Men Feel a DEEP Longing For Women With These 6 Micro Habits

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  • @franchic9565
    @franchic9565 6 місяців тому +529

    "It should be 2 wholes coming together, not 2 halves trying to make a whole" - So spot on !

    • @roses6564
      @roses6564 6 місяців тому +5

      Perfection!!

  • @OzYil47
    @OzYil47 6 місяців тому +652

    When it happens naturally you don't need to push anything.

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 6 місяців тому +16

      Exactly

    • @chatsu5441
      @chatsu5441 6 місяців тому +7

      Agree, theories and reality often vs each other according to biological, environmental, economically etc.

    • @gaiaPiccarducci
      @gaiaPiccarducci 6 місяців тому

      this is bot pushing this is knowing basic principles that help u step in ur femminine energy and find a man who actually acts like u want without manipulation

    • @vasiliki8
      @vasiliki8 6 місяців тому +5

      Ακριβώς...

    • @luciadozier1267
      @luciadozier1267 2 місяці тому

      🎯

  • @yzma6142
    @yzma6142 6 місяців тому +203

    I love that you spoke about the red flags of doing too much too soon. I’m so sick of that and I need to get accustomed to men taking their time (but still showing interest), because I’m used to the lovebombing 🙃

    • @Aymana44
      @Aymana44 6 місяців тому +2

      So even though he doesn't text you or talk to you for three weeks, that means he is still getting to know me?

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 6 місяців тому +25

      @@Aymana44 three weeks in insane. I’m talking about not texting every day but still checking in throughout the week. Also not pushing to spend so much time from the first date or hinting at exclusivity too early when we don’t really know each other

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 6 місяців тому +8

      @@gailwagner4316 I personally don’t like it but I wouldn’t say red, maybe yellow. You can try slowing the pace and see how they react

    • @gailwagner4316
      @gailwagner4316 6 місяців тому

      @@yzma6142 I did....didn't go over well. But I think it's more an insecurity on his part to overcome a fear of me leaving or losing interest but it gets overwhelming at times as I feel a bit trapped.

    • @teresaswingle3004
      @teresaswingle3004 5 місяців тому +1

      😢

  • @menavue9633
    @menavue9633 6 місяців тому +174

    All these points happened to me. Its not a list for him or me. It came naturally. When u meet someone u like, it takes time to get to know him. It doesnt happen over night. Why? When he was hurt in his past, this creates a man to have a mysterious poor quality about him. U will have to be patient and understand this individual…u will experience strange feelings and feel this man is something Lol. But continue to be forgiving and give it time, and at the same time always confront him with anything u feel that is disrespectful or he was acting strange like red flags. Anyways, go with the flow and be who u are. Things will fall in place. Always be kind, enjoy, have fun, and if he is not willing to improve and change for the better for the relationship to grow then just leave him and dont waste ur time anymore.

    • @aFeverishFiend
      @aFeverishFiend 6 місяців тому +6

      This💯🙌

    • @er_5406
      @er_5406 6 місяців тому +8

      Nope. Ain't nobody is gonna play the "patient loving mama with his baby boy 🍼🐣"

    • @smitha1867
      @smitha1867 6 місяців тому

      @@er_5406right?

    • @ShadaeBalancesKnightAstro
      @ShadaeBalancesKnightAstro 5 місяців тому

      @@er_5406In a sense we are always growing from one stage of development to the next and the growth process itself requires nurturing. Alignment of stages is key nevertheless the nurturing energy will be used for anything in this life to grow.

    • @yanettmontes2491
      @yanettmontes2491 4 місяці тому

  • @ireneyoomikim
    @ireneyoomikim 6 місяців тому +77

    I told this guy the same thing, that you like the Idea of me but don’t really want to be with me. The relationship was going to fast for me. I tried to slow it down and he just got out of a relationship… he was really trying to fill a void within himself to feel better about himself when really it was a temporary filling to boost his ego.
    It’s annoying. I told him stop putting me on a pedestal. I have my own life to live. I don’t need him 24/7. I need my space.

    • @wendydaniel1110
      @wendydaniel1110 4 місяці тому +6

      Good for you. I agree 100 percent❤

    • @amyklingler6965
      @amyklingler6965 4 місяці тому +3

      Good catch.

    • @Stefarooni14
      @Stefarooni14 3 місяці тому +6

      I could have written this post, exact thing happened to me

  • @alisonsaunders3800
    @alisonsaunders3800 6 місяців тому +84

    Brian, you have excellent content. You are a bright soul, and your compassion and wisdom shine through all of the incredibly insightful analysis and advice you provide. Your humor is gentle and lovely. I’ve followed you for a few years now and always get so excited when you post. Thank you for being a true knight of polarity and sage counsel. 😊🙏🏻

  • @hightreestess
    @hightreestess 6 місяців тому +74

    A lot of men that move quick could be love bombing. Big red flag of narcissistic behavior.

    • @caroliner1901
      @caroliner1901 6 місяців тому +7

      But some men fall head over heels in love with a woman - like the Kylie song ‘can’t get you out of my head’ - yes okay he doesn’t know the woman yet - yes it’s still early days and a little bit of fantasy in his head.
      Basically - you don’t know for sure for awhile - doesn’t always mean red flag.
      Try saying no to sth, and giving a different opinion and leaning out a bit. A narc will not have the patience and will retire early.

    • @rokeyakumar
      @rokeyakumar Місяць тому +3

      You said it perfectly 💯

    • @rokeyakumar
      @rokeyakumar Місяць тому +3

      I've witnessed this...

    • @liseraphina2421
      @liseraphina2421 Місяць тому +4

      @@caroliner1901 Narcs also have a tendency to easily tip into a Rage Fit when the tiniest things don’t go their way. Big red flag.

  • @wendyharper2474
    @wendyharper2474 6 місяців тому +29

    These really were enlightening, there's a timing when someone is supposed to know something in life. Thank you so much.

  • @NicoleBeepath
    @NicoleBeepath 4 місяці тому +17

    I voice my disapproval and anger mixed with humor. And I make sure to state that although I am upset I still love him and shall not destroy him cause his cuteness has diffused the situation. 😂

  • @Gloriagal78
    @Gloriagal78 6 місяців тому +10

    Yes! Humor is so effective in diffusing a potentially volatile situation.

  • @Chaerith_Gamesborough
    @Chaerith_Gamesborough 6 місяців тому +25

    I’ve seen a lot of these videos online but, I appreciate yours the most. Thank you. 🙏

  • @LuminousKugelblitz
    @LuminousKugelblitz 6 місяців тому +107

    You are like wise big brother 😊

  • @PinkCrystalTea
    @PinkCrystalTea 6 місяців тому +94

    30 min massage per episode sounds like the best course of action haha

  • @marthabunting2833
    @marthabunting2833 6 місяців тому +10

    Really love your concise content that gets to the point quickly. Your Humorous retorts are hilarious but also laser sharp. Keep them coming we ladies need these videos.

  • @vinodhakirba8527
    @vinodhakirba8527 6 місяців тому +116

    Why is it offensive if someone says: "you look tired"? to me, it shows they noticed me and i always appreciate it, and feel grateful that i was seen enough that a difference was noticed.

    • @pattysue9990
      @pattysue9990 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes. Same here. I didn't know it is not a sentence that we are not supposed to say?

    • @ediblecrayons2382
      @ediblecrayons2382 6 місяців тому +7

      @@pattysue9990 I think it depends, sometimes people say it as a way to be undirectly rude, like if I don't have my hair all done up and I don't have a full face of makeup, but yes sometimes it is sweet

    • @higo4067
      @higo4067 6 місяців тому +19

      I think because (for me) it’s like pointing out the obvious on my appearance, saying I “look tired” insinuating I look worse than usual, rather than “are you feeling tired?” Or “how are you feeling?” which focus more on how I’m actually feeling and give an opening for me to talk about it.

    • @reenujose4937
      @reenujose4937 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@higo4067I didn't even know it is offensive. I had said that to many people with genuine concern and care. They might be hating me now.

    • @higo4067
      @higo4067 5 місяців тому +3

      @@reenujose4937 it’s not!!! Some people just prefer otherwise. Don’t overthink it, nobody hates you, they probably know you said it with that intention, and its wonderful that you mean to check in on them:)

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 6 місяців тому +23

    You're such a good speaker with great information. Thank you.

  • @lillieknight
    @lillieknight 6 місяців тому +28

    Also I wouldn’t mention previous boyfriends, husbands etc.

    • @dionneyagla5731
      @dionneyagla5731 6 місяців тому +5

      Yes! That's actually a huge deal breaker that people now are just starting to notice. Same goes for men talking about ex GFs, wives and crushes. DEFINITELY no explicit details about past sex! It's not erotic; it just makes one look trashy and low value. That's just my opinion of course. To each his own.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 11 днів тому

      Someone talking about their exes is the biggest turn off. I don't even date but men whi want me often try it with trauma dumping. Aa if I Was supposed to heal their eounds. Not your therapist, not your social worker. I never dated, so I have no exes to talk about but if I had, I would keep it private. If they caused trauma that's a different story, than I would talk to my family and besties about it. But not another guy, neither male friend or l8ve interest

  • @ronniephilip1680
    @ronniephilip1680 6 місяців тому +13

    Hey Brian! good food for thought as usual, you always deliver.Nice to see you.

  • @motorcyclehair
    @motorcyclehair 4 місяці тому +2

    You’re special gift to the world G! Again, I gain so much value from your insights & guidance. I had to learn most f this on my own (no pos male role models/influences), and hearing it again through your videos helps me reinforce many things I needed to remember/resolidify. Seriously, this is one of the top YT channels ever.

  • @samgioco8541
    @samgioco8541 16 днів тому +1

    My compliments on the high quality of the advices and on the beautiful and entertaining delivery! 👏

  • @hazelnutmeg3897
    @hazelnutmeg3897 4 місяці тому +9

    "There is no scarcity"
    and "Vampire hunting is no joke" are my two favorite quotes from this video

  • @FeenstaubCupcake
    @FeenstaubCupcake 6 місяців тому +23

    He's like teaching us how to love ourself so men will fall in love with us, too

    • @Buttercup251
      @Buttercup251 4 місяці тому +1

      If you cannot get along with you, why should anyone else get along with you?

  • @ngomorastella1091
    @ngomorastella1091 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you Brian Nox🙏this is one of the best both personal and relationship advices I've ever watched.👌

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 6 місяців тому +11

    I agree with all of this!

  • @estherpfeiffer6773
    @estherpfeiffer6773 6 місяців тому +14

    Yes - all good advise and if it comes naturally, you don’t need to worry this all but these days people are less and less engaged or bothered. To me it’s natural to communicate well and a good part of your time sharing together - after all it’s part of being in a relationship.

  • @ashlydvonga960
    @ashlydvonga960 6 місяців тому +10

    I appreciate every video you make. I've been watching you since i was fifteen and i just recently turned eighteen, i mean I've never dated before but i learn a lot from these videos, even finding hope to one day be with a worthy man. Thanks a lot sir ☺

    • @dionneyagla5731
      @dionneyagla5731 6 місяців тому

      Good luck! Sounds like you are way ahead of the game! I'm 55 and I'm only now learning this after a lifetime of mistakes. 😛

  • @marliaoikari2753
    @marliaoikari2753 2 місяці тому +1

    This is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing these truths @ Brian Nox!

  • @tiffanysmith4046
    @tiffanysmith4046 6 місяців тому +9

    Excellent tips that go beyond intriguing your partner but promote a balanced life as well.

    • @Buttercup251
      @Buttercup251 4 місяці тому

      Take the dating game with light-heartedness and humor! I believe most girls tend to get very burdened......

  • @debbiecreter2005
    @debbiecreter2005 6 місяців тому +7

    In my lifetime, I either personally knew couples or had friends who spoke of couples they knew who were together from less than a year to 10 plus years before marrying and there honestly is no magic number for how long couples should get to know each other prior to marriage. People change and they either flow together or apart. Life circumstances can rock the most solid marriages. Commit to each other and say the vows that you truly mean and will keep, if you do decide to marry.

  • @AngelicHarmony444
    @AngelicHarmony444 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this list. Thank you for your directness, delivery and humor!🙏🏼❤

  • @monkeymind3917
    @monkeymind3917 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for those beautiful reminders! I love that many of them are for women already in a relationship too. It really helps!

  • @helennoakes3675
    @helennoakes3675 4 місяці тому +9

    So much advice out there for women! Maybe I haven't come across as much advice out there for men.

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy8779 6 місяців тому +4

    I'm really consider u as father you voice makes my feel comfortable. thank you . 🎉❤

  • @Ane-genius
    @Ane-genius 6 місяців тому +5

    I’m really happy to find you’re channel again 👩🏻‍💼

  • @ewalichorowicz4614
    @ewalichorowicz4614 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi Brian, I so like the use of humor in this video. If there is one thing that I am absolutely drawn to in a person, it is a great sense of humor. Nothing can replace that! I agree with you 💯 on everything that you have explained here. Thank you so much for all the great tips on relationships. 😊

  • @leonita2252
    @leonita2252 6 місяців тому +6

    Come in handy as always!, thanks Brian, our Brilliant, Wise Coach!❤ ( and cute 🥰)

  • @HurricaneQueen777
    @HurricaneQueen777 6 місяців тому +7

    I love your books so much! I’ve already read two of them! Thank you so much for providing me such a peace of mind! You are truly talented and I just think the world of you Brian Heath Knox!❤❤❤❤

  • @DoughDashWord
    @DoughDashWord 6 місяців тому +17

    HA!!!!! I knew a new video was coming!!!!!! I was binge watching your videos yesterday!

  • @basshunter9018
    @basshunter9018 6 місяців тому +9

    we need more regular videos Bry !!!!

  • @cat1441
    @cat1441 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank you! I learned a lot that I wish I'd know 15 years ago! Better late than never! 😊😊🌼🌼🌼🌼

  • @angelaschnettler5013
    @angelaschnettler5013 6 місяців тому +5

    You are the best 😊
    Really good advice and I like the way you bring that home very much because it makes me smile !

  • @Carrie6219
    @Carrie6219 Місяць тому

    I love your videos Brian. Thank you very much for the quality of topics you talk about

  • @deniselogan2733
    @deniselogan2733 5 місяців тому +2

    Yup, a guy was gushing on & on about how great I am (on the first date) - I wanted to say “You’re right, but you don’t know me well enough to know it yet, that’s all projection!”

  • @clairevandenberg8204
    @clairevandenberg8204 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this! Your explanations clarified so many things about how men relate to women.

  • @Ms.Stephanie.C
    @Ms.Stephanie.C 6 місяців тому +21

    I don’t think I’m a very good book. There’s a lot I should probably just keep to myself. I talk too much. 😅 I think if someone is out there who is right for me, he will just accept me the way I am. And if there is no one for me… oh well. I’m good by myself.

    • @publicserviceannouncement4777
      @publicserviceannouncement4777 6 місяців тому +3

      I kind of feel the same way but I'm also working on improving myself for myself in the meantime. I want to live the life that I'd be attracted to. If I like a guy who goes to the and has a nice body...I go to the gym so I like my own body. If I like a guy who cooks, I have been teaching myself how to cook better.

  • @dawns_swan
    @dawns_swan 6 місяців тому +6

    The skill of love is better than a pill.

  • @vanessazlatic7849
    @vanessazlatic7849 6 місяців тому

    I always learn something from Brian and I always enjoy the lesson. GREAT WORK Brian! Thank you.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 6 місяців тому +26

    Just from the title, I'm gonna guess:
    - Floss & brush your teeth
    - Daily showers / baths
    - Strong self care, & hygiene practices
    - Dressing in a manner that shows she is as fashionable as she is respectable, that makes her feel confident in her own skin
    - cultivating a vibrant life and lifestyle that she loves that he gets curious about and wants to become a part of
    - spoils her friends with thoughtful, appropriate attention or celebration of like their birthdays or accomplishments and encouragement towards their goals.
    - maintains close relationships long term like family and friends.
    These show him that you value yourself and others enjoy the value you bring to their lives and your excitement about your plans for your life will be contagious.

  • @pascalledouven7022
    @pascalledouven7022 5 місяців тому +1

    Super video
    It seems so simple
    I like a man very much
    Its the beginning stadium
    I am waiting for him to respond/ call etc
    Seems natural indeed to be busy with my life
    My values
    Me doing what i like etc
    Just as a did before i met him

  • @MayuriPatel-iw5xo
    @MayuriPatel-iw5xo 6 місяців тому +14

    I don’t know which women watch this or care for men who need serving especial qualities to attract them but it’s the wrong precedent to set. Be yourself and do no more. If you start pandering to men’s deep needs etc you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of breadcrumbing. Be yorurself. Oscar wilder said he yourself everyone else is taken. Thank you.

    • @FeenstaubCupcake
      @FeenstaubCupcake 6 місяців тому +3

      Well I say, even though this video is about how to be attractive to men, I think there's many things one can learn for their own personal growth (because being yourself does not exclude personal development and change, although meant for yourself and nobody else, of course)

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 6 місяців тому +4

    I very much appreciate this video Thanking you.... you always help me feel so much better with so many things. I have a very complicated life, you're videos are so informative with humour that help me know I'm not alone with all these twist turns and red flags... Thank you, especially for staying to the very end I really love it when you do that 😁

  • @roxyrahban
    @roxyrahban 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi Brian , you talk about mystery and the early stages of dating. Can you please kindly specify when you consider to be the early stages of dating? How many dates or length of time?

  • @AddisonWeiss-xj1ho
    @AddisonWeiss-xj1ho 6 місяців тому +2

    I love and appreciate the info presented in these videos. Thanks for covering interesting topics!

  • @monikasenn2560
    @monikasenn2560 4 місяці тому

    i really like the way you bring your tipps over,,,,thank you!

  • @nankyahawa7986
    @nankyahawa7986 6 місяців тому +2

    What you give is what you get in a relationship.True story.

  • @ejeanroh377
    @ejeanroh377 6 місяців тому +1

    Interestingly I found most comments made by women.
    I was hoping to get the m an' s perspective on this video...
    He does make some very good points...

  • @CynthiaR-x8f
    @CynthiaR-x8f 5 місяців тому +2

    Super advice/ even for an old married lady!!!

    • @Sujowi
      @Sujowi 4 місяці тому

  • @marwaabdelkader2409
    @marwaabdelkader2409 6 місяців тому +2

    I really love your videos ! They are very helpful and insightful! Thank you for everything !🙏🙏

  • @DoughDashWord
    @DoughDashWord 6 місяців тому +8

    Sometimes I think I’m psychic because I just knew you were about to post! 😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JaneNewAuthor
    @JaneNewAuthor 6 місяців тому +11

    All I need to know now is how to attract men who aren't already married to somebody else!

  • @alyssaalberto9143
    @alyssaalberto9143 3 дні тому

    I like this episode. ❤ so seamless

  • @hightreestess
    @hightreestess 6 місяців тому +8

    Here for the comedy! 🤣 Love the comment, "Vampire hunting is a tough job!" 😆🤣😭

  • @kimfrederick7710
    @kimfrederick7710 6 місяців тому +12

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom

  • @31Alden
    @31Alden 4 місяці тому +2

    Not into play acting, playing coy and mysterious to create so-called “interest”. My, myself, and I is more than enough certainly for myself and any man I might encounter. I don’t have time to “strategize” in order to have a man in my life.

  • @VLoveTarot
    @VLoveTarot 6 місяців тому +5

    excellent points!

  • @patisha1
    @patisha1 6 місяців тому +10

    Good haircut Brian.

  • @SunshineHnubCi
    @SunshineHnubCi 4 місяці тому

    Best video on men ever, casual but so true

  • @Ziggimomspal68
    @Ziggimomspal68 6 місяців тому +1

    Excellent information, that I really needed. Thank you.

  • @harmonious_love
    @harmonious_love 6 місяців тому +1

    Your videos have so much value. Thank you ❤

  • @sheldonas7611
    @sheldonas7611 5 місяців тому

    Good one Brian. Glad I found you.

  • @LanaClarkLC
    @LanaClarkLC 6 місяців тому +17

    The sign he is obsessed in the beginning is a dopemine hit.

  • @NyNy-ly9js
    @NyNy-ly9js 6 місяців тому +1

    It should flow wit ease. No force situations.

  • @argyrovol
    @argyrovol 6 місяців тому +2

    He’s right

  • @hajer1986
    @hajer1986 3 місяці тому

    Hello from Algeria, thanks for these enriching advices

  • @sabat8068
    @sabat8068 6 місяців тому +3

    😂😂I really hate when people say i look tired.. 😵‍💫 It's the same as saying they don't like me.

  • @HenryYair
    @HenryYair 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for making this video, it helps me a lot

  • @zhengzhang2057
    @zhengzhang2057 6 місяців тому +9

    This is avoidant advantage, indeed.

  • @aavvcc
    @aavvcc 6 місяців тому +2

    Are there similar micro habits for those of us in long term relationships that we can keep in mind?

  • @reetsrituals4348
    @reetsrituals4348 6 місяців тому +3

    It’s Brian it’s Brian It’s Brian finally 🤗

  • @YourMajesty143
    @YourMajesty143 4 місяці тому +1

    I disagree with the response to the destroyed shirt. I agree with the premise of picking your battles, but I don't agree that means disregarding or tamping down your emotions. It's ok to express frustration or anger if you genuinely feel upset. But what you don't want to do is escalate that emotion into an argument. Express how you feel, but make sure he's made aware that you're choosing not to act on your emotions. Say "I feel upset that you ruined my favorite shirt, but I don't think it's big enough of a deal to expend what little energy I have picking a fight over this. I'm frustrated, but I acknowledge it was an honest mistake. I don't need an apology or anything, but in the future could you please make sure to sort our clothes so this doesn't happen again? I can trust that you're considerate enough about my feelings to remember. Thank you, love". Smooch.

  • @selmaamor3921
    @selmaamor3921 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for your wonderful advice ❤

  • @reneecaines9097
    @reneecaines9097 6 місяців тому +4

    Great tips Brian! Healthy partner want whole & healthy partners. ❤

  • @gailweaver6584
    @gailweaver6584 6 місяців тому +1

    Great answer

  • @morganchristmas6299
    @morganchristmas6299 6 місяців тому

    Thank you Brian, youre helping me so much more than you may know.
    Sincerley,
    Overcoming daddy issues (me)

  • @consciouslysecureliving8106
    @consciouslysecureliving8106 6 місяців тому +2

    Really great - thank you!

  • @dawns_swan
    @dawns_swan 6 місяців тому +1

    Skill is the art of love perfected in the next life or in a scripted movie but it's still worth trying with a shrewd but unselfish heart.

  • @titikoster9006
    @titikoster9006 6 місяців тому +1

    Excellent content. Thank you

  • @DebbieDilea
    @DebbieDilea 6 місяців тому +1

    This is me...great pointers though...thank you Bryan

  • @attorneyarlene
    @attorneyarlene 2 місяці тому

    Great video - thanks

  • @donicaschannel8220
    @donicaschannel8220 6 місяців тому +1

    What do you think about trying to have a long distance relationship? It is someone that I knew for 7 years but he moved away 3 years ago 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gailwagner4316
      @gailwagner4316 6 місяців тому +2

      I think it's very difficult

    • @wms72
      @wms72 6 місяців тому

      Limerence

  • @LightJoyHealing
    @LightJoyHealing 6 місяців тому +1

    Great video 🎊 🎉! Thank you 🙏 😊

  • @aoisoraa2
    @aoisoraa2 5 місяців тому +3

    just seeing my parents relationship everyday reminds me to stay single

  • @angelayaung7417
    @angelayaung7417 6 місяців тому

    You’re good Brian ❤

  • @MartilyRamagado
    @MartilyRamagado 6 місяців тому +36

    A man who wants to go slow isn't over his ex-lover and needs time to decide if "you're a good choice". When a man has to decide to pick you, he will NEVER love you. In the beginning, he goes slow because he doesn't trust you since he's still hurt and in love with his ex-lover. Of course, a man can't love twice or past his 30s because he's fallen in love before his teen to young adult years (17 - 27). A man's greatest memory is his youth, his first love, and his toxic ex-lover. He chased these two women of his past with his entire being and respected them. When he "settles", he will go slow and decide on the "nice girl" but will not trust her, love her, or connect with her emotions. He's moved on physically but not in his mind or heart. So, don't accept slow dating. Coming from a family generation of men who didn't get to marry their "first love" or "toxic ex-lover", I can say it damages families, especially the kids because the man has NO emotional connection to the kids but tries to "like" their kids. Why? Because he always had plans in mind to build a family with either his first love or toxic ex-lover. So, going slow is a man's way of saying "You're not really what I want but I need you to move on from my ex-lover".

    • @reneecaines9097
      @reneecaines9097 6 місяців тому +42

      Sounds like a man who needs some therapy and personal growth. Nothing highlights emotional immaturity of a grown adult attatched to the bumps and bruises of dating in their youth. Every person had struggles in early dating...and we grow from it. Those who can't or won't grow are people to avoid dating as a whole.

    • @BGZ2022
      @BGZ2022 6 місяців тому +1

      😢this is happening to me for the last 1,5 year…

    • @fluffedsquirrel
      @fluffedsquirrel 6 місяців тому +4

      Damaged goods....

    • @veronicasmith1332
      @veronicasmith1332 6 місяців тому +10

      better slow then too fast narcistic man moving too fast most of them

    • @andziagreen4922
      @andziagreen4922 6 місяців тому +11

      You are spot on with your comment. Big number of men are not being honest with themselves and women entering their life, who they are lying to just to get attention, validation and sex. It's absolut disgrace but this is men, not all but many. They are with one woman but in their head they are still hoping to reunite with first love or toxic one who they got addicted to and unable to let go in their head because was addictive connection - trauma bond (mixed emotions and feelings involved).

  • @donicaschannel8220
    @donicaschannel8220 6 місяців тому +1

    Ok I will take this advice!!

  • @phyllischolette1751
    @phyllischolette1751 5 місяців тому

    Love your advice

  • @lindafish2789
    @lindafish2789 6 місяців тому

    Presence of mind!

  • @joannegild8001
    @joannegild8001 5 місяців тому

    The wisest thing I did when first starting to date my guy was to say, Hey, back off! When he was being too controlling. He apologized and got better.

  • @savytigress
    @savytigress 4 місяці тому

    thankYou !!🙌🏻💛🙌🏻

  • @bettyfelton1362
    @bettyfelton1362 27 днів тому

    Absolutely 💯 spot on 😮❤😅