Don’t play games. If you really like a man DO NOT be too much of a challenge. Men, just like women, are afraid of rejection. Give him some positive affirmations to green light his pursuit. Playing “hard to get” will attract the wrong types of men. The game players who will become bored of you once they get too comfortable. They will be on to the next challenge. The next conquest. They real key is to be honest with a man if you like him. Just don’t be too desperate and lose yourself. That is all.
@@jayak8217if you prefer getting a player than staying single you have a major malfunction and you are a contributor to the existance of those hunger games. Its like everyone cheats on each other nowadays, so i can also f*ck around, do one night stands etc.
Yes!! I know I shouldn't change myself too much for a man but that doesn't mean I'm not gonna do anything about it. And I agree with what you said about "hard to get." Not all men are like that. Some men appreciate women who are open about their feelings
No, I used to be that way when I was younger! I think I have to remember who I am again! Because that shifted after my divorce at 65 I think I was feeling a little less secure, but after meeting some of the men I dated I realized I didn’t need to make an effort at all. when you make too much of an effort, a man does not appreciate you. That is very true. It’s best to let them come to you and just be open and receptive to see if they are going to invest don’t invest first. I learned self love self worth self compassion, first and foremost, then see if someone can come in and match you and be in alignment. If not, then don’t settle. I find I’m less lonely alone than I was with someone who wasn’t into alignment and invested with me. Not today no more!
Total bs. When a mans efforts are not appriciated, he will suffer in silence and he wont be able to keep up very long. Both partners should display their love and appreciation. If the man isnt appreciating your effort tell that to him.
Men's interest end, when they get married with their girl.moreover, women's love increased and women's become always available for them,Which is the real reason they get undervalued. Women's should keep herself first and be independent always to get valued by men's. Though women's should not give too much attention to men's they don't deserve it.
Gosh, I've been way to independent to the point people thin I don't want any partner. I do though, sometimes I feel that longing to have soulmate. That being said, I can still live just fine without one. I said to myself that "happily single" is better than "miserably double"
You can build yourself until eventually looks natural. Natural is a construct. Not.many things in human behaviour are natural, we're a mix of culture and nature.
@isabellashija3056 I agree. I feel like it is nice to have a partner . personally I feel better alone than in bad company. so, God first. a partner that knows what it is to value themselves and others, including the presence of a Higher Power, someone I both like AND love.... that would be one I could be with
I don't need to attract "men". I just want to finally attract Mr.Right if he's out there. I'm sick and tired of falling for the wrong guys who leave for stupid reasons. I'm 40, not 20 so I still hope it's not too late.
Older than you, independent, no bs and easygoing, and been getting losers, lemons and leftovers since I'm your age. Lots of them out there, at least where I live. Perhaps, according to this vid, we need to be straight-up catatonic, lol. Hang in there.
I agree with this video. Especially with having your own hobbies and showing that you're not afraid of being alone ❤ And allowing the man to take the lead.... My mom is 100, so I wzs taught old school values. Also being emotionally balanced is important also...
That's just around the dating stage. When you marry, women are expected to give their lives to child rearing and childbirth while keeping the house spic and span, while attending to the physical and emotional demands of everybody in the house. They also have to be physically pleasing and sound while doing all these. Sadly these aren't only the demands of their husband but the society as well.
So, I don’t try very hard. But men aren’t drawn to me. I’m more confident now than I used to be and that hasn’t changed. And I am genuine and am just myself. I don’t try hard. I just am. But I’ve attracted very few guys
You deserve love. Maybe that is not so conscious to you yet and maybe that is your blockage that you don't allow that in yet. Healing heart chakra and unconditionally loving yourself will help, much love, Spiru lina
The right men will be attracted to you, not all men, because most men are shallow, same with most women. They look at outer appearance and make horrible decisions about life partners. These tips are to attract the right kind of men
So confidence cannot overcome looks. Guys are still driven by beauty. You don’t have to be a doll, but work on your outer appearance and learn to exude feminine charm
This is true. I have been ignored for trying too hard while they gave 100% to a person who couldn't care less about them. I have learned my lesson after 25 years. What a waste.
The Truth is we don't start out this way, we as women develop into strong confident women that men would be attracted to. The key is, what has been deposited into us by our parents or for some adoptive parents' strong moral values strong work ethics and to value people. Narcissists are drawn to us as well, one must be carefully selective as almost everyone loves ripe fruit.
Thank you for this video & channel! The artwork and music are so nice and simple, it's very calming in this world of sensory overload. All the best to you!🌷✨🕊️
Trouble is, men do like these qualities BUT after a while it makes them feel "not needed" - what's that all about?? After a year of dating and having established a very close and loving relationship, sooner or later my partners begin to rile against the qualities that attracted him to me in the first place. My ex complained his ex-wife was too demanding and couldn't do a thing for herself yet when my car broke down and I called the AA to collect me, he did NOT like the fact that I didn't call him instead! No wonder women are confused.
Thank you so much for your simplicity of speech which allows for total assimilation of thought process, nice to meet...artistry is excellent...gives me goosebumps. Thank you again it's very refreshing & uplifting. Denise Queensland Australia 🌠 🌠
What men love is a woman who is approachable. You can be very good-looking, but if you're introverted and avoiding eye-contact, you won't attract anybody. So, long story short, being more extroverted is what really gives you an edge attracting people.
I feel like there are a lot of educations and standards that women have to put up to, but for men there are little or none.. Nobody teaches or trains a man how to be proper.
Because at the moment he finds cheap thrills from them as a response to something that bothers him in his relationship to his wife. He chooses to indulge himself with sensory stimulaton for satisfaction. Once he realize that these women can't also make him happy on a much deeper level, he'll eventually get tired of them and look for someone who can provide the thrill once more. Til he learns from his mistake, he'll understand that alignment with somebody is the only way to happy relationships.
He may like the side chick, but can never love her. Deep in his mind, he will think she is low value for accepting such a relationship in the first place.
A Woman should Never be Desperate for Any man’s Attention. Women, you are Worthy🤍 It’s Not a Competition. Embrace + Be who God Created you to Be🤍 You’re Amazing. You are Beautiful✨🤍🤍We are the Prize!✨👑👸🏽👸🏼👸🏾👸🏻 Know your Worth + Be Kind to yourself. God has the Right one, Worthy of your Heart. Trust, Believe, + Wait on the Lord👑🕊️✝️
The problem is that I am very affectionate and sometimes he tells me relax, I am Dutch and I tell him I am Latina. What can we do? We laugh about that.❤❤❤😂😂😅
I want to be a difficult women and fake after being genuine , extrovert and easy to approache,bcz its hurts when men didn't value your qualities. Ladies believe on this video and make yourself a challenging.men don't go behind easy women ,they luv ro chase and put effort,bcz its their nature.
Im all of these and still alone. Though im ok but at times wonder , females and colleagues around me have come to me telling me how inspired they are of me and they way i carry myself . I get men’s attention too., that too mens who are a dream for others . But after a while these men’s want me to become a girl and chase them I guess . And even though I like them I dont chase them . Even though I miss our talks I generally dont text them or call but ya I dont give in what they want. And mens with me know and understand their boundaries. But ya still waiting ….
No one is perfect on this earth, Not all qualities we could see in one man or woman. Keeping some boundaries and self assurance are important to stay happy. Their are three things we should do to stay happy and fulfilled 1. Be independent,take your own decision .2 do not give to much attention or love to anyone but you. 3. Do not compromise for anyone, become bold .
But if I'm not gonna do something how will that attract someone? You know why guys have girlfriends? Because they did something. They approached the girl, gave her things, made her laugh, and improved their looks. How are we girls gonna attract a guy if we're not gonna try? Especially to girls who aren't beautiful by standards
I don't impress because I have loved someone who really loves me when I was young. Now I am always rejected so I know that true love is when you are young. But when you are old it comes with lots of bargage like sex and marriage and how good looking are you. So I let go easily. Once the door is close is closed there is no mistry when it comes to emotion.
right. love isn't as pure as when we were young...... i feel like if love exist then its only for beautiful people...even though thats not love but attraction..
Women who dont try hard do try hard. ... by pretending they're not trying. It's all a game in the dating world and not all men are for it. Sometimes it backfires
Ok i am not perfect and i dont look perfect, and i dont want to. I have confidence in myself and live a very indepent life . And men are attracted to me . The word easy comes to mind . Well i am not easy. But i would not want a man that goes for easy women. I am very relaxed , very quiet but my peace is powerful. My man is not my boss, so i am not his .
Do you believe you will meet the person for you? Don’t make a man or relationship an idol. Focus on being the BEST version of you and enjoy life🎉 Make yourself discoverable. Try new things, go for a walk, bike ride OUTside. Eat lunch/dinner on a patio. Believe in YOU🎉
All the pictures in this video are pretty much upper middle class women. They all dress neat and clean. It requires effort, people, so don't be silly. Men like natural looking women, they don't all like natural women. You know what's natural? Disease is natural, cancer is natural, armpit and pubic hair is natural, yellow crooked teeth is natural, hair can be falling at 30s 40s 50s is natural and it does disgust people. Men love gold diggers because gold diggers mostly are consistent with their looks. Gold diggers love themselves more than men and that's why men love the challenges. So, if you want to know what men love, this video is a fiction. Their subconscious minds tell them differently than what they thought. Kudos to ladies who dress up and dress for themselves. Effortless or not, you still rock. Love yourself.
I watched a few vidoes about telling guys we are interested through our body language. Why is this information only coming out now?? I'm going to start giving it a go. Unfortunately it won't work online! We'll have to get out and about.
Rubbish. Men want the "flawless looking" woman and that takes effort. Diet, exercise, clothing, makeup. The idea that a woman can be plain, overweight, but is confident, genuine, and sweet so will "get the guy" is a fallacy mothers tell daughters.
I don't think the vid was saying to be plain Jane or overweight, or look like you just stepped out of a dumpster. Think its saying to be easy breezy, quietly confident, and comfortable in your skin, without games or pretense. But being fit and looking pretty is always attractive.As for "Flawless looking", umm, have u seen what some guys are walking around with?
Yes that is true I love myself and I don't wear makeup never I very blessed strong independent romantic loving caring sharing blessings young women with Jesus Christ bless I will meet my faithful heart ❤️ soulmate from heaven and earth faithful father's almighty God Lord Jesus Christ bless his faithful heart ❤️ yes faith amen
I don't wear makeup either. I feel like I am lovable just the way God made me. No fake or made up! I feel like a natural beauty and nothing false offered. I am also not gonna beg someone to chase after me and I don't chase after men .
I don't wear makeup either. I feel like I am lovable just the way God made me. No fake or made up! I feel like a natural beauty and nothing false offered. I am also not gonna beg someone to chase after me and I don't chase after men .
You wont want to hear that but its just men always blaming blaming to chase them. Look i get ghosted most f the time and i dont text unless to find closure once i did it was important for me to say my opinion. To me, only women can estimate men, especially those working in a manly field, no preacher here can do that. A man can't never know how men are. And yes most mem are bounding unable and ghost play games and its rarely about the woman, on the countrary i only know women with pride and self-respect, same as me
What if I already entered a relationship with someone I liked after asking him out and poured my deepest secrets cause we played secret sharing game in the beginning and as a depressed person who would lock herself in home I have no ambition and I tried hard to make the relationship work, will this relationship possibly work?
Yes. If your man is not insecure about you and your past. Do not sink while saving the relationship, know your boundaries. Human evolves, hope you are a human too.😜( Sarcasm) Focus on your goals and work on yourself, keep loving, keep living, keep smiling. World is harsh, you don't be. # Self pity is self sabotage. (Cause of depressed cycle) Leave the past in past and FORGIVE yourself and others. Life has so much to offer. START LOVING YOURSELF❤
Because they don't have emotional deficits and/or unreasonable expectations.Bars may be set high but not insanely high. On the other hand, uncomely women who don't put effort into attracting potential partners are likely to overlook great opportunities. So not trying hard works at fairly attractive women.
All these are great points. But can you do a video on how to get half decent behaviour from men after marriage and work and family responsibilities set in?
Some things are easier said than done! It's like teaching someone How to fly a plane: "You get into the plane, turn It on, and fly the plane!"😂 If we don't feel already confortable and segure about ourselves, then forget about it?
… I knew & was married to a person like this who had a personality characteristic of a infj/Briggs-Meyer It truly was beautiful & amazing to behold ❤️🔥
All it's untrue. Love has nothing with ambitions. Men can marry any shit as long it's thrown to them. They know they will devorce you when a right option comes up.
Omg so he really likes me ... I did absolutely nothing to attract him actually I rejected him cause I thought he wasn't honest liking me .. Men are weird.. the one that I tried to impress never noticed me but this one I never knew he existed and he keeps coming back again and again
Sorry, you are off on a few of these points concerning real women. And you also forgot a few things. But overall, it was ok and worth watching the video. Blessings 🌸
Women who dress up and like to Look pretty are Not All trying Too Hard. If you’re Honest with yourself, you’d Find them to Be Alluring + Attractive, too. Stop downplaying Women + a Man telling Women what is Attractive……by Downplaying Another woman who wants to Present herself in this way. Yes, there are Some women Like This. But, Not All women who Dress up Nicely are Trying to Attract Men. They’re doing it coz it makes THEM Happy, Feel Confident in their Skin, + for Themselves.
I'm living proof that's a lie. The only truth is that if you LOOK pretty without even trying then that means you're GENETICALLY "prettier", so they got the best girl around in terms of looks and feel fulfilled and know other men will envy them. I am ugly, so I thankfully never had to date but could assess that quite easily from what happens with women around me in the past thirty years. The most important feature is looks.
Being an introvert and pretty isnt a bad thing. Most times it is a barrier between attracting flies and attracting butterflies. HUGE difference. 🪰 or 🦋. Choose wisely.... 🤔 Edit: I choose that very rare BUTTERFLY ✨️🦋✨️
Yes, y’all want women who naturally look like Ana de armas and Margot Robbie lmaoo. And most women do their makeup and stuff to be treated nicely by society
Any person is more attractive when he is confident and comfortable with himself. But you are talking about alfa- men's way of thinking priorily. Most modern men aren't attracted by smb who they need to chase😂
How boring lol 😅 ...men with low self confidence can't approach confident women. Confident women should be proud not shamed to change for men but be themselves whoever they are!!
1) Natural Confidence... 0:23
2) Authenticity... 1:59
3) Less is more..... 3:14
4) Challenging...5:01
5) Relaxed Atmosphere....5:53
6) No Pressure.... 7:28
7) Independent Vibe... 8:20
8) Ambition....9:14
9) Balanced Emotions..... 10:13
Thats me. You either take me as I am or forget it.
Same. Unfortunately, that only works if you're pretty. 😅 @@KeelySanders-s5y
1. Be beautiful
Men wants beauty more than anything
Don’t play games. If you really like a man DO NOT be too much of a challenge. Men, just like women, are afraid of rejection. Give him some positive affirmations to green light his pursuit. Playing “hard to get” will attract the wrong types of men. The game players who will become bored of you once they get too comfortable. They will be on to the next challenge. The next conquest. They real key is to be honest with a man if you like him. Just don’t be too desperate and lose yourself. That is all.
This is 2024, you either play or get played. It's the hunger games out there
@@jayak8217if you prefer getting a player than staying single you have a major malfunction and you are a contributor to the existance of those hunger games. Its like everyone cheats on each other nowadays, so i can also f*ck around, do one night stands etc.
@@jayak8217 are you gonna offer yourself as a tribute?
Very well said! Thank you so much!
Yes!! I know I shouldn't change myself too much for a man but that doesn't mean I'm not gonna do anything about it. And I agree with what you said about "hard to get." Not all men are like that. Some men appreciate women who are open about their feelings
No, I used to be that way when I was younger! I think I have to remember who I am again! Because that shifted after my divorce at 65 I think I was feeling a little less secure, but after meeting some of the men I dated I realized I didn’t need to make an effort at all. when you make too much of an effort, a man does not appreciate you. That is very true. It’s best to let them come to you and just be open and receptive to see if they are going to invest don’t invest first. I learned self love self worth self compassion, first and foremost, then see if someone can come in and match you and be in alignment. If not, then don’t settle. I find I’m less lonely alone than I was with someone who wasn’t into alignment and invested with me. Not today no more!
Total bs. When a mans efforts are not appriciated, he will suffer in silence and he wont be able to keep up very long. Both partners should display their love and appreciation. If the man isnt appreciating your effort tell that to him.
That's very true!
theres a difference between starting to get to know someone vs Long term committed relationship @zombine7103
Men's interest end, when they get married with their girl.moreover, women's love increased and women's become always available for them,Which is the real reason they get undervalued. Women's should keep herself first and be independent always to get valued by men's. Though women's should not give too much attention to men's they don't deserve it.
@shrutiagokhale258 Am I reading this right. No one should get married so that people will always be valued by the other person.
Gosh, I've been way to independent to the point people thin I don't want any partner. I do though, sometimes I feel that longing to have soulmate. That being said, I can still live just fine without one. I said to myself that "happily single" is better than "miserably double"
Hey gurl same here as 28yo I feel that too..
@@tiwiueo8705hey im 28 too and i still feel like a teenager who is looking for love 🥹🥹🥹
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Thats right...a woman that is true and natural is more attractive
You can build yourself until eventually looks natural.
Natural is a construct. Not.many things in human behaviour are natural, we're a mix of culture and nature.
These kind of women actually have no need of partner at all. 😅
does anyone?
That’s an interesting question: makes me really contemplate. I think we all need God and want good life partners
@isabellashija3056 I agree. I feel like it is nice to have a partner . personally I feel better alone than in bad company.
so, God first.
a partner that knows what it is to value themselves and others, including the presence of a Higher Power, someone I both like AND love.... that would be one I could be with
I agree with this 💯
Exactly
I don't need to attract "men". I just want to finally attract Mr.Right if he's out there. I'm sick and tired of falling for the wrong guys who leave for stupid reasons. I'm 40, not 20 so I still hope it's not too late.
Older than you, independent, no bs and easygoing, and been getting losers, lemons and leftovers since I'm your age. Lots of them out there, at least where I live. Perhaps, according to this vid, we need to be straight-up catatonic, lol. Hang in there.
Losers, lemons, and leftovers 🤣🤣 good one, I'm using this. For various purposes. Lol
Somehow you did something wrong in your younger years, remember it takes 2 to tango, 😂
Read “Calling in the One”
It’s Never Too Late🤍
I agree with this video. Especially with having your own hobbies and showing that you're not afraid of being alone ❤ And allowing the man to take the lead.... My mom is 100, so I wzs taught old school values. Also being emotionally balanced is important also...
We ARE secure in our being which makes everything so much easier. Comfortable.
Don't play hard to get, be hard to get.
So no one can get you 😎💯🔥
@@promitighosh8662 nice try, but you are wrong, not "no one", but "the one"
@@LittleBambi777 "the one" the future perverted narcissistic ex... XD
Just semantics.
That's just around the dating stage. When you marry, women are expected to give their lives to child rearing and childbirth while keeping the house spic and span, while attending to the physical and emotional demands of everybody in the house. They also have to be physically pleasing and sound while doing all these. Sadly these aren't only the demands of their husband but the society as well.
Thank you for voicing out. I feel seen..
Exactly...and in this process most of the women lost themselves....😢😅
Yes everything will come to us effortlessly whether it is Career or love ❤
Damn True
I am like this too
I don't try hard I don't chase
I just trust
What's meant for me will come and find me❤
So, I don’t try very hard. But men aren’t drawn to me. I’m more confident now than I used to be and that hasn’t changed. And I am genuine and am just myself. I don’t try hard. I just am. But I’ve attracted very few guys
You deserve love. Maybe that is not so conscious to you yet and maybe that is your blockage that you don't allow that in yet. Healing heart chakra and unconditionally loving yourself will help, much love, Spiru lina
Be more available, show yourself more to the world, be as beautiful as you can, good luck ❤
The right men will be attracted to you, not all men, because most men are shallow, same with most women. They look at outer appearance and make horrible decisions about life partners. These tips are to attract the right kind of men
Use body language to show interest to guys.
So confidence cannot overcome looks. Guys are still driven by beauty. You don’t have to be a doll, but work on your outer appearance and learn to exude feminine charm
Attract is one thing, n making a man be with is another.
Each man and woman is different & seeking different things. Just be/do what truly works for you.
This is true. I have been ignored for trying too hard while they gave 100% to a person who couldn't care less about them. I have learned my lesson after 25 years. What a waste.
The Truth is we don't start out this way, we as women develop into strong confident women that men would be attracted to. The key is, what has been deposited into us by our parents or for some adoptive parents' strong moral values strong work ethics and to value people. Narcissists are drawn to us as well, one must be carefully selective as almost everyone loves ripe fruit.
These things are so helpful & true. Working toward these goals can improve relationships all around. Thank you!❤
Thank you for this video & channel!
The artwork and music are so nice and simple, it's very calming in this world of sensory overload.
All the best to you!🌷✨🕊️
Hey Narrator! You did a PERFECT job. Bravo man. Thank you.
Trouble is, men do like these qualities BUT after a while it makes them feel "not needed" - what's that all about?? After a year of dating and having established a very close and loving relationship, sooner or later my partners begin to rile against the qualities that attracted him to me in the first place. My ex complained his ex-wife was too demanding and couldn't do a thing for herself yet when my car broke down and I called the AA to collect me, he did NOT like the fact that I didn't call him instead! No wonder women are confused.
Thank you so much for your simplicity of speech which allows for total assimilation of thought process, nice to meet...artistry is excellent...gives me goosebumps.
Thank you again it's very refreshing & uplifting. Denise Queensland Australia 🌠 🌠
My pleasure 😊
Beautiful illustrations.. 💗
Yes, in Vincent van Goge style.
What men love is a woman who is approachable. You can be very good-looking, but if you're introverted and avoiding eye-contact, you won't attract anybody. So, long story short, being more extroverted is what really gives you an edge attracting people.
Vice versa
I feel like there are a lot of educations and standards that women have to put up to, but for men there are little or none.. Nobody teaches or trains a man how to be proper.
This is making the society sick
What I appreciate about these video is not just about the content but the most appealing one is they use the real human voice, not the AI voice 🎉🎉🎉
Exactely what I need thank you infinitely 😊
If this is true, then why are some men more drawn to their side chick or mistresses who are desperate of them?
Because at the moment he finds cheap thrills from them as a response to something that bothers him in his relationship to his wife. He chooses to indulge himself with sensory stimulaton for satisfaction. Once he realize that these women can't also make him happy on a much deeper level, he'll eventually get tired of them and look for someone who can provide the thrill once more. Til he learns from his mistake, he'll understand that alignment with somebody is the only way to happy relationships.
He may like the side chick, but can never love her. Deep in his mind, he will think she is low value for accepting such a relationship in the first place.
Ego.
@@LittleBambi777good riddance. Hes value is lower than her, let them be together
But same thing for women. So both sexes are attracted to the opposite sex who don’t try hard. Then dating can’t happen when no one pursues
I LOVE ME. I LOVE WHO I AM 😊
A Woman should Never be Desperate for Any man’s Attention. Women, you are Worthy🤍 It’s Not a Competition. Embrace + Be who God Created you to Be🤍 You’re Amazing. You are Beautiful✨🤍🤍We are the Prize!✨👑👸🏽👸🏼👸🏾👸🏻 Know your Worth + Be Kind to yourself. God has the Right one, Worthy of your Heart. Trust, Believe, + Wait on the Lord👑🕊️✝️
The problem is that I am very affectionate and sometimes he tells me relax, I am Dutch and I tell him I am Latina. What can we do? We laugh about that.❤❤❤😂😂😅
I want to be a difficult women and fake after being genuine , extrovert and easy to approache,bcz its hurts when men didn't value your qualities.
Ladies believe on this video and make yourself a challenging.men don't go behind easy women ,they luv ro chase and put effort,bcz its their nature.
Im all of these and still alone. Though im ok but at times wonder , females and colleagues around me have come to me telling me how inspired they are of me and they way i carry myself . I get men’s attention too., that too mens who are a dream for others . But after a while these men’s want me to become a girl and chase them I guess . And even though I like them I dont chase them . Even though I miss our talks I generally dont text them or call but ya I dont give in what they want. And mens with me know and understand their boundaries. But ya still waiting ….
No one is perfect on this earth, Not all qualities we could see in one man or woman. Keeping some boundaries and self assurance are important to stay happy. Their are three things we should do to stay happy and fulfilled 1. Be independent,take your own decision .2 do not give to much attention or love to anyone but you.
3. Do not compromise for anyone, become bold .
This is the type of relationship advice people need rather than that red pill bs.
Saying don't be nervous or introverted is like don't have your leg broken... 😑
Thanks for this 👍
Just a video showing me that I am inclined to stay forever alone....
But if I'm not gonna do something how will that attract someone? You know why guys have girlfriends? Because they did something. They approached the girl, gave her things, made her laugh, and improved their looks. How are we girls gonna attract a guy if we're not gonna try? Especially to girls who aren't beautiful by standards
Love this ♥️
I don't impress because I have loved someone who really loves me when I was young. Now I am always rejected so I know that true love is when you are young. But when you are old it comes with lots of bargage like sex and marriage and how good looking are you. So I let go easily. Once the door is close is closed there is no mistry when it comes to emotion.
right. love isn't as pure as when we were young...... i feel like if love exist then its only for beautiful people...even though thats not love but attraction..
But I’m dressing up for myself. So stop it.
Lol I can't be relaxed when my crush is in the same room with me 😭🤣
Women who dont try hard do try hard. ... by pretending they're not trying. It's all a game in the dating world and not all men are for it. Sometimes it backfires
Whats the title of the background music? ❤
Ok i am not perfect and i dont look perfect, and i dont want to. I have confidence in myself and live a very indepent life . And men are attracted to me . The word easy comes to mind . Well i am not easy. But i would not want a man that goes for easy women. I am very relaxed , very quiet but my peace is powerful. My man is not my boss, so i am not his .
Im most of these things & still dont have a good man. 😔
Do you believe you will meet the person for you? Don’t make a man or relationship an idol. Focus on being the BEST version of you and enjoy life🎉 Make yourself discoverable. Try new things, go for a walk, bike ride OUTside. Eat lunch/dinner on a patio. Believe in YOU🎉
All the pictures in this video are pretty much upper middle class women. They all dress neat and clean. It requires effort, people, so don't be silly.
Men like natural looking women, they don't all like natural women. You know what's natural? Disease is natural, cancer is natural, armpit and pubic hair is natural, yellow crooked teeth is natural, hair can be falling at 30s 40s 50s is natural and it does disgust people. Men love gold diggers because gold diggers mostly are consistent with their looks. Gold diggers love themselves more than men and that's why men love the challenges. So, if you want to know what men love, this video is a fiction. Their subconscious minds tell them differently than what they thought.
Kudos to ladies who dress up and dress for themselves. Effortless or not, you still rock. Love yourself.
I watched a few vidoes about telling guys we are interested through our body language. Why is this information only coming out now?? I'm going to start giving it a go. Unfortunately it won't work online! We'll have to get out and about.
Rubbish. Men want the "flawless looking" woman and that takes effort. Diet, exercise, clothing, makeup. The idea that a woman can be plain, overweight, but is confident, genuine, and sweet so will "get the guy" is a fallacy mothers tell daughters.
True but confident women usually are self lovining. You do good things for yourself not to seek attention. That’s what he means 💕 ✨
I don't think the vid was saying to be plain Jane or overweight, or look like you just stepped out of a dumpster. Think its saying to be easy breezy, quietly confident, and comfortable in your skin, without games or pretense. But being fit and looking pretty is always attractive.As for "Flawless looking", umm, have u seen what some guys are walking around with?
Yes that is true I love myself and I don't wear makeup never I very blessed strong independent romantic loving caring sharing blessings young women with Jesus Christ bless I will meet my faithful heart ❤️ soulmate from heaven and earth faithful father's almighty God Lord Jesus Christ bless his faithful heart ❤️ yes faith amen
I don't wear makeup either. I feel like I am lovable just the way God made me. No fake or made up! I feel like a natural beauty and nothing false offered. I am also not gonna beg someone to chase after me and I don't chase after men .
I don't wear makeup either. I feel like I am lovable just the way God made me. No fake or made up! I feel like a natural beauty and nothing false offered. I am also not gonna beg someone to chase after me and I don't chase after men .
Very nice, fruitful, and blessed message. ✝️🤲😇❤️👍🇵🇰
Awesome video ❤
Thank you 👍
You wont want to hear that but its just men always blaming blaming to chase them. Look i get ghosted most f the time and i dont text unless to find closure once i did it was important for me to say my opinion. To me, only women can estimate men, especially those working in a manly field, no preacher here can do that. A man can't never know how men are. And yes most mem are bounding unable and ghost play games and its rarely about the woman, on the countrary i only know women with pride and self-respect, same as me
Thanks.You said it ❤
What if I already entered a relationship with someone I liked after asking him out and poured my deepest secrets cause we played secret sharing game in the beginning and as a depressed person who would lock herself in home I have no ambition and I tried hard to make the relationship work, will this relationship possibly work?
Seek couple therapy
Yes please 🥺
Yes. If your man is not insecure about you and your past. Do not sink while saving the relationship, know your boundaries.
Human evolves, hope you are a human too.😜( Sarcasm)
Focus on your goals and work on yourself, keep loving, keep living, keep smiling.
World is harsh, you don't be.
# Self pity is self sabotage. (Cause of depressed cycle) Leave the past in past and FORGIVE yourself and others. Life has so much to offer.
START LOVING YOURSELF❤
Oh and give your life to Christ and exchange the sinful nature of humans for Gods righteousness and freedom.
Nie no. Naprawde zajebisty kanal. Naprawde sporo z niego wyciagam a nie mam piersi.
Because they don't have emotional deficits and/or unreasonable expectations.Bars may be set high but not insanely high. On the other hand, uncomely women who don't put effort into attracting potential partners are likely to overlook great opportunities. So not trying hard works at fairly attractive women.
All these are great points.
But can you do a video on how to get half decent behaviour from men after marriage and work and family responsibilities set in?
Thanks😊
I have got it all, n still men who r interested in do not make to asking me out
Some things are easier said than done!
It's like teaching someone How to fly a plane: "You get into the plane, turn It on, and fly the plane!"😂
If we don't feel already confortable and segure about ourselves, then forget about it?
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im already lose in "natural confidence" 😞
Who does these beautiful drawings? Have you thought of making note cards to sell?
… I knew & was married to a person like this who had a personality characteristic of a infj/Briggs-Meyer
It truly was beautiful & amazing to behold ❤️🔥
It can be intimidating sadly...
All it's untrue. Love has nothing with ambitions. Men can marry any shit as long it's thrown to them. They know they will devorce you when a right option comes up.
That explains why, I'm the opposite of all of this
Omg so he really likes me ...
I did absolutely nothing to attract him actually I rejected him cause I thought he wasn't honest liking me ..
Men are weird.. the one that I tried to impress never noticed me but this one I never knew he existed and he keeps coming back again and again
Wow, great news
I don't agree with everything you said , although in the start, yes
Sorry, you are off on a few of these points concerning real women. And you also forgot a few things. But overall, it was ok and worth watching the video. Blessings 🌸
Please elaborate what is the video off about and what would you add? Kind regards, Spiru lina
Women who dress up and like to Look pretty are Not All trying Too Hard.
If you’re Honest with yourself, you’d Find them to Be Alluring + Attractive, too.
Stop downplaying Women + a Man telling Women what is Attractive……by Downplaying Another woman who wants to Present herself in this way.
Yes, there are Some women Like This.
But, Not All women who Dress up Nicely are Trying to Attract Men. They’re doing it coz it makes THEM Happy, Feel Confident in their Skin, + for Themselves.
Also why is the music sad? Lol.
I'm living proof that's a lie.
The only truth is that if you LOOK pretty without even trying then that means you're GENETICALLY "prettier", so they got the best girl around in terms of looks and feel fulfilled and know other men will envy them. I am ugly, so I thankfully never had to date but could assess that quite easily from what happens with women around me in the past thirty years.
The most important feature is looks.
These are same for both gendera
Maybe I'm not that type of woman I am just me
Non need of all this bullshit… everything kind of a relationship needs self love.. respect.. boundaries and balance.
He can get attracted to whoever he wants.. As if I care? 😒
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dont try to hard in what aspect???
Being an introvert and pretty isnt a bad thing. Most times it is a barrier between attracting flies and attracting butterflies. HUGE difference. 🪰 or 🦋. Choose wisely.... 🤔
Edit: I choose that very rare BUTTERFLY ✨️🦋✨️
Yes, y’all want women who naturally look like Ana de armas and Margot Robbie lmaoo. And most women do their makeup and stuff to be treated nicely by society
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So the so called “nice guys”, trad men, incels etc. are not the only ones?
I don't like women with too much make up with long nails and luxury; if feels like they are too much to maintain coupled with being lazy
Any person is more attractive when he is confident and comfortable with himself.
But you are talking about alfa- men's way of thinking priorily. Most modern men aren't attracted by smb who they need to chase😂
Whole this video describes a female character written by a man.
That's true. Thus females have to start writing by themselves...
Does this kind of woman really exist? Come on... all those characters you mentioned are too goo to be true! Fact check!!! This is 2024..
Sad ㅠㅠㅠ
Good luck finding a woman that can be all that 😁 and more …
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Im not sure with those things 😅. You need to do something to attract someone. Most of man attract in appearance. 😂
How boring lol 😅 ...men with low self confidence can't approach confident women. Confident women should be proud not shamed to change for men but be themselves whoever they are!!
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