Oh myyyyy😢😢😢 my problem is same as urs bcs i feel like right now super lonely at the fricking university i attend but i have no friends there bcs i was too cold to them. I dont know they were annoying to me but i feel lonely being alone all the time. When someone comes to me and tryna interact w me, i push them away. Idk really why but my limit time is an hour thirty. When it is 2 hours i feel super annoyed and think i will never be w them again 😭 but i ammm super lonely, and dont know what should i do
@@teenager9103woah! Exactly me months ago. I made an extreme change after that. Although our personality comes in play, it's doing better for me. How about you? Hmm..i know how to know this. Wanna exchange igs? (Dw:)
@@teenager9103 I'm so sorry for you 🫂 and goshh so relatable cuz that's soo me with the people in my hometown. Maybe it depends on the people and the setting? Because as i stay with new classmates in a new school, my cheeks are rosy with happiness everyday I'm so different from my hometown. I didn't knew i could make such nice friends either. My cheeks would hurt from smiling too much. What do you think?
I’m an INFJ and I feel like a lone wolf the fact is lone wolf dies and pack survives. It’s a curse and blessing at the same time to be an INFJ, it’s so stressful because when you know the whole game but you cannot play, stressful.
VishnuTeja, I can speak only for myself, but it seems to me that, as life goes on and you learn what you are best at, who you are comfortable with, where you fit best and who welcomes your way of being, life gets easier. This may be true for everyone, but it seems more true for INFJs because we are coming from farther away from the norm.
@@wisdomseeker3132Maybe that is to say, they have different values, and cannot play the game without sacrificing core values, which is unacceptable. Better not to breathe at all, then.
I am an INFJ and I have only met one other (that I know of) and oddly enough, I couldn't stand them! I felt like every single thing I did was being studied and analyzed, he gave me a lot of advice I did not ask for, and he was bewildering honest to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Then I finally realized why I don't have many friends, I do the same thing lol
Similar experience here. We both have difficulty in relationships. One day we realized nobody really likes us. We don't even like each other at times😂. At the end of the day, I tell her "be careful, I don't wanna be on this planet alone, you're the only one I got."
I'm an INFJ, and have met 2 other INFJs in my life. They were the reason I started thinking this whole MBTI thing is just a scam. Our personalities were completely different like I can not find any similarity between the 3 of us. Plus, I couldn't handle them at all, like why in the world would a human being be so manipulative like they both were. Or they would go on trying to know me in a deeper level, but sister who are you fooling, I know what you're trying to do 😭😂. I hated both and I'm not friends with them anymore, our personalities just didn't match, I just hated someone else trying to get to know me on a deeper level like I wanna do that but don't want that to be done with me. So Ironic.
I'm a 30 year old INFJ and while I used to once every 6 months feel the need to socialise over the past year or two that too has completely vanished and I have no need for being around people EVER! I find this to be a massive win and a soul level evolvement. We see things about others that they aren't even aware of!
As an INFJ this is absolutely true, and nice to know there is a reason why I don't have many friends and that I can strangely read people extremely well....
I don't like a fake environment. I require authenticity and I love peace and quiet. Yes I've been accused of being too intense! I love real conversations, deep conversations. I'm not here on this planet to talk about paint drying.
I do need my solitude. I've been treated my whole life like that was wrong, but it's not. People who are very talkative are very draining. So leave us be. It'll make for a better day
My favorite part is when people treat you like a blank canvas for being this way or having this need and project their issue onto you. They don't see you, just their insecurities and someone from their past. Very frustrating. Touch people are even worse with this.
I think you should spend some time alone and ask yourself questions but don't spent all time alone, from what I know INFJ need time to reconnect with themselves. Also INFJ need socialize, they like to spend time with the ones that get them. Art help expressing yourself, you can write, dance, sing, paint, draw or even listening to something. You can get any kind of hobby that isn't harmful.
It feels good to see an INFJ community in this comment section. Finally we are getting our similar types and got to share what always goes inside our minds..❣️
I will sending this video to anyone asking me why I don't go out or around people like do you see what kind of society we live in, no thank you love my house and alone time
Well I'm an INFJ but I trust people easily. I just notice their flaws very quickly and end up staying away from them. I don't necessarily stay away because of their flaws but I just looove solitude😂 but yeah, I can't help but notice the flaws
I love how he said “..hidden within the shadows of life.” Because I (being an INFJ) often reference “I like to stay hidden in the shadows..” lol quite often 😂😂
🎯 I'm a private person. When I let you into my world it's because I have allowed it; if they don't want to get to know me it'll be your loss. INFJ Doorslam I wouldn't wish it on anyone not even myself.
I’m an INFJ and the son of an INFJ. My whole childhood I wondered why my dad had only a handful of few close friends. Turns out, few could meet his exceptionally high standards and he mostly just wanted to be alone or with my mom. I turned about 23 and suddenly it all snapped into focus…
Underlying most of the listed traits is a great sensitivity to others' needs and feelings in addition to one's own. From that sensitivity springs vulnerability, a capacity to feel emotional pain, ergo withdrawal from judgment of those comparatively insensitive to pain. Those insensitive ones feel emotionally dull witted, uncaring, and hurtful, even to the point of seeming like wild ravening beasts. Who wouldn't recoil from that? So how many people can be trusted with one's heart and spirit? It takes time to let them show themselves. Once trust is established, the floodgates of friendship can open, cautiously at first, always watching for the signs of resistance, resentment, or envy. Plus, the superficial ha-has of acquaintanceship aren't worth the investment of energy and time compared to real Friendship. Life is too short to blow it away on triviality.
I always wondered why I didn't see much value in shallow friendships in school. I always preferred fewer friendships with more depth. Big groups made me feel uncomfortable, and without being able to connect with them, I felt lonely or unliked. Turns out, I'm apparently INFJ. Makes sense.
INFP here and I kind of relate, too. But INFJs are something else. 😂 They’re hardcore, man. And they take independence and solitude to a whole other level.
Honestly I don't believe in this statistical data because they consider a certain number of population in a particular region and then apply it to the whole world, which is quite unfair and irrelevant
The trust part is 100% true for me. While I made two friends in my college, they had already called me their bestfriend while I was thinking of deleting their contact when college is over. It took me a year to become bestfriends with them. Now I can't live without them
PSA: It's actually MALE INFJs who are the true unicorns of Myers-Briggs, and not us female INFJs... as much as that pains me to say. 😂 Just keeping it real! ✌️
As an infj feeling lonely bothers me since i am sensitive and i need someone with whom i talk and open up .. what motivates me to socialize is that need and sympathy that draws me to people.. i feel like they need me the same i am feeling needy now and i should do something . What else pushes me to socialize are goals ,and professional life because i am already a goal orientated person . And i am good in setting boundaries between private and professional life and messing between them kills me .
Yeah, I just can't say that to my friend in the school. I don't want to make them feel bad, but my acts say it all. She's full of drama, talks nonsense most of the time (e.g. backstabbing someone, mocking their looks, etc.) However, on April 15, I finally cut her off. I told her about all the things I can't bear with and that all I want is solitude and peace. I think, she's now paying respect to me. We still do talk on the things that are with value and worthwhile to talk.
I enjoy my solitude, but I can't understand respect why people like to be together. No judgment from me and I have so great friends who don't need my attention daily. I'm grateful
This is 100 % me. People ask me why it's so hard for me to trust people, and I ask them why is it so hard for them to keep a promise or be someone who wont use me for their own benefit. My silence can be both a shield and a weapon, protecting me from further hurt or inflicting a lasting blow. I push people away because I’m afraid I might not heal again if I get hurt. I push them away and paint my walls so good they can’t recognize me anymore. I don’t give people a chance. I can't let myself get hurt again. My heart can't take it. My advice as an INFJ....is If you want to be strong, learn to fight alone. You can't trust anyone but yourself.
My partner and I are both infj’s. I’m a infj-A and he’s an infj-T . This video leans more towards my bf. We like being alone… together on our free time. Doing our own things. 😂 this is relatable.. I don’t have much close friends that really knows me but I’m an open book to most things. It’s too overwhelming sometimes.
I approve of all of these except the last one, and I think that's because I don't understand why I'm too intense for most people...I've never heard that
Damn… I score high on this list. I haven’t taken the assessment yet, but it looks clear to me. Sometimes I judge myself harshly but are we in control of this type of thing? I’ve seen one channel where they discuss ways to mitigate damage so we can interact better. Kinda frustrating at times.
I don't think I'm intense...hmm...The rest 100% though! I tried to take a nap earlier but started thinking about a new schedule I wanted to implement and then couldn't sleep because I was looking forward to putting it together... I may in fact be too weird for even an INFJ...
As an INFJ it took some time before I understood the nature… as to how different I really am… but then the “why” also came later: before a grievous breakdown, I noticed that I was sensitive to sound and movement… after a breakdown I became acutely aware of my surroundings as well. But then a study I had entered into, I began to see the “horizon” in a whole different context. And as an artist I began to see the “BIG PICTURE” from a very different perspective as well.
We hate snakes. And by snakes, we mean people with forked tongues, those who say and act differently when they’re in front and behind our back. The irony of it is, I love the animal snakes. 😂
The reading people thing is rlly one of my instincts....I can easily read people's moves from the way I see them in my point of view...I easily know when someone feels embarrassed or what there feeling but the dnwfall is u know when someone is avoiding u just from one eye contact...It's easy for us to read people we know for a long time
But we have deeper friendships. My friendships go back to age 2, age 3 .. and I continue to add deep lifelong friends through the years into my 60s now. My friends say they don’t have another friend like me, they don’t have the conversations with others that we have, they call me their best friend, their truest friend. Bc I love them, I care about them, I’m interested in them - who they really are - even though i don’t fully agree with any of them, share their politics or religion or whatever, I create space for them to be exactly who they really are. My friends mean the world to me. I don’t have any family - that is, no siblings and my cousins are older and live in other countries so I can’t talk with them and haven’t seen most of them for decades. Even my friends - we can be apart 10 years - coming together it’s like we were never apart. What I can’t get comfortable with is shallow relationships, shallow conversations, conformity, group think… 1000 empty faces on social media. Doesn’t mean I don’t have friends. It means that if I threw a big wedding for myself, I wouldn’t have a matching crew of women to pose for the photo.
I personnaly hate when a psychological analysis describe me perfectly. It took me 30 years to realized and accept that I am different and dificult. Dogs are my best companion and confident as I trust nobody!!😮
Funny part of being like this is that I'm always nervous and worry thinking about what my wedding day would looks like, who's gonna be my bridesmaid and who's gonna receive my invitation and fill the chair even tho I'm so single and not even have the urge to marry anyone in near time 😂
@@emilyAmelie Darling, how old are you? 🙂 It means, that general experiences in life support that persons genetic predisposition/ predispositions. I'm not sure, if it helped in any way... . I tried, thou.. . Good luck to you. 🤨🙂
Number 9 is one of the driving factors for me in this matter. Nowadays, it seems people are all about drama. I’ve door slammed quite a few people out of my life for that very reason, and sometimes I just want to slam my door on the entire world. I just want peace and harmony in my life now. People have drained me.
My first time testing in highschool I tested as an INTJ 10 years later I tested as an ENTJ and ten years after that ENFJ. My I/E and F/T are almost exactly 50/50 We'll have to see what happens in another 10 years 😉
Honestly, I think introverts in general can relate to these reasons. The less specific the harder it pertains to a specific individual. Therefore, creating the mass relatability most people feel from this post, thus gaining publicity. I genuinely believe these reasons aren't just for infjs yet claim as if they are to appeal to a community of people who feel as if "they're not like the rest". Remember not one person is like "the rest" because everyone is unique and even if they are like the rest, what's so bad about that? Don't you want to have people mutually understand you as you understand them?
As an INFJ, I basically have a personality for every person I meet to the point that I know almost nothing about myself. I will be a "Gossip Girl" around some people, or clumsy around people who need a laugh. It sucks.
Im most out of the box infj, being that I'm an ambivert and stretched my lil box into enfj-infp/enfp I was also -t -a, at times.. no wonder I'm misunderstood when I worked on adaptability and broadening my perspective too much, but it really feels most comfortable being infj, i just can't not care
I’m currently dating an INFJ, and I feel like every single one of these points are accurate except for the one about being sensitive, but that could be me not knowing him on a deep enough level
Infj works on being perfect, sometimes it's hard to hit middle ground when such spectrum is in play.. being overly sensitive is good as it is bad, so trying to get tougher is in agenda for most of us, and if he's a good guy he was probably hurt a lot in his life for being a pushover and people pleaser, so getting tougher mentally is haven
@@_magicmaze remind him to release some of the emotion's with you if you can be safe space for that, water as an element is cleansing and needed for all humans
INFJs dislike conflict and have little patience for drama, but all you INFJs know that the way you are actually causes conflict and drama and you love it!
We notice when other people judge us in a negative way, even without them saying so, and we avoid them. 🧐
I'm an intj and I'm also like that😂
Yea i avoid them too and then i ruined my friendship💀
Oh yeah in the very first second they show it. And be it a curse or blessing , we INFJ see it straight away.
Yes Andi... amd they don't know we are on to them immediately. Lol
oh my god! that so me! im infj and i thought its normal for introvert person to do that.
Alone but not lonely. INFJ to the core
We see EVERYTHING. People really resent that. And that is precisely why no one likes us.
Truth. No one likes looking in the mirror we force them to look into.
SOOOO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like you guys ❤ i adore infjs! ✨😊 -enfp ⭐
@@sofivivian7909 Doubt
INTJ, we see them too but we conquer them 😏
I hate being lonely and alone. But when i see the cruel surrounding, then oh~ how nice it is to not be absorbed in them
What! I've been thinking the same😮😅
@@Vili9562It's cool to have the same mind. Btw, are you tribal?(✯ᴗ✯)
Oh myyyyy😢😢😢 my problem is same as urs bcs i feel like right now super lonely at the fricking university i attend but i have no friends there bcs i was too cold to them. I dont know they were annoying to me but i feel lonely being alone all the time. When someone comes to me and tryna interact w me, i push them away. Idk really why but my limit time is an hour thirty. When it is 2 hours i feel super annoyed and think i will never be w them again 😭 but i ammm super lonely, and dont know what should i do
@@teenager9103woah! Exactly me months ago. I made an extreme change after that. Although our personality comes in play, it's doing better for me. How about you? Hmm..i know how to know this. Wanna exchange igs? (Dw:)
@@teenager9103 I'm so sorry for you 🫂 and goshh so relatable cuz that's soo me with the people in my hometown. Maybe it depends on the people and the setting? Because as i stay with new classmates in a new school, my cheeks are rosy with happiness everyday I'm so different from my hometown. I didn't knew i could make such nice friends either. My cheeks would hurt from smiling too much. What do you think?
I’m an INFJ and I feel like a lone wolf the fact is lone wolf dies and pack survives. It’s a curse and blessing at the same time to be an INFJ, it’s so stressful because when you know the whole game but you cannot play, stressful.
It's not "cannot" i think it's "You think you know the game... But in reality You don't." That is one of the reasons You don't play it. 😅
VishnuTeja, I can speak only for myself, but it seems to me that, as life goes on and you learn what you are best at, who you are comfortable with, where you fit best and who welcomes your way of being, life gets easier.
This may be true for everyone, but it seems more true for INFJs because we are coming from farther away from the norm.
@@wisdomseeker3132Maybe that is to say, they have different values, and cannot play the game without sacrificing core values, which is unacceptable. Better not to breathe at all, then.
So true.
Same feeling here 🥺
I am an INFJ and I have only met one other (that I know of) and oddly enough, I couldn't stand them! I felt like every single thing I did was being studied and analyzed, he gave me a lot of advice I did not ask for, and he was bewildering honest to the point where it made me uncomfortable. Then I finally realized why I don't have many friends, I do the same thing lol
damn
Similar experience here. We both have difficulty in relationships. One day we realized nobody really likes us. We don't even like each other at times😂. At the end of the day, I tell her "be careful, I don't wanna be on this planet alone, you're the only one I got."
Now what is it interesting is, the best friend I have had is an INFJ, and I am one
so cutee bahahahh@@HarryJensen-kr4qz
I'm an INFJ, and have met 2 other INFJs in my life. They were the reason I started thinking this whole MBTI thing is just a scam. Our personalities were completely different like I can not find any similarity between the 3 of us. Plus, I couldn't handle them at all, like why in the world would a human being be so manipulative like they both were. Or they would go on trying to know me in a deeper level, but sister who are you fooling, I know what you're trying to do 😭😂. I hated both and I'm not friends with them anymore, our personalities just didn't match, I just hated someone else trying to get to know me on a deeper level like I wanna do that but don't want that to be done with me. So Ironic.
I'm a 30 year old INFJ and while I used to once every 6 months feel the need to socialise over the past year or two that too has completely vanished and I have no need for being around people EVER! I find this to be a massive win and a soul level evolvement. We see things about others that they aren't even aware of!
As an INFJ this is absolutely true, and nice to know there is a reason why I don't have many friends and that I can strangely read people extremely well....
I like real people. Genuine
To the point that the real one is only "me"
I am in the 2% yay.. I love being infj.. No friends no problem.. Better alone than be in a drama soup..
They can feel the emotions and intentions of everyone around us. It’s a survival adaptation and is exhausting to be in crowds.
I don't like a fake environment. I require authenticity and I love peace and quiet. Yes I've been accused of being too intense! I love real conversations, deep conversations. I'm not here on this planet to talk about paint drying.
I do need my solitude. I've been treated my whole life like that was wrong, but it's not. People who are very talkative are very draining. So leave us be. It'll make for a better day
I'm an infj but I talk a lot😢
The following yakkers are fake faux real fr; programmed backwards NPCs 👁️
And the "Why do you talk so less" and "why are you so quiet" ahhh like- WHY DO YOU TALK SO MUCHH 💀
My favorite part is when people treat you like a blank canvas for being this way or having this need and project their issue onto you. They don't see you, just their insecurities and someone from their past. Very frustrating. Touch people are even worse with this.
Can we please start an INFJ networking kinda thing, sorta like MENSA? But…none of us would show up 😂🙃
Yes exactly 😂
Lol
HAHA
😂
yeah i am sure that would be fill from more real intelligent peoples than mensa
As an INFJ ,I always create a personality to make that person comfortable. I don't even know myself
Real
I think you should spend some time alone and ask yourself questions but don't spent all time alone, from what I know INFJ need time to reconnect with themselves. Also INFJ need socialize, they like to spend time with the ones that get them. Art help expressing yourself, you can write, dance, sing, paint, draw or even listening to something. You can get any kind of hobby that isn't harmful.
I do the same thing and I’m still trying to figure out who I am
A high five from me 😂🖐🏻 I feel you! Identity crisis at its best 😂
Same
I found out I’m a infj a few days ago. It’s just makes so much sense now
It’s such an epiphany when you find out your type! 👍
I just found out too.
Just found out today
@@Subam027 take an MBTI-test
I'm an INFJ gamer girl too. After finding out I'm an infj recently, i felt comforted to know there are actually others out there who are a lot like me
It feels good to see an INFJ community in this comment section. Finally we are getting our similar types and got to share what always goes inside our minds..❣️
Yes! It's a great feeling isn't it buddy? =)
@@goteamslugs indeed
@@inquisitive.2510 Yup . . I wish we could all meet up somewhere in a giant building or secret facility of sorts. =]
@@goteamslugs it's kinda day dream
@@inquisitive.2510 . . I know. :]
I will sending this video to anyone asking me why I don't go out or around people like do you see what kind of society we live in, no thank you love my house and alone time
Yes. Seriously! :)
Well I'm an INFJ but I trust people easily. I just notice their flaws very quickly and end up staying away from them. I don't necessarily stay away because of their flaws but I just looove solitude😂 but yeah, I can't help but notice the flaws
What is INFJ?
@@jenn2226Introverted INtuitive Feeling and Judging
@@green360z thank you
Same
As an INFJ, I trust people easily and then regret it.
But all these videos made me think that INFJ don't trust easily but here i am.
There's a table with points in my mind for everyone, which turn into a general rank.
I love how he said “..hidden within the shadows of life.” Because I (being an INFJ) often reference “I like to stay hidden in the shadows..” lol quite often 😂😂
🎯 I'm a private person. When I let you into my world it's because I have allowed it; if they don't want to get to know me it'll be your loss. INFJ Doorslam I wouldn't wish it on anyone not even myself.
I like that... INFJ DOORSLAM😂
I’m an INFJ and the son of an INFJ. My whole childhood I wondered why my dad had only a handful of few close friends. Turns out, few could meet his exceptionally high standards and he mostly just wanted to be alone or with my mom. I turned about 23 and suddenly it all snapped into focus…
Underlying most of the listed traits is a great sensitivity to others' needs and feelings in addition to one's own. From that sensitivity springs vulnerability, a capacity to feel emotional pain, ergo withdrawal from judgment of those comparatively insensitive to pain. Those insensitive ones feel emotionally dull witted, uncaring, and hurtful, even to the point of seeming like wild ravening beasts. Who wouldn't recoil from that?
So how many people can be trusted with one's heart and spirit? It takes time to let them show themselves. Once trust is established, the floodgates of friendship can open, cautiously at first, always watching for the signs of resistance, resentment, or envy. Plus, the superficial ha-has of acquaintanceship aren't worth the investment of energy and time compared to real Friendship. Life is too short to blow it away on triviality.
Well said my friend! ^u^
I always wondered why I didn't see much value in shallow friendships in school. I always preferred fewer friendships with more depth. Big groups made me feel uncomfortable, and without being able to connect with them, I felt lonely or unliked.
Turns out, I'm apparently INFJ. Makes sense.
As an lnfp I relate to all 11 of these reasons
Lmao same
INFP here and I kind of relate, too. But INFJs are something else. 😂 They’re hardcore, man. And they take independence and solitude to a whole other level.
Me too 🤣
cause that just Stereotype and BASED ON Behaviour. learn your dom Cognitive function to see are you INFP for real ?
@@muhammadakna8397 I took the mbti test multiple times and got infp 97% of the time.
I am an INFJ type and proud to be most rare one
entj is the most rare since a year
@@sirscharlatan8537 don't think so
Honestly I don't believe in this statistical data because they consider a certain number of population in a particular region and then apply it to the whole world, which is quite unfair and irrelevant
you will now but there will be times you wished you weren't an infj as people rarely know you,i too used to be proud but now it's just ok now
@@shonulalak6820
Yes that's so true😭
We do see everything. And, what we see, we keep to ourselves.
Not me, I'm blasting
The trust part is 100% true for me. While I made two friends in my college, they had already called me their bestfriend while I was thinking of deleting their contact when college is over. It took me a year to become bestfriends with them. Now I can't live without them
Wow this is actually spot on!!
PSA: It's actually MALE INFJs who are the true unicorns of Myers-Briggs, and not us female INFJs... as much as that pains me to say. 😂 Just keeping it real! ✌️
And there you have it the complete 100% breakdown of my personality😂
I began to understand myself, my personality INFJ
It's a Theory. Why so Serious 😅
Not a 100%, It's just a theory. Why so serious. 😅
@@wisdomseeker3132 its a conspiracy theory
@@wisdomseeker3132 - it's 100% correct.
As an infj feeling lonely bothers me since i am sensitive and i need someone with whom i talk and open up .. what motivates me to socialize is that need and sympathy that draws me to people.. i feel like they need me the same i am feeling needy now and i should do something .
What else pushes me to socialize are goals ,and professional life because i am already a goal orientated person .
And i am good in setting boundaries between private and professional life and messing between them kills me .
Just leave me ALONE.
Yeah, I just can't say that to my friend in the school. I don't want to make them feel bad, but my acts say it all. She's full of drama, talks nonsense most of the time (e.g. backstabbing someone, mocking their looks, etc.) However, on April 15, I finally cut her off. I told her about all the things I can't bear with and that all I want is solitude and peace. I think, she's now paying respect to me. We still do talk on the things that are with value and worthwhile to talk.
I enjoy my solitude, but I can't understand respect why people like to be together. No judgment from me and I have so great friends who don't need my attention daily. I'm grateful
Yup and minding my own business 😌 👌🏽
I’m an INJF-T and I related to every video about this personality type-.
This is so accurate and concise
i have really felt like people have a hard time understanding me. and from learning that i’m a infj. AFTER learning they are so rare is really cool
This is 100 % me. People ask me why it's so hard for me to trust people, and I ask them why is it so hard for them to keep a promise or be someone who wont use me for their own benefit. My silence can be both a shield and a weapon, protecting me from further hurt or inflicting a lasting blow. I push people away because I’m afraid I might not heal again if I get hurt. I push them away and paint my walls so good they can’t recognize me anymore. I don’t give people a chance. I can't let myself get hurt again. My heart can't take it. My advice as an INFJ....is If you want to be strong, learn to fight alone. You can't trust anyone but yourself.
My partner and I are both infj’s. I’m a infj-A and he’s an infj-T . This video leans more towards my bf. We like being alone… together on our free time. Doing our own things. 😂 this is relatable.. I don’t have much close friends that really knows me but I’m an open book to most things. It’s too overwhelming sometimes.
That's awesome, how did you encounter another INFJ, or did you start your relationship and only later came to realize you both were it
I approve of all of these except the last one, and I think that's because I don't understand why I'm too intense for most people...I've never heard that
It is related with how our ability to read people and some of them dislikes the idea. And also of our tendency of being perfectionist.
Damn… I score high on this list. I haven’t taken the assessment yet, but it looks clear to me. Sometimes I judge myself harshly but are we in control of this type of thing? I’ve seen one channel where they discuss ways to mitigate damage so we can interact better. Kinda frustrating at times.
I'm an INFJ too, finally I found about my personality ❤❤
I don't think I'm intense...hmm...The rest 100% though! I tried to take a nap earlier but started thinking about a new schedule I wanted to implement and then couldn't sleep because I was looking forward to putting it together... I may in fact be too weird for even an INFJ...
This is why I dont have a relatioship
When I'm alone I'm never lonely. Being a INFJ is the best
As an INFJ it took some time before I understood the nature… as to how different I really am… but then the “why” also came later: before a grievous breakdown, I noticed that I was sensitive to sound and movement… after a breakdown I became acutely aware of my surroundings as well.
But then a study I had entered into, I began to see the “horizon” in a whole different context.
And as an artist I began to see the “BIG PICTURE” from a very different perspective as well.
As an INFJ, I agree with all facts.
We hate snakes. And by snakes, we mean people with forked tongues, those who say and act differently when they’re in front and behind our back. The irony of it is, I love the animal snakes. 😂
The reading people thing is rlly one of my instincts....I can easily read people's moves from the way I see them in my point of view...I easily know when someone feels embarrassed or what there feeling but the dnwfall is u know when someone is avoiding u just from one eye contact...It's easy for us to read people we know for a long time
An interesting take on this INFJ type! Thanks for sharing. Randomly discovered your channel through the UA-cam algorithm! 🤟🤟🤟
Checked for all items!
Being not alone is terrible
It's first time when I agree on all things someone says about my personality...
As an INFJ, 8th and 9th is very true.
But we have deeper friendships. My friendships go back to age 2, age 3 .. and I continue to add deep lifelong friends through the years into my 60s now. My friends say they don’t have another friend like me, they don’t have the conversations with others that we have, they call me their best friend, their truest friend. Bc I love them, I care about them, I’m interested in them - who they really are - even though i don’t fully agree with any of them, share their politics or religion or whatever, I create space for them to be exactly who they really are.
My friends mean the world to me. I don’t have any family - that is, no siblings and my cousins are older and live in other countries so I can’t talk with them and haven’t seen most of them for decades. Even my friends - we can be apart 10 years - coming together it’s like we were never apart.
What I can’t get comfortable with is shallow relationships, shallow conversations, conformity, group think… 1000 empty faces on social media. Doesn’t mean I don’t have friends. It means that if I threw a big wedding for myself, I wouldn’t have a matching crew of women to pose for the photo.
I personnaly hate when a psychological analysis describe me perfectly. It took me 30 years to realized and accept that I am different and dificult. Dogs are my best companion and confident as I trust nobody!!😮
I'm glad you realize we are more than 10 things.
yep...WE are INTENSE😝been told I am intense by a few ppl..🤣
Funny part of being like this is that I'm always nervous and worry thinking about what my wedding day would looks like, who's gonna be my bridesmaid and who's gonna receive my invitation and fill the chair even tho I'm so single and not even have the urge to marry anyone in near time 😂
Being an INFJ as well, I understand this all too well
#11. I've heard that so much in my life 💝
12 they hate AI mispronouncing words.
This is me to a T. These videos are so validating.
Well, you got all that right!
True! This is totally bang on!
This is golden so spot on
Sensitive and reading people go hand and hand
Being an older infj I recognize that early life experiences cement the genetic tendencies.
what does it mean ? 😀
@@emilyAmelie
Darling, how old are you?
🙂
It means, that general experiences
in life support that persons genetic predisposition/ predispositions.
I'm not sure, if it helped in any way... . I tried, thou.. .
Good luck to you.
🤨🙂
@@humongswlth9964 Thank you so much~ i still don’t really get it , sorry. 😆
@@emilyAmelie - INFJ Vague Mysterious statements.
I distanced, before it was a thing😂❤grateful for these videos that give me insight into, myself
INFJ here, yes all of these.
As an INFJ I confirm that it’s hard to make a lot of friends
Do you even want a lot of friends tho, that'd be more trouble than it's worth it
Number 9 is one of the driving factors for me in this matter. Nowadays, it seems people are all about drama. I’ve door slammed quite a few people out of my life for that very reason, and sometimes I just want to slam my door on the entire world. I just want peace and harmony in my life now. People have drained me.
No one's way too intense for me
-INTP
“infi-juhs” 💀
💀👍
What's a "juh"? =)
@@goteamslugs they are talking about how the video said “indi-juhs” instead of infjs.
@@leighuh Oh! Haha! XD
Thank you for explaining. =)
@@goteamslugs ofc
This is so true...
We have to operate outside the matrix to influence it.
My first time testing in highschool I tested as an INTJ
10 years later I tested as an ENTJ and ten years after that ENFJ.
My I/E and F/T are almost exactly 50/50
We'll have to see what happens in another 10 years 😉
Wow these people described me exactly!
I can relate to this 100%. I'm an INFJ type
Stop reveling us bruh 😂
I’m one them. This is probably why I feel excluded and those who I consider friends drift away from me, stop answering my messages
Honestly, I think introverts in general can relate to these reasons. The less specific the harder it pertains to a specific individual. Therefore, creating the mass relatability most people feel from this post, thus gaining publicity. I genuinely believe these reasons aren't just for infjs yet claim as if they are to appeal to a community of people who feel as if "they're not like the rest". Remember not one person is like "the rest" because everyone is unique and even if they are like the rest, what's so bad about that? Don't you want to have people mutually understand you as you understand them?
Actually the rarest personality type in population is ENTJ.
public comment. very good information. thanks
So nice of you
Nailed it. 💅
I'd have a really hard time ranking all 11 by accuracy. A really hard time.
As an INFJ, I basically have a personality for every person I meet to the point that I know almost nothing about myself. I will be a "Gossip Girl" around some people, or clumsy around people who need a laugh. It sucks.
Im most out of the box infj, being that I'm an ambivert and stretched my lil box into enfj-infp/enfp I was also -t -a, at times.. no wonder I'm misunderstood when I worked on adaptability and broadening my perspective too much, but it really feels most comfortable being infj, i just can't not care
I'm infj and this whole thing is me😄
I’m currently dating an INFJ, and I feel like every single one of these points are accurate except for the one about being sensitive, but that could be me not knowing him on a deep enough level
Infj works on being perfect, sometimes it's hard to hit middle ground when such spectrum is in play.. being overly sensitive is good as it is bad, so trying to get tougher is in agenda for most of us, and if he's a good guy he was probably hurt a lot in his life for being a pushover and people pleaser, so getting tougher mentally is haven
@@bogusdavallante7039 That actually makes a lot of sense! Thank you.
@@_magicmaze You're welcome, hope you have a wonderful relationship
@@_magicmaze remind him to release some of the emotion's with you if you can be safe space for that, water as an element is cleansing and needed for all humans
My idea of fun others think i should be inside white padded walls. 😊
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I’m so grateful that the MBTI types were invented because these kinds of videos make me feel better understood
I want to be one so bad. I'm lucky if I feel an emotion every ten days.
As an infj , i talk with every one but friend no one 😢
INFJs dislike conflict and have little patience for drama, but all you INFJs know that the way you are actually causes conflict and drama and you love it!
no
Nope.
Don't love it.
At all.
Private.
Don't love,
don't like drama.
Nope
Funny. But it's so true to me. 😁
Not a 100%. It's a theory. Why so serious. 😅
@@wisdomseeker3132 - are you an INTJ?
Good one