Love for Jeff (Dating with a Disability)

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  • Опубліковано 7 лис 2024

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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  3 роки тому +398

    UPDATE FROM FOUR YEARS INTO THE FUTURE!!! A few years after this original video Lynn saw Jeff's video and reached out to him. The two are now engaged and about to get married! You can hear their love story at ua-cam.com/video/uVTGTrFy6t8/v-deo.html

    • @highclass3041
      @highclass3041 3 роки тому +13

      That's FREAKING AWSOME!!!!!!
      I just read this!!!
      Congratulations buddy!!!! Man I wish I could come to the wedding!!!!! Your gonna have to introduce her to all us UA-camrs!! We want to meet that lucky little lady!!!

    • @nosa8954
      @nosa8954 2 роки тому +1

      Awesome!

    • @awesome1ru
      @awesome1ru 2 роки тому +1

      And everyone lived happily ever after

    • @Bliving457
      @Bliving457 2 роки тому +1

      Congrats!!

    • @africarenee
      @africarenee 2 роки тому +2

      Yaaaaaaaay! 🥺🥰🤗💝💐🦋

  • @Jazzy869
    @Jazzy869 3 роки тому +365

    This is one of the most raw and vulnerable videos I've seen. Jeff asked and Jeff received. I hope it lasts forever!

  • @HaleyReadsDaily
    @HaleyReadsDaily 3 роки тому +283

    Back here after Jeff and Lynn's update video. Beautiful couple! God bless SBSK for changing lives and hearts.
    I'm not crying, you're crying 😭

  • @graceein2322
    @graceein2322 3 роки тому +131

    Jeff has found his lady!! So happy for the couple they both deserve each other. There is always someone for everyone❤️❤️

  • @kayleennilsson5542
    @kayleennilsson5542 3 роки тому +201

    I hope Jeff has found a lady lovely enough for his sweet soul!

    • @Nan-59
      @Nan-59 3 роки тому +25

      Yup! He did!! Check out SBSK's newest video that just popped out today!!!

    • @kayleennilsson5542
      @kayleennilsson5542 3 роки тому +26

      I'm a proud Patreon member of SBSK! I'm so dang happy for them!

    • @BeautyRepublicUnited
      @BeautyRepublicUnited 3 роки тому +9

      He did!!!

    • @bloom7722
      @bloom7722 3 роки тому +4

      He did❤️

    • @lostinthewoods3918
      @lostinthewoods3918 3 роки тому +3

      You must’ve been stoked when you found out he got someone :)

  • @ericsandberg3680
    @ericsandberg3680 2 роки тому +41

    As a 22 year with CP I relate so much about what he experienced then because it's what I'm experiencing now

    • @africarenee
      @africarenee 2 роки тому +4

      Aaaahhh. I hope things have gotten better 🥺💝💐🦋

  • @natashakaye7761
    @natashakaye7761 2 роки тому +16

    I thank God for allowing Jeff to find Lynn! Thanks for all you do Chris & Alyssa. I don’t have any disabled persons in my like but sincerely enjoy and appreciate these videos.

  • @CoSu1006
    @CoSu1006 3 роки тому +18

    This made me cry! The sincerity in his voice and his demeanor is very touching! Gives me hope for all of humanity! There’s still good people on this earth!

  • @Truckerboy1234
    @Truckerboy1234 2 роки тому +11

    You can tell this guy is talking from the heart, he's great at articulating his words. Glad to see he found someone.

  • @ronyalemerrill
    @ronyalemerrill 3 роки тому +40

    I love his 100% authenticity. Thank God he is honest. I've felt like that so much. Literall tears. 100% from a mostly able bodied person. I've felt this way so many years.

  • @karenlhoule
    @karenlhoule 3 роки тому +73

    This really pulled at my heart strings. It is so hard for anyone to find true love. I can’t even imagine the extra challenges that go along with finding true love and having a disability. I pray that this gentleman did find someone because he is deserving of love just as we all are!

    • @chelseapoet3664
      @chelseapoet3664 3 роки тому +9

      He did! They are getting married! A video with them in it just appeared on this channel.

  • @GustavoDB
    @GustavoDB 3 роки тому +24

    Beyond disabilities or not. It's difficult to find a person that express in a very direct way his feelings, not covering or with a mask. Wow, you are truly a tough man. And I saw that you have already found a girl. I guess she found a treasure not very common nowadays. Cheers and thanks for sharing. You are truly brave an authentic

  • @SecretSquirrelDunDun
    @SecretSquirrelDunDun 3 роки тому +36

    Congratulations to Jeff and his fiance! What a beautiful update today ❤

  • @oceanchicns
    @oceanchicns 3 роки тому +12

    Jeff I am 53 and just found love for the first time. I felt hopeless but open to love. I wish you nothing but love and happiness AND yes, it's about what inside!!!!

  • @robinhendricks1750
    @robinhendricks1750 2 роки тому +8

    What a special man. I pray that Jeff and Lynn have a long happy life together. Jeff deserves happiness and love just like everyone else. I hope to hear later that they have a baby (or more) and they are over the moon. GOOD LUCK TO YOU GUYS!!!!!

  • @EllisWhitehead
    @EllisWhitehead 3 роки тому +7

    Wow, that was really touching, Jeff. I did not expect that when I clicked. Congratulations to you and your fiance on finding each other.

  • @awakeningEmpath
    @awakeningEmpath 3 роки тому +15

    this is a very very moving & powerful cry out for love, Jeff deserves it

  • @is.this.really.important
    @is.this.really.important 3 роки тому +11

    I pray this man now has everything he is looking for. What a wonderful spirit.

  • @bastian6173
    @bastian6173 3 роки тому +289

    His emotional intelligence is probably higher than that of 99% of people in the world.

    • @supernova1725
      @supernova1725 3 роки тому

      What’s emotional intelligence? Isn’t that kinda an oxymoron

    • @bastian6173
      @bastian6173 3 роки тому +7

      @@supernova1725 How so? I don't see how emotion and ingelligence contradict each other

    • @supernova1725
      @supernova1725 3 роки тому

      @@bastian6173 intelligence is the ability to learn and apply knowledge while emotion is natural. It’s like someone’s intuition or gut feeling, but I don’t think that correlates to intelligence. It’s kind of like nature vs nurture but not 100%

    • @bastian6173
      @bastian6173 3 роки тому +11

      @@supernova1725 Emotional intelligence is a scientific term. There is no need to argue whether these two words contradict each other or not.

    • @supernova1725
      @supernova1725 3 роки тому

      @@bastian6173 wait no it’s not it was made in 1990 in a journal. It’s a new term

  • @saraanic9436
    @saraanic9436 3 роки тому +33

    People, you have to see Jeff's second SBSK video 😊 I'm so happy for him!

  • @cathypargeter2102
    @cathypargeter2102 3 роки тому +252

    Excellent I'm so glad that comments are back on so I can say what I was desperate to say before to Jeff and anyone else who would listen. Jeff you said in your interview, how many girls dream of marrying a man with CP. Well me and my man with CP are getting married next month and my dreams have come true. As Chris says, everyone is deserving of love, and I'm soooo glad we have found each other. Hope all goes well for you Jeff, you're a very attractive guy

    • @maryaiton3545
      @maryaiton3545 3 роки тому +10

      Congratulations to you both! I wish you a lifetime of happiness 💗

    • @faresalhawaj9936
      @faresalhawaj9936 3 роки тому +2

      I wish you both good life together. Congratulations 🙏🏼

    • @jennifergragg1850
      @jennifergragg1850 3 роки тому +2

      Congratulations!! This is so sweet!! 💜💜

    • @stacibayles2085
      @stacibayles2085 3 роки тому +6

      He is getting married now. I don't know if you know. There is an update video

    • @cathypargeter2102
      @cathypargeter2102 3 роки тому +9

      Thanks for the kind wishes folks, just back from honeymoon ☺️, wonderful update that Jeff is getting married! Such wonderful news, he will be an amazing partner I'm sure. thanks for posting x

  • @md4885
    @md4885 3 роки тому +37

    I pray he finds love! Everyone deserves true happiness.

    • @hillah4981
      @hillah4981 3 роки тому +12

      He's getting married!!

  • @evedreamer7
    @evedreamer7 2 роки тому +7

    I know that just as God created an Eve for an Adam, He also designed a loved one for Jeff, and I trust that this union will be in God's perfect timing. I will pray for that.
    Blessings from Chile 🇨🇱

  • @Bliving457
    @Bliving457 2 роки тому +2

    An absolute beautiful man. Inside and out. I hope all the happiness and love comes your way

  • @DaniellianGaming
    @DaniellianGaming 3 роки тому +8

    Coming back to this video after watching him find that special someone really makes me proud to follow SBSK. This man wanted something, and he got what he wanted without taking it for granted! What great men Jeff and Chris are!

  • @HPB1776
    @HPB1776 3 роки тому +8

    What a fantastic guy. So open and honest with a big heart and v handsome too. I am so happy to hear you are soon to be married. I wish you and your wife the wonderful future that you deserve. ❤

  • @nindikaur2095
    @nindikaur2095 Рік тому +4

    Congratulations Jeff. You deserve all the love, happiness and kindness in your like. Go for it 😊

  • @juanmanuelgarcialopez710
    @juanmanuelgarcialopez710 3 роки тому +6

    This guy is authentic. I hear you, brother. I know the feeling. You deserve better. I hope you find what you're looking for.

  • @allosch9
    @allosch9 3 роки тому +6

    I can tell you have a lot to give, Jeff! I'm so happy for you that you've found love, as you certainly deserve it! You seem like such a sweet, genuine, smart guy. Congrats man!

  • @FreeLooK
    @FreeLooK 3 роки тому +5

    That channel always makes me damn cry >:(
    It always reminds me of how ungrateful I can be about my live for complaining about simple things AND also makes me wanna hug people and say "There are more people there for you in this world :) Thanks for sharing your words "

  • @guardianwheels
    @guardianwheels 3 роки тому +5

    We all need a Jeff in our lives. He is a beautiful soul and is absolutely perfect. I just came across an utd video that lead me back to this one. He is engaged. I am so happy for the both of them!

  • @carlybunnell5017
    @carlybunnell5017 3 роки тому +8

    He is wonderful inside and out! Best wishes that he finds one very lucky lady!

  • @greenbananas7766
    @greenbananas7766 3 роки тому +3

    Jeff your an AMAZING MAN! If men in general could set the "macho crude" aside & talk so honestly! So, so excited that you found your lady! God has blessed you! If I may say, one thing I have personally learned in my years. I know more people that are disabled than people with disabilities. ( Meaning there is nothing wrong with them other than a failure to launch at life & have constant pitty parties.) I have been so encouraged watching & listening to SBSK. I know your a kick to be with! You have a great, funny personality & good lookin' too! Your fiancee' is a lucky lady! May God pour His love & grace upon your marriage & life together! He IS an AMAZING GOD! You have touched my heart & many others!

  • @catsarerude
    @catsarerude 3 роки тому +4

    What a handsome, awesome guy. I'm so happy he found a life partner. 😍
    I'm also happy comments are back on!! I was so upset at YT disabling them!!

  • @aristired6252
    @aristired6252 3 роки тому +2

    You can tell what a genuine person he is and how in touch he is with his feelings. It’s so nice to see how honest he is. He has the personality that many (including me) love. There isn’t an ounce of toxicity, he talks about is fears and struggles and he also self advocates for himself. That’s not and easy thing to do. It sucks that being disabled becomes such a big hinderance for so many, especially with today’s culture of first dates being the seal all or deal all. I’m so glad Jeff and Lynn found each other. They must both be so happy❤️

  • @Seanbo88
    @Seanbo88 3 роки тому +6

    I wish I had 1/3 of the charisma that this man has :) So glad to hear that he found love :D

  • @cindylouwho6053
    @cindylouwho6053 3 роки тому +2

    He has a kind and gentle soul. He is so well spoken and honest. Who wouldn't want someone like him? You don't realize has a disability. I'm so happy he's getting married. I feel just like him. We all deserve the "whole nine yards...."

  • @lucasbello117
    @lucasbello117 3 роки тому +30

    I hope your wish came true after this homie!! you do certainly seem a GREAT guy Jeff!! Cheers!!

    • @XmynameislameX
      @XmynameislameX 3 роки тому +9

      Check the latest video! He is getting married. 😊

  • @sheenagriffith2635
    @sheenagriffith2635 4 місяці тому

    So glad for you Jeff. You deserve the woman of your dreams. Thank you for sharing for sharing your story.

  • @Rita-yw2tn
    @Rita-yw2tn 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so happy that he found the love of his life that’s so precious ! ❤️❤️

  • @jaysonlove5781
    @jaysonlove5781 3 роки тому +9

    This man is so sweet omg who's cutting onions 😭😭😭 lol I really hope he finds a good woman who'll appreciate his love ❤

    • @salem1281
      @salem1281 3 роки тому +3

      He did! Look at the new video that was just posted! He found love and is getting married because of this video!

    • @sunmoonstars0369
      @sunmoonstars0369 3 роки тому

      He did. He found the love of his life, his soulmate. Check out his latest video on the channel.

  • @igenio96
    @igenio96 3 роки тому +3

    He is Getting Married! What a wonderful world! LOVE IS REAL!

  • @africarenee
    @africarenee 2 роки тому +1

    Omg. Wooooow. That was touching. I'm glad Lynn came into his life. Thank you, Chris! You're awesome 🥺🥰🤗💝💐🦋

  • @annihme7998
    @annihme7998 9 місяців тому +1

    He is a trully gentleman ! So Happy that He Married🥰💍👨‍🦼🩷👸🏻

  • @Jess2b_fit
    @Jess2b_fit 2 роки тому +4

    This has to be one of the deepest most heart-wrenching videos I’ve seen of Chris’ 💔

  • @Suppitschele21
    @Suppitschele21 3 роки тому +8

    I am so happy that he has found the love of his life :)

  • @cocotickles9627
    @cocotickles9627 Рік тому +6

    He is quite an attractive man, I hope he's found that gut wrenching feeling that he'd always hoped for. OH YAY, HE DID!!!! CONGRATULATIONS Y'ALL!

  • @Okiedokie222
    @Okiedokie222 3 роки тому +20

    Seems like great guy, so sincere!!! Glad to hear he found someone! 🌸

  • @InfinitEternaLovEmmanuel
    @InfinitEternaLovEmmanuel 2 роки тому

    I pray God will send an angel who truly loves Jeff all the days of his life! What a beautiful soul he has with such a great attitude and sense of humor!💕

  • @CaveWomen88
    @CaveWomen88 3 роки тому +11

    I’m so happy he found love!!! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @gnostie
    @gnostie 3 роки тому

    He is a sweetheart. No wonder he’s taken now. All the good wishes to you and your Mrs!

  • @katieboise
    @katieboise 3 роки тому +4

    What a great guy some woman will be blessed to.have him in there life

  • @chococat1313
    @chococat1313 3 роки тому +22

    I know it may not seem like it, but the statement about how "it's not about looks it's about what's inside that counts" is the truth for a lot of people! To me it is so much more important that the person is kind to others and treats me right. I also don't think anyone is unattractive, there is only societal concepts of beauty and standards we ourselves have created. If you are a good person inside you deserve to experience love

  • @kathrynoneill5862
    @kathrynoneill5862 3 роки тому +6

    I hope he finds love. He is very handsome.

  • @DanaPAH
    @DanaPAH 3 роки тому +5

    Now that I know that Jeff found his gal, I'm looking forward to the day they announce the birth of their first child when it happens. He'll be a great dad!

  • @maggiepanning356
    @maggiepanning356 Рік тому +4

    What a beautiful interview.

  • @ajkundrath9661
    @ajkundrath9661 3 роки тому +2

    I am glad that I was able to watch this video. Impowering and honest

  • @dani_a_biro
    @dani_a_biro 3 роки тому

    God bless their marriage with good health, happiness and many children. This is so emotional.

  • @annihme7998
    @annihme7998 9 місяців тому

    He trully is a explosion off hapyness he is adorable and a Lovely Person

  • @What.The.Chell_lol
    @What.The.Chell_lol 3 роки тому +4

    CONGRATS JEFF ON YOUR RECENT ENGAGEMENT

  • @JustCarolS
    @JustCarolS 3 роки тому +1

    I watched this after watching the video that Jeff has found love! Had I watched this first I would have been in tears.

  • @isobeliz9934
    @isobeliz9934 3 роки тому +7

    Would love to hear an update on this genuine and kind man

  • @andrestoro2391
    @andrestoro2391 2 роки тому +1

    This man is making me cry

  • @mikestarkly9226
    @mikestarkly9226 3 роки тому +1

    I love the honesty and I hope he finds/has found a relationship like he's looking for. I think a lot of people don't find it disabled or not. Unfortunately there is still too much judgement of what someone looks like. He doesn't look bad...I think disabilities intimidate people sometimes. There are groups for people with disabilities, I hope he got help finding that if that's what's meant to happen. I just feel that would honestly be the best bet to be with a woman that can understand with a similar struggle but not intimidated by that. Or if he finds someone who can still understand whether from experience or not, just willing to try. He seems like a good man.

  • @klotheorymail6439
    @klotheorymail6439 3 роки тому +5

    Jeff, I hope the very best for you! I hope you find your true love real soon!

    • @rafimohammad39
      @rafimohammad39 3 роки тому +1

      He actually did find someone and her name is Lynn

  • @makeithappen_
    @makeithappen_ 3 роки тому +3

    So happy he found love!💛

  • @mattw6705
    @mattw6705 3 роки тому +1

    I hope he never gives up, there is someone for everyone.

  • @katrinakollmann5265
    @katrinakollmann5265 3 роки тому +12

    God I'd date Jeff in 5 minutes my dude. ♡ what a sweet angel.

    • @katrinakollmann5265
      @katrinakollmann5265 3 роки тому +1

      Hugs ♡♡♡♡♡

    • @newoldar809
      @newoldar809 2 роки тому

      @@katrinakollmann5265 same💙💙
      By the way girl you're gorgeous 😍💓 love your style

  • @Njk570
    @Njk570 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful soul.

  • @misskey7380
    @misskey7380 3 роки тому +3

    This was 3yrs ago and I’m just looking at this and two days ago a video was posted and he found his person 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽👍 look at GOD🥰

  • @Heartbreaker1999-o5s
    @Heartbreaker1999-o5s 6 місяців тому

    I know this was made 6 years ago, but I pray to God this man finds a woman who can love him unconditionally. He deserves it , he's heart is so beautiful, I hope his dream of finding love comes true.

  • @issavirgogyal1250
    @issavirgogyal1250 3 роки тому +1

    I hope and pray the Jeff finds his special lady!❤️🙏🏾

  • @northwoodslife8456
    @northwoodslife8456 3 роки тому

    I'm so glad the woman of his dreams found him. Wonderful couple!

  • @debrajohnson6473
    @debrajohnson6473 3 роки тому

    Handsome guy. I hope he finds someone to love and will love him back.

  • @gaslight.mp3
    @gaslight.mp3 3 роки тому +9

    Update!!! He has a beautiful fiance and they're getting married soon :D

  • @playadremingrl
    @playadremingrl 2 роки тому +2

    I needed to see this 😭🥺❤

  • @stepha2642
    @stepha2642 2 роки тому +1

    I really like watching this one where he is crying out for someone because I know he found someone.

  • @loravipperman3061
    @loravipperman3061 3 роки тому

    Jeff has the best attitude about love 💕💕💕

  • @BradyNeary
    @BradyNeary 5 місяців тому +1

    0:11 love his confidence he’s better at it the I am

  • @brookebenton8192
    @brookebenton8192 3 роки тому +2

    I'm so glad he found his true love!!:)

  • @jadesanjose2520
    @jadesanjose2520 3 роки тому

    I hope maybe we can see some photos of clips of the wedding ❤️ congrats to them both!

  • @kumaran-et8gc
    @kumaran-et8gc Рік тому +6

    This is a heartfelt confession ..I feel the depth of his words as I have cp and I feel I deseve to get married .

  • @themischeifguide
    @themischeifguide Рік тому +1

    This dude kept it real

  • @robdajuiceman1328
    @robdajuiceman1328 3 роки тому

    So cool this dude is about to get married! Congrats Jeff, big fan!

  • @kismetdotexe
    @kismetdotexe 3 роки тому +20

    Id love to hear an update on him. Hope he found that someone.
    Edit: I saw the new video, so happy for him!!

    • @baisawit
      @baisawit 3 роки тому +17

      There was an update in the SBSK community tab that said he found someone and they'd be filming an update video soon :)

    • @hillah4981
      @hillah4981 3 роки тому +5

      The new video is live now!! He is getting married!

  • @mudskipper9312
    @mudskipper9312 3 роки тому +3

    What a sweetie pie

  • @karencaracena4555
    @karencaracena4555 3 роки тому +4

    Jeff is a great guy. ❤️👌

  • @mery5989
    @mery5989 3 роки тому +2

    this is so cute to watch after the one where he's getting married :)

  • @KGB.83
    @KGB.83 2 роки тому

    When did this turn into the love connection for the special needs? Jeff is awesome! I have lots of respect for him!

  • @lynnlabo6594
    @lynnlabo6594 3 роки тому +1

    Jeff I hope you found someone to love.your a good looking guy and smart and kind I wish you the best of luck and she treats you like you deserve. Hugs Bless you she's out there because what is there not to love

  • @suzannemurphy9009
    @suzannemurphy9009 3 роки тому +9

    I hope he's found a lady.. any lady would be lucky to have a gentleman like him ❤

    • @rafimohammad39
      @rafimohammad39 3 роки тому +6

      @Michael Moores well think again watch the latest video on SBSK

    • @suzannemurphy9009
      @suzannemurphy9009 3 роки тому +2

      @Michael Moores watch the latest episode 👌

    • @UniqueDesignStudio1
      @UniqueDesignStudio1 3 роки тому +2

      @Michael Moores Look at you being loud and wrong 🤣 He’s getting married 🤪

  • @imacloud11
    @imacloud11 3 роки тому +1

    He's getting married!!!!
    Woo!

  • @joe56474
    @joe56474 Рік тому

    Man, if i could allow myself to be as vulnerable and self-aware as Jeff, I'd probably be a lot happier. Something to work on.

  • @OlliTamminen
    @OlliTamminen 3 роки тому +1

    Who’s here after the update video? ❤️❤️

  • @marleenninaka1303
    @marleenninaka1303 3 роки тому +1

    Hi everyone: It's so nice to see you all again on UA-cam. I want to meet you all one day. Take care and stay safe.

  • @qwandary
    @qwandary 3 роки тому +4

    Surprised he's been struggling this much, he seems like a very attractive dude, didn't realise he was 45 as he looks younger too.
    Best of luck Jeff :3

    • @ayushi9797
      @ayushi9797 3 роки тому

      He has an exciting update to share! Check the newest video uploaded on the channel.

    • @qwandary
      @qwandary 3 роки тому +1

      @@ayushi9797 Thanks, I just saw it. Great to see a lovely bloke so happy. His wife seems to be a catch too.
      Glad they're both happy.
      Just goes to show, sometimes we think we're destined to not get the things we want, and we think we're behind all our peers but then luck hits us and it seems like it was worth the wait and personal growth because we're better able to receive and value what we have now.

  • @notmarkeza7937
    @notmarkeza7937 Рік тому +1

    Support!

  • @cotybare9720
    @cotybare9720 3 роки тому

    He is a handsome dude too. What a sweetie pie!

  • @juliannabouwens2869
    @juliannabouwens2869 3 роки тому +2

    Jeff is an awesome guy!!! Any women would be lucky to have him! I would love to chat with him

  • @michaelvincent6117
    @michaelvincent6117 3 роки тому +1

    Inspiring