Well to be fair, once you get up there in age, your perspective on life does change, and it is nice to have a friend to lean on , once you are 6 foot under , you get to spend all your time alone for eternity . You can always have a cat , but cats like to sleep for 16 hours a day , so the conversations are not always that good 😊. Entirely up to you of course. Have a nice day.
This video speaks to me in so many ways. I'm 35 in Omaha and currently building my van. It's been a dream of mine for a years now to be a nomad. I've watched all of my friends get married, buy houses and raise kids. It really is a tremendous amount of work to achieve this life and I have had lots of negative feedback from people who don't understand.
Your speech and reflections was a mindopener, just what I needed! Some of us are just meant to be true individuals! Loved the guitar playing and singing!
That song at the beginning is beautiful, and your videos make me want to start a journey of my own even more! I look forward to seeing more of your stuff!
Just came here to say the quality of this video is spectacular! It is breathtakingly unique compared to the same copy paste formula used. The editing, shots and an actual message or at the very least personal perspective was incredible! You did a great job! I hope you continue finding your happiness and wish you the best of luck in life!
I am 73 and am learning similar lessons following the Covid plandemic that separated me from friends and family. I now travel alone in my 24' motorhome. Tough at first but learning to like my own company and the unknown that each day brings. I'm proud of you!
You are never alone when you have the guitar, no idea why people have kids either, worked for 35 years as a nurse, it was truly awful, I think you make good decisions
@@Dave4291I want to say Thank you. From someone who needed nurses…much more than ever imagined. Thank Very Much for all your years and Giving of Self. ❤
I’ve followed you on Instagram for a while, but this popped up on my recommended feed today and I’m so glad I clicked. You have a beautiful and creative style of making videos, and I completely resonate with your message ❤
This was a beautiful testament to life as a human being. The ability to flow and grow in the direction that suits your soul rather than what others may expect. I have been single for 15 years now and the number of times I am asked, "You got a man?" by well meaning family and friends - well, I could retire comfortably if I received a dollar for every time I am asked that. And no, I don't have a man but I have a beautifully messy, peaceful, exciting life on my own that I love. :) Wishing you a very happy 33 birthday. I hope your day and year ahead is filled with much joy and laughter.
Love this channel! People are so judgemental on other people's life choices, and ironically, even the ones that HATE their own lives. So, be authentic and live your OWN life!
Awww good for you! I agree with you in so many ways. I did get married, but at age 34. We sailed away to Mexico twice and now are full time in our small travel trailer. No kids, no picket fence. Good on you :)
Thank you for sharing this. Like a lot of folks, I feel so stuck in "what you're supposed to do." You're living in a different way than the world says you have to. And you're doing it. It looks so peaceful. Peace be with you.
I hope this video goes mega viral… I was hooked through the whole thing… that rarely happens on UA-cam these days, especially with a creator you just found! Thank you for being you!
As a 55 yr old retired Navy Veteran, and now working on my second retirement, your words hit home. Although, I do LOVE being in a relationship, I have sacrificed my identity for others far too often. Now that I can see the end of the tunnel (4 years) my goals are exactly what you are doing. Thank you for sharing!!
Dude, 2:18 - 2:32 is such an amazing transition. Perfect amount of silence between joking about being alone and acknowledging that it might just be for you. And the energy change with the music..SO GOOD!
why is this video making me cry at my desk?! This video came at the right time! I am in the last 6 months of my 20s and entering into my 30s and the pressure from everyone saying I need to have a husband already, kids, and a house is too much! The road is tugging at my soul and this video was confirmation from the universe that I am on the right path! Thank you for this beautiful magic! So glad I am not the only who thinks this way cause kids are a no for me and I am also at a place where I am perfectly fine being alone. I am focused more on gaining loving friendships, having epic adventures, and falling in love with art again! Hope to see you on the road one day! Happy travels ✨✨ also Happy belated birthday!
You kind of remind me of myself from some years back (although I'm male). I also grew up in (two) smaller towns in the Midwest and eventually ended up living in Portland, Oregon for several years. Then I decided to come back to where I was born and where most of my family is from (although they are all pretty much gone at this point), so now I live in Montana. I spent 6 1/2 years in college earning 2 bachelor's degrees in fields that I am no longer pursuing. I'm glad I got that education, because it has made me a more well rounded person, but my life has taken a different path. I figured when I was younger that I would get married someday, but I'm still living with just my dog, and I'd honestly rather be happy doing that than miserable because I settled for living with someone who I don't really like and who doesn't really like me. I'm 49 years old, and if I never end up married, that's okay. I would have to find a woman who absolutely can't imagine her life without me and vice versa. Short of that, I think I'll be happier by myself. I wish you all the best and hope that you continue to find joy in everything life has to offer.
What a beautiful message. Aloneness does not mean lonely, nor does it mean unhappy. Most people are so unhappy with themselves that they hope to find external happiness and validation in other people. You have an incredibly soothing singing voice, and you have a soul of gold ☺️ may you find all the happiness in the world in your 30s. I wish i had the balls to go chase happiness…
Nice guitar sound and voice! I can relate : at 33 I broke up my marriage and went from Belgium to Greece to become an entertainer and sailing instructor. Best therapy I ever did, although my parents said I was 'totally irresponsable'. Follow your own heart and never listen to the crowd! Greetings from Europe.
After 15 years fulltiming I love to hear someone discover what you have found. The push back is so often someone trying to justify their reasons for not choosing our paths. This lesson we've learned is applicable to other facets of the journey and every day we live the lives we do, the way we choose, is very good ROI. Good on ya!
It takes a strong person to be comfortable with themselves alone. Great job living your own life! It helps when there are beautiful mountains, deserts, rivers, oceans etc. Ive been alone most of my life. I dont want kids either. Great video, injoy the journey!~
Hey Melissa, I’m glad to have come across your chaneel and be joining your community 🙂. I subscribe to every word you said. I’m 20 years older than you and have realized probably later than you did that there are so many ways to enjoy life, not just the “standard” one 😉. Cheers, peace out and see ya in the next one 😊
Happy Birthday!!! that is the truth, I do believe that you have to enjoy your own time and love the connection that you create with people who support your dreams are. It was a beautiful setting in this video and you really seem to enjoy the open road:)
What a beautiful video! This was so well put together. I have to say...from all the life experiences I've learned on the road, learning to be content with myself and not having to rely on others for happiness has been SO HUGE. It's kinda scary to think how much my past was dictated by that. MORE VIDEOS! Also - the first shot with your van bouncing up and down was hilarious 😂
I absolutely loved this video! The message was so meaningful. Happy birthday! I'm glad that you have found what makes YOU happy and have figured out that you don't need to fit in to everyone else "norm".
@@missrovertravel It's more important to enjoy your time than putting together videos. Unless of course UA-cam is a source of income then of course more videos! =)
Great video. Thanks for your open honesty. I love the shot of your books, especially The War of Art. Steven Pressfield is such an inspiration as are you.
When you recounted what your patients told you - their regrets, wasted time, and missed opportunities - that landed HARD with me. I'm glad you heard that message at a time in your life when you needed it, and could act on it. Happy trails!
Such a beautiful video! I love the voice over- it’s so wonderful to be able to create our own lil worlds- looks like you created a beautiful one that’s all your own!
Amazing! Thank you for uploading this video and sharing your experience with us! I’m very happy for you that you have found your path and living it without regrets. I hope more people can be like you follow their hearts and not be strained by fear or the unknown! Keep up the good works, Melissa!
54 and having been doing vanlife over 5 years there are some lonely empty times but the lord is always there with me, I don't desire to go back in home and love this vanlife ❤
Wow what a great video. I did the 9-5 wife, kids and now retired divorced and alone I’m just now at 59 feeling free to live my life. I have been taking short trips my whole life but since I retired I’m gone a month at a time soon to be traveling full time. Live now life goes by soooo fast enjoy every second and do what makes you feel alive. Maybe I’ll see you on the road someday. Oh and happy birthday!!
Happy Birthday!! Thank you for your courage to be vulnerable and post this video of your inner feelings. It's hard to realize how powerful the influence is of mainstream culture. It's incrementally more challenging to choose a different path. Kudos to you for overcoming both of these and choosing your own path.
I loved this video so much! I'm so glad to see you settling into road life and really finding your flow. also I needed to be reminded of a lot of what you talked about.. I'm turning 30 this year and definitely letting it get to my head a bit, focusing on too many things in the future instead of the now. this one really helped me 💛
Thanks for posting, Rover. I'm so grateful you posted this video. We are so fortunate in this country to have many options. However, many people hold on to the ideals of our parents and friends who haven't yet realized that there are many paths in this life and there are no rules. We can always go back to the old ways of living if this doesn't suit us. 😊
What an exceptional human being you are . Im realising everything you've said in this vlog at the ripe old age of 50. I wish more young people would step out of what we are taught to be normal . Refreshing to see you doing it your way .. 👍🏻👍🏻 subscribed✔️
I travel solo and love it. It gives you time to stop and enjoy the little things. Meeting people on the road fill in the gaps. Take care and have a Vantastic time.
Also 33, turning 34 in September, I work a typical 9-5 and recently started doing vanlife out of a truck camper, the amount of people that question my life choices but the freedom to go anywhere is such a great feeling. Keep doing what you love to do and I'm happy to have found your channel. ❤
Good scenery. Like your music. Moving right along I see ; ) Hope you enjoy the moments as they happen. Be happy for all the people who are not. Your parents generation gave them the attitude they have. Their generation also made yours possible.
Happy Birthday! Keep going your own way, it's a gift to live this freely and keep doing what you want now what the majority wants. Its very relatable to me, almost getting 30 and sometimes feeling "behind things" but my path is different and that's okay. ❤
You’re inspiring me to start practicing piano! Such a beautiful video, and heck yes to chosen family and the different kinds of soulmates we meet along the way 🙌
1st timer here.....68, kid-less, and....super happy. I see what my nieces/nephews are going thru. (ie ENDURING) and....I dodged a bullet! Being alone doesn't mean lonely: it does mean "ALL ONE" if you use the time well!
I am so happy I found your page, your music and views are wonderful! Firstly i have a son who said he would never marry, stout in his view like you. Hes independent, strong, and always busy, he felt it wouldnt be fair to a spouse with how chaotic his life is. Then randomly one day a woman bumped into him at the gym, and they started being friendly at the gym, she too was busy... She was a lawyer who went into nursing, and now focuses on training folks. shes a fitness competitor like him haha. Both have multiple side businesses, both are always on the go! Now? She just finished swapping a rebuilt cummins into her uhaul box truck build. she just did the 4x4 conversion and modded the frame a lot. He has a small none high roof e350 long body van non 4x4. They are currently taking the year off and traveling together. Next year they will begin homesteading on their property in N AZ. A he and she tinyhouse, on L and R rv ports of a shop building for shade from heat and sun. green houses and garden beds. goats. chickens. conies. fishes. etc. They didnt want kids, and now they are talking about it haha. My daughter is different. She was in a committed relationship, thought shed have kids, and loved being stationary predictable and worked at her small hospital. Now shes a traveling nurse, has been since the plandemic. She made and makes very good money. Her life falling apart lead her to get her masters. And chase other education to grow as an individual. She used to be anti fishing anti hunting. She now enjoys bow hunting, and etc. She was so afraid to be alone... her work made her unhealthy and tired all the time. Now shes super fit. She does brazilian jj, muay thai, boxing, karate, she showers at the gyms she goes to while traveling. She wont die alone. In CO a friend of hers owns a private tinyhouse community on their massive ranch property, plans to build more, she will eventually live there with all her gfs haha. All of them arent interested in getting married or having kids, but they dont mind baby sitting nephews, nieces, etc. Some were teachers so they def dont want their own kids haha. Just live and live well. "Fear not death nor the pain of it, Fear the life left unlived; Live a life less ordinary."
Well Said, I’m happy to see you living your life the way you want to and not what “society” says you have to be or do, I’m 59 and have never been married and have no children, I spent time in the military and after my last overseas deployment in 2005-06 and after seeing and helping to load flag draped transfer cases I knew that my life was forever changed, I did not want to get married or have kids, I found myself enjoying the solitude of being a lifelong bachelor, and over the past 17 years I have been involved in Cat rescues, and sitting on my couch with multiple cats that are alive because of me brings me great peace, happiness, and pleasure, sure I will die alone and forgotten by society, but at least I can say that in my tiny little corner of the world there was a place where Peace, Love, and Happiness reigned. And I send those same blessings to you as well.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts! Very very relatable at this moment in my life as well. Thank you so much for the reminder that it is okay. These choices are okay. We will be okay 💓
Well, happy belated birthday I guess! 🎉 I am 32, and trying to find joy in my own company and my own pace. Van life isn't for me - at least, I wouldn't want to do it for long - but it's great to see people can find meaning in it. I hope you keep enjoying them road.
Hey There! I stumbled upon your channel today and thought I would take a moment to send positive female-adventurer vibes your way! I love that you are seizing the day, living unconventionally and sharing your story. I am also in my 30's, childfree and traveling the Colorado wilderness in a 20 ft trailer along with my life partner. Maybe we'll bump into each other on the road! Happy travels!
Clicked on this randomly, when it came up in my feed. Loveky to see someone so happy and comfortable in themself, living for the now is the perfect situation, anything else and you just end up regretting it later, when it's too late to do anything about it 😊
I just discovered your channel with this video and I started crying because it sounded like you were telling my story too. I grew up in Iowa, with the same expectations of settling down, getting a 9-5, and having kids. I’ve always been single and I’ve never wanted to have kids (I think I was under 10 the first time I told my Mom that). I tried the 9-5 corporate job for a decade and it destroyed my mental health. On December 18th, 2022 I set out on the road in my Ford Econoline (low roof) and finally found the freedom I was looking for. Unfortunately I had to return home for a year due to financial issues, but I spent the time rebuilding my van and now I’m setting out again in 2 weeks and I can’t wait! Maybe I’ll see you down the road sometime! Thank you for telling your story! ❤
Certain ‘commitments’ are just a box society places us into. Whether or not we stay, leave or paint ourselves a new box.. well. That’s up to us now, isn’t it. Glad the algorithm placed this edit in front of me this evening. Cheers, and rubber side down.
Love the message you are sending out! I am just starting my UA-cam adventure life with my four legged friend 🐺 and can’t wait to see where it leads. Cheers :)
I appreciate this video a great deal. Turned 30 this year and plan to spend a few months on the road at a time this coming year while my girlfriend finishes grad school. Have a life at home I love, but been wanting to see more of the world for years. Weird intersection of life getting locked down on one hand and still wanting to explore on the other hand. Thanks for the perspective and transparency!!
I agree 100 percent your idea of life. Ive done 3 different trips around the country and ive seen a lot. Its been years since ive traveled but I wish I could be right there with you. The experiences will live on forever. Like seeing a grizzly on the trail in Grand Teton, or getting the best campsite in Kings Canyon.
I think it's refreshing to see a surge in people adopting the nomadic lifestyle. One reason is because it allows them to not only experience new relationships with other people but also to allow other people to experience them. I've met so many cool people while traveling. What was it your patients said? "Live now". Yeah, best advice for anyone and everyone on the planet. Do you. Be who you are. We all die alone if you really think about it. I'm going to subscribe because I admire your philosophy on life.
"constantly chasing whats next" this is something i struggle with at 29 and learning to practice being present and mindful of what i already have and where i already am has been a challenge.
I just ordered a 2024 Transit, selling the house and going mobile solo. The 9-5 taxed to death with wifey is no longer a happy way of life, your awesome video captured all that is good in living free. Thank you for supporting the dream is real.
You are doing everything right. 50 year old dog dad here, no kids, no self-owned house (never wanted one), gave up my corporate job for being self-employed and working with a handful of clients. Happy with my life and totally at peace with everything, and yes I'd do it all again. I've come to the conclusion that most other people are insecure and seek for reassurance on their own decisions. They have the kids, they wanted a house more than anything in the world, they stick to their corporates because it gives them so much safety - and that's why you have to do it all the same, so they can feel acknowledged. If you don't, guess who's the weirdo. Don't fall for it! Thanks for the nice video. Take care out there
I just found your channel. I love your music and this was such a great video ❤ any chance you could share a link for where to buy that folding chair? It looks like it packs very small 👍
I feel this video....“ Loneliness is the pain of being alone. Solitude is the glory of being alone.” - Paul Tillich
I’m keeping this quote.
@@StephenSkoutas 🙏🏻
Correct 👍🏻👍🏻
I love everything about this edit. The message, the cohesive feel, the footage, the music, it's perfect.
Thank you Benson!!! I appreciate you
@@missrovertravel Thanks for sharing your adventures with us!
Alone at 30!
At 30 is when I started being alone. Now in my early 70s I'm still alone and I'm a happy camper!
29-30 is when one's actually born !! But you don't know that until way after 60
“the great part of being human is that we all find joy differently” is honestly such a great reply to people who are like “urrr gonna die aloneee”
Heck yeah. I don’t know why people get so mad 😭
@@missrovertravel because they hate everything that is different, because they are ignorant and have no clue what they are doing as well^^
Great song I liked your acoustic version. Julien Baker "I want to go home" at the end of her Audiotree live is amazing.
Well to be fair, once you get up there in age, your perspective on life does change, and it is nice to have a friend to lean on , once you are 6 foot under , you get to spend all your time alone for eternity .
You can always have a cat , but cats like to sleep for 16 hours a day , so the conversations are not always that good 😊.
Entirely up to you of course.
Have a nice day.
This video speaks to me in so many ways. I'm 35 in Omaha and currently building my van. It's been a dream of mine for a years now to be a nomad. I've watched all of my friends get married, buy houses and raise kids. It really is a tremendous amount of work to achieve this life and I have had lots of negative feedback from people who don't understand.
Your speech and reflections was a mindopener, just what I needed! Some of us are just meant to be true individuals! Loved the guitar playing and singing!
That song at the beginning is beautiful, and your videos make me want to start a journey of my own even more! I look forward to seeing more of your stuff!
Just came here to say the quality of this video is spectacular! It is breathtakingly unique compared to the same copy paste formula used. The editing, shots and an actual message or at the very least personal perspective was incredible! You did a great job! I hope you continue finding your happiness and wish you the best of luck in life!
I am 73 and am learning similar lessons following the Covid plandemic that separated me from friends and family. I now travel alone in my 24' motorhome. Tough at first but learning to like my own company and the unknown that each day brings. I'm proud of you!
You are never alone when you have the guitar, no idea why people have kids either, worked for 35 years as a nurse, it was truly awful, I think you make good decisions
@@Dave4291I want to say Thank you. From someone who needed nurses…much more than ever imagined. Thank Very Much for all your years and Giving of Self. ❤
The fact that you understand that the demic was a plan, makes you wiser than many.
It was a weird time to be a reasonable person.
Enjoy your adventures, and the lack of blood clots. 😉
This is encouraging I'm about to start
I’ve followed you on Instagram for a while, but this popped up on my recommended feed today and I’m so glad I clicked. You have a beautiful and creative style of making videos, and I completely resonate with your message ❤
This was a beautiful testament to life as a human being. The ability to flow and grow in the direction that suits your soul rather than what others may expect. I have been single for 15 years now and the number of times I am asked, "You got a man?" by well meaning family and friends - well, I could retire comfortably if I received a dollar for every time I am asked that. And no, I don't have a man but I have a beautifully messy, peaceful, exciting life on my own that I love. :) Wishing you a very happy 33 birthday. I hope your day and year ahead is filled with much joy and laughter.
So great to have you back! Beautiful video, both artistically and philosophically! Glad you're living your life the way you want to live it!
Thank you so much!
Love this channel! People are so judgemental on other people's life choices, and ironically, even the ones that HATE their own lives. So, be authentic and live your OWN life!
Happy Birthday! I'm turning 30 a week from today. Just found your channel and within the first 30 seconds, I'm sold already! Subbed
Ahhh happy early birthday! 30s are fantastic so far
*”Sorry, Nana”*
Hah, felt that! 😅
There’s a whole gen of us out here takin alternative paths 🙌🏻
Enjoyed your wisdom, thanks for sharing ❤
Awww good for you! I agree with you in so many ways. I did get married, but at age 34. We sailed away to Mexico twice and now are full time in our small travel trailer. No kids, no picket fence. Good on you :)
Thank you for sharing this. Like a lot of folks, I feel so stuck in "what you're supposed to do." You're living in a different way than the world says you have to. And you're doing it. It looks so peaceful. Peace be with you.
I hope this video goes mega viral… I was hooked through the whole thing… that rarely happens on UA-cam these days, especially with a creator you just found! Thank you for being you!
As a 55 yr old retired Navy Veteran, and now working on my second retirement, your words hit home. Although, I do LOVE being in a relationship, I have sacrificed my identity for others far too often. Now that I can see the end of the tunnel (4 years) my goals are exactly what you are doing. Thank you for sharing!!
Dude, 2:18 - 2:32 is such an amazing transition. Perfect amount of silence between joking about being alone and acknowledging that it might just be for you. And the energy change with the music..SO GOOD!
why is this video making me cry at my desk?! This video came at the right time! I am in the last 6 months of my 20s and entering into my 30s and the pressure from everyone saying I need to have a husband already, kids, and a house is too much! The road is tugging at my soul and this video was confirmation from the universe that I am on the right path! Thank you for this beautiful magic! So glad I am not the only who thinks this way cause kids are a no for me and I am also at a place where I am perfectly fine being alone. I am focused more on gaining loving friendships, having epic adventures, and falling in love with art again! Hope to see you on the road one day! Happy travels ✨✨ also Happy belated birthday!
You kind of remind me of myself from some years back (although I'm male). I also grew up in (two) smaller towns in the Midwest and eventually ended up living in Portland, Oregon for several years. Then I decided to come back to where I was born and where most of my family is from (although they are all pretty much gone at this point), so now I live in Montana. I spent 6 1/2 years in college earning 2 bachelor's degrees in fields that I am no longer pursuing. I'm glad I got that education, because it has made me a more well rounded person, but my life has taken a different path. I figured when I was younger that I would get married someday, but I'm still living with just my dog, and I'd honestly rather be happy doing that than miserable because I settled for living with someone who I don't really like and who doesn't really like me. I'm 49 years old, and if I never end up married, that's okay. I would have to find a woman who absolutely can't imagine her life without me and vice versa. Short of that, I think I'll be happier by myself. I wish you all the best and hope that you continue to find joy in everything life has to offer.
What a beautiful message. Aloneness does not mean lonely, nor does it mean unhappy. Most people are so unhappy with themselves that they hope to find external happiness and validation in other people.
You have an incredibly soothing singing voice, and you have a soul of gold ☺️ may you find all the happiness in the world in your 30s. I wish i had the balls to go chase happiness…
That was really touching. I can really feel that video and closely relate. You’re a special kind of person. Thank you
Nice guitar sound and voice! I can relate : at 33 I broke up my marriage and went from Belgium to Greece to become an entertainer and sailing instructor. Best therapy I ever did, although my parents said I was 'totally irresponsable'. Follow your own heart and never listen to the crowd! Greetings from Europe.
Heck yes to changing what you can and chasing what you want!!
After 15 years fulltiming I love to hear someone discover what you have found. The push back is so often someone trying to justify their reasons for not choosing our paths. This lesson we've learned is applicable to other facets of the journey and every day we live the lives we do, the way we choose, is very good ROI. Good on ya!
It takes a strong person to be comfortable with themselves alone. Great job living your own life! It helps when there are beautiful mountains, deserts, rivers, oceans etc. Ive been alone most of my life. I dont want kids either. Great video, injoy the journey!~
Hey Melissa, I’m glad to have come across your chaneel and be joining your community 🙂. I subscribe to every word you said. I’m 20 years older than you and have realized probably later than you did that there are so many ways to enjoy life, not just the “standard” one 😉. Cheers, peace out and see ya in the next one 😊
You be you, cuz no one can tell you how to be truly happy. I'm glad I found your channel, and thank you for sharing.
This video is beautifully shot and beautifully told. It has a spiritually airy essence that makes me feel at peace. Thank you.
Gosh thank you so much
Happy Birthday!!! that is the truth, I do believe that you have to enjoy your own time and love the connection that you create with people who support your dreams are. It was a beautiful setting in this video and you really seem to enjoy the open road:)
What a beautiful video! This was so well put together. I have to say...from all the life experiences I've learned on the road, learning to be content with myself and not having to rely on others for happiness has been SO HUGE. It's kinda scary to think how much my past was dictated by that. MORE VIDEOS! Also - the first shot with your van bouncing up and down was hilarious 😂
Ahhh thanks so much Mike! And omg yeah that road was WILD Hahahha
I absolutely loved this video! The message was so meaningful. Happy birthday! I'm glad that you have found what makes YOU happy and have figured out that you don't need to fit in to everyone else "norm".
Thank you!! I am so grateful for this life
i’m proud of you for doing what you need to do for you. I will pray for you and wish you success and happiness in your travels and searches.
Aloha Melissa, loved this video. You do you and thank you for sharing your adventures. Looking forward to your next video, safe travels! =)
Thank you so much!! I’m hoping to be a litttttle more consistent from now on haha but we’ll see
@@missrovertravel It's more important to enjoy your time than putting together videos. Unless of course UA-cam is a source of income then of course more videos! =)
Great video! The first I've seen of yours but I'll be looking out for more. Happy birthday!
Great video. Thanks for your open honesty. I love the shot of your books, especially The War of Art. Steven Pressfield is such an inspiration as are you.
When you recounted what your patients told you - their regrets, wasted time, and missed opportunities - that landed HARD with me. I'm glad you heard that message at a time in your life when you needed it, and could act on it.
Happy trails!
Such a beautiful video! I love the voice over- it’s so wonderful to be able to create our own lil worlds- looks like you created a beautiful one that’s all your own!
Thank you so much girl!!! Hope our paths cross again soon
Amazing! Thank you for uploading this video and sharing your experience with us! I’m very happy for you that you have found your path and living it without regrets. I hope more people can be like you follow their hearts and not be strained by fear or the unknown! Keep up the good works, Melissa!
54 and having been doing vanlife over 5 years there are some lonely empty times but the lord is always there with me, I don't desire to go back in home and love this vanlife ❤
Wow what a great video. I did the 9-5 wife, kids and now retired divorced and alone I’m just now at 59 feeling free to live my life. I have been taking short trips my whole life but since I retired I’m gone a month at a time soon to be traveling full time. Live now life goes by soooo fast enjoy every second and do what makes you feel alive. Maybe I’ll see you on the road someday. Oh and happy birthday!!
Love your concept. We don't need to allow others to define us. Enjoy the journey.
The song and the singing was absolutely beautiful. Totally from the heart. You could feel it.
loved this one! glad you’re finding happiness out there, roadlife is a pretty nice life 💫 can definitely relate to this vid
Happy Birthday!!
Thank you for your courage to be vulnerable and post this video of your inner feelings. It's hard to realize how powerful the influence is of mainstream culture. It's incrementally more challenging to choose a different path. Kudos to you for overcoming both of these and choosing your own path.
Thank you. I appreciate this so much
I loved this video so much! I'm so glad to see you settling into road life and really finding your flow. also I needed to be reminded of a lot of what you talked about.. I'm turning 30 this year and definitely letting it get to my head a bit, focusing on too many things in the future instead of the now. this one really helped me 💛
I AM MOST EXCITED!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Thank you so much!
Thanks for posting, Rover. I'm so grateful you posted this video. We are so fortunate in this country to have many options. However, many people hold on to the ideals of our parents and friends who haven't yet realized that there are many paths in this life and there are no rules. We can always go back to the old ways of living if this doesn't suit us. 😊
What an exceptional human being you are . Im realising everything you've said in this vlog at the ripe old age of 50. I wish more young people would step out of what we are taught to be normal . Refreshing to see you doing it your way .. 👍🏻👍🏻 subscribed✔️
I travel solo and love it. It gives you time to stop and enjoy the little things. Meeting people on the road fill in the gaps. Take care and have a Vantastic time.
Also 33, turning 34 in September, I work a typical 9-5 and recently started doing vanlife out of a truck camper, the amount of people that question my life choices but the freedom to go anywhere is such a great feeling. Keep doing what you love to do and I'm happy to have found your channel. ❤
thank you for the great video. Subbed and cant wait to see more. Happy Birthday
I needed to hear this, you're not behind anybody, you're just on a different path 💜
aw this was uploaded on my 30th birthday 🥲 I love how you put this video together- its inspiring!
This is beautiful. Glad you’re finding you peace ☺️
Beautiful video. Very well done, and I agree with the message. Not everyone wants or values the same things, and that's OK. Keep on keepin on 👍
thank you sooo much for sharing this, you are an inspiration!
Thank you so much 🫶🏻
Good scenery. Like your music.
Moving right along I see ; )
Hope you enjoy the moments as they happen.
Be happy for all the people who are not. Your parents generation gave them the attitude they have.
Their generation also made yours possible.
Love your singing 🥹 Great video! Happy birthday!!! 🫶
Thank you so much Jacey!!! I think 33 is going to be a good year 🥹
Happy Birthday! Keep going your own way, it's a gift to live this freely and keep doing what you want now what the majority wants. Its very relatable to me, almost getting 30 and sometimes feeling "behind things" but my path is different and that's okay. ❤
Yes!! And thank you for this message 💛
You’re inspiring me to start practicing piano! Such a beautiful video, and heck yes to chosen family and the different kinds of soulmates we meet along the way 🙌
Heck yeah! Do ittttt and thanks so much for watching 💛
1st timer here.....68, kid-less, and....super happy. I see what my nieces/nephews are going thru. (ie ENDURING) and....I dodged a bullet! Being alone doesn't mean lonely: it does mean "ALL ONE" if you use the time well!
I am so happy I found your page, your music and views are wonderful!
Firstly i have a son who said he would never marry, stout in his view like you. Hes independent, strong, and always busy, he felt it wouldnt be fair to a spouse with how chaotic his life is. Then randomly one day a woman bumped into him at the gym, and they started being friendly at the gym, she too was busy... She was a lawyer who went into nursing, and now focuses on training folks. shes a fitness competitor like him haha. Both have multiple side businesses, both are always on the go! Now? She just finished swapping a rebuilt cummins into her uhaul box truck build. she just did the 4x4 conversion and modded the frame a lot. He has a small none high roof e350 long body van non 4x4. They are currently taking the year off and traveling together. Next year they will begin homesteading on their property in N AZ. A he and she tinyhouse, on L and R rv ports of a shop building for shade from heat and sun. green houses and garden beds. goats. chickens. conies. fishes. etc. They didnt want kids, and now they are talking about it haha.
My daughter is different. She was in a committed relationship, thought shed have kids, and loved being stationary predictable and worked at her small hospital. Now shes a traveling nurse, has been since the plandemic. She made and makes very good money. Her life falling apart lead her to get her masters. And chase other education to grow as an individual. She used to be anti fishing anti hunting. She now enjoys bow hunting, and etc. She was so afraid to be alone... her work made her unhealthy and tired all the time. Now shes super fit. She does brazilian jj, muay thai, boxing, karate, she showers at the gyms she goes to while traveling. She wont die alone. In CO a friend of hers owns a private tinyhouse community on their massive ranch property, plans to build more, she will eventually live there with all her gfs haha. All of them arent interested in getting married or having kids, but they dont mind baby sitting nephews, nieces, etc. Some were teachers so they def dont want their own kids haha.
Just live and live well.
"Fear not death nor the pain of it,
Fear the life left unlived;
Live a life less ordinary."
We are here to experience. We shouldn't take others or ourselves too seriously. We should try our best and let go of the rest.
Thank you. I am looking closely into living on the road myself and this little video encourages me.
Well Said, I’m happy to see you living your life the way you want to and not what “society” says you have to be or do,
I’m 59 and have never been married and have no children, I spent time in the military and after my last overseas deployment in 2005-06 and after seeing and helping to load flag draped transfer cases I knew that my life was forever changed, I did not want to get married or have kids, I found myself enjoying the solitude of being a lifelong bachelor, and over the past 17 years I have been involved in Cat rescues, and sitting on my couch with multiple cats that are alive because of me brings me great peace, happiness, and pleasure, sure I will die alone and forgotten by society, but at least I can say that in my tiny little corner of the world there was a place where Peace, Love, and Happiness reigned. And I send those same blessings to you as well.
The last part of what you wrote is beautiful! I had to check out your cute kitties :) Bless you for rescuing them!
Thank you for sharing these thoughts! Very very relatable at this moment in my life as well. Thank you so much for the reminder that it is okay. These choices are okay. We will be okay 💓
Well, happy belated birthday I guess! 🎉
I am 32, and trying to find joy in my own company and my own pace. Van life isn't for me - at least, I wouldn't want to do it for long - but it's great to see people can find meaning in it. I hope you keep enjoying them road.
Hey There! I stumbled upon your channel today and thought I would take a moment to send positive female-adventurer vibes your way! I love that you are seizing the day, living unconventionally and sharing your story. I am also in my 30's, childfree and traveling the Colorado wilderness in a 20 ft trailer along with my life partner. Maybe we'll bump into each other on the road! Happy travels!
Clicked on this randomly, when it came up in my feed. Loveky to see someone so happy and comfortable in themself, living for the now is the perfect situation, anything else and you just end up regretting it later, when it's too late to do anything about it 😊
I just discovered your channel with this video and I started crying because it sounded like you were telling my story too. I grew up in Iowa, with the same expectations of settling down, getting a 9-5, and having kids. I’ve always been single and I’ve never wanted to have kids (I think I was under 10 the first time I told my Mom that). I tried the 9-5 corporate job for a decade and it destroyed my mental health. On December 18th, 2022 I set out on the road in my Ford Econoline (low roof) and finally found the freedom I was looking for. Unfortunately I had to return home for a year due to financial issues, but I spent the time rebuilding my van and now I’m setting out again in 2 weeks and I can’t wait! Maybe I’ll see you down the road sometime! Thank you for telling your story! ❤
Oh my gosh thank you for sharing that! It’s so nice to know we’re not alone. Hope to see you on the road!
Thank you for sharing your story you have helped me see life more clearly and make some big changes in my life thanks again
Excellent video. Loved and enjoyed it a lot.!!! All of it….!!
Namaste ❤
Certain ‘commitments’ are just a box society places us into. Whether or not we stay, leave or paint ourselves a new box.. well. That’s up to us now, isn’t it. Glad the algorithm placed this edit in front of me this evening. Cheers, and rubber side down.
I've been full time RV for 4 years. I've met a few women traveling alone and I am always impressed. You Go!!
Wow! Your storytelling is magic
Celebrate the experiences! You have done things people have only thought or spoken about. Congratulations and happy birthday!!
Hey everyone dies alone no one can do it for you. But its the living that counts.
I really like and admire your feelings. Most people don’t understand there’s a big difference between loneliness and being alone. Thanks!
Love the message you are sending out! I am just starting my UA-cam adventure life with my four legged friend 🐺 and can’t wait to see where it leads. Cheers :)
I appreciate this video a great deal. Turned 30 this year and plan to spend a few months on the road at a time this coming year while my girlfriend finishes grad school. Have a life at home I love, but been wanting to see more of the world for years. Weird intersection of life getting locked down on one hand and still wanting to explore on the other hand. Thanks for the perspective and transparency!!
I agree 100 percent your idea of life. Ive done 3 different trips around the country and ive seen a lot. Its been years since ive traveled but I wish I could be right there with you. The experiences will live on forever. Like seeing a grizzly on the trail in Grand Teton, or getting the best campsite in Kings Canyon.
How nice it is to hear others expressing shared values. We get you. This was really inspiring. 🥰 Bon & Melissa
Loved this video. First of yours that I’ve watched and it really spoke to me. You’ve got a new subscriber.
Thanks so much!!
Absolutely amazing video. I once suggested the idea of you playing a song for a video and you nailed it so well.
Really glad to see you healthy and happy friend. 😊
I think it's refreshing to see a surge in people adopting the nomadic lifestyle. One reason is because it allows them to not only experience new relationships with other people but also to allow other people to experience them. I've met so many cool people while traveling. What was it your patients said? "Live now". Yeah, best advice for anyone and everyone on the planet. Do you. Be who you are. We all die alone if you really think about it. I'm going to subscribe because I admire your philosophy on life.
You go girl. Amazing voice. Amazing talent. Keep going and don't stop for anyone.
Thank you so much 💛
"constantly chasing whats next" this is something i struggle with at 29 and learning to practice being present and mindful of what i already have and where i already am has been a challenge.
I’m 33 and I definitely like my alone time, I notice the older I get the less lonely I am. Please take care of yourself dear, be safe.
I just ordered a 2024 Transit, selling the house and going mobile solo. The 9-5 taxed to death with wifey is no longer a happy way of life, your awesome video captured all that is good in living free. Thank you for supporting the dream is real.
I love that rig!
Happy Birthday, I hope that you're having a great one. 🎉🎊🎂❤
You are doing everything right. 50 year old dog dad here, no kids, no self-owned house (never wanted one), gave up my corporate job for being self-employed and working with a handful of clients. Happy with my life and totally at peace with everything, and yes I'd do it all again. I've come to the conclusion that most other people are insecure and seek for reassurance on their own decisions. They have the kids, they wanted a house more than anything in the world, they stick to their corporates because it gives them so much safety - and that's why you have to do it all the same, so they can feel acknowledged. If you don't, guess who's the weirdo. Don't fall for it! Thanks for the nice video. Take care out there
Just watched your childhood story (4mo) ago. It’s mine too from another time and state. Great videos. And what is alone any way
Love this. I'm right there with you!
What a beautiful video and message! Thank you for sharing 💛
Thanks so much for watching 🫶🏻
In the land of the free it's sometimes hard to be free. It's good you found your version of freedom.
I just found your channel. I love your music and this was such a great video ❤ any chance you could share a link for where to buy that folding chair? It looks like it packs very small 👍
Excellent video, thanks for posting 👍