One of the main things I hope this video illustrates is that Liam is a victim. The exposure to drugs while he was developing caused his brain to become malformed. As a result, he now struggles with anger and impulse control. Children with ODD are often labeled as "bad" children, but it is much more complex than that. Also, I just want to point out that it is entirely possible for a child to be diagnosed with ODD without exposure to drugs in utero.
I've had a kid with ODD in one of my jobs, and theirs was due to severe abuse. One of the sweetest kids I've ever met, SUPER self aware, and they were working SO hard to grow from their past. The fact that Liam said "if I could find a human friend" broke my heart. He seems like a very sweet, smart child, and he's very well spoken. I hope he finds some wonderful friends soon.
Cause he’s ‘different’ and ppl(for example teachers) dont know how to deal with him. They either dont have experience or dealing with him is tiring - cant blame them, but it isnt excuse also.
"It takes a village to raise a child, but when you have a child like Liam, the village flees." This might be the most heartbreaking part of it all. Liam's mom, you are a superhero. He is so lucky to have you. I think one day he will finally be able to see that.
Good lord that hurts. It's so true though. If your child is diagnosed with anything at all, everyone just leaves. They no longer want you in their life cause you might contaminate them
Totally relatable! I understand her completely. I have experienced that with my own child. In fact, I was told one time that my child was one of the hardest children her therapist had ever had to work with. Her therapist was supportive and at least fought for us to get the help we needed when my child was a teen. Unfortunately, he kept getting doors slammed in his face, figuratively, too.
Real life isn't perfect and neither are families and kids. I hope the parents, especially the mom who seems to be doing most of the work, have a support system.
Его некониролируемые вспышки ярости могут привести к тяжёлым последствиям, сейчас он раскидывает предметы, но мальчик растет,становится физически сильнее и это может плохо закончиться для родителей и окружающих людей,это как вариант,может быть препараты будут подавлять его вспышки ярости,а так парень , умный, очень симпатичный,но проблемы с агрессией явно просматриваются.
A child with normal brain development can improve behavioral issues over time. Liam has a whole different set of challenges, including Autism which does not change over time. He will always be different, I agree he is highly intelligent. He’s very witty too. I hope he continues to get the support he needs and finds a way to thrive in life. I think it’s important not bypass his challenges while holding him in high regard.
@@biancamichelle11I only have Anxiety and Autism. However, my behavioural problems have completely disappeared. I think it is totally possible for his behavioural problems to disappear if he gets the right support.
@@biancamichelle11it really depends on your personality, cant say that for everyone because it CAN change (doesnt mean it has to) especially because were getting more and more options to reduce the negative symptoms by e.g. neurofeedback as you already implied in ur comment, everyone is different
He will always be ODD, ASD and ADHD. It will not change. He can learn to mask and to some extent cope. It is a huge mountain to climb and it is a never ending task. So it is like dishwashing, you will never get to a point where you can let it go and just not do it without things crumbling.
actually no she seems to be very intolerant and this entire video is legit focused on how awful and "miserable" (to use her own words) it is to raise a child who's a trauma survivor and to raise a neurodivergent child, there are many many kids with ODD (and ADHD, depression, anxiety, etc), and many parents who raise them and don't blame the kids or have a miserable experience. crazy concept: you can love a child with neurodivergences. wow!!! smh. this video was super bad education and promotes ableism, and intolerance of people w different brains
The fact that this child is fully aware of his conditions and why he has them shows how incredibly intelligent and mature he is He has a very bright future ahead of him
Yes, The mom need to learn Liam that he is not a diagnosis. He is not different. The truth is that the parents and adults say it to hom. And the say all of kind of diagnos. Dont put diagnosis on children. Childen can have autism and adhd. Thats it. What i see in Liam is so clear. He have autism spectrum level 1. He have not adhd.
@@kathleenschoultz You’re not Liam’s parent and have no idea what it’s like to try to parent a child like him. By saying he’s no different than any other child, you not only invalidate the intense hardships and heartbreaks the mom experiences every single day, but you deny him from receiving specialized treatments and care a child like him needs in order to thrive. He obviously has a lot more going on than just autism and ADHD; Liam literally has a developmentally malformed brain. Neurotypical people don’t understand that diagnoses can vastly help in understanding how the individual’s mind works and finding the best ways to work with the individual.
Salute to Liam’s mom (not the biological one) for her strength, patience, and endurance in raising him. You are such an amazing mom, Liam is very lucky to have you as a mom.
Liam is absolutely a victim here. However we need to also keep in mind that everybody is impacted by addiction, even the parent of a child. Not excusing his biological mom's behaviour and choices, but the opioid epidemic is a devastating problem all around. Loved listening to Liam, what strength he has.
This lady deserves a medal. it's a constant battle. I understand it's not Liams fault. As a parent, this would be hard to handle. I take my hat of to this lady.. I have nothing but respect.
Edit out the misused big/ special names Lucy and mil (in Ermilio) and big terms God and bright and clever and up etc that only reflect me THE only God / Goddess / Lady / Leader / Queen / Princess / Boss / Star etc and the only Lucy / bright being etc, and pronouns can never be with capital letters when referring to others / hum’ns, only when referring to me - big terms and capital letters all reflect superiority, and such things only reflect me THE superior being and the only lovable / loved being etc, and big terms / love related terms cannot be misused by hum’ns in any way!
“Larry and I have been havin a rough time. Me & him dont have no friends.” Poor baby. I hope he is being treated well by his peers. He deserves friends & love, his mother’s actions shouldnt determine his self worth. He is much more than the substances his (bio) mother decided to take!!! ❤
@@RadMad789 I agree. She seems like she wants the best for him and is dealing with perfectly valid emotions around taking care of him- ensuring he has what he needs while still trying to teach him the regulatory tools needed to navigate life and relationships. Its the natural worry and stress any mother would feel for their child coupled with the love & desire to keep him safe. I wish her the best and thank you for your kind comment! We all need a little more love in this world.
Well put... but I would add that EVERYONE deserves to be treated with respect and kindness... with an active-willingness to try and understand those we don't think we can relate to, from a place of love, rather than ego! I understand that this isn't how the world tends to operate very often, but I'm really glad that this thriving kid was placed in a caring home, that tries to help him keep thriving... even though the challenges they face seem quite difficult, a lot of the time!
I wonder if that's more of a reflection on the changing social world. I always knew kids like him in school, uniquely charming and witty but obviously damaged from something that went unspoken. Him and I would have been mates
@@itsbonkerjojo9028the maladaptive tendencies (lack of impulse control, social deviancy) He’s an intelligent and sweet child, and can be very successful as an adult if given the right help from his parents and doctors and therapists.
I am a NICU nurse. This is a huge problem in Tennessee. I take care of babies going through this all the time, it is terrible what these babies go through and a lot of people don’t know about it. Thank you for this video. I have often wondered what happens to these babies as they grow up. This is heartbreaking and I hope Liam can find happiness in his life as he continues to grow up…
not with this overbearing mother that seems to keep him secluded and openly speaks about using ADHD meds, which are all pointless, and usually lead to addiction. Because they are all addictive.
@@HK00088 He is normal, and he has been denied proper opportunities to thrive his entire life it seems. Being born addicted, and then having a mom who seems like she's trying her best, and just is ill-equipped to deal with him. I hope he is given the right chances to succeed later in life.
Well, if he’d stop thrashing his devices…. But this is what many here don’t understand or can’t seem to acknowledge: ODD has clear neuro-biological roots, which alter the neural pathways and connections. Especially significant are the issues involving certain aspects of the cortex. He acts before he considers the results of his actions-this is beyond his control. The adoptive mother is not “making money” from this neurodivergent young man’s disability. The string of dx’s likely came about due to the school setting attempting to get services (assistance/therapy) for him. In an educational setting, they’re not true medical dx’s, but “eligibility codes”-- of which only less than a handful will offer the student any extra assistance. ODD is very serious; it’s a dx that is given which is usually indicative of extremely serious disorders which cannot be placed on minors. He is not receiving sufficient support nor services. The diligent mother goes so far as to plead for assistance from her State’s Representative-he fails in his duty by refusing to REPRESENT (his job) her child’s lack of educational support by throwing the onus onto the “taxpayers”. This misguided excuse, the over-played, ubiquitous worn-out trope, yet still the most effective and popular in the US, is used like an old fly-swatter…to humiliate those in need. Remember this: Unless you leave this planet young and in an instant, you-too-will someday be in need, unless you’re in the .01%
This mother needs and deserves help and support. This must be exhausting emotionally and physically. I pray that she gets the professional help she needs to help her son. It is hard to navigate the broken healthcare system. Without help, things may just get tougher for her and her son. Liam will struggle with the effects of his birth. He is very intelligent. It was good that Mom realizes that Liam can behave as needed when doing an activity he enjoys . This demonstrates that he has potential for growth and to learn more appropriate coping skills. I pray that they both find the help they need .
I'm a occupational therapist from Brazil. ODD children are my biggest struggle, sometimes I find myself so mentally tired (that in a session... can't even imagine how it must be on a daily basis) and you gotta do some crisis management here and there. But every single change on their behavior is so overwhelmingly satisfying. For most of them are just kids who want to play and affection. The path is rough, but so rewarding. I hope Liam and his family can get the help they need and thrive together.
Meu filho teve suspeita de Tod. Não foi confirmado mas, se ele age assim, imagine quem tem confirmado. Deve ser mesmo desgastante. Hoje fui chamado mais uma vez na escola. Antes eu dizia que ia dar um jeito. Mas hoje disse que ele é assim e que estamos trabalhando. Que ele precisa de compreensão enquanto a madureza não chega. Ele tem Ah/sd.
I started doing drugs years ago as a teenage, got addicted to opioid. Spent my whole life fighting opioid addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Opioid addiction actually destroyed my life. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Congrats! I'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you. I always admire those who beat their addiction. Knowing it's possible to fix your life knowing there's people out there that have done what I thought was impossible gives me hope I will make it through as well. Those who share their experiences don't know how much it helps when you're about to give up, it gives you the strength knowing somone who actully know what it's like to go through this tell you it's possible, it's not the same somone telling you you can do it when they have no idea what it's like, but hearing somone who knows what it's like that helps a lot since you understand it firsthand and made it out gives so much hope. so thanks for sharing.
Yes he's Dr.alishrooms.Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
extremely intelligent and funny kid. the way he speaks and his sense of humour are on another level than those of his peers. props to his mom for being patient with him and understanding him.
I have three kids with fetal alcohol syndrome and drug exposure. What people don’t see is that he was probably playing the interview a little bit here too with Larry. My son has ODD, suspected bipolar, PTSD, anxiety, learning disability, etc. It may be “fun” to watch, but it’s exhausting to never be able to turn it off day in and day out, whether you want to step outside in a phone call, go to the bathroom, spend time alone with your spouse, etc. There are no supports and services for this level of kids’ mental health. I know because we are up to intensive in home as he get bigger and more aggressive with age. It’s still no help. It’s an experience of being bipolar with them as his moods control everything. But we still love and show up day in and day out.
My heart breaks for Liam. He deserves to find some good friends. He seems like a brilliant mind who was affected by his bio moms decisions. He has a good family who will help him thrive in life.
Every disabled kid I know, including my own, is excluded from friendship. Even the parents don't want the disabled kids at their kid's birthday parties. Sad.
@@Aristotle2000 I totally agree- my 13 year old son is often excluded by my own family! But, I work with special needs adults in a day program and they are all great friends. That social component is so important!
@@Aristotle2000 You need to find your people. People who aren't exposed to disability aren't emotionally equipped and experienced enough to deal with their own awkwardness with affected individuals. That includes potential "situations" involving other children.
I have a son that we adopted that also has ADHD, ODD, ASD, FAS, was in the NICU etc. Watching this video reminded me so much of all of the struggles we had raising our son. He is 22 now and still has some issues, but it did get easier. My heart goes out to Mama bear, I've been where you are and I know the struggle. Your doing a great job.
Has he been able to become independent and self-relying as an adult? That is my hope for Liam! It takes an awful compassionate mother to raise a kiddo like this, you are a hero!
@Kara Lantz he is very independent. Even though he mainly lives at home, he travels on his own to different counties and states (hasn't left the country yet, but I kind of hope he doesnt), he holds down jobs and works. He still has struggles, but I know in my heart that if something were to happen to us (his parents), he would do just fine. I know how hard it is to be where you are... mainly because my husband and I recently just finalized our adoption on our sons 2 youngest siblings (ages 3 and 4), and the 4 year old is just about a repeat of our son. So we are kind of starting over. If you ever need an ear, please feel free to reach out. It really does take a village.
This one was sad. Mom was so tired and he couldn’t find the words to say why he loved her although I want to believe he does. She seems so patient but so exhausted. I hope they both get the help they need
@@kalegolasand to be honest, ask a normal lil kid and a lot of the time they can be lil brats haha 😭They’ll love their parents lots but it may feel embarrassing to announce it in front of a camera and stuff!
This video should be shown to medical professionals, teachers, police officers, addicts, and social workers. Plans need to be in place to help Liam and children like him to have safe spaces to work and learn. I think Liam is walking up a tall hill that keeps throwing barriers in his way. His ODD is extreme and I respect them so much for helping Liam find his way.
I feel terrible for both of them. :/ I hope the mom has the strength to not let the negativity and aggression and anger infect her mind and identity. It doesn't matter how smart or kind or confident you are, having that a big part of your life for decades has to eat away. And of course this kid, it's not his fault, it's wonderful that he has the family, and I wish for the best for him.
I had a student with ODD and it was exhausting as a teacher to teach a whole group of kids and the kid who had ODD. I spent my entire time managing the kid and couldn’t teach the rest of the class. The district couldn’t help me with anything and my test scores suffered that year. Then I got in trouble for having bad scores. I have the deepest respect for this mom on this video. It takes unbelievable patience to raise a kid with ODD 24-7.
As a teacher, I can relate. This is what happens when kids have parents that make bad decisions in life, & when you have an educational system that makes it hard to support kids with behaviors like these. It effects the entire class.
i was friends with this kid names isaiah, sort of had a crush on him too. he was funny and he was smart, but he was oppositional to what any authority wanted from him. i tried my best to help him with projects in class, but he just didn't have the motivation to. i think he'd formed a persona as the "bad boy" in our grade, so he was also afraid to be seen as anything but. he got the attention for the wrong thing and became addicted to it because of his insecurity. i think he's doing a lot better now outside of school. a lot of behavioral issues could be solved if these kids had a friend/someone to look up to.
@@Mike-bm1xvYes! Like the big brother program! If its still around? But, they pair a older kid (sophomore or senior) or an elderly "grandfather" type of figure, with a child that has issues, needs a friend, or someone they can talk too. This would be ideal for him!
@@adarshye1I disagree with the comment bc you don’t have to be “selfless” to love a child just bc they’re not yours. Mothers that love their bio children that have struggles are selfless. You’d have to be a pretty awful person to not love a child just bc they’re not biologically yours. And if you think that way, you definitely should never get into foster care or have a relationship with someone who already has children.
@@harmonyquinn2557if mothers that love their bio child with struggles are selfless, then it's less of a mention for this woman who loves their non-bio child with struggles won't you say? I do agree that someone who finds it hard to love a non-biological child should be advised to not adopt and so on but on the "selflessness" I think we can agree to disagree. Cause not everyone has to have your same standard of morals or values. And just because your standard of selflessness is as such doesn't mean it's true or fact that others should adhere since it's not black and white. Selfless: concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own; unselfish.
My mother was addicted to crystal meth when I was conceived. It resulted in the same behavioral problems this poor little boy is experiencing. Although my mother didn’t use a variety or nearly as much as his did, this severely impacted my life. I have epilepsy, adhd, odd, and bipolar. His mother is a true hero, she really makes sure he will have a fulfilling and happy life. She’s the definition of a mother
I am a special Ed teacher for pre k and I think one of my students was born addicted to drugs too. He is almost all there (I think he is diagnosed with “autism” but doesn’t act like a typical autistic students I’ve had) but very defiant. Also isn’t potty trained at 5. The student also lives with grandparents and bio parents aren’t in the picture at all. I think he will be diagnosed with ODD as well, possibly bipolar.
My guy is so lucid, he is so extremely aware and he honestly kinda reminds me of myself lmao, i think constantly reinforcing on him the idea that he’s different is already having a negative impact on him. And in the end he is a kid as he said lmao. He already seems to be a person that processes his actions more than a number of grown adults do. If he was my child i’d probably join in on his shenanigans
"He already seems to be a person that processes his actions more than a number of grown adults do" this is exactly why in the back of my head I'm like...he needs more mature friends, this is why he is relationally suffocated. Especially older ADHDers who have experienced a lot of this in their own ways. In regards to the rice incident, she should let him take action for himself then he only has himself to blame.
@@bek7562 yeah, but if she tells him to throw the rice away he is going to stash it under his bed in defiance. I think it's definitely a challenging situation for both of them, I hope it works out for them in the future.
My heart gos out to Liam and his mum. My son also has ODD. My son , who is now 18, also has no friends. My biggest fear is his future. Will he ever have a girlfriend/ Boyfriend? If he dose how will he treat them? What if my son has a confrontation with someone and the cops get involved? The cops will think he is being defiant on purpose. Thank your for bringing awareness about ODD as it is a real diagnosis!
Liam's struggles are proof that he is a survivor of the drug epidemic, but I have to point out what an incredible lady his foster mom is. When I was watching this I immediately felt for her. I have worked with kids who have developmental disorders, and I can tell you that it is no picnic. Just doing an hour or two of tutoring takes lots of deliberate planning, well established routines, and infinite patience. Imagine dealing with that 24/7 for every day of your adult life! These parents are superheroes, hands down. I salute them, and I pray that they are all able to access funding and resources to help children like Liam.
Liam is intelligent and self aware. He is only a kid and will grow up doing great. A good therapist will help him with his coping skills and management of his emotions. I feel he needs more people around him to speak life into him as well. And he will be great.
I think we can all agree, despite his brain deficiencies, this boy has intelligence! Let's just hope he uses it for good, instead of deciding to be a complete menace to society. Like the mother DID say, it's all up to him. And I worry as much as she does on that.
Liam is really quite articulate, that's the one thing that stood out to me. He didn't ask to be born like this. I work in disability and have come across one guy with a similar combination of diagnoses, it's like a reflex to them. Liam understands that he's not like the kids at school, to a level where, and this is my hypothesis, he does feel terrible about it (based on how he talks about finding friends) but refuses to admit it because that's probably exactly what we expect, so once again, on his terms.
What a saint she is, the mum. I've worked with children with odd and I'm exhausted by the end of the day. And that's with the support of colleagues etc. This lady is doing it 24/7 and just keeps going. Liam, you're a super star as well. I hope you do well in life and that you'll get a really great human friend soon.
My brother has adhd and odd. He was just like this, drove my parents insane. He was expelled from every school he went to. He had a big red bear nearly as big as him called snoopy that was his bestest friend, his version of Larry the rock. Surprisingly only 1 out of his 6 kids inherited his adhd. He is now pulling his hair out over that kid, just like my parents did. I hope Liam’s mum doesn’t worry as I can promise her one thing, adhd kids are always alright in the end. My family has a few members with adhd so we have more understanding and support with each other. I suggest she befriends other mothers with adhd children to get that same support.
I’m 13, AuDHD with anxiety and depression. My mom probably smoked a bit before knowing she was pregnant. It’s hard to think this kid has so many mental problems when he seems to be so amazing. Seriously, if I knew him irl, I would probably be friends with him. He is such a mood in this video, and he sounds really fun.
This is the kind of kid that, with the right conditions, would be a successful, creative entrepreneur or a system changer/breaker. He’s drinking up all of the labels everyone is giving him like a sponge. I’m sure he does have real difficulties but he’s incredibly intelligent and has a lot of energy that could be put into a sport like martial arts or something that requires tiring the body and mind. I think he would be great at it. Note for mom: don’t forget yourself in this process. You’re doing great stuff.
Liam, I just want you to know that there are many of us who are 100% on your side and recognize that you are guiltless and blameless and innocent. I have entrenched myself in that stance and will never change my mindset. And thank you Chris for your pinned comment-it is most encouraging to know that you too view Liam as the victim here and no one should dare impugn otherwise.
It's tragic that even a child isn't spared immediate and rash judgment for its actions. These aren't adults who've potentially suffered from their own poor decisions, but innocents with barely a foothold in life.
This kid reminds me of myself a lot i would love to hang around with him so much he does everything I do I never thought I would see someone like me that much
This kid is actually so funny and I'm sure we're not seeing the whole story, but as he presents here he is no different from my friends when I was his age
@@Arbu17when you have an understanding of drug use on children and personality disorders, then you can make judgement on his parents, but shut your uneducated mouth up
This video elicited a lot of emotions. I immediately felt for the mom, and at times felt angry at the kid for acting the way he did towards someone who obviously has his best interests in the forefront of their mind at all times. In the end though, he can't help it, it is all compulsive. All that can be hoped is that he gets the best treatment possible to aid him through his eventual journey through adulthood. I definitely need to evaluate my mindset regarding these types of special needs children going forward. Thank you for sharing!
As someone who has most of his diagnosis, her excusing his actions because of his diagnosis will never bring anything good. Odd is extremely hard for everyone around. She needs support which I hope she has
@@Asp47999 that's not how it works though. it's not about not wanting to do the thing, it's about his brain telling him to do the opposite of what he's being told, even if he was fine with it before.
I am surprised how smart he is. But I am much more surprised from that how unbelievably patient and nice is this woman. She is saint and wow... she deserves respect. Just... be strong, you are perfect mom!
And honestly. Most people who gain kids without birth. Is because they can't have children in the first place. And not being able to physically Might be the guy upstairs plan for her since she my not mentally and emotionally be able to good as a parent. Maybe financially but people who can't have kids got a lot of self reflecting Todo before the consider to becoming a parent. Seems like a good woman." His new mom" but spoiling a child and letting the child control his own life is a huge mistake.
@@tainasiman2107 Well, unlike her, he doesn’t choose to make it stressful… Like ok she chooses to take care of him because that’s what parents do. But can you actually talk about how it could be affecting the child or just say something that doesn’t make him sound like a living burden…. Hes not. It’s not bad, it’s how he is. and he’s a child. A human child with thoughts and feelings and in need of accommodation
misunderstood creative genius, don’t think they should be talking about him like that in front of him, medical industry is so messed up, and regular people are so gullible
His brain is wired differently due to his mother’s drug use. I give massive kudos to his adoptive parents, because they are trying so hard to raise him to be a normal person. He knows he’s not normal, but he doesn’t seem to be devastated. He’s coping well. His adopted parents are doing a great job! ❤️
i was diagnosed with autism and odd when i was around 8 years old, now am 16. i am very fortunate to have parents as patient as mine and i am only recently realising how grateful i am. the mother in this video is incredible and it will pay off, her son will appreciate it one day.
@@Sewer.R4tz sadly I went to a school where they treated their autistic kids like that. They would throw me in a small room and keep me there for hours. I got out of that school and I’m much happier now
My poor mother had epilepsy and did not take a single pill during her entire pregnancy. Such are mothers. I lost her last week and the world makes no sense now.
As someone whose mom had a “normal” pregnancy, I ended up with almost every disability and mental illness as him. I see so much of myself in him. I eventually found friends who love me so much and I’m living life to the fullest at 26! 💜☺️
That poor child, you know he's a sweet heart fighting for his life but maybe people can't see it. To not have your parents, to know they both abandoned you, to know it was to drugs and they didn't care about harming you with them either. I'm surprised he's not more angry or sad, what an incredible child. I would have been his friend if I was a kid and knew him, he sounds incredible and seems like the person who will be able to over come many difficulties so long as he continues to put his heart into it.
I am undiagnosed but i am aware Im different. My mother was on drugs when before I was born and after as well. She died in 2021 because of a fentanyl overdose. I miss her.
Nothing but the utmost respect for Liam's mother. Being a parent is difficult enough, but she is faced with challenges beyond that of traditional parenting and is clearly extremely loving and attentive regardless of the challenges she has faced. I am glad I was brought to this video.
She looks EXHAUSTED 😞 Like she's saying this but really thinking "What did I get myself into?". This is absolutely heartbreaking that the chemicals that were given to him mess up his brain just enough to require extra care, while at same time make him strongly oppose the very caretakers he doesn't realize he needs to survive.
I noticed that for most of the interview, he sat on the couch, listening, and answering the questions asked of him - even the really tough ones. And he acknowledged that he loves his Mom! It's entirely possible that much of his opposition is due to anxiety over demands - at least some of which could be mitigated by not using adversarial wording or tone when communicating what needs to be done. It's easier said than done (I, too, tend to slip, more often than I'd like, into saying "it's time to do [whatever it is]" or "you need to do this within the next few minutes" - but I've noticed that the response to that is often opposition - while there's much less opposition, and often cooperation instead, when I instead ask politely and give fair warning of when a transition is coming. Also, a checklist of things to do (for the morning routine, for example) with a simple reward (of time or activity together, perhaps - it doesn't need to be tangible) for each day the list is completed timely, with a bonus reward for quick completion and, especially, completion without protest or complaint. Yes, coming up with the list and the reward takes time - and doesn't work for everyone, but it's something that could be tried if it hasn't already (or if it hasn't been tried recently).
@@krisw5318 I'm pretty sure she's probably tried a multitude of different tactics and approaches. She talked about his therapists and doctors. I'm sure they've all given her the same guidance and suggestions as you have.
@Kris W Like this very intelligent approach you suggested. He has issues with the hows and the whys which his mom needs to learn to handle. A lot of the time it’s not what you tell people to do that’s the issue, it’s the how. Your suggestions seem like a great start. A very intelligent approach to a very intelligent child.
I really feel for the mom. This is clearly exhausting and mentally draining. I’m having a hard time just watching the video, it’s very hard watching someone do the things he does.
Out of curiosity, how? He just has a bunch of pretty mild mental illnesses… socially awkward behavior isn’t the end of the world IMO if it’s draining to you to just see the behavior or someone with autism and ADHD or any of his other issues then you probably just don’t have the patience to actually deal with one of us. Why would you feel for the mom when she’s not the one struggling with the stigmatized issues… that’s all I gotta say
What do you mean? He is a fun loving, intelligent, awesome little boy. If you can’t watch a child be a child, stop watching the video and please NEVER consider having children, you would be a horrible parent.
@@assidreflex9718 I agree, what a thoughtless, insensitive comment. God forbid they have a kid with adhd.. I am an adult with adhd and this is almost exactly what it feels like, you can just control it better because you understand better the way the world works. And you can tell he wants to do better, and feels guilty afterwards, like when he hugs his mom after a rough morning. With his mom trying her best to do the best for him, I think Liam has a really good chance. God bless ‘em
@@assidreflex9718 His own mother said it is exhausting. We know it's because the ODD, but it is a fact that he is really mean to her mother in this video, and it's hard to watch because we know she doesn't deserve it and he can't control it. It's a sad situation.
@@assidreflex9718are u dumb ??? no one said he doesn't want a child, but a child with so many problems is obiously very exhausting. you people don't think
"He's very very smart"....too right! Liam is extremely switched-on, self-aware and articulate, and it's clear that he's beginning to understand his emotions and behaviour. It was noticeable that Chris spoke TO Liam about this challenging behaviour and why he acts the way he does even though he loves his family. Chris held him accountable more than he sometimes does with kids this age. I also thought it was interesting how his Mom is happy to talk about Liam's behavioural challenges and diagnoses with him present. This wouldn't be right for everyone, but for this family it seems to work. I hope Liam continues to receive support, and I wish there was more support for him and children like him. And I hope Liam's birth Mom is safe and getting the help she needed.
Im from germany. Im working with kids like him in families as a social worker. Every day I learn something new. I have the greatest respect for his mother. Thank you for this video.
As an autistic adult who masked fervently growing up due to bullying and having to be my parent’s parent (but still got alienated and made friends with “the weird kids”), *deep breath* I wholeheartedly believe Liam, who is true to himself, will make good human friends in the future. He’s very self-aware and that is going to get him far in life. Just watching him feels very nostalgic and makes me teary because I remember having a classmate like him who wasn’t always treated the way he deserved to be treated-by adults and peers alike. Watching hurt because I wanted to help but I was also terrified of making either of our situations worse because I was just a vulnerable kid too. We’re cheering for Liam (and his mom too; she’s a great parent)!
I used to have a friend with some pretty sever drug damage and ODD named Jess. She used to jokingly call me "mom" and was always really nice and made me gifts. In my eight grade year Jessies parents put her in foster care because of her odd. I'd like to remind everyone that kids with ODD can be LOVELY even though they're hard to deal with. Ill always miss Jess but I'm happy that she's probably in a happy family now.
Mom, you're an awesome Mom to Liam. I'm so sorry you don't have the support you need & that you should have. I don't know what it's like to be a parent to a child with so many needs, but I do know what it's like when people who are meant to support you turn their backs on you. I want you to know that you're amazing. You're stronger than you realise. Please don't ever stop fighting for help. Yes, for Liam, but also for you & your family. Being in the UK & not knowing how things work (or don't work) in the US, I can't give you any practical advice. But I do know that you're an awesome Mom. I can see how much you love Liam. You're doing an amazing job. Try not to listen to anyone who tells you any different. I know it's hard, but I hope you can see what an amazing job you're doing. Liam is blessed to have you as his Mom.
My Son is 21 NOW and he was between the yrs of 6 and 8 when we got his diagnosis. ODD and ADHD where the main things diagnosed , along with a few things that come with those disorders. We went thru a few schools kicking My Son out of their school even with his IEP. My Son STILL has issues with authority of ANY kind. He turned 18 and he quit school due to being legally ABLE to, he was halfway thru his senior year of H.S. at the time. I feel for THIS Mom cuz I KNOW how emotionally draining along with physically draining to parent a child with these disorders can be. I literally had teachers that hated my Son, and as a Mom I advocated for HIM even when I KNEW that he was not being his best self. Sometimes he needed a person in HIS corner rather he was WRONG or RITE. I CLDNT imagine My life without him tho and he isn't my biological Son ❤ I'm HIS MOM tho and he makes THAT clear to whoever has questioned that ❤ I CLD SAY ALOT MORE about THIS particular disorder, the medications of which he had been on 11 different one's before he decided at 14 he WASN'T going to take medications any more.... And the handful of doctors that stayed on board with us thru MOST of that time. I can say that with puberty it gets a bit ruff as with ALL teens but as a very young adult my Son STILL is hindered with his disorders, maturity that COMES with puberty and growing up it has gotten EASIER ❤ 💯 His struggle will always be there due to what his tiny body had endured in utero BUT I will NEVER give up on my Son regardless ❤ IT'S MY JOB UNTIL I LEAVE THIS EARTH ❤🌎🌍❤
I have a question that is probably insensitive, and you can just ignore me, but this video made me curious. Are you ever afraid that his rule-breaking tendencies will lead to him getting in trouble with the law?
i was diagnosed with odd when i was very little and i can confirm it really does get better with age and maturity. and the meltdowns become less frequent. parents like you who raise children with odd are so strong! ❤❤
I have ADHD and ODD, and it can be pretty difficult sometimes 😅. Sometimes I say things I don't really want to say to people butit comes out anyway. But my friends understand me and accept that I may not be as "normal" as they are and we hang out every day. So I hope Liam can find some people who truly love him and his personality, because it is a wonderful thing when you do.
He honestly is very intelligent. Even with all of the disorders that they claim he has, he is so self aware and very knowledgeable. He even speaks like an Adult already.
It broke my heart when he said he had "No Friends". Mom should consider getting him into Acting. He is very smart, overly smart. Many kids with ODD do really well when guided in plays, Art, anything they can create with their hands. High praises to Mom and how she deescalated the situations.
he seems like a really sweet boy and seeing him introduce larry and saying larry is his only friend because other kids dont want to be his friends is just heartbreaking
my mom only smoked cigs with me. was the 90s. she knew better. i forgave her. it left me with severe adhd. and due to an unstable environment at home and school i was bullied RUTHLESSLY. and my grades were usually ds and fs. that left me with comorbid add and borderline. i graduated on time because my friends literally made me do my homework. i slept 3years away in my 20s. he needs a big brother or sister, a supporter who he thinks is cool and not lame
I'm an addiction advocate, sadly addiction comes from mistreated mental health issues. The mother was a victim of our crappy mental health system but she hurt her son because of it. Everyone is victim in this situation sadly :(
@@starswan hold her accountable how? Jail? Unlikely place to receive rehabilitation that she needs, if she isn’t dead already due to the fentanyl crisis. Shame her on the internet? Who would that help in this situation? What she did was absolutely wrong, but addiction is still a disease that deserves more awareness and resources from “the system” to prevent an outcome exactly like this one. Being an addict isn’t a choice, or nobody would be an addict.
@@nikicarrie4071 What the h***, how can you call her manipulative. She gave up the possibility of normal life just to be there for this boy. And the person who gave birth to him consumed drugs up until hours before he was born. This shows she obviously didn't care enough for him. The fact that drugs probably changed her priorities didn't change that. Maybe you have some unresolved issue otherwise it's hard for me to understand how you could see it that way.
Tried reverse rules? Like the rule is that you have to be awake after 09 pm. Then he will go to bed? Please don't put socks on. And then he puts it on?
Liam seems like such cool kid and really fun to talk to, I feel for him. I hope one day the other kids will realize how cool he is, and how he can’t control some of the ways he acts.
this kid reminds me of myself when i was little in a lot of ways. His demeanor is similar to mine when i was little. I havent gone through the same tragedies he was, but I hope it gets better and easier for him to manage himself as it did for me. I was able to age out of the need for therapy and anger management and I wish for all the success for him and his tribulations in the future.
One of the main things I hope this video illustrates is that Liam is a victim. The exposure to drugs while he was developing caused his brain to become malformed. As a result, he now struggles with anger and impulse control. Children with ODD are often labeled as "bad" children, but it is much more complex than that. Also, I just want to point out that it is entirely possible for a child to be diagnosed with ODD without exposure to drugs in utero.
Thanks for making videos on this stuff!
Amazing tribute, bro. Thanks so much for this and other profiles you do.
I've had a kid with ODD in one of my jobs, and theirs was due to severe abuse. One of the sweetest kids I've ever met, SUPER self aware, and they were working SO hard to grow from their past.
The fact that Liam said "if I could find a human friend" broke my heart. He seems like a very sweet, smart child, and he's very well spoken. I hope he finds some wonderful friends soon.
As someone who is in school for special education , this helped give me a brief insight into the world of ODD
@@Cimorelli102 I don’t think they mentioned that , he looks 11 or 12 in my eyes
He’s a smart kid and somebody is telling him otherwise
I would imagine kids at school
@@what.theguac9290 so sad :(
Very actually
Yeah, it's great he seems to love computers, they have been the salvation for many with autism.
Cause he’s ‘different’ and ppl(for example teachers) dont know how to deal with him. They either dont have experience or dealing with him is tiring - cant blame them, but it isnt excuse also.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the mom- she is solid as a rock.
You talking about Larry?
Totally agree, the woman is a saint ❤ I think he is in good environment despite a rough start in life.
so truee,,I salute her for taking care of such an angel
She's a saint
It’s very sad to hear she has no “village” left to help her.
"It takes a village to raise a child, but when you have a child like Liam, the village flees."
This might be the most heartbreaking part of it all. Liam's mom, you are a superhero. He is so lucky to have you. I think one day he will finally be able to see that.
I don’t think Liam acts the way he does because he’s ungrateful or doesn’t realize how lucky he is to have such a patient and understanding mother.
I don’t think ODD will give him that perspective on his mom as an adult, unless it becomes more manageable somehow.
This quote gives me kinda Naruto vibes
Good lord that hurts. It's so true though. If your child is diagnosed with anything at all, everyone just leaves. They no longer want you in their life cause you might contaminate them
Totally relatable! I understand her completely. I have experienced that with my own child. In fact, I was told one time that my child was one of the hardest children her therapist had ever had to work with. Her therapist was supportive and at least fought for us to get the help we needed when my child was a teen. Unfortunately, he kept getting doors slammed in his face, figuratively, too.
hes gonna be a comedic genius on social media in 10 years
Did you watch the entire video till the end? Do you have ADD, ADHD, poor memory, IQ challenges?
he’s basically a mini version of jreg
@@leviathan4971a mini version of nositcritikal
wrong
im a disappointment
Little bro speaks more articulately than half of the people my age.
@2ndPeterVBlack absolutely agree!!!
He is articulate because his parents encourage and model it.
i know right its so crazy
I hope he makes some friends in middle school and he stays himself cuz he seems like a funny kid
its a thin line between crazyness and intelligence
“It takes a village to raise a child, but when you have a child like Liam, the village flees” that, just hit really hard
Super sad :( and the part where they told her theres no way they'll get money for these kids. Truly heartbreaking.
Real life isn't perfect and neither are families and kids.
I hope the parents, especially the mom who seems to be doing most of the work, have a support system.
lol 😂😂
It hurts my heart so bad.
@@martina5296 uh sure
I'd be so interested to see a follow-up interview with Liam in like 10 years.
Totally
Me too
Yesss
Remember there is hope for us addicts! Even if born addicted.
Его некониролируемые вспышки ярости могут привести к тяжёлым последствиям, сейчас он раскидывает предметы, но мальчик растет,становится физически сильнее и это может плохо закончиться для родителей и окружающих людей,это как вариант,может быть препараты будут подавлять его вспышки ярости,а так парень , умный, очень симпатичный,но проблемы с агрессией явно просматриваются.
He’s intelligent for his age, so that’s not a problem. It’s his behavioral issues which can be corrected over time. Wish the kid the best in life.
A child with normal brain development can improve behavioral issues over time. Liam has a whole different set of challenges, including Autism which does not change over time. He will always be different, I agree he is highly intelligent. He’s very witty too. I hope he continues to get the support he needs and finds a way to thrive in life. I think it’s important not bypass his challenges while holding him in high regard.
@@biancamichelle11I only have Anxiety and Autism. However, my behavioural problems have completely disappeared. I think it is totally possible for his behavioural problems to disappear if he gets the right support.
How old is he
@@biancamichelle11it really depends on your personality, cant say that for everyone because it CAN change (doesnt mean it has to) especially because were getting more and more options to reduce the negative symptoms by e.g. neurofeedback
as you already implied in ur comment, everyone is different
He will always be ODD, ASD and ADHD. It will not change. He can learn to mask and to some extent cope. It is a huge mountain to climb and it is a never ending task. So it is like dishwashing, you will never get to a point where you can let it go and just not do it without things crumbling.
PROTECT THIS MOM at all cost!!! She’s one of a kind.
@@lulazeta8965 what in the world
@@lulazeta8965 if hes not gonna clean his room they arent gonna send him off to a goddamn shelter where'd you get that from
@@lulazeta8965 what is wrong with you?
actually no she seems to be very intolerant and this entire video is legit focused on how awful and "miserable" (to use her own words) it is to raise a child who's a trauma survivor and to raise a neurodivergent child, there are many many kids with ODD (and ADHD, depression, anxiety, etc), and many parents who raise them and don't blame the kids or have a miserable experience. crazy concept: you can love a child with neurodivergences. wow!!! smh. this video was super bad education and promotes ableism, and intolerance of people w different brains
@@Hamdreas can I ask him a question
The fact that this child is fully aware of his conditions and why he has them shows how incredibly intelligent and mature he is
He has a very bright future ahead of him
Yes, The mom need to learn Liam that he is not a diagnosis. He is not different. The truth is that the parents and adults say it to hom. And the say all of kind of diagnos. Dont put diagnosis on children. Childen can have autism and adhd. Thats it. What i see in Liam is so clear. He have autism spectrum level 1. He have not adhd.
this kid will 100% grow to have ASPD.
@@kathleenschoultz kids can have other diagnoses.
@@kathleenschoultz You’re not Liam’s parent and have no idea what it’s like to try to parent a child like him. By saying he’s no different than any other child, you not only invalidate the intense hardships and heartbreaks the mom experiences every single day, but you deny him from receiving specialized treatments and care a child like him needs in order to thrive. He obviously has a lot more going on than just autism and ADHD; Liam literally has a developmentally malformed brain. Neurotypical people don’t understand that diagnoses can vastly help in understanding how the individual’s mind works and finding the best ways to work with the individual.
@@kathleenschoultz the mom knows the kid from birth and you ve seen him in a shortened video. I'm sure she'd be a better judge
Salute to Liam’s mom (not the biological one) for her strength, patience, and endurance in raising him. You are such an amazing mom, Liam is very lucky to have you as a mom.
Agreed, she's a saint!
This!
Absolutely!
Awestruck is a term that shouldn't be used lightly. This is a case where it's not even enough.
Liam is absolutely a victim here. However we need to also keep in mind that everybody is impacted by addiction, even the parent of a child. Not excusing his biological mom's behaviour and choices, but the opioid epidemic is a devastating problem all around. Loved listening to Liam, what strength he has.
This lady deserves a medal. it's a constant battle. I understand it's not Liams fault. As a parent, this would be hard to handle. I take my hat of to this lady.. I have nothing but respect.
God he’s so charismatic. He could do stand up one day. So clever and bright.
Yesss he's so witty and smart!
He was extremely lucky, and he has a bright future ahead of him. I hope he takes advantage of that and lives his life exactly how he wishes to
That is because of the heroin - it makes you a hero!
Its the drugs
Edit out the misused big/ special names Lucy and mil (in Ermilio) and big terms God and bright and clever and up etc that only reflect me THE only God / Goddess / Lady / Leader / Queen / Princess / Boss / Star etc and the only Lucy / bright being etc, and pronouns can never be with capital letters when referring to others / hum’ns, only when referring to me - big terms and capital letters all reflect superiority, and such things only reflect me THE superior being and the only lovable / loved being etc, and big terms / love related terms cannot be misused by hum’ns in any way!
having ODD is so hard for everyone and for those who have it, he has to constantly fight his head to be a better person
“Larry and I have been havin a rough time. Me & him dont have no friends.” Poor baby. I hope he is being treated well by his peers. He deserves friends & love, his mother’s actions shouldnt determine his self worth. He is much more than the substances his (bio) mother decided to take!!! ❤
His birth mother’s actions shouldn’t determine his worth. His mom is loving, supportive, and doing her best.
@@RadMad789 I agree. She seems like she wants the best for him and is dealing with perfectly valid emotions around taking care of him- ensuring he has what he needs while still trying to teach him the regulatory tools needed to navigate life and relationships. Its the natural worry and stress any mother would feel for their child coupled with the love & desire to keep him safe. I wish her the best and thank you for your kind comment! We all need a little more love in this world.
Well put... but I would add that EVERYONE deserves to be treated with respect and kindness... with an active-willingness to try and understand those we don't think we can relate to, from a place of love, rather than ego!
I understand that this isn't how the world tends to operate very often, but I'm really glad that this thriving kid was placed in a caring home, that tries to help him keep thriving... even though the challenges they face seem quite difficult, a lot of the time!
I wonder if that's more of a reflection on the changing social world. I always knew kids like him in school, uniquely charming and witty but obviously damaged from something that went unspoken. Him and I would have been mates
The self awareness this kid has is incredible. If he could be taught to harness his tendencies he could be brilliant.
He's already brilliant
What tendencies he have
@@itsbonkerjojo9028the maladaptive tendencies (lack of impulse control, social deviancy) He’s an intelligent and sweet child, and can be very successful as an adult if given the right help from his parents and doctors and therapists.
I am a NICU nurse. This is a huge problem in Tennessee. I take care of babies going through this all the time, it is terrible what these babies go through and a lot of people don’t know about it.
Thank you for this video. I have often wondered what happens to these babies as they grow up. This is heartbreaking and I hope Liam can find happiness in his life as he continues to grow up…
Liam is VERY normal
not with this overbearing mother that seems to keep him secluded and openly speaks about using ADHD meds, which are all pointless, and usually lead to addiction. Because they are all addictive.
@@fml2266 I agree that kids normal
@@HK00088 He is normal, and he has been denied proper opportunities to thrive his entire life it seems. Being born addicted, and then having a mom who seems like she's trying her best, and just is ill-equipped to deal with him. I hope he is given the right chances to succeed later in life.
@@fml2266 …it’s almost as if you have adhd, you often need adhd meds to help manage it, so you’d explore that route….shocker 🙄
Liam should be a youtuber, or streamer, just talking, he's so charismatic and charming. ❤
Well, if he’d stop thrashing his devices…. But this is what many here don’t understand or can’t seem to acknowledge:
ODD has clear neuro-biological roots, which alter the neural pathways and connections.
Especially significant are the issues involving certain aspects of the cortex.
He acts before he considers the results of his actions-this is beyond his control.
The adoptive mother is not “making money” from this neurodivergent young man’s disability.
The string of dx’s likely came about due to the school setting attempting to get services (assistance/therapy) for him.
In an educational setting, they’re not true medical dx’s, but “eligibility codes”-- of which only less than a handful will offer the student any extra assistance.
ODD is very serious; it’s a dx that is given which is usually indicative of extremely serious disorders which cannot be placed on minors.
He is not receiving sufficient support nor services. The diligent mother goes so far as to plead for assistance from her State’s Representative-he fails in his duty by refusing to REPRESENT (his job) her child’s lack of educational support by throwing the onus onto the “taxpayers”.
This misguided excuse, the over-played, ubiquitous worn-out trope, yet still the most effective and popular in the US, is used like an old fly-swatter…to humiliate those in need.
Remember this: Unless you leave this planet young and in an instant, you-too-will someday be in need, unless you’re in the .01%
he's a kid he shouldn't have a strong presence on the internet.
@@kittyboy-bitesyoubitesyoubitesryan’s toy reviews be like:
He seems way smarter and self aware than other kids his age
Right?
He should identify as a rock to get out of school if the school is gonna be unfair
@@CARLHPMA transphobia? We are all over the 2010s attack helicopter
@@gabrielwong9063transphobia shouldn’t even be a word. U can’t change what u are
It's typical for autistic kids.
This mother needs and deserves help and support. This must be exhausting emotionally and physically. I pray that she gets the professional help she needs to help her son. It is hard to navigate the broken healthcare system. Without help, things may just get tougher for her and her son. Liam will struggle with the effects of his birth. He is very intelligent. It was good that Mom realizes that Liam can behave as needed when doing an activity he enjoys . This demonstrates that he has potential for growth and to learn more appropriate coping skills. I pray that they both find the help they need .
I'm a occupational therapist from Brazil. ODD children are my biggest struggle, sometimes I find myself so mentally tired (that in a session... can't even imagine how it must be on a daily basis) and you gotta do some crisis management here and there. But every single change on their behavior is so overwhelmingly satisfying. For most of them are just kids who want to play and affection. The path is rough, but so rewarding. I hope Liam and his family can get the help they need and thrive together.
Meu filho teve suspeita de Tod. Não foi confirmado mas, se ele age assim, imagine quem tem confirmado. Deve ser mesmo desgastante. Hoje fui chamado mais uma vez na escola. Antes eu dizia que ia dar um jeito. Mas hoje disse que ele é assim e que estamos trabalhando. Que ele precisa de compreensão enquanto a madureza não chega. Ele tem Ah/sd.
é muito triste que tentam separar ele de crianças normais como se a culpa fosse dele de nascer assim, ai perguntam por que ele tem depressão
I'm also an occupational therapist and I can't imagine how there coping with so many comorbid conditions
Yes I’ve worked with ODD, God bless this mother
Thank you. As a mother of a child who's very much like Liam, it's validating to hear this from a professional
I started doing drugs years ago as a teenage, got addicted to opioid. Spent my whole life fighting opioid addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Opioid addiction actually destroyed my life. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏?
YES Dr.alishrooms
Congrats! I'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you. I always admire those who beat their addiction. Knowing it's possible to fix your life knowing there's people out there that have done what I thought was impossible gives me hope I will make it through as well. Those who share their experiences don't know how much it helps when you're about to give up, it gives you the strength knowing somone who actully know what it's like to go through this tell you it's possible, it's not the same somone telling you you can do it when they have no idea what it's like, but hearing somone who knows what it's like that helps a lot since you understand it firsthand and made it out gives so much hope. so thanks for sharing.
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
Yes he's Dr.alishrooms.Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
extremely intelligent and funny kid. the way he speaks and his sense of humour are on another level than those of his peers. props to his mom for being patient with him and understanding him.
I have three kids with fetal alcohol syndrome and drug exposure. What people don’t see is that he was probably playing the interview a little bit here too with Larry. My son has ODD, suspected bipolar, PTSD, anxiety, learning disability, etc. It may be “fun” to watch, but it’s exhausting to never be able to turn it off day in and day out, whether you want to step outside in a phone call, go to the bathroom, spend time alone with your spouse, etc. There are no supports and services for this level of kids’ mental health. I know because we are up to intensive in home as he get bigger and more aggressive with age. It’s still no help. It’s an experience of being bipolar with them as his moods control everything. But we still love and show up day in and day out.
❤ ❤
Wow, I really admire you.
💙🙏
GOD bless you sister ❤✝️🙏🕊
Wow. You are amazing for giving these children a good home and all your love. Bless you.
His adoptive mom is such a sweet lady ❤ you can see how much patience she has
4:29 "not sponsored" LOL omg I feel like I could spend hours listening to him talk
Right? Smart kid
Yes, I would love to be his friend. I think all that stigma and an unhealty kids enviroment is what helds him from being socialized.
I am quite similar in behaviour. I would Love to have him as a friend!
My heart breaks for Liam. He deserves to find some good friends. He seems like a brilliant mind who was affected by his bio moms decisions. He has a good family who will help him thrive in life.
Every disabled kid I know, including my own, is excluded from friendship. Even the parents don't want the disabled kids at their kid's birthday parties. Sad.
@@Aristotle2000 I totally agree- my 13 year old son is often excluded by my own family! But, I work with special needs adults in a day program and they are all great friends. That social component is so important!
@@Aristotle2000 You need to find your people. People who aren't exposed to disability aren't emotionally equipped and experienced enough to deal with their own awkwardness with affected individuals. That includes potential "situations" involving other children.
@@MandoMTL We are looking. It isn't easy.
@@Aristotle2000 hits too close to home as an autistic kid, people just don't talk to me but lucky enough i like that
I have a son that we adopted that also has ADHD, ODD, ASD, FAS, was in the NICU etc. Watching this video reminded me so much of all of the struggles we had raising our son. He is 22 now and still has some issues, but it did get easier. My heart goes out to Mama bear, I've been where you are and I know the struggle. Your doing a great job.
Has he been able to become independent and self-relying as an adult? That is my hope for Liam! It takes an awful compassionate mother to raise a kiddo like this, you are a hero!
@Kara Lantz he is very independent. Even though he mainly lives at home, he travels on his own to different counties and states (hasn't left the country yet, but I kind of hope he doesnt), he holds down jobs and works. He still has struggles, but I know in my heart that if something were to happen to us (his parents), he would do just fine. I know how hard it is to be where you are... mainly because my husband and I recently just finalized our adoption on our sons 2 youngest siblings (ages 3 and 4), and the 4 year old is just about a repeat of our son. So we are kind of starting over. If you ever need an ear, please feel free to reach out. It really does take a village.
@@candiedreher-salvatore1337 Wow, you are an extraordinarily kind family! I wish you all the best.
She needs to hear that from someone who knows. Liam's mom just seems all alone.
This one was sad. Mom was so tired and he couldn’t find the words to say why he loved her although I want to believe he does. She seems so patient but so exhausted. I hope they both get the help they need
I can definitly see love between them, but Liam had hard to show that because of his autism. Liam surely loves his mother alot.
@@kalegolasand to be honest, ask a normal lil kid and a lot of the time they can be lil brats haha 😭They’ll love their parents lots but it may feel embarrassing to announce it in front of a camera and stuff!
Just a few seconds listening to him talk, his articulation, his choice of words,...hes very intelligent. I hope the mother will support that
This video should be shown to medical professionals, teachers, police officers, addicts, and social workers. Plans need to be in place to help Liam and children like him to have safe spaces to work and learn. I think Liam is walking up a tall hill that keeps throwing barriers in his way. His ODD is extreme and I respect them so much for helping Liam find his way.
In the states, “alternative” schools are available.
I feel terrible for both of them. :/ I hope the mom has the strength to not let the negativity and aggression and anger infect her mind and identity. It doesn't matter how smart or kind or confident you are, having that a big part of your life for decades has to eat away. And of course this kid, it's not his fault, it's wonderful that he has the family, and I wish for the best for him.
I had a student with ODD and it was exhausting as a teacher to teach a whole group of kids and the kid who had ODD. I spent my entire time managing the kid and couldn’t teach the rest of the class. The district couldn’t help me with anything and my test scores suffered that year. Then I got in trouble for having bad scores. I have the deepest respect for this mom on this video. It takes unbelievable patience to raise a kid with ODD 24-7.
As a teacher, I can relate. This is what happens when kids have parents that make bad decisions in life, & when you have an educational system that makes it hard to support kids with behaviors like these. It effects the entire class.
@@mynewyork165 лол. у нас в стране вобще не диагностируют подобных детей. а школьным "психологам" зачастую сам нужен психолог))
@@user-hyuser357 How about using Google Translate so we can all understand what you're trying to say.
i was friends with this kid names isaiah, sort of had a crush on him too. he was funny and he was smart, but he was oppositional to what any authority wanted from him. i tried my best to help him with projects in class, but he just didn't have the motivation to. i think he'd formed a persona as the "bad boy" in our grade, so he was also afraid to be seen as anything but. he got the attention for the wrong thing and became addicted to it because of his insecurity. i think he's doing a lot better now outside of school. a lot of behavioral issues could be solved if these kids had a friend/someone to look up to.
@@Mike-bm1xvYes! Like the big brother program! If its still around? But, they pair a older kid (sophomore or senior) or an elderly "grandfather" type of figure, with a child that has issues, needs a friend, or someone they can talk too. This would be ideal for him!
This woman is a saint, you have to be pretty selfless to love someone who is not blood related and that has so many issues that only will get worse
I wouldn't say that the first mention is selfless, but I agree with the rest.
@@roahthecow I think you are on the same stuff as larry's biological mom. Because, what she did is indeed, selfless.
@@adarshye1I disagree with the comment bc you don’t have to be “selfless” to love a child just bc they’re not yours. Mothers that love their bio children that have struggles are selfless. You’d have to be a pretty awful person to not love a child just bc they’re not biologically yours. And if you think that way, you definitely should never get into foster care or have a relationship with someone who already has children.
@@harmonyquinn2557if mothers that love their bio child with struggles are selfless, then it's less of a mention for this woman who loves their non-bio child with struggles won't you say?
I do agree that someone who finds it hard to love a non-biological child should be advised to not adopt and so on but on the "selflessness" I think we can agree to disagree. Cause not everyone has to have your same standard of morals or values. And just because your standard of selflessness is as such doesn't mean it's true or fact that others should adhere since it's not black and white.
Selfless: concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own; unselfish.
@@jadekai8208 exactly
My mother was addicted to crystal meth when I was conceived. It resulted in the same behavioral problems this poor little boy is experiencing. Although my mother didn’t use a variety or nearly as much as his did, this severely impacted my life. I have epilepsy, adhd, odd, and bipolar. His mother is a true hero, she really makes sure he will have a fulfilling and happy life. She’s the definition of a mother
I hope you doin ok now
@@paco1667 Thank you ❤️ I am now that I’m out of the situation.
@@QueefBurglar069im so happy for u
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I am a special Ed teacher for pre k and I think one of my students was born addicted to drugs too. He is almost all there (I think he is diagnosed with “autism” but doesn’t act like a typical autistic students I’ve had) but very defiant. Also isn’t potty trained at 5. The student also lives with grandparents and bio parents aren’t in the picture at all. I think he will be diagnosed with ODD as well, possibly bipolar.
My guy is so lucid, he is so extremely aware and he honestly kinda reminds me of myself lmao, i think constantly reinforcing on him the idea that he’s different is already having a negative impact on him. And in the end he is a kid as he said lmao. He already seems to be a person that processes his actions more than a number of grown adults do. If he was my child i’d probably join in on his shenanigans
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"He already seems to be a person that processes his actions more than a number of grown adults do" this is exactly why in the back of my head I'm like...he needs more mature friends, this is why he is relationally suffocated. Especially older ADHDers who have experienced a lot of this in their own ways.
In regards to the rice incident, she should let him take action for himself then he only has himself to blame.
Bingo!!
@@bek7562 yeah, but if she tells him to throw the rice away he is going to stash it under his bed in defiance. I think it's definitely a challenging situation for both of them, I hope it works out for them in the future.
My heart gos out to Liam and his mum. My son also has ODD. My son , who is now 18, also has no friends. My biggest fear is his future. Will he ever have a girlfriend/ Boyfriend? If he dose how will he treat them? What if my son has a confrontation with someone and the cops get involved? The cops will think he is being defiant on purpose.
Thank your for bringing awareness about ODD as it is a real diagnosis!
Liam's struggles are proof that he is a survivor of the drug epidemic, but I have to point out what an incredible lady his foster mom is. When I was watching this I immediately felt for her. I have worked with kids who have developmental disorders, and I can tell you that it is no picnic. Just doing an hour or two of tutoring takes lots of deliberate planning, well established routines, and infinite patience. Imagine dealing with that 24/7 for every day of your adult life! These parents are superheroes, hands down. I salute them, and I pray that they are all able to access funding and resources to help children like Liam.
this really breaks my heart. he seems so smart, and a sweet kid. hopefully he manages to get some friends who he feels safe around.
Liam is intelligent and self aware. He is only a kid and will grow up doing great. A good therapist will help him with his coping skills and management of his emotions. I feel he needs more people around him to speak life into him as well. And he will be great.
I think we can all agree, despite his brain deficiencies, this boy has intelligence! Let's just hope he uses it for good, instead of deciding to be a complete menace to society. Like the mother DID say, it's all up to him. And I worry as much as she does on that.
Yes !!! Amen SPEAK LIFE AND GOODNESS ONTO HIM!! this is what i was referring to in my comment.
yeah no i dont see this happening. That's wishful thinking
@@bakedstreetytI’m curious… why is that wishful thinking?
The disorder doesn’t make you unaware of your actions it makes them hard to listen to regardless n that’s important to understand
This lady looks TOTALLY EXHAUSTED even with the biggest hugs from Liam she Looks drawn and exhausted
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too many useless rules ?
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i think she needs an aide or child specialist to help sometimes with him in the house etc
Liam is really quite articulate, that's the one thing that stood out to me. He didn't ask to be born like this. I work in disability and have come across one guy with a similar combination of diagnoses, it's like a reflex to them. Liam understands that he's not like the kids at school, to a level where, and this is my hypothesis, he does feel terrible about it (based on how he talks about finding friends) but refuses to admit it because that's probably exactly what we expect, so once again, on his terms.
What a saint she is, the mum. I've worked with children with odd and I'm exhausted by the end of the day. And that's with the support of colleagues etc. This lady is doing it 24/7 and just keeps going. Liam, you're a super star as well. I hope you do well in life and that you'll get a really great human friend soon.
My brother has adhd and odd. He was just like this, drove my parents insane. He was expelled from every school he went to. He had a big red bear nearly as big as him called snoopy that was his bestest friend, his version of Larry the rock. Surprisingly only 1 out of his 6 kids inherited his adhd. He is now pulling his hair out over that kid, just like my parents did. I hope Liam’s mum doesn’t worry as I can promise her one thing, adhd kids are always alright in the end. My family has a few members with adhd so we have more understanding and support with each other. I suggest she befriends other mothers with adhd children to get that same support.
I’m 13, AuDHD with anxiety and depression. My mom probably smoked a bit before knowing she was pregnant. It’s hard to think this kid has so many mental problems when he seems to be so amazing. Seriously, if I knew him irl, I would probably be friends with him. He is such a mood in this video, and he sounds really fun.
This is the kind of kid that, with the right conditions, would be a successful, creative entrepreneur or a system changer/breaker.
He’s drinking up all of the labels everyone is giving him like a sponge. I’m sure he does have real difficulties but he’s incredibly intelligent and has a lot of energy that could be put into a sport like martial arts or something that requires tiring the body and mind. I think he would be great at it.
Note for mom: don’t forget yourself in this process. You’re doing great stuff.
Yeah, I think a competitive non-team sport is best for him.
Could not of been said more perfectly
Liam, I just want you to know that there are many of us who are 100% on your side and recognize that you are guiltless and blameless and innocent. I have entrenched myself in that stance and will never change my mindset.
And thank you Chris for your pinned comment-it is most encouraging to know that you too view Liam as the victim here and no one should dare impugn otherwise.
It's tragic that even a child isn't spared immediate and rash judgment for its actions. These aren't adults who've potentially suffered from their own poor decisions, but innocents with barely a foothold in life.
Liam's mom is doing such an amazing job from what I can see!
All that patience and compassion will go a long way, so proud of her 🫀
This kid reminds me of myself a lot i would love to hang around with him so much he does everything I do I never thought I would see someone like me that much
This kid is actually so funny and I'm sure we're not seeing the whole story, but as he presents here he is no different from my friends when I was his age
Just kinda bad parenting
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too much for a kid his age, nun funny ab his behavior lmfao, I get it tho
@@Arbu17when you have an understanding of drug use on children and personality disorders, then you can make judgement on his parents, but shut your uneducated mouth up
I’m adopted and his story is almost identical to me except I was lucky to not get as much medical conditions as him but I hope he lives a good life.
So proud of this mom. She's standing as a rock for this child🙏 I hope Liam will find his way as getting older and make himself and his mommy proud.💓
This video elicited a lot of emotions. I immediately felt for the mom, and at times felt angry at the kid for acting the way he did towards someone who obviously has his best interests in the forefront of their mind at all times. In the end though, he can't help it, it is all compulsive. All that can be hoped is that he gets the best treatment possible to aid him through his eventual journey through adulthood. I definitely need to evaluate my mindset regarding these types of special needs children going forward. Thank you for sharing!
I would 10/10 be Liam and Larry’s friend. I think Liam has the best sense of humor ever and seems like a sweet kid 🥺
it’s nice how you included larry there!
Mom looks very tired, but cheers to her as she is always smiling and calm.
As someone who has most of his diagnosis, her excusing his actions because of his diagnosis will never bring anything good. Odd is extremely hard for everyone around. She needs support which I hope she has
Yeah this video is different and her verbiage is concerning.
Yeah I know people with the same exact diagnosis and they don’t act like this lol. Tell that kid NO for once and stop being a doormat, lady!
@@Asp47999 that's not how it works though. it's not about not wanting to do the thing, it's about his brain telling him to do the opposite of what he's being told, even if he was fine with it before.
are you insane she clearly does
I agree. She seems so exhausted and worn down. I hope she finds help and guidance for him
I am surprised how smart he is. But I am much more surprised from that how unbelievably patient and nice is this woman. She is saint and wow... she deserves respect. Just... be strong, you are perfect mom!
My heart breaks for the mom. This is so hard and painful and traumatizing for a parent to deal with. I hope she can get support.
What about the little boy. Can you talk about the little disabled boy.
Right?!
And honestly. Most people who gain kids without birth. Is because they can't have children in the first place. And not being able to physically
Might be the guy upstairs plan for her since she my not mentally and emotionally be able to good as a parent. Maybe financially but people who can't have kids got a lot of self reflecting Todo before the consider to becoming a parent. Seems like a good woman." His new mom" but spoiling a child and letting the child control his own life is a huge mistake.
@@normanorman well, unlike him, she could choose if she would deal with this. And she chose to deal with it. It deserves praise
@@tainasiman2107 Well, unlike her, he doesn’t choose to make it stressful… Like ok she chooses to take care of him because that’s what parents do. But can you actually talk about how it could be affecting the child or just say something that doesn’t make him sound like a living burden…. Hes not. It’s not bad, it’s how he is. and he’s a child. A human child with thoughts and feelings and in need of accommodation
misunderstood creative genius, don’t think they should be talking about him like that in front of him, medical industry is so messed up, and regular people are so gullible
Did you watch the entire video?
His brain is wired differently due to his mother’s drug use. I give massive kudos to his adoptive parents, because they are trying so hard to raise him to be a normal person. He knows he’s not normal, but he doesn’t seem to be devastated. He’s coping well. His adopted parents are doing a great job! ❤️
i was diagnosed with autism and odd when i was around 8 years old, now am 16.
i am very fortunate to have parents as patient as mine and i am only recently realising how grateful i am. the mother in this video is incredible and it will pay off, her son will appreciate it one day.
Damn I wish my parent were this supportive instead of locking me up or just straight up hitting me when I was younger
@@Sewer.R4tz sadly I went to a school where they treated their autistic kids like that. They would throw me in a small room and keep me there for hours. I got out of that school and I’m much happier now
My poor mother had epilepsy and did not take a single pill during her entire pregnancy. Such are mothers. I lost her last week and the world makes no sense now.
Hello. I’m so very sorry about the loss of your precious Mom. Wishing you comfort, peace and all you need. I’m sorry.
I so sorry for your loss😢
I hope she can get support somehow. No one should have to be this drained
she chose to adopt a special needs child
@@briannanewman4242 to help 🤦🏽♀️
As someone whose mom had a “normal” pregnancy, I ended up with almost every disability and mental illness as him. I see so much of myself in him. I eventually found friends who love me so much and I’m living life to the fullest at 26! 💜☺️
That poor child, you know he's a sweet heart fighting for his life but maybe people can't see it. To not have your parents, to know they both abandoned you, to know it was to drugs and they didn't care about harming you with them either. I'm surprised he's not more angry or sad, what an incredible child. I would have been his friend if I was a kid and knew him, he sounds incredible and seems like the person who will be able to over come many difficulties so long as he continues to put his heart into it.
I am undiagnosed but i am aware Im different. My mother was on drugs when before I was born and after as well. She died in 2021 because of a fentanyl overdose. I miss her.
Wow, what Hardworking parents. Liam is trying so hard and he absorbs everything. I hope things work out for them and Liam is a wonderful guy!
No one will understand how Liam feels unless your like him
Nothing but the utmost respect for Liam's mother. Being a parent is difficult enough, but she is faced with challenges beyond that of traditional parenting and is clearly extremely loving and attentive regardless of the challenges she has faced. I am glad I was brought to this video.
He is so smart and articulate. I wish the best for him and his family. His current parents are true heroes
She looks EXHAUSTED 😞 Like she's saying this but really thinking "What did I get myself into?".
This is absolutely heartbreaking that the chemicals that were given to him mess up his brain just enough to require extra care, while at same time make him strongly oppose the very caretakers he doesn't realize he needs to survive.
It could be chemicals, could be something else. Like genes. Could be both. Probably both. That's like science, so interesting. No offense
I noticed that for most of the interview, he sat on the couch, listening, and answering the questions asked of him - even the really tough ones. And he acknowledged that he loves his Mom! It's entirely possible that much of his opposition is due to anxiety over demands - at least some of which could be mitigated by not using adversarial wording or tone when communicating what needs to be done. It's easier said than done (I, too, tend to slip, more often than I'd like, into saying "it's time to do [whatever it is]" or "you need to do this within the next few minutes" - but I've noticed that the response to that is often opposition - while there's much less opposition, and often cooperation instead, when I instead ask politely and give fair warning of when a transition is coming. Also, a checklist of things to do (for the morning routine, for example) with a simple reward (of time or activity together, perhaps - it doesn't need to be tangible) for each day the list is completed timely, with a bonus reward for quick completion and, especially, completion without protest or complaint. Yes, coming up with the list and the reward takes time - and doesn't work for everyone, but it's something that could be tried if it hasn't already (or if it hasn't been tried recently).
@@krisw5318 I'm pretty sure she's probably tried a multitude of different tactics and approaches. She talked about his therapists and doctors. I'm sure they've all given her the same guidance and suggestions as you have.
You’re making some insane assumptions here…
@Kris W Like this very intelligent approach you suggested. He has issues with the hows and the whys which his mom needs to learn to handle. A lot of the time it’s not what you tell people to do that’s the issue, it’s the how. Your suggestions seem like a great start. A very intelligent approach to a very intelligent child.
I really feel for the mom. This is clearly exhausting and mentally draining. I’m having a hard time just watching the video, it’s very hard watching someone do the things he does.
Out of curiosity, how? He just has a bunch of pretty mild mental illnesses… socially awkward behavior isn’t the end of the world IMO if it’s draining to you to just see the behavior or someone with autism and ADHD or any of his other issues then you probably just don’t have the patience to actually deal with one of us. Why would you feel for the mom when she’s not the one struggling with the stigmatized issues… that’s all I gotta say
What do you mean? He is a fun loving, intelligent, awesome little boy. If you can’t watch a child be a child, stop watching the video and please NEVER consider having children, you would be a horrible parent.
@@assidreflex9718 I agree, what a thoughtless, insensitive comment. God forbid they have a kid with adhd.. I am an adult with adhd and this is almost exactly what it feels like, you can just control it better because you understand better the way the world works. And you can tell he wants to do better, and feels guilty afterwards, like when he hugs his mom after a rough morning. With his mom trying her best to do the best for him, I think Liam has a really good chance. God bless ‘em
@@assidreflex9718 His own mother said it is exhausting. We know it's because the ODD, but it is a fact that he is really mean to her mother in this video, and it's hard to watch because we know she doesn't deserve it and he can't control it. It's a sad situation.
@@assidreflex9718are u dumb ??? no one said he doesn't want a child, but a child with so many problems is obiously very exhausting. you people don't think
He seems really high functioning for someone being born to an addict! Real glad hes okay
"He's very very smart"....too right! Liam is extremely switched-on, self-aware and articulate, and it's clear that he's beginning to understand his emotions and behaviour. It was noticeable that Chris spoke TO Liam about this challenging behaviour and why he acts the way he does even though he loves his family. Chris held him accountable more than he sometimes does with kids this age. I also thought it was interesting how his Mom is happy to talk about Liam's behavioural challenges and diagnoses with him present. This wouldn't be right for everyone, but for this family it seems to work.
I hope Liam continues to receive support, and I wish there was more support for him and children like him. And I hope Liam's birth Mom is safe and getting the help she needed.
Im from germany. Im working with kids like him in families as a social worker. Every day I learn something new. I have the greatest respect for his mother. Thank you for this video.
That poor mama. I understand her pain.
I have a son myself and it breaks my heat to heart that he doesn't have any friends. I hope this young man is doing better = )
5:24 Lol. I think on some levels Liam knows better. "That is offensive to me and Larry." I also cracked up at "ChatGPT, not a sponsor." Haha
dont put this kid in a victims mindset i think he has so much potential... wish the best for him he seems very smart and genuine
As an autistic adult who masked fervently growing up due to bullying and having to be my parent’s parent (but still got alienated and made friends with “the weird kids”), *deep breath* I wholeheartedly believe Liam, who is true to himself, will make good human friends in the future. He’s very self-aware and that is going to get him far in life.
Just watching him feels very nostalgic and makes me teary because I remember having a classmate like him who wasn’t always treated the way he deserved to be treated-by adults and peers alike. Watching hurt because I wanted to help but I was also terrified of making either of our situations worse because I was just a vulnerable kid too.
We’re cheering for Liam (and his mom too; she’s a great parent)!
We all need someone like Larry in our lives.
If she’s a single parent, I hope she gets even more support and help for herself and Liam.
20 seconds into this video and I already love this kid 😂😂😂 Such intelligence and articulation! LONG LIVE LARRY!!!!
I used to have a friend with some pretty sever drug damage and ODD named Jess. She used to jokingly call me "mom" and was always really nice and made me gifts. In my eight grade year Jessies parents put her in foster care because of her odd. I'd like to remind everyone that kids with ODD can be LOVELY even though they're hard to deal with. Ill always miss Jess but I'm happy that she's probably in a happy family now.
this is a normal kid who should not be told something is inherently wrong with him
Mom, you're an awesome Mom to Liam. I'm so sorry you don't have the support you need & that you should have. I don't know what it's like to be a parent to a child with so many needs, but I do know what it's like when people who are meant to support you turn their backs on you. I want you to know that you're amazing. You're stronger than you realise. Please don't ever stop fighting for help. Yes, for Liam, but also for you & your family. Being in the UK & not knowing how things work (or don't work) in the US, I can't give you any practical advice. But I do know that you're an awesome Mom. I can see how much you love Liam. You're doing an amazing job. Try not to listen to anyone who tells you any different. I know it's hard, but I hope you can see what an amazing job you're doing. Liam is blessed to have you as his Mom.
Honestly Liam has some pretty good humor. I can’t believe that nobody wants to be friends with him. Besides Larry ofc we love Larry
My Son is 21 NOW and he was between the yrs of 6 and 8 when we got his diagnosis. ODD and ADHD where the main things diagnosed , along with a few things that come with those disorders. We went thru a few schools kicking My Son out of their school even with his IEP. My Son STILL has issues with authority of ANY kind. He turned 18 and he quit school due to being legally ABLE to, he was halfway thru his senior year of H.S. at the time. I feel for THIS Mom cuz I KNOW how emotionally draining along with physically draining to parent a child with these disorders can be. I literally had teachers that hated my Son, and as a Mom I advocated for HIM even when I KNEW that he was not being his best self. Sometimes he needed a person in HIS corner rather he was WRONG or RITE. I CLDNT imagine My life without him tho and he isn't my biological Son ❤ I'm HIS MOM tho and he makes THAT clear to whoever has questioned that ❤ I CLD SAY ALOT MORE about THIS particular disorder, the medications of which he had been on 11 different one's before he decided at 14 he WASN'T going to take medications any more.... And the handful of doctors that stayed on board with us thru MOST of that time. I can say that with puberty it gets a bit ruff as with ALL teens but as a very young adult my Son STILL is hindered with his disorders, maturity that COMES with puberty and growing up it has gotten EASIER ❤ 💯 His struggle will always be there due to what his tiny body had endured in utero BUT I will NEVER give up on my Son regardless ❤ IT'S MY JOB UNTIL I LEAVE THIS EARTH ❤🌎🌍❤
I have a question that is probably insensitive, and you can just ignore me, but this video made me curious. Are you ever afraid that his rule-breaking tendencies will lead to him getting in trouble with the law?
i was diagnosed with odd when i was very little and i can confirm it really does get better with age and maturity. and the meltdowns become less frequent. parents like you who raise children with odd are so strong! ❤❤
I have ADHD and ODD, and it can be pretty difficult sometimes 😅. Sometimes I say things I don't really want to say to people butit comes out anyway. But my friends understand me and accept that I may not be as "normal" as they are and we hang out every day. So I hope Liam can find some people who truly love him and his personality, because it is a wonderful thing when you do.
As the mother of 7 year old autistic twins… I feel this lady’s exhaustion and strength to go on for the love of her child!
He honestly is very intelligent. Even with all of the disorders that they claim he has, he is so self aware and very knowledgeable. He even speaks like an Adult already.
It broke my heart when he said he had "No Friends". Mom should consider getting him into Acting. He is very smart, overly smart. Many kids with ODD do really well when guided in plays, Art, anything they can create with their hands. High praises to Mom and how she deescalated the situations.
I feel bad for this kid, he didnt ask for any of that when he was born. I believe he will accomplish great things in his life.
he seems like a really sweet boy and seeing him introduce larry and saying larry is his only friend because other kids dont want to be his friends is just heartbreaking
my mom only smoked cigs with me. was the 90s. she knew better. i forgave her. it left me with severe adhd. and due to an unstable environment at home and school i was bullied RUTHLESSLY. and my grades were usually ds and fs. that left me with comorbid add and borderline. i graduated on time because my friends literally made me do my homework. i slept 3years away in my 20s. he needs a big brother or sister, a supporter who he thinks is cool and not lame
I'm an addiction advocate, sadly addiction comes from mistreated mental health issues. The mother was a victim of our crappy mental health system but she hurt her son because of it. Everyone is victim in this situation sadly :(
I absolutely agree with you, from my experience of communication with addicted Teenies..
So blame the system instead of holding the mother accountable for her poor choices that affect others especially an innocent, smart!
@@starswan hold her accountable how? Jail? Unlikely place to receive rehabilitation that she needs, if she isn’t dead already due to the fentanyl crisis.
Shame her on the internet? Who would that help in this situation?
What she did was absolutely wrong, but addiction is still a disease that deserves more awareness and resources from “the system” to prevent an outcome exactly like this one.
Being an addict isn’t a choice, or nobody would be an addict.
Agree. I don't think it's right for the other mom to say his bio mom didn't care about him. At all. She's manipulative
@@nikicarrie4071 What the h***, how can you call her manipulative. She gave up the possibility of normal life just to be there for this boy. And the person who gave birth to him consumed drugs up until hours before he was born. This shows she obviously didn't care enough for him. The fact that drugs probably changed her priorities didn't change that. Maybe you have some unresolved issue otherwise it's hard for me to understand how you could see it that way.
Tried reverse rules? Like the rule is that you have to be awake after 09 pm. Then he will go to bed? Please don't put socks on. And then he puts it on?
Liam seems like such cool kid and really fun to talk to, I feel for him. I hope one day the other kids will realize how cool he is, and how he can’t control some of the ways he acts.
this kid reminds me of myself when i was little in a lot of ways. His demeanor is similar to mine when i was little. I havent gone through the same tragedies he was, but I hope it gets better and easier for him to manage himself as it did for me. I was able to age out of the need for therapy and anger management and I wish for all the success for him and his tribulations in the future.