The fantasizing one was so me ,i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step then go for the change
You have to indentfy it if it's healthy or not , this is based on you , and i said in the comment EXTRA imagination( like imagining yourself has a car which is SO okay and good but you are not working in real life to get that car which is here no okay ) @Alatus_25709
Yeah but he's right me too i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step
This is why I followed you because of all the good advices and insights you give that is relatable and life changing when realized to one's self because "understanding the self is not simple, it takes time and effort"-Socrates Thank you Tulio or may i say Tulip!
Happy Birthday! Your advice really hit towards raw reality and growth. I thought the last one was going to be something like "Friends are like snowflakes...they're all different in a way that makes them inherently unique. Each have their own stories and struggles. Cherish the good moments you've had even as they may be there one moment and gone the next..." or something like that. The pee on them and they go away is relevant too though! 😂
I was complacent -- and then my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. Just yesterday. Hearing from an outsider's perspective, realizing you were being complacent is tough, but thanks for being that outsider. I need to get back on track with my goals.
The last one is so true because when I start trusting someone and want to share something, it all falls apart. They reveal who they truly are and why they've been hanging around these past days-because they've now found someone more fun than me, maybe
Greetings from Malaysia, thank you for sharing this I'm 27 y/o guy with zero friend, skills, talents no relationship no job basically I'm just living. Really need this motivation. Thank you so much
Belated happy birthday Tulio!! You've become our free therapist these days, and it is a big help to me or to us. You may not know it but you've really helped us big time. Hoping you are also taking care of yourself. You are there to help us and we are also here to help you. Love lots, Tulip Gardens 🫡🫡🫡
Thank you for this man you helped me to remember and found out the things that actually matter in life, btw this might actually be one of the best videos i watched this year, I'll live my best life !!
Thanks for the last advice, I was getting too introspective and sad about some of the statements, but the last one snapped me out of it, with a good laugh. LOL
Tomorrow I'm going to turn 21 and I'm nervous, there"s so much going on my mind like what changes will occur by both mentally and physically, am i a good human being to my close ones ,to myself? Ofcourse what I'm doing right now will affect my future, am i doing right things ? What i am becoming? Do i know myself? I'm clueless. I want to know all the answers. I want to make a better future for me and for my family, you know the right thing to do now is just to study ,crack the exam ,go to my desired University, study what i like , make my parents proud , i want to see a proud smile on their faces , i want them to feel the love that i have for them until it's too late. Sorry I'm writing this all here ,I'm just emotional right now.. don't know whom to tell this all ,maybe it's also a thing that is changing with me.. I'm gonna miss my past years i promise to my younger self.. I'll be a good human ❤️
damn tulio this just became my favorite video of all times and the one i needed the most as someone who also recently turned 21, obrigada! ❤ (the last one 🤌
Num 14 was personal 😂 i respect your opinion but I've always been a spiritual person and fantasizing made me what I am today living in the present can be hard sometimes so fantasizing keeps me happy i never felt sad and even though some people might not believe this everything i fantasized so far actually came true. My delusions are realistic i see them as challenges 🤧
OK! Ill try to follow your lessons! But Btw, i heard you speaked a lot of Brazilian Portuguese,i want to see doing a video about or talking it! so bye!!!
last one hit hard 🧻☝️😔
i will never forget that lesson 😔❄
I wish I saw this video sooner
The fantasizing one was so me ,i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step then go for the change
💀but I have been fantasizing from when I was child which out knowing 💀💀💀
You have to indentfy it if it's healthy or not , this is based on you , and i said in the comment EXTRA imagination( like imagining yourself has a car which is SO okay and good but you are not working in real life to get that car which is here no okay ) @Alatus_25709
@@Alatus_25709 It can be a good thing if at the same time you keep your feets on Earth
How to stop that?
1:30 DIDN'T HAVE TO CALL ME OUT LIKE DAT
Yeah but he's right me too i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step
This is a sign😭😭
yall this is a sign
@@winnnerm-mk9tj Very very fondamental.
That's where I stopped to look at the comments I was js fantasizing a sec ago
Life is like a fart. It will last but it will disappear eventually.
Truer words have never been spoken before.
oh my god
well shit
If you had posted this video 3 days ago I would still have friends...
sorry you had to learn the hard way 😔
wait, did u pee on your friend? sry i don't mean to be mean, just wondering
@@KamalikaaPavalanLMAOOO
Wtf?...💀 I was getting in the vibes and this popped up, made me choke on air
@@KamalikaaPavalan nah she pooped instead
The last one has some hidden meaning, aside from the humor of it: friendships are fragile and not all of them last.
just like peeing
2:33 he's trying so hard to not to laugh😂😂😂
please I love this guy sm
Its mine tho🫧
@@Roorminds 1:27 in case you accidentally skipped it
@@mooran LMAO
1:07 No.10 is so precious ❤❤
This is why I followed you because of all the good advices and insights you give that is relatable and life changing when realized to one's self because "understanding the self is not simple, it takes time and effort"-Socrates
Thank you Tulio or may i say Tulip!
22: *hold on to ✝️*
1:28 way to burst my bubble 😂
Happy Birthday! Your advice really hit towards raw reality and growth. I thought the last one was going to be something like "Friends are like snowflakes...they're all different in a way that makes them inherently unique. Each have their own stories and struggles. Cherish the good moments you've had even as they may be there one moment and gone the next..." or something like that. The pee on them and they go away is relevant too though! 😂
i wasnt expecting the last one KKKKK LOL! Also brazilian here, nice watching your stuff!
Yoooo Brazil pals here!
You really are becoming my therapist, thank youuuu 🥹💖
Another great one Tulio, though the last one isn't true for all friends, some will probably (try) to get even closer.
And happy birthday.
Tulip sharing his wise words 🙌
The tips were so helpful thank you for making this video and happy late birthday!! I am also turning 21 this October ! :)
I was complacent -- and then my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. Just yesterday. Hearing from an outsider's perspective, realizing you were being complacent is tough, but thanks for being that outsider. I need to get back on track with my goals.
happy (late) bday take care of your petals 🙂🌷
The last one is so true because when I start trusting someone and want to share something, it all falls apart. They reveal who they truly are and why they've been hanging around these past days-because they've now found someone more fun than me, maybe
I wish Tulip does podcast. I can listen to it all day and can improve my English :)). Happy birthday 🎉
Happy Birthday 🎂, and thank you for this , although I'm turning 22 this month I needed to hear these advices so much
This is probably the best video I've found in this entire year. Made my day
Happy birthday Tulio. Thanks for these words of wisdom.
Greetings from Malaysia, thank you for sharing this I'm 27 y/o guy with zero friend, skills, talents no relationship no job basically I'm just living. Really need this motivation. Thank you so much
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TULIOOOOO
Not me watching this at 21...
Idk why but this vid made me cry for a while🫢 btw Happy Birthday🎉
Belated happy birthday Tulio!!
You've become our free therapist these days, and it is a big help to me or to us. You may not know it but you've really helped us big time.
Hoping you are also taking care of yourself.
You are there to help us and we are also here to help you.
Love lots, Tulip Gardens
🫡🫡🫡
Last one rlly hit me, needed to hear that.
Thank you for this man you helped me to remember and found out the things that actually matter in life, btw this might actually be one of the best videos i watched this year, I'll live my best life !!
I uttered the sound of realization when I saw 18… damn man thanks for the reminders
the last one is the only truth of life !
21 hits hard
Thanks! Watching as a 21 year old here 👋🏻
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TULIOOOO❤ I LOVE U🎉❤
Today’s my 21st I’m taking notes rn🙏🏿
Happy birthday (a little late)!! LOLLL
A big kiss from Brazil ! 🫶🏻
I fantasize and create stories.not for my self but for the comics i create.i pretty much enjoy my life as it is
0:33 this was so much needed😂😂
thank you, tulip 🌷
Thanks for the last advice, I was getting too introspective and sad about some of the statements, but the last one snapped me out of it, with a good laugh. LOL
this video is so beautiful, tulip
This is so wholesome. Thank you
I love this video, the last tip is just wow!! 😧
Happy belated birthday! 👍
Happy birthday tulio!
Although I’m almost 25 but these lessons are actually good lessons
i broke character so fast on that last one fr 😭😭
last one made me cry
You don't need to know how..
Thank you for sayings that..Really..I've gave up on soo many things just because I thought I dont know how to do it..
Another one: During the winter, don't eat yellow snow.
I'm 20 now and sooner be 21 , and I totally agreed all you said
It was really comforting ❤
I love this so much tulip 🥺
5. I can confirm that's really good advice
damn this video made me realize i am turning 21 in nov and i should seek a therapist for your advice 14 really slapped me xd love from india
the last one will forever stay with me 😪
Thanks Tulio! ✨ I love this video❤❤
I really appreciate number 10.
yknow I always struggled with that last one
I stopped doing my assignments to watch this 🤠 (active pause)
Eu tô tão feliz que entendi tudo sem legenda 😢 meu inglês tá melhor desde que comecei a acompanhar o Tulio 😮
Feliz aniversário ❤
Tomorrow I'm going to turn 21 and I'm nervous, there"s so much going on my mind like what changes will occur by both mentally and physically, am i a good human being to my close ones ,to myself?
Ofcourse what I'm doing right now will affect my future, am i doing right things ? What i am becoming? Do i know myself? I'm clueless. I want to know all the answers. I want to make a better future for me and for my family, you know the right thing to do now is just to study ,crack the exam ,go to my desired University, study what i like , make my parents proud , i want to see a proud smile on their faces , i want them to feel the love that i have for them until it's too late. Sorry I'm writing this all here ,I'm just emotional right now.. don't know whom to tell this all ,maybe it's also a thing that is changing with me.. I'm gonna miss my past years i promise to my younger self.. I'll be a good human ❤️
Whatever you are going through right now i hope you will find out a way. i have faith in you 🥊fighting🥊 &happy birth day even though it's late .😊
damn tulio this just became my favorite video of all times and the one i needed the most as someone who also recently turned 21, obrigada! ❤ (the last one 🤌
ooo, amazzziiinnng internet find!
Our tulips have grown. 😢
One thing is Cinematography>
Damn last one you're right 😂😭
love it, very practical advices ❤
thank you ❤
Happy Birthday!!!!
Happyyy Birthdayyy!!! 🎉💕✨️
I was so into it until the end. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Happy birthday 🎂
Thank you, random stranger on the internet.
Happy birthday! 🎉🥳🥳
I love this videoooo thanks so much Tuliooo 😌
Thx tulio i really needed it ❤
WAIT WTFFF IM TH6 RN AND IM THINKING IF I SHUD RUSH TO BE STRONGER THEN THIS VID UNEXPECTEDLY ANSWERED MY QUESTION WTF
Happy birthday 🎉🎂
Insightful video brother 🙏🏾
1:30 Is dreaming the same as what you are talking about? Why is that terrible when it makes me want to push forward?
i needed to hear number eight.
The Modern Dokkodo 🙏
what camera did you use to take all of this footages I really want to buy one I want my memories to pictured like this
Happy birthday 🎉🎉❤
#21 struck me the most
I was literally crying until the end of the video I started laughing so hard😂
Num 14 was personal 😂 i respect your opinion but I've always been a spiritual person and fantasizing made me what I am today living in the present can be hard sometimes so fantasizing keeps me happy i never felt sad and even though some people might not believe this everything i fantasized so far actually came true. My delusions are realistic i see them as challenges 🤧
...but Greatness is born from Fantasy (no.14)
Tulio and his analogies 😂 ❄️
great video Tulio 🙂
My superpower: Infinite Bladder.
inspiring! new subscriber here. belated happy birthday to you. Blessings!
The last one😭
OK! Ill try to follow your lessons! But Btw, i heard you speaked a lot of Brazilian Portuguese,i want to see doing a video about or talking it! so bye!!!
Last one It makes sense.
Thank you so much