The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck | The Secret of Life, Sex and Money
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- Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
05:48 - How To Get Girls - With Mark Manson
25:27 - Social Media Is Creating Social Anxiety
41:03 - How Mark Came Up With "The Subtle Art..
01:09:10 - Contemplating Mortality
01:22:05 - How Money Changed Mark Manson
01:28:50 - How Mark Learned To Say No
01:55:02 - Mark's Biggest Insecurity
01:58:26 - Mark's Best Book Recommendations
02:02:42 - Enduring The Right Types Of Pain
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Thanks for having me on guys. Was a blast.
Very insightful interview
Thanks Mark, you really have helped me figure some stuff out about myself from your UA-cam video's.
Wow, I watched the whole two hours. Totally worth it. Mark is so genuine. I love that Graham and Jack seem really serious😄!
Really inciteful interview Mark (and such an awesome book!)
Mark is a great author and honestly an AMAZING UA-camr! Love the UA-cam content!
His book changed my life! I used to have really bad anxiety, until I realized if I die, none of this matters anyways. Ever since then, I've lived my life freely, facing all my fears.
W Author, thank you so much for writing this book and changing my life.
I am a happily married woman now 36 years old with 2 kids... THE BEST PICK UP LINE I ever got was simply ''Hello my name is Dave... I 'm sorry to sound so forward, but I think you are very beautiful... I would love to take you out for coffee or dinner this weekend if you are free''... That is it... If the woman feels like you might be a good match for her, that is all you need to say... Be clean when you say this, and confidence helps (but not entirely needed)... She will sense your energy and if she vibes with you then it will be an automatic yes... Like it was for me.
The Iced Coffee Hour & Mark, thank you all for this video, for me is I lived 66 years of my life one of the most feel good experiences I'd ever had is when something turns out better than I expected it to this make my inner heart happy and my soul joyful and that what I live for. Also, I truly love all the access to You-Tube videos 24/7 this is so great for me what an awesome world. thanks again for this video.
This convo was one of my favorites from the Iced Coffe hour!! Thank you sm
Favorite episode so far. Jack also killed it this episode. He's becoming a real good podcaster. Obviously starting to look and feel comfortable behind the mic. Nice job guys.
So glad I found the Iced Coffee Hour through Caleb Hammers channel! Graham and Jack have such an interesting perspective on the influencer and youtube space. I also really appreciate the diverse guests!
Caleb is so awesome i tell everyone to watch him
This. Is one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched in a while. Certainly the best I’ve sat through for this year. Great questions and comments from Jack and Grant. And Mark’s responses were insightful and refreshing, even though I’ve probably heard him articulate the same thing on other podcasts/ in his earlier articles. I didn’t expect to sit through all 2hours of this, but I did and I’m happy I did. Thank you Mark, Jack, and Grant!
Great book! I started the journey to not giving a crap about 7 years ago. And it has changed my life. I honestly don’t care what anyone think anymore. It is complete freedom.
You both do such a great job interviewing people. I love the flow
This has quickly become one of my favorite channels. Guest after guests, constant hitters. Sky is the limit!
i love how sincere jack is. at first, i thought he was annoying but it adds so much to the show. it’s like a kid asking a father about books. good episode.
Hey Jack! I thought you were an annoying idiot who is worthless but now I don’t!
Great comment!
He is never annoying to me. He seems like a very smart person whos very inquisitive
@@sheikhmohammadamin3609 i think i was self-projecting bro, it’s ALL love i love these guys lol.
@@sheikhmohammadamin3609 prejudice. Even the way he describe why he like jack it sounds insulting. Hes probably doesnt think much of jack cause hes young
This man changed my life forever. I am so happy he is getting more recognition. I wish more people would talk about his other book "Models"
But, he doesn’t practice what he preaches.
@@britishcomedybroncorothschild What makes you say that?
Yup, it took me to while to even realize that the guy who wrote models was that super mainstream suble art guy 😂
Lmao Zero actual receipts.
huh? @@jackjax7921
Jack, love the questions man. Thank you for asking such great questions!
Love this dude. Thanks for having him!
Jack is paying a lot of attention to the dating advice 😂
he's asking ALL the right questions hahahaha!!
Yeah, I noticed 😂.. I truly wish Jack a very beautiful and loyal wife ASAP.
Haha. So true. I thought girls must be throwing themselves at him coz he is so good looking yet he was so keen on the advise . I do wish him a great love life ❤😊
Sex is boring as you get older. He probably doesn’t care about it
@Daniel_S_25 she didnt day he looks like a model that she thinks he looks very handsome. Looks are very subjective. I look like a troll to most people, my ex boyfriend thinks I look really beautiful its just subjective.
Wooow did not think you would have him on. You guys are doing really well with the guests lately. I really enjoyed his book too ! Great read cheers amigos!
Wow this is one of the best podcasts I've consumed in a while.....thanks for this!
The iced coffee hour is my new obsession after loving Graham for years!
Thank you so much!! Glad you enjoy it !
I second that. Its a great evolution
its been a while since i felt like i couldn't stop watching a video. great job!
This was so amazing the way Mark views life and makes you change perspective of everything he is a great writer👏💪👌
Incredible guest list for the last few episodes. I can’t wait to see who is next!
Hi Graham and team, please increase the volume on your Iced Coffee Videos please. Awesome videos as always btw. Thanks
Excellent convo. Matt's awesome. His takes on everything are relatable and they feel honest
I have watched a lot of interesting and insightful I.C.H. videos but this one is definitely one of my favorites and I will most certainly re-watch and share.
Yesss! This is one of my favorite books, I'm a big fan of Mark's writing 😊
I have recommended this book to so many of my patients because they are avoiding their own problems and paying attention to all the crap that isn’t their responsibility in order to not pay attention to their own problems. This book is really or can be curative.
Holy shit. You have the most AMAZING guests!! Keep up the great work, guys!
Thank you!!
@TheIcedCoffeeHour I’ve come straight here after listening to the Hormozi’s podcast. Nice to switch it up with a guest who isn’t full of absolute shite. It’s refreshing to hear some true stories 😂
Definitely had to listen to this one, love mark manson.
This man changed my life. Love his book.
VERY excited for this one.
awesome pod gents, Mark has great insight
This episode was dope. Graham and Jack are so genuinely curious in Mark's answers to their questions - it's why this show works.
Great Conversation! I have found, for myself at least, that the self help content is really an extrapolation from more ancient texts dealing with the nature of reality and the soul. Current physics and quantum mechanics supports this. So to get the full picture you have to go there. The ultimate lesson being that there is no happiness to be found in the always changing physical world. No amount of money, no relationship, nothing will truly satisfy you. You can find pleasure, but that fades. True happiness is found within the permanent unchanging self, found in the thoughtless mind. Jack, once you find that, you won’t care about the girls, which will bring them too you. Graham, once you find that, you won’t be paralyzed by all those feelings of needing to be productive and efficient. My 2 cents from a guy that almost got lost in work and productivity too. Don’t wait until a near death experience or the loss of a loved one to learn this, much love 🤙
Amazing podcast 🔥
This was excellent guys. It's clear you all have read and experienced Manson's work.
So loved this episode
Amazing collab... more of this please
Will do!
You guys do the best interviews.
You ask the right questions and then let your guest talk.
People could learn from you, such as Fallon and others.
For real! I love that about them
One of the best conversations to listen in on.
This is my first video on this channel and I am definitely following:)
Great interview
So fun. I love this guy. And of course, Graham is the best.
looking forward to this!
Enjoy!!
This was awesome
Excellent content
Subtle art is one of those books you reread every so often. Absolutely life changing
Wonderful! I'm just at a conference with some of the OGs of the seduction world...and I read an excerpt from my book asking for feedback and my friends recommended me to read Mark's book to get inspiration for writing
Mark is an INCREDIBLE writer!
I love this book and love the 4-Hour Work Week. Glad he mentioned that book. Both very liberating philosophies that lead to success.
Jack is the best. Always comes with the best questions
wow cool, I read like 1/3 or 2/3 of the book this summer on my computer, I should get back to it
cool story about his travels too IIRC
Jack was on his game for this one. Great convo.
“Bad things can lead to good outcomes” So true
I've just listened to this whole episode and it was great
Impossible
On what 5000x speed
Love this podcast. Was chooked to hear about optimistic nihilism wich is my foundation for all my belifes
Great video
Super Great podcast
Love this crossover!
Me too!
Hey, Mark in this video, at 59:26 It is like all throughout our lives we deal with stuff, I lose both parents at early age my stuff gotten stolen my car was stolen my house was broken into and my cats died I lose 3 brothers and one sister in the past I had to face all the not so good things that happen plus how it affect my emotions of loses. Yet, I learn how to handle all of this I am still thankful for life, and I still love to help people regardless of all the tragic things I experience along life journey I think most people experience much pain and losses in life, so I read a quota.
It is not what happens to you but how you handle what happens to you that matters. You appear.
very wise in your young years of life. Thank you for sharing on I.C.H. Video.
Remind me not to hang out with you. Lol
Watched this twice already, amazing.
Did you watch at 100x speed?
@@TheIcedCoffeeHourit’s a short life, need to make the most out of it
Lol😂 the rant about advice but don't do it really spoke to my soul. It's my issue with people 😂😂
I love watching these!! I watch them all the time, how was I not subscribed 😢 fixed ✅
Gread episdode!
I gotta say this Jack Graham duo is going to go down in history!!!
Guest selection is honestly been crazy
Jack is killing it 🔥
This video interviewing Mark Manson is extremely needed! The world deserves great content and interviews like this. His book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F#ck is so thought-provoking that I eventually decided to make a video on my channel about it. That book is also what everyone should read. Simple, common sense, yet significant
This podcast hit many aspects of psychology. Loved it, keep up the good work guys
I strongly recommend his recent books and Corey Wayne's books. These guys get it. To clarify I listened to love is not enough and the journal version of the subject in this video.
Still liking!
Love it!
Thanks!
Mark is genuine, insightful and real; big switch up to then bring on tai lopez
Ok im excited for this
Enjoy!
Read the book a few years ago it was a great read couldn't put it down.
Best episode to date. An example of 3 humans holding respect and appreciation for each other.
The comfortability and ease of conversation was a joy.
People of the internet this is an example of living with integrity.
I’m glad I started watching on the toilet I saw the notification 🔔 so I got on it immediately 😊
You're the best!
Good luck on the toilet
New set looking dope my dude's keep up the hard work 😎😎😎
It's always trippy when someone says your own thoughts.
Very good podcast! Really enjoyed your guest. I’ve had the Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck on my list for a while now. I think this is would be a great time to start it!
Great episode and and guest!💯 Curious though, as a finance based podcast, why the change in video format the past few months? You guys used to do deep dives into how your guests operate their businesses/how they make their money/how much money they’ve made (Loved those!💯)….now the video format is more, life advice and how to be happy and relationships and philosophy/values, which is all important but not as great as the nitty gritty stuff that motivates and gets your creative juices/thinking going🤔
I am still reading his book since I am also trying to finish The Rational Male series (on the 3rd book).
I love Mark Manson's casual style of writing & thought patterns - very illustrative to the points of life.
Love his book
I realized I'm obsessed with this podcast when I just hear Graham and Jack's voice all day
It's fun how people after learning how to come out of their low selves, then say that the people that got them out are just normal people.. yep, they are but you were out of that normal circle and worked your way in via textbooks etc. Give them some level of respect for what they did to pull you up... because all the other groups were there and didn't show themselves to you as that group his. This is what tells you a lot about their character
This is awesome. You should also have Denmo on here sometime
His book is great, I wish I read it when it came out. I came to similar conclusions after living my life.
Graham, his point of sporadic focus and distracting content is unfortunately the reason why i unfollowed your main channel.
The substantive information you use to share was replaced with mine numbing "current" hot topics.
You used to share what you were effortlessly good at
It's also the reason why I still follow this podcast. Your willingness to listen and grow from guests expertise is palatable.
Jack is very focused this interview.
Dang you reached a new level of guest! Wow. Maybe you could get Tim on now. Crazy.
This is interesting. Watching talks that are given by youngsters are so often are spammed by to many sponsors in one talk.
Jack crushing the deep questions.
Jacks questions 😂
That book is one of my all time favorites. It's incredibly misunderstood.
Just wanted to say guys you are doing great, I hope that Graham is now very satisfied with earnings/time allocated to podcast obligations 🤣
hahah I've been really enjoying the opportunity to meet so many new people!
@@TheIcedCoffeeHourGraham you’re fantastic obviously but Jack you are great at this. Well spoken, articulate, razor sharp. Well done man. Loved watching you both troll the Hormozi’s. You’re a great duo- keep it up 🤙
Totally random but I just noticed (on desktop anyways) that youtube does fancy gradients behind the video based on the colors in the video...and I couldn't stop staring at it the entire time whilst listening to the soft and subtle tones of Manson.
YOU NEED TO HAVE ON MAT COXX!!!! If you want a good episode trust me have him on!
And i just finished the caleb podcast lets goo
woohooo
Great conversation thanks guys! But, Graham you look soo tired! Is you tube starting to weigh heavily on you? Hope your ok.
Admire his work and HUSTLE!!!
Absolutely!
Nathan fielder would be such a great guest to have on the podcast