Multicultural Couples Debate On Raising Their Children | 2 Cultures, 1 Couple
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
- Couples with different cultural backgrounds discuss their children and how they choose to raise them, while navigating discipline, education, and social media. Love & Hip Hop’s DJ Drewski and Sky Landish weigh in on how they plan to raise their future children.
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The couple that said their son would tell everyone that “he’s black and Chinese” awewwwwww so cute! And how proud he’s being both 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Until he gets to china and experiences the hate, We're getting right now.
Sahiry Gnobehi Right lmaooo
Sahiry Gnobehi then he’s told to choose by Americans and only seen as black.
M Bailey facts they trying to not only confuse the black community they also trying to erase us as well. Being black is having a strong black heritage, meaning either being fully black or majority black. If they ain’t those two things they ain’t black.
Lol these white media outlets trying so convince black people that they're black. Now it's... multicultural, and yet it's just a bunch of black interracial couples 😂 It's amazing how important deconstructing black identity is to America
I think people are confused between races and ethnicity/nationality
Well no, this is not a commentary on interracial couples. Its about INTER-CULTURAL couples. So both parents can be the same race (the two dads) but have different cultures.... I also think the captions that said "Jamaican and black," were referring to Jamaican and black AMERICAN culture, bc they are different. The caption wasn't dealing with race.
@@anonmon8550 That would make sense if for the other people they didn't already say "African-American" which is the culture you're talking about. "Black" is not "black AMERICAN culture." Black is a race.
Melissa Campbell facts
Facts like people will say for example “ she’s not white she’s Italian” I’m like what?
I’m sorry to say but Americans really don’t know race that well they are always so confused ..it’s really not that hard but they make it such a complicated thing...🤦♀️
Just in case people are confused, black men or women are under NO obligation to date, marry or reproduce inside of their race. however, you should find someone who, regardless of race or ethnicity, respects and and is willing to understand you and your culture. Thank you for listening to my TED talk
Ted talks
@@kairom9208 I disagree with you. I am a BW married to a Puerto Rican man. I have nothing against BM. I fell in love with a man that treats me better than I even wanted. People who down their race while dating another race have other issues going on.
Wow didn’t know that
@@adjoaaj7593 you are something else 😂😂😂
the obligation is a natural one rather than a social one. It is to REPRODUCE ONESELF, preserve your race and culture. Realistically speaking that is all living being's common purpose.
Sis had me dead. “ I went to Yale, he can go to Harvard if he wants to”
Forreaaaall💀💀
Loved her energy!
Levels 😂😂😂
Lmao She wants him at Yale.
@@ne_yil824 :)
The black and Chinese couple are the MOST mature about this topic
Obviously they are older that's pure logic
They have a 5 year old, I'd expect that from them
@@sunnyspoumaroux607 Age means nothing. When you've worked with enough people you come to realise that.
@@kal7974 yeah for sure but when you compare a young couple with an old one I could bet that the most mature are those with the most experience in life
They look weird but educated
praying for kayden, being a trans man who is also pregnant and from the south is a dangerous, dangerous thing. i pray the pregnancy goes easy and safely, and the delivery is just the same. i hope he has a big support system that protects him, his partner and baby. sending my love!!!
youareirrelevant1 Amen!!
Eww . that is fked up. MEN CANT HAVE BABIES. SO IF YOU WANT TO BE SEEN AS A MAN FOR REAL THEM YOU SHOULDVE GOT PREGNANT FIRST THEN CONTINUED TO TRANSITION. I PRAY THAT YOU HAVE A WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE . I PRAY YOU DNT TAKE ANY PICTURES OF YOU AS A MAN AND BEING PREGNANT LET YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE( HOPEFULLY TRANS FEMALE) TAKE THOSE PICTURES YOU CAN BY THE BABY BUMP TO SIMULATE THE PREGNANCY FOR HER YOU CAN SAY YOU JUST GAINED THE WEIGHT WITH HER FOR SYMPATHY. DON'T HAVE CHILDREN THINKING MEN CAN BIOLOGICALLY HAVE BABIES WITHOUT A WOMEN ITS NOT TRUE EVER.1
Kaleah Collins who hurt you why are you so mad lol
Kaleah Collins stfu
Alanna right, imagine being so angry at other people for living their lives.
The black and Chinese couple
Are very intelligent and articulate!
How? You barely heard the man speak...so irritating 😤
@@VivianFlowers1 shes a bot shes the type to hate on the white man even tho he never said nothing bad i swear these ppl are brainwashed
Their blackanese children will have strength and height of black people and intelligence and work-ethic of the Chinese with some martial art skills ofc. 😉😁
Subash Grg or he has the intelligence of both the black and chinese parents
I just like that she called her kid a 'blasian'
Sky needs to be careful laughing off all drew's sly comments. You may know he means well but there's a distinct lack of understanding there. Your children may internalise these small remarks and low key self hate cause they know their dad think they're "ghetto"
That's a good point. These comments, even said jokingly, can confuse children. They need to talk about it and be more aware.
Maya-Louise Mcpherson exactly it’s deeper than that
Sky is biracial and her father is white so who knows maybe she seen her mom laughing certain comments off growing up 🍵
Destiny1994ish that’s a possibility
Yooo I’m of mixed heritage myself and can honestly say sky needs to wake up there was loads of red flags in that conversation 🚩 🚮
Dating a man who finds the birthing experience “yucky”, is just not one of my life goals.
L. Right, his immaturity is a big turn off.
L. Mybe it’s just the words that not good but I think once it happens he will fill different
Lol, but it is yucky and I'm still grossed out after giving birth 5 months ago...
I had a baby and my views of birth is yucky to me🤷🏽♀️
i feel like u just hate white men nothing he said was bad and yucky is a totally normal response
As a little black girl who has grown up in the public school system, I’m proud to say that I have been accepted to Brown University. You don’t have to go to a private school to succeed
Congrats!!!! Go knock em dead girl!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Victoria C thank you!!
congrats!!!!! what are u majoring in?
Congratulations Morgan. Keep winning and shinning.
Elizabeth Timothy thank you!!
This grown man is calling child birth "yucky."
And yes, "stepping up" is what a midwife is for!
or, he can want his child to be born in a hospital where there is more than a midwife, where doctors and the proper tools and medication are available. Everyone just wants to hate on him for no reason when he's literally just worried about how it could go at home.
Elisa Idir FINALLY SOMEONE WHO IS SMART AND HAS A BRAIN!THANKS👏👏👏
Elisa Idir you know black birth more dangerous for bw
Leah Costik yeah I wasn’t feeling that dude at all. He’s super immature and then finished off with equating their future child embracing Jamaican culture to “dutty whining presents daggering”. Like seriously? That’s super offensive. Why even be with a Jamaican if you don’t respect her culture?
francesca victoria or he could respect the profession of a midwife that is fully capable and has the proper tools to handle child birth as well. I’m a nurse and it’s getting super old that people like to act like the hospital is the end all be all to your healthcare solutions. It’s merely an avenue, not the only option.
Drewski really rubs me the wrong way. Sky really needs to be careful what kind of negative talk she entertains about black culture with her white fiance.
Yes I feel you.
She needs to check him
AGREEEEDDDDD
Big agree from me He is a DJ for Hot 97 and lhh New York since Drewski was on the franchise he rubs me the wrong way now he needs to checked and Sky thinks every view is right while Drewski think he is smart NO sir you notm
She thinks she is above black people, clearly
Engaged for 3 yrs? Sis your engagement was a whole big thing on national tv
I think the reason why they aren’t distinguishing race and nationality is because they are referring to cultural aspects. Dominicans, Jamaicans and african American might share same race, they have different cultures and this video is about raising kids with different cultures after all
Americans dont get it lol...
they just get mad instead of realizing culture mean alot to us
Mike Ike tbh it’s not really that much of a difference in culture all of them come from African culture you’d be surprised how similar we all are culture wise
@@DeaDAss-gi6vp yeah! I just take it they never traveled outside of United States ... I feel like they want to lump all of us together
@@lalanaturale
You're wrong.
@@lalanaturale I'd have to disagree, there may be similarities but they are very different in a lot of ways...each has it's own culture that their people are very proud of.
Ugh I don’t know how Sky does it with Drewsky. He’s so ignorant and degrading
That's what she chose at of all the men out there?? 👀 Not our business. 💅🏿
He's prolly just worried
The Truth right. It just makes me cringe to hear him speak. Especially after he told her he took her out of the ghetto!! I would’ve been like boy bye. What ghetto?! Everybody black isn’t from the ghetto!!! Her mom is a damn nurse. He need to put some respect on her name!
Belize Boy D exactly. Idk how she can deal
She probably hates her black side which is why his comments dont outwardly bother her
Dru and Sky Man they've been together forever.She is too pretty for that nonsense.
She is delusional no way I would’ve had kids by him he is a WS period she doesn’t know her history or worth authentically.
@Belize Boy D Nothing wrong with her loving a white man, but this particular white man rubs me the wrong way lmao. I don't like him at all!
@@ninethreefivesix exactly
Oh for sure
Brit'nee Supernal they’ve been engaged for like 63783838 years
"He can go to Harvard if he wants to"
ENERGYYY
Victoria Okonkwo Pffft
They said multicultural couples, your nationality, ethnicity, and race play into what culture you have. Dominicans and African Americans can have drastically different cultures. So yeah they’re nationalities and ethnicities are going to be displayed to give a deeper understanding of their cultural differences
Joyce Iturbide Not necessarily. My dad’s Afro-Guatemalan and my mom is Afro-West Indian(Grenadian/Trinidadian.) They had the same outlook on raising me. The only difference between them was the language.
I like this comment. Issa fact. I’m South African but if I had a kid with a Kenyan even though we both black our outlook would be hella different
Andycalimara “afro Guatemalan”
cellophaneboy What? My dad is a Black man from Guatemala. What’s your point?
Kem 123 In extrinsic aspects, yes. But in intrinsic aspects...they have a lot in common.
I was looking for a comment to mention the kneeling in rice comment, didn't find one.Making your child kneel in rice is wrong inappropriate and is abuse.
A child had to have pieces surgically removed from his knees after being forced to kneel for hours. Also the psychological impact on a child is not healthy. There are better ways to discipline your child. Just because your parents did it to you and you turned out okay, dosent make it right.
That’s definitely abusive
Kiara Samuel i swear there was a law and order episode about this 🤔
My mom got that life was just telling me abt it the other day! She didn’t raise me like that though, respect and discipline was BIG in our house but she did it a different way God bless her 💕💕💕
Cosma 11 I knelt too, but they are talking about kneeling on rice, unless you knelt on rice
Angela I knelt on pea...At school! 25 years ago it was a form of disciplining kids in many European countries and nobody at that time considered that abusive. Now we know better. Standards have changed. But what I know for sure is that I would never punish my child like that.
If you are in a mixed relationship and you have a child and you don't make sure they have the best of both sides to their culture then don't have babies end of story don't put confusion and potential hate for one side over the next
Chantelle Tucker say this again!
Lol pure fantasy. There is no best of both worlds. It's not a coincidence that this "multicultural" video is in realty just a bunch of black ir couples. when it comes to interracial, the only thing that matters is the black part.
Nobody cares about that. As we speak married men are impregnating mistresses of all ethnicities out here in the real world. Nobody puts thought into having children. Teenagers all over the world are pregnant right now who don't even know the daddy they met at the club. It would be nice to love in a world where people thought before having unprotected sex but that world does not and will never exist.
I literally liked everyone else except Drew. He’s subtly racist and a jerk.
He was HUGELY inappropriate and he doesn't even know why and how. Ridiculous.
@Nathan Glen he was making very sly comments, that’s why you don’t quite understand. He was racist it just wasn’t clear because of the way he said things. He was being rude but trying to not make it obvious but people can pick up what he was trying to say.
Nathan Glen Are you insinuating that black people don’t know how to parent? Also, why do black people or any person of color have to listen to white people in regards to parenting? Because they clearly don’t have all of the answers either. We can take care of the children in our own communities. We always have, without any useful help from the dominant culture in this country.
Nathan Glen Also, did you even watch the beginning of this video??? Sky wants her future children to love her culture (as she should), and IMMEDIATELY Drew sexualized Jamaican culture. Minimizing the culture to Dutty Wining and other similar dances. So, since he’s half Irish, should she be concerned about introducing their future children to Irish culture, since they’re stereotypically known for being brute alcoholics?
Nathan Glen First of all, it’s interesting to me how all of the sudden, this is scripted and I shouldn’t take it seriously. Second of all, my argument wasn’t weak. I said he was wrong and gave an example of how wrong he was. Drew based Jamaican culture off of one of the worst stereotypes, so I gave an example of how basing a culture off of stereotypes minimizes it, hence the perfect example of the Irish cultural stereotype that I provided. Or, did that go right over your head? I guess so. Also, to use YOUR words, there’s good and bad in every culture. And since that’s true, then why does he think it’s acceptable to exemplify the worse aspects of her culture? She didn’t do that to him. Also, there’s difference between judging someone’s character and discerning someone’s character. You can’t discern his character or the individual he’s portraying based on this content? How? If that’s the case, then I feel very bad for you. The worst people must enjoy being friends with you, because it seems to me like you’ll excuse inappropriate behavior time and time again. The wise Maya Angelou once said, “When people tell you who they are, believe them.” And people don’t have to directly tell me who they are, because I can always figure it out. I watch how people treat me and others, especially if they’ve done something to me that I don’t like, and they keep doing it, despite me telling them to stop doing it the first time. You can’t read at all, can you? And I’m not talking about books, sweetheart, I’m talking about the art of reading people. Watch the video again and read them. Even if the video is scripted and they’re actors, the personas they’re portraying are obviously based of an actual couple. Drew or whomever he is has a narrow view of black culture. He minimizes black culture to clothes, hair, and smooth talk. He watches black based films, listens to predominantly black musical genres, and he probably has a couple of black friends, so based those three factors, he thinks he’s got Black American and Black Caribbean culture down to a science. But, Black people are more than that. Black culture is so diverse. If he knew that, LIKE REALLY KNEW THAT, then he wouldn’t minimize her culture the way he did.
Did he just call childbirth “Yucky” lmfaooooo wtf has the world come to
Battery Baby he said VISUALLY it’s yucky
Battery Baby yeah, it shows immaturity and it makes him seem closed-minded. I mean, he couldn't have thought of a better term or expressed it differently? Haha 😂
I mean it is definitely yucky but they could have used another word😂
Yeah I’m a woman, childbirth ain’t cute
He doesn't have much tact but she seems into him, so, to each her own :P
Jamaican, Bahamian and Dominican are nationalities. Not races. Wow y’all are annoying.
Ashley Peart-Brown
The title says inter CULTURAL which all three nationalities have different cultures
Hoodoo Queen Scorpio I’m aware of this but I’m talking about when they use the caption “black and Jamaican” like Wtf
@@ashleypeart-brown8951 jamaican is different from African American
Aaliyah Koroma I don’t think you get the point but okay
The title sayssssss culture
Drew literally the most cringe type of white man, she can do soooo much better
I don't mean to hate or wish they bad but I don't see them lasting.
cm. CG literally nobody cares lmao
I swear he a bum
cm. CG these woke black women are outta control lol
con_ending234 nah some black men get pissed ngl. Kinda hypocritical
As a person with multicultural parents, one of my biggest things is to DEFINITELY make sure your child can speak both of your languages. Growing up in a white community my mum never saw the need to teach me Vietnamese and it is something that has inhibited me from really connecting to my Vietnamese culture. One of my greatest sadnesses is being unable to have a proper conversation with my grandparents simply because we can't understand each other. I think there is this fine line that biracial children sit on and it can be very hard to feel like you belong in either culture, so really embracing both sides fully will really help your children :)
The Caribbean isn’t a race or ethnic group. It’s a section of the world 🤦🏾♀️please learn the difference.
I think the video is about different cultures .. as these are "Multi-Cultural" relationships because there are some differences between African-American culture and Caribbean culture
Tai J yes however don’t say “black and Jamaican” nah
Caribbean is a section of the world I stand with you Ms. Ashley most people need to research.
Ashley Peart-Brown so what do you call people from the caribbean?
Tyone Hunley Williams we are referred to individually by our respective nationalities. Such as “hi I’m Ashley and I’m from Jamaica.” Not hello I’m Ashley I’m an islander. A lot of people don’t understand that it’s uncomfortable for people from the Caribbean to be referred to as she’s “Caribbean or from the islands”
“Kayden is Jamaican and Black”.................
ilubbyuuboo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m already pregnant. And this isn’t my first time. Google me 😘
Also my father is American my mother is Jamaican. Two different things.
@JamericanDC1 dwfl😂😂😂😂
@JamericanDC1 race is different from nationality. Jamaican can be any race.
@@shanithickaz6431 Race is black the nationally is jamaican
Why is everyone screaming about ethnicity race/nationality. Okay one dude messed it up. Relax y’all. I think it’s so great to see black people actually talking about their culture because a lot of Americans think black people are all african american. When in reality, black is a race and we can have a wide range of different cultures!!
Thank you
Exactly finally someone with sense
Dru and sky definitely need to sit back and take some time from each other
Mean Bitch how u say that from one video?
nora you clearly don’t know the couple 😐 drew and sky were on love and hip hop, boo. He’s cheated on Sky multiple times
Unlearn the harmful "old school" habits of your parents and ancestors. It harmed you and it will harm your child.
Nah my parents disciplined me right old school methods are the best
@@jeremypeprah4211 depends on the child
@@jeremypeprah4211 most serial killers would disagree. Lol
Pretty much. My sister completely abandoned the trash our parents tried with us and her kid is the happiest kid I've ever known. Makes me wish I had a childhood like his.
You're the only sensible person in this comment section.
Kids that go to public school can also get into IVY league schools.
Exactly. I almost turned the clip off when she made that inference. Some intelligent people are really dumb.
Carl Teague yes. But more come from privet percentage wise or super top notch public school. Don’t be so ready to be offended over fact. How many people at Ivy League schools do you know yo refute her idea?
@@victoriahale5254 I wasn't offended by her comment. In case public school students were watching her video and had a dream and the work ethic to apply for admission to an Ivy League school, I just wanted them to know that public school students are also admitted to IVY league schools. If you're really interested in the stats of private vs public see www.toptieradmissions.com/do-public-schools-trump-private-schools-in-college-admissions/. Stay safe and take care.
Kayden is a pregnant transgender man?! I'm shook.
Vincenza N they having a baby after 3 months lol
Vincenza N That’s a woman
Mess me up too 🥺
XclusiveChiq that’s the part that got me 3mos?!
When u know u know I guess 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️💪🏾💪🏾
Engaged for 3 years?!?!!? & he wasn’t in jail? Nope 👎🏾
Kadija what’s wrong with that? Maybe it’s a cultural difference but there is no rush to marry after getting engaged. It’s just a new step in a relationship imo
Please yall act like black couples dont be engage longer than that. ..
I thought the same thing. 3 years? That is a huge stretch. 😐
@@tiffanypham2187 And how long Jim Jines and Chrissy was engage???????
@@tiffanypham2187 why do you feel that way?im genuinely curious to hear about this
imagine calling your parents “yes ma’am” & “yes sir” that’s just sad dude. what happened to calling them “mum” & “dad”. sry but i’ll never let my children call me ma’am
It's called culture
Keith Ferguson no it’s not. Parents tell their kids to say yes ma’am and no sir, I guessing it’s a way to show respect?? Idk, but it’s not about culture
I’m Jamaican born and raised and I’ve never “dirty wined” or “daggered” in my life come again sir
Most girls dont dutty whine or dagger. He's referring to a minority
Wait, I watched this whole thing just to see the negative stuff Drewski said about Black culture, since that’s what these comments are saying.. yet he said nothing... All he said is he didn’t want his daughter dutty wining, which a lot of people don’t want their young children dancing sexually. But I will say he needs to educate himself on how Black women are treated in health care by these so called “professionals” he admires so much. More Black women die during child birth than any other race soo desperately wanting her to give birth in a hospital not be the smartest decision.
He's been engaged to this lady for three years and still don't understand patois, does it seem like he's learning about Jamaican culture?
@@lauren-ashleyblack8610 he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. I think she said he doesn't get the jokes, not the language. They both speak English and that's what matters. I don't get how he was being culturally insensitive. I'm Jamaican, and the jokes do hit differently than straight just straight up speaking patois.
What child do you know dutty whining? You think they come out the womb and start whining? Its a kind of dance shared by adults and even then it’s not always done
@@lauren-ashleyblack8610 No different than the black guy needing translation for basic level Spanish?
The problem is that he quickly associated learning the Jamaican culture with stereotypes about Jamaicans. If he doesn’t fully understand the culture why assume all the negatives first? He is also very dismissive of what Sky wants it’s like it’s Drew’s way or no way.
I'm not surprised that Sky and Drewski haven't tied the not yet 😂 Drewski cheated on Sky with Bianca.
What show.. lol man shes too good for him
*knot
Soo dumb.. it takes a certain type of white guy to understand and be attracted to black women. If you can’t get it down then gtfo..
@@RavenUntamed how is she good if she still stays with him? tbh I dont feel sorry for her it's her own choice🤷🏽♀️
Riss Rova love and hip hop a few seasons back...
Sky & Drew disagree on getting a nanny for their children. What do you think?
I believe 'Multiracial' and/or 'Interracial' would be the appropriate descriptive language to use here as well. The first couple is not Multicultural as they're both from the American culture. But they are Interracial & their kids would be Multiracial. Please do better, VH1.
@@VegasElement just because they were both from america doesnt mean they grew up with the same culture tho
Yeah I disagree with having a nanny. I'm with Sky, it's better for the parents and the family to raise the baby, not just hand them off to some person most of the time. It's better for your baby to build the bond with the family
Coming from a Caribbean/Latino background, I actually support Drew’s view of getting a nanny. Boundaries do get crossed really easily when the in-laws are involved in raising the kids, specially if they go to the kid’s house instead of them going to grandma’s house. Yes, they can get more familiar with the culture and the language of origin (if it is different), but it’s get complicated. And I was raised by my grandma, my mom was divorced and had to work all day long.
Hell no to the nanny idea especially if you're Jamaican its disrespectful. The best nanny your baby could ever have is your mum.
"Engaged for 3 years."
Lol okay Pam and Roy.
The one couple has been together for 8 years and have a kid. Their description didn't say married.
Lol you obviously don't know the couple I was talking about and you definitely never watched The Office before or you would get the joke......
I’m 15 seconds in and I’m already annoyed at the way my man in the beginning said he doesn’t want his child to dutty whine - WHY IS THAT THE THING PEOPLE REMEMBER ABOUT OR ASSOCIATE WITH JAMAICAN CULTURE FFS
(Ok I’m about to finish off the rest of this)
“Tyler is German and Italian and describes himself as a mutt”
Lol, mutt of what? Europe? 😂
That's what I said. I was like What???
@@jessicasebastiao9069
Germans genetic material is Western Hunter Gather [ European Natives] + Yamaya people from Central Asia [Asiatic] + Neolithic Farmers from Middle East
Europeans are mixed Race themselves
Majority Of their DNA is Middle Eastern and small amounts of Yamaya people and even small amount of Western Hunter Gather.
@@jessicasebastiao9069 yea because not all people in Europe are same. There are ethnicities where they have different religions, and are reffered to as "mixed" couples in that area of Europe. So don't be ignorant research, read, you know maybe a book or something. Americans only think race/ethnicity is as simple as black or white, thats because they brainwashed you all, and it does them good to keep you so ignorant.
Italians can have middle eastern , Greek , Arab or Spanish in them that’s why
“Jamaican and black” do you mean Afro Caribbean specifically Jamaican?
ChillingLikeANarnian InNarnia I think he meant black American and black Jamaican
Magnolia Lady black is a race Jamaican is a Nationality. You can be both black an Jamaican . You can also be white and Jamaican. Nationality is not racially exclusive. Afro Caribbean is an ethnicity which specifies that you are someone of African origin while also being of the Caribbean. Saying your Jamaican and black doesn’t make sense. You might as well just say I’m a black Jamaican or my mother is Afro-Jamaican and my father is African-American. Both show that you belong to the black race but specify that you are from mixed ethnicities. It’s not about denying blackness it’s about signifying that you belong to a different culture.
@@alfie6441 thanks youuuu
Imma need for Drewski to watch his mouth 😂. Imagine calling child birth yucky ??? How old are you ??? And the stereotype at the end ☠️ chile
Sky He it is gross I’m not gonna lie
Crazy part is, he looks crazy clearly portraying black culture in his fashion and working for hot 97 so he promotes black music but then he makes microagressions and the ignorance and racism of it all I can not. I am in a relationship with a white man myself so I have no issue with interracial or multicultural dating, ignorance is one thing but the disrespect... no wonder they’ve been engaged for three years... I couldn’t marry and procreate With someone who doesn’t want to instill BOTH cultures in our child.
Nathan Glen yep because using emojis are soooo immature . A grown ass man calling childbirth “yucky” is more immature . Are you Drewski, because you seem pressed?
Sky He but he didnt say it, she said it
Nathan Glen you look even more stupid so you wanna keep it up because it doesn’t change what I said .
“MAYBE your mom too.” Lol, I felt that. Also, that’s crazy how I’m reading all these comments about Drew, but I didn’t even notice his rudeness. I must’ve tuned him out when he started talking. He seems very bland, no offense.
Sis looks like a curly Jennifer Lopez
Yes that’s what I thought and sounds like her too. LOL!
The dad of the second couple should learn Spanish and embrace his wife’s and child’s culture it looks quite silly that he can’t understand his wife and son when they speak Spanish
Itry2belogic 4 I agree my kids speak Spanish and my husband knows Atleast the simple words
Summers Journey what makes you say that? there is literally no indication of that. the fact that you equate being a black man to being an absent father is disgusting. Check your prejudices.
@@mimi-pb4hn Tell him 👏🏽👏🏽
Isabel c it’s good that your husband took the time to learn even simple words I was thinking of the late Kobe Bryant and how he learned fluent Spanish embracing his wife’s and kids culture but yet this guy knows nothing? And needs translation, thats sad
@@mimi-pb4hn
😭😂😂😭 please retire your cape, it's probably worn out and tattered.
I think it's weird that his own kid needs translation. They need to find a better balance for learning two languages.
@Quiana Hope so. I think learning two languages is amazing, but also confusing for his non-speaking spanish parent ( I feel kinda bad for him).
@Quiana Yes. But I would think the priority language the kid should learn is English. As they are in NY and that is what his education will be based on. lol
@Quiana Oh I know. :). French, Spanish, and English are all Latin based. I speak Frenchw it my mom, so I am aware. But my gran is a former teacher and principal, and from what she has shared this will turn into an ESL issue if they don't have plan, and it's clear by this video they don't. lol
It's not weird. If he doesn't speak Spanish, he wouldn't know what the words mean. That's fine. But he should want to learn for himself and to create a tighter family bond.
I’ve had the problem in my family. It’s better for kids to learn Spanish at home if you want them to be bilingual because they will learn English at school.
"Shakeel is African American, Italian American and Native American"
Sure.........
madmann1000 😂😂😂😂 that’s what I was thinking! I doubt there’s any Native American in him!
Everybody swears they’re native
I hate when some black people lie about being mixed like that , I understand we’re all mixed but some people always be exaggerating.
fai lew how do you know he’s lying?
Gia Aaliyah how do you know he’s lying?
The gay couple seem uncomfortable with each other
drewski what about twerking.. you forgot about twerking. if the daughter lives in america she will know about twerking.
Lol any country and she will know lol
raheem mcclashie he doesn’t want his 5 yr old daughter going to school and shaking her butt
She needs to be more aware of Drew’s words, something ain’t right with him
3 YEARS!!!!!! no ma'm
This sky drewski relationship.... MAYBE his mom can watch her grandchild but my sister's friend can watch the child.
Fallyne Princiotta weird I know
lol ass backwards
by the looks of how his ignorant cultural appropriating ass,..that statement on his mom may be telling
My names Kai-ying and I’m black and chinese!!
How cute! I will have to tell Kai Kai!!! Much love!!
I'm surprised Sky & Drew are still together. But at the same time I'm not surprised. They seemed codependent.
I hate when ppl write the same comment over and over again...just hit like,hit the reply, write agree and keep scrolling... 🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
Naomi Caleb I think it’s a UA-cam glitch that’s been happening. My comments often repeat when I post them.
"Our little blasian" lol t hat is awesome
:)
If they don’t got kids ... why they on the show
Armoni Jones bc they eventually going to have some..
nora not necessarily. They might breakup before then.
It's a series of videos not just this one. You can't keep changing couples for each video.
“jamaican and black” LMFAOOOOO do they not know-
That guy is "old school" but he is in a gay couple with a man who was born a female? Sure
Lorraine A more like internalized misogyny
He was raised old school. Some of those ideologies usually stick with people
@@fatherramen475 which is sad because the very same people he's emulating are probably the same people who kicked him out when he came out. Humans are ridiculous. That's why I watch these coupling things in fascination. Its like a curiosity. #singleforlife
Agreed 🤔
I think those parents are missing on one major point: “Education consists of understanding the child as he is, without imposing on him the image of what we think he should be. " They are trying to push their own culture on their kids and their own views, instead of being open and trying to understand what their child will be interested in.
This is a good point. I guess because all of their children are either so young (less than 8 at the time of recording), about to be born, or are simply hypothetical, they may not be thinking about that aspect of nurturing their child's own self image.
I guess they may be thinking about it as giving their child the tools of their cultural background in order for their child to make their own background.
I think a good example of this is when one of the couple's stated that their son introduces himself by saying, "Hi my name is ___ and I am half Black and half Asian." They stated that sometimes they are a bit uncomfortable by that introduction because some people may not expect it, but they still let him introduce himself that way because he prefers to do that. I feel like that would be an example of their child building his own identity based on the perspectives he was given growing up.
The Jamaican woman is sooooo beautiful!
Thank you😘
Why are you saying thank you...?
Euphoria Rose I think she is interpreting it as ‘Jamaican women are so beautiful!’.
kdemure that is a whole man in that photograph lmfaooo
noooooooooooooooooo name ‘Shani thickaz’ which man name so 😂.
The lady is expressing how she wants her child to be a proud Jamaican & the first thing that comes to her fiancé’s mind & out his mouth is _daggering?_ Yikes! 🤦🏽♀️
Kneeling on rice. That leaves scars. Is she okay.
Fadumo M I know I was like what the hell is wrong with her. I’ve seen that stuff in movies before and it looks painful.
Kneeling on rice?! That punishment would’ve been a luxury for me as a child.
esther yikes thats called child abuse
maybe she was just joking
All of u are insecure
What's the point of punishment if not painful
i wonder why he wants a nanny so bad? Is it for the kids or for him?🧐
Melina Leigh haha. I wondered the same thing
Loved this one!!! ❤️ Thanks for having us @vh1 !
I love multicultural couple dynamics
Man say him nuh want him daughter fi do no daggering or fi do nuh dutty whine🤣🤣🤣🤣hope she nuh watch no Jamaican dancehall music videos enuh😂😂😂Jamaican people a the best 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Nobody else saw it says their “engaged for 3 years” how are you engaged for 3 years ?
My cousin was engaged to his fiance for 12 years before they got married last year because they were young weren't ready to get married
I’ve been engaged for 2 1/2 years. I lost my grandma the first year being engaged and had to work on my mental, 2nd year he lost his dad and our wedding fund went towards the funeral and now we just trying to save again and grow from our pain we feel from loosing two of the most important part of our lives. Things happen
I was engaged for 3 1/2 years. What’s the problem?
He's shacking up and splitting the rent. 🤣😭😭🤷🏾♀️
lisangel you in ever comment sticking up for Andrew 🤣 like this sky or drew?
To Shantel and Kevin: with hard work and determination, your son can certainly attend a public school and get into the Ivy League - signed, a young black boy who graduated from both an inner-city public school and Cornell
Congratulations to you!
i love shantel and kevin. them seem like fantastic parents and im happy they found love in each other. love is blind ya'll
Awwwww! Thank you!
I could not imagine reassigning my gender while being pregnant and in a same-sex relationship in the South...... all while I only have been with my partner for only 3 months....that's a HUGE strain on a relationship...😥😨😬😰😳
Something about all these couples is so beautiful... come through melanin!🥰
Very interesting. I'm mixed with African (dad) Irish and French (mum). It's always nice to listen to other people talking about their cultures and how it is when they have children.
My partner and I are 10 years apart in age.
We are from 2 different cultures
But it's fresh
I love Shantel & Kevin (3rd couple) ❣️❣️❣️ I’ve seen them on a lot of videos and they are really dope people individually & as a couple they are even more fantastic! They always make me smile 😊 Blessings to them & all the other couples. 🙏💖☮️
Thank you so much, @HtownItGirlJess! Much love to you!!! 🤗
Jamaican girl low-key sounds like J-Lo
The beautiful side of a mixed couple is our two boys are growing in two different cultures. We love to see how they interact with both cultures. It is enriching.
For the public school private school couple. Do public school for grade school and private school for highschool. Its honestly the greatest experience from a personal view. And you learn so much from so many different perspectives
Thanks, for the suggestion. :)
I really don’t like Drew.Like in all the aspects of Jamaican “love” she mentioned,his ass thought of duty winding to associate with a negative ! Girl... 🏃🏿♀️ I want her mom to watch this. She likes this boy and his perspective for her grandchild?😒
When she said ‘kneel in rice’, I felt that. Happened to me once and never again
My knees are screwed up from my childhood. I can't kneel now as an adult without padding the ground.....
What I really appreciate about this video is that couples where willing to compromise on there differences but still be proud of there cultures mixing is a complex situation but if you respect each other it can be ashieved
Myself & my bf are in a mixed race, and mixed religion relationship. I am coloured & he is Indian in race, we're both South African. And I'm Christian and he is Muslim. I'm so glad that we have spoken about future kids and have came to a common ground as to what we want for them. I really enjoyed watching this.
you guys need to get the The Rush Fam on here!
There is a difference between race and ethnicity. For example, I’m Black American and my boyfriend is Haitian American. He was born and raised in Haiti and his parents got citizenship and brought him to America when he was a kid. We are of the same race but have a different culture. We would be considered a multicultural couple. A black man or woman from the Caribbean have a different ethnicity but are the same RACE as me.
As someone who is in an interracial marriage, I learned so much from this ♥️
Coming from a mixed background, I have always had some issues with identity growing up. My mom never wanted me telling people that my dad was from Algeria and we literally would pretend we were only Indian. Now that I am getting older, I have become so curious about this side that was kept away from me. Basically, I think it is important for your kid to be informed about their heritage. Otherwise, if they're like me they'll go mad trying to create that Algerian version of themselves... lol
Drew needs to go to bed and stay there. Don’t tell a woman how she has to give birth fohhhhh
Drew is such a bro dude that he literally added “ski” to the end of his name
How is no one commenting on the man (who is carrying the child) saying what he says goes ??? How is that a partnership
Drew and sky smh I can’t believe she’s still with him engaged for three years?!? No thank you
I keep reading “Caribbean” but what part?? Like that’s not an entire race group 🤦🏽♀️
Caribbean is a race?
Red Velvet it’s a CULTURE
Red Velvet the Caribbean is a group of different islands so it is not a race beloved
I think they may be talking about the overarching Caribbean culture. Caribbean is obviously not a race. But, if someone had family from multiple islands (for example each grandparent is from a different island) then someone might refer to themselves as Caribbean to save time and avoid listing off multiple places.
The one thing I can agree with is when he basically saying he doesn’t want his daughter to be sexualized..my family is from Haiti & I have a guy I’ve known since we were kids who’s family is from Jamaica.. he has a daughter now & says he doesn’t want her dancing like that..
but i don’t think he gets to negate a whole culture and way of life because he wants to protect his kid they should still embrace the culture
There’s so many misunderstandings....like the lack of understanding stresses me out.
I’m black and Mexican and it’s so nice seeing this type of content on UA-cam.
finally there black women and asian guy not the other way around finalllllyyy
Yes AMBW couples do exist! :)
I love the fact that my son knows 5 languages. He's a social being just like his father and I
That's really nice. Its good to know different languages. Its a good skill to.
My boyfriend is french and Im spanish, we met each other speaking english and now we mix the three languages all the time. I always say that when we have a kid, hes gonna be speaking our languages by the age of three. The younger you are, the easier it is to learn and it opens many doors to you in the future.
When dating outside of race or dating in general I think it’s soo interesting to learn and enjoy someone else culture. It seems like certain couples on here aren’t even interested or respect their spouses culture.