My realization about being an empath and an infj was unreal. The way I discovered it through dating a narcissist and the way all the puzzle pieces connect and how I can see everything about myself and them and unpacking all my baggage not from just her but from what it did for my entire life
I was married to a Narc for 13 years. The discard happened on `our` wedding anniversary. The venue she chose was the same, where we had photos taken for the pre-wedding. During our marriage, I was damaged emotionally and developed chronic diseases. After the discard and through the knowledge gained about NPD, I gradually adapted to a free life, nursing my health back and improving myself. I was a child from a narcissistic background and was abused by family peers which later extended to bullying at school.
I'm so sorry to hear about your difficult journey, but it's truly inspiring how you've taken steps to reclaim your life and focus on healing. Recognizing the patterns from your past and gaining knowledge about NPD is such a powerful tool for recovery. Your strength in overcoming these challenges shows incredible resilience, and I hope your story encourages others to seek their own path to freedom and health. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I just got divorced from my narcissistic husband after 26 years. I can't believe it took me that long to see what he was doing to me. I'm glad he discarded me because it was quick . I'm healing good and plan to continue to heal. It gets better with time and prayer.
I'm glad to hear you're on the path to healing, even if it's painful. Remember, progress takes time, and it's okay to feel those emotions. You're doing great!
Its been 2 yrs since i walked away, it has been hard but getn their slowly. They still hoover but i dont respond i delete & block. Im still healing some days have been hard but other days i feel my happiness is coming back. Living in peace has been a blessing.
Thank you for sharing your journey! It’s inspiring to hear how you're prioritizing your healing and finding peace. Remember, every step forward is a victory, and your strength shines through in your progress. Keep moving towards that happiness!
I'd like to add one more thing. Had my brother treated the 2 Grecias as he sees me, disrespectfully, even with contempt, I believe I would have parted from him long ago. However, because he split me into the worthwhile and the failure, I must have stayed in the toxic relationship because he didn't see me as someone altogether unworthy. And so I hung on. Being happy to get a few crumbs of admiration and acceptance. Recently, I was making a choice of paintings for a fellowship, and he volunteered to photograph the work. At some point, he stopped and began to look at the work as if he hadn't really noticed its true merit before. Seeing this, I grasped the moment and asked him what he thought because his facial expressions betrayed him by liking it. All of a sudden, he became uncomfortable. Almost angry. It was as if he had been caught naked, embarrassed, without one stitch to cover him. And then he said, "Look, I'm here to take pictures. Appreciate the effort." But to this, I answered, "But no one asked you to take them. You volunteered." To which he said, "Let's finish this. I haven't the time to wait." The look in his eyes of surprise, even amazement at my work, at which I had caught him, told me much more than ever he had through words. I treasure that moment. Even if he is far more wicked and cruel most times, for I had for a moment seen the natural person in him. I felt far more satisfaction for him than I did for him. And even sorrow did I feel for how he was wasting a whole of a life. Please excuse me for writing so much. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing such a profound experience. It’s powerful to recognize those moments of clarity, even amidst a toxic relationship. Your ability to see both the artist within yourself and the complexity of your brother’s nature is a testament to your strength. It’s heartbreaking to witness someone waste their potential, but it sounds like you’re finding your own worth and satisfaction in your art. Keep embracing your journey, and don’t hesitate to express yourself fully!
May allah have mercy upon u and save u from any ill intentions towards u amen amen try pray put head on the ground all the pain will go and u will come back strong. focus on future and present the bright side of everything.
I'm really sorry to hear that; it's exhausting to deal with someone who takes so much energy from you. Recognizing that is a crucial step toward reclaiming your strength. Focus on healing and surrounding yourself with positive influences!
Thank you narrator. You my dear have helped me overcome my trauma bond by uncovering the truth of the narcissistic devil I fell in love with. Apparently, I understand the scenario I got involved in only to figure out what and who I am dealing with. Yes, I became the enabler unknowing by supplying this narcissistic devil. He cohabitation with another narcissistic female devil, who works for DHS. I am not surprised now. They both were in the army and that's how they started a romantic relationship, lived in a 1 bedroom town home, which is inherited by the female narcissistic partner, he decided to live with her, cheating on her, even with me. I bet she does the same to him. Not that I care anymore. From what he told me at one time, he has been with her for 13 years and now refers to her as his sister. I had my suspicions that he is obviously lying to me because two opposite partners do get temptations at times, when they are lonely. He sleep on the couch down stairs with a half restroom and she has her own bedroom with a full bath upstairs. I know she did not like me coming over to see him, that is only because he would invite me over. I would wonder why she did not come downstairs to confront me or intimidate me. I could hear her foot steps upstairs and I would ask him, is your roommate home. He would say, ya, she is doing work on her computer. I asked him if he ever felt any intimacy towards her and he said with a disgusting look on his face, no. The messed up part is I along believed him. I gradually understood the co relationship they had for each other, just like the story in Bonney and Klyed. She works for the Department of Human Services and got him enrolled disability benefits. I do not want to be apart of this scam and trangulation. I totally get the truth now after listening to this video. OMG, I did not know that such toxic situation exist. Bless your heart and soul narrator, you just enlighten me to save my soul from this narcissistic toxic web of lies and deception. 💯🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
Thank you for sharing your journey so openly. It’s incredible to hear how you’ve gained clarity and strength in recognizing the toxic dynamics at play. Understanding these patterns is a crucial step toward healing and reclaiming your life. I’m so glad the video has helped you find your way-blessings to you on your path to freedom and empowerment! 💖🙏
I am a child of a narcissist my father died 7 years ago then the debil sent the one i married they are evil and wicked i discarded him threw him into the street went no contact
I'm really sorry to hear about your experiences. It takes a lot of strength to break free from toxic relationships, and I'm glad you found the courage to go no contact. Your well-being is so important, and I hope you continue to find healing and peace. Take care! 💖
It’s interesting how the past can have a way of catching up with them! Many narcissists struggle with the consequences of their actions, and financial responsibilities can be a real wake-up call. It’s a reminder that their behavior often has lasting impacts. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
My narcissistic brother, whom I have made an ex-sibling, always split me apart into 2 persons. Grecia, the "hot mess" (his own words), and Grecia, the artist he admired, would speak to others with pride. The other Grecia only received offenses, put-downs, and criticism from him that made me be called "stupider" than what he thought I could be. However, I do not understand, and perhaps you can help me. What led him, what made me become 2 people in his eyes? Because he admired and praised the artist in me, it took a long time to break away from him and his notion that I had no way to win his admiration as a plain person. So, my question is, what did he expect from me as One while being split into 2? If he disliked me so much as someone he thought was inferior to him, what made him respect me as the artist he spoke to friends about how fine an artist I was? Never did I doubt he held me in high esteem as an artist. I've just not comprehended how he decided to split me into 2. It doesn't make sense. Please provide a clue. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience; it sounds incredibly complex and painful. Narcissists often create these splits to maintain control and manipulate their relationships. They may admire certain qualities in others while simultaneously devaluing them to reinforce their own self-worth. Your brother likely struggled with his own insecurities, projecting them onto you. This duality can be confusing, but it reflects his inability to see you as a whole person. Remember, your worth as an artist and as an individual is not defined by his perception. Focus on embracing all aspects of yourself!
@@NarcPedia, I believe you are right. He has transferred his insecurities onto me. And because he is too weak and cowardly, he has insisted that I accept them and wear them as if they had always been mine. However, Miss, I have depended on art being my saviour since I was very little. Art has become my strength, which I keep and defend as a warrior. My brother, knowing this, resents me and will punish me for it. But he is not strong enough to succeed. However, he is aware enough that he'll not defeat me or destroy me. Even he recognizes what a tower of strength and a loyal sanctuary art has been for me. Even he knows his limitations when he deals with the artist in me. I am devoted to my work. And that is mainly what provides for my survival. Thank you Miss. I enjoy your videos. I find strength and support through them. And for this, I am grateful.🤍
@@NarcPedia Miss, may I tell you of an incident in which I have some pride? My mother, who never really liked who I am (That is because I've never been the daughter she would have wanted to have), told me this story; I was born with a defect in my intestines, and at the age of 4, I was first operated for it. I don't remember this, but my mother told me that I asked her for a pencil and paper when I was back in my room from the operating table. She told me I had said to hurry about this since I wanted to draw the doctor's faces looking down on me. All I remember of this point is that I continued to draw. So here I am today, a devoted artist. I am proud my mother was impressed with me at such a tender age, if only for that one time. It's made me feel, you see, that I had not always remained a stray, wayward daughter who could only disappoint with her presence. Thank you.🤍
He doesn't like to leave me a lone , he said i will look for you for 100years i will never forget you do you think he can do that , our relationship ended before it started. he send me so many love messages , all the people around me doesn't his behavior and he he put hi photos on my page he drive me crazy sometimes
It sounds like you're dealing with a really intense situation, and that can be incredibly overwhelming. Narcissists often struggle to let go, using love messages and attention to keep you hooked. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries. Trust your instincts, and remember that your peace of mind comes first. Stay strong!
That’s so true. it’s a common tactic to manipulate and control. It’s important to recognize this behavior and not let it define your worth. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness!
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My realization about being an empath and an infj was unreal. The way I discovered it through dating a narcissist and the way all the puzzle pieces connect and how I can see everything about myself and them and unpacking all my baggage not from just her but from what it did for my entire life
I was married to a Narc for 13 years. The discard happened on `our` wedding anniversary. The venue she chose was the same, where we had photos taken for the pre-wedding. During our marriage, I was damaged emotionally and developed chronic diseases. After the discard and through the knowledge gained about NPD, I gradually adapted to a free life, nursing my health back and improving myself. I was a child from a narcissistic background and was abused by family peers which later extended to bullying at school.
I'm so sorry to hear about your difficult journey, but it's truly inspiring how you've taken steps to reclaim your life and focus on healing. Recognizing the patterns from your past and gaining knowledge about NPD is such a powerful tool for recovery. Your strength in overcoming these challenges shows incredible resilience, and I hope your story encourages others to seek their own path to freedom and health. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I just got divorced from my narcissistic husband after 26 years. I can't believe it took me that long to see what he was doing to me. I'm glad he discarded me because it was quick . I'm healing good and plan to continue to heal. It gets better with time and prayer.
It hurts but I am healing.
I'm glad to hear you're on the path to healing, even if it's painful. Remember, progress takes time, and it's okay to feel those emotions. You're doing great!
Its been 2 yrs since i walked away, it has been hard but getn their slowly. They still hoover but i dont respond i delete & block.
Im still healing some days have been hard but other days i feel my happiness is coming back.
Living in peace has been a blessing.
Thank you for sharing your journey! It’s inspiring to hear how you're prioritizing your healing and finding peace. Remember, every step forward is a victory, and your strength shines through in your progress. Keep moving towards that happiness!
@@NarcPedia ❤️
I'd like to add one more thing. Had my brother treated the 2 Grecias as he sees me, disrespectfully, even with contempt, I believe I would have parted from him long ago. However, because he split me into the worthwhile and the failure, I must have stayed in the toxic relationship because he didn't see me as someone altogether unworthy. And so I hung on. Being happy to get a few crumbs of admiration and acceptance. Recently, I was making a choice of paintings for a fellowship, and he volunteered to photograph the work. At some point, he stopped and began to look at the work as if he hadn't really noticed its true merit before. Seeing this, I grasped the moment and asked him what he thought because his facial expressions betrayed him by liking it. All of a sudden, he became uncomfortable. Almost angry. It was as if he had been caught naked, embarrassed, without one stitch to cover him. And then he said, "Look, I'm here to take pictures. Appreciate the effort." But to this, I answered, "But no one asked you to take them. You volunteered." To which he said, "Let's finish this. I haven't the time to wait." The look in his eyes of surprise, even amazement at my work, at which I had caught him, told me much more than ever he had through words. I treasure that moment. Even if he is far more wicked and cruel most times, for I had for a moment seen the natural person in him. I felt far more satisfaction for him than I did for him. And even sorrow did I feel for how he was wasting a whole of a life. Please excuse me for writing so much. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing such a profound experience. It’s powerful to recognize those moments of clarity, even amidst a toxic relationship. Your ability to see both the artist within yourself and the complexity of your brother’s nature is a testament to your strength. It’s heartbreaking to witness someone waste their potential, but it sounds like you’re finding your own worth and satisfaction in your art. Keep embracing your journey, and don’t hesitate to express yourself fully!
@@NarcPedia Thank you so much! I'm significantly appreciative of your words. Please, do believe me!!!🙏and❤🔥
Do you know this, Miss, so that it makes a difference? I would not have said as much if you had not asked for it.❤🔥
He drain me like a vampire
May allah have mercy upon u and save u from any ill intentions towards u amen amen try pray put head on the ground all the pain will go and u will come back strong. focus on future and present the bright side of everything.
Energy vampires and they can kill you by draining life force
I'm really sorry to hear that; it's exhausting to deal with someone who takes so much energy from you. Recognizing that is a crucial step toward reclaiming your strength. Focus on healing and surrounding yourself with positive influences!
Thank you narrator. You my dear have helped me overcome my trauma bond by uncovering the truth of the narcissistic devil I fell in love with. Apparently, I understand the scenario I got involved in only to figure out what and who I am dealing with. Yes, I became the enabler unknowing by supplying this narcissistic devil. He cohabitation with another narcissistic female devil, who works for DHS. I am not surprised now. They both were in the army and that's how they started a romantic relationship, lived in a 1 bedroom town home, which is inherited by the female narcissistic partner, he decided to live with her, cheating on her, even with me. I bet she does the same to him. Not that I care anymore. From what he told me at one time, he has been with her for 13 years and now refers to her as his sister. I had my suspicions that he is obviously lying to me because two opposite partners do get temptations at times, when they are lonely. He sleep on the couch down stairs with a half restroom and she has her own bedroom with a full
bath upstairs. I know she did not like me coming over to see him, that is only because he would invite me over. I would wonder why she did not come downstairs to confront me or intimidate me. I could hear her foot steps upstairs and I would ask him, is your roommate home. He would say, ya, she is doing work on her computer.
I asked him if he ever felt any intimacy towards her and he said with a disgusting look on his face, no. The messed up part is I along believed him. I gradually understood the co relationship they had for each other, just like the story in Bonney
and Klyed. She works for the Department of Human Services and got him enrolled disability benefits. I do not want to be apart of this scam and trangulation. I totally get the truth now after listening to this video. OMG, I did not know that such toxic situation exist. Bless your heart and soul narrator, you just enlighten me to save my soul from this narcissistic toxic web of lies and deception. 💯🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
Thank you for sharing your journey so openly. It’s incredible to hear how you’ve gained clarity and strength in recognizing the toxic dynamics at play. Understanding these patterns is a crucial step toward healing and reclaiming your life. I’m so glad the video has helped you find your way-blessings to you on your path to freedom and empowerment! 💖🙏
Excellent❤
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
Great video thanks 🪷💛
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed the video!
I am a child of a narcissist my father died 7 years ago then the debil sent the one i married they are evil and wicked i discarded him threw him into the street went no contact
I'm really sorry to hear about your experiences. It takes a lot of strength to break free from toxic relationships, and I'm glad you found the courage to go no contact. Your well-being is so important, and I hope you continue to find healing and peace. Take care! 💖
Their past supply haunts them for child support
It’s interesting how the past can have a way of catching up with them! Many narcissists struggle with the consequences of their actions, and financial responsibilities can be a real wake-up call. It’s a reminder that their behavior often has lasting impacts. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Yep that's what I'm doing I guess. Haunting him 😂🎉
My narcissistic brother, whom I have made an ex-sibling, always split me apart into 2 persons. Grecia, the "hot mess" (his own words), and Grecia, the artist he admired, would speak to others with pride. The other Grecia only received offenses, put-downs, and criticism from him that made me be called "stupider" than what he thought I could be. However, I do not understand, and perhaps you can help me. What led him, what made me become 2 people in his eyes? Because he admired and praised the artist in me, it took a long time to break away from him and his notion that I had no way to win his admiration as a plain person. So, my question is, what did he expect from me as One while being split into 2? If he disliked me so much as someone he thought was inferior to him, what made him respect me as the artist he spoke to friends about how fine an artist I was? Never did I doubt he held me in high esteem as an artist. I've just not comprehended how he decided to split me into 2. It doesn't make sense. Please provide a clue. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience; it sounds incredibly complex and painful. Narcissists often create these splits to maintain control and manipulate their relationships. They may admire certain qualities in others while simultaneously devaluing them to reinforce their own self-worth. Your brother likely struggled with his own insecurities, projecting them onto you. This duality can be confusing, but it reflects his inability to see you as a whole person. Remember, your worth as an artist and as an individual is not defined by his perception. Focus on embracing all aspects of yourself!
@@NarcPedia, I believe you are right. He has transferred his insecurities onto me. And because he is too weak and cowardly, he has insisted that I accept them and wear them as if they had always been mine. However, Miss, I have depended on art being my saviour since I was very little. Art has become my strength, which I keep and defend as a warrior. My brother, knowing this, resents me and will punish me for it. But he is not strong enough to succeed. However, he is aware enough that he'll not defeat me or destroy me. Even he recognizes what a tower of strength and a loyal sanctuary art has been for me. Even he knows his limitations when he deals with the artist in me. I am devoted to my work. And that is mainly what provides for my survival. Thank you Miss. I enjoy your videos. I find strength and support through them. And for this, I am grateful.🤍
@@NarcPedia Miss, may I tell you of an incident in which I have some pride? My mother, who never really liked who I am (That is because I've never been the daughter she would have wanted to have), told me this story; I was born with a defect in my intestines, and at the age of 4, I was first operated for it. I don't remember this, but my mother told me that I asked her for a pencil and paper when I was back in my room from the operating table. She told me I had said to hurry about this since I wanted to draw the doctor's faces looking down on me. All I remember of this point is that I continued to draw. So here I am today, a devoted artist. I am proud my mother was impressed with me at such a tender age, if only for that one time. It's made me feel, you see, that I had not always remained a stray, wayward daughter who could only disappoint with her presence. Thank you.🤍
He doesn't like to leave me a lone , he said i will look for you for 100years i will never forget you do you think he can do that , our relationship ended before it started. he send me so many love messages , all the people around me doesn't his behavior and he he put hi photos on my page he drive me crazy sometimes
It sounds like you're dealing with a really intense situation, and that can be incredibly overwhelming. Narcissists often struggle to let go, using love messages and attention to keep you hooked. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries. Trust your instincts, and remember that your peace of mind comes first. Stay strong!
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Thank you for the love! ❤️
But they always throw you pass up in your face to hurt you😮
That’s so true. it’s a common tactic to manipulate and control. It’s important to recognize this behavior and not let it define your worth. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness!