Love Gone Wrong:The Fatal Tale of Ashley Wadsworth and Jack Sepple: Emma Kenny's True Crime Analysis

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
  • In this insightful episode of her True Crime series, psychological therapist and True Crime commentator Emma Kenny takes an in-depth look into the devastating story of Ashley Wadsworth, a young British woman, whose dreams of love and adventure ended in a tragedy at the hands of her boyfriend, Jack Sepple.
    Ashley Wadsworth, an adventurous young woman from Canada and was seeking new opportunities and adventures. She found herself in a relationship with Jack Sepple, a man from the UK who would eventually become her killer. The distressing details of this case shocked everyone who learned about it, spotlighting the dark side of relationships and mental health issues.
    Emma painstakingly walks through the timeline of events leading up to Ashley's untimely death. With her unique perspective , she provides a detailed analysis of both Ashley and Jack's backgrounds, offering insight into their relationship's dynamics and the circumstances surrounding Ashley's murder.
    Digging into the psychological profile of Jack Sepple, Emma explores the potential factors that may have driven him to this horrifying act. She also takes a closer look at the mental health aspects, discussing how untreated mental illnesses can lead to fatal consequences, thus emphasising the importance of mental health awareness and intervention.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 721

  • @MissBehaving-im9vt
    @MissBehaving-im9vt Рік тому +86

    I'll never forget the 1st time I watched a similar video you did and there was something about the way you looked at the camera and said GET OUT! Something switched in my head and I finally got out a couple of months later after 6yrs of control, abuse that then turned to violence. I've always known YOU saved my life. Ladies, if you're going to leave, do not ever let the abuser ever find out, leave with nothing if you have to and rebuild. Thank you Emma x

    • @RogerLewis-ey2tt
      @RogerLewis-ey2tt Рік тому +5

      I'm really proud of you for being so strong and self-aware.

    • @margotprice4157
      @margotprice4157 11 місяців тому +2

      Excellent choice! I'm very proud of you. :)

  • @florenciatettamanti4819
    @florenciatettamanti4819 Рік тому +329

    Find someone who looks at you the way her cat looks at Emma ❤

    • @brendarigotti843
      @brendarigotti843 Рік тому +4

      I haven't seen Ur little pooch 🐕 lately Emma. I hope she is well🐾

    • @ceanura8368
      @ceanura8368 Рік тому +20

      That cat is so adorable makes my day when I see him :D

    • @kirstywhyte3496
      @kirstywhyte3496 Рік тому +7

      I adore cats but am allergic :( When we met my husband had two rescue cats which we had to work around in the house and they both lived until aged 21 so 15 years after we moved in together. Was slightly longer than I had expected especially for out door cats but I loved them both and part of me wants to get another, my daughter would love to but is it fair to have a cat but restrict movement in the house. I don't think so :( We went to a friend's who had the cats with only the short underfur which are supposed to be less allergenic and they were so loving but I spent the whole way home with my head out the window I was wheezing so much :( I am destined to be a cat lady but from afar ....

    • @carolinemartin2254
      @carolinemartin2254 Рік тому +9

      That's a beautiful way of putting it! So true, that gorgeous cat absolutely adores Emma and photo bombs quite a few of her videos! He/she is fabulous x

    • @Loafieeon
      @Loafieeon Рік тому +8

      My cat was sat on my lap when I was on a teams call and she looked up at me and stared for ages, everyone in the meeting stopped to say how cute it was! The best feeling ❤

  • @ellenthom34
    @ellenthom34 Рік тому +152

    Never tell an abuser you are leaving. I read 75% of murders in DV cases happen at this time. Be a Katie Holmes and hide your intentions.

    • @ellenthom34
      @ellenthom34 Рік тому +2

      Hot candle wax caused burns,!

    • @terimorris6394
      @terimorris6394 Рік тому +3

      Katie did it right

    • @kellyfarmer6681
      @kellyfarmer6681 Рік тому

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    • @JojoplusBo
      @JojoplusBo Рік тому +2

      @@AH--173 … happy to hear you made that break, it takes courage. Secrecy and a well thought out plan is key when you have made up your mind to leave. I hope your world… and that of your children… is nothing but happy and loving … filled with peace!🙏🏻❤😊

    • @awright119021
      @awright119021 Рік тому +4

      Also, reach out for help. All the help you have available to you. I thought I could do it on my own. Got my own car and 2 jobs. The closer I got to just being able to leave secretly, the crazier he got. He knew that I was becoming self sufficient and that was enough of a clue. I should've asked for help from the beginning.

  • @salisburyoffroading3340
    @salisburyoffroading3340 Рік тому +38

    I love how your cat looks at you, absolute adoration. Mine looks at me like he’s plotting my murder, if I’m ever found dead it was my cat 🐈

    • @pamelaleftwich7296
      @pamelaleftwich7296 Рік тому +3

      😂 That's hysterical! I call my cat's look, he's giving me the "stink eye".....LOL!

    • @annecheesman5958
      @annecheesman5958 Рік тому +2

      Funny. Sorry you are funny. Xx

    • @SamanthaLewis-jm3xe
      @SamanthaLewis-jm3xe Рік тому +1

      Apparently if cats were big enough they would kill their owners. Luckily I'm a dog person.

  • @inquiringminds6633
    @inquiringminds6633 Рік тому +89

    Claire’s law probably saved my life. My ex partner physically assaulted me a number of times and it was so bad twice I had to ring the police. But most times I didn’t because I knew they would contact social services and was terrified of losing my daughters and he knew this. The final time he actually held me and my daughter at kn*fe point, called my mum and told her he was going to k*ll us both. She called the Police. When they came it was two male officers. One took My ex put him in the van and the second sat down in my kitchen, got me a glass of water and sat facing me. He said I don’t believe this has only happened twice. He said have you heard of Claire’s law and told me what it was. He said if you are honest with yourself you can see how bad things are escalating and next time you won’t have your mum there to ring us. He was right. I pressed charges and he went to prison for assault threats to kill. I also got a ten year restraining order that the police actually asked to be put in place too do he couldn’t start it all over again when he came out. It’s so hard to understand how bad things are til it’s too late. Every story I hear like this breaks my heart. I wish she got the same chance I did.

    • @sk-ec4co
      @sk-ec4co Рік тому +5

      Great police work

    • @jakethedude100
      @jakethedude100 Рік тому +2

      I’m glad it helped you. I had an awful experience with it.. I wanted it to be anonymous but they arrested him anyway. They pressured me to press charges and wouldn’t tell me anything because I was no longer with him..

    • @bigreddonlin
      @bigreddonlin Рік тому

      .

    • @metalheadjake3339
      @metalheadjake3339 Рік тому +1

      Damn. Sorry you had to deal with all that. Glad you, your mother and daughters are okay.

    • @annecheesman5958
      @annecheesman5958 Рік тому

      Xxx

  • @barringtongilbert9230
    @barringtongilbert9230 Рік тому +18

    Emmas' ability to speak solidly for such a long time in chronological order, (No Editing!) with such feeling and empathy is quite honestly, astonishing. It shows your genuine feelings for each case. (How DO you do it girl?) Love listening to you. xx

  • @yvyivs6799
    @yvyivs6799 Рік тому +31

    A few years ago, I moved my entire life to a country for a man I had been in an online relationship with for about 10 years. The move itself to a completely new country where I had no friends nor family was absolutely terrible for my mental health. Whilst he may not have been physically abusive mentally, emotionally, it was torture. Not having anyone to turn to made it worse. I never thought i could leave. The day i walked away was the best thing i ever did. I can empathise with this poor girl. I was lucky to be able to walk out and leave the country 🙏🏾

  • @PossumblyNot
    @PossumblyNot Рік тому +20

    I cannot express how much I love your cat. Please always have him on? He's so pure and sweet and absolutely adores you! He's exactly the right thing to see to just take a quick mental breath listening to content like this. Audience emotional support animal

  • @mrsf6740
    @mrsf6740 Рік тому +79

    Emma... Ive commented before. When I saw your clips on fb, I never appreciated you but you have quickly become my absolute favourite true crime commentator. I really didn't get your humour, your way of telling a story, the amount of empathy you have for these victims. I've been an obsessive true crime for years and you're at the number one spot now xxx

    • @SideCharacter12303
      @SideCharacter12303 Рік тому +8

      The moment where you’re huge a true crime fan and you discover Emma’s channel 😍😂 love when I’m watching other docs and Em pops up too

    • @suzimonkey345
      @suzimonkey345 Рік тому +6

      I’ve been seeing Emma on tv here in Britain for years. I never knew how great she was until she started on UA-cam. The short clips that they used in documentaries didn’t do her justice. She’s fantastic! ❤

    • @meganmunn4115
      @meganmunn4115 Рік тому

      Uiu hug hh

    • @meganmunn4115
      @meganmunn4115 Рік тому

      @@SideCharacter12303 uuuuuuugy6yy,I I g

    • @amy1713
      @amy1713 Рік тому

      she wont cover it until the trial has finished and shes been sentenced xx

  • @EllieGrant1
    @EllieGrant1 Рік тому +7

    Regardless of the geographical distance, I would not be happy with my 11/12 year old talking to someone 4 years older than them.

  • @petercook9276
    @petercook9276 Рік тому +47

    I finally plucked up the courage to comment so hi Emma, I have been following you almost from the start of your channel, I love what you do and how you do it. you respect the victims and tell their stories with such compassion, Keep up the good work. Les

    • @jwsuicides8095
      @jwsuicides8095 Рік тому +1

      Hello, Peter! It's certainly a very good channel: humanity, not sensationalism.

  • @dnister_nymph
    @dnister_nymph Рік тому +19

    Thank you for covering this case, Ashley deserves to be remembered

  • @davebetch9918
    @davebetch9918 Рік тому +11

    I had an online relationship with a girl in Canada ( I am in the UK). I finally flew out to see her. We didn't hit it off and she was a bit confused why I was upset, but it did finally dawn on here that I had gone halfway round the world to see here and when we didn't hit it off, I was disappointed. However, her mum took a shine to me!

  • @maisiejomanning8381
    @maisiejomanning8381 Рік тому +11

    I feel so obsessed with this case, because it happened just down the road from me & it breaks my heart that Ashley wasn’t safe here 😢

  • @devinisdead4061
    @devinisdead4061 Рік тому +9

    Mate…seriously that bloke was bloody scary on that recording. I mean seriously I am a grown man and I would be proper terrified if someone left me a message like that.

  • @desireedominguez3177
    @desireedominguez3177 Рік тому +4

    Finding a good man showed me how horrible my other relationships were

  • @M183L0v3DCaspie
    @M183L0v3DCaspie Рік тому +19

    Your cat is so cute and looks at you so lovingly. It was good attending your "serial killer nextdoor" the other day. Appreciate you giving these victims and their families a voice 🙏🏻

    • @sheilaryder6290
      @sheilaryder6290 Рік тому +1

      Shes great. Im going to see her in september in Dartford i cant wait.xx

    • @elijahlivingston9477
      @elijahlivingston9477 Рік тому +1

      Cats are the ultimate companions. You can’t change my mind❤

  • @dmore335
    @dmore335 Рік тому +31

    He reminds me of my ex who attempted to take my life and I’m terrified to think what would’ve happened if I stayed.

    • @amysimpson33
      @amysimpson33 Рік тому +1

      It’s a painful one for so many. So glad you escaped this nightmare. ❤

    • @suzimonkey345
      @suzimonkey345 Рік тому +1

      I’m so pleased for you. We all deserve to be safe in our own homes.

    • @brendarigotti843
      @brendarigotti843 Рік тому +5

      Same. When hearing a case story regarding domestic violence, so many details & red flags which reminds me of how lucky I am to be alive. Love can be over rated & peace ☮️ taken for granted.

    • @msay4596
      @msay4596 Рік тому

      Same!!

  • @JayDonagh
    @JayDonagh Рік тому +14

    I live in Vernon, Ashley is buried at the cemetery a few blocks up from my house. Her gravestone is so beautifully set up. I didn't know her well although she went to my high school. But from what I did see of her, everything you said was completely correct on and on point. Very nice, sociable, bubbly. She definitely went out of her way to include people and she had a very strong character. My friend dated her a few years ago and remembers Jack, according to him Jack was toxic and would call Ashley shouting at her on the phone. He could turn his niceness on and off, so he could appear better at some points. By all accounts I've personally heard he wanted complete control of Ashley, he did everything in his power to push away people around her. It's sad that nobody stopped this guy before he did the horrible act. Man was a walking red flag.

  • @theresekleyn2377
    @theresekleyn2377 Рік тому +14

    I'm in love with your cat. ❤ Thank you for all your heartfelt coverage.

  • @zeealo
    @zeealo Рік тому +2

    Thank you for talking about coercive control. It is often so insidious and the amount of gaslighting that goes along with it makes it so hard to recognise. To have someone - a professional - say to you 'this is not okay' puts that little post-it note in your mind to be able to clock it if it comes up.

  • @saffyfeefee
    @saffyfeefee Рік тому +6

    Emma your cats face is just adorable...
    The way he looks at you just made me smile 😀
    Loved your take on this case... As always

  • @rebalspirit
    @rebalspirit Рік тому +58

    Hi Emma. Would love to see you cover the case of Gannon Stauch, who was killed by his step monster, Letecia Stauch in January 2020. It's being tried right now in Colorado and she's using the defense of not guilty by legal insanity.
    Why did Jack's mother not reach out and warn Ashley and her family about who Jack really was? She had eight years to do so and didn't. Disgusting.

    • @saydvoncripps
      @saydvoncripps Рік тому +9

      Watching updates on the leticia trial. My fingers are crossed she pays dearly for what she did to that child. Vile woman,

    • @roccolove9996
      @roccolove9996 Рік тому +2

      I'm following the Gannon trial everyday

    • @_bluephoenix_
      @_bluephoenix_ Рік тому +5

      She likely will. Emma does prefer to wait until trials/sentencing are done first. Its such a shocking case. 😢

    • @agnesadie5936
      @agnesadie5936 Рік тому +9

      Annie Elise is covering that case.

    • @teresastommel6367
      @teresastommel6367 Рік тому +1

      ​@@agnesadie5936 I think another person is covering this case as well. I was just listening in on it but forgot who was covering it, I got caught up in some of the autopsy's report on how many times he was stabbed & where all the stab marks was. 😪😡

  • @DanielMcGarrigle
    @DanielMcGarrigle Рік тому +10

    Just discovered this channel today, binging your videos all day so far!

  • @RD12732
    @RD12732 Рік тому +12

    Twice I left toxic relationships. Each time, I was stalked for several months and lived in great fear. The only way to stay safe was for me to hide out, stay with friends and relatives, and eventually, leave the country to stay with relatives abroad. When I returned, I moved into a different apartment. I was young during these events, but not as young as Ashley. Ashley was ready to leave Sepple. I wish she could have left him without revealing her plans. In appreciation to Emma's program and in honor of Ashley's life, I hope that anyone who is in an abusive relationship will leave right away and save themselves. RIP, Ashley.

  • @itsacarolbthing5221
    @itsacarolbthing5221 Рік тому +2

    As soon as you said he'd abused the kitten, that was me done. I've never been in an abusive situation, and I know I'm lucky.
    The fact that he showed his sister Ashley's body is mindblowing. This poor girl. May she rest in peace.

  • @Pussies_For_Kamala
    @Pussies_For_Kamala Рік тому +4

    The way your kitty looks up at you, is the definition of love ❤🤌🏼🤌🏼 7:32

  • @thesquidling
    @thesquidling Рік тому +4

    My abuser was not a partner, but a relative I was caring for while they were ill. They repeatedly stole my phone, kept me isolated, wouldn't let me sleep or eat, lied to all our extended family about my behavior, and even threatened to have *me* charged with abusing a vulnerable adult.
    It's more common with partners, but friends and family members can be abusive, too. If any of this sounds familiar to you, please seek help. You would be surprised how many people will rush to support you, even perfect strangers. From someone who's been there -- you did nothing wrong, and you are worth more.
    Thanks for covering this one, Emma. It was brutal, but it reminded me of how lucky I was at the end of the day. I wish Ashley had been lucky, too.

  • @karaW10
    @karaW10 Рік тому +26

    I appreciate the understanding and empathy you have towards domestic abuse victims. As well as the time you take to explain it to those listening. It really is hard to see it for what it is when you're living in it, especially when coersive control is involved. Speaking from experience x

    • @juliestrickland7754
      @juliestrickland7754 Рік тому +4

      Amen, sister. Nobody knows until they've been there. Glad you got out ok. ❤

    • @msay4596
      @msay4596 Рік тому +2

      Yes. I spent 8 years with a man like this. I am a smart, college educated, strong woman. All types of people can fall into these relationships and they find it so difficult to leave. I left and have a new wonderful life now. I wish I could tell all people who find themselves in these situations that there is so much more.

  • @Andrea-Tilburg
    @Andrea-Tilburg Рік тому +5

    Thank you Emma, with your words "do not comply" 1 month ago i got hit in my face. It was a woman (im a lesbian) she was angry and hit me. I want love, i don't want to be alone for the rest of my life,..like everybody else. But she hit me, and so i left,but i was very depresed when i did that. Do not comply...went true my head...do not comply..if it starts up like that,it will only get worse. Do not comply. I left and stayed left. I feel depressed but i also feel like i deserve better. I feel better, i feel save. So thank you Emma
    erve better.

  • @jessicabutters4980
    @jessicabutters4980 Рік тому +5

    I’ve only just started watching this video but immediately I’m so happy the cat is back ❤

  • @tracygonglik936
    @tracygonglik936 Рік тому +6

    Met my boyfriend on Facebook and meeting him moved super fast met through Facebook on 3/7/15..I traveled 6 hrs across 3 states to meet him.
    We hit it off right away I was planning to stay 1 wk. Day before I was supposed to head home he said stay another week
    10 months I moved to Illinois to be with him we got married in 2017

  • @lynnrushton7458
    @lynnrushton7458 Рік тому +4

    I helped my friend to escape from her husband while he was at work…..it was so scary, knowing he could come back at anytime. She is now living abroad & has a lovely partner.
    Get out while you can is my advice!

  • @Shauna_02
    @Shauna_02 Рік тому +15

    Can we all just take a minute to thank Emma for her time and not only is she giving a voice for the victims but she is educating us as well. With every case story she tells , she shares a lot of education. She has many perspectives and understanding of the perpetrators she also allows us to to express our feelings and views as well . But let’s just thank her for giving us the knowledge to be aware of our own lives . Thank you Emma , sorry it’s 11:30pm and I’m so exhausted but before I fall asleep . Thank you again .

  • @Frodofletch22
    @Frodofletch22 Рік тому +6

    @Emmakenny.. I've only been watching you for just over a month BUT i bloody love your content and absolutely LOVE your sense of humour.. and how you go into depth is so refreshing and interesting.. thank you for being yourself and keep up the brilliant work 👏

  • @mad9023
    @mad9023 Рік тому +5

    A story from just an hour out of Kelowna British Columbia, Vernon B.C. thank you Emma for this story 💗💗💗

  • @janealivekickin5302
    @janealivekickin5302 Рік тому +15

    This case upsets me so much, lovely vibrant young women, so trusting, full of adventure and life, same age as my daughter. God rest her soul.

  • @ben_anton
    @ben_anton Рік тому +8

    Hello Emma, I’m a regular viewer. I love your content, it brings light to my dark world.
    I recently found out, that I’m going to have to lose my leg from the knee down. I’ve been in surgery before, and your videos help me through every day.
    Being able to watch and rewatch your content makes the days easier and the community here is one of the kindest and most supportive I’ve ever been a part of.
    ❤Alice

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Рік тому +1

      hey, i became rapidly disabled as well. you WILL adapt and adjust to a new normal and it will be okay.

    • @anniej1834
      @anniej1834 Рік тому

      Good luck hope everything goes well 🍀❤️‍🩹 x

    • @sellbydate
      @sellbydate Рік тому

      💖

    • @LaLuna82
      @LaLuna82 Рік тому

      Good luck Alice 😊

    • @sellbydate
      @sellbydate Рік тому

      I noticed your mushroom emoji
      Not sure if it means anything but they helped me in small doses when I went through some trauma.
      💐🌹🌻🍄🍄🍄🍄🍄🍄🌈

  • @teresawester5770
    @teresawester5770 Рік тому +11

    My father had mental health problems and ended up committing suicide. There was NOTHING abusive about him. He was the best father in the world!!! He was the most kind and loving man ever!!! So I completely agree that mental health doesn’t make you evil!!! He was evil!!!! Also, had no idea my dad would do that. He didn’t manipulate or threaten. There were signs we just didn’t know them. I do now!😢

  • @guppywibble3752
    @guppywibble3752 Рік тому +36

    Poor Girl. Watched a documentary about this the other night. "He threw the kitten against the wall". Big red flag and she was trying to get out. 😓 It breaks my heart to think of these bullies harming innocent little Animals and innocent People. I hope the prisoner's have had time on their own with this nasty narcissist!

    • @teresabyrne855
      @teresabyrne855 Рік тому +6

      I know that really upsets me too of course the abuse of omen but also the poor animals they abuse I was worried also about the kitten is he or she still alive they matter too

    • @lorrainefryer
      @lorrainefryer Рік тому +1

      @@teresabyrne855 Same here.

    • @shazambrose3091
      @shazambrose3091 Рік тому +3

      What was the documentary called?

    • @guppywibble3752
      @guppywibble3752 Рік тому +2

      @@teresabyrne855 couldn't agree MORE! I must admit that when I hear of domestic violence, it's the pets that I first think of. Of course the children too, but the pets will always be a target, first. Neither have any choice.

    • @teresabyrne855
      @teresabyrne855 Рік тому +2

      @@guppywibble3752 hi very true I was just bit surprised because I don't think anyone in the he live chat last night asked about the poor kitten of course Ashley was murdered but he poor mite matters too

  • @kendracormier975
    @kendracormier975 Рік тому +9

    I grew up with Ashley. This was very well done. Thank you for sharing her story.

    • @Intolerantmoron
      @Intolerantmoron Рік тому +3

      I cared for Jack in hospital at Chelmsford before this incident happened. One night he said to a carer ' I fancy killing a nurse'. We were terrified. All we know that he had some mental health issues. We reported to police. Who came and arrested him. But next day he was released back to hospital.
      We were terrified. Months later I heard this sad news. Just wish if police could do better at that time.

  • @meerkatmalone5064
    @meerkatmalone5064 Рік тому +3

    Oh my goodness your cat in the 1st minute tracking your hand movements😻😻😻cutie pie!

  • @juliestrickland7754
    @juliestrickland7754 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for saying that we are not fools. It is SO incredibly hard to explain it to someone who hasn't experienced it. It's not like they immediately start off abusing you. They convince you that they'll do better and you want to believe them because you have that thing inside you that believes all of us can be better. And before you know it, it's too late. I'm lucky and got away from my husband before he killed me. I started sneaking out things a bit at a time, sometimes throwing it out the window where my best friend was waiting around the corner to come pick it up. When I had my sentimental things out, I grabbed my cats while he was out getting high, a bag of clothes, and left. I was lucky. So many aren't. ❤❤❤😢

  • @andarwarje8127
    @andarwarje8127 Рік тому +4

    Thank you, it's rare to hear someone acknowledge the big issue in domestic violence situations, being that you LOVE your intimate partner and you think they love you too. It's hard to conceive of them purposely hurting you, so you try to be understanding of them again and again, because YOU are a good person and think the best of them. If you haven't experienced abuse, it's hard to relate to the mindset but when it happens to you, it's hard to leave and leaving is statistically the most dangerous time anyway

  • @gallettiguitartones
    @gallettiguitartones Рік тому +3

    Not even half way and wow, It's so sad that she went through all of that, basically he groomed her and then abused her, hit het, killed her 😢
    I left my country two days after I turned 18, to visit my now husband, he was my boyfriend in high school but we were in different schools, he was 16 I was 15. I came to the U.S for what it was supposed to be 3 months, but we decided to get married so I could stay with him legally, since we were together for almost 3 years back in our country. Thankfully he has been a good man, he's responsible and very respectful, I've never been in a situation where I feel threatened. He has always taken care of me, even when I was almost in a coma when I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, and actually he's been the breadwinner for the past 4-5 years. I'm very lucky to have him for the past 10 years. But I feel so sad that many others can't experience the same with their first love. 😢there are so many evil people 😢
    This guy is a monster, she was such a bright and beautiful girl, so young, he is actually ugly/weird. I feel so much for her and her parents and the rest of her family. May she rest in peace 🙏
    And may he rot in hell and I hope he never gets a happy day in his disgusting life

  • @melindabrown1041
    @melindabrown1041 Рік тому +5

    Aww, your cat keeps looking lovingly up at you 🐱.Thank you for all your hard work XX❤

  • @lindanoble7047
    @lindanoble7047 Рік тому +5

    The way your cat looks at you.. True love 😻

  • @kathleenfinnerty226
    @kathleenfinnerty226 Рік тому +5

    These cases are so important Emma thank you for sharing these true life stories. You are doing such a service. I was abused by ex not physically but emotionally. I didn't even know I was being abused until womens aid told me it was emotional abuse and he was in jail for 12 weeks , me and daughter had to move to hostel for safety It was scary he was hiding in my loft. Thankfully my story has a happy ending but it's so scary god bless her family I'm sending them prayers god bless Ashley ♥️🙏♥️

    • @kathleenfinnerty226
      @kathleenfinnerty226 Рік тому +1

      There was more too it threats to kill etc police service let me down I went police ombudsman cause i was let down big style was so scary but thankfully he passed away years later which meant .y abuse stopped.

  • @barryosullivan3428
    @barryosullivan3428 Рік тому +22

    If I had a child and they tried to meet someone who they only knew via the internet I would warn them that meeting someone online is the same as meeting someone on a ouija board. U really don't know who u are in contact with and the consequences could be dreadful.

  • @suzimonkey345
    @suzimonkey345 Рік тому +6

    As I mother I can’t imagine my daughter being so very far away & in so much danger. What a nightmare!! 😢

  • @jasminerussell9732
    @jasminerussell9732 Рік тому +11

    Always leave the door open for your loved ones no matter what has been said or done because the person there with wants you to fall out with her so she’s got nobody

  • @barrythomas2357
    @barrythomas2357 Рік тому +24

    Hi Em , I would love for you to consider covering the horrific murder of 12 year old Lynne Harper , her 14 year old friend Steven Truscott was convicted and sentenced to hang for Lynne's murder. Steven was later acquitted and released from prison.
    I would be incredibly interested in your opinion and your wonderful story telling talent that we all adore. I'm still on the fence about S.T🤔

    • @Pettiquote
      @Pettiquote Рік тому +3

      I second this!

    • @GenXfrom75
      @GenXfrom75 Рік тому +1

      When was this?!😮

    • @barrythomas2357
      @barrythomas2357 Рік тому +2

      @@GenXfrom75 Lynne Harper was raped and murdered in 1959 at a Royal Canadian Air force base in Ontario. Steven was ( allegedly ) the last person to see her alive , plus Steven was the youngest person in Canada to be face a death sentence. He was paroled in 1969 and then acquitted in 2007🤔

    • @GenXfrom75
      @GenXfrom75 Рік тому +1

      @@barrythomas2357 wow! I'll check it out 💔

  • @gemmahayward9027
    @gemmahayward9027 Рік тому +7

    Just at the bit talking about mental decline not resulting in you being an abuser. Thank you!
    I was with an emotional abuser/manipulator and his mum just keeps falling back on 'he was having a breakdown when you were together". Nah, that's not what this was. He has even abused her but she enables and makes excuses and it's ridiculous. I strongly believe he abused his ex wife too. And he has the possibility to be incredibly dangerous. Being mentally unwell does not cause someone to be an abuser. Through giving specific instances (similar to this) to a therapist they've said it sounds like narcissistic abuse.

  • @missyfaulker3797
    @missyfaulker3797 Рік тому +3

    Thank You! Again to bring awareness to this!

  • @tabathacattle6898
    @tabathacattle6898 Рік тому +5

    Hi Emma what a horrendous case, it's an extremely sad case what a shame she never made it to her flight, it's a case of many of the 2 second decisions we make can shape our lives
    Thank you for bringing her case to the forefront, every case you cover is so well researched and explained for us
    Thanks again for another interesting case x

  • @truecrimescafe
    @truecrimescafe Рік тому +38

    As a fellow True Crimes Channel, I have come to realise that most of the dating sites are not reliable but rather often bring you in close contact with psychos pretending to be romantic.

    • @lovewins9267
      @lovewins9267 Рік тому +2

      I entirely agree! No online dating for me. You have a new sub 🙂

    • @subrosa4792
      @subrosa4792 Рік тому +3

      A lot of your comments start off with “as a fellow true crimes channel” …are you here trolling for subs?

    • @truecrimescafe
      @truecrimescafe Рік тому

      @@lovewins9267 Exactly. The traditional approach is still the best 👌. Thanks for the sub.

    • @tonicharters5592
      @tonicharters5592 Рік тому +2

      Been in a relationship for 12 years if we were to split up I would never use dating sites. To risky I've seen to many documentaries 😂

    • @claireedwards4077
      @claireedwards4077 Рік тому

      @@subrosa4792 are you just trolling for no reason. She's at least watching the videos and its not like she's commenting on all of Ems videos.

  • @Julia-uh4li
    @Julia-uh4li Рік тому +5

    This was such a sad case. Poor sweet Ashley.
    I am very surprised that after all these years, Emma still thinks that when a person is interviewed by police they should talk until they are blue in the face. This is NOT what a person should do!! Always ask to speak to an attorney... period or full stop!

  • @laurenjeangreenbean6301
    @laurenjeangreenbean6301 Рік тому +10

    I feel a fool, thanks for your tear jerking words. Being told we aren't fools means more than I can say. I send so much hope and love to yall in kcc, this family of empaths has helped me learn how much I didn't know. Rip Ashley 🙏 love ya ms em!

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Рік тому +1

      no, yr not. i have a tested high iq, am *really* assertive in normal life, have bo children or pets, and make six figures working remotely in tech, so i supposedly have every resource to walk away. but it's different when it's someone who you love and it happens over time bc it affects yr perception of reality. it can be literally anybody.

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Рік тому

      clarification i'm not in a violent situation now, don't need any concerned comments

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Рік тому +1

      clarification i'm not in a violent situation now, don't need any concerned comments

    • @laurenjeangreenbean6301
      @laurenjeangreenbean6301 Рік тому

      @Anonymous lol I definitely agree and support you in not being a victim. It's just nice to reach into the ether and say, anonymous, I think you are right. And it comforts my heart in some way to hear from "an anonymous" an insight into an abyss (that maybe isn't as unique as it makes one feel). Well spoken. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with a stranger.

  • @GitanaAdelle
    @GitanaAdelle Рік тому +2

    I really appreciate the work and sensitivity you put in to your co tent ❤

  • @biddipop9
    @biddipop9 Рік тому +11

    Would you consider covering the case of Grace Millane from here in New Zealand? Considering Grace was from England and I haven’t seen or heard many others cover her case, I followed the investigation the whole way through and it was so incredibly sad that this happened to her in what is meant to be one of the safest countries in the world 😢

    • @HouseOfMitchell
      @HouseOfMitchell Рік тому +2

      Truly criminal covered it on youtube, just incase Emma doesn't

    • @julieappleton89
      @julieappleton89 Рік тому

      I read that New Zealand is the most dangerous country for children to be bought up.

  • @LaLuna82
    @LaLuna82 Рік тому +3

    As someone with intrusive thoughts and diagnosed OCD for 23 years thank you for that spot on description about psychosis being different. One of my main fears alongside my thoughts was obviously what if I acted them out. Luckily I had a great psychiatrist who told me intrusive thoughts are a neurosis not psychosis. Every-time a sick bastard like Sepple would claim the opposite it would trigger me badly that I’d end up like him one day. RIP Ashley ❤
    Can’t wait to see you in Sunderland in June 😊

  • @CasbahCat
    @CasbahCat Рік тому +3

    This one made me SO angry 😭 what a grooming, evil piece of BS!!!
    Also annoys me how he instantly starts saying he was psychotic when he killed her. I work in an area to do with people who have committed serious crimes while mentally unwell and absolutely not one of them turned round right away and blamed psychosis….it’s an absolute insult to those who suffer from real and serious mental illness. It can take years and years of medication and treatment therapy for some of these people to even begin to understand what they are going through.

  • @debbiebaker2937
    @debbiebaker2937 Рік тому

    I cannot cope with the way your cat is looking at you. So lovingly ❤. Melts my heart

  • @lisaevans1338
    @lisaevans1338 Рік тому +5

    Kitty be like “Mama what’s with the wavy hand?” 😂 xx

  • @MissIvyMayhemBurlesque
    @MissIvyMayhemBurlesque 7 місяців тому +1

    Sitting laughing at the cat every time you talk with you hands looking at you like 'excuse me mum, it's your job to pat me, why did you stop?!'

  • @filiasolis5495
    @filiasolis5495 Рік тому +8

    My mum would have travelled there and dragged me out of that nasty rats place the first minute I would have sounded different in a conversation I swear.
    Poor girl, I just cannot wrap my mind around this case.
    Hopefully he will never have the chance to harm anybody.
    Governments actually doesnt give a shit about us.

    • @Shauna_02
      @Shauna_02 Рік тому +2

      Absolutely I would too for my daughter . You have a good mama . Love her dearly ❤

  • @Wjill2
    @Wjill2 11 місяців тому

    I watched a documentary about Ashley‘s case prior to watching this one. It was heartbreaking to know how MANY red flags there were! That her family, mormon, friends and neighbors knew about prior to her going, while she was there living with him, etc. If you know someone is at MINIMUM being verbally/mentally abused by someone you fully believe is abusive - help them immediately! Get on a plane or call the police! Hindsight is always 20/20! The signs were SCREAMING that she needed someone to help her because she couldn’t help herself! So incredibly sad!

  • @Clogs2002
    @Clogs2002 Рік тому +24

    This is such a sad case. That poor girl groomed by an abuser at such a young age. So far away from the people she trusted and loved. I always feel so much love for the neighbour. She seems a loving woman who did everything she could to help.

  • @sidharthcs2110
    @sidharthcs2110 11 місяців тому

    It's amazing how such a bright, articulated woman missed/ignored the obvious red flags.
    Academic brilliance doesn't mean much in this context.
    This isn't the first time I'm hearing about brilliant women find themselves in scenarios like this

  • @skreemqueen7520
    @skreemqueen7520 Рік тому +3

    So sad. My sympathy to her family. I can’t imagine the pain they have and still endure.
    Excellent work as always Emma.

  • @Iamk8d
    @Iamk8d Рік тому +3

    As someone who has survived an abusive relationship, you hit it on the head when you said. 'it's because they believe better.' I know that the hardest part for me was accepting that the man I gad created in my mind was drastically different than the one I was with in my life. I was scared to admit to myself that I could be so wrong, that my judgement, my ideas, and even my dreams could be so far off the mark. I felt stupid, to be honest, a feeling which only got stronger with time. I imagine that she felt the same. I imagine she worried that it would become an 'i told you so' situation where she was the punchline in a sick, twisted joke. It is SO difficult to leave, and that is what I wish people would understand. Even the most strong-willed woman will struggle because this type of abuse does not begin overnight, it builds over time, it leaves you so broken that leaving just seems impossible. This is the first time I have watched your channel, but I am so glad I did. You have a new subscriber here and I can not wait to watch more.

    • @margotprice4157
      @margotprice4157 11 місяців тому

      These predators are narcissistic sociopaths. They look for nice, loving caregivers. They are abusive, manipulative takers and emotional vampires. They portray being a good person. It's a con job from the start. After you fall for the con, the real predator emerges. You're bonded to the con, fake persona who NEVER was. You're involved with someone who NEVER existed. Someone who loves you does NOT want to hurt and abuse you. That's NOT love. That's HATE. NO excuse. No reason to settle. Leave ASAP.
      Never cut yourself off from family/friend support system. Talk to people. Take control away from the predator by speaking to others about it. DO NOT telegraph your intention to leave. Get your important belongings together in a bag. Have your bag ready to go. First chance, grab your bag and leave, DO NOT return. Leave that negative life behind. You DO have a choice to step out of the tornado. It may not be the choice you WANT. But, it IS the choice you NEED to survive.

  • @dnister_nymph
    @dnister_nymph Рік тому +17

    Yes, of course, he did that during the psychotic episode and that is why after the episode ended he didn’t freak out and just called his sister, very believable

  • @jenb7450
    @jenb7450 Рік тому +3

    I've heard of this case but never looked at it in-depth, can't wait!! 👊

  • @makesgoodsense8274
    @makesgoodsense8274 Рік тому +91

    Please do the case of Ellie Gould a 17 yearold A-level student killed by her boyfriend after she broken up with him. Her boyfriend made the crime scene to be her own suicide and clean up evidence linking him to Ellie murder and carried on his day as normal. Shocking thing is Thomas Griffiths got 12 year prison sentence it is the crime that shocked Wiltshire in 2019.

    • @RebeccaRabbitt
      @RebeccaRabbitt Рік тому +7

      Happened 2 minutes up the road from me. Utterly shocking. Nothing like we have ever had to hear about round here.

    • @jjwolfeegirl91wolf8
      @jjwolfeegirl91wolf8 Рік тому +4

      I know that case. Poor Ellie did not deserve that. She sounded like such a sweetheart :( rest in peace beautiful ❤

    • @clare1971
      @clare1971 Рік тому +2

      Oh I remember that

    • @Chibbles1
      @Chibbles1 Рік тому +5

      That's so awful!! Poor woman and her family! How is 12 years the sentence??

    • @suzimonkey345
      @suzimonkey345 Рік тому +2

      12 YEARS!!! 🤬

  • @kirstysutherland6951
    @kirstysutherland6951 Рік тому +8

    Hi Emma, please could you cover the case of Libby squire? I was at the same university as her when this happened so found this a very scary time for young women in the area and I constantly feel that her case hasn’t had enough recognition :) LOVE your videos!

    • @sheffieldamanda
      @sheffieldamanda Рік тому +4

      Check out Truly Criminal, they did an excellent episode covering poor Libby's case.

    • @suzimonkey345
      @suzimonkey345 Рік тому +4

      Truly Criminal is a good True Crime channel. Her voice is so relaxing…

    • @owl4260
      @owl4260 Рік тому +1

      Coffeehouse Crime also covered this case, very professional and respectful.

  • @kellywalsh30
    @kellywalsh30 Рік тому +3

    The cat looking up at you like “muuum pet me please” lol awwwbeautiful moggy xxx

  • @9418
    @9418 3 місяці тому

    It's so tragic that people fall victim to these types of dangerous toxic relationships, and they realize they're dangerous only after it's too late. We must recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship before it's too late. Learning to recognize the signs of an abusive relationship can help us to prevent these tragedies from happening.

  • @jenmeades8089
    @jenmeades8089 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for understanding. I hope so many find safety for themselves, loved ones or friends after watching this. Sending love and hugs to everyone who has ever been affected by abuse and coercive control to any degree- you deserve so much better. XxX 💞🌺

  • @SgYutani
    @SgYutani Рік тому +2

    OMG !!! Emma what have you done ???
    BANG TO RIGHTS has now become a regular part of my vocabulary lol.

    • @GenXfrom75
      @GenXfrom75 Рік тому

      I asked her not long ago if it means the same as the American saying, "dead to rights." It is. I say it all the time. But I've been substituting bang for dead more and more! 😅

  • @jovana_r
    @jovana_r Рік тому +17

    Hi Emma. I've been watching your videos almost obsessively since I discovered your channel few weeks ago. First of all I must say that your way of covering cases is really special. Your deep researches, getting into childhood and psychology of killers, your sarcasm, your empathy... it all made me be a fan of your channel.
    Btw, I've noticed you're into rock/metal music, so I think it would be very interesting to you to check band Rammstein (if you haven't done it yet), because among a lot of usually dark topics of their songs, there are two songs based on true crime cases and, actually, I cannot describe how much I'd like you to cover those cases even though I imagine it would be a bit harder because they are not from English speaking countries. One is a Austrian case of Josef Fritzl and another one is a German case of Armin Meiwes. If you haven't heard of them, please just take a look. I really think you would find them interesting, at very least. 🖤

    • @inloveharmonypeace6797
      @inloveharmonypeace6797 Рік тому +4

      Emma is the best :) welcome to the cult, hahaha.

    • @jovana_r
      @jovana_r Рік тому +3

      @@inloveharmonypeace6797 Thank you. 😊 She is amazing.

    • @inloveharmonypeace6797
      @inloveharmonypeace6797 Рік тому +3

      @@jovana_r 😊😊 I am also from Serbia, haha, so you are more than welcome 😊😊

    • @jovana_r
      @jovana_r Рік тому +2

      @@inloveharmonypeace6797 Oh great! 😊 Drago mi je i hvala još jednom. 😊

    • @jovana_r
      @jovana_r Рік тому +2

      @JustUs Great to see another Rammstein fan here. 😊 I am their massive fan.
      Btw, I was searching for any of those cases on Emma's channel, but I haven't found it. I will check again.
      And btw, thank you for welcoming me. 😊

  • @theresekleyn2377
    @theresekleyn2377 Рік тому +9

    I was catfishes and feel very blessed that I came out of it physically unharmed.

  • @kirstyfilby8004
    @kirstyfilby8004 Рік тому +4

    Thanks So much ❤ Em & dusted for todays content esp.since it's a BH in UK, totally appreciate the dedication, sacrifices and hard work from you both xx ❤

  • @ehrinmchenry3160
    @ehrinmchenry3160 Рік тому +1

    Hi Emma, I’ve listened to your videos for a long time now, but I haven’t engaged before, mostly because I’m usually a very private person who doesn’t feel comfortable expressing opinions in a public forum. But I want you to know that the compassion that you have for others (especially children) is deeply appreciated. The advice that you have for people who might be feeling unsafe in their relationships is very well articulated in this video as well, and again, it’s deeply appreciated. Thank you for what you do!

  • @keithireland6627
    @keithireland6627 Рік тому +2

    That cat loves you. Brilliant talk thankyou🍀.

  • @RoarLou
    @RoarLou Рік тому +2

    This wa a case I only found out this week and it happeed in my own town/city. the superinendent for the Essex police actually went onto a documentary talking about the case and advised of people to come forward of men (mostly) who harrass online so they can help to stop this murder from happening and I was pleasantly suprised as grooming/coercive control is never taken seriously so I am glad he said and took a stand on that. Thanks Emma for bringing this to light

  • @Simon1985_
    @Simon1985_ Рік тому +1

    I always love it when Emma’s videos crop up on my UA-cam recommendations. Just about to start this one, I know it’ll be good, she’s an incredible story teller 👍

  • @lindahamilton4319
    @lindahamilton4319 Рік тому +1

    Emma, I leave this episode watching and listening to your last few thoughts. You are so genuine and sincere! It definitely comes through. Not only did you mean what you were saying but you were feeling it too. What a gift those in your life have been given! Such a beautiful soul.

  • @lauratehan9330
    @lauratehan9330 Рік тому

    I can’t express the profound relief I feel that my now adult children were born and grew up when the internet and social media wasn’t as popular and prevalent as it is now. There are A LOT of dangers aside from the social media aspect. My heartfelt thoughts and best of wishes to all the parents out there raising children right now ❤

  • @Anniegrace5683
    @Anniegrace5683 Рік тому +8

    Damn at 21 just out of a toxic relationship hearing you taking about being young and having bad relationships really speaks to me. I’m out of the relationship and it wasn’t abusive (just not good) but I’m still struggling, hearing your take on it really hits hard and helps.

    • @saydvoncripps
      @saydvoncripps Рік тому +1

      Way to go, girl! Hang in there. All the best to you.

    • @sxmmyyyt
      @sxmmyyyt Рік тому +1

      All the best to you ❤

  • @debsheels856
    @debsheels856 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for the update on Claires law,I have had a disclosure under that law that the police brought to my attention in 2018..its good that you brought this to light. Thank you

  • @Steven-eg8be
    @Steven-eg8be Рік тому +6

    I can’t believe you’ve not yet covered the moors murders Kenny Doll! My mother knew Keith’s mother Winnie and recently, they searched for his body again but were unsuccessful.

    • @diane5522
      @diane5522 Рік тому

      Emma has covered this so you could tnank her for that.

    • @Steven-eg8be
      @Steven-eg8be Рік тому

      @@diane5522 where is it? Cause I can’t find it.

  • @joartuk
    @joartuk Рік тому +1

    Awwww loved the little cat purrs at the beginning

  • @zsofiathompson7501
    @zsofiathompson7501 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for covering this case. I think we can all learn from it

  • @rachaelwilson4985
    @rachaelwilson4985 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much Emma for this case, that poor girl just horrible what she went through 💔

  • @wendybutt896
    @wendybutt896 Рік тому +1

    The way your cat is looking up at you is SO cuuute!

  • @seanadevlin8080
    @seanadevlin8080 Рік тому +2

    I cannot believe you have your own channel and I JUST found you 😅,,,it my favourite and iv watched 6/7 so far and because of your expertise, it not doing make up or hair just you and your knowledge ❤loads channels out there trying jus to be jcs upload an interrogation a raw not talked about boring af,,, but YOU really could add in your title jcs case anolgy. Just saying because I can't believe the algorithm hasn't suggested you to me , wtf ?? ❤❤❤

  • @carolinesterquelle2159
    @carolinesterquelle2159 Рік тому +5

    Yippee! Kitty is back again! Please introduce the cutest kitty in the world sometime.

  • @SgYutani
    @SgYutani Рік тому +6

    Could you do the Amanda Knox case at some point if you get chance?xx

  • @SS-kh3fl
    @SS-kh3fl Рік тому +1

    I enjoy your channel. You have a way with delivering people's stories. You're very compassionate. Thanks. ❤

  • @michelletait5920
    @michelletait5920 Рік тому +8

    I'm so very sorry for family, for the loss of your beautiful daughter, what a disgusting evil man, hope he never gets out,thank you emma,love your cat.