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Sex Offender interview-Mike
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- Опубліковано 20 гру 2020
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Mike, a sex offender from the west coast of Florida.
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When it was done to him, he calls it "molesting." When he does it to others, he calls it "fooling around."
Lemme start this off with, in no way am I trying to defend this man or his actions. But a lot of times when there is regret, your brain, as a defense, will "lighten" the language when you speak about the wrongs you've committed. Like if someone murdered a man and felt bad about it, he'd likely use language like "that's when I did it". When you're vague, you don't have to remember it all right then. I hope that made sense. I think he knows everything was all wrong. But the brain is a funny and fickle organ.
I noticed that too
I didn't notice that, good catch
@@kaylimerriman2913he don’t regret shiii
@@kaylimerriman2913Or when you have a Cluster B disorder and you like making light of the horrific crimes that you KNOW are horrific crimes.
But you find them funny.
Referring to a child he molested as his 'little friend' is such a creepy way to downplay the real word: victim.
He also would say "fooling around" 🤮😡
@emmap3376 Staunch point
Theres still no excuse for being a pedophile or rapist, thats the truth
I agree 100 % disgusting beyond disgusting...
Age is just a number
@@mhdualbladesonlyexcuse me?
@@jaidynstarwalt7306obvious rage bait calm yourself lmao
@@mhdualbladesonly anddddd we found the POS that deserves to be on a watch list...
I dated a guy ( who passed away last year from drugs and alcohol) whose mom used to basically pimp him and his brother out to men starting at age 6. He was a beautiful person and was one of the kindest people I've ever known. RIP Sean , I miss you everyday 💖
That is horrible!!!
That is horrible, it really is. I was molested from a young age when my parents sent me to boarding school. It didn’t turn me gay, or make me into a sexual abuser but I was so angry, depressed and felt disgusting and rejected that at 16 when I was introduced to drugs I just went at them like a demon. I used all drugs. Then in my twenties it was mostly meth and acid that I’d do, sometimes heroin and sometimes barbiturates. Then I became addicted to heroin and that really damaged my life. I have overdosed and come so close to death over ten times. I just had some crazy luck, for example I was once found lying in long grass by a woman walking her dog. I was already blue around the lips and the tips of my fingers and as white as a sheet. It was around the time that mobile phones had just become within the budget of ordinary people. She phoned the police and an ambulance. She thought I was dead, but she still phoned an ambulances. Being revived from something like that is harrowing. I never learned. I got clean when the woman I lived with and loved became pregnant. When I looked at my baby for the first time I knew I wouldn’t use drugs again. There’s no doubt though I wasted a large part of my life. But suffering abuse as a kid really does completely destroy your persona as a child and you grow up very damaged.
Wow that's very hard
@@jackmcgregor1983 That baby has a dad that has experience, wisdom and love. Nothing is wasted sweet Jack, very proud and happy for you- much love to you and your fam💖
@@lisafranklin9089 Thank you. Those words mean a lot coming from you. I really appreciate them.
STOP disabling comments on abusers' videos. You give no one else that courtesy.
What? The comment section is open on this video. How else would you have written this comment? I'm confused lol
Wtf are you talking about? He disabled the comments on the warden/executioner but not on the one who raped his own mother. You're not paying attention.
@@vdubbu he always disabled the comments on sex offenders
Yeh nonces always get protected angers me big time 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@TallyWackaTha2nd he disabled it on the lady who raped her 8 year old son in front of another man
Sometimes I feel like I gain as much insight into the human condition from reading the comments as I do from watching the videos.
Yes!! I was just thinking the exact same thing!
So true.
True...sometimes its uplifting, sometimes its horrifying.
True
@@GiantArtProductions pedo apologists oh nooooooooo I havent come across any of those. I'll hear the story from the perpetrator but the comments section is not a place for that 🙈
I was molested when I was 6 by a 17 year old girl. With that, I led a panel in college of just guys and we all talked about everything. Well….. one of the things I asked them was “have any of y’all ever been sexually molested?” come to find out 44 of the 60 guys I had in the group were molested by a grown woman around 8-12 years old…. Then it made me realize… Do you know how many female predators are out here that probably do this to little boys and those same kids grow up to do the same things to other people? Exp- R Kelly.
And society never questions or suspects girls or women because the gendered narrative on domestic and sexual abuse has brainwashed everyone into believing only men can be abusive and women are only ever victims.
There’s a recent interview I think about a guy who was molested by a woman and how he ended up being addicted to sex, he’s bald but has a tattooed hairline you should check it out if you haven’t his name is Tony
Yeah not R kelly dud is fucked up
@@justaturky2890 yes, like r kelly. dude is fucked up, but he was molested as a young boy before he grew up to do those very same things towards young girls, which was OP's point
Thank you for creating a group for other abused men to talk about their experiences!! I’m a woman myself and I hate when people overlook the abuse of boys and men. It breaks my heart so much bc I work with children and I have younger male kids in my life so it worries me a lot how ppl don’t consider the things boys go through.
This is an example of the most severe type of child neglect. The way he speaks is due to barely being spoken to as a young child. The Turpin children sound like this.
I always did wonder why some kids, and even some adults, have that speech impediment (saying R-sounds as W-sounds).
That’s sad. We had neighbors who were an older couple (maybe in their 70s) when I was a kid and one day this adult “son” of (allegedly) theirs just suddenly appeared. He was like early 30s but their other children were in their 50s. Anyway, this guy looked a lot like this guy but had nappy hair and looked like he was racially mixed while this couple were both white, and he sounded exactly like this guy. I swear that this man was hidden in their basement for decades. He had to have been. Our theory is that he was the illegitimate child of one of their daughters and they kept him a secret. Now the confirmation that this speech impediment is the result of severe/extreme neglect makes perfect sense.
@@DagSilgad sometimes it is just a simple speech impediment
@@DagSilgadyes and pronouncing b instead of v, all my kids did it. You have to correct them and show with your mouth how to pronounce it
@@Autybbbydoes that not prove op’s point though? your kids improved their speech because they had a parent to correct them, this guy didn’t
He says: We started fooling around... You still don't understand, it's not we, only you. A child is a blank canvas that can't paint itself yet, you are 100% responsible.
I think alot of his language and phrases has to do with the lack of education he's had. Only went to school to about the 4th grade. And how much can you concentrate in school when your being molested at home at that age
@@lauradavis4848 why are you fucking defending him and then liking your own comment
@@meatballsandwich5329 I'm not defending what he did in the least. I was saying the way he talks seems to be because he's very uneducated. And what are you talking about liking my own comment??
Notice that he uses “fooling around” to describe times he was victimized as well
And then went on to say that he now knows that it wasn't consent, because children can't consent, but at the time he thought it was okay.. you heard one thing and disregarded the rest.
Whether sex offenders, prostitutes or drug addicts, the connection seems to be abuse and sexual abuse at a young age. Apparently, abusing children is rampant in our country. Sex trafficking is actually the fastest growing illicit business. Crazy.
@Tabula Rasa lll ❤🇺🇸❤ Hopefully Trump and the Patriots can shut this shit down!
@Tabula Rasa lll 🙄 ok Jan
Yeah I’ve seen that, what you mentioned about there being a connection.
It's not going to make a difference no matter who's in office. If you think trump slowed it down you're delusional.
@@mc2043 kool aide anybody? Wtf ?
They pay for it, “for the rest of their lives” and even that is not enough to right their wrongs. They literally ruin innocent children’s lives!
@@ishiittedonyoui6027 sorry to hear that bro I wish the best for you you didn’t deserve that
not "literally"
Just like they ruined him
@@Lola-qu5hg he deserves that and more. These monsters have no pity for their victims. You’re probably one of them advocating for this disgusting POS.
And then for much longer than being a child. It ruins lives.
If u were touched at a young age and yk the pain then why TF would you put someone else through tht weirdo
How traumatised would them young boys be to see this man title their rape as “fooling around”. Heartbreaking, children CANNOT consent to such things.
He is just doing his best to explain
@@michaelmelton475 No he's not, he's defending it and downplaying what he did by replacing it with, "fooling around". As someone very well stated in an above comment, " He can't accept the mental blow it causes by saying 'rape'".
@@billw.6701 He is clearly not the brightest. I feel that he is using terminology he learnt in therapy. He knows how to admit what he did wrong, but has no original words to say it.
I just keep thinking how he would have come across to those kids, though. It's horrifying.
So this means this predator has not taken responsibility.
He was literally millested. Hes in the circle.And healing has ti be done in order for true change
It’s concerning the way he says:
“we started fooling around” when talking about abusing his wife’s sons. It makes me wonder if he truly understands what he has done.
You can imagine that the words he choose are dictated by the level of shame he feels. I don't think it's an indication of what he comprehends. Talking about what he did must be very hard for him.
To add: And talking about what he himself went through as a child.
Depending on what those children had gone through, their boundaries may have already been violated before he came into their lives. Or they simply didn't understand the ramifications of what they were doing was wrong in any way. There are so many variables that expose a child to risk, and perpetrators can use the same approach that they had been groomed with. Often the impact doesn't hit victims until their old enough to understand. A person may become severely depressed at a young age, and have an opportunity to self medicate... which is easier than talking and it works to an extent. They may not even connect or recognize what happened to them to BE trauma, until years later. Or they feel they brought it on themselves, somehow. Especially in an atmosphere of victim shaming, and denial. Instead they're treated as a weak willed drug addict, and their abuse history is overlooked completely.
As uncomfortable as the subject is, it needs to be exposed. I understand the anger, and how inflammatory these interviews can be. I just don't have room in my heart for all that hate. I reached a point in my life where I accepted that I am not the Karma police... judge and jury. We can't change the past, but we can all try to create a better future. I'm just grateful for Mark's efforts to bring it all out into the open.
His language is all young language.. like what you'd expect from a 12 year old! It just sounds like it's an adult speaking cos his voice is deep now! Long-term abuse especially at such a young age stunts emotional development, and the fact he didn't get past year 4 is congruent with his use of terms like 'foolin around'..
Did you listen at all to the full story...he hugely downplayed all of the egregious abuse and events that constitutes his life including being pimped out by his mom and having his family home [blown up by a molotov cocktail] which he essentially payed for with his body as a child.
I feel the same way!
The comments are like little interviews too. So much knowledge I get from this channel. I’m a survivor and listening to the side of the predator has helped my journey of healing. Thank you for all this insight into human lives, thinking and behavior.
They all are fake
"I didn't force anyone to do anything, I just gave them weed and drugs" what a sick POS
This channel creeps me out so much but I can’t stop watching.
Its so scary
Yesssss
Same..
Same
Because? The channel doesn't creep you out. Real life creeps you out.
Finally someone who is taking full accountability and has more sympathy for the toll it took on the victims lives, than his own.
@Blue Sturkey That is because he doesn't put them on YT just to be convicted by the audience. He gives them a platform so WE learn how to protect our kids.
This is the first one I’ve ever seen that made me think wow maybe some can be helped I’ve always thought they should just be killed or put in jail forever. I think most of them don’t ever change tho.
@Blue Sturkey This channel is infact nothing to do with pity, it’s about knowledge to help prevent abuse of all kinds because “knowledge is power”
yea the Frankie video really shook me on how little he showed remorse or accountability, he played the victim and was only sorry he got caught, thats his lesson he learned. Im glad this guy is showing remorse.
Amen.
My mom tried making advances on me when I was younger. Saying if I weren’t her son she’d date me if she was my age, solely talking about my looks and not what I think. Even messed with my sister when she was a teen. That lead to my sister doing things to me. Now I’m a self aware sex addict/substance abuser. I’ve been intoxicated since middle school because that’s when a shift in my mind. You become so numb and cold to a world that only showed you animalistic urges. I’m scared of what my unconscious mind holds if I untether it for its comfort spot. Nothing predatory… just anger and rage. How can I channel that? I need help.
Kristian hope you get better bro, hang in there man, things will get better
reach out to your doctor for help or find a psychologist or support group of some sort to start talking through it. you went through some horrible shit, but you are aware of it and aware of what the consequences may be on your behavior and that is a huge first step. everybody has demons, myself included and just acknowledging there is some things to work through is more than many will do, just gotta take that next step while it is still your choice to take it and not forced on you after doing something horrible to somebody else, repeating the cycle. i hope you find the help you want, and may very well need and can move past your history, kick those demons out and start living more for the future and what you want to do with your life with those past traumas staying in the past. good luck, random internet stranger, i believe in you and hope you find your peace and can move on to better days.
Just remember how you felt and still feel, and how it haunts you, and remind yourself that if you make a mistake, you're inflicting the same thoughts, anxieties, etc. onto someone else. And then there's a chance they'll inflict someone after that. Don't be responsible for something you couldn't help, and that happened to you, bc once you do you're taking your pain, and pointing it at someone else. You're a good person for even taking time to consider and admit your pain and confusions. Google your local mental health facility and contact them. I promise you, they are so kind and understanding and there for you in an authentic way. Do not become the monster you were subjected to otherwise you endured your pain and came this far in vain. I so much feel for you and hope to the entirety of my being that you take control and act now. Nothing was your fault and you did not deserve it. Release your burden by giving away your shame and pain and accepting that you are innocent. You are STILL NOW innocent. Once you act, you are no longer innocent. You are actively forfeiting it by choice. Help is there all you have to do is take the first step towards finally taking control of your life from the ones who took control from you.
Find someone you can talk to like an AA sponsor but for abuse/self harm
Hope your ok! Your rage is justified. That is a violation of your sanctity. Moms and dads are supposed to protect not abuse. I hope you never have to see them again. God made love good and pure. Evil makes it broken and perverse. You can break the cycle of generational abuse right now in Jesus name amen! God bless you!!! ❤ I broke the chain. I loved my kids and protected their sanctity with everything I had. Protect your kids like lions. They are gifts from God.
This whole thing just pisses me off because people like this make gay people look bad. Why did he keep marrying women and why did he live a double life? He talks out both sides of his mouth. He’s not changed. I don’t trust people like this. Definitely don’t let your kids around him.
Well they are bad
No they make their selves look bad
Hearing his mother was a child bride... this curse runs deep.
It always does..
Ancestral spirit
That makes sense.
Child bride, sold her son, he starts molesting children… it’s such an evil that runs in that family
@@amberbassoN12 How so ?
Hopefully single mother’s pay attention. There’s some weird dudes that’ll date you to get to your kids or take advantage of something you have.
They're not that easy to distinguish. They groom moms, not just the kids.
That's not an excuse. It's reality.
I have 1 last young daughter and her Father and I were together 12 years. I’ll never bring any man around my home even if it means I’ll be alone til she’s older. No WAY!!! I was brought up in a house where myself & my 3 siblings were sexually abused so.... for me it was the older brother for my sister it was her step dad my father. My mother knew & stayed. We don’t talk to this day.
@@zsazsarose I'm sorry for what happened to you.💔
It was my mother’s boyfriend when I was 8 years old who molested me. I’m 44 years old now. I never had children and suffer from anxiety and depression. I’ve been in therapy for years and I pray everyday for God to heal me. As I’ve said before, I feel like I’m paying for someone else’s sin.
@@overcomer1307I'm sorry. It's understandable you feel that way.
Have you considered therapy?
it’s almost always someone the child knows, who’s the one hurting them. When I was growing up it was all about “stranger danger,” when it’s usually not a stranger. It’s a shame predator uncles ruin it for good uncles. Glad this guy could talk so openly about his life, it’s important for the public to hear this. Thank you
The more I learn about common perpetrators of child molestation, the less comfortable I feel letting my future child meet their full extended family
Saville was champion of the “stranger danger” campaign
@@boogie8586 probably a good decision
@@boogie8586 It’s okay for them to meet them or interact with them, the problem is when you constantly fill your house with extended family and friends, most molested children lived in that kind of enviroment, including my mom.
@@Gaboxxy96 your mom probably asked for it. Scantily dressed and all. It's like someone dressing up as a firefighter, a fire happens and people ask them for help. And they say I'm only dressed as a firefighter. Apply that to your mom and youl understand what I'm saying
Why tf should a creep be allowed to tell their “story” 🤢🤢
Bc ignorance is far more dangerous than pedophiles.
When he said his wife was deaf/ mute. So basically he chose someone vulnerable so he could get to her kids..,,🤔
That’s exactly what he did
Someone vulnerable and also with a steady paycheck for disability
Exactly
And then she stood by him after finding out she molested her two kids and went to jail for it. And the kids were only angry because he was in jail and couldn't protect her from a psycho killer
The delusional comments here reveal why 1 in 3 girls are molested & raped by 18 & 1 in 4 boys. Thank you for being one of the few truly discerning, sensical, educated & wise comments on this post. The ignorance is astounding in these comments.
Man this was really fucking hard to watch because I was molested when I was a boy by my older cousin. But listening to this man's story makes me wonder what my older cousin might have went through that lead him to do that to me. I harbored a world of hate for my cousin for a very long time, but knowing this guy went through in his life, I think I found whatever it is that can help me forgive him and love myself.
Sending you love and praying you can heal. Just by your words alone it’s clear you are a beautiful and resilient person.
I'm sorry you both were molested. It's sad that there's so much hurt in the world which seems to get passed on through trauma. It was not your fault and you are so strong for being able to handle that pain.. I hope we can stop this from happening as often as it does.
Gosh, I am so sorry.
That's right bruh, Love yourself. Continued healing. 🌷❤🌷
You're AMAZING... never forget that.
This is hard to watch.
I was molested from age 3-5 by my second oldest brother. I was a willing participant, but knew what was happening was wrong. One day it just ended and I think my mom may have caught on to something inappropriate happening. Im now 31 and spoke not one word of this until a couple of years ago.
I struggled for years thinking I might be gay, and to this day I struggle with sex addiction, intimacy issues, countless one night stands, I haven’t ever done anything illegal, but I’m also struggling with porn addiction. After countless hours of therapy, research, and talking to professionals, it is truly remarkable as to how many people, men in particular become sex addicts in adulthood after being molested as kids. It’s disgusting how people can abuse innocent children and it can completely screw you up for life. I feel as though I’m now on the road to healing, and just a few weeks ago I decided to write my offending brother a letter. I’m not expecting an apology but I just needed it off my chest. I don’t hate him.. and maybe this will help him too. My mom is also deceased now and I hate myself for never bringing this up to her…
I wish peace for anyone whose ever been offended and abused. May God heal you.
My dear, never blame yourself for something over which you have no control, you were not a willing participant, you couldn’t be even if you thought you were. From what you are saying I can see the trauma and confusion, I hope you are looking into therapy for your experience and find it in you to stop blaming yourself. You don’t have to feel guilt for not discussing it with your mom, I would hope that doing so would have helped you and that you had a mom who would have let you know that you are not to blame, that you are loved, you will be loved and that what happened doesn’t define you. I do hope you find help now so that you are at peace. Your feelings are normal as a person who has survived what you have, I hope you know that.
A 3-5 year old is not a willing participant is any abuse. You were baby and what happened to you was disgusting. I pray you continue to heal
The idea that what you did was wrong will fell you with toxic shame, but the idea that it wasn't wrong will make you feel guilty for tacitly supporting something generally considered bad, it is a double bind!
Victims should feel free to discard both shame and guilt.
Eight years of nothing but counseling? And he still doesn't
get it? His victims are his little friends? They're playing around? He still has zero accountability and understanding of what he has done. He is really truly sick.
I think this man knows exactly what to say to make people feel comfortable around him. A wolf in sheep's clothing.
YES. something about this guy seems so off to me...
I agree
Damn straight.
Agree COMPLETELY! He's just repeating what he was taught during all that counseling, with absolutely no emotion behind his "remorse!"
@@satinlovegloveful You're just jealous.
Most child molesters were molested as children, but most molested children don't become molesters. It's really a sickening cycle. Mike seems in a better place now.
They may not always molest others but they usually end up exhibiting destructive behaviors. Sometimes to others, other times to themselves
Exactly.
@@jeremyariche4332 In my case I turned to drugs and alcohol. I couldn't imagine using my crappy childhood as an excuse to rape children.
@@jeremyariche4332 true.
Actually a higher percentage then you know go on to molest others. It’s sad
I love how this channel shows the truth of how hard and different everyones life can be. The humility behind all of their interviews is astonishing.
This is the one video of yours I haven't watched, and I'm not sure I can finish it: I have CPTSD due to people like him. I want to hear with an open mind and heart, but the panic intrudes too much. One day, I'll be able to watch it all, and I suspect it will help me to hear the whole thing.
Thank you with all my heart for what you do. Thank you for giving a voice to the voiceless, and teaching us all how to be better humans. Adore what you do.
Having the "same" perspective and CPTSD as you, I strongly recommend this empathy and forgiveness exercise. It was not so bad and I honestly believe that letting it go as a bad tough during meditation is what helped me my whole life. I hope you are fine 365 days after this comment and I wish you all the best.
My heart breaks for the kids who can't escape monsters during this lockdown. I don't know how I could have managed; school and sports practice were my escape.
I’m sorry 😞❤️
I'm sorry too, my dear.
Siesta time for my grandparents was when I could get away. I just wish I'd had the strength to tell my parents, back then.
We survived. Let's give ourselves a big thumbs up
❤️
So sorry to hear, it's heartbreaking jist how common this is, infact it's probably more common than we think,
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 hhhhahaahhahahahaahhaaa
God I don’t know if I can have kids, this world is so evil !
They’ll be fine. Just be mindful and protective.
Sadly I’ve been feeling more and more like this lately. Especially after this wild year
Just in case you change your mind, we should practice making them
It’s gon end probably within like a 100 years anyways because global warming is destroying the earth
Indeed!!!
The worth and dignity of a soul is measured by what it delights in! And delight/happiness is our highest desire.
Men have killed to have it. Kings have gone mad trying to find it. Wars have served it. Affairs have worshiped it. We all seek it.
Sadly, billions have died without discovering its secret... namely, that joy is not an it, but a He.
The Gospel is the good news that sinners can delight in a Holy God. It's the good news that all of our deepest desires are satisfied in the ONE who sent His Son to bring us to Him.
God is so valuable and so satisfying that the most loving thing he could do for us is to make Himself gloriously indispensable. He is the only being in the universe for whom self-exaltation is the highest virtue.
Therefore, God's commitment to be glorified and our goal to be satisfied are not at odds but come to simultaneous consumation in the worship of His Son... who took upon Himself the Wrath that God had towards us in our sinful disregard of Him. A wrath that could never be appeased through man-made religion.
Jesus didn't die to turn the world into a paradise, he died so that we could stop seeking paradise in the world...
Temporal things such as beauty, popularity, money, sex, racial identity, gender reassignment... can never truly satisfy. BECAUSE WE WERE MADE FOR SO MUCH MORE!
We were made to gaze intently into the Eternal Beauty of a majestic King, Father, and God... meet Jesus the Christ.
Life is hard, God is good, Glory is coming!!!
😊... thanks for taking the time to read my comment.
I pray the Lord bless you with all things necessary for life and goodness.
God Bless
This entire project will be beneficial in so many ways for a long time to come. Thank you for your hard work.
I went to school for journalism in Barcelona. I always say that people tell me all kinds of things without knowing me. I am really amazed at how much your people trust you and open up to you. Revealing deep trauma is difficult but this one... ouch this one was really hard. I can't imagine what it took for you to prep for this one. Thank you for your impressive journalism. We need to hear these stories. Not just because sensationalism sells but because they matter.
I'm 43 and was abused by my Step Father as was my older sister. The mind games he would play to keep us quiet were horrible. I remember thinking if I told my sister would die, and vice versa. Luckily at 16 she got the courage to tell. Mum didn't believe it at 1st as she saw or knew nothing. Luckily she saw the light and felt great regret that she'd over looked the little signs that she thought she should have noticed. Has it affected my life? Hell YES, but will I let it define or control me. No. Before she died last year, I think that was the most beautiful time for us all. We talked about it. Cried about it, but we all came to the conclusion it's over, gone. I feel for this guy. Don't condone it one minute, but that could have been me sitting there if I'd let it take control.
@Simon Smith I’m so happy that your mom believed you and your sister even though it took her a little time. Sometimes they don’t want to believe it and they turn a blind eye. I was sexually abused as well and love how you say you will not let it define you. I told my mom a couple of years ago and she just said that I probably liked it and that’s why I never said something. Actually I was scared to say something I was just a child. Never again I will tell my mother of anything that happened to me. I just keep to myself. I’m sorry for your loss but once again I’m so happy that you and your mom were able to have a good relationship and you were able to forgive her for not believing in the beginning. I’m glad you broke the cycle and didn’t do that to someone else. Stay safe during this pandemic and have an amazing day. And thank you for sharing. 😊
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 I'm sorry to hear that. Really. You didn't deserve it. And like it!!!! What the hell. But some parents are raised differently, and things are swept under a carpet. Always here, if you need to talk. I could have let it ruin me, I chose the path. Make me stronger. Yes it still f..ks with me. Anxiety, depression but, it doesn't own me anymore.
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story.
This could of been me too it’s sad how the cycle continues I was a victim too me and my friend were sexually abused by her dad at age 5 but I got help quickly because I had started feeling attracted to a 5 year old boy at 18 I didn’t know what was wrong with me I thought i was crazy but it’s trauma I’m 21 now and I’m doing good.
I’m so sorry your mother didn’t believe you at first. I will never understand people who believe a spouse over their children. I hope you’re doing well and I’m sorry for your loss.
So scary to think that these type of men look to get married with women to mask what they’re doing.. and to have direct access to the kids 😔 he had multiple marriages.. I’m honestly grateful for these interviews because they open your eyes to the possibilities that could happen
Big facts. As a mother you need to stay on top of your kids. And talk openly with them about what adult are not supposed to do to them.
@@choosensheep352 That's great...if you're not the mother who is also molesting your kids. Many of these stories show that EVERYONE is taking pieces of kids. Mom, Dad, siblings, neighbors. I agree, "normal" parents need to educate their children and monitor them intensely, but that is rarely available in so many of the subjects of these videos.
It blows my mind that sex offenders can get dates and get married but I cant even get a text back
@@rodbelding9523 He probably doesn't know your phone number. Keep texting...
They often prey on codependent women because they tend to not believe their children's crys for help
Thank you Mark, for having the courage to conduct and post a video on such a disturbing topic. This is so valuable for parents of young children.
Mark is giving y’all another chance with the comments. Please don’t spread any hate. This channel wasn’t created to vilify people. If you feel hateful in any way just don’t comment. By you doing this is messing it up for everyone
Pin this Mark
@Michael Morris she said “y’all” obviously not talking about herself
Forreaaal.
Thank you Mark
Sex offenders only deserve hate.
@@evilprospers6838 that’s only the simple way of thinking of things
People really break these kids, its sad. Then they break other children.
Most victims of molestation do not grow up to become sex offenders, but almost all sex offenders were molested.
Most break themselves even more through poor life choices prostitution abortions births drugs sex ect
@@SB-uw3fe every abused person I've ever known lived the life of a homosexual for at least a brief period and one died of aids at a very young age as an open homosexual.
I was a child of molestation. Its ruined me to be a normal human being. I have a daughter and u don't even let her see me naked.
right one of his victims will likely be a predator too sadly it keeps happening
Holy shit, idk how “better help” hasn’t thrown their bankroll on advertising on this channel. Perfect platform for it.
Yeah he says “fooling around” but he’s been through it himself and he’s probably very uncomfortable discussing it. These words help him tell the story. He doesn’t sound like the most intelligent man and the words he uses he’s familiar with and are what he chooses. He’s a victim originally himself, he clearly understands looking back at the damage it did to him and the damage he’s done to those boys. He takes accountability in the video, he never makes excuses for himself only explaining he was also molested. Everyone is so upset in the other videos about people not taking accountability and yet here he is doing just that and you’re upset at him for saying “fooling around” he’s been charged he’s been found out everyone knows what he’s done. His victims and their families know, he doesn’t have to use the word “rape” to get it across because everyone knows. Their is no downplaying it, he’s telling a story and used words to make it easier to tell it. I’m not saying what he did is okay as a matter of fact it makes me so angry on the inside but I will give him props for acknowledging that he damaged their lives and caring more about that than what he did to himself.
Yes Justin, I agree. I have heard victims say, "they were messing with me," instead of molesyed me. He completely exposed his transgressions. He wants forgiveness. His regret is how he damaged other children. He wants a healthy relationship. He's paid his debt & is cognizant of what consequences he faces for his actions. I really appreciated how he acknowledged the importance of "really trying" and not faking it in therapy. That'goes for any person who is seeking mental health care, voluntarily or not.
Yes! Preach,!! 👏🏽👏🏽
It’s less the “fooling around” than the “we were” that precedes it. Making his victims complicit in his crimes. All that time, despite his own experiences he had no idea as to the harm he was causing until one day he had an epiphany? Do me a favour!
It hurts to hear that these men had to LEARN, from therapy, that what they were doing to kids was wrong. They spent YEARS of their lives thinking what happened to them as a child was normal and that it was okay to do to others.
Same
These people aren’t normal, functional people like you or me. You need to really understand psychopathy or sociopathy to trully understand that these individuals don’t understand or perceive the world the same way we do. There is no such moral compass, right or wrong, good or bad.
That’s why the only way they can only see or “understand” the negativity of their actions, is through third parties or outside perspectives. It’s horrible, and it is really frightening to know there are people outside, lurking living their own personal world, regardless of others’, but it’s just the way it is. Life is a very dark, hideous thing.
I will never, 100% know if this dude feels, regrets, or understand the real impact of his actions; most of the time they really don’t; most of these guys are just caught by the system, and are isolated from the other world because in the end, their still abide and conduct based on their own world. They’re just “taught” by the system that their actions have consequences. They don’t necessarily believe or feel it; they just know that A = B
@@alala_emily8210 lloy o
@@tefosemanate9514 to become an offender as an adult you have to constantly entertain those thoughts. I feel no sympathy for sickos.
@@ash00001 no one asked you
“My Boys” they are not YOUR BOYS
Yeah this confused me in the beginning and thought I missed something.
he was caught booty snatchin
Exactly! People are commenting on here they think he's remorseful but that statement says otherwise.
Because he thinks he has control of them
@@mikeharris2804 what's booty snatching?
These interviews are incredible. I’m so glad that I happened upon your channel.
Finally someone who can say that they hurt their victims, its not about the molester. this is a recovery story i can respect, i would never let him near my future kids ever, but i can tell that he tries to live a better life and i can respect that. Disgusting what he did, i will never get over my abuse when i was younger and i appreciate that this man says that there is no excuse.
Very disturbing. I feel empathy for the young, neglected boy he once was, but thoroughly condemn his actions. I am glad he told his story, and it is up to us what we take away from it. I hope he manages to stay away from young boys in the future.
Finally a balanced comment. The hatred some people have for these people is amazing. If they'd had his background, maybe they'd have gone the same way. Easy to judge. Looks like he's on the right path now.
Me too
@@bryanm4414 people are so condescending and narcissistic 💀
@@bryanm4414 pedo sympathizer get help
I agree. You can’t change a pedophile. They will always be pedophiles. The only thing you can do is prevent them from having victims. Or rather any more victims.
His body language when he says his attraction to young boys lasted up until 8 years ago, is a telling sign it never ended.
You think it ended?
@Whia Didju listen and learn but someone that was abused and is now putting that same trauma on other kids? Fuck no.
It's disgusting to actually get with a 14 year old as an adult, but that's around the age where someone has enough secondary sexual characteristics to be seen as attractive by non-pedophilies. We shouldn't be commenting on who does or doesn't have the attraction and assigning moral value to that. We should instead make it clear that it's the adult's responsibility to recognize that a 14 year old is not emotionally ready for sex and to not attempt to court such a person. It's hard to watch this guy without getting the impression that he's not very bright and just went with what his hormones told him without thinking about the consequences. He's not like some of the other sex offenders on this channel who realized what they were doing was wrong and were conniving to avoid getting in trouble. Imagine if he had a better support network for his disability and was taught about sexual consent. If CPS had kept him in school and off the streets like they were supposed to, he'd have learned more about healthy relationships from his peers than from gangsters and hustlers who he said had molested him in the past. And then the lives of his step-children wouldn't have had to have been ruined for him to finally understand consent in middle age.
@@ThanhTriet600 shut the fuck up and listen to him dumbass
@@Kryynism Well said my friend .
You poor baby..I have absolutely no sympathy for you. I can only imagine how the boys are now...
This just shows his child molesters are delusional to the point of being psychotic. They literally believe that children are drawn to them. I wonder if antipsychotic medications could help the rehabilitation for others.
in respect of sex offenders - How do you decide which interviews you turn off comments for.
Maybe it's up to the person?
That’s a great question, I was wondering the same thing
The ones that have comments off seem to have some sort of intellectual disability, not sure tho
Being a woman, he’ll protect them
Usually the ones that seem very manipulative or obviously lying abt certain stuff or heavily minimizing because he knows people will be disrespectful especially
Stepdads and live in boyfriends are more dangerous than guns.
Yep...Western NY seems to have been rife with this sh*t......from this and other videos.WTF?
Hell In some cases, real dads are too!
Jesus that's broad. All step dads hu?
I agree. Also think it's insane how it's taboo to hold women accountable for choosing these men and ignoring signs.
Dianna, what a great way to put it! It's so terribly sad!
I feel like all the therapy did was give him the tools to make him a better predator
It's interesting to me that he fully admits he was molested yet when it turns around and he's talking about the kids he molested he uses the phrase "messing around". He doesn't once say he molested children. I feel as though he thinks his crimes aren't as bad as what was done to him.
It is even worse. He actually said „fooling around“. 🤦♀️ such a jerk
A lot of these stories are victims becoming predators
Almost all of them are. It’s a cycle of abuse. Like the song Prison Sex by Tool artistically elaborates:
“It took so long to remember just what happened
I was so young and vestal then
You know it hurt me
But I'm breathing so I guess I'm still alive
Even if signs seem to tell me otherwise
I've got my hands bound
My head down, my eyes closed
And my throat wide open
Do unto others what has been done to me
Do unto others what has been done to you”
I agree “ the cycle of abuse “ I believe very few get out of that cycle,sadly
That mom Tracey 😳.
@@user-rz4xl6dt7k no, that’s exactly what they are. are you okay?
It's an attempt to avoid their victim status & take back their lost power & control. They're also desensitised by their own abuse so it's a behavioural & learnt 'norm'.
The cycle of abuse and neglect just breaks my heart. Protect ALL children to protect all future children. It is so heart breaking when the abused become the abusers, I mean just LISTEN to this man's childhood. He didn't have one.
i agree 100%
I really am blown away by the honesty and candidness of the people who are interviewed on this channel. It's incredible that people can share their lives this frankly. Society tends to be very judgemental of those people who have come from the lower economic strata, but those with high power jobs, education, multi million dollar homes, from the ride side of town, pretty, well dressed, and look like they got no problems and are normal, people who have no excuses for being shitty to others, are really the ones that blow my mind with hypocrisy and judgement. But for the grace of God...
What you assume to be honesty.
I can’t imagine, how brave you have to be, to step out, and speak about those horrible things, you have done.
This is terrifying to know, that judges and doctors are raping small children, and then go on and sentence them for life, when the kids go on, and molest the judges and doctors children.
I can’t even grasp the wishes cycle, that is. How do you even recover from that? Where do we start?
I have my own kids, and I would hurt the person, that would hurt my kids. At the same time, I feel for this man, and know, that he was hurt beyond my comprehension.
I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing your story.
“It was always consensual “ yep thats what abusers say, because they groom and/or intoxicate underage kids that are lonely too and need love or a father figure, of course they agree. But kids cant make rational decisions, its up to the adult to know better and stay away from kids!
he didn’t use those words. stop making shit up
And they have uncanny knack of being able to quickly ascertain who is the vulnerable child that they can manipulate.
And yet we let them decide if they're trans or not and some kids 13 or 14 can get hormones without parent approval. So we treat them as adults in some things and not others. When parents let their kids decide at young ages their gender, that is every bit as much child abuse as this and they're called open-minded. The societal "voice" is often wrong.
but do you believe kids should make the decision to have a sex change?
@@hydra2019 I don't think so. But if they can, then they can consent to sex. It can't be both ways.
He isn't fixed. He's just playing the role. He's conditioned to say the right things because he is always in fear of being locked up for life. He might be controlling his impulses better but I can guarantee he still has them.
No rehab is going
To fix "Molesters"
Its in their DNA!
Thanks for the pseudo intellectual babble
Why, do you have the impulses so that’s why you have an insider?
That's called success. Controlling your impulses is all any of us have. If think every person you're in line with a Wal-Mart isn't having dark thoughts, you're in for a surprise.
Not that I'm an expert or anything, but I know these people are masters at manipulation.
Mike, I am so sorry for what you went through as a child. No little boy should ever have to experience their innocence taken away…I feel for you and wish you never had to experience those terrible things because no one protected you. I hope you find true healing in this life and I hope those that you ended up abusing do as well….
Doesn't justify what he did
didnt say it did@@CommanderBruh
@@ninissubliminals did I ask you
yes@@CommanderBruh
@@ninissubliminals haha 😶
This was a very good video. Thank you. It helps to understand the other side and I hope that he is remorseful and hopefully the counseling actually helped for his own good.
there is no other side there is no remorse only shame and burning in hell for eternity. stealing the innocence from a child is unforgivable and deserves the death penalty.
This channel delves deep into the experiences that may contribute to poverty, homelessness, addiction, sex work and predatory behaviours. We may not view the way they live as morally correct or healthy. However it might help us to better understand the Psyche and why some people chose the path they did.
❤️
Truth
This
I disagree. There’s no “psyche” behind child molestors. It’s a family disease that completely DESTROYS a childs self-worth. Additionally, MARK IS INTERVIEWING 100’s OF FEMALES WHO PROSTITUTE & LIVE LIFE THINKING THAT THEY ARE NOT WORTHY OF LOVE BECAUSE OF WHAT AN ADULT STOLE FROM THESE GIRLS! WHAT A “SEX OFFENDER” STOLE FROM INNOCENT CHILDREN.
I have unsubscribed from this channel.
MARK LAITA: Shame on you for profiting from giving these sex offenders a voice.
MARK LAITA: How do you think this feels to women you’ve interviewed whose life has been destroyed as a result of what a sex offender has done to them?!?!!
@@neemarie He perpetrated on boys, not women! Did you not watch this video? Secondly, as a survivor of abuse, hearing from a perpetrator gives me insight! I was triggered when I first saw these videos. However, these videos allow me to look at the abuse from the outside, for the first time!
Not all abusers are as forthcoming as this guy!
It's actually healing to hear him as a former abuser apologise for his crimes!
He didn't excuse his behaviour!
He also showed clearly, that some abusers, (I'm not sure the ratio), actually arise out of abuse themselves! Which doesn't excuse the crimes that they commit, but, goes some distance in explaining the development of their pathology!
The abused, and the abusers, telling their stories in the same arena is challenging to watch at times. I myself have to be in a certain mind frame to engage here whenever I do!
However, this space is unique in that these issues 'are' discussed!
These experiences are shared in the hope that we viewers in some way, (however small), may gain something from these stories being told, as much as the interviewees express the benefit they've gained from the opportunity to share their experiences, and unburden themselves..
There seems to be genuine gratitude and relief expressed by these people, which often only ever comes when someone is finally willing to hear in such a non-threatening way..
I'm glad you felt empowered to unsubscribe from this channel!
In doing so you've used your own power to choose..
My favorite question: "What's your biggest regret?" I think the immediate reaction/answer to that question can give insight into who the person is and truly where they are in their growth (or lack thereof). Mike's first reaction--almost without hesitation--is that he ruined those kids' life. I think he probably at least knows the gravity of what he's done.
I do agree with you there. He interviewed a monster named Frankie. He said don't do it because it's not worth it, solely based on the prison sentence u will receive. He didn't say because of all the pain and hurt u cause to a poor innocent child. He also chuckled quite a bit he's a slimy evil creature. I also go mad at the interviewer asking how many boys he had fun with. U don't tiptoe around sickos, he should've said raped.
@@texasjaco9385 exactly
@@texasjaco9385 I think Mark says "had fun with" to play down the gravity of the situation to put the predator at ease, and then in turn that would make them want to talk more. I dont like it either. I also don't like how he says prostitute instead of sex worker. And is ignorant about transgender people. I still like Mark but disagree with him here
Yeah but it was at the very end when he said. I mean what u said makes total sense. But it still chapped my ass hearing it.
That is just the expected answer he knows society wants to hear. He is not comfortable because he is honest, he is comfortable because he is rehearsed.
I fell asleep and woke up in the middle of the interview. Whoah. Reality is harsh and I hope any woman raising a son listens to these. Bless you all.
Bingo
watching these videos as someone that studies forensic psychology is ridiculously insightful
Note: they're usually married. He sought women to give a veneer of "normalcy."
And for access to their children.
And access
Exactly, people always feel a lot more comfortable around “family men” than lone wolves.
Calm and collected well rehearsed story.
“The clients were actually lawyers, politicians”... I’m just ..
This is nothing new
@@whiskeykilo6072 it might be nothing new but sure as hell should not stop surprising someone! I mean
You’re surprised? They are some of the sickest fucks because they can get away with it
And this surprised you?
@@whiskeykilo6072 I’ve never said that is new, just hits me every time
My parents friend was divorced & remarried. She had 2 kids from her 1st marriage. Her 2nd husband molested her 2 kids & the other kids that lived downstairs. My sister at the time was 12 years old. She was hanging out with all the kids & the girls who lived downstairs said something to the effect of "lets take our clothes off" (as they were jumping around & playing). My sister immediately told my mother. This is how it came to be known that these kids were being molested & it was only a matter of time that they keyed in on the new husband of my mothers friend. This was during the mid 1980's.... Today, her 2 kids are adults & completely f'd up. One has a restraining order against him from the family. The other one was married a handful of times, with different baby daddies etc... They have disturbing & morbid themed tattoos all over their bodies, they were involved in drugs & alcohol. It's a shame to see that these kids were let down by the very person who was supposed to protect them. their Mother & Father.
This is a perfect example of the victim becoming the perpetrator. The cycle never ends it’s so sad. Imagine if that stuff never happened to him it may have never triggered his mind to be twisted from the trauma and those children he abused would have been spared. As much as the things he did makes me angry I’m even more angry at the people that did it to him and made him who he is.
I love how he says " I started fooling around with my oldest son." No dude, you groomed your oldest son. Sick F deserves to be locked up for life.
Disgusting!!!! 😖
No, put down .
Well he also uses terms like that when he was discussing the times he was molested as well. He dropped out of school at a very early age so his vocabulary isn’t strong. he used street slang
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@@JAMES-dv5ns You deserve that. People like you calling for someone’s death from watching one video are disgusting.
"I should of went to someone who would of listened." That statement right there is sad. It wasn't for him to do, it was for the adults in his life to make sure he was safe.
I had to watch this in 2x speed. I wanted the knowledge he provided in this interview, to try and heal from my trauma but with 2x speed it helps lessen the emotional response I'd normally have to this. If that makes any sense at all ..
Makes total sense to me.
Makes sense but I couldn’t understand him in 2x😂
Good idea
It's hard to listen to the sex offenders...
1.15x he speaks at a normal speed
and of course, his first words are that he’s from my hometown😭
Well you’re lucky he’s gay.
congrats
His ability to be nonchalant is frightening.
He's not. He just had a lot of therapy.
Sam Vaknin talks about it on his channel... it’s called cold empathy. Logically he knows... but no connection to the feeling aspect
@@I3rittanyLynne I’ve never heard of that “cold empathy”. So SO true. I’m gonna read about it a bit. Thanks ✌️
desensitization
Your ability to be stupid is frightening.
Started smoking at 7 years old still stuck at 7 years old in ways one being attracted to kids that age,. Got to raise our children with love PERIOD
It’s to bad infertility is a thing. But there’s always adoption
And drinking heavily
In his case, a little less love would’ve been better…
This is a brilliant series of interviews. Thank you.
I was molested (touched innapropriately and a little more) at 8 years old by an older boy in my neighborhood. I stayed tf away from him after that and never told anyone. Recently I looked him up on FB and found out he committed suicide.
Did that make you happy?
I was never molested but a relative was by a married-in uncle.
That ex-uncle fell off a ladder years ago. Apparently his leg got caught in the rungs and he actually died from hanging upside down so long. He was in poor health I guess.
I literally jumped for joy when I heard that story. I felt some peace roll over me knowing he was dead and he suffered.
Maybe sounds psychopathic but that situation tore a huge hole in my family. It destroyed his victim. She is a shell of a human being. Her mother fell on hard times because of it and never recovered. It’s a horrible thing.
I wish they all would just kill themselves.
as much as i want to believe this guy is reformed and has learned right from wrong, the harsh truth is that he could easily just be saying what people want to hear. there is a high possibility he could reoffend, no matter what he says. it's absolutely tragic what happened to him as a child, but we shouldn't let our sympathy cloud our judgement.
This channel is fascinating, it’s shot perfectly.
To the person who runs this channel - thank you.
It’s insightful, it’s honest, it give a perspective to so many complex situations which would never get address like this.
Amazing work x
My ""step dad"" (hate saying that).. got with my Mom because of my sister and I. He always told the story how the 1st time he met us (To meet our mom), he saw my sister and I (3 & new born. I'm the oldest), & "fell in love". He said he knew we needed him and he needed us.
Well, he took no time at all to start messing with me. Even after he was caught, and kicked out. She let him back in, & they got married. I was rapped and molested for 15 years. It got worse and worse over times. When I was 10, a family member who stayed 1 week with us caught on to what he was doing to me & asked me. I was terrified, but I told. DSS got involved. He was out of the house for almost 2 years. The whole time my mom still saw him regularly. Finally, otw to an interview/meeting, my mom told me to lie & tell them that he never messed with me. Fake cry & do whatever I have to do to make them believe me. So, I did just that. Not knowing it would make him come back home. Of course they didn't believe me, but had to go off my word. He came back. Again, didn't hesitate to start back messing with me. Got worse as I said. Violently raping me. Well, I finally ran away at 16 years old. That left my 13 year old sister for him. Well, it took her almost 3 years to finally tell me what he was doing. Mess with me is one thing, but you don't mess with my sister! I had planned to kill him. But, I told authorities instead. They immediately got involved.
"Step dad" ran. They tested my sister's underwear from that morning before school, and found his semen in them. 😡 She was put in foster care. Ect. His own, blood daughter (step sister I grew up with) came forward and told her story. He started messing with his own daughter at the age of 1. Sick mf.. We finally had trial. He was found guilty and has to serve 300 years that they made into a mandatory 60 year sentence, then another 10 years, so 70 years before he can go up for parole. He will obviously be dead by then. He tried hanging himself at one point when he first went to jail, but they saved him.
Woo! That felt good to tell!!
I'm so sorry you and your sister went through that. But I'm so glad you finally got justice. ❤
I'm so sorry. I'm overwhelmed with anger and sadness reading this post. You're a strong woman.
I’m so sorry 😢
Amanda, you just broke my heart💔 may you meet only good people un your life from now on. Pity, you didnt say a word as to how your mom reacted on all this at the end. I hope snd pray this woman realized her mistakes and apologized in front of you at least once.
Wow.. you are a survivor. Wow
He’s evil, but he’s trying. I can’t help but respect it. He’s doing what he must and anyone who is improving should be proud of that.
As someone that was conditioned . I can openly say that if you're affected There's no shame in being strong. Everyone else, God bless you and yours. I hurt everyday but that's my ammunition to generate positive energy. I could judge but my heart won't carry hatred or resentment. I pray you know you're stronger than you think
I feel for the boy that was abused and neglected. It’s sad that victims become victimizers. It’s tragic. Several lives were ruined
Complete embellishment. He is very practised in playing down his role. I have a vague idea of what he did to those children but that is only because I am reading between the lines. I think he is dishonest. If he wasn't caught he would still be abusing children I have no doubt about it. Hope his victims have found peace
@@iStacktheBacon : Yes. Tall tree short rope for those muthas!
yes i agree 100% !!! i feel like the only reason he’s trying to pretend like he feels bad about what he did is because he’s scared to get his ass beat or worse. most likely will reoffend if he hasn’t already!!
@@user-rz4xl6dt7k The peace of a grave. This POS said raping kids was "fooling around" and now he's living with a deaf.mute with young children who got shot under some mysterious circumstances, and you care about whether or not he's found peace???? Jeez...you people are INSANE!!!
@@user-rz4xl6dt7k i hope someone puts a bullet in all pedophiles heads.
He literally said he didn’t think he did anything wrong…so I’m sure you’re right.
Sincere remorse is not always crying and begging. I don’t doubt that this man regrets what he did and I believe that he truly understands what he did and why it was wrong. His upbringing failed him and he has taken full accountability, even when faced with death by revealing his crime to his fellow inmates. I respect the man in this video.
I love your interviews, I can't speak for others but for myself its educational. As I've said before I commend you for staying focused on the interview and not being biased towards the people you interview. I don't know how you do it. This one really hit home for me experiencing this firsthand. This guy Mike, he may stay away from young children now but I can guarantee you deep down he still has an itch for it. I had an investigator tell me they don't change what they crave, she said just like you and me, were married have a husband, heterosexual. we like men, just like gays are attracted to the same sex, these people are atrracted to children. He deceived his wife marrying her, he didn't want her, he wanted those children. I married one in 1991, recently divorced with a 3 year old daughter and a son' 9, he never touched my son. He was the perfect husband and I know why now, let me just say they destroy families, most of all they rob your child of the innocence, get into their tiny little minds and teach them unspeakable things, the very things you thought you were protecting them from. Eleven years under my nose, it wasn't an everyday thing, long periods of not touching her at all. At 14 she came to me and told me. I turned him in, went through the courts, divorced him and my daughter has paid the price, she'll never be the same. He even had the audacity to say my daughter was promiscuous, at 5 or 6? Really? She didn't know what promiscuous was at that age. So, Please, I beg of you to protect your children at all costs, pedophiles are liars and never change. If they can hide this grotesque thing they do for years right under your nose do you really think they change? No, they got caught with their hands in the cookie jar. They'll always blame something as to why they do it. Not all children, especially young boys grow up to be pedophiles. That is just an excuse and another lie they tell, they want your sympathy. Let that sink in.
It's scary how he's so depraved and so removed from it. It's like he learned the words to express remorse but devoid of the emotion
I see remorse, I also see lack of social and speaking skills.
I agree I don’t sense remorse. He’s just very childlike.
So Sam Vaknin talks about it on his channel about narcissism and other personality disorders...
it’s called cold empathy. Logically he knows... but no connection to the feeling aspect. That part of the brain wasn’t formed and it can never be learned later on.
Cierto 👍 es un monstruo que se controla pero ya volverá a atacar aplaudo la condena social que lo desprecia
Not making excuses for him, but he’s spoken about all of these things over and over again in counseling for decades as well as currently being on medication for paranoid schizophrenia. I don’t think he seems void of emotion recounting the story, he just seems somewhat apathetic of possibly exhausted by speaking about these heavy subjects for the umpteenth time.
I don’t know this man but he seems to have a very clear understanding of how he inflicted pain upon other troubled boys and has regret and remorse over it.
This series isn’t an acting series. Some people cry and some people can’t or don’t feel the need to cry retelling their stories. Remember, they’ve lived with these experiences for a veryyy long time, whereas we’re just hearing about it for the first time, so we’re shocked by it and to them it’s just old hat.
When he said his second wife had four kids I thought, no!!!!!
Didn't he also say she was deaf/mute? So he took advantage of her to get to her kids basically.
So true.....
@@SB-uw3fe yea, this guy, he's being very transparent, but he's also manipulating us a lot with how he's talking. This guy is a predator and very calculated. Marrying a deaf and mute woman so he can molest their children? That's about the worst thing a person can do.
@@SB-uw3fe its the sickest part of the whole story imo
⚠️ Visine is poisonous if ingested and can be lethal. At least one woman killed her husband this way ⚠️
Mark thank you for doing what you do on UA-cam and please keep making videos and documentaries
I will never understand how the abused become abusers. As a survivor, I could NEVER inflict what happened to me unto someone else. I have no sympathy or praise to give these people, but Mark, I’m really enjoying this series of sex offenders. I hope you find more people and continue with this, as a survivor of an abuser who will never admit his wrongs, it’s very interesting to see people sit down and tell their stories honestly as much as it may hurt. If this sounds familiar, I commented this on another video, but the comments were disabled afterwards. Again, amazing work as usual.
Ppl are different and have different personality traits its like that metaphor of the two sons raised by a drunk dad 1 decided he will never ever touch a drink seeing how messed up it ruined ppl's lives while the other became an alcoholic.
Individuals are different and how u will choose to do the " right thing "for another they choose what is their "normal " which can be evil actions but they normalized and desentisized to a point that they detach themselves while commiting evil acts.
Young children who are abused from very little associate that act as normal becoz they know nothing else and this sadly is why predators take advantage of them for so long and it takes time before the victims can talk about their abuse to family. This is truly a sick world
And those victims who never talk about it just use coping mechanisms to stay sane and mostly its maladaptive bjvrs like alcohol abuse and drugs or evn putting themselves in dangerous situations like sex work not all but a majority cope in these ways to numb the pain and awful memories
"As a survivor" stfu
No one needs your sympathy, but when you hear his story you can have some understanding.. this man was getting molested by several men coaxed by his mother and getting drunk and high at 7-8 years old. If you think that won’t completely mess you up then I don’t know.
This man is bragging about his story being public information. He should have never been released. Absolute monster.
I don't think he was bragging. I think what he was trying to say without coming out and saying it, there were some very prominent people from that town involved in the case of the hustling at the gay bar.
Excelente comentario 👍 monstruo que pronto ataca una vez más
I didn't sense any bragging?
It's crazy that you find these guys that are willing to admit and speak on these things. Usually they lie through their teeth
I feel like the interviewer is quite harsh to the addicts and prostitutes on rhis channel, challenging them, interrupting them, contradicting them, etc.
But when it comes to the abusers, he lets them talk without interrupting, treads lightly around the wording, disables comments so people can't criticise them, etc.
this is an unfiltered interview. Do you want to see filtered and staged interviews?
Wanting the person to elaborate and ask questions to help them tell their story may look like he's interrupting them
"My boys" 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 "fooling around"
I don’t believe this guy is remorseful or reformed.
Really? I feel like he is remorseful not sure about being reformed tho
These twisted p o s will never get healed or reformed. That's impossible. They might not reoffend, but as long as they are alive, their brains keep thinking disgusting. As long as they don't act on their demonic thoughts, they are dormant.
My impression was that he was remorseful and genuine in his story. I could be wrong. We all want people to be reformed however we are not so apologetic for sex offenders. Its a tricky situation. They could never explain their position enough and others will never accept their apology
@@rachelnuku3170 Prison is what scares the you know what out of him. Keep it real. Stop, ok. He's telling you what he knows "society" wants to hear. Lots of people are not stupid or ignorant to think he's remorseful. He got arrested and sentenced!
Once a sex offender always one.
Having anger towards someone who has done such awful things, especially to children, is very natural. It is difficult to listen to stories like this. I refuse to have hate towards anyone though. This man clearly had awful things happen to him as a kid, and then lived on the streets with no education. It makes sense that he did what he did. Not okay, of course, but its helpful to understand someone's story that leads them to do what they do.
I have a lot of respect and gratitude for him telling his story. It takes a lot of courage to do it because he knows a lot of people will get stuck in their anger towards him.
Its molestation when it happens to him but its fooling around when he does it to someone else.