The same could be said for a lot of conservative people. I can't tell you how many comments I've seen basically bashing women for choosing NOT to live this way, as if they're somehow useless for choosing to go to work or get an education.
no one is syaing that. literally no one. they are saying you can chose what you want, just dont sit here and say when they DONT chose this that theyre a problem as a "modern women" thats the really dubious part...
@@macxavier168 EXACTLY its always about a womens choice to do so! and not a mans place for us to bash them if they dont wanna be a trad wife. or even other trad wives bashing women who dont want this lifestyle
I’m a hard working feminist woman who welds and I think it’s wonderful that women are choosing the lifestyle that works for them. One woman may enjoy climbing the corporate ladder while another woman enjoys staying home and baking bread for her husband and children. I think it’s beautiful that we get to choose
I definitely benefit from having a traditional wife but she benefits just as much. She’s so good to me that it inspires me to find ways to improve myself to be worthy of her and to be a better man for her. When I please her she pleases me in return and when she does something that please me I please her in return. When you’re good and loving to your spouse it always comes back to you in big dividends. Now, it’s my goal and Dream to make her the happiest woman on earth 😊❤
I can see how this life would be appealing for women, swapping the stress of a job to float around in nice outfits and make cookies but as a dude where it's tough to survive on one wage in an economic downturn, I'm very happy my wife is more independent and wants to be self sufficient and help to bring in money
Yeah . And women are unhappy in the long run . Growing up my dad was married to his work and didn't approve of mum working . In the end she was miserable and had several anger issues , he was overworked and ended up involuntarily neglecting his kids , and I have several issues now because of that damned trad family
You are a man, he is a boy . They met when he was just 20 and she was 22, and got married 2 years later. The guy is in his early 20s. They have been married for less than a year, no kids . Now he is supporting one extra person and she is cooking for two. Let's see what they think about this arrangement after a few years.
Yes, the degree to which your family can do this successfully depends on your economic success and how well one person can really take care of the family. It's different for everyone. I totally understand not liking the corporate grind, but well... Sometimes both partners have to bear with it, because you need both incomes! Truthfully, more women than men have this option, and I sometimes feel really bad for men, because most of them are expected to spend their youth working in jobs they often times despise, and many men do it without complaint because they know it s expected of them and they love their family. I wish more men had the opportunity to either find work they actually like or stay home with their families. So many men miss their family growing up and regret it in their old age.
I work from home, but my husband works harder than me and also has a bigger salary.While he helps a lot in the house whenever he can, I am the one that does most of the cleaning and cooks.At first it was pretty frustrating, but then I remembered that when we were both college students, he also did all the work in the house without complaining very much.So I stopped and thought:"So what if I'm the one that does most of the things in the house?My job is pretty fun and most of the time easy, so I can do a lot of things in the house.Also, he treats me like a princess, so he deserves to be treated like a prince too"
Exactly and good job at realising that, so many women complain about even lifting a finger in the relationship, and god forbid they have to break a sweat. I wasn’t even married , just in relationships and i still did fixing around, throwing the garbage, did i’d say most of the cooking as well, i never complained. But they would always find something to complain about. Bless you and wish you luck. I also raised plenty of kids growing up even tho i was a kid (living in a building full of family members), and yeah kids can be rascals, working in the house can be boring but its way easier than any back breaking work i did in construction or even office jobs.
Trad wife/mom/homeschooler, and I absolutely LOVE it!!! Yes, I worked hard for my degree and worked before transitioning to a Trad wife. In my opinion, I'd rather be home serving my family than at work any day. ❤
@interestedobserver Serving definition: in performing duties or services for another person. So by definition, yes I serve my family by performing duties as a mom and wife such as cooking, cleaning, running errands, homeschooling etc. No different than performing duties for a job. The difference is that I'm pouring into my family instead of a company. Plus, I'm not the only one who serves my family... we work as a team. Hope this helps you understand!
This is mutual submission, both have defined their roles. The wife works at home, the husband works at his job, and both benefit from it. If they are happy and content with that arrangement, then so be it. It's not anyone's business to judge.
People aren’t really judging. No one actually cares. There have been “trad” wives for years and years. Thanks to “scary” feminism, it’s now a healthier version of this set up.
My wife and I are team. I love her with all my heart and soul! We are very happy. She provides domestic support to our children and me. I provide the income, do the outside work on the house, and repair and maintenance on the inside of the house. Our children are now grown, and we are proud of them. They tell us over and over how grateful they are that their mother was home when they got home from school. Traditional marriages are Biblical marriages. There is nothing better.
Best thing I ever did was ask my traditional wife's father for his blessings in marrying his daughter. 23 years and 3 amazing sons later we are still going strong! Traditional women is the best decision a man can make. Just remember brothers, that means you have to be traditional too. So get up off your ass and figure out how you're going to give that amazing women and your children's the lives they deserve. I did, so can you! But be prepared cause getting to that point sucked. Ball busting for around 15 years
Divorce is not an option or a threat: A couple of days after my husband proposed to me, I sobbed. I told him I was so afraid I wouldn’t be a good wife since I didn’t have good examples growing up. My parents threw around divorce like it was meaningless and I prayed I wouldn’t fall into that “habit” as well. Fortunately, I have an incredible husband that keeps Christ in the center of our marriage. Before getting married, we took pre-marital counseling at our church, we read the books our pastor recommended, we continue taking classes and Bible studies together. We went into marriage knowing the odds are against us (both from divorced families and were very young when we got married) but both agreed that divorce isn’t an option. We’ve been married 19 years and I’m still head over heels for that man 🥰
Just so we're clear: this traditional family setup is NOT a Western Christian concept. It has existed for hundreds of years in almost every culture and country, especially in Asia, where I live.
@@jimmcneal5292 polygamy is wrong. Theses husbands have only one wife that's their wives love them. Polygamy was only in common among kings that too for political reasons.
@@sharmi387 lol no. Polygamy is natural for humans and always was. And several women can love the same man. If you'd think a little you'd have realised that it wasn't only kings who were polygamous, but actually a lot of wealthy people in traditional society(we can see this in old testament, and witness in today's agrarian countries in Africa and eurasia -Afghanistan, for example) You(I assume you're female because of you nickname) probably just don't want to share.
@@jimmcneal5292 monogamy is expected and deserved in marriage. There is no reason a man should need more than one woman, nor any reason a woman should have to be okay with 'sharing' their husband; one man and one woman was the original design for marriage. Kings and Rich people have always had different morals; they also often had no issues with killing whole communities for land and/or as scare tactics for their political regimes. I don't see anyone saying 'oh killing whole communities is fine, the rich and royal did it so it's cool'. Polygamy isn't a normal occurrence nor is it right morally. (or under most laws)
I had to go to work after my husband passed and while I have learned to be content with where I'm at in life. Dare I say proud of the life I've built for my children and I. When I hear people bash it it hurts my heart as I miss my old life so very much. I miss my husband. I miss being home with my kids. Just because it's not for them doesn't mean it's unfulfilling to those of us who want to live that way.
I think the choice of a "traditional wife" triggers most women that don't have a husband that is willing to be a "traditional husband." I'm so grateful for my "traditional husband" for making it possible so I may serve as a "traditional wife." ❤
That and modern feminism is teaching them that if you even slightly rely on a man he will beat and abuse you. You can tell from a lot of the negative comments these woman receive.
@@interestedobserver You apparently haven't seen too many of these videos because a lot of the feminist types are pretty angry about them. They go as far as making jokes about their husbands beating them and then say that they're supporting white supremacy and Nazism.
Its just beautiful to see a traditional beautiful black woman submitting to her husband 😍😍😍 While receiving love and affection in return. As a young black woman myself I am happy for her and will choose the right man worth submitting to while getting pampered 💖😍
It was beautiful!! I agree. Modern society has warped the understanding of family to make it seem like men oppressed women. The historical reality is men sacrificed everything to provide for their wife and family, and in return the women looked after the man. Now society is comprised of deadbeat males looking for casual sex from self absorbed women. It is only now we are seeing the large scale cost of this. Depression is up, childbirth down. Statistically, the most unhappy demographic in society today is a single female in her early 40s with a career and no family.
@@cybtb I wouldn't say the most unhappiest demographic because most women are either happier single or married. I heard that there is a rise of single men. There are women unhappy in their marriages
I've been a trad wife for over 30 years. I do have a part time job that I work from home. But my kids know when they get home, mom is there. No coming home to an empty house. I prepare my husband's meals, wash his clothes and make the bed, keep the house. It is a gift he and God gave me and I need to honor him for working so hard for us. Men are under appreciated in this woke society. Its heartbreaking. People just want to hate on others now. But you do what is working for you. Congratulations on being a trad wife, your doing the right thing.
I have no problem woth women being homemakers. However, I am astounded when the one woman said "the way our ancestors did things" because modern inventions make certain chores less labor intensive than they once were.
As someone who has experienced both positive and negative of the traditional life, I love this video. My father was not a "traditional husband" and therefore making my mother and his daughters ACT the traditional life style felt like slavery to me. However, when I got out of that and became a wife to the most wonderful man, the things that were once a burden became a joy. My husband in turn, believing me to be the most wonderful woman, is always trying to make me happy as well. As of right now he is currently trying to get my new computer set up, which may take all day, while I'm doing dishes and watching UA-cam videos. Traditional life is not a burden, nor should it be. But it should be noted that BOTH parties in the marriage should have a desire for that type of life first. My parents are now divorced. (Thank you God) And it was the best thing to happen to my mom. If my father had been faithful, loving, devoted to family, and didn't spend everything they had on only whatever he wanted I think I would have enjoyed the traditional life growing up.... I had not intended to make this so long. Sorry for going on a rant just there.
So glad for you that you've found happiness and a true partner! And you hit the nail on the head: no feminist should be upset for a woman who freely chooses to be a homemaker in a thriving relationship with a partner who gives 100% to match her 100%. It's when it's not a free choice and/or her partner does not prioritize her the same way she does them that there is a problem.
One thing that many miss is it's more difficult to do this nowadays. When I was a kid a man could work 40 hrs a week in a factory & support a wife & 2 children comfortably. Nowadays it takes a six figure salary to accomplish the same & even than it's not as comfortable
@@linibelliniikr? Im a guy and i always did alot of the cooking in my relationships, i never thought of only making something for my self, its just common decency when living with someone. Hell even with roommates or friends let alone partner.
This is new to me and I think its awesome. Notice how happy they look? And it sounds like their men are appreciative and reciprocate. Who knew that respecting each other and working together could be such a "thing".....Best wishes to them all.
Err... they look happy in their influencer videos while selling a lifestyle? Haha I have news for you then: the people im commercials look happy, youtubers testing out products look happy, tiktokers doing "hawls" look happy... it's called marketing and has no correlation to their actual level of happiness!
Love is built on the little things. Muffins in the morning, a filling & nutritious packed lunch (which he'll send a text of "thanks" after eating it) and dinner together listening to his day. Serving his favorite dessert, being agreeable while watching our favorite show, sliding between clean sheets, perfumed & oiled, and welcoming his hands all over me. He will do anything for me, because his needs are met and he is told how valued he is everyday. In turn, I receive his protection, our needs are provided and he shows his love because he knows it won't be rejected. We have a joyful life. He is my Beloved, and I am his.
@@Abby-kp7yg I am in a loving & joyful 33 year marriage. We have raised our children, lived on 3 continents, emerging ourselves in the culture each time. We are valued by those we respect, and have many friends in all walks of life & incomes. There is also the passion, a slow burn that is still strong after 3 decades. We have this without the drama & chaos. Love is not about turbulence and emotional rollercoasters. We rely on each other to get through the upheaval life throws at us. We never turn on each other in manufactured mental games. There is no love in that. That isn't even passion. It's juvenile behavior and has no place in a marriage as it will weaken the relationship.
While my wife doesn't necessarily fit the "trad wife" description (I prefer to be the cook and she works more hours than I do) we do have a fairly traditional home-life dynamic compared to all our friends, as she is perfectly fine with me being the head of the household. She loves to work, not because of some feminist "girl-boss" mentality, but because she works in a care facility for the elderly and she loves her job.
The new generation of traditional wives are actually happy because they chose that life to live slower and more intentionally. Which is equally a good choice in this crazy world.
in today’s world i find it quite difficult to have a “traditional” family (the woman at home - the man at work). where i live, salaries are incredibly low, taxes are high, prices are high too… my best friend’s bf makes $900/month and she makes $1,200/month and they barely can pay the bills, they won’t travel or anything. so if my friend wanted to be a trad wife, with a living kid or even more, i don’t think $900/months are enough for a whole family in today’s society. idk how y’all in the comments are doing but in the country i’m living it’s basically imposible
I admire all of you for standing by your beliefs and knowing what you personal purpose is. We all have a purpose and it is not up to others to tell us what that is. Keep up the beautiful work ladies.
They always conveniently leave out the mistress part of the trad nuclear family myth. Like, either leaving the tradwife broke with kids for a younger naive girl, or the tradwife forgiving the man and sometimes even the mistress letting the affair go on as long as they don't speak about it. I've spoken to enough older couples to know the real tea lmao.
I love that other young women are choosing this life for themselves, it really is the most rewarding experience. If you're a man who wants this, don't lose hope! Be a good man and you will have a good woman.
I'm so thankful for my future husband who WANTS a traditional wife; it's so hard to want to be one when men get afraid to want it nowadays. "no it's okay go pursue a career" honestly being a traditional housewife has always been my dream career, but society told me from the moment I was born that that was a terrible, depressing life that I would regret. Finding a future husband who supports that has been the best and most uplifting experience of my life, and I'll continue to pursue that living with him and I aspire to be as skilled in homemaking as these lovely ladies 💞❤️
As I think this is a great option for people if they choose to live this lifestyle, advocating this for everyone takes away the option of choice. Balance is key
You know? I was expecting a day where the daily birth rate finally turns to 0, and doesn't go up, but i guess reality hasn't met my expectations (It actually never does). But let's face it, these traditional wives are a minority, while most women aim for the minority of men and in the end, they get 30, single and full of regrets. There is no hope for humnaity. ☹️
I’m so thankful my husband makes it possible for me to be able to be a traditional wife. I got the degree, I got the career. I was an executive director. Away from my home and babies. I was miserable. I have friends who are opposite and want that career, and that is completely okay too if that’s what works for them. But it’s not for everyone. I am so thankful I can live this life. I “serve” my husband and care for him as a love language and to show my appreciation for how hard he works to take care of the kids and I. It’s still a partnership.
Aw, I almost cried watching this because I didn’t know these families still existed. They seem like very healthy families which unfortunately most people can’t relate to. Idk why people are mad about this, I would’ve loved to grow up like this. My parents divorced when I was 3 and my mom and stepdad have a very toxic relationship, plus I’m not really emotionally close with my mom. Not only are traditional lifestyles beneficial to both man and woman, but also the kids
The way you're defining "submit" is really standard in romantic relationships. Women have to serve their families whether they have a paying job or not. It is privilege or makes economic sense to be a sahm. I'm a sahm after working outside the home over 12 years, and it is absolutely bliss. I don't have to "submit" because we are partners and partners shouldn't undermine each other, but I have no problems with doing what these women are doing. Also, nobody is "condemning" us; this sounds like grievance politics.
Nothing more beautiful than a woman that can cook, provide for the kids while the man provides for the family he loves. In this day and age it is sadly impossible as thi gs are so damn expensive it requires both partners to work. And we can all thank the governments for that
This would and could never be for me but I’m still proud that these women are CHOOSING this bc it is a choice. They made a decision that makes then happy and I’m happy for that❤️
A husband and wife being separated from each other for 8+ hours a day is not traditional; traditional is all members of the family participating in the household enterprise.
I love the look of relief my husband gets when he gets home,and I take his work boots off his feet. He is a wonderful man and deserves my devotion. We put God first and everything else comes naturally 💓
Unless you have actual scientific studies that can prove a causation between those two things, you're probably either projecting or overlooking other factors
You know what? If you wanna call yourself a true feminist, you gotta support your fellow sisters regardless of what they choose to be. Some women just want to be traditional, and they're allowed to do that.
The part about not complaining! Yes! Oh how much it breaks my heart when I meet a new woman and within minutes she’s complaining about her husband to me. If you need mentorship through a struggle, I’m here for you. But if you are complaining to complain, I’m not your girl.
Great to see these ladies and their families living their dreams. I've mostly been a traditional wife for over 45 years. Worked in college and some when our first came. But I learned that working from home; mothering other womens children, while caring for my own, keeping a home and caring for the family overall was a fantastic thing. My husband worked full time up to retirement and still helps with the manly chores, as well as mopping floors. You can do it too. One income can do the work of two if you do it right.
Your statement depends on how much that one income brings in, where that couple lives, and if one (or more) people in the family has any pernicious issues that need services that cost money.
trust me it aint the guys faults, they were who they were before they met you its the type of guys youre attracting...figure that out and you'll get what you want
Uh, those trad dudes are definitely out there but typically get ignored, are not into "dating" or dont bother with "hook ups". They work on themselves, career and hobbies. 3 things. Women also need to understand the simplicity of men, 3 things, peaceful home, full belly, empty loins. You can achieve alot with those 3 simple things.
@@lawofliberty3517 simplicity of trad men not ALL men. That's too simplistic and sells us men short like we're only wired to those 3 things. I cook half the time. And I work in hazmat handing crazy shit sometimes. And drive forklifts and like working on cars About as much of a man as you can traditionally get But my wife is a go getter and not a stay at home mom. She's a self employed message therapist. A hustler who can get her money and can also cook. We both can bring it home to the table for the family. It's about what both people want. If they want the same things then it's all good but people who don't share those ideas should not try to tear down someone else for their freedom to choose what type of marriage they want or think that someone should be just like them
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I've been a stay at home wife for 13 years, and it's been so good. I have an amazing marriage to the kindest and most wonderful man I've ever met. I don't get why people think it's so bad. We are 2 people doing 2 jobs. He provides for us financially by working outside the home, and I take care of the inside of our home. Then our weekends and evenings can be spent resting and enjoying time with one another because the work is done! We both have so much more free time this way. I worked before I got married and I hated it. Why would I want to pour my time and energy into a company when I can pour it into my home and the person I love instead?
This is actually the life I wanna have. A family and my own home where I can take care of my husband and children. Unfortunately, I live in a small island and havent met anyone my age with the same mindset as I do. I am 24, and in all my 24 years of life, I haven't met anyone that upholds those values. This makes me upset, so I refrain from dating since I know that what I'm looking for can't be found. When I do go out on a date I try not to judge the other person but to get to know them instead, but I'm always disappointed at the end because from the beginning they prove that even those who name themselves "traditional" are anything but that. When I express my desire, people mock me and say that I am thinking like an old person. I really hope I find someone one day. It is true that today's society has robbed us from this wonderful experience and made most women miserable.
Women think submit means be a slave. The husband submits too. They both want to. Always think of each other. Respect each other. Don't think the way the world thinks.
A woman that does this expects a lot from their man .. and it's a lot. They need to make sure the woman can manage everything else. So this idea that a traditional woman is in some way suppressed is complete bullshit. To provide is a big job.
And then he cheats on you multiple times and you are left alone with a child, with no job...😢 7 years been a trad wife and being replaced by a carefree woman which he met at his work.
Yep, this happens often. So many women who are trad wives and don't work who are financially dependent on their husbands end up alone with kids and no careers after their husbands leave them for another woman. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm hoping that you're in a better place now. Everyone should be financially independent, regardless of gender
@ilovedogsilovethem thank you very much for support. I am still looking for a job (good that I have work experience before had started family), but feel more confident and optimistic about our future. I analyzed all my marriage and know it wasn't healthy and happy, and hope my daughter would learn from my mistakes and will depend on herself no matter what.
0:46 - 0:51 No... Women do not "serve" their bosses. They *_work_* for them. And they do *not* do it for _free_ . And, it's called "slavery" when they do it in the house continuously without a break or recognition of their hard work, and without any gain for themselves. _Those_ are the only conditions under which it would be called slavery. And honestly it's the woman's choice if she wants to work or not. All comes down to consent, and choice. Same goes for the males, they shouldn't be forced to take on a "traditional" or "natural" role if they do not want to. It should be THEIR choice. They have every damn right to make it.
Women fought for choice,not the abolishment of being mothers and wives. If you are called to be a tradwife ,then go and be the best tradwife you can be. Just be healthy and make sure you have a plan for old age or that you are included in decisions affecting your life. If you want to go out and have a career and juggle being a mom and wife. Good for you! You can even decide never to marry and be alone and do all those things anyways without the support of a good man in your life.... You can choose Ladies , but you do not get to blast someone for not wanting the same things or having a different calling than you.
Good for them for knowing what kind of life they want and achieving it. I don't like the ones that try to act superior to others choices though. Honestly we are all human and should be able to choose our life.
IM FULFILLING MY DESTINY NOT TAKING FROM YOURS , THE FACT THAT ANYONE WOULD BE ANGRY THAT IM A TRADITIONAL WIFE WOULD IMPLY YOU ARE ONLY DOING WHAT YOUR TOLD AND YOU BEEN DOING THAT AND NOW YOUR MAD AT ME FOR DOING SOMETHING DIFFERENT!! IVE BEEN A TRADITIONAL WIFE FOR 20 YEARS !! I NEVER WAS MAD AT YOU FOR YOUR CAREER !! YOU JUST MAD BECAUSE IM ACTUALLY HAPPY AND SO IS MY HUSBAND! GO BE MAD BUT YOU WONT BE ABLE TO PENETRATE OUR HAPPINESS
i'm a feminist and i'm sick of seeing arguments between us as tradwives. honestly, long as we all agree we're getting fucked by corporate america, more power to them
Unfortunately, I have been turned WAY! off by modern woman. I saw a woman literally yell COOL! while a lady was showing how abortions work. I am out lol but good for these men for finding real women who fight for real womans rights and not the rights of men taking everything from women lol
The way society shames women for this..I cried to my partner the other week because I've taken time off work and feel like a failure. I felt like I couldn't provide him with anything worthwhile. Like a gift for example. During this time, I turned towards our home, and I've started caring for it and making it a sacred place. I want him to not have to do anything when he is here. I felt like he was only ever getting half of me before, and now I notice our love has shifted into totally new territory. I actually prefer the more traditional way, and I couldn't believe the amount of artificial and societal pressure I'd allowed to be put on myself! Yesterday he called me and thanked me for everything I had been doing around the house and expressed his appreciation for me, and I've never felt so accomplished. I don't know if this is alright still, but I just always wanted to care for my family and home..to the point I'm drawn towards a career where I wanted to nurture others, in mental health. I'm still working towards that goal, but I think it was something I chose to do with my life because it was the closest I could be to my own spirit and wanting to walk in love and care in this world..I just really didn't think I was allowed to any more in these modern times. Women often get hated on for wanting to be more traditional..I used to hate myself for it too, because why wasn't I being ambitious like every woman I come across? I now realise having a peaceful home is such a huge accomplishment, and it's something so many people don't have.
I believe if they are choosing this and it's what they enjoy doing/how they enjoy living, they can, as long as they're not pushing it onto anybody else there's really no problem
I don't want a female to submit to me just honor and respect me, know where her loyalty should be no matter what. It's nice to come home frome work and my wife hands me a beer then goes and starts my bath for me, we make dinner together we watch a movie then retire to bed to make love. But I NEVER want her to submit to me.
Don't know why ppl have to be telling others how conservative, or how liberal they live their marriage life. It's a choice what a married couple wants to do. But speaking about the Bible, this is what the Bible says a virtuous woman is in Proverbs, The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain...She seeks wool and flax, And willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, She brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, And provides food for her household, And a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard. Proverbs 31:11, 13-16 A woman should be prosperous and caring whether she works or not. But the word of God says that a woman brings profit to her home as well. Nothing wrong with that either.
why can't we just let people be happy? it's not like being a traditional wife/husband with traditional values is harmful to society. as long as the couple take care and love each other, we should celebrate it. we should be happy for them.
I love You ❤ kingdom marriage and family thats what's bringing joy ❤ submissive beautiful , taking care of herself wife + protecting husband ❤ I could feel holy spirit amongst Your family ❤ God Bless You
These are not trad wives. These are influencers.
Lol 💯
yeah and theyre influencing positivity instead of oppression
They are earning money by this so I am Sure That's still falls under the category f working women
@@rpedits4507 still this is positive influencer, unlike modern women influencer who taught woman to feel oppressed and angry all the time hahhahaa
@@onimikola give an example
Them: "We want women to have the choice to live as they want."
Women:*chooses*
Them:"Wait, not like that..."
What they really mean is, "We want women to choose the corporate career of their choice."
At least write something original of you are that desperate for likes This is a stolen comment from another video.
The same could be said for a lot of conservative people. I can't tell you how many comments I've seen basically bashing women for choosing NOT to live this way, as if they're somehow useless for choosing to go to work or get an education.
no one is syaing that.
literally no one. they are saying you can chose what you want,
just dont sit here and say when they DONT chose this that theyre a problem as a "modern women" thats the really dubious part...
@@macxavier168 EXACTLY its always about a womens choice to do so! and not a mans place for us to bash them if they dont wanna be a trad wife. or even other trad wives bashing women who dont want this lifestyle
I’m a hard working feminist woman who welds and I think it’s wonderful that women are choosing the lifestyle that works for them. One woman may enjoy climbing the corporate ladder while another woman enjoys staying home and baking bread for her husband and children. I think it’s beautiful that we get to choose
It IS beautiful that we get to choose.
But why is there so much hate from liberal feminists?
@@Chrochella
Why is there so much hate from right wing male supremacists?
@@sophieruby5893 Why are you assuming you know anything about me?🤡
FYI, I’m an Asian female. Thanks for playing but you lose, Einstein😂😂😂
@@Chrochella
I wasn't assuming anything about you, just pointing out that there's hate on both sides.
@@sophieruby5893 Far less hate from so-called white supremacist men….
Radical feminist are far more racist and fascist.
I definitely benefit from having a traditional wife but she benefits just as much. She’s so good to me that it inspires me to find ways to improve myself to be worthy of her and to be a better man for her. When I please her she pleases me in return and when she does something that please me I please her in return. When you’re good and loving to your spouse it always comes back to you in big dividends. Now, it’s my goal and Dream to make her the happiest woman on earth 😊❤
You got it!!! Keep going!!!
That is SO BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤
I’m so glad to hear of other couples that are living this. It’s weird how, in a healthy relationship, commitment is repaid with commitment.
And people would call you abusive for this 😂
This is the marriage we have had for 37 years. So wonderful.
I can see how this life would be appealing for women, swapping the stress of a job to float around in nice outfits and make cookies but as a dude where it's tough to survive on one wage in an economic downturn, I'm very happy my wife is more independent and wants to be self sufficient and help to bring in money
Women have always worked. This ideal is upper middle class.
Yeah . And women are unhappy in the long run . Growing up my dad was married to his work and didn't approve of mum working . In the end she was miserable and had several anger issues , he was overworked and ended up involuntarily neglecting his kids , and I have several issues now because of that damned trad family
You are a man, he is a boy . They met when he was just 20 and she was 22, and got married 2 years later. The guy is in his early 20s. They have been married for less than a year, no kids . Now he is supporting one extra person and she is cooking for two. Let's see what they think about this arrangement after a few years.
Yes, the degree to which your family can do this successfully depends on your economic success and how well one person can really take care of the family. It's different for everyone. I totally understand not liking the corporate grind, but well... Sometimes both partners have to bear with it, because you need both incomes! Truthfully, more women than men have this option, and I sometimes feel really bad for men, because most of them are expected to spend their youth working in jobs they often times despise, and many men do it without complaint because they know it s expected of them and they love their family. I wish more men had the opportunity to either find work they actually like or stay home with their families. So many men miss their family growing up and regret it in their old age.
I work from home, but my husband works harder than me and also has a bigger salary.While he helps a lot in the house whenever he can, I am the one that does most of the cleaning and cooks.At first it was pretty frustrating, but then I remembered that when we were both college students, he also did all the work in the house without complaining very much.So I stopped and thought:"So what if I'm the one that does most of the things in the house?My job is pretty fun and most of the time easy, so I can do a lot of things in the house.Also, he treats me like a princess, so he deserves to be treated like a prince too"
Exactly and good job at realising that, so many women complain about even lifting a finger in the relationship, and god forbid they have to break a sweat.
I wasn’t even married , just in relationships and i still did fixing around, throwing the garbage, did i’d say most of the cooking as well, i never complained.
But they would always find something to complain about.
Bless you and wish you luck.
I also raised plenty of kids growing up even tho i was a kid (living in a building full of family members), and yeah kids can be rascals, working in the house can be boring but its way easier than any back breaking work i did in construction or even office jobs.
I am happy you are managing both spaces very well.
Trad wife/mom/homeschooler, and I absolutely LOVE it!!! Yes, I worked hard for my degree and worked before transitioning to a Trad wife. In my opinion, I'd rather be home serving my family than at work any day. ❤
So you're like a trans-wife...😊jk
Good for you!!!! 👍
Serving? Do you see yourself as their servant?
@interestedobserver Serving definition: in performing duties or services for another person. So by definition, yes I serve my family by performing duties as a mom and wife such as cooking, cleaning, running errands, homeschooling etc. No different than performing duties for a job. The difference is that I'm pouring into my family instead of a company. Plus, I'm not the only one who serves my family... we work as a team. Hope this helps you understand!
@@antoinettemoore976 ❤ love this!!
Homeschooling is wrong
This is mutual submission, both have defined their roles. The wife works at home, the husband works at his job, and both benefit from it. If they are happy and content with that arrangement, then so be it. It's not anyone's business to judge.
You're right
People aren’t really judging. No one actually cares. There have been “trad” wives for years and years.
Thanks to “scary” feminism, it’s now a healthier version of this set up.
God bless them.
These women inspire me to work harder so that I can provide my wife with this. God bless them all.
Same
My wife and I are team. I love her with all my heart and soul! We are very happy. She provides domestic support to our children and me. I provide the income, do the outside work on the house, and repair and maintenance on the inside of the house. Our children are now grown, and we are proud of them. They tell us over and over how grateful they are that their mother was home when they got home from school. Traditional marriages are Biblical marriages. There is nothing better.
God bless you
Just go and play the lottery already, you have so much luck that maybe you can win.
Best thing I ever did was ask my traditional wife's father for his blessings in marrying his daughter. 23 years and 3 amazing sons later we are still going strong! Traditional women is the best decision a man can make. Just remember brothers, that means you have to be traditional too. So get up off your ass and figure out how you're going to give that amazing women and your children's the lives they deserve. I did, so can you! But be prepared cause getting to that point sucked. Ball busting for around 15 years
You cheered me up so much!! I will follow your steps in order to have a spectacular and beautiful tradwife and extraordinary sons. 😊
Divorce is not an option or a threat:
A couple of days after my husband proposed to me, I sobbed. I told him I was so afraid I wouldn’t be a good wife since I didn’t have good examples growing up. My parents threw around divorce like it was meaningless and I prayed I wouldn’t fall into that “habit” as well.
Fortunately, I have an incredible husband that keeps Christ in the center of our marriage. Before getting married, we took pre-marital counseling at our church, we read the books our pastor recommended, we continue taking classes and Bible studies together.
We went into marriage knowing the odds are against us (both from divorced families and were very young when we got married) but both agreed that divorce isn’t an option.
We’ve been married 19 years and I’m still head over heels for that man 🥰
Congratulations on 19 years. My husband and I are 19 years as well..going on 20 this year! Keeping Christ as the center is key! 😊
@@heart_towards_home amen sister!
Amen, lovely reading this! 🙏🏾
Yup, some women think this leaves them vulnerable, but women file for 80% of divorce. Men are not leaving women, love my trad fiancé.
Waking up to a baby and making food my husband likes is the best feeling ever.
and you know that he will do anything for you and the baby.
Your world is so tiny tiny small
@@Abby-kp7yg something a tatted OF person with a high body count would say....just saying
@@Abby-kp7yg AHH what?
Nobody:
@abby at 35: I am alone. No one wants me, the system failed me.
Just so we're clear: this traditional family setup is NOT a Western Christian concept. It has existed for hundreds of years in almost every culture and country, especially in Asia, where I live.
@@davidjob4909 and is better than modern feminism
Tbf traditionally a lot of families were polygamous
@@jimmcneal5292 polygamy is wrong. Theses husbands have only one wife that's their wives love them. Polygamy was only in common among kings that too for political reasons.
@@sharmi387 lol no. Polygamy is natural for humans and always was. And several women can love the same man. If you'd think a little you'd have realised that it wasn't only kings who were polygamous, but actually a lot of wealthy people in traditional society(we can see this in old testament, and witness in today's agrarian countries in Africa and eurasia -Afghanistan, for example)
You(I assume you're female because of you nickname) probably just don't want to share.
@@jimmcneal5292 monogamy is expected and deserved in marriage. There is no reason a man should need more than one woman, nor any reason a woman should have to be okay with 'sharing' their husband; one man and one woman was the original design for marriage. Kings and Rich people have always had different morals; they also often had no issues with killing whole communities for land and/or as scare tactics for their political regimes. I don't see anyone saying 'oh killing whole communities is fine, the rich and royal did it so it's cool'. Polygamy isn't a normal occurrence nor is it right morally. (or under most laws)
Finding this TODAY, is like finding gold💎
Go to the eastern countries. They still have traditional values there and traditional women.
I had to go to work after my husband passed and while I have learned to be content with where I'm at in life. Dare I say proud of the life I've built for my children and I. When I hear people bash it it hurts my heart as I miss my old life so very much. I miss my husband. I miss being home with my kids. Just because it's not for them doesn't mean it's unfulfilling to those of us who want to live that way.
These women are blessings.
I think the choice of a "traditional wife" triggers most women that don't have a husband that is willing to be a "traditional husband." I'm so grateful for my "traditional husband" for making it possible so I may serve as a "traditional wife." ❤
That and modern feminism is teaching them that if you even slightly rely on a man he will beat and abuse you. You can tell from a lot of the negative comments these woman receive.
When the hook up culture exists, the hatred for tradition exists too. Narrow minded people led by pleasure🤷♂️
Bingo. This is why I used to not like the idea of housewives. Now I am a housewife, and will admit I was just being salty and jealous.
Lol!!!! No one is triggered. There is traditional about these women, unless earning money through tik tok is your idea of traditional.
@@interestedobserver You apparently haven't seen too many of these videos because a lot of the feminist types are pretty angry about them. They go as far as making jokes about their husbands beating them and then say that they're supporting white supremacy and Nazism.
There is a difference between a man controlling his wife and a wife willingly serving her family.
Its just beautiful to see a traditional beautiful black woman submitting to her husband 😍😍😍 While receiving love and affection in return. As a young black woman myself I am happy for her and will choose the right man worth submitting to while getting pampered 💖😍
It was beautiful!! I agree. Modern society has warped the understanding of family to make it seem like men oppressed women. The historical reality is men sacrificed everything to provide for their wife and family, and in return the women looked after the man. Now society is comprised of deadbeat males looking for casual sex from self absorbed women. It is only now we are seeing the large scale cost of this. Depression is up, childbirth down. Statistically, the most unhappy demographic in society today is a single female in her early 40s with a career and no family.
@@cybtb I wouldn't say the most unhappiest demographic because most women are either happier single or married. I heard that there is a rise of single men. There are women unhappy in their marriages
I hope I can get a husband like that someday...
I've been a trad wife for over 30 years. I do have a part time job that I work from home. But my kids know when they get home, mom is there. No coming home to an empty house. I prepare my husband's meals, wash his clothes and make the bed, keep the house. It is a gift he and God gave me and I need to honor him for working so hard for us. Men are under appreciated in this woke society. Its heartbreaking. People just want to hate on others now. But you do what is working for you. Congratulations on being a trad wife, your doing the right thing.
Aren’t you hating a tiny bit on “woke” folks?
I have no problem woth women being homemakers. However, I am astounded when the one woman said "the way our ancestors did things" because modern inventions make certain chores less labor intensive than they once were.
As someone who has experienced both positive and negative of the traditional life, I love this video. My father was not a "traditional husband" and therefore making my mother and his daughters ACT the traditional life style felt like slavery to me. However, when I got out of that and became a wife to the most wonderful man, the things that were once a burden became a joy. My husband in turn, believing me to be the most wonderful woman, is always trying to make me happy as well. As of right now he is currently trying to get my new computer set up, which may take all day, while I'm doing dishes and watching UA-cam videos. Traditional life is not a burden, nor should it be. But it should be noted that BOTH parties in the marriage should have a desire for that type of life first. My parents are now divorced. (Thank you God) And it was the best thing to happen to my mom. If my father had been faithful, loving, devoted to family, and didn't spend everything they had on only whatever he wanted I think I would have enjoyed the traditional life growing up.... I had not intended to make this so long. Sorry for going on a rant just there.
I appreciate your perspective and sharing your life experience ❤
So glad for you that you've found happiness and a true partner! And you hit the nail on the head: no feminist should be upset for a woman who freely chooses to be a homemaker in a thriving relationship with a partner who gives 100% to match her 100%. It's when it's not a free choice and/or her partner does not prioritize her the same way she does them that there is a problem.
Wow i feel like we have the same parents lol
One thing that many miss is it's more difficult to do this nowadays. When I was a kid a man could work 40 hrs a week in a factory & support a wife & 2 children comfortably. Nowadays it takes a six figure salary to accomplish the same & even than it's not as comfortable
What a sad life
It's what they enjoy doing though. Maybe sad for you, but not for them
Bringing him his plate is literally the bare minimum!💯
Right? I would feel so rude to only serve myself. I mean, who would do that?!
@@linibelliniikr? Im a guy and i always did alot of the cooking in my relationships, i never thought of only making something for my self, its just common decency when living with someone.
Hell even with roommates or friends let alone partner.
Mommy kink
Absolutely not
It's very refreshing to see normal people online for once.
its the feeling of hope.
@@jamesblacks3192 Not really, it's just refreshing.
Yeah it's refreshing and comforting
This is new to me and I think its awesome. Notice how happy they look? And it sounds like their men are appreciative and reciprocate. Who knew that respecting each other and working together could be such a "thing".....Best wishes to them all.
Err... they look happy in their influencer videos while selling a lifestyle?
Haha I have news for you then: the people im commercials look happy, youtubers testing out products look happy, tiktokers doing "hawls" look happy... it's called marketing and has no correlation to their actual level of happiness!
Love is built on the little things. Muffins in the morning, a filling & nutritious packed lunch (which he'll send a text of "thanks" after eating it) and dinner together listening to his day. Serving his favorite dessert, being agreeable while watching our favorite show, sliding between clean sheets, perfumed & oiled, and welcoming his hands all over me. He will do anything for me, because his needs are met and he is told how valued he is everyday. In turn, I receive his protection, our needs are provided and he shows his love because he knows it won't be rejected. We have a joyful life. He is my Beloved, and I am his.
Dang you done made a whole ass beautiful poem ❤😂
You will never truly know what it means to live
@@Abby-kp7yg I am in a loving & joyful 33 year marriage. We have raised our children, lived on 3 continents, emerging ourselves in the culture each time. We are valued by those we respect, and have many friends in all walks of life & incomes. There is also the passion, a slow burn that is still strong after 3 decades. We have this without the drama & chaos. Love is not about turbulence and emotional rollercoasters. We rely on each other to get through the upheaval life throws at us. We never turn on each other in manufactured mental games. There is no love in that. That isn't even passion. It's juvenile behavior and has no place in a marriage as it will weaken the relationship.
While my wife doesn't necessarily fit the "trad wife" description (I prefer to be the cook and she works more hours than I do) we do have a fairly traditional home-life dynamic compared to all our friends, as she is perfectly fine with me being the head of the household. She loves to work, not because of some feminist "girl-boss" mentality, but because she works in a care facility for the elderly and she loves her job.
She is imasculating you
@@Abby-kp7yg by working?
@@Abby-kp7yg Learn to spell
That’s beautiful
The new generation of traditional wives are actually happy because they chose that life to live slower and more intentionally. Which is equally a good choice in this crazy world.
in today’s world i find it quite difficult to have a “traditional” family (the woman at home - the man at work). where i live, salaries are incredibly low, taxes are high, prices are high too… my best friend’s bf makes $900/month and she makes $1,200/month and they barely can pay the bills, they won’t travel or anything. so if my friend wanted to be a trad wife, with a living kid or even more, i don’t think $900/months are enough for a whole family in today’s society. idk how y’all in the comments are doing but in the country i’m living it’s basically imposible
I am also a traditional wife to a regular, traditional man. We have a traditional family with morals, values, and ethics. Life is good.
Being married to a regular man is not really an advantage.
@Jim Mcneal what's wrong with it?
@@sayu8250 he almost certainly can't provide for enough kids
TradWifes aren’t on the internet. Nice try though.
I admire all of you for standing by your beliefs and knowing what you personal purpose is. We all have a purpose and it is not up to others to tell us what that is. Keep up the beautiful work ladies.
I am crying, I never thought there are still women trying to live traditional... in our society nowadays that is almost anathema. really brave
Ok Ok, real talk. I was crying too!
Look for Christians
You can live a traditional life if you wish to, no one is stopping you..
@@user-uv4vf8dd5u Yeah girl you can live in whatever way you want
Not gonna lie, I would love a wife who actually added more to the relationship then sex
thAn, not thEn - There you go, I just added something to your life.
They always conveniently leave out the mistress part of the trad nuclear family myth. Like, either leaving the tradwife broke with kids for a younger naive girl, or the tradwife forgiving the man and sometimes even the mistress letting the affair go on as long as they don't speak about it. I've spoken to enough older couples to know the real tea lmao.
People are soo weird!! I love this lifestyle
I love that other young women are choosing this life for themselves, it really is the most rewarding experience.
If you're a man who wants this, don't lose hope! Be a good man and you will have a good woman.
I don't have much hope on it
I'm so thankful for my future husband who WANTS a traditional wife; it's so hard to want to be one when men get afraid to want it nowadays. "no it's okay go pursue a career" honestly being a traditional housewife has always been my dream career, but society told me from the moment I was born that that was a terrible, depressing life that I would regret. Finding a future husband who supports that has been the best and most uplifting experience of my life, and I'll continue to pursue that living with him and I aspire to be as skilled in homemaking as these lovely ladies 💞❤️
This is so calming to watch, I wish I had this life, I’ll work towards it really hard :)
We need more of this in society. Good job ladies y’all are beautiful.
Lame
@@_..D i am glad that its too late for me. So cute with that shaming tactics, pssst you got nothing.
As I think this is a great option for people if they choose to live this lifestyle, advocating this for everyone takes away the option of choice. Balance is key
You know? I was expecting a day where the daily birth rate finally turns to 0, and doesn't go up, but i guess reality hasn't met my expectations (It actually never does).
But let's face it, these traditional wives are a minority, while most women aim for the minority of men and in the end, they get 30, single and full of regrets.
There is no hope for humnaity. ☹️
@@megalibra82 Get a life.
I’m so thankful my husband makes it possible for me to be able to be a traditional wife. I got the degree, I got the career. I was an executive director. Away from my home and babies. I was miserable. I have friends who are opposite and want that career, and that is completely okay too if that’s what works for them. But it’s not for everyone. I am so thankful I can live this life. I “serve” my husband and care for him as a love language and to show my appreciation for how hard he works to take care of the kids and I. It’s still a partnership.
Why do we even need to call it “serving”? In a good relationship, both people nurture, care, and help one another. “Trad” wife or not.
Aw, I almost cried watching this because I didn’t know these families still existed. They seem like very healthy families which unfortunately most people can’t relate to. Idk why people are mad about this, I would’ve loved to grow up like this. My parents divorced when I was 3 and my mom and stepdad have a very toxic relationship, plus I’m not really emotionally close with my mom. Not only are traditional lifestyles beneficial to both man and woman, but also the kids
I hope you find a loving husband so you may live this life
The family is the smallest, but also the strongest part of our society, don't let the modern world destroy our lovely and womanly values 💝😺
The way you're defining "submit" is really standard in romantic relationships. Women have to serve their families whether they have a paying job or not. It is privilege or makes economic sense to be a sahm. I'm a sahm after working outside the home over 12 years, and it is absolutely bliss. I don't have to "submit" because we are partners and partners shouldn't undermine each other, but I have no problems with doing what these women are doing.
Also, nobody is "condemning" us; this sounds like grievance politics.
Nothing more beautiful than a woman that can cook, provide for the kids while the man provides for the family he loves. In this day and age it is sadly impossible as thi gs are so damn expensive it requires both partners to work. And we can all thank the governments for that
This would and could never be for me but I’m still proud that these women are CHOOSING this bc it is a choice. They made a decision that makes then happy and I’m happy for that❤️
I can't help but feel like I wasted my 20s when I could've been doing this.
A husband and wife being separated from each other for 8+ hours a day is not traditional; traditional is all members of the family participating in the household enterprise.
I love the look of relief my husband gets when he gets home,and I take his work boots off his feet. He is a wonderful man and deserves my devotion. We put God first and everything else comes naturally 💓
Seems to me that society was a lot more stable and everybody was a lot happier when we had "traditional" families.
Unless you have actual scientific studies that can prove a causation between those two things, you're probably either projecting or overlooking other factors
God Bless you, Women.
I've literally been name-called as having 'internalized misogyny' just because I expected men to provide like so I can't have standards? lol
I put my husband first, he puts me first. We're married best friends, and we treat each other with respect. ❤️
It's truly baffling how people get so angry and violent over something so sweet and wholesome.
You know what? If you wanna call yourself a true feminist, you gotta support your fellow sisters regardless of what they choose to be. Some women just want to be traditional, and they're allowed to do that.
The part about not complaining! Yes! Oh how much it breaks my heart when I meet a new woman and within minutes she’s complaining about her husband to me. If you need mentorship through a struggle, I’m here for you. But if you are complaining to complain, I’m not your girl.
Great to see these ladies and their families living their dreams. I've mostly been a traditional wife for over 45 years. Worked in college and some when our first came. But I learned that working from home; mothering other womens children, while caring for my own, keeping a home and caring for the family overall was a fantastic thing. My husband worked full time up to retirement and still helps with the manly chores, as well as mopping floors. You can do it too. One income can do the work of two if you do it right.
Your statement depends on how much that one income brings in, where that couple lives, and if one (or more) people in the family has any pernicious issues that need services that cost money.
@@proudatheist2042oh, those silly facts! 😂
I wish more people wanted a traditional relationship like this because all I find are guys who only want hookups. :(
trust me it aint the guys faults,
they were who they were before they met you
its the type of guys youre attracting...figure that out and you'll get what you want
Uh, those trad dudes are definitely out there but typically get ignored, are not into "dating" or dont bother with "hook ups". They work on themselves, career and hobbies. 3 things. Women also need to understand the simplicity of men, 3 things, peaceful home, full belly, empty loins. You can achieve alot with those 3 simple things.
@@lawofliberty3517 simplicity of trad men not ALL men. That's too simplistic and sells us men short like we're only wired to those 3 things.
I cook half the time. And I work in hazmat handing crazy shit sometimes. And drive forklifts and like working on cars
About as much of a man as you can traditionally get
But my wife is a go getter and not a stay at home mom. She's a self employed message therapist. A hustler who can get her money and can also cook. We both can bring it home to the table for the family.
It's about what both people want.
If they want the same things then it's all good but people who don't share those ideas should not try to tear down someone else for their freedom to choose what type of marriage they want or think that someone should be just like them
Dear Obscura, If you want to find a good man, then go where good men go. Where do they go? A Bible Believing, Gospel preaching Church! Bible Colleges. Christian Colleges. Liberty University! Find a man who loves Jesus more than you do.
Hook up culture doesn't help anyone and both sides are contributing. Just goes to show that we all need to start doing better.
Yeah the 50’s for women in the west looked good on tv
I've been a stay at home wife for 13 years, and it's been so good. I have an amazing marriage to the kindest and most wonderful man I've ever met. I don't get why people think it's so bad. We are 2 people doing 2 jobs. He provides for us financially by working outside the home, and I take care of the inside of our home. Then our weekends and evenings can be spent resting and enjoying time with one another because the work is done! We both have so much more free time this way. I worked before I got married and I hated it. Why would I want to pour my time and energy into a company when I can pour it into my home and the person I love instead?
😍These are the women men are willing to die protecting. As a man, I instinctually desire to protect and honor what is decent in this world.
This is actually the life I wanna have. A family and my own home where I can take care of my husband and children. Unfortunately, I live in a small island and havent met anyone my age with the same mindset as I do. I am 24, and in all my 24 years of life, I haven't met anyone that upholds those values. This makes me upset, so I refrain from dating since I know that what I'm looking for can't be found. When I do go out on a date I try not to judge the other person but to get to know them instead, but I'm always disappointed at the end because from the beginning they prove that even those who name themselves "traditional" are anything but that. When I express my desire, people mock me and say that I am thinking like an old person. I really hope I find someone one day. It is true that today's society has robbed us from this wonderful experience and made most women miserable.
Good luck! I think it's hard even if you try your best to embody traditional ideals to actually practice them.
It’s sad, most likely the majority of men will never experience this! You’re one lucky fella!
Women think submit means be a slave. The husband submits too. They both want to. Always think of each other. Respect each other. Don't think the way the world thinks.
I'm legitimately kinda..shocked this hasn't been taken down or flagged 😅
A woman that does this expects a lot from their man .. and it's a lot. They need to make sure the woman can manage everything else. So this idea that a traditional woman is in some way suppressed is complete bullshit. To provide is a big job.
Women who can't choose this are actually oppressed by their economic conditions, which are affected by but not solely due to patriarchy.
And then he cheats on you multiple times and you are left alone with a child, with no job...😢 7 years been a trad wife and being replaced by a carefree woman which he met at his work.
Yep, this happens often. So many women who are trad wives and don't work who are financially dependent on their husbands end up alone with kids and no careers after their husbands leave them for another woman. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm hoping that you're in a better place now. Everyone should be financially independent, regardless of gender
@ilovedogsilovethem thank you very much for support. I am still looking for a job (good that I have work experience before had started family), but feel more confident and optimistic about our future. I analyzed all my marriage and know it wasn't healthy and happy, and hope my daughter would learn from my mistakes and will depend on herself no matter what.
Hey how r u doing? I hope you all feel better... This "trad-wife" media triggers the hell out of me
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No... Women do not "serve" their bosses. They *_work_* for them. And they do *not* do it for _free_ .
And, it's called "slavery" when they do it in the house continuously without a break or recognition of their hard work, and without any gain for themselves. _Those_ are the only conditions under which it would be called slavery. And honestly it's the woman's choice if she wants to work or not. All comes down to consent, and choice. Same goes for the males, they shouldn't be forced to take on a "traditional" or "natural" role if they do not want to. It should be THEIR choice. They have every damn right to make it.
Yesssssss! One of the kost freeing things a woman can do for herself is to get married, have children, and become a homemaker
Women fought for choice,not the abolishment of being mothers and wives. If you are called to be a tradwife ,then go and be the best tradwife you can be. Just be healthy and make sure you have a plan for old age or that you are included in decisions affecting your life.
If you want to go out and have a career and juggle being a mom and wife. Good for you!
You can even decide never to marry and be alone and do all those things anyways without the support of a good man in your life....
You can choose Ladies , but you do not get to blast someone for not wanting the same things or having a different calling than you.
Good for them for knowing what kind of life they want and achieving it. I don't like the ones that try to act superior to others choices though. Honestly we are all human and should be able to choose our life.
The tradwives are mostly correct. My wife and I have lived this way for 16 years now (13 with a son) and we're both very glad we did.
Whatever makes you happy. No one has the right to judge.
IM FULFILLING MY DESTINY NOT TAKING FROM YOURS , THE FACT THAT ANYONE WOULD BE ANGRY THAT IM A TRADITIONAL WIFE WOULD IMPLY YOU ARE ONLY DOING WHAT YOUR TOLD AND YOU BEEN DOING THAT AND NOW YOUR MAD AT ME FOR DOING SOMETHING DIFFERENT!! IVE BEEN A TRADITIONAL WIFE FOR 20 YEARS !! I NEVER WAS MAD AT YOU FOR YOUR CAREER !! YOU JUST MAD BECAUSE IM ACTUALLY HAPPY AND SO IS MY HUSBAND! GO BE MAD BUT YOU WONT BE ABLE TO PENETRATE OUR HAPPINESS
I want this!
i'm a feminist and i'm sick of seeing arguments between us as tradwives. honestly, long as we all agree we're getting fucked by corporate america, more power to them
Unfortunately, I have been turned WAY! off by modern woman. I saw a woman literally yell COOL! while a lady was showing how abortions work. I am out lol but good for these men for finding real women who fight for real womans rights and not the rights of men taking everything from women lol
I prefer to call myself domestic gremlin. I’m over here looking like a troll failing at housework ; )
the god ole days. I'm crying.
Only for my husband. Not a boyfriend
finally some ladies worth following on TikTok
I’ve done both. I loved both. I’m grateful for both experiences ❤
Can't tell me the world would be just a little better of a place if more women did this.
The way society shames women for this..I cried to my partner the other week because I've taken time off work and feel like a failure. I felt like I couldn't provide him with anything worthwhile. Like a gift for example. During this time, I turned towards our home, and I've started caring for it and making it a sacred place. I want him to not have to do anything when he is here. I felt like he was only ever getting half of me before, and now I notice our love has shifted into totally new territory. I actually prefer the more traditional way, and I couldn't believe the amount of artificial and societal pressure I'd allowed to be put on myself! Yesterday he called me and thanked me for everything I had been doing around the house and expressed his appreciation for me, and I've never felt so accomplished. I don't know if this is alright still, but I just always wanted to care for my family and home..to the point I'm drawn towards a career where I wanted to nurture others, in mental health. I'm still working towards that goal, but I think it was something I chose to do with my life because it was the closest I could be to my own spirit and wanting to walk in love and care in this world..I just really didn't think I was allowed to any more in these modern times. Women often get hated on for wanting to be more traditional..I used to hate myself for it too, because why wasn't I being ambitious like every woman I come across? I now realise having a peaceful home is such a huge accomplishment, and it's something so many people don't have.
I believe if they are choosing this and it's what they enjoy doing/how they enjoy living, they can, as long as they're not pushing it onto anybody else there's really no problem
I don't want a female to submit to me just honor and respect me, know where her loyalty should be no matter what. It's nice to come home frome work and my wife hands me a beer then goes and starts my bath for me, we make dinner together we watch a movie then retire to bed to make love. But I NEVER want her to submit to me.
this. please more like this
Don't know why ppl have to be telling others how conservative, or how liberal they live their marriage life.
It's a choice what a married couple wants to do.
But speaking about the Bible, this is what the Bible says a virtuous woman is in Proverbs,
The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain...She seeks wool and flax, And willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, She brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, And provides food for her household, And a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard.
Proverbs 31:11, 13-16
A woman should be prosperous and caring whether she works or not.
But the word of God says that a woman brings profit to her home as well. Nothing wrong with that either.
Yes! Life your life, but dont force others to life like you.
Nice to see women finally waking up. This won't work without a Godly man and a Godly wife.
Love this! Keep it going ladies!
I am blessed to have a stay at home wife.
This video warms my heart😊
why can't we just let people be happy? it's not like being a traditional wife/husband with traditional values is harmful to society. as long as the couple take care and love each other, we should celebrate it. we should be happy for them.
Women having rights is harmful to society but I'm not one to stomp on individual rights for collective benefit unless we're talking about criminals
This is the meaning of life👩❤💋👨
exactly right those children have great role models
I love You ❤ kingdom marriage and family thats what's bringing joy ❤ submissive beautiful , taking care of herself wife + protecting husband ❤ I could feel holy spirit amongst Your family ❤ God Bless You
these women are perfect in every way