I needed to hear this cause I have some negative ass people in my family. One in particular always coming around putting a burden on other people. This was a excellent video for me
Shayla Johnson yup and the fucked up part about is, sometimes I feel like I can't get away from it . The only thing I can do is try to stay strong and positive
I’ve had a couple roommates that were very cool then a few months later it was different. So negative. Now have a new roommate same situation. I began doing all the things you’ve talked about. They’ve asked why don’t I want to watch tv with them. They’ve realized a lot. But it’s very draining as a very positive person. I just keep sending love. Next move will be my own place ❤️💯
Never move is move out change your number on their ass and start moving different and turn your back on them for the better and cut their ass all off for the better you gotta do what’s best for you
510_fitness try to not me phased by it , practice not caring and keep your personal life private from her/him & thier family member , keep walking away from thier petty little arguements & keep your finances etc privately. Build a life outside the house (hobbies, gym etc) & dont do anything the give them a story
Right! I did exactly what Tyler is saying. Made sure I spoke, but kept my business to myself unless I was talking about something positive that happened. Well.. They had nothing but negative things to say. People are weird! They generally dont like themselves. So they try to make you not like yourself. They see light in you and dont want you to have it in you. They'll try everything they can to make you feel like shit. When you don't...watch out! So sad.
You know that individual that is super nice when they only want to benefit themselves.... once they get what they want ( 💰 cash money, food, a ride, whatever they try to get outta ya) they change back into the Hell raiser🦇... love 💕 ya handsome Tyler🦊
Damn this is so true man, thank you for making this video you couldn't of said it any better.. that is very painful to go thru I experienced it myself I wish that on nobody
Be careful because, if they act funny with you, the moment you try to give them space in order to protect yourself, they will accuse YOU of not talking to them.
I have two very negative notorious narc who live in my home or come to stay due to having rights to the house, and avoid them like the plague because if I sit around them then they blow hot and cold on purpose and if I say something they try to say I am imagining it. They watch everything I do and give negative opinions or cut their eyes at me. My husband looks at everything around the house to micromanage me with..etc. I can't even join him for movie time cause he is cold. I asked to spend quality time with both of the people and each signed or blew me off or acted like I was interrupting something really important they were doing. I have got tired of it all so I keep to myself in my own room and it is quite peaceful.
HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE NEIGHBORS? I NEED A EMERGENCY VIDEO ON THAT..CAUSE I WAS trying to throw away some garbage in my building when the neighbor whom happens to live nearby the incinerator door always comes out and harassing me in the hallway..i don't know what to do other than tomorrow I'm going to notify the landlord about this evil enity.
Thank you Tyler! You are the best for this! You hit it on the nail! as if you were here with me! I will most deff try those methods, im student for now & instead of going home i'll just stay at the library for a few hours! I dont like the negative energy these two people give off when im around! im a very positive person and I see the best in everything & its hard to be positive around a negative force! I Will be glad when I Find a job so I can finally move!
Get video! I came to realize that my mom is a covert narc plus she complains a hell of a whole lot! I simply stopped talking to her in the house. I don't ask her for anything! She goes to work in the morning n I go to work in the evening. Therefore we barely see each other in the house. If she's home one day, I just get ready n walk right past her. I know she feels like shit when I do this, oh well. Also if she tries to get me to engage in her negativity, I simply tell her, "I can't talk right now, I'm busy. We'll talk later", then turn up the volume on my radio or plug in my sound-canceling earphones n listen to music or an audio book. As I'm getting ready in the bathroom, my ears are plugged in just in case she comes at me with her negative shit. I been doin this for a while now n she got the message. She pretty much stopped coming at me in the bathroom with her stupidity. Very occasionally will she pretend to enter the bathroom to grab something. So childish and annoying! Can't wait to move out! She put me through so much these past 3 years. And I've been nothing but a good child to her and overall. Karma gon tear that ass up one day! I Also do a few of the things you said like go shopping or window shopping, the library, bookstore, etc. By the time you get home, they're sleeping and you feel better overall.
@@tanyawashington6338 I know right! It's NOT normal! This is how you know she has a personality disorder. And that's Narcississtic Personality Disorder, no doubt about that!
Hello Tyler , thank you so much for this video. I myself am in this situation and now I know what steps to take to fix it. Thanks for you're blunt but caring advice. God bless you have a great day!
Thank you. I live with a toxic person, 21 yr old daughter of my boyfriend, she either ignores me never says hello. Once told me I wasn't likable or interesting and she didn't respect me, all in front of my boyfriend, who did nothing by the way.
Thank you very much sir, for your valuable time you spend to help us with your advice. I'm dealing with very negative relatives and a negative father who's accusing myself and the rest of my family to every person he knows.
That's right Tyler I have friends that are staying with people and giving them money, and the people are treating them like dirt. One guy sits at the bus stop all day and he goes home later. I don't see why people don't stay at a motel. They will let you pay every two weeks. Great video Tyler. When this guy I know get his monthly check, they o.k.
I needed to hear this cause I have some negative ass people in my family. One in particular always coming around putting a burden on other people. This was a excellent video for me
Shayla Johnson yup and the fucked up part about is, sometimes I feel like I can't get away from it . The only thing I can do is try to stay strong and positive
micheal jarreau. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI when you get chance, check your email cause I email you back
michael jarreau IKR
michael jarreau Stand firm
thank you this was me all my life ha, love my own space now and time alone , all toxic family r crazy
lovingmyself. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
I’ve had a couple roommates that were very cool then a few months later it was different. So negative. Now have a new roommate same situation. I began doing all the things you’ve talked about. They’ve asked why don’t I want to watch tv with them. They’ve realized a lot. But it’s very draining as a very positive person. I just keep sending love. Next move will be my own place ❤️💯
Never move is move out change your number on their ass and start moving different and turn your back on them for the better and cut their ass all off for the better you gotta do what’s best for you
How can I deal with a negative parent. Or a parent who gossips about nothing but negatively. And gossips about there children’s personal business
510_fitness try to not me phased by it , practice not caring and keep your personal life private from her/him & thier family member , keep walking away from thier petty little arguements & keep your finances etc privately. Build a life outside the house (hobbies, gym etc) & dont do anything the give them a story
Right! I did exactly what Tyler is saying. Made sure I spoke, but kept my business to myself unless I was talking about something positive that happened. Well.. They had nothing but negative things to say. People are weird! They generally dont like themselves. So they try to make you not like yourself. They see light in you and dont want you to have it in you. They'll try everything they can to make you feel like shit. When you don't...watch out! So sad.
You know that individual that is super nice when they only want to benefit themselves.... once they get what they want ( 💰 cash money, food, a ride, whatever they try to get outta ya) they change back into the Hell raiser🦇... love 💕 ya handsome Tyler🦊
Or stonecold and pretend like they don't know you. I have two family members who come the house like that.
You are so beautiful Tyler😍😍 Enjoy your day today💋
proper like. thank you so muchm I appreciate your comment. peace and blessings to you
Damn this is so true man, thank you for making this video you couldn't of said it any better.. that is very painful to go thru I experienced it myself I wish that on nobody
Be careful because, if they act funny with you, the moment you try to give them space in order to protect yourself, they will accuse YOU of not talking to them.
Just buy mini bluetooth earphones and listen to music and don't give them a fuck
marwan yaici. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
The best thing to do is to stay out of sight and out of mind.
I have two very negative notorious narc who live in my home or come to stay due to having rights to the house, and avoid them like the plague because if I sit around them then they blow hot and cold on purpose and if I say something they try to say I am imagining it. They watch everything I do and give negative opinions or cut their eyes at me. My husband looks at everything around the house to micromanage me with..etc. I can't even join him for movie time cause he is cold. I asked to spend quality time with both of the people and each signed or blew me off or acted like I was interrupting something really important they were doing. I have got tired of it all so I keep to myself in my own room and it is quite peaceful.
HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE NEIGHBORS? I NEED A EMERGENCY VIDEO ON THAT..CAUSE I WAS trying to throw away some garbage in my building when the neighbor whom happens to live nearby the incinerator door always comes out and harassing me in the hallway..i don't know what to do other than tomorrow I'm going to notify the landlord about this evil enity.
S A F F I R E L ask them wtf is wrong with you and leave me alone!!
Re Fi They threaten me for no reason like I think she's a crackhead
Travis Kelly In New York city if a Amazon 30 yr old woman who is 298 muscles and not fat hits a old was woman ..they will lock me up
Travis Kelly I have security in my building i notify them right after it happened
Saffriel. please email me your video request at tjlwriter32@gmail. com so that I won't forget. peace and blessings to you.
Thank you Tyler! You are the best for this! You hit it on the nail! as if you were here with me! I will most deff try those methods, im student for now & instead of going home i'll just stay at the library for a few hours! I dont like the negative energy these two people give off when im around! im a very positive person and I see the best in everything & its hard to be positive around a negative force! I Will be glad when I Find a job so I can finally move!
TaeTaeeLit. Thank you so much for your commetn .PEACE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU!
I usually say : lord block all negative entities from me and help me to keep my peace
Great points to avoid bull. 👍💛
Perfect timing Tyler, Peace and blessings beat you to it lol
dontworryaboutit. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Get video! I came to realize that my mom is a covert narc plus she complains a hell of a whole lot! I simply stopped talking to her in the house. I don't ask her for anything! She goes to work in the morning n I go to work in the evening. Therefore we barely see each other in the house. If she's home one day, I just get ready n walk right past her. I know she feels like shit when I do this, oh well. Also if she tries to get me to engage in her negativity, I simply tell her, "I can't talk right now, I'm busy. We'll talk later", then turn up the volume on my radio or plug in my sound-canceling earphones n listen to music or an audio book. As I'm getting ready in the bathroom, my ears are plugged in just in case she comes at me with her negative shit. I been doin this for a while now n she got the message. She pretty much stopped coming at me in the bathroom with her stupidity. Very occasionally will she pretend to enter the bathroom to grab something. So childish and annoying! Can't wait to move out! She put me through so much these past 3 years. And I've been nothing but a good child to her and overall. Karma gon tear that ass up one day!
I Also do a few of the things you said like go shopping or window shopping, the library, bookstore, etc. By the time you get home, they're sleeping and you feel better overall.
Also jealous of you. How a woman can be jealous of their own child is unbelievable
@@tanyawashington6338 I know right! It's NOT normal! This is how you know she has a personality disorder. And that's Narcississtic Personality Disorder, no doubt about that!
WHOOO! Maaaaaaaaan LISTEN!
My mother is my problem
Hello Tyler , thank you so much for this video. I myself am in this situation and now I know what steps to take to fix it. Thanks for you're blunt but caring advice. God bless you have a great day!
Omgoodness. I'm so loving you. It's like you're saying, "snap the fuck outta that coma."
Thank you. I live with a toxic person, 21 yr old daughter of my boyfriend, she either ignores me never says hello. Once told me I wasn't likable or interesting and she didn't respect me, all in front of my boyfriend, who did nothing by the way.
Dump him
Chances are, he's talked badly about you to her. My mother talked about her friends. As a child that made me not like or respect them. Let him go.
Thank you SO much!!!!!!
gillidimonds. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Thank you for this! Also, this is random, but I love your accent.
I've Doing This Method For A While hahaha Thank You Tyler This Is True
feach c. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Thank you very much sir, for your valuable time you spend to help us with your advice. I'm dealing with very negative relatives and a negative father who's accusing myself and the rest of my family to every person he knows.
Thank you brother
Thankyou soo much for this i need it right now 🙏
Can you please make a video about narcissistic father and brother please?
Great video i needed this.. Thanks
LMAO!!!! I love you Tyler! This is the greatest advice!
So true...
Tyler I just want to say man I ran into your Channel today I love you keep doing what you doing you are a blessing melanated brother
You sound like Kat Williams
Keep it up
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soon, can you talk about twin flame death. meaning, one of the twin flame has went to the afterlife...? Thanks.
POWERFUL GREAT VIDEO! AGRADECER OS HECHO THANKS YOU FACT! ●FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON. ☺JTI. 💜
daphine Rodriquez. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Great video
Tyler u make me feel better sending you and your family peace and blessings 💖💖💖💖😊😊
What you're saying is the truth, Thank you so much and I love all of your videos. :) ♡😀😃❤❤
@tylerjti i am going threw this right now. It is also outside forces via there family and friends
That's right Tyler I have friends that are staying with people and giving them money, and the people are treating them like dirt. One guy sits at the bus stop all day and he goes home later. I don't see why people don't stay at a motel. They will let you pay every two weeks. Great video Tyler. When this guy I know get his monthly check, they o.k.
inspirational word. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
The truth
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great video Tyler!✌✌✌✌✌✌
Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
THANKS