Glad you spoke on this because a lot of us women become insecure and feel like something is wrong with us when we get overlooked for being more reserved and conservative.
As a healed woman still blossoming, this gives me so much confirmation and oversight on how far I’ve come. Once your healed you never except less than your worth because you know what it’s like to be a Pickmeasha, Barbra the builder chick. I’m great full for all my experiences, truly made me a Goddess.
Tony, please keep saying your marriage is perfect!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Perfect also means satisfying all requirements or lacking in no essential detail. Perfect in the Bible means complete.
Imagine believing God for your mate and usually that person won't be the image you have in your mind based on our preferences and based on who we may have typically chosen? We must trust God completely to choose wisely and not carnally🙏🙏🙏 I certainly appreciate this video from a man and his reality and perspective it helps us as women to know where a man is emotionally mentally and spiritually. Thanks T.G💯
when i met my girl online i thought she was black based on how she spoke etc turns out shes not black and thats what i would have typically gone for lol. i still stuck with her anyway thank God
I love that you mentioned the chin hairs & adult acne, it's far more common than men think; and these women are still great women, regardless of what they go through to look good. Thank you Tony 💜
Only a wise man will know his wife. Sadly, a lot of men will never get it and still choose a woman based on looks. A lot of women such as myself will get overlooked all because we don’t come with bells and whistles on. Thank you Tony for this message. It is much needed.❤️
It is so heartwarming to hear you speak about your perfect marriage with your wife and how I’m just so blown away that you even exist. Thank you for being so real with us.
Its a shame that most women won't experience the happiness and the whole union that you and your wife have, with God being the center. A man that don't accept a woman for who she is, he is not the one for her.
I have so much gratitude for the messages you're sending out Tony. People need to become more aware of how society encourages exploitation of our woman. God bless you.
Tony even though you may never see this, I just have to say you have literally changed my life and being able to listen to you for the past few years now and all of the pure life wisdom you have been delivering has helped me in ways I never knew I needed. I am so grateful for your platform, for your marriage, for your stories and for what you do!! Your wife is an amazing role model and so are you and I am forever grateful 🙏 you have brought me so much hope and clarity and it's so nice to be able to see someone like you on you tube
My prayer is that more men will 1. Desire the type of woman you are speaking of 2. Recognize this type of woman and 3. Embrace and seek to marry these type of women and not do anything to destroy or corrupt them
When he said, "its destroying human connection". i was thinking of social media itself. Men get more from women now just by indirect generalization post/stories that provokes her to reach out to him first, that most men dont even have to reach out or give a gentleman approach anymore...social media is a new pyschological disadvantage to healthy human connection imo
Tony, some of these men’s minds are so reprobate they want you to do all these perverse things and it’s just a mess. When they tell you what it is they want from you it’s so appalling, then they have the nerve to say “ you don’t want to be a freak for your man” I just walk away. Also you just proved that men do compare and contrast as well as fantasize.
When you “Train up a child in the way he should go…” He goes to college, and you think -he’s lost his mind🤦♀️. But then you see the second part of that scripture come to fruition -“…when he is old, he won’t depart from it.” I know that I (along with my son’s dad), are not the only parents that raised good men. Let’s lift our brothers, sons… up, and pray that God sends them a “Woman of Influence”. Sharing this video with my son. Tony, we appreciate you🙏.
Thank you for speaking about your wife's body and genetic make up. Im from the Caribbean. I am 5⁷ no butt nobody. And in atl I can NOT WIN. And its reassuring to hear im not making the prejudice up
I'm so glad you're making these videos for men.... they need it... its as if men are out here getting no guidance and from my heart they truly need it... thank you
🤭You spoke to my inner being. 👏🏾💪🏽I thank God for allowing me to continue to learn and be knowledgeable in communicating effectively with men. Tony, you helped me to dodge unhealed and toxic masculinity 🙌🏽🙏🏽I appreciate your commentary👏🏾🙂
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. God bless you and your family. I truly love my woman she is so Inspiration and loving me that no another woman did. And I will definitely will marry her in the future.
What if the woman wants to truly dedicate herself to her family? What if she values this...is something wrong, because you kind of insinuated that. Because honestly I want to instill certain values in my children and I don't want to leave it up to a babysitter or daycare....especially considering the way the world is going now!
So much wisdom! You are helping me grow in a healthy way in all your videos. I really appreciate and honor your purpose! Keep up the good work and the sharing of testimonies.
I pray that women take time to heal so they can evolve into an amazing wife one day. I pray that men can also be more discerning with who they get involved with.
Wow. Excellent. I love that you mention that if she's healed she won't have anything to prove so she won't argue with you and may just listen. Spot on. I do have a question about this though. What would be a gentle, loving response when a woman is accused of not sharing/ being vulnerable BECAUSE she doesn't get upset easily, share a lot of emotions, or feel the need to prove herself to a man? Or at least maybe some advice on how to not internalize this? Thank you and God bless you for being open. honest, and Spirit led.
I bet this was easy for you to communicate as you were describing all the wonderful qualities of your beautiful wife. Thank you Tony for all that you give
💯🙌💯 Praying for more MEN to come to this powerful realisation and knowledge on TONY's life changing platform !!! 🙏🏾🌟🌟🌟🙏🏾 Thaaank You beloved Brother T❤️NY for speaking deepest truth (that I've been doing best to hold up, as an independent & non conform'g person for a long time now) - never easy, but ALL worth the journeying & personal growth 🙌💯🙌 And *PRAISE LORD GOD* for Tony's authentic work in uplifting MEN too !! - as a powerful guiding light for MEN !! ✨🌟✨ Always stoke by your tiredless effort & willingness in uplifting both genders T❤️NY 🙏🏾 - women & men at the same time, esp with this kind powerful & hardly spoken about messages by the general public / worldly confirming people !! 🙏🏾💯🙏🏾 Your solid Marriage 💕💐💕will BE WELL BLESSED by Father GOD for many more decades ahead of Y🎁U - till you have even more beautiful grand children & great grand children too !! 💕🎉🙌🎉💕
How the majority of men don’t know this baffles me. It’s so easy for us women to know the difference with both genders.. The one in a million Tony gaskins!!
Tony this has to be the most amazing videos I've heard from you for me it basically has me thinking how important it is to grow and go beyond the common marriage wrangles where communication is a major one and also not conform me or anyone else to what I'm used to or perceive but be able to embrace everyone's uniqueness . Thanks much.
ABSOLUTELY 💯 💯 💯.. YOU SAID WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR.. YOU ARE EXACTLY ON POINT WITH THIS LIFE COACHING 👏 👌... EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT PRESENTATION TONY...EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR...💕💕💕🙏🏻
Thank you Ricky for this. I am 56 with imperfections. But I am a woman of God I can cook keep a clean home and keep myself up. In other words I clean I very good. But this has been very hard to find a mate
Tony, you are unfortunately rare. Sigh. I have accepted my role as a Bride of Christ cause I will never lower my standards--God 1st, intelligence, helps others in need, integrity, handsome, funny (yes, I am the female version of this)...maybe you can start a service to help women of God connect with their man of God! May I be your 1st client? I wish!
I think it was very well articulated when you discussed the introduction to pornography and masturbation and what those things lead to. I, myself, can attest to that truth. Thank you Tony and as always God bless you and Sheri and your family in whole.
Can you do a video on yes she is his wife but he’s not ready for marriage and wanting the Woman to jump through hoops if he’s not ready or he feels like his money or life is not in the right place , please
I think he's spoken on this in previous videos like " why do men come back"... "A man and his mind tricks" and many others... Just take time to go through them all
Just do a search for “Tony Gaskins and not ready” Or Tony Gaskins and a man and his mind tricks” Or Tony Gaskins a man and his money, Or Tony Gaskins and being a wife” etc. because he does multiple videos on the same topics.
She ain't his wife if he isn't walking her down the aisle. He should be left alone and cut off. She needs to stop trying to manipulate him as her own project. Xx
A man can know a woman in 10 days. That means he does not understand a true red flag (non-negotiables) WOW. I be so busy in my brand, work, and life, I may not even go out on a date in 10 days. Ten days is not even a timeframe inwhich he has vetted a woman to see her in her different seasons of emotion. lol 10 days? I mean if that is the case why take 10 days, let her go after the first date or phone conversation. Every woman feels insecure at times. insecurity is not a flaw, living insecure is. Every woman is not assertive. Humans need to understand balance, an assertive man does not need an assertive woman. We need to identify mates who fit and choose them. A purposeful relationship will bring peace anything else brings anxiety.
Men accept your women the way they are learned men should like that woman for who she is really like the she yes a gift. . Men too Can be a out here too is he preamie bald man acme skin not satisfying down stairs , the right size or Is he good looking do he smell good at all times brush teeth hygiene together take showers is he respectful descent well mannered trust loyal honest kind or etc. So much too about a man looking for a wife , is he a magazine ken..Men get real I would take a man and his love handles and a good hearted one first this is happening how men and women miss out on their mate who it really is by the hurt of another the exes, not to rebound or jump in a relationship too soon or blame the hurt and pain on the next guy or woman don't get in a relationship yet .this is really what Men and women should really hear what is really going on out hear .
Your title says "Man to man" . My point is you don't have to be a man to know that's not your wife when you are willing to sleep with me and asking planning on times we can sleep with each other. So who ever he's seeing, I don't have to be a man to know that's not who he's wanting to be with and definitely it's not who wants as his wife. Because if I call him or text him right now and say I want to fu#@, and he is more than willing, well figure out.
For the fellas: “She will
1. be Healed
2. be Centered
3. Have goals
4. be a Role model”
TG
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Glad you spoke on this because a lot of us women become insecure and feel like something is wrong with us when we get overlooked for being more reserved and conservative.
Thank you God! I have been waiting for 2 years for a video on this topic from this man.
He always comes through.
Go through his list of videos he has posted similar ones. I believe one is called “Why I Married My Wife.”
God bless you. We need more men to support him and each other.
❤️❤️❤️
Mmmhhh j nn
Here’s hoping more guys are checking in for this knowledge.
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*Me watching this to see what I need to do to be a wife*
Facts
I like that
Same here, the fact that you viewing it from the opposite angle says you are wife material
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yes lol 😅
Even though this video is for men I learnt a lot as a woman God bless you TG.
So much Gold in this video I feel like I’m rich 🔥🙏🏾
As a healed woman still blossoming, this gives me so much confirmation and oversight on how far I’ve come. Once your healed you never except less than your worth because you know what it’s like to be a Pickmeasha, Barbra the builder chick. I’m great full for all my experiences, truly made me a Goddess.
Tony, please keep saying your marriage is perfect!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Perfect also means satisfying all requirements or lacking in no essential detail. Perfect in the Bible means complete.
Yes you said that
Perfect for him...
Perfect for me and you however that plays out....
We serve a perfect God, all Gods blessings are perfect because He who was without sin .
😍🥰
Imagine believing God for your mate and usually that person won't be the image you have in your mind based on our preferences and based on who we may have typically chosen?
We must trust God completely to choose wisely and not carnally🙏🙏🙏
I certainly appreciate this video from a man and his reality and perspective it helps us as women to know where a man is emotionally mentally and spiritually.
Thanks T.G💯
Amen Sister.. I agree. 😇
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Amen🙏
when i met my girl online i thought she was black based on how she spoke etc turns out shes not black and thats what i would have typically gone for lol. i still stuck with her anyway thank God
@@FendiYT
You followed your instincts...so happy for you!
Thank you for sharing🙏🙏🙏
@@RealLadi228 thank you!!!! and you are welcome. we arent married yet btw we do plan on it tho
I love that you mentioned the chin hairs & adult acne, it's far more common than men think; and these women are still great women, regardless of what they go through to look good.
Thank you Tony 💜
Another great message! Thanks TG!
Only a wise man will know his wife. Sadly, a lot of men will never get it and still choose a woman based on looks. A lot of women such as myself will get overlooked all because we don’t come with bells and whistles on. Thank you Tony for this message. It is much needed.❤️
It is so heartwarming to hear you speak about your perfect marriage with your wife and how I’m just so blown away that you even exist. Thank you for being so real with us.
I say the same thing he’s phenomenal 🙏🏽
It wasn't always perfect either, he's talked about that. Which is great cause it gives hope that people grow.
Its a shame that most women won't experience the happiness and the whole union that you and your wife have, with God being the center. A man that don't accept a woman for who she is, he is not the one for her.
I have so much gratitude for the messages you're sending out Tony. People need to become more aware of how society encourages exploitation of our woman. God bless you.
Thanks TG 🖤🙏🏾
God Bless You Brother
Tonnnyyyy!!!! OMG....this video just made me feel so good about the woman I am right now. I needed this. Thank you!
Tony even though you may never see this, I just have to say you have literally changed my life and being able to listen to you for the past few years now and all of the pure life wisdom you have been delivering has helped me in ways I never knew I needed. I am so grateful for your platform, for your marriage, for your stories and for what you do!! Your wife is an amazing role model and so are you and I am forever grateful 🙏 you have brought me so much hope and clarity and it's so nice to be able to see someone like you on you tube
Give me some info big dog. I’m all ears.
My prayer is that more men will 1. Desire the type of woman you are speaking of 2. Recognize this type of woman and 3. Embrace and seek to marry these type of women and not do anything to destroy or corrupt them
💯
Only if there were more men like Tony. This is a great video!
How you described your wife she is the epitome of femininity 🥰👸🏾
Would like to see more male viewers and commenters.
YES "TG".....WOMEN RESPOND TO GOOD TREATMENT 👏👏👏👏👏😇
Chin hairs! Yep. PCOS. Very disheartening at times.
You said a mouthful Mr. Gaskins you can love her so well she glows from the inside out I like the way you broke this down that heart is pure🙏♥️
When he said, "its destroying human connection". i was thinking of social media itself. Men get more from women now just by indirect generalization post/stories that provokes her to reach out to him first, that most men dont even have to reach out or give a gentleman approach anymore...social media is a new pyschological disadvantage to healthy human connection imo
I agree 💯
💯💯💯💯
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯 so true
A gift that must be unwrapped!! Love this and so true
Loved that too, so true we are 🎁
That was poetic....planted, roots, trees n all.... snaps 🙂
Whoever Mr. Tony speaks to I'm here. There's always something for me to learn and apply in my life for growth. Be blessed.
Wow. The sincerity in this video is unparalleled. I'll use this to correct my behavior to make sure I line up. Thank you again.
Tony, some of these men’s minds are so reprobate they want you to do all these perverse things and it’s just a mess. When they tell you what it is they want from you it’s so appalling, then they have the nerve to say “ you don’t want to be a freak for your man” I just walk away. Also you just proved that men do compare and contrast as well as fantasize.
You made this for the fellas but I clicked this right away!! Be blessed in advance, because I'm going to be watching til the end!
When you “Train up a child in the way he should go…” He goes to college, and you think -he’s lost his mind🤦♀️. But then you see the second part of that scripture come to fruition -“…when he is old, he won’t depart from it.”
I know that I (along with my son’s dad), are not the only parents that raised good men. Let’s lift our brothers, sons… up, and pray that God sends them a “Woman of Influence”. Sharing this video with my son. Tony, we appreciate you🙏.
Thank you Tony! I think this is a really good barometer for us women as well. Shoot it let me know that I’m on the right track myself.
Thank you for speaking about your wife's body and genetic make up. Im from the Caribbean. I am 5⁷ no butt nobody. And in atl I can NOT WIN. And its reassuring to hear im not making the prejudice up
Preciate this Tony
I'm so glad you're making these videos for men.... they need it... its as if men are out here getting no guidance and from my heart they truly need it... thank you
Yesss. Your marriage is PERFECT. I love to see it. God bless you both!
🤭You spoke to my inner being. 👏🏾💪🏽I thank God for allowing me to continue to learn and be knowledgeable in communicating effectively with men. Tony, you helped me to dodge unhealed and toxic masculinity 🙌🏽🙏🏽I appreciate your commentary👏🏾🙂
Caught you first Tony! Thanks for dropping that knowledge. God bless you and your FAM♥️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. God bless you and your family. I truly love my woman she is so Inspiration and loving me that no another woman did. And I will definitely will marry her in the future.
What if the woman wants to truly dedicate herself to her family? What if she values this...is something wrong, because you kind of insinuated that. Because honestly I want to instill certain values in my children and I don't want to leave it up to a babysitter or daycare....especially considering the way the world is going now!
So much wisdom! You are helping me grow in a healthy way in all your videos. I really appreciate and honor your purpose! Keep up the good work and the sharing of testimonies.
Beautiful.. Tony, very well expressed message for the men. Thanks 😇, for your defensiveness on behalf of so many women 🤺
This message has been very constructive. Thank you.
♥️💯. It is possible to have a happy marriage. It takes knowledge and work period. Commitment too.
Love conquers all things....🙏❤🙏❤
I pray that women take time to heal so they can evolve into an amazing wife one day. I pray that men can also be more discerning with who they get involved with.
Another great message Tony. This is me. Feels so good to know I’m in the right place, yet still growing and developing.
I know this was for men but I just had to listen lol. Good stuff. I will be sharing.
Wow. Excellent. I love that you mention that if she's healed she won't have anything to prove so she won't argue with you and may just listen. Spot on. I do have a question about this though. What would be a gentle, loving response when a woman is accused of not sharing/ being vulnerable BECAUSE she doesn't get upset easily, share a lot of emotions, or feel the need to prove herself to a man? Or at least maybe some advice on how to not internalize this? Thank you and God bless you for being open. honest, and Spirit led.
I bet this was easy for you to communicate as you were describing all the wonderful qualities of your beautiful wife.
Thank you Tony for all that you give
I really wanted to hear more from the men comments on this video. Women are flooding the comments...🙄
💯🙌💯 Praying for more MEN to come to this powerful realisation and knowledge on TONY's life changing platform !!!
🙏🏾🌟🌟🌟🙏🏾
Thaaank You beloved Brother T❤️NY for speaking deepest truth (that I've been doing best to hold up, as an independent & non conform'g person for a long time now) - never easy, but ALL worth the journeying & personal growth 🙌💯🙌
And *PRAISE LORD GOD* for Tony's authentic work in uplifting MEN too !! - as a powerful guiding light for MEN !! ✨🌟✨
Always stoke by your tiredless effort & willingness in uplifting both genders
T❤️NY 🙏🏾 - women & men at the same time, esp with this kind powerful & hardly spoken about messages by the general public / worldly confirming people !! 🙏🏾💯🙏🏾
Your solid Marriage 💕💐💕will BE WELL BLESSED by Father GOD for many more decades ahead of
Y🎁U - till you have even more beautiful grand children & great grand children too !! 💕🎉🙌🎉💕
Tony, you would be even more blessed if you started these videos and trainings for men.
It is definitely hard to fake genuineness!!!
How the majority of men don’t know this baffles me. It’s so easy for us women to know the difference with both genders.. The one in a million Tony gaskins!!
Great message brother Tony. I love listening to you.
Tony this has to be the most amazing videos I've heard from you for me it basically has me thinking how important it is to grow and go beyond the common marriage wrangles where communication is a major one and also not conform me or anyone else to what I'm used to or perceive but be able to embrace everyone's uniqueness .
Thanks much.
Mambo njeri 😀
@@roadlifeke1506 poa sana , niaje...
@@sharonnjeri2999 niko poa ..tuko hapa kupata some good wisdom from Mr. G
@@roadlifeke1506 yeap
Thank you for this Tony. It helps me understand I am the right person and I don’t need to compromise myself to find a husband.
God Bless you and your family, Brother! May your marriage be blessed, happy, and long!
This hurt my feelings, but it was what I needed to hear. Thank you for hurting me to help me.
Excellent message
ABSOLUTELY 💯 💯 💯.. YOU SAID WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR.. YOU ARE EXACTLY ON POINT WITH THIS LIFE COACHING 👏 👌... EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT PRESENTATION TONY...EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR...💕💕💕🙏🏻
Preaching On this one!! Admire but respect! I like that
It so refreshing to hear your perspective! Beautifully expressed and beautifully said!
Thank you 🙏!
Most me are infatuated with these Instagram and City girls. They dont seem to want real women anymore.
Great message!❤️
Thank you Ricky for this. I am 56 with imperfections. But I am a woman of God I can cook keep a clean home and keep myself up. In other words I clean I
very good. But this has been very hard to find a mate
Sorry for the typo. Tonry
Can I ask what city you're in ? Sometimes this has a lot to do with it
@@hereisayana8207 hi I'm in Oklahoma
@@tiagriffin2196 okay maybe try a dating app...personally I plan on losing weight too
@@hereisayana8207 Are you working with Mr. Goatskin?
Tony, you are unfortunately rare. Sigh. I have accepted my role as a Bride of Christ cause I will never lower my standards--God 1st, intelligence, helps others in need, integrity, handsome, funny (yes, I am the female version of this)...maybe you can start a service to help women of God connect with their man of God! May I be your 1st client? I wish!
** : “Perfect” in the Greek means whole & complete. It’s such a powerful word. Not without flaw but purposeful.
Beautiful! 🙏🏼🙌🏼 i love this, thank you
We are going to get Back to Eden and live on top of the world. Come on with this Kingdom word.
This was a Great message ! Thankyou!
Oooooooooo that's what iam talking about!!!!!!!
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband, thanks, God bless you ...
Good discussion.
Tony I love these videos...they're always full of lessons for everyday life❤
I think it was very well articulated when you discussed the introduction to pornography and masturbation and what those things lead to. I, myself, can attest to that truth. Thank you Tony and as always God bless you and Sheri and your family in whole.
Blessed tribe members I am not able to access any of the videos in the playlist did anyone have to upgrade their membership to access them??
Can you do a video on yes she is his wife but he’s not ready for marriage and wanting the Woman to jump through hoops if he’s not ready or he feels like his money or life is not in the right place , please
I think he's spoken on this in previous videos like " why do men come back"... "A man and his mind tricks" and many others... Just take time to go through them all
Just do a search for “Tony Gaskins and not ready” Or Tony Gaskins and a man and his mind tricks” Or Tony Gaskins a man and his money, Or Tony Gaskins and being a wife” etc. because he does multiple videos on the same topics.
Wait on nobody but Christ🙏🙏🙏
She ain't his wife if he isn't walking her down the aisle. He should be left alone and cut off. She needs to stop trying to manipulate him as her own project. Xx
A man can know a woman in 10 days. That means he does not understand a true red flag (non-negotiables) WOW. I be so busy in my brand, work, and life, I may not even go out on a date in 10 days. Ten days is not even a timeframe inwhich he has vetted a woman to see her in her different seasons of emotion. lol 10 days? I mean if that is the case why take 10 days, let her go after the first date or phone conversation.
Every woman feels insecure at times. insecurity is not a flaw, living insecure is. Every woman is not assertive. Humans need to understand balance, an assertive man does not need an assertive woman. We need to identify mates who fit and choose them. A purposeful relationship will bring peace anything else brings anxiety.
I Clicked so Fast! I want to know what are men looking for
Beautiful! 🙏🏼
Verryyy true Tony
The 10th date. If only I can make it to that level
Men accept your women the way they are learned men should like that woman for who she is really like the she yes a gift. . Men too Can be a out here too is he preamie bald man acme skin not satisfying down stairs , the right size or Is he good looking do he smell good at all times brush teeth hygiene together take showers is he respectful descent well mannered trust loyal honest kind or etc. So much too about a man looking for a wife , is he a magazine ken..Men get real I would take a man and his love handles and a good hearted one first this is happening how men and women miss out on their mate who it really is by the hurt of another the exes, not to rebound or jump in a relationship too soon or blame the hurt and pain on the next guy or woman don't get in a relationship yet .this is really what Men and women should really hear what is really going on out hear .
I had to watch this . ❤️
TG!!! 👀
Hey hey....Im in front of the class 👏👏
How did I miss this
Great video!!!
Beautiful!!!❤️
Amen👑
You're very good man
I’m here and study ready
Your title says "Man to man" . My point is you don't have to be a man to know that's not your wife when you are willing to sleep with me and asking planning on times we can sleep with each other. So who ever he's seeing, I don't have to be a man to know that's not who he's wanting to be with and definitely it's not who wants as his wife. Because if I call him or text him right now and say I want to fu#@, and he is more than willing, well figure out.
5%???
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