@brankobelfranin8815 Jesus may not have an AR-15 slinged at the ready, but He does have power. He had faith to move mountains, heal the blind, restore the paralyzed. He never chose violence, but I’m sure He had the power if he wanted to. Jordan does not victimize himself. He does explain his scenario, but he isn’t complaining and demanding others worship him for his victimship
@@AricRastley possible, I was exaggerating, not literal. Recent actions bring into question legitimacy. To say that it is a case of stress would mean he lacks capacity (capability to manage oneself). Which (except from being ironic) as he is a public figure - would be unprofessional - and puts his credibility further into question.
We don’t need to be their father to protect them. We need to step up when we see a child in danger. There was a time in our history when people that prey on women and children disappeared without questions.
Damn straight. While I myself am unlikely to ever have kids, my brother might. I got friends that will have kids at some point. They are all worth protecting.
Told my daughter I was going to get her a T-shirt that says “keep your distance. My dad is not afraid to go BACK to prison.” She loved the idea! We are super tight!
So much truth to this. My aunt told me after her father’s funeral her husband smacked her for the first time. He knocked her down and told her he had been waiting to do that for years and knew her old man would kill him if he did. Now that he was dead things were going to go the way he wanted. He then kicked her and told her to make him a sandwich. He should never have sent her to the kitchen. She came back with a cast iron skillet and laid him out then filed for a divorce the next day. Because she had a strong dad she was a strong woman.
This is absolute truth. When my oldest daughter was three years old, we were notified that a level 3 sex offender was moving in next door. To the family's credit, the father of the offender (who was letting him come home) came to all the neighbors' doors and explained what was going on. He explained that his son had given a bath to his younger female cousin and had touched her inappropriately. He went to prison for 3 years and was now released as a sex offender. I told the father that I appreciated his forthrightness and to let his son know if I saw him so much as peeking over the fence at my daughter, he's getting one between the eyes. Protect your kids, because the government is terrible at it.
The government convicted him, the government jailed and housed him for 3 years and then required that he notify the neighbors….that wasn’t out of “being forthright” it was out of legal requirement. Please explain what you mean by the government not protecting you in this instance.
@@CaseyWilkesmusicdid you miss the part where he was allowed out of prison? Or where he messed with his little cousin? Because I can give you several well organized, solid studies that say sex offenders, for the most part are not rehabilitated. The majority of them get out and reoffend within the first 5 years. Repeat offenders account for a huge amount of crime and offenders released from prison are arrested at rates 30 to 45 times higher than the general population. (If you want to read the study I'm referencing, just highlight that line starting at 'Repeat offenders>down to "population" and search it on Google) it should be the first actual result. Because they know the same facts I'm giving you, they also know that recidivism has a direct impact on public safety and that recidivism reduction should be a key goal of the criminal justice system. Now, you may not see anything wrong with that last sentence but there is the problem and the answer to your question. Consider that I'm discussing recidivism which means the offender has already been to prison and the punishment wasn't enough to deter the sicko from doing it AGAIN. So, they hurt one person, usually a child, already. So, there's one life destroyed or at the very least, not going the way it would have otherwise. Then they will come out and almost assuredly do it AGAIN and there's nothing to say they get caught that time. And in a climate where ppl who aren't going to be in the kid's life for longer than a school year have the cojones to think THEY have any right to discuss some of the disgusting crap in some of these books outside the parent's direction? It'd be hard to spot the one most likely to harm your child in the sea of groomers. So, it could be done repeatedly and no one aware of it. And it would be because the GOVERNMENT didn't keep a freak of nature that they KNOW is the most likely to reoffend locked up and away from society. Look what Newsom did in California. Releasing 7000of them on the public and hiding the information on the offender site so the public wouldn't be able to see what has been done.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
@@CaseyWilkesmusic how strange to question something like this? As far as I and I’m sure most other fathers are concerned people who abuse children should never see the light of day again…… So the fact that he has been moved next door to children is a failure within itself. The fact that you felt the need to counter this is disturbing
Among people like us? Yes. In general it's the definition of being peaceful. We hate violence, but we don't shy away from having to use it when the time comes. Not to play semantic games or nothing - and I agree with your sentiment - but it's a difference that matters.
It's strange. Ever since I learned that being gentle is strength under control instead of lack of strength, I have the picture in my head of a gun hanging on a wall. It is a tool with one purpose, but it is only dangerous when put in someone's hands. Also, I picture the difference between being gentle and being abusive in anger can be the difference between a rifle and a grenade: both are explosive, the difference is when you're holding the rifle, it shoots where you aim it. You hold the grenade, it destroys you as well.
Not to tout "thinking conservstive cliche" but Jordan Peterson discussed the topic. Something about the ability to become a monster if needed, but strength to keep it in check.
You mean he has the balls to outright lie about things to make him seem more important than he is? He knows what toxic masculinity means, he admitted it on a live show to me in a question, he then continues to tell easy to prove false lies and gets away with it because you are too stupid to verify anything he says because it must be true because its about bad people and you have to believe that.
I'll go to bed tonight with only one main regret about how today went. That regret is that I can only give this one thumbs up. This is what should be taught in school,. Outstanding!!!
The only thing scary is how the media portrays the world. I'm not saying there aren't bad people or people who will harm you or your family, but the vast majority of the people are still looking out for you. In 1990, the murder rate was something like 9 per 100K people Today, its more like 6 and it was as low as 4 pre-COVID. So on that one statistic alone, we are significantly better. You wouldn't know it from the news. Trump, for example would tell everyone about the dangers of the world and how only he could save you from them. Muslims, Hispanics, Mexicans, Chinese etc. etc. Build a wall, ban travel, ban imports of cheep steel.
@@jasonm949There’s not “one good cop” there are many, far more good than bad, go troll somewhere else; the cops who infringe upon the rights of those they swore to protect are no better then the criminals who prey upon their fellow man, I can only hope your profession is one where you are truly making your community safer rather than just sitting on the sidelines disparaging the many for the acts of the few
I was sexually molested 3 times before my 12th birthday in my home by men my parents bought into our house. Once my dad walked in on the whole thing and walked right past. I choose to believe he didn't see what was happening and forgave him after he passed. Those men saw him as weak and unable to protect his family. I agree with this entire message after studying predators for many years. Dads need to be dangerous.
Im soooooo sorry that happened to you. I just want to let you know that you are so loved ❤ not only by me but by Jesus Christ... more than you could even imagine. You might ask, how could Jesus love me if he allowed that to happen to me? I had the similar question after my grandfather past. I just want to let you know that Jesus knew you before you were even knitted in you're mothers whom. Jesus didn't want that to happen to you and acctually hated that it happened but unfortunately the bible says we live in a fallen world where we are all open to the evil of this world. God gives us free will and because of this some people choose to use it for good and some choose to use it for evil. Long story short I'm just here so that Jesus can speak through me to you! YES YOU! 😊 this is Jesus speaking to you to try and get this message to you! I just want to let you know Jesus loves you so much and he wants a personal relationship with you ONLY he can heal you from whatever hurt you experienced. Nothing is coincidence. I can feel it in my heart that you are a truth seeker... you seek the truth. You're very spiritual. I know it. I'm telling you, Jesus Christ is the only one you can fill that void of not knowing what the purpose of life is. God bless ❤️
I'm sorry you're father for not protect you. You deserved to be loved, cherished and protected. I hope you've gotten the therapy you need, because that's a shit show for the soul.
Of my 3 kids, my daughter was 1st born. As she came to age, 14 to 16, she became oppositional. We found out she was partying at a friends house with older guys and the parents were fine with it. They found out real quick that wasn't happening with my daughter. I made them fear me. I made her friends not want her around. She grew to respect me for that.
@@frickinghogtied make the noise they need to hear. be PHYSICALLY present. Show yourself to them. If you square off with them and stare them down, they get the message.
fuckin right! as a parent, its not our job to be cool, or nice. its our job to put the fear of all thats holy into whomever is foolish enough to challenge our position in life.
That was a hard thing for you to do, to slightly damage your relationship with your daughter to protect her from others. I imagine it's like giving your kid an immunization, a little pain now will spare you a lifetime of hardships. Hope all is well between you and your little girl. :)
Love this, I’m a mother of three daughters and my husband is not only a strong man he has helped me become a threat as a mother as well, due to his long work hours and my being alone with our girls a lot. I tell you what nobody would look at either one of us and think they could scavenge our children, nothing toxic about that! I love this and I hope it reaches whomever needs the motivation to harden that target! God bless and sincere thanks from some hillbilly mamma in the backwoods of Tennessee
My wife could spank those kids pretty hard but nobody else better mess with her children. She could shoot good too. Funny story, her great aunt had her own ranch back in the day. Very usual for the times. She wasn't married but had a boyfriend which was really socially frowned upon. As the story goes he was drunk and when told to get off her ranch he argued and became belligerent. She shot him and he said "Rose I love you, why did you shot me? She said I told you to get off my ranch". Greetings to you Tennessee folks from a Colorado hillbilly....lol
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Only now I realized that bullies in school disrespect not just their victims but their fathers as well because they perceive them as weak. Very profound realization but so easy to miss.
This is so excellent and so important and so true. My Dad was a quiet kind man. He subtly exuded strength. I always felt safe and protected around him. He always showed up. I married a man like him and we've been loving each other for 30 years. He retired from 33 years of service in the army. He always makes me feel safe. ❤ After my Dad died I found out that in order to finance his dental practice at the height of the depression he became a professional wrestler. Olympic style not choreographed wrestling. He was very popular in wrestling circles and won quite often. I also found 5 loaded firearms hidden around the house in places unreachable by a child. Dad was fully ready to protect us. He was a good man. I miss him more than I can say. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My dad was not ideal and he was often aggressive to me and my mom. But... At least he protected me from bullies in my school. I came almost every day in tears. The psychological pressure grew so much, that my dad could not accept that anymore and went to school to find them. Imagine a 1,90 m and 120 kg angry bosnian guy coming to you who watched you like the devil. He confronted them and they got so scared, that they didn't want to be near me. There were some bullies later, but then both my mother and father came. He would grab them on their shoulder and angrily talk "if I ever see you touching my daughter or saying shit avout her, I'll find you and your parents and combat all of you!!!!" He was bad to me, but I thank him for saving mw from those teenagers. I am not sure how much I would I could take it. I see every year kids having suicide due to bullying. I don't want anyone to feel the pain I did feel... I forgot to mention that my teacher didn't do shit and even asked why didn't I say anything. Hello??? That bitch was incapable to shout at her students. We always asked ourselves, when will she sleep in
My daughter was being intimidated by a bully who didn't like the fact that she had finished the relationship. It was only when we physically showed him the error of his ways that he finally left her alone and moved on. It was the first time in my life that I had been violent to anyone but unfortunately to some it is the only message that they understand. Love your short videos.
Similar thing happened to me but it was my mom's macho bf that took care of business. Punk bf immediately stopped going to school. RIP Reuben Martinez, you made me kept me safe until I graduated several yrs later. Now I have a real man that will decisively and conclusively protect all in his charge. I married well.
I’ve seen grandmas do a good job at defending their families against threatening men moms too. Sometimes fathers die early for a multitude of reasons: poor health, accidents, murder, combat. I think it’s everyone’s job to be a threat to predators. Thanks ladies and gentlemen.
Im not a mother now, but if I ever become one, being a woman sure as hell wouldnt stop me from doing whats necessary to stop a monster from hurting my child if/ when my husband was no longer around.
My dad died when I was young (under five). Mom my would go to any length to protect her kids and she did not mix words, all five feet of her. God Bless parents♥️
My kids' dad died when they were still in the single digits. I did what I could. I am a strong woman, but I was no substitute for a strong man who would protect us. Made a terrible mistake in remarrying a man who was bad for us. Before we married, he played a good game. He turned out to be a drunken abuser. Be careful in choosing who you allow into your children's lives.
Did he have to defend you and your children in reality? You married him mostly for the day he could protect you and your children from a threat. What kind of return did you get on your investment,? How many times did it happen?
@@thetruther954 It never happened because he was prepared to protect her and their children. Lowlife criminals could see that and knew it would be a lost cause (deadly?) to engage.
@@robertchapman6795 Yeah, but you do realize you’re making all that up. Just like the paranoia in your mind. You walk around all day thinking the gun in your pocket will give your face enough of a hard-ass look that you won’t have to face your fears. We’re not trolls, you’re a coward. And one of these days, your kid will shoot somebody, possibly his sibling. Or your boy will go to school with a gun because that’s what Daddy does with problems. Or someone in your family will get laid off, or be devastated, and they’ll use the gun to kill themselves. Unless you’re going to save our country by taking out Trump or Carlson after they destroyed you by spreading lies? You really are a moron. There really are much better ways to worry about your children.
As a women, I say yes yes yes to all of this. Men we need you to feel safe. We can do everything possible to try to stay and feel safe but knowing you’re there, at the ready, means we can relax enough to feel safe and know you have our backs.
Dad spent a lot of his time in a steel mill, making sure we had a roof over our heads and food on our plates. That's why he taught Mum to shoot and trust me, there's nothing so dangerous as an angry mother protecting her babies.
@@JohnMoore-xf5wy Depends on the woman. I have met women that are fierce competitors. Type A+. The only help they need is to keep the magazines loaded. No, they are not afraid of spiders.
@@ninjabearpress2574a mother can’t turn a boy into a man whether she knows how to shoot or not. If the man ain’t home then the father isn’t home, which means the boy ain’t going to become a man.
It is so refreshing to hear such clear, unambiguous masculine advice. There is so little of it in our society today. Keep up the great work. You are definitely an inspiration to this father of two.
I’m not a father but I am currently an older brother and plan to be a father to a huge family one day. Could not agree more with this message, that is why I’ve been vigorously training Muay Thai for the past 4 years and trained Taekwondo since I was 4. It’s my duty to protect my current and future family. Very grateful someone finally comes out to say this message, especially with all this degenerate behavior going on now a days.
Well, it sounds like you've prepared yourself physically to protect your future large family! In addition to preparing physically, I would hope that you're also preparing yourself spiritually. I love that you want a huge family and I pray that our LORD will bless you with many healthy children!!
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
As a father of all daughters I agree 100%. Always let your girls know you'll defend them with your life. They will eventually look for the same traits in a partner
It's also important to let them learn self defense like a devense sport, it could safe their life in case they might be alone in a situation where they can only safe their life on their own. Like Teakwondo. I have a son and a daughter, I want them both to be able to defend themselfes too
The new wrinkle is that child predators should be normalized as another lifestyle option for consenting children. Huh? How to combat sociopaths masquerading as child development engineers.
When i was a kid, growing up was a confusing experience for me; kids were hostile to me because i was different; adults didn't payed much attention to me because i had no father and my mother left me with my grandmother, so i was pretty much the bastard of the family. Best friend was a dog i had and didn't had anyone to look up to. I am 43 now, i had to make a man of myself and on my own. I used to look for role models where i saw someone that resembled like a good strong man. Movies, books, TV, somewhere. Back thene didn't had all this internet apps and platforms to learn or to look for advise. I am a broken man i just hide it very deep, but i love my kids and put my best out there for them, so that they can grow whole and not in pieces; happy, respectful, strong, spiritual values and with everything that i struggled to learn, so that they can be ready to be on their own. And now i listen to Mr. Nick, telling me to be dangerous... and i know i am dangerous, in a way my kids know it comes from a good place. Listening to this... i feel at least for once, i am doing something right. Not one time i have ever heard someone tell me "i am proud of you", but today i feel proud of myself for being a dangerous dad. Thank you Mr. Freitas. You are doing a great job, teaching all of us dads out there.
I think this was your best, and most important, video. Fathers are so important. My dad was a quiet man. Strong, capable and always present. You just knew he would not tolerate any disrespect towards his family.
When my brother and I were 5 and 6 perspectively, two friends were having an argument about who's dad was toughest. And we simultaneously said, "Our grandmother can beat both your dads up."
I agree 100%! I'm proud my 3 little girls have a dad who is 6'5" and can lift more than anyone else in the gym. Also, I think it's important to note that moms need to do their part too. Another video from some "predator/scavenger" said that when choosing a girl or woman to molest or kidnap, they go for the easiest target and the one they think is least likely to put up a fight. That really hit it. It motivated me to fit, build muscle and be active. Not only that but even a mom and dad's mannerism and body language says a lot. If you're with your kids but distracted on your phone, not paying attention, slumping your shoulders, looking shy and weak that won't look good. But if you stand straight, put your shoulders back, be confident, look people in the eyes and keep your head on a swivel, these scavengers aren't going to like that as much and may end up picking an easier target.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
I tell my daughter don’t forget to call me at least once a day because it keeps the people your around you safe and there families safe you DONT FUCK WITH A MANS KIDS
@@Zachary- no problem, at first you are yelling and trying to be THE guy. But 2 minutes later you pay the price. And honestly I don’t know the technique behind but it felt like pushing more from the stomach than using air from your lungs. 😉
I wish I would smash the like button on this video 100 more times. I am not a father myself, but several of my friends just had their own kids. And if I am ever blessed to have kids...I will remember these words. Thank you Nick.
Thank you so much for all of your messages for men and fathers. As a daughter who's father abandoned me, I can tell you: you are on point. It is healing to me to listen to your talks.
I think women who grew up without their father are some of the strongest people on earth, you raised yourself without the influence of a father, emotionally and physically.
It's all these dudes who also grew up without ,and were never properly raised as a man. Not taking anything away from single mother you guys are the rock,and the foundation, fathers are the brick,wood,window, and roof there to protect you.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
So true! Thank you for this. My family was atacked by scavengers after I thought that now I took care about everything and I can step back a little because there is no threat. My big mistake. You should be always around and ready to fight. Dads against scavengers.
This guy is my favorite on UA-cam. I am a father of 4. My sisters convicted pedophile neighbor was recording kids in the neighborhood and the law was called 5 times and they said as long as he was in the street he could record whatever. I pulled into my sisters yard after working all day and she had my kids and my niece and nephew there too. The man was standing in the road recording them. I ran as fast as I could and warned him to stop. He replied "ill record your kids if I want to"! He went to the hospital that day and moved a week later. BE A THREAT!
You are 100% correct. 1. As a girl you need a very strong father figure with lots of love, when you have that, the girl will not need to seek attention and love outside the home. When a father is very truthful and explains the dangers out there it will help to keep her safe, and empower her with her own sense of self worth, she won’t need to get that from friends. Also great when dads take their girls to self defense classes.
YES. Thank you. Looking back (I am 70 now), I wonder if my father's office being just off the foyer of our house - with it's military displays - was orchestrated for that very reason. He was a WW2 vet and a member of the Greatest Generation. The walls were decorated with memoriabilia brought home by an ancestor from every war since the Civil War, up to and including Viet Nam. It included swords, knives, bayonets, rifles and mortar shells (just the casing), as well as a WW2 hand granade from the US, Japan and Germany. Also a flag and a box of medals. I don't remember (edit: him) ever having to DO anything. But my older brother who caught me smoking stepped in and stopped me. He reminded me that Dad hated smoking, and loved his little girl - and he felt I might be at risk for a spanking as a high school student if Dad found out. That was threat enough for me.
This doesn’t just apply to stranger scavengers. A close family friend can be just as dangerous. My father made the one time error of trusting his close friend, which proved nearly fatal for us. He taught me from a young age how to defend myself so I’d never be vulnerable. When he was dying as I was still a teenager, although I was a girl, he made me promise that I’d protect my mother. We need strong men- lions. But we also need strong women - lionesses. When our men are not around, it is our job to defend ourselves, our children, our families, and our communities. The weak helpless female is of no use.
Nick, instant sub. I was at a customer service desk an there was a couple that was talking to the service rep and their 12-14yo daughter was standing there next to them. I guy to my right was looking the girl up and down in the most disgusting way. They were probably 8 feet between them. I stepped in between them and turned to the creep and said "What's up?", he tried to lean around me and continue his gawking and I leaned with him and just stared him down. He had about 4" and maybe 30lbs on me and I was ready to go right there in the store and I think he knew it. I am disgusted by this behavior and how oblivious some people are to it. Thanks for what you do, Nick!
When I get to Heaven, I am going to thank my DAD for teaching me all of these things, and passing them on to my son's, teaching them to be good, decent, strong men, Nick, you are a gift from Heaven
@@nonnativenarnian good men pass down good teachings, obviously yours didn’t, everyone else gets it, why don’t you? I am only answering this because I am polite
These are things my dad and my community taught me without saying these words. They were enhanced by my biology of being a man, and the masculine men surrounding me as I grew up. I am a protector, because of my being and the being of those around me. That is true masculinity.
I have two daughters. Throughout their years growing up, everyone who even briefly associated with me, knew that I would defend them with overwhelming force. Toxic masculinity?...nope. Love to the point of losing my life defending them? Yup.
Wife and I have three boys that grew up on us way too fast. The youngest is now 30. We taught them how to act as children and when the time came I taught them how to be a man thru example. Be respectful to the parents as well as the date when you pick her up and if anything does happen on the date I had their backs. I cannot tell you how many phone calls we have had about our sons from other parents of how well mannered they are.
Amen! I was always made the villain because of my heavy-handed behavior around my daughter and the way I taught her how to fight. She recently turned 30 and thanked me for the way I behaved. I have a great son in law and my grand child is turning a year old soon. Chasing off the unwanted and being a threat pays. You have to be a threat and you have to be capable of great violence.
I like that you call that scumbag what he is- a SCAVENGER! We are blessed to have strong men in our family: fathers, grandpa's, uncles and nephews all watching over my 3 yr old grandson, and one another. When the men aren't around, Mama bear will take you down. We watch over, and educate our family, so we aren't caught unaware
As a mother, I am so grateful for a fully masculine husband to be my children's protector. I try to make sure I am a visible threat to potential scavengers, too (being almost 6 feet helps😊). But these scumbags will only truly fear a father. And I respect the crap out of my husband got being a dangerous dad.
What happens if your husband gets sick? Like cancer or something? Or what happens if he gets injured or handicapped? Or simply just gets old? This is exactly what’s wrong with society and the pressure on men to be “men”. This is a toxic way of thinking, don’t let fear control your life. What happened to just being a regular dad. A loving dad is much more valuable than a dangerous dad. At least that’s my opinion. I have spent most of my life training strength, conditioning and mma. I never made it pro and I have never needed this skill outside of the gym. I have been in a few street fights, but that was partly my fault. Never needed to protect anyone or save anyone with violence. I am 37 and I have lived in several countries. I just feel it was all a complete waste of time. The only thing I have to show for this is a destroyed body. Don’t do anabolic steroids. It can completely mess up your system if you don’t know what you’re doing. Don’t train harder than your body can handle, otherwise you’ll get injured and sick. Don’t do sparring, that is a good way of getting CTE. I am a dangerous dad, and it is really hard. It’s like I don’t fit in society and I’m terribly scared of losing my temper in any situation. I feel like a monster most of the time.
@@Frank941being a dangerous dad does not mean you can't show love or have control of your temper. Particularly on the latter, it's probably the opposite...if you can defend yourself and others and keep a calm, clear head, that is not something to be messed with
So many men and women need to hear everything you say. I was a single mother of 2 boys. I had to be these things for my boys. The young girls and women can also be predators...I've seen it...I've dealt with it. I thank you for your videos immensely!
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Children should be protected at all costs whether those children are your own or another's. No child should have to suffer at the hands of abusive monsters.
My father was the kindest most compassionate of men. But in his soul he was a US Marine who fought in WWII all his life. I knew that as long as he walked this earth I never needed to fear anyone or anything because he would keep me safe. My strong, capable boyfriend was afraid of him but respected and emulated him. That boyfriend became my husband. I know I have nothing and no one to fear because he will keep me safe. My father passed in peace because he knew Jesus and he knew my husband had taken his place as my protector in life. God bless you sir. I love your messages. You speack truth and common sense. Men protect your families and women stop this nonsense of emasculating your man.
Role models like you sir, were something I was never afforded in my youth. That said, being a new father to a beautiful baby girl, I consider it both a responsibility, and honor, to defend my baby girl against the wolves who seek to manipulate and harm each and every one of us, especially those too young and impressionable to defend their own best interests. As Jordan Peterson so eloquently states, "the meek are those who have swords, and know how to use them, but keep them sheathed." That is me personified, until someone thinks they can hurt my family. God Bless you, and your ego free service to this country.
I would expand on that Peterson quote a bit. It's not that the sword remains sheathed, but that it is only drawn in defense of the weak, the poor, the orphan and the widow. If the sword is never drawn, than what is the point of carrying it? As I said to someone recently, "Come after me all you want as I will stand under the pressure and the threat in the strength of Him who is within me; go after those who cannot defend themselves and I will put myself between you and them and you will find out what happens when that line is crossed." I hate violence and I would rather not use it; however, there are times when what I want is trumped by what needs to be done.
Bingo! I’m LEO and will use “Sexual Scavenger” moving forward. That is spot on. Over the years I’ve noticed they look for those that are already lost, isolated and broken. Scavengers
Amen. Children need a strong father, dangerous to others, but gentle, kind, and firm to their kids. Wives also want to know their husband are a threat to anyone who might even consider being a danger to her.
Been weight training for several years but got back into it consistently this year, and started BJJ 3 weeks ago…. And have used firearms my whole life. Skills are skills, and defense is my responsibility
My first time watching your videos and wow, awesome message and hats off to you for saying it. I'm a proud Dad and always have my kids back. I've always tried to show strength to my children and be a strong Dad, both mentally and physically. My Daughter is just about to start high school and it made me super proud recently, when my oldest son, already in high school told his younger sister he had her back. That was a Yes Son, high five moment, that's my boy. One of those moments where you feel like, yes, he gets it. 👍
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Well said. At the age of 56 I just had to remove my daughter's ex-boyfriend who wouldn't take no for an answer from the premises physically. The fact that even at my age I could take him outside and dispose of him forcefully meant I was still being a dad to my grown daughter, and I have to tell you it felt good.
@@RuairiOTuathail Yeah, you COULD offload your immediate need and duty to look after your daughter to a stranger who isn't there. And, probably while you're at it you should go buy bulk soy from Target, a case of Bud Light and some tampons.
JUST subbed you because of the short on the same topic and dug deeper to hear your long version. All the guys I consider true friends are toxically masculine, and GENTLEMEN. The world is safer when they are present.
Nick if you ever decide to run for president, and you should. I will do everything in my power to campaign for you in my home state. God bless you Sir for your integrity.
When my oldest daughter was in the 3rd grade, a boy in our neighborhood a bit older than her was picking on my daughter and her friend while they were out playing. I talked with her about different ways to handle it. My husband started hanging out in the front yard more often while the girls were out playing.. when this bully kid showed up he told the kid to get lost. That he was not allowed on our property and that he was to leave our daughter and her friend alone. The reason I tell this story isn’t that I’m proud of my husband, although I am. The reason I tell the story is the effect it had on our daughter. She felt so safe when her daddy stood up for her. She’s told that story numerous times over the years.. She’s now 15 and she just recently told that story on a family vacation. He showed her quietly without dramatics or threats of violence that he had her back that she was safe, and he would stand up for her. that’s a father’s job.
Very cool! My Dad never did anything like that and my mom was an attack dog. She actually went over board. I never wanted her to stick up for me. I felt very alone until I found Christ. I praise God for your experience!
Not a generational thing. There are tons of older males that are nothing remotely close to a man. There are plenty of young country boys that are manlier. Just saying. Everyone is so quick to just blame generations. Because it's easy to do that.
@@200130769 Absolutely...there certainly are the exceptions. But I wonder how old you are because it seems to me that you are jumping to conclusions about my comment. I am 73 and probably could be your grandmother. Lived a lot, observed a lot. I observed rather clear 'roles' between men and women in my childhood, to the gradual merge of that, that in the 50's was unheard of. 60's, 70's a huge shift, with many having one foot still in the traditional expectations and the other in the modern times. Today, I observe a shocking shift of attitudes and negativity online by some women (of whatever direction) towards men and boys who are growing up with that with perhaps no 'real men' in their lives. It seems I do have to underline that I am speaking in general and that of course there are exceptions. But those country boys certainly give one hope! I wish there were more of them in the cities and 'urbia'....also a generality.
I'll go to lengths to defend my daughter, my wife or anyone in harm's way. It's beast mode. No holds barred. It's a man's duty to protect, to the last breath.
Well said. As a father of 2 girls 15 and 9 I tell them i may not be as physically strong as alot of people but I can be meaner than most. My 15 year old daughter told me last week that I was her safe place and as a dad there is not much better words you can hear from your kids. Keep posting your videos, great stuff!
They didn't call the gun "the great equalizer" for no reason. Definitely build muscle and make an effort to be physically fit, though - you'll thank yourself later for the lower healthcare costs at the very least.
Like the others said.. rectify your lack of strength. It will not only make you more competent, it will relieve anxiety as your body becomes what your mind already wants it to be.
You missed one thing, you said in another video, and maybe that's good, the offender says "f you don't love your child, someone else will." On another note, I appreciate the fact you are using this medium for good, no only for good but to enhance your ability to protect our country and families.
Thank you sir. I’ve got 2- and 4-year-old daughters and very, um, “relaxed” in-laws who try to make me feel crazy when I don’t let them out of my sight at the mall, or when I don’t let them go out on the town with grandma when im not there. But they can gaslight me a thousand times a day, I refuse to be that guy on the local news saying “and then they were gone.” Nope. No way.
Wow. Yes. I realize now that I benefitted from a strong father, and now a strong husband. I took it for granted, and assumed everyone had parents in their corner growing up. Not all are so blessed. I was abused as a smaller child, ages 6-9. My father didn't know he needed to defend me, because he was naive and never imagined men/boys would be interested in a little kid like that. He thought the trouble would come after I'd reached adolescence. As a kid, I used the threat of my father to get the abusers to stop. All I had to do was tell them 'you're gonna stop this right now and never do it again, or I'm telling my dad.' It stopped. Too bad it took me 3 years to realize I could defend myself by saying that. Too bad I never realized til 40 years later that I should have told on them anyway, to save other kids from abuse. We need to tell our kids that nobody has the right to touch them, or to make the kid touch them. And that nobody is allowed to ask kids to keep secrets from their parents. I learned the hard way. I told my kids these things. My kids didn't get abused, thank God.
One day I will be a mother. I need the father of my children to be strong, capable, and loving. That means mentally, physically, and spiritually. Just like my father.
A child should know that they are deep trouble when their mom says “just wait til your father gets home” … the child should consider running away from home to avoid the butt-whooping that is coming.
I took my daughter to the range for the first time When she was 10 yrs old. She is in her late teens now and can outshoot anyone I know. She carries mace, two fixed blades and dangerous hidden jewelry on a routine basis. She looks forward to getting a concealed carry permit when old enough. She will not be a victim.
Wish I could like this a million times. It is so true. Our daughter left her abusive husband, taking their two very young children. We knew nothing about this situation, she had kept it from us. But once it escalated to violence, she knew then she had to go because the situation was not going to get better and it had entered the danger zone. We were moving out of the house to our new house at the time. I wanted her and the children to move I. With us at our new house, but she wanted to stay in our old house. The one she grew up in in the area where she new the neighbors that she grew up with. Her daddy said ok and ask her if she thought ‘Jim’ would come to the house to scare her, harm her, threaten her. She looked at her daddy through the shame she was feeling and told him with confidence, No. Her dad ask her why she would think that? She looked up at him and said “Because he is scared of you”. Her daddy gave her a hug and said ‘Good. Because he needs to be’. That was some years ago and though. And though ‘Jim’ did spend some time driving past the house, he never came onto the property. Yes. It helps to be a scary dad and husband. It also helps to have scary brothers as well.
I had a gut feeling about a “scavenger” who had contact with our children and I approached him about it. Without any concrete evidence I asked him to steer clear of our children. Several years later I found out that he had indeed molested children in his past but mine had stayed safe. If they know we are WATCHING it can make all the difference. Be vigilant.
Not a father but never met one of my sister's baby daddy's because she knew and openly told them that I'm looking after my family and will come after them
FATHERS: Take note. This is the prime example of a real father. A father of high value. So much can be learned from this man. DON'T BE A PASSIVE LAZY FATHER, PLEASE. Protect your children like a fucking Lion!
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“A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is one who is very dangerous who has it under voluntary control” -Jordan Peterson
Oh lord, so what was Jesus?did he pack an AR15? Quoting a person who victimizes himself doesn't help.
I presume this was before he went insane
@distructerdistrorer6328 Dr. Peterson has not gone insane. He may be under a large amount of stress, but he has not lost his mental ability
@brankobelfranin8815 Jesus may not have an AR-15 slinged at the ready, but He does have power. He had faith to move mountains, heal the blind, restore the paralyzed. He never chose violence, but I’m sure He had the power if he wanted to. Jordan does not victimize himself. He does explain his scenario, but he isn’t complaining and demanding others worship him for his victimship
@@AricRastley possible, I was exaggerating, not literal.
Recent actions bring into question legitimacy. To say that it is a case of stress would mean he lacks capacity (capability to manage oneself).
Which (except from being ironic) as he is a public figure - would be unprofessional - and puts his credibility further into question.
We don’t need to be their father to protect them. We need to step up when we see a child in danger. There was a time in our history when people that prey on women and children disappeared without questions.
Yep. Called lynch mobs. They went away because emotional children like you murdered innocent people.
God's children are not for sale!
@chucklesthered2338 Wasn't 13 year old Mary married to 30 year old Joseph when "god" knocked her up?
Damn straight. While I myself am unlikely to ever have kids, my brother might. I got friends that will have kids at some point. They are all worth protecting.
Reminds me of a hat I saw recently that just said "kill your local pedophile". Found that...interesting.
"...attacks the weak and the isolated. And your job as a Father is to make sure your child NEVER fits that description." Never heard Truer words.
Told my daughter I was going to get her a T-shirt that says “keep your distance. My dad is not afraid to go BACK to prison.” She loved the idea! We are super tight!
It’s better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.
I love this!
@@wenchyfoodwench4098 I can’t take credit for it, but I do love it.
That's sun tzu isn't it ?
@@zacmiles5342 I think so!!
Better to be a Warrior in a garden rather than gardener in a war
So much truth to this. My aunt told me after her father’s funeral her husband smacked her for the first time. He knocked her down and told her he had been waiting to do that for years and knew her old man would kill him if he did. Now that he was dead things were going to go the way he wanted. He then kicked her and told her to make him a sandwich. He should never have sent her to the kitchen. She came back with a cast iron skillet and laid him out then filed for a divorce the next day.
Because she had a strong dad she was a strong woman.
Great story, thanks!
I'm sure this never happened
@@2genders Me, too.
Men should never underestimate how a strong father influences everyone in the house, including the girls.
@@wolfrr2555I do. So I guess that makes me nobody.
Be strong men. There is a difference between being the man they want and the man they NEED. Protect your children at all costs.
This is absolute truth. When my oldest daughter was three years old, we were notified that a level 3 sex offender was moving in next door. To the family's credit, the father of the offender (who was letting him come home) came to all the neighbors' doors and explained what was going on. He explained that his son had given a bath to his younger female cousin and had touched her inappropriately. He went to prison for 3 years and was now released as a sex offender. I told the father that I appreciated his forthrightness and to let his son know if I saw him so much as peeking over the fence at my daughter, he's getting one between the eyes. Protect your kids, because the government is terrible at it.
The government convicted him, the government jailed and housed him for 3 years and then required that he notify the neighbors….that wasn’t out of “being forthright” it was out of legal requirement. Please explain what you mean by the government not protecting you in this instance.
@@CaseyWilkesmusicdid you miss the part where he was allowed out of prison? Or where he messed with his little cousin? Because I can give you several well organized, solid studies that say sex offenders, for the most part are not rehabilitated. The majority of them get out and reoffend within the first 5 years. Repeat offenders account for a huge amount of crime and offenders released from prison are arrested at rates 30 to 45 times higher than the general population. (If you want to read the study I'm referencing, just highlight that line starting at 'Repeat offenders>down to "population" and search it on Google) it should be the first actual result. Because they know the same facts I'm giving you, they also know that recidivism has a direct impact on public safety and that recidivism reduction should be a key goal of the criminal justice system. Now, you may not see anything wrong with that last sentence but there is the problem and the answer to your question. Consider that I'm discussing recidivism which means the offender has already been to prison and the punishment wasn't enough to deter the sicko from doing it AGAIN. So, they hurt one person, usually a child, already. So, there's one life destroyed or at the very least, not going the way it would have otherwise. Then they will come out and almost assuredly do it AGAIN and there's nothing to say they get caught that time. And in a climate where ppl who aren't going to be in the kid's life for longer than a school year have the cojones to think THEY have any right to discuss some of the disgusting crap in some of these books outside the parent's direction? It'd be hard to spot the one most likely to harm your child in the sea of groomers. So, it could be done repeatedly and no one aware of it. And it would be because the GOVERNMENT didn't keep a freak of nature that they KNOW is the most likely to reoffend locked up and away from society. Look what Newsom did in California. Releasing 7000of them on the public and hiding the information on the offender site so the public wouldn't be able to see what has been done.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
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^ found a sex offender
Informing isn’t protecting
@@CaseyWilkesmusic how strange to question something like this? As far as I and I’m sure most other fathers are concerned people who abuse children should never see the light of day again…… So the fact that he has been moved next door to children is a failure within itself. The fact that you felt the need to counter this is disturbing
Having the capacity for violence and keeping it in check until it's needed is the definition of virtue.
Among people like us? Yes.
In general it's the definition of being peaceful. We hate violence, but we don't shy away from having to use it when the time comes.
Not to play semantic games or nothing - and I agree with your sentiment - but it's a difference that matters.
It's strange. Ever since I learned that being gentle is strength under control instead of lack of strength, I have the picture in my head of a gun hanging on a wall. It is a tool with one purpose, but it is only dangerous when put in someone's hands. Also, I picture the difference between being gentle and being abusive in anger can be the difference between a rifle and a grenade: both are explosive, the difference is when you're holding the rifle, it shoots where you aim it. You hold the grenade, it destroys you as well.
Not to tout "thinking conservstive cliche" but Jordan Peterson discussed the topic. Something about the ability to become a monster if needed, but strength to keep it in check.
An astute portrayal as always gentlemen, Anger leashed can be utilized, anger unchecked can be used against you
C.S. Lewis said it well: "Courteous speech and hard knocks are the languages of a gentleman."
I love this guy. He's got the balls and talent to say what needs to be said.
So true.
You mean he has the balls to outright lie about things to make him seem more important than he is? He knows what toxic masculinity means, he admitted it on a live show to me in a question, he then continues to tell easy to prove false lies and gets away with it because you are too stupid to verify anything he says because it must be true because its about bad people and you have to believe that.
@@mezzb Did your feminist channel fail?
Ya know now he stands out where I come from all men were like this ! And we’re not respected if they weren’t !
He's saying what so many of us are thinking
I'll go to bed tonight with only one main regret about how today went. That regret is that I can only give this one thumbs up. This is what should be taught in school,. Outstanding!!!
Why isn’t it being taught? It really makes you wonder 🤔
No matter the consequences, protect our children at any cost.
I am the father of a 5 year old daughter, and a Christian. Times are becoming scary. God bless everyone watching this.
Not scary if you have faith
One of the main things of following Jesus is Judging Righteous Judgement. Get after it, pal.
The only thing scary is how the media portrays the world. I'm not saying there aren't bad people or people who will harm you or your family, but the vast majority of the people are still looking out for you.
In 1990, the murder rate was something like 9 per 100K people Today, its more like 6 and it was as low as 4 pre-COVID. So on that one statistic alone, we are significantly better. You wouldn't know it from the news.
Trump, for example would tell everyone about the dangers of the world and how only he could save you from them. Muslims, Hispanics, Mexicans, Chinese etc. etc. Build a wall, ban travel, ban imports of cheep steel.
Be like our Heavenly Father, a bold strong warrior and protector of your wife and child! Model yourself on Him. ❤️from Australia 🇦🇺
Then I guess your daughter is safe considering the church prefers boys.
As an Army Vet and 26 years in L.E. , well Sir you NAILED IT!
Army vet and 30 years L.E. Amen brother!
How many civil rights did you infringe on? Oh...I'm sure you were that one good cop.
@@jasonm949There’s not “one good cop” there are many, far more good than bad, go troll somewhere else; the cops who infringe upon the rights of those they swore to protect are no better then the criminals who prey upon their fellow man, I can only hope your profession is one where you are truly making your community safer rather than just sitting on the sidelines disparaging the many for the acts of the few
@ddubsdos8323 lol.."just a few bad apples." Lick that boot.
Thank you for your service and your dedication to the public welfare Jon 🇺🇸💯
I was sexually molested 3 times before my 12th birthday in my home by men my parents bought into our house. Once my dad walked in on the whole thing and walked right past. I choose to believe he didn't see what was happening and forgave him after he passed. Those men saw him as weak and unable to protect his family. I agree with this entire message after studying predators for many years. Dads need to be dangerous.
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Im soooooo sorry that happened to you. I just want to let you know that you are so loved ❤ not only by me but by Jesus Christ... more than you could even imagine. You might ask, how could Jesus love me if he allowed that to happen to me? I had the similar question after my grandfather past. I just want to let you know that Jesus knew you before you were even knitted in you're mothers whom. Jesus didn't want that to happen to you and acctually hated that it happened but unfortunately the bible says we live in a fallen world where we are all open to the evil of this world. God gives us free will and because of this some people choose to use it for good and some choose to use it for evil.
Long story short I'm just here so that Jesus can speak through me to you! YES YOU! 😊 this is Jesus speaking to you to try and get this message to you! I just want to let you know Jesus loves you so much and he wants a personal relationship with you ONLY he can heal you from whatever hurt you experienced. Nothing is coincidence. I can feel it in my heart that you are a truth seeker... you seek the truth. You're very spiritual. I know it. I'm telling you, Jesus Christ is the only one you can fill that void of not knowing what the purpose of life is. God bless ❤️
I'm sorry you're father for not protect you. You deserved to be loved, cherished and protected.
I hope you've gotten the therapy you need, because that's a shit show for the soul.
God bless you and walk with you
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“Scavengers not Predators” …well put.
I love that ending idea-that they’re scavengers not predators, so don’t let your kids be the weak ones that get thinned out of the herd and targeted.
Of my 3 kids, my daughter was 1st born. As she came to age, 14 to 16, she became oppositional. We found out she was partying at a friends house with older guys and the parents were fine with it. They found out real quick that wasn't happening with my daughter. I made them fear me. I made her friends not want her around. She grew to respect me for that.
Now that's how we deal with that, reminds me of what my dad did to my sister
What did you do. Need dad strategies.
@@frickinghogtied make the noise they need to hear. be PHYSICALLY present. Show yourself to them. If you square off with them and stare them down, they get the message.
fuckin right! as a parent, its not our job to be cool, or nice. its our job to put the fear of all thats holy into whomever is foolish enough to challenge our position in life.
That was a hard thing for you to do, to slightly damage your relationship with your daughter to protect her from others. I imagine it's like giving your kid an immunization, a little pain now will spare you a lifetime of hardships. Hope all is well between you and your little girl. :)
Love this, I’m a mother of three daughters and my husband is not only a strong man he has helped me become a threat as a mother as well, due to his long work hours and my being alone with our girls a lot. I tell you what nobody would look at either one of us and think they could scavenge our children, nothing toxic about that! I love this and I hope it reaches whomever needs the motivation to harden that target!
God bless and sincere thanks from some hillbilly mamma in the backwoods of Tennessee
Git 'er done, Hillbilly Mama! Hell yass!👍👊
YAS! Mama bears are real! And they can be as scary as a papa bear!
My wife could spank those kids pretty hard but nobody else better mess with her children. She could shoot good too.
Funny story, her great aunt had her own ranch back in the day. Very usual for the times. She wasn't married but had a boyfriend which was really socially frowned upon. As the story goes he was drunk and when told to get off her ranch he argued and became belligerent. She shot him and he said "Rose I love you, why did you shot me? She said I told you to get off my ranch".
Greetings to you Tennessee folks from a Colorado hillbilly....lol
Great reply! You sound like my kind of people!! I let my wife know very quickly that we don't take shit from anyone!!!! Take Care!!
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Only now I realized that bullies in school disrespect not just their victims but their fathers as well because they perceive them as weak. Very profound realization but so easy to miss.
As a father to 2 grown daughters i can say that even now i am their first line of defense. My grandsons too
This is so excellent and so important and so true.
My Dad was a quiet kind man. He subtly exuded strength. I always felt safe and protected around him. He always showed up. I married a man like him and we've been loving each other for 30 years. He retired from 33 years of service in the army. He always makes me feel safe. ❤
After my Dad died I found out that in order to finance his dental practice at the height of the depression he became a professional wrestler. Olympic style not choreographed wrestling. He was very popular in wrestling circles and won quite often.
I also found 5 loaded firearms hidden around the house in places unreachable by a child. Dad was fully ready to protect us. He was a good man. I miss him more than I can say.
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AMEN AND I DO THE SAME THING. THE SAME EXACT THING. GOD BLESS YOU!
@@DavidWBIII God bless you. Protecting your family is your most important job. I so admire men who are not afraid to be men.❤❤❤
As a man who grew up fatherless with 5 girls of myown I couldn't agree more with nick👍
My dad was not ideal and he was often aggressive to me and my mom. But... At least he protected me from bullies in my school. I came almost every day in tears. The psychological pressure grew so much, that my dad could not accept that anymore and went to school to find them. Imagine a 1,90 m and 120 kg angry bosnian guy coming to you who watched you like the devil. He confronted them and they got so scared, that they didn't want to be near me. There were some bullies later, but then both my mother and father came. He would grab them on their shoulder and angrily talk "if I ever see you touching my daughter or saying shit avout her, I'll find you and your parents and combat all of you!!!!" He was bad to me, but I thank him for saving mw from those teenagers. I am not sure how much I would I could take it. I see every year kids having suicide due to bullying. I don't want anyone to feel the pain I did feel... I forgot to mention that my teacher didn't do shit and even asked why didn't I say anything. Hello??? That bitch was incapable to shout at her students. We always asked ourselves, when will she sleep in
Your father threatened them so he deserves jail
@@konyvnyelv. No, he protected me from future delinquents and maybe murderers!
@@konyvnyelv. I keep seeing you defend bullies and abusers, and finding fault with those who try to do something about them.
My daughter was being intimidated by a bully who didn't like the fact that she had finished the relationship. It was only when we physically showed him the error of his ways that he finally left her alone and moved on. It was the first time in my life that I had been violent to anyone but unfortunately to some it is the only message that they understand. Love your short videos.
Well done I salute you
Similar thing happened to me but it was my mom's macho bf that took care of business. Punk bf immediately stopped going to school. RIP Reuben Martinez, you made me kept me safe until I graduated several yrs later.
Now I have a real man that will decisively and conclusively protect all in his charge. I married well.
@user-cj5ew9hm9x they can't play victim if they disappeared lol
If you damaged him physically, you deserve to rot in jail even worse than him
@@konyvnyelv.One thing that can be relied on in Internet comments is that a fool will pipe up. Congratulations on making this one complete .
I’ve seen grandmas do a good job at defending their families against threatening men moms too. Sometimes fathers die early for a multitude of reasons: poor health, accidents, murder, combat. I think it’s everyone’s job to be a threat to predators. Thanks ladies and gentlemen.
Im not a mother now, but if I ever become one, being a woman sure as hell wouldnt stop me from doing whats necessary to stop a monster from hurting my child if/ when my husband was no longer around.
My dad died when I was young (under five). Mom my would go to any length to protect her kids and she did not mix words, all five feet of her. God Bless parents♥️
All of us need to have each other’s backs.
I agree my kids call me a gangster when anyone threatens my kids
My kids' dad died when they were still in the single digits.
I did what I could. I am a strong woman, but I was no substitute for a strong man who would protect us.
Made a terrible mistake in remarrying a man who was bad for us. Before we married, he played a good game. He turned out to be a drunken abuser.
Be careful in choosing who you allow into your children's lives.
One thumbs up click does not express how much I appreciate this .
Nick we need more people like you in congress. I don’t know how You are around around all of these politicians and Scavengers without losing it
Reminds me why I married my husband. He was capable of defending me and my children. Thank god for him.
Did he have to defend you and your children in reality? You married him mostly for the day he could protect you and your children from a threat. What kind of return did you get on your investment,? How many times did it happen?
@@user-el5yw1er2j I thank God she married a strong, loving, caring man and not a troll!
@@thetruther954 It never happened because he was prepared to protect her and their children. Lowlife criminals could see that and knew it would be a lost cause (deadly?) to engage.
@@robertchapman6795 Yeah, but you do realize you’re making all that up. Just like the paranoia in your mind. You walk around all day thinking the gun in your pocket will give your face enough of a hard-ass look that you won’t have to face your fears. We’re not trolls, you’re a coward. And one of these days, your kid will shoot somebody, possibly his sibling. Or your boy will go to school with a gun because that’s what Daddy does with problems. Or someone in your family will get laid off, or be devastated, and they’ll use the gun to kill themselves. Unless you’re going to save our country by taking out Trump or Carlson after they destroyed you by spreading lies? You really are a moron. There really are much better ways to worry about your children.
As a women, I say yes yes yes to all of this. Men we need you to feel safe. We can do everything possible to try to stay and feel safe but knowing you’re there, at the ready, means we can relax enough to feel safe and know you have our backs.
Dad spent a lot of his time in a steel mill, making sure we had a roof over our heads and food on our plates.
That's why he taught Mum to shoot and trust me, there's nothing so dangerous as an angry mother protecting her babies.
Feminists beg to disagree.
Until they need saving, that is.
@@JohnMoore-xf5wy Depends on the woman. I have met women that are fierce competitors. Type A+. The only help they need is to keep the magazines loaded. No, they are not afraid of spiders.
@@JohnMoore-xf5wy Modern feminists can go to h3ll for all that we normal people care.
@@ninjabearpress2574a mother can’t turn a boy into a man whether she knows how to shoot or not. If the man ain’t home then the father isn’t home, which means the boy ain’t going to become a man.
It is so refreshing to hear such clear, unambiguous masculine advice. There is so little of it in our society today.
Keep up the great work. You are definitely an inspiration to this father of two.
I’m not a father but I am currently an older brother and plan to be a father to a huge family one day. Could not agree more with this message, that is why I’ve been vigorously training Muay Thai for the past 4 years and trained Taekwondo since I was 4. It’s my duty to protect my current and future family. Very grateful someone finally comes out to say this message, especially with all this degenerate behavior going on now a days.
Well, it sounds like you've prepared yourself physically to protect your future large family! In addition to preparing physically, I would hope that you're also preparing yourself spiritually. I love that you want a huge family and I pray that our LORD will bless you with many healthy children!!
You are a very good man👍👍💪💪
Bless you and your future family. ❤
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Good stuff, sir! Add in the discipline of praying the rosary every day, and being close to Jesus doing His will, we will be on solid foundation.
As a father of all daughters I agree 100%. Always let your girls know you'll defend them with your life. They will eventually look for the same traits in a partner
It's also important to let them learn self defense like a devense sport, it could safe their life in case they might be alone in a situation where they can only safe their life on their own. Like Teakwondo. I have a son and a daughter, I want them both to be able to defend themselfes too
@@Cuteemogirl94 yes absolutely. But them knowing you will die for them in order to protect them is a valuable thing as well
The new wrinkle is that child predators should be normalized as another lifestyle option for consenting children. Huh?
How to combat sociopaths masquerading as child development engineers.
@@user-el5yw1er2jthat's untrue, they are not the " biggest " threat in fact it's quite rare.
@@user-el5yw1er2j I saw a troll on another comment too! 😮
@@mezzb You should do some research into "MAPS" and come back here to apologize to this guy once you realize you were incorrect.
When i was a kid, growing up was a confusing experience for me; kids were hostile to me because i was different; adults didn't payed much attention to me because i had no father and my mother left me with my grandmother, so i was pretty much the bastard of the family. Best friend was a dog i had and didn't had anyone to look up to.
I am 43 now, i had to make a man of myself and on my own. I used to look for role models where i saw someone that resembled like a good strong man. Movies, books, TV, somewhere. Back thene didn't had all this internet apps and platforms to learn or to look for advise. I am a broken man i just hide it very deep, but i love my kids and put my best out there for them, so that they can grow whole and not in pieces; happy, respectful, strong, spiritual values and with everything that i struggled to learn, so that they can be ready to be on their own. And now i listen to Mr. Nick, telling me to be dangerous... and i know i am dangerous, in a way my kids know it comes from a good place.
Listening to this... i feel at least for once, i am doing something right. Not one time i have ever heard someone tell me "i am proud of you", but today i feel proud of myself for being a dangerous dad. Thank you Mr. Freitas. You are doing a great job, teaching all of us dads out there.
Well done you 💯 God bless you 🙏
@@lynne-du9ql thank you
The more i hear this guy, the more i like him. He simply makes sense. No fluff, no B.S. Just pure unbiased sense
I think this was your best, and most important, video. Fathers are so important. My dad was a quiet man. Strong, capable and always present. You just knew he would not tolerate any disrespect towards his family.
Amen!
When my brother and I were 5 and 6 perspectively, two friends were having an argument about who's dad was toughest. And we simultaneously said, "Our grandmother can beat both your dads up."
*Absolutely, Brother!!*
You win The Internet today.
As much as i like this, unless they are leftist dads i doubt it
Never happened. Cool story bro
grandmas can be really mean and tough sometimes.
I agree 100%! I'm proud my 3 little girls have a dad who is 6'5" and can lift more than anyone else in the gym. Also, I think it's important to note that moms need to do their part too. Another video from some "predator/scavenger" said that when choosing a girl or woman to molest or kidnap, they go for the easiest target and the one they think is least likely to put up a fight. That really hit it. It motivated me to fit, build muscle and be active. Not only that but even a mom and dad's mannerism and body language says a lot. If you're with your kids but distracted on your phone, not paying attention, slumping your shoulders, looking shy and weak that won't look good. But if you stand straight, put your shoulders back, be confident, look people in the eyes and keep your head on a swivel, these scavengers aren't going to like that as much and may end up picking an easier target.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
I tell my daughter don’t forget to call me at least once a day because it keeps the people your around you safe and there families safe you DONT FUCK WITH A MANS KIDS
There is nothing to add.... regards from a GenX dad and former drill sergeant.
💯 Facts!!! Thank you both for your service! 🇺🇲 🫡 ❤️🤍💙... regards from another Gen X parent!
How do you still have your voice? Years of yelling can't be good for your vocal cords.
@@Zachary- no problem, at first you are yelling and trying to be THE guy. But 2 minutes later you pay the price. And honestly I don’t know the technique behind but it felt like pushing more from the stomach than using air from your lungs. 😉
I wish I would smash the like button on this video 100 more times. I am not a father myself, but several of my friends just had their own kids. And if I am ever blessed to have kids...I will remember these words. Thank you Nick.
Bless yourself
The way to do that is to share on your social media.
Don't be afraid to be a "protective uncle" too.
@@tearstoneactual9773That's not creepy at all.
Thank you so much for all of your messages for men and fathers. As a daughter who's father abandoned me, I can tell you: you are on point. It is healing to me to listen to your talks.
I think women who grew up without their father are some of the strongest people on earth, you raised yourself without the influence of a father, emotionally and physically.
Caretoid Sinus
It's all these dudes who also grew up without ,and were never properly raised as a man. Not taking anything away from single mother you guys are the rock,and the foundation, fathers are the brick,wood,window, and roof there to protect you.
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
@@mikerohlfs2836😳🙉🤦♀️ it’s the opposite! It it was true we would not need fathers at all!
So true! Thank you for this. My family was atacked by scavengers after I thought that now I took care about everything and I can step back a little because there is no threat. My big mistake. You should be always around and ready to fight. Dads against scavengers.
This guy is my favorite on UA-cam. I am a father of 4. My sisters convicted pedophile neighbor was recording kids in the neighborhood and the law was called 5 times and they said as long as he was in the street he could record whatever. I pulled into my sisters yard after working all day and she had my kids and my niece and nephew there too. The man was standing in the road recording them. I ran as fast as I could and warned him to stop. He replied "ill record your kids if I want to"! He went to the hospital that day and moved a week later. BE A THREAT!
Did you write this sitting in jail?
@@REDxFROG No one knew anything but few eyewitnesses that was on his side, i think things work out like that in america
I did not write this from jail.... BUT....I gladly would have before I let some perv record my, or ANYONE'S, kids. Period!
@@Tmock0327I love every word of your story. BE A THREAT! Amen brother!!!
Ha yep. If he was filming my kids to look at later while fondling himself, I would put him in the hospital too
This is perfection. I wish I could halt broadcasting television and blast this PSA.
Keep spreading your great advice and keep giving everyone the reality check this country needs ! Amen and bless you.
You are 100% correct. 1. As a girl you need a very strong father figure with lots of love, when you have that, the girl will not need to seek attention and love outside the home. When a father is very truthful and explains the dangers out there it will help to keep her safe, and empower her with her own sense of self worth, she won’t need to get that from friends. Also great when dads take their girls to self defense classes.
Covered everything - an eloquent and complete treatise to proper fatherhood and heading a household
YES. Thank you. Looking back (I am 70 now), I wonder if my father's office being just off the foyer of our house - with it's military displays - was orchestrated for that very reason. He was a WW2 vet and a member of the Greatest Generation. The walls were decorated with memoriabilia brought home by an ancestor from every war since the Civil War, up to and including Viet Nam. It included swords, knives, bayonets, rifles and mortar shells (just the casing), as well as a WW2 hand granade from the US, Japan and Germany. Also a flag and a box of medals. I don't remember (edit: him) ever having to DO anything. But my older brother who caught me smoking stepped in and stopped me. He reminded me that Dad hated smoking, and loved his little girl - and he felt I might be at risk for a spanking as a high school student if Dad found out. That was threat enough for me.
You ever ask your dad why he was an ally of the Soviet Union? Was your dad a commie?
it was lol
This doesn’t just apply to stranger scavengers. A close family friend can be just as dangerous. My father made the one time error of trusting his close friend, which proved nearly fatal for us. He taught me from a young age how to defend myself so I’d never be vulnerable. When he was dying as I was still a teenager, although I was a girl, he made me promise that I’d protect my mother. We need strong men- lions. But we also need strong women - lionesses. When our men are not around, it is our job to defend ourselves, our children, our families, and our communities. The weak helpless female is of no use.
Nick, instant sub.
I was at a customer service desk an there was a couple that was talking to the service rep and their 12-14yo daughter was standing there next to them. I guy to my right was looking the girl up and down in the most disgusting way. They were probably 8 feet between them. I stepped in between them and turned to the creep and said "What's up?", he tried to lean around me and continue his gawking and I leaned with him and just stared him down. He had about 4" and maybe 30lbs on me and I was ready to go right there in the store and I think he knew it.
I am disgusted by this behavior and how oblivious some people are to it.
Thanks for what you do, Nick!
5 minutes that will change your life... And hopefully change a generation. Thank you sir.
When I get to Heaven, I am going to thank my DAD for teaching me all of these things, and passing them on to my son's, teaching them to be good, decent, strong men, Nick, you are a gift from Heaven
What does that have to do with this man’s comment?
@@nonnativenarnian good men pass down good teachings, obviously yours didn’t, everyone else gets it, why don’t you? I am only answering this because I am polite
These are things my dad and my community taught me without saying these words. They were enhanced by my biology of being a man, and the masculine men surrounding me as I grew up. I am a protector, because of my being and the being of those around me. That is true masculinity.
Agreed x 100. Don't look like an easy target. Have the ability to protect your family and deter criminals. Training for LIFE! Thank you, Nick 🤝🤝
I have two daughters. Throughout their years growing up, everyone who even briefly associated with me, knew that I would defend them with overwhelming force. Toxic masculinity?...nope. Love to the point of losing my life defending them? Yup.
SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE FATHER!!!!!! WHOORAH!!!!!!
@@andrewrogers5962appears to be a dude named carl. Or… chic named Carly
You're a criminal. Force should not be used
Wife and I have three boys that grew up on us way too fast. The youngest is now 30.
We taught them how to act as children and when the time came I taught them how to be a man thru example.
Be respectful to the parents as well as the date when you pick her up and if anything does happen on the date I had their backs. I cannot tell you how many phone calls we have had about our sons from other parents of how well mannered they are.
Amen! I was always made the villain because of my heavy-handed behavior around my daughter and the way I taught her how to fight. She recently turned 30 and thanked me for the way I behaved. I have a great son in law and my grand child is turning a year old soon. Chasing off the unwanted and being a threat pays. You have to be a threat and you have to be capable of great violence.
I like that you call that scumbag what he is- a SCAVENGER!
We are blessed to have strong men in our family: fathers, grandpa's, uncles and nephews all watching over my 3 yr old grandson, and one another. When the men aren't around, Mama bear will take you down.
We watch over, and educate our family, so we aren't caught unaware
Thank you for saying it out loud. God bless you.
As a mother, I am so grateful for a fully masculine husband to be my children's protector. I try to make sure I am a visible threat to potential scavengers, too (being almost 6 feet helps😊). But these scumbags will only truly fear a father. And I respect the crap out of my husband got being a dangerous dad.
So true, they only fear a father. You are the first line of defense and father is the end all.
What happens if your husband gets sick? Like cancer or something? Or what happens if he gets injured or handicapped? Or simply just gets old?
This is exactly what’s wrong with society and the pressure on men to be “men”.
This is a toxic way of thinking, don’t let fear control your life. What happened to just being a regular dad.
A loving dad is much more valuable than a dangerous dad. At least that’s my opinion.
I have spent most of my life training strength, conditioning and mma. I never made it pro and I have never needed this skill outside of the gym. I have been in a few street fights, but that was partly my fault. Never needed to protect anyone or save anyone with violence. I am 37 and I have lived in several countries. I just feel it was all a complete waste of time. The only thing I have to show for this is a destroyed body.
Don’t do anabolic steroids. It can completely mess up your system if you don’t know what you’re doing. Don’t train harder than your body can handle, otherwise you’ll get injured and sick. Don’t do sparring, that is a good way of getting CTE.
I am a dangerous dad, and it is really hard. It’s like I don’t fit in society and I’m terribly scared of losing my temper in any situation.
I feel like a monster most of the time.
@@Frank941exactly I want them to fear me too as the mother. I will learn teakwondo soon and it helps to learn about poisones mushrooms
@@Frank941being a dangerous dad does not mean you can't show love or have control of your temper. Particularly on the latter, it's probably the opposite...if you can defend yourself and others and keep a calm, clear head, that is not something to be messed with
@@Cuteemogirl94 I agree..
So many men and women need to hear everything you say. I was a single mother of 2 boys. I had to be these things for my boys. The young girls and women can also be predators...I've seen it...I've dealt with it.
I thank you for your videos immensely!
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Children should be protected at all costs whether those children are your own or another's. No child should have to suffer at the hands of abusive monsters.
My father was the kindest most compassionate of men. But in his soul he was a US Marine who fought in WWII all his life. I knew that as long as he walked this earth I never needed to fear anyone or anything because he would keep me safe. My strong, capable boyfriend was afraid of him but respected and emulated him. That boyfriend became my husband. I know I have nothing and no one to fear because he will keep me safe. My father passed in peace because he knew Jesus and he knew my husband had taken his place as my protector in life. God bless you sir. I love your messages. You speack truth and common sense. Men protect your families and women stop this nonsense of emasculating your man.
This is beautiful. Amen!!! ❤
@@-living4jesus4ever- ❤️🙏🙏🙏
Role models like you sir, were something I was never afforded in my youth. That said, being a new father to a beautiful baby girl, I consider it both a responsibility, and honor, to defend my baby girl against the wolves who seek to manipulate and harm each and every one of us, especially those too young and impressionable to defend their own best interests. As Jordan Peterson so eloquently states, "the meek are those who have swords, and know how to use them, but keep them sheathed." That is me personified, until someone thinks they can hurt my family. God Bless you, and your ego free service to this country.
I would expand on that Peterson quote a bit. It's not that the sword remains sheathed, but that it is only drawn in defense of the weak, the poor, the orphan and the widow. If the sword is never drawn, than what is the point of carrying it?
As I said to someone recently, "Come after me all you want as I will stand under the pressure and the threat in the strength of Him who is within me; go after those who cannot defend themselves and I will put myself between you and them and you will find out what happens when that line is crossed."
I hate violence and I would rather not use it; however, there are times when what I want is trumped by what needs to be done.
Bingo! I’m LEO and will use “Sexual Scavenger” moving forward. That is spot on. Over the years I’ve noticed they look for those that are already lost, isolated and broken. Scavengers
Amen. Children need a strong father, dangerous to others, but gentle, kind, and firm to their kids. Wives also want to know their husband are a threat to anyone who might even consider being a danger to her.
Been weight training for several years but got back into it consistently this year, and started BJJ 3 weeks ago…. And have used firearms my whole life. Skills are skills, and defense is my responsibility
Keep saying this message especially the end! Rise up men!
My first time watching your videos and wow, awesome message and hats off to you for saying it. I'm a proud Dad and always have my kids back. I've always tried to show strength to my children and be a strong Dad, both mentally and physically. My Daughter is just about to start high school and it made me super proud recently, when my oldest son, already in high school told his younger sister he had her back. That was a Yes Son, high five moment, that's my boy. One of those moments where you feel like, yes, he gets it. 👍
This is the worst take. Ever heard of Cain Velasquez? UFC heavyweight fighter, scary monster. His kid got molested. What an awful thing to tell fathers, that they have to be dangerous, so when the kid gets molested they will blame themselves even more so than they already would. And all just in the name of "being a tough guy". This guy is fake as fuck, I always felt it. Protect your kids but know you cant always be certain. Avoid public schools, daycares etc.
Well said. At the age of 56 I just had to remove my daughter's ex-boyfriend who wouldn't take no for an answer from the premises physically. The fact that even at my age I could take him outside and dispose of him forcefully meant I was still being a dad to my grown daughter, and I have to tell you it felt good.
I'll be in your boat.
Late fatherhood. 41 with girls aged 3yrs and 2 months.
Gotta keep my Beast alive and well.
@@JohnSmith-oh6id keep lifting, stay young and strong
you failed as a father if she ended up with that guy in the first place, you are a failure that had to clean up your mess.
Or you can call the police...
@@RuairiOTuathail
Yeah, you COULD offload your immediate need and duty to look after your daughter to a stranger who isn't there.
And, probably while you're at it you should go buy bulk soy from Target, a case of Bud Light and some tampons.
JUST subbed you because of the short on the same topic and dug deeper to hear your long version. All the guys I consider true friends are toxically masculine, and GENTLEMEN. The world is safer when they are present.
Nick if you ever decide to run for president, and you should. I will do everything in my power to campaign for you in my home state. God bless you Sir for your integrity.
The point made at 4:08 beginning with "many of the same people..." made me cheer out loud.
When my oldest daughter was in the 3rd grade, a boy in our neighborhood a bit older than her was picking on my daughter and her friend while they were out playing. I talked with her about different ways to handle it.
My husband started hanging out in the front yard more often while the girls were out playing.. when this bully kid showed up he told the kid to get lost. That he was not allowed on our property and that he was to leave our daughter and her friend alone.
The reason I tell this story isn’t that I’m proud of my husband, although I am. The reason I tell the story is the effect it had on our daughter. She felt so safe when her daddy stood up for her. She’s told that story numerous times over the years.. She’s now 15 and she just recently told that story on a family vacation. He showed her quietly without dramatics or threats of violence that he had her back that she was safe, and he would stand up for her. that’s a father’s job.
Very cool! My Dad never did anything like that and my mom was an attack dog. She actually went over board. I never wanted her to stick up for me. I felt very alone until I found Christ. I praise God for your experience!
So refreshing to listen to this real man. I feel sorry for this generation of young men...they must be so confused. God bless him.
Not a generational thing. There are tons of older males that are nothing remotely close to a man. There are plenty of young country boys that are manlier. Just saying. Everyone is so quick to just blame generations. Because it's easy to do that.
@@200130769 Absolutely...there certainly are the exceptions. But I wonder how old you are because it seems to me that you are jumping to conclusions about my comment. I am 73 and probably could be your grandmother. Lived a lot, observed a lot. I observed rather clear 'roles' between men and women in my childhood, to the gradual merge of that, that in the 50's was unheard of. 60's, 70's a huge shift, with many having one foot still in the traditional expectations and the other in the modern times. Today, I observe a shocking shift of attitudes and negativity online by some women (of whatever direction) towards men and boys who are growing up with that with perhaps no 'real men' in their lives. It seems I do have to underline that I am speaking in general and that of course there are exceptions. But those country boys certainly give one hope! I wish there were more of them in the cities and 'urbia'....also a generality.
I'll go to lengths to defend my daughter, my wife or anyone in harm's way. It's beast mode. No holds barred. It's a man's duty to protect, to the last breath.
If someone touches my loved ones hell is going lose! It is necessary to be dangerous! Not to your family but to the world
Papa bear has to protect his family. Nothing else needs to be said.
Welp, male bears tend to piss off after they've finished their business, best to pick another animal
Well said. As a father of 2 girls 15 and 9 I tell them i may not be as physically strong as alot of people but I can be meaner than most. My 15 year old daughter told me last week that I was her safe place and as a dad there is not much better words you can hear from your kids. Keep posting your videos, great stuff!
Get in the gym and train.
They didn't call the gun "the great equalizer" for no reason.
Definitely build muscle and make an effort to be physically fit, though - you'll thank yourself later for the lower healthcare costs at the very least.
Like the others said.. rectify your lack of strength. It will not only make you more competent, it will relieve anxiety as your body becomes what your mind already wants it to be.
We’ll you better get your physique up because when shit hits the fan it all comes down to hand to hand combat.
well spoken, I am ready to defend my family viciously to the end...
You missed one thing, you said in another video, and maybe that's good, the offender says "f you don't love your child, someone else will."
On another note, I appreciate the fact you are using this medium for good, no only for good but to enhance your ability to protect our country and families.
Thank you sir. I’ve got 2- and 4-year-old daughters and very, um, “relaxed” in-laws who try to make me feel crazy when I don’t let them out of my sight at the mall, or when I don’t let them go out on the town with grandma when im not there. But they can gaslight me a thousand times a day, I refuse to be that guy on the local news saying “and then they were gone.” Nope. No way.
So sad that this only has 500k views. More of this country needs to hear this message.
Good Fathers are SO important!
Wow. Yes. I realize now that I benefitted from a strong father, and now a strong husband. I took it for granted, and assumed everyone had parents in their corner growing up. Not all are so blessed.
I was abused as a smaller child, ages 6-9. My father didn't know he needed to defend me, because he was naive and never imagined men/boys would be interested in a little kid like that. He thought the trouble would come after I'd reached adolescence. As a kid, I used the threat of my father to get the abusers to stop. All I had to do was tell them 'you're gonna stop this right now and never do it again, or I'm telling my dad.' It stopped. Too bad it took me 3 years to realize I could defend myself by saying that. Too bad I never realized til 40 years later that I should have told on them anyway, to save other kids from abuse.
We need to tell our kids that nobody has the right to touch them, or to make the kid touch them. And that nobody is allowed to ask kids to keep secrets from their parents. I learned the hard way. I told my kids these things. My kids didn't get abused, thank God.
One day I will be a mother. I need the father of my children to be strong, capable, and loving. That means mentally, physically, and spiritually. Just like my father.
I always told the young men that courted my daughter this:
Remember, young man, you make my daughter cry, I make you cry
A child should know that they are deep trouble when their mom says “just wait til your father gets home” … the child should consider running away from home to avoid the butt-whooping that is coming.
Well said and thank you sir for speaking your mind for yourself and the rest of us!!
Thank you Sir for being a watchman on the wall for us May God continue to Bless you your family and all you do! Blessings from Canada 🍁💪😤🙏☺
On guard with my 8 yr old daughter at all times. Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.
I took my daughter to the range for the first time When she was 10 yrs old. She is in her late teens now and can outshoot anyone I know. She carries mace, two fixed blades and dangerous hidden jewelry on a routine basis. She looks forward to getting a concealed carry permit when old enough. She will not be a victim.
Wish I could like this a million times. It is so true. Our daughter left her abusive husband, taking their two very young children. We knew nothing about this situation, she had kept it from us. But once it escalated to violence, she knew then she had to go because the situation was not going to get better and it had entered the danger zone. We were moving out of the house to our new house at the time. I wanted her and the children to move I. With us at our new house, but she wanted to stay in our old house. The one she grew up in in the area where she new the neighbors that she grew up with. Her daddy said ok and ask her if she thought ‘Jim’ would come to the house to scare her, harm her, threaten her. She looked at her daddy through the shame she was feeling and told him with confidence, No. Her dad ask her why she would think that? She looked up at him and said “Because he is scared of you”. Her daddy gave her a hug and said ‘Good. Because he needs to be’. That was some years ago and though. And though ‘Jim’ did spend some time driving past the house, he never came onto the property. Yes. It helps to be a scary dad and husband. It also helps to have scary brothers as well.
I had a gut feeling about a “scavenger” who had contact with our children and I approached him about it. Without any concrete evidence I asked him to steer clear of our children. Several years later I found out that he had indeed molested children in his past but mine had stayed safe. If they know we are WATCHING it can make all the difference. Be vigilant.
thank you. I hope Dads everywhere are paying attention.
Let’s not forget to protect those children whose Dads are the threat. All Dads are not the protectors our society expects them to be.
Not a father but never met one of my sister's baby daddy's because she knew and openly told them that I'm looking after my family and will come after them
FATHERS: Take note. This is the prime example of a real father. A father of high value. So much can be learned from this man. DON'T BE A PASSIVE LAZY FATHER, PLEASE. Protect your children like a fucking Lion!