What people don't understand is sex hormones are not only about sex. They have a ton of other functions in the body. I can not wrap my head around how medical professionals direct people to 'transition' when transitioning means a life time of hormone supplements which could wreak havoc with your body.
Any decent Doctor should have sent her immediately to an ethical licensed psychiatrist and had her first extensively treated for Depression and anxiety with proper anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medication, and also psychotherapy using cognitive psychotherapy. CHANGING SOMEBODIES GENDER IS IMPOSSIBLE AND IT IS UNETHICAL MUTILATION OF ANY HUMAN BEING. THE OPPOSITE-SEX HORMONES ALL CAUSE CANCER! I HOPE THIS YOUNG WOMAN SUES THE CRAP OUT OF ALL OF HER DOCTORS AND PLANNED PARENTHOOD FOR GIVING HER HARMFUL AND DANGEROUS ADVICE TO TO MUTILATE HERSELF IN AN EFFORT TO TRY TO CHANGE THE WAY GOD CREATED HER AT BIRTH!
Cat, you are very very very fortunate that you were able to stop the testosterone and that you didn’t suffer irreversible damage. I watch a lot of detransitioner videos because I want to understand what’s going on w/ this tormented generation. The one common-thread statement is always the same: “I had mental health issues.”
While this is a sad story, you should also acknowledge the fact that 99% of people that transition are happy. Focusing on the few sad stories to discriminate against 99% of the trans population is dishonest and sad. And it's what all the commenters here are doing.
So accurate, in the observations that the “previous mental health issues” is consistent with the overall group. There is a root cause that isn’t being addressed and hormones are just being handed out so freely. Hopefully these adults can find their way to true healing.
@@karybakk There shoul`ve never be no doctor who has been educated to cut off body parts from healthy bodies, nor a doctor who is been titled “gender doctor”. (sounds like doctors gone mad and sharing their madness to their paisents) Gender is not an illness, which is need to be fixed. GOD created everyone perfectly. Males with all which they need and Females with all which they need. Teenage era, puberty? What is it? - transformation from child to an ADULT. Gender dysphoria ? What is it? - a lie, a try to go against THE WORD OF GOD, stating that hating ones body is normal. Lets remind what GOD says: Ephesians 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: Trans surgery scars - scars which never should've been on a human bodies, be they young or old. Gender - affirming Care - care which never should took place. We are not creators, we are creation, meaning we cannot create, we can only use which is already been made. Like lucifer, fallen angel, couldn`t create a mankind which he so badly wanted, for he too is a creation not a creator therefore can only use what`s been made. Did he got his wish, to have his own mankind? - yes, the giants and hybrid creatures + now the deceived human souls, who like they believed the trans lie and transformed themselves into their illusions, the same with the another lie from lucifer, through which he “promise” to give the “everlasting life” = humans mixing with machines, becoming robots = worst fate found, cause true, they stopped ageing and dying, but the wish and desire to die shall be there. Everlasting life in which souls wish to die and desire to die everlastingly - where`s the life then? As it sound and seem to be a forced on existence.
The 99% are Not 'happy'. They weren't happy to begin with., that's why they seek change and affirmation and then instead of a community of compassion and real acceptance, they are told that they are correct to hate their bodies (affirming that they're not good enough the way they are) and altering physiologically will bring them the peace and wholeness and clarity and acceptance they need and crave. It's a lie. The 99% who aren't speaking out (yet) are just as this woman said, they're afraid to offend or 'harm' the trans community. And most are more unhappy than they were before and have now made irreversible damage and the beloved trans ppl they were clinging to reject them for speaking out about their real problems. Very evil. Very sad situation
“I didn’t want to speak out to not harm the trans community” isn’t that a sign how toxic all this has become? It’s not the society that produces all those victims, it’s the trans community itself that insists on this self sacrifice of all their victims.
Yen just as , if I do not want to date a trans woman I am called names???? Do people understand what the fu… is happening here ??Just the same if a women refused a trans man ! They made that choice for themselves “ live with it! Stop harassing biology!
When I was a little girl I hated being a girl. I'm so thankful now that there was no such thing as transitioning because I finally accepted what I am. I have been blessed with 4 kids and a wonderful husband.
So weird. In western society, everyone and I mean literally everyone, from the medical community, media to the general public. All accept that being male is a disadvantage. Male sexuality, physiology and biology are completely degraded in society. Some outright refer to males as being biologically inferior to women. So its weird that any female would want to become male, given all of the so called disadvantages it brings in society. They tell you that being female is everything and the greatest. Thus a reason why many boys hate themselves and their existence a d want to “transition” into a female
I envied boys for various reasons, didn't really like the girly things (even some so-called feminine behavior such as drama), did lots of "boy" things. But when hormones hit, I figured out I was a REAL woman...😉😉😊
I was the same . A Tom boy. I hated dresses, skirts. I wore my brothers clothes whenever they weren’t around . I’m blessed with four boys and embrace the body God has given me . :-)
Its impossible to receive pain medication because too many people started to link the afganistan war with the Opium epidemic, and "they" freaked out and cut everyone off.
“It is going to be a huge scandal and we are going to have a lot of regretful young people.” You said it best, Cat. Thank you for speaking out! You are brave to have made the decisions you’ve made for yourself and to help others. Love you!!!
Trans activism is the most dangerous, toxic ideology today. Thank you for speaking out, Cat. You have the support and love of this Conservative Christian, and our community. You also have the support and love of many of the LGBTQ community who are speaking out against this insanity. May you continue to live a life and spread your Truth and joy.
Id like to know where the feminist groups are as all women spaces are being occupied by BIOLOGICAL MEN!! Its like some kind of sneak attack on women when they weren't looking.
@@chadkbrignall22 Omg! Sooooo well said! You see the trans biological men have made it so intimidating and gaslit everyone, including politicians and law makers, into accepting the concept with laws attached, that people are afraid of being labelled 'transphobic'. But people are waking up from this wichcraft and starting to speak out on this truly Evil notion.
@@bethcoddington2150 sadly I know! I listen recently to @JenniferBilek a feminist from the old school. She lays out this whole thing around transsexualism and when they started to normalize a males fetish.
I listened to an interview with a hormone specialist, who said that of all the young people who wanted to transition that he's had as clients, every one of them had a hormonal imbalance. Once it was brought under control, there was no more gender dysphoria. He was appalled that not one of the many transitioners have ever been tested for hormonal imbalance.
It is not just the web! The grooming is starting in grade school and continues throughout college! My husband went back to college full time 4 years ago at a very popular Florida University. His first week there he was sent an email stating "students should consider dating people the same gender." GROOMING is so much a part of this hysteria.
You are such a beautiful lady, and these days women can express their male side without transitioning anything. I was always a "tomboy" but when I became a mother I felt very different about being in a female body. It was such a profound experience to be a mother. Just to be yourself, have adventures, and express what you feel you are, no surgery or chemical necessary. Love who you are!!
I wish my son had realized it was a mistake, which he still hasn't before he took estrogen and made himself sterile. He is my only child. I honestly believe Planned Parenthood is evil! Thank you for telling your story. Gives me hope for my son!
For some people transitioning isn't a mistake. You misgendering her now isn't going to help even if she ends up regretting later. She will just remember you as an unsupportive parent unless you start using the words she prefers. If you don't support transition, why would you support detransition either? Children deserve unconditional love even if they make mistakes.
@@helmiinahii this is a permanent change you are talking about. And yes, CHILDREN should be supported by parents and helping them with shoe choices. But NOT with gender! They have to be adults to make it for themselves! Only adults should be allowed to make this change!
I feel the opposite. They misgender themselves. How horrible to not be able to accept your own body. And going along with it doesn't help them get back what were perfectly healthy parts of their bodies or their fertility or any other damage caused to them.
@@gala518 Just to make sure, I don't support medical interventions to people who are under 18 years old. I was talking mainly about adult children, I assumed OP's child is older because they could get the hormones without parental approval.
Have you heard the expression "trans the gay away"? Usually the problem starts with the environment which makes homophobic remarks and when that feminine boy realizes he's attracted to the same sex they quickly find transitioning a possible escape from the homophobic environment. The "I was born into the wrong body" seems to be more acceptable than homosexuality. The problem is created by the environment. Not by the individual.
This is why I see the trans thing as 1. homophobic and 2. misogynistic. MOST of those dysphoria kids would grow up to be GAY. Somehow, they think gay is not OK.
Yes. People should be able to present themselves however they want. If you’re a man and you want to wear a pink dress, you should be able to without having to say you’re trans. We need more tolerance.
@@ALT-vz3jn People definitely need to have more tolerance. On the other hand wearing a dress is one thing but demanding to be accepted as a woman is a problem, imo.
My biggest fights with my mother even in to my late 30s was because I wasn't the lady she wanted me to be. She had a view I didn't want and talked over me when I tried to talk to her. Since, I'm just happy as I am. A girl who's not girly girl but a person happy with myself regardless ❤❤❤
We also did not affirm our child and she never made it to medical transition. Thank you for this clip. I am so relieved you did what was right for you.
So many of these women who attempted to "transition" say they didn't feel feminine. But you look at them and see they are the epitome of female beauty and finesse.
Because we are told being feminine is what you see online, and what you see online is very much photoshopped and filtered and no one can be like that in real life. We are being bombarded with fake pretty pictures and videos. Same goes for masculine I suppose. God I am so grateful for being old enough to not f***ing care. Because I would have fallen for that if it had existed in my teenage years.
Side effect of the impossible beauty/life standards for women today. If I was a below average female I would also feel like I probably have better chances of success if I became a man. Not pretty enough for men, or success in life, might as well compete with them instead of being tossed aside. I don’t see extremely naturally beautiful people suffering from transgenderism from either sex. I think that’s very telling. The grasp beauty holds on society is bigger than people think, and it’s ramifications.
@@PossibleBat I agree, although people reach their physical peak in their 20s and 30s. But the gender insecurities hit in the teenager years. So, most boys and girls don't even have a chance to reach the extremely beautiful phase before they mutilate themselves. And this is part of the reason why this ideology is grotesquely vicious.
The whole thing is nothing but a belief system, a sect, a cult. Once you get into it, its hard to get out. Bless the courageous detransitioners who tell their stories! I wish you the best.
I (a girl) grew up in the 90s and vividly remember agonizing over wanting to wear dresses and play dolls with my friends and wanting to wear jeans and play hard with my brothers. Thank God I had reasonable parents who told me both desires were good and right and a part of me. They weren't "girl" desires and "boy" desires back then, they were MY desires: the wants of a whole, complex human being who was and is and always will be a girl. Thank you, Cat, for trying to make that experience possible for all little girls and little boys who need a help being comfortable with who they are. ♥
GeorgeSoros funds planned parenthood + Amnesty International and both have taken all women’s descriptors off their sites. Amnesty admits single sex toilets & spaces are VIP in 3rd World nations but not in the west.
even more ridiculous is that they dont even "plan parenthood" :/ when i got pregnant i called cuz i thought thats what they specialized in and they said "we dont do that" bruh.
All teenagers go through this questioning about their sexuality, it’s part of our human development. I experienced it but did not dwell on those. I’m now a happy mother and wife.
It is not just the web! The grooming is starting in grade school and continues throughout college. My husband went back to college full time 4 years ago at a very popular Florida University. His first week there he was sent an email stating "students should consider dating people the same gender." GROOMING is so much a part of this hysteria.
CONGRATULATIONS!!! It's absolutely wonderful that you found yourself!!! I've no idea what a "counterfeit male" would have sounded...or looked like... but the "true you"...looks and sounds lovely.💖 I'm sorry... that as a young person you didn't feel you could find help for "teenage awkwardness"...anywhere other than with a group of people that think it's okay to mutilate children...Shame on PlannedParenthood...for thinking God makes mistakes! Welcome back Young Lady💞💕💞
When she was talking about having no energy without sex hormones, I thought "Wait until she hits menopause". She'll get to experience that again. I got terrible symptoms with menopause & it took me 3 doctors & 10 months to get estrogen. I should've just called planned parenthood & told them I was a guy transitioning.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. I remember when my mother was going through perimenopause, it was at the time when they were taking away everyone’s hormones because of the flawed study. Her hot flashes were so bad she would bring a change of clothes to work every day. When I got into that zone I told my obgyn give me all the hormones - I don’t give a F if I don’t live as long, I’d rather have a better quality of life than a longer life. He laughed and agreed. I had to fire my previous obgyn as she argued with me that I wasn’t in peri (I was 49, geez lady maybe you need to go back to med school) and wanted to take out my uterus (which wasn’t the problem, my hormones were the problem). Most doctors have no idea what they’re doing.
@@ALT-vz3jn It doesn't have to be like that. Many women in my circle of friends (including myself) have sailed through this transition. It can be a bumpy ride, it is called the second puberty for a reason. But with adaptogens, exercise, and liver detoxification, things can go relatively smoothly. 🙂
I was born in the late 60’s and was such a tomboy in every way!! I’m so glad this movement wasn’t going on then. Being a tomboy only added to who I am as I grew into womanhood. I appreciate my femininity and am a mother and grandmother today. This attack against our children needs to stop!!
This took great courage Cat. Even though it doesn't occur to all people, questioning sexuality and who one perceives themselves to be is absolutely normal! Its part of the human experience. Current hype and push to move folks who DO question into gender reassignment is intense, a social pressure-cooker and even reckless. It can make one feel that's the only way to go. Even well meaning folks need to take a look deeper into these approaches. Im sorry you had to go through so much Cat, but you persevered and followed your gut intelligence out. I so applaud you for sharing your story and helping others see that there are 2 sides to the narrative.
@@goyim6866 perhaps not your experience and that is fine. But there is nothing wrong with questioning who one is inclined to be attracted to in life, in the body one is born. That is Aok for some folks. BUT, the push to permanently alter the body BEFORE one has lived to be an adult is exceptionally cruel destructive/damaging/unnecessary. Forcing doubt and confusion on children in schools & from those in the LGBT community who are zealously buying into this new societal programming is harming bodily sovereignty, self confidence. No doubt, teens especially too!
Cat, you are a very lovely and beautiful person. I am happy you found your way. I used to be a nurse and happen to work on transgender ward for 6 months. Then I had to leave because I couldn't cope with these young people destroying their bodies with all the surgeries. I wish you all the best.
@@ShirleyAnnPetrillo-oj7sc All this is 26 years ago. I remember one incident very clearly because in that moment , I knew that I had to leave that ward. The doctor wanted to change the bandages of a female patient's vagina ( former male patient whose penis was re-operated into a vagina) and my job was just to hold her hand and comfort her as good as possible. The process was very very painful and the patient was crying and all I thought was "why the hell have you done this to your body and to yourself?" And I noticed that I had not enough understanding for transgender patients and I couldn't understand how young people destroy a healthy body. It just didn't feel right to me.
The other major issue we have is that people are diagnosing themselves or diagnosing others. Also, the word trans has been so diluted and confused because people who claim to be non binary and a host of other nonsensical genders keep using the word "trans." No wonder so many teenagers are getting confused and regretting their decisions. I mean, people are now being told they are trans for the most ridiculous reasons. For example, there are girls or women who don't like super girly things, it was called being a tomboy when I was growing up and was seen as a normal thing, but now to this gender ideology, they are trans and should transition to a boy. I find it ironic that they use stereotypes to tell others they are trans, and that is why so many teenagers are saying they are trans when in reality they are just teenagers who don't know who they are and that not wanting to wear a dress does not men you are a boy. But so many get caught in the ideology and have videos making it look like transitioning solved all their problems. There is a reason why being trans used to be very rare, especially in kids, and now we have entire friend groups and classes, all claiming to be trans or non binary and all these weird pronouns, because they are influenced by these activists, and I feel bad for those who are genuinely trans having their identity dragged through the mud because their term has been hijacked by the gender ideology crowd. What's worse, there is a crowd starting to form where they now want MAPS to be accepted as an orientation (MAP stands for minor attracted person) and we are also seeing many men claiming to be women who have been convicted with a crime of forcing themselves on women who demand access to women's locker rooms and bathrooms.. again something people said could start and yes this is in the minority, but unfortunately these men are taking advantage of this gender ideology, and personally they should never be allowed, even if they were actually trans, they commit the crime so should never be given access.
Thank you! I think that most people on this video don’t understand that there are actually trans people, and even if she isn’t trans (i’m glad that she figured out what was best for her) there are actually tans people out there that are valid.
How about I affirm you as a human being? Your struggles, mistakes, confusion are all human. Your courage to do what was right, to turn things around, to face the reality was also human. So glad you’re here among us!
i’m also a detransitioned woman; 5.5 years on T and post double mastectomy. i still believe medical transition does help some ADULTS, though. look at people like buck angel. he’s not just existing or living, he’s thriving 30 years post starting his medical transition.
Sue for what? These people have fought like hell to make the medical community do what they want. Remember, they will die without it. She needs to move on and doesn't deserve anything.
You can't escape the consequences of ruining your own body/biology... thanks for speaking hopefully more people will hear your experience especially those who are thinking of transitioning
Thanks for being so open and honest in posting this YT video. I know it takes a brave person to share this. I personally think you did the right thing. 💕
You know Elliot Paige grew up her entire life being told how beautiful and feminine he was. This caused him great distress actually. It was one of the most traumatizing things to him, but his acting career depended in it. You don't really care though how people feel actually feel inside. Only the behavior of the organism matters. This organism looks to me like a beautiful feminine lady, please hit it with a switch until it performs its role. For millenia people like Eliot Paige would eventually be found having jumped out of the window of the palace in which the prince raped him. How sad, I'll write a sonnet to the memory of my ladies beauty, how I stared at them titties. These days, he just chopped them off, nothing to stare at any more. OP is still intersex BTW and when you really about what an attractive beautiful woman she is, it causes her distress. Again, you don't care.
Thank you for being so courageous and sharing your experience with the world! God bless your work to save many young people from experiencing this same trauma!
I don’t mean to make light of what she has gone/put herself through, but I can’t imagine being so clueless as to think that taking huge amounts of testosterone would not adversely affect one’s singing voice. Isn’t she aware of the existence of boys’ choirs, where once the voice starts changing, the boy is all done? Or how, in the past, some boy singers were castrated to preserve their high voice, by suppressing natural testosterone? For certain, a person who can’t think this out should not be able to allow themselves to be mutilated in such a way.
Thank you for your bravery and telling the truth this is what everyone needs to hear regardless Keep going it seems to me that you’re turning into quite a beautiful woman Life is full of difficult things and just because people want something to be true does not make it true As a society we learned this with various kinds of people religious people criminals politicians seems like we’re learning this for science medical people now
@@michaelsmith5430 maturing isn’t age dependent. The phase and stage come from decisions which practically change who you are. Kind of like how some stimuli change gene expression within your dna and epigenetics, cold vs heat, surplus food vs fasting, etc.
When I was young I loved playing with my brother with Army men and Cowboys and Indians. My Dad bought my brother and I hockey sticks for Christmas and I was always playing sports with all the boys. Many times I said I wished I was a boy and my Mother and Father asked me why? I said because boys have more going for them than girls and can be airplane pilots. My Dad looked at me and said, Cathie you can be a pilot or whatever a man can do you can do. Then he said, I don't want to lose my little girl. I was very happy to hear him say that and then when puberty hit very late for me at 15 years old, I was happy to be a girl and started looking at boys differently 😋.
So happy you were able to "come back" before it was too late! Thank you for sharing your story! May God continue to bless you and know you are loved!!!
Keep,sharing your TESTIMONY. This will help prevent other young people who need to REFRAIN from making such a tragic journey. This story will eventually help,someone else WHO don’t know the entire situation that occurs. Thanks for sharing your experience and health issues you have now.
This happened to me as a result of taking a medication for a seizure disorder. I have an endocrine disorder as a result of a side effect from this medication, this resulted in the destruction of my singing voice. It was a devastating experience to go through because it was the only thing that made me feel good about myself.
Singing voice is totally different from speaking voice. With the right technique you can get it back but it's a long road. A friend of mine had her voice ruined during vocal chord polyp surgery but within two years after finding a great teacher that taught her to project properly she is better than ever. Your hormonal balance will return too.
My mums 84yrs old was the only girl in a farming community when dances came up mum was in demand when the cricket team was one short mum was called in to play. When cows were to be milked off mum went with her brother, when the cooking was to be done mum was there too. But never ever ever did mum lose that sight of being a female, sister, daughter or plain ole Betty. Needless to say mum never married any of those childhood boy "friend's" but rathet went on in life married had 2 daughter's and you know we all are female... l gotta wonder how we never drove dad mad...
God bless you. My son is on hormones, and he's 24. I don't know what to do except pray. It's very difficult to convince him, especially with a mother who condones this. Any advice would be great.
Jordan Peterson podcasts Matt Walsh you tube. Let him know about autogynaphilia. Ask him questions that ridicule this ideology ie how will you breast feed. His mother is afraid he will kill himself. I hope the best for you stay strong
Girl so happy for you! You look absolutely beautiful just the way you were made love! You gorgeous in your natural body. TY for speaking up, for those too ashamed to admit they may have gone too far.
Good for you to have realized these before it's too late. You saved yourself a lifetime of pain. Unfortunately, a lot of people aren't as smart realizing this.
You are very brave to come out and try to help some others who may have been in your position so thank you and I wish you the best of luck and the rest of your life❤
Don't they teach at middle school about secondary puberal carachteristics in males and females anymore? Becides, didn't we all witness growing up voice changes in guys, teased them about it and some even made us shed tears how funny they were!?! I cann't belive she went on testosterone without minimally questioning how would it impact her singing voice!
She’s so beautiful. I’m glad that she found her way back to herself. It’s sad that self doubt and confusion took her singing voice from her. Hopefully, others will learn from it, though.
This video pretty much sums up the whole problem with the transgender and gender ideolegy. You put into words the big issues and the truth. Thank you for sharing this!
You are beautiful. Keep spreading the word. Your story is a blessing to help those who may not even know they need it. So glad to see you are embracing your womanhood. ❤
What a beautiful young woman you are! I pray your difficulties fade away either naturally or with the right guidance. Thank you for sharing your story to help others.
you are an amazing woman, what a journey of discovery into yourself you have had. Well done for being mindful, thoughtful, sensitive to yourself and others and your courage to be who you are.
I love how you share your story even though it is muted a lot of times, as a part of lgbtq+ I think we really need people to learn of your story and get better educated before making life changing decisions.
Thank you so much for sharing this!!!! You are so beautiful, inside and out. This has been tough, but your honesty, with yourself and others, has made you whole again. You will probably save so many lives. ❤
I first ran across Jazz last week when a detrans article with a video clip that came my way. He's better off detransitioning and fast! His mental health is very very fragile. Prayers 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad you saved yourself from the horrible future you were headed for. ❤ I hope you have a beautiful and bright further ahead of you.
Being uncomfortable in one's body is very common. How in the hell are medical professionals giving permission for mastectomy over the phone to a person they never laid eyes on!
I was a tomboy growing up. My older brother and his friends were close in age to me (about 2-2 1/2 years apart) and I got into their hobbies. I played video games, watched “boy cartoons”, and played basketball and baseball with them. I didn’t start doing more girly things until I started going through puberty. I became more concerned with my personal hygiene and what clothes I wore. My parents were never concerned about my gender. I knew who I was. I was a girl who didn’t like being put into a box. Nowadays, I’m a mix of feminine and masculine. I enjoy playing video games and styling my hair. One thing I will never do, though, is makeup. It makes me itch. I’m sad that this woman was fed a dangerous lie. At least she was able to go back, for the most part. I’ve heard of many who aren’t that fortunate and self-delete due to the crippling depression.
Maybe it is "politically incorrect" 🙃, but I wanted to say that as a female you look real and highly attractive. However, there was something really sickly and distorted in your "male image". Femininity is just oozing through your eyes and the movements of your body and especially your SMILE! I am so glad that you would be able to share the gift of your smile with everyone around you. I had doubts about my gender when I was young, which instilled fear and confusion in me. Fortunately, when I was about 30, I participated in a tantra retreat and during meditation I was finally able to come in a deep intimate contact with my femininity, not artifical restrictive femininity defined by society but real mystical femininity beyond description… while not negating male energy within me as well. All of us have both, male and female, energies. These energies are not fighting, not forcing you to choose one at the exclusion of the other. No. They harmoniously play together a divine music in whatever body you’ve got. God bless you ❣
I’m so glad you cancelled your top surgery and well done for speaking out!, You are very brave!!. We need more people like you to speak out. The doctors need to meet people before prescribing anything!. Xx
Most eye opening video on the subject I've seen. Well said. I am sorry for your struggles, but I am glad you are figuring out who you are without having done irreversible damage to yourself.
My daughter had hair on her lip, we tried several things, she was very upset. I thought this is a hormone thing, doctor did not test her levels, just wrote out a blocker. This did not click what he was doing. My daughter got very depressed and acted very out of character. I wish I could take that appointment back.
love your shirt! Thank you for sharing this important story, Cat. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this because of lying people. Bless you in your continued journey and your singing.
We have a fork in the road. A CHOICE. Let's choose to go down the path of unimaginable self-destruction and suffering because their bodies are not perfect. A vulnerable is adult or child with high traits of Autism, obsessive compulsive disorder, anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, and mental illnesses galore , while adding on medications, substances abuse and misuse. The solution is desired perfection because of their dysphoria bodies are having irreversible surgeries that turn them into lifelong patients, that dependent upon chronic uses of cross sex hormones, puberty blockers, and mutilating surgeries. Sane people will never choose this life of dystopia and delusions. You can't treat mental delusions with physical delusions. THERE IS NO CURE FOR DISCONNECTION BETWEEN THE BODY NOT MATCHING THE MIND
Bless you - you have been through hell and high water. And you look very like my niece who is currently going through mental obstacles. She too is a very beautiful young lady. I will remember you in my prayers, along with my relative. ❤️
What if every awkward teen or early adolescent started to question sex-identity? Awkwardness would involve most of them. They need to hear the word "no" from the medical community especially. "No" can be a very comforting word.
What people don't understand is sex hormones are not only about sex. They have a ton of other functions in the body. I can not wrap my head around how medical professionals direct people to 'transition' when transitioning means a life time of hormone supplements which could wreak havoc with your body.
Medical professionals are the ones who profit from creating lifelong patients.
Opposite sex hormones all cause cancer! Yes they are very dangerous!
Planned Parenthood needs to be sued!
It sounds like the drugs Planned Parenthood was prescribing her, made her kidneys to start to shut down. Sue Sue Sue!
Any decent Doctor should have sent her immediately to an ethical licensed psychiatrist and had her first extensively treated for Depression and anxiety with proper anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medication, and also psychotherapy using cognitive psychotherapy. CHANGING SOMEBODIES GENDER IS IMPOSSIBLE AND IT IS UNETHICAL MUTILATION OF ANY HUMAN BEING. THE OPPOSITE-SEX HORMONES ALL CAUSE CANCER! I HOPE THIS YOUNG WOMAN SUES THE CRAP OUT OF ALL OF HER DOCTORS AND PLANNED PARENTHOOD FOR GIVING HER HARMFUL AND DANGEROUS ADVICE TO TO MUTILATE HERSELF IN AN EFFORT TO TRY TO CHANGE THE WAY GOD CREATED HER AT BIRTH!
Cat, you are very very very fortunate that you were able to stop the testosterone and that you didn’t suffer irreversible damage. I watch a lot of detransitioner videos because I want to understand what’s going on w/ this tormented generation. The one common-thread statement is always the same: “I had mental health issues.”
While this is a sad story, you should also acknowledge the fact that 99% of people that transition are happy. Focusing on the few sad stories to discriminate against 99% of the trans population is dishonest and sad. And it's what all the commenters here are doing.
So accurate, in the observations that the “previous mental health issues” is consistent with the overall group. There is a root cause that isn’t being addressed and hormones are just being handed out so freely. Hopefully these adults can find their way to true healing.
@@karybakk There shoul`ve never be no doctor who has been educated to cut off body parts from healthy bodies, nor a doctor who is been titled “gender doctor”. (sounds like doctors gone mad and sharing their madness to their paisents)
Gender is not an illness, which is need to be fixed.
GOD created everyone perfectly.
Males with all which they need
and
Females with all which they need.
Teenage era, puberty? What is it? - transformation from child to an ADULT.
Gender dysphoria ? What is it? - a lie, a try to go against THE WORD OF GOD, stating that hating ones body is normal.
Lets remind what GOD says:
Ephesians 5:29
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
Trans surgery scars - scars which never should've been on a human bodies, be they young or old.
Gender - affirming Care - care which never should took place.
We are not creators, we are creation, meaning we cannot create, we can only use which is already been made.
Like lucifer, fallen angel, couldn`t create a mankind which he so badly wanted, for he too is a creation not a creator therefore can only use what`s been made.
Did he got his wish, to have his own mankind? - yes, the giants and hybrid creatures + now the deceived human souls, who like they believed the trans lie and transformed themselves into their illusions, the same with the another lie from lucifer, through which he “promise” to give the “everlasting life” = humans mixing with machines, becoming robots = worst fate found, cause true, they stopped ageing and dying, but the wish and desire to die shall be there.
Everlasting life in which souls wish to die and desire to die everlastingly - where`s the life then? As it sound and seem to be a forced on existence.
@@marchamel8612 what percentage of the 99% of happy transitioners have NO medical complications whatsoever?
The 99% are Not 'happy'. They weren't happy to begin with., that's why they seek change and affirmation and then instead of a community of compassion and real acceptance, they are told that they are correct to hate their bodies (affirming that they're not good enough the way they are) and altering physiologically will bring them the peace and wholeness and clarity and acceptance they need and crave. It's a lie. The 99% who aren't speaking out (yet) are just as this woman said, they're afraid to offend or 'harm' the trans community. And most are more unhappy than they were before and have now made irreversible damage and the beloved trans ppl they were clinging to reject them for speaking out about their real problems. Very evil. Very sad situation
“I didn’t want to speak out to not harm the trans community” isn’t that a sign how toxic all this has become? It’s not the society that produces all those victims, it’s the trans community itself that insists on this self sacrifice of all their victims.
Yes 😢
The truth harms, those who are doing evil and wrong
Yen just as , if I do not want to date a trans woman I am called names???? Do people understand what the fu… is happening here ??Just the same if a women refused a trans man ! They made that choice for themselves “ live with it! Stop harassing biology!
Agreed
I'd say the trans activists,not the trans community at large
When I was a little girl I hated being a girl. I'm so thankful now that there was no such thing as transitioning because I finally accepted what I am. I have been blessed with 4 kids and a wonderful husband.
So weird. In western society, everyone and I mean literally everyone, from the medical community, media to the general public. All accept that being male is a disadvantage. Male sexuality, physiology and biology are completely degraded in society. Some outright refer to males as being biologically inferior to women. So its weird that any female would want to become male, given all of the so called disadvantages it brings in society. They tell you that being female is everything and the greatest. Thus a reason why many boys hate themselves and their existence a d want to “transition” into a female
That's wonderful. Good for you.
I envied boys for various reasons, didn't really like the girly things (even some so-called feminine behavior such as drama), did lots of "boy" things. But when hormones hit, I figured out I was a REAL woman...😉😉😊
I was the same . A Tom boy. I hated dresses, skirts. I wore my brothers clothes whenever they weren’t around . I’m blessed with four boys and embrace the body God has given me . :-)
Good, I'm happy for you. Not all people have the same experience as you though, and you should acknowledge that.
This is so messed up! It's almost impossible to receive pain medication for chronic pain but they'll give a child hormones with just a phone call!
Yep
Addict spotted
@@clownworld3913 Try a day living with chronic pain
It is NOT possible. Stop believing in such lies.
Its impossible to receive pain medication because too many people started to link the afganistan war with the Opium epidemic, and "they" freaked out and cut everyone off.
“It is going to be a huge scandal and we are going to have a lot of regretful young people.” You said it best, Cat. Thank you for speaking out! You are brave to have made the decisions you’ve made for yourself and to help others. Love you!!!
Trans activism is the most dangerous, toxic ideology today. Thank you for speaking out, Cat. You have the support and love of this Conservative Christian, and our community. You also have the support and love of many of the LGBTQ community who are speaking out against this insanity. May you continue to live a life and spread your Truth and joy.
Yes, people don't understand that it's a demonic agenda. It truly is.
Id like to know where the feminist groups are as all women spaces are being occupied by BIOLOGICAL MEN!! Its like some kind of sneak attack on women when they weren't looking.
@@chadkbrignall22 the feminist groups are often complicit in promoting this nonsense.
@@chadkbrignall22 Omg! Sooooo well said! You see the trans biological men have made it so intimidating and gaslit everyone, including politicians and law makers, into accepting the concept with laws attached, that people are afraid of being labelled 'transphobic'. But people are waking up from this wichcraft and starting to speak out on this truly Evil notion.
@@bethcoddington2150 sadly I know! I listen recently to @JenniferBilek a feminist from the old school. She lays out this whole thing around transsexualism and when they started to normalize a males fetish.
I listened to an interview with a hormone specialist, who said that of all the young people who wanted to transition that he's had as clients, every one of them had a hormonal imbalance. Once it was brought under control, there was no more gender dysphoria. He was appalled that not one of the many transitioners have ever been tested for hormonal imbalance.
Where does a parent even find the proper expert to test that?
Would you have the link to that interview?
I've become aware of phytoestrogens and other synthetic hormones affecting kids through environmental toxicity.
@@singingwayask for a referral for endocrinologist
I had my daughters OB/GYN check her hormones and she could no longer tell me she was a boy of any kind.The end, period...pun intended.😂😂
The web is extremely dangerous for kids. Parents should seriously, seriously monitor them.
It is not just the web! The grooming is starting in grade school and continues throughout college! My husband went back to college full time 4 years ago at a very popular Florida University. His first week there he was sent an email stating "students should consider dating people the same gender." GROOMING is so much a part of this hysteria.
@@jsanders9311he should have replied to that email with "who the students decided to date is none of your business", even if it's an automated email.
If they did, the elite would go uungry.
You are such a beautiful lady, and these days women can express their male side without transitioning anything. I was always a "tomboy" but when I became a mother I felt very different about being in a female body. It was such a profound experience to be a mother.
Just to be yourself, have adventures, and express what you feel you are, no surgery or chemical necessary. Love who you are!!
Not male side, but masculine
No such thing as a "male side" or "masculine side" in a woman 😂you idiots are a part of the problem.
tiktok is such a plague
Owned by the CCP.
Yes. It's a mind twist. Pure evil with the occasional innocent video.
Oh the things that happen in & come out of China.
I’m glad she’s sharing her story. This could save others from this madness.
YOU GO GIRL, thank god she came to her senses and stopped the madness!
You said it, 'thank GOD'. 🙏🏾
God
You are beautiful just the way you are
You are so pretty, eyes and face most girls would love to have
And good hair too😮😊
With all due respect, God is spelled with a capital G. God bless you 🙏
I wish my son had realized it was a mistake, which he still hasn't before he took estrogen and made himself sterile. He is my only child. I honestly believe Planned Parenthood is evil! Thank you for telling your story. Gives me hope for my son!
For some people transitioning isn't a mistake. You misgendering her now isn't going to help even if she ends up regretting later. She will just remember you as an unsupportive parent unless you start using the words she prefers. If you don't support transition, why would you support detransition either? Children deserve unconditional love even if they make mistakes.
@@helmiinahii this is a permanent change you are talking about. And yes, CHILDREN should be supported by parents and helping them with shoe choices. But NOT with gender! They have to be adults to make it for themselves! Only adults should be allowed to make this change!
I feel the opposite. They misgender themselves. How horrible to not be able to accept your own body. And going along with it doesn't help them get back what were perfectly healthy parts of their bodies or their fertility or any other damage caused to them.
@@gala518 Just to make sure, I don't support medical interventions to people who are under 18 years old. I was talking mainly about adult children, I assumed OP's child is older because they could get the hormones without parental approval.
@@helmiinahii that is a current issue that some states want to allow kids to gets it without parental consent before they are 18:(
This takes guts, I guarantee there is atleast 1 girl you saved from regret,
You lost your singing voice but found your true voice…. ❤
As a girl we can be tomboy and as a boy we can be feminin too. That's okay as long as you accept the reality we don't need to change our indentity
Have you heard the expression "trans the gay away"?
Usually the problem starts with the environment which makes homophobic remarks and when that feminine boy realizes he's attracted to the same sex they quickly find transitioning a possible escape from the homophobic environment. The "I was born into the wrong body" seems to be more acceptable than homosexuality. The problem is created by the environment. Not by the individual.
This is why I see the trans thing as 1. homophobic and 2. misogynistic. MOST of those dysphoria kids would grow up to be GAY. Somehow, they think gay is not OK.
Yes. People should be able to present themselves however they want. If you’re a man and you want to wear a pink dress, you should be able to without having to say you’re trans. We need more tolerance.
@@ALT-vz3jn People definitely need to have more tolerance. On the other hand wearing a dress is one thing but demanding to be accepted as a woman is a problem, imo.
My biggest fights with my mother even in to my late 30s was because I wasn't the lady she wanted me to be. She had a view I didn't want and talked over me when I tried to talk to her. Since, I'm just happy as I am. A girl who's not girly girl but a person happy with myself regardless ❤❤❤
We also did not affirm our child and she never made it to medical transition. Thank you for this clip. I am so relieved you did what was right for you.
Thankyou for not physically abusing your child like leftists want you to
So many of these women who attempted to "transition" say they didn't feel feminine. But you look at them and see they are the epitome of female beauty and finesse.
Yes, and how does one feel feminine? I am a woman of 65 years old and I honestly can't tell you.
Because we are told being feminine is what you see online, and what you see online is very much photoshopped and filtered and no one can be like that in real life. We are being bombarded with fake pretty pictures and videos. Same goes for masculine I suppose. God I am so grateful for being old enough to not f***ing care. Because I would have fallen for that if it had existed in my teenage years.
@@ankavoskuilen1725 that is so true! I’m just me and I don’t know how to be anything else. 😊
Side effect of the impossible beauty/life standards for women today. If I was a below average female I would also feel like I probably have better chances of success if I became a man. Not pretty enough for men, or success in life, might as well compete with them instead of being tossed aside.
I don’t see extremely naturally beautiful people suffering from transgenderism from either sex. I think that’s very telling. The grasp beauty holds on society is bigger than people think, and it’s ramifications.
@@PossibleBat I agree, although people reach their physical peak in their 20s and 30s. But the gender insecurities hit in the teenager years. So, most boys and girls don't even have a chance to reach the extremely beautiful phase before they mutilate themselves. And this is part of the reason why this ideology is grotesquely vicious.
Wow, I'm so glad she was able to stop before any major damage was done. She is a beautiful woman.
The whole thing is nothing but a belief system, a sect, a cult. Once you get into it, its hard to get out. Bless the courageous detransitioners who tell their stories! I wish you the best.
Worse than Scientology
It's the most violent and dangerous cult on Earth
I (a girl) grew up in the 90s and vividly remember agonizing over wanting to wear dresses and play dolls with my friends and wanting to wear jeans and play hard with my brothers. Thank God I had reasonable parents who told me both desires were good and right and a part of me. They weren't "girl" desires and "boy" desires back then, they were MY desires: the wants of a whole, complex human being who was and is and always will be a girl.
Thank you, Cat, for trying to make that experience possible for all little girls and little boys who need a help being comfortable with who they are. ♥
Misogyny has a lot to answer for. 😡
planned parenthood is the worst. No matter your beliefs, they just do so many horrible things.
GeorgeSoros funds planned parenthood + Amnesty International and both have taken all women’s descriptors off their sites. Amnesty admits single sex toilets & spaces are VIP in 3rd World nations but not in the west.
They should never prescribed hormones after a 30 minute phone call that's just crazy.
They need sued into oblivion
even more ridiculous is that they dont even "plan parenthood" :/ when i got pregnant i called cuz i thought thats what they specialized in and they said "we dont do that" bruh.
@@alexspies-pronouncedspeez they plan murder, plain and simple
You dodged a huge bullet! I'm glad you're back!!!
Peace and love to you, Cat. Thank you for sharing your story.
All teenagers go through this questioning about their sexuality, it’s part of our human development. I experienced it but did not dwell on those. I’m now a happy mother and wife.
That’s not true! I never questioned being a female!
These stories are heartbreaking 💔 the grooming is happening via social media. It's intentional and cruel
It's a cult with the majority of key players being groomers to normalize pedophilia
It does seem like powerhungry, mean and evil scheming egomaniacs are behind this, masquerading as benign helpers.
It is not just the web! The grooming is starting in grade school and continues throughout college. My husband went back to college full time 4 years ago at a very popular Florida University. His first week there he was sent an email stating "students should consider dating people the same gender." GROOMING is so much a part of this hysteria.
Tumblr and Tiktok are mostly to blame for this
CONGRATULATIONS!!! It's absolutely wonderful that you found yourself!!! I've no idea what a "counterfeit male" would have sounded...or looked like... but the "true you"...looks and sounds lovely.💖 I'm sorry... that as a young person you didn't feel you could find help for "teenage awkwardness"...anywhere other than with a group of people that think it's okay to mutilate children...Shame on PlannedParenthood...for thinking God makes mistakes!
Welcome back Young Lady💞💕💞
When she was talking about having no energy without sex hormones, I thought "Wait until she hits menopause". She'll get to experience that again. I got terrible symptoms with menopause & it took me 3 doctors & 10 months to get estrogen. I should've just called planned parenthood & told them I was a guy transitioning.
Thought the same thing
You could have done that since apparently they ask no questions.
Lol my thoughts too.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. I remember when my mother was going through perimenopause, it was at the time when they were taking away everyone’s hormones because of the flawed study. Her hot flashes were so bad she would bring a change of clothes to work every day.
When I got into that zone I told my obgyn give me all the hormones - I don’t give a F if I don’t live as long, I’d rather have a better quality of life than a longer life. He laughed and agreed. I had to fire my previous obgyn as she argued with me that I wasn’t in peri (I was 49, geez lady maybe you need to go back to med school) and wanted to take out my uterus (which wasn’t the problem, my hormones were the problem). Most doctors have no idea what they’re doing.
@@ALT-vz3jn It doesn't have to be like that. Many women in my circle of friends (including myself) have sailed through this transition. It can be a bumpy ride, it is called the second puberty for a reason. But with adaptogens, exercise, and liver detoxification, things can go relatively smoothly. 🙂
Will you please file a class action lawsuits against Planned Parenthood
YOU ARE SUCH A PRETTY WOMAN ! IM SO GLAD YOU STOPPED AND DID NOTHING MORE DISFIGURING !! GLAD YOU ARE GETTING YOUR LIFE BACK !!
GOD. BLESS YOU !!
I was born in the late 60’s and was such a tomboy in every way!! I’m so glad this movement wasn’t going on then. Being a tomboy only added to who I am as I grew into womanhood. I appreciate my femininity and am a mother and grandmother today. This attack against our children needs to stop!!
Tomboy is a misogynistic word as it assumes the female is taking on INHERENT MALE qualities when in fact those qualities are not sex specific.
@@obscurum6 You’re right about that. It was just the word applied as a descriptor. I recall just loving 🥰 life and still do!!
@@laurietillman4362
Even so using it is wrong. You wouldn't use the N word even as a "descriptor". Women should get the same respect as racial groups.
@@obscurum6 Thanks for your opinion. Enjoy your day.
@@obscurum6 Oh for crying out loud. Get a life. People like you are part of the problem with ridiculous name calling.
This took great courage Cat. Even though it doesn't occur to all people, questioning sexuality and who one perceives themselves to be is absolutely normal! Its part of the human experience. Current hype and push to move folks who DO question into gender reassignment is intense, a social pressure-cooker and even reckless. It can make one feel that's the only way to go. Even well meaning folks need to take a look deeper into these approaches. Im sorry you had to go through so much Cat, but you persevered and followed your gut intelligence out. I so applaud you for sharing your story and helping others see that there are 2 sides to the narrative.
it is absolutely NOT partof normal human experience. It is top down culture pushed upon us.
Follow the money until you find
the EVIL root of “cultural push”
@@goyim6866 perhaps not your experience and that is fine. But there is nothing wrong with questioning who one is inclined to be attracted to in life, in the body one is born. That is Aok for some folks. BUT, the push to permanently alter the body BEFORE one has lived to be an adult is exceptionally cruel destructive/damaging/unnecessary. Forcing doubt and confusion on children in schools & from those in the LGBT community who are zealously buying into this new societal programming is harming bodily sovereignty, self confidence. No doubt, teens especially too!
I met you in SF at a KJK Meetup Event. This is SO honest and powerful! So glad you are back to your true femininity!
Thank you for sharing your story, and congratulations on finding your way. Wishing you all good things.
Cat, you are a very lovely and beautiful person. I am happy you found your way. I used to be a nurse and happen to work on transgender ward for 6 months. Then I had to leave because I couldn't cope with these young people destroying their bodies with all the surgeries.
I wish you all the best.
Maybe you will share your experiences, thoughts, feelings about being a nurse in a Trans Ward?
@@ShirleyAnnPetrillo-oj7sc All this is 26 years ago. I remember one incident very clearly because in that moment , I knew that I had to leave that ward. The doctor wanted to change the bandages of a female patient's vagina ( former male patient whose penis was re-operated into a vagina) and my job was just to hold her hand and comfort her as good as possible.
The process was very very painful and the patient was crying and all I thought was "why the hell have you done this to your body and to yourself?" And I noticed that I had not enough understanding for transgender patients and I couldn't understand how young people destroy a healthy body. It just didn't feel right to me.
I feel sorry for the caring medical and nursing staff being forced to destroy healthy tissue
@@mariadejucilene7659 we are not being forced
In years to come they will be so many detranstioners able to speak up against this cult I wish you well on your way back to being a woman ..
She was always a woman, no need to come back. :)
The other major issue we have is that people are diagnosing themselves or diagnosing others.
Also, the word trans has been so diluted and confused because people who claim to be non binary and a host of other nonsensical genders keep using the word "trans." No wonder so many teenagers are getting confused and regretting their decisions.
I mean, people are now being told they are trans for the most ridiculous reasons. For example, there are girls or women who don't like super girly things, it was called being a tomboy when I was growing up and was seen as a normal thing, but now to this gender ideology, they are trans and should transition to a boy.
I find it ironic that they use stereotypes to tell others they are trans, and that is why so many teenagers are saying they are trans when in reality they are just teenagers who don't know who they are and that not wanting to wear a dress does not men you are a boy. But so many get caught in the ideology and have videos making it look like transitioning solved all their problems.
There is a reason why being trans used to be very rare, especially in kids, and now we have entire friend groups and classes, all claiming to be trans or non binary and all these weird pronouns, because they are influenced by these activists, and I feel bad for those who are genuinely trans having their identity dragged through the mud because their term has been hijacked by the gender ideology crowd.
What's worse, there is a crowd starting to form where they now want MAPS to be accepted as an orientation (MAP stands for minor attracted person) and we are also seeing many men claiming to be women who have been convicted with a crime of forcing themselves on women who demand access to women's locker rooms and bathrooms.. again something people said could start and yes this is in the minority, but unfortunately these men are taking advantage of this gender ideology, and personally they should never be allowed, even if they were actually trans, they commit the crime so should never be given access.
Thank you! I think that most people on this video don’t understand that there are actually trans people, and even if she isn’t trans (i’m glad that she figured out what was best for her) there are actually tans people out there that are valid.
This is a powerful message!!
The world needs to hear this!!
Peace and blessings to you
Thanks for sharing
How about I affirm you as a human being? Your struggles, mistakes, confusion are all human. Your courage to do what was right, to turn things around, to face the reality was also human. So glad you’re here among us!
Such a beautiful woman! I'm glad she found herself again 🙏🏿
i’m also a detransitioned woman; 5.5 years on T and post double mastectomy. i still believe medical transition does help some ADULTS, though. look at people like buck angel. he’s not just existing or living, he’s thriving 30 years post starting his medical transition.
You should sue the doctors that approved surgery n testosterone over a phone call follow the money trail
Sue for what? These people have fought like hell to make the medical community do what they want. Remember, they will die without it. She needs to move on and doesn't deserve anything.
Thank you for speaking up! Everyone needs to hear every word you said!
5 months and only 12000 views! This video is a must watch for naïve kids who consider transitioning.
Am sure big brother is suppressing the video
@@ekwyije1986 Algorithm is at their service.
It's now 8 months and there are over 244,000 views so hopefully her story is getting thru
You can't escape the consequences of ruining your own body/biology... thanks for speaking hopefully more people will hear your experience especially those who are thinking of transitioning
Thanks for being so open and honest in posting this YT video. I know it takes a brave person to share this. I personally think you did the right thing. 💕
You are an adorably beautiful and wise young woman! What a journey you have been on. Happy to see you and your parents are still friends. God Bless!
This is amazing because you’re such a beautiful woman
I feel bad for our daughters this is terrible
You know Elliot Paige grew up her entire life being told how beautiful and feminine he was. This caused him great distress actually. It was one of the most traumatizing things to him, but his acting career depended in it. You don't really care though how people feel actually feel inside. Only the behavior of the organism matters. This organism looks to me like a beautiful feminine lady, please hit it with a switch until it performs its role.
For millenia people like Eliot Paige would eventually be found having jumped out of the window of the palace in which the prince raped him. How sad, I'll write a sonnet to the memory of my ladies beauty, how I stared at them titties. These days, he just chopped them off, nothing to stare at any more.
OP is still intersex BTW and when you really about what an attractive beautiful woman she is, it causes her distress. Again, you don't care.
Sometimes, it is self loathing. It doesn't matter if someone is really attractive. The person sees themselves as ugly.
@@joinjen3854 like anorexia seeing themselves as obese?
We nay beed to bring back foundation garments
0:45 "You can never FULLY change sex". Actually, you can't change it even partly.
Thank you for speaking up about this!!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Please keep telling what you have gone through.
I’m sure you have already helped someone else ❤️🇨🇦
Thank you for being so courageous and sharing your experience with the world! God bless your work to save many young people from experiencing this same trauma!
Cat, please keep telling your story! Don’t ever stop. For the safety of all women. Thank you❤
Wow, her doctor dismissed her request for a low dose, and didn't tell her what to expect. How is that legal? And don't all drugs come with warnings?!
I don’t mean to make light of what she has gone/put herself through, but I can’t imagine being so clueless as to think that taking huge amounts of testosterone would not adversely affect one’s singing voice. Isn’t she aware of the existence of boys’ choirs, where once the voice starts changing, the boy is all done? Or how, in the past, some boy singers were castrated to preserve their high voice, by suppressing natural testosterone? For certain, a person who can’t think this out should not be able to allow themselves to be mutilated in such a way.
Thank you for your bravery and telling the truth
this is what everyone needs to hear regardless
Keep going it seems to me that you’re turning into quite a beautiful woman
Life is full of difficult things and just because people want something to be true does not make it true
As a society we learned this with various kinds of people religious people criminals politicians seems like we’re learning this for science medical people now
She's 28, she's well past young adulthood.
@@michaelsmith5430 maturing isn’t age dependent. The phase and stage come from decisions which practically change who you are. Kind of like how some stimuli change gene expression within your dna and epigenetics, cold vs heat, surplus food vs fasting, etc.
Yeah, In her case it just seems to be the case of a person who doesn't want to take responsibility. People regret all kinds of surgeries.
@@MalolaAnime to live is to regret -Kierkegaard.
@@MalolaAnime Yes, ALL surgeries are alike, nutjob.🙄 If all else fails, blame the victim. You're so loving, inclusive and tolerant!🤡
When I was young I loved playing with my brother with Army men and Cowboys and Indians. My Dad bought my brother and I hockey sticks for Christmas and I was always playing sports with all the boys. Many times I said I wished I was a boy and my Mother and Father asked me why? I said because boys have more going for them than girls and can be airplane pilots. My Dad looked at me and said, Cathie you can be a pilot or whatever a man can do you can do. Then he said, I don't want to lose my little girl. I was very happy to hear him say that and then when puberty hit very late for me at 15 years old, I was happy to be a girl and started looking at boys differently 😋.
Chile...I'm glad that you have found yourself...and approve of WHO you've found. Be Well!!
So happy you were able to "come back" before it was too late! Thank you for sharing your story! May God continue to bless you and know you are loved!!!
Keep,sharing your TESTIMONY. This will help prevent other young people who need to REFRAIN from making such a tragic journey. This story will eventually help,someone else WHO don’t know the entire situation that occurs. Thanks for sharing your experience and health issues you have now.
This happened to me as a result of taking a medication for a seizure disorder. I have an endocrine disorder as a result of a side effect from this medication, this resulted in the destruction of my singing voice. It was a devastating experience to go through because it was the only thing that made me feel good about myself.
Singing voice is totally different from speaking voice. With the right technique you can get it back but it's a long road. A friend of mine had her voice ruined during vocal chord polyp surgery but within two years after finding a great teacher that taught her to project properly she is better than ever. Your hormonal balance will return too.
Praise the Lord you didn’t go through with it all. You are beautiful and know the truth. Thank you for sharing it!
My mums 84yrs old was the only girl in a farming community when dances came up mum was in demand when the cricket team was one short mum was called in to play. When cows were to be milked off mum went with her brother, when the cooking was to be done mum was there too. But never ever ever did mum lose that sight of being a female, sister, daughter or plain ole Betty. Needless to say mum never married any of those childhood boy "friend's" but rathet went on in life married had 2 daughter's and you know we all are female... l gotta wonder how we never drove dad mad...
God bless you. My son is on hormones, and he's 24. I don't know what to do except pray. It's very difficult to convince him, especially with a mother who condones this. Any advice would be great.
Let him Jazz Jennings TLC reality show.
I'm so sorry. This is a horrific cult that is damaging so many young people and children. Pray for your son, ask God for wisdom.
Pray pray pray to Jesus Jesus because he is the way and the light
Jordan Peterson podcasts Matt Walsh you tube. Let him know about autogynaphilia. Ask him questions that ridicule this ideology ie how will you breast feed. His mother is afraid he will kill himself. I hope the best for you stay strong
@Polly Ester66 it seems to be the emerging thing that's coming forward in all of this.
Thanks for sharing your story 😊 glad to hear that you choose to be who you wanted to be 😊
Girl so happy for you! You look absolutely beautiful just the way you were made love! You gorgeous in your natural body. TY for speaking up, for those too ashamed to admit they may have gone too far.
Good for you to have realized these before it's too late. You saved yourself a lifetime of pain. Unfortunately, a lot of people aren't as smart realizing this.
Thank you for your honesty this is what we need. Keep hope alive❤️~
This is such an awesome video! You are so courageous and smart, Cat! Thank you for being a voice of truth, logic, and reason. God bless you!
You are very brave to come out and try to help some others who may have been in your position so thank you and I wish you the best of luck and the rest of your life❤
Don't they teach at middle school about secondary puberal carachteristics in males and females anymore? Becides, didn't we all witness growing up voice changes in guys, teased them about it and some even made us shed tears how funny they were!?! I cann't belive she went on testosterone without minimally questioning how would it impact her singing voice!
She’s so beautiful. I’m glad that she found her way back to herself. It’s sad that self doubt and confusion took her singing voice from her. Hopefully, others will learn from it, though.
This video pretty much sums up the whole problem with the transgender and gender ideolegy. You put into words the big issues and the truth. Thank you for sharing this!
I wish videos like this would go viral. More people need to see this beautiful woman and hear her story, and the many more stories like it.
Thank you for sharing your story. The joy shows in your face now. Lovely.
You are beautiful. Keep spreading the word. Your story is a blessing to help those who may not even know they need it. So glad to see you are embracing your womanhood. ❤
What a beautiful young woman you are! I pray your difficulties fade away either naturally or with the right guidance. Thank you for sharing your story to help others.
you are an amazing woman, what a journey of discovery into yourself you have had. Well done for being mindful, thoughtful, sensitive to yourself and others and your courage to be who you are.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know two young women I think this story can help. I am so grateful to you! God bless!
I love how you share your story even though it is muted a lot of times, as a part of lgbtq+ I think we really need people to learn of your story and get better educated before making life changing decisions.
Thank you so much for sharing this!!!! You are so beautiful, inside and out. This has been tough, but your honesty, with yourself and others, has made you whole again. You will probably save so many lives. ❤
I hope that Jazz Jennings sees this .
I first ran across Jazz last week when a detrans article with a video clip that came my way. He's better off detransitioning and fast! His mental health is very very fragile. Prayers 🙏
Never stop speaking out! This is such an important part of the issue. Thankyou so much for sharing your story
Thank you for sharing your story.
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They were essentially saying to her unless you come to our side, you will die.
Lovely 😞
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad you saved yourself from the horrible future you were headed for. ❤ I hope you have a beautiful and bright further ahead of you.
Being uncomfortable in one's body is very common. How in the hell are medical professionals giving permission for mastectomy over the phone to a person they never laid eyes on!
I was a tomboy growing up. My older brother and his friends were close in age to me (about 2-2 1/2 years apart) and I got into their hobbies. I played video games, watched “boy cartoons”, and played basketball and baseball with them. I didn’t start doing more girly things until I started going through puberty. I became more concerned with my personal hygiene and what clothes I wore. My parents were never concerned about my gender. I knew who I was. I was a girl who didn’t like being put into a box. Nowadays, I’m a mix of feminine and masculine. I enjoy playing video games and styling my hair. One thing I will never do, though, is makeup. It makes me itch. I’m sad that this woman was fed a dangerous lie. At least she was able to go back, for the most part. I’ve heard of many who aren’t that fortunate and self-delete due to the crippling depression.
Such a beautiful woman. I've never quite understood how others think but this lady is commendable. She will do a lot of good for humanity.
Maybe it is "politically incorrect" 🙃, but I wanted to say that as a female you look real and highly attractive. However, there was something really sickly and distorted in your "male image". Femininity is just oozing through your eyes and the movements of your body and especially your SMILE! I am so glad that you would be able to share the gift of your smile with everyone around you. I had doubts about my gender when I was young, which instilled fear and confusion in me. Fortunately, when I was about 30, I participated in a tantra retreat and during meditation I was finally able to come in a deep intimate contact with my femininity, not artifical restrictive femininity defined by society but real mystical femininity beyond description… while not negating male energy within me as well. All of us have both, male and female, energies. These energies are not fighting, not forcing you to choose one at the exclusion of the other. No. They harmoniously play together a divine music in whatever body you’ve got. God bless you ❣
I’m so glad you cancelled your top surgery and well done for speaking out!, You are very brave!!. We need more people like you to speak out. The doctors need to meet people before prescribing anything!. Xx
Most eye opening video on the subject I've seen. Well said. I am sorry for your struggles, but I am glad you are figuring out who you are without having done irreversible damage to yourself.
My daughter had hair on her lip, we tried several things, she was very upset. I thought this is a hormone thing, doctor did not test her levels, just wrote out a blocker. This did not click what he was doing. My daughter got very depressed and acted very out of character. I wish I could take that appointment back.
love your shirt! Thank you for sharing this important story, Cat. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this because of lying people. Bless you in your continued journey and your singing.
Thank you for speaking the truth.
We have a fork in the road. A CHOICE. Let's choose to go down the path of unimaginable self-destruction and suffering because their bodies are not perfect. A vulnerable is adult or child with high traits of Autism, obsessive compulsive disorder, anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, and mental illnesses galore , while adding on medications, substances abuse and misuse. The solution is desired perfection because of their dysphoria bodies are having irreversible surgeries that turn them into lifelong patients, that dependent upon chronic uses of cross sex hormones, puberty blockers, and mutilating surgeries. Sane people will never choose this life of dystopia and delusions. You can't treat mental delusions with physical delusions. THERE IS NO CURE FOR DISCONNECTION BETWEEN THE BODY NOT MATCHING THE MIND
Bless you - you have been through hell and high water. And you look very like my niece who is currently going through mental obstacles. She too is a very beautiful young lady. I will remember you in my prayers, along with my relative. ❤️
such a beautiful WOMAN ! Thank GOD she is free from this torment and is mentally well
What if every awkward teen or early adolescent started to question sex-identity? Awkwardness would involve most of them. They need to hear the word "no" from the medical community especially. "No" can be a very comforting word.