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  • Опубліковано 25 жов 2009
  • © 2006 WMG
    Unsent (Video)

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  • @mariusz07
    @mariusz07 3 місяці тому +44

    Sombody in 2024? Thank you Dear Alanis

  • @LainIwakuraa
    @LainIwakuraa 6 років тому +346

    this song hits deeper as time goes on, her music is painfully profound.

    • @beeztrapp1612
      @beeztrapp1612 3 роки тому +6

      That's the truth.

    • @bryanmoore8376
      @bryanmoore8376 3 роки тому +2

      For real.

    • @jpducati916
      @jpducati916 3 роки тому +2

      alas, the magic of Alanis along with the extraordinary talent.

    • @mmhope9411
      @mmhope9411 3 роки тому +12

      Never really thought about the words when I was growing up.... Now, they mean everything.

    • @moonlight02161
      @moonlight02161 3 роки тому +4

      Everyone of these ex is someone I have had in my life...including the very last one.

  • @sarachapman5206
    @sarachapman5206 Рік тому +116

    My favorite Alanis Morrisette song. It's impossible to get older without looking back with some regrets.

    • @jada6632
      @jada6632 11 місяців тому +5

      This song reminds me of my girlfriend from the mid-90's. Letting her go was my biggest regret. She is newly single and just as mesmerizing to me now as she was then.

    • @ki809
      @ki809 11 місяців тому +1

      Same, I don't understood the lyrics but it's so beautiful

    • @thegteam4349
      @thegteam4349 9 місяців тому +1

      Well said!

    • @willow100cm
      @willow100cm 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@jada6632 Sounds to me like you should meet for a coffee. :)

    • @jada6632
      @jada6632 6 місяців тому

      @@willow100cm We texted for a few months and I totally chickened out.....and I think she is seeing someone else now.

  • @idonteatcheetos
    @idonteatcheetos 2 роки тому +142

    As a boy who broke some hearts back in the day I'm not ashamed to admit I cried to this song and I felt like I matured a lot listening to another perspective

    • @superdoobo
      @superdoobo Рік тому +14

      I am sure those boys whose hearts you broke have moved on. 😄

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki Рік тому +4

      Yes. Make peace with the past.

    • @audreyharper1234
      @audreyharper1234 Рік тому +5

      @@superdoobo why r u assuming their sexuality. so weird…

    • @superdoobo
      @superdoobo Рік тому

      @@audreyharper1234 Let me help you with Grammar: "Why are you amusing their sexuality?" That's so weird.

    • @audreyharper1234
      @audreyharper1234 Рік тому

      @@superdoobo didn’t ask don’t care and you’re actually wrong. u have that completely wrong vernacular and verbiage. go take a vocabulary lesson u uneducated bafoon, it’s assuming not amusing u airhead

  • @cats_shall_rise8842
    @cats_shall_rise8842 4 роки тому +127

    This is a weird day. We're in the middle of a pandemic and subsequent self isolation. It's my birthday, I live alone. So, the best I can do is reflect, which brought me here. I hope this finds you future person on the other side of this ❤️
    EDIT: Well, this was a weird year. Dear future person (maybe me again?) we made it.

    • @benjaminpurves5032
      @benjaminpurves5032 4 роки тому +2

      Cat_in_a_lesuire_suit Life brings people together unexpectedly, never lose hope! He/she’s out there! And happy belated birthday. 😌

    • @cyndiwest3720
      @cyndiwest3720 4 роки тому +1

      Happy belated birthday, fancy cat.

    • @tuckermcclung3621
      @tuckermcclung3621 4 роки тому +2

      Happy belated birthday!

    • @jessiecator1740
      @jessiecator1740 4 роки тому +5

      Hey, happy birthday for then. Lockdown greetings from England, August 2020.

    • @dodu8281
      @dodu8281 3 роки тому +1

      i want to get eaten by wild animal

  • @taylorharris1796
    @taylorharris1796 3 роки тому +39

    I have experienced the Terrance and Lou. Terrance was too available and I felt smothered with too much affection and attention. Today, I miss that the most. Lou and I were working on highly stressful degrees, he in medicine, me in the middle of switching from a music major to criminal justice. We just got burnt out and really didn't know how to make it work. Ultimately we just parted ways, with no argument, no lashing out. We just stopped communicating, and after graduation I moved and never heard from him again.

    • @mardus_ee
      @mardus_ee 3 роки тому +1

      The first to fall for me was "Terrence", and I rejected him (stupid move of me, I know), because he began asking a question I did not think he'd ask, as I felt at the time, that he'd become possessive of me. Now I would very much like to have a "Terrence".
      "Jonathan" was the tragic type, sure, and not particularly honest. But he was the one to reject me, and pushed me away. He just looked for the first reason to do it.
      I think I met "Marcus" once, but that was it, because he ruined it.
      A former friend is a mix of "Matthew" (a musician) and "Lou".
      A current friend is a bit like "Terrence", but he has been, and always will be a friend.

  • @netdsgirl7794
    @netdsgirl7794 8 років тому +122

    This came out when I was 14 or 15. So did not understand this song or video...but I sure do now in my 30s....

  • @englishlanguagewithnina5965
    @englishlanguagewithnina5965 6 років тому +102

    A woman speaking openly to her various ex lovers about what she learned and felt. She admits feeling everything from love to anger. She is the focus and the men are supportive her story - for a change. It is so bad ass and beautiful.

    • @topherh5093
      @topherh5093 2 роки тому

      toxic femininity

    • @davidb.8948
      @davidb.8948 2 роки тому +5

      It so perfectly brings up many different relationship situations during the song which most have us have all dealt with at some point, men or women.

  • @syahtree3231
    @syahtree3231 Рік тому +41

    Damn, this song is such memories for me, when your young and you think that love is love, you have no idea what love truly is until you've had your heart broken, ripped apart and somehow find a way to let someone who truly loves you repairs it, this song is just a real reminder of all the times I had to repair my heart for myself, for the right person to come along, and love me.

    • @joan-yw1pe
      @joan-yw1pe Рік тому +3

      what a beautiful comment 💿🫶

    • @syahtree3231
      @syahtree3231 Рік тому

      @@joan-yw1pe Thank you, it's my honesty. This song is beautiful ❤️

    • @izaiasalvessantos6359
      @izaiasalvessantos6359 10 місяців тому +1

    • @hellzkittehn5699
      @hellzkittehn5699 9 місяців тому

      Still looking for the one who will know what to do with the fire in my eyes

    • @chrisgerey5861
      @chrisgerey5861 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing such important wisdom 🙏

  • @mltdcj28
    @mltdcj28 4 роки тому +119

    This song bring back such nostalgie. I'm 41 y/o now and I can't help but think about how better life was back then and how it could have been better if I had made different choices. This is a BEAUTIFUL song and it will always have a special place in my heart :)

    • @roger1983ism
      @roger1983ism 2 роки тому +5

      think the same

    • @srhbluerain
      @srhbluerain 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly...I'm 42 (3/11/79)...I hadn't heard this in years and listened a couple weeks ago and it just broke me...the nostalgia of my youth, the heartbreaks I thought I would never recover from, the heartbreaks I caused, the fun that I've had, the miserable times that I've had, just everything hits so hard.

    • @srhbluerain
      @srhbluerain 2 роки тому +3

      And obviously the thoughts of how things would be if I made different choices...'I used to be attracted to boys who would lie to me, the more self destructive the better' kills me because I got married after that to someone who treated me like a queen and then I left....

    • @michalaleskandr3985
      @michalaleskandr3985 2 роки тому +1

      41 too 8/6/80.
      I think we all think that way some times and RIP to Taylor Hawkins!

    • @patrickwayne3701
      @patrickwayne3701 2 роки тому +2

      @@srhbluerain what is it that makes that happen? Is it just too boring to know someone is willing to die for you?
      I am mostly over all those days,, but the occasional ramble thru time with Alanis makes me wistful. I actually found someone who inspired me like Alanis' music touched my heart, and I finally let her in. After 32 years of being single and fairly sure that was the way to be. 13 years later, only one hurtful argument in all that time, and she left,,, never a plate thrown, never a hissed name called. She couldn't bear a child, and left in the confusion of finding that out. I've walked alone since.
      I'm getting to believe that straight line steadfast solid dudes just aren't appreciated anymore.

  • @nataliabaage
    @nataliabaage 8 років тому +243

    Without fail, this song makes me cry every time.

    • @matthewhaley9349
      @matthewhaley9349 7 років тому +5

      My cat is named Alanis

    • @user-dc4uq6bf7c
      @user-dc4uq6bf7c 7 років тому +4

      cool cat

    • @lmm5451
      @lmm5451 6 років тому +5

      me too...not sure why...

    • @MrJoonyNen
      @MrJoonyNen 5 років тому +2

      Me too

    • @cyjeren1627
      @cyjeren1627 5 років тому +2

      i feel you, i can relate to this song so much, i do not know why...

  • @madonnicallysony
    @madonnicallysony 10 років тому +255

    Unsent letters to her various bfs or exes...this song is so damn unconventional...I love the way she pours her heart out...one of my fav videos...

    • @petermeulan3519
      @petermeulan3519 6 років тому +10

      a lovely constructed love song

    • @otorishingen8600
      @otorishingen8600 6 років тому +7

      thanks for solving the riddle i had for so long about the title of the song 🙏

    • @carliches7
      @carliches7 5 років тому +1

      Agreed

    • @dodu8281
      @dodu8281 5 років тому

      fuccking boring dialogues

    • @mathewkleese7878
      @mathewkleese7878 3 роки тому +3

      I just love the song and her honesty. People really can still learn things.

  • @Hairmetallurgist
    @Hairmetallurgist 14 років тому +50

    I still get choked up at Alanis' vulnerability throughout this video. She is an amazing songwriter...simply wonderful.

  • @ramonarellano4988
    @ramonarellano4988 Рік тому +20

    My loved younger brother who was in his early 30's at the time cried with this song many times, we used to hang on my garage ,drink a few beers and listen to many of our favorite artists, we were pretty close, I saw him as my son, I'm 8 years older than him, he passed away in 2015, left a big hole in my heart, now this song makes me cry every time. 😢

    • @thegteam4349
      @thegteam4349 9 місяців тому +2

      Beautiful comment! My sincere condolences to you...

    • @Z.November
      @Z.November 8 місяців тому +2

      My condolences

    • @doeeyes2
      @doeeyes2 7 місяців тому +1

      My brother is eight years older. I think theres something magical about that age difference... its almost like raising ur own, getting to teach them about the world. I used to love hearing my brothers stories and all the grown uo shit he got experience and that I would too one day. Im sure ur brother admired you and looked up to you. I absolutely adore my older brother. Even tho im a girl and very feminine, he always treated me like one of his boys and I love it. ❤ Im sorry about ur loss. Im sure you have many memories that you wilk forvever cherish. Sending positive vibes from toronto, happy holidays.

    • @ramonarellano4988
      @ramonarellano4988 7 місяців тому

      @@doeeyes2, thank you, , I'm hoping you both live a happy long life.

    • @lascosasporsunombre8991
      @lascosasporsunombre8991 4 місяці тому +2

      I m so sorry for your lost

  • @chrispacer4231
    @chrispacer4231 4 роки тому +11

    I’m a 60 year old man. Watching June 2020. The World and the USA is so FUCKED UP. This song has a different meaning to other people. For me her voice is helping me decompress. Always thought she was really cute. Be safe everyone

  • @jamesmonroe8412
    @jamesmonroe8412 Рік тому +32

    Alanis is such a great songwriter. Here she sings about past relationships and what she learned from each one. I don't know why I feel sad when I listen to this song, I guess it makes me think of bad past relationships.

  • @hakonm1438
    @hakonm1438 6 років тому +81

    Listening in 2018, I love this song even more. 20 years later.
    41 years old, this song just keeps making more sense. Amazing

    • @michalaleskandr3985
      @michalaleskandr3985 2 роки тому +2

      41 too when I came here... 8/6/80 and this resonates so much deeper... Taylor Hawskins passing brought me here this time.

  • @Punkieficti
    @Punkieficti 14 років тому +55

    Dear Lou, we learned so much...
    I realize we won't be able to talk for sometime, and I understand that as I do you
    The long distance thing was the hardest and we did as well as we could...
    we were together during a very tumultous time in our lives
    I will always have your back and be corious about you...
    ...About your career, your whereabouts.

  • @CSorickOmaha
    @CSorickOmaha 12 років тому +34

    I remember when this would come on the radio a lot in early 1999. I could never imagine this being played on the radio now days! It's too amazing to be played along with the rest of the bullshit that is played today....

  • @orul8273
    @orul8273 4 роки тому +13

    It's 2020 - I'm now 51 years old. Still makes me sob.

  • @michaeltempleton1094
    @michaeltempleton1094 4 роки тому +53

    One of the most perfect songs about relationships ever written. It never gets old. I think of all the thoughts I've had about former loves that I could pen into letters unsent. She is out of favor now, but one day I think the world will celebrate her for the enduring poet and artist she is.

  • @lordsxman
    @lordsxman 3 роки тому +17

    What's really sad about this song is how most people haven't seen it!

    • @mardus_ee
      @mardus_ee 3 роки тому +2

      There are people of a certain generation who have seen it, back when music channels had it in rotation when the video had come out. I think it's like one of those perfect songs of the Cold Y Generation (which I am part of), as the lyrics hit at so many points.
      I'll put Gen-X and Millennials in there as well, but Cold Y is between the two, and as the song and the video get to my feelings, I could posit, that it most captures the imagination of the Cold Y generation, too.

    • @candi6642
      @candi6642 Рік тому

      @@mardus_ee I’ve heard Elder Millennial, and Xennial, but Cold Y is new to me.

    • @mardus_ee
      @mardus_ee Рік тому +1

      @@candi6642 It was once on Wikipedia, too, but the article was removed for being "original research".

  • @1483423
    @1483423 10 років тому +87

    This is a highly under-rated Alanis Song about the value of friendship in our lives and how it fosters us all.

  • @calveroG
    @calveroG 2 роки тому +5

    She is so GEMINI! I guess every gemini person see yourself in this song.

  • @thegteam4349
    @thegteam4349 2 роки тому +13

    It’s incredible how the people who come in and out of our lives can be amazing teachers isn’t it? In positive ways and negative too.

  • @johnbowers1118
    @johnbowers1118 Рік тому +16

    It wasn't just jagged little pill that I loved from her catalog... I love this song!

  • @brucie2909
    @brucie2909 Рік тому +23

    Such a beautiful unappreciated song. melts my heart and gives me goosebumps whenever I hear it

  • @scottmiller1382
    @scottmiller1382 9 років тому +43

    unsent , a love story with no ending , BEAUTIFUL song

  • @mattsiverd3549
    @mattsiverd3549 10 років тому +73

    She portrays her feelings well. You can see how hurt she is when she realizes what Marcus is talking about. On an unrelated vein, I love her smile.

    • @marylcampbell2409
      @marylcampbell2409 3 роки тому +6

      And i love the way she smile for Matthew and Terrence 💗

  • @kathleennickles1
    @kathleennickles1 6 років тому +40

    My favorite Alanis song ever! It is so pure & beautiful! I think I have listened to it over 100 times!!!!

  • @raphaellazaro1982
    @raphaellazaro1982 Рік тому +12

    I'm always cry when I listen to this song. One of the mysteries of life people who we like, care about, we don't know the whereabout. It's like the love we have we need to keep in a special place in our heart util the time do the part. Thank you so much Alanis, for expressing exactly we feel.

  • @robertorojasbalarezo
    @robertorojasbalarezo 4 роки тому +24

    this song made me realize that until i met my wife, those other relationships before her had a deep significance but where a means to an end, there were times when i broke up with one of them i felt i wasn´t gonna be able to find somebody who loved me as much as i can, but here we are, my wife, my best friend, my partner was just around the corner

  • @iamnobody2241
    @iamnobody2241 3 роки тому +6

    The other break up song got 57M views but I think this one is more emotional and matured. This song doesn’t need to say thanks or whatever but you get it.

    • @mardus_ee
      @mardus_ee 3 роки тому

      What's the other breakup song?

  • @queenmother123
    @queenmother123 10 років тому +39

    Love this song, and as many times as I heard it I've never seen the video. I love it though. The 90's and early 2000's were the best,

  • @stefanie9645
    @stefanie9645 8 років тому +68

    I relate to this so much I cried while watching it. Alanis just has a way with emotions and songwriting. My heart.....

  • @jeah1827
    @jeah1827 7 років тому +41

    man this song hurts my heart so bad ....so many nice guys I let go and now I'm alone and wishing I hadn't messed up so bad. What was wrong with me ....?

    • @marylcampbell2409
      @marylcampbell2409 3 роки тому +2

      I feel u so much....

    • @philipmoss2922
      @philipmoss2922 3 роки тому +3

      We all feel that way sometime .
      Keep smiling.

    • @invenomator
      @invenomator 3 роки тому +3

      Me, it's the other way around; kept waiting for someone "BETTER" to come along. Now - alone, crippled up, not much prospects @ 55 yrs. If only ...

  • @AdamJMusic23
    @AdamJMusic23 4 роки тому +10

    Love letters she wrote about past bfs by reflecting on her Past relationships & the shortcomings... With Fondness & frankness - i can't believe how young she was in 1999 to be so wise & this reflective. #SFIJ #mtvUplugged #JLP

  • @vida.e.espiritualidade
    @vida.e.espiritualidade 4 роки тому +34

    Essa música me transporta lá para fins dos anos 90, quando não havia internet como hoje, adquirir um CD da Alanis era um acontecimento na vida. Ouvia sem parar. Tenho até hoje o CD original. Virou relíquia. Essa música era especial, eu trocava cartas com amigas que tinham um significado especial. Outros tempos.

    • @tukakids
      @tukakids 2 роки тому +4

      sim, eu ouvi o cd a primeira vez num toca discos no Carrefour, ia todo dia e ouvia um trecho.. lembro ate hj como Front Row e Baba me impressionava.... bons tempos.

    • @Mario_N64
      @Mario_N64 2 роки тому

      @@tukakids did you buy it

    • @DavisbyDavis
      @DavisbyDavis 2 роки тому +4

      E a gente guardava cada centavo pra comprar porque era caro, mas valia a pena! Como valia! Tenho todos da colação

    • @raphaellazaro1982
      @raphaellazaro1982 Рік тому +4

      Até hj eu lembro quando eu comprei esse cd, foi no natal de 1998, junto com o Ray of Light da Madonna, bons tempos, discos maravilhosos.

  • @randyravivann2007
    @randyravivann2007 9 років тому +47

    this song takes me back to 1999

  • @michalaleskandr3985
    @michalaleskandr3985 2 роки тому +7

    RIP TAYLOR

  • @mindseye4914
    @mindseye4914 2 роки тому +11

    This song is such an ultimate punch in the gut my goodness! Heard it after so so many years and it instantly brought tears to my eyes.

  • @benw9524
    @benw9524 10 років тому +35

    Such a beautiful song, I used to listen to this song all the time... now listening to it, it takes me back to the lovers I had in my college years and 20's, and all the ups and downs i faced with them. I am very happily married now, but listening to this song brings back memories, both good and bad.

    • @truslyd
      @truslyd 7 років тому +1

      Ben W nothin wrong with that at all.

  • @jamiel1979
    @jamiel1979 Місяць тому +1

    Cannot believe I haven’t heard this track before today. Typical Alanis, sounds fantastic with a stunning instrumental behind it. I need to look beyond jagged little pill

  • @Hairmetallurgist
    @Hairmetallurgist 10 років тому +47

    Such sadness. I wish each of us was not so afraid of rejection or embarrassment as to talk about the things that really matter in a safe, judgment-free environment. This song is a testament to fear controlling our need to trust. I hope I never have to be so afraid of my partner that I could not talk about anything.

  • @mikeobrien6704
    @mikeobrien6704 3 роки тому +8

    I've had a crush on Alanis most of my life Beautiful face, beautiful songwriter, beautiful voice. I know she lives in the USA but she is still a great Canadian girl.

  • @seanmccaffrey897
    @seanmccaffrey897 2 роки тому +3

    Hitting me now that “Dear, Matthew”, is no doubt about her quick time with Dave Matthews. They really fell for each other on the making of Before These Crowded Streets where she assisted. You can see in the documentary on the making of the album. Wow this is very nostalgic.

  • @Phyx1us
    @Phyx1us 5 років тому +11

    UNSENT LYRICS
    [Verse 1]
    Dear Matthew, I like you a lot
    I realize you're in a relationship with someone right now
    And I respect that
    I would like you to know that if you're ever single in the future
    And you want to come visit me in California
    I would be open to spending time with you
    And finding out how old you were
    When you wrote your first song
    [Verse 2]
    Dear Jonathan, I liked you too much
    I used to be attracted to boys who would lie to me
    And think solely about themselves
    And you were plenty self-destructive for my taste at the time
    I used to say the more tragic the better
    The truth is whenever I think of the early 90's
    Your face comes up with a vengeance
    Like it was yesterday
    [Verse 3]
    Dear Terrance, I love you muchly
    You've been nothing but open hearted and
    Emotionally available and supportive
    And nurturing and consummately there for me
    I kept drawing you in
    And pushing you away
    I remember how beautiful it was to
    Fall asleep on your couch and cry in front of you for the first time
    You were the best platform from which to jump beyond myself
    What was wrong with me?
    [Verse 4]
    Dear Marcus, you rocked my world
    You had a charismatic way about you with the women
    And you got me seriously thinking about spirituality
    And you wouldn't let me get away with kicking my own ass
    But I could never really feel relaxed and looked out for around you though
    And that stopped us from going any further than we did
    And it's kind of too bad because we could've had much more fun
    [Verse 5]
    Dear Lou, we learned so much
    I realize we won't be able to talk for some time
    And I understand that as I do you
    The long distance thing was the hardest and we did as well as we could
    We were together during a very tumultuous time in our lives
    I will always have your back and be curious about you
    About your career, your whereabouts

  • @stacey8233
    @stacey8233 Рік тому +8

    Great song about past relationships. Love her and her music. Brings me back to my 20's being free and just having fun.

  • @joshuavgc4160
    @joshuavgc4160 3 роки тому +18

    The way she kept herself open for love no matter how hurt she gets each time speaks for itself. This song hits harder each time I listen it and this was on the 1st CD I ever got for my 10th birthday 20+ years ago. Been a fan for as long as I can remember honestly! Love your music Alanis Morissette! This is how music should be. 🥰🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌

  • @DPinthapeg
    @DPinthapeg Рік тому +3

    I don't know who cast the men for this music video, but they did a phenomenal job of matching each dude with the lyrics.

  • @maxcomeausinger-songwriter3248
    @maxcomeausinger-songwriter3248 7 років тому +32

    Since the day it came out, it's always been my very favorite Alanis song. Simple yet so effective.

  • @tiffanywinston9218
    @tiffanywinston9218 3 роки тому +19

    This is my favorite Alanis song. I love how she pours her heart out and reflects on her exes. We can all relate to this...even if our exes are no longer a part of our lives, they still had a profound impact on us and helped shape us into who we are today.

  • @Marstepolovsky
    @Marstepolovsky Рік тому +2

    Best Alannis Morrisette song I think.

  • @chaskis90
    @chaskis90 9 років тому +88

    came here to see if Greyson from Cougar Town was really in the video & he is!!! :D

    • @benihimemiku
      @benihimemiku 8 років тому +6

      omg me too!!

    • @_makeupandcoffee_4936
      @_makeupandcoffee_4936 5 років тому +6

      Charlene Zai LOL Three years later and here I am doing the same thing.

    • @maamdacs
      @maamdacs 4 роки тому +6

      Love when they made an episode about him being in Alanis' video.

    • @tiffy3787
      @tiffy3787 4 роки тому

      same

    • @wilblanfort7122
      @wilblanfort7122 4 роки тому

      Me too 🤦🏾‍♂️... its 2020 smh .. where have I been😂😂😂

  • @andrewpearson3516
    @andrewpearson3516 2 роки тому +22

    who's here for cougar town

  • @shaxan
    @shaxan 5 років тому +10

    This song always amazed me, like for 20 years straight, but it's only now that I noticed that its lyrics are unrhymed poetry.

  • @berrydaquirie
    @berrydaquirie 11 років тому +6

    omg!! i;m here because of Cougar Town...had to see for myself!! love Alanis (I'm from Ottawa tooo) and LOVE Cougar Town!!

  • @billadams484
    @billadams484 7 років тому +6

    "I'd like you to know that you're every single in the future".......... very cool line

  • @milosristic1111
    @milosristic1111 Рік тому +1

    Well, Alanis is SO much fun. I really like her. :)

  • @AdamJMusic23
    @AdamJMusic23 4 роки тому +4

    'The More Tragic the better, What was Wrong with me'...? We love, we grow, we learn, we remember... #SelfLove=Selfworth❤️

  • @timwilkinson2797
    @timwilkinson2797 7 років тому +35

    This song had such a profound HIT on my personal life - I dont know if i love it or hate it !
    Alanis - Love your music n love your soul !

  • @gravelm123
    @gravelm123 10 років тому +19

    This song is so real. Video is great too! Alanis rocks!

  • @whippz75
    @whippz75 Рік тому +1

    Aida, Jessica, Tina, Andrea, Angel, Lisa, Tanya, Jess, Susan, thank you for the good times we spent together and there will always be a place for you in my heart. ❤

  • @bluebell5975
    @bluebell5975 2 роки тому +1

    This Song is so much about at Looking back at times .. so easy to get sad.. but also thankfull…

  • @raraszek
    @raraszek Рік тому +5

    Such a fantastic track. Alanis is an eloquent artist

  • @AlysonArt
    @AlysonArt 14 років тому +11

    The lyrics signify, truth, spiritual beauty. They are so touching and so relatable and I am just a teenager listening to this. I love Alanis, she is my inspiration.

  • @LifeinAnalog
    @LifeinAnalog 3 роки тому +6

    Alanis has an amazing ability to take something so specifically personal and make it sound universal.

  • @nicolerudy8456
    @nicolerudy8456 10 років тому +27

    love this song. always did... lyrics hit me hard, played this song w/ guitar at open mic night recently.

  • @starrfadeable
    @starrfadeable 13 років тому +10

    She makes my soul weep i always listen to her when im sad makes me sing (badly) which always makes me feel better. Music heals.

  • @filipzawistowski8552
    @filipzawistowski8552 5 років тому +24

    "What was wrong with me?"
    Is what I ask myself often when I look back at all the wonderful people I could have been in a relationship with but I fucked it up :D

    • @whoresalad
      @whoresalad 4 роки тому +1

      Filip Zawistowski It wasn’t you, it just wasn’t the right time.

    • @ArtofFreeSpeech
      @ArtofFreeSpeech 4 роки тому +3

      @@whoresalad No... sometimes it actually is us. We just realize it much too late.

  • @salvatoreaversa9765
    @salvatoreaversa9765 9 місяців тому +1

    Love this brilliant love this lady brilliant music and singing xx🏍🏍💙❤️💜

  • @philipmoss2922
    @philipmoss2922 Рік тому +1

    Great song and production .Wish it was longer .

    • @joan-yw1pe
      @joan-yw1pe Рік тому

      There’s an extended version which is the demo version, with like 3 extra verses. U can find it here on UA-cam “Alanis Morissette Unsent Demo Version”

  • @paranoidandroid6711
    @paranoidandroid6711 3 роки тому +4

    By far her best song. I relate to this kind of pain.

  • @pawelgrzesznik9210
    @pawelgrzesznik9210 2 роки тому +3

    When I first heard this song in the 90s, I thought wow, she's a really eloquent lyricist. This song aged so nicely :)

  • @mariahjojo7315
    @mariahjojo7315 8 років тому +11

    I miss alanis so much! I remember buying a cassette tape of this album when I was 16!! she's one of my favorite!

  • @pattysalyer382
    @pattysalyer382 Рік тому +3

    Another great song by Alanis Morissette !!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Albertanator
    @Albertanator 5 років тому +3

    This is what we call mature song writing and a wonderful video to match.

  • @jtmoore662
    @jtmoore662 5 років тому +4

    The second part of this song, the dear John part. Back in 93 I was with a girl that almost mirrors that. The last verse about Lou, is another mirror of a girl I dated in Dallas while I lived 300 mi away. I visited her every weekend for 5 yrs until she broke it off. This song so relates to me on two parts.

  • @punishedexistence
    @punishedexistence 12 років тому +1

    Dear me, sometimes I wish I never doubted you, we could have made it far. But those days are gone so I should let 'em go. Thank you Alanis!

  • @patricknugent6395
    @patricknugent6395 26 днів тому

    Love allana ,what makes America great is the music 😂❤

  • @michaelangelomendez8141
    @michaelangelomendez8141 3 роки тому +4

    Terrence.... was the only one who made her feel special. But she missed it up. We all have that at one point.

  • @shadowbox24
    @shadowbox24 9 років тому +8

    Listening to this reminds me of my past relationships and how they shaped me and made nostalgic for some of those blokes and wonder what they're doing now...

  • @tristan6007
    @tristan6007 4 місяці тому

    This has got to be my favoritest song on this album ❤❤❤

  • @sebastianberguzt8411
    @sebastianberguzt8411 7 років тому +7

    so sad, makes me cry....geat song and video..

  • @hendrapurbaya6778
    @hendrapurbaya6778 4 роки тому +3

    this song has that auto-bittersweet aura about it, force you to look back in that way. Makes me in tears without fail.

  • @karenmulhern
    @karenmulhern 10 років тому +7

    I LOVE her! Such soul baring...and what a voice!

  • @NurilBasri
    @NurilBasri 8 місяців тому

    I love this song so much. I have no other word.

  • @jaag38
    @jaag38 8 років тому +4

    Esta canción la escucho miles de veces y siempre gusta saludos de Venezuela

  • @postboredom2333
    @postboredom2333 7 років тому +9

    The bittersweet sting of recalling past loves is portrayed so well in this one.. (deep sigh)

  • @Mike-up6qb
    @Mike-up6qb Рік тому +1

    Any artist sing like Alanis nowadays?? I dont think so. What a voice

  • @user-mz1pz1nl5q
    @user-mz1pz1nl5q 2 дні тому

    honnest confession with an highly sensitive musicality as " human touch "

  • @MrPoseidonbcn
    @MrPoseidonbcn 4 роки тому +8

    In my opinion, she is a such a raw talent and someone who is as true as it can be when it comes to be herself. Amazing spirit. ❤️

  • @glennhorne6783
    @glennhorne6783 9 років тому +9

    Beautiful lyrics

  • @NessaGhouliful
    @NessaGhouliful Рік тому

    The original "Thank You, Next" 💯💯💯

  • @TheHartonGroup
    @TheHartonGroup 3 роки тому +4

    Alanis gave me an unrealistic expectation of the number of guys I would date in my 20s

    • @mardus_ee
      @mardus_ee 3 роки тому

      And then comes the age when we only seek a keeper to settle down with.

  • @jennhoff03
    @jennhoff03 7 років тому +32

    This was all written before facebook was big and you could look up all your past loves and see what they were doing. :) A much more romantic time, I think. :)

    • @swankhood
      @swankhood 5 років тому +4

      I blocked a ex for this reason. He ran into me after and wanted to know why. I said you can have a open view of my life once you decide you want to break up. I'm blocking you so it will be like it once was. Social media is unnatural

  • @truslyd
    @truslyd 7 років тому +6

    song gives me chills for some reason...

  • @filipzawistowski4390
    @filipzawistowski4390 5 років тому +2

    The way Terrence looks at her at the end of his clip ... Beautiful acting, you can see so much in his eyes. Love, nostalgia, regret, hope, resignation, I can see it all there :)

    • @napalmpdx-ow6ep
      @napalmpdx-ow6ep 2 роки тому

      I think that's Lou. Terrance is the guy in the brown corduroy jacket who seems the most in touch with himself.

  • @adrianalbornoz8766
    @adrianalbornoz8766 4 роки тому +2

    Love this song so much! I have a Alanis song for each moment in my life!!!

  • @Jayc0re85
    @Jayc0re85 12 років тому +5

    Dear Julie, you taught me so much, you and your family accepted me at a time I couldn't accept myself, It was only through their love, I could rise above myself, I only wish that you could see what I've become, you'd be so proud of me, like I was proud of you, I was always fascinated in the mastery of the all things you do, but now I understand, what you all understood, and I could never go back to that way of being

    • @GwynneBloodgood
      @GwynneBloodgood 6 років тому +2

      Dear Traveller, I love you to death. The most beautiful thing about us is our teamwork. We understand and love each other for nothing else than just what we are. All I could want for us is a life where we grow together, and I hope never grow out of loving you.
      Dear Grim, I wish you well. We were attracted to the fact the other one was broken, we reveled in our darkness and in just how lost we both became. I dragged myself down to pull you up from your self destruction, and in the end I only made things worse.
      Dear Bully, there's nothing left. I could be furious that you manipulated my mind, that you abused my trust and broke me down to mold me into what you seek, but going through hell forced me to face my demons and grow strong. I'm too busy living life to spend time resenting you.
      Dear Wonderwall, I'm so glad you called. I started out loving you so much my young heart would ache from it, but my infidelity prevented you from ever feeling safe with me. After years of separation we grew into adults, I cant imagine life without my best friend at my side.
      Dear Talon, what have you done? It took me years to finally stop looking for you in all things, and even now you show up in my dreams though I recall your cruelty. Since then you've apologised and I could see you when I want to, but I keep you at arms length because your power frightens me.

    • @lazyatthedisco
      @lazyatthedisco 3 роки тому

      @@GwynneBloodgood damn!