this is bot pushing this is knowing basic principles that help u step in ur femminine energy and find a man who actually acts like u want without manipulation
I love that you spoke about the red flags of doing too much too soon. I’m so sick of that and I need to get accustomed to men taking their time (but still showing interest), because I’m used to the lovebombing 🙃
@@Aymana44 three weeks in insane. I’m talking about not texting every day but still checking in throughout the week. Also not pushing to spend so much time from the first date or hinting at exclusivity too early when we don’t really know each other
@@yzma6142 I did....didn't go over well. But I think it's more an insecurity on his part to overcome a fear of me leaving or losing interest but it gets overwhelming at times as I feel a bit trapped.
All these points happened to me. Its not a list for him or me. It came naturally. When u meet someone u like, it takes time to get to know him. It doesnt happen over night. Why? When he was hurt in his past, this creates a man to have a mysterious poor quality about him. U will have to be patient and understand this individual…u will experience strange feelings and feel this man is something Lol. But continue to be forgiving and give it time, and at the same time always confront him with anything u feel that is disrespectful or he was acting strange like red flags. Anyways, go with the flow and be who u are. Things will fall in place. Always be kind, enjoy, have fun, and if he is not willing to improve and change for the better for the relationship to grow then just leave him and dont waste ur time anymore.
@@er_5406In a sense we are always growing from one stage of development to the next and the growth process itself requires nurturing. Alignment of stages is key nevertheless the nurturing energy will be used for anything in this life to grow.
I told this guy the same thing, that you like the Idea of me but don’t really want to be with me. The relationship was going to fast for me. I tried to slow it down and he just got out of a relationship… he was really trying to fill a void within himself to feel better about himself when really it was a temporary filling to boost his ego. It’s annoying. I told him stop putting me on a pedestal. I have my own life to live. I don’t need him 24/7. I need my space.
Brian, you have excellent content. You are a bright soul, and your compassion and wisdom shine through all of the incredibly insightful analysis and advice you provide. Your humor is gentle and lovely. I’ve followed you for a few years now and always get so excited when you post. Thank you for being a true knight of polarity and sage counsel. 😊🙏🏻
But some men fall head over heels in love with a woman - like the Kylie song ‘can’t get you out of my head’ - yes okay he doesn’t know the woman yet - yes it’s still early days and a little bit of fantasy in his head. Basically - you don’t know for sure for awhile - doesn’t always mean red flag. Try saying no to sth, and giving a different opinion and leaning out a bit. A narc will not have the patience and will retire early.
I voice my disapproval and anger mixed with humor. And I make sure to state that although I am upset I still love him and shall not destroy him cause his cuteness has diffused the situation. 😂
Really love your concise content that gets to the point quickly. Your Humorous retorts are hilarious but also laser sharp. Keep them coming we ladies need these videos.
Why is it offensive if someone says: "you look tired"? to me, it shows they noticed me and i always appreciate it, and feel grateful that i was seen enough that a difference was noticed.
@@pattysue9990 I think it depends, sometimes people say it as a way to be undirectly rude, like if I don't have my hair all done up and I don't have a full face of makeup, but yes sometimes it is sweet
I think because (for me) it’s like pointing out the obvious on my appearance, saying I “look tired” insinuating I look worse than usual, rather than “are you feeling tired?” Or “how are you feeling?” which focus more on how I’m actually feeling and give an opening for me to talk about it.
@@reenujose4937 it’s not!!! Some people just prefer otherwise. Don’t overthink it, nobody hates you, they probably know you said it with that intention, and its wonderful that you mean to check in on them:)
Yes! That's actually a huge deal breaker that people now are just starting to notice. Same goes for men talking about ex GFs, wives and crushes. DEFINITELY no explicit details about past sex! It's not erotic; it just makes one look trashy and low value. That's just my opinion of course. To each his own.
Someone talking about their exes is the biggest turn off. I don't even date but men whi want me often try it with trauma dumping. Aa if I Was supposed to heal their eounds. Not your therapist, not your social worker. I never dated, so I have no exes to talk about but if I had, I would keep it private. If they caused trauma that's a different story, than I would talk to my family and besties about it. But not another guy, neither male friend or l8ve interest
You’re special gift to the world G! Again, I gain so much value from your insights & guidance. I had to learn most f this on my own (no pos male role models/influences), and hearing it again through your videos helps me reinforce many things I needed to remember/resolidify. Seriously, this is one of the top YT channels ever.
Yes - all good advise and if it comes naturally, you don’t need to worry this all but these days people are less and less engaged or bothered. To me it’s natural to communicate well and a good part of your time sharing together - after all it’s part of being in a relationship.
I appreciate every video you make. I've been watching you since i was fifteen and i just recently turned eighteen, i mean I've never dated before but i learn a lot from these videos, even finding hope to one day be with a worthy man. Thanks a lot sir ☺
In my lifetime, I either personally knew couples or had friends who spoke of couples they knew who were together from less than a year to 10 plus years before marrying and there honestly is no magic number for how long couples should get to know each other prior to marriage. People change and they either flow together or apart. Life circumstances can rock the most solid marriages. Commit to each other and say the vows that you truly mean and will keep, if you do decide to marry.
Hi Brian, I so like the use of humor in this video. If there is one thing that I am absolutely drawn to in a person, it is a great sense of humor. Nothing can replace that! I agree with you 💯 on everything that you have explained here. Thank you so much for all the great tips on relationships. 😊
I love your books so much! I’ve already read two of them! Thank you so much for providing me such a peace of mind! You are truly talented and I just think the world of you Brian Heath Knox!❤❤❤❤
Yup, a guy was gushing on & on about how great I am (on the first date) - I wanted to say “You’re right, but you don’t know me well enough to know it yet, that’s all projection!”
I don’t think I’m a very good book. There’s a lot I should probably just keep to myself. I talk too much. 😅 I think if someone is out there who is right for me, he will just accept me the way I am. And if there is no one for me… oh well. I’m good by myself.
I kind of feel the same way but I'm also working on improving myself for myself in the meantime. I want to live the life that I'd be attracted to. If I like a guy who goes to the and has a nice body...I go to the gym so I like my own body. If I like a guy who cooks, I have been teaching myself how to cook better.
Just from the title, I'm gonna guess: - Floss & brush your teeth - Daily showers / baths - Strong self care, & hygiene practices - Dressing in a manner that shows she is as fashionable as she is respectable, that makes her feel confident in her own skin - cultivating a vibrant life and lifestyle that she loves that he gets curious about and wants to become a part of - spoils her friends with thoughtful, appropriate attention or celebration of like their birthdays or accomplishments and encouragement towards their goals. - maintains close relationships long term like family and friends. These show him that you value yourself and others enjoy the value you bring to their lives and your excitement about your plans for your life will be contagious.
Super video It seems so simple I like a man very much Its the beginning stadium I am waiting for him to respond/ call etc Seems natural indeed to be busy with my life My values Me doing what i like etc Just as a did before i met him
I don’t know which women watch this or care for men who need serving especial qualities to attract them but it’s the wrong precedent to set. Be yourself and do no more. If you start pandering to men’s deep needs etc you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of breadcrumbing. Be yorurself. Oscar wilder said he yourself everyone else is taken. Thank you.
Well I say, even though this video is about how to be attractive to men, I think there's many things one can learn for their own personal growth (because being yourself does not exclude personal development and change, although meant for yourself and nobody else, of course)
I very much appreciate this video Thanking you.... you always help me feel so much better with so many things. I have a very complicated life, you're videos are so informative with humour that help me know I'm not alone with all these twist turns and red flags... Thank you, especially for staying to the very end I really love it when you do that 😁
Hi Brian , you talk about mystery and the early stages of dating. Can you please kindly specify when you consider to be the early stages of dating? How many dates or length of time?
Not into play acting, playing coy and mysterious to create so-called “interest”. My, myself, and I is more than enough certainly for myself and any man I might encounter. I don’t have time to “strategize” in order to have a man in my life.
I disagree with the response to the destroyed shirt. I agree with the premise of picking your battles, but I don't agree that means disregarding or tamping down your emotions. It's ok to express frustration or anger if you genuinely feel upset. But what you don't want to do is escalate that emotion into an argument. Express how you feel, but make sure he's made aware that you're choosing not to act on your emotions. Say "I feel upset that you ruined my favorite shirt, but I don't think it's big enough of a deal to expend what little energy I have picking a fight over this. I'm frustrated, but I acknowledge it was an honest mistake. I don't need an apology or anything, but in the future could you please make sure to sort our clothes so this doesn't happen again? I can trust that you're considerate enough about my feelings to remember. Thank you, love". Smooch.
A man who wants to go slow isn't over his ex-lover and needs time to decide if "you're a good choice". When a man has to decide to pick you, he will NEVER love you. In the beginning, he goes slow because he doesn't trust you since he's still hurt and in love with his ex-lover. Of course, a man can't love twice or past his 30s because he's fallen in love before his teen to young adult years (17 - 27). A man's greatest memory is his youth, his first love, and his toxic ex-lover. He chased these two women of his past with his entire being and respected them. When he "settles", he will go slow and decide on the "nice girl" but will not trust her, love her, or connect with her emotions. He's moved on physically but not in his mind or heart. So, don't accept slow dating. Coming from a family generation of men who didn't get to marry their "first love" or "toxic ex-lover", I can say it damages families, especially the kids because the man has NO emotional connection to the kids but tries to "like" their kids. Why? Because he always had plans in mind to build a family with either his first love or toxic ex-lover. So, going slow is a man's way of saying "You're not really what I want but I need you to move on from my ex-lover".
Sounds like a man who needs some therapy and personal growth. Nothing highlights emotional immaturity of a grown adult attatched to the bumps and bruises of dating in their youth. Every person had struggles in early dating...and we grow from it. Those who can't or won't grow are people to avoid dating as a whole.
You are spot on with your comment. Big number of men are not being honest with themselves and women entering their life, who they are lying to just to get attention, validation and sex. It's absolut disgrace but this is men, not all but many. They are with one woman but in their head they are still hoping to reunite with first love or toxic one who they got addicted to and unable to let go in their head because was addictive connection - trauma bond (mixed emotions and feelings involved).
"It should be 2 wholes coming together, not 2 halves trying to make a whole" - So spot on !
Perfection!!
When it happens naturally you don't need to push anything.
Exactly
Agree, theories and reality often vs each other according to biological, environmental, economically etc.
this is bot pushing this is knowing basic principles that help u step in ur femminine energy and find a man who actually acts like u want without manipulation
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I love that you spoke about the red flags of doing too much too soon. I’m so sick of that and I need to get accustomed to men taking their time (but still showing interest), because I’m used to the lovebombing 🙃
So even though he doesn't text you or talk to you for three weeks, that means he is still getting to know me?
@@Aymana44 three weeks in insane. I’m talking about not texting every day but still checking in throughout the week. Also not pushing to spend so much time from the first date or hinting at exclusivity too early when we don’t really know each other
@@gailwagner4316 I personally don’t like it but I wouldn’t say red, maybe yellow. You can try slowing the pace and see how they react
@@yzma6142 I did....didn't go over well. But I think it's more an insecurity on his part to overcome a fear of me leaving or losing interest but it gets overwhelming at times as I feel a bit trapped.
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All these points happened to me. Its not a list for him or me. It came naturally. When u meet someone u like, it takes time to get to know him. It doesnt happen over night. Why? When he was hurt in his past, this creates a man to have a mysterious poor quality about him. U will have to be patient and understand this individual…u will experience strange feelings and feel this man is something Lol. But continue to be forgiving and give it time, and at the same time always confront him with anything u feel that is disrespectful or he was acting strange like red flags. Anyways, go with the flow and be who u are. Things will fall in place. Always be kind, enjoy, have fun, and if he is not willing to improve and change for the better for the relationship to grow then just leave him and dont waste ur time anymore.
This💯🙌
Nope. Ain't nobody is gonna play the "patient loving mama with his baby boy 🍼🐣"
@@er_5406right?
@@er_5406In a sense we are always growing from one stage of development to the next and the growth process itself requires nurturing. Alignment of stages is key nevertheless the nurturing energy will be used for anything in this life to grow.
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I told this guy the same thing, that you like the Idea of me but don’t really want to be with me. The relationship was going to fast for me. I tried to slow it down and he just got out of a relationship… he was really trying to fill a void within himself to feel better about himself when really it was a temporary filling to boost his ego.
It’s annoying. I told him stop putting me on a pedestal. I have my own life to live. I don’t need him 24/7. I need my space.
Good for you. I agree 100 percent❤
Good catch.
I could have written this post, exact thing happened to me
Brian, you have excellent content. You are a bright soul, and your compassion and wisdom shine through all of the incredibly insightful analysis and advice you provide. Your humor is gentle and lovely. I’ve followed you for a few years now and always get so excited when you post. Thank you for being a true knight of polarity and sage counsel. 😊🙏🏻
A lot of men that move quick could be love bombing. Big red flag of narcissistic behavior.
But some men fall head over heels in love with a woman - like the Kylie song ‘can’t get you out of my head’ - yes okay he doesn’t know the woman yet - yes it’s still early days and a little bit of fantasy in his head.
Basically - you don’t know for sure for awhile - doesn’t always mean red flag.
Try saying no to sth, and giving a different opinion and leaning out a bit. A narc will not have the patience and will retire early.
You said it perfectly 💯
I've witnessed this...
@@caroliner1901 Narcs also have a tendency to easily tip into a Rage Fit when the tiniest things don’t go their way. Big red flag.
These really were enlightening, there's a timing when someone is supposed to know something in life. Thank you so much.
I voice my disapproval and anger mixed with humor. And I make sure to state that although I am upset I still love him and shall not destroy him cause his cuteness has diffused the situation. 😂
Yes! Humor is so effective in diffusing a potentially volatile situation.
I’ve seen a lot of these videos online but, I appreciate yours the most. Thank you. 🙏
You are like wise big brother 😊
Yes he certainly is 😊
30 min massage per episode sounds like the best course of action haha
Really love your concise content that gets to the point quickly. Your Humorous retorts are hilarious but also laser sharp. Keep them coming we ladies need these videos.
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Why is it offensive if someone says: "you look tired"? to me, it shows they noticed me and i always appreciate it, and feel grateful that i was seen enough that a difference was noticed.
Yes. Same here. I didn't know it is not a sentence that we are not supposed to say?
@@pattysue9990 I think it depends, sometimes people say it as a way to be undirectly rude, like if I don't have my hair all done up and I don't have a full face of makeup, but yes sometimes it is sweet
I think because (for me) it’s like pointing out the obvious on my appearance, saying I “look tired” insinuating I look worse than usual, rather than “are you feeling tired?” Or “how are you feeling?” which focus more on how I’m actually feeling and give an opening for me to talk about it.
@@higo4067I didn't even know it is offensive. I had said that to many people with genuine concern and care. They might be hating me now.
@@reenujose4937 it’s not!!! Some people just prefer otherwise. Don’t overthink it, nobody hates you, they probably know you said it with that intention, and its wonderful that you mean to check in on them:)
You're such a good speaker with great information. Thank you.
Also I wouldn’t mention previous boyfriends, husbands etc.
Yes! That's actually a huge deal breaker that people now are just starting to notice. Same goes for men talking about ex GFs, wives and crushes. DEFINITELY no explicit details about past sex! It's not erotic; it just makes one look trashy and low value. That's just my opinion of course. To each his own.
Someone talking about their exes is the biggest turn off. I don't even date but men whi want me often try it with trauma dumping. Aa if I Was supposed to heal their eounds. Not your therapist, not your social worker. I never dated, so I have no exes to talk about but if I had, I would keep it private. If they caused trauma that's a different story, than I would talk to my family and besties about it. But not another guy, neither male friend or l8ve interest
Hey Brian! good food for thought as usual, you always deliver.Nice to see you.
You’re special gift to the world G! Again, I gain so much value from your insights & guidance. I had to learn most f this on my own (no pos male role models/influences), and hearing it again through your videos helps me reinforce many things I needed to remember/resolidify. Seriously, this is one of the top YT channels ever.
My compliments on the high quality of the advices and on the beautiful and entertaining delivery! 👏
"There is no scarcity"
and "Vampire hunting is no joke" are my two favorite quotes from this video
He's like teaching us how to love ourself so men will fall in love with us, too
If you cannot get along with you, why should anyone else get along with you?
Thank you Brian Nox🙏this is one of the best both personal and relationship advices I've ever watched.👌
I agree with all of this!
Yes - all good advise and if it comes naturally, you don’t need to worry this all but these days people are less and less engaged or bothered. To me it’s natural to communicate well and a good part of your time sharing together - after all it’s part of being in a relationship.
I appreciate every video you make. I've been watching you since i was fifteen and i just recently turned eighteen, i mean I've never dated before but i learn a lot from these videos, even finding hope to one day be with a worthy man. Thanks a lot sir ☺
Good luck! Sounds like you are way ahead of the game! I'm 55 and I'm only now learning this after a lifetime of mistakes. 😛
This is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing these truths @ Brian Nox!
Excellent tips that go beyond intriguing your partner but promote a balanced life as well.
Take the dating game with light-heartedness and humor! I believe most girls tend to get very burdened......
In my lifetime, I either personally knew couples or had friends who spoke of couples they knew who were together from less than a year to 10 plus years before marrying and there honestly is no magic number for how long couples should get to know each other prior to marriage. People change and they either flow together or apart. Life circumstances can rock the most solid marriages. Commit to each other and say the vows that you truly mean and will keep, if you do decide to marry.
Thank you for this list. Thank you for your directness, delivery and humor!🙏🏼❤
Thank you for those beautiful reminders! I love that many of them are for women already in a relationship too. It really helps!
So much advice out there for women! Maybe I haven't come across as much advice out there for men.
I'm really consider u as father you voice makes my feel comfortable. thank you . 🎉❤
I’m really happy to find you’re channel again 👩🏻💼
Hi Brian, I so like the use of humor in this video. If there is one thing that I am absolutely drawn to in a person, it is a great sense of humor. Nothing can replace that! I agree with you 💯 on everything that you have explained here. Thank you so much for all the great tips on relationships. 😊
Come in handy as always!, thanks Brian, our Brilliant, Wise Coach!❤ ( and cute 🥰)
I love your books so much! I’ve already read two of them! Thank you so much for providing me such a peace of mind! You are truly talented and I just think the world of you Brian Heath Knox!❤❤❤❤
Or "Hirts" ?
@@duenadil1471Geert, is his real name.
HA!!!!! I knew a new video was coming!!!!!! I was binge watching your videos yesterday!
we need more regular videos Bry !!!!
He is a busy person
Thank you! I learned a lot that I wish I'd know 15 years ago! Better late than never! 😊😊🌼🌼🌼🌼
You are the best 😊
Really good advice and I like the way you bring that home very much because it makes me smile !
I love your videos Brian. Thank you very much for the quality of topics you talk about
Yup, a guy was gushing on & on about how great I am (on the first date) - I wanted to say “You’re right, but you don’t know me well enough to know it yet, that’s all projection!”
Thank you for this! Your explanations clarified so many things about how men relate to women.
I don’t think I’m a very good book. There’s a lot I should probably just keep to myself. I talk too much. 😅 I think if someone is out there who is right for me, he will just accept me the way I am. And if there is no one for me… oh well. I’m good by myself.
I kind of feel the same way but I'm also working on improving myself for myself in the meantime. I want to live the life that I'd be attracted to. If I like a guy who goes to the and has a nice body...I go to the gym so I like my own body. If I like a guy who cooks, I have been teaching myself how to cook better.
The skill of love is better than a pill.
I always learn something from Brian and I always enjoy the lesson. GREAT WORK Brian! Thank you.
Just from the title, I'm gonna guess:
- Floss & brush your teeth
- Daily showers / baths
- Strong self care, & hygiene practices
- Dressing in a manner that shows she is as fashionable as she is respectable, that makes her feel confident in her own skin
- cultivating a vibrant life and lifestyle that she loves that he gets curious about and wants to become a part of
- spoils her friends with thoughtful, appropriate attention or celebration of like their birthdays or accomplishments and encouragement towards their goals.
- maintains close relationships long term like family and friends.
These show him that you value yourself and others enjoy the value you bring to their lives and your excitement about your plans for your life will be contagious.
Nope, the video actually has good advices
Super video
It seems so simple
I like a man very much
Its the beginning stadium
I am waiting for him to respond/ call etc
Seems natural indeed to be busy with my life
My values
Me doing what i like etc
Just as a did before i met him
I don’t know which women watch this or care for men who need serving especial qualities to attract them but it’s the wrong precedent to set. Be yourself and do no more. If you start pandering to men’s deep needs etc you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of breadcrumbing. Be yorurself. Oscar wilder said he yourself everyone else is taken. Thank you.
Well I say, even though this video is about how to be attractive to men, I think there's many things one can learn for their own personal growth (because being yourself does not exclude personal development and change, although meant for yourself and nobody else, of course)
I very much appreciate this video Thanking you.... you always help me feel so much better with so many things. I have a very complicated life, you're videos are so informative with humour that help me know I'm not alone with all these twist turns and red flags... Thank you, especially for staying to the very end I really love it when you do that 😁
Hi Brian , you talk about mystery and the early stages of dating. Can you please kindly specify when you consider to be the early stages of dating? How many dates or length of time?
I love and appreciate the info presented in these videos. Thanks for covering interesting topics!
i really like the way you bring your tipps over,,,,thank you!
What you give is what you get in a relationship.True story.
Interestingly I found most comments made by women.
I was hoping to get the m an' s perspective on this video...
He does make some very good points...
Super advice/ even for an old married lady!!!
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I really love your videos ! They are very helpful and insightful! Thank you for everything !🙏🙏
Sometimes I think I’m psychic because I just knew you were about to post! 😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤❤
All I need to know now is how to attract men who aren't already married to somebody else!
I like this episode. ❤ so seamless
Here for the comedy! 🤣 Love the comment, "Vampire hunting is a tough job!" 😆🤣😭
Thanks for sharing your wisdom
Not into play acting, playing coy and mysterious to create so-called “interest”. My, myself, and I is more than enough certainly for myself and any man I might encounter. I don’t have time to “strategize” in order to have a man in my life.
excellent points!
Good haircut Brian.
Best video on men ever, casual but so true
Excellent information, that I really needed. Thank you.
Your videos have so much value. Thank you ❤
Good one Brian. Glad I found you.
The sign he is obsessed in the beginning is a dopemine hit.
Sure is!!
It should flow wit ease. No force situations.
He’s right
Hello from Algeria, thanks for these enriching advices
😂😂I really hate when people say i look tired.. 😵💫 It's the same as saying they don't like me.
Thank you so much for making this video, it helps me a lot
This is avoidant advantage, indeed.
Are there similar micro habits for those of us in long term relationships that we can keep in mind?
It’s Brian it’s Brian It’s Brian finally 🤗
I disagree with the response to the destroyed shirt. I agree with the premise of picking your battles, but I don't agree that means disregarding or tamping down your emotions. It's ok to express frustration or anger if you genuinely feel upset. But what you don't want to do is escalate that emotion into an argument. Express how you feel, but make sure he's made aware that you're choosing not to act on your emotions. Say "I feel upset that you ruined my favorite shirt, but I don't think it's big enough of a deal to expend what little energy I have picking a fight over this. I'm frustrated, but I acknowledge it was an honest mistake. I don't need an apology or anything, but in the future could you please make sure to sort our clothes so this doesn't happen again? I can trust that you're considerate enough about my feelings to remember. Thank you, love". Smooch.
Thank you so much for your wonderful advice ❤
Great tips Brian! Healthy partner want whole & healthy partners. ❤
Great answer
Thank you Brian, youre helping me so much more than you may know.
Sincerley,
Overcoming daddy issues (me)
Really great - thank you!
Skill is the art of love perfected in the next life or in a scripted movie but it's still worth trying with a shrewd but unselfish heart.
Excellent content. Thank you
This is me...great pointers though...thank you Bryan
Great video - thanks
What do you think about trying to have a long distance relationship? It is someone that I knew for 7 years but he moved away 3 years ago 🤦🏽♀️
I think it's very difficult
Limerence
Great video 🎊 🎉! Thank you 🙏 😊
just seeing my parents relationship everyday reminds me to stay single
You’re good Brian ❤
A man who wants to go slow isn't over his ex-lover and needs time to decide if "you're a good choice". When a man has to decide to pick you, he will NEVER love you. In the beginning, he goes slow because he doesn't trust you since he's still hurt and in love with his ex-lover. Of course, a man can't love twice or past his 30s because he's fallen in love before his teen to young adult years (17 - 27). A man's greatest memory is his youth, his first love, and his toxic ex-lover. He chased these two women of his past with his entire being and respected them. When he "settles", he will go slow and decide on the "nice girl" but will not trust her, love her, or connect with her emotions. He's moved on physically but not in his mind or heart. So, don't accept slow dating. Coming from a family generation of men who didn't get to marry their "first love" or "toxic ex-lover", I can say it damages families, especially the kids because the man has NO emotional connection to the kids but tries to "like" their kids. Why? Because he always had plans in mind to build a family with either his first love or toxic ex-lover. So, going slow is a man's way of saying "You're not really what I want but I need you to move on from my ex-lover".
Sounds like a man who needs some therapy and personal growth. Nothing highlights emotional immaturity of a grown adult attatched to the bumps and bruises of dating in their youth. Every person had struggles in early dating...and we grow from it. Those who can't or won't grow are people to avoid dating as a whole.
😢this is happening to me for the last 1,5 year…
Damaged goods....
better slow then too fast narcistic man moving too fast most of them
You are spot on with your comment. Big number of men are not being honest with themselves and women entering their life, who they are lying to just to get attention, validation and sex. It's absolut disgrace but this is men, not all but many. They are with one woman but in their head they are still hoping to reunite with first love or toxic one who they got addicted to and unable to let go in their head because was addictive connection - trauma bond (mixed emotions and feelings involved).
Ok I will take this advice!!
Love your advice
Presence of mind!
The wisest thing I did when first starting to date my guy was to say, Hey, back off! When he was being too controlling. He apologized and got better.
thankYou !!🙌🏻💛🙌🏻
Absolutely 💯 spot on 😮❤😅