So-called Friends who reveal their true colors: A Blessing or Curse
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- Опубліковано 1 вер 2017
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Friends who are fake! Fake friends who are n't real how to spot a fake friend!
So called friends who reveal they true colors is a blessing to me cause a true genuine friend would never do anything to hurt their friend. I've been stabbed in the back and used by people who I thought was my friend. You can't really trust anyone in these latter days. If you do have a friend, you should cherish them and hold on to them
you are so right..people something else.
micheal jarreau. you are so right on this one. peace and blessings to you.
michael jarreau so true ,it's because of people like that why I trust just bout next to NO ONE .
Very true
But no one ain't trying that .. it's reveal who they really are... But alot of time it's pride up... This is why I try to do things on my own than weather trying to fix it .
. People will show you they really are when you not even looking .. stay to yourself iion no promble.
It's a blessing when they show their true colors early in the relationship because that way you can see the red flags and let them out of your life quicker.
Keshia K. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI Peace ,love, positive vibes and blessings to you as well !
Cut off friendship. WTH Brittany
I’m yes cut off friendships brittany
Yeah, I should have done that with my "friends" sooner. I made a mistake long ago but I won't make the same mistake now.
This is the same behavior that motivated me to be a better friend to those who are really there for me and to cut those fake friends out
Why support fakes? When you can support real?
Never offended. Had a so called ”friend” who Did this kind of crap & it taught me about What kind of person THEY ARE. Teachable moments
Yup.
I had a former friend like this I finally discarded who ironically tried to pretend to be a teacher to me later into our friendship (as IF i were secretly below them). So I have to agree that it's a teachable moment in the sense of get rid of them even sooner than you wanted to... BEFORE THEY DO EVEN MORE DAMAGE BEHIND YOUR BACK
I don't have friends...I have associates. #lessonlearned
This girl...this
This.
I only had a girlfriend and guys friends never had girl friends 👍 it makes sense
Me to associates only I had one girlfriend made someone back up into my door arguing. Talking about Chinese people.and laughing I had to pay$500 for the door..she never gave me a dime. I was done after that pure nasty.
I like my solitude! It’s a gift
Same this side..no mess,no drama, a very peaceful life☺☺☺☺☺☺
Me too, it is soooo damn peaceful.
Some people be lonely and want peoples company even if it mean hogging up their lifespan.
I’m sitting here in tears, my feelings are so hurt. Today is my 26th birthday and I’ve been canceled on by everyone who claimed to be my friend and love me. That’s the last damn time someone’s gonna leave me high and dry. I ain’t putting up with the shit anymore. I can do bad by my mothaf*ckin self! Man I’m so hurt tho 😭
I'm 9 months late replying to this one, but that being said, when I was 19 in 1993 had the same thing happen to me. The next year began the best years of my life. So of those so-called friends even be made up with me when I got bigger. (Probably just to use my house as a place to drink since I was always up drinking at night happy before or after) I moved out my childhood home in the next year and life got great.
That was sort of a lucky home run, but it happened! Life got better indeed.. way better.. and it wasn't even bad before that.
But I would have been happy either way even if everything got bad afterwards in other areas. Tyler is RIGHT! "It is a blessing"!!
You DON'T NEED people like that in your life. I just had to get rid of my closest friend in my adopted home of Arizona for the last 20 years.
This video is a reaffirmation for me. If you see through them in a certain way, maybe it could be for you too. Hang in there and hang tough! (The sunshine will come out a little later getting rid of that crap from your life... I promise)
People being nice to you at the beginning - or being you are nice to them and then stab u in the back to the core and not/never apologized!😡
Once a so-called friend stabs you in the back don't even accept their apology. They only want to do it so THEY can feel good and noble. Cut em' off.
Its a blessing to realise they are fake, the curse is to know how they stay and still roll with them, thats when you won't grow.
DJ Diva Dee. so true I what you spoke. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Yessss
I love this video, I cut all my dodgy so called friends off, now I'm thriving! Some of them still trying to hold on, they don't even know I locked them off!!! It's growth in yourself and the respect you demand.
that's right...That's what I'm doing.
Good for you, it was hard for me with some deep rooted friendships, but so happy now!
DJ Diva Dee. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
You are telling the TRUTH, this happened to me recently with a "friend" and once her colors were revealed I could not unsee it. I could feel the universe telling me this friendship is DONE and use the opportunity to let it go and that is what I did. Soon after, good energy people showed up!
Energy changes. People change. But God is the same yesterday, today and forever.
Jesus Christ died for you and rose up on the third day. Get to know him while you can. He is the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but by him. Believe!
Had a friend that was a " No show ". Gave him a lecture about manners. He knows not to mess with this Cappy !
I love how passionate you get 😁😂
Social media will show you who your friends really are
Yeah .. but she never talks to me.. when I told her the reason why I stopped talking to her due to my family issue and my kids.. I have so much going on with my life. But than she never responded back to me.. so I am glad that god show me who she was to me
This is facts
Social media can eat a**.
@@sylviadelong9694 indeed
I didn't understand..how. An social media reveal who our true friends are ?
I love how you talk with your emotions, keep it up.
I needed to hear this, thanks. Life is short-people have already waisted too much of my time.
Cut
Although it might hurt like hell I think it's a blessing to find out more sooner than later who your true friends are, before they can hurt you anymore than they already may have. Best to find out so you can move on. Thanks Tyler.👍
I did already
I agree
I NEED THIS ,IM TIRED! IM NOT THE ONLY ONE I SEE.......
DjRoxy Rochelle. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
l have had a alot of so-called friends, that is why I feed them with long h spoons.
Lucille Samuel. Thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Imma let em strave
But the question is,
What do you feed them?
@@Pau_Pau9 Hopefully it's dog doo doo, because they are shit.
Yes, that's so right. It's a lady I use to walk down and talk to her and last year when my stuff was put out. The property manager tried to get extra money and evicted me. But I moved back in. The same lady passed by in her car and never stopped to find out what happened. I don't talk to her no more or anything ...Thank you Tyler talk it....another neighbor stood by me and now she's toxic and this is the one that stalks me....I stay away and at work..that you so much.
Inspirational word. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
Inspirational word Alot of these people are miserable and crazy as hell. It is really not about you.
Angel B Truer words have never been spoken. Miserable and crazy as hell, such an accurate description.
lol ok 😂😂😂that tickled me so much ... when you got wound up and had to drink some water...enjoyed the info
You are telling the TRUTH and I'm here for it🤗😂😄😂
better to be lonely than to be in a bondage.
So true. I've had to cut out a lot of people over the years.
Yeah that's all you can but than when you have fat emergency they will never be there ... Sadly
I'm an only child Tyler. I know how to play BY myself. Preach Tyler. Thank you always.
Thank you God I had to hear this at 11:51PM tonight because I'm so nice and have a good heart but people don't see that it's alway's the bad that they point out about me but God knows everything and god Knows my heart and know that Iam not like that and Iam not a nasty person I have sisters them like this users only out to get what they can and want out of people I have stayed away from them 6 long years and then they started coming back around me doing the same shit no change then started calling me for money for bills rent grocery's and my man said NO leave them alone cut them off cause their users they never gave me 50cent or brought me a soda but it was always me giving them $50 $100 to $300 or more they even have cars and don't bother to ask me do me and my kids need a ride but it's all good that's why I don't call them or talk to them or hang around them I show them that I don't need them at all they have always left me hanging high and dry I just got tired of the shit enough is enough.
You’re not alone
You not the onlying one..your not alone I am dealing with the same thing
Tell'em how you really feel! 😅🤣🤣😃😄😁I love your commentary and THIS IS WHAT THE REAL CHURCH SHOULD BE ABOUT!
I needed to hear this Video.. You Never know a person's Heart until they know your Secrets.. Thanks 🤩
It's not always about money. Some friends treat normal everyday scenarios as emergencies and act like they don't know their ass from their elbow. They always need to waste your time. Your refusal to think ahead is not my fault or my "emergency".
That basically sums it up❤😌
I cut off so many people this past two years cause people are so fake and shady and gossip too much and bash you or assume the worst about you or anything pretty much that’s fuckin negative 👎🏾 and I’m not here for it I’m over it because I need to focus on my craft and my music and what makes me happy period !!! I’m tired of people coming in and out when they feel like it or doing me dirty and never taking me serious including family which is why I keep it short and I just block people with no explanation at all good bye 👋🏾
I like your approach. I do the same
This man is like a prophet.
Sir I feel nobody is a friend,all are acquaintances , we should not expect anything from any outsider..I dont know whatsup with this friends drama and u r doing a great job guiding a herd who believes in all this nonsense💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💜💜❤❤❤❤❤❤
BLESSING! I’ve weeded a lot of people starting 5 years ago. The one friend I kept is now showing herself. After 10 years, I thought she was decent but she did a great job of hiding it. She befriended a co-worker- bc of that, she was an acquaintance. I had a bad feeling about the acquaintance. Long story short, the acquaintance asked me, “so Debra tells me you have problems with your boyfriend’s family? She didn’t tell me anything specific. She just brought it up.” WTH?! I told her that in confidence! I always assumed what I talked to her about was between us and now this stranger has the balls to ask me about my business?! Also, my friend also said that her co-worker was known as a gossip at Work. My response- then why TF you hanging out with her?! I called her out and she didn’t say much. She just looked annoyed. She showed herself in that moment and I’ve distanced myself. We’ll still be friends from afar bc there are still good qualities. I just don’t tell her anything. It’s funny though bc she tells me about this one co-worker who she wants to befriend bc she likes that “she doesn’t gossip” yet I don’t understand bc she seems like she gossips all the Time.
Friends from far....far from friends.
Changing who 'you' truly are because of the dysfunction of others means that they have won. I treat ppl the way I want to be treated but when I realize ppl that are sketch... I just won't talk to them anymore, it's a blessing but it is also a curse when you don't do something about it. Love yourself enough not to put up with disrespect!!
Thanks 🙏🏽 5 yrs later this was much needed as a revelation everything you’ve said is correct I went on a trip recently to celebrate decade long friendship unfortunately she was so toxic…He spouse just passed 7 months and mind you they were married for 10 years…now all of the sudden she is online entertaining other man…As a true friend I told her this is highly disrespectful to her previous spouse…It should take a least 5 years to heal from this tragic loss… she started to reconnect with older class mate whom had feelings for her and she started to tell this man my personal business in front of me. I was like girl code I told her no disrespect I don’t know him from Adam. Since then God finally gave the conviction to cut her off. She revealed to us that she does witchcraft basically and doesn’t believe in God. I don’t judge people for whatever they practice but I don’t tolerate people disrespecting my God either
I enjoy your tenacity and tone of voice brotha it gets your points across. Always practical truths and wisdom in your videos. Thank you 🙏🏾... Peace!!
you are the most real person on youtube. i like your no nonsense approach. sometimes it takes someone to drill it into their heads to get it. i love it
Thank you so much
@@TylerJTI you are welcome. i guess a good way to describe what you are doing is "tough love"
This guy is hilarious!😂. So happy I came across your channel!
Spot on! I've been through some of the things you've explained in this video. I've cut them off and it was the best thing I've done.
Yeah, agreed. Seen the same thing. I made the mistake of keeping them around to avoid drama when I was living with them at college. What he says in the middle reminds me of what is my past problems.
I love it when u start talking fast and sweating, I can feel ur passion, sincerity, and truth! You give the best advice! Thank u!!!!
This is true. Be mindful of who you tell what to, and who you do what for. A friend in need is a friend in deed, but once their need is met yours mean nothing. I have also noticed that if your friend has a significant other...and I am not just talkin about a husband or a wife best believe that whatever you tell them, or do around them they told their honey.
You speak straight facts and at the same time I be cracking up like the water break and how you turned right back up after your thirst was quenched made me fall out 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂That part took me out too😂😂
Shay4YourMind81 😂😂😂😂😭 omg
Got no friends. They all sucked. My ex gf used me too.
Scripture tells us "put not your trust in man for he will fail you everytime." So you know what I say? People Make the World Go 'Round and keep it moving. We can't base our happiness on other peoples behavior.
😂😂😂PREACH!!!!💯
THIS TYLER!!!👌🏿
*THIS RIGHT HERE* !!!!👊🏿
Thanks again my friend. You hit the nail on the head on alot with everything on these so-called imposters posing as true friends. Cool introduction. You pronounce my nickname just right. Lol. Always know who were actual friends are. Most people are not looking out for that person's interest. I had re-edit this comment.
Cool4rocknroll. You are so right in what you spoken !Thank you so much for your comment .peace and blessings to you.
You're welcome Tyler.
This is the truth! I'm done with these so called friend's!!!
WOW! TESTIFY!!! SAID IT LOUD!! 🗣️I can't do high dry people it brings out the worse in me and I am trying to stay chosen. glad that I found your channel, a fellow chosen one, and creator.
Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re an option. You’re better than that. Sometimes people just ain’t shit.
Another great video, and very true with alot of the examples mentioned. It sure hurts when friends show their true colors, but at the same token it's also a blessing.
And the assembly shouted HalleluYah! Thanks
Wow so called friends at church they aren't I don't need them thank man I really appreciate this I realize now how much I'm used its sounds to me I'm better off alone without them
Yes! They sure do show their true colors!
You are such a blessing to me. 20 year friendship group walked out of my life and 9 years later have come back. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you God for revelation.
I simpllyfied this problem: I cut them all 📴!!!!!!!!!!!! I only deal with is my son and my dog 🐕 Period!!!!!!
I felt that!
YOU are a True Blessings in this days Reality. GOD Bless
That's the truth Tyler Preach. I have a so called co worker friend who was cool with until he started asking me for money. When I told him I don't have the extra money to give to him, it was an awkward pause. He hasn't called me since
Thank God Im good finacally ...these best revenge called success. Be silent.let them eat it
I just ran across your channel bro, keep It coming ..Social Media has ruined or reveal real or fake friends
You sound just like my late nan ,mark my words it made me chuckle stay blessed.
Amen! This is facts Tyler! 💯🌟
Angry Tyler..lol #drinksomewater @7:55
Lol!!! O wee Lord have mercy.
@@danadavis8333 Lol!
Omg I love the man 😂
I had to cut off certain friends, regardless of how long I knew them, in their minds they seem to think that wouldn't, I just gave them the benefit of the doubt because of how long I knew them, but shits been old,they wasn't shit back then
Exactly I am trying to accept too I also have a so called friend also .
Don't give them the benefit of the doubt....give them the doubt of the benefit.
I LOVE THIS ONE ☝🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Preach Tyler bringer of truth! I cut off 7 are 8 ppl since 2017
Hello Tyler I just want to say how grateful I am that you made this channel. You given great advice that's very helpful. I feel more content with myself now that I have found a channel that resonates with my beliefs. God Bless you
x
preach it! thank you so much for this honestly i needed to hear it.
This happens to me Tyler I told her the reason why I haven't spoken to her due to family and my kids. That's iv been busy life for me.. but than I noticed that when we are friends on Instagram whenever I post something she would like it or comment but never try to speak to me.. all I care about is my family and the ones who care about me.. nowdays people are so lama
I here U Tyler you're so right ! You Preach
Brother there's no other way . Amen !
Tyler you are the truth, thank you so much for this video 👍👏
Amen ✨️ 🕊 ❤️ 🙏🏽
Thank you for this powerful message and confirmation.
Thanks Tyler I needed this prep talk. Just like you delivered it to. Because I'm tired of being the fool.
I’m cutting this video off! Have a great day 😂 that was hilarious. Thank you 💜
I reallyy grow to loove your videos hahaha its funny and informative at the same time!❤
True talk
Cassandra Amodre. thank you so much for your comment .peace and blessings to you.
Did “a slow fade.” No hurt feelings or opportunity for an argument. They know what they did. (Or rather, didn’t do.)
haHHAHAH OMG I LIKE THAT WISDOM U HAVE THERE. YOUR MOUTH NOT EASY YOU TALK NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH I LOVE IT! AND I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS
I already was thinking of cutting ties with a friend. She had this habit of being a no show. I only dealt with it because we are childhood friends and she has always given me a listening ear and has been with me during tough times. Either way, it has made me so sick that I am just done making any plans with her entirely. Thank you for sharing. I just have too much confidence in myself to let anyone walk all over me. And she said the same exact thing that you said when I addressed her about it. She said that she is having a lot of issues. This is not excuse. Great video and words of wisdom. Did you ever think of being a life coach? You would be great.
Facts. I love your passion!
I love this Tyler u are dead on!!!!
Re-Fi.Thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you!
Finding this channel has truly been a blessing for me to find. It like every video speaks to me and my situation fa sho. Thanks for these video man. #LexingtonKentuckyLove
Thank you so much 😀. I appreciate it. I have a podcast as well and it's for free to listen to as much as you want to. I enclosed it in the description link below.
anchor.fm/TylerJTI%20
Thank you Tyler!!! Amen🌅
True blue will be there! My mom used to say fair weather friends
Its not even about leaving someone high and dry in the name of friendship,its the confidence and audacity that they wont be caught after doing that non sense,and it not even about taking revenge from that particular person,its more about i know who you are so there is no point in anything
Great video.... Real talk. Thanks.
Tyler I know you let people know where you coming from and what your not going to put up with from the gate. You telling the truth though. I like this one Tyler Keep it Gangsta bro💪 You didn't offend me I Enjoyed everyword. Keep it Coming Tyler.
You are so very, very, right Tylor.
Tell them Tylor!! They know you right. Thank you.
Love you Tyler!!!
🙄👂. 👍. Clear.. thanks 🙏🌟
Preach Tyler!
I wish I learned this lesson way way way earlier in life..
Learn to judge people early.
Do not ignore small signs.
POWERFUL JTI THANKS YOU BROTHER BRILLIANT AMAZING INCREDIBLE AGRADECER OS HECHO THANKS YOU FACT! 😥💜
Daphne Rodriquez. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
I love this channel 😁❤😁
7:55 when the preacher going in
I'm laughing my ass off!!! Omg!! This is why people think I'm mean. HAHAHAHA!!!!! THIS! IS! WHY!! THen....! I'm the bad person?!?@? .............. For calling somebody out on that type of indecent acts of that f**ks**t@?!?! THE F**K!?@?!&@!? I LOOK LIKE!?@?!? Ya.... it's a blessing indeed. I saw this meme on facebook that I interpreted like this. "When God, takes people out of your life. Sometimes God takes people out of your life for the fact that God heard conversations that you didnt hear or were present for. Amen and Amen Hallelujah! Thank you and continue blessing us with anointed truth.
The world is full of snakes
Very true thank you Tyler😊
You are breaking it down, right on.
You be surprised 😮 HOW FOLK really FEEL ABOUT YOU. GET IN TROUBLE AND YOU WILL SEE!!