THE 5 WAYS INFJs CHANGE THE PEOPLE’S LIVES
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- Опубліковано 3 гру 2022
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The INFJ changes lives through their words and actions, yet people struggle to acknowledge this. They're often too busy or preoccupied with other aspects of life that they don't have time for the impacts you've made on them; but it's important not let those moments go unnoticed because there might be something worth celebrating inside what seemed like less significant details at first glance!
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Have you been in situations where you felt the relationship with you as an INFJ had a big impact on someone's life?
Yes. I told one person that they could marry with that another one. My intuition told me spontaneusly that they could be a good couple. They have been married for many years now.
Oh, yes 👍.
I was just thinking how to change YOUR life.. But you dont need that do you? :)
But really, I want to paint your portrait.
I know something about my self. It's not that hard for me to be the gamechanger that I really am in online communities. I have been such a person already, but when it comes to face to face interractions I still prefer to keep my gamechanging temper hidden and keep quiet instead of provoking peoples fears and insecurities that will coast me harsh judgment that my Fe desperately want's to avoid. The key word here is desperately. Things done from desperation never give good results. It's a crucial choise - be your self by showing your true insides no matter if you are gentle and nice or you are insistfull, hardcore and unwilling to agree with something that is really getting under your skin.
I've inspired the conception of a few babies. But all of them were in completely different situations and circumstances. I didn't know at the time but only later when I tracked back the events. And it's not anything you could guess. So go wild with your imagination.
Did the test and found out I was an INFJ several months ago. As a result, your videos have allowed me to connect a lot of dots. I'm now 90 years old and can look back on an awful lot of dots! With respect to not knowing how much you've impacted people: For many years I was a community advocate/activist throughout northern Canada and I impacted many people's lives for the better. But very few people have ever talked to me about how their lives were impacted by what I accomplished. And for me that's okay, because one of the worst behaviours an advocate can portray is to allow the ego to rule. To effect change and hang around basking in the glory is a no no. A community activist needs to know when to pull the plug, when the local people have empowered themselves to the point when you are no longer required. I can look back on many achievements and to find out years later that huge changes happened because of what was done originally, is enough for me.
Wow Bill, that's truly inspiring words. That's deep and so sweet. I can relate to what you say. Letting in the ego, I agree, is a no no. Deep inner satisfaction is the order of the day. That's internal strength that many do not know about. May you live to see 100 and many hundreds in the future resurrection. God bless.
Reading this brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
God bless you
You just pointed out why I tend to not show my true colors or opinions. I feel like I get nothing but anger & rejection whenever I speak my truth so I just keep quiet most of the time. You're 100% right it's not my responsibility if something I say triggers someone and makes them behave irrationally.
So difficult to be authentic isn’t it!
First of all, thank you for making this video. I'm saving it for future reference.
Downside of being an INFJ: I've triggered a lot of deeply insecure and fearful people in my life. They probably still resent me to this day.
Upsides: Some have credited me with inspiring them to think outside the box, overcome their fears and broaden their horizons. Also, my boss recognized my special INFJ skill set: She put me in charge of hiring for our department last year. We achieved extraordinary results with the team that I personally interviewed and hand-picked. I ended up getting an excellent annual performance review, a nice raise, and a bonus for my work.
Great job.
Whoop! 👍😊
I accidentally ran upon your video and it changed my life. I’m a senior but you’ve answered decade old question I had about myself. Thank you so very much!
That is exactly what happened to me!!
A google AI presented this to me, when I was crying on cam during a kungfu movie.
Yes my life has changed as well it was so very bad I'm still working on it all
Thinking of several times I actually told people they don't need to live within certain boundaries, and actually living outside them myself. Yes, not accepted very well by others, they may even agree, but can't make the leap in the 3D world.
For the record... I'm an INTP. And I love the INFJ. ♥
Everything you say about the INFJ that pushes people away is actually what draws me in.😁
Thanks for being the only person Ive ever found that understands me
Have I been in situations where I felt the relationship with me as an INFJ had a big impact on someone's life? Yes. Sometimes it was performing a task for them that they could not perform. Other times it was sharing some knowledge & wisdom with them they had not heard before. Any other time it was them observing me do things and learning a better method. I've never bragged or boasted about it. I was glad that there was something I could either say and/or do that positively affected them to make their lives better. After all, I learned from others as well.
I can definitely agree, everyone who has crossed my path has become a better person whether it was me leading by example and breaking the mold or it was a positive interaction or being the hard pill they had to swallow after the fact.
If they become enlightened, i suppose...who knows
Wenzes, you do such a good job in explaining what it means to be INFJ. Whilst I have always felt what you put over, it makes such sense in rational thought with what you say. I feel somewhat detached yet identify more with myself. Life makes so much more sense. I am re-engaging along the middle road. Life is seeming to be so much better. Thank you so much for your guidance and being you.
I am going to choose myself.
How many INFJs does it take to change a lightbulb. One, but the lightbulb has to really WANT TO change! Hard life lesson.
I honestly recommend the recordings of earl nightingale to any other infj, he speaks about the kind of mindset we need to succeed in a way that's really compatible with our lifestyle
We trigger anger and fear. Wow, so true. Listening to that, I put together a very recent situation like that with a person I consider a good friend and it did surprise me. Also, a couple of years ago, I triggered a romantic interest because I don't live by the rules, and it kind of ended the relationship. Getting clarity about what is going on is fantastic. Love it. Let them be triggered is my new motto.
This video definitely explained a lot. I have seen these five points all of my life, but this is the first time I have seen them arranged in an orderly and understandable way. We definitely do go deep, and we do prove people wrong and trigger anger. I think a lot of times it's unintentional on our part - or at least it has been for me. I certainly did not enjoy triggering anger and proving people wrong but a lot of times it did happen simply because I followed my own book instead of the so-called "book" that apparently everyone else was following
(which, by the way, I often thought, and still do think, doesn't exist).
When I have angered people and made them fear, it was usually from making my own decisions - and for both following and not following convention as I saw fit. But because I tried to practice empathy, I usually found that people eventually felt safer to use their own thinking as well.
This video is another good example of how you sum up the infj experience it is systematic way. Thank you for a very affirming video.
Beside the amazing work, we have to clap to Wenzes she's doing great job: big progression and development on the Se and Te 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌠🌠🌠
Me being myself is my birthright
It has always amazed me how one carbon based lifeform feels that they can tell other carbon based lifeforms how to exists and live their life. I am glad that throughout the years I have learned to bypass other humans' influence easily.
Maybe having my Fe fuse burned out has helped, and after replacing it with a new one I can consciously manage myself without Fe having power over me. Now Fe is is like a calm warm river that no longer has the strong carving effect in me.
People have a hard time seeing that one can be in society without being of it, like standing in water without becoming wet.
I noticed I have a disruptive presence but only towards the non-genuine, non-authentic aspects of human creatures and I am no longer fazed by that affect of me on others.
I no longer care if people are honest with me or not, but I feel a bit disappointed and sad when I see that they are not even honest with themselvs.
Lately I have been thinking about the Fe myself. I completely understand when you say Fe burnout !! I have had to really keep this under control. It's our creative strength. But choose wisely. What else can we do..
@@matilda4406 Supporting role only is what I think I am learning. When I have strong Ni and strong Fe torn with each other toward a situation/person, I have to put the Ni first, or it really messes me and things up. Takes me a loooong time to recover when I go instead with the Fe.
Going with the Ni first for me involves more courage and risk. The Fe feels safer, I know how to be a doormat, done it all my life, and that people will tolerate that, but it’s damaging in the end. I think just let Fe support the Ni - and that involves a creative process, figuring out how your Fe can soften your approach to the situation/person your Ne has picked up on, and not alienate you, if that makes sense.
Your videos are so in line with my current experiences...its crazy👀
Love this on so many levels! ♥️ So true!
Yes, we are awesome!
Thank you wenzes for this very insightful topics, this is what Ive experienced so far as an LGBT INFJ-A thru the years and it was very painful to undergo with where i experienced I keep myself small not to show who I am (gay) as a human being because I know very well that it may trigger the people around me especially my family. As I undergo a transformative spritual awakening thru the years, I've learned that "im the driver seat of my own life, I have every right to own who I am especially my dark side as an INFJ". Finding wenzes channel was a blessing in disguise 🙏🔥🔥❤️. The answers that I look into towards google was not fitting though, only wenzes can answer the questions that you had as an INFJ 🎉
Thanks!
What an absolutely wonderful video, Wenzes! God Bless you! How fortunate am I, and so many others, to have you here as a guide! " When the student is ready, the teacher will appear".- Thank you, teacher! Stay safe, and be well!
I love how you explained why we were always bullied.
I love the slider bar, Maybe someday Ill max it. Please keep uploading.
Luv
Incredible! I feel so understood, to me this is soooo relieving somehow. Thank you. ;-) Enjoy
#Best_Careers_Jobs Comimg from a Long-suffering INFJ Male Here~Here is Some ideal careers for INFJs :
1. Writer (this has been my chosen profession for
most of my life, largely in video games).
2. Criminal profiler: INFJs can read people, and are
experts on honing in on people's motivations and
next moves. We are also human lie detectors &
don't shy away from the darkest sides of the
human experience.
3. Counselor/therapist: because INFJs understand
and empathize with those who are suffering and
are natural helpers/healers.
4. Philanthropy: INFJs want the world to be a better
place & genuinely strive to do something concrete
to help the suffering & less-fortunate. From
volunteering to founding an NGO to straight-up
philanthropy, you will find many INFJs promoting
the welfare of others.
5. Teaching: again with the helping.
6. Artist/Designer: very creative types, but with a
need to do something concrete & useful, not just
something pretty or simply nice to look at.
7. Clergy/religious leader: the sincere kind! Not the
kind that sells salvation in order to own private
jets & live in mansions; not the kind who orders
followers to hate his/her fellow man; but, the wise
& gentle one who truly practices what he/she
preaches and works towards love & harmony
amongst all people of all faiths.
#INFJ #PERSONALITY_TYPE #PSYCHOLOGY
#6
Just a topic on time
Love you wenzes
Wenzes, your wisdom and understanding of yourself (INFJ) is amazing. I have been following your videos for a few months now. They enriched me a lot, and helped me overcome cognitive biases I had (have). Your work is a great gift to the world. I wholeheartedly thank you.
❤Ty, #3 happened at work in a public location, and I hadn’t thought about this possibility, currently I have pulled back, rather than continuing on my faster growth - this insight is really helpful, blessed holidays to you!
I "feel" like you know what you are talking about. 😊
Bravo Wenzes. This was👌.
So tru
REcently I had to give out a "I told you so" But this was after all the back biting. So I had to fired some of them. Oh well. All because they decided to go over my head.
I probably post TOLD. YOU. SO. about every week. It's actually annoying to me how often I can see what's coming but they can't and argue with and mock me, but then when I'm proven right.... crickets.
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Not sure...I've been tryna reach out to them but I don't want to be to blunt with them .
I think they know ,that I know, that I know , we both know🤷.
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How do you keep doing this? 💯🔥🔥👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Weezy Weezy you are so true you have to be true to the game LOL😘💗😘
Most ppl I just offend. Not meaning to, but most ppl can't handle truth because they live in a protective bubble of denial of reality. What's great about sharing the truth is you weed out the fakers and keep those who embrace reality. Just call me "Trigger". The other thing I experience which seems related is that all of my ex's eventually return like they feel they are missing something, even ex band members. They are. But I don't give a second chance.
How did you figure all this out? I really like you.
I never understood why they don't come back for more I think I shouldn't judge but I actually do just not to their face I ❤️ the phrase "that is on them" less humble is the way to go forward there is no one reality so check out mine
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INFJ Fact:
INFJs may achieve a
level of understanding
that makes them
appear wise..
Peoples’
People are too easy to piss off. This is why avoiding social gatherings is often a good idea. Too easy to follow Kim and Chloe where thinking is not required.
my name is Kimberly💕 infj-a 79% intuitive, 98% introverted, 91% feeling, 82% assertive. I would have declined the invite to stay home and paint💕💕💕
@@pnwperson sounds like a good plan to me.
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Yes...yikes 😬
I am suffer lots of Aqupatipn I feel not good ?
Aqupatipn
@@hirengogoi7329 What is Aqupatipn?
You are an Isfj not Infj! Please don’t confuse people because you are doing more wrong then good😊
Who is an ISFJ?
I love your channel sooo much!! because it really helps me understand myself much more clearly & build a theory of mind, which i lack due to having autism. 🧩🥳🥳💚🤍 Thank you for making this channel!! I wish there were more channels like this.☺️