Choosing to victimize is a CHOICE and has nothing to do with being a victim. Using your own sexual childhood trauma as an excuse is just that, An excuse.
This. I was sexually assaulted as a child and I have ZERO WANT OR DESIRE to ever do that to another child. I protect them from creeps. I’m not the creep. It’s a shitty excuse if it is one.
@@Sweetpeatea I'm sorry you went through that. I did too. And somehow I've grown into a functional adult and don't feel the need to use my terrible childhood as an excuse to wreak havoc on others. Evil looks for an excuse for itself. People who commit evil acts will point fingers at everything but themselves. But evil is a choice.
Exactly. I was used and abused by monsters as a little girl and I’ve never been truly happy since. The only reason I remain tethered to this planet is my sweet, beautiful, innocent bunny rabbit. I exist to keep him safe, healthy, and happy. Those selfish adults broke my fu*king brain and took my soul. I was a sex worker for a long time…felt like I wasn’t good enough for a dignified career. It took a lot of therapy to get off heroin and free myself from the flesh trade. All that being said I’ve never once had the urge to abuse a child. Never. And if I did I would rather kill myself before hurting an innocent child. I would never want anyone to live the life I have. No kid should have to endure what I have.
the fact hes laughing about it and talking like its a casual thing and using his trauma as an excuse to harm kids is sickening, being a victim of abuse does NOT give you the excuse of inflicting that onto others
This is so perplexing to me bc almost every child predator was also a victim himself. As a victim I wouldn’t dare perpetuate the same hurt I endured onto another innocent child. And the thought of being aroused by them is so disgusting!!! I’m sorry but there’s no excuse for not getting the help you need.
@@jossylopes people know right from wrong, it all depends on which path you choose to travel in life. I chose to travel towards the light and seek salvation and healing from God. That’s how we choose instead of being a victim we advocate for them to break the cycle.
@@sisi_zzz Your hypothesis is correct in most cases, but it fails when you encounter an individual with a malformed Brain. The connections that determine different emotional states could be fractured or missing, or in some cases of a bad childhood, a child with less options, constant struggles in different areas, are things that can affect the pathways to different emotional states of an individual's Brain.
Chris Hansen never stopped doing that. He's done other shows since. His Current show is call "Takedown with Chris Hansen". Its on youtube and some of his best work
Because he is sick in his head his brain functionality isn't like yours there's no empathy or compassion similar to psychopaths and u can see how comfortable he is talking about as give him ego boost because he is in the center of attention . That why
Alcoholics say, “I can’t help myself” too, but don’t victimize children (usually). An action is different than a thought, especially one made while sober.
So many child victims DON'T become offenders themselves. That negates childhood trauma as an excuse. However it does remain as a causative factor. There's a difference.
Idk why but I just can’t stand it when they say I was abused when I was younger 😤 it’s just no Excuse, I’m sure this been going on forever but now that I’m older I just wanna shake some sense into them 🤬
Right! I don’t like to always bring up my past but I was also sexually abused by an older relative when I was very young, in kindergarten age, and I never, ever imagined doing the same to innocent children.
The question isn't so easy as yes or no some portion of these people go out in society and behave okay it's just like anybody else drunk drivers murderers anybody some fraction of the people who do that don't do it again. So when we step up to risk analysis here we start looking at what percentage of these people might recover and might not and best of all how much risk do we want to put on these guys who do we want to risk on these guys? If you had a problem with say grabbing money out of a cash register and you got slapped a couple times for it they let you out a couple times I slap you a couple times and you finally learned it's not that big a deal it's only money. When you have a guy that has an urge to do this in the beginning you've already got a bad risk and now he's done it already you can't turn them loose and let him do it again. Maybe they won't but who what risk are we willing to take on these guys? Especially since the common theory for many people is I was abused therefore I'm an abuser well if we lock and abuser up that way we don't have anybody else going down the trail.the end of the line is this guy sitting in jail and never speaking to another child and the more times we can have the line and the better
To the people saying that these people should get the help they need, that's the issue. These people don't actually want the help so they're never going to accept help and they're never going to get better. and I don't care what any religious people say, nobody who does bad things like this will ever change. They think they can change but they don't. They think some type of Christian incantations will change them, but this isn't the case either. people who make claims about changing from a monster to a decent human being are lying to themselves and everybody around them.
I loved that,"Christian incantations!" there are a lot of "PASTORS" who are abusing their positions! Have you ever watched "Dawson Speaks" ? he does some really great vids on this very topic!
I don't believe none of them can be helped I don't believe all of them can be helped I only believe the risk of somebody who's proven he wants to do this kind of behavior is too high to turn them loose and risk again. If you had a guy stealing gasoline on a farm and you caught him three times before he quit it's just a couple 5 gallon barrels of gas he's carrying away and not that big a deal when you let a person have a second chance at this you're giving too much risk away on the part of children to these people.
Jesus heals all wounds, I do however have no sympathy for pedos, you know how it scarred you and you turn around and do it to another child!?!? May God have mercy on your soul.
There is no help available in the u.s since mandatory reporting started. In AA or NA someone using illegal substances, no issue. A m.a.p. wanting theropy talks about viewing illegal images... Jail forever, hated forever.
Ppl don't get how engraved sexual abuse can be. So some have no chance of breaking out without help. The things imprinted into an abused person are often reflected in adulthood. So the roles are changed and this closes the cycle of abuse. The issue is when the own sexuality awakens in a sexual abuse victims. The images and experiences as a youth get mixed up with the own arousal of the body. The therapeutic task is to deprogram that connection. To correct a malfunctioning brain or soul is a difficult task that's the reason why the rebounce rate is quite high. In general an offender was abused many times to become an offender as adult. Under certain circumstances ppl can be almost programmed like a computer, it's scary/astounding what the human brain/soul allows - for evil but also for good
Im sorry but him laughing whether its innocent nerves or whatever thats him gauging his emotions as he continues to convince himself this shit is something to nonchalantly paugh about
Porn is bad. Period. Do you think that seeing strange people fucking will do any good to your brain? “Male logic”. The worst type of men I’ve met in my real life were regular users of pornography. It rots their brain, messing with their idea of sexuality and they see sexual scenarios everywhere because porn incites it. “Step sister, step mom, teens, forced, rough” and so on. Disgusting. And he didn’t blame it on porn solely, but it was a fuel and right after he said that a specialist confirmed how porn plays a role in this sickness.
Choosing to victimize is a CHOICE and has nothing to do with being a victim. Using your own sexual childhood trauma as an excuse is just that, An excuse.
This. I was sexually assaulted as a child and I have ZERO WANT OR DESIRE to ever do that to another child. I protect them from creeps. I’m not the creep.
It’s a shitty excuse if it is one.
@@Sweetpeatea I'm sorry you went through that. I did too. And somehow I've grown into a functional adult and don't feel the need to use my terrible childhood as an excuse to wreak havoc on others. Evil looks for an excuse for itself. People who commit evil acts will point fingers at everything but themselves. But evil is a choice.
Exactly. I was used and abused by monsters as a little girl and I’ve never been truly happy since. The only reason I remain tethered to this planet is my sweet, beautiful, innocent bunny rabbit. I exist to keep him safe, healthy, and happy.
Those selfish adults broke my fu*king brain and took my soul. I was a sex worker for a long time…felt like I wasn’t good enough for a dignified career. It took a lot of therapy to get off heroin and free myself from the flesh trade.
All that being said I’ve never once had the urge to abuse a child. Never. And if I did I would rather kill myself before hurting an innocent child. I would never want anyone to live the life I have. No kid should have to endure what I have.
People who hurt children create hurt and broken adults. No matter what your life turns out to be like, that trauma will always be there.
the fact hes laughing about it and talking like its a casual thing and using his trauma as an excuse to harm kids is sickening, being a victim of abuse does NOT give you the excuse of inflicting that onto others
This is so perplexing to me bc almost every child predator was also a victim himself. As a victim I wouldn’t dare perpetuate the same hurt I endured onto another innocent child. And the thought of being aroused by them is so disgusting!!! I’m sorry but there’s no excuse for not getting the help you need.
He is unlucky. A victim of his own brain development and influences. If you had the same genes, the psych, atom by atom, you would be him.
@@jossylopes people know right from wrong, it all depends on which path you choose to travel in life. I chose to travel towards the light and seek salvation and healing from God. That’s how we choose instead of being a victim we advocate for them to break the cycle.
@@sisi_zzz Your hypothesis is correct in most cases, but it fails when you encounter an individual with a malformed Brain. The connections that determine different emotional states could be fractured or missing, or in some cases of a bad childhood, a child with less options, constant struggles in different areas, are things that can affect the pathways to different emotional states of an individual's Brain.
No that’s because once we know, better we do better and you know better and I am really really proud of you
@@user-du8tj9gq7k You're missing the point. read my comments from start till you understand what I'm saying.
Victims get a lifetime sentence. That should be the sentence for the predator.
Bring back Chris Hansen and To Catch a Predator there was nothing wrong with that show
Chris Hansen never stopped doing that. He's done other shows since. His Current show is call "Takedown with Chris Hansen". Its on youtube and some of his best work
When you know right from wrong you have no excuse for causing someone else pain.
He doesn't have a sexual addiction. He's pure evil and he chooses to do what he does. He should be locked away forever and even worse.
Too bad dude wasnt "tempted" to go play in the freeway...
It happened to me too and I don't do that. No excuse.
When it stated it was a teacher, I left!!! Keep exposing.
Thanks for this awareness.
EXACT SAME BLAH BLAH AS ANY PSYCHOPATH.
Why the heck is this guy laughing and giggling! Wtf
Because he is sick in his head his brain functionality isn't like yours there's no empathy or compassion similar to psychopaths and u can see how comfortable he is talking about as give him ego boost because he is in the center of attention . That why
@@quantaVastitude2021Well said my friend, this interview was beyond sickening.
It's nervous laughter. He knows what people think of him and was probably mandated to do the interview.
The way he can’t help himself from laughing and sounding happy when he speaks of pornography…haunting.
That's actually a nervous laughter. I know lots of people that do that at the least appropriate times. Not that different than blushing or sweating.
If he was molested as a child then why would he harm another child? He knows the damage it causes. He’s lucky the kids father didn’t get him.
I’m so glad this predator is in jail so he can’t hurt another innocent child!!
Wrong is wrong.
Blaming "availability" for the crime you commit is outrageous!
Alcoholics say, “I can’t help myself” too, but don’t victimize children (usually). An action is different than a thought, especially one made while sober.
Alcoholics pretty much victimize children.
This is why children shouldn't be online. New technology brings new problems. Didn't have online predators until the internet became a thing.
I have NO remorse or forgiveness for a sick predator😢
Why is his face hidden? Why are we provided a fake name? Show us this coward. Show us his real name.
Exactly
they're hiding him so that people like you don't hunt him down and kill him in the name of so called "justice"
We need to stop protecting these people.
Theoretically if he makes it out he won’t be able to hide
He wouldn't agree to be interviewed if exposed, so would you rather hear nothing?
So many child victims DON'T become offenders themselves. That negates childhood trauma as an excuse. However it does remain as a causative factor. There's a difference.
Ew, him laughing and gigling is so friggin cringy 🤮
Why is he giggling
He seems so shallow. Not taking full accountability really by the laughter
Idk why but I just can’t stand it when they say I was abused when I was younger 😤 it’s just no Excuse, I’m sure this been going on forever but now that I’m older I just wanna shake some sense into them 🤬
Right! I don’t like to always bring up my past but I was also sexually abused by an older relative when I was very young, in kindergarten age, and I never, ever imagined doing the same to innocent children.
The question I have is, can these people be rehabilitated or is it just zero hope for all who engage in these behaviors?
The question isn't so easy as yes or no some portion of these people go out in society and behave okay it's just like anybody else drunk drivers murderers anybody some fraction of the people who do that don't do it again. So when we step up to risk analysis here we start looking at what percentage of these people might recover and might not and best of all how much risk do we want to put on these guys who do we want to risk on these guys? If you had a problem with say grabbing money out of a cash register and you got slapped a couple times for it they let you out a couple times I slap you a couple times and you finally learned it's not that big a deal it's only money. When you have a guy that has an urge to do this in the beginning you've already got a bad risk and now he's done it already you can't turn them loose and let him do it again. Maybe they won't but who what risk are we willing to take on these guys? Especially since the common theory for many people is I was abused therefore I'm an abuser well if we lock and abuser up that way we don't have anybody else going down the trail.the end of the line is this guy sitting in jail and never speaking to another child and the more times we can have the line and the better
I was groomed n SA as a child n i dont feel like being a pedo, its disgusting, thats not a excuse.
To the people saying that these people should get the help they need, that's the issue. These people don't actually want the help so they're never going to accept help and they're never going to get better. and I don't care what any religious people say, nobody who does bad things like this will ever change. They think they can change but they don't. They think some type of Christian incantations will change them, but this isn't the case either. people who make claims about changing from a monster to a decent human being are lying to themselves and everybody around them.
I loved that,"Christian incantations!" there are a lot of "PASTORS" who are abusing their positions! Have you ever watched "Dawson Speaks" ? he does some really great vids on this very topic!
I don't believe none of them can be helped I don't believe all of them can be helped I only believe the risk of somebody who's proven he wants to do this kind of behavior is too high to turn them loose and risk again. If you had a guy stealing gasoline on a farm and you caught him three times before he quit it's just a couple 5 gallon barrels of gas he's carrying away and not that big a deal when you let a person have a second chance at this you're giving too much risk away on the part of children to these people.
I hate when they say they had a relationship with their victim. It wasn't a relationship you groomed a child
People who don't have a repeated history on SA should not be allowed to speak on this subject.
Men are sick 😢
Jesus heals all wounds, I do however have no sympathy for pedos, you know how it scarred you and you turn around and do it to another child!?!? May God have mercy on your soul.
Doesn't deserve to be blurred
This just wrong in so many levels sickening
All that didn't just start by using the internet
contact AAAAAAAAAaaaaa!!!! get to the choppa!!
So gross
That's an understatement.
It's as if these people stop aging at their point of trama
There is no help available in the u.s since mandatory reporting started. In AA or NA someone using illegal substances, no issue. A m.a.p. wanting theropy talks about viewing illegal images... Jail forever, hated forever.
That's a good point... Not sure how we can prevent it... If they are still free then they may have access to children. I guess that's the reasoning.
Ppl don't get how engraved sexual abuse can be. So some have no chance of breaking out without help. The things imprinted into an abused person are often reflected in adulthood. So the roles are changed and this closes the cycle of abuse. The issue is when the own sexuality awakens in a sexual abuse victims. The images and experiences as a youth get mixed up with the own arousal of the body. The therapeutic task is to deprogram that connection. To correct a malfunctioning brain or soul is a difficult task that's the reason why the rebounce rate is quite high. In general an offender was abused many times to become an offender as adult. Under certain circumstances ppl can be almost programmed like a computer, it's scary/astounding what the human brain/soul allows - for evil but also for good
Bad 😢
Drunk actions are sober thoughts ..
Im sorry but him laughing whether its innocent nerves or whatever thats him gauging his emotions as he continues to convince himself this shit is something to nonchalantly paugh about
2:27 it only takes away all inhibitions only if you allow it! Wow!
Is this guy really blaming his sick urges on porn?
Bundy did the same thing, go figure🤦♂️
@@TokiWartooth14 Was it porn or True Detective magazines? Those books always had eroticised cover art of men kidnapping/restraining/threatening women.
Porn is bad. Period. Do you think that seeing strange people fucking will do any good to your brain? “Male logic”. The worst type of men I’ve met in my real life were regular users of pornography. It rots their brain, messing with their idea of sexuality and they see sexual scenarios everywhere because porn incites it. “Step sister, step mom, teens, forced, rough” and so on. Disgusting.
And he didn’t blame it on porn solely, but it was a fuel and right after he said that a specialist confirmed how porn plays a role in this sickness.
Sexual Predators who have suffered assaults are the worst they do not hesitate to repoduce this shit while knowing things they are doing 😡
I knew he was black
He’s not black
lmaooo nah he’s on your team, bud. nice try.
You've clearly never seen a black person in your entire life
His hair and voice didn't seem black to me
He's clearly white