Why You Don’t Feel Motivated

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  • @ashokwagh1591
    @ashokwagh1591 Рік тому +505

    Pain of discipline is always better then pain of regret.

    • @321cv56
      @321cv56 Рік тому +11

      Thats deep man

    • @ashokwagh1591
      @ashokwagh1591 Рік тому +4

      @Warriors 100% accurate bro.

    • @JRegs6782
      @JRegs6782 Рік тому +1

      Powerful word right there

  • @dilrajpansi5750
    @dilrajpansi5750 Рік тому +2100

    Self-Discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do.

    • @seb077
      @seb077 Рік тому +51

      I think that you can’t control what you think totally. But you can control how you go about these thoughts. I feel positive but I still feel negative sometimes. It’s necessary not to fuse with such thoughts. Detach from them and make space. There is a great book on that: the Confidence Gap.

    • @jacketwolf
      @jacketwolf Рік тому +22

      Wrong. You are not your thoughts, you are just observing them

    • @animekple
      @animekple Рік тому +9

      For me the right path is the one of Andrew tate when he says that how he feels has absolutely no impact on what he's gonna do with his day. Motivation is garbage because it's impossible to be motivated for every 300 gym session in a year. I'm motivated 30% of the time. So I use his mindset combined with the "step by step" technique. Which means if I dont' want to train, I don't overthink and just say to myself "OK the first step is to put my shoes on, I can do that. Great, now the next step is to prepare the barbell, great now let place myselfin front of the barbell I can do that" .... And I even use this technique during a set, I only think of the next rep saying to myself "OK I can at least do that one", almost visualise myself doing it one second before. I don't allow emotions or thinking, I just think of my next mouvement

    • @rojay_extreme3098
      @rojay_extreme3098 Рік тому +2

      @@Isabella59229 u might not but its true

    • @rojay_extreme3098
      @rojay_extreme3098 Рік тому +2

      @@Isabella59229 good....not everything you gotta agree with its good you have your own opinions and stuff....its valuable in this new era

  • @srihan7
    @srihan7 Рік тому +582

    The more painful your struggles are, the more sweet your success will be.

    • @yunglemon8168
      @yunglemon8168 Рік тому +13

      In my mind i always knew this but also no really hamza is amazing

    • @bash6086
      @bash6086 Рік тому +3

      Great quote 💯

    • @12ad35
      @12ad35 Рік тому +2

      Well not really, all those people who studied 24/7 from birth to 18 still have kind of shitty lives

    • @Sumirevins
      @Sumirevins Рік тому +2

      No matter the amount of struggle I do, I always end up with not worthwhile results due to Murphy's law associates with me😔

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 Рік тому +1

      Do not let external forces demotivate your pursuit of success

  • @andrewgardner9688
    @andrewgardner9688 Рік тому +1039

    Hey Hamza! I’m a 13 boy who has been watching your videos and I just finished my first workout thanks to you. My routine consists of:
    Two sets of 10 push-ups
    Two sets of 15 sit ups
    Two sets of 10 Burpee‘s
    Two sets of 25 mountain climbers
    Two sets of 20 seconds of planks
    Thank you so much man and keep up the great work. Adonis for life!
    Edit: Thank you guys so much for the support it really helps motivate me to keep going. Also I do Cross Country and Track and love to run already. Sadly I broke my leg half way through the season and when I got better I stopped running ruining all the progress I had made.

    • @norrin8441
      @norrin8441 Рік тому +137

      Bro's first workout is as hard as my current workout at 14, good job bro

    • @villy1238
      @villy1238 Рік тому +48

      Well done g! Keep up with it and you will become a true man like Adonis.

    • @jikan4458
      @jikan4458 Рік тому +29

      W

    • @ThebladeOH
      @ThebladeOH Рік тому +36

      well done! I cant do as much pushups so I work on those. I would add 2 wall sits for 30 seconds and if you want a 1-2 mile run.

    • @ervobeats
      @ervobeats Рік тому +8

      good job!

  • @tabyaaniqbal8912
    @tabyaaniqbal8912 Рік тому +38

    ‘Motivation gets you started, Discipline keeps you going’

  • @tommydirten
    @tommydirten Рік тому +512

    Hard times create strong men. You're not going to be always motivated. That's where discipline comes to play.
    Do hard things, and remember: the days you don't want to do something, those count the most!
    Keep grinding king, we're all gonna make it.
    - The Self-Improvement Academy -

    • @Daznaz
      @Daznaz Рік тому +2

      immersing myself in a icy tub rn

    • @tommydirten
      @tommydirten Рік тому +19

      @@Daznaz I've been taking cold showers for nearly 3 years now. Amazing what it does to you, physically and mentally!
      Did you know that, thanks to the cold, the endorphines your body release might have an anti-depressant effect?

    • @terence602
      @terence602 Рік тому +1

      King sounds kind of cringe now it's just like women calling each other queens I agree on everything else.

    • @tommydirten
      @tommydirten Рік тому +2

      @@terence602 Don't worry, I don't call people king on a day-to-day basis. I just thought the meme sounds funny.

    • @reindeerrr
      @reindeerrr Рік тому

      @@Daznaz hell yeah. Keep it up

  • @karmazxdz3543
    @karmazxdz3543 Рік тому +66

    Im 14 and ive been on my
    self-improvement journey since January 2022 i’ve learned and have experienced so much in the past year. My ability to understand things has improved a lot. I used to be unaware of the bad habits and life in general that were detrimental to my health but im so glad hamza helped me become aware of my problems. Hamza honestly changed my life and i hope to meet him one day.

  • @mkb1359
    @mkb1359 Рік тому +171

    I swear I can't believe someone actually motivated me to do something productive, I'm just grateful for you Hamza

    • @japonvscostaricadirecto
      @japonvscostaricadirecto Рік тому +1

      Well, actually that's the instant gratification, so in fact you felt worse later. Doing something painful is what motivates you

    • @mkb1359
      @mkb1359 Рік тому +1

      @@japonvscostaricadirecto Actually, I'm more disciplined than ever, I've beenin gym for 1 month, 4 days a week, I don't feel that motivation sensation anymore as i'm continuing to progress.

    • @JesusChristLovesYouBro
      @JesusChristLovesYouBro Рік тому +2

      Just wanted to remind you that Jesus Christ loves you so much. Repent your sins and turn your life to Him. Have a great day Bro. ☦️🕊️❤️✝️

    • @JesusChristLovesYouBro
      @JesusChristLovesYouBro Рік тому

      @@japonvscostaricadirecto Just wanted to remind you that Jesus Christ loves you so much. Repent your sins and turn your life to Him. Have a great day Bro. ☦️🕊️❤️✝️

    • @mkb1359
      @mkb1359 Рік тому +7

      @@JesusChristLovesYouBro No Thanks bro, I already found peace with Islam

  • @old_big
    @old_big Рік тому +33

    You helped me push through the uncomfortable and sign up for a martial arts gym and it was genuinely worse in my head than in reality. I beat myself up debating on whether or not to sign up and when I finally decided to do it BECAUSE I felt uncomfortable, I feel so good about myself now

  • @thedudeofsomethingorsometh273
    @thedudeofsomethingorsometh273 Рік тому +19

    self discipline is the start of greatness.

  • @opax
    @opax Рік тому +38

    This video came at a perfect time for me I've been in a extremely unproductive state the past few weeks and I was slowly coming to this realisation of what needs to be done but this video just really sped it up for me.

    • @loekie7727
      @loekie7727 Рік тому +1

      Same here with my uni assignments. The ratio of pleasure to pain has been in pleasure's favour despite of running, working out and swimming. It's good that the realisation hits now rather than later and it's time to get our shit together 💪🔥

  • @What-ki4we
    @What-ki4we Рік тому +17

    Pro Tip:The moment you feel a drive, just keep it going don't leave the flow state no matter what,
    > you sleep→you wake up→ you exercise immediately→get back into the flow state→reach the end of the day→sleep
    >Repeat.
    This next part is those who still find it hard and find themselves in these videos repeatedly.
    The real challenge starts after you realise your time ticking but still don't take action, You must stop thinking about the final product, you must embrace what makes you that, Your ideal self is not you, he is from a different period of your life or depending on your actions from another timeline💀 A completely different person, you are not the same you as a 8 yr old, you probably don't even remember what it was like back then, and You won't 10 years from now
    Thats the thing about Life, You move on, the longer you live, the more you move on, relationships, good times, bad times, are left behind, replaced for new ones, what gives us happiness is moving up.
    "Run, you don't need to place first, there is no such thing, for there is no finish line, you keep running till your death" Life is not a race, its a chance to experience existence, always remember you are a chosen one among 10^2,685,000. Take responsibility. Work harder, especially when you think you've reached your limit.

  • @andreapinaroli974
    @andreapinaroli974 Рік тому +5

    the discomfort thing is so true. When I went to Greece, which has cold waters, in a region that had particularly cold waters, it was so good going 5 meters deep in the sea, feeling the cold getting into the bones and coming up to the 30 deg sun

  • @oxygon7351
    @oxygon7351 Рік тому +3

    ive been getting up and running at 6 am , 22 dec i started and i have ran 87 km since then , and guys i feel brutal. super productive. ive brainwashed myself to suffer and afte a brutal run (for me) 5km to 10 km i have an ice cold shower and brother im feeling on another level. preach suffering boys! u will grow mentally and physically.

  • @Polygloid
    @Polygloid Рік тому +7

    Only a few minutes in and I can tell this video is incredibly valuable. Respect

  • @faultier4593
    @faultier4593 Рік тому +6

    Hamza i want to thank you for opening my eyes for all of my life ive been like jefrey, but you helped me open my eyes to the media and sociaty today

  • @mateuszkwiecien5905
    @mateuszkwiecien5905 Рік тому +5

    I really like this video. It shows that what I'm doing is good. The "Pain" for me as you said 1 gym and 2 mental state. I go to a therapist and she challenged me on many hard questions. I was in deep mental pain. Days went by when I went back to deep depression but as you said after that shitty feeling my "Motivation" went higher. Lately I have been more happy and confident. So what you said it felt as a perfect description of my feelings. Love from a Polish men!

  • @EdisBabahmetovich
    @EdisBabahmetovich Рік тому +4

    The reason Hamza often points out “Adonis” is because he is on the Path as well. He isn’t perfect. And that’s why we like him so much and resonate with him. Because we’re on this path together.

  • @yohannt
    @yohannt Рік тому +1

    The first 5 seconds cracked me the hell up.
    Hamza, you're a genius.
    The message is clear. Take action.

  • @nightpanda3834
    @nightpanda3834 Рік тому +1

    I am beyond blessed that I found your channel Hamza. You have changed my life in 2 days. I promise you when I say this, for these 2 days watching your videos I have learened more about life than I have in highs school for 3 years. I can't remember anything that I truly have with me from highs school, that genuinely is having an positive impact on my life. One thing that I learned from your addiction video that you recently upploaded was this: The reason most people have a hard time to stop an addiction is because they are trying to solve the sypthom and not the problem. For instance fapping, most people try to stop fapping which in theory is impossible if you have an addiction. But if you can find the route of the problem for the sypthom which in this case is your state of mind then you can solve the sypthom which is fapping. You have made me think more perspicacious and deeply into different areas of life and I am so thankful for that!

  • @nate4524
    @nate4524 Рік тому +47

    Learn how to deal with the discomfort now which will benefit you later on down the line. Control what you think so it can determine your actions by doing the hard work especially when you don't feel like it. Your success will be sweet in the near future when you experience your painful struggles in the interim. Thank you Hamza for this video.

  • @sickot1mik
    @sickot1mik Рік тому +2

    sup hamza, wanted to say u have changed my life, i am 13, you and tate saved my life from a jeffrey to an upcoming adonis, now i wake up at 6am, shower and meditate, work out every day (50 pushups+50 abs) and this will definitely help me in me and my dating life

  • @TiredDante
    @TiredDante Рік тому

    Your content has helped me so much I appreciate it

  • @liz4rdman487
    @liz4rdman487 Рік тому +2

    This video is genuinely life changing

  • @johncena-xn6oi
    @johncena-xn6oi 11 місяців тому +5

    Hey Hamza! I’m a 13 boy who has been watching your videos and I just finished my workout, which I started thanks to you. My routine consists of:
    Two sets of 25 push-ups
    Two sets of 60 seconds of planks
    Two sets of 50 squats
    and every second day two sets of 25 jumping jacks
    Thank ou for your help, you are amazing. Keep going with the great content

  • @willco5431
    @willco5431 Рік тому +4

    This make so much sense. Man I let my sugars go into the 30s over did it at work in the heat and had a Seizure. Destroying myself with pleasure and diabetes neglect. Why I am here because your stuff really make sense. Almost dying showed me how much time I don’t have left if I stay on this path of destruction. Hamza, we need more dudes like you in the world. Thank you

    • @SwolisticTy
      @SwolisticTy Рік тому

      Respect bro🙏🏼 If you have type 2, you can reverse it with proper nutrition. Stay on the upward spiral of self improvement, you got this brother. I believe in you

  • @AlsharifAdil
    @AlsharifAdil Рік тому +10

    Probably one of the best videos you’ve made so far. You’ve really explained the dopamine genuinely. I’d suggest for those who want to know more about dopamine and the Pain-Pleasure balance to read “Dopamine Nation“ book by Anna Lembke. It’s an interesting book that will explain a lot . Keep it up man!

  • @TomasKristl
    @TomasKristl Рік тому

    This video kinda opened my eyes, it's been happening, whenever i'm doing shit i don't like i feel better just in general, whenever i start skipping some stuff that i don't want to do etc i feel worse in the long run, ty hamza appreciate you bro

  • @mikeymop
    @mikeymop Рік тому +4

    As a huge fan of Huberman. I really appreciate your distillation of his lessons supplemented with your own interpretations and experiences. As a result I find myself sharing your videos with my friends instead of random timestamps in his 2hr podcasts.
    Thank you Hamza!

  • @tdgchan
    @tdgchan Рік тому +3

    This was a really good video Hamza, the couple of last ones felt a bit empty to be completely honest, but this one I feel is much more purposeful and constructive, thank you for the work you and the whole team puts to bring us the best content possible.

  • @themoonowner7624
    @themoonowner7624 Рік тому +3

    Listening to Hamza talk about motivation and discipline while doing pushups just helped me reach failure and I can confirm that I feel awesome!

  • @ErenYeager-kr9gu
    @ErenYeager-kr9gu Рік тому +1

    the animations in this vid are incredible.
    props to the editor

  • @pewyay
    @pewyay Рік тому +3

    Started wrestling. Painful and tiring as hell. Everyday after school for 2 hours and 15 minutes ish I practice at school. I’ll be honest I hated it when I started in late November. Now? I feel so much stronger. Such a boost to when I started working out. It is true, pain = pleasure, and nothing is more satisfying then when something so difficult is so easy that you can double the miles or the time or whatever. Stay strong

  • @life.as.victoria
    @life.as.victoria Рік тому +4

    I absolutely love your videos!!! They are so informative, inspiring and at the same time hilarious! I find myself literally laughing out loud and learning life changing advice at the same time. Beautiful combination! Thanks so much for all the time and energy you put into your videos. People of all ages can definitely benefit from these amazing videos you do. 🙌🏼Thanks again!

  • @TheSideDude
    @TheSideDude Рік тому +1

    OG hamza back at it with the fire vid, 2m subs coming soon🎉

  • @EmilianoLopez_
    @EmilianoLopez_ Рік тому +2

    best hamza vid from the last months

  • @Pintexx
    @Pintexx Рік тому +4

    This is exactly why you go to school or university in the morning. You experience the discomfort and mental pain of school first and then the rest of the day feels better. Also one of the reasons why you can go to the gym in the morning since the gym is painful if you’re actually going for progress.

  • @raduungureanu8859
    @raduungureanu8859 Рік тому +27

    Remember, motivation isn't real, DISCIPLINE is real. Keep grinding kings, you got this

    • @shafir2
      @shafir2 Рік тому

      cope

    • @ninipc1691
      @ninipc1691 Рік тому +2

      motivation is also goated because he hard thing you are already dicsiplined to do, it makes it so much fun

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому +2

      I think discipline isnt real.Without the motivation you cant even start being disciplined. People think discipline is like a mental trait but it aint its actually just habbits. I dont believe in discipline i think its just a fancy word for a person having good habits. And to develop that habits you need to start with a certain behaviour and stick to it long enough for the neurons to wire and make that behaviour very energy effecient after it intialy gets linked to the dopamine pathways. But you need to start. I have known about these pleasure pain dopamine pathways for a long time i have studied neuroscience but i still couldnt apply that knowledge and i was still procrastinating and endulging in pleasure maybe its because of the ADHD i dont know for sure but its not becuase i dont have the Discipline Trait i think no such thing exist.I have been called undisciplined for many things but one thing i have never missed is a workout but thats only because i have been going to the gym for 8 years and its harder not to do it.And i only did that because i was motivated to do so at the beggining and its become a habit. You need to have motivation it is IMPOSSIBLE to begin being disciplined for some new behavior you are trying to implement in your life in a state of apathy !!! You gotta start the engine.

    • @seventh0
      @seventh0 Рік тому +1

      motivation is what makes you disciplined

    • @xxtentaradu1439
      @xxtentaradu1439 Рік тому

      Who the hell would listen to u? Ur vids are All games plus i dont think u ever touched weights in your life not even calisthenics

  • @adi0509
    @adi0509 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much hamza..Iam so grateful for having you❤

  • @MuhammadHamza-wj4ev
    @MuhammadHamza-wj4ev Рік тому +1

    Man, I solved a coding question on leetcode now which I could not a year ago. It feels great to know that you have learned a lot and problem solving skills have gotten better now.

  • @d0van.aep1
    @d0van.aep1 Рік тому +11

    the only thing that makes me feel bad is discipline and lack of motivation at least you made this video, very helpful

    • @animekple
      @animekple Рік тому

      Motivation is not useful, I trained 5 times a week for many years, I was motivated 30% of the time especially after a very intense day at work

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому

      ​@@animekple But you are consistent in the gym because you developed it into a habit . its the same for me , its harder not to go than to skip the workout. But we only started going to the gym because we were motivated to do so. Dont disregard motivation as useless if you werent motivated in the first place you would have never developed the habit. Motivation is what starts every positive change in anybody and discipline is just fancy word for good habtis that were initiated by motivation.

  • @ArtistsBigHits
    @ArtistsBigHits Рік тому +5

    Motivation isn't real, discipline is real

    • @Sweaty_-
      @Sweaty_- Рік тому +1

      I disagree

    • @Sweaty_-
      @Sweaty_- Рік тому +1

      Motivation IS REAL, but of course, it's not as important ad discipline :)

    • @edmqnd
      @edmqnd Рік тому +1

      Are you stupid?

    • @ArtistsBigHits
      @ArtistsBigHits Рік тому +1

      @@Sweaty_- In my case motivation lasts 2 days xd

    • @Sweaty_-
      @Sweaty_- Рік тому

      @@ArtistsBigHits still, it would be really useful:D

  • @samor1455
    @samor1455 Рік тому +1

    Discipline gets u in the gym consistency keeps u going

  • @bogdangrittooo
    @bogdangrittooo Рік тому

    shit’s going upwards everyday. thank you for all these videos man. real inspiration

  • @waffler4024
    @waffler4024 Рік тому +32

    Thank you so much for everything Hamza, I’m not going to write down every single reason why I’m thanking you, because that would be simply too much, and I don’t want to waste my time on writing. Instead I can just carry on with improving. Again thank you very much.

    • @lordmouse_ivmeme2845
      @lordmouse_ivmeme2845 Рік тому +2

      Brother, write that shit down. Gratitude journalling is great for mental health. Just do it for me

    • @Windperfire
      @Windperfire Рік тому

      And me

  • @callumtorrance9180
    @callumtorrance9180 Рік тому +6

    My weakness. People. Talking to new people. People have told me I am likable and easy to talk too. But still talking to new people for me feels like torture. Just being around other people, especially those I have not spoken with before.

    • @johnsontan345
      @johnsontan345 Рік тому +2

      Facts I can't stand people, but should really talk to more as socialising/networking is so important.

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому

      Same for me. Honesly i think its simple. The problem lies in the self image. Its the egoic mind trying to have a sense of identity and its just one of the things it believes. its developed at a young age. Its a lot of biochemistry that goes with it thats not of your control, different neuromoduletors at place when talking to new people.What you feel is just brain chemistry dont let it get atached to who you think you are.The brain is neuroplastic so that can be changed . maybe go out and start talking to new people and at first if you suck than maybe later you suck a little less and that can be linked with the dopamine pathway so you would want to do it more and soon you might see yourself as someone who is okay at talking to new people and you will experience it differently, less anxiety. How i fixed my anxiety is with something called paradoxical intentions.

  • @mallowjim1107
    @mallowjim1107 Рік тому +1

    Man you sound very humble and that's actually very helpful to listen to your advice

  • @oliverc7582
    @oliverc7582 Рік тому

    Bro really uploads every video at the exact times I need them

  • @improved-you
    @improved-you Рік тому +7

    It all comes down to self discipline. Almost every addiction starts in the mind. Once you get a hold of what you want to think and how you want to think you can conquer any goal you set your eyes on. It's not always easy but if you stay persistent and see the bigger picture it becomes a piece of cake. Rinse and Repeat and you'll be a champ not a simp!

    • @essiman
      @essiman Рік тому

      right on!

    • @reddit2go
      @reddit2go Рік тому +1

      I swear finding the momentum to just start was the hardest for me. Staying focused becomes secondary

  • @juusto_official
    @juusto_official Рік тому +27

    I started gaming when I was like 10 years old. At 15 years old when I went to play with my friends it was just so boring and they always were like "Yeah Juusto come play with us we are having so much fun" So I went literally for 5 years like 6 hours a day gaming. Now I am 17 and game like once a week and its just so fun when you do it not often. This was my story from this topic.

  • @Redyt420
    @Redyt420 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for this video Hamza, I was feeling unmotivated today and this video really helped me to pick up my weights, usually whenever I feel demotivated I come to your channel, and thats a sign that what you're putting out here really helps. Keep it bro, I really respect what you do.

  • @marcusdetermig9004
    @marcusdetermig9004 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Hamza i’m going to the gym now because of you and taking cold showers thanks for helping.

  • @ezmicupkid2912
    @ezmicupkid2912 Рік тому +6

    Hamza changed my life. How can anyone hate this man?

  • @kingcamrod
    @kingcamrod Рік тому +9

    Hamza, in your videos you talk about how getting on self improvement increases your smv and likelihood of attracting women, I'm on "self improvement" and do many of the good habits such as going to the gym(and I am very disciplined), reading, eating well etc. Some of my closest friends don't do many or any of these and they have girlfriends, but all of my close friends that I know that do the good habits such as go to the gym with me, none of them have girlfriends. I understand this isn't an exact science and the other implications of the situation, I just wanted your take, as I feel like there might not be as much correlation as I used to.

    • @nakraa4458
      @nakraa4458 Рік тому +3

      I actually have the same problem right now, it has been a while that I started my self improvement journey and that I am doing good habits, I am now attractive but I still struggle having a girlfriend but I am realizing that I think it is because I have not quiet a good game, I have not that much experience.
      But I think we should practice and go talk to girls especially if we get eyes contacts we should try to engage.
      We should also adopt the right mindset, I’ve been like the cold sigma male but now that I am smiling more and just relaxed and chill I get more eyes contacts and it feel like I have better connections with girls.
      Hope it helped you, we’re gonna make it king 💪
      Hope it helped you

    • @kingcamrod
      @kingcamrod Рік тому

      @@nakraa4458 I definitely agree with you that game is one of my weak points, I feel the same that I get a lot of looks, but I don't approach because I haven't mastered the skill of going up to and talking to girls, I will see a girl but I never know what to do so I just don't do anything. The majority of my friends girlfriends they met online so didn't meet in-person, which I think is the norm nowadays, but that's besides the point. Thanks for the reply💪 hope it goes well for you too brother

    • @balu5347
      @balu5347 Рік тому +1

      I've had a similar situation. I've become quite attractive and knew some of the girls in my school were interested but I've never done anything further to get to know them. You won't attract women if you don't become a part of their life. Women can literally forget you within seconds if you don't take up their minds hahah. You kinda need to go out, talk to them and then attract with your discipline, physique, your game etc. Become the person a valuable woman would look for in her life. Worked for me, even though I had to wait a loooong time, and I hope it will work for you as well king 👑

  • @Xavier17.5
    @Xavier17.5 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much! I've kept being of this cycle of wanting to improve myself, thinking that a life without all these bad habits wouldn't be enjoyable, then quitting and doing bad habits once again. Now you made me realize if I just keep going then I'll become happy without the need for these habits.

    • @IronFist2508
      @IronFist2508 Рік тому

      I'm in the same boat, I last a few days then bam back to old habits. i really want discipline!

  • @MOMINTO_W1
    @MOMINTO_W1 Рік тому +1

    this the most important video actually !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @not_a_median
    @not_a_median Рік тому +4

    It is generally true that focusing more on hard work than on pleasure can bring feelings of motivation and positivity, while focusing more on pleasure than on hard work can lead to feelings of boredom, lack of purpose, and eventually depression. It is important to find a healthy balance between work and leisure, as both are important for overall well-being and satisfaction.

  • @zirak21mistry
    @zirak21mistry Рік тому +3

    Lack of motivation and purpose is the cause of depression. This statement is so true.

    • @CayenneGT
      @CayenneGT Рік тому

      Yes!

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому +1

      I think that and a comfortable life is a recipe for a state of apathy. Which to me is worse that depression.I know a lot of people would disagree with me on that but atleast with the negative emotions that come with depression they can act like a springboard to initiate behaviors that can change that, so the depression itself can become motivating to get out of. Apathy on the other hand is much worse the body just decides if i dont have positive emotions i wont have negative either and you become a biological machine stuck in the chains of your past habbits.

  • @moneymindset_5
    @moneymindset_5 Рік тому

    Thank you for what you doing for us man.. I really appreciate it bro ❤️

  • @louiepowellpt
    @louiepowellpt Рік тому

    This is so accurate, the flight there is always more fun than the actual holiday

  • @Lemz_r1
    @Lemz_r1 Рік тому +4

    Hamza never disappoints 💯

  • @baofc2609
    @baofc2609 Рік тому +5

    Cold showers aren't as bad as people think.
    I've been taking cold showers for 5 years straight, even through winters and it feels amazing (apart from the brain freezes).
    But one interesting thing I've found is that the world is getting colder, the first few years it was cold, nothing more, 3rd and 4th year, I get brain freezes everytime during winters but this year, even my hands are frozen during it.

    • @rudalph529
      @rudalph529 Рік тому

      Yeah after long enough of taking them you get used to the cold after like 2 seconds

    • @baofc2609
      @baofc2609 Рік тому

      @@rudalph529 Facts, the cold fades away cause ur body is numb.
      But idk about u, but the water gets colder and colder each year

    • @rudalph529
      @rudalph529 Рік тому +1

      @@baofc2609 its cold in the winter for sure, havent been taking them for long enough to tell you, only since around last spring

    • @baofc2609
      @baofc2609 Рік тому

      @Eoghan the cold water from my house comes directly from big river near us, it freezes my brain and my hands this year.
      Taking cold showers is great, but Be careful if u have a heart or any breathing difficulties

  • @gagebenoit8667
    @gagebenoit8667 Рік тому

    i just want to say thank u hamza. I used to be a depressed loser but then i saw a clip of u playing above a minecraft parkour and felt motivated to get back on track. Now i barely have time in my life to watch ur vids. i still do when i’m working out or like rn while i’m waiting on my dead airpods to recharge. My life is genuinely better. And i feel better, and more masculine because of you. I respect and thank you.

  • @safwaanburayou3587
    @safwaanburayou3587 Рік тому +1

    The point of dopamine going past baseline makes so much sense to me now. Growing up I always noticed how after having a big gathering or a party, the aftermath and cleaning up once everyone was gone just feels super depressing.

  • @hellobez
    @hellobez Рік тому +3

    something ive recently started doing to challenge myself is stretch every morning for 30 min +. Its actually extremely challenging and painful because people usually wake up tight or stiff sleeping in one position the whole night. You'll really feel the burn and mental challenge of waking up first thing in the morning and stretching.

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому

      Yes you can do that but its shown to have more benefit to stretch before bed. You can do both its great for injury prevention but i dont find it challenging at all. Its relaxing i do it post training.

    • @IronFist2508
      @IronFist2508 Рік тому

      @@Reypstraptor4269 Yeah i think its better to do static stretching after exercise because your muscles are warmed up and not stiff whereas if you static stretch first thing in the morning, your muscles are very cold and stiff hence why it is so painful. Dynamic stretching before exercise and static after is the way to go I think.

  • @akkrekz
    @akkrekz Рік тому +6

    Hamza I know you won’t see this but thank you, I used to be an extremely feminine man and you have turned my life around now I’m going outside, lifting weights, becoming a man. I just need to thank you 🙏

    • @Qaraaxo
      @Qaraaxo Рік тому +2

      it's Us who will see you W you bro

    • @akkrekz
      @akkrekz Рік тому +1

      @@Qaraaxo W mans right here

  • @assorted9737
    @assorted9737 Рік тому +1

    Yo thank u so much, got me into the gym and meditation and I’m now seeing results

  • @NathanJohnnyVilla
    @NathanJohnnyVilla Рік тому +1

    Knowledge is actually key and we knew it from the beginning.” Why seek answers when we do not know the question”

  • @thechristianbrothersebf
    @thechristianbrothersebf Рік тому +23

    The pain of regret is much more than the pain of discipline.

  • @kamdin3934
    @kamdin3934 Рік тому +11

    Even the best of us feels unmotivated sometimes, but the reason he's the best is he does the hard work even when he doesn't feel like it.

    • @animekple
      @animekple Рік тому

      When you've been training for 10 years like me and have a 8-5 job with responsabilities, I can tell you that I almost never feel like it. But I'm doing it anyway, that's the key

  • @HanSolo-hw2cv
    @HanSolo-hw2cv Рік тому +1

    Literally love this kind of CONTENT from few days .... W

  • @aksula-1
    @aksula-1 Рік тому

    This may just be the most important video I have ever seen. Thank you. This explains everything

  • @famousxji1852
    @famousxji1852 Рік тому +10

    “FUCK MOTIVATION! Motivation comes and goes. But Discipline, good ‘ol discipline, is FOREVER son💯” - #15

  • @OfficialTheoryY
    @OfficialTheoryY Рік тому +9

    Self-Discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do.
    It's how Hamza helped me start THIS successful youtube channel, and I'm motivated to show up every week to record.

    • @TheoryRants
      @TheoryRants Рік тому +6

      I am a 14 year old teenager and my plans for my future are actually to go to university to get a master's degree in cyber security.
      Your channel is amazing bro, just subbed, keep up the hard work imma check out the rest of the channel.

    • @Ompradhan1919
      @Ompradhan1919 Рік тому +6

      I'm 15 years old, and I can honestly say that over the last two weeks, since I was lucky enough to get suggested one of your videos, my life has changed significantly. I found the video to be intriguing, so I decided to click on it. After I quit, my mental health literally improved miles away, and I now felt more like a man.
      My life has been fixed by you and Hamza. Thank you bro

    • @baneets
      @baneets Рік тому +3

      @@TheoryRants bro i wanted to get cber security too, where do you live?

    • @TheoryE
      @TheoryE Рік тому +4

      Thank you so much i appreciate your work my bro im currently 16 and lockdown fucked me up for the past 3 years ive had severe social anxiety but just by implementing these small little actions by you and hamza in my life its made such a drastic change and much more manageable. self improvement is deffo needed in this day and age 👊

    • @TheoryE
      @TheoryE Рік тому +4

      @@TheoryRants broo you have his videos, are you a fan account of him?

  • @Monkaii
    @Monkaii Рік тому +1

    This was genuinely one of your best uploads in a while, served as a brilliant reminder that I needed to hear. Thank you very much Hamza, good man.

  • @raymondreaper2554
    @raymondreaper2554 Рік тому

    Amazing video! Just the type of video that is needed! No slandering, no making fun of others, pure guidance and enlightenment.

  • @mihajloo.19
    @mihajloo.19 Рік тому +3

    Hamza🐐

  • @lachlanB323
    @lachlanB323 Рік тому +8

    I took the cold shower. I slowly went further under and was fully under for 10 seconds. It was so uncomfortable and painful and my breathing went really fast and I thought I was going to faint and was actually generally scared. Good experience lol. I'm going to do it everyday.

    • @lachlanB323
      @lachlanB323 Рік тому

      It took me like a minute to go fully under because it was so uncomfortable. The only way to describe it is approaching the edge of a cliff.

    • @ssvddsvd
      @ssvddsvd Рік тому

      Keep it up 🦾

    • @seemakhatale3622
      @seemakhatale3622 Рік тому

      Same but I remain under a cold shower for at least 10 minutes.

  • @ianush.
    @ianush. Рік тому

    i can literally see this guy's subcount going up 100k every day, you are doing good work here

  • @mohamedahmed-jv4gz
    @mohamedahmed-jv4gz Рік тому +1

    bro literally this is the best video u made .. i knew u last year i was literally playing valorant 12 or less h per day i stopped sport i was total jeffery u helped me take my life back ..
    nw i go to gym 6 days per week im learnin code again ,, im learning vfx to start content creation and some buisiness ,, i have my up and down but im the best version of my self TY BROTHER !!

  • @BlazeSerna
    @BlazeSerna Рік тому +7

    Good luck to all you kings out there. You got this and it will get better. I’m proud of you for trying. Now keep giving it your all and go chase exactly what you want.🖤💪🏽

  • @ConservativePsycho
    @ConservativePsycho Рік тому +15

    Stay Strong, reject modernity, embrace masculinity.

  • @Mo-wy5ht
    @Mo-wy5ht Рік тому +2

    I heard someone say this once.
    Motivation will always follow action.
    Getting started is the hardest part. Once first domino falls, everything else will fall into place.

  • @my_eye_hurts
    @my_eye_hurts Рік тому +1

    Again with the title of what i was about to search on yt

  • @nakraa4458
    @nakraa4458 Рік тому +5

    Last Friday I just went outside take a walk around 9 pm, it was very cold outside around 3 degrees Celsius.
    There was no one outside.
    I sat on a bench next to the water (there was kind of a river) and I meditated in the cold for 15 minutes.
    At first it was difficult I couldn’t feel my hands anymore and I was thinking «damn it is so cold » but then I felt so calm and peaceful just hearing the very distant noises it was so relaxing, I just did my most perfect mediation and I felt so amazing after that thanks to the meditation but also because I was proud and it felt good to voluntarily enjoyed pain it felt so much incredible.
    Just go feel voluntarily a bit of pain boys you will thank me later.
    Do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it because after that you will actually feel like doing anything and must of all you will feel amazing 💪.

    • @Henry-dn2xb
      @Henry-dn2xb Рік тому

      Shouldve sat in the river and meditated

  • @lordqx2297
    @lordqx2297 Рік тому +11

    2 days ago i was talking with my classmate about self-improvement and i gave advices to him then he instantly deleted instagram,tiktok and other stuff. That made me happy so much since that day i ask him everyday about what is he doing at home, as he say he is studying for school or whatching you.(we should spread this message to everyone who need it)

    • @kiddd_ahmedyt3065
      @kiddd_ahmedyt3065 Рік тому +1

      ive done the same as u and i was happy and asking questions but then he tried to turn my advice onto me so i found out he was a low value friend so i dropped him so i wish u the best of luck my brother

  • @loju01
    @loju01 Рік тому +1

    I just happens that I'm going through this, thank you hamza

  • @shinra_tenseii
    @shinra_tenseii Рік тому

    I thought imma get back into the track right after 2023 starts but its been 19 days but I still haven't started, I questioned myself why and I figured I had no motivation at all so I keep pushing days saying I'll start it tomorrow, thanks hamza this came when I needed it the most, imma start working today itself

  • @ishaan641
    @ishaan641 Рік тому +7

    It’s crazy how Hamza is psychologically correct. I just finished a psych course in college and he’s 100% correct. I can’t believe he has those bullshit haters, good work man 🙏🏾

  • @puhacz4271
    @puhacz4271 Рік тому +3

    Pain pleasure thing is real. I give you an example, i was on vacay last year in spain and could barely sleep there. I knew however what may work - I spent whole day outside walking. A lot of walking. No electronics,no music that day, no phone whatsoever AT ALL. I was in pain after 60k steps and passed out in hotels bedroom. I swear i woke up feeling so energetic and refreshed as if I could walk again whole day. I was not sore AT ALL. how is it possible? our bodies are amazing we just need to know how to treat it

    • @jonasthenoob4535
      @jonasthenoob4535 Рік тому

      60k steps? Are you serious? I have to try a new record too hahah

    • @puhacz4271
      @puhacz4271 Рік тому

      @@jonasthenoob4535 yeah it s not even my best result lol I did once probably 80-90k steps in my country between 6 AM - 22 PM - again had sleeping issues. I m estimating 80-90k because i was not having phone at all thay day - left it in my flat. I was amazed how much the body can go even with a big sleep deficit. Liftin weights is great but we as humans are designed to walk

    • @jonasthenoob4535
      @jonasthenoob4535 Рік тому

      if I'm honest, I walk a tenth of that... I'm gonna walk a lot more tomorrow, 20k steps AT LEAST, that is my goal

    • @puhacz4271
      @puhacz4271 Рік тому

      @@jonasthenoob4535 sure bro 20k a day is fantastic if you have time for it and can do it regularly :) good luck!

    • @jonasthenoob4535
      @jonasthenoob4535 Рік тому

      @puhacz4271 yo bro I've done it! 21k steps today

  • @smguy
    @smguy Рік тому

    Bro you understand us so much. In the name of the all young guys, in the name of me, we thank you.

  • @markwerf6387
    @markwerf6387 Рік тому

    I am honestluly so thankful for this message and also the explanation behind that- it indeed was the kick in the ass that I needed today !
    Appreciate it a lot Hamza! Truly!

  • @raidenff6626
    @raidenff6626 Рік тому +7

    I am a 14 year old being bullied at school and no respect from others i started working out at 12 still not gained anything still iam grinding even tho i don't see any progress i just keep going i relapse every 8-9 day and this guy is making videos that i need every day thanks for everything you have done

    • @tomhunjan1138
      @tomhunjan1138 Рік тому +1

      Keep going; the progress will come suddenly when you don’t expect it.

    • @noam7648
      @noam7648 Рік тому +1

      The reward is always delayed. Be patient.

    • @Reypstraptor4269
      @Reypstraptor4269 Рік тому +1

      You are bullied because of your responces. If you dont respond they dont get any satisfaction so they will stop. If they are just verbally bullying you try not to be offended ever and keep a good spirit and be stoic . If they are also physicaly bullying you join a martial arts gym, its not to fight them off its so that you will stop feeling scared because bullies are like dogs they only chase when they feel scared energy.

    • @user-sk4bn8ge3u
      @user-sk4bn8ge3u Рік тому +1

      Punch the bullies nigga

    • @essencisity6538
      @essencisity6538 Рік тому

      My brother, you're doing great, keep it up

  • @chrislotz4437
    @chrislotz4437 Рік тому +7

    It's nice to see a redpill UA-camr talk about motivation. I'm really tired of these sigma grindset "discipline, pain, suffer, push forward" Posts. Sure, having discipline is great. There are often days where I wake up and don't feel motivated AT ALL to go to the gym, and I have to push myself with discipline, but once I'm actually at the gym, it's all motivation. Its like that old saying: "I never want to get in the shower, but when I'm IN the shower, I don't want to get out again." I think we all need to strike a balance, who cares if you watch a short motivational speech before starting a deep work session, you'll do a better job than the guy who hates it and rushes through. There is no reason you can't be disciplined AND motivated gents.

  • @kamogeloklaas6979
    @kamogeloklaas6979 Рік тому

    Crazy how this relates to what I've been going through lately , like I felt a piece of me die and it's just no motivation these days

  • @mixombiza
    @mixombiza Рік тому +1

    I went out for an 8k run today for the first time in a while, with the idea of pursuing pain. At first I didn’t want to wake up and do it, my mind kept saying “ go back to bed, do it another time”
    And it was painful to the point of where your body is aching, your lungs are burning, legs are intense and your knee is about to explode and it seems easier to quit than to keep going. At that point I kept on going with thought of you “push past pain, you’re better than that”
    And I’ve never felt better, except with a painful knee
    Point is do the hard work especially when you don’t want to, because that’s when you need it to do it

  • @imbalance9186
    @imbalance9186 Рік тому +8

    I relate to your feelings about the cold so much.
    I absolutely despise the cold. It's literally painful and extremely uncomfortable.
    Guess that's what I'll be taking on now. Cold showers and baths.

  • @WhatsCookinYGO
    @WhatsCookinYGO Рік тому +4

    I was super super motivated for the pas couple months but i’ve been horribly sick (nothing serious though but still stuck in bed) and it has completely burst my bubble. My focus and motivation has left the room and i’ve been feeling very bad over it since I had it so good a while a go. I do have discipline but even that is getting hard. I’m gonna have give it my all to get back on track and trust me I Will. 🤲

    • @cronomorphx
      @cronomorphx Рік тому +1

      Get well soon. Respect, brother

    • @WhatsCookinYGO
      @WhatsCookinYGO Рік тому

      @@cronomorphx Thanks brother, I’m already better. Getting back in my usual routine helpen a lot as well 🤲

  • @anonanon5978
    @anonanon5978 Рік тому

    This is the only video I needed by Hamza

  • @avrahamvardakis5288
    @avrahamvardakis5288 Рік тому

    I missed your longer, more in depth videos like this one. Please keep them up!!!