SIGNS A GIRL LIKES YOU (LGBT)

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  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  3 роки тому +400

    HOW TO CELEBRATE PRIDE (when ur still in the closet) 🏳️‍🌈 ua-cam.com/video/31RECw_TPiA/v-deo.html

    • @teresarobles2698
      @teresarobles2698 3 роки тому +10

      I still don't know how to come out to my parents I'm relagous

    • @carolinafine8050
      @carolinafine8050 3 роки тому +2

      @@teresarobles2698 don’t then. Your will should trump your desires.

    • @abbiberlin7522
      @abbiberlin7522 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you

    • @BellaIZBelll
      @BellaIZBelll 3 роки тому +2

      OMG, thank you! My freind already came out as les and I'm bi, we would ALWAYS joke flirt and I'm gonna keep these tips in mind and tell them I like them.

    • @JNM9397
      @JNM9397 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t think I’m gay but I bi because I like men but I do have an attraction for women aswell. Also I’ve never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. ( but I don’t like label i the person that is like if you I’love the person doesn’t matter what sex they are)

  • @meganb11
    @meganb11 3 роки тому +5520

    don't even lie, you're all here because of a specific person

  • @averageartist3020
    @averageartist3020 2 роки тому +2453

    This didn’t tell me if she liked me, it told me I liked her 💀

    • @blinkengenes9789
      @blinkengenes9789 2 роки тому +43

      I need help and advice!! About this one girl at my workplace that I like

    • @averageartist3020
      @averageartist3020 2 роки тому +16

      @@blinkengenes9789 oooh spill

    • @blinkengenes9789
      @blinkengenes9789 Рік тому +1

      @@averageartist3020 omg ty ty, here me vent pls lol💀😭
      I like masculine Girls, the girl at my work is masculine and Bi. We are very close friends🫶🏻 We call a lot and when I first met her we would call every night until 5 in the morning. We also hang outside of work and go to college together. Anyways, I like the Bitch but she has a boyfriend.
      Ik ur prolly thinking she does not like me but u know she acts very gay with me and I personally feel that she has a different type of feeling for me. It’s not just like a regular friend feeling if that makes sense. Pls send help or advice cuz I feel I’m overthinking but if u need anymore details Oh boi I have a lot to talk about🥹 TY for listening🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @sushhhh958
      @sushhhh958 Рік тому +12

      @@blinkengenes9789 u should also do some gay things..see how she reacts

    • @blinkengenes9789
      @blinkengenes9789 Рік тому +31

      @@sushhhh958 bruh I do lol and she be actin gay back. And she told me that she really wants to go to the Gay club with me but I’m 19 turning 20 this year and she’s already 21 and the gay club is only for 21+ so i told her I can’t go, and I proceed to tell her that if she wants to go to the gay club so bad to go with her Boyfriend and she straight up tells me no I don’t wanna go with him because he is boring and not fun 💀 In my head I’m like y r u even with him then! She tells me if I go to the club she will go bruh!

  • @rinadair7613
    @rinadair7613 3 роки тому +1559

    Once my crush straight up said “I had a dream where we lived together and WE had a child. Also OUR child was trans and gay”
    I’m pretty sure this is a sign.

    • @avengers_geek1423
      @avengers_geek1423 3 роки тому +126

      I don’t think a straight girl would say that. Also take that into consideration because she may have made that up so she tell you that she likes you without making a big fuss or something

    • @ellanielsen7005
      @ellanielsen7005 3 роки тому +48

      @@avengers_geek1423 that's true but also i think they meant that their crush straight up said like said straight away, not that their crush is straight lol,i could be wrong tho😭

    • @avengers_geek1423
      @avengers_geek1423 3 роки тому +11

      @cloud I said I don’t think a straight would say that as in “I think she is a gay and is trying to tell you she is”

    • @kira-my1vf
      @kira-my1vf 2 роки тому +5

      @@avengers_geek1423 they never said the crush was straight-

    • @avengers_geek1423
      @avengers_geek1423 2 роки тому +4

      @@kira-my1vf I didn’t say! Wtf….😐

  • @renknee
    @renknee Рік тому +617

    This is so much harder when your crush acts gay/ flirty with everyone so you don’t know if she likes you or not 😭

    • @jazminetellechea7331
      @jazminetellechea7331 Рік тому +25

      FR THOOOOOOOOOO

    • @NightNekomata
      @NightNekomata Рік тому +3

      OMG congrats! I hope that will be me :,(

    • @grillbesteck6319
      @grillbesteck6319 Рік тому

      YEAH FRRRRR

    • @sashahope4828
      @sashahope4828 Рік тому +12

      Hey; I'm this type of person and the way you can tell if I like someone is when I'm not flirty with them :^: dont know if it can help you (saying this late also)

    • @darkmistQR
      @darkmistQR Рік тому +7

      fr, like this is my current dilemma 😶‍🌫️😮‍💨

  • @heyletsbebestfriends1418
    @heyletsbebestfriends1418 3 роки тому +709

    SHE JUST TOLD ME SHE LIKES ME WHILE I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO AHHHH 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @nadeenpoole702
    @nadeenpoole702 3 роки тому +2244

    Its very confusing sometimes with a female because they never really honest about their feelings or they waiting for you to say something mean while you waiting for them... turns into a whole waiting game 🤣🤦‍♀️

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 роки тому +357

      This is so true. Sometimes you’re both waiting for each other to make a move hahaha

    • @CAPTTANG
      @CAPTTANG 3 роки тому +24

      true af

    • @LYDDYLmusic
      @LYDDYLmusic 3 роки тому +60

      Period! The girl I like is pretty shy so it makes it harder

    • @Meltymonster95
      @Meltymonster95 3 роки тому +74

      I can not agree enough on how true that is. Some women may be afraid of rejection, or they do not want to admit they are attracted to women. It is a challenge for sure.

    • @vivendoeminglaterra478
      @vivendoeminglaterra478 3 роки тому +16

      @@laurenelloise My crush just goes straight to making a move

  • @-calamity-968
    @-calamity-968 4 роки тому +2663

    Still going to fall in love with straight girls- that is my life as a lesbian-

  • @ellamaygray6094
    @ellamaygray6094 4 роки тому +927

    This actually helps because when we meet I always smile at her and she also does the same thing

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +126

      this is rlly cute!

    • @tacocat3375
      @tacocat3375 3 роки тому +36

      SAME WITH MY CRUSH
      but I have no idea if she's even lesbian or bi 😅😔 first time I'm crushing on someone

    • @ellamaygray6094
      @ellamaygray6094 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you

    • @ellamaygray6094
      @ellamaygray6094 3 роки тому +4

      I remember i was being homophobic to my one friend but my mind was processing that she part of the lbgtq and now i regret that day

    • @sophiaspringyt6602
      @sophiaspringyt6602 3 роки тому +3

      Me and my crush did that too.

  • @thatgirlkarla5629
    @thatgirlkarla5629 2 роки тому +305

    I confessed my feelings to my straight best friend and she never changed how she was towards me but did not feel the same way. I’m absolutely not over her and it’s frustrating when we have a platonic relationship to begin with 😭😭

    • @jax_nnn.509
      @jax_nnn.509 2 роки тому +15

      Omg same 😭😭😭

    • @thelifebwr7842
      @thelifebwr7842 2 роки тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @mylleees5616
      @mylleees5616 2 роки тому

      same :(

    • @Worldbizzare
      @Worldbizzare Рік тому +8

      I was in the same boat and it was rlly frustrating but she also showed many signs she was attracted to me

    • @alr_musicmusic315
      @alr_musicmusic315 Рік тому +4

      ​@@Worldbizzaresame, all i have to do was to accept it that we're friends but I do still hope for more. kinda painful

  • @Dubari-i6y
    @Dubari-i6y 11 місяців тому +151

    💀 if I got 1k likes . I will propose my crush .

  • @abi.heart1
    @abi.heart1 3 роки тому +500

    this video literally changed my life LMAO i confessed to her and now we've been dating for 8 months

  • @HONEY-kq2yw
    @HONEY-kq2yw 4 роки тому +535

    I- this sounds like I have a major crush on her- 😭

    • @midgelionhart
      @midgelionhart 3 роки тому +5

      Did you? 👀

    • @sl0wt0wn9
      @sl0wt0wn9 3 роки тому +4

      do you? that's the question 😌

    • @smile_faker2607
      @smile_faker2607 3 роки тому +2

      I think you do

    • @ilse1180
      @ilse1180 3 роки тому +15

      Bruh why does this video make me so obvious😭

    • @ilse1180
      @ilse1180 3 роки тому +12

      Oh and i also realised She doesnt propably like me😃

  • @elisac9851
    @elisac9851 3 роки тому +467

    i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our friendship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO
    update: she likes my best friend

    • @jrs9882
      @jrs9882 3 роки тому +14

      i was in this same situation, she said yes 😏
      i’d say do it but of course do whatever you’re comfortable with

    • @jos4224
      @jos4224 3 роки тому +14

      Same! I was in this situation…she has a girlfriend though… 😭💔

    • @Jordinmeyers
      @Jordinmeyers 3 роки тому +49

      NOO sorry man it sucks in a gay world sometimes

    • @Sara-yj9vp
      @Sara-yj9vp 3 роки тому +20

      Oh dear wanna talk about it ?

    • @tokyototallynot3775
      @tokyototallynot3775 2 роки тому +3

      I know how you feel- Lol

  • @angie-iy4by
    @angie-iy4by 2 роки тому +90

    when you’re not close enough to be touchy so simple eye contact makes your heart race

  • @kittykittyfeelingfine
    @kittykittyfeelingfine 2 роки тому +81

    I came here to understand if this girl likes me, but I came to realize that I literally proposed her with my hints.

  • @thatonecommenter-7938
    @thatonecommenter-7938 4 роки тому +540

    I just realised one of my friends is doing all of these things-
    I also realised I’m doing most of these signs to someone...

    • @Non_binary
      @Non_binary 3 роки тому +9

      im not trying to be mean but why do you have that flag on you pfp?

    • @Non_binary
      @Non_binary 3 роки тому +17

      @VICTORIA ZARYCH yea i know but thats the old one-

    • @takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg
      @takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg 3 роки тому +3

      @@Non_binary idk maybe they thought it was pretty

    • @Non_binary
      @Non_binary 3 роки тому +19

      @@takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg its the old flag though, the original was made by a racist/transphobe

    • @takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg
      @takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg 3 роки тому +4

      @@Non_binary ohh, ok. ty

  • @haventpickedanameyet2527
    @haventpickedanameyet2527 3 роки тому +186

    I'm using this as a gay flirting manual, a who to come out to tutorial, and a signs a girl likes you tutorial

  • @rat-1567
    @rat-1567 3 роки тому +416

    My crush probably don't like me but I'm watching anyway

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 роки тому +61

      for future reference then 😉

    • @rat-1567
      @rat-1567 3 роки тому +18

      @@laurenelloise :0 you responded and hearted? Thanks so much aaaaa

    • @yunohuayem
      @yunohuayem 2 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @AlyxAesthetics
      @AlyxAesthetics 2 роки тому +4

      @@laurenelloise the thing is that my crush does all of these things but I'm still not sure 😂

    • @mimimimi3703
      @mimimimi3703 Рік тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @mal5535
    @mal5535 9 місяців тому +8

    I noticed that one of my classmates who is a lesbian keeps looking at me, smiles and hides it, she has done this more than once, one of the times I noticed that she was looking at me, her friends noticed this and started laughing in class for no apparent reason. She also seems to be very kind, I really wanted to try to get to know her, but I'm too shy to take the initiative.

  • @Shinobushaori
    @Shinobushaori 7 місяців тому +45

    Who else is here because you're delulu like me?

  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +325

    HEY BEANS!! I really hope this helps you figure out if the girl you like, likes you too! 🏳️‍🌈 LETS ALL HELP OUR FELLOW GAYS BY SHARING TIPS!!

    • @kloverc2657
      @kloverc2657 4 роки тому +6

      if the other people in the friend group always seem to tense up or laugh when something about you two dating comes up: BIG SIGN!!! I have personally been the friend who knows and if you just pay attention to the other friends enough you might pick up on something🏳️‍🌈♥️🌲 loving the 12 gays so far!!

    • @nadeenplayizhussain1603
      @nadeenplayizhussain1603 3 роки тому +2

      Me🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @izzy23152
      @izzy23152 3 роки тому +2

      Hey!
      I'm a bi girl who has a crush on a girl
      But we both go to a private Christian school 😬
      What should I doooo

  • @big-um2dm
    @big-um2dm 4 роки тому +151

    That fly really liked your advice

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +39

      AHHAAH it must have a crush on another fly n needs to know

  • @daisyhoggarth9210
    @daisyhoggarth9210 3 роки тому +370

    My gf did all of these things before she asked me out so I know this is 100% true

  • @F-324
    @F-324 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @GhostRangerr
    @GhostRangerr 2 роки тому +90

    Things turned out awkward with my previous crush back in 2016, I used to message her daily asking her how she's and sending her positive quotes and sometimes jokes, she loved it and always messaged me back, one day she asked me out for a coffee, it went ok, she was looking at me a lot and touched me multiple times, she also played a lot with her hair, I was so happy and thought she was gonna say something, but boy she didn't, after that the messaging continued until one day, I invited her to my home for lunch, her reply was strange, she told me that she's gonna be away with her boyfriend, this is the first time she ever mentions her having boyfriend and that made me wonder if she knew of my feelings towards her and wanted to push me away, needless to say I felt like a huge rock just fell on me, since then she started to ignore my messages and if she replys she says she's so busy and couldn't reply, I eventually told her that I won't be bothering her again, she told me I wasn't but that was my last message to her, not gonna lie that kinda left me with an emotional scar to this day, even tho I now have another crush "My teacher at university", I'm now very careful with my behaviour towards her and not trying to look suspicious. Even tho she does most of the signs you talked about when she's with me, I'm still scared of another heartbreak.

  • @rida-18
    @rida-18 3 роки тому +194

    Oh God. She legit told me that she's infatuated with me and I'm still here, and it's like she's done every single one of these things!

    • @johnlee8667
      @johnlee8667 3 роки тому +7

      How bout you? Do you like her?

    • @rida-18
      @rida-18 3 роки тому +22

      @@johnlee8667 Well, sadly, I don't think I'm into her romantically, but I respect her feelings more than anything. We talked about it, and she's really understanding. She doesn't wanna force me into anything, so we're friends.
      Thank you for asking though, it was real sweet of you😊
      Hope you have a great day💖

    • @johnlee8667
      @johnlee8667 3 роки тому +11

      Awww thats sweet of you, thank you for answering
      We're kind of in the same situation I guess, me being the one having one sided feelings and her seeing me as a friend, but thats fine with me too staying as friends.

    • @rida-18
      @rida-18 3 роки тому +8

      @@johnlee8667 Please! It was a pleasure replying. You're too kind❤️
      Hopefully, you find peace and happiness. Trust me, if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually.
      If it's not, then don't lose hope, as there's definitely someone else waiting out there *just for you*
      The most admirable thing about you, is that you respect her feelings and are willing to do things her way. Not many people tend to do that. Never change the good in you!
      And please stay safe😊

    • @johnlee8667
      @johnlee8667 3 роки тому +5

      @@rida-18 thank you quq, you too stay safe.

  • @y00nbum37
    @y00nbum37 3 роки тому +213

    Me: k, so first thing i should analyse is touch
    Corona: no

  • @scouteques8778
    @scouteques8778 3 роки тому +250

    Omg this girl I used to like, we like planned a whole future together, I didn’t know I was lesbian at the time and both of us were literally like: “we aren’t even gonna HaVe BoYfRiEnDs”

    • @Sage-ph7pt
      @Sage-ph7pt 3 роки тому +11

      Omg same!! 😅😅

    • @islainnes5797
      @islainnes5797 3 роки тому +8

      Haha, me and my best friend did that... then I came out as lesbian... and she is straight loll kinda sad but o well

    • @plantsim
      @plantsim Рік тому

      I was like , in the future me and my husband are going to be pregnant at the SAME TIME...

  • @glowup_guruu
    @glowup_guruu Рік тому +4

    GUYS I THINK SHE MIGHT LIKE ME
    - she hugs me a lot (she always runs up to me and hugs me)
    - she had a secret that she only shared with me because she trusts me (she said that herself!!)
    - she has made me two handmade gifts..one was a picture of a cute dog and the other was a bunny. so sweet!!
    - she tells me things that she tells nobody else

  • @tai3836
    @tai3836 3 роки тому +75

    her: does most of these signs to me
    me: i think she just likes me as a best friend 🤡

    • @Valen-di9xd
      @Valen-di9xd 2 роки тому +1

      Hahaha x2

    • @vanessagooden6753
      @vanessagooden6753 2 роки тому +1

      Had a girl did all of this to me except for the drawing part...but I like both. But I did like her alot when she did all tht, sitting on my lap, playing in my hair, always looking at me and biting her lips it made my heart skipped a beat. But I was with a boy at the time, I say this cause when I finally got the courage to ask if she liked me cause I never had any other girl friends did that she was like no and begin a lesbian doesn't fit me and basically laughed in my face and made fun of me.......
      I never told another girl that I liked them after ever after that.
      Sometimes I wonder if it was cause I was with a boy so she probably didn't believe or she was scared or was just messing with me....welp guess we will never know cause I am not gonna ask her about that

    • @vanessagooden6753
      @vanessagooden6753 2 роки тому

      And I wasn't just going to cheat on the guy he knew I was bi and he wasn't good to me he hurt me alot and cheated alot basically the relationship was over so if she had tell me she felt the same way I would have be with her in a heart beat.
      Like we used to always message each other and she would be like my sleeve we walked hand in hand everywhere and were always together tht ppl thought we were twins.
      Idk sometimes I think I pushed her away cause I was afraid of ppl knowing back then and didn't want to be called a lez I remember I would let go of her hand when ppl came around or I would start to get nervous around her and make joke about her like when I see her I would say hi big head instead of saying how I felt instead of telling her hw cute she looked that day.
      So idk I remember once she even invited me to her home bt then again who kws the damage might have been done already 🤔 I just don't know why I had to end up liking girls n not being able to be with one till this day I have never had a gf

    • @daphpunkk
      @daphpunkk 11 місяців тому +1

      saaame I'm so oblivious but at the same time I don't wanna confess anything if I'm not sure of my feelings or her feelings, plus I don't wanna make things awkward :')

    • @futurecs3893
      @futurecs3893 9 місяців тому

      Ryt 😂

  • @R-Estrella
    @R-Estrella 3 роки тому +90

    This is why I'm bisexual. I liked guys and still do, however, when my friend started kissing me I kept wanting her to keep doing it and that's kind of why I'm into girls.

  • @bellerofontt
    @bellerofontt 3 роки тому +253

    well ... my crush shows no signs ... but I show almost all.
    at least I'm sure I'm not a straight 🙃

    • @Roni-wz2ji
      @Roni-wz2ji 3 роки тому +20

      At least I’m sure I’m not straight 😂😂 PREACH.😂😂😂

    • @ilse1180
      @ilse1180 3 роки тому +7

      BRUH ME TOO😭

    • @roshini.s6008
      @roshini.s6008 3 роки тому +8

      Ifkrr samee 😩

    • @backupbois747
      @backupbois747 2 роки тому +3

      sirr SAMEE :'[

    • @bellerofontt
      @bellerofontt 2 роки тому +10

      UPDATE: We are together XDDD

  • @ThatGirl.Emilyyyy
    @ThatGirl.Emilyyyy 4 роки тому +138

    Please make a video on how to subtly tell a girl you like her 🙏

  • @Purple_Hearted_Izzy17
    @Purple_Hearted_Izzy17 2 роки тому +31

    Thank you! This really helped me realize how much I really like her too. Other things just say do you feel attracted to her? Do you feel butterflies? This is so much more relatable!

  • @EmilyRameriz-n5c
    @EmilyRameriz-n5c 2 місяці тому +1

    I confessed to a friend and as I expected, she didn't feel the same way. Even though me and her are trying to distance ourselves for a while, she still wants to keep in touch! I know I risked a friendship and it is still delicate, but I learned that its better to confess than thinking about false scenarios in my mind.

  • @sylarrogers09
    @sylarrogers09 3 роки тому +127

    I'm gonna ask on April fools so if she rejects me I can say April fools.

    • @Temilade21
      @Temilade21 3 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @Temilade21
      @Temilade21 3 роки тому +14

      Well I don't have the courage to ask so I'm going to silently cry in a corner

    • @callizto1964
      @callizto1964 3 роки тому +2

      Enber Dragon same 😪

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 роки тому +13

      Smart 👀

    • @Ellas_version2
      @Ellas_version2 3 роки тому +5

      OMG TYSM FOR THE IDEA YOU'RE A GENIUS AND A LIFE SAVER sorry i have massive fear of rejection

  • @jollyhyung8825
    @jollyhyung8825 3 роки тому +54

    Sadest thing is a cute girl had a crush on me and she usually did all this but i didn't notice until it was too late.

  • @ronniebennet9413
    @ronniebennet9413 2 роки тому +6

    everyone of these signs described my best friend in school growing up. funny enough, i discovered later that im bi, but i never looked at her as anything other than a friend. but for the longest time i truly believed she was a lesbian and if anyone pointed that out to her she got so embarrassed and defensive. i really dont have any doubts that shes not in fact gay. havent seen her in years but i hope shes become more comfortable being herself.

  • @NatalieN500
    @NatalieN500 Рік тому +4

    i caught feelings for my friend and she liked me too before i even realized i liked her. She did literally all of these things, but i thought that she was just being affectionate and cute. And then she finally confessed to me, and now i feel like such an idiot for not putting it together.
    But now we’re girlfriends, thank you Lauren Elloise for enlightening me

  • @bluelemonade5189
    @bluelemonade5189 3 роки тому +157

    Me with girl I actually have a chance with: NOPE
    Me with lesbians in general: NOOOO
    Me with the straightest straight girl that doesn't even know my name: YES YES YEESSSSSS

  • @brooke_lowe3372
    @brooke_lowe3372 3 роки тому +44

    Well I think she does😂 last night we were on the phone till 2 am talking about how if we don’t get married by this certain age or if we’re not with anybody that we’re just gonna get married and we planned our whole wedding out😂 Then she was dropping little compliments like “you look really pretty” and “I like your hair today” She also loves to hug, link arms, and hold hands with me or lay in my lap. I’m an oblivious goldfish so thank you for this or I wouldn’t have really noticed these things😂

  • @zoej3689
    @zoej3689 4 роки тому +56

    i'm so happy you did this series again :)-

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +4

      aw ty! me too! i had to after having to stop half-way last year from the fires lol

    • @zoej3689
      @zoej3689 4 роки тому +4

      yeah i remember i hope there better this year :)

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +3

      So much better it’s been really rainy this year!

  • @vickyundfinnley3274
    @vickyundfinnley3274 2 роки тому +3

    you're my comfort person ob youtube! thank you sm for answering so many questions of mine. ur the best! i meet her on friday, wish me luck 🤍🤍

  • @Ikx._
    @Ikx._ 2 роки тому +33

    When the “how to know if a girl likes you” turns into “how to know if you like a girl”👌 perfect
    I think we both like each other after this vid tho-

  • @andpeggy9240
    @andpeggy9240 3 роки тому +111

    me and my best friend had crushes on each other once. we basically secretly dated until my parents found out and made us stop seeing each other. (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)

    • @lifewithliciii1103
      @lifewithliciii1103 3 роки тому +3

      I- DANG (❍ᴥ❍ʋ)

    • @andpeggy9240
      @andpeggy9240 3 роки тому +2

      @@lifewithliciii1103 yup. pretty much everyone’s reaction ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @hqpicafton-emilyfam3250
      @hqpicafton-emilyfam3250 3 роки тому +16

      @@andpeggy9240 wow that sucks, :< T>T

    • @andpeggy9240
      @andpeggy9240 3 роки тому +33

      @@hqpicafton-emilyfam3250 yeah but it’s cool now. i left home and me and my bestie are back together. though i don’t have the best relationship with my parents anymore-

    • @hqpicafton-emilyfam3250
      @hqpicafton-emilyfam3250 3 роки тому +21

      @@andpeggy9240 YAY, well I'm happy your happy, and congrats for getting back together!!!! :> have a great day

  • @elisac9851
    @elisac9851 3 роки тому +130

    i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our relationship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO

    • @auburned-phoenix
      @auburned-phoenix 3 роки тому +14

      This is the same with me, but she doesn’t show too many of these signs and with the ones that she does, it’s the bare minimum. Like we hug quite often, and she often ends up walking me some of the way home where it’s just the two of us and we have these really long deep talks about literally anything and she always says she’s scared noone will ever love her and my heart is just like I AM RIGHT HERE-

    • @babysharkdododooo3122
      @babysharkdododooo3122 3 роки тому +1

      @@auburned-phoenix ok that's a bit cute

    • @Urfavamazinghotbrowngirl
      @Urfavamazinghotbrowngirl 3 роки тому

      I’m in a similar situation lol, she’s asexual so idk what to do I like her so much 😭

    • @Urfavamazinghotbrowngirl
      @Urfavamazinghotbrowngirl 3 роки тому

      @@auburned-phoenix WHY CAN I RELATE SO MUCH LIKE THE FIRST TIME I MET HER SHE WAS GIVING ME CUDDLES JFKENSKWSJJSJS

    • @ArGo_PV
      @ArGo_PV 3 роки тому +2

      update?

  • @stuspot3829
    @stuspot3829 3 роки тому +51

    My bestie does all of these things, I introduced her to girl in red and now we sing to we fell in love in October together. I told her I liked her and she yelled I AM STRAIGHT! I don't believe her, she's obviously bi. She literally started braiding my hair 🥺. She was leaning her head on my shoulder and almost fell asleep. She puts her arm around my shoulder and gives me "the look" everyday.
    I am totally not gay.
    Happy pride Month! 🏳️‍🌈❤️

  • @tipp_
    @tipp_ 2 місяці тому

    omg i got the look yesterday i couldn't even tell. but this video helped me so much. i got chills.

  • @seriouslybored4379
    @seriouslybored4379 2 роки тому +4

    ive got two girls in my friend group (one of them is bisexual, and the other is pansexual, and is in a happy relationship with a straight guy). I like the bisexual one, and the bisexual one likes the pansexual one. the pansexual one- turns out she likes me, even after all of the desperate attempts of me trynna hook her up with the bisexual one.
    this is what you would call lesbian panic!!

  • @lmuyb_5
    @lmuyb_5 3 роки тому +66

    I’m crying because me and my best friend TEXT so none of these signs are helpful I’m gonna cry- I like her a lot man she’s so pretty and kind- edit:(texting because of quarantine-)

    • @ashleykings8263
      @ashleykings8263 3 роки тому

      is she part of lgbtq+ community?

    • @ashleykings8263
      @ashleykings8263 3 роки тому

      Like attracted to girls?

    • @lmuyb_5
      @lmuyb_5 3 роки тому +10

      @@ashleykings8263 Yes I forgot to mention I confessed to them (their pronouns are they/them now) and I was rejected we're still friends though so I'm happy about that!

    • @samanthakelly5995
      @samanthakelly5995 3 роки тому +4

      @@lmuyb_5 freind zoned and still happy. A true warrior 💪👏

    • @Sarafrommars-n4g
      @Sarafrommars-n4g 2 роки тому

      Yeah I had tried as prank but she reject me but I don't know why😑 may be my colour. She is white and me brown

  • @ellietaylorsversion
    @ellietaylorsversion 4 роки тому +32

    Me about to do all these hoping my best friend/crush sees this:

  • @Ellas_version2
    @Ellas_version2 3 роки тому +11

    'You're in her future'
    She told me she wants to live with me in a cottage in the woods and we're supposedly gonna get married at like thirty and adopt loads of cats and it's gonna be just me and her and her and me... And she flirts with me... And we spend HOURS talking to each other EVERY DAY.. She says she misses me after 5 minutes of being without me and her life is boring without me there... We jokingly flirt all the time.. We say 'ily' or 'i love uuuuu sm omg' to each other a lot... But I'm STILL, even after that, too nervous :')

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 роки тому +1

      its okay to be nervous to ask! totally normal. but after reading what you wrote, she's 1000% into you. you gotta shoot your shot!!

    • @Sewer_rat_sigma
      @Sewer_rat_sigma 23 дні тому

      SHE SINTO U BESTIE😊

  • @samalass466
    @samalass466 Рік тому +5

    I went to a public small meetup where there's just gays and autistic and this one girl there who caught my eye ended up talking with me for the entire evening and we had great convos but we were complete strangers. She gave me that quick glance multiple times and sometimes laid her hand on my arma or legs and gave me a small popcorn bowl when I was sitting a bit away from the crowd and now I feel really gay and I'm going back to that place in 2 weeks.

  • @tatanakrylova7404
    @tatanakrylova7404 10 місяців тому +3

    Well, my crush did all of these things. She was flirting with me ALL THE TIME. She was even texting me, that she wants to kiss me. I thought I got a real chance with her. I gave her roses for a Valentine, I ask her on a date and she said yes. But no, life is not that easy, obviously she yeasterday told me that she’s completely straight.. I cried for three hours in a row btw, because she did all of these things and was saying how much she loves me.. Perfect 😌

    • @kanidieme
      @kanidieme 8 місяців тому +1

      Oh no! From reading this, she probably for sure likes you. She just probably has internalized homophobia, which is common. Regards!

    • @tatanakrylova7404
      @tatanakrylova7404 8 місяців тому +1

      @@kanidieme So, few days after writing this comment I confessed to her and we stopped talking for a while. She was disgusted by me just liking her more then just a friend. It was really hard for me but now I'm over her. I don't need to like someone who is disgusted in me. We are still good friends but I think it'll never be same as before me confessing. 🥲

  • @aeriich
    @aeriich 4 роки тому +54

    2:18 is that a fly? lmaoo

  • @Love-and-berry
    @Love-and-berry 4 роки тому +77

    Would be easier to tell if that person is extrovert lol since it just a matter of time till she told you.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +15

      Hahaha yeah probably easier to tell with extroverts but introverts do cute things when they like you

  • @Carla-vj9ts
    @Carla-vj9ts 4 роки тому +25

    Yooo!!!!!HEYY!!
    as always ...I love youuuu...
    Emmm....
    I guess she does not like me....
    Whattttteverrr i kinda like being single!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +4

      welcome back!!! Also that's okay! there's nothing wrong w/ getting to do whatever you want in single life! another girl will come along when it's meant to be!

    • @Carla-vj9ts
      @Carla-vj9ts 4 роки тому

      @@clare_9438 well....i mean...thats greatt....and thats bad...
      'cause this will hurt like hell...

  • @shadowcat4529
    @shadowcat4529 3 роки тому +3

    It's really hard when the girl you like is your best friend and you're already very close and touchy and you come out to her and tell her you like her but she says doesn't like you back but she seems like she totally does and you still really like her 😭😭 couldn't be me

  • @harryrocks44
    @harryrocks44 2 роки тому +14

    I think these are pretty good but only if the woman you crush on is 1) already close to you 2) extroverted. I know that for myself as an introvert and shy lesbian I don't become touchy feely with a crush, I blush, I panic if she accidentally touches my hand, I steal glances at her without her noticing (or at least I try), I do act differently toward her than other people (I smile more, I feel like my eyes smile too, like if I had stars in them, etc) and yeah these are I suppose not easy signs to spot.

  • @Chanelleopperman
    @Chanelleopperman 4 роки тому +9

    Love this so true. Great video. Love the flannels.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +1

      Eeeeee thank you! (Just between us, I wore it for the video even tho it was 30 degrees Celsius today hahah)

    • @Chanelleopperman
      @Chanelleopperman 4 роки тому +1

      @@laurenelloise haha wow that is dedication to wear it in the hot weather.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +1

      You bet ya ;) do it for the gays

  • @artbycallie6816
    @artbycallie6816 3 роки тому +23

    She says I'm pretty
    She calls me "goddess" some times
    She's called me her "love interest"
    When I text her good morning she responds with 😚
    *nah, she means it platonically-*

  • @fizzles77
    @fizzles77 3 роки тому +12

    2:16 That fly really needed some advice

  • @amyholland7272
    @amyholland7272 Рік тому +1

    My personal experience..i could tell because of the way they would look at me.. lock eyes and pay attention to blushing as well

  • @mimo5941
    @mimo5941 Рік тому +5

    One of my best friends asked me to go to a musical with her last night and I've had suspensions that she's gay for a while. She was doing all these things the entire night and it was so cute. I'm catching feelings so hopefully I'm right.

    • @mimo5941
      @mimo5941 Рік тому

      Oh yeahhhhhh and we were eating lunch in the school cafeteria yesterday and everybody else was leaving to go out and I was about to go with them and then she stopped me and told me to stay with her. I was the only one she asked.

  • @Cream-Bell-l7z
    @Cream-Bell-l7z 3 роки тому +21

    The person I'm here for is a real life tsundere, I'm usually the optimistic one calling her cute and stuff, and she brings the logic into everything and has a natural pessimism XD.
    However, one time she also read an article about the result on a personality quiz I took, and asked me if I ever get worried she doesn't love me(as friends of course) as much as I love her. I told the truth and said I do get doubtful, and she straight up yelled, "Well DON'T idiot..."

    • @Ellas_version2
      @Ellas_version2 3 роки тому +1

      Aw! I hope you manage to do it soon :)

  • @quackquack2436
    @quackquack2436 3 роки тому +11

    My checklist~
    1. Physical touch: nope, she gets really awkward (not only with me, she's not very comfortable with hugging and stuff in general) *I'm the one that hugged her and played with her hair (in the past because went to the same hs but then the pandemic happened)
    2. Body language: she touches her hair a lot but is kinda like a tic and she's like this in front of anyone. *We had a video call today and I literally didn't stop touching my hair for the whole 4 hours...
    3. Handmade gifts: yes, always, but she does that for all her friends
    4. Looks at you when she laughs: no, she doesn't look at anyone, just rolls backwards from laughter lol
    5. Texting: yes, she always messages me first but we don't talk that much
    6. Attention: ummm...idk
    7. We no longer have the same friend group so she does but it isn't necessarily bc she wants to spend time alone we just don't have friends in common.
    8. Compliments: sometimes, she is observant of my appearance, always notices changes.
    9. She has never asked me, she does bring the lgbtg+ subject up but like in general and today she mentioned her being gay like 3 times (she had never told me she was gay before, I just assumed she was queer a long time ago) but to be fair we were watching Luca so it just came up
    10. Future together: yes...but like, doesn't everybody? I mean we talk about the future as if we will always be in contact with each other and she once mentioned something about aging together, like both of us helping each other through our illnesses but it was more like a joke...
    Conclusion~
    I looked this up because I suspected she liked me, but ended up discovering I'm the one who's doing all these. So I guess I'm the one that likes her lol
    Final thoughts~
    All of this happens more with my straight friends: sitting in each other's lap, compliments, inviting me alone to their house or to the movies or wtv, face timing, joking flirt, future together...my bff and I even compared our dream homes, cars, countries to travel to...so we can find an in-between. So we truly never know 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @1dionysos606
    @1dionysos606 4 роки тому +7

    These are also good advice to straight male also. Genuine girls/women's may show their attraction same way and it doesn't matter what gender target is. Sadly I haven't seen these sights in years.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +1

      YES I didn’t even think about it this way, glad it also helps the guys out too haha. Who knows, maybe someone will surprise you next year 😏

  • @marigold24113
    @marigold24113 2 роки тому +1

    1. She got me a chocolate bar for my birthday after asking if I liked chocolate.
    2. Her reaction after overhearing my friend say that I'm gay was: "Oh you're gay? Are you? That's cool 😊"
    3. Whenever I change something about my appearance or hair, for example, she notices first.
    4. She remembers little things from our previous conversations like "Oh i just listened to the hour-long playlist you showed me yesterday, it was really good! :D"
    Are any of these signs, if so, please let me know
    😄😅

  • @Lucifer_Ism3
    @Lucifer_Ism3 2 роки тому +1

    OMG TYSM I ASKED HER OUT AND SHE SAID YES!!!!!!

  • @fuutaba
    @fuutaba 3 роки тому +8

    I was trying to do this to figure out if my friend(basically crush) does these things, and I just realize I do pretty much everything in this video-

  • @mrskkpst
    @mrskkpst 4 роки тому +22

    ahhh i needed this video so much! also realized i did lots of these things myself lol

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому

      Yaaaaay so glad it reached you when you needed it. Aw haha you’re good at giving the hints 😉

  • @wildfox2011
    @wildfox2011 4 роки тому +8

    Another great video keep them come can't wait for the next one

  • @ashen_rat1946
    @ashen_rat1946 2 роки тому +11

    The girl I like is really shy, and I mean like borderline archetype level shy (think twiddling fingers, eyes downcast, etc.) so it's near damn IMPOSSIBLE to figure out if she treats me differently or not. I'm not even sure if she likes girls or not. She's made it clear that she's a supportive ally, but she's never discussed her sexuality with our friend group so I don't even know her sexual orientation. I want to ask one of our other friends, but I'm worried they'll pick up on the fact that I like her and make things awkward (I'm also a shy person, so I hate romantic confrontation). If anyone else has suffered this, advice would be much appreciated. ):
    I've liked this girl for 3 years now, and I'm tired of hiding my feelings.

  • @asmaahmed705
    @asmaahmed705 3 роки тому +9

    Well my childhood best friend she was a bisexual and her parents found out :/ and probably traumatised her and put so much pressure on her to make it seem wrong…she was in love with me for years- and I liked her a lot too :( so it’s kind of unrequited it’s just empty it sucks because she is genuinely the nicest and most pure and kind hearted girl I have ever seen…at first I thought it was admiration not a crush but I connected the dots and I realised my feelings…but it’s too late now :(

  • @gcldenxx1745
    @gcldenxx1745 3 роки тому +5

    Okay what I learned from this video is, I’m doing all of these things to the girl I like 😂

  • @honeymilktea7820
    @honeymilktea7820 3 роки тому +5

    After watching this video I actually found out that all you said were my signs when I'm with my best friend. I think I have a crush on her. 😁

  • @notrowanhater952
    @notrowanhater952 3 роки тому +4

    Me and my crush do everything till
    2:37
    Me and my crush rarely message but she is the first ome to message me 60% of the time
    4:00 she does say my hair is long-
    4:09 I started to have a crush on her since we were 11
    Now I am 14-
    So no sexuality talk-
    I mean I talk about lgbtq with EVERYONE---
    4:48 in our group chat
    She once said
    "??? Send me your pretty picture"
    ...
    WE WERE FREAKING 11
    You earned a sub I know my crush likes me

  • @JustMe-ne9uz
    @JustMe-ne9uz 2 роки тому +2

    A few days ago now I asked my friend to tell my crush I liked her. It didn't really go well but i wish i had this video to see the sighns. Thankyou for making these videos it helps a lot of people.

  • @daiseuets
    @daiseuets Рік тому +2

    I'm a quiet kid at school, I have no friends (literally, not exaggeration). This girl in my English started talking to me recently, and persistently, like she was trying to be my friend. She's very pretty as well. We were doing a book assignment, and she showed me her book and said something along the lines of "I can't write a summary on this in class because it's a book about two lesbians." And idk if that was her trying to tell me something 😭. Another day she asked for my instagram and spotify.
    Idk why she would want to be my friend, and idk if she wants to be more and why.
    + We did a group assignment, and the desks were arranged into groups of three. I sat in the back next to some random guy. She came and sat in the last seat at our group, even though she does have a friend she talks to she could've sat by.

    • @FALLEN_ANGEL871
      @FALLEN_ANGEL871 Рік тому +1

      Ohhh that's so interesting did you told her how you feel she might be into you

    • @daiseuets
      @daiseuets Рік тому

      @@FALLEN_ANGEL871 I haven't because I don't want to ruin anything. She's also talked to me about her ex boyfriend and how he was really stupid. I'm clueless

  • @baojelenayang9850
    @baojelenayang9850 3 роки тому +4

    Idk- she always wants to hold my hand randomly,she makes my hand into hearts and she's always close to me. I dont really know if she does cuz we've been friends since kindergarten.

  • @kit_newby
    @kit_newby 4 роки тому +9

    Such a good video, this should help a load of people who are new to dating... These are so accurate as well, I do all of these if I'm into someone... Maybe not the last one though... 😅😅

  • @oliviabivia9518
    @oliviabivia9518 3 роки тому +9

    The fact I do all of this to her and she barley does it back 🥲

  • @madispokemon193
    @madispokemon193 2 роки тому +1

    You caught me there with the bracelets 😂😩

  • @Andromedaaa_
    @Andromedaaa_ Рік тому +1

    This video popped out just at the EXACTLY RIGHT TIME. I just realized I really like one of my friends, fortunately I already know she's lesbian (REALLY lesbian, she talks about it like all the time)

  • @emiko_luvsyou6876
    @emiko_luvsyou6876 4 роки тому +15

    My friend from dance studio is non-binary and i have a huge crush on my best friend we are still little i mean we are about 12,
    100% signs in this video are true ! :)) 🏳️‍🌈🤟♥️

  • @MA-cd6pp
    @MA-cd6pp 3 роки тому +12

    Ok I need advices. There's this girl that I am friends with and I think (hope) that she might like me... Here are the signs I am basing my theory on :
    1 )She complemented me on my new hair cut she said "This really suits you" and I felt like she was looking at me with the funny look, like THE look
    2) She only had one boyfriend and said that it only lasted a month (the way she said it made me think that she wasn't really interested in dating guys)
    What makes me hesitate :
    1) We don't really talk by text... only IRL
    2) I never asked her if she liked girls (mainly because I am scared of her reaction)
    3) She could just be friendly ?
    What do you guys think ? Like she is sooo beautiful but I don't want to lose her as a friend by asking her out...
    Should I ask more questions ? Like what type of questions ?
    PS : she doesn't know I'm gay

    • @theoneandonly1810
      @theoneandonly1810 3 роки тому +1

      Idk if it will help you, because it about a month late.
      Try to ask her about the LGBTQIA Community or maybe come out to her.

  • @fireheart4551
    @fireheart4551 4 роки тому +5

    Welcome I'm your 10th like on your vid

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +1

      wooooo! (10 is actually my favourite number so i think your lucky haha)

  • @SwiftDragon15
    @SwiftDragon15 Місяць тому +1

    Yeah i mistook signs from a lesbian friend (i didnt like her like that but i thought she liked me and i was a little uncomfortable with her asking me to go places with her all the time) and straight up asked abt it. Turns out she was just lonely and wanted to hang out. Were chill now

  • @Mi.bewight
    @Mi.bewight 3 роки тому +2

    Your channel has really helped me
    Thank you 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @johnnyegberto
    @johnnyegberto 3 роки тому +7

    1:54 I literally spat out my coffee that was so-

  • @Carolinecookie662
    @Carolinecookie662 Рік тому +5

    This didn’t tell me if she liked me it told me I liked her

  • @LavenderLove_
    @LavenderLove_ Рік тому +3

    I reallyyyyyyyyy like her. Like a lot. She was kinda what made me realized I’m a lesbian three years ago. And I’ve liked her on and off since, mostly on. The thing is, I feel like she likes me too. Like I just feel like she does. I can’t really explain it. When I talk to her she smiles and looks right into my eyes. She always blushes (it’s too adorable). She laughs at most of what I say even though must of what I say is just really stupid thoughts. I don’t know if it’s just me liking her that’s makes me see things that aren’t there. I hope it’s real.

  • @rando_onyt
    @rando_onyt Місяць тому +2

    My crush has been giving hints that she likes me back and this video is kinda convincing me to ask her 😭✋

  • @susyvaca212
    @susyvaca212 2 роки тому +1

    Im also Lesbian, and I love the fact that you are too, supporting you!

  • @bababakari4650
    @bababakari4650 2 роки тому +5

    There used to be a girl that I really liked when I was in year 4. I hated her at first bc she was always hanging out with my best friend, but then her and I became really close. She always used to hug me and call me cute. I acted like as if I didn’t like it but in reality I did. She would always cuddle with me anywhere we went. But she changed in year 5. She stopped hanging out with me but we were still friends, just not as close. In year 6 she started hugging me again but due to Covid my school had to shut down and I never got to see her again. She would also tell me so much abt lgbt during pe lessons whenever I’m benched. She was rlly into lgbt and she would ask me if I was gay but I didn’t wanna tell her. She said that it was okay if I was but I still denied. I couldn’t really tell if she liked me back or was just being too nice.

  • @monikssingh5357
    @monikssingh5357 4 роки тому +6

    Hey thank you u are helping me let me watch the video and find it out thx a lot lauren

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 роки тому +1

      🏆 congrats on being first! yay! im hoping it helps!

    • @monikssingh5357
      @monikssingh5357 4 роки тому +2

      @@laurenelloise not hope it helped a lot

    • @jibalesha2064
      @jibalesha2064 3 роки тому +1

      I’m going thru this now. We both look femme. I ask her out lunch twice now & yea it was good. But i still dont know whether she is gay or not. Some of the signs showed but i still couldnt figure it out. What do you think

    • @monikssingh5357
      @monikssingh5357 3 роки тому

      @@jibalesha2064 did you ask her is she gay or nope or did u tell her u are interested in LGBT terms and one of them ?

  • @GracieLeaf
    @GracieLeaf 2 роки тому +22

    This video is perfect for me!! I have a crush on my best friend. We go to school together and just to be weird and annoy the homophobes at our school we would walk around holding hands. But it started becoming more and more frequent to the point that whenever we were walking about campus whether it was before class during lunch during passing periods we would be holding hands. And i would make little jokes about how it’s totally platonic but every time she would respond with “no it’s not” and i never though anything of it i just thought it was a joke. But after watching this i’m seriously considering that she might have a crush on me and like i’m so happy if she does because she’s so sweet and she just makes me so happy!

    • @Immy.
      @Immy. Рік тому +1

      update ?

  • @alice_weirddom
    @alice_weirddom Рік тому +1

    6:16 I trust my best friend with all my heart and I reply fast sometimes ;-;

  • @amelie_books
    @amelie_books Рік тому +1

    All this managed to prove is that I am a complete friend to her and I have a massive crush on her 😅