To each their own, many couples need to have both work due to live being expensive. Being a tradwife like her is a privilege, and a curse when your husband is an asshole.
Right on . I see so many single women my age out there . Good women , we need to be careful that the roles we take on our ones we decide we want..Men are scared to do anything might it be wrong and piss someone off . So they stay mama's boys and never grow up . Women are suffering a lack of decent men . It's just all screwed up
They are not tradwives, they just make their life look perfect, but you never can say what really happens behind the closed doors. And tradwives didn't even look like them 🤡🤡🤡
In response to your post about this: it's mind boggling that some people think this is wrong. In my opinion, this is nuts! How is Estee Williams committing any wrongdoing if she's making a decision for herself to be a feminine, traditional wife? It's HER CHOICE, and most men love a woman like Estee Williams. Agreed? @@ZebZanko
Interviewer asked what happens if her husband divorces her. To which I say... What man in their right mind would give up a women like this. She is a precious gem.
I feel bad for that guy, he's going to slave away the rest of his life and be her ATM machine forever so she can put on her makeup and sit all day on tiktok showing off her implants to the male audience, while the Roomba, the dishwasher and the washing machine do all the hard work.
True. It is UNPAID work. Except for the pennies the husband might toss her way. Though in my case, I receive a generous one. Due to my physical disability. I'm a housewife. But one who has been banned from a good portion of housework by her doctor. So unfortunately my man has to do it. Like cooking, laundry, and vacuuming.
Some women don't understand that. They believe what this Estee woman is doing is reality. Reality is that due to the cost of living, husband and wife work!
A housewife saves money. I cook from scratch, sew, do gardening etc. a working woman needs convenience due to lack of time, so a working woman usually spends a lot of what she makes in stuff like day care, prep meals or take out, cleaning ladies etc. Most of the time a woman works because she wants to work.
@@krakerjak3 Sorry man, but trad men work overtime to buy a bigger house as the family grows, IOW, he puts the kids ahead of himself. Trad wives do the same, they sacrifice careers for the benefit of the family. You are right, my DIL is a militant feminist and she puts the kids (and job) WAY over her husband.
@@krakerjak3 your comment screams self contradictory, women fought for being able to have a choice so they can choose to be a worker or be a tradwife you dweep. let people be! i have nothing against feminist families but dont go attacking traditional families
@@krakerjak3feminist families indoctrinate their children to think the woman is the man but with a vagina. That in itself is illogical. No wonder there are so many fucked up folks in the West
She says "you women are not into working right now!" HA!! Being a traditional wife is hard work. A labor of love. And when the kids come, these women have to wear many hats. Chef, housekeeper, chauffer, referee, etc... It's a selfless job and the most rewarding.
I like being a housewife too - except I also work full time and don't have a husband or kids - so basically an adult who like a nice place to live and relax without other people to take care of. It's wonderful
@@jbythebay1543 Probably only attracting low value men with your low value mindset. I make 8k a month, don't do drugs, and pretty successful in my career. I wouldn't touch a woman with your mindset. Thankfully I am not far from proposing to my woman.
Yeah, good on you Esti, love your work and WHY NOT. I love the traditional lifestyle. It's lovely, normal and people are happy in this environment. 🤩Many of my church girlfriends are stay at home mums and it's great, nothing wrong at all with that.
As far as men are concerned Trad wives rock. We want a woman. We don’t want to marry another dude. If she takes care of us, our children and our home then she is precious, respected, protected and cared for.!
I feel bad for that guy, he's going to slave away the rest of his life and be her ATM machine forever so she can put on her makeup and sit all day on tiktok showing off her implants to the male audience, while the Roomba, the dishwasher and the washing machine do all the hard work.
Trad wife is a legendary blessing to have as a man. Lamborghini or faithful trad wife for life .....im taking the trad wife lol ill work for that lambo the hard way.
You go woman, families and children in particular need a mom and dad. How much better would our world be if we had more family groups like you, I can only imagine?
I don’t have an issue with a career wife, however a career mom has to be careful not to sell herself and family short. Personally, society puts too much pressure on moms to work while the kids are young. It’s not good for anyone and society pays a heavy price for doing this to women. It needs to stop. Also, men need to step up so women can raise the children. You need to have a plan and execute on it, no matter time and sacrifice. My wife raised our kids while I worked. Now, she can spend time with the grandchildren. Perhaps Boss Babe, Trad Wife and Tragic Wife. Tragic Wife is the wife that chooses to work, go through child birth and then pay someone else to raise you children.
As a woman, I find it highly offensive to hear the anchor say “you women aren’t into working” if they choose the traditional wife role. I’m also saying this from my opinion that Trad Wife life is NOT for me.
We appreciate your honesty and objectivity regardless of how you want to live. It’s god given freedom to chose. My wife works after kids are raised, but still fills many traditional roles. We cook together most of the time. I do my part and she’s happy with the help. While the kids were growing, she was a traditional wife. I respect and appreciate her in all her capacities she chooses. And it’s hard work. Your right, this interviewer was an idiot
@@youhaveinfinitevalue5755 I think that’s the biggest point.. traditional wife roles could not happen without assistance. Your family pitched in, it sounds like.. that’s amazing!!
Wow. The last comment..saying her supporters “are not into working”. STAY AT HOME WIFES WORK HARD!! AND TRYING TO DO IT ALL …ie work a job ..SUCKS !!! AND YOU ARE WORKING FOR MEN TOO!!! Holy cow these are the 3 stooges on this show. And little girl in the middle…staying home w your children is WAY more important than reading news off a prompter 🙄. I’m over feminism. A lot of us midlifer’s see what we missed. This is not new. Estee just looks really pretty doing it.
I really like the looks of that era! Actually making an effort for each other in looks and dividing the household tasks. Maybe it was to negative in real life at that time and I am more for equality in that sense. But the esthetic of that look and making an effort is something I am down for.
This might be the life for some women. But it's not a life for all women. Little boys are not the only ones that grow up dreaming big about having a meaningful and prosperous career in something. I'm a woman that grew up with a lifelong passion for Science and Agriculture. And that's why I'm working full-time in the stem fields now. People can disagree with me all they want or go so far as to consider me selfish for living my own life. But I find a career in science far more rewarding than sitting at home scrubbing dirty dishes and folding laundry, along with having to rely on an "allowance" from my husband (as if I'm still only at 12 years old). I've also got a neice that dreams about becoming an animal veterinarian someday. Not every woman chooses to have children either. Children are expensive. And if you end up having a child with a man that isn't faithful, it can lead to very big trouble if you don't have a career lined up for yourself so that you can gainfully support that child financially. Single mothers and children often live on used clothing from the Salvation Army, and a diet of fast food because Mom's paycheck from running the cash register at a gas station isn't enough to buy food at the grocery store, or new clothing from an actual department store. This is why it's better to go to school and make sure you're financially stable as an adult before considering the idea of having children. That way if you and the child need to fend for yourselves because "Prince Charming" decided to cheat or ended up incarcerated for the next 10 years, you'll be able to remain financially secure. Otherwise, If you're a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life chained to a sink or a stove wearing ugly Little House on the Prairie knockoff dresses while being a house slave, then all the power to you. Just remember; eventually this life becomes very stagnant and depressing. And if you decide to go out and leave the house for any reason because you need a change of scenery or some fun and good times in your life, that isn't going to come without the consequences of being screamed at by your controlling husband / "Master." Want to go out for a day of shopping with your friends or a long walk along the beach? Be prepared for the worst when your "master" finds out you "chewed through your leash..." Sorry, but I for one, am not going to be treated like I'm not important or lesser of a human being by taking orders from anybody and giving up all my passions in life just because of my gender. Being traditional or career-oriented is a (choice) we (all) have. So is being single. If being in a relationship or being married to a man means having to be his new surrogate mother and give up and sacrifice everything that makes me a human being, then it's just not worth it...
@Tony Again, people can disagree with me all they want. Everyone's with a right to their opinion. Personally, I find nothing more "selfish" than to bring a child into the world without being with the financial means to support that child. It Isn't so much the mother that suffers the most so much as the poor kid on a diet of fast food and used hand-me-downs because mommy never got an opportunity to give herself a better shot at life as an adult before getting knocked up. People are not taking into consideration the cost of having just one child nevermind more than one. Everybody's treating having kids like it's some sort of fashion trend, yet it's not the same as bringing home a fucking dog. There are so many couples bringing kids into the world who put their drug habits and their drinking above all else as well. And I'm talking about people who never bothered to even stay in high school and never bothered to do anything gainful afterwards. Households have not been supported on a single income in (many, many decades). This is why it's dangerous to treat having children as if it's a trend and strictly for the purpose of image.
@Tony I never said that everything I had going on was better than what other people chose, so much as I was pointing out that it's definitely better (for me). In fact, if you go back and read the comment again, you'll notice that I said being a housewife or being career-oriented is a (choice) that everyone has. I don't have anything against stay-at-home mothers or stay-at-home wives at all. However, I find that stay-at-home wives or "tradwives" have a little less self respect and dignity, because they do nothing but take orders from their boyfriends or husbands and are kept on a very short and tight leash. Many of them are missing out on life and try to act like they're happy when behind closed doors, you know a lot of them are sobbing into their hands. Especially if they got an earful for going out with friends or decided to enjoy some leisurely shopping and dining for a change. At that point, A woman has clearly been robbed of her self-esteem and adulthood, and programmed to think that she's basically still a child and needs to have the man's "permission" for everything. That is just pure bullshit. I'm sorry, but getting screamed and yelled at or hit with the threat of a break-up because I didn't have dinner on the table when my boyfriend came home from his fulfilling day of being successful and accomplished, isn't my idea of a very good life-let alone any sort of life at all. I would be looking to be someone's wife or boyfriend - not to adopt someone else's adult son. (That part of it really grosses me out) because marriage isn't about being a set of "replacement parents" to each other. And women are human beings after all, and deserve to enjoy life while we're here. My sister is a stay-at-home wife and mother. She's got three kids and hasn't worked full time in many years. And she's a terrific mother. But I'm not going to say she's 100% content. And she has openly admitted this to me plenty of times. She actually wanted to join me for a fishing trip. And while I thought this was a great idea, she wasn't quite within her element once she got out on the lake with me. She wasn't able to put her phone down, she wasn't dressed correctly for being in the wilderness. And activities such as fishing (peaceful as it is), are mainly for those who don't have children at home. Her children are her life. My hobbies and my career are mine. Everyone has a different destiny in life. And not every woman has to live the same carbon-copy lifestyle as every other one.
@Tony I never said having children was a "curse." You're putting words in my mouth. I merely pointed out the reality of how expensive it is to have children and that you need to be financially stable in order to comfortably go through with it because its a very big decision. Again, it's not like going to an animal shelter and adopting a pet. It's a huge commitment and has to be very carefully thought through. And I have my own opinion and my own perspectives in life. Nobody gets to change that.
@Tony Well agree to disagree I guess. You sound pretty upset. And all I can say to that is (too bad). It's called "freedom of speech." And you don't get to govern, control or have any say in what I put out on the internet. So you may as well just stop wasting your time and move on. Or you can just sit there in front of your screen and be mad. Maybe find a good corner to cry in....I don't care either way. (I'm taking a cruise on my bike). Have a nice day! 😎👍
@Tony Yeah, and your argument is no more valid either. And no, I'm not saying I want "all women" to think the same way as I do. I am merely pointing out that they all have the same right to choose whether they want to be a traditional housewife or to be career-oriented and just live their own life in whatever way they see fit. I'm not saying women should choose one or the other. I pointed out every woman has the CHOICE of either lifestyle. If they want to get up everyday and have a rewarding career to go to and fun hobbies to do in their spare time than all the power to them. If they prefer to stay home and scrub dirty dishes and cook meals then all the power to them just the same. I mentioned my perspectives on how (I feel) about the whole "tradwife trend" based on pure observations and experience, and I'm sticking to it. You can't change that. So this whole conversation is a lost cause for you. I could care less whether you agree with my opinion or not. It is what it is. So get over it.
Wow. The last comment, "so you women aren't into working" is an attitude that offended every trad wife. They were working at home. They weren't just sitting on their butts. The lazy women were not being trad wives. They were just bums. Regarding her being submissive to her husband - it's a nightmare if he's a jerk. Sure; the way to a healthy marriage is NOT. for the man to be submissive to a woman who is a jerk. A lot of women seem to think that's a good idea. I would say that a lot of what is making this woman and her husband happy is that they are both committed to treating each other with respect and stay far from selfishness.
Thank you for modeling a tradional life. Thank you for choosing to take care of your husband, and someday, your children. Our world will be a better place because of your beautiful selflessnes.. Enjoy!
It's sure is! Bizarre to me that woman my age hosting seem to think this is a foreign and inconceivable vocation. I'm SURE their parents or friends parents lived this way
Proud Trad Wife of 25 years. Raised a son who turned out to be a fine human with memories of mom always being there. I never missed a school event, I was a classroom helper when he was younger, was always available when he was sick and made the BEST homemade meals and snacks. Now my son is a chef!
If their marriage is faithful and if the husband is smart. He will create some type of cash flow to support his family regardless if he is alive or dead.
I hope her husband reciprocates and if he wears something she not likes, he'll wear something else because she does that for him. Even wears her hair the way he likes, which is her natural curly.
"Boss women" fail in male and female relationships more. These women are obviously going to reject and attack her. Especially because she is a women that doesn't fit into their style of living. Men have to submit to their wife's needs as well. It is the 2 parent working that causes the issues we see today as well as the single parent. Amish wife's raise their children just fine. Cloth diapers worked really well and if women would see being a wife as a partnership instead of degradation life would be much better. Raising children is the most important thing in a family. It seems a lot of women rather delegate that responsibility to other people. It use to be cheaper for a wife to stay at home. I don't think the "Boss women" are realistic with reality of human life or what attracts men other than sex. I am willing to bet "Boss women" marry for financial purposes ( tax credits) divorce usually goes in favor of a female. So married for 2 to 5 years and divorce. I have noticed stay at home mothers with have a longer lasting relationship more often than not.
@Tony I guess it depends on how you define work. Define balance in a family home? Raising Children is the absolute most important action parents can do for society and themselves.
Why is it that so many children are raised by single parents? 13.6 million single parents to provide a general idea. Which families are providing additional help for them? Parents - 46% who lived together before marriage divorced. The impact on children sky high. Parents who have friends who divorce have a 75% increase in the risk of their own marriage ending. Infidelity is another leading cause of divorce at 60%. Do you honestly believe that a family's success rate is higher with 2 working parents, where children are raised by t.v., daycare, and public schools? If you have been married longer than 8 years sweet your family is an exception. Still, this does not mean that your magical number works for 80 percent of the rest of the family's. Property Taxes and fear of losing unpaid home loans. Property taxes require a person to either own a business or work for one. It also takes leverage away from the worker. It is cheaper to have clothes and diapers, to breastfeed, to grow and can own food, to raise children on healthy food, and to monitor children's actions and influences. House prices went up when 2 parents started working as well as the cost of vehicles, clothes, shoes, phones, etc..... Of course, there are other financial issues when it comes to owning a home. Such a dependency on energy, water, gas etc...... How much money does a family actually really need to raise a family if 1 parent works and no annual property tax exists?
@Tony - I see what you are saying but disagree. A "boss woman" does not equal a 100 percent invested wife and parent. A side hustle or job to earn extra money for stuff is something else to me so which are we discussing? I agree 100 percent is required in a relationship. With all components that involve 100 percent in relationship being assumed. You cannot own a successful business or have a successful career without some form of dependency and a certain percentage not engaged in family 1st. When do you go to work to go to work for yourself or the family? Do you have a career that earns above 150k? I call it a career because it makes a huge difference whether or not your business or career is lost to some uncontrollable situation. While i can agree that you and your wife may be the exception to the rule. To say (nothing) is to say it is an absolute truth. For you and your family at the moment it may be true. To me, absolutes require all personalities and relationships to be the same as yours. I am again assuming that you also get along after the kids have moved out. I am assuming your family is not dependent on her job to get by or ahead but is for extra cash in her pocket for one reason or another. I am also assuming you have less than 4 kids and they have not reached their teen years yet. A wife being a nurse for example is a career. If it is the fact that the children are all grown up. Then maybe I can agree. If you and your wife are partners in a business then I can somewhat agree. But if she is a boss woman (career orientated) I strongly disagree.
@Tony - I think a wife should be invested at home. This includes planting and canning food as an alternative to a husband's career in case something were to happen to him. You can eat money. You can always sell food that you grow. Even if you just have 1 acre of land. That to me is the best option. 2nd best option is a wife who learns a career in case something happens to the father. 3rd would be a financial situation that has occurred and the wife has to work along with the husband to pay bills a certain amount of neglect will occur. This would be ideal from my point of view. I do not see making money as more important work. I see growing food and raising healthy children as more important work. To me, a couple horses (maybe a draft mule), a cow, some rabbits( ducks or chickens option) a couple dogs, and a couple sheep is the best just-in-case option. It requires lots of work that would provide children a good work ethic and a certain enjoyment of life. 10 acres would be ideal. Not everyone is the same and not all personality types would agree. I come from the point of view that water, food, and growing seeds are without a doubt more important than an economy that can collapse. If i lose my legs or get hit by a vehicle. I would hope that my wife would pick up the slack vs leave me. I feel if i took care of the wife and children the best way i could both would reciprocate. In fact most family it use to be that way and those skills are extremely helpful in times such as a great depression. I am just old and my ways are not your ways. I think it is much easier to make mistakes when a woman is focused on family and career especially when a husband already has that covered.
Thats a bullshit myth. You're not gonna balance and the woman feels unfulfilled working a job. Yahweh created women to provide companionship and support while they defer to the mans leadership. Not to share in that leadership by supporting the household. The man builds and leads the home, the woman nurtures the home into a pleasant and happy place. When the woman takes up the mans role the home is left malnourished and unhappy leading to a house divided. A house divided cannot stand. @Tony-dc8dt
To people that are interested here's the truth about her: she doesn’t have kids. She stays at home and says she cooks for her and her huby and clean the house. That's all. And film herself doing her make up and getting dressed. Like millions of other women do the same but she very much market herself as a traditional wife instead to get views and attention. In reality you can imagine how she doesnt do much all day long and that it does not take her 5 hours to cook any of the meal. It is just for the badbuzz, she's not even a mom. While there are real bad ass women and men doing it all everyday and work their as* off for real and not tik tok buiness girl. She is a privileged girl that's all, good for her but she's just a seller who understood how to make money and create buzz online out of it. Having zero kids, zero jobs zero responsability, while being in perfect health physically and mentally, having zero financial struggle and entertaining yourself filming your makeup tutorials and dresses and cooking and cleaning your own space, having zero responsability. Obviously is not a accomplishment for anybody since most people already do that and more. It would be nore appropriate and less silly to just make a video call "my fried rice recipe" or "how I do my make up" "my breast surgery" "my favorite shop for dresses I wear in my videos". But her label of a fake Traditional Wife as she calls attracts more attention including haters, misogynist, feminist, conservative, fetishist, idealism of the past etc
Um, just because she is a stay at home wife doesn’t mean she has all the time to do nothing..some people like to clean & cook, not just because they have to. I myself, am on vacation. I am so lazy when I don’t work. I have a Master’s degree and always did full time work and school. Working only without study now feels like leisure. And vacay mode means I’m not getting off the couch. Props to her for ACTUALLY doing housework. I would like to be like her someday, freed from pressures. However, I know it takes a lot of good habits to have a perfectly clean/organized house. I see her as a role model for women. This doesn’t mean I don’t like my career, I’m just getting older and tired. Also, when I marry, I would like to become a housewife. Not all man are willing to provide everything now a days.
@@arcoiris890 And? Good for you, I hope you find a man to provide for you. Everything I said remains valid. And lol, I am a wife at home and I keep my house perfectly clean when my husband is at work away. He is a pilot. When he is home we do activities together, planned or spontaneous. I cook, I clean, I do our laundry. Name it all. And it doesnt take me much, and I do it while having a degenerative syndrome that affects my entire body, that also comes with pain and sudden intense tiredness. Otherwise, I would want to provide more too, and frankly if I was passionate about my study or job Ill go with my heart and chose accordingly. Many men in this world not only appreciate but some also need and preferably wants a women who can make her own money and/or participate to the prosperity of the household. I dont know what you are defending here but the honnest fact that she's girl that like anybody else, men or women, can clean and cook and has no kids and makes tiktoks. And I would like to point out that she has the right to educate herself, right to vote, right to live without a man without judment, right to work, right to not have kids if she doesn't want, right to abortion (at least in my country) and overall more rights and independence and less vulnerable then before. Some laws like being allowed to beat your wife even with an object have also disappeared. SHE IS A MODERN WOMAN MAKING HER OWN DECISION WHENEVER SHE WANTS WHEN SHE WANTS. As well as not being around any toxic men if you dont want to. Not having a job or cooking doesnt make you "traditional " nor special nor more valuable nor better for your family or your husband. Makes you a very normal basic person who dont need that kind of special glorifying praise of superiority and rare specialness for cleaning your space and feed your partner! Some women take care of their family just as well and give back so much to the society and some don't have the financial privilege having only one salary per family. It's up to your situation and your couple. Ill just say to Some people here that can wear the hat if it fits..., to Stop feeding the mysogisnists and the competition between women. That kind of ridicule is attracting similarities and you can see it all over her comments section everywhere. And as a woman you should be more worried by that and think about the consequences of it and some of those comments. Finally, Women are empowered by having choices and that is all that matters. There's not one that is superior to an other. You are superior in your rights and freedom and safety. And to my sisters: be careful when a man specifically wants a stay at home girl only, it may sounds nice but if is criteria number one over everything else to stay at home, wait for him and do things for him over all the rest. He wouldnt want you or respect you if you wouldn't be a specific cleaner, cook at home for him. It has to come from you. Many women in the world are still fighting for that freedom. Whatever you do: know your worth.
A traditional wife. It's a rare thing in today's modern future culture generation. Conventionally? Society. Wake up, humanity! May the truth set y'all free! 🤍🕊
When I first married my husband he’d always ask. What are you gonna do? You need to find a real job? What are your passions? See, he was so impressed my all his female friends who had created they’re own business or has got this awesome job then looks to me like I gotta put in some hard work to but I told him I really wasn’t interested in working. That may sound lazy to sound but it’s honest. I would have comfortably kept the house up (even though there was never much to clean because he is an excessive neat freak) I would cook all the time and hopefully raise some more babies. But he didn’t want any kids. Let’s just say that he made that abundantly clear. That was until he had a baby… yes,he did with someone else. I know I knoooww. He did not want me to have his kids though. He would seem to loose his shit at the thought. Anyway I guess you can say we’ve worked out most of the kinks in our relationship and it seems like he’s leaning more towards wanting a trade wife which is so funny to me because that’s always been the opposite of everything he stood for.
Each to their own choices. As long as no one is being forced into this lifestyle or abused. But hey, I don't want to get married. Nor have offspring. I hate this planet and I'm way too screwed up for such things. I don't trust anyone.🤣
I love the idea of the trad wife lifestyle. I think many women do but with so many men saying they want 50/50, women are refusing marriage. I think it is much safer for children for the mom to be a SAHM imo
Im not against this life style at all but lets be honest with ourselves most people especially Americans can not afford to live on a single income household i dont know a single man alive who can afford a lifestyle like this (to repeat im not against this life ) but its not realistic
I do not judge working wive, or even working moms. Not all men like to spilt money in a fair manner after bills are paid. Not all women can handle babysitting to have spending money. So, they work so they can have money as a result. Also, so "his" becomes "ours". If woman helps with bills, man cannot mak excuses on calling the house his, when it is hers, too, because she even if she not work outside the house, she works inside the house doing domestic stuff. Some men, if their wives did not have an occupation, he would have had to get a second job. If they have kids, it is even less time with dad if he works a second job or one job but longer hours. Folks just do what works for them. The wife or wife/mom who works, at least if she is an upright woman who man left her for dishonest reasons, she has somw income coming in after divorce by working. If not divorce, if he gets laid off or health issues come where he cannot work, or if he passes.
Final comment made at women supporting tradwife lifestyle "wow! you women are not into working right now!" nearly cause me to do a spit take! HOW is being a tradwife not working??? Clueless.
Feminism gave us women the CHOICE of what path we want to take. Some women want to be the “trad wife”, while others want to be the “boss babe”. Some women want to be mothers, while others have zero interest in children. Our grandmothers didn’t have these choices. For the men in the audience - if you want a “trad wife”, you better be able to afford paying ALL the bills. I hear men talk about wanting a trad wife, but they expect their wives to STILL go 50-50 on the bills. If you have to have a woman pitch in on the bills, you can’t afford a “trad wife”, and you won’t get one.
I had to find my beloved wife outside USA and for the last 13 years, never been that happy before. Men and women forgot their "basic" roles and now instead of working together we are competing each other, that's why divorces everywhere and destroyed families. No team work anymore.
The comment ‘you women are not into working’ is utterly insulting. I’m at SAHM mom and I homeschool/have several home businesses but I also take care of the land our 36 acre estate.
@@Nextzzt789Thank you! The Bible thumpers who like to throw out the “submission” statement fail to mention the REST of the verse, which tells men to LOVE and RESPECT their wives.
I love it but I think we should really know what submit means and what the biblical meaning behind submit means. I think we have been scared of that word way too long. Marriage is teamwork. God forbid but if something were to happen where he could not work, she would definitely have to be willing to be able to go and work and if he can he would have to be willing to switch roles.
Nothing new or extraordinary here. This is how it should be! Although, she has no concept of what a house dress is, because she isn't wearing an actual house dress. 🤔
If the marriage doesn't work out, the traditional wife will have no skills to fall back on to support herself unless they gets a nice alimony. So be warned to the trad husbands out there, if you support your trad wife and divorce, you will likely pay her alimony and child support. I, on the other hand, have been vulnerable and dependent on a man for my meal ticket in the past. Never again. I will always have my own income and means to care for myself. However, we live in a free country so to each their own!
I got 20 says she offs the husband in his sleep and collects the insurance money five years from now. Not a hater, just a realist and saying I can see some viable opportunities to this movement! I'm all for it!
I think when i marry a woman she wouldnt need to work anymore. Because as a man I will take care of the bills etc., if we are dating obviously she can still be working. If we are boyfriend and girlfriend she could still also be working but with more commitments. It is just realizing what to prioritize in your life. I'm all for boss babes whatever but if I am in a relationship I think it goes as is: men takes care of the resturaunt bill (know what I mean)?
The lady asked what she would do if her and her husband split. She would get half is what she would get, as well as another man. She would not be on the market long.
❤ absolutely positively awesome I will have had went so far in life having a woman like this this is what it's all about the world will be a much better place as long as the man would do what he's supposed to do and most of time a lot of men don't women in their marriage should come first along with the children the plan of God
How is this considered extreme while leaving your children with a stranger to go sit in an office and stare at computer is considered normal?
Exactly!!!
Yep
To each their own, many couples need to have both work due to live being expensive. Being a tradwife like her is a privilege, and a curse when your husband is an asshole.
Agree!!! Live & let live!!!😊
Well said!!
She´s absolutely right: We women fought for the CHOICE! And now we can CHOOSE! So, absolutely nothing wrong with CHOOSING to be a traditional wife! 👍
And what a wonderful choice that is 🌸
The disgusting part about it is being a "traditional" wife is somehow controversial these days.
Right on . I see so many single women my age out there . Good women , we need to be careful that the roles we take on our ones we decide we want..Men are scared to do anything might it be wrong and piss someone off . So they stay mama's boys and never grow up . Women are suffering a lack of decent men . It's just all screwed up
They are not tradwives, they just make their life look perfect, but you never can say what really happens behind the closed doors. And tradwives didn't even look like them 🤡🤡🤡
In response to your post about this: it's mind boggling that some people think this is wrong. In my opinion, this is nuts! How is Estee Williams committing any wrongdoing if she's making a decision for herself to be a feminine, traditional wife? It's HER CHOICE, and most men love a woman like Estee Williams. Agreed? @@ZebZanko
Interviewer asked what happens if her husband divorces her. To which I say... What man in their right mind would give up a women like this. She is a precious gem.
I feel bad for that guy, he's going to slave away the rest of his life and be her ATM machine forever so she can put on her makeup and sit all day on tiktok showing off her implants to the male audience, while the Roomba, the dishwasher and the washing machine do all the hard work.
You don't live with her. You think UA-cam and Tik Tok are reality? 🤣
@@Jason-gt6koI don't think YOU are you real.
@@masonallison8657 then you're a moron....
The majority of women are the ones filing for divorce.
Not the men.
And I agree, what man would want to throw away a good wife
Did you see the end?! Did you feel not working is ok!? Trad wives work! They cook, clean, dinners etc. That's work! WTF!
Its in the name. HouseWORK. So it definitely is work, its just the consumer is your husband and not someone you are trying sell to.
True. It is UNPAID work. Except for the pennies the husband might toss her way. Though in my case, I receive a generous one.
Due to my physical disability. I'm a housewife. But one who has been banned from a good portion of housework by her doctor. So unfortunately my man has to do it. Like cooking, laundry, and vacuuming.
Some women don't understand that. They believe what this Estee woman is doing is reality. Reality is that due to the cost of living, husband and wife work!
A housewife saves money. I cook from scratch, sew, do gardening etc. a working woman needs convenience due to lack of time, so a working woman usually spends a lot of what she makes in stuff like day care, prep meals or take out, cleaning ladies etc. Most of the time a woman works because she wants to work.
I’d never have anyone clean for me, do the groceries etc. if a man cannot do these things he’s quite useless!!
These wives are great. Traditional wives are the best
Myself and my daughter in laws are great
@@strongmermaid4651 you also replied to your own comment...
@@teenyverse7707 yes I wanted to give a shout out for my daughters in law. Who cares
@@strongmermaid4651 yikes....
@@strongmermaid4651 are you also liking your own comments and reply’s?
Who cares what other people think. She should live her life the way she wants to live it.
Making your husband happy is very controversial
Trad Wives and Trad Husbands put each other and their kids first. That breeds success.
Sorry but thats where your wrong. Feminists families put the child first. Traditional families put the adults first. That breeds success.
@@krakerjak3 Sorry man, but trad men work overtime to buy a bigger house as the family grows, IOW, he puts the kids ahead of himself. Trad wives do the same, they sacrifice careers for the benefit of the family. You are right, my DIL is a militant feminist and she puts the kids (and job) WAY over her husband.
@@krakerjak3 your comment screams self contradictory, women fought for being able to have a choice so they can choose to be a worker or be a tradwife you dweep. let people be! i have nothing against feminist families but dont go attacking traditional families
@@krakerjak3feminist families indoctrinate their children to think the woman is the man but with a vagina. That in itself is illogical. No wonder there are so many fucked up folks in the West
feminists families put children first? On what planet? Feminists families dont even have children to begin with lmfao. @@krakerjak3
She says "you women are not into working right now!" HA!! Being a traditional wife is hard work. A labor of love. And when the kids come, these women have to wear many hats. Chef, housekeeper, chauffer, referee, etc... It's a selfless job and the most rewarding.
I like being a housewife too - except I also work full time and don't have a husband or kids - so basically an adult who like a nice place to live and relax without other people to take care of. It's wonderful
Low value woman take
@@redactedredacted1818 Most SINGLE men around here are losers with no money and substance abuse issues, so I'll happily stay single forever 😂
@@jbythebay1543 Probably only attracting low value men with your low value mindset. I make 8k a month, don't do drugs, and pretty successful in my career. I wouldn't touch a woman with your mindset. Thankfully I am not far from proposing to my woman.
I hope it’s not a false sense of fulfillment. Most who chose this path end up alone and regretting it.
@@jbythebay1543thing is no one ever said that the right man would fall into your lap. It’s delusional
Yeah, good on you Esti, love your work and WHY NOT. I love the traditional lifestyle. It's lovely, normal and people are happy in this environment. 🤩Many of my church girlfriends are stay at home mums and it's great, nothing wrong at all with that.
As far as men are concerned Trad wives rock. We want a woman. We don’t want to marry another dude.
If she takes care of us, our children and our home then she is precious, respected, protected and cared for.!
Not to all men. My ex-husband wanted a mommy who was the breadwinner but was entirely submissive to the abuse he gave out. Basically a bangmaid.
@@SuzetteKath Were you forced to stay?
I feel bad for that guy, he's going to slave away the rest of his life and be her ATM machine forever so she can put on her makeup and sit all day on tiktok showing off her implants to the male audience, while the Roomba, the dishwasher and the washing machine do all the hard work.
Yes, yes, yes and yes.
Nothing wrong with it. ❤
I am a stay at home, wife and mother and I love it and I am submissive to my husband, and I believe in the old values and the old ways!!
Trad wife is a legendary blessing to have as a man.
Lamborghini or faithful trad wife for life .....im taking the trad wife lol ill work for that lambo the hard way.
You go woman, families and children in particular need a mom and dad. How much better would our world be if we had more family groups like you, I can only imagine?
Gross
I don’t have an issue with a career wife, however a career mom has to be careful not to sell herself and family short. Personally, society puts too much pressure on moms to work while the kids are young. It’s not good for anyone and society pays a heavy price for doing this to women. It needs to stop.
Also, men need to step up so women can raise the children. You need to have a plan and execute on it, no matter time and sacrifice.
My wife raised our kids while I worked. Now, she can spend time with the grandchildren.
Perhaps Boss Babe, Trad Wife and Tragic Wife. Tragic Wife is the wife that chooses to work, go through child birth and then pay someone else to raise you children.
its called Christian Values...
Amen!
As a woman, I find it highly offensive to hear the anchor say “you women aren’t into working” if they choose the traditional wife role. I’m also saying this from my opinion that Trad Wife life is NOT for me.
We appreciate your honesty and objectivity regardless of how you want to live. It’s god given freedom to chose. My wife works after kids are raised, but still fills many traditional roles. We cook together most of the time. I do my part and she’s happy with the help. While the kids were growing, she was a traditional wife. I respect and appreciate her in all her capacities she chooses. And it’s hard work. Your right, this interviewer was an idiot
@@youhaveinfinitevalue5755 I think that’s the biggest point.. traditional wife roles could not happen without assistance. Your family pitched in, it sounds like.. that’s amazing!!
Wow. The last comment..saying her supporters “are not into working”. STAY AT HOME WIFES WORK HARD!! AND TRYING TO DO IT ALL …ie work a job ..SUCKS !!! AND YOU ARE WORKING FOR MEN TOO!!! Holy cow these are the 3 stooges on this show. And little girl in the middle…staying home w your children is WAY more important than reading news off a prompter 🙄. I’m over feminism. A lot of us midlifer’s see what we missed. This is not new. Estee just looks really pretty doing it.
The poll at the end with 75% of women saying they would prefer be trad wives is my favorite part
I really like the looks of that era! Actually making an effort for each other in looks and dividing the household tasks. Maybe it was to negative in real life at that time and I am more for equality in that sense. But the esthetic of that look and making an effort is something I am down for.
"Equality" is a myth it doesn't exist.
When will people value the work mothers and wives do at home. We seriously do so much especially when we have a man who appreciates what we do.
This might be the life for some women. But it's not a life for all women. Little boys are not the only ones that grow up dreaming big about having a meaningful and prosperous career in something. I'm a woman that grew up with a lifelong passion for Science and Agriculture. And that's why I'm working full-time in the stem fields now. People can disagree with me all they want or go so far as to consider me selfish for living my own life. But I find a career in science far more rewarding than sitting at home scrubbing dirty dishes and folding laundry, along with having to rely on an "allowance" from my husband (as if I'm still only at 12 years old). I've also got a neice that dreams about becoming an animal veterinarian someday. Not every woman chooses to have children either. Children are expensive. And if you end up having a child with a man that isn't faithful, it can lead to very big trouble if you don't have a career lined up for yourself so that you can gainfully support that child financially. Single mothers and children often live on used clothing from the Salvation Army, and a diet of fast food because Mom's paycheck from running the cash register at a gas station isn't enough to buy food at the grocery store, or new clothing from an actual department store. This is why it's better to go to school and make sure you're financially stable as an adult before considering the idea of having children. That way if you and the child need to fend for yourselves because "Prince Charming" decided to cheat or ended up incarcerated for the next 10 years, you'll be able to remain financially secure. Otherwise, If you're a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life chained to a sink or a stove wearing ugly Little House on the Prairie knockoff dresses while being a house slave, then all the power to you. Just remember; eventually this life becomes very stagnant and depressing. And if you decide to go out and leave the house for any reason because you need a change of scenery or some fun and good times in your life, that isn't going to come without the consequences of being screamed at by your controlling husband / "Master."
Want to go out for a day of shopping with your friends or a long walk along the beach? Be prepared for the worst when your "master" finds out you "chewed through your leash..."
Sorry, but I for one, am not going to be treated like I'm not important or lesser of a human being by taking orders from anybody and giving up all my passions in life just because of my gender. Being traditional or career-oriented is a (choice) we (all) have. So is being single. If being in a relationship or being married to a man means having to be his new surrogate mother and give up and sacrifice everything that makes me a human being, then it's just not worth it...
@Tony Again, people can disagree with me all they want. Everyone's with a right to their opinion. Personally, I find nothing more "selfish" than to bring a child into the world without being with the financial means to support that child. It Isn't so much the mother that suffers the most so much as the poor kid on a diet of fast food and used hand-me-downs because mommy never got an opportunity to give herself a better shot at life as an adult before getting knocked up. People are not taking into consideration the cost of having just one child nevermind more than one. Everybody's treating having kids like it's some sort of fashion trend, yet it's not the same as bringing home a fucking dog. There are so many couples bringing kids into the world who put their drug habits and their drinking above all else as well. And I'm talking about people who never bothered to even stay in high school and never bothered to do anything gainful afterwards. Households have not been supported on a single income in (many, many decades). This is why it's dangerous to treat having children as if it's a trend and strictly for the purpose of image.
@Tony I never said that everything I had going on was better than what other people chose, so much as I was pointing out that it's definitely better (for me). In fact, if you go back and read the comment again, you'll notice that I said being a housewife or being career-oriented is a (choice) that everyone has. I don't have anything against stay-at-home mothers or stay-at-home wives at all. However, I find that stay-at-home wives or "tradwives" have a little less self respect and dignity, because they do nothing but take orders from their boyfriends or husbands and are kept on a very short and tight leash. Many of them are missing out on life and try to act like they're happy when behind closed doors, you know a lot of them are sobbing into their hands. Especially if they got an earful for going out with friends or decided to enjoy some leisurely shopping and dining for a change. At that point, A woman has clearly been robbed of her self-esteem and adulthood, and programmed to think that she's basically still a child and needs to have the man's "permission" for everything. That is just pure bullshit.
I'm sorry, but getting screamed and yelled at or hit with the threat of a break-up because I didn't have dinner on the table when my boyfriend came home from his fulfilling day of being successful and accomplished, isn't my idea of a very good life-let alone any sort of life at all. I would be looking to be someone's wife or boyfriend - not to adopt someone else's adult son.
(That part of it really grosses me out) because marriage isn't about being a set of "replacement parents" to each other.
And women are human beings after all, and deserve to enjoy life while we're here. My sister is a stay-at-home wife and mother. She's got three kids and hasn't worked full time in many years. And she's a terrific mother. But I'm not going to say she's 100% content. And she has openly admitted this to me plenty of times. She actually wanted to join me for a fishing trip. And while I thought this was a great idea, she wasn't quite within her element once she got out on the lake with me. She wasn't able to put her phone down, she wasn't dressed correctly for being in the wilderness. And activities such as fishing (peaceful as it is), are mainly for those who don't have children at home. Her children are her life. My hobbies and my career are mine. Everyone has a different destiny in life. And not every woman has to live the same carbon-copy lifestyle as every other one.
@Tony I never said having children was a "curse." You're putting words in my mouth. I merely pointed out the reality of how expensive it is to have children and that you need to be financially stable in order to comfortably go through with it because its a very big decision. Again, it's not like going to an animal shelter and adopting a pet. It's a huge commitment and has to be very carefully thought through. And I have my own opinion and my own perspectives in life. Nobody gets to change that.
@Tony Well agree to disagree I guess. You sound pretty upset. And all I can say to that is (too bad). It's called "freedom of speech." And you don't get to govern, control or have any say in what I put out on the internet. So you may as well just stop wasting your time and move on. Or you can just sit there in front of your screen and be mad. Maybe find a good corner to cry in....I don't care either way. (I'm taking a cruise on my bike). Have a nice day! 😎👍
@Tony Yeah, and your argument is no more valid either. And no, I'm not saying I want "all women" to think the same way as I do. I am merely pointing out that they all have the same right to choose whether they want to be a traditional housewife or to be career-oriented and just live their own life in whatever way they see fit. I'm not saying women should choose one or the other. I pointed out every woman has the CHOICE of either lifestyle. If they want to get up everyday and have a rewarding career to go to and fun hobbies to do in their spare time than all the power to them. If they prefer to stay home and scrub dirty dishes and cook meals then all the power to them just the same. I mentioned my perspectives on how (I feel) about the whole "tradwife trend" based on pure observations and experience, and I'm sticking to it. You can't change that. So this whole conversation is a lost cause for you. I could care less whether you agree with my opinion or not. It is what it is. So get over it.
I'm with the tradwives. My wife and I have lived this way for 16 years now (13 with a son) and we're both very glad we did.
The poll results at the end says it all.
Wow. The last comment, "so you women aren't into working" is an attitude that offended every trad wife. They were working at home. They weren't just sitting on their butts. The lazy women were not being trad wives. They were just bums. Regarding her being submissive to her husband - it's a nightmare if he's a jerk. Sure; the way to a healthy marriage is NOT. for the man to be submissive to a woman who is a jerk. A lot of women seem to think that's a good idea. I would say that a lot of what is making this woman and her husband happy is that they are both committed to treating each other with respect and stay far from selfishness.
Thank you for modeling a tradional life. Thank you for choosing to take care of your husband, and someday, your children. Our world will be a better place because of your beautiful selflessnes.. Enjoy!
Is...she real? WOW. Amazing woman.
It's sure is! Bizarre to me that woman my age hosting seem to think this is a foreign and inconceivable vocation. I'm SURE their parents or friends parents lived this way
well my parents paid 65k for their home. which is worth now 410k. Even if I wanted to I couldn't afford this lifesyle
Proud Trad Wife of 25 years. Raised a son who turned out to be a fine human with memories of mom always being there. I never missed a school event, I was a classroom helper when he was younger, was always available when he was sick and made the BEST homemade meals and snacks. Now my son is a chef!
What happens when the traditional wife’s husband dies? Wait on their life insurance?
Lol
If their marriage is faithful and if the husband is smart. He will create some type of cash flow to support his family regardless if he is alive or dead.
Yes... that's what any married person would do
She’s an influencer, so…
Um, yes. That's exactly what life insurance is for... 🤷
Feminist kicking air right now!!!💯💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It makes my day to see this lifestyle is coming back. I hope this trend continues and more young women makes this choice.
Femininity is beautiful
This is called high value.
Damn right say it again
don't worry men are still gonna cheat on them regardless, it's of no use...
She chose that lifestyle, and seems happy. So, I guess, to each her (his) own. I mean, they both look happy. :)
Does her husband let her vote?
Do you even vote?
No. I'm pretty sure he spank her when she forget the bread on the oven.
trad wife is wise. she broke the code. women were never meant to be work horses.
Civil, polite comments which don't fully support trad wives are removed, hahaha!
My comment was removed!
I hope her husband reciprocates and if he wears something she not likes, he'll wear something else because she does that for him. Even wears her hair the way he likes, which is her natural curly.
Yes it’s for me!
The Other Women may not like her so much but I guarantee you most of the men do.
If Miss. Williams ever found herself singal again, she would not be alon for long.
I’m laughing at all the women that claim they are traditional gals. And you ask em for a sandwich and they walk out. 😂
What are you talking about? This girl cooks up a storm.
God will bless her marriage and family.
Ummm....Traditional Wives WORK...Hard! We just don't get Money or Praise for it...! That doesn't mean it's not WORK!
"Boss women" fail in male and female relationships more. These women are obviously going to reject and attack her. Especially because she is a women that doesn't fit into their style of living. Men have to submit to their wife's needs as well. It is the 2 parent working that causes the issues we see today as well as the single parent. Amish wife's raise their children just fine. Cloth diapers worked really well and if women would see being a wife as a partnership instead of degradation life would be much better.
Raising children is the most important thing in a family. It seems a lot of women rather delegate that responsibility to other people. It use to be cheaper for a wife to stay at home.
I don't think the "Boss women" are realistic with reality of human life or what attracts men other than sex. I am willing to bet "Boss women" marry for financial purposes ( tax credits) divorce usually goes in favor of a female. So married for 2 to 5 years and divorce.
I have noticed stay at home mothers with have a longer lasting relationship more often than not.
@Tony I guess it depends on how you define work. Define balance in a family home? Raising Children is the absolute most important action parents can do for society and themselves.
Why is it that so many children are raised by single parents? 13.6 million single parents to provide a general idea. Which families are providing additional help for them?
Parents - 46% who lived together before marriage divorced. The impact on children sky high. Parents who have friends who divorce have a 75% increase in the risk of their own marriage ending. Infidelity is another leading cause of divorce at 60%. Do you honestly believe that a family's success rate is higher with 2 working parents, where children are raised by t.v., daycare, and public schools? If you have been married longer than 8 years sweet your family is an exception. Still, this does not mean that your magical number works for 80 percent of the rest of the family's.
Property Taxes and fear of losing unpaid home loans. Property taxes require a person to either own a business or work for one. It also takes leverage away from the worker. It is cheaper to have clothes and diapers, to breastfeed, to grow and can own food, to raise children on healthy food, and to monitor children's actions and influences. House prices went up when 2 parents started working as well as the cost of vehicles, clothes, shoes, phones, etc..... Of course, there are other financial issues when it comes to owning a home. Such a dependency on energy, water, gas etc...... How much money does a family actually really need to raise a family if 1 parent works and no annual property tax exists?
@Tony - I see what you are saying but disagree. A "boss woman" does not equal a 100 percent invested wife and parent. A side hustle or job to earn extra money for stuff is something else to me so which are we discussing?
I agree 100 percent is required in a relationship. With all components that involve 100 percent in relationship being assumed. You cannot own a successful business or have a successful career without some form of dependency and a certain percentage not engaged in family 1st. When do you go to work to go to work for yourself or the family? Do you have a career that earns above 150k? I call it a career because it makes a huge difference whether or not your business or career is lost to some uncontrollable situation.
While i can agree that you and your wife may be the exception to the rule. To say (nothing) is to say it is an absolute truth. For you and your family at the moment it may be true. To me, absolutes require all personalities and relationships to be the same as yours. I am again assuming that you also get along after the kids have moved out. I am assuming your family is not dependent on her job to get by or ahead but is for extra cash in her pocket for one reason or another. I am also assuming you have less than 4 kids and they have not reached their teen years yet.
A wife being a nurse for example is a career. If it is the fact that the children are all grown up. Then maybe I can agree. If you and your wife are partners in a business then I can somewhat agree. But if she is a boss woman (career orientated) I strongly disagree.
@Tony - I think a wife should be invested at home. This includes planting and canning food as an alternative to a husband's career in case something were to happen to him. You can eat money. You can always sell food that you grow. Even if you just have 1 acre of land. That to me is the best option. 2nd best option is a wife who learns a career in case something happens to the father. 3rd would be a financial situation that has occurred and the wife has to work along with the husband to pay bills a certain amount of neglect will occur. This would be ideal from my point of view.
I do not see making money as more important work. I see growing food and raising healthy children as more important work. To me, a couple horses (maybe a draft mule), a cow, some rabbits( ducks or chickens option) a couple dogs, and a couple sheep is the best just-in-case option. It requires lots of work that would provide children a good work ethic and a certain enjoyment of life. 10 acres would be ideal.
Not everyone is the same and not all personality types would agree. I come from the point of view that water, food, and growing seeds are without a doubt more important than an economy that can collapse. If i lose my legs or get hit by a vehicle. I would hope that my wife would pick up the slack vs leave me. I feel if i took care of the wife and children the best way i could both would reciprocate. In fact most family it use to be that way and those skills are extremely helpful in times such as a great depression.
I am just old and my ways are not your ways. I think it is much easier to make mistakes when a woman is focused on family and career especially when a husband already has that covered.
Thats a bullshit myth. You're not gonna balance and the woman feels unfulfilled working a job. Yahweh created women to provide companionship and support while they defer to the mans leadership. Not to share in that leadership by supporting the household. The man builds and leads the home, the woman nurtures the home into a pleasant and happy place. When the woman takes up the mans role the home is left malnourished and unhappy leading to a house divided. A house divided cannot stand. @Tony-dc8dt
To people that are interested here's the truth about her: she doesn’t have kids. She stays at home and says she cooks for her and her huby and clean the house. That's all. And film herself doing her make up and getting dressed. Like millions of other women do the same but she very much market herself as a traditional wife instead to get views and attention. In reality you can imagine how she doesnt do much all day long and that it does not take her 5 hours to cook any of the meal. It is just for the badbuzz, she's not even a mom. While there are real bad ass women and men doing it all everyday and work their as* off for real and not tik tok buiness girl. She is a privileged girl that's all, good for her but she's just a seller who understood how to make money and create buzz online out of it. Having zero kids, zero jobs zero responsability, while being in perfect health physically and mentally, having zero financial struggle and entertaining yourself filming your makeup tutorials and dresses and cooking and cleaning your own space, having zero responsability. Obviously is not a accomplishment for anybody since most people already do that and more. It would be nore appropriate and less silly to just make a video call "my fried rice recipe" or "how I do my make up" "my breast surgery" "my favorite shop for dresses I wear in my videos". But her label of a fake Traditional Wife as she calls attracts more attention including haters, misogynist, feminist, conservative, fetishist, idealism of the past etc
Um, just because she is a stay at home wife doesn’t mean she has all the time to do nothing..some people like to clean & cook, not just because they have to. I myself, am on vacation. I am so lazy when I don’t work. I have a Master’s degree and always did full time work and school. Working only without study now feels like leisure. And vacay mode means I’m not getting off the couch. Props to her for ACTUALLY doing housework. I would like to be like her someday, freed from pressures. However, I know it takes a lot of good habits to have a perfectly clean/organized house. I see her as a role model for women. This doesn’t mean I don’t like my career, I’m just getting older and tired. Also, when I marry, I would like to become a housewife. Not all man are willing to provide everything now a days.
@@arcoiris890 And? Good for you, I hope you find a man to provide for you. Everything I said remains valid. And lol, I am a wife at home and I keep my house perfectly clean when my husband is at work away. He is a pilot. When he is home we do activities together, planned or spontaneous. I cook, I clean, I do our laundry. Name it all. And it doesnt take me much, and I do it while having a degenerative syndrome that affects my entire body, that also comes with pain and sudden intense tiredness. Otherwise, I would want to provide more too, and frankly if I was passionate about my study or job Ill go with my heart and chose accordingly. Many men in this world not only appreciate but some also need and preferably wants a women who can make her own money and/or participate to the prosperity of the household. I dont know what you are defending here but the honnest fact that she's girl that like anybody else, men or women, can clean and cook and has no kids and makes tiktoks.
And I would like to point out that she has the right to educate herself, right to vote, right to live without a man without judment, right to work, right to not have kids if she doesn't want, right to abortion (at least in my country) and overall more rights and independence and less vulnerable then before. Some laws like being allowed to beat your wife even with an object have also disappeared. SHE IS A MODERN WOMAN MAKING HER OWN DECISION WHENEVER SHE WANTS WHEN SHE WANTS. As well as not being around any toxic men if you dont want to. Not having a job or cooking doesnt make you "traditional " nor special nor more valuable nor better for your family or your husband. Makes you a very normal basic person who dont need that kind of special glorifying praise of superiority and rare specialness for cleaning your space and feed your partner! Some women take care of their family just as well and give back so much to the society and some don't have the financial privilege having only one salary per family. It's up to your situation and your couple. Ill just say to Some people here that can wear the hat if it fits..., to Stop feeding the mysogisnists and the competition between women. That kind of ridicule is attracting similarities and you can see it all over her comments section everywhere. And as a woman you should be more worried by that and think about the consequences of it and some of those comments. Finally, Women are empowered by having choices and that is all that matters. There's not one that is superior to an other. You are superior in your rights and freedom and safety.
And to my sisters: be careful when a man specifically wants a stay at home girl only, it may sounds nice but if is criteria number one over everything else to stay at home, wait for him and do things for him over all the rest. He wouldnt want you or respect you if you wouldn't be a specific cleaner, cook at home for him. It has to come from you. Many women in the world are still fighting for that freedom. Whatever you do: know your worth.
A traditional wife. It's a rare thing in today's modern future culture generation.
Conventionally? Society. Wake up, humanity! May the truth set y'all free! 🤍🕊
When I first married my husband he’d always ask. What are you gonna do? You need to find a real job? What are your passions? See, he was so impressed my all his female friends who had created they’re own business or has got this awesome job then looks to me like I gotta put in some hard work to but I told him I really wasn’t interested in working. That may sound lazy to sound but it’s honest. I would have comfortably kept the house up (even though there was never much to clean because he is an excessive neat freak) I would cook all the time and hopefully raise some more babies. But he didn’t want any kids. Let’s just say that he made that abundantly clear. That was until he had a baby… yes,he did with someone else. I know I knoooww. He did not want me to have his kids though. He would seem to loose his shit at the thought. Anyway I guess you can say we’ve worked out most of the kinks in our relationship and it seems like he’s leaning more towards wanting a trade wife which is so funny to me because that’s always been the opposite of everything he stood for.
So, you stayed with him even after he cheated on you and had a baby with his mistress? Am i reading that right ?
Each to their own choices. As long as no one is being forced into this lifestyle or abused. But hey, I don't want to get married. Nor have offspring. I hate this planet and I'm way too screwed up for such things. I don't trust anyone.🤣
Hey man don't hate the planet, the planet wasn't the one that hurt you
I'm a trad wife of 37 years.
Beautiful
Of good report and praiseworthy. A devoted wife, what a concept! Real men want this beautiful Queen, not an only fans type.
Which means she’s rich. Basically
No, she says she thrifts most of her dresses and lives quite frugally
No her husband is rich a she actualy deserves a top tier man un like other swamp trolls h wo say there are a 10 and want to manifest a husband
No I’m a stay at home you don’t have to be rich
I love the idea of the trad wife lifestyle. I think many women do but with so many men saying they want 50/50, women are refusing marriage. I think it is much safer for children for the mom to be a SAHM imo
A High value women right there
Yes push this .
...this is high value.
2 months? way to go girl...
Im not against this life style at all but lets be honest with ourselves most people especially Americans can not afford to live on a single income household i dont know a single man alive who can afford a lifestyle like this (to repeat im not against this life ) but its not realistic
I do not judge working wive, or even working moms. Not all men like to spilt money in a fair manner after bills are paid. Not all women can handle babysitting to have spending money. So, they work so they can have money as a result. Also, so "his" becomes "ours". If woman helps with bills, man cannot mak excuses on calling the house his, when it is hers, too, because she even if she not work outside the house, she works inside the house doing domestic stuff.
Some men, if their wives did not have an occupation, he would have had to get a second job. If they have kids, it is even less time with dad if he works a second job or one job but longer hours.
Folks just do what works for them. The wife or wife/mom who works, at least if she is an upright woman who man left her for dishonest reasons, she has somw income coming in after divorce by working. If not divorce, if he gets laid off or health issues come where he cannot work, or if he passes.
She would be first wish from a magic lamp.
Final comment made at women supporting tradwife lifestyle "wow! you women are not into working right now!" nearly cause me to do a spit take! HOW is being a tradwife not working??? Clueless.
Feminism gave us women the CHOICE of what path we want to take. Some women want to be the “trad wife”, while others want to be the “boss babe”. Some women want to be mothers, while others have zero interest in children. Our grandmothers didn’t have these choices.
For the men in the audience - if you want a “trad wife”, you better be able to afford paying ALL the bills. I hear men talk about wanting a trad wife, but they expect their wives to STILL go 50-50 on the bills. If you have to have a woman pitch in on the bills, you can’t afford a “trad wife”, and you won’t get one.
never heard of a trad wife guy wanting a 50-50. its an oxymoron. Sounds like feminist propaganda to dissuade from the concept
If she gets pregnant, and her husband passes or leaves her, she will be unwanted by other men for being a single mom
Love my trad wife
Being a God-fearing trad wife is necessary for a happy and stable family environment to bring up children.
I had to find my beloved wife outside USA and for the last 13 years, never been that happy before. Men and women forgot their "basic" roles and now instead of working together we are competing each other, that's why divorces everywhere and destroyed families. No team work anymore.
The comment ‘you women are not into working’ is utterly insulting. I’m at SAHM mom and I homeschool/have several home businesses but I also take care of the land our 36 acre estate.
Amazing. I'm the same. I take care of my family.❤️
This is all on purpose. Naming normal some weird word is exactly what they want.
This is a stepford wife character. The concept is sound, but practically does call for full make up and dresses.
It’s biblical to submit to your husband.
Amen
it's also biblical to be respectful and be faithful to your wife not treating her like doormat and being caring, loving and loyal to her
@@Nextzzt789Thank you! The Bible thumpers who like to throw out the “submission” statement fail to mention the REST of the verse, which tells men to LOVE and RESPECT their wives.
Interviewer was a little passive aggressive with her questions…
Jelous🤣
Love her tiktoks ♡
Oh my god YES a real woman !!!
*Amen!*
I love it but I think we should really know what submit means and what the biblical meaning behind submit means. I think we have been scared of that word way too long. Marriage is teamwork. God forbid but if something were to happen where he could not work, she would definitely have to be willing to be able to go and work and if he can he would have to be willing to switch roles.
OMG i love her
She earns her own money
“Tradwife” is just as cringe as the phrase “woke feminism” 💀
I want a trad wife but most importantly above all else, I want her to be a God fearing Bible beleeuing Christian.
Amen✝️
Choose the right man then!!
Nothing new or extraordinary here. This is how it should be!
Although, she has no concept of what a house dress is, because she isn't wearing an actual house dress. 🤔
Being a trad wife is not for everyone, but it is bullshit to criticize her for being one.
TRADWIFE IS THE REAL WOMAN ❤️✝️
@@haydrionrayel 🤣
If her husband ever leaves her, gets disabled, or dies, she will be screwed so much!
I love my outfits 100 times more when my man loves them
I don’t even want to do either working or doing house work. Happy to have a man can do both
If the marriage doesn't work out, the traditional wife will have no skills to fall back on to support herself unless they gets a nice alimony. So be warned to the trad husbands out there, if you support your trad wife and divorce, you will likely pay her alimony and child support. I, on the other hand, have been vulnerable and dependent on a man for my meal ticket in the past. Never again. I will always have my own income and means to care for myself. However, we live in a free country so to each their own!
I got 20 says she offs the husband in his sleep and collects the insurance money five years from now. Not a hater, just a realist and saying I can see some viable opportunities to this movement! I'm all for it!
Where can I buy one of these Trat wife’s?
Yes this is a very good way to raise children
I think when i marry a woman she wouldnt need to work anymore. Because as a man I will take care of the bills etc., if we are dating obviously she can still be working. If we are boyfriend and girlfriend she could still also be working but with more commitments. It is just realizing what to prioritize in your life.
I'm all for boss babes whatever but if I am in a relationship I think it goes as is: men takes care of the resturaunt bill (know what I mean)?
Lol the polls at the end.
I was wondering what trad meant.
I love watching the liberal media SCREAM. Feminists on TV cry 😂😂😂
The lady asked what she would do if her and her husband split. She would get half is what she would get, as well as another man. She would not be on the market long.
Not extreme, when you have the choice to take care of your kids and house tourself, instead of making babies and letting others take care of them😑
❤ absolutely positively awesome I will have had went so far in life having a woman like this this is what it's all about the world will be a much better place as long as the man would do what he's supposed to do and most of time a lot of men don't women in their marriage should come first along with the children the plan of God
That was nice