Changed my life. I was alone and depressed. Didn’t know what a tree was. I felt trapped. Crippling anxiety whenever I came upon a door. But then I found going outside. It was a struggle at first. I can’t tell you how many times I broke down in tears wanting to quit. After 6 months of classes though I finally got outside and saw my first tree. I met new people and was incredibly nervous when I ever I talked to them. Finally after three more months I was going outside frequently and could hold an every day conversation. I wouldn’t have survived if I didn’t find this class. Thanks SweeneyTv, I owe you my life.
I can't even get thru half of this comment without laughing but one of those nervous laughs... I just got this book very randomly (popped into a thrift shop with my sister for 2minutes and randomly bought it to check out.) It's called The Last Child In The Woods... the page I scanned talked about trees in particular (and being outside) and being linked to depression, aniexty, adhd and much more. ... I have been having this deep itch to climb trees again like when I was a child.. it'd be a healthy activity too. Lol I appreciate all the humor here
I'm gonna sound like the "uhm actually guy" but I believe its important to make the distinction about it. I enjoyed the video and wanted to share my thoughts on it. Being alone is a physical fact about not being around other people. A man at a party is not alone, while someone who went to camping by themselves is alone. Being lonely is a mental state about the desire for companionship or someone to relate to. To quote Carl Jung : "Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible." Someone at a party can feel lonely although not being alone, meanwhile another person can be alone without feeling lonely. Loneliness might come from boredom, lack of people to relate to, lack of self awareness, feeling of being useless or even just by using social media. Working on your inner self and planning activities to find out what you enjoy doing are great ways to overcome loneliness. One might feel the need to interact with others to overcome this conundrum while someone else might find it hard to find people that they can truly relate to, pulling them away from interactions.
Honestly i always felt the most lonely around my ex childhood friend. He was just noisy af and i couldn't hear myself and also express myself. Now i am alone but I feel way less lonely. Weird You guys better watch who you spend time with. At first it was hard but now I feel ten times better and even feeling of guilt is gone. It was just a friend but it felt so exhausting to know him like a full time relationship ugh. Constant nagging, constant why you won't come, constant judging omg, constant talk about rating girls 1-10 and showing me Instagram profiles of his thousands crushes. Seemed like I exited there only to admire his holy fuk let time erase these memories please
And for 42 years I have been wondering what a door was this has been both informative and inspiring I shall use this door to go outside and touch this grass I have been hearing about
I'm actually glad that there's videos like this that can distinct the difference between Lonely and Alone. I always hated it when people would say "I want to be lonely" or choose the "lonely" options in something like... Would You Rather.
Wow, thanks for the tips! I was worried that I would mess up my assignment-- I need to make a project on something called "fresh air"? This really helped!
Thank you good sir, I had been locked in my room for 50years but after watching you explained how to work the knob on the doorknob. I have finally been able to smell fresh air.
I love being alone especially living out in the middle of the Appalachian mountains. My favorite thing because I have all my privacy, I can do whatever I want when I want. And peace and quiet.
Hi sir you said there are only three door knobs but occasionally i encounter a door with a reeaaaallly long and wide bar style handle that i have no idea how to deal with! Thanks for your help.
@@thefourthbrotherkaramazov245 “let me make a stupid quote that makes me seem philosophical.” Bro I go outside, go to work for 60 hours a week and have met literal thousands of people. You haven’t experienced it. You don’t know what it’s like. You can be around all 7 billion people on earth and still feel lonly and depressed. People like you are the problem. Instead of uplifting those people and making them feel welcome, you shame them and throw dumb ass quotes you saw in a Reddit post at them. Depression is a real thing. People take their own lives everyday and that’s something I’m struggling with now. Every single night I get home from work and I get black out drunk and wake up with a loaded gun in my hand and the safety off. I don’t want to die. I don’t want to leave my family behind. I don’t want to be this way. But until you’ve been there, you’ll never understand. You’ll never know that struggle of just wanting the pain and thoughts to stop. Every single day is a fight for our life and we’re doing it alone with absolutely nobody to support us. Everyone who gave up and couldn’t take it anymore, I hope they found the peace they were looking for. I pray to God that he forgave them and accepted them. Every single person who’s killed themself I have sympathy for. They wanted to be literally anywhere else but trapped in their own mind. You have no idea what it’s like. So until you’ve been there, you have no right to speak on it. These people are fighting every single day and they’re doing it by themselves. Wait until your family abandons you. Wait until the girl/guy you’re deeply in love with leaves you for somebody else. Wait until your family takes that guy/girls side and treats them better than they treat you. Wait until you have no money. Wait until everything you loved is taken from you. Then you’ll understand what it means to be lonely. Until then, stfu.
I thought this would help me, but I'm still stuck inside! I've only one cat left and no clue what to do. There's a strange sign on my door that reads PUSH. Please help!
How could that even be real? She's got at least one friend who have to be enabling her to have that kind of lifestyle. How does she pay bills, get food, clean herself, bathroom, etc?
I'm actually something of a door opening master and I go outside many times a day but I'm still lonely and depressed. Could you make a new video and what to do in this situation?
These people don’t care. It’s a joke to them. They think it’s so easy to get over things like this. But unless you’ve been there, you shouldn’t speak on it. These people aren’t here to help and they have no sympathy for people in need. It’s all “lolz memes and views” to them. They don’t give a shit. If you’re struggling brother, I am too. I hope you’re staying as strong as you can right now. Keep doing the best you can. Hopefully things will get better for us one day. Good luck and God bless.
This is an old video so no one's probably going to notice this but I'd just like to clarify that going outside doesn't really help with feeling lonely. In my experience it just intensifies the feeling, because while you're going about your business outside, doing whatever, all by yourself, you're surrounded by friend groups, couples, families, etc. It makes me feel worse because it gives you a blunt, clear visual of everything that you're missing out on but don't know how to find. I spend a lot of time going out anyway, because I have a lot of hobbies that I can't do inside and just because it's nice to get out and see the world, but it does nothing for loneliness. Nothing at all.
In the last 10 years I've almost never left the house thanks to agoraphobia from being regularly harrassed, threatened and occasionally attacked by strangers for having long hair in the UK. (I'm a guy and apparently we're not allowed long hair) But now I can go outside. Thanks!
Doctor "Strange" Johnson 1.What if someone tries to talk to me. 2. What if someone ugly is about to cross paths with me/you(asking for my sheltered friend)? 3. ......and with if that ugly person isn't gluten free??? 4. Let's go Brandon? 5. ?
Feeling alone can be devastating, sometimes i dream of the person i loved most that isnt in my life anymore, and i swear when i wake up in the morning i feel like shit, i feel im missing something very important and it feels horrible the first hours after waking up. It aint as easy as just going outside, sure it helps getting distracted but its just that, a distraction. At the end of the day you will still feel alone
Jokes aside though, that girl did a good job at visualising the difference between being alone and being lonely!
I understand now
Maybe you need to go outside too.
Jokes aside, she does need to go outside.
@@reidsimonson not really
She’s enjoying herself without harming others or herself so I see no need for her to stop
Changed my life. I was alone and depressed. Didn’t know what a tree was. I felt trapped. Crippling anxiety whenever I came upon a door. But then I found going outside. It was a struggle at first. I can’t tell you how many times I broke down in tears wanting to quit. After 6 months of classes though I finally got outside and saw my first tree. I met new people and was incredibly nervous when I ever I talked to them. Finally after three more months I was going outside frequently and could hold an every day conversation. I wouldn’t have survived if I didn’t find this class. Thanks SweeneyTv, I owe you my life.
lmao at "didnt know what a tree was"
I think it’s fair to say this is a joke lol
Lmaooooo
I can't even get thru half of this comment without laughing but one of those nervous laughs... I just got this book very randomly (popped into a thrift shop with my sister for 2minutes and randomly bought it to check out.) It's called The Last Child In The Woods... the page I scanned talked about trees in particular (and being outside) and being linked to depression, aniexty, adhd and much more. ... I have been having this deep itch to climb trees again like when I was a child.. it'd be a healthy activity too. Lol I appreciate all the humor here
Thank you good sir. I have been stuck inside my house for 18 years with no way of going out.
I'm gonna sound like the "uhm actually guy" but I believe its important to make the distinction about it. I enjoyed the video and wanted to share my thoughts on it.
Being alone is a physical fact about not being around other people. A man at a party is not alone, while someone who went to camping by themselves is alone.
Being lonely is a mental state about the desire for companionship or someone to relate to. To quote Carl Jung :
"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible."
Someone at a party can feel lonely although not being alone, meanwhile another person can be alone without feeling lonely.
Loneliness might come from boredom, lack of people to relate to, lack of self awareness, feeling of being useless or even just by using social media.
Working on your inner self and planning activities to find out what you enjoy doing are great ways to overcome loneliness. One might feel the need to interact with others to overcome this conundrum while someone else might find it hard to find people that they can truly relate to, pulling them away from interactions.
good point. the video and the tiktok clip where both about being alone and not about being lonely though
Honestly i always felt the most lonely around my ex childhood friend. He was just noisy af and i couldn't hear myself and also express myself. Now i am alone but I feel way less lonely. Weird
You guys better watch who you spend time with.
At first it was hard but now I feel ten times better and even feeling of guilt is gone. It was just a friend but it felt so exhausting to know him like a full time relationship ugh. Constant nagging, constant why you won't come, constant judging omg, constant talk about rating girls 1-10 and showing me Instagram profiles of his thousands crushes. Seemed like I exited there only to admire his holy fuk let time erase these memories please
ok
@@grey7909 Fair point, I wanted to touch on that. Since many often confuse the two.
@@julievrhackzor Couldn't have said it better myself
I'm starting to get the feeling that she's feeling lonely... I can't figure out why though?
Ia it because she has a desk in front but chooses to read a book and examine a paper while holding it with her hands?
No way, what made you think that
I think you might be an empath bro
Ah, you're a fellow Empath I see
@@confusedrebel9939 what's wrong with reading a book?
And for 42 years I have been wondering what a door was this has been both informative and inspiring I shall use this door to go outside and touch this grass I have been hearing about
Bro I’ve learned more here than I ever have in school, wish they had this class back then
i am going to use this to finally do this "touching grass" that i have heard so much about. thank you for this information.
From the creators of touching grass comes a new sequence...
if you stay inside, youll have to wait for someone to come inside, and that will only be messy
Ew
Burglars are so thoughtful, breaking into my house just to keep me company, can't hold a grudge against them if they mess up my house
Gotta try this trick someday, I usually go from the window, because the door knob was too complicated and time consuming.
I never knew how to use a door until I saw this video. Very informative, love it! 💗
Instructions unclear. im now on the top of my apartment, should i jump to save time ?
Sounds like the quickest way down. Good problem solving
Its gonna hurt but its worth saving a time if you speedrunning life
Can you do a tutorial on how to go back inside after going outside? Its raining i need help
This video helped me I was locked in my room, now I know how to open my door, thank you
But, how do you enter again?
@@confusedrebel9939 I was wondering the same thing
Damn she just like me fr fr😳🙋🏻♂️
Thanks to the teachings and guidance in this video, I realised that I _could_ go outside! I now go outside all the time. Thank you!!
Ah yes. Let’s shame depression like it’s a joke. That’ll really help people
Useful information thanks 👍 very helpful never thought of that.
I'm actually glad that there's videos like this that can distinct the difference between Lonely and Alone. I always hated it when people would say "I want to be lonely" or choose the "lonely" options in something like... Would You Rather.
I know it's satire, but the struggle is incredibly real.
Wow, thanks for the tips! I was worried that I would mess up my assignment-- I need to make a project on something called "fresh air"? This really helped!
I don't have these types of doorknobs guess I'll stay alone
God doors are a scary thing
Being alone is not a bad thing.
Feeling alone is a bad thing.
excellent tutorial ! but i got one question : what exactly is that bright stuff in the sky ?
Thank you good sir, I had been locked in my room for 50years but after watching you explained how to work the knob on the doorknob. I have finally been able to smell fresh air.
Touch Grass AP.
I love being alone especially living out in the middle of the Appalachian mountains. My favorite thing because I have all my privacy, I can do whatever I want when I want. And peace and quiet.
Sir, this moustache and shaved head is doing things to me!
define a REGULAR doorknob. Unless I just have crazy doorknobs... I'm scared.
Mr. CEO, Sir, I'm nervous about this "outside" you speak of but how can I get in touch with your sales department?
As long as I have hatsune miku pillow sitting next to me that lonely feeling is gone.
very informative, thank you
Real teacher right here
You forgot the "unregistered HyperCam 2"
Hi sir you said there are only three door knobs but occasionally i encounter a door with a reeaaaallly long and wide bar style handle that i have no idea how to deal with!
Thanks for your help.
every therapy session i've ever had
This helped a lot thanks
At first I was like “lol he wrote OK OK OK on the outside picture”. Then I was like “Aww them some people”
You forgot to mention door thresholds. That can be another complicating factor.
Thank you Jhon Markson
Instructions unclear- I’m now stuck in the void
masterpiece.
Oh yeah those opposite turning handles just give me so much anxiety
Going outside doesn't really fix being lonely you can not be alone but feel alone smh
"if you stay inside, youll have to wait for someone to come inside, and that will only be messy" - another wise commenter.
Go outside
@@thefourthbrotherkaramazov245 “let me make a stupid quote that makes me seem philosophical.” Bro I go outside, go to work for 60 hours a week and have met literal thousands of people.
You haven’t experienced it. You don’t know what it’s like. You can be around all 7 billion people on earth and still feel lonly and depressed. People like you are the problem. Instead of uplifting those people and making them feel welcome, you shame them and throw dumb ass quotes you saw in a Reddit post at them. Depression is a real thing. People take their own lives everyday and that’s something I’m struggling with now. Every single night I get home from work and I get black out drunk and wake up with a loaded gun in my hand and the safety off. I don’t want to die. I don’t want to leave my family behind. I don’t want to be this way. But until you’ve been there, you’ll never understand. You’ll never know that struggle of just wanting the pain and thoughts to stop. Every single day is a fight for our life and we’re doing it alone with absolutely nobody to support us. Everyone who gave up and couldn’t take it anymore, I hope they found the peace they were looking for. I pray to God that he forgave them and accepted them. Every single person who’s killed themself I have sympathy for. They wanted to be literally anywhere else but trapped in their own mind. You have no idea what it’s like. So until you’ve been there, you have no right to speak on it. These people are fighting every single day and they’re doing it by themselves. Wait until your family abandons you. Wait until the girl/guy you’re deeply in love with leaves you for somebody else. Wait until your family takes that guy/girls side and treats them better than they treat you. Wait until you have no money. Wait until everything you loved is taken from you. Then you’ll understand what it means to be lonely. Until then, stfu.
@@thefourthbrotherkaramazov245 how do you make a comment ignoring everything I just said lmfao 💀💀💀
@@Josh-fj9hi because youre wrong
thanks for this educational content
new to this guy’s channel but this guy looks like if Dr. Eggman got the handsome squidward treatment
instructions unclear, played with knob, twisted the tip , now i need tissues, still stuck in room
I thought this would help me, but I'm still stuck inside! I've only one cat left and no clue what to do. There's a strange sign on my door that reads PUSH. Please help!
"If you pull that door open, the door will be opened"
Thank you for help. How to get back inside now though?
This is so good
I'm definitely sending this to Ironmouse, this should fix all her problems. Thanks bro 👍
How could that even be real? She's got at least one friend who have to be enabling her to have that kind of lifestyle. How does she pay bills, get food, clean herself, bathroom, etc?
She took introvert to the extreme
i have learnt more about door handles than going outside.
I haven’t got any of these… HELP HOW DO I LEAVE MY HOUSE?!?!?!
CEO of going oustide : *Records video inside*
help I keep pulling my door but it won't move
I'm actually something of a door opening master and I go outside many times a day but I'm still lonely and depressed. Could you make a new video and what to do in this situation?
It's morbin time baby
I got a little lost on the first step I must not have done it right, can someone help me out?
Did Anyone notice the door nob on his door is different then the one he talked about
I love going outside,unless it's summer because it's 110° right now so for now I stay inside...
Punching down is never funny. Making fun of someone for having mental-health issues is very much punching down.
These people don’t care. It’s a joke to them. They think it’s so easy to get over things like this. But unless you’ve been there, you shouldn’t speak on it.
These people aren’t here to help and they have no sympathy for people in need. It’s all “lolz memes and views” to them. They don’t give a shit.
If you’re struggling brother, I am too. I hope you’re staying as strong as you can right now. Keep doing the best you can. Hopefully things will get better for us one day. Good luck and God bless.
My friend just sent me this and I feel personally attacked
This is an old video so no one's probably going to notice this but I'd just like to clarify that going outside doesn't really help with feeling lonely. In my experience it just intensifies the feeling, because while you're going about your business outside, doing whatever, all by yourself, you're surrounded by friend groups, couples, families, etc. It makes me feel worse because it gives you a blunt, clear visual of everything that you're missing out on but don't know how to find. I spend a lot of time going out anyway, because I have a lot of hobbies that I can't do inside and just because it's nice to get out and see the world, but it does nothing for loneliness. Nothing at all.
Me, who goes outside but I'm alone and not talking to people much: *I am 4 parallel universes ahead of you.*
League of Legends community's most searched and yet forgotten tutorial
Finally a class thats useful
my door has 2 circles. Wtf do I do. One circle is above the other one. It has a big line across it. How do I get out.
Thanks I saw grass and trees for the first time
I have sliding doors...
This makes sense. I thought about going outside now I know how.
In the last 10 years I've almost never left the house thanks to agoraphobia from being regularly harrassed, threatened and occasionally attacked by strangers for having long hair in the UK. (I'm a guy and apparently we're not allowed long hair)
But now I can go outside. Thanks!
Living the dream
you look like a sports announcer explaining how the teams trick play works
Doctor "Strange" Johnson
1.What if someone tries to talk to me.
2. What if someone ugly is about to cross paths with me/you(asking for my sheltered friend)?
3. ......and with if that ugly person isn't gluten free???
4. Let's go Brandon?
5. ?
I will drag you outside myself
😭
I couldn't make it past the second door it didn't have any of the door knobs displayed here 1/10 guide.
I read the subject as "welcome to going outside JOI". Please, help me
I find this to be sound advice.
What if I am locked in the basement?
what about doors with no handles?
Fun fact: Studies have found that feeling lonely can induce the same amount of health problems aa smoking 15 cigarettes a day
I do both. Hopefully I die soon so I don’t have to suffer anymore
Lol that's bull shit
Lmao bs
Clickbaity, sure, but I sure as hell learned something here today.
Feeling alone can be devastating, sometimes i dream of the person i loved most that isnt in my life anymore, and i swear when i wake up in the morning i feel like shit, i feel im missing something very important and it feels horrible the first hours after waking up. It aint as easy as just going outside, sure it helps getting distracted but its just that, a distraction. At the end of the day you will still feel alone
You didn’t teach us how to go back in…i’m somewhere, and i lost my door.
wait. TREES?!
instructions unclear... got outside and twisted the tree and people to the right
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11/10 Finally touched grass.
Just letting you know I appreciate the Joe Dart representation in the background. Bless.
But what if a plane crashes on me when I go outside
This guy is hilarious!
Well, i feel alone even outside and while talking to other people. Any solutions?
Stay strong and be your own best friend. I’m there too, brother. We just have to hope things will change one day. Good luck to you and God bless.
What if I have a sliding door? :O
Studies have shown that people who spend 100% of their time alone report being lonely the majority of the time, statistically speaking.
*signs up for classes*
Bruh I’m exactly like her. I want a girl so we can be alone together.