I’m trying not to be scared as I’m going into the hospital Monday morning for a total knee replacement. I’m telling myself just like when I was younger and having babies that others do it, so can I. 😅
Hello Sher!!! You got this!!! My best friend has been through that surgery and she was fine and shocked it wasn't half as bad as she had been told it would be!!! She just signed dup for dance classes this week!!!! My love to you and yours....and if you get a chance, give us an update on your surgery! xxoo Susan & Dez
Marlene peters- sherjoy. Don't be afraid. I had a knee replacement on my right knee and then the left knee they were done a year apart. They do such marvelous surgery now. I had no pain. You sleep quite a bit. My surgeries were both done early morning and I was up walking the next morning. I wanted to share this experience with you. Take care. Let us and me know how you do. Food was good too. Like a seven course meal.
Sherjoy, I'll pray that the doctor's hands that perform your surgery will be guided to give you a successful and safe outcome. It's okay to be nervous and scared (we're all that way with surgery), but know that we care, are thinking of you, and wishing you all the best. You'll get through this! Love and Hugs. ♥🙏
Over half of my life I’ve been afraid. Afraid of what others think of me, afraid of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time,afraid of not being a good enough person…I was always fearful. In my mid 30’s I learned I was the problem. Allowing fear to rule me. Last year when my husband told me he had filed for a divorce, I became fearful again. At 69 I was going to be alone again and living on just social security. Oh hell, I passed fearful, I panicked! It took a little while, but once I really looked at everything I realized I would be ok…and I am!
I have to add, last year I had a partial hysterectomy. They found a mass in my stomach also. Before I went into surgery I asked if I could say a prayer before they put me under. I said a prayer the anesthesiologist said thank you, and while they were administering the anesthesia, my surgeon came over and held my hand until I fell asleep… that kind gesture has stayed with me❤ I might also add I have a deep faith in Jesus Christ as my savior and at first I was uncomfortable asking to say a prayer but then I thought why would I be uncomfortable this is who I am in Christ🙏
Faithy, i pray for you. You can be strong. I hope you are well. After being misdiagnosed for months with "women.s issues", the day before my wife turned 65, doctors found a tumor the size of a football, in my honey. Ovarian cancer stage 3-C. Five years later she became my Angel. Her symptoms few medical providers are trained to recognize. Ovarian cancer impacts 1 in 80 women, and kills a woman every 90 minutes. I hope to someone educate providers so it can be diagnosed early and no longer be the silent killer. 😇
I had a hysterectomy a few years ago and had heart complications from anesthesia. I was out for quite a long time and an abnormal heart rhythms which scared my surgeon. When I partially woke a nurse was on one side and my surgeon on the other side with his hand upon me. I overheard them both praying for me. I will never forget that experience. It was a Catholic hospital I was in, but I would not think too many healthcare workers would pray for a patient undergoing complications. I was certainly blessed.
22yrs ago I was going through my divorce. I was so scared to walk into Court by myself in front of the Judge and face my ex husband. I was wishing my brother or any of my sisters to offer to come with me. They never did 😢. I’d mentally prepared myself days before and built the courage to walk in by myself and finalize that chapter of my life. It was incredible, surreal really. It didn’t take long at all for one person to Order an end to a marriage. Walking out of there I’d felt a painful heaviness lifted off my shoulders. I’d learned that day how STRONG I am by myself. ✨🌷🙏🌷✨
@@suskelleykelley7241 @Suskelley Kelly. I’m Sooo Proud of you! We are Survivors.! Everything, very struggle or achievement is now OURS Only !!!!! Sending Special Hugs. 💕🧸💕
I can relate my dear ❤, God holds our hand when we fear the unknown. Bless you. I am 62, was married 21 years and now 1 year later I still am recovering from narcissistic abuse. Live with mom but I am alive and grateful to know I am not alone as there are many women like us!
@@chrystalbazan2200 Hi Chrystal 💕. My heart goes out to you I completely understand your pain. Here’s my next story. After my divorce I’d met someone who was a narcissist, unfortunately I was blinded over heals in love with him. At the time I did not realize what being in a turbulent abusive relationship I was with this total narcissistic man. That was the hard part I know the pattern, everything is our fault, we don’t behave, we don’t deserve anything bcs of our behavior. He eventually cheated on me and I was told to read between the lines bcs I didn’t deserve an explanation. I am still recovering from that up to this date of ALL the residue he left inside of me. I held ON to God’s merciful Hand and moved on to create a new Peaceful life for me. Chrystal we Got this!!! 💕👊💕 NO man is worth enough to take ANYTHING, ANYTHING from US. Let them think they have 😂😂😂. Unknowingly THEY, themselves GAVE US the STRENGTH & POWER WITHIN US!!!! I Am at Peace. Create your own Happiness 🥰 We matter! We deserve it! Love Yourself and pamper Yourself daily. Sending warm Hugs 🧸🧸🧸. 💕🌷💕🌷💕🌷
From a former nurse who left the field due to burnout, thank you for sharing your story. It's vulnerable moments like those that made me want to be a nurse and that I miss the most. A patient asking for that type of support is a true gift to a nurse, not the other way around. Thank you for another beautiful video!
40 years a nurse, retired in 2019 and its true. Even with the shortage and Covid I'm still hearing stories of caring and compassion about nurses, even from my own 90 year old mom who was in the hospital.18 days. Kudos to those nurses and all health care workers still out there, we do love our patients !!
I’m a retired nurse who left nursing due to the stresses of working during COVUD. I muss my patients so much that I cry sometimes. We as nurses strive to offer others comfort during stressful and sometimes painful times in our patients lives. Being a nurse is who I am. It was never a job to me.
I’m dealing with breast cancer. Just newly retired and thought I would be able to do all the things I put off when I worked for 50 years. Life has a way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it.
I had the most loving and caring nurse, Jackie at Lahey Clinic ICU in Burlington, MA. I will never ever forget her loving kindness toward a perfect stranger. What a beautiful human being she was! How blessed I felt.
The first medical procedure i had after my husband pass away i felt so alone and was afraid. The nurse asked me if i was okay and i told her he was always with me in the past and i felt so alone, she came over and held my hand during the whole procedure, it made all the difference. ❣️
Mary, i felt the very same emotions, at the first couple medical procedures after my wife went to heaven. I expect i.ll be anxious at future medical events for a long time. My wife had been with me, at my side, for everything for decades. And i had been blessed to be with her, at her side, holding her hand, for her 100+ doses of chemo, a couple hundred medical appointments & tests, her last 5 years, fighting ovarian cancer. I now think i know the comfort & compsssion & love she felt from me by her side, and holding the hands of my honey, now my angel. 😇
My breast surgeon held my hand right before they put me under for breast cancer surgery. It meant so much to me. Fifteen years later, I'm still here. Thank you for this lovely video.
Susan, you don't know it, but you were holding my hand on Tuesday November 1st of this year. I was diagnosed a month ago with her two positive carcinoma in my breast. I had surgery to remove it and two lymph nodes. I start chemo soon and then radiation but they are sure they got it all during the surgery. My daughter set me up with little poet videos on a loop for me to listen to while I was in recovery because she knows how much I love you and how soothing your voice is to me. And it really did make me feel better and I woke up and my daughter was sitting with me and your voice was playing in my ear. I know it sounds silly but I thought you would understand. I wasn't going to say anything until I watched your video tonight and I just had to write and tell you how you held my hand on November 1st. Love you and Desi!
Oh Stacy...how you made me cry! Thank God you made it through and if I had known, Desi and I would fly out and give you a big hug in person!!! My love to you always and always....and if you get time, please let me know how you are doing! xxoo Sues & Dez
Stacy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I think it's wonderful that Susan "held your hand" while you were in recovery. I don't think that's silly at all. May you heal quickly and completely!
Stacy, you have a wonderful caring daughter. What she did for you speaks volumes of how much insight she has and how loving she is. Too put those Little Poet videos together so you would feel comforted. And they did help you! Please hug your daughter for me and every women who wishes they had that love in their life. She is special. Get well, Blessings to you ~
I started crying over this too.... Sometimes others don't know the nice feelings we are feeling towards them. When I hit 50, 52 I started saying what I was thinking...If I see a beautiful woman and I'm near her, I say, "I just wanted to tell you how pretty I think you are". If someone smells good, I tell them and ask what they are wearing..... It's little things which make us feel good .
Susan .i just love how you show nature and fun, shopping & make up and then turn it over to Little Poet to sweetly lay down the profound story at the end. . its quite an art you make.
Thank you Susan. in 2019 my husband was going through Chemotherapy for Leukemia. it was the most difficult time of our lives. Fast forward a couple of months to his Stem Cell Transplant. I worked in Home Support for over 20 years and was a support for many families during challenging times, but always refused any offers of help because I always felt I could manage and didn't want to bother anyone. I reached out to my brother. sister and his cousin and said I needed them and could they come. They all said yes. and staggered their times to be with me. I had someone with me for almost a month. The best thing I ever did was say I needed them and please help me. He's gone almost 8 months now, and I've been able to reach out when I needed someone.
I'm not sure if it's adulthood or our American Protestant work ethic or just pride, but "help!" is something we are far too slow to cry out. God made us for each other. The helper is often blessed even more than the sister in need. Prayers for you as you walk out these days without his physical presence.
I’m so glad you were able to go though the surgery you needed and best of all had a hand to hold. Loved the dress It looks beautiful on you. I’m not a Target dress fan either, but what a winner! Loved the watches and the ottoman. I have a bench at the end of the bed for my two little fur babies. Hugs, Caroline
So sorry for your loss Lee. That had to be a difficult journey. By asking for help you also gave your family the gift of helping to care for your husband and having that time with him.
@@maryspangler4557 Thank you Mary. Im praying for you. I had him 2 years longer as a Dr. said he wouldn't live past July '20. Many blessings to you on this tough road.
I used to be a dental assistant and I’ve held the hand of many patients. One lady I can remember was so terrified she dug her nails in my arm so hard making marks. I like to think I helped them through a terrifying experience for them.
Susan, I cried when you said you were alone giving birth! I was alone too when my son was born even though my husband was sitting right next to me! He had head phones on watching a ball game while I begged for someone to help me. He is my ex husband!
The story you told about the twenty something that held your hand…thank you for asking her and blessings to her that she offered. What a valuable life lesson for you both. You asked, and she learned to have empathy.
Sometimes when you feel overwhelmed with your life and you are sure there's nothing to hold on to.. A simple kindness from a stranger... Maybe that young woman wasn't sure if anyone needed her help... And you showed up
You did it again! You sent me back in time to a dentist appointment that started out like yours, but the ending to mine might make you laugh. I was around 35, my husband had left me for another woman, and I had an abscessed tooth. Although the antibiotics seemed to have done their work, the dental surgeon still wanted to put in a drainage tube. I was in no pain the day I went to the office, but I opted for the laughing gas, my first time having it. I started to think about there I was, a grown ass woman whose father took her to the dentist because her husband was gone. The tears started, the tech became alarmed and squeezed my hands. They ended up giving me enough gas that I didn't remember anything... until I came around in the recovery area with the worst pain of my life. This poor older woman timidly approached me with a single rose in her hand. She offered it to me saying, "The doctor likes all his patients to have a rose." I was SO PISSED at being in pain, and probably still loopy. I took the rose and shook it at her. "Do you know what he can do with this rose?" My highly amused father retrieved me and hauled me outta there before I could make any suggestions. Just think of that next time you go to the dentist and remind yourself how much better behaved you are than I was. :)
Little Poet, you just struck so many chords in my life. I was a dental assistant for over thirty years, in the same office. I have held so many hands over the years. I've had people tell me that if not for me they could not have had such and such procedure done! But, until now, hearing you say that about your young assistant did I really take those words to heart. To me my heart was already wanting to help or do whatever it was to make that patient feel comfortable, to feel like they were all that mattered at that time. I could write a book on this subject. Thank you, Susan, for letting me see that I did make a difference. I've thought many times if I really did or were patients just being nice. This was for me. Take my hand and I'll take yours. God bless you and your sweet Desi!
I'm sorry you had a rough week. I'm glad you are feeling better now. It's not easy to confront our fears. When I have, I almost always realized after that it wasn't as bad as I imagined it was going to be. Desi looks very happy with his new ottoman. I adore that little guy so much 🥰
This video touched my heart. I'm needing help now and don't know where to turn. I'm 60 and still working but need help cleaning and organizing. I'm only 60. I'm not scared, I'm wore out from my hard life. Reading the comments is like therapy for me. Thankyou susan and desi.
Do you have a friend that you can ask? Lots of people are willing to help if we can find the courage to ask. Sending you strength to get through this. Be good to yourself.
I am so glad to see that Dezi is using his new stool. ❤ When I was in college, my parents' dachsund jumped off of their bed and hurt her back. My father massaged her back and legs for months, and she was able to walk again. Your black dress is so pretty; looks like Dezi approves too. I am so glad that your oral surgery went well and someone was there to hold your hand. The human touch is so important, no matter what age.
Tonight you made me cry in recognition of how there is love available in the most unexpected places, if we are brave enough to ask for it. I have grown so fond of you and Desi and your videos! Someday I will send you an email with photos of how you have inspired me to decorate my little one-bedroom apartment. Thank you for your work -- it has given me courage in some dark times p.s. i LOVE your ottoman!
Lori Yearwood, Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words...What you said about finding love in unexpected places is oh so true and it made me tear up...I am not a techie person but the one thing I do enjoy and appreciate about social media is how it has the power to connect like minded Souls whom we may otherwise never meet...I was raised by my Granny & Granpa, so I am somewhat partial to old fashioned values and stuck in my ways of wanting to still write letters and send baked goods via snail mail...I just feel like the smallest & simplest of things are the most comforting & valuable...If you're on fb and would like a new Friend just look me up and send a request...Know that you are never alone in this sometimes scary world and that good folks like our Friend Susan do exist and truly care...Wishing you a BEAUTIFUL weekend~~~ 🤗KINDNESS🙏MATTERS❤
Desi is so cute and smart. I remember a nurse holding my hand right before delivery of my oldest daughter. I was 19 and I will never forget her kindness, even 42 years later! She just knew to comfort me.
I worked in dental offices for nine years and I’ve held many a hand or talked or reassured the patient whether they were three years old or 80 ... it’s a really good feeling when you can help someone else just a little ❤️
Seeing that beautiful boy Desi on his fancy ottoman, reminded me of something a work colleague said to me the other day. I was telling her that I have to get up in the night sometimes because my cat, Shirley 😄, scratches at the door to be let in or out. My colleague said "what a naughty cat." I replied "No, she isn't at all, she just can't open doors by herself." My colleague rolled her eyes 😂 but it's true isn't it...they are helpless in many ways and I think it must be hard to want to do something but not be equipped to do it and therefore we help those we love, be they human or fur babies. You look extra beautiful today Susan. Love to you and Desi from Shirley and me. 💕💕
I’m in tears right now! You and I could be soul sisters! You are so sweet and thoughtful! I put everybody ahead of me in life, and I know the reaction to rejection in my life. You asking that nurse to hold your hand was so brave. I’m happy she did that for you. I had breast cancer, a hysterectomy and a bacterial infection and total knee replacement this last year and I. Worn out and I need grace in my life right now! Thank you for being so sweet! ❤️
You are strong and brave, too. You made it through! I hope you rewarded yourself. And I recommend a treat every week! I go to the library and read new magazines, or find a book to take home. Sometimes a dvd. Sometimes I treat myself to a cookie or a donut. Take my lunch to the park. Go to the thrift store.
I worked for a periodontist for 23 years as a surgical assistant and you are not the only person who has fear. I had a male patient about 6’4 250lbs who cried when he saw the needle coming. Many patients asked to hold our hands and of course we complied till we needed the hand back. Laughing gas can also work as a truth serum. The things I once said under gas, oh my lol
I'm a nurse, working in birthing center. I bond with almost all my patients during the long time of labor and delivery and when it get to the most difficult time of delivery, I'm always on their side offer them if holding my hand can help them. Believe me at that time they try their best, they feel the energy and they squeeze super hard. No matter how much it hurts, it makes me feel helpful and happy and be part of their unforgettable moment. And I'm sure they will have good memory about a nurse who empowered them by holding their hands. Love all your beautiful dishes in thus video
Susan, I am so glad I stumbled on to your UA-cam channel. You make me laugh, cry, reflect, dream, envision a better me. You are like the embodiment of the kind of open, honest friend we all want as we become more mature women in our 60's.
You will look beautiful on your date and at Thanksgiving in your new dress! I had to laugh when you said you didn’t want to learn anything more about appliances!😊 When did everything get so complicated??🤷♀️ I am glad that your surgery is behind you.
Hi Susan, I remember 33 years ago when I was in labour with my second child and I was in hospital waiting for my husband to arrive. I was very scared because I knew what was coming and I asked the nurse if I could hold her hand and she held my hand until he got there. We need the loving touch of another human being when we are afraid. I'm 70 now but I've never forgotten her kindness. Take care till next week xxx
The awesome power of physical touch is so very grounding. It doesn't need to sensual or sexual. I have found myself over the past 4 or 5 years kind of closing myself off from physical contact... not sure why, but it happened. So when the occasional touch of a hand or a hug happens, it feels so intense. And sometimes, I just kind of melt into it... the warm embrace of someone, the little touch of a hand on mine. It can be terrifying and at the same time it can be so comforting. I am so happy you had that positive experience, and I'm fairly certain that the tech will remember you for a very long time. Loved this video, as I do all of them. Hugs, Penny Sue
I was on the other side of the request for support for 40 years as a bedside nurse in a hospital. Dont ever be afraid to ask when going through something like a health issue. Many of us go into health care for just that reason--- to make a difference when someone is sad, uncertain or scared.
I am a RN and no matter how busy I am or how bithcy I seem....PLEASE ask me, I will always...always take time to hold your hand. We are in this together. This world.
When a person is willing to show vulnerability, or fear, the response can be surprising, but it shouldn't be. Who has not felt alone, fearful, needing reassurance? We're all connected, a lesson that young woman now knows, because of you☘
Oh, Susan, thank you so much for this video. It was heart wrenching! I hope you feel better and I'm so glad you got to hold her hand. When I had my eye surgery to remove a portion of my eyelid, because of cancer, Dennis was allowed to come in, and he held my toe. He couldn't get any closer. But that brought me the comfort and courage that I needed for that moment. I'll never forget it. And when he was in ICU for his bypass surgery, I didn't dare get close to him because of all the wires and machines, but I held his toe. I guess we are toe holders! And in December, on the 2nd, we will be married for 50 years. Are we going anywhere? No, we want to stay home. Maybe out to dinner, but we just want to be alone, with each other. Thank you again for such a beautiful, peaceful video. Give my love to Dezi, and Darcy, and Lyla send theirs. Jeanie xxooo
I turned 60 last March. I'm so grateful to find your channel. I seem at a crossroads emotionally. Do I buy the "My best days are behind me"? Isn't that what our culture tells women? No, your channel affirms the hope welling within my heart, "The best is yet to come!" Oh and I just think Desi is scrumptious! I would love to hear his bio! BTW, when I had my wisdom taken out at 40, I started singing the soft rock piped throughout the clinic...so they told me! LOL🐾🦷
Hi Laura, I also turned 60 this past March. It's been a rough year. My husband had a major heart attack at Easter, only the 2nd person to survive this severe of a one, in the heart surgeons 26 years of practice. I am still dealing with the fears. I have anxiety and during Covid it got worse, finally turning into Fibromyalgia. Of course, after my husband's heart attack at 55 years, this flared worse. It was also a challenge to even go into hospitals with my fear of Covid and fibro flared up with so much pain, secondary to his situation of course. I kept having full on panic attacks, and could barely breathe, but for him I faced my fears. Sitting alone in Emerg having my 5th panic attack, a young women sitting behind me recognized it, she sat with me and showed me a technique she uses to deal with her panic attacks. We both had our mandatory masks on, but her eyes were warm, understanding and kind. Eventually, my husband came home, how blessed! I felt like I won the lottery jackpot, but recovery was slow and while I kept up with most things, there were just somethings I couldn't manage. A few neighbours, after I finding out what happened, stepped up and helped. Another neighbour that I mostly only waved to and didn't really know helped me the most. She even drove me to pick my husband up when he was released a day early and family couldn't be reached. She purchased last minute needed items for him that I had only found out about the night before. She sent me photos of the items to choose from by text message so I felt like I was shopping..sooo sweet!!! She even refused to take money for these things claiming she would have spent more on a fruit basket. Turns out she is a fellow Pisces! Pisces are so giving and caring and can be trusted, so then I knew it came from her heart. I had to learn to accept help and face my fears. While my husband was still in serious condition (in medical coma on life support) my step daughter arrived to help, instead she did nothing and caused drama, ve4bally attacking me because I was vulnerable. I didn't understand at the time, but as time past, I realized she has been jealous of me the whole time I raised her, her brother alongside my own two since her mother hasn't ever been good parent..my step daughter therefore needed double attention from my husband and was jealous of our closeness and felt deprived anytime he didn't spend with her, or gave to me. Anyhow, she took this horrible traumatic time to take advantage of my weakness. It has been a nightmare. The kindness of strangers and neighbours are what got me through, that and faith.
Thirty -eight years ago today I gave birth to my 2nd child, my son. They took me back to the labor room and told my husband to wait by the reception desk and somebody would be out to get him shorty. Well, things happened very quickly and they are rushing me down the hallway on a stretcher yelling don't push! And I'm yelling where's my husband?!! A nurse said somebody will go get him now. And I said, Can I hold your hand? And she said absolutely! I can still see her face leaning over me and the powerful way she held my hand. I think about her when its his birthday, like today. The worst fear of having any surgery are the days leading up to it. So glad you took care of yourself, we need you happy and healthy!
Dez is living the life👏 I think you need a smaller black dress. Fools that we are we thought that was king Desi's step stool when clearly it's his throne 😂
I had surgery to put a Stent in my heart one day after my husband passed from cancer. I was alone, except I knew God was with me, and so was my husband that day. I had a nurse who hugged me before and after surgery, that physical touch meant so very much. God bless her.
I have always had a problem with asking for help. When I was in the hospital and my doctor was telling me that I was going to need to undergo emergency surgery, I had the most compassionate nurse that I am certain God placed in my room at that time. She was working on me and as the doctor talked, I felt her squeezing my hand and I wondered what she was doing. As soon as the doctor left, she looked at me as I was fighting back a major cry and she said that was a lot for anyone to hear and asked me if she could hug me. I cried in her arms and was so moved by her compassion......I will never forget how God had the right person with me at the right time! Glad your surgery is over; teeth work is NO fun. Love the ottoman and it seems Desi does as well!! Here's to a much better week ahead for you Susan. Love you lots, Debbie 😘❤
I cried listening to you say you asked someone hold your hand and that they did. I have always been afraid to ask for what I need. I'm working on it and you made my day. You are so brave sharing the bad along with the good.
When I was 16 my Dad died. For years, my Dad has told me I was smart & I would go to college. Now my Mom told me there was no money for me to go to college. I told her not to worry. I went to my “do nothing” guidance counselor and asked for applications for scholarships. He told me it was Friday and to come back Monday. I sat down in a chair in his office and refused to leave. I asked again but this time with a bit more conviction. Yes, he reluctantly dug around and found me applications and said now will you go. I told him gladly and held my head up and walked out. Long story short I won two scholarships which completely paid for four years of college. This would prove to be a pivotal moment in my life because years later married with a 12 year old son my husband decided he was tired of being married and “ had to find himself”. If I had not earned that degree I very well might not have been able to support us... but I did and managed to keep him in private school from fifth grade through law school where he graduated top ten in his Harvard law class and, oh, he also earned another degree simultaneously in Chinese. None of this would have happened if I had not asked, demanded help. I learned to stand up for myself and ask ( and if necessary demand) help. Needing help us not weakness. Needing help and not asking is weaker. Thank you for helping me to remember this which happened 57 years ago.
I love that I found you. It has been tough for me, entering the mid 60s alone. Your video about the elephant bridge really got to me. Elephants are now my spirit animal. This video just blew my mind. This week for me: oral surgery for one infected tooth to be removed; I bought a new 4 quart crockpot; and I bought a new ottoman, the main color being burgundy. Your story about hand holding, I too was a 15 year old having a baby all alone. Wow. Well all I have to say is if elephants are now my spirit animal, you are my spirit guide. Unreal. Thank you for being. Edit: You asked about needing something and being afraid to ask for it. Well, that would be right now. I feel so alone and need some guidance to help me navigate these deep waters of being a woman of a certain age. And also - I would love a hug. It has been painfully long since I was wrapped up in a hug by anyone. I forget almost what that feels like. It's okay, I am finding my "inner elephant" lol and I will figure it all out. Thank you for being here and sharing. .
It is a strength, not a weakness, to ask for help when we need it. As a RN/ARNP of 50+ years, I always felt that the human caring side of nursing was most rewarding. A tender touch and an empathetic attitude is what's most needed in our high-tech world. And now a question--what is the brand and shade of the lovely lipstick you are wearing in this video? I'd love to get one for myself. Thank you Susan, I always look forward to seeing you and Desi every week.
She was willing to help you because she, at her age, is already a compassionate soul, and is fortunate enough to understand the reciprocity of extending one's self. Lucky her. Lucky you. Happy Holidays to you and yours.
Susan, I just love how vulnerable & open you are .. As you radiate humility, beauty & what is good & right in this world ! I just love you & Desi too ! You make a great team , A package deal..& both have such adorable smiles !!
Aunt Susan we know how tough it’s to go through such surgery and sickness but we also know how strong you are so stay hopeful and feel better soon keeping you in our prayers happy thanksgiving in advance best wishes for you your family friends
You never know who you are helping. I have been putting off getting a tooth pulled for a very long time. I'm afraid. I'm on blood thinners and I feel anxiety about going off of them for a bit so I can get this stupid tooth pulled. Listening to you, I feel like I CAN do this, so THANK YOU!
Oh Susan, you are so so beautiful. overcoming any fear is enormous. The beauty that radiates from you with your videos is striking. You leave such an impression on me, and give tremendous inspiration. Thankyou so very much. I am in a bad marriage at the moment and can not leave due to the economy at this time. I was threatened to be thrown out two times in the past five weeks. I have no where to go and it is terrifying to me. I am not used to this kind of living and now at 64 years old. I had a beautiful marriage for twenty years until he passed away, and now this.. So yes, I am filled with fear. I know some day I will get out of here and I know that it will take a lot of courage to go and make a way for myself like you did. Thank you for your honesty and caring to share yourself with us all... love to you...💜
Susan your hair looks extra fabulous today. Loved your "holding hand" story. It made me cry. It reminds me of when my two daughters and I went to a haunted house about 8 years ago...I was 52 and they were 30 and 15 respectively. My daughters were going on and on about how Mom is never afraid of anything, she's going to laugh at everybody being scared...well, I was scared. I was at the front of the line and there were more people (strangers) with us going through this haunted house. I couldn't make myself go forward and my daughters were egging me on to keep going so when I looked back at them and they seen the fear in me, they both yelled out "mommy!", they ran to me and put me between them and held my hands and wouldn't let me go. I felt like a child and I felt they were treating me like one, but it was so sweet the way they wanted to get me through that. I know it's not the same as going through what you went through but I can relate to your point on how you felt like a scared child...I felt that too. It was so weird for me, so unexpected. TFS
It's hard learning to be an adult on my own for the first time in 64 years. I keep thinking that it must be important in my life lessons to go through this too. No more drama to be involved in now. Very quiet and peaceful yet very lonely. It's been a year now since I became a widow. My children are grown with children and full time jobs. I keep thinking that I will figure out who I am without all my daily familiar life experiences but nothing yet. The day after my husband died I had a tooth break. I know what you mean about feeling so alone at the dentist. Somehow I just don't feel as brave as I did when I was taking care of my family. Now there is no one to take of but myself. I find it interesting that this is so hard for me. It's the little human interactions that can mean so much. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. It's interesting to have this type of platform, one of the good things about the internet that I'm thankful for.
Oh, Susan - love the hand holding story so much! How wonderful to be supported through a scary time. I also adore Desi on his maroon throne! Love to you and heal well!❤️
Hi Beautiful Susan and handsome little Desi. Oral surgery is no fun, but that was so lovely when you asked that young girl if she would hold your hand and she did, that shows compassion. I love that ottoman you bought for Desi to hop on. Pyjamas look very stylish. Thanks Susan for a lovely video. Hope you feel better soon. Love to both of you.💟💙
Great story Susan about your oral surgery experience. I too have feared that chair for years. Making appointments would cause such anxiety it would take me weeks and months to make an appointment. That claustrophobic feeling whilst a person's hand is in my mouth or touching my face. Ugh!! Our stories aren't the same but like so many others I'm sure we can relate to that fear and anxiety while alone or not for an array of reasons. Thank you for being so so open and vulnerable with your life and making people like me feel normal and uplifted. How brave of you to ask for help. I struggle with that so much from childhood. Your right that young girl will always remember the connection she had with you. You touched her heart😊❤🇨🇦
A year ago, I had minor surgery to remove a suspicious enlarged freckle. The surgeon, much to my relief, seemed experienced and capable. He was training another young doctor on technique. As I lay on the table, fear was at the forefront. I was lying face down, head to the side, and I could see the young trainee doctor nearby. I saw his hand, and badly wished I could ask him to hold my hand, because I was so nervous about the procedure. Instead of asking, I began a meditation that I had so often practiced and was soon drifted away to another location in my mind. Still, to this day, I wish I had the courage to ask the young man to hold my hand. Next time, I will. Thank you for your LittlePoet channel, which I have recently discovered. I am the same age as you, and widowed for twenty years. Your channel brings peace to my life and inspires me in many ways. 🌺🌼🌸
I absolutely love your visits with us, Susan! You have such a gift and you generously share it each week. You make us laugh, you make us cry and you inspire us. Thank you for being a blessing to so many!! Love you and Desi! XOXO
I was a nuclear medicine technician in the early to mid 1980s. Back then, the imaging instrument consisted of a large, heavy disk about 3 feet wide that I had to lower very close to the patient in order to get a good diagnostic image. It was terrifying for patients, especially when I had to image the head and upper body. I often held my patient's hand to get them through the experience, and I was always happy to offer that bit of care and compassion. I had a great deal of empathy for my patients. It's why I only lasted 5 years in the field -- I was often dealing with people battling cancer, and sometimes the cancer won. I had a hard time leaving it at the door at the end of the day. I found myself unable to sleep and getting very depressed because I felt I was part of a system that was failing people. I still work in healthcare, but now I'm more on the regulatory side of things. I feel unequivocally that my current employer is doing good work, and I feel much less conflicted about my life. When my parents got older, I spent an increasing amount of time accompanying them in the hospital, and I noticed there are few nurses and techs over 35, so I suspect the burnout I suffered is fairly common.
I get a ottoman for my "Buddy" to make sure he can make it on my bed. It is an antique and it too high to jump up to it. He is too old to jump that high. Thank Susan for suggesting this. God Bless You and Desi❤️
Anyone with a heart would have held your hand . I asked a nurse to pray with me and hold my hand while I was awake during a painful procedure . I had no pain and no bruising. God was there and she was a Angel🌟
I send a hug and a wish for healing to the brave and sweet 15-year-old girl you were, who brought a beautiful soul into the world so courageously, and the beautiful, brave woman you've become.
I love your content, Susan, but I also love your sense of humor. Your delivery is so deadpan and so funny, it gives me such a lift. Have a good week! ❤️
Your story brought tears to my eyes. I find your life extraordinary when you share your lovely fashions and very delicious casserole meals. You truly are a kind caring sole and show us it’s okay to show vulnerable feelings of true humanity. Sometimes I wonder why we work so hard hiding that fact. It’s a joy to visit you and I look forward to more of your stories and that darling Desi. He’s so cute sitting on his new ottoman. Blessings to you both.
Thank you Sarah so much for such a thought brilliant observation....why do we as humans at times want to hide our vulnerability....so afraid to ask what we so desperately need....thank you for a wonderous question....xxoo happy Sunday to you! xxoo Sues & Dez
I had a right hip replacement in August. At 62 I have a very physically demanding job. I recovered well and was back at work at 6 weeks postoperative. Too much too soon. Developed swelling which lead to deep vein thrombosis and pulmonary embolism. Missed on a first ER visit. Picked up 4 days later at another ER. I'm back at work again. That was all very rough to go through living alone. Good friends did their best. The hardest thing...I had to put my 12 year old chihuahua to sleep last Monday. She had a collapsed trachea and meds no longer helped. She followed me from room to room. I can't tell you how much I miss her. I was so lucky to have her by my side during my months of rehab. Got to spend time with her that I never would have had if I was working. Her name was Chichi. She lost her first mom to covid. I was lucky to have her for 16 months.
Every week is such a treat to tune into your channel! There is humor, beautiful things to see in such well curated videos and above all; always inspiring thoughts and life lessons! Asking for help
Susan, I am so grateful for this share...and for your assured healing path! Sorry the last few months have been so challenging for you. Brighter days and months ahead! You give us all courage to do our best, whether its showing up looking "sassy" for my 50th HS class reunion, or taking on health challenges with courage, grace and "asking" for help when we need it. Bless you !
Ms. LittlePoet, you are wonderful in every sense of the meaning. You're not alone, you video's have brought inspiration to me and many others with graceful and laughter. No. you don't have 'permission' to leave us all for weeks. Your health will be healed quickly and your charm, elegance, inner beautiful self will BE OKAY. Let Go and allow to be and heal. ❤❤✝✝🌺🌺
Your story about asking for help...touched my heart! A lot of us are so used to being the strong anchor in our families that we don't ask for help out of fear of rejection or just not wanting to appear weak to those who have depended on us! And then there's the fear of rejection...oh my...so many layers. Yet you were brave, you asked, you received and give me hope that when I ask, I, too will receive. At 75+ I am so tired of being the strong one. It's my turn to receive help and I hope and pray it is there for me. Thank you for being you, Susan! 💝💝💝
Excuse me while I get a tissue. Your talk today was so touching Susan, you brought tears to my eyes. Your presentations are so professionally edited. You really lift thus 77 year olds' spirits. Just love the ottoman you got for your sweet companion. He does too! Thanks for sharing your intimacy with us. Enjoy your date.
Susan, I have found so much courage in your videos. I lost my husband to cancer this year and we were married for 40 years. I am 61 years old and feeling lost and trying to decided where do i go from here. Not by choice but we never had children and I find that i am looking for a new identity. Who am I without the love of my life. I love watching you and hearing your stories and it gives me such courage and motivation to find who I am without him. Thank you so much for sharing with us all.
You brought tears t my eyes with your surgery story. I had my gallbladder out and was pretty scared the nurse came in and told me it was all about me today and they were going to take very good care of me. It really helped to ease my fear. I'm glad you have that behind you and the nurse was there for you. I wish you a speedy recovery. Also, you looked very nice, I do like your dress!
You are a very sincere soul. Thank you for inspiring me. You look at items with a loving heart. You respect what belonged to others. My Mom would love you. She was so full of care to deal with people, her surroundings. Gracious. Loved her red lipstick and accessories.
This made me teary eyed we’ve all had those very fearful moments in our lives. I held the hand of my anesthesiology person when I went in for a d&c after a miscarriage at 23. That young girl had empathy and that’s a wonderful trait to have. I am glad you are ok❤
My Mommy passed two years ago. She was in a nursing home, and I was there' as much as Covid rules permitted. Mommy asked staff to hold her hand. She asked them to give her a kiss, and they kissed her forehead. She was so respected and appreciated. They treated her so kindly. I'm so grateful for those good hearts. Bless you. I'm at the point of seeing Dad go downhill now. I need help and backup. I'm burning out. Regardless, he won't know. I'll do my utmost. Today made final arrangements. Just to ensure that when time comes, I stay by his side and don't detour for technical details. Many have backed away. Covid is a blanket excuse. Zoom and phone are available, but people have copped out. So I wrote him a thank you on behalf of myself, My departed Mom, brother.... And in name of those who don't contact him, I wrote how his support changed their lives. It will go with him. Yet, That same letter must be read by him while he can absorb it. Thank you for being such a strong example, And a safe Haven for others.🙏
I had a small procedure in my doctors office a few years ago and the doctor asked a nurse come in the room. She held my hand the whole time, maybe about 6 minutes or so. I was so grateful because I was afraid. I will never forget that. That small gesture meant so very much to me! I love watching your videos! I can relate to many things that you talk about. 💗
I had my hand held by one of the nurses 3 yrs ago when i had a sinus operation, i was not keen on being "knocked out" I often ask for help now. so many things are different since Covid i am getting lost in the system. All winter i have had a skin infection on my foot but getting to a doctor is taking weeks and when i go there are several things wrong. one thing at a time it is improving. Thanks for your video.
Oh, Susan, you remind me so much of myself because I have dental phobia and get so anxious. The power of touch is calming and healing. I've learned from experience that there are so many good people out there that have empathy and good hearts. That young girl in the dental office that held your hand cried because she thought to herself, "I can help and be a godsend to someone today," and she went home after work knowing that she made a difference. So you both were blessed. So happy everything went well and you're gonna be fine. ❤
As my husband was dying I was afraid so I went to the nurses station a d asked the nurse on duty that night if he would come to the room and sit with me. He said he had paperwork to do and shouldn’t leave the desk. I went back to the room, within a few minutes he came to the loom with his paperwork … he was young maybe late 20’s. I felt so grateful , after a few minutes t looked over to him and he looked anxious … my thought was he maybe never sat as someone died … of course he was probably thinking he should have not left the desk 🤔😊… so t to.d him I’m okay now so you can go back. So yes asking for help is a good thing … this happens 20 years ago, I wonder if that impacted his life or career as a health provider. Me on the other hand have not learned … apart from that time I never ask for help. I am 74 and today is the day I realize I must ask for help … I’m in a situation that I cannot seem to be able to fix or ignore … todays the day … thanks LittlePoet for todays posting
My heart is touched by all you endured as a teenager, I'm not surprised that memory surfaced, and I truly hope you will feel lightened emotionally as you continue to heal physically. Many Blessings, Joy
The beauty of your videos touch my heart in ways I can't put into words! As soon as I launch my channel, which you have help to inspire, I will let you know!
Im so glad you reached out and the young lady reached back. Im sorry you went through that. I needed to hear this tonight being so sick for 3 weeks. Its gonna be alright. Just one day at a time. I pray a speedy recovery for you.
I’m trying not to be scared as I’m going into the hospital Monday morning for a total knee replacement. I’m telling myself just like when I was younger and having babies that others do it, so can I. 😅
Hello Sher!!! You got this!!! My best friend has been through that surgery and she was fine and shocked it wasn't half as bad as she had been told it would be!!! She just signed dup for dance classes this week!!!! My love to you and yours....and if you get a chance, give us an update on your surgery! xxoo Susan & Dez
Marlene peters- sherjoy. Don't be afraid. I had a knee replacement on my right knee and then the left knee they were done a year apart. They do such marvelous surgery now. I had no pain. You sleep quite a bit. My surgeries were both done early morning and I was up walking the next morning. I wanted to share this experience with you. Take care. Let us and me know how you do. Food was good too. Like a seven course meal.
Good luck to you sherjoy on your upcoming operation. I’m sure all will be well. Huge success with knee surgery nowdays. 🌸
Honestly you will be ok. It goes by fast.
Sherjoy, I'll pray that the doctor's hands that perform your surgery will be guided to give you a successful and safe outcome. It's okay to be nervous and scared (we're all that way with surgery), but know that we care, are thinking of you, and wishing you all the best. You'll get through this! Love and Hugs. ♥🙏
Over half of my life I’ve been afraid. Afraid of what others think of me, afraid of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time,afraid of not being a good enough person…I was always fearful. In my mid 30’s I learned I was the problem. Allowing fear to rule me. Last year when my husband told me he had filed for a divorce, I became fearful again. At 69 I was going to be alone again and living on just social security. Oh hell, I passed fearful, I panicked! It took a little while, but once I really looked at everything I realized I would be ok…and I am!
You are a warrior!
Good for you 👍 👏 ❤️
We are always stronger than we think. Being independent is so rewarding.
I'm glad your good,We are always gonna be good❤️😁
What a woman! A brave woman. ❤️
I have to add, last year I had a partial hysterectomy. They found a mass in my stomach also. Before I went into surgery I asked if I could say a prayer before they put me under. I said a prayer the anesthesiologist said thank you, and while they were administering the anesthesia, my surgeon came over and held my hand until I fell asleep… that kind gesture has stayed with me❤ I might also add I have a deep faith in Jesus Christ as my savior and at first I was uncomfortable asking to say a prayer but then I thought why would I be uncomfortable this is who I am in Christ🙏
Amen 🙏
Faithy, i pray for you. You can be strong. I hope you are well.
After being misdiagnosed for months with "women.s issues", the day before my wife turned 65, doctors found a tumor the size of a football, in my honey. Ovarian cancer stage 3-C. Five years later she became my Angel. Her symptoms few medical providers are trained to recognize. Ovarian cancer impacts 1 in 80 women, and kills a woman every 90 minutes. I hope to someone educate providers so it can be diagnosed early and no longer be the silent killer. 😇
Amen!!
I had a hysterectomy a few years ago and had heart complications from anesthesia. I was out for quite a long time and an abnormal heart rhythms which scared my surgeon. When I partially woke a nurse was on one side and my surgeon on the other side with his hand upon me. I overheard them both praying for me. I will never forget that experience. It was a Catholic hospital I was in, but I would not think too many healthcare workers would pray for a patient undergoing complications. I was certainly blessed.
Amen twice!
22yrs ago I was going through my divorce. I was so scared to walk into Court by myself in front of the Judge and face my ex husband. I was wishing my brother or any of my sisters to offer to come with me. They never did 😢. I’d mentally prepared myself days before and built the courage to walk in by myself and finalize that chapter of my life. It was incredible, surreal really. It didn’t take long at all for one person to Order an end to a marriage. Walking out of there I’d felt a painful heaviness lifted off my shoulders. I’d learned that day how STRONG I am by myself. ✨🌷🙏🌷✨
Alice at the same year I. Agreed to end a 25 yr terrible marriage. I was also terrified but a heavy burden was gone after it was over
@@suskelleykelley7241 @Suskelley Kelly. I’m Sooo Proud of you! We are Survivors.! Everything, very struggle or achievement is now OURS Only !!!!! Sending Special Hugs. 💕🧸💕
I can relate my dear ❤, God holds our hand when we fear the unknown. Bless you. I am 62, was married 21 years and now 1 year later I still am recovering from narcissistic abuse. Live with mom but I am alive and grateful to know I am not alone as there are many women like us!
@@chrystalbazan2200 Hi Chrystal 💕. My heart goes out to you I completely understand your pain. Here’s my next story. After my divorce I’d met someone who was a narcissist, unfortunately I was blinded over heals in love with him. At the time I did not realize what being in a turbulent abusive relationship I was with this total narcissistic man. That was the hard part I know the pattern, everything is our fault, we don’t behave, we don’t deserve anything bcs of our behavior. He eventually cheated on me and I was told to read between the lines bcs I didn’t deserve an explanation. I am still recovering from that up to this date of ALL the residue he left inside of me. I held ON to God’s merciful Hand and moved on to create a new Peaceful life for me. Chrystal we Got this!!! 💕👊💕 NO man is worth enough to take ANYTHING, ANYTHING from US. Let them think they have 😂😂😂. Unknowingly THEY, themselves GAVE US the STRENGTH & POWER WITHIN US!!!! I Am at Peace. Create your own Happiness 🥰 We matter! We deserve it! Love Yourself and pamper Yourself daily. Sending warm Hugs 🧸🧸🧸. 💕🌷💕🌷💕🌷
@@alicecastillo2352 Alice, it’s so helpful knowing that we are not alone.
From a former nurse who left the field due to burnout, thank you for sharing your story. It's vulnerable moments like those that made me want to be a nurse and that I miss the most. A patient asking for that type of support is a true gift to a nurse, not the other way around. Thank you for another beautiful video!
I’m a nurse, too and I totally agree. It makes us feel close to our patients. ❤️
I was a nurse for many years and those were the moments that made it all worthwhile plus many others.
I’m not a nurse. Nurses are angels on earth. Thank you nurses past and present.❤
40 years a nurse, retired in 2019 and its true.
Even with the shortage and Covid I'm still hearing stories of caring and compassion about nurses, even from my own 90 year old mom who was in the hospital.18 days. Kudos to those nurses and all health care workers still out there, we do love our patients !!
I’m a retired nurse who left nursing due to the stresses of working during COVUD. I muss my patients so much that I cry sometimes. We as nurses strive to offer others comfort during stressful and sometimes painful times in our patients lives. Being a nurse is who I am. It was never a job to me.
I’m dealing with breast cancer. Just newly retired and thought I would be able to do all the things I put off when I worked for 50 years. Life has a way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it.
Awesome and colorful PJ’s!! ❤
Sending blessings to you. Many are praying for your recovery.
I had the most loving and caring nurse, Jackie at Lahey Clinic ICU in Burlington, MA. I will never ever forget her loving kindness toward a perfect stranger. What a beautiful human being she was! How blessed I felt.
The first medical procedure i had after my husband pass away i felt so alone and was afraid. The nurse asked me if i was okay and i told her he was always with me in the past and i felt so alone, she came over and held my hand during the whole procedure, it made all the difference. ❣️
Mary, i felt the very same emotions, at the first couple medical procedures after my wife went to heaven. I expect i.ll be anxious at future medical events for a long time. My wife had been with me, at my side, for everything for decades. And i had been blessed to be with her, at her side, holding her hand, for her 100+ doses of chemo, a couple hundred medical appointments & tests, her last 5 years, fighting ovarian cancer. I now think i know the comfort & compsssion & love she felt from me by her side, and holding the hands of my honey, now my angel. 😇
My breast surgeon held my hand right before they put me under for breast cancer surgery. It meant so much to me. Fifteen years later, I'm still here. Thank you for this lovely video.
Amen and keep the faith!
Susan, you don't know it, but you were holding my hand on Tuesday November 1st of this year. I was diagnosed a month ago with her two positive carcinoma in my breast. I had surgery to remove it and two lymph nodes. I start chemo soon and then radiation but they are sure they got it all during the surgery. My daughter set me up with little poet videos on a loop for me to listen to while I was in recovery because she knows how much I love you and how soothing your voice is to me. And it really did make me feel better and I woke up and my daughter was sitting with me and your voice was playing in my ear. I know it sounds silly but I thought you would understand. I wasn't going to say anything until I watched your video tonight and I just had to write and tell you how you held my hand on November 1st. Love you and Desi!
Oh Stacy...how you made me cry! Thank God you made it through and if I had known, Desi and I would fly out and give you a big hug in person!!! My love to you always and always....and if you get time, please let me know how you are doing! xxoo Sues & Dez
Stacy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I think it's wonderful that Susan "held your hand" while you were in recovery. I don't think that's silly at all. May you heal quickly and completely!
@@Elizabeth-arb22 thank you so much!
Stacy, you have a wonderful caring daughter. What she did for you speaks volumes of how much insight she has and how loving she is. Too put those Little Poet videos together so you would feel comforted. And they did help you! Please hug your daughter for me and every women who wishes they had that love in their life. She is special. Get well, Blessings to you ~
I started crying over this too.... Sometimes others don't know the nice feelings we are feeling towards them. When I hit 50, 52 I started saying what I was thinking...If I see a beautiful woman and I'm near her, I say, "I just wanted to tell you how pretty I think you are".
If someone smells good, I tell them and ask what they are wearing..... It's little things which make us feel good .
Susan .i just love how you show nature and fun, shopping & make up and then turn it over to Little Poet to sweetly lay down the profound story at the end. . its quite an art you make.
Yes.
She is so very special
Thank you Susan. in 2019 my husband was going through Chemotherapy for Leukemia. it was the most difficult time of our lives. Fast forward a couple of months to his Stem Cell Transplant. I worked in Home Support for over 20 years and was a support for many families during challenging times, but always refused any offers of help because I always felt I could manage and didn't want to bother anyone. I reached out to my brother. sister and his cousin and said I needed them and could they come. They all said yes. and staggered their times to be with me. I had someone with me for almost a month. The best thing I ever did was say I needed them and please help me. He's gone almost 8 months now, and I've been able to reach out when I needed someone.
I'm not sure if it's adulthood or our American Protestant work ethic or just pride, but "help!" is something we are far too slow to cry out. God made us for each other. The helper is often blessed even more than the sister in need. Prayers for you as you walk out these days without his physical presence.
I’m so glad you were able to go though the surgery you needed and best of all had a hand to hold. Loved the dress It looks beautiful on you. I’m not a Target dress fan either, but what a winner! Loved the watches and the ottoman. I have a bench at the end of the bed for my two little fur babies. Hugs, Caroline
So sorry for your loss Lee. That had to be a difficult journey. By asking for help you also gave your family the gift of helping to care for your husband and having that time with him.
@@maryspangler4557 Thank you Mary. Im praying for you. I had him 2 years longer as a Dr. said he wouldn't live past July '20. Many blessings to you on this tough road.
God bless you
I used to be a dental assistant and I’ve held the hand of many patients. One lady I can remember was so terrified she dug her nails in my arm so hard making marks. I like to think I helped them through a terrifying experience for them.
May God bless you for your tender hearted kindness.
Susan, I cried when you said you were alone giving birth! I was alone too when my son was born even though my husband was sitting right next to me! He had head phones on watching a ball game while I begged for someone to help me. He is my ex husband!
The story you told about the twenty something that held your hand…thank you for asking her and blessings to her that she offered. What a valuable life lesson for you both. You asked, and she learned to have empathy.
Sometimes when you feel overwhelmed with your life and you are sure there's nothing to hold on to..
A simple kindness from a stranger...
Maybe that young woman wasn't sure if anyone needed her help...
And you showed up
You did it again! You sent me back in time to a dentist appointment that started out like yours, but the ending to mine might make you laugh. I was around 35, my husband had left me for another woman, and I had an abscessed tooth. Although the antibiotics seemed to have done their work, the dental surgeon still wanted to put in a drainage tube. I was in no pain the day I went to the office, but I opted for the laughing gas, my first time having it. I started to think about there I was, a grown ass woman whose father took her to the dentist because her husband was gone. The tears started, the tech became alarmed and squeezed my hands. They ended up giving me enough gas that I didn't remember anything... until I came around in the recovery area with the worst pain of my life. This poor older woman timidly approached me with a single rose in her hand. She offered it to me saying, "The doctor likes all his patients to have a rose." I was SO PISSED at being in pain, and probably still loopy. I took the rose and shook it at her. "Do you know what he can do with this rose?" My highly amused father retrieved me and hauled me outta there before I could make any suggestions. Just think of that next time you go to the dentist and remind yourself how much better behaved you are than I was. :)
Little Poet, you just struck so many chords in my life. I was a dental assistant for over thirty years, in the same office. I have held so many hands over the years. I've had people tell me that if not for me they could not have had such and such procedure done! But, until now, hearing you say that about your young assistant did I really take those words to heart. To me my heart was already wanting to help or do whatever it was to make that patient feel comfortable, to feel like they were all that mattered at that time. I could write a book on this subject. Thank you, Susan, for letting me see that I did make a difference. I've thought many times if I really did or were patients just being nice. This was for me. Take my hand and I'll take yours. God bless you and your sweet Desi!
believe it or not when you asked for help you healed part of the trauma for your 15 year old self....who, by the way, does still exist ❤
I'm sorry you had a rough week. I'm glad you are feeling better now. It's not easy to confront our fears. When I have, I almost always realized after that it wasn't as bad as I imagined it was going to be. Desi looks very happy with his new ottoman. I adore that little guy so much 🥰
I cried at the "holding my hand" story. Such a simple gesture but so beautiful! :)
Me too!
me too!
It helps, me too
Me too..
This video touched my heart. I'm needing help now and don't know where to turn. I'm 60 and still working but need help cleaning and organizing. I'm only 60. I'm not scared, I'm wore out from my hard life. Reading the comments is like therapy for me. Thankyou susan and desi.
sending you lots of love!!!! We women are mighty!!!!
Do you have a friend that you can ask? Lots of people are willing to help if we can find the courage to ask. Sending you strength to get through this. Be good to yourself.
I am so glad to see that Dezi is using his new stool. ❤ When I was in college, my parents' dachsund jumped off of their bed and hurt her back. My father massaged her back and legs for months, and she was able to walk again. Your black dress is so pretty; looks like Dezi approves too. I am so glad that your oral surgery went well and someone was there to hold your hand. The human touch is so important, no matter what age.
Tonight you made me cry in recognition of how there is love available in the most unexpected places, if we are brave enough to ask for it. I have grown so fond of you and Desi and your videos! Someday I will send you an email with photos of how you have inspired me to decorate my little one-bedroom apartment. Thank you for your work -- it has given me courage in some dark times p.s. i LOVE your ottoman!
May God bless you!
Lori Yearwood, Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words...What you said about finding love in unexpected places is oh so true and it made me tear up...I am not a techie person but the one thing I do enjoy and appreciate about social media is how it has the power to connect like minded Souls whom we may otherwise never meet...I was raised by my Granny & Granpa, so I am somewhat partial to old fashioned values and stuck in my ways of wanting to still write letters and send baked goods via snail mail...I just feel like the smallest & simplest of things are the most comforting & valuable...If you're on fb and would like a new Friend just look me up and send a request...Know that you are never alone in this sometimes scary world and that good folks like our Friend Susan do exist and truly care...Wishing you a BEAUTIFUL weekend~~~ 🤗KINDNESS🙏MATTERS❤
Desi is so cute and smart. I remember a nurse holding my hand right before delivery of my oldest daughter. I was 19 and I will never forget her kindness, even 42 years later! She just knew to comfort me.
Both you and Desi are adorable! His little face makes my heart smile!
I worked in dental offices for nine years and I’ve held many a hand or talked or reassured the patient whether they were three years old or 80 ... it’s a really good feeling when you can help someone else just a little ❤️
Seeing that beautiful boy Desi on his fancy ottoman, reminded me of something a work colleague said to me the other day. I was telling her that I have to get up in the night sometimes because my cat, Shirley 😄, scratches at the door to be let in or out. My colleague said "what a naughty cat." I replied "No, she isn't at all, she just can't open doors by herself." My colleague rolled her eyes 😂 but it's true isn't it...they are helpless in many ways and I think it must be hard to want to do something but not be equipped to do it and therefore we help those we love, be they human or fur babies. You look extra beautiful today Susan. Love to you and Desi from Shirley and me. 💕💕
I’m in tears right now! You and I could be soul sisters! You are so sweet and thoughtful! I put everybody ahead of me in life, and I know the reaction to rejection in my life. You asking that nurse to hold your hand was so brave. I’m happy she did that for you. I had breast cancer, a hysterectomy and a bacterial infection and total knee replacement this last year and I. Worn out and I need grace in my life right now! Thank you for being so sweet! ❤️
You are strong and brave, too. You made it through! I hope you rewarded yourself. And I recommend a treat every week! I go to the library and read new magazines, or find a book to take home. Sometimes a dvd. Sometimes I treat myself to a cookie or a donut. Take my lunch to the park. Go to the thrift store.
My love ot you Neta..my Sista!!!! :) xxoo Happy Sunday!
Praying you feel up to full health before you know it. You’ve got this in the bag. ❤
What a year! Hope you are well now x
Neta, i wish you a speedy recovery, how very brave you’ve been!
I worked for a periodontist for 23 years as a surgical assistant and you are not the only person who has fear. I had a male patient about 6’4 250lbs who cried when he saw the needle coming. Many patients asked to hold our hands and of course we complied till we needed the hand back. Laughing gas can also work as a truth serum. The things I once said under gas, oh my lol
I'm a nurse, working in birthing center. I bond with almost all my patients during the long time of labor and delivery and when it get to the most difficult time of delivery, I'm always on their side offer them if holding my hand can help them. Believe me at that time they try their best, they feel the energy and they squeeze super hard. No matter how much it hurts, it makes me feel helpful and happy and be part of their unforgettable moment. And I'm sure they will have good memory about a nurse who empowered them by holding their hands. Love all your beautiful dishes in thus video
God bless you
Susan, I am so glad I stumbled on to your UA-cam channel. You make me laugh, cry, reflect, dream, envision a better me. You are like the embodiment of the kind of open, honest friend we all want as we become more mature women in our 60's.
You will look beautiful on your date and at Thanksgiving in your new dress! I had to laugh when you said you didn’t want to learn anything more about appliances!😊 When did everything get so complicated??🤷♀️ I am glad that your surgery is behind you.
Hi Susan, I remember 33 years ago when I was in labour with my second child and I was in hospital waiting for my husband to arrive. I was very scared because I knew what was coming and I asked the nurse if I could hold her hand and she held my hand until he got there. We need the loving touch of another human being when we are afraid. I'm 70 now but I've never forgotten her kindness.
Take care till next week xxx
You’re such a wonderful story teller. Please never stop because you’re a true inspiration to so many. Be well and know you are wanted and needed 🙏🏻😇
I love how warm and inviting your home is. The love that you put into choosing everything...shows.
The awesome power of physical touch is so very grounding. It doesn't need to sensual or sexual. I have found myself over the past 4 or 5 years kind of closing myself off from physical contact... not sure why, but it happened. So when the occasional touch of a hand or a hug happens, it feels so intense. And sometimes, I just kind of melt into it... the warm embrace of someone, the little touch of a hand on mine. It can be terrifying and at the same time it can be so comforting. I am so happy you had that positive experience, and I'm fairly certain that the tech will remember you for a very long time. Loved this video, as I do all of them. Hugs, Penny Sue
I was on the other side of the request for support for 40 years as a bedside nurse in a hospital. Dont ever be afraid to ask when going through something like a health issue.
Many of us go into health care for just that reason--- to make a difference when someone is sad, uncertain or scared.
I am a RN and no matter how busy I am or how bithcy I seem....PLEASE ask me, I will always...always take time to hold your hand. We are in this together. This world.
Thank you so much for being so kind...the world is lucky to have you! xxoo Susan
When a person is willing to show vulnerability, or fear, the response can be surprising, but it shouldn't be. Who has not felt alone, fearful, needing reassurance? We're all connected, a lesson that young woman now knows, because of you☘
Oh, Susan, thank you so much for this video. It was heart wrenching! I hope you feel better and I'm so glad you got to hold her hand. When I had my eye surgery to remove a portion of my eyelid, because of cancer, Dennis was allowed to come in, and he held my toe. He couldn't get any closer. But that brought me the comfort and courage that I needed for that moment. I'll never forget it. And when he was in ICU for his bypass surgery, I didn't dare get close to him because of all the wires and machines, but I held his toe. I guess we are toe holders! And in December, on the 2nd, we will be married for 50 years. Are we going anywhere? No, we want to stay home. Maybe out to dinner, but we just want to be alone, with each other. Thank you again for such a beautiful, peaceful video. Give my love to Dezi, and Darcy, and Lyla send theirs. Jeanie xxooo
Oh Susan. How beautiful it is!!! Desi is loving his yard, too. I'm so HAPPY for you two!!
I turned 60 last March. I'm so grateful to find your channel. I seem at a crossroads emotionally. Do I buy the "My best days are behind me"? Isn't that what our culture tells women? No, your channel affirms the hope welling within my heart, "The best is yet to come!" Oh and I just think Desi is scrumptious! I would love to hear his bio! BTW, when I had my wisdom taken out at 40, I started singing the soft rock piped throughout the clinic...so they told me! LOL🐾🦷
Hi friend! I just turned 60 and feel the same way you do. 😊
I m 61 and boy it sucks! Getting invisible, loneliness pffffffffffffffft!!!!!and the whole body falling apart!
Hi Laura, I also turned 60 this past March. It's been a rough year. My husband had a major heart attack at Easter, only the 2nd person to survive this severe of a one, in the heart surgeons 26 years of practice. I am still dealing with the fears. I have anxiety and during Covid it got worse, finally turning into Fibromyalgia. Of course, after my husband's heart attack at 55 years, this flared worse. It was also a challenge to even go into hospitals with my fear of Covid and fibro flared up with so much pain, secondary to his situation of course. I kept having full on panic attacks, and could barely breathe, but for him I faced my fears. Sitting alone in Emerg having my 5th panic attack, a young women sitting behind me recognized it, she sat with me and showed me a technique she uses to deal with her panic attacks. We both had our mandatory masks on, but her eyes were warm, understanding and kind. Eventually, my husband came home, how blessed! I felt like I won the lottery jackpot, but recovery was slow and while I kept up with most things, there were just somethings I couldn't manage. A few neighbours, after I finding out what happened, stepped up and helped. Another neighbour that I mostly only waved to and didn't really know helped me the most. She even drove me to pick my husband up when he was released a day early and family couldn't be reached. She purchased last minute needed items for him that I had only found out about the night before. She sent me photos of the items to choose from by text message so I felt like I was shopping..sooo sweet!!! She even refused to take money for these things claiming she would have spent more on a fruit basket. Turns out she is a fellow Pisces! Pisces are so giving and caring and can be trusted, so then I knew it came from her heart. I had to learn to accept help and face my fears. While my husband was still in serious condition (in medical coma on life support) my step daughter arrived to help, instead she did nothing and caused drama, ve4bally attacking me because I was vulnerable. I didn't understand at the time, but as time past, I realized she has been jealous of me the whole time I raised her, her brother alongside my own two since her mother hasn't ever been good parent..my step daughter therefore needed double attention from my husband and was jealous of our closeness and felt deprived anytime he didn't spend with her, or gave to me. Anyhow, she took this horrible traumatic time to take advantage of my weakness. It has been a nightmare. The kindness of strangers and neighbours are what got me through, that and faith.
HI Sues....I am glad someone held your hand. God send His Angels to help us all the time.... You take care...........blessings.....MINDY
Human-kindness can’t be beat, you both benefitted from that touching moment. Glad you are feeling better and faced your fear of teeth removal.
Thirty -eight years ago today I gave birth to my 2nd child, my son. They took me back to the labor room and told my husband to wait by the reception desk and somebody would be out to get him shorty. Well, things happened very quickly and they are rushing me down the hallway on a stretcher yelling don't push! And I'm yelling where's my husband?!! A nurse said somebody will go get him now. And I said, Can I hold your hand? And she said absolutely! I can still see her face leaning over me and the powerful way she held my hand. I think about her when its his birthday, like today.
The worst fear of having any surgery are the days leading up to it. So glad you took care of yourself, we need you happy and healthy!
this was so beautiful to read....I thank you so much, Barb for being here....
Dez is living the life👏 I think you need a smaller black dress. Fools that we are we thought that was king Desi's step stool when clearly it's his throne 😂
I had surgery to put a Stent in my heart one day after my husband passed from cancer. I was alone, except I knew God was with me, and so was my husband that day. I had a nurse who hugged me before and after surgery, that physical touch meant so very much. God bless her.
Thank you Karen for sharing that part of your life...humans touch has so much power...I pray everyday noone in this world goes without love....xxoo
You get in life what you have the courage to ask for.
I have always had a problem with asking for help. When I was in the hospital and my doctor was telling me that I was going to need to undergo emergency surgery, I had the most compassionate nurse that I am certain God placed in my room at that time. She was working on me and as the doctor talked, I felt her squeezing my hand and I wondered what she was doing. As soon as the doctor left, she looked at me as I was fighting back a major cry and she said that was a lot for anyone to hear and asked me if she could hug me. I cried in her arms and was so moved by her compassion......I will never forget how God had the right person with me at the right time! Glad your surgery is over; teeth work is NO fun. Love the ottoman and it seems Desi does as well!! Here's to a much better week ahead for you Susan. Love you lots, Debbie 😘❤
I cried listening to you say you asked someone hold your hand and that they did. I have always been afraid to ask for what I need. I'm working on it and you made my day. You are so brave sharing the bad along with the good.
When I was 16 my Dad died. For years, my Dad has told me I was smart & I would go to college. Now my Mom told me there was no money for me to go to college. I told her not to worry. I went to my “do nothing” guidance counselor and asked for applications for scholarships. He told me it was Friday and to come back Monday. I sat down in a chair in his office and refused to leave. I asked again but this time with a bit more conviction. Yes, he reluctantly dug around and found me applications and said now will you go. I told him gladly and held my head up and walked out. Long story short I won two scholarships which completely paid for four years of college. This would prove to be a pivotal moment in my life because years later married with a 12 year old son my husband decided he was tired of being married and “ had to find himself”. If I had not earned that degree I very well might not have been able to support us... but I did and managed to keep him in private school from fifth grade through law school where he graduated top ten in his Harvard law class and, oh, he also earned another degree simultaneously in Chinese. None of this would have happened if I had not asked, demanded help. I learned to stand up for myself and ask ( and if necessary demand) help. Needing help us not weakness. Needing help and not asking is weaker. Thank you for helping me to remember this which happened 57 years ago.
Susan, You, have changed that young lady’s life and you can bet that she will never forget you. ❣️ What an awesome experience 🤗💕👏
As a person who worked in a hospital I held a lot of hands, Very small hands, Right along with their parents, Never be afraid to ask❤️
Thank you Susie for being an angle to the world!
I love that I found you. It has been tough for me, entering the mid 60s alone. Your video about the elephant bridge really got to me. Elephants are now my spirit animal. This video just blew my mind. This week for me: oral surgery for one infected tooth to be removed; I bought a new 4 quart crockpot; and I bought a new ottoman, the main color being burgundy. Your story about hand holding, I too was a 15 year old having a baby all alone. Wow. Well all I have to say is if elephants are now my spirit animal, you are my spirit guide. Unreal. Thank you for being. Edit: You asked about needing something and being afraid to ask for it. Well, that would be right now. I feel so alone and need some guidance to help me navigate these deep waters of being a woman of a certain age. And also - I would love a hug. It has been painfully long since I was wrapped up in a hug by anyone. I forget almost what that feels like. It's okay, I am finding my "inner elephant" lol and I will figure it all out. Thank you for being here and sharing. .
It is a strength, not a weakness, to ask for help when we need it. As a RN/ARNP of 50+ years, I always felt that the human caring side of nursing was most rewarding. A tender touch and an empathetic attitude is what's most needed in our high-tech world.
And now a question--what is the brand and shade of the lovely lipstick you are wearing in this video? I'd love to get one for myself.
Thank you Susan, I always look forward to seeing you and Desi every week.
She was willing to help you because she, at her age, is already a compassionate soul, and is fortunate enough to understand the reciprocity of extending one's self. Lucky her. Lucky you. Happy Holidays to you and yours.
Susan, I just love how vulnerable & open you are .. As you radiate humility, beauty & what is good & right in this world ! I just love you & Desi too ! You make a great team , A package deal..& both have such adorable smiles !!
Aunt Susan we know how tough it’s to go through such surgery and sickness but we also know how strong you are so stay hopeful and feel better soon keeping you in our prayers happy thanksgiving in advance best wishes for you your family friends
You never know who you are helping. I have been putting off getting a tooth pulled for a very long time. I'm afraid. I'm on blood thinners and I feel anxiety about going off of them for a bit so I can get this stupid tooth pulled. Listening to you, I feel like I CAN do this, so THANK YOU!
Never underestimate the power of holding a hand or giving a hug. ❤ Dress looks fab! Desi looking gorgeous as ever….😊
Susan, the content you share… it is simple and comforting. It warms my heart as if you’re saying, “relax, it will be ok; you will be ok.” Thank you.❤
Thank you for sharing with us, I look forward to seeing you and Desi every week.
Oh Susan, you are so so beautiful. overcoming any fear is enormous. The beauty that radiates from you with your videos is striking. You leave such an impression on me, and give tremendous inspiration. Thankyou so very much. I am in a bad marriage at the moment and can not leave due to the economy at this time. I was threatened to be thrown out two times in the past five weeks. I have no where to go and it is terrifying to me. I am not used to this kind of living and now at 64 years old. I had a beautiful marriage for twenty years until he passed away, and now this.. So yes, I am filled with fear. I know some day I will get out of here and I know that it will take a lot of courage to go and make a way for myself like you did. Thank you for your honesty and caring to share yourself with us all... love to you...💜
Susan your hair looks extra fabulous today. Loved your "holding hand" story. It made me cry. It reminds me of when my two daughters and I went to a haunted house about 8 years ago...I was 52 and they were 30 and 15 respectively. My daughters were going on and on about how Mom is never afraid of anything, she's going to laugh at everybody being scared...well, I was scared. I was at the front of the line and there were more people (strangers) with us going through this haunted house. I couldn't make myself go forward and my daughters were egging me on to keep going so when I looked back at them and they seen the fear in me, they both yelled out "mommy!", they ran to me and put me between them and held my hands and wouldn't let me go. I felt like a child and I felt they were treating me like one, but it was so sweet the way they wanted to get me through that. I know it's not the same as going through what you went through but I can relate to your point on how you felt like a scared child...I felt that too. It was so weird for me, so unexpected. TFS
It's hard learning to be an adult on my own for the first time in 64 years. I keep thinking that it must be important in my life lessons to go through this too. No more drama to be involved in now. Very quiet and peaceful yet very lonely. It's been a year now since I became a widow. My children are grown with children and full time jobs. I keep thinking that I will figure out who I am without all my daily familiar life experiences but nothing yet. The day after my husband died I had a tooth break. I know what you mean about feeling so alone at the dentist. Somehow I just don't feel as brave as I did when I was taking care of my family. Now there is no one to take of but myself. I find it interesting that this is so hard for me. It's the little human interactions that can mean so much. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. It's interesting to have this type of platform, one of the good things about the internet that I'm thankful for.
Oh, Susan - love the hand holding story so much! How wonderful to be supported through a scary time. I also adore Desi on his maroon throne! Love to you and heal well!❤️
Hi Beautiful Susan and handsome little Desi. Oral surgery is no fun, but that was so lovely when you asked that young girl if she would hold your hand and she did, that shows compassion. I love that ottoman you bought for Desi to hop on. Pyjamas look very stylish. Thanks Susan for a lovely video. Hope you feel better soon. Love to both of you.💟💙
Great story Susan about your oral surgery experience. I too have feared that chair for years. Making appointments would cause such anxiety it would take me weeks and months to make an appointment. That claustrophobic feeling whilst a person's hand is in my mouth or touching my face. Ugh!! Our stories aren't the same but like so many others I'm sure we can relate to that fear and anxiety while alone or not for an array of reasons. Thank you for being so so open and vulnerable with your life and making people like me feel normal and uplifted. How brave of you to ask for help. I struggle with that so much from childhood. Your right that young girl will always remember the connection she had with you. You touched her heart😊❤🇨🇦
You touch my heart Susan!
A year ago, I had minor surgery to remove a suspicious enlarged freckle. The surgeon, much to my relief, seemed experienced and capable. He was training another young doctor on technique. As I lay on the table, fear was at the forefront. I was lying face down, head to the side, and I could see the young trainee doctor nearby. I saw his hand, and badly wished I could ask him to hold my hand, because I was so nervous about the procedure. Instead of asking, I began a meditation that I had so often practiced and was soon drifted away to another location in my mind. Still, to this day, I wish I had the courage to ask the young man to hold my hand. Next time, I will. Thank you for your LittlePoet channel, which I have recently discovered. I am the same age as you, and widowed for twenty years. Your channel brings peace to my life and inspires me in many ways. 🌺🌼🌸
I absolutely love your visits with us, Susan! You have such a gift and you generously share it each week. You make us laugh, you make us cry and you inspire us. Thank you for being a blessing to so many!! Love you and Desi! XOXO
I was a nuclear medicine technician in the early to mid 1980s. Back then, the imaging instrument consisted of a large, heavy disk about 3 feet wide that I had to lower very close to the patient in order to get a good diagnostic image. It was terrifying for patients, especially when I had to image the head and upper body. I often held my patient's hand to get them through the experience, and I was always happy to offer that bit of care and compassion. I had a great deal of empathy for my patients. It's why I only lasted 5 years in the field -- I was often dealing with people battling cancer, and sometimes the cancer won. I had a hard time leaving it at the door at the end of the day. I found myself unable to sleep and getting very depressed because I felt I was part of a system that was failing people. I still work in healthcare, but now I'm more on the regulatory side of things. I feel unequivocally that my current employer is doing good work, and I feel much less conflicted about my life. When my parents got older, I spent an increasing amount of time accompanying them in the hospital, and I noticed there are few nurses and techs over 35, so I suspect the burnout I suffered is fairly common.
I get a ottoman for my "Buddy" to make sure he can make it on my bed. It is an antique and it too high to jump up to it. He is too old to jump that high. Thank Susan for suggesting this. God Bless You and Desi❤️
oh that is so sweet Rosemary! Happy Weekend to you!!! xxoo
Anyone with a heart would have held your hand . I asked a nurse to pray with me and hold my hand while I was awake during a painful procedure . I had no pain and no bruising. God was there and she was a Angel🌟
Susan, you are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your life and wisdom with us
I send a hug and a wish for healing to the brave and sweet 15-year-old girl you were, who brought a beautiful soul into the world so courageously, and the beautiful, brave woman you've become.
I love your content, Susan, but I also love your sense of humor. Your delivery is so deadpan and so funny, it gives me such a lift. Have a good week! ❤️
How beautiful of the nurse to hold your hand. It brought tears to my eyes if there is such good people out there.
Your story brought tears to my eyes. I find your life extraordinary when you share your lovely fashions and very delicious casserole meals. You truly are a kind caring sole and show us it’s okay to show vulnerable feelings of true humanity. Sometimes I wonder why we work so hard hiding that fact. It’s a joy to visit you and I look forward to more of your stories and that darling Desi. He’s so cute sitting on his new ottoman. Blessings to you both.
Thank you Sarah so much for such a thought brilliant observation....why do we as humans at times want to hide our vulnerability....so afraid to ask what we so desperately need....thank you for a wonderous question....xxoo happy Sunday to you! xxoo Sues & Dez
@@LittlePoet It’s truly a joy to get to know you and learn the true experiences we all as women share. Thanks for brightening my world.
I had a right hip replacement in August. At 62 I have a very physically demanding job. I recovered well and was back at work at 6 weeks postoperative. Too much too soon. Developed swelling which lead to deep vein thrombosis and pulmonary embolism. Missed on a first ER visit. Picked up 4 days later at another ER. I'm back at work again. That was all very rough to go through living alone. Good friends did their best. The hardest thing...I had to put my 12 year old chihuahua to sleep last Monday. She had a collapsed trachea and meds no longer helped. She followed me from room to room. I can't tell you how much I miss her. I was so lucky to have her by my side during my months of rehab. Got to spend time with her that I never would have had if I was working. Her name was Chichi. She lost her first mom to covid. I was lucky to have her for 16 months.
Every week is such a treat to tune into your channel! There is humor, beautiful things to see in such well curated videos and above all; always inspiring thoughts and life lessons! Asking for help
Is never easy but is necessary too!
Susan, I am so grateful for this share...and for your assured healing path! Sorry the last few months have been so challenging for you. Brighter days and months ahead! You give us all courage to do our best, whether its showing up looking "sassy" for my 50th HS class reunion, or taking on health challenges with courage, grace and "asking" for help when we need it. Bless you !
Ms. LittlePoet, you are wonderful in every sense of the meaning. You're not alone, you video's have brought inspiration to me and many others with graceful and laughter. No. you don't have 'permission' to leave us all for weeks. Your health will be healed quickly and your charm, elegance, inner beautiful self will BE OKAY. Let Go and allow to be and heal. ❤❤✝✝🌺🌺
Your story about asking for help...touched my heart! A lot of us are so used to being the strong anchor in our families that we don't ask for help out of fear of rejection or just not wanting to appear weak to those who have depended on us! And then there's the fear of rejection...oh my...so many layers. Yet you were brave, you asked, you received and give me hope that when I ask, I, too will receive. At 75+ I am so tired of being the strong one. It's my turn to receive help and I hope and pray it is there for me. Thank you for being you, Susan! 💝💝💝
You are so wonderful,, thank you so much for being here! Happy new week to you! xo Susan & Desi
When I see Dezi’s face it just makes me smile.😘
Beautiful that you were brave enough to ask her to hold your hand and she did! Beautiful.
Thank you so much! It was a small things but I will always remember it...:) xo
Excuse me while I get a tissue. Your talk today was so touching Susan, you brought tears to my eyes. Your presentations are so professionally edited. You really lift thus 77 year olds' spirits. Just love the ottoman you got for your sweet companion. He does too! Thanks for sharing your intimacy with us. Enjoy your date.
Susan, I have found so much courage in your videos. I lost my husband to cancer this year and we were married for 40 years. I am 61 years old and feeling lost and trying to decided where do i go from here. Not by choice but we never had children and I find that i am looking for a new identity. Who am I without the love of my life. I love watching you and hearing your stories and it gives me such courage and motivation to find who I am without him. Thank you so much for sharing with us all.
You brought tears t my eyes with your surgery story. I had my gallbladder out and was pretty scared the nurse came in and told me it was all about me today and they were going to take very good care of me. It really helped to ease my fear. I'm glad you have that behind you and the nurse was there for you. I wish you a speedy recovery. Also, you looked very nice, I do like your dress!
You are a very sincere soul.
Thank you for inspiring me.
You look at items with a loving heart.
You respect what belonged to others.
My Mom would love you.
She was so full of care to deal with people, her surroundings. Gracious.
Loved her red lipstick and accessories.
This made me teary eyed we’ve all had those very fearful moments in our lives. I held the hand of my anesthesiology person when I went in for a d&c after a miscarriage at 23. That young girl had empathy and that’s a wonderful trait to have. I am glad you are ok❤
My Mommy passed two years ago.
She was in a nursing home, and I was there' as much as Covid rules permitted.
Mommy asked staff to hold her hand.
She asked them to give her a kiss, and they kissed her forehead.
She was so respected and appreciated.
They treated her so kindly.
I'm so grateful for those good hearts.
Bless you.
I'm at the point of seeing Dad go downhill now.
I need help and backup.
I'm burning out.
Regardless, he won't know.
I'll do my utmost.
Today made final arrangements.
Just to ensure that when time comes,
I stay by his side and don't detour for technical details.
Many have backed away.
Covid is a blanket excuse.
Zoom and phone are available, but people have copped out.
So I wrote him a thank you on behalf of myself,
My departed Mom, brother....
And in name of those who don't contact him,
I wrote how his support changed their lives.
It will go with him.
Yet,
That same letter must be read by him while he can absorb it.
Thank you for being such a strong example,
And a safe Haven for others.🙏
so very sweet!
I had a small procedure in my doctors office a few years ago and the doctor asked a nurse come in the room. She held my hand the whole time, maybe about 6 minutes or so. I was so grateful because I was afraid. I will never forget that. That small gesture meant so very much to me! I love watching your videos! I can relate to many things that you talk about. 💗
I had my hand held by one of the nurses 3 yrs ago when i had a sinus operation, i was not keen on being "knocked out" I often ask for help now. so many things are different since Covid i am getting lost in the system. All winter i have had a skin infection on my foot but getting to a doctor is taking weeks and when i go there are several things wrong. one thing at a time it is improving. Thanks for your video.
Oh, Susan, you remind me so much of myself because I have dental phobia and get so anxious. The power of touch is calming and healing. I've learned from experience that there are so many good people out there that have empathy and good hearts. That young girl in the dental office that held your hand cried because she thought to herself, "I can help and be a godsend to someone today," and she went home after work knowing that she made a difference. So you both were blessed. So happy everything went well and you're gonna be fine. ❤
Oh Suan..my Sista!!!!!
As my husband was dying I was afraid so I went to the nurses station a d asked the nurse on duty that night if he would come to the room and sit with me. He said he had paperwork to do and shouldn’t leave the desk. I went back to the room, within a few minutes he came to the loom with his paperwork … he was young maybe late 20’s. I felt so grateful , after a few minutes t looked over to him and he looked anxious … my thought was he maybe never sat as someone died … of course he was probably thinking he should have not left the desk 🤔😊… so t to.d him I’m okay now so you can go back. So yes asking for help is a good thing … this happens 20 years ago, I wonder if that impacted his life or career as a health provider. Me on the other hand have not learned … apart from that time I never ask for help. I am 74 and today is the day I realize I must ask for help … I’m in a situation that I cannot seem to be able to fix or ignore … todays the day … thanks LittlePoet for todays posting
My heart is touched by all you endured as a teenager, I'm not surprised that memory surfaced, and I truly hope you will feel lightened emotionally as you continue to heal physically. Many Blessings, Joy
You look beautiful! Love the pajamas! And remember, life is ALWAYS in Divine Order! Thank you for another beautiful visit! Namaste'!
The beauty of your videos touch my heart in ways I can't put into words! As soon as I launch my channel, which you have help to inspire, I will let you know!
Im so glad you reached out and the young lady reached back. Im sorry you went through that. I needed to hear this tonight being so sick for 3 weeks. Its gonna be alright. Just one day at a time. I pray a speedy recovery for you.
Oh Susan, you made me cry!! You are such an inspiration!! Give Desi a hug & a kiss, and I'll see y'all next week!!