Did this last week. It was so liberating not to be in fight or flight mode anymore. My peace if mind has returned & I've been unpacking the last 12 & a half years & untangling the mess of feelings & thoughts I haven't been able to do anything with until I took the relationship out of our relationship. I've learned so much about myself, my worth & that I can't be more loyal to someone else than I am to myself. It's been great for me. I don't know where we will end up but I do know one thing, I'm not holding space for anyone who doesn't recognize /appreciate my worth. Anyone wanting access to me will have to show me they are worthy of that privilege. No more settling for less than I deserve
Yes, and realize your worth makes you not want him anymore, so he can have all the space he wants, and then find someone who WANT to get to know you and you’re history and your ways. Not playing games, but authentic connection, detaching from emotionally closed men is so freeing😎❤️
I’m feeling very anxious recently about my sp that has went silent for more than a week. I’ve no idea what happened and I’m juggling whether to reach out to him or give him space. I feel more relieved after I came across your video. All I need to do is shift back the focus onto myself.
You will find a better man.I too thought the world was so dark but,right now,I feel like whatever I’ve lost have come back all much better in one package.❤
@@fzm4115 for some people god is equal to the universe or the nature, cause it is the power of everything. People who believe in religion think that it is all about the human being 😂 it is about everything what surrounds us. The interaction of every living being with each other, not just human being 🤦 but ok, religious people will always think: human being is the center of everything 🙄🙄🙄 (how selfish and in love with yourself to think like that....)
Or… when you detach you finally see that you were the the absolutely wrong person for you! If you feel anxious & worry if he likes you: he’s not the man for you. If you’re having to go away with friends for him to pay attention, he’s not for you! You should always have friends & always have both your own as well as share activities but both of you should be secure with each other to have that. If he or you have to worry about how the other feels about them, if you’re both worrying either will cheat… do not be together at all. Be happy! A man that loves, will share himself emotionally with you & be open to you sharing yourself emotionally with him. No worries, no lies. Just peace & love ❤
I really appreciate this video. I had some anxiety about my relationship this week but knew that I had to do things differently this time around. The wisdom in this video reassured me that stepping back is necessary for my well-being, and his, and the life in the relationship. Thank you. I also like that these are read by a real person, not AI, and the beautiful artwork within.
Oh I get it if you don't care.They like you.... if you care they don't like you and get pushed away ...... I'm sorry but if i'm gonna Detach myself i'm moving on
I had to detact myself from someone that i loved because while i was giving him love, he kept hurting me and it was like hurting me brought him Joy. Detaching myself and healing i remembered who i was before losing my mom & miscarriage. I no longer had to concern myself with him and gave myself the love I was looking for from him, from my grief ®ained my confidence. When you Heal you learn that what you truly like and love and wont accept anything less from anyone.
🌸 I am just concentrating on myself Been hurt so much by same person, I gave up on them and just focusing on myself ❤ Only concentrating on my self growth, goals & future 🪔
I dont think this has anything to do with the other person. Often we have biological responses subconsciously ingrained from childhood for safe people, good experiences. Unexplained crazy feelings for someone are usually because of something totally arbitrary. Its silly, dont assign meaning to it. But ride out the feeling, enjoy it like a wave. Then let it go :)
I need to detach from the two girls who I hate and who hate me.. Stop constantly worrying about what they'll do or attack me next time. I need to free myself from the cage I have created in my mind..❤
U dey feel de vibe 🤔🤔 I dey feel de vibeoo.Yes I resonates 💯 u must noe ur self worth as a person .Over dependence x 👎dats yy I Dnt break my rules n sets goals.No one can make u more happier than urself so solitude x a tool.Ayyyy 💪✊😇🫡🤗👍🤝🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
U dey feel de vibe 🤔🤔 I dey feel de vibeoo.Yes I resonates 💯 u must noe ur self worth as a person .Over dependence x 👎dats yy I Dnt break my rules n sets goals.No one can make u more happier than urself so solitude x a tool.Ayyyy 💪✊😇🫡🤗👍🤝🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
These principles apply to friendships too. Don't be desperate for anyone.❤
Yes yes
Did this last week. It was so liberating not to be in fight or flight mode anymore. My peace if mind has returned & I've been unpacking the last 12 & a half years & untangling the mess of feelings & thoughts I haven't been able to do anything with until I took the relationship out of our relationship. I've learned so much about myself, my worth & that I can't be more loyal to someone else than I am to myself. It's been great for me. I don't know where we will end up but I do know one thing, I'm not holding space for anyone who doesn't recognize /appreciate my worth. Anyone wanting access to me will have to show me they are worthy of that privilege. No more settling for less than I deserve
Amen
I agree
Amen
I wish I could do that.hoe do you detatch...
I’m proud of you.
You should keep yourself
Distant from
Anyone for awhile as it’s dangerous if your a sensitive soul
Aside from the message, I really like the drawings in this video. So simple yet so poignant. Beautiful in their simplicity and color.
Yes, and realize your worth makes you not want him anymore, so he can have all the space he wants, and then find someone who WANT to get to know you and you’re history and your ways. Not playing games, but authentic connection, detaching from emotionally closed men is so freeing😎❤️
I wish I knew how to do that
Its all in the mind and practice@sandrawright8109
Realll
Ladies, this does not apply to abusive or toxic men
💯
I’m feeling very anxious recently about my sp that has went silent for more than a week. I’ve no idea what happened and I’m juggling whether to reach out to him or give him space. I feel more relieved after I came across your video. All I need to do is shift back the focus onto myself.
Right. Space for him. Self-care for you.
Yes that's what you have to do it's a great video
Thanks a lot dear now i got to know we can't impose our feelings on person self love is more important
Yup detached and moving forward.
The Universe is really trying to tell me i’m not meant to be with him 😢
I guess so too Sis! This was the best sign and did it for me! ❤️🩹
Him ghosting me was blessing in disguise Thank you God universe ✨️ 🙏
You will find a better man.I too thought the world was so dark but,right now,I feel like whatever I’ve lost have come back all much better in one package.❤
God .. not the universe
@@fzm4115 for some people god is equal to the universe or the nature, cause it is the power of everything. People who believe in religion think that it is all about the human being 😂 it is about everything what surrounds us. The interaction of every living being with each other, not just human being 🤦 but ok, religious people will always think: human being is the center of everything 🙄🙄🙄 (how selfish and in love with yourself to think like that....)
Or… when you detach you finally see that you were the the absolutely wrong person for you! If you feel anxious & worry if he likes you: he’s not the man for you. If you’re having to go away with friends for him to pay attention, he’s not for you! You should always have friends & always have both your own as well as share activities but both of you should be secure with each other to have that. If he or you have to worry about how the other feels about them, if you’re both worrying either will cheat… do not be together at all. Be happy! A man that loves, will share himself emotionally with you & be open to you sharing yourself emotionally with him. No worries, no lies. Just peace & love ❤
Now this is actually advice that’s caring for women. Thank you. ❤
Detaching = Peace = ♥️
Focus on yourself and do not ever looking for to know about him
seek balance instead
I really appreciate this video. I had some anxiety about my relationship this week but knew that I had to do things differently this time around. The wisdom in this video reassured me that stepping back is necessary for my well-being, and his, and the life in the relationship. Thank you. I also like that these are read by a real person, not AI, and the beautiful artwork within.
Oh I get it if you don't care.They like you.... if you care they don't like you and get pushed away
...... I'm sorry but if i'm gonna Detach myself i'm moving on
Ir you care "for free", they need to earn you caring.
I had to detact myself from someone that i loved because while i was giving him love, he kept hurting me and it was like hurting me brought him Joy. Detaching myself and healing i remembered who i was before losing my mom & miscarriage. I no longer had to concern myself with him and gave myself the love I was looking for from him, from my grief ®ained my confidence. When you Heal you learn that what you truly like and love and wont accept anything less from anyone.
I think we should do so
Giving you space for the rest of our lives detached from you for self love and set you free that s my intention
Beautiful artwork ❤
Yes it has been very helpfull thank you very much
🌸 I am just concentrating on myself
Been hurt so much by same person, I gave up on them and just focusing on myself ❤
Only concentrating on my self growth, goals & future 🪔
Yes 200%true . Thank you ❤
Thank you Good Sir. That's really reassuring especially to the awakened feminine.
This is very good advice, thanks
It protects your freedom 💜 ✨
Thanks for this video ❤. It was meant for me 🙏🙏
Repetition is key❤️
I try to love my self more than him now. ❤❤❤
🌸 The drawings are so beautiful
Can I find out the artist 🌺
Love this❤️
Yes detached and moving 4ward
People come and go!
I dont think this has anything to do with the other person. Often we have biological responses subconsciously ingrained from childhood for safe people, good experiences. Unexplained crazy feelings for someone are usually because of something totally arbitrary. Its silly, dont assign meaning to it. But ride out the feeling, enjoy it like a wave. Then let it go :)
We are not living together and not talking on the phone. So what is detachment?
Wow ❤beautiful ❤thank you for caring about us women ❤
❤❤❤❤ thank youuu
It’s a nice video except I wish there was no music while you talked!
Very interesting thank you really🙏💖✨🌹💯
Works like magic
Music is too loud.
Yes
I love the pictures!
Great sharing! 👍
How often should I detach from him...
Thank u
I need to detach from the two girls who I hate and who hate me.. Stop constantly worrying about what they'll do or attack me next time. I need to free myself from the cage I have created in my mind..❤
❤more videos like this lpveit
You live you learn 😂
True❤❤❤❤
U dey feel de vibe 🤔🤔 I dey feel de vibeoo.Yes I resonates 💯 u must noe ur self worth as a person .Over dependence x 👎dats yy I Dnt break my rules n sets goals.No one can make u more happier than urself so solitude x a tool.Ayyyy 💪✊😇🫡🤗👍🤝🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
U dey feel de vibe 🤔🤔 I dey feel de vibeoo.Yes I resonates 💯 u must noe ur self worth as a person .Over dependence x 👎dats yy I Dnt break my rules n sets goals.No one can make u more happier than urself so solitude x a tool.Ayyyy 💪✊😇🫡🤗👍🤝🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥