥️🍀🙏

  • @ybwang7124
    @ybwang7124 Рік тому +3

    if you truly love yourself, then you don't need to forgive yourself

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 2 роки тому +3

    I agree completely with what you just said, BUT, sometimes in life you meet some people who are sick in the "HEAD" and they hurt your feelings and it's not easy to forget the past of what happened to you. How do you handle that??

    • @jayakamalabeysekera8951
      @jayakamalabeysekera8951 2 роки тому

      May I answer your question

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 2 роки тому

      @@jayakamalabeysekera8951 OK! Go ahead.

    • @mariovallego5214
      @mariovallego5214 2 роки тому

      How you been handling it?

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 2 роки тому

      @@mariovallego5214 Mario, my answer for you is turn to PRAYERS and Trust in the Lord. My Faith is very strong and that's all I can do and I do.🙏🕯🙏

    • @mariovallego5214
      @mariovallego5214 2 роки тому

      @@marciadesouza3314 That's what I been doing, I made mistakes that I feel I have to pay for it and grow from it, it's hard but whatever god says let be his will, thank's for replying, it means a lot to me right now, have a good day.🤝

  • @ronsandefur9788
    @ronsandefur9788 7 місяців тому

    People who believe that they are winners, make winner choices. People who believe they are losers, make loser choices. Purify your thoughts and souls. focus on being a winner.

  • @jmmaqui7948
    @jmmaqui7948 2 роки тому +2

    🙏🙏🙏 thank u

  • @SadhuSadhuSadhu
    @SadhuSadhuSadhu 2 роки тому

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🏽

  • @Fabu248
    @Fabu248 10 місяців тому +1

    I make mistakes in historie where a shaming too much that is happen and another people knows it that i do such things... I can't forgive me this... And often.i thaught about this why it is happen and why i was such a guy without brain i am...

  • @SarahBlaylock-u8g
    @SarahBlaylock-u8g 9 місяців тому

    Thank you 😢 😊

  • @babie2328
    @babie2328 2 роки тому +1

    Namo buddha

  • @galemartin9155
    @galemartin9155 9 місяців тому

    Thank you.😊

  • @komalthakur9812
    @komalthakur9812 8 місяців тому +1

    Pastvis over. But action of past are showing results in present. How to get rid of the results affecting the present

  • @jagmeet8020
    @jagmeet8020 Рік тому

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu🙏

  • @TejaswiniAdekar-kg2ig
    @TejaswiniAdekar-kg2ig 9 місяців тому

    I did some mistakes and I had instant regret but the problem is should I forget it fully? do I have to share this mistake of my past to someone who will come in future like life partner?

  • @angelicakanoy8686
    @angelicakanoy8686 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video 🙏🙏🙏..

  • @JenovaRain
    @JenovaRain Рік тому +3

    It's very difficult with PTSD or cPTSD

  • @uniqcoach4277
    @uniqcoach4277 2 роки тому

    Thank Uh ✨

  • @rtoguidver3651
    @rtoguidver3651 2 роки тому +1

    Buddhism began when Gautama Buddha sat by a Bodhi Tree (Ficus religiosa or sacred fig) in Bodh Gaya and received "Awakenings"..
    Why do people ignore the Bible when it's be around for thousands of years and proven w/ Archaeological digs.
    The teachings of the Bible not only show a good way to live, but a Spiritual way to Heaven.. What does Buddah promise to do ?

  • @Easy-English-Hi-fi-Confidence
    @Easy-English-Hi-fi-Confidence 2 роки тому +4

    I am an Indian, I wana be a Buddhist monk, how it is possible for me.?

    • @Sawo-500
      @Sawo-500 2 роки тому

      Go Thailand or our country

    • @Sawo-500
      @Sawo-500 2 роки тому

      I think Thailand is better than srilanka. Srilanka face economic crisis. There are many foreign monks in Thailand. Go bhai

  • @subho8141
    @subho8141 10 місяців тому +1

    But karma comes to make us suffer in future I personally experience it from the past 5 years

  • @ssn2054
    @ssn2054 Рік тому +1

    i dont forgive myself , i told my mistakes 4 a coworker and he told to my boss and my boss fire me and i loved that job that i lose

    • @shahnawazalam1268
      @shahnawazalam1268 6 місяців тому +1

      You are a good person nd. only good people suffer in this evil world

    • @ssn2054
      @ssn2054 6 місяців тому

      @@shahnawazalam1268 t k s

  • @lianarizzardi5507
    @lianarizzardi5507 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @happyclips9573
    @happyclips9573 2 роки тому +2

    Scratch
    Remorse
    Mindfulness
    Determination