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  • @heathersiegler6837
    @heathersiegler6837 8 місяців тому +283

    Kyle please don't be embarrassed. Things happen. Keep giving yourself grace. There is a thing called grieving brain and even if it isn't that stuff happens. You are doing the very best you can and we all see it. Much love.

    • @kyleapple9702
      @kyleapple9702  8 місяців тому +45

      Thank you so much for being so kind

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 8 місяців тому +12

      Exactly

    • @jackieodonovan9704
      @jackieodonovan9704 8 місяців тому +15

      Kyle, who dosent mistakes - ur human 🥴so does this mean ur not perfect 😛

    • @DoctorJoanieTool
      @DoctorJoanieTool 8 місяців тому +17

      @@kyleapple9702I didn’t even see whatever was not supposed to be in there. So you’ve done everything … and you are so protective of your kiddos.

    • @AlwaysGrandmaKelley
      @AlwaysGrandmaKelley 8 місяців тому +14

      You are an amazing Daddy and something goes oops with every single parent. Every single parent! Add grief into the picture and lack of sleep and the responsibility of being a single parent... YOU'RE DOING AMAZING! We love you and are close by to cheer you on! Share your joys and SORROW and keep you high on our prayer lists 🙏! I was raised by my Daddy and he did an amazing job ❤️. One step at a time! God is good! Love you and those adorable kiddos ❤️ 💕 😊

  • @pantherpauli749
    @pantherpauli749 8 місяців тому +62

    You will never know how much your videos mean to me. During my grief I sometimes think if Kyle and Winnie and Ellis can do it, I can do it too. You're so honest and insightful in your grief journey, this is beyond helpful.
    Backpain was one of my main physical grief symptoms in the first months. I recently picked up swimming, but maybe I will try a massage. Cooking is also a great distraction and it makes me feel like I can take care of myself. Now that spring is around the corner, I'm hoping to enjoy nature a lot more. Short walks and listening to music already helps. Sitting in the sun sounds amazing. I agree it is important to be with your grief, not just run away from it.

    • @Nutty8114
      @Nutty8114 8 місяців тому +7

      🙏🏻 going through the same grief journey…riding with it but focusing on other things, too…

    • @Nutty8114
      @Nutty8114 8 місяців тому +3

      @QueenSpicyMama 🙏🏻

  • @allaboutcrime1972
    @allaboutcrime1972 8 місяців тому +30

    I'm a massage therapist and you definitely got a deep tissue massage. They are my favorite!!! You should definitely go back. It makes me so happy that you are doing things for yourself Kyle. You are doing everything right when dealing with grief. I absolutely love seeing the kiddos smiling and laughing. ❤🙏

  • @lalasteen3860
    @lalasteen3860 8 місяців тому +187

    I saw the former but didn’t notice anything. Glad someone notified you and you edited it. You’re a great Dad so don’t beat yourself up.

    • @freelancerjourn
      @freelancerjourn 8 місяців тому +8

      Same here. I watched the original video and didn’t notice anything. I’m glad others did, though, and alerted Kyle. Kyle, give yourself grace. We are all fallible and subject to errors.

    • @msbeecee1
      @msbeecee1 8 місяців тому +6

      Yes, don't beat urself up!! 🎉

    • @dshotz
      @dshotz 8 місяців тому +3

      I never saw anything inappropriate.

    • @catlady3147
      @catlady3147 8 місяців тому +7

      @@freelancerjourn please. Ask him what he did with the Go Fund money. He exploits his kids and now himself with his grieving. Like, get a life and get off of social media, Kyle but he won't. He'll continue to exploit his grief and his kids and people like you will support it.

    • @TheStrayK
      @TheStrayK 8 місяців тому

      ​@@catlady3147Que comentário horrível.

  • @darleneechevarria6625
    @darleneechevarria6625 8 місяців тому +13

    I completed Rooted too but with a group and it was good in stretching my faith. The Lord is with you Kyle and your beautiful babies. He will never leave or forsake you!

  • @corysoto6610
    @corysoto6610 8 місяців тому +62

    Thank you Kyle for posting about grief. I lost my son 7 months ago he was the youngest of the family. He was only 26 and we miss him dearly….

    • @susanlewis9351
      @susanlewis9351 8 місяців тому +13

      So very sorry for your loss

    • @joyce9523
      @joyce9523 8 місяців тому +7

      My condolences to you sweetheart I've lost a child also hurts like hell 🙏♥️

    • @carlajohnson7361
      @carlajohnson7361 8 місяців тому +6

      I am so sorry for your loss. 💔

    • @danielleshay1972
      @danielleshay1972 8 місяців тому +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I have 1 son and I can't imagine anything happening to him. Much love.

    • @ashleybergstrom8934
      @ashleybergstrom8934 8 місяців тому +5

      Greatest pain and sorrow to lose a child. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @susanlewis9351
    @susanlewis9351 8 місяців тому +9

    How sweet the pups look waiting to sleep with the kids. They are a great comfort for them

  • @Lyn-px2jv
    @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому +2

    Very flamboyant, and he's proud of himself againnnnnnnnnnn

  • @raeannewatson2807
    @raeannewatson2807 8 місяців тому +5

    Love your sweet dogs watching in the background while you dry the kids hair.💙

  • @carla2012app
    @carla2012app 8 місяців тому +2

    Good on you, Kyle paying attention to self-care. It is so important for us to move forward, and heal, maintain that joy of life. Grief is grief----it is definitely a process.

  • @karenduffy3157
    @karenduffy3157 8 місяців тому +4

    Loved seeing your lovely cat happily sitting with the dogs in the background. Animals always help me when I am down. Xx

  • @debbiereifenberger7317
    @debbiereifenberger7317 8 місяців тому +3

    Loved "hair drying" time. Brought a tear to my eye. Youre the best Dad. Your kids are lucky indeed

  • @dianasears3356
    @dianasears3356 7 місяців тому +4

    Do not feel bad...we have your back❤❤❤

  • @justinedevoe7166
    @justinedevoe7166 8 місяців тому +3

    God bless and continue to be with you all. 🙏🏼✝️♥️🕊️

  • @ronellharrison756
    @ronellharrison756 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy that beenie & cap are gone. Happy to see 🎉hair for a change 🎉

    • @Lyn-px2jv
      @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому

      Really? Like that's what's important in this video?

  • @RoswellNative
    @RoswellNative 8 місяців тому +4

    Thanks buddy. My wife is going thru cancer now, I need you to keep posting

  • @heavenstupeloouterspace
    @heavenstupeloouterspace 8 місяців тому +4

    One day at a time brother. I lost my brother on December 7th of this past year, his name is Kyle. I discovered this page when the algorithm lead me to Jennys page, also my wifes name. You are not alone brother. Prayers for you and yours.

  • @KathleenWeber-p6n
    @KathleenWeber-p6n 8 місяців тому +3

    I haven't been following along for e few months. But here you are. Your journey continues and its truly important for your healing and it gives me food for thought. Its a selfless effort for you that helps you toheal.

  • @cindyjames6303
    @cindyjames6303 8 місяців тому +5

    I love your shirt, I lost my daughter 13 months ago, I got the sweatshirt wish last week. It makes me think of my daughter, she loved stars, I have her ashes in a star urn, I have a star tattoo with her fingerprint in it. I love watching your videos, it helps me with my grieving, it's so very hard. I'm in a group from church about loss and grieving. I was just told in last weeks class the 2nd year is the hardest. I thought I was doing pretty good, then the anniversary hit, and I just went silent, didn't know what to do. So when I found this out it did help me understand better. Take care, maybe I will see i you and your family at Disneyland so time.

  • @debackard7138
    @debackard7138 8 місяців тому +3

    Hey Kyle, I laughed when you mentioned feeling beat up from the massage, I had a similar experience. Ultimately though, it’s amazing how it feels & heals your mind & spirit as well. Ah, self care takes time, you’re getting there my friend…keep it up. Healing is a process. Sending hugs.

  • @truthprevails7085
    @truthprevails7085 8 місяців тому +3

    Way to go, Kyle, you’re doing a wonderful job with the challenges at hand. We love you!❤️🥰

  • @jodiatkison6944
    @jodiatkison6944 8 місяців тому +27

    My depression led to divorce. I lost a wonderful mate and let down our children. I know it's not the same as the death of a spouse but I a grieving a loss nonetheless. Your videos have kept me comfort during long lonely days and nights. Thank you for being there for all of us during your time of grief! Xoxo

    • @lindalamb7512
      @lindalamb7512 8 місяців тому +5

      Jodia bless you. I had divorce too. It is a death. Be good to yourself!

    • @jodiatkison6944
      @jodiatkison6944 8 місяців тому +4

      @lindalamb7512 thanks Linda. You be good to yourself too! I appreciate the reply!

    • @jodiatkison6944
      @jodiatkison6944 8 місяців тому

      @@TheStrayK no comprede

  • @annettecahalan4268
    @annettecahalan4268 8 місяців тому +4

    Well Kyle I’m glad to see you on your channel. You do whatever feels right for you.

  • @rachaellibra5053
    @rachaellibra5053 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you,this helped me. I'm having bereavement counselling at the moment,my mum passed last june. Keep positive & busy ☀🕯

  • @TheRealPeggySue
    @TheRealPeggySue 8 місяців тому +3

    Love that you said not to be afraid of doing things alone. It is sometimes important to have that quality of time for yourself. Makes you a better person all around. Massages are great for tension.. But yes they can be WOW!!! That is so true about grief…I lost someone extremely special…meant the world to me and was a huge part of my world it will be 8 years this year…. And grief is grief…it will always be with you because you want that person back but that isn’t possible. I have found that I feel his presence still every day throughout the day but more in positive memories and I think he would be proud that I kept on going (I didn’t the first year at all). Now I can see a picture and I smile more (still look at them sometimes and just stare in his eyes and just say to the picture that I miss you and wish you were here but someday I’ll see you again). God Bless and Hope you had a good night of rest.
    PS we have your back…videos are hard to edit and I think moving children would be hard to catch it all all the time…don’t give it a second thought. ❤✝️

  • @emilylinck2790
    @emilylinck2790 8 місяців тому +106

    Please don’t be hard on yourself. I watched and didn’t catch it. We’re all doing the best we can in our individual experiences. Thank you for being the best daddy for Winnie. 👨‍👧👍

    • @kyleapple9702
      @kyleapple9702  8 місяців тому +10

      Aww thank you

    • @Linda-u6d7n
      @Linda-u6d7n 8 місяців тому +18

      Kyle ,
      I once posted to Facebook a picture of my Birthday Flowers that came from a very dear friend in Texas. The thing I hadn’t realized is that when I took the picture of the flowers they we’re sitting on my dining table and behind that is my cupboard with a mirror all across it. Now the bad part:
      I didn’t have any clothes on when I took the picture and posted it 😳 only later realizing when looking at the Facebook post that you could see my entire reflection in the mirror in the cupboard behind the table 😮😮
      To this day I don’t know if anyone else saw that, or realized what they were looking at if they did, but I can guarantee you that that post came down, and a more appropriate one replaced it 😅
      Linda

    • @jopride463
      @jopride463 8 місяців тому

      56uy7y😂90​@@kyleapple9702

    • @nightengale829
      @nightengale829 8 місяців тому +2

      I did not catch it either.

    • @Truthwinz
      @Truthwinz 8 місяців тому +4

      @@debbiesclunsen9744 in this world people look for something to make themselves feel self righteous like they never ever have made a mistake. In the Bible it says Judge not lest thee be judged. Let’s have some empathy for someone who made a mistake that I’m sure won’t ever happen again.

  • @glitzzygem
    @glitzzygem 8 місяців тому +25

    Huckle is so adorable Aaaahhh! I want to squeeze him! Flower is also adorable too. I think humming birds are so mesmerizing to watch.

  • @jennynunez7946
    @jennynunez7946 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much Kyle for your advice. I really needed to hear this. I'm 68 and I lost my husband to lung cancer 15 yrs ago and I miss him. I also lost both my parents. My Mom just a year ago. I was her only caregiver. I feel so alone and anxious. I'm also dealing with health issues that makes this loneliness even harder.

  • @sandybillmeier2796
    @sandybillmeier2796 8 місяців тому +20

    Awe I'm so glad your mom came over to visit the kids and you were able to get a little free time for yourself!! Gees i wish i was your neighbor, I'm 63 with no grandchildren 😢😢and i would love to babysit your kids,they are such sweet and adorable!! Thank you for your videos! Please take care of yourself,Kyle.....Your a wonderful dad and a great man.

  • @pattymankowski5375
    @pattymankowski5375 8 місяців тому +2

    Much needed support . others,are suffering and your channel will be able to help others.Fantastic Kyle

  • @sharontylenda3084
    @sharontylenda3084 8 місяців тому +2

    Yes you will get hooked!! I had my first one at 20 years old. I’m 65 years old now, and still get them. Don’t be afraid to tell the massage therapist if the pressure is too hard. But they are great at finding all your knots. When they massage those, I refer to it as a “good hurt”. You’ll find you sleep better too!

  • @laurieforan448
    @laurieforan448 8 місяців тому +3

    You are an incredible Dad, don’t you ever doubt that! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @debraharding8007
    @debraharding8007 8 місяців тому +3

    You are a fabulous dad to those 2 great kiddos!!!

  • @laurieforan448
    @laurieforan448 8 місяців тому +4

    Winnie has so much of Jenny, so beautiful! 💜. You’re doing Great!

  • @AmandaRhodus-gk6lf
    @AmandaRhodus-gk6lf 8 місяців тому +2

    Jenny will always be a great mom and friend,wife Jen is your guardian angel she is looking out for you and yours children

  • @irishgirl81498
    @irishgirl81498 8 місяців тому +17

    Self care while grieving is such a good message. I needed that today. I lost my grandma a few months ago and then my boyfriend's grandfather this month. Losing these amazing people is so hard ❤ and edit to say Huckle is so cute, I cannot 😭

  • @donnaloveall9754
    @donnaloveall9754 8 місяців тому +2

    Don’t be ashamed you are doing your very best and we are here for you..❤

  • @jswmjswm6715
    @jswmjswm6715 8 місяців тому +20

    Kyle, I saw the original vlog it was precious and brought tears to my eyes. Winnie was behaving like a well loved, typical child. Obvious to anyone watching the original you had no idea that she was really into her happy dancing❤ & that made it all the more precious. You’re doing great and are a wonderful Father.

  • @bernadettechute7998
    @bernadettechute7998 8 місяців тому +33

    For some reason the scene of you blow drying the kids hair routers to my eyes. So sweet and tender. You are such a good dad.

    • @Nallisn
      @Nallisn 8 місяців тому +2

      Me too. I think it’s because of the beautiful memory it’s making for his kids. Those little acts make them feel safe and loved. Those are the feelings they’ll always remember, even if they don’t remember this specific day

  • @Nancy-ko2zv
    @Nancy-ko2zv 8 місяців тому +7

    Nice to see you back on your own channel Kyle.

    • @HelloNowGirl
      @HelloNowGirl 7 місяців тому +1

      He doesn’t get as many views on here which is why he’s back to Jenny’s channel.

    • @Nancy-ko2zv
      @Nancy-ko2zv 7 місяців тому

      @HelloNowGirl So, he just wants more money? He seemed like a genuine nice guy though.

  • @kim.krauss850
    @kim.krauss850 8 місяців тому +3

    I'm glad you're back posting on your channel.

  • @laurie4944
    @laurie4944 8 місяців тому +2

    Love to you and the whole family ❤️ you are an incredible human being. Keep allowing yourself to grieve and heal.

  • @hawaiipommom.1306
    @hawaiipommom.1306 8 місяців тому +36

    Kyle, please do not feel like an idiot. You’re an amazing dad and we all know you would never do anything to hurt your kids, or anyone else for that matter. ❤

  • @cydtaylor
    @cydtaylor 8 місяців тому +2

    I think you're so sweet, one or two channels it's wonderful to watch you. Thanks for sharing your life with us ❤

  • @JillyBean1968
    @JillyBean1968 8 місяців тому +2

    Sending you love and prayers Kyle. 🙏🏼

  • @KarenMartin-d2j
    @KarenMartin-d2j 8 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful video Kyle, Thank You. THIS Video made me feel better. You are Amazing, as a Daddy, Teacher Grieving Husband 😢Son,❤ Brother In Law Uncle and Human Being ❤... Thank You xx. Oh and i love Groot😂❤

  • @glitzzygem
    @glitzzygem 8 місяців тому +20

    Awwe, you look amazing taking care of your kids, blow drying their hair. You're adorable Kyle ❤

  • @Linnie-mm3gt
    @Linnie-mm3gt 8 місяців тому +15

    Well, I'm Not To Sure What Everyone Else Was Talking About This Video, That You Had To Re- Edit It... I was Also Watching it Late or Early Morning, I Will Say... Your A Great Dad, and You Would not do anything Foul When it comes to Your & Jenny's Babies...
    "I Believe In You, Mr. KYLE ... 🙏
    ❤❤❤...

    • @truthsticks5900
      @truthsticks5900 8 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely., if there was something that might be embarrassing for little Winnie I didn't see it ,but happy if it's been addressed, but this dad is probably the best dad on the planet, so I hope everyone can just be nice

  • @jdjenny
    @jdjenny 8 місяців тому +3

    Kyle you are amazing. I’m so impressed- you are so authentic, genuine and you make the world a better place ❤

  • @Amanda-xu3nm
    @Amanda-xu3nm 7 місяців тому +1

    Hello Kyle,hope this finds u doing well. My name is Amanda I have watched all Jenny's videos and her cancer journey Kyle what a beautiful loving kind soul she was...your children will carry on her legacy...Kyle I lost my father last year,and on Oct 26,2023 my mother was diagnosed with nonhopskin lymphoma stage 4 aggressive.....I then moved to Florida from Michigan to care for her full time...she started her chemo in November 2023 she has 5 treatments the last PET scan showed no more signs of cancer she is now in full remission praise jesus I have decided to stay in Florida to be close to her and watch her she will continue to be monitored by the cancer center int the next coming months to see if it has come back...
    Kyle ,you are an angel you provided jenny with comfort and love and someone to hold on to through out her journey with cancer....GOD BLESS you.... sometimes in life things happen that we don't understand trust in Jesus he has a plan for you and your children...Jenny is with u in your soul,heart and mind. When you look at Winnie Jenny is there....when I grieved the loss of my father I learned that it's a process that only time will heal......Thank you Kyle for being a kind loving human with nothing but good pure intentions...

  • @StopSmelltheRoses
    @StopSmelltheRoses 8 місяців тому +31

    Don't be embarrassed... you're an AMAZING dad!!!

    • @Lyn-px2jv
      @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому

      Are you kidding me? Do you have kids cause maybe if you agree with some of the awful things he's done then do you think you would do that to your children? 😮

  • @debralawler-nt9si
    @debralawler-nt9si 8 місяців тому +4

    Wanted to share this with you about sleeping at night. My sister lost her hubby suddenly. It took her year to sleep in their bed. Therapist said its because she misses him next to her and it was unfair to sleep in that bed. But she said to her the gift is that you will feel him again and he will guide you in your sleep. She talked to me about that and I agreed. So she tried it and made it the first six hours then got up went to the couch. Many weeks went by and finally she slept a full night. She relaxed enough to allow hubby to protect her. just wanted to share

  • @Marci-e4o
    @Marci-e4o 8 місяців тому +15

    Hi Kyle. You’re doing such an awesome job of filming and editing, please don’t be so hard on yourself. We all love you and those precious babies! We all understand filming and editing and being full time Daddy, caregiver, housekeeper etc, etc along with your teaching job, dealing with devastating loss is overwhelming but please don’t worry….you’re doing great!!! We all love you and the kids!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @magamutts5726
    @magamutts5726 8 місяців тому +2

    Haha paid for the I’m going to beat you up massage! Deep tissue massage is great and helps us release a ton of stored emotions. It’s so healthy, I hope you keep going Kyle.

  • @theangendeavor9910
    @theangendeavor9910 8 місяців тому +2

    You are a good person. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Namaste!

  • @bellarose6218
    @bellarose6218 8 місяців тому +32

    Give yourself more credit Kyle. You are doing an amazing job 👏 trust and believe, Jenny is right over your shoulder cheering you on saying "Good Job babe good job!! 👍 ❤

  • @NGD1953
    @NGD1953 8 місяців тому +9

    Thankful for your mom!!! 😃 Bless her heart! She knew you needed some special time for yourself! ❤️ You are blessed to have so many people trying to look out for you!

    • @LinneaSanchez
      @LinneaSanchez 8 місяців тому +2

      I would think that she would be more involved if she cared much.

  • @lollidmemoir_agmatsunaga
    @lollidmemoir_agmatsunaga 8 місяців тому +17

    Watching you blow dry the kid's hair made me teary eyed. Not that I'm sad but that I'm glad to witness such an amazing dad you are. And Jenny definitely is proud of you and knows that you can do it Kyle. Keep it up.. God Bless your family.👍🥰

  • @aybrowning7961
    @aybrowning7961 8 місяців тому +9

    This whole community knows just how much you absolutely LOVE ❤ your kiddos and that's what matters, none of us are perfect. Much love to y'all and thanks so much for sharing, I can only imagine how hard some days must truly be 🙏❤️

  • @deannascott8171
    @deannascott8171 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this important message of grieving. We all do it in different ways. I lost my beautiful mother on 5-22-22. I've never suffered grievance like I have now. I agree with finding things to make you happy and to pour your energy into what makes you feel happy and good. It's okay to be happy and laugh, as we will never forget our loved one we lost.

  • @richardhutchison3123
    @richardhutchison3123 8 місяців тому +18

    Kyle..you are only human. Mistakes happen. I have watched almost all of yours and Jen's videos. Thank you for those precious videos from both of you, God bless you Kyle. I am praying for your family and Miss Flower and Huckle. I love those sweet baby doggies. Love to all of you from Nashville, TN. PS: I love your new camper van. It is super nice and I know you ALL will enjoy it. I wish I had one but dealing with the effects of the chemo from my diagnosis of Acute Myeloid Leukemia has made me almost completely cut my driving to almost zero. I did get laser surgery on my "good" eye and I felt comfortable driving for just a few errands today. I super ENJOY your videos. They are truly a journey through the grief process.

  • @debbiepierce4962
    @debbiepierce4962 8 місяців тому +35

    Be easy on yourself. Mistakes happen. You've got a lot on your plate. But you are doing a great job. Jenny would be proud!❤

  • @Staley046
    @Staley046 8 місяців тому +3

    Kyle you’re juggling so many hats at the moment and we’re all so proud of you!!! Be patient with yourself :)

  • @jdjenny
    @jdjenny 8 місяців тому +3

    I CANT BELIEVE YOU BUILT THAT ENTIRE LEGO THING IN 1 NIGHT 🤗!!! Bravo 🎉

    • @Lyn-px2jv
      @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому

      Get a life this is serious

  • @Secular-Serenity
    @Secular-Serenity 8 місяців тому +14

    Thank goodness we all have each other to help out and have each other’s backs. You’re doing awesome, Kyle.

  • @deborahjordan9688
    @deborahjordan9688 8 місяців тому +12

    Kyle don’t be so hard on yourself it happens you have a lot going on and grieving but glad it was caught early you corrected it we all know you are very protective of your family love and prayers ❤❤❤

  • @debralawler-nt9si
    @debralawler-nt9si 8 місяців тому +19

    Trust me a mama knows when her child is hurting needs a break. Your mom raised an amazing person Kyle. She knows.

  • @savinggrace1110
    @savinggrace1110 8 місяців тому +9

    Dude it happens to literally all of us!!! Do nOT beat yourself up and know you’re doing such an incredible job!!!

  • @PamelaDale-u6u
    @PamelaDale-u6u 8 місяців тому +4

    You are doing such a good job Kyle!! I know it’s hard sometimes ❤

  • @MixedMediaInk
    @MixedMediaInk 8 місяців тому +2

    Such a sweet video to share Kyle. My daughter (3) loves watching your kiddos. Its one of the few things she'll let me watch between her shows/special interests. :)

  • @marciaalmeida4867
    @marciaalmeida4867 8 місяців тому +1

    Good morning glad you took care of ourself. I wish I could do that one day. I'm to watch your videos, you guts are great people thank you. Sending hugs

  • @Chickennoodlesoup4you
    @Chickennoodlesoup4you 8 місяців тому +8

    There are sickos that save that stuff. Better to just leave the kids out if possible.

  • @twinklenow1
    @twinklenow1 8 місяців тому +19

    Not an idiot Kyle. Human. We are here for you. Just like you are there for us!

  • @lilyraiyne9225
    @lilyraiyne9225 8 місяців тому +13

    Aww Kyle, don't beat yourself up. It's good it was taken care of, you're only 1 person and human. We will always make sure if something is not quite right we will tell you. Allow yourself some acceptance and to give yourself some credit, you absolutely deserve it! I am glad you got some "me" time in, it's good for the soul to have that time so you can revamp and continue on. Sweet Jenny 🐞would want you to self care as much as you can!! Sending hugs, love, relaxing vibes and daily prayers, as always!!! Bless your Mom and all of you!!!! 🙏❤

  • @mhughart8299
    @mhughart8299 8 місяців тому +1

    You definitely have to take care of yourself. It’s good you’re going to get a massage. Everyone deserves some pampering!!😊🌸

  • @Krise343
    @Krise343 8 місяців тому +30

    I’m helping to raise my three year old special needs granddaughter. They keep you on high alert, for sure! Don’t feel embarrassed- It’s all a learning process. Love you, Kyle.

  • @tkladis9172
    @tkladis9172 8 місяців тому +14

    Kyle you’re doing amazing! Give yourself credit, and don’t even apologize for not being on this channel for awhile. I had a deep tissue massage and I felt it for days afterwards. Enjoy! Take more time for yourself ! Let everything go… who cares ! Cleaning the house and getting rid of stuff will happen over time. Focus on your family and YOU!

  • @heathersiegler6837
    @heathersiegler6837 8 місяців тому +23

    Now that I'm watching the entire video I have to say you have such an ability to make me cry as equally as you can make me laugh! What a blessing you are.

  • @Teddypup08
    @Teddypup08 8 місяців тому +4

    "I'm going to beat you up massages" must be a best-seller! LOL. You are so funny! Doesn't sound too relaxing to me. :)

    • @Lyn-px2jv
      @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому

      He's boring as hell and a total liar ( allegedly) and we are pressing forward

    • @Lyn-px2jv
      @Lyn-px2jv 4 місяці тому

      Of course pressing forward with lego media for kyledashion and daughter in front of casket. TOTALLY NOT OK

  • @susanzeller8887
    @susanzeller8887 4 місяці тому

    I think this guy loves himself and now everything is going to be all about him!!!

  • @CindiIvancic
    @CindiIvancic 8 місяців тому +2

    Good for you!!! You so deserve it!

  • @judedimatteo8942
    @judedimatteo8942 8 місяців тому +1

    God gave you Jenny and God gave you two precious beautiful children that are going to grow up and be something really special

  • @TracyGilmeister
    @TracyGilmeister 8 місяців тому +7

    Kyle, don't be hard on yourself, things can happen. You are trying so hard to be so much to your family, work and kids, your channel and editing etc.. You've mentioned having trouble sleeping and being sleep deprived and trying to edit and all when exhausted is hard. All know how much you love and care for your children, so give yourself grace. You're a great dad. Glad you are getting the massage, good to help with knotted up muscles from stress. You need to take care of yourself too, so glad you are doing that. You said you didn't know what kind of massage, might have been deep tissue, which is painful, but releases deep knots. Drink lots of water after your massages you get, it releases toxins I've heard so water is huge after massages. Love seeing you take care of your children, drying their hair and the soft piano music. Day in the life stuff you post is great too.

  • @SM78..
    @SM78.. 8 місяців тому +11

    I would have loved to have had a Dad like you. As I watch you blow drying Winnie’s hair I can’t help but to be filled with such Joy ❤ You are a wonderful person and Dad Kyle.

  • @gettinsumsunmld
    @gettinsumsunmld 8 місяців тому +9

    Don’t beat yourself up about this Kyle. You didn’t do it on purpose of course. You are still learning this whole UA-cam thing. Keep going Kyle💕

  • @leslielvs5113
    @leslielvs5113 8 місяців тому +18

    It's good to know you read your comments! Love you guys, no matter what. You are doing the best you can & are amazing. ❤

  • @pmelaglover9913
    @pmelaglover9913 8 місяців тому +2

    I really enjoyed this video ! Winnie is so precious!!💓Ellis is so kind and a handsome gentleman!! I love seeing them laugh !! Kyle I am proud of you. Jenny is proud of you.May God continue to give you unsurpassable strength and peace. What a wonderful dad ,son and friend to so many you are. ❤️💝💙💓🙏

  • @mjohnson8472
    @mjohnson8472 8 місяців тому +14

    I just started to watch the video yesterday and went back to finish it earlier and couldn't find it again. I thought UA-cam deleted it for some reason. We all make mistakes Kyle but I'm glad you read your comments and saw that and rectified it.

    • @kathybuis4368
      @kathybuis4368 8 місяців тому +3

      I saw it in my feed and went to watch it about 10 min later and it was gone.

    • @entronetcalitz6567
      @entronetcalitz6567 8 місяців тому

      What was it?

  • @heatherlanghoff7550
    @heatherlanghoff7550 8 місяців тому +2

    Legos are the best! My son loved/still loves them, so I would get just as excited to find a cool set. I am sure I have spent a small fortune on legos, but I don't regret it. The happiness and excitement it brought to our lives was well worth it. Basically, I'm saying where you find joy, embrace it. Your family deserves joy, especially right now.

  • @toniavasseur9574
    @toniavasseur9574 8 місяців тому

    Kyle‘s looking a lot better. i’m so proud of him for getting a camper and having fun with his kids and having a good life this is what he needs.So proud of you Winnie Ellis

  • @ivyhettrick451
    @ivyhettrick451 8 місяців тому +5

    You don’t need to apologize. You are a good person. Jenny is smiling watching all the things you are doing. She will always be with you.❤

  • @gloworm1822
    @gloworm1822 8 місяців тому +7

    You feel like Family. Wishing you Blessings and Encouragement. You are amazing.

  • @whiskeyrivers
    @whiskeyrivers 8 місяців тому +11

    You are an amazing dad. Do not be embarrassed!!!! We all love you and your family!

  • @vickeybardo3807
    @vickeybardo3807 8 місяців тому +1

    Your amazing and a great father and you have been through so much were all human

  • @kremmiz1
    @kremmiz1 8 місяців тому +1

    Listen. Family vlogging is so freaking tricky. You don’t want to focus on the kids so much that they are exploited or anything like that. However, kids are part of life and early parenthood. Especially young children dealing with such a monumental loss. It’s a tricky balance. Yeah, you may show too much occasionally and then you pivot (PIVOT!), but you live and learn. You’re doing the best you can and it’s far better than I think I could, and I have a decade on you. Keep sharing. It’s helping all of us. ❤❤❤

  • @jillep4668
    @jillep4668 8 місяців тому +10

    Please don't be hard on yourself.. We all miss things..
    Your the best Dad and you care so much about your children.. Nice to see your doing your on UA-cam again 😊

    • @kyleapple9702
      @kyleapple9702  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much

    • @kimh207
      @kimh207 8 місяців тому +1

      You're doing great Kyle you're the best the way you talk to your children is so heartwarming ❤ big hugs to you ❤

  • @Somewhereincol
    @Somewhereincol 8 місяців тому +5

    Great to see you again Kyle. What I'm wondering is, is Jenny's parents doing okay? I haven't heard you speak about them in quite awhile, I pray they are good. Lots and lots of love n air hugs from Texas ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @melissaw1813
    @melissaw1813 8 місяців тому +1

    Doing legos and puzzles are so calming! Helps turn off the brain.

  • @glitzzygem
    @glitzzygem 8 місяців тому +9

    Yes, 💯 pour your energy into something that makes you happy and surround yourself with positive people.

  • @tetra3ne56scur3
    @tetra3ne56scur3 7 місяців тому

    Hi Kyle I’m glad that your are finding closure and doing well.