How to Deal with Negative People - Kevin Hart & Joe Rogan
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2020
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Kevin Hart is an American stand-up comedian, actor, and producer. Born and raised in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Hart began his career by winning several amateur comedy competitions at clubs throughout New England. He now tours the world selling our arenas and is recognized as one of the biggest movie stars in the industry. Kevin is widely loved for his high level of energy, his devotion to his family, motivational mindset and his natural ability to make people laugh. His new audiobook "The Decision: Overcoming Today's BS for Tomorrow's Success" is available now on Audible.
This audio clip is from the Joe Rogan Podcast Episode # 1278
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You promote the current biggest soShill engineering shill that your masters have at their disposal.... again. This content is what I like to call psuedo anti establishment.
These voices are notorious for contributing to toxic masculinity, subjegation of women, validation of exclusive gender roles, and invalidation of spirituality, out of the box thinking, and unity consciousness. label me negative if you want but I think awareness of their histories is important. I support their growth and evolution so they no longer continue to marginalize other points of view
@@gjbearclaw4094 most sheeple will agree with what those two hypocrites have to say unfortunately. As we have seen from the creator of this video. Slightly altered by the globalistagenda.org
That fraud Adam M Lambert is back fishing for subscribers.
Do you still believe him?
What are you people talking about.
Kevin found meaning and purpose in his life, that’s why he’s so positive 👏🏻
Horses for courses
Kevin also has 200 million extra reasons to be happy
Finding a positive thought in every negative situation, thats a valuable skill our society could use right now
@@xxsniperkittykatxx what about how he got there?
@@kiarapullen4298 I'm not sure that's relevant. You have a rich dude bragging about how happy he is when people are out here dying during a pandemic. Seems tone deaf. I don't put it on Kevin or Rogan. He's happy and I'm happy he's happy. I just think those 200 million reasons are relevant especially when you're preaching positive thinking during a time where people are being massively fucked over by things that will never touch him. Medical bills, vaccine access, safe living and working condition to name a few.
Don’t compare yourself to someone else. That’s not a fair comparison. They are living a different life with different experiences.
Instead, compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
My spiritual father, JP, rule 4
That’s real.
That’s pretty much more realistic, accurate and respectful than anything said in the podcast. At least Kevin did get around to saying he doesn’t put people down for being in a bad place with negative feelings... because everything he said before that wasn’t accurate. I’ve witnessed several situations in my life when “positive” people screwed up other people’s lives by being so numb with serving their own success they didn’t notice what they were doing to others. They also didn’t let anything, including the truth about their lack of empathy and recklessness... get in the way of their “positive” attitude.
Kevin’s idea that “negative is cool now”???? is the opposite of what I’ve observed growing. I’m plagued by young hip numb pseudo-experts faking it until they make it on the job, then when I try to repair the mess they’ve made neglecting the basics for a chance to use their jargon and impress people, they imply I’m negative and shouldn’t worry. Meanwhile, when I come back from vacation I always get all the complaints from the experienced workers that things were turning chaotic. Sure.... when we write on youtube comments it’s negative or a waste of our time, but some who rely on youtube for wealth yet put down negativity are contradicting themselves. When you want others to feel they shouldn’t give an opinion, things always get worse. If you’re famous and successful? Great. Terrific. But don’t tell us that all of us can just switch on to positivity. You’ve obviously had a different life equation than others. Even if you struggled like some successful people did (Joe and Kevin both worked hard).... some of us, at the time it would have helped most... had similar ideas, maybe even better ideas.. but never felt it was okay to try. There are reasons for that. It’s not just talent or knowing. You’re not born “knowing”.
Well said
I honestly mean NO disrespect towards your comment TweenyGee, but I personally believe that expression is A number one rout to how people become way over confident or “conceited”. Maybe I’m wrong but it’s just from my perception in life with comparing myself to my yesterday self I start thinking others should live up to better speculations especially when the person is content with theirselves. I’ve learned to find good that’s within myself and never stop looking for ways to help ones in need of it.... DONT COMPARE YOURSELF TO A DAM THING nor ANYONE for it is pointless, it will end up an endless goal that’s usually impossible to reach, and if you do reach the goal, you realize how much everything you chased in life, left a giant void inside and you won’t understand..... Now the fact that people are so misguided or become defying to one another but nobody understands how or what to do!?!?!? This is what’s NOT FAIR in my eyes
Positivity isn't cool, but it's a truly gratifying reward. Silent, but real.
Truly 👐🏾
I love this.
Positivity is also highly toxic. Enjoy your toxicity!
@@jvnd2785 positivity is toxic?
@@ashbatwing833, yup...there's a whole bookshelf of publications on toxic positivity.
Contagious energy. A reminder, to myself to not just find the light in the darkness but to be it.
thanks for not putting a background music
They never do. This is amazing I been watching afterskool for 2 years now.
Damn i love russian girls 😍😘
Lmao
Yes! So many great videos out there with valuable information, ruined by background music.
Amen
How to deal with negative people : not dealing with them. ✌🏼
Love this!!!
Easier said then done if they're always in ur daily social bubble 🤔
@@p.atrickclarke I literally shut them out.
@@MariePriss respect!
Be kind
" When you think the highest of yourself others have no choice but to follow suit."
Indeed!!!
depends :P if for example someone thinks they're the smartest person in the room while also believing that earth is flat then he's experiencing the Dunning-Kruger effect.
I am so grateful to be at a point in my life where that actually makes practical sense
Or simply be the highest version
Dude drew all that left handed, as a left handed myself I can appreciate this mans skill to not smear 😂
Me too! I think it’s paper and the pens won’t smear like if it was a white board or ink though.
I love left handed people
Amazing words Kevin.. big props to the illustrator too, they killed that shit
No joke man..... After Skool Rules 🤘🏽
Yes, he is excellent.
When you're so positive no negativity can break you only you yourself can break you.
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Heck yeah love you dude!
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PERIODT 🗣️❣️
It can. Thought. Because i thought no one could. It dose without you knowing
I work with so many negative people. I do not understand why. I am always positive even if I don't feel it and not intentionally. I just feel like it's easier to be positive then to be negative to myself and others. Interesting enough my boss noticed it and during my evaluation she told me that I was a treasure because I get along with my co-workers and keep a positive attitude. That made my day!
Cudos to you and your boss for seeing that in you:)
CONGRATS :D ❤🎉
I'm a mirror and a lense(its something in my personality disorder). If I'm around happy, positive people, I absorb that and then magnify it out all around me. Sadly, the same is true for negative as well. I've removed most of the negative people around me because I dont want to feel ill and suicidal anymore. All I have to do is wait, people have been drawn to me, in groups, for decades. It's just taking longer right now. They are drawn to me because they say I am original, I'm authentic, I'm not faking anything, You're being yourself. Yes and at huge social price because a lot of people dont want that, they want you to be as fake as them so they dont feel like they are missing out. It took me a long time to learn this but now I do, my personality tends to repell those sorts of people over time too. Wish I'd known this 25 years ago though. Might not have much time left to do anything with it. BPD has a level limit according to the research, we live til between 57 and 65. Well, I'm not gonna make that easy. I'm gonna see if my Spanish genetics from my Mother's side, where most of the women lived well into their 90s aside from a couple is STRONGER than what science says my disorder will do. We'll just have to wait and see. It's gonna be one hell of a ride :)
Being negative takes way more energy. If more of us realized that there would be a change for the better!
Yeah positive is really snap and fast. negative takes consideration, thought, calculation, etc etc, _ :)
Positive and negative are just labels. An opinion is an opinion, they don't take more or less energy. What takes energy is that people give you shit for having a different opinion.
Actually being "positive" takes more energy. It very easy to be "negative".
Yeah trying to be positive takes mental effort but with the help of meditation it will not really be a big problem! Observe
it takes way more energy to be positive. try reframing cancer, chronic pain, or childhood abuse as something positive. it takes a lot of ingenuity and skillful thinking to look at daily stressors with positivity.
Here's the very first steps to avoid negativity :
- Stop watching the mainstream news
That is all.
First step to attracting positivity : help make other people happy
LeCaissie That's very True. I live around people who are addicted to the news & they get so emotionally involved in every bad news they hear. They then criticize me for not watching the news, claiming that I don't know "What's Happening"
@@AlwaysRich1670 theres a difference between not watching the news and choosing to remain ignorant. I don't watch the news. But I still know what's going on.
@@robertdale2964 Same 👍
@@robertdale2964Exactly👍 likewise myself
This video is beautiful. I called my wife to come down and rewatch is with me. Kevin Hart is such a source of positivity and innate enlightenment that shines with authenticity in every word.
I saw him speak at 10X Growth Con. He was an incredible human to listen to. Very intelligent and helpful to others.
He has been blessed and he pays it forward. His fame is a wonderful way to gain attention and contribute to humanity. I believe he is a enlightened human being and his words are so nice to hear
Kevin gets it, he knows what everyone else is looking for. We are a lost society. We could have peace in our time if everyone listened to the people like Kevin Hart who understand the power of kindness and respect.
I agree, I like his video too. You can also check out our video on How To Deal With Negative People at ua-cam.com/video/kzs7dgBEC5c/v-deo.html
In this video, we share with you what NOT to do in this case, what TO do, and our personal experiences of this too.
We speak to so many people who are struggling with this and feel held back by this and you’d be surprised by how many of our clients come to us are feeling drained because of a negative environment. This episode has everything you need to know so you can overcome negativity.
God bless you Kevin Hart.
I am an RN in a level 1 hospital and see so much tragedy at work. The other day my heart broke for a 19 year old young man who was shot multiple times and ended up as a partial quadriplegic...It can be incredibly stressful for me but you helped me realize that I can “take my platform to throw good energy and do my part” as you mentioned. It gives me a sense of purpose. Thank you 🙏
God Bless you Rusty! I pray you are well and continue this path! ❤️🙏
Omg, this brought tears to my eyes. You are doing great work!
Thank you for sharing your experience and also having the ❤️ heart to care for others. It is not in vain. May God give you his supernatural strength everyday.
As a doctor who treated that trauma patient. I can tell you get paid for your free entertainment. Its useless women like yourself that makes other people's MEN'S life traumatic. People bring female fedtcide back printing money is not enough for these entitled RN
Man hits hard... growing up not having that family and now have a 5 year old son and im trying so hard to make a great life,, give em what i didnt love this!!!!
"Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth" :)
If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands... :D
👏 👏 👏
@@vernongriesel3910 👏👏
Yes yes👏🏽👏🏽
👏🏽👏🏽
I completely agree with this! Negative people bring other people down and we need to understand if it's worth keeping a ngative person in our life! I mean.. We need to respect ourselves and in order to make that happen we shouldn't allow anyone to bring us down. It comes a point where we need to say "no more" and cut these people out of our lives!
Easier said than done when you work around those type of people. I do have a solution, ease your way from them and find another job.🥰🥰🥰🥰
you're absolutely right. throw them away with the trash.
@@bigvalley4987 why do you think that's related only to jobs? I think the real monsters are in school
Monsters are everywhere from school to work to even at home in your safe space just takes work to get away
What if it’s your own spouse 😢🙄🫤?
Love: I don’t think people even realize how valuable they are and can be
I've been trying to become happier, more positive, and uplifting these days. I decide to start living that way- being nicer to people, being more understanding. People will treat you differently. They either will receive your positivity well and reciprocate or they get mad or bitter. I used to hate positive people, I'd say they were "annoying". I was also depressed and anxious and miserable then.
Yeah I am beginning to become more positive :3
my mom's a positive person, but she just gets used.
You are believing lies, Madison. People will treat you differently because "positivity" is one of the best tools how to manipulate people. I am sure there are many who are jumping for joy when you stop looking at/talking about the sad, "negative" reality and become a happy fool- it's so easy to play the "shiny rainbows and unicorns" card and make you do things that are not good for you.
@@jvnd2785 ok but what if you have a balance between being negative and positive....idk
@@justathought-hj3lz, what is needed is discernment. The ability to navigate: what's good, what's wrong...what is the truth and what are the (pretty) lies.
Really needed to hear this as I'm reinventing myself and part off that is finding what's important in life.
Hi Jay. You can also check out our video on How To Deal With Negative People at ua-cam.com/video/kzs7dgBEC5c/v-deo.html
In this video, we share with you what NOT to do in this case, what TO do, and our personal experiences of this too.
We speak to so many people who are struggling with this and feel held back by this and you’d be surprised by how many of our clients come to us are feeling drained because of a negative environment. This episode has everything you need to know so you can overcome negativity.
Best of luck on your journey to you ❤
Loved this, I didn’t realize Kevin hart had this mentality love that he’s using his platform to spread inspiration
It starts as a "not cool thing"
Then grows into an "unhappy with their life thing"
And then it ends with cancer
@@Emir-hu5gy yep
I’m going to take “my time” and say I discovered after skool yesterday and I’ve learned more in 1 hour of listening to these then my whole 41 years. Thank you for your videos and bless the people reading this.. o hope you find some useful knowledge listening to these
The way to not let negative people get to you is to understand there are people (family,friends) that truly love you. So nothing negative matters or should put you down.
Finding the light in every tunnel is a skill very few can obtain and have the genuine gratitude while looking for it when everyone else is pancaking!!!
I love what Kevin says about his family. It seems to me that so many comedians really go through life seeking love and yet they can't change themselves into loving people in order to receive the love they want. Bitterness, anger, disappointment linger with these people as they achieve higher and higher heights of success. Kevin has achieved everything he could hope for in comedy, but his pride is in achieving the thing his heart longed for from childhood, to love and be loved.
No better way to start your day than with an after skool video,Thanks Kevin❤
I have the time to make a positive comment, thank you for this excellent segment.
Hating on things gives you the illusion of control. These people are unhappy and don't know how to cope.
This is so true. At 13 years old I looked at my family in a fake jovial moment, and right then I had an epiphany ‘This isn’t who I want to be’. I think a lot of people complicate it. Sometimes it can be as simple knowing what you don’t want, that is contentment too. The bubble is such a great analogy. I have been in one for so long I didn’t even realise. It’s got a lot of dings in it from those who fear difference and change. But it’s still there 👍
Constant negative people are suffering... Give some compassion and perhaps try to talk to them about it.
Of course sometimes thats possible but other times you got to protect your mental space
@@kingofnara Well, always set boundaries if people cross your limits. But with compassion and mindfulness, you will tolerate more, because you understand where their frustration is coming from. I usually tell my self, if someone is being toxic, that his current mental status is like a child, so I imagine a child inside a grown up :P And sometimes I address their behaviour and put it in relation to how children or other bad known characters mirror same behaviour as them, it usually helps :)
True, compassion and empathy, not condemnation. But I swear, there are just some people out there who are explicitly good at being a**holes just for the sake of it.
I stopped caring and encouraging. After years of doing so. You get drained. Leave ppl be. Be the happy you. Remember your buried alone.
Everyone suffers regardless of attitude
Some deep stuff here! Soo very true as well. Loved that quote at the end.
I feel like kevin just spoke to me on such a personal level... wow
It's more JOY than happiness, yet he has daily happiness, which makes him HAPPY
It's cool to be positive
100%
It sure is!!
Fax
Truth
Agreed
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People are like living in a movie. The theme that plays in your mind affects who you are in real life. Most people play depressed, horror movies in their minds. This is why they're scared and anxious all the time. Happy people play happy movies in their minds. They see life differently.
Anyone else get goosebumps listening to kevins inspiring words?
edit: epic artwork too!
Loved, “Upside” Mr. Hart❣️
I really love Kevin Hart! He's a wise dude and always gives me positive vibes!
people want to see negative things to make sure that they are in a better place. They dont want to feel alone that they arent the only ones going through bad things.
I agree 100%, it’s the saying, “misery loves company, and negativity is a corporation being built.”
seriously needed this in my time of darkness.
This is by far my favorite cast, thanks to the rogan team and kevin for this one. Awesome
That ending quote was truth.
It's so hard being married to a "grinch". This evening I did the simple act of offering some deliciously scented hand sanitizer I carry in my purse to my husband after a trip to the grocery store. He turned my act of kindness into a negative. "That's stuff's bad for you, don't give that shit to me, blah, blah, blah." I have to consciously activate my positive forcefield to deflect that negative hard hearted shit I get from him on a regular basis. I choose to shine on when he tries to bring me down to his level. If I didn't I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
You are so strong mama
why are you married to him
you deserve better
What?lol
Sounds like he's trying to help u
this is a great message and reminder for everyone
Had a pretty shit week, much needed kick in the ass to go make that money! Hope whoever reads this has a good day/night ✌️
Constant negative people are suffering... Show some compassion to them and perhaps try to talk to them about it.
This brung tears to my eyes.. and my soul. But tears of joy. I can relate to every single thing Kevin mentioned..
A refflection of my life.
Kevin Hart you have such an amazing way of looking things with optimism. Thank you this video.
"No one will ever do or say anything to you that is not a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment. People project onto others what they don’t like about themselves. Don’t take it personally when you encounter a truly miserable human being. It’s not about you. It’s really about what’s on the inside of them"
I need more inspirational talks from Kevin hart, I connected with this on a microbial level and I need more
“If you don’t add to my force field or make it stronger, you don’t get time from me” YESSSSSS KEVIN DROPPING THE GEMS ON EM
Don’t compare yourself to someone else - you DO NOT want their fate!
I feel negativity feeds wounded people. Because happy people.. genuinely happy people lead happy lives. Remember misery loves company!
That was one of the best clips from this show I've ever heard. What a powerful and concise message. We need more dads like Kevin Hart!
People are gonna look back some day and appreciate how much positivity Joe Rogan brought people
This is absolutely awesome......Everyone who is struggling atm needs to hear Kevin’s take on life! ✌🏻🙏🏼✊🏼❤️
Whoa..Ive never thought I would think Kevin Heart as a mentor but this shit is happening. God bless bro
Wow. I've been trying to live like this before watching the video. The video has just made things clearer. Positive vibes to everyone.
Amazing post! Love the energy Kevin Hart gives off, I can feel it through a computer screen! that's what Im talking bout!
This is the video. Only two months ago I saw this video. In that cold night, something sparked. I have never felt happiness in over five years.
Now? Now, I wake up. I wake up with a positive attitude and that *soberness* -- NOT intoxication of depression -- just annihilates every ache in my body. Bad things happen. I overcome it. I am stronger, and I get stronger every day. I have the happiness and self-worth to get work done.
Compared to my former self, I am a superman. I get to focus more on the things I need to do rather than comparing myself to the people who are more skilled. And, believe it or not, that's what humility is made of. Self-respect.
Thank you all, After Skool, Kevin Hart, Joe Rogan, and whoever taught me how to live life again.
This is my absolute FAVORITE You tube video now!!! Amazing man with great insight & I agree 100%! I'm so glad I listened & sharing with all my loved ones. Kevin Hart, Joe Rogan thank you for sharing this!!!
There's a difference between someone being negative intentionally and someone being negative, because they can't help it.
They may be depressed and when you're depressed you tend to think about all the negative things in life and this can sometimes become a habit.
Try understanding the reason why they are that way and then get them into learning about new things that peaks their interest.
Kevin Hart's laugh is so contagious! Great video, thanks Kevin and Joe.
Im glad I watched this. Kevin Heart is a real gem - he should speak out more on the subject of being one's best.
This was the interview that changed my life more than norco for my chronic persistent headache, I didn’t understand how he was finding the light in dark tunnels, I thought because of other people suffering for years it is impossible, I was comparing myself to other people and was believing that I was too not never going to find happiness, it took getting covid and dealing with my headache to understand reality, society and the perception of pain and negativity, I feel like yoda the Jedi, I feel like in 1 year I’ve aged 50 with my mind thanks to this interview and some other philosophers, finding the light can be compared to finding food when you’re stomach hurts, grasp to things that make you happy not miserable that is how you find the light and relief to suffering. I’m unmedicated now and have been for a year and 5 months, I suffered in the beginning unmedicated but in time I eventually found the light, you can only find the light through finding happiness, happiness is the best pain reliever
This is very important to understand.
This is helping so much truly. I was a negative person, I want to improve and be better. I always thought negative was the way to go because my whole neighbors felt so negative and toxic I thought that’s how they were happy and I wanted that.
Kevin Hart is one of my favorite stars. He's always so positive.
Wow!I love what he said about his dad that was the core of change. Turning bad into good and finding the greatness is a difficult situation with!!! forgiveness.
Wow I love this side of Kevin hart he is a true inspiration to. Want to be a better human being most of all the positive energy is contagious and it’s really great
peace and love to all of you ❤
I need to watch this video everyday, to remind me this, or at least when I feel like crap. Thanks Keven Hart.
"Expecting perfection", a HUUUGE Misperception ! You speak truth !
Thank You!
Kevin needs to be in more of these...this just made my entire day. Thank yall so much
“Just smile and wave boys and girls just smile and wave”😉
This interview is one of my favorites. Kevin Hart is a different kind of species. Damn, just good stuff! Keep doing you Kevin and Joe. Best content ever! I just want to be opposite too.
Kevin’s one of the best speakers.
My life is so weird right now.. If someone noticing me laughing and loving life they immediately try to destroy it any way they can. But... I still need to stay positive.
Shout out to anybody who's willing to positive reinforcement for those who need it, thank you.
I know what you mean!! I look at it as a test.
Great video until the bad language came along. Surely there are other words of expression. Foul language you lose the meaning of what you are trying to put across.
What do you mean people try to destroy it?
The artwork is amazing too! Great message! ✊
I started watching this thinking not to expect much. Finished loving it and a new found respect for Kevin Hart
Every day is a brand new opportunity to do better than the day before. Very well said Mr. Kevin Hart. Very good
It only makes sense Kevin harts speech was on point keeps me going
Dang Kevin is a damn good human!
I've been saying this for years. Many people like seeing and doing negative stuff. It's crazy.
Being genuinely happy is the vibe.
Wisdom being spoken!
I don’t try to control negative people or media lies because I know I can’t but, I can choose what to believe & how I feel about it. For me,nothing feels better than to be nothing like negative & deceptive people. They are the example of what I taught my children to learn from their self destruction & be grateful to be nothing like them.
Heard this 6 month's ago and had to revisit. Good talk Kevin and Joe
Thank you☺️ The world needs this right now✅
Kevin heart is gonna live so long due to lack of stress.
My otherhalf and I sat down and watch this and we enjoyed it very much. Its was packed with much value. THANK YOU! WE LOVE YOUR CHANNEL. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!
Aww Thank you!!
Perfection doesn't exist. Profound but simple statement. Thank you for this awesome visual/audio
Freakin Kevin Hart dropping jewelz ... great to hear how positive he is
Greatings from Brasil !
Thanks for the great video, life lesson.
I wrote down the Yogi Bhajan text from the end of the video, and saved on my Keep app, great teaching.
I think I needed this. Idk I used to be like kevin hart always seeing the positive to the point where it was annoying. I need to start seeing that light in the dark again. Thanks for the reminder!
I've had so many people who spread negative energy around all the time that I've gotten fed up with them. I have a bus driver now and he is so toxic that people avoid sitting in the front because of his negative grunting about everything. He also attacks people by trying to provocate them into starting a conversation with him, so he can keep his speeches going. It's so annoying. I got quite angry with him when he started attacking my best friend for not liking salt on the roads, he called him stupid and retarded and all that just to make him talk to him. I know silence is the best answer to this kind of people, but I just couldn't help scolding him this time. Probably didn't help much but my heart felt a little bit lighter and me and my friend had a great day at the spa anyway, so to hell with that vampire anyways. I love your videos, they make me wiser everyday
I love how the drawings really make me focus on every word instead of distracting me from them. I needed this video. Thank you.