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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  4 роки тому +757

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    • @theextraholygiraffe2781
      @theextraholygiraffe2781 4 роки тому +3

      Hi juiblee

    • @vanhminglianitochhawng3209
      @vanhminglianitochhawng3209 4 роки тому +3

      Yes

    • @tuub1281
      @tuub1281 4 роки тому +6

      Race =/= ethnicity/culture/nationality.

    • @ssssSTopmotion
      @ssssSTopmotion 3 роки тому +8

      Why did you bring these uneducated people, who don't know the difference between race,ethnicity and nationality

    • @bluetinsel7099
      @bluetinsel7099 3 роки тому +2

      Many of these are multicultural but not necessarily multiracial. There are people who identify by their nations and not race.

  • @trippy_nation5300
    @trippy_nation5300 4 роки тому +19935

    STRUGGLE OF BEING MIXED: The white side of the family see’s the black in me and the black side of the family see’s the white in me.

  • @rizzogelato
    @rizzogelato 4 роки тому +22889

    In five months we’ll all get a “Do all Corona Virus survivors think alike?” notification.
    Edit: it only took two months.

  • @seyia2229
    @seyia2229 Рік тому +595

    “If those slurs aren’t used against me, I’m not in the position to reclaim them!” PERIOD!!!!

    • @CrackHeadDaddy
      @CrackHeadDaddy 11 місяців тому +4

      Reclaim deez nutz son

    • @genericdeveloper3966
      @genericdeveloper3966 11 місяців тому +9

      I just don't use them because it is trashy.

    • @babyqueenxo
      @babyqueenxo 4 місяці тому +3

      @@supercharger5727 literally every black activist ever 🙄🤦🏻‍♀

    • @madisonh1280
      @madisonh1280 4 місяці тому

      ⁠@@supercharger5727 Some people do actually. It’s mostly to excuse whatever damage the word’s usage still does.

    • @madisonh1280
      @madisonh1280 4 місяці тому

      @@babyqueenxo…. Yeaaa, no 😒

  • @nathtml
    @nathtml 2 роки тому +1979

    As a half-black and half-white person, i agree that the “passability” is what counts the most. I look way more white than black, and when i had straightened hair (my natural hair is curly), nobody ever believed that my mom is black. I also never received any racist comments, unlike my mom, she suffers because of racism till these days.

    • @tia.talbot
      @tia.talbot 2 роки тому +77

      i agree! although i’m only a quarter black, one time when i was with my brother, who looks more black than me, someone in my class thought he was my boyfriend! i’m also tired of people asking why i’m white when my mom is brown (she’s half)

    • @ch1s0u13
      @ch1s0u13 2 роки тому +16

      Finally someone who understands me, I also have a white father and black mother, but I was always called names for my black side, but I also see more black than white. :p

    • @marioo3665
      @marioo3665 2 роки тому +1

      whats pass???

    • @zorogon
      @zorogon 2 роки тому +47

      @@tia.talbot i swear people will say they're black when they get a 0.01% black ethnic background in like DNA tests lmao

    • @desperateenuf6230
      @desperateenuf6230 2 роки тому +22

      I’m mixed black and white as well and I don’t really look either race more (well actually depends ) because in the winter I can be mistaken as “white with a slight tan” but in summer I get mistaken somehow as Indian because I tan so easily also my facial features say black and my hair says mixed but I feel more comfortable identifying as mixed than either black or white but that is not an option in my state sadly it’s either one or the other

  • @MOCILDE
    @MOCILDE 4 роки тому +4591

    Why is no one talking about the ending?! The screenshot of their text saying they all have a group chat and are "legit friends now"??? THAT IS SO HEARTWARMING

    • @ash.613
      @ash.613 4 роки тому +201

      Mixed people stick together LOL. I’m biracial and most of my best friends are biracial too.. I don’t even know how it happened

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 4 роки тому +6

      nymph corpse don’t care

    • @angelmushahf
      @angelmushahf 4 роки тому +118

      They would make the perfect cast for "Friends" reboot

    • @haroldthetalkingtree7509
      @haroldthetalkingtree7509 4 роки тому +27

      That sounds awesome. Best friendship ever.

    • @kuralanna
      @kuralanna 4 роки тому +39

      Spicy Shizz don’t comment then....

  • @liesdown
    @liesdown 4 роки тому +10568

    I'm glad that he pointed out having a mixed child doesn't mean you're not racist.

    • @AlefeLucas
      @AlefeLucas 4 роки тому +80

      They answered this question from a very american point of view with a short sight only to the first generation race mixing impacts.

    • @AlefeLucas
      @AlefeLucas 4 роки тому +234

      America is the most racist country in the western world. Differently from most latin american countries, they strongly believe race mixing is bad and preserving the race is an "anti racism" path.

    • @AlefeLucas
      @AlefeLucas 4 роки тому +116

      When you have a society that is made up of 200 years of deep race mixing like Brazil, race stops being well defined groups like in america with "us" and "them", and starts being a spectrum, differentiating mostly by skin color only. This definitely difficults racism although not completely ending it. Like the "chinese-jewish-russian" said (in brazil she'd just be white), you'd have "colourism" of some sort, but comparing the two nations it's arguably better not to be segregated like in the usa where you have neighborhoods and school for a race. As a heritage of colonisation and slavery, the upper classes have a bigger percentage of lighter skin color and the lower classes have a bigger percentage of dark skin color, but this diffenrece is being faded.

    • @MichaelImo
      @MichaelImo 4 роки тому +162

      He pretty much said his dad is kinda racist but still got with a black woman lol

    • @JenniRudolph
      @JenniRudolph 4 роки тому +56

      @@AlefeLucas that's super fascinating to hear that in Brazil I'd be considered white, because I have NEVER been considered white in the US lol. I've frequently been mistaken as "fully Asian" here

  • @reii9554
    @reii9554 2 роки тому +89

    as a biracial person, my biggest experiences which made me experience some imposter syndrome is when i filled out those tests/surverys that ask you about your race. one part of me wants to check off the "asian" square but the other part of me wants to check the "hispanic" square. i always was in conflict with "do i just check 'prefer not to answer' or check 'other'?..but im not exactly 'other' either..". I always feel get the urge to just turn to someone and be like "hey what race do i look like?" but honestly i still have a hard time with this and usually just put 'prefer not to answer'

    • @AbortusMaximus
      @AbortusMaximus Рік тому +4

      Pls note these questions are illegal in some countries

    • @hunchbackaudio
      @hunchbackaudio 9 місяців тому +4

      In Europe such a question would be totally illegal, the USA is pretty backwards on this.

  • @harleaarmstrong7659
    @harleaarmstrong7659 Рік тому +79

    I want to see one with mixed indigenous. We're often overlooked and ignored.

    • @bobbin.b9434
      @bobbin.b9434 Рік тому +7

      yeah I’m indigenous but also a quarter black and I have black features that make it obvious that I’m mixed and used to get made fun of in school by other kids lmao

    • @anonymous37119
      @anonymous37119 Рік тому

      Literally mexicans. Most just dont care or realize and always go by nationality(mexican)

    • @kaianimations675
      @kaianimations675 Рік тому

      Yeah becuase you look full white.

  • @mcmandy086
    @mcmandy086 4 роки тому +3086

    When that girl said that if everyone was mixed race then they would have colorism, that's Latin America right there. We sure do have a lot of colorism.

    • @hakuqtsukii
      @hakuqtsukii 4 роки тому +14

      mcmandy086 exactement

    • @linac4833
      @linac4833 4 роки тому +18

      So true

    • @valentinagirott
      @valentinagirott 4 роки тому +12

      oh for sure

    • @hiyab8291
      @hiyab8291 4 роки тому +71

      omg just like ethiopia most people are different shades of light skin and there is that occasional really light or really dark person and for some reason both get made fun off but it's not hate or anything just for the sake of the joke

    • @official_cara7994
      @official_cara7994 4 роки тому +2

      Alot

  • @Lazypantsgirll
    @Lazypantsgirll 4 роки тому +28110

    I feel like race and ethnicity get mixed up between a lot of people

    • @seancompton8889
      @seancompton8889 4 роки тому +1341

      Me to , it drives me crazy that race being made up is pushed so hard and not ethnicity. But we're all indoctrinated I guess

    • @Butterfly-vr7ci
      @Butterfly-vr7ci 4 роки тому +850

      mich weera
      Obviously? African-Americans are a mix of different west African ethnicities, tribes etc. same with white Americans that have Scottish, English, Irish, Italian etc. ancestry and Latinos that tend to be triracial (native Indian, African, European).

    • @xokkuma
      @xokkuma 4 роки тому +168

      Hayden Baku he said his dads Australia then later said he’s white

    • @someguy6135
      @someguy6135 4 роки тому +61

      mich weera What make those two different? I don’t know.

    • @SuperMustache555
      @SuperMustache555 4 роки тому +927

      Especially Jewish. I’m Jewish, but Judaism is not a race. Jews are from everywhere. There are ancient African Jews, Sephardic Jews from the Middle East, and Ashkenazi Jews from all over Europe. My friend is Israeli-Persian and Jewish. When he told some of our friends, they asked how he could be Jewish and Persian. I find it so weird that “Jewish” is considered a race, it’s an ethnicity and a religion.

  • @Dom_om_nom
    @Dom_om_nom 3 роки тому +1137

    I don't know why y'all in the comments are calling the blasian (half Chinese) girl delusional. Like..... as a Blasian, some of us just feel more comfortable and more accepted by our Asian side. Just because she's not all that ambiguous looking and could easily pass as fully black, that doesn't mean that she has to fit into the blk community. I know some of y'all aren't going to like to hear this, but there is a serious problem in the blk community, black-passing and even ambiguous biracials are often forced into the black box, we aren't ever allowed to explore our full heritage. Blasians do not have to fit within the blk community, we blasians should have a space to be able to be both black AND Asian, just like Wasians. Stop forcing Blasians into the black box.

    • @mollymolly7451
      @mollymolly7451 2 роки тому +108

      People will still see her as black but anyway

    • @heavenloves7819
      @heavenloves7819 2 роки тому +144

      Yes blasians shouldn't be forced into the black box. But she didn't explore both cultures she was one sided and mostly only mentioned her asian side. Instead she should be like the mixed black and white boy and explore and accept both sides of her. Yes, the blk community has issues but so does the asian, indian, hispanic, mexican, white, and all the other communities and that's for people in the communites to work on. but that doesn't mean she should ignore that side of her and Honestly i believe she needs to explore her black side more.

    • @Dom_om_nom
      @Dom_om_nom 2 роки тому +138

      @@heavenloves7819 1. Indians ARE Asian, 2. I agree with you on that. It just seemed like people were attacking her for being more aligned with her Asian side.

    • @mollymolly7451
      @mollymolly7451 2 роки тому +31

      @@Dom_om_nom we don’t give a F. We don’t claim her

    • @Qqqpppuyt
      @Qqqpppuyt 2 роки тому +103

      @@mollymolly7451 ok then dont get mad when she identifies as asian. I would just keep calling her Blasian, because she is both black and asian, but I wont call her black, because she is only half

  • @schizopath2380
    @schizopath2380 2 роки тому +186

    I'm Korean, Mexican, Native American, and white. I've struggled with identity and not fitting in my entire life. I've come to terms with it not having to be an "identity" rather I'm me who happens to be mixed.

    • @delancey3181
      @delancey3181 2 роки тому +24

      Mexican is a mixture of Native American and white it’s not a race

    • @kyo04687
      @kyo04687 2 роки тому +1

      I totally agree. Being a mixed girl (Japanese, Indonesian, French, Tahitian and more) kept being so harsh I even find myself asking what am I? It’s like I can’t identify as anything so I just gave up.

    • @schizopath2380
      @schizopath2380 2 роки тому

      @@delancey3181 yep.

    • @reii9554
      @reii9554 2 роки тому +1

      @@kyo04687 are you from hawaii by any chance? your mix of ethnicities sound like so many other ppl i know that live here and also because of your username lolol

    • @kyo04687
      @kyo04687 2 роки тому +1

      @@reii9554 lol well almost haha I’m from New-Caledonia (this little Island near Australia yes) :)

  • @Kaisforeignadventures
    @Kaisforeignadventures 4 роки тому +12174

    As a mixed race person myself I found this interesting, but I think there is some confusion here in this video with race, nationality and ethnicity.

    • @VeganDefinition
      @VeganDefinition 4 роки тому +7

      DISLIKE MY LAST VIDEO..

    • @breonawarren1507
      @breonawarren1507 4 роки тому +1070

      I blame America tbh. Other countries can tell the difference and use it correctly but Americans often don’t.

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 4 роки тому +682

      This 'confusion' exists because there are no clear boundaries between nationality, ethnicity and race. For example, what is a white German's ethnicity? You'll probably say German. Their nationality? Also German. What about a white American? Are they ethnically American if they have a lineage in America spanning centuries? Are they ethnically English if their ancestors originally came from England? What about someone from South Africa? Are they ethnically African despite being from a specific ethnic group like the Xhosa people? Is 'African' even a valid ethnic category? Are they racially black if they are half white but live in SA? etc etc.

    • @Kaisforeignadventures
      @Kaisforeignadventures 4 роки тому +299

      @@breonawarren1507 i have to agree. I'm American, but I live in Europe and the way race is perceived is completely different and a lot less complicated.

    • @sammysam2615
      @sammysam2615 4 роки тому +153

      @@breonawarren1507
      I agree to an extent. There are a lot of Americans who do know the difference. But unfortunately there are a lot of other Americans who don't care and just assume everyone that is black or Asian or Muslim, etc are all the same. Obviously there's a huge difference in skin tone, ethnicity, and country of origin.

  • @ofthesol444
    @ofthesol444 4 роки тому +2013

    Everyone being mixed in the future would not solve colorism at all. Annette is dark skinned and she’s mixed. Mixed ppl come in all shades. She literally said she wished to be lighter in the past.

    • @goldenndeja
      @goldenndeja 4 роки тому +9

      Ofthesol exactly

    • @margarita3318
      @margarita3318 4 роки тому +21

      I was so saddened by that answer I hoped growing up through being discriminated against because of who u where born and can't help it at all would get that mindset out of people and they would become more accepting and nice to others not wanting to put that pain on anyone else.

    • @user-yn7uz9go5q
      @user-yn7uz9go5q 4 роки тому +37

      Hence why it’s called COLORism.

    • @cordelwhite1749
      @cordelwhite1749 4 роки тому +17

      Yeah being mixed just puts you somewhere in the color spectrum

    • @bopeepaleep
      @bopeepaleep 4 роки тому +18

      "We will still have colorism" is what she said. She was saying it would not disappear.

  • @ainaramenendez
    @ainaramenendez 2 роки тому +203

    Being biracial is so confusing, I remember asking my mum "what am I?" All the time, cause i didn't look black nor white, she always gave me a different answer and never took my question seriously. My parents didn't understand how confused I was, if u r going to have mixed kids, make sure you teach them to appreciate both of their sides.
    Biracials should not feel the need to pick a side, why most we erase a part of ourselves just to please others?
    -due to the "one drop" rule that a bunch of racists made, some people feel like I am just black and decide to ignore my white side unless they want to insult me.
    But ofc I still call myself "mixed" I dont know why people think I dislike my black side just cause I identify as mixed and not black, and i know for a fact that if I went around saying I'm black, someone will say I'm not black enough. Cause I'm never enough, I'm never the right skin tone, I never fit in.
    But I'm unique, I love it.
    But I'm tired of people saying "u look too light", "your white side is showing" as if it's a bad thing 🤨 stop trying to make me feel ashamed, or "you are not black enough". Some white people even avoid touching me cause of the colour of my skin, I'm not an animal.
    We get racism from both sides.
    Its disgusting.
    Some make us feel like we dont belong anywhere, and others keep fetishising us...we ain't toys.

    • @soundmind6477
      @soundmind6477 Рік тому +5

      I’m biracial also, dad Irish and mum Nigerian… I’ve learnt to just not care how I’m viewed… a lot of the time we create our own identity issues thinking too much about it… we’re human beings… mixture has existed since the dawn of humanity.

    • @ladydelulu
      @ladydelulu Рік тому +1

      I’ve also asked the “what am I” question numerous times but for a different reason. I’m half white, half Latina, but I don’t look mixed. It also sucks cause some people don’t think Latino is a race while others do. It’s confusing. I usually either say “I’m white” or “it’s complicated”

    • @JohnFrance-ns5ve
      @JohnFrance-ns5ve Рік тому +2

      Yeah but mostly from whites be honest lol

  • @orestes67
    @orestes67 Рік тому +22

    I am half white Puerto Rican and half black. I was also raised in a predominantly Puerto Rican town and I didn't speak Spanish growing up. This speaks to me on so many levels. Thank you for this

  • @knowledgeiskey1319
    @knowledgeiskey1319 4 роки тому +1938

    *The struggle of being mixed race/ethnicity/nationality:* _You are both All and None._

    • @aaliyah6786
      @aaliyah6786 4 роки тому +11

      Knowledge Is Key yesss

    • @youdroppedsomething4334
      @youdroppedsomething4334 4 роки тому +54

      I’m mixed and it says in Caucasian on my school information sheet, it’s really weird. is mixed not in their vocabulary like 😶😶😶

    • @Zakartzak
      @Zakartzak 4 роки тому +1

      Yep

    • @stella5596
      @stella5596 4 роки тому +7

      This has nothing to do with what you are saying, but I just really want to let you know that Jesus loves you!❤ And He will always do!

    • @SuperSouthchick
      @SuperSouthchick 4 роки тому +5

      I’m mixed I feel like I’m not either black or Arab

  • @jayyone6137
    @jayyone6137 4 роки тому +5106

    dang, in my opinion, this is one of the best spectrum videos. the cast was rather diverse and wasn't afraid to disagree with each other, but they still so it in a kind, respectful way. mad props to everyone involved in the creation of this video!

    • @raivazquez175
      @raivazquez175 4 роки тому +28

      It wasn't that diverse sadly, all the girls were half Asian and all the boys were half white. They should have half Hispanics, Turkish, etc

    • @romanreignswhore
      @romanreignswhore 4 роки тому +123

      @@raivazquez175 You're not even stating races tho.....and I think someone there was half hispanic aka some race BC HISPANICS R DIVERSE AND COME IN MANY COLORS

    • @raivazquez175
      @raivazquez175 4 роки тому +4

      @@romanreignswhore no need to get mad over it. It's my opinion and I apologize on saying Hispanic as a race. What I meant was Mexicans, dominicans, Cubans, etc

    • @dayrachi3455
      @dayrachi3455 4 роки тому +66

      @@raivazquez175 Mexican, dominican and cuban arent races either...

    • @alansands256
      @alansands256 4 роки тому +18

      I liked (non sarcastically) how the half black kid said he is pride to be white, and nobody called him out. A full white person with the best intentions unfortunately wouldn't have gotten away with that.

  • @treykimball6208
    @treykimball6208 2 роки тому +48

    I love how this group listens and respected each other’s opinions and didn’t talk over or interrupt each other, they all seem so nice hope they all stayed friends!

  • @giannakayira8133
    @giannakayira8133 2 роки тому +309

    As soon as I read that Annette was “AFRICAN and Chinese”, I was annoyed. Like, what country? Africa’s a continent, with multiple countries. I just hate when people put all Africans in the same box when there are Nigerians, Malawians, Zambians, Congolese, Gabonese and so many more with different cultures.

    • @siphumelelethabethe6926
      @siphumelelethabethe6926 2 роки тому +23

      She could be African American and therefore not actually from Africa

    • @Cindy99765
      @Cindy99765 2 роки тому +57

      @@siphumelelethabethe6926 However, the half-Filipino girl was called half-black and not half-African, so Annette's parent is likely from a specific African country.

    • @reginalugo2202
      @reginalugo2202 2 роки тому +9

      also both of those are ethnicities, not races

    • @princesspink1153
      @princesspink1153 2 роки тому +1

      Not really that big of a deal but kinda

    • @ohitsarcangel2182
      @ohitsarcangel2182 2 роки тому +5

      Maybe they just didn’t want to say from her African side is from. Like, she is half African and Chinese. At the end it does not matter from what part of Africa she is from, as long as her side of the family is African

  • @Carly-wp4hb
    @Carly-wp4hb 4 роки тому +2163

    “That is your space, too” was such a sweet comment...she needed that reassurance.

    • @Tae_B831
      @Tae_B831 4 роки тому +38

      She needs more mixed people in her life to show her she can accept every side of herself.

    • @usefulpolls3750
      @usefulpolls3750 4 роки тому +39

      But at the same time, you can't represent them because you are only half which is a main problem in the black community because mixed race and racial ambiguous who look slightly black are used to represent us when they aren't completely black

    • @MrsRen
      @MrsRen 4 роки тому +27

      @@usefulpolls3750 We literally had a half-white/half-black president (raised by his white mother & having minimal contact with his father) touted as the first black president.

    • @MrsRen
      @MrsRen 4 роки тому +4

      FFS, most people have a little of something else in them.

    • @moonrocked
      @moonrocked 4 роки тому +14

      Useful Polls exactly which is extremely problematic. It erases that mono racial identity. Like for us black people we have been talking about this for decades and have been completely ignored. I realized that the reason people are ignoring our erasure is because most non blacks want that. They don’t care if black spaces are completely taken up by mixed people or our image completely changes into a more mixed image as long as it’s erasing blackness it’s okay.

  • @simplyunicorn6507
    @simplyunicorn6507 3 роки тому +6746

    I hate how people fight against racism or are against racism, but then see a biracial person and try to tell them what to identify as.

    • @mayaadam544
      @mayaadam544 3 роки тому +119

      Too true

    • @morindahoelzle559
      @morindahoelzle559 3 роки тому +90

      FACTS

    • @lebabyjames2724
      @lebabyjames2724 3 роки тому +21

      Technically, you are what your father is.
      (Edit)
      Ok look at it like this. Since I obviously love analogies to explain things I know 😂 but look. Let’s say a man meets a woman. He has a kid by her. This is the Kid 👉🏾🌹(red rose)
      The man then goes out and meets another woman. The man now has a second kid, but this one looks a bit different, this one is lighter complexion. This is the second kid 👉🏾🌹(pink rose)
      The man then goes out and he meets a third woman. This woman was even more unique in features than the first two. This is the kid 👉🏾🌹(blue rose)
      The only constant thing in that situation is that the kids are still roses. Regardless of color and features. If you can’t understand that then maybe I am a fool 🤷🏾‍♂️ Now reread my analogy below, full circle ⭕️. Also, look up the definition of seed and read the first two definitions, if you want to have a nice giggle while doing so look at the related words.
      Edit2: how do y’all not understand by now that the male spe-rm would be the rose “seed” meaning the male is the rose. Yes the woman is a breed herself in her own right (hence the environmental difference in the roses) but we can all agree y’all bring forth life and like I said it’s just an ANALOGY. That’s why the women’s egg would be the soil. You plant a seed in soil and life grows. How do you not understand this. Awww mann ya killing me 😂

    • @morindahoelzle559
      @morindahoelzle559 3 роки тому +233

      @@lebabyjames2724 what

    • @lebabyjames2724
      @lebabyjames2724 3 роки тому +17

      @@morindahoelzle559 Your race is based off the seed of the father.. For instance, If I take 2 of the same rose seeds and planted one in America and the other in Asia; the soil, environment and etc may make the outcome look different but what’s gonna grow out of that soil?

  • @ColorsofHopeCraftsASMR
    @ColorsofHopeCraftsASMR 2 роки тому +17

    This was really good to watch. I’m trying to get licensed to foster and adopt, and I’m trying to educate myself on other cultures.

  • @N1kk13May
    @N1kk13May 2 роки тому +38

    I honestly love this, I started tearing up because growing up mixed I felt alone. My mom is white and my dad is black, I grew up with the white side of my family, I saw the black side once every blue moon but 99% I was surrounded by the white side of my family. I grew up to learn nothing about my culture, I went to a predominately black school up until my sophomore year and I didn’t fit in at school because I was too white or “white washed”, I grew up surrounded by subtle racism, I was/am used as a card to deflect my family being racist. Moving to Florida I was in a predominantly white school with maybe 13 black kids, me being mixed I definitely didn’t fit in because I was too black for the white kids and too white for the black kids…so now I’m left trying to embrace my black side and figure it out

    • @nichollskim
      @nichollskim 11 місяців тому +1

      im literally the exact same, but its my white side the figure out

    • @selfproclaimedesper778
      @selfproclaimedesper778 Місяць тому

      pathetic lmao. get bent.

  • @eliseerickson5994
    @eliseerickson5994 4 роки тому +2102

    "If I haven't heard those slurs to me, then I'm not in a position to reclaim them."

    • @c.k.4883
      @c.k.4883 3 роки тому +109

      The best thing said in this video

    • @thelastclairebender
      @thelastclairebender 3 роки тому +30

      That was such a good way to put that!

    • @Draftspike
      @Draftspike 3 роки тому +38

      Slurs shouldn’t even be reclaimed. You can’t own words, no matter how offensive they may be.

    • @Cindy-qc7lo
      @Cindy-qc7lo 3 роки тому +1

      FACTS

    • @SilverInkStaind
      @SilverInkStaind 3 роки тому +3

      I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS.

  • @Metonymy1979
    @Metonymy1979 4 роки тому +4254

    I'm mixed. I had a friend tell me her baby was going to have the best of both worlds. I asked her what she meant. She said "A white mind and black body". No joke. I haven't spoken to her since

    • @Ken-xw1lm
      @Ken-xw1lm 4 роки тому +706

      Lmao what the hell

    • @cyote312ify
      @cyote312ify 4 роки тому +430

      Thats...how the hell

    • @lope1258
      @lope1258 4 роки тому +78

      Metonymy1979 bruh

    • @abbifash
      @abbifash 4 роки тому +273

      Did they say this with a straight face, not that it matters. It's crazy nonetheless...

    • @Metonymy1979
      @Metonymy1979 4 роки тому +492

      @@abbifash You know when you look over at someone like "what the fuck did you just say?"
      I looked at her and she was straight up serious. But, I couldn't believe it so I asked her "are being serious right now?" She was totally serious. I walked out and haven't spoken to her since. I do know that her boy is awesome and living with his Dad.

  • @MichellaneousMe
    @MichellaneousMe 3 роки тому +12

    They were all so respectful of each other. It’s really nice to see

  • @DannyHFrey
    @DannyHFrey 2 роки тому +3

    im so glad you guys showed different mixed people. the way the world uses the term mixed as always made me feel like i shouldn’t use the word since it was always used to refer to half black half white people and seeing so many people embrace this word makes me feel okay to take it on

  • @bloodmoneyhistory6845
    @bloodmoneyhistory6845 4 роки тому +5122

    The girl is black and Asian and her name is “Amblasia” mannnn😭😂😂😂

  • @user-ck5xc1bj8w
    @user-ck5xc1bj8w 4 роки тому +2338

    I really appreciated how the girl in the blue shirt said to the girl with the scrunchie that she should still be able to take up space in an asian community as a mixed person!

    • @JenniRudolph
      @JenniRudolph 4 роки тому +190

      girl with the scrunchie here, I really appreciated that too!

    • @anjalibasnet8202
      @anjalibasnet8202 4 роки тому +7

      JenniRudolph wow! Hi! You did very good.

    • @steventolerhan5110
      @steventolerhan5110 4 роки тому +3

      Maybe if she wasnt racist it wouldnt be a problem....

    • @JenniRudolph
      @JenniRudolph 4 роки тому +46

      @@steventolerhan5110 how am I racist?

    • @steventolerhan5110
      @steventolerhan5110 4 роки тому +3

      @@JenniRudolph oh right because you're half asian its impossible for you to be racist. But you literally said you wanted to look less asian in the video...

  • @sophiewarner1737
    @sophiewarner1737 2 роки тому +1

    agagga that was so cute at the end how they all are friends now. Mixed people really go through so much with social isolation and alienation so it makes me so happy that they can find community with each other!!

  • @Tunsi_06.
    @Tunsi_06. 2 роки тому +31

    My Mother is sicilian🇮🇹 and my dad half tunisian🇹🇳 half palestinian🇵🇸

  • @juaniciapage403
    @juaniciapage403 4 роки тому +4001

    I would like to see this same conversation amongst an older generation of mixed race people

    • @c.k.4883
      @c.k.4883 3 роки тому +99

      That's what I thought about too. Like I wonder what my mom would say if she were in this given how she grew up and crazy stories I used to hear about my grandma (South Korean) and grandad (white, black, native American)

    • @carolinelackeyJCOTMlight
      @carolinelackeyJCOTMlight 3 роки тому +1

      Juanicia Page ugh

    • @juaniciapage403
      @juaniciapage403 3 роки тому +24

      Caroline Lackey is there something wrong with what I stated?

    • @joepike1972
      @joepike1972 3 роки тому +29

      @@juaniciapage403 I happen to agree with you as a older mixed race person. I found myself not relating to their millennial perspective on their mixed race.

    • @illusion2719
      @illusion2719 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah that would be really interesting. I'm technically a millennial and I do find that millennials focus a lot more on race than I think people used to. It might just be they are more outspoken about it but I don't really know. Race almost seems more political now and mixed race people are seen as more beautiful than other races.

  • @jesusharvey5160
    @jesusharvey5160 4 роки тому +2244

    "If I haven't heard those slurs towards me, I feel like maybe I'm not in a position to reclaim them." This was so well-worded! I think we often forget reclaiming is the reason of a certain race use words that used to, and sometimes still do, hold such derogatory power. Such a good example of why such terms are still offensive coming from a different race.

    • @tyaler9805
      @tyaler9805 4 роки тому +17

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @Clashy69
      @Clashy69 4 роки тому +57

      words aren't exclusive to anyone and only have power if you give it power and if you turn to violence over a word you have problems

    • @ssffe529
      @ssffe529 4 роки тому +38

      @@Clashy69 I agree. I think people also need to know that there's context when it comes to the word itself. They don't think about that though, just the word itself.

    • @jay1jayf
      @jay1jayf 4 роки тому +32

      nah that's a bad argument. Anybody should be able to use any word, it's only intent that matters.
      That perspective is mental gymnastic to try and control what other people say.

    • @BrotherCarver
      @BrotherCarver 4 роки тому +17

      If you still find a word offensive, you haven't reclaimed it, you've just put a personal limit on who can use it.

  • @Milo-oe7cc
    @Milo-oe7cc 3 роки тому +11

    i grew up thinking being mixed was the norm. all my friends were bi racial with black mums and i was shocked when i got to secondary school and people started asking if i was mixed or just lightskinned. it makes me rly sad seeing ppl struggle with their identity because tbh i never rly had identity problems just learn to love being unique and if ppl try come at you saying youre too much like one side or not enough like the other fuck em they’re just ignorant you’ll find ur people my fellow mixed people i promise!

  • @jilliancrocker1179
    @jilliancrocker1179 Рік тому +1

    I love this I’m mixed and that was so refreshing to know theirs more people like me who feel similarly to me

  • @astraruby
    @astraruby 4 роки тому +3122

    as a mixed race child i remember being in 4th grade and my dad, who is a dark skin black man, came into my classroom one day to pick me up, and my class mates were all white at the time, and they would say “your dad looks so scary” and i remember being so confused as to why he looked “scary” now realizing it’s sad that that’s embedded into children to think a big black man looks scary and i was like it’s just my dad :/

    • @P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      @P0k3D0nd3M4cG 4 роки тому +107

      @*sips tea* i know you're trying to relate, but being a "big scary black man" can literally get him killed.

    • @CocoaBe3tle
      @CocoaBe3tle 4 роки тому +48

      i was in 5th grade when my dad went to pick me up from school. (he is a dark skinned black man) all of the kids started a rumour that “the big scary black man at school” and some other crap. i never really understood why they did it until now

    • @arissa1762
      @arissa1762 4 роки тому +83

      My father is a very tall, large black man, and my teacher said, "I didn't remember your dad being that scary. I wouldn't want to make him angry."
      I just said, "I make him angry all the time. No biggie."
      He really never got loud or shouted and it sucked that people were instinctively scared.

    • @jademoreno7838
      @jademoreno7838 4 роки тому +11

      Yea i feel u like people have these images of colored people that instantly makes them non-likable, my bsf told me back in the day she used to be scared of black people cuz of the same reason of yours but shes learned from it now

    • @milagongo-rohmer3491
      @milagongo-rohmer3491 4 роки тому +7

      This happened to me too 🙁 I was so sad and mad that people thought that about my dad cause I knew nobody would say that about theirs

  • @xxttiiffaannyyxx
    @xxttiiffaannyyxx 4 роки тому +2140

    i agree just because you love or married someone of different ethnicity doesn’t mean you’re not racist. i’ve had a patient use the “im married to an asian woman” card to excuse his insensitive or inappropriate comments

    • @mnunezhk
      @mnunezhk 4 роки тому +85

      Tiffany Le absolutely. that’s when its fetishizing races.

    • @blockbusteryo
      @blockbusteryo 4 роки тому +29

      Tiffany Le Yeah especially not in Asia. ‘Some’ asian people can be so set in their ways about the idea of skin colour. I experienced huge amount of racism when visiting China, Japan, India, South Korea, Singapore, Thailand, Indonesia and Malaysia.

    • @darynascher2082
      @darynascher2082 4 роки тому +11

      For all you know his wife would say the same stuff behind closed doors 🤷🏽‍♂️ I make Jewish/native jokes all the time despite being both.

    • @iiChiLLL
      @iiChiLLL 4 роки тому +1

      Remix like from being black? Or darker skin toned Asian? I plan on going to Japan but idk how they react to black guys over there

    • @smitarose8712
      @smitarose8712 4 роки тому +8

      @@iiChiLLL In most asian countries, black people are considered "exotic" i guess you could say. Even if you're white you will get stared at as you aren't asian. And if you go to public placed many people will wanna take a picture with you (At least from personal experience)

  • @tuna_likethefish3282
    @tuna_likethefish3282 2 роки тому +7

    I am trying to educate myself more on this topic and I am super thankful for all the participants and their statements!

    • @philcanselmo9436
      @philcanselmo9436 2 роки тому +1

      Great to see this! because most people are ignorant af

  • @realmadridworld1688
    @realmadridworld1688 Рік тому

    This is one of the best Jubilee vids btw really enjoyed it and all 6 of these people are amazing. I wouldn’t be surprised if they became friends after this, it gave Breakfast Club vibes.

    • @realmadridworld1688
      @realmadridworld1688 Рік тому

      LOL I JUST SAW THE SCREENSHOT AT THE END 🤣💀 I’m happy for them!

  • @demidevil496
    @demidevil496 3 роки тому +4506

    The fact that being mixed in the US is something so different really confuses me, cause here in Brazil, we are almost all mixed

    • @bruhsoundeffect2882
      @bruhsoundeffect2882 3 роки тому +319

      In US, colonizers like french and english never mixed with native population, but as you probably already know, the same can't be said for Portuegese and Spanish. Mixed is reletively new, since it used to be both illegal here in a lot of places, and there wasn't that much interracial marrying in the US in general for the first like 200 years of its existence.
      Just a little over 50 years ago me simply existing was a crime.

    • @isaiah3872
      @isaiah3872 3 роки тому +74

      @@bruhsoundeffect2882 Aren't Louisiana Creoles a mix of French colonists & slaves?

    • @treacheroustea926
      @treacheroustea926 3 роки тому +117

      Isaiah Yeah, but that usually occurred through rape. Plus it was sort of hushed about, but something people were aware of

    • @bellsgalveas4855
      @bellsgalveas4855 3 роки тому +140

      YESSS its SO WEIRD bc here in Brazil im white and thats it, but outside of the country ppl guess right away "oh youre lebanese right?" it is hella interesting to see how different it is in different countries

    • @victoriacrow8741
      @victoriacrow8741 3 роки тому +74

      It's mainly because it was against the law in the US for black and white people to get married until 1967. Obviously, not every mix is black and white, but that's where a lot of the infatuation and interest in mixed people comes from. It's relatively new here.

  • @priscillao1064
    @priscillao1064 4 роки тому +1300

    PSA , there is a difference between nationality, race, and ethnicity.

    • @sladegreenfeldsheher3931
      @sladegreenfeldsheher3931 4 роки тому +23

      I just learned I'm multiracial. Pray for me through this challenging time.

    • @batmanlikespizza2541
      @batmanlikespizza2541 4 роки тому +3

      Thank you!!!

    • @Euphoryaaa
      @Euphoryaaa 4 роки тому +70

      But let’s not let that distract us from the fact that Logic is biracial

    • @para-yw9dn
      @para-yw9dn 4 роки тому +2

      what is the difference

    • @ZR_40
      @ZR_40 4 роки тому

      Priscilla Wow There’s a lot more woke people than I thought!

  • @xoxoavii
    @xoxoavii 10 місяців тому +5

    The "I've tried to hide my identity" hit so close to home. I'm mixed with mexican and black, and so when I was in middle school I got made fun of by the mexican kids A LOT. They'd always call me racist black slurs and just never even acknowledged the fact that I WAS half mexican. They'd always tell me that I'm not half mexican because I couldn't speak fluent spanish and because I didn't look mexican enough, and they'd always make those racist black jokes about how you can't see a a black person in a dark room because they were too dark (keep in mind, i was light as heck and some of them were even darker than me.) So because of this bullying from them, I became very insecure about my identity, and I'd constantly hide my black side in hopes they would not make fun of me. Currently now I am healing from that trauma, and I have come into the fact that just because I will be seen as black and not mexican, that I will still embrace both of my sides because both of those sides makes up who I am. I am mexican. I am black. I am both.

  • @justme.11
    @justme.11 2 роки тому +71

    I just want to say I don't use the N-word and I don't want anyone else in my circle to use it.
    There's no such thing as reclaimed. I've never ever heard that word used positively or in an empowering way.
    It's negative, no matter who says it. Black people using it, to me, is like a transference of hate from outside to the inside. Now only we can say this hateful thing to each other. Now only we can hate ourselves.
    The history is still there. I also don't allow black people to call me that. I don't care that the end of the word is changed. It's not what I am.

    • @shysweet5439
      @shysweet5439 2 роки тому +8

      same! i've never used it, it's not something i ever heard from my immediate family or in my household growing up, and i've never associated with any people who use it. it bothers me that people (especially white people) may think that it's a word all black americans freely use.

    • @MarTechSDR
      @MarTechSDR 2 роки тому +6

      You don't have to use it. Just because you've never heard it used in a positive way doesn't mean it's not. Any black person I know calls theirs friends their niggas. There is nothing negative about that. The word is very much reclaimed by the black community and it's laughable that you say "there's no such thing". It's a personal choice if you and your family or friends choose not to say it. Doesn't give you the space to condemn those who do.

    • @jiminlong7096
      @jiminlong7096 2 роки тому +1

      You're different and that is nice

    • @agfromdai.e3806
      @agfromdai.e3806 2 роки тому +3

      @@MarTechSDR you’re a clown. The fact that you think words can just change meanings bc a person with a different skin color uses it is laughable itself

    • @smokedout7129
      @smokedout7129 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for having common sense. I never can walk up to someone and say "hey n***a."
      It just feels wrong and i'm blk and started out in "the h00d."

  • @bronteboy89
    @bronteboy89 3 роки тому +4781

    It’s found it kinda funny how the both blasian girls are like opposites, the more Asian looking one identifies with black people more but the black looking girl identifies with Asian people

    • @AshaNimo1
      @AshaNimo1 3 роки тому +538

      Literally I just see full black with the girl who identifies as an Asian more lol

    • @kajuskup375
      @kajuskup375 3 роки тому +430

      Noticed that too. The black girls said i'm more asian and it couldn't be further from the truth i feel like she just doesn't want to be black and she's just ignorant to the truth.

    • @gigijade
      @gigijade 3 роки тому +935

      @@kajuskup375 no... she is probably more connected to her chinese culture since she speaks the language and her family

    • @spiritsaway
      @spiritsaway 3 роки тому +549

      @@kajuskup375 she honestly could be biologically more asian but just black passing. genes are strange crazy things happen and this isn’t even rare.

    • @tinahayes9746
      @tinahayes9746 3 роки тому +167

      @@spiritsaway I mean you do make a point. Halsey (singer) is biracial and she is more linked to her black side but she's white passing.

  • @anglfce611
    @anglfce611 4 роки тому +1851

    "Too black for the white kids, and too white for the blacks..." - Earl Sweatshirt
    This hit home, thank you for this Jubilee, I'm in (happy) tears.

    • @michaelgosling3910
      @michaelgosling3910 4 роки тому +16

      I think the take away from that bar is that we can have shared experience rather you are mixed or not.

    • @salamilid4125
      @salamilid4125 4 роки тому +2

      @@michaelgosling3910 yea basically but it fits the context

    • @katangelica7974
      @katangelica7974 4 роки тому +2

      Michael Gosling I’ve been saying that for ages and it’s so true

    • @taylorangelinaa
      @taylorangelinaa 4 роки тому +1

      omg this is so true

    • @andrea-ns6vq
      @andrea-ns6vq 4 роки тому +3

      🙄 imagine how tired full raced people are

  • @sampaik9034
    @sampaik9034 2 роки тому +1

    Jubilee!! You guys should make a video with 1 person from each of the Hawaiian Islands❤️ I promise it would be very interesting :)

  • @nikkinorman4254
    @nikkinorman4254 Рік тому +4

    "What tf am I" is so relatable 😭 I love my people tho 🙂 I'm glad I am who I am ✌🏽 Learn self-love and to see beyond color but the humanity in us all.

  • @gwendolynmcguire6779
    @gwendolynmcguire6779 4 роки тому +2371

    FINALLY A VIDEO WITH A GOOD “VARIETY” OF MIXED PEOPLE NOT JUST BLACK/WHITE

    • @Khai-MediaCo
      @Khai-MediaCo 4 роки тому +48

      All the women & one man is mixed with some sort of ASIAN.

    • @anijones6734
      @anijones6734 4 роки тому +45

      It’s because that’s the original meaning of “mixed race”

    • @Khai-MediaCo
      @Khai-MediaCo 4 роки тому +2

      @@anijones6734 What is?

    • @anijones6734
      @anijones6734 4 роки тому +49

      DummerThanaBoxofRox I’m saying “mixed race” as a label came from black/white mixing

    • @Khai-MediaCo
      @Khai-MediaCo 4 роки тому +3

      @@anijones6734 Oh, ok, understood.

  • @okTownes
    @okTownes 4 роки тому +2389

    “That’s such a terrible thing to tell someone... that you can’t be every part of who you are.”
    Black hoodie dude really got me in the feels as a mixed Hispanic who can’t speak Spanish... felt every word

    • @chromberries7329
      @chromberries7329 4 роки тому +147

      ok Jnlt black hoodie dude was spitting straight facts this entire video... loved hearing his perspectives.

    • @thatlittlehuman9238
      @thatlittlehuman9238 4 роки тому +51

      That hit super deep for me as well since, like you, I’m a mixed Latino that was told to not speak Spanish because it wasn’t perfect.
      LOOK WHO’S NEARLY FLUENT NOW!! Lol one day...

    • @isabellatorres8293
      @isabellatorres8293 4 роки тому +3

      ok Jnlt felt :/

    • @ayacruz8685
      @ayacruz8685 4 роки тому +16

      I'm in the same boat as you- it feels like I'm disconnected with that part of myself. And it was refreshing to hear him say that.

    • @Bryan-gj2jk
      @Bryan-gj2jk 4 роки тому +2

      ok Jnlt then learn

  • @kevinb1776
    @kevinb1776 2 роки тому +2

    I will be a new father to a mixed race baby in the next few months. I have so much to learn. Thank you for these perspectives

  • @nestmaru
    @nestmaru 3 роки тому +28

    I like that Danny brought up that how you present is important in America (when responding to the question about passing). I get that Ajna is really proud of his roots but real talk: he passes for a white man and gets to enjoy his culture too without dealing with the consequences of someone that looks more stereotypically black or brown. A lot of people dont get that privilege, so it's easy for him to say that race is more important than passing!

  • @jaderobinson2489
    @jaderobinson2489 4 роки тому +1257

    The worst thing about being mixed is when your friends start talking about their races. Sometimes, people take you being mixed as an opportunity to tell you what you are and what you aren’t. It doesn’t help anyone.

    • @jadkins6500
      @jadkins6500 4 роки тому +15

      My family is full of mixed people, so when people ask were I'm from it gets awkward

    • @momov4060
      @momov4060 4 роки тому +12

      I am half Nigerian and half Dutch and I had a friend who is the same but he since he knew me he started to really want to abandon the Dutch side and become full Nigerian, which I did not want and he like shamed me for not knowing some Nigerian stuff and it became so awkward that it destroyed our friendship. Literally lost one of my best friends because of being mix

    • @Depplova81
      @Depplova81 4 роки тому

      Nope x

    • @rainxp1318
      @rainxp1318 4 роки тому +1

      L Travis bruh that doesn’t even make sense

    • @Austin.davis1a
      @Austin.davis1a 4 роки тому +4

      Jade Robinson I couldn’t agree more! I am Black and korean and i have heard people use my mixed ethnicity against me by claiming i am not fully anything, therefore I cannot relate fully to any one race. It shouldn’t matter what race you are to support and understand other ethnicities.

  • @ceceee8657
    @ceceee8657 4 роки тому +3287

    Fr hearing my white friends go “I’d have cute mixed kids” is so weird like you can’t just pick and choose who you fall in love with 💀

    • @a.h.i267
      @a.h.i267 4 роки тому +165

      that’s because a lot of the time Women and men who say that don’t actually fall in love with the person they have kids with. they have kids with them to satisfy they are own fetishes. that’s why, and im not generalizing but I do you see a lot of white women become baby mommas to mixed kids. and a lot of mixed kids with identity crises. They were not born into a stable home, which is important for every kid, but especially for a mixed child in our current climate when it comes to race/ethnicity. but those are just my thoughts🤷‍♀️

    • @eliseerickson5994
      @eliseerickson5994 4 роки тому +108

      Similarly my friend (who's white) said he doesn't want to have kids with a person of color because he wants his kids to have blue eyes. And that was alarming to me that some people think that way.

    • @m.5031
      @m.5031 4 роки тому +53

      As a brazilian, I was so confused when they were talking about it, like... what??? I've never heard something like that here... maybe because most of us are mixed?? Idk. Or is that like a white american thing? lol

    • @MTBR077
      @MTBR077 4 роки тому +65

      It's not about falling in love, it's about having a creepy obsession with what ethnicity person they'd bang to create a frankenbaby. Not even respecting their future partners at that level you're expecting.

    • @hannahkhan.08
      @hannahkhan.08 4 роки тому +19

      @@m.5031 I see why you don't get it, I do think it is a American thing, specifically, a white female thing. I mean, I guess I can't speak for them though because I am not fully white myself.

  • @phells001
    @phells001 2 роки тому +5

    There's nothing beautiful than being "mixed" woww ❤️❤️

  • @crystalmason829
    @crystalmason829 7 місяців тому

    Well done this is a great 👍 channel keep it up we need these conversations

  • @versarchie
    @versarchie 3 роки тому +5963

    the way race, ethnicity and nationality are mixed up in this vid is nuts 💀

    • @lastdays3148
      @lastdays3148 3 роки тому +46

      Archie Versarchie, the last word nuts fits the 21st Century🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Bi0m3ga
      @Bi0m3ga 3 роки тому +311

      I fully agree, this video only reflects how completely uninformed people are in general about these terms. Conflating arbitrary race with genetic ancestry. Conflating ethnicity with race and genetic ancestry. Conflating race with nationality. Conflating genetic ancestry with identity. And it just goes on and on. It’s as you say completely nuts. It’s also highly understandable. People are not being properly educated about this topic. Constantly being bombarded with misinformation. In addition many individuals are perfectly comfortable with their misinformed position as long as it supports how they label themselves and others.

    • @kahliahemingway5637
      @kahliahemingway5637 3 роки тому +20

      Can you please tell me the difference I’ve always wondered

    • @kahliahemingway5637
      @kahliahemingway5637 3 роки тому +5

      @@welcomebacktoanotherepisod8542 thank you so much for explaining!!😀

    • @amy0775
      @amy0775 3 роки тому +220

      @@kahliahemingway5637 I talked to a girl who said she was "mixed" because she was Chinese & Filipino, and I was like no you're not because you're still 100% Asian. Her parents are just different nationalities, but they're the same race. So she is not multiracial, while I have parents who are from two distinctly different races so I am mixed/multiracial.

  • @Arkinas
    @Arkinas 4 роки тому +4542

    African is not a race, Australian is not a race, Jamacian is not a race.

    • @SuperHeyme12
      @SuperHeyme12 4 роки тому +613

      Arkina thank you this really is episode about being mixed ethnicity

    • @issakendall3074
      @issakendall3074 4 роки тому +148

      Arkina ever heard of indigenous Australians? the first people on australian land before the british came over and as they called “bred” us out. you should really think before you comment about something you don’t understand. Australian is a race

    • @Arkinas
      @Arkinas 4 роки тому +484

      iSsA kEnDaLl indigenous Australian are called aboriginals. Australia population is massively white. Shut the hell up and do your research. Australian is not a race, same as as African not being a race.

    • @jessicasebastiao9069
      @jessicasebastiao9069 4 роки тому +17

      Thank you!

    • @KK-jl8em
      @KK-jl8em 4 роки тому +86

      Arkina there’s only one race the human race, we all have different phenotypes but we’re the same race :)

  • @mehnazhossain4632
    @mehnazhossain4632 2 роки тому

    it's good that you have a platform to discuss it.

  • @mc-yb2dp
    @mc-yb2dp 2 роки тому +2

    This video means a lot to me as a mixed person because I find that a lot of people will try to invalid the love shared between my parents because of their cultural differences. And I also find people now, that I am married in an interracial relationship making cringe worthy comments about my husband and I. I think the most important thing for any person is to just treat eachother as human. And remember, respect, and love are the only things that matter. Everyday is a learning experience, and it's nice to be nice. Visibility is important and all I hope to achieve is to protect my loved ones and myself from pain, and learn how to positively navigate a world that don't always understand me.

  • @strawberrymilk5955
    @strawberrymilk5955 4 роки тому +1379

    Anyone gonna talk about how the girl in blue has earings with mini babies on them.

    • @gabby-fb3jc
      @gabby-fb3jc 4 роки тому +30

      I love them 😻

    • @milestoriani3241
      @milestoriani3241 4 роки тому +7

      i didn’t make the ones that she has yet i’ve been starting a shop selling baby earrings and jewelry! if you wanna buy some please hit me up haha

    • @gakailyn9249
      @gakailyn9249 4 роки тому +45

      Right? And one was white and the other was black? Girl knew what she was coming for

    • @OtakuKawaiiKat
      @OtakuKawaiiKat 4 роки тому +46

      Is she...you know... *cuffs jeans*... *hand flip*

    • @dondiis
      @dondiis 4 роки тому +6

      @@OtakuKawaiiKat ;)

  • @byronbaldwyn7330
    @byronbaldwyn7330 4 роки тому +2658

    This is one of the few Middle Ground episodes where everyone is likable.

    • @improviserfresh8995
      @improviserfresh8995 4 роки тому +37

      Byron Baldwyn no not really, the guy with the white shirt with rainbow logo was annoying AF

    • @h00liaa
      @h00liaa 4 роки тому +126

      @@improviserfresh8995 Girl where💀

    • @peanutbuttercup5561
      @peanutbuttercup5561 4 роки тому +48

      Nah the short haired girl in the overalls was annoying to me

    • @freerights6695
      @freerights6695 4 роки тому +10

      @@improviserfresh8995 probably cuz he acts kinda feminine and it's just weird to see a man act like that

    • @madant22
      @madant22 4 роки тому +2

      Mixed people are usually cool people

  • @Brandon_Moves_You
    @Brandon_Moves_You 2 роки тому

    This is powerful and an important conversation.

  • @lanatherana157
    @lanatherana157 2 роки тому

    This is such a great space. I feel so seen!

  • @jaamtart3755
    @jaamtart3755 4 роки тому +2531

    The struggle of being mixed race : Not looking like your parents

    • @connargosdin
      @connargosdin 4 роки тому +64

      JRXY • looking like BOTH of your parents

    • @Savyflores
      @Savyflores 4 роки тому +70

      I feel like I look adopted XD

    • @MrGohanUchiha
      @MrGohanUchiha 4 роки тому +5

      Wrong in many cases.

    • @jaamtart3755
      @jaamtart3755 4 роки тому +1

      Savy Flores ikr

    • @korie4198
      @korie4198 4 роки тому +25

      I'm not mixed and I still don't look like my parents because I got all the recesive traits lol

  • @LaMenteOpen
    @LaMenteOpen 4 роки тому +1206

    LMFAO they’re so used to being in the middle of everything that they even want to REALLY stand in the middle of the lines 🤣 this would also be me 😭😹

    • @naavajo
      @naavajo 4 роки тому +2

      lol so true

    • @beardownbitches4074
      @beardownbitches4074 4 роки тому +2

      lol same

    • @dayrachi3455
      @dayrachi3455 4 роки тому +12

      ​@@GlobalGioReacts The whole point of being "mixed race" is that you arent on one side and you shouldnt have to choose one side. Parents who lowkey force their kids to only identify with one side more are doing more damage then good

    • @alansands256
      @alansands256 4 роки тому

      @@dayrachi3455 Does that go for both sides?

    • @chicagoliightsx
      @chicagoliightsx 4 роки тому

      K.

  • @cliphound80
    @cliphound80 7 місяців тому +1

    Some mixed race heritage myself and in my family and I hate choosing sides. I try not to judge for race and nationality as so many do.Will never try to hide my identity from anyone or for any reason. What you see is what you get inside and out and I’m just authentic and real about who I am.A beautiful video and pretty relateable ☺️

  • @limotgirl9863
    @limotgirl9863 2 роки тому +2

    Ashur looks so friendly! I really like him

  • @theweekndincludesthursdays8016
    @theweekndincludesthursdays8016 4 роки тому +4727

    All jokes aside though, that Jamaican-Australian guy looks like a Disney Prince.

    • @RochelleWalker
      @RochelleWalker 4 роки тому +109

      Jolisa I’m not sure he was saying his dad was racist toward black people, though. He may have meant racist remarks toward those of other races. Still not ok, but that’s a different matter.

    • @amyzerfu4950
      @amyzerfu4950 4 роки тому +185

      Jolisa how is that the guy's fault? His dad's racial slurs do not define him.

    • @catya
      @catya 4 роки тому +54

      @Polina Tkachenko He was just saying Australian because its not white American.. idk

    • @Mhats
      @Mhats 4 роки тому +11

      @Polina Tkachenko yeah it is, i have a friend who's bi racial, she's half polish- half russian

    • @angelicalim8531
      @angelicalim8531 4 роки тому +15

      More like Stephen Curry0

  • @alexsarmiento4142
    @alexsarmiento4142 3 роки тому +2877

    The “are you adopted?” Question hit me like a ton of bricks with it’s relatability

    • @samuraix558
      @samuraix558 3 роки тому +61

      My mom's Chinese. My little brother looks about half Chinese, my little sister looks about FULL Chinese (the knockout gorgeous kind, too) and I'm the only one of my siblings who actually sPEAKS IT, and I'm blonde. Very blonde. Thanks dad.

    • @SeeMeRowan
      @SeeMeRowan 3 роки тому +30

      My mom is pale af, my dad is Indian, and has been mistaken for being black because apparently Indian people can’t be tall, but he is much darker than me or especially my siblings. I’m the darkest of me and my siblings, which isn’t saying much because I’m like a dark olive. But whenever I’m in public with either one of my parents, I’m either asked if I’m adopted or Latino. I feel you fam

    • @ninaeyerman5970
      @ninaeyerman5970 3 роки тому +2

      Ik me too I’m mixed and when I’m with my white friends and family I get that question sometimes

    • @jasonsezno8197
      @jasonsezno8197 3 роки тому +3

      I can feel this pretty strong as well as I've gotten it many times. My mom is mostly Hawaiian but has some black and white in her, my dad is Puerto Rican. My dad is kinda dark skin but he left when I was young. My mom and all my siblings have olive toned skin while I came out chocolate brown. There have been on a few occasions where someone thought I was "bothering" my own family/mother while in public... light skin people are treated better in western society.

    • @og-greenmachine8623
      @og-greenmachine8623 3 роки тому +1

      Was told that, in my own family...

  • @esther_riungu
    @esther_riungu Рік тому

    That was very insightful 👏🏽 👌🏽

  • @soundmind6477
    @soundmind6477 Рік тому +11

    I’m half Nigerian and half Irish and proud to have both heritages. I couldn’t care less if people see me as just black, or just white, big deal!!
    Sometimes it feels as if we enjoy being a topic of controversy, when in reality it’s a non issue.

  • @lynnvb
    @lynnvb 4 роки тому +599

    9:17 THEY PUT “daintily agree” WITH HIS NAME AFTER THAT LOLLLLL

  • @yvonne3970
    @yvonne3970 4 роки тому +4609

    People’s honestly need to know the difference between African & black.

    • @gamervibezz5928
      @gamervibezz5928 4 роки тому +113

      Exactly

    • @YashKansalx
      @YashKansalx 4 роки тому +47

      True

    • @claireindigo1200
      @claireindigo1200 4 роки тому +17

      Yvonne Antonio On God

    • @Butterfly-vr7ci
      @Butterfly-vr7ci 4 роки тому +184

      Yvonne Antonio
      What major difference? Anyone native to Africa is Black (Sub-Saharan Africa) to be exact, but there’s also places outside Africa blacks are native to.

    • @marimolina5599
      @marimolina5599 4 роки тому +107

      What's wrong w African American? .. It's like you're ashamed to be associated w Africa in your blood.

  • @nikki-kq6ul
    @nikki-kq6ul 3 роки тому +1

    I am really sorry about not knowing the fact that saying you wanna have mixed kids with someone is problematic. I myself have never said it but heard my friend saying it a couple of times but never thought much of it. Thankyou for the insight!

  • @Natalie-xu7mp
    @Natalie-xu7mp Рік тому +10

    im half white and half hispanic but im white passing and this video made me feel a lot better than im not the only one who's had problems and felt like their not enough. whenever i would tell someone that im half hispanic (puerto rican/ colombian) they would always tell me that i was lying and that "you dont look it so that means your not" was super damaging as a kid. and it made me really hate a part of who i was. but I've come to expect who i am and wouldn't change anything.

    • @Natalie-xu7mp
      @Natalie-xu7mp Рік тому +1

      @@mrcsosndr7780 i know its not a race, but hispanics dont really fit in the category of "white"

    • @Natalie-xu7mp
      @Natalie-xu7mp Рік тому +2

      @@mrcsosndr7780 also i never said it was lol

    • @catalinarossi
      @catalinarossi Рік тому +2

      @@Natalie-xu7mp They do. Majority of our population here in Argentina is white. Also, many Puerto Ricans are white as well. You aren’t mixed, maybe culturally you are or a small percentage.

    • @urapeenees340
      @urapeenees340 Рік тому

      Stop saying you are loved when you’re half Hispanic. Hispanic isn’t a race

  • @alissonbate842
    @alissonbate842 4 роки тому +1458

    “If i havent heard those racial slurs towards me then maybe I’m not in a position to reclaim them” although i may not fully agree that’s definitely something to think about.

    • @sionhailu5421
      @sionhailu5421 4 роки тому +100

      I think that this statement was pretty interesting to hear... and made me think deeper as a mixed race person as well. I dont know if I fully agree as well, but the opinion she made was necessary.

    • @alissonbate842
      @alissonbate842 4 роки тому +6

      Sion Hailu i completely agree.

    • @numdd4717
      @numdd4717 4 роки тому +88

      I think it's one of those moments we realize not using racial slurs like that at all is the only way forward.

    • @ayoaina2315
      @ayoaina2315 4 роки тому +19

      @@numdd4717 I know right! I don't know why people can't realize that.

    • @mimimul5051
      @mimimul5051 4 роки тому +27

      Deniz Devrim Jr. I completely agree as a black person it’s actually really uncomfortable to hear mixed people say the N-word just because you’re half black doesn’t give you the right to say the word

  • @claratobe6506
    @claratobe6506 4 роки тому +3998

    I can't believe I'm saying this but think there was not a single person I disliked

    • @ash4316
      @ash4316 4 роки тому +472

      @@user-qt9ly8ef8p Damn sucks to be you.

    • @rc-qc8yh
      @rc-qc8yh 4 роки тому +11

      Clara Tobe YES!!! Totally agree

    • @blumma3194
      @blumma3194 4 роки тому +8

      ikr 😊

    • @anisaa8803
      @anisaa8803 4 роки тому +22

      Clara Tobe i’d say it was the half Iranian guy, nothing cute about being openly racist

    • @serena6054
      @serena6054 4 роки тому +135

      Anisa Gashi how was he racist?

  • @donnie1238
    @donnie1238 2 роки тому

    I am 17 years old and I’m mix Filipino and Irish and I love this video nice work!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @cocoryantoland8622
    @cocoryantoland8622 Рік тому

    I just started seeing this channel, and I would love to be on one of these. So far I have a ton of experience in common. Would definitely be a great person to participate

  • @ahmedabdulhamid8628
    @ahmedabdulhamid8628 4 роки тому +1602

    "If it's not used towards you then ur not in a position to reclaim them" PREACH 3:44

    • @sohyangworld1544
      @sohyangworld1544 3 роки тому +17

      I was shook

    • @nirajsingh8403
      @nirajsingh8403 3 роки тому +1

      Ur aren't even if it is

    • @simplyghosted1926
      @simplyghosted1926 3 роки тому +3

      That’s why I don’t say it. I mean I live in a predominantly black area, and no ones really racist, so the only time someone’s called the n word, it’s usually by another black person just being friendly. And when I white person does the say the n word, they don’t mean it in a racist way, because they don’t see it as racist. So no one here is really called the n word by an actual racist, but I still don’t say it.

    • @zorathemagic7310
      @zorathemagic7310 3 роки тому +7

      I think no one should say slurs tbh 🤷‍♀️

    • @zorathemagic7310
      @zorathemagic7310 3 роки тому +1

      @Layton T. Montgomery there are other words for that lmfao also these are for race so i dont agree with saying them at all

  • @kooolkidninjamaster
    @kooolkidninjamaster 4 роки тому +1510

    The chinese black girl moving lines when the dude started talking about collage essays killed me

    • @cadeyjones3328
      @cadeyjones3328 4 роки тому +56

      kooolkidninjamaster “collage” 💀

    • @SL-ul3yr
      @SL-ul3yr 4 роки тому +58

      lol "oh fuck that counts?"

    • @mooniex825
      @mooniex825 4 роки тому +5

      College*

    • @bbanks4351
      @bbanks4351 4 роки тому +2

      Cadey Jones it’s youtube not a college essay

    • @MTBR077
      @MTBR077 4 роки тому

      @@austinwilliams1094 it's a spell check remark. It doesn't need that much rage for being right lol.

  • @emobunny7515
    @emobunny7515 2 роки тому +8

    Stop picking sides you don't have to pick either side trying to feel whole if you truly want to feel whole just be you

  • @jasminealltyga
    @jasminealltyga 2 роки тому

    Yoo this was an insight I literally thought that maybe if everyone was mixed it would possibly end racism and to hear that we still could possibly have problems outside really gave me insight to the fact that its more within of solving the problem. This sounds so cliché but I never thought that mixed people have any issues just because I sort of saw them as this key to solving this ancient problem 🤯

  • @Manassol
    @Manassol 4 роки тому +8014

    This video: *exists*
    People who think mixed race is just half black half white : 👁👄👁
    Edit: My mixed self sitting here reading all these comments 😅
    But no seriously you’d be surprised how many people think mixed race is just half black half white. And it’s not just in America because I’m British and I’ve seen it.
    (I was just tryna make a funny comment and now look 😓)

    • @GrahamGotGame
      @GrahamGotGame 4 роки тому +103

      Never really think that. Especially since I live in a diverse area close to DC.

    • @nicoledylan6532
      @nicoledylan6532 4 роки тому +37

      Jada Henry Ward thank u

    • @darealpoopster
      @darealpoopster 4 роки тому +77

      Jada Henry Ward Literally no one thinks that.

    • @lindsaycox7233
      @lindsaycox7233 4 роки тому +12

      I've never seen it like that.

    • @kaylaalexander5977
      @kaylaalexander5977 4 роки тому +53

      To be technical this is more about mixed ethnicities. You have Natives from the new world, Asians, blacks, and whites. Then those can be separated into ethnicities.

  • @hotazchilli
    @hotazchilli 3 роки тому +4443

    White side: ‘you’re so black’, Black side: ‘you’re so white’

    • @exxiyya4855
      @exxiyya4855 3 роки тому +21

      Never heard sm truth, but I'm Asian and African.

    • @splitlele
      @splitlele 3 роки тому +12

      Jade A
      pretty much whenever i hang out with my mom's side of the family or my dad's side

    • @kaab6052
      @kaab6052 3 роки тому

      Word

    • @LucasRodrigues-gy7gt
      @LucasRodrigues-gy7gt 3 роки тому

      So true I have doing it with my nephew lol

    • @gemma4449
      @gemma4449 3 роки тому +3

      Tell em girl 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @jules7184
    @jules7184 3 роки тому +33

    Can we just take a moment to notice Amblashia’s earrings? They’re babies; a white and a black, probably to symbolize mixed race

  • @KINABFRESH
    @KINABFRESH 3 роки тому

    im proud of this group

  • @sadscientist9995
    @sadscientist9995 4 роки тому +632

    Growing up mixed : the white kids called me black and the black kids called me white

    • @daizfully1364
      @daizfully1364 4 роки тому +61

      I take this seriously though, It's a form of alienation and you end up never feel like you belong (may sound exaggerated to some but it's real).

    • @Alicapy
      @Alicapy 4 роки тому +3

      exactlyyy

    • @gabrielvaldes-ramos6980
      @gabrielvaldes-ramos6980 4 роки тому +6

      Other way around for me.

    • @Dredahooper
      @Dredahooper 4 роки тому +5

      Daiz fully faxs, honestly it helped me to kick it w both of em, but i can never rlly be in one group forever

    • @ellamurray2597
      @ellamurray2597 4 роки тому

      blue 2122 YES

  • @nat-oi2fh
    @nat-oi2fh 4 роки тому +2495

    People don’t even realize how much they fetishize mixed people. The amount of times I’ve heard people around me say “I hope I ‪marry outside my race so my kids can be mixed” is so weird to me. Why do you feel the need to customize your kids?
    Edit: To those in the replies who disagree with me. When your children don’t come out with lightskin curly hair and light eyes don’t come crying to the rest of us because you wanted to play sims with your child. You should not love your child any less or more because of how they look, that is absolutely disgusting. *you should not want your child to be your type*

    • @buddhapimp8890
      @buddhapimp8890 4 роки тому +155

      Honestly it’s better than people who refuse to date outside their race.

    • @amy-leeskyy548
      @amy-leeskyy548 4 роки тому +139

      Buddha Pimp how?? it’s the same exact thing...

    • @cherrytomato8259
      @cherrytomato8259 4 роки тому +70

      Amy-Lee Skyy meaning they are open to more races than just one

    • @amy-leeskyy548
      @amy-leeskyy548 4 роки тому +54

      chantel x but how does heir love life affect you in any way? it really doesn’t matter if someone would rather date inside their race tbh. they’re much better than those who date to get a perfect skin colour baby

    • @pb66
      @pb66 4 роки тому +19

      @Loving Life You probably differentiate the words "racist" and "racial". Just because someone says something racial doesn't make it "racist". Racist means prejudice towards a racial group.

  • @marinart433
    @marinart433 3 роки тому +2

    holy cow, this openned my mind in such a different way, because I'm brazilian, so things here are sooo mixed in a way that, me being "half black and half white" isn't actually 1/2, because even my father is black, his grandma was white, and my mom, who's white had a grandpa who was from a native brazilian tribe. But even though I knew all that, I've never stopped to think about that this really is something, since I've never felt I could fit with black people, they always looked at me differetly, like Annette said, for being "white washed", or with white people, since I look more like a black person and it was so weird they had the feeling that I was trying to "copy" them, idk, it made me think about it in a deeper way
    And even, like Jenni said about how even if in the US mixing increased at some point, that wouldn't end racism or colorism
    that was just brilliant, amazing, thank you jubilee and all the crew for promoting all this interesting videos that, even if you don't relate, you can still learn something new

  • @whoopsidc1750
    @whoopsidc1750 Рік тому

    Was talking about me being adopted and native to my coworkers. Two of them were actually the first Indigenous people I met besides my brothers. On different occasions, they reacted with their chins tucked in and scowled as they shook their head no at me. They were repulsed. They wouldn’t react like that to my tan asf brothers. Thankfully I got over my fear of that kind of rejection and met so many wonderful native people and got the chance to talk about our amazing cultures, our history, where we’re from and if we ever visited :)

  • @endysjovel9338
    @endysjovel9338 4 роки тому +774

    This broke the stereotype that mixed ppl aren’t just light skin ppl

    • @aestheticgirl7730
      @aestheticgirl7730 4 роки тому +14

      PERIODDDT

    • @augustsage7265
      @augustsage7265 4 роки тому +28

      YES Thank You! A lot of people think all mixed folks are light skin, and it really isn’t true.

    • @Antisatan7771
      @Antisatan7771 4 роки тому +15

      Don’t get it twisted. When us black people joke about “light skins” we referring to other black people who are black but just light skin. And sometimes people that are half black and half white.

    • @juandavidrestrepoduran6007
      @juandavidrestrepoduran6007 4 роки тому +3

      Dude literally there've been mixed people around in masses since some 500 years ago and many are brown.

    • @johannaflorez2899
      @johannaflorez2899 4 роки тому

      Yeah, it's so easy to equate "biracial" with "half POC half white." While half black and half white is probably the majority of biracial Americans, as we see Asians and Black people and other ethnicities can have children together too!

  • @leki454
    @leki454 4 роки тому +765

    "Do all homeless people think the same?" would be extremely interesting

    • @mickloving9737
      @mickloving9737 4 роки тому +4

      Lea Jasmin I’m homeless pick me

    • @dannyblue2178
      @dannyblue2178 4 роки тому +2

      Extreme

    • @ashleyyyy8194
      @ashleyyyy8194 4 роки тому +1

      Omg yess

    • @Insert639
      @Insert639 4 роки тому

      @@mickloving9737
      I'm homeless and don't want them to pick you.
      See, look, that proves that not all homeless people think the same! Who would have thought!

    • @PenzoKeik
      @PenzoKeik 4 роки тому

      and also sad

  • @jcam5064
    @jcam5064 2 роки тому

    That last part 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @chl0wning
    @chl0wning Рік тому +1

    Love that they stayed friends 🥰

  • @lydiab3039
    @lydiab3039 4 роки тому +503

    Not enough people know the difference between race,nationality and ethnicity.

    • @dianas7429
      @dianas7429 4 роки тому +26

      Exactly! It's like those differences are not taught in school in the US!

    • @sladegreenfeldsheher3931
      @sladegreenfeldsheher3931 4 роки тому +5

      I just learned I'm not white after all, I'm mixed race... My life has been a lie...

    • @rantingintothevoid
      @rantingintothevoid 4 роки тому +19

      Right! Like my father is Sicilian and my mom is russian jew. My race is obviously white, my nationality is American because this is where I was born and my ethnicity is jewish. People constantly say that jewish is a religion and not an ethnicity and they’re dead wrong. I don’t take part in Judaism but I am very proud to celebrate my culture. I don’t understand why people find that concept so hard to understand.

    • @thesenutz777
      @thesenutz777 4 роки тому +3

      babymoonlight x facts, like if people can figure out if they’re Jewish by a dna test it’s obviously an ethnicity but still want to argue it’s not smh

    • @Diamond-xl1vs
      @Diamond-xl1vs 4 роки тому +2

      Daniel Price no you’re white

  • @gabytshibanda8467
    @gabytshibanda8467 4 роки тому +968

    When the Jamaican / Australian guy said that his dad would say racists remarks , it hit me .. My mom who is white and dad is black, when they separated my mom would all of sudden generalize all black people to be the same just because of what my dad did to her

    • @maplephox2385
      @maplephox2385 4 роки тому +17

      !! Exactly

    • @melissac5740
      @melissac5740 4 роки тому +71

      Im sorry that happened to you. That just seems so toxic for a mother to say in front of their mixed child. Not only are they making disparaging comments of the other parent but also of the ethnicity of their own child.

    • @livingjackor
      @livingjackor 4 роки тому +24

      UGH SAME! AND MY MOM THINKS SHE CAN SAY THE N WORD ALL SHE WANTS

    • @imaanibeatrice2183
      @imaanibeatrice2183 4 роки тому +8

      my dad does the same against my half black mum. And my mum does it back against my dad who is from south east asia

    • @Indielox
      @Indielox 4 роки тому

      Epiphilarity let her know how you feel or she will think & continue to do so.

  • @kaixiang5390
    @kaixiang5390 2 роки тому +1

    These conversations need to be longer