THE STANLEY CUP PHENOMENON: WHY PEOPLE ARE LOSING THEIR MINDS | Influencer Insanity Ep 2

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  • @HannahAlonzo
    @HannahAlonzo  9 місяців тому +296

    Use code HANNAHALONZO120 to get $120 off across your first 4 boxes of Good Chop at bit.ly/4atqzpD!

    • @giuliaguizzardi
      @giuliaguizzardi 9 місяців тому +188

      It would have been really ironic and would have cracked me up if the code was for a Stanley cup

    • @jordansmith2380
      @jordansmith2380 9 місяців тому +21

      @@giuliaguizzardi I was thinking the exact same thing hahaha. I wouldn't have been mad.

    • @EvaWenborn96
      @EvaWenborn96 9 місяців тому

      I was thinking the exact same thing LMAO. I was about to say the same.@@giuliaguizzardi

    • @samanthajayewardene4523
      @samanthajayewardene4523 9 місяців тому +21

      Hannah I don't know if you're old enough to remember when people were getting into fights over Cabbage Patch dolls and Tickle Me Elmo. It was so funny.

    • @nellier3468
      @nellier3468 9 місяців тому +1

      Boycott animal abuse and go vegan ❤ Animal lovers don’t eat animals

  • @ChanieRose
    @ChanieRose 8 місяців тому +9114

    Influencer culture makes me feel like highschool is following me into adulthood.... -_-

    • @Jaxmusicgal23
      @Jaxmusicgal23 8 місяців тому +253

      That’s why I hate the song high school never ends, because in actuality, it really hasn’t for some of us as millennials.
      So many overgrown teenagers today and those of us that have grown up, or having to deal with the repercussions of both our boomer parents, turning into children, and a overgrown teenagers of our own generation

    • @vanzy01
      @vanzy01 8 місяців тому +19

      💯👍🏿

    • @Biffting93
      @Biffting93 8 місяців тому +95

      Couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m 30 years old and i still feel like i’m still in school at times

    • @alexcurrie4514
      @alexcurrie4514 7 місяців тому +64

      Oh my God, someone finally put the feeling into words.

    • @dextro_daydreams2093
      @dextro_daydreams2093 7 місяців тому +5

      Bahaha word

  • @roomiller
    @roomiller 9 місяців тому +6135

    These aren't "influencer videos". They're ADVERTISEMENTS. People complain about Netflix ads, but then they'll spend an hour watching ad after ad on social media. Weird.

    • @TaratheEnchantress
      @TaratheEnchantress 9 місяців тому +133

      Most of the time if I see the orange ad/shopping thing on tiktok I will immediately keep scrolling. Sometimes I’m scrolling past five videos in a row.

    • @alexia3552
      @alexia3552 9 місяців тому +166

      Undisclosed ads that "feel like a friend" and have a certain relatable vibe really succeed at feeling like content

    • @misskatelyn01
      @misskatelyn01 9 місяців тому +34

      People also love ads during the Superbowl. It's a social phenomenon.

    • @jenem9618
      @jenem9618 9 місяців тому +60

      People seriously need to reflect on that old saying that "if you aren't paying for the product, you ARE the product".

    • @Glenonica1
      @Glenonica1 9 місяців тому +41

      They're glorified sales people. Anytime a video is sponsored it's a sales tactic.

  • @shannonransom5996
    @shannonransom5996 9 місяців тому +8001

    As an elementary teacher, arming my kids with a cup that
    -weighs 4 lbs when filled
    -has a stiff straw
    -can't reasonably be put in a backpack
    -has a handle for ease of swingin'
    -is made of metal
    -has a top that can fall off and spill literally 40 oz of liquid on my floor
    Is a big old "leave it at home"

    • @KayJoyy
      @KayJoyy 9 місяців тому +2

      I saw a video yesterday of a little girl (maybe 10, wearing uggs) assaulting an adult woman with her Stanley cup in Ulta for not giving her the last of a product she had found that the little girl wanted.

    • @Charlotte-bc7vj
      @Charlotte-bc7vj 9 місяців тому +87

      lol amazing 😆

    • @JennaGetsCreative
      @JennaGetsCreative 9 місяців тому +226

      I can only imagine! My 6 year old goes to school with a plastic flip cap straw bottle from the dollar store that barely holds 12oz.

    • @breezywithkids
      @breezywithkids 9 місяців тому +35

      I agree however they have a water bottle style that is perfect for their age though my daughter is not getting the $45 cup lol but the $35 water bottle I would

    • @Rin22730
      @Rin22730 9 місяців тому +48

      ​@@JennaGetsCreativeI wouldn't trust to put things you drink in plastics crap from the dollar store..

  • @mairi2w2
    @mairi2w2 2 місяці тому +157

    I saw a video recently of people who were waiting for hours in endless lines for a chance to get a supply of water for the week, because they're in a part of the world where water isn't commonly avaliable. And that water has to be rationed between drinking, cooking, and washing. People are literally dying when they can't get it. We should be ashamed of behaving this way and even hurting one another over something so unnecessary and shallow.

    • @Roll4Chaos
      @Roll4Chaos 25 днів тому +2

      My husband just started working for a city water department. He said we have less than 150 years before we are in a critical, no-turning-back situation that is going to make the Dust Bowl look like a mild inconvenience.

    • @mairi2w2
      @mairi2w2 25 днів тому

      @Roll4Chaos Scary! Glad we have our own family spring well!

    • @trekadouble757
      @trekadouble757 5 днів тому +1

      Okay but that has absolutely no point here. The plate you can't finish will not be sent to starving children in Africa. The water we save over here will not be sent to another part of the world. There is absolutely no interaction between the water we have and the water those other people do not have.

  • @CountessGemini
    @CountessGemini 9 місяців тому +16715

    I'm European so you can only imagine how bizzare this cup insanity looks to me😆

    • @skittlessnow245
      @skittlessnow245 9 місяців тому +1206

      Same hahaha, I’ve been confused from the beginning

    • @mycatwilleatyou7569
      @mycatwilleatyou7569 9 місяців тому +1893

      Don't worry, a lot of Americans are confused too. I think people put way too much stock in what happens online. People need to go outside touch grass

    • @kerryconklin9828
      @kerryconklin9828 9 місяців тому +484

      Shoot, I'm from here and I'm baffled too! It's NUTS.

    • @sophiebla9195
      @sophiebla9195 9 місяців тому +57

      Saame

    • @dianesavant2818
      @dianesavant2818 9 місяців тому +399

      I'm American, and I think it's insane.

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 7 місяців тому +3357

    I am naturally pushed away from wanting something if it’s trendy/ so thankful for this trait.

    • @Johnnnnnnnyyyyyy
      @Johnnnnnnnyyyyyy 7 місяців тому +46

      Pick me!

    • @Naturally2Sexy
      @Naturally2Sexy 7 місяців тому +1

      It's a great trait to have. I avoid the trending tab altogether on streaming services and the like as well.
      What tends to trend is usually garbage

    • @lakshmikrithika2521
      @lakshmikrithika2521 7 місяців тому +107

      Honestly if everybody has it then nobody is special😂
      Moreover I really laugh at people dwindling their money to capitalistic companies😂
      So dumb.
      People honestly know the price of everything and value of nothing.

    • @Johnnnnnnnyyyyyy
      @Johnnnnnnnyyyyyy 7 місяців тому +29

      My husband bought me one years before they were popular. He isn’t on social media, he just was buying me a cup that would make my ice last during summer cross country races. But people love to hate so it’s a trend to get upset about someone’s cup now. It’s strange. How can I make fun of people today, is the new thing.

    • @MissSamantha26
      @MissSamantha26 7 місяців тому +65

      Me too! When the stanleys blew up, I had zero desire to buy one because it was trendy and I think $40 for a cup is insane

  • @ULTRAV1OLE7
    @ULTRAV1OLE7 9 місяців тому +4217

    Scarily, I'm studying consumerism as an aspect of my bachelor's degree and this has literally been the best example of mass media and artificially generated demand I've ever seen. I've been referencing this craze in almost every discussion, it's just too perfect. Consumerism is wild.

    • @Maeve2001
      @Maeve2001 9 місяців тому +152

      This has always been and will always be. Started way before social media. Hula Hoops in the 50’s, Pet Rocks in the 70’s, Cabbage patch kids in the 80s, beanie babies in the 90s. There will always be something that is in high demand, short in supply and coveted by the masses. Once this craze is over, we will be moving onto the next big thing. I’m genuinely confused as to why people are shocked by this.🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ladyv5655
      @ladyv5655 9 місяців тому +95

      I'm old enough to remember the Beanie Babies craze in the 1990's. It's the same thing. In a few years, these "collectors" won't be able to give these cups away.

    • @Penguins875
      @Penguins875 9 місяців тому +106

      This product was taken off of the shelves by Stanley a few years ago because it wasn’t selling. They changed the colors and started marketing to nurses instead of contractors and that’s all they needed to sell out. It’s such a good example on how it doesn’t matter what your product is, marketing strategy is everything

    • @Maeve2001
      @Maeve2001 9 місяців тому +41

      @@Penguins875 like the “pet rock” phase in years past. We’ve always had rocks, but you put a name to them and suddenly it’s a pet. Brilliant marketing plan, dumb consumers.

    • @talena0726
      @talena0726 9 місяців тому +42

      At this point I'm surprised Stanley haven't started a MLM scheme to join so consumers can get their "limited edition prints & colors"

  • @kevinhrankowski734
    @kevinhrankowski734 Місяць тому +184

    That one girl who screamed "it's $45!!!!" That's really sad, she's not excited about the gift, she's excited about how much it cost, the monetary value that is communicated to others through this cup. She's excited people will see her as someone who can afford a Stanley cup.

    • @Marly123
      @Marly123 21 день тому +14

      She’s super excited she got it. She likely assumed her parents wouldn’t get it cause it’s expensive for what it is. Like the iPod was an expensive MP3 player back in the day.

    •  4 дні тому

      ​@@Marly123 But it's a water bottle! 🥲

    • @Marly123
      @Marly123 4 дні тому

      Great right? A trend affordable for far more families than the Apple product trend.

  • @volvacations2186
    @volvacations2186 9 місяців тому +3545

    As a thrift store shopper I just laugh and say "see you in 2 years Stanley" right next to the Swell bottles, Yetis and Hatchimals.

    • @katiematott5656
      @katiematott5656 9 місяців тому +103

      I did the same thing with Rae Dunn, that stuff is allllll up in my thrift stores now

    • @JAM661
      @JAM661 9 місяців тому +64

      But the Yetis are good product and I really do not think to many people are getting rid of $400.00 cooler in droves if they are someone who really needs it. It is nice when car camping not to have to get ice everyday since the ice last 3 time longer in them then the regular cooler. If you are 100 miles from ice, you want it to last as long as possible.

    • @courtneybird3669
      @courtneybird3669 9 місяців тому +26

      Hahah yes found a hydro flask yesterday 😂

    • @wavy6617
      @wavy6617 9 місяців тому +84

      I bought a Swell bottle on employee discount when I was working retail at 22, and I still have it now at 32! The idea of buying more than one is so weird to me - the whole reason I like it because it's still in great shape 10 years later . . . like, that's the point!

    • @seitanbeatsyourmeat666
      @seitanbeatsyourmeat666 9 місяців тому +33

      2 years… you mean 2 months
      *sad kazoo noise*

  • @gitakiss5801
    @gitakiss5801 7 місяців тому +3557

    I got a generic cup, my husband's boss printed out a sticker of Stan Lee's face and now I can dork out with my very own Stan Lee mug. :D

    • @cheri103073
      @cheri103073 7 місяців тому +149

      May I steal this idea?!?!

    • @gitakiss5801
      @gitakiss5801 7 місяців тому

      @@cheri103073 By all means :D this should be the better trend

    • @noranizaazmi6523
      @noranizaazmi6523 7 місяців тому +116

      That’s so corny but i love it 😂

    • @aaflesje
      @aaflesje 7 місяців тому +40

      This is amazing😂

    • @QuiaQuerisma
      @QuiaQuerisma 7 місяців тому +31

      LMAOOOOO amazing

  • @Alex808thegreat
    @Alex808thegreat 8 місяців тому +2323

    If kids are getting bullied in school for not owning a Stanley cup, then the parents of the bullies should confiscate their kids' Stanley cups as a form of discipline.

    • @TheCraftyWitchUK
      @TheCraftyWitchUK 8 місяців тому +221

      If this were a UK school they would just ban the cups, same as they did with Pokémon cards and other collectibles when they became a cause of bullying or discourse

    • @fenlandwildlifeclips
      @fenlandwildlifeclips 8 місяців тому +129

      If I were a parent, & I found this out, I would give the cup to the victim & make my kid apologise.

    • @SarahLynn-h6s
      @SarahLynn-h6s 8 місяців тому +14

      In an utopian world...

    • @diane9812
      @diane9812 8 місяців тому

      Most parents in America now are just as bad as the kids.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 8 місяців тому +41

      ​@@TheCraftyWitchUKThat is what should happen. When I was a kid, we weren't even allowed to take drinks to school. You used the fountain.

  • @a1n9e8t4a
    @a1n9e8t4a 27 днів тому +94

    As a European I cannot comprehend the insanity of this. How is that even possible? It scares me how people are so easily manipulated over such trival things...😮

    • @chopsticksforlegs
      @chopsticksforlegs 20 днів тому

      Americans🇺🇸🗽

    • @Natalie-pk7cy
      @Natalie-pk7cy 17 днів тому +4

      And the manipulation goes deep. I saw once on a FB group a girl asked the other members weather they can recommend the Stanley cup and all answers were like: “you have to be really careful with it, don’t just put it in your bag because it leaks easily, but otherwise it’s really amazing quality, I love it! ❤”. And the girl, after receiving all these answers, still decided to buy the cup too! XD like come on, this crap doesn’t do its only job - to hold the fluid inside. How otherwise do you measure a cup’s quality and what makes you judge the quality as good if it leaks? 🤣 and for the girl - what answers could possibly scare her from getting the cup if “it doesn’t work” did not? Then why even ask? 😂 just to show off with the fact that she’s about to buy it? 🤣 so many questions haha.

    • @TiffanyAllen1784
      @TiffanyAllen1784 11 днів тому +3

      I don’t know where in Europe you live, but teenagers in French private schools obsess over having designer brands and masses of skincare products that aren’t even good for their young skin.

    • @mrn234
      @mrn234 11 днів тому +2

      @@TiffanyAllen1784 Teenagers always have something they are obsessed with.

    • @TiffanyAllen1784
      @TiffanyAllen1784 11 днів тому +3

      @@mrn234 It’s on a different level now. They used to just covet what their peers had. Now they watch adult influencers who have steady incomes and brand deals and want lifestyles that they aren’t old enough to pay for yet. I hear it all the time from kids I work with. “You’re so lucky, you get to buy the things you want.” No, sweetie, it’s not luck, I have a job and still have to pay bills first just like your parents. And if I had kids, I’d be able to do even less of what I want, just like your parents. They’re old enough to access and consume the media, but too young to understand what goes into it or how much of it is contrived. It’s a real problem. They have completely unrealistic expectations for what their lives will look like in a few years, when they have to support themselves.

  • @TammyD123
    @TammyD123 4 місяці тому +1361

    My daughter goes to a private school and I was thrilled when the principal sent out the message that Stanleys are no longer allowed!

    • @EllieofAzeroth
      @EllieofAzeroth 3 місяці тому +56

      It's so crazy that that's something that needed to happen. I genuinely drink a ton more water since getting my one Stanley cup since I've never had a metal drinking vessel. Kids should probably get in the habit of drinking water regularly, but definitely don't need 40oz at school lol

    • @TammyD123
      @TammyD123 3 місяці тому +18

      @@EllieofAzeroth I agree! I don’t even like the 40 oz Stanley. I have a 30 oz. And it’s the perfect size!

    • @ashleyboudreaux6875
      @ashleyboudreaux6875 3 місяці тому +31

      My Daughter goes to Private Catholic school and I WISH they would do the same! Behind Stanley, Lululemon and Nfinity it’s like additional tuition😒

    • @TammyD123
      @TammyD123 3 місяці тому

      @@ashleyboudreaux6875 Lululemon is such a rip off. I can’t imagine why anyone would buy a child $100 leggings that they are gonna outgrow in about 2 months! No thanks! I’ll spend my money on something more valuable, like my child’s education. My daughter’s school is a catholic school as well. They have uniforms but every Friday is free dress day and thank goodness, even on free dress day, they are not allowed to wear anything with a logo, name, or any other branding on it. Even their socks have to be plain white. Lol

    • @erinmcleary66
      @erinmcleary66 3 місяці тому +27

      My kids go to public school and neither I or them have ever heard of these cups, and these cups are not an issue.

  • @uptownpotatoes
    @uptownpotatoes 9 місяців тому +3255

    The children’s reactions to the cups as gifts are more disturbing than anything I’ve seen around these Stanley’s.

    • @wanwan2180
      @wanwan2180 9 місяців тому +212

      Yeah i saw a lot of people cover this but never seen kids reaction. Really unsettling

    • @sarahmarie2911
      @sarahmarie2911 9 місяців тому +210

      Right?!! I feel like social media can make kids want & get excited about literally anything! I mean, it's just a literal cup! My kids were totally fine with their convenient, easy to carry, Swell water bottles, which keep their water cold all day during our hot 100° summer days. (Which my kids only have because I got them on clearance at Barnes & Noble for $10) But now my oldest thinks her Swell is junk & thinks she needs a Stanley to carry around everywhere 🙄🙄🙄 I literally can not roll my eyes hard enough. Ummmm how about let's get kids excited about say, idk, vegetables or "real" food. Because thanks to social media, my kids think that they need to eat legit crap 🤷‍♀️

    • @Li_Tobler
      @Li_Tobler 9 місяців тому +68

      @@sarahmarie2911 Right?! Or creating something for once, not just consoooooming. I've just picked up a little child embroidery kit and I'm so excited to get at it!!! None of my luxury perfumes had brought me so much lasting excitement and joy, I swear

    • @sarahmarie2911
      @sarahmarie2911 9 місяців тому +6

      @@Li_Tobler ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️ YES!!!!!

    • @roberttobias2153
      @roberttobias2153 9 місяців тому +26

      Sarah- you wouldn't get your kid a Stanley Cup!!!!! That's it....I'm calling Child Protective Services ☺

  • @emiliepryor51
    @emiliepryor51 9 місяців тому +1983

    While one girl was unwrapping her cup, I love the little boy in the background unwrapping his presents and he’s like, “oh wow a rock collection!” 😂❤ so precious.

    • @eldrichnemo9312
      @eldrichnemo9312 9 місяців тому +192

      YES. I stan rock collection kid. Fossils are forever!

    • @Diamond1234
      @Diamond1234 9 місяців тому +93

      Man, I wish I was that little boy, rock collections are where it's at!

    • @mikaross4671
      @mikaross4671 9 місяців тому +31

      That kid is so awesome. I love it

    • @Maraclelland
      @Maraclelland 9 місяців тому +94

      And he also adds "a water bottle......." like "ugh worst gift ever" when he notices her gift! Rock collection ftw, I'm with ya little fella!

    • @dearrationals
      @dearrationals 9 місяців тому +14

      ​@@Maraclelland reminds me of the "not like the other girl" mentality, people don't have to want rocks either lol. I don't want cups or rocks as presents.

  • @Theaterfreak
    @Theaterfreak 2 місяці тому +17

    That one kid in the background of the Christmas presents segment yelling what sounds like, “omg a ROCK COLLECTION!” is a vibe, you enjoy your rock collection lil bro.

  • @sarahdoanpeace3623
    @sarahdoanpeace3623 9 місяців тому +3448

    Don’t own one. Don’t want one, don’t need one.

    • @juliasmith960
      @juliasmith960 9 місяців тому +108

      Same. I've got a perfectly nice reusable bottle already. Why buy more than you need? As Hannah says, it's defeating the purpose of 'reusable' if you buy tons of these things.

    • @marylove909
      @marylove909 9 місяців тому +38

      I have two metal cups I bought for 15 bucks four or five years ago, and they are all I need. I bought them when we were working in the office so I didn't need to use disposable cups, and wouldn't have to worry about them breaking. They are still great!

    • @bridget7539
      @bridget7539 9 місяців тому +27

      If I needed a cup I'd consider it bc I use the one I have daily and they seem to be well made. Fitting into a car cup holder is a nice feature (though that design is being adopted by others now)
      But the thing is my current water bottle works just fine and I don't need a new one. I doubt the people getting into fistfights over the trendy color ways are in that dire a need of a reliable water bottle

    • @stevenellison3128
      @stevenellison3128 9 місяців тому +9

      I have one. I wanted one for a long while and my boyfriend finally got it for me a few weeks ago. I have to say I love it!

    • @Kaydee-haiku
      @Kaydee-haiku 9 місяців тому +4

      will keep the $40 target bottle i have as it keeps my water cold before that i had one from 5below

  • @VoidedMirror
    @VoidedMirror 9 місяців тому +926

    It just takes one big influencer to say Stanleys are not cool anymore or start parading around another cup brand for the whole thing to fall. That's how fickle and precarious are these trends.

    • @AerynKDesigns
      @AerynKDesigns 9 місяців тому +24

      that's already been done. especially since several of those that did it, did it as hidden ads so people think it's genuine and then there's the whole kerfluffle over the lead sealing.

    • @comedyblastYT
      @comedyblastYT 9 місяців тому +23

      It reminds me of the Hydroflasks

    • @RaspBerryPies
      @RaspBerryPies 9 місяців тому +24

      I saw someone post about how Stanley and hydro flask are beefing and how they didn’t want a hydro flask before but now they want one…..it’s like dude you’re falling for it!
      It’s really scary how easily our minds can be swayed like that!

    • @ZestyAqua
      @ZestyAqua 9 місяців тому

      As fickled and ridiculous as this species that trashes an entire planet we don't own, God owns the planet gifted everything for free then this species destroys it over that crap. Meanwhile, less clean sustainable water supplies to housing also due to pollution making that crap. Including these devices.

    • @belongtotoday
      @belongtotoday 9 місяців тому +11

      Yep. Give it 3 weeks and these will be stupid and old and lame.

  • @jericabenson857
    @jericabenson857 9 місяців тому +1230

    The sad thing is that these kids would be SO DISAPPOINTED TO GET A CUP for Xmas in any other situation!!!!!!!!!

    • @kathycharlton4351
      @kathycharlton4351 8 місяців тому +29

      Right???

    • @sarahj2424
      @sarahj2424 8 місяців тому +12

      Hah! True story

    • @lindiebrand9243
      @lindiebrand9243 7 місяців тому

    • @lemaa4820
      @lemaa4820 6 місяців тому +3

      Exactly wtf is this world coming too! 😂😮

    • @CazPea
      @CazPea Місяць тому +1

      Who would even think a cup was a gift to give a child. Shallow

  • @cherrybruns9196
    @cherrybruns9196 Місяць тому +14

    I just started watching your influencer insanity series. I had no knowledge what a Stanley cup was. I originally couldn't figure out what the "Stanley Cup" (the hockey trophy) could possibly have to do with influencers. Now I know. I'm really enjoying your series. Not only did I learn about ASMR (from the first episode), but now I know about Stanley cups. I don't generally follow influencers (although I do love a good organization video), but I find your videos both entertaining and educational.

  • @enlosluceros7236
    @enlosluceros7236 5 місяців тому +1277

    That cup looks like those gifts they give you for opening a bank account

  • @janemclean7032
    @janemclean7032 9 місяців тому +865

    When my daughter was in high school lucky jeans were all the rage. They were $90. I bought her one pair for Christmas. When the time came she wanted another pair and I told her she would have to get a little job to earn them herself. She got a little job busing tables at a restaurant part time, she saw how long it took to earn $90. I think this taught her a really good lesson. She then decided not to buy jeans that are so expensive. She now shopped at thrift stores and looks adorable!

    • @darbydeford6270
      @darbydeford6270 9 місяців тому +37

      Love this sooo much

    • @justjoolz97
      @justjoolz97 9 місяців тому +56

      My daughter did the same! Once they start earning their own money the thrift look is just fine😊

    • @katiempojer
      @katiempojer 9 місяців тому +14

      Good job mom! I wanted a new cell phone in high school u saved my money for it

    • @Azrawasherefirst
      @Azrawasherefirst 9 місяців тому +16

      This is great! I have young kids, they’re 3, and I have been wondering what happens when I don’t want to buy them expensive things once they begin going to middle/high school. This whole topic of overconsumption has been in my mind for so many weeks, I’ve been wondering how my husband and I can teach our children the value of money in this day and age.

    • @Azrawasherefirst
      @Azrawasherefirst 9 місяців тому +13

      Interestingly, growing up, my parents had plenty of money. But I don’t think my sister and I ever followed trends, they didn’t matter to us. I’m wondering how I grew up not caring for trends. People in my class had Facebook but I wasn’t allowed but my life was perfectly fine without it. I’m glad I went to a school where people didn’t bully each other.

  • @wreckedz
    @wreckedz 9 місяців тому +1150

    The amount of cups that are gonna end up in the landfill after the hype is over is scary.

    • @ketameanii
      @ketameanii 9 місяців тому +10

      @@mschari1484at least they can (probably) be melted down

    • @shaneyswift3127
      @shaneyswift3127 9 місяців тому +40

      Combine that with the new lead information...if people are throwing out their cups with the bottom popped off that lead is going to leak into the soil.

    • @summer8941
      @summer8941 9 місяців тому +10

      They should just donate to shelters tf

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 8 місяців тому +11

      ​@@ketameaniiwhich requires a recycling facility, powered by electricity and manned by municipal workers. $$$$$ Whereas paper cups require nothing. Paper turns into dirt in 3 months. Smh.

    • @clawwestfall8799
      @clawwestfall8799 8 місяців тому +23

      ​@@susansmith493paper literally requires cutting down trees, transporting them and plenty of water and electricity before it is sold. Additionally, most paper cups aren't just paper and have some kind of plastic curface that reinforces it.

  • @fatimafakhirmusharraf3652
    @fatimafakhirmusharraf3652 Місяць тому +8

    the cups and the joy on the kids' face shows how innocent kids are even today they wanna twin with their friends and be part of a crowd
    we were this excited for loom bands, friendship bracelets, silly bands, gameboys, nintendos, and so much else damn

  • @lmlanigan
    @lmlanigan 9 місяців тому +917

    Kids getting bullied for not having name-brand stuff has been going on before social media and the Internet. I grew up in the '80s and '90s, and I remember getting bullied because my mom shopped at Kmart. (The ironic thing is that I *did* grow up with money; my mom just loved herself a good bargain!)

    • @lisamac1986
      @lisamac1986 9 місяців тому +83

      My friend got bullied for having 4 stripes on her trousers instead of the Adidas 3 stripes

    • @carsachi
      @carsachi 9 місяців тому +48

      Smart mom, tbh, if you can save while buying quality but not brand name stuff, then it's amazing.

    • @katw6757
      @katw6757 9 місяців тому +25

      Same! 5th grade in the early 2000s and was already getting bullied for wearing JCPenny instead of Hollister (looking back, why did their parents let them shop there at such a young age???)

    • @pepperread1184
      @pepperread1184 9 місяців тому +15

      Your mom was a smart woman!

    • @acaliaaidras5012
      @acaliaaidras5012 9 місяців тому +67

      I just had a flashback to girls in my high school wearing Benetton sweaters. Our "social media" was Seventeen magazine telling us what was trendy. This kind of thing has always existed.

  • @anaerobic
    @anaerobic 9 місяців тому +1056

    I'm more disturbed by these parents showing their kids and family's private moments online than by kids just being excited by new things. It means the parents want clout too.

    • @Charbond
      @Charbond 9 місяців тому +95

      Exactly. "look at how good of a parent I am. My child has a stanley, isnt she thrilled! I am thr best parent ever."
      I was surprised there was no video of a kid having a meltdown because their cup was the wrong colour.

    • @largashbur
      @largashbur 9 місяців тому +64

      Yeah. thanks for actually censoring the kids' faces for their safety, since their own parents won't 😑

    • @adylabord7159
      @adylabord7159 9 місяців тому +16

      You would like the Dad Podcast Challenge. I love his videos calling out parents exploiting their children on UA-cam.

    • @riveranalyse
      @riveranalyse 9 місяців тому +29

      Yep. It's so weird. And this kids are acting this way because they've seen other videos like this. They know they're being filmed so they perform accordingly. It's gross.

    • @RD-vo5vq
      @RD-vo5vq 8 місяців тому +4

      I can proudly say my 14 year old did not want one. She has a 32 oz Bubba water bottle and I have a Hydro flask 32 oz tumbler that I got to help me stay hydrated to prevent constipation 😆

  • @Hawkmoon1981
    @Hawkmoon1981 7 місяців тому +687

    The "aesthetic" accessories are what really takes it over the top for me - "pack my Stanley to go to the store" like you're off on a polar expedition 😂😂😂

    • @realcdn1
      @realcdn1 27 днів тому

      I remember when you weren't allowed to bring food and drinks into the stores while shopping. I used to walk 5k most mornings and *gasp* didn't take a water bottle with me. If I was thirsty I would take a drink at the public fountain at around my halfway point.

    • @TiffanyAllen1784
      @TiffanyAllen1784 11 днів тому +1

      Right? Why are you hanging your keys and snacks and whatnot from your cup? How is that more convenient than a bag?

  • @Skylar2037
    @Skylar2037 2 місяці тому +5

    As someone who collected gems as a kid and has a small shelf of figures, replicas and artbooks from my favourite Movies and games now, I think your analysis is spot on. If it brings you joy and not hurting anyone go for it, but when it becomes such a social status symbol and a 'you need this' it becomes harmful. This is actually something I've seen in the gaming community recently with a particular creator I don't know the name of who has rooms of shelves of every collectible known to man whose content is mostly about how much stuff he has and how many gaming set ups etc. Im fine with people sharing their collections no matter how big or small if they're happy and just want to share their joy but how it's done and the message that's portrayed should be just that, happiness. Not an elitist status symbol. It's like the difference between influencers sharing travel pics and most regular people sharing travel pics cause they had a nice trip. Love this series! Keep it up

  • @jasminegoin5006
    @jasminegoin5006 9 місяців тому +429

    Hurts my heart deeply to see those children put that kind of emotional value in such a nominal item.

    • @skye1235
      @skye1235 9 місяців тому +25

      As a kid I'd get excited over my bratz dolls but I don't remember reacting to that extent...

    • @elliegebert5672
      @elliegebert5672 9 місяців тому +4

      yes, you are right it hurts.

    • @shanzys2cents
      @shanzys2cents 9 місяців тому +15

      Yes! This scares me for my daughter. I’ll be damned if she gets bullied over a cup! Or bullies others…

    • @handuo6301
      @handuo6301 9 місяців тому +18

      @@skye1235 And dolls are different! Dolls are a creative storytelling outlet that you can have infinite amounts of fun with - it’s perfectly normal for kids to get excited about them. However, the only reason for a kid to get excited about having a Stanley cup (specifically a Stanley, not just excited they have a cute cup in general) is that they’re *this* emotionally invested in… the idea of projecting wealth? Owning the “socially correct” item? And nothing else. Having kids get this hyped over pure brand loyalty, literally just brand loyalty, is incredibly dystopian.

    • @chaotin42
      @chaotin42 9 місяців тому +3

      I still remember reacting the way those kids did when I got a Barbie house for Christmas at age 9 or 10. I would have cried my eyes out if I got a thermos at that age...

  • @Gabbi_Plants
    @Gabbi_Plants 9 місяців тому +571

    My daughter came home asking for one. I don't have one, but there are other girls in her SECOND grade class that have them. I pointed out that they leak and can't be thrown in her backpack and that her water bottle (super thin and rectangular like a notebook) was unique and special. She hasn't asked again.

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat 9 місяців тому +32

      How wide is her water bottle? That sounds cool

    • @lindseyziegler9869
      @lindseyziegler9869 9 місяців тому +81

      That's the biggest issue to me. It's not just that these cups are crazy expensive. They are super impractical. They leak (widely known, except for in the ads... oops I mean influencer videos), they weigh a ton, the straw isn't covered. They don't do anything a regular glass/cup can't do.

    • @babydollyaldi
      @babydollyaldi 8 місяців тому +16

      Those rectangular water bottles are so cool!!! And let’s be real, because it’s all fake hype, rectangular ones could just as easily be the next “cup du jour” when the tides turn

    • @AsuraSantosha
      @AsuraSantosha 7 місяців тому +26

      When my daughter asked for one, I told her I would buy her a new cup if she wasn't happy with hers anymore (which did sometimes leak and was slightly small), but I REFUSED to buy her a Stanley. I told her I would buy her a big one with a handle and straw if she wanted, but I wasn't paying extra just for hype. (The same thing from another brand would probably be $35 at the most). She picked out a tall thin one that could fit in her backpack side pocket. No straw or handle but she loves it. And she thinks it's better than a Stanley because she picked it out of ALL the other choices to suit what she wanted exactly. Honestly, I agree with the parent in the video, if parents talk to their kids about this stuff, it can go a long way. I know peer pressure can still have a significant influence, but at the ages most influenced here (pre-teen), a lot of kids will still hear their parents out and trust them at this age.

    • @sunnyday4055
      @sunnyday4055 7 місяців тому +12

      2nd grade? Damn the bottle is bigger than they are

  • @PHBRNTGGR2
    @PHBRNTGGR2 6 місяців тому +1296

    Kids aren’t excited over the cup. They are relieved they won’t be bullied anymore.

    • @bleh449
      @bleh449 6 місяців тому +22

      True

    • @cloudsofsunset7323
      @cloudsofsunset7323 6 місяців тому +38

      poor kiddos😢

    • @believestthouthis7
      @believestthouthis7 5 місяців тому +39

      Kids experience peer pressure and are judged harshly for their belongings and what they wear to school, etc. Homeschool could teach them that these petty things don't matter.

    • @cloudsofsunset7323
      @cloudsofsunset7323 5 місяців тому +24

      @believestthouthis7 homeschool many times missed the part of socialising and growing over these things in society. It doesn't matter, but it's up to the kid to develop skills to realise it does not matter. That takes time, like... until you are an adult you cannot get over that egocentrism natural from teenagerhood.

    • @believestthouthis7
      @believestthouthis7 5 місяців тому +8

      @@cloudsofsunset7323
      Some of the problems with the school systems are that it forces children to endure bullying and to be influenced negatively by their peers. This makes them too focused on what their peers think, rather than on what really truly matters in life. Homeschooling done properly, by loving parents, should build a strong bond with parents and siblings instead and can thus help children avoid the negative pitfalls of just following the crowd of their silly, immature peers or the negative influences online. Ideally homeschooling is supposed to give them a running start at life that the school system just can't offer.
      1 Corinthians 13:11 KJV - When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

  • @mariaangelova8275
    @mariaangelova8275 Місяць тому +6

    Until today, I wasn't even aware of the Stanley water cup.
    There is NOTHING that would make me wait outside of a store for any sort of item.

  • @destineycitchen1068
    @destineycitchen1068 5 місяців тому +735

    “Now your water bottle needs an outfit “ I screamed 🤣🤣

    • @broken927
      @broken927 5 місяців тому +28

      I grew up drinking water out of garden hoses and public drinking fountains. Somehow I survived.

    • @mariemorgan7759
      @mariemorgan7759 4 місяці тому +14

      ​@@broken927 I still drink from a cup I bought 24 years ago! Water from a garden hose has its own unique flavor, my childhood memory!😊

  • @AllOutBible
    @AllOutBible 9 місяців тому +454

    I follow a channel called "Irish People Try". One time they watched footage of Black Friday shopping on UA-cam. One of them said something that brought me up short. He watched people knocking each other over and grabbing for things and said: "You'd think they were giving out food aid in a 3rd world country". Now I can't watch things like this without feeling a lot of shame about American consumerism, my own included.

    • @alliu6562
      @alliu6562 9 місяців тому +82

      The ironic part is that people receiving food aid in a 3rd world country are usually much politer!!

    • @eathomelive
      @eathomelive 9 місяців тому +14

      Oh wow. What a wise observation. I have felt shame about it as well. I don't go out and buy the newest thing, pretty much ever. I do feel shame though for the fact that I live in a country where most of the people engage in rampant consumerism.

    • @BritgirlTX
      @BritgirlTX 9 місяців тому +4

      Yup I still have an iPhone XR while other people's kids have 15 Max Pros!!!!!! (My phone is on it's last legs thoough)

    • @bubba842
      @bubba842 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@BritgirlTXit's designed to be on its last legs so you buy a new one.
      It's called design obselesence.

  • @3rdmisfits
    @3rdmisfits 7 місяців тому +431

    These people are desperately trying to fill a void

    • @rogue7923
      @rogue7923 7 місяців тому +25

      Yeah, a brain!

    • @Abs.Zett_
      @Abs.Zett_ 7 місяців тому +2

      Exactly.

    • @MonAmour161
      @MonAmour161 7 місяців тому +18

      Jesus is the only way! ✨🤍

    • @Abs.Zett_
      @Abs.Zett_ 7 місяців тому +5

      @@MonAmour161 amen sister !

    • @watsyourdestiny2086
      @watsyourdestiny2086 7 місяців тому +2

      @@MonAmour161bingo! 🙌🏽

  • @AnitaWalters-h4i
    @AnitaWalters-h4i 15 днів тому +6

    Seeing those kids is so sad 😢😢 especially the one at the end who is only concerned about how much it’s worth

  • @victoriamyatt1709
    @victoriamyatt1709 9 місяців тому +766

    What really blows my mind is that some people in the world are fighting for actual water, clean water to drink.
    I can't imagine what they would think of this cup phenomenon.
    So glad you're covering this, i love the mlm content and am enjoying the new subjects you're also covering.

    • @juliat944
      @juliat944 9 місяців тому +51

      I love that you said this. Perspective is so very needed in the age of consumerism.

    • @kathrynmarie412
      @kathrynmarie412 9 місяців тому

      Exactly my first thought when this CRAZE started. Gangs all over the world are controlling where citizens in the country can get clean water; people are dying from lack OF access to clean water...and we have THIS going in America...

    • @marjolijnv.3974
      @marjolijnv.3974 9 місяців тому +9

      Well said.

    • @piperjaycie
      @piperjaycie 9 місяців тому +38

      I think it’s 2/5 of the world population that don’t have drinkable, clean water. I get buying a cup you like but acting like it’s life or death if you get one is so stupid!

    • @theeditchaos
      @theeditchaos 9 місяців тому +3

      My thoughts exactly!

  • @lileyanne3518
    @lileyanne3518 7 місяців тому +1062

    The fact that we went from Marie condoing our entire existence to buying twenty WATER CUPS in the span of a couple years is sick

    • @michelew2191
      @michelew2191 7 місяців тому +12

      Who's marie?

    • @ramonas.3396
      @ramonas.3396 7 місяців тому

      My guess is Marie Antoinette but I don't know@@michelew2191

    • @HeatherSealey
      @HeatherSealey 7 місяців тому +73

      She was about getting rid of stuff that was weighing you down and keeping the things that made you happy. If that meant 39 water cups, she would have that collectors back on keeping that hoard.
      But in a few years? She'd absolutely would have encouraged you to downsize that same hoard that you're holding onto out of guilt.

    • @sidrasiddiqui1852
      @sidrasiddiqui1852 7 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @shastabare6026
      @shastabare6026 7 місяців тому +31

      Purging was just another status symbol - which critically overloaded our secondhand stores and robbed people of legitimately useful stuff they could have just kept for the future, or created a false sense of 'wow, now i need a new waterbottle'

  • @healingwithkayla
    @healingwithkayla 9 місяців тому +385

    I grew up very poor. I got bullied for my shoes being swapmeet brands, for my hair, for being chubby, for my clothes, my backpack! I never was able to tell my parents because i knew we were poor and id never make them feel bad for doing their best. I couldnt imagine growing up nowdays.... it would be awful! This is sad....

    • @natures1stgreen240
      @natures1stgreen240 9 місяців тому +37

      I’m poor essentially and my daughter doesn’t get a lot of fancy stuff, kohls but she doesn’t care bc I’ve taught her that stuff doesn’t matter and to stand up to anyone who try’s to bully her going as far as to let her bully a bully and stand up for under privileged kids. She’s doing just fine and started her own business to save money to go to Univeral Studios and take me. She’s a sweet heart, it’s all about how we raise our kids and what we as adults decide is okay or not okay to accept. This cup thing is 🤯

    • @taustin6524
      @taustin6524 9 місяців тому +2

      SAME! 🫤

    • @sarahfortozo3141
      @sarahfortozo3141 9 місяців тому +28

      Bullys would just look for a pretext to bully others, it has nothing to do with the victims themselves. I got bullied myself and I was just an average girl who just happened to be too shy to stand up for myself. It wasn’t about me or my circumstances, it was all about them and their issues.

    • @BritgirlTX
      @BritgirlTX 9 місяців тому +1

    • @inkenhafner7187
      @inkenhafner7187 9 місяців тому +7

      They could (and probably would) have protected you from the bullies. Not by tryind to buy you the fancy stuff but by supporting that the school educates about bullying and protects kids like you. No money needed for that.

  • @starplayzreadbio373
    @starplayzreadbio373 6 днів тому +3

    I have such a bad attention span, but I always end up watching her videos, full, without subtitles, without being distracted in between!!
    Girl got some magical power

  • @aimeebuddha
    @aimeebuddha 8 місяців тому +373

    Schools where I live have started banning Stanley cups in school. Kids can’t even bring them anymore because it has gotten so ridiculous.

    • @ariac.959
      @ariac.959 7 місяців тому +6

      is it because of the bullying or because they are unpractical in a classroom?

    • @aimeebuddha
      @aimeebuddha 7 місяців тому +28

      @@ariac.959 I think it’s a mix. Bullying, Stanley cups getting stolen, unpractical, and let’s face it those things end up being a pretty powerful weapon when kids get into fights. Not to mention the kids who are putting liquids other than water inside.

    • @JenJenCoco
      @JenJenCoco 7 місяців тому +2

      @@aimeebuddhawow! That’s actually crazy. Kids getting bullied over the cup/not having the cup?! I’m new to this page and conversation.

    • @aimeebuddha
      @aimeebuddha 7 місяців тому +2

      @@JenJenCoco yes it’s ridiculous. Kids whose parents buy cheaper versions for them get bullied for having knockoffs. Then kids steal other kids cups. Makes a good weapon for the older kids when they have fights too

    • @MsLemon42
      @MsLemon42 7 місяців тому +1

      @@JenJenCocoCheck oh the “chara-ben” bans in Japan if you’re interested in what people can bully about

  • @phishcatt
    @phishcatt 9 місяців тому +639

    ''ten year olds asking for anti ageing skincare for Christmas'' is so dystopian, so sad, but so ridiculous it made me laugh hard.

    • @Jaxmusicgal23
      @Jaxmusicgal23 8 місяців тому +12

      I’m 41 and I don’t even ask for anti-aging stuff…. I just scrub my face really hard and get the first layer off every once in a while when there’s too much dry skin and it reacts my collagen and repairs my face.
      Voilà no wrinkles so far …. that and I am very picky on my diet and eat lots of fruits and vegetables, and proteins with moderate fat….
      Also, I drink water .
      I am shocked to hear that kids want to have anti-aging cream 🤦‍♀️
      The more I hear about school the better I feel about choosing to homeschool my kids.

    • @phishcatt
      @phishcatt 8 місяців тому +23

      @icgal23 That doesn't work for everyone sadly because wrinkles are ninety percent because of genes. The way we age is very genetic. I'm thirty and have great looking skin but my mom's fifty and she lives a healthy lifestyle and her skin looks like a raisin. So I'm definitely gonna use retinol and sunscreen. I don't think homeschooling is the answer honestly, although obviously it's your choice. In my opinion sheltering isn't a solution, educating children is. Educating them about how people, companies, ect try to take advantage of them and others and teach them how to defend themselves and avoid falling victim to such things.

    • @synthellaart1587
      @synthellaart1587 8 місяців тому +7

      I remember being told when I was around 16 I should start using anti-aging stuff, because you never could start too early 😂

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 8 місяців тому +8

      ​@@Jaxmusicgal23😂That is not good for your skin. Lol That is actually damaging. Wow.
      Use glycolic acid. No damage.
      Or use retinol (start small and only once or twice a week) and it will actually increase turnover.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@phishcattYess. Sunscreen is the best thing you can do.
      Homeschool isn't sheltering. Lol That is an old stereotype. The majority of HS kids are in numerous groups and activities. They are in HS groups themselves, they do sports, play instruments, and other activities. And, they have better outcomes in education.

  • @PhoenyxV
    @PhoenyxV 9 місяців тому +469

    the little kid in one of the christmas unwrapping cups in yelling "it's a rock collection" in the background deserves the world tbh that's actually adorable

    • @MeowlodieHL
      @MeowlodieHL 9 місяців тому +8

      So glad someone else noticed this. ❤

  • @lilliinwonderland9877
    @lilliinwonderland9877 15 днів тому +21

    As a coffee mug collector, I must say I kind of get why they would feel they "need" every single color. I love the feeling of sipping my hot beverage in my super niche mug that fit not only the season and activity I'm doing, but matches my outfit and how I feel. I have 3 mugs showcased in a small glass tower that I never use (too afraid to break them), but I use the other 40-ish ones regularly. Having my hot beverage in a cup that fits exactly the sensory needs I have brings me so much joy. Splurging on something that you will definetly use - even for the visual aesthetic of it being showcased in your home - is fine by me if it doesn't hurt anyone else. Like your Nespresso machine from the self-care video! Which I 100% get btw, those cups are precious nuggets of serotonin.

    • @martinjrgensen8234
      @martinjrgensen8234 12 днів тому

      Needless over consumption is killing the planet. That is why.

    • @lauram7859
      @lauram7859 12 днів тому +6

      Thank you for this contribution!! I agree with you and Hannah here. And reading through the comments was getting depressing.
      P.S. I am also a mug person and a person that enjoys collecting things.

    • @venus1051
      @venus1051 6 днів тому +1

      That's how I feel about my travel mugs! Glad to know someone else is on the same page. Mine are almost all exclusively light blue though, because that's my favorite color.

    • @carlycaye90
      @carlycaye90 5 днів тому +1

      I just bought that iconic NYC corner coffee stand blue disposable cup but in mug form, so happy with it (:

    • @luskaneseprince
      @luskaneseprince 4 дні тому +2

      It's normal for humans to want to collect things, that's not what this video is about. Collections ARE wasteful, but they might bring real joy to your life and make you feel like you have something valuable and special in your home that you can take a look at every now and then, or use in an orderly fashion. BUT. That's hardly what these people are doing. They are collecting something because it's trendy, because everyone else is, because it's fashionable now even if it wasn't just a moment ago.
      I assume you collected your coffee mugs not because someone in Instagram told you to but because you yourself had both the practical need and liking for the mugs. But these people are not buying them because they just inherently are better/more practical/necessarily even better-looking/ than anything else. They just buy them because they think they should, and then getting more colors because it's trendy to color-coordinate your outfit with your cup. Not ALL of those millions of people had an inborn desire for the cup collection, not ALL of them even enjoy the idea of spending their money on it, quite a lot of them just want to follow trends, not be bullied by their friends, get rich by reselling the cups or simply, they feel like they are missing out on an experience everyone else has, so they are buying the cups just to avoid anxiety.
      So please, do not make it seem like this is just 'people wanting to get things in every color'.

  • @corinawohlfert1787
    @corinawohlfert1787 9 місяців тому +269

    The parents recording and posting the kid's reaction is a flex and a brag as well...

    • @whitneywillie4471
      @whitneywillie4471 9 місяців тому +22

      I’d be so embarrassed as a parent. Ugh. Glad my kids are not on sm

    • @LouStarry
      @LouStarry 8 місяців тому +9

      It’s so gross and embarrassing

  • @alliehamilton-calhoun162
    @alliehamilton-calhoun162 4 місяці тому +385

    They're not fighting over a water cup; they're fighting for the opportunity to make other people envious. It doesn't take much for people to drop the mask of civility and show their true colors.

    • @dirtyace1668
      @dirtyace1668 27 днів тому +3

      You hit the nail on the head. It's a competition for who can be more narcissistic.

    • @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh
      @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh 23 дні тому

      ​@@dirtyace1668There is apparently a research done on previous and current generations.
      Gen Z turns out by far to be THE MOST NARC so far, compared to any other previous ones percentage wise.
      I can only imagine how much worse it will be with alpha in another 10-15 years! It's disturbing for sure!

    • @dirtyace1668
      @dirtyace1668 22 дні тому

      @@Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh With as many ways as there are to perpetrate narcissism these days. I'm not surprised at all.

    • @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh
      @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh 22 дні тому

      @@dirtyace1668 Right? I personally also have a gut feeling that they can parade their narc1sm more freely. Barely any taboo on being a narc.
      And the fact that to many people throw this "diagnose" around towards just about anyone it's not being taken serious since it makes it seem as if everyone has it that way.
      Especially when you're raised with the mindset that the world should be revolving around you [lack of a solid upbringing].
      I've even noticed how both young men and women [under 30/35] are veey resentful towards each other.
      Clashing in gender w@rs. Whenever I ask a red-pil misogynist or a feminist type of misandrist how they think the world can better itself if we are fueled with gendered h@tr3d.
      They never seem to have an answer but at the same time they complain about finding it difficult go find a long term partner in life...
      I wonder why🙄? I don't even want to think about how much worse it's going to get with gen Alpha....

    • @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh
      @Thamazgha-tamurth-enegh 22 дні тому

      @@dirtyace1668 Exactly, and I have found out that plenty of narcs wear that diagnose almost as a badge of honour. Kinda disturbing...
      I personally also have a gut feeling that they can parade their narc1sm more freely. Barely any taboo on being a narc.
      And the fact that to many people throw this "diagnose" around towards just about anyone it's not being taken serious since it makes it seem as if everyone has it that way.
      Especially when you're raised with the mindset that the world should be revolving around you [lack of a solid upbringing].
      I've even noticed how both young men and women [under 30/35] are veey resentful towards each other.
      Clashing in gender w@rs. Whenever I ask a red-pil misogynist or a feminist type of misandrist how they think the world can better itself if we are fueled with gendered h@tr3d.
      They never seem to have an answer but at the same time they complain about finding it difficult go find a long term partner in life...
      I wonder why🙄? I don't even want to think about how much worse it's going to get with gen Alpha....

  • @s.s.6661
    @s.s.6661 9 місяців тому +396

    The rampant consumerism makes me so mad. You're right, it completely defeats the purpose of a reusable water bottle if you're buying 10 of them that you don't use. And then the accessories? So much plastic and silicone and fabric, virtually none of which will get recycled. Really feels like environmentalists are fighting an uphill battle.

    • @lovemrs.g
      @lovemrs.g 9 місяців тому +12

      My hope is that they do not end up in the trash but are donated or given to someone.

    • @auggiedoggiesmommy1734
      @auggiedoggiesmommy1734 9 місяців тому +9

      The accessories for a cup are so bizarre!

    • @VanessaChats
      @VanessaChats 9 місяців тому

      This is why I am a little bit of a realist whenever someone mentioned about the "leave the planet better than you found it" because I'm like... so you're doing your bit however is that going to actually matter against all the fast fashion and consumerism we are seeing? Also, "leave the planet better than you found it" is subjective and honestly no one is perfect so whereas you're doing good in one or two areas, you being alive is causing harm in a lot of other areas just because you're alive. Anyway, I'm just glad I didn't breed. Childfree happily.

    • @DylonsBBGorl
      @DylonsBBGorl 9 місяців тому +10

      @@VanessaChats Ok....You're not better than anyone. Js, because that's the tone your comment is giving off.

    • @squin6959
      @squin6959 9 місяців тому +8

      I’ve seen multiple people pour bottled water into Stanley’s… how do they not realize?

  • @venus1051
    @venus1051 6 днів тому +1

    I was a kid who could never afford name brand anything growing up, and was bullied maliciously for it. It really does plant a really negative seed in your heart to be left out just because you don't have something that's labelled "cool" or "trendy." Thankfully I've grown out of it, I wear my walmart clothes with pride now thank you very much!

  • @seacrest73
    @seacrest73 9 місяців тому +236

    There was a really great episode of Lizzie McGuire where she was obsessed with trying to get a certain brand of jeans. In the end everyone fell in love with the thrift store clothes her mom bought her. That is one of the few episodes I still remember because of how much it impacted me and the message stuck.

    • @Steveve4123
      @Steveve4123 9 місяців тому +12

      That show was a true gem

  • @juddieshiroh8009
    @juddieshiroh8009 9 місяців тому +472

    As an African who's never seen this cup in real life besides on social media,I don't understand the craze.Also,is it that people don't have enough life stresses to get obsessed with a cup?A cup?wow

    • @germyw
      @germyw 9 місяців тому +19

      As an African-American I don’t get it either.

    • @kconway2263
      @kconway2263 9 місяців тому +6

      I’d love to know your thoughts on these children screeching and crying over these cups because this American thinks it’s extra. I can’t imagine what those in other countries are thinking.

    • @dismurrart6648
      @dismurrart6648 9 місяців тому +16

      I own one(Christmas gift) and I own a couple other trendy bottles. It leaks, it has a lot of spots that can get dirty, and honestly, I don't get the appeal. It's an insulated cup that's reasonably durable. That's pointless when it leaks if it falls over. If I drop it, the straw will get dirty.
      Like it's a fine thing to have on my desk but I honestly have liked every other water bottle I've ever had more.

    • @shae113
      @shae113 9 місяців тому +19

      As an American, I don't get it either. They are too large to comfortably carry around (I swear the influencers barely put anything in them or they are empty, cause they are super heavy when full!) and they are super top heavy because of the shape and height, so they can be tipped over easily. This trend is at it's peak and we're going to look back in a year or so and wonder why everybody was loosing their minds over this.

    • @Saphia_
      @Saphia_ 9 місяців тому +14

      As an Asian, same. I never thought I'd have to live to see a day where people are obsessed over a freaking cup but here we are.

  • @Bluviolet7392
    @Bluviolet7392 9 місяців тому +216

    That has to be the most inconvenient thing to be carrying around.

    • @jennifergeorge7280
      @jennifergeorge7280 9 місяців тому +25

      Right!? Not spill proof. Why!?

    • @Exuberantlemon
      @Exuberantlemon 9 місяців тому +18

      It is! I had one of these way back when cus it was gifted to me before it became cool and I hated it so much I gifted it forward. I didn't even know it was a $45 cup lol. It's so heavy and inconvenient for every day use.

    • @itskaybe6348
      @itskaybe6348 9 місяців тому +2

      I have to disagree, maybe my knockoff is lighter than the actual Stanley's though, (and mine is actually leakproof lol). The handle makes it really easy to hold and as someone who was having to pack multiple bottles for everyday outings. I truly love this style of cup

    • @Layla-hb8mq
      @Layla-hb8mq 9 місяців тому +3

      You're so right. I have a 30 ounce Stanley and it's still heavy to lug around. I keep it at home or in the car for the most part.

    • @ok-bz5dm
      @ok-bz5dm 7 місяців тому +1

      I saw a girl carrying it around recently ☠️ and mind you I live in a country where nobody just carries their water bottles around in hand and it’s not even common to use them at all 😭😭 and it honestly looks insane it’s so HUGE and sticks out so much I don’t see why anyone would want that

  • @grigorvictoria6
    @grigorvictoria6 29 днів тому +4

    The way now people’s happiness is interpreted throught objects, not feelings, memories etc. How sad.😢

  • @rb7454
    @rb7454 7 місяців тому +616

    9 year old opening a Stanley is thinking “finally, I’ll FINALLY be accepted as worthy of love and friendship.”

    • @Hellle89
      @Hellle89 7 місяців тому +53

      Yeah that's soooo sad 😢

    • @lyladaisie
      @lyladaisie 7 місяців тому +7

      Yeah I don't think I've ever felt that way abt "needing" something to be cool

    • @thehufflepuffhermione
      @thehufflepuffhermione 7 місяців тому +15

      Breaks my heart for kids who think their worth is in people accepting them because they have a new name brand expensive item. Kids need to accept each other because they are a good person.

    • @JoeMama-eg4zv
      @JoeMama-eg4zv 7 місяців тому +2

      That's the sad sad reality of it.

    • @arisboba
      @arisboba 7 місяців тому +6

      Lmfao. It's not even cute. the cute bear shaped ones on temu are where it's at, lol

  • @Chameleon-wq4ul
    @Chameleon-wq4ul 7 місяців тому +219

    I do not live in the US. When I heard words "Stanley Cup" for the first time I thought, that it had something to do with the hockey 🤣🤣🤣

    • @henrimarjoan7876
      @henrimarjoan7876 6 місяців тому

      ​@Anonymousthanks Thats funny

    • @nor_skor
      @nor_skor 6 місяців тому +14

      I'm FROM the US, and I thought the same 🤣

    • @Kmb33831
      @Kmb33831 6 місяців тому +6

      I’m in US and-samesies!

    • @ChefsKiss-
      @ChefsKiss- 5 місяців тому +3

      Me too!! 🇨🇦

    • @sa.w.s.3070
      @sa.w.s.3070 5 місяців тому +6

      Same! I am European and my boyfriend is into hockey a lot. So I heard about the Stanley cup to no end (which I always enjoy). I really thought it has something to do with it 😂

  • @black101velvet
    @black101velvet 9 місяців тому +456

    As a European first time I heard of them is when a woman's car caught on fire and only the Stanley cup survived and then the Stanley creator firm decided to buy this lady a new car for her amazing commerical for their product. And now it's just pure insanity. So weird.

    • @Nitroat-xo4tj
      @Nitroat-xo4tj 9 місяців тому +21

      im from Austria.. I also saw the same report about it.. never saw anything about stanley before, or after.. crazy world.

    • @jacobus57
      @jacobus57 9 місяців тому

      Wow. That is so disturbing.

    • @TheShaunNerd
      @TheShaunNerd 9 місяців тому +9

      I'm American and the first time I heard of them was that car video.

    • @letguelere1102
      @letguelere1102 9 місяців тому +1

      so here in Brasil ive seen it but mostly a different cup, is more for beer but most people don't use it and if they have its a fake.

    • @kellycagle8515
      @kellycagle8515 9 місяців тому

      Oh, that's kinda cool.

  • @tryllyam
    @tryllyam 20 днів тому +1

    Oh my gosh, there are SO many kids at least watching tiktok and instagram, as well as Facebook. And sometimes they're just picking it up from their parents. It's ridiculous, but of course they want to watch all of these things, as well as UA-cam. Thanks so much for this video, because I honestly had no idea why Stanley Cups suddenly became such a thing.

  • @larinanne
    @larinanne 7 місяців тому +464

    People will see someone being harassed or assaulted in public and do nothing, but turn into linebackers when someone tries to steal a cup.

    • @Angie_flores
      @Angie_flores 7 місяців тому +20

      Exactly! What is wrong with people!!!

    • @ToProsca
      @ToProsca 7 місяців тому +7

      He was a thief, every single thief should be apprehend.

    • @LexaJ828
      @LexaJ828 7 місяців тому +27

      @@ToProscathe point is people don’t react the same way to other crimes

    • @courtneyboykins3457
      @courtneyboykins3457 7 місяців тому +5

      This comment is so underrated!

    • @kimberleyamber4918
      @kimberleyamber4918 7 місяців тому +2

      Deep

  • @jessicabrittany1682
    @jessicabrittany1682 9 місяців тому +145

    Girl, I worked at Target when they released those life sized Elsa dolls and a middle aged man dressed up as an employee and rifled around the backroom looking for one and attacked someone when he got caught. I also worked there when those Hatchamals released and a woman spit on me and took a swing at me when we didn't have any and she camped outside from 2am till we opened when our website said we had them. People are insane and insanely selfish when it comes to acquiring the newest things

    • @le13579
      @le13579 7 місяців тому

      Also when the on selling pays the bills.

  • @Camilla550
    @Camilla550 7 місяців тому +438

    I’m from the UK and the first time I ever heard about a Stanley cup was the story of the girl whose car caught on fire and the only thing that survived was her Stanley cup and the ice inside hasn’t even melted! She uploaded the video on Instagram and the owner/CEO of Stanley reached out and bought her a brand new car because let’s face it, that kind of advertisement she gave the company was pretty awesome!
    I saw the story on my newsfeed and thought, ‘Wow that’s an awesome cup, I wonder how much it is?’ I then found out the HUGE hype around it and immediately lost interest 😅

    • @laurenmccann8646
      @laurenmccann8646 7 місяців тому +54

      that video was fake!! the stanley’s do melt another youtuber tested it out! definitely a scam to sell more to begin with unfortunately.

    • @Callalily417
      @Callalily417 7 місяців тому +6

      My husband just mentioned the car and the cup. I had no idea. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Betty_Virago
      @Betty_Virago 7 місяців тому +11

      I saw that video (also from the UK) then saw the size of the thing and thought, nope.

    • @rebecasr6251
      @rebecasr6251 6 місяців тому +8

      They actually sell it in John Lewis now! I was shocked at the 49£ for a freaking cup LOL

    • @drumsNstuff79
      @drumsNstuff79 6 місяців тому

      The cup survived because of science. It was some kind of air bubble or vacuum in the cup keeping the liquid cool enough to not melt. It could have been any cup. I heard this from several firefighters. Had nothing to do with the quality.

  • @CarolenGrayToday
    @CarolenGrayToday 14 днів тому

    Your point about them supposedly bringing sustainability is SO ON POINT!!!

  • @KR-ue1gd
    @KR-ue1gd 8 місяців тому +212

    Thank you for protecting the privacy of children by blurring their faces. You are taking better care of them in this regard than their parents are. I grew up before social media, so I struggle to understand the parents; my mom would never turn a private family moment into public entertainment, nor expose my childish over-reactions to public laughter.

  • @tobyleigh1507
    @tobyleigh1507 6 місяців тому +1019

    “Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.”
    Oscar Wilde

    • @reyasyaN
      @reyasyaN 6 місяців тому +12

      perfect.

    • @Draemurr
      @Draemurr 6 місяців тому +25

      Except now, it's like every *1* month 🤦‍♀️

    • @pirimi
      @pirimi 6 місяців тому +9

      Fashion and trends aren't the exact same thing though, fashion is timeless, trends aren't

    • @ruhinaresh7410
      @ruhinaresh7410 5 місяців тому +1

      Wow. Beautifully put

    • @kizryuver
      @kizryuver 5 місяців тому

      25:30: about trends, i get a parent wanting to bully proof kids by buying a Stanley cup & sometimes it's ok if it's too much. but that's just a bandaid to a much bigger issue that society made. Because what happens when it's a competition of things that you can't afford (even Bill Richest people can have things they can't afford), will the kid have to live without friends or stay feeling devalued?
      - or may be objects affordable but a waste to buy & it changes with trend? Will the answer be to always buy that new trendy thing while you waste the money that could be used for their college funds or something better?
      -While also teaching kids indirectly that they can only make friends if they own that thing & that object is the value of their friendship & self worth + have no concept of genuine friends?
      - And while she knows that as an adult, there are many adults that still stay materialistic/it's hard for them to make real friends without showing what they "own" as social proof.
      - so even if you buy that stanley cup/branded item once so kids don't feel like they can never afford anything. People should use this ocassion to discuss & tell their kids that there's a THIRD kind of person who isn't just poor/a previledged consumer but an environmentally concious & financially smart consumer who could be either previledged or not. - And tell them that it might be you getting judged if you show it off to normal people as not very smart (like so many people are judging stanley holders) for showing it off as it's pointless.
      - Show them UA-cam videos like this, ones from clutterbug (to show much clutter affects us)/minimalists/sustainable/financial channels that explain this if they're of an age that understand it.
      -there are quiet millionaires that live like normal people. So even if you buy that Tell them stories of people who go broke trying to look rich & people who manage wealth to actually sustain & grow it long term.
      - but bully proof them if you have to game the system, without breaking their morals,common sense or personality. I got this all as a kid because my parents some what told me + I read moral books but i gamed the system sometimes even though it felt gross.
      - and you can't wait kids to grow out of it, I know some that still stay materialistic for a lifetime literal 50+ year olds are are judgy materialistic people & you'll find such people your whole life & once you get used to not giving these people an argument, you'll get a habit of to accomodating them & feeling lonely yourself.
      - And sometimes if it's just a matter of not fitting in & you're not actively getting bullied, it's ok and teach them actual friendship skills to find other friends. Plus teach them actual short logical combat sentences to say once someone says something.

  • @hanniballecter5383
    @hanniballecter5383 9 місяців тому +226

    People are too miserable these days they think obsessing over objects will fill the void in them, it's very, very sad

    • @ellecandy2109
      @ellecandy2109 8 місяців тому +14

      THIS. EXACTLY. this american worship of consumerism isn't making us happier.

    • @Blood_bought1
      @Blood_bought1 8 місяців тому +1

      It is very sad

  • @dianalee4312
    @dianalee4312 Місяць тому +1

    Hannah this was such a great episode. It speaks to the need for people to “fit in” to society to be accepted instead of allowing uniqueness and individuality. I am so glad I grew up when I did, before influencers told me what I “Should or need” to do to be acceptable.
    Love your work, you have logic and common sense so more power to you.

  • @jenniferdevinney541
    @jenniferdevinney541 9 місяців тому +223

    Beanie babies! Memory unlocked! In the 90s-2000s my grandma let it slip that she liked beanie babies. This apparently led to everyone buying her beanie babies for every occasion. In the late 2000s maybe around 2008 during a visit my grandma, and she pulls out 2-3 giant storage bins full of beanie babies she tells me " I'm not a collector, I just don't have the heart to tell anyone. It just makes people so happy to buy them for me. Feel free to take any you want." My teenage self was in heaven! My grandma passed away several years ago and beanie babies always make me think of her. Thank you for making me think of her this morning!

    • @lilben9441
      @lilben9441 9 місяців тому +17

      I can feel your grandma. I'm in a similar situation but with Stormtrooper (from Star Wars) things. Quite an interesting situation to be in. 😅

    • @jenniferdevinney541
      @jenniferdevinney541 9 місяців тому

      @@lilben9441 maybe one day you can share your hoard with your grand kids!

    • @alentia_thegreat
      @alentia_thegreat 9 місяців тому +1

      Oh no, your poor Grandma!

    • @LuthienNightwolf
      @LuthienNightwolf 9 місяців тому +3

      My grandparents always got Beanie Babies for me and my sister in the 90’s, I was never super into them but I didn’t want to tell them and make them feel bad. So I just went with it. Didn’t take a single one with me when I moved after high school though, not even sure what became of them.

    • @ewhat10
      @ewhat10 9 місяців тому +12

      I collected beanie babies! I had them for decades stored in bins and then some lady posted on Nextdoor that her daughter was going on maybe a church trip or something to somewhere in Africa and said that the kids there loved beanie babies. So I took out my favorites and donated the rest. It was fun collecting them though. I'm from a very small, isolated town and my mom and I used to take road trips to other small towns all over the state to check out little antique and gift shops looking for new beanie babies. I have a lot of good memories :)
      These days, I collect hoyas 🌿

  • @positivamente1973
    @positivamente1973 4 місяці тому +509

    I am teacher from Spain, kids here want water bottles with favourite superheroes or cartoons 🤣 and most of them carry free propaganda bottles from banks, suncream etc. no one cares, this is insane

  • @luminousmoon86
    @luminousmoon86 9 місяців тому +189

    The video of the mom whose daughter got made fun of for not having a Stanley broke my heart. Unfortunately, that kind of thing has been happening for a long time. When I was a kid it was sneakers. If you didn't have certain brands like Nikes, you were out of it. I still remember being made fun of for my off brand sneakers in school, because we were poor and my mom couldn't afford the big name brand shoes. People need to teach their children that having name brand items does not make you a better person, and that making fun of people who don't have them is wrong.

    • @TalCat
      @TalCat 9 місяців тому +10

      i feel you, girl. all of my shoes came from payless or walmart. same with my clothes. it's insane to think that some of the kids in my school were wearing $400 worth of name brand shoes, shirts, jeans, and jackets all together. and even with all of that entitlement and privilege, they have the audacity to make others feel worthless over something that will not even fit at the end of the year. :\

    • @lampjerulez
      @lampjerulez 9 місяців тому +2

      I think this is an american thing too.. in THe netherlands kids dont do tis or at least not common at all. When i was in school i never had problems like this and i have been an elemntary teacher for 5 years and i never heard 1 kid saying or even be bothered by brands. Maybe with toys but we had a policy for that, they stayed at home

    • @juulian1306
      @juulian1306 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@lampjerulez I don't think that Europe is safe either. It might be more up to region or the circles you end up in idk? I'm from a Middleeuropean country and my mom got made fun of by her classmates for wearing fake Converse in the 90s (among other off-brand clothing items). I somehow skipped out on experiences like that but not my significantly younger sister. She ended up in a class where suddenly everyone "needed" to have an Airup bottle and a Fjällräven Backpack and she is generally way more focused on brands than any of my classmates ever were.

  • @melissabrink2045
    @melissabrink2045 7 місяців тому +173

    Im an Occupational Therapist and work with children. It is appalling how many kids not only are using social media and smart devices at REALLY young ages, but that are ADDICTED to social media and devices. Society is going to get a rude awakening before we wake up to the damage and danger of children using social media and tech devices waaay to young!

    • @jeanams07
      @jeanams07 7 місяців тому

      This!! And the minimum age restriction on most social media platforms is 13. So this is the parents doing... Either they are lying for their kids, or they are letting their kids lie, about the date of birth they put when signing up for these accounts. I do not understand how so many parents really do not give a sh*t about how this is effecting their children long term.
      And you don't only see it when it comes to things online either. More and more parents don't want to be active in their kids' schools or extracurricular activities either. My sister had to beg and pled to get other parents just to bring snacks and sometimes help out when she coached my nephews soccer team last year. And she has absolutely no experience with soccer, but had to step up to coach otherwise her son wasn't going to play at all because no other parent would do it. Even the men who had played soccer in HS or whatever couldn't be bothered to help out wirh practices or anything. And she had to finally tell the parents that she wasn't a free babysitter at the practices and games because 95% of the parents would just drop them off and leave, then not show back up in time to pick them up. Why do these people have kids if they really don't want to raise them or even spend time with them? And they use social media as a way to keep their kids busy and out of their hair, but have no regard for regulating the type of content their kids are actually consuming.

    • @excusesexcuses2927
      @excusesexcuses2927 7 місяців тому +1

      They are way to young to be given these incredibly complex devices

  • @Amber-ik3dx
    @Amber-ik3dx 8 місяців тому +557

    It’s totally insane to me that 9yr olds are crying over a damn cup. I was so excited getting toys or video games for Christmas. So bizarre

    • @synthellaart1587
      @synthellaart1587 8 місяців тому +8

      Reminds me of a kid if an acquaintance who was like "If I don't get the new iPhone this Christmas I don't what I will do..."

    • @dextro_daydreams2093
      @dextro_daydreams2093 7 місяців тому +6

      Yeah it has been weird to see kids getting excited over fun things you can DO, and now being excited over things that make you cool

    • @littlestbroccoli
      @littlestbroccoli 7 місяців тому +23

      But you know they're not crying about having a cup. They're ecstatic over the acceptance it's going to bring them with peers who would otherwise bully and ostracize them.

    • @tygerstripes
      @tygerstripes 7 місяців тому +3

      I feel like thats gotta be their environment right? Other kids and their parents reacting like that over the same things so it teaches them thats a normal reaction to that desire, right? I dont think i could expose my kid to any type of social media until she was much older

    • @AR-gg2su
      @AR-gg2su 7 місяців тому +2

      It stems back to their mom.

  • @amydavidson3609
    @amydavidson3609 9 місяців тому +205

    I always think about the book “Little Women” where Amy stole for a lime because you needed limes at school to be cool. I was bullied heavily in school for having hand me downs and the Kmart versions of things….This has been a problem way before social media. The bigger question to me is, how do girls learn to be so mean?

    • @recid6064
      @recid6064 9 місяців тому +28

      Omg I have always read the italian translated version (my fault I have to read it in english) and they translated with olives instead of limes ahahah

    • @acrylicgodoy
      @acrylicgodoy 9 місяців тому +4

      That is hilarious

    • @dian277
      @dian277 9 місяців тому +9

      from their parents and society

    • @rebalspirit
      @rebalspirit 9 місяців тому +3

      My mom bought our clothing at Grant's (sort of like Walmart without the groceries but popular cheap stuff department store in the 1960s) and we only got stuff from Sears or JCPENNEY at Christmas. I didn't know of name branding, Macy's, Abercrombie and Finch or Hammacher Schlemmer until I was in my 20s 😂.

    • @nasteho6614
      @nasteho6614 9 місяців тому +2

      @@recid6064😂😂😂😂😂that is so funny!!! They said like this make it local.

  • @betinatka2945
    @betinatka2945 Місяць тому +5

    It's literally insane..I'm glad that I live in Poland.

  • @ISwearToKira
    @ISwearToKira 8 місяців тому +381

    I can’t imagine spending $40+ on a cup that LEAKS. That’s like buying designer jeans that have holes in the pockets, it just doesn’t make sense.

    • @seaurchinted
      @seaurchinted 8 місяців тому +13

      It really is just the brand association. It doesn't matter how inconvenient your bulky un-sealable 50 dollar cup costs. If it's got the logo on it, it tells people youre trendy and have money. it's like dog whistling for consumerist millenials and nepo teens

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 8 місяців тому +1

      For real.

    • @HadridarMatramen
      @HadridarMatramen 7 місяців тому

      WHAT??? They even leak??? Oh my god. WHY do people give children bottles that leak???

    • @tefania00
      @tefania00 7 місяців тому +1

      Have you seen Balenciaga fashion lately?

    • @tiktak4773
      @tiktak4773 6 місяців тому

      For us in Europe is 110e

  • @mayalemaire
    @mayalemaire 9 місяців тому +176

    Social media is just peer pressure time 10000×. Worse is, marketing uses that "peer pressure", "scarcity mindset", "feer of missing out" to manipulate and drive sales. Kind of scary how affective it can be.

    • @cirqueduawesome6278
      @cirqueduawesome6278 9 місяців тому +2

      One of my coworker has been trying to convince me and others to take this class on Love Marketing. She keeps insisting how beneficial it is for a business, which I don’t deny it would be. But the obsession with these types of products is already too off putting for me to even consider taking a class that just sounds like another type of marketing manipulation. It’s one of the reasons I’m been using social media less and less. People really need to get smart before they end up in serious debt over stupid trends like this 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @f.w.685
    @f.w.685 9 місяців тому +791

    I am from Germany and this is absolutely insane to me. Guess what i am using for drinking my water… a glass ! Unbelievable right? 😂

    • @rebekka9987
      @rebekka9987 9 місяців тому +19

      und unterwegs?

    • @aturtlethatisred
      @aturtlethatisred 9 місяців тому +11

      All we have in America is our place as consumers 😵‍💫

    • @ZoeAlecxis
      @ZoeAlecxis 9 місяців тому +42

      @@rebekka9987du hast mich zwar nicht gefragt, aber ernsthaft… ich würde auch aus nem alten Gurkenglas trinken. Manche Leute übertreiben einfach so hart 😂
      (Btw: 4-6€ Glasflasche von Penny 10/10 👌🏻).

    • @rebekka9987
      @rebekka9987 9 місяців тому +9

      @@ZoeAlecxis ich mache mir bei Glasflaschen immer Sorgen, dass ich sie kaputt mache in einem Rucksack oder so

    • @ZoeAlecxis
      @ZoeAlecxis 9 місяців тому +22

      @@rebekka9987 Für gewöhnlich sollten die Flaschen, die speziell als Trinkflaschen gemacht wurden, dickwandig genug sein und nicht sehr schnell kaputt gehen. Ich nehme entweder die Glasflasche oder eine leichtere aus Kunststoff/ Tritan oder auch Alu. Die gehen für gewöhnlich nicht kaputt. Da gibts echt eine riesige Auswahl auf dem Markt. Meine Flaschen und meinen Kaffeebecher habe ich alle schon ewig, teils um 10 Jahre, und die halten alle noch. Wichtig finde ich nur, dass man die leicht reinigen kann, weil sich gerade am Verschluss schnell Rückstände absetzen und das teils auch gammeln kann. Also würd ich einfach eine relativ große Öffnung empfehlen und nicht so einen Kram mit Strohhalm.

  • @Skatejock21
    @Skatejock21 Місяць тому

    I have always been grateful to not be a trend follower. I seem to always find out about these trends after the initial craze. I have a friend who tends to get on these trends and I cant wrap my head around it. I feel like these people are either missing something in their life, whether its a relationship or friendships or simply just wanting to be like everyone else. I remember when I was in high school and I didn't have many friends. I didn't get on well with kids at church. I went to high school with some of those kids. I didn't have certain cool things others did, I never was the kid to ask my parents for them. I dont think I comprehended trends back then either. But one of my church leaders told me as an adult that one thing that she always appreciated about me was that I was not trying to be like the rest. I wasn't the kid who needed to be part of the trends of the day. It sticks with me and I credit my parents. My parents never made me feel like I needed those things. We were blessed with other things. It really does start at home for these things.

  • @kellyspryszak80
    @kellyspryszak80 9 місяців тому +1427

    There was a fight at the middle school my daughter will be going to after elementary school. The fight was over a boy, but one girl took her 40 oz Stanley and bashed the other over the head five times sending her to the hospital in very poor condition. There's going to be a lawsuit against the school as well as the family, and the one who assaulted the other was taken in and charges were filed. Not only is this cup a popularity trophy, it's apparently a weapon, as well. Children said that they could hear the metal cup cracking the other girl's skull

    • @ellahopkinson
      @ellahopkinson 9 місяців тому +290

      Oh gosh, I hope the girl is okay. They should 100% be banned in schools, in a fight it's obviously all too easy to use the handy cup you carry everywhere- and they more than likely haven't even thought of the consequences of that. Poor kids- one in hospital and one arrested all because of that stupid cup.

    • @rebek18
      @rebek18 9 місяців тому +125

      That’s horrifying!

    • @BrokenFootRailfan
      @BrokenFootRailfan 9 місяців тому +128

      That’s horrible!! I hope the poor girl will make a full recovery and that her family wins the lawsuit.

    • @TheSamjane4
      @TheSamjane4 9 місяців тому +170

      I actually said to my daughter jokingly that the only benefit of having a Stanley cup was that it would make a great weapon in a dark alley . That story is so sad.

    • @kellyspryszak80
      @kellyspryszak80 9 місяців тому +65

      @@foreveryoung2685 it's one of the best districts in the area. These kids are just ridiculous now.

  • @lluvbagel9875
    @lluvbagel9875 7 місяців тому +142

    Popular Influencers don’t pay for it. They get it for free. Thus they can afford it in every single colours.

  • @yasladakaya
    @yasladakaya 9 місяців тому +93

    The fact that people feel they need 1 is troubling. I'm glad I live under a rock.

  • @userflorarei
    @userflorarei 2 дні тому

    Hi! This is the second or third time that I see your videos, and I have to say that I love them all. Finally, FINALLY a girl that is not sold to the influencers shit and stands against all this crazyness and over comsumption and tells the truth to the people. I am really glad to have found you, because I just started my YT channel with the same objective, but on my niche, and I am so happy to see that I am not the only one tired of all of this fake everywhere. Cheers

  • @althelas
    @althelas 9 місяців тому +1252

    This is a pure Us-American phenomenon. No one in Europe uses this things, they are so unpractical. They are too heavy when full, too unsafe to put into a backpack and don't get me started on this rigid straw.
    ,The US-American society is in most parts so drilled into consumerism. it is baffling to everyone outside the USA to watch the whole country scrambling to follow every trend that pops up.

    • @weird-guy
      @weird-guy 9 місяців тому +67

      The usa is obsessed with water bottles for some reason, the popular one in my country is the tupperware one and is mostly among women but they don´t have colections of them,most people just reuse the normal plastic bottles

    • @GardensOfChina
      @GardensOfChina 9 місяців тому +30

      You are wrong I know it has started in UK about a year ago

    • @PoppyOxymoron
      @PoppyOxymoron 9 місяців тому +63

      @@GardensOfChinaI’m from the uk, never seen them here

    • @Jetske
      @Jetske 9 місяців тому +52

      Yeah don't say these things too loud! In the blink of an eye Europe is covered with everything USA. I noticed the main model was sold out and you could leave your email to be notified as soon as they would be back in stock. This was in The Netherlands.

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 8 місяців тому +22

      The European market share for Stanley is massive.

  • @madametrafficjam8347
    @madametrafficjam8347 9 місяців тому +82

    Pointless consumerism actually IS hurting somebody.

    • @cn.st.182
      @cn.st.182 9 місяців тому +11

      THIS. Absolutely. I can't STAND this "as long as you enjoy it good for you" thinking.

    • @molybdomancer195
      @molybdomancer195 9 місяців тому +6

      All this unnecessary stuff ends up in land fill.

    • @jennyveile
      @jennyveile 9 місяців тому +2

      @@molybdomancer195 at least these are well made and have a lifetime guarantee so unlike plastic cups they hopefully will get passed along.

  • @d6375
    @d6375 7 місяців тому +773

    My daughter's school has exiled every popular water bottle. They are allowed to have a completely clear water bottle and it must have a screw top, no straws. Period. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @thesinfulyogini2073
      @thesinfulyogini2073 7 місяців тому +30

      @@croftyhaterabsolutely unnecessary. I like my water ICE COLD like ice cold I need it that way, and I’d be upset if I was even allowed to have my hydro flask? Doesn’t even have to be that brand. Just something to keep my water cold.

    • @KCJSummers
      @KCJSummers 7 місяців тому +20

      Well done school!! 👏

    • @kkosgi
      @kkosgi 6 місяців тому +19

      All the plastic straws have mold in all these reusable cups. Stick with screw on lids

    • @Nocturne22
      @Nocturne22 6 місяців тому +17

      @@kkosgi You can clean them with a little stick tool.

    • @VelveteenRabbit77
      @VelveteenRabbit77 6 місяців тому +6

      @@kkosgi That’s why I didn’t get one the straw. I didn’t want to clean it. I just have my Yeti.

  • @mrsninajabbour
    @mrsninajabbour 2 місяці тому +1

    Always teach your children to be great full of everything they have. Teach and tell them how you were raised and blessed!

  • @sarahdoanpeace3623
    @sarahdoanpeace3623 9 місяців тому +290

    If people cared this much about each other or healthcare or food or safe shelter we’d be in a completely different and much better world!

    • @michelleprieur1
      @michelleprieur1 9 місяців тому +6

      Hmmm. Agree with you but I'd wager a bet that there's luxury items that you buy that I don't. Same for me.

    • @Crisalpha
      @Crisalpha 9 місяців тому +18

      @@michelleprieur1 And? Buying a luxury product is one thing, freaking over and yelling like a lunatic is another. Hell, even period pads are considered a luxury product in the UK.
      Btw, whataboutism is never a counterargument.

    • @jacobus57
      @jacobus57 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@michelleprieur1 and your point? 🙄

    • @le13579
      @le13579 7 місяців тому

      ​@@michelleprieur1 Well said!

  • @Lily-ig1rt
    @Lily-ig1rt 7 місяців тому +310

    this gives me so much anxiety, like children are being bombed in hospitals and we're having meltdowns over cups. this is dystopian

  • @NottyAries
    @NottyAries 9 місяців тому +279

    Social media has bothered me for years! I don't understand any of it. Didn't we grow out of peer pressure when we graduated from highschool?

    • @MercedesMermaid
      @MercedesMermaid 9 місяців тому +19

      You'd think so 😂

    • @yourmomisafuggo
      @yourmomisafuggo 9 місяців тому +3

      OMG that's EXACTLY how I feel! I'm thinking OMG these are women in their 30's-40's falling for trends like 15 year olds! It's PATHETIC! 😂 Just like expensive designer purses and shoes and other crap, it's all so stupid!

    • @michelleprieur1
      @michelleprieur1 9 місяців тому +5

      And yet, you're here on it...😅

    • @Samantha360
      @Samantha360 9 місяців тому +31

      ​@@michelleprieur1most of us don't consider UA-cam, rumble etc as social media. Most of us don't have any personal info on these sites, no friends, family or followers. We use it in place of a TV, but can chat about our 'shows' like if you're watching with friends.
      It's very different from what we consider 'social media' though technically it is

    • @michelleprieur1
      @michelleprieur1 9 місяців тому +4

      @@Samantha360 Who's we? I'm not trying to be hateful but you don't speak for anyone else. UA-cam is absolutely part of social media. You all can do whatever you want but the hypocrisy is getting old.

  • @saramelon7892
    @saramelon7892 3 місяці тому +6

    Unbelievable 😂. In Switzerland “Stanley Cup” means Ice hockey, many just refill regular plastic bottles and if you wanna go overboard you buy the true swiss legend - a “Sigg Bottle”. Aluminium and swiss made since 1908. Thanks for your videos, truly enjoy them!

  • @s.j.warlock4901
    @s.j.warlock4901 8 місяців тому +583

    I hugged dearly my very cute personal glass jar with chipped flamingo picture on it while I watched this. No huge cup will ever replace you, pink flamingo, I love you.

    • @mydogismyheart23
      @mydogismyheart23 8 місяців тому +20

      I love it. I had one like that with cats on it for many years. I just recently dropped it and it shattered. So I replaced it with another glass water bottle with silicone sleeve this time. Lol

    • @lhia0416
      @lhia0416 8 місяців тому +10

      Haha! I did the same! I said thank you to my stainless steel water bottle with a dented polar bear that was a thank-you gift for my donation to WWF. We've been together for over 5 years and I foresee many more years with it.

    • @JennieOkami
      @JennieOkami 8 місяців тому +1

      I have a few different ones I love, but I have a knock-off cat ear starbucks one that I use everyday. I love it!

    • @Jazz-wo5zt
      @Jazz-wo5zt 8 місяців тому +7

      This made me laugh out loud, a friend brought me this Frida Khalo stainless steel bottle (because I made her a gluten free cake- see kindness comes round!!!!) And honestly I've had it about 6 years and I love it so much.. 😂 I'm sure someone will say I need to replace it because it let's off some chemical after so long blah blah blah I can't keep up 😂 so me and Frida are gona be sticking together ❤❤❤ great video.. this over consumerism for stupid bottles just makes me feel so sad for our planet.. 😢

    • @cinnakincat4260
      @cinnakincat4260 8 місяців тому +2

      ugh, I feel this so much. I will admit, I do have several good water bottles in my house, but that collection is of personal water bottles of various sizes, brands, and expenses that I've been rotating the use of for several years now, and the most expensive one is the sturdy, heavy duty waterbottle I take with me when going on hikes or camping trips, not something that's a passing fad at best.

  • @shybear8o8
    @shybear8o8 8 місяців тому +244

    21:52 The brother's comment, "A water bottle." You can just feel the eye roll 🙄😆

    • @Blood_bought1
      @Blood_bought1 8 місяців тому +7

      Yup 😂😂😂

    • @Evikaefi1
      @Evikaefi1 7 місяців тому +4

      The most reasonable human from that Family

    • @vidyareddy7450
      @vidyareddy7450 2 місяці тому

      I mean.. he has a rock collection. So uk who is the cool one 👀 (ps: I have a rock collection too)

  • @ajlorentz
    @ajlorentz 9 місяців тому +193

    The restock video is the one I watched and I’ve been hooked on your content since. I’m like 100 videos into the ANTI-MLM videos and I can’t wait to send my own horror stories

    • @elizabethrose1956
      @elizabethrose1956 9 місяців тому +20

      I came here to say this !! 🩷 I’m so glad I found this channel. It’s my new background channel when I’m cleaning, cooking or showering.

    • @HannahAlonzo
      @HannahAlonzo  9 місяців тому +15

      Aww yay!! Thanks for being here! 🥰

    • @28claudia95
      @28claudia95 9 місяців тому +1

      omg same 😂

    • @kimf1993
      @kimf1993 9 місяців тому

      Same

    • @avaboyer9297
      @avaboyer9297 9 місяців тому

      @@elizabethrose1956same! I’ve been here since 10k subscribers and I’ve listened through her entire playlists several times each. They never get old or repetitive, I pick something new up every time. It’s like my emotional support channel!

  • @solkoselig3686
    @solkoselig3686 26 днів тому +4

    European here. I bought a Stanley thermo flask with ceramic inner coating about 5 years ago, and it’s been the best one I ever had. Still have it. When this craze with Stanley cups started in America I didn’t even understand that this was the same brand, those cups look over advertised and fugly.

  • @notmychelle
    @notmychelle 8 місяців тому +128

    I remember being the poor kid in school with the “fake” Adidas and cheap clothes and it was rough 😢 I can’t imagine how hard it is now when all the kids have social media.

    • @le13579
      @le13579 7 місяців тому +12

      Take heart. I was the other extreme in that my parents bought expensive brands that the other kids didn't even know existed and so I got teased for having stuff that was different. 😆

    • @motionoftheocean7524
      @motionoftheocean7524 7 місяців тому +2

      Atleast you didn't get to wear Abibas😊

    • @haz0816
      @haz0816 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@le13579 what a difficult life

    • @sunblade704
      @sunblade704 7 місяців тому +2

      Same, I feel really bad for all the teenagers and children out there that have to deal with the current social media advertisements

    • @le13579
      @le13579 7 місяців тому +4

      @@haz0816 Not at all. Point being that having stuff doesn't save you.

  • @courteneygs
    @courteneygs 6 місяців тому +347

    What I crazy is that this company had been around for like, 100 years, but in all that time their marketing dept never thought to create a cup targeted to women 🤣

    • @jocypare6019
      @jocypare6019 6 місяців тому +12

      Someone be rolling in their grave. Missing all that money money 💰 cash cash 💵

    • @bubba842
      @bubba842 6 місяців тому +22

      It didn't matter with they marketed at women or not. It's the modern day social media trend that made it popular.

    • @ferelithian
      @ferelithian 5 місяців тому +20

      True, makes it even more stupid that women are now throwing money at a company that ignored us for ages. You can't make this up...

    • @crowjams266
      @crowjams266 5 місяців тому

      My dad even told me that his dad owned one back in the 60’s and 50’s

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 5 місяців тому

      God loves you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! He can give you so much love, joy and peace

  • @valolafson6035
    @valolafson6035 9 місяців тому +149

    The thing is, the people buying many, many cups, were never concerned about sustainability.

    • @kategaspar2687
      @kategaspar2687 9 місяців тому +9

      There are reels out there of people filling their Stanleys with bottled water.

  • @Whiskin87
    @Whiskin87 Місяць тому +1

    Going back to watch some older videos. An interesting development is that now some schools/teachers are asking that the children don’t bring them. Probably for variety of reasons: status symbol, they spill, they’re loud when they fall. Love your content!!

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 8 місяців тому +90

    We are so unhappy as a society, and to try and find happiness we consume constantly, and nobody can tell me different

  • @LadyOrpheus
    @LadyOrpheus 9 місяців тому +224

    As someone who has had a Stanley Cup for about a year and very much does enjoy it, I do not understand the desire at all to just...hoard a trove of them. It's a good cup! you don't need more than one! The "limited edition" manufactured false hype is really bizarre to me.

    • @christineford4465
      @christineford4465 9 місяців тому +32

      Same! I love my ONE Stanley and now I’m leery about even admitting I own it because I don’t want to be associated with the hype.

    • @Katsandkatsandkats
      @Katsandkatsandkats 9 місяців тому +8

      I have 2 of the littler 30 oz ones. 1 for the dishwasher, 1 for current use. I don’t own any other “nice” tumblers, just regular cups. It’s been really nice to have a decent tumbler for waking up throughout the night with a newborn. Now I do feel stupid bringing them in public though 😂

    • @breannabrandlein2762
      @breannabrandlein2762 9 місяців тому +9

      I love my Stanley’s. Yea, plural. And I enjoy having a few different colors, but I definitely didn’t bombard people to get the latest and greatest color. I simply ordered them or saw them online and that was the end. I use them 24/7, but I don’t see the point of this mass need for them or having every color.

    • @ReginaTee702
      @ReginaTee702 9 місяців тому +1

      Ditto! My husband and I love our Stanley Cup, which I bought for over a year now. It serves its purpose but I don't feel the need to buy all colors and sizes. It's crazy.

    • @SkipperJane
      @SkipperJane 9 місяців тому +3

      That hype definitely seems to be the modus operandi of the CMO they hired. At least with Stanley they don’t have physical stores, so when the crash inevitably comes, it won’t sink the brand like it did CROCS (which way over-expanded its retail holdings and then nearly went bankrupt).

  • @boochie37
    @boochie37 9 місяців тому +105

    The Stanley craze is wild to me. I knew a bunch of folks with them in college...over 10 years ago. They were mostly geography students that wanted something to keep like a gallon of coffee hot while they spent hours working on maps in a computer lab. This was the thermos of choice for outdoorsy people that rarely got to see the sun.

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 8 місяців тому

      The old green Stanley thermos has been around for decades. This new craze has nothing to do with a thermos that you keep and use for a lifetime.

  • @BlueFire-d3r
    @BlueFire-d3r 9 днів тому +2

    I'm British and I just don't understand this insane level of consumerism. I think you were correct when you called it dystopian.