OMG, thank you! My freind already came out as les and I'm bi, we would ALWAYS joke flirt and I'm gonna keep these tips in mind and tell them I like them.
I don’t think I’m gay but I bi because I like men but I do have an attraction for women aswell. Also I’ve never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. ( but I don’t like label i the person that is like if you I’love the person doesn’t matter what sex they are)
@@averageartist3020 omg ty ty, here me vent pls lol💀😭 I like masculine Girls, the girl at my work is masculine and Bi. We are very close friends🫶🏻 We call a lot and when I first met her we would call every night until 5 in the morning. We also hang outside of work and go to college together. Anyways, I like the Bitch but she has a boyfriend. Ik ur prolly thinking she does not like me but u know she acts very gay with me and I personally feel that she has a different type of feeling for me. It’s not just like a regular friend feeling if that makes sense. Pls send help or advice cuz I feel I’m overthinking but if u need anymore details Oh boi I have a lot to talk about🥹 TY for listening🫶🏻🫶🏻
@@sushhhh958 bruh I do lol and she be actin gay back. And she told me that she really wants to go to the Gay club with me but I’m 19 turning 20 this year and she’s already 21 and the gay club is only for 21+ so i told her I can’t go, and I proceed to tell her that if she wants to go to the gay club so bad to go with her Boyfriend and she straight up tells me no I don’t wanna go with him because he is boring and not fun 💀 In my head I’m like y r u even with him then! She tells me if I go to the club she will go bruh!
Its very confusing sometimes with a female because they never really honest about their feelings or they waiting for you to say something mean while you waiting for them... turns into a whole waiting game 🤣🤦♀️
I can not agree enough on how true that is. Some women may be afraid of rejection, or they do not want to admit they are attracted to women. It is a challenge for sure.
Once my crush straight up said “I had a dream where we lived together and WE had a child. Also OUR child was trans and gay” I’m pretty sure this is a sign.
I don’t think a straight girl would say that. Also take that into consideration because she may have made that up so she tell you that she likes you without making a big fuss or something
@@avengers_geek1423 that's true but also i think they meant that their crush straight up said like said straight away, not that their crush is straight lol,i could be wrong tho😭
Hey; I'm this type of person and the way you can tell if I like someone is when I'm not flirty with them :^: dont know if it can help you (saying this late also)
I confessed my feelings to my straight best friend and she never changed how she was towards me but did not feel the same way. I’m absolutely not over her and it’s frustrating when we have a platonic relationship to begin with 😭😭
i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our friendship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO update: she likes my best friend
Things turned out awkward with my previous crush back in 2016, I used to message her daily asking her how she's and sending her positive quotes and sometimes jokes, she loved it and always messaged me back, one day she asked me out for a coffee, it went ok, she was looking at me a lot and touched me multiple times, she also played a lot with her hair, I was so happy and thought she was gonna say something, but boy she didn't, after that the messaging continued until one day, I invited her to my home for lunch, her reply was strange, she told me that she's gonna be away with her boyfriend, this is the first time she ever mentions her having boyfriend and that made me wonder if she knew of my feelings towards her and wanted to push me away, needless to say I felt like a huge rock just fell on me, since then she started to ignore my messages and if she replys she says she's so busy and couldn't reply, I eventually told her that I won't be bothering her again, she told me I wasn't but that was my last message to her, not gonna lie that kinda left me with an emotional scar to this day, even tho I now have another crush "My teacher at university", I'm now very careful with my behaviour towards her and not trying to look suspicious. Even tho she does most of the signs you talked about when she's with me, I'm still scared of another heartbreak.
Had a girl did all of this to me except for the drawing part...but I like both. But I did like her alot when she did all tht, sitting on my lap, playing in my hair, always looking at me and biting her lips it made my heart skipped a beat. But I was with a boy at the time, I say this cause when I finally got the courage to ask if she liked me cause I never had any other girl friends did that she was like no and begin a lesbian doesn't fit me and basically laughed in my face and made fun of me....... I never told another girl that I liked them after ever after that. Sometimes I wonder if it was cause I was with a boy so she probably didn't believe or she was scared or was just messing with me....welp guess we will never know cause I am not gonna ask her about that
And I wasn't just going to cheat on the guy he knew I was bi and he wasn't good to me he hurt me alot and cheated alot basically the relationship was over so if she had tell me she felt the same way I would have be with her in a heart beat. Like we used to always message each other and she would be like my sleeve we walked hand in hand everywhere and were always together tht ppl thought we were twins. Idk sometimes I think I pushed her away cause I was afraid of ppl knowing back then and didn't want to be called a lez I remember I would let go of her hand when ppl came around or I would start to get nervous around her and make joke about her like when I see her I would say hi big head instead of saying how I felt instead of telling her hw cute she looked that day. So idk I remember once she even invited me to her home bt then again who kws the damage might have been done already 🤔 I just don't know why I had to end up liking girls n not being able to be with one till this day I have never had a gf
saaame I'm so oblivious but at the same time I don't wanna confess anything if I'm not sure of my feelings or her feelings, plus I don't wanna make things awkward :')
Me with girl I actually have a chance with: NOPE Me with lesbians in general: NOOOO Me with the straightest straight girl that doesn't even know my name: YES YES YEESSSSSS
Omg this girl I used to like, we like planned a whole future together, I didn’t know I was lesbian at the time and both of us were literally like: “we aren’t even gonna HaVe BoYfRiEnDs”
Well my childhood best friend she was a bisexual and her parents found out :/ and probably traumatised her and put so much pressure on her to make it seem wrong…she was in love with me for years- and I liked her a lot too :( so it’s kind of unrequited it’s just empty it sucks because she is genuinely the nicest and most pure and kind hearted girl I have ever seen…at first I thought it was admiration not a crush but I connected the dots and I realised my feelings…but it’s too late now :(
This is why I'm bisexual. I liked guys and still do, however, when my friend started kissing me I kept wanting her to keep doing it and that's kind of why I'm into girls.
if the other people in the friend group always seem to tense up or laugh when something about you two dating comes up: BIG SIGN!!! I have personally been the friend who knows and if you just pay attention to the other friends enough you might pick up on something🏳️🌈♥️🌲 loving the 12 gays so far!!
I agree with all of this except the asking directly...it can be "simpler" but also it can end BAD, if she is a friend or close friend it becomes a nightmare afterward, they can change the way they act around you, feel stiff if you around you, start double guessing your normal routines or traditions ( over reading romantic intent behind everything). Like if they were comfortable hugging or just playing around it will probably get cut off. AND this has happened to me several times, and for me is the worse: they start overthinking everything you do or have done with or for them. It is even worse when they treat you like some basic horny dude, like oh all the nice things you do for me are because you want to get laid with me, when NO, you genuinely did them because you felt like it, you just thought about them, no silly sketchy ulterior motives .... :( #SorrYNeededToGetItOut
Things like this are why I make it clear that I'm aro/ace to my friends (LGBT+ or not), because I never want to be in a situation where someone is into me romantically but is too scared to tell me out of fear of this sort of thing happening. Everything that we do together is always going to be platonic, whether or not they are into me, and that will never change. I don't expect people to develop a crush on me, but I do worry that if they were to, my rejecting would inadvertently taint our friendship. I wouldn't just cut all physical contact, because I wouldn't have viewed it as romantic to begin with. But I'm scared of being too harsh, of hurting their feelings, of causing some kind of rift between us, without meaning to.
@@johnlee8667 Well, sadly, I don't think I'm into her romantically, but I respect her feelings more than anything. We talked about it, and she's really understanding. She doesn't wanna force me into anything, so we're friends. Thank you for asking though, it was real sweet of you😊 Hope you have a great day💖
Awww thats sweet of you, thank you for answering We're kind of in the same situation I guess, me being the one having one sided feelings and her seeing me as a friend, but thats fine with me too staying as friends.
@@johnlee8667 Please! It was a pleasure replying. You're too kind❤️ Hopefully, you find peace and happiness. Trust me, if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually. If it's not, then don't lose hope, as there's definitely someone else waiting out there *just for you* The most admirable thing about you, is that you respect her feelings and are willing to do things her way. Not many people tend to do that. Never change the good in you! And please stay safe😊
me and my best friend had crushes on each other once. we basically secretly dated until my parents found out and made us stop seeing each other. (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
@@hqpicafton-emilyfam3250 yeah but it’s cool now. i left home and me and my bestie are back together. though i don’t have the best relationship with my parents anymore-
She says I'm pretty She calls me "goddess" some times She's called me her "love interest" When I text her good morning she responds with 😚 *nah, she means it platonically-*
The girl I like is really shy, and I mean like borderline archetype level shy (think twiddling fingers, eyes downcast, etc.) so it's near damn IMPOSSIBLE to figure out if she treats me differently or not. I'm not even sure if she likes girls or not. She's made it clear that she's a supportive ally, but she's never discussed her sexuality with our friend group so I don't even know her sexual orientation. I want to ask one of our other friends, but I'm worried they'll pick up on the fact that I like her and make things awkward (I'm also a shy person, so I hate romantic confrontation). If anyone else has suffered this, advice would be much appreciated. ): I've liked this girl for 3 years now, and I'm tired of hiding my feelings.
welcome back!!! Also that's okay! there's nothing wrong w/ getting to do whatever you want in single life! another girl will come along when it's meant to be!
Thank you! This really helped me realize how much I really like her too. Other things just say do you feel attracted to her? Do you feel butterflies? This is so much more relatable!
Well I think she does😂 last night we were on the phone till 2 am talking about how if we don’t get married by this certain age or if we’re not with anybody that we’re just gonna get married and we planned our whole wedding out😂 Then she was dropping little compliments like “you look really pretty” and “I like your hair today” She also loves to hug, link arms, and hold hands with me or lay in my lap. I’m an oblivious goldfish so thank you for this or I wouldn’t have really noticed these things😂
i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our relationship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO
This is the same with me, but she doesn’t show too many of these signs and with the ones that she does, it’s the bare minimum. Like we hug quite often, and she often ends up walking me some of the way home where it’s just the two of us and we have these really long deep talks about literally anything and she always says she’s scared noone will ever love her and my heart is just like I AM RIGHT HERE-
'You're in her future' She told me she wants to live with me in a cottage in the woods and we're supposedly gonna get married at like thirty and adopt loads of cats and it's gonna be just me and her and her and me... And she flirts with me... And we spend HOURS talking to each other EVERY DAY.. She says she misses me after 5 minutes of being without me and her life is boring without me there... We jokingly flirt all the time.. We say 'ily' or 'i love uuuuu sm omg' to each other a lot... But I'm STILL, even after that, too nervous :')
I’m crying because me and my best friend TEXT so none of these signs are helpful I’m gonna cry- I like her a lot man she’s so pretty and kind- edit:(texting because of quarantine-)
@@ashleykings8263 Yes I forgot to mention I confessed to them (their pronouns are they/them now) and I was rejected we're still friends though so I'm happy about that!
I went to a public small meetup where there's just gays and autistic and this one girl there who caught my eye ended up talking with me for the entire evening and we had great convos but we were complete strangers. She gave me that quick glance multiple times and sometimes laid her hand on my arma or legs and gave me a small popcorn bowl when I was sitting a bit away from the crowd and now I feel really gay and I'm going back to that place in 2 weeks.
My bestie does all of these things, I introduced her to girl in red and now we sing to we fell in love in October together. I told her I liked her and she yelled I AM STRAIGHT! I don't believe her, she's obviously bi. She literally started braiding my hair 🥺. She was leaning her head on my shoulder and almost fell asleep. She puts her arm around my shoulder and gives me "the look" everyday. I am totally not gay. Happy pride Month! 🏳️🌈❤️
GUYS I THINK SHE MIGHT LIKE ME - she hugs me a lot (she always runs up to me and hugs me) - she had a secret that she only shared with me because she trusts me (she said that herself!!) - she has made me two handmade gifts..one was a picture of a cute dog and the other was a bunny. so sweet!! - she tells me things that she tells nobody else
My friend from dance studio is non-binary and i have a huge crush on my best friend we are still little i mean we are about 12, 100% signs in this video are true ! :)) 🏳️🌈🤟♥️
The person I'm here for is a real life tsundere, I'm usually the optimistic one calling her cute and stuff, and she brings the logic into everything and has a natural pessimism XD. However, one time she also read an article about the result on a personality quiz I took, and asked me if I ever get worried she doesn't love me(as friends of course) as much as I love her. I told the truth and said I do get doubtful, and she straight up yelled, "Well DON'T idiot..."
My checklist~ 1. Physical touch: nope, she gets really awkward (not only with me, she's not very comfortable with hugging and stuff in general) *I'm the one that hugged her and played with her hair (in the past because went to the same hs but then the pandemic happened) 2. Body language: she touches her hair a lot but is kinda like a tic and she's like this in front of anyone. *We had a video call today and I literally didn't stop touching my hair for the whole 4 hours... 3. Handmade gifts: yes, always, but she does that for all her friends 4. Looks at you when she laughs: no, she doesn't look at anyone, just rolls backwards from laughter lol 5. Texting: yes, she always messages me first but we don't talk that much 6. Attention: ummm...idk 7. We no longer have the same friend group so she does but it isn't necessarily bc she wants to spend time alone we just don't have friends in common. 8. Compliments: sometimes, she is observant of my appearance, always notices changes. 9. She has never asked me, she does bring the lgbtg+ subject up but like in general and today she mentioned her being gay like 3 times (she had never told me she was gay before, I just assumed she was queer a long time ago) but to be fair we were watching Luca so it just came up 10. Future together: yes...but like, doesn't everybody? I mean we talk about the future as if we will always be in contact with each other and she once mentioned something about aging together, like both of us helping each other through our illnesses but it was more like a joke... Conclusion~ I looked this up because I suspected she liked me, but ended up discovering I'm the one who's doing all these. So I guess I'm the one that likes her lol Final thoughts~ All of this happens more with my straight friends: sitting in each other's lap, compliments, inviting me alone to their house or to the movies or wtv, face timing, joking flirt, future together...my bff and I even compared our dream homes, cars, countries to travel to...so we can find an in-between. So we truly never know 😂🤦🏻♀️
My "straight" best friend always says "I wish we were cuddling right now" or "I had a dream I was making out with you" and I'm a full on lesbian so I was like😳
touch - yes. She wanted me to get on the scooter with her n she wanted me to grab her waist I freaked out inside “The look” - we stared at each other lmao she wouldn’t even look away She let me drive her car n she never lets anyone drive it like wtff I’m the one who gets jealous, I can’t tell if she wants my attention, but we hang out a lot. But btw we work together. She got off work at 9 n I worked until 11. She went home to change n come back just for me n literally helped bc it got busy n I told her not to bc she wasn’t clocked in She threw ice at me lmao Her step dad made a joke to her saying “oh Haley’s coming out the closet” n she giggled The problem is everyone asks her if she’s gay n she always says no. I just don’t think she’s out yet. This is crazy bc she’s my first girl crush w intense emotion. I’m blushing just typing this thinking ab last night w the scooter. I’m trying to wait n see. I really don’t want to embarrass myself n tell her n ruin it, but it feels so right. Please. The gay radar is so high on her HELP
Wait... are you saying she has acknowledged that she likes you?? And has she done out of the closet yet? I have a crush on this girl and she’s done most of these signs. Especially with the prolonged staring. Like I catch her staring but she doesn’t look away. I say she’s gay, but she says she not. What do you think?
Congratulations on getting together! I met her last month when I was staying abroad. So a reasonably short time. But I’ll be sitting opposite her minding my own business and I’ll just catch her staring directly at me and not looking away. Then I stare back, both eyes locked on her and we both continue to stare without saying anything. Surely a straight girl would never do this even if she found a girl pretty or would they. I know I wouldn’t. Also when we’re in a group setting with like 5+ people, her attention would be mostly on me and she’ll try to start a conversation on the other side of the room by teasing me in front of all these people. Like she’ll only tell me to try a food from her country and no one else. Sometimes I’ll get embarrassed because I’m like do other people notice this? Also she’ll be so interested in my dating life and even though I tell her about it first, she’ll always bring it up and ask me how I REALLYYY feel about my male date. No other girl is this concerned. Sometimes it’s like we look into each others eyes and say to each other ‘you’re not fully straight or I like you’, but that could be just wishing thinking on my part. I’m just thinking she could just be very nice, but sometimes I’m not so sure... any thoughts?
Ok I need advices. There's this girl that I am friends with and I think (hope) that she might like me... Here are the signs I am basing my theory on : 1 )She complemented me on my new hair cut she said "This really suits you" and I felt like she was looking at me with the funny look, like THE look 2) She only had one boyfriend and said that it only lasted a month (the way she said it made me think that she wasn't really interested in dating guys) What makes me hesitate : 1) We don't really talk by text... only IRL 2) I never asked her if she liked girls (mainly because I am scared of her reaction) 3) She could just be friendly ? What do you guys think ? Like she is sooo beautiful but I don't want to lose her as a friend by asking her out... Should I ask more questions ? Like what type of questions ? PS : she doesn't know I'm gay
I noticed that one of my classmates who is a lesbian keeps looking at me, smiles and hides it, she has done this more than once, one of the times I noticed that she was looking at me, her friends noticed this and started laughing in class for no apparent reason. She also seems to be very kind, I really wanted to try to get to know her, but I'm too shy to take the initiative.
I think these are pretty good but only if the woman you crush on is 1) already close to you 2) extroverted. I know that for myself as an introvert and shy lesbian I don't become touchy feely with a crush, I blush, I panic if she accidentally touches my hand, I steal glances at her without her noticing (or at least I try), I do act differently toward her than other people (I smile more, I feel like my eyes smile too, like if I had stars in them, etc) and yeah these are I suppose not easy signs to spot.
I have a lot of evidence We were talking about a book where a few of the characters were lgbt, and she said "I think it's really cool that the author added lgbt characters!" She's said that multiple times She's said that of we were in a book, we would 100% get shipped together Someone in our class was using gay as an insult, and she was the only person to say that it wasn't an insult and she said it out loud right to his face She told me she loved me, and then awkwardly said "not in that way" but it was very reluctant 🤔 She then told me that she didn't know what she would do without me She's held my hand several times She's told me that I was her number 1 best friend out of all of her friends She emails me every second of the day and says that she leaves email open over the weekend just to see my emails whenever she can Idk man what do you guys think Also I kinda like her so- Also, I haven't told her anything about my sexuality, and she hasn't either, so I can't really use that as evidence. But, she does frequently describe certain girls as being super pretty (those certain girls aren't me lmao).
🤣🤣🤣i just have confusion tht someone like me or not but ... After watching i have doubt about me am i gay huh'' WTF 👀👀 💀 wtf am i gay coz i do these stuffs bc she likes these things nd these things make her happy 👀 bruhhhhh WTF am i gay 👀👀💀
I didn't even watched it yet, but I know no girl ever liked me, so I'm sad 😕 But I'm gonna watch it anyway because oh well, maybe in the future, right?
Me and my crush do everything till 2:37 Me and my crush rarely message but she is the first ome to message me 60% of the time 4:00 she does say my hair is long- 4:09 I started to have a crush on her since we were 11 Now I am 14- So no sexuality talk- I mean I talk about lgbtq with EVERYONE--- 4:48 in our group chat She once said "??? Send me your pretty picture" ... WE WERE FREAKING 11 You earned a sub I know my crush likes me
Hello! Genderfluid lesbean here 🥰 So I have a crush on this girl in my secondary school, she's in my year We go to school play rehearsals, and hang out there She also does this thing where she grabs the handle on my backpack and yoinks me towards her and ummmm ✨gay panic✨ She is openly a lesbean too btw But I have no idea if she likes me even though she checks off most of the list here and I don't want to lose her as a friend :'( I am planning to ask her out in a year or so, but I think she has a crush on someone else tho
It's a little bit of a weird situation, I was told 2 years ago by someone else that she likes me, at the time I didn't see her that way but over time I started to. I definitely wouldn't classify the stuff we do as 'just friends', nor do I think either of us are willing to admit it yet. Im talking whenever we spend the night with each other, cuddling and kissing each other on the hand/back, holding hands, being really close to/leaning on eachother, compliments, small gift giving, etc. I feel like it's more obvious for me since I won't even let anyone be within a foot of me without backing up or putting my hand up to keep the distance and I don't like people touching me but I let her be as close as she wishes. She's kinda the same but less extreme. I think It's pretty obvious to us but as I said, just not ready to admit it yet
One of my best friends asked me to go to a musical with her last night and I've had suspensions that she's gay for a while. She was doing all these things the entire night and it was so cute. I'm catching feelings so hopefully I'm right.
Oh yeahhhhhh and we were eating lunch in the school cafeteria yesterday and everybody else was leaving to go out and I was about to go with them and then she stopped me and told me to stay with her. I was the only one she asked.
This video is perfect for me!! I have a crush on my best friend. We go to school together and just to be weird and annoy the homophobes at our school we would walk around holding hands. But it started becoming more and more frequent to the point that whenever we were walking about campus whether it was before class during lunch during passing periods we would be holding hands. And i would make little jokes about how it’s totally platonic but every time she would respond with “no it’s not” and i never though anything of it i just thought it was a joke. But after watching this i’m seriously considering that she might have a crush on me and like i’m so happy if she does because she’s so sweet and she just makes me so happy!
Y'all my crush is also my best friend and told me she is straight should I tell her just to get it off my chest ( I am Nb ace and lesbian so triple gay(that was a joke) so yeah)
I reallyyyyyyyyy like her. Like a lot. She was kinda what made me realized I’m a lesbian three years ago. And I’ve liked her on and off since, mostly on. The thing is, I feel like she likes me too. Like I just feel like she does. I can’t really explain it. When I talk to her she smiles and looks right into my eyes. She always blushes (it’s too adorable). She laughs at most of what I say even though must of what I say is just really stupid thoughts. I don’t know if it’s just me liking her that’s makes me see things that aren’t there. I hope it’s real.
ahhah i mean, a tiny bit! But a lot of this is actually from experience with multiple people over my years, and some fellow gays experiences ive been told about.
These are also good advice to straight male also. Genuine girls/women's may show their attraction same way and it doesn't matter what gender target is. Sadly I haven't seen these sights in years.
Such a good video, this should help a load of people who are new to dating... These are so accurate as well, I do all of these if I'm into someone... Maybe not the last one though... 😅😅
There used to be a girl that I really liked when I was in year 4. I hated her at first bc she was always hanging out with my best friend, but then her and I became really close. She always used to hug me and call me cute. I acted like as if I didn’t like it but in reality I did. She would always cuddle with me anywhere we went. But she changed in year 5. She stopped hanging out with me but we were still friends, just not as close. In year 6 she started hugging me again but due to Covid my school had to shut down and I never got to see her again. She would also tell me so much abt lgbt during pe lessons whenever I’m benched. She was rlly into lgbt and she would ask me if I was gay but I didn’t wanna tell her. She said that it was okay if I was but I still denied. I couldn’t really tell if she liked me back or was just being too nice.
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I still don't know how to come out to my parents I'm relagous
@@teresarobles2698 don’t then. Your will should trump your desires.
Thank you
OMG, thank you! My freind already came out as les and I'm bi, we would ALWAYS joke flirt and I'm gonna keep these tips in mind and tell them I like them.
I don’t think I’m gay but I bi because I like men but I do have an attraction for women aswell. Also I’ve never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. ( but I don’t like label i the person that is like if you I’love the person doesn’t matter what sex they are)
This didn’t tell me if she liked me, it told me I liked her 💀
I need help and advice!! About this one girl at my workplace that I like
@@blinkengenes9789 oooh spill
@@averageartist3020 omg ty ty, here me vent pls lol💀😭
I like masculine Girls, the girl at my work is masculine and Bi. We are very close friends🫶🏻 We call a lot and when I first met her we would call every night until 5 in the morning. We also hang outside of work and go to college together. Anyways, I like the Bitch but she has a boyfriend.
Ik ur prolly thinking she does not like me but u know she acts very gay with me and I personally feel that she has a different type of feeling for me. It’s not just like a regular friend feeling if that makes sense. Pls send help or advice cuz I feel I’m overthinking but if u need anymore details Oh boi I have a lot to talk about🥹 TY for listening🫶🏻🫶🏻
@@blinkengenes9789 u should also do some gay things..see how she reacts
@@sushhhh958 bruh I do lol and she be actin gay back. And she told me that she really wants to go to the Gay club with me but I’m 19 turning 20 this year and she’s already 21 and the gay club is only for 21+ so i told her I can’t go, and I proceed to tell her that if she wants to go to the gay club so bad to go with her Boyfriend and she straight up tells me no I don’t wanna go with him because he is boring and not fun 💀 In my head I’m like y r u even with him then! She tells me if I go to the club she will go bruh!
don't even lie, you're all here because of a specific person
Yeahhh true!
ur being wayy to loud
Ofc 🙄🙈💰
shhhh you never saw me here 🤫
The straight girl
Still going to fall in love with straight girls- that is my life as a lesbian-
I think it is part of the lesbian experience tbh 🤭
@@laurenelloise yep- for sure-
Same 😢💔
amen join the club (sadly :p)
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💀 if I got 1k likes . I will propose my crush .
SHE JUST TOLD ME SHE LIKES ME WHILE I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO AHHHH 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
HOLY CRAP AMAZING!!
@@laurenelloise we might be going on a date soon!
@@heyletsbebestfriends1418 update??
Luckyyy youuu 👏
how did it go???
Its very confusing sometimes with a female because they never really honest about their feelings or they waiting for you to say something mean while you waiting for them... turns into a whole waiting game 🤣🤦♀️
This is so true. Sometimes you’re both waiting for each other to make a move hahaha
true af
Period! The girl I like is pretty shy so it makes it harder
I can not agree enough on how true that is. Some women may be afraid of rejection, or they do not want to admit they are attracted to women. It is a challenge for sure.
@@laurenelloise My crush just goes straight to making a move
Once my crush straight up said “I had a dream where we lived together and WE had a child. Also OUR child was trans and gay”
I’m pretty sure this is a sign.
I don’t think a straight girl would say that. Also take that into consideration because she may have made that up so she tell you that she likes you without making a big fuss or something
@@avengers_geek1423 that's true but also i think they meant that their crush straight up said like said straight away, not that their crush is straight lol,i could be wrong tho😭
@cloud I said I don’t think a straight would say that as in “I think she is a gay and is trying to tell you she is”
@@avengers_geek1423 they never said the crush was straight-
@@kira-my1vf I didn’t say! Wtf….😐
I- this sounds like I have a major crush on her- 😭
Did you? 👀
do you? that's the question 😌
I think you do
Bruh why does this video make me so obvious😭
Oh and i also realised She doesnt propably like me😃
This is so much harder when your crush acts gay/ flirty with everyone so you don’t know if she likes you or not 😭
FR THOOOOOOOOOO
OMG congrats! I hope that will be me :,(
YEAH FRRRRR
Hey; I'm this type of person and the way you can tell if I like someone is when I'm not flirty with them :^: dont know if it can help you (saying this late also)
fr, like this is my current dilemma 😶🌫️😮💨
I confessed my feelings to my straight best friend and she never changed how she was towards me but did not feel the same way. I’m absolutely not over her and it’s frustrating when we have a platonic relationship to begin with 😭😭
Omg same 😭😭😭
❤❤❤
same :(
I was in the same boat and it was rlly frustrating but she also showed many signs she was attracted to me
@@Worldbizzaresame, all i have to do was to accept it that we're friends but I do still hope for more. kinda painful
This actually helps because when we meet I always smile at her and she also does the same thing
this is rlly cute!
SAME WITH MY CRUSH
but I have no idea if she's even lesbian or bi 😅😔 first time I'm crushing on someone
Thank you
I remember i was being homophobic to my one friend but my mind was processing that she part of the lbgtq and now i regret that day
Me and my crush did that too.
I just realised one of my friends is doing all of these things-
I also realised I’m doing most of these signs to someone...
im not trying to be mean but why do you have that flag on you pfp?
@VICTORIA ZARYCH yea i know but thats the old one-
@@Non_binary idk maybe they thought it was pretty
@@takeoffupantsnshowdaddylongleg its the old flag though, the original was made by a racist/transphobe
@@Non_binary ohh, ok. ty
this video literally changed my life LMAO i confessed to her and now we've been dating for 8 months
yall still dating?
Congrats lol
At least one of us is happy 😭
yay! That’s amazing!
@@trinity6019 sry just saw this and yes we are
I came here to understand if this girl likes me, but I came to realize that I literally proposed her with my hints.
sameeeee
same here
😂😂 and she also know but never asked
real
Who else is here because you're delulu like me?
❤
i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our friendship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO
update: she likes my best friend
i was in this same situation, she said yes 😏
i’d say do it but of course do whatever you’re comfortable with
Same! I was in this situation…she has a girlfriend though… 😭💔
NOO sorry man it sucks in a gay world sometimes
Oh dear wanna talk about it ?
I know how you feel- Lol
My crush probably don't like me but I'm watching anyway
for future reference then 😉
@@laurenelloise :0 you responded and hearted? Thanks so much aaaaa
Same here
@@laurenelloise the thing is that my crush does all of these things but I'm still not sure 😂
🤣🤣🤣
well ... my crush shows no signs ... but I show almost all.
at least I'm sure I'm not a straight 🙃
At least I’m sure I’m not straight 😂😂 PREACH.😂😂😂
BRUH ME TOO😭
Ifkrr samee 😩
sirr SAMEE :'[
UPDATE: We are together XDDD
Things turned out awkward with my previous crush back in 2016, I used to message her daily asking her how she's and sending her positive quotes and sometimes jokes, she loved it and always messaged me back, one day she asked me out for a coffee, it went ok, she was looking at me a lot and touched me multiple times, she also played a lot with her hair, I was so happy and thought she was gonna say something, but boy she didn't, after that the messaging continued until one day, I invited her to my home for lunch, her reply was strange, she told me that she's gonna be away with her boyfriend, this is the first time she ever mentions her having boyfriend and that made me wonder if she knew of my feelings towards her and wanted to push me away, needless to say I felt like a huge rock just fell on me, since then she started to ignore my messages and if she replys she says she's so busy and couldn't reply, I eventually told her that I won't be bothering her again, she told me I wasn't but that was my last message to her, not gonna lie that kinda left me with an emotional scar to this day, even tho I now have another crush "My teacher at university", I'm now very careful with my behaviour towards her and not trying to look suspicious. Even tho she does most of the signs you talked about when she's with me, I'm still scared of another heartbreak.
her: does most of these signs to me
me: i think she just likes me as a best friend 🤡
Hahaha x2
Had a girl did all of this to me except for the drawing part...but I like both. But I did like her alot when she did all tht, sitting on my lap, playing in my hair, always looking at me and biting her lips it made my heart skipped a beat. But I was with a boy at the time, I say this cause when I finally got the courage to ask if she liked me cause I never had any other girl friends did that she was like no and begin a lesbian doesn't fit me and basically laughed in my face and made fun of me.......
I never told another girl that I liked them after ever after that.
Sometimes I wonder if it was cause I was with a boy so she probably didn't believe or she was scared or was just messing with me....welp guess we will never know cause I am not gonna ask her about that
And I wasn't just going to cheat on the guy he knew I was bi and he wasn't good to me he hurt me alot and cheated alot basically the relationship was over so if she had tell me she felt the same way I would have be with her in a heart beat.
Like we used to always message each other and she would be like my sleeve we walked hand in hand everywhere and were always together tht ppl thought we were twins.
Idk sometimes I think I pushed her away cause I was afraid of ppl knowing back then and didn't want to be called a lez I remember I would let go of her hand when ppl came around or I would start to get nervous around her and make joke about her like when I see her I would say hi big head instead of saying how I felt instead of telling her hw cute she looked that day.
So idk I remember once she even invited me to her home bt then again who kws the damage might have been done already 🤔 I just don't know why I had to end up liking girls n not being able to be with one till this day I have never had a gf
saaame I'm so oblivious but at the same time I don't wanna confess anything if I'm not sure of my feelings or her feelings, plus I don't wanna make things awkward :')
Ryt 😂
Me: k, so first thing i should analyse is touch
Corona: no
HAHAHHAH whoops
My gf did all of these things before she asked me out so I know this is 100% true
aw that is so cute!
AW-
I LOVE UR PFP BTW .
@@manabanana0712 thank you! :D
Me with girl I actually have a chance with: NOPE
Me with lesbians in general: NOOOO
Me with the straightest straight girl that doesn't even know my name: YES YES YEESSSSSS
Same ಥ‿ಥ
same 💔
when you’re not close enough to be touchy so simple eye contact makes your heart race
Frr
Frrrrrr
The heart ache though
Omg this girl I used to like, we like planned a whole future together, I didn’t know I was lesbian at the time and both of us were literally like: “we aren’t even gonna HaVe BoYfRiEnDs”
Omg same!! 😅😅
Haha, me and my best friend did that... then I came out as lesbian... and she is straight loll kinda sad but o well
I was like , in the future me and my husband are going to be pregnant at the SAME TIME...
I'm using this as a gay flirting manual, a who to come out to tutorial, and a signs a girl likes you tutorial
I AM SO GLAD THIS HAS MULTI USES
That fly really liked your advice
AHHAAH it must have a crush on another fly n needs to know
Sadly im the one who's doing this....
Well my childhood best friend she was a bisexual and her parents found out :/ and probably traumatised her and put so much pressure on her to make it seem wrong…she was in love with me for years- and I liked her a lot too :( so it’s kind of unrequited it’s just empty it sucks because she is genuinely the nicest and most pure and kind hearted girl I have ever seen…at first I thought it was admiration not a crush but I connected the dots and I realised my feelings…but it’s too late now :(
Hey Can we talk?
I'm gonna ask on April fools so if she rejects me I can say April fools.
Same
Well I don't have the courage to ask so I'm going to silently cry in a corner
Enber Dragon same 😪
Smart 👀
OMG TYSM FOR THE IDEA YOU'RE A GENIUS AND A LIFE SAVER sorry i have massive fear of rejection
This is why I'm bisexual. I liked guys and still do, however, when my friend started kissing me I kept wanting her to keep doing it and that's kind of why I'm into girls.
HEY BEANS!! I really hope this helps you figure out if the girl you like, likes you too! 🏳️🌈 LETS ALL HELP OUR FELLOW GAYS BY SHARING TIPS!!
if the other people in the friend group always seem to tense up or laugh when something about you two dating comes up: BIG SIGN!!! I have personally been the friend who knows and if you just pay attention to the other friends enough you might pick up on something🏳️🌈♥️🌲 loving the 12 gays so far!!
Me🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Hey!
I'm a bi girl who has a crush on a girl
But we both go to a private Christian school 😬
What should I doooo
I agree with all of this except the asking directly...it can be "simpler" but also it can end BAD, if she is a friend or close friend it becomes a nightmare afterward, they can change the way they act around you, feel stiff if you around you, start double guessing your normal routines or traditions ( over reading romantic intent behind everything). Like if they were comfortable hugging or just playing around it will probably get cut off. AND this has happened to me several times, and for me is the worse: they start overthinking everything you do or have done with or for them. It is even worse when they treat you like some basic horny dude, like oh all the nice things you do for me are because you want to get laid with me, when NO, you genuinely did them because you felt like it, you just thought about them, no silly sketchy ulterior motives .... :( #SorrYNeededToGetItOut
My biggest fear fr
Things like this are why I make it clear that I'm aro/ace to my friends (LGBT+ or not), because I never want to be in a situation where someone is into me romantically but is too scared to tell me out of fear of this sort of thing happening. Everything that we do together is always going to be platonic, whether or not they are into me, and that will never change. I don't expect people to develop a crush on me, but I do worry that if they were to, my rejecting would inadvertently taint our friendship. I wouldn't just cut all physical contact, because I wouldn't have viewed it as romantic to begin with. But I'm scared of being too harsh, of hurting their feelings, of causing some kind of rift between us, without meaning to.
This didn’t tell me if she liked me it told me I liked her
Oh God. She legit told me that she's infatuated with me and I'm still here, and it's like she's done every single one of these things!
How bout you? Do you like her?
@@johnlee8667 Well, sadly, I don't think I'm into her romantically, but I respect her feelings more than anything. We talked about it, and she's really understanding. She doesn't wanna force me into anything, so we're friends.
Thank you for asking though, it was real sweet of you😊
Hope you have a great day💖
Awww thats sweet of you, thank you for answering
We're kind of in the same situation I guess, me being the one having one sided feelings and her seeing me as a friend, but thats fine with me too staying as friends.
@@johnlee8667 Please! It was a pleasure replying. You're too kind❤️
Hopefully, you find peace and happiness. Trust me, if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually.
If it's not, then don't lose hope, as there's definitely someone else waiting out there *just for you*
The most admirable thing about you, is that you respect her feelings and are willing to do things her way. Not many people tend to do that. Never change the good in you!
And please stay safe😊
@@rida-18 thank you quq, you too stay safe.
Please make a video on how to subtly tell a girl you like her 🙏
Oooo this could be really helpful to many people, I’ll write this one down!
O yes please
@@laurenelloise please do make one 😩
me and my best friend had crushes on each other once. we basically secretly dated until my parents found out and made us stop seeing each other. (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
I- DANG (❍ᴥ❍ʋ)
@@lifewithliciii1103 yup. pretty much everyone’s reaction ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@andpeggy9240 wow that sucks, :< T>T
@@hqpicafton-emilyfam3250 yeah but it’s cool now. i left home and me and my bestie are back together. though i don’t have the best relationship with my parents anymore-
@@andpeggy9240 YAY, well I'm happy your happy, and congrats for getting back together!!!! :> have a great day
She says I'm pretty
She calls me "goddess" some times
She's called me her "love interest"
When I text her good morning she responds with 😚
*nah, she means it platonically-*
The girl I like is really shy, and I mean like borderline archetype level shy (think twiddling fingers, eyes downcast, etc.) so it's near damn IMPOSSIBLE to figure out if she treats me differently or not. I'm not even sure if she likes girls or not. She's made it clear that she's a supportive ally, but she's never discussed her sexuality with our friend group so I don't even know her sexual orientation. I want to ask one of our other friends, but I'm worried they'll pick up on the fact that I like her and make things awkward (I'm also a shy person, so I hate romantic confrontation). If anyone else has suffered this, advice would be much appreciated. ):
I've liked this girl for 3 years now, and I'm tired of hiding my feelings.
Would be easier to tell if that person is extrovert lol since it just a matter of time till she told you.
Hahaha yeah probably easier to tell with extroverts but introverts do cute things when they like you
Sadest thing is a cute girl had a crush on me and she usually did all this but i didn't notice until it was too late.
Yooo!!!!!HEYY!!
as always ...I love youuuu...
Emmm....
I guess she does not like me....
Whattttteverrr i kinda like being single!
welcome back!!! Also that's okay! there's nothing wrong w/ getting to do whatever you want in single life! another girl will come along when it's meant to be!
@@clare_9438 well....i mean...thats greatt....and thats bad...
'cause this will hurt like hell...
omg i got the look yesterday i couldn't even tell. but this video helped me so much. i got chills.
Thank you! This really helped me realize how much I really like her too. Other things just say do you feel attracted to her? Do you feel butterflies? This is so much more relatable!
Well I think she does😂 last night we were on the phone till 2 am talking about how if we don’t get married by this certain age or if we’re not with anybody that we’re just gonna get married and we planned our whole wedding out😂 Then she was dropping little compliments like “you look really pretty” and “I like your hair today” She also loves to hug, link arms, and hold hands with me or lay in my lap. I’m an oblivious goldfish so thank you for this or I wouldn’t have really noticed these things😂
i’m so scared bc i wanna tell her SO bad, she’s literally amazing and such a good person. and i relate so much to these but i haven’t come out yet since i’m still deciding whether i’m bi or lesbian, and i don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by telling her i like her or ruin our relationship. ik shes bi bc she told me but idk what to dooo, WHAT SHOULD I DO
This is the same with me, but she doesn’t show too many of these signs and with the ones that she does, it’s the bare minimum. Like we hug quite often, and she often ends up walking me some of the way home where it’s just the two of us and we have these really long deep talks about literally anything and she always says she’s scared noone will ever love her and my heart is just like I AM RIGHT HERE-
@@auburned-phoenix ok that's a bit cute
I’m in a similar situation lol, she’s asexual so idk what to do I like her so much 😭
@@auburned-phoenix WHY CAN I RELATE SO MUCH LIKE THE FIRST TIME I MET HER SHE WAS GIVING ME CUDDLES JFKENSKWSJJSJS
update?
2:18 is that a fly? lmaoo
lmao welcome to summer in australia
f r e d
Did the fly tell a joke or somethin-
@@samanthakelly5995 what-
Omfg so she does like me I asked her today
'You're in her future'
She told me she wants to live with me in a cottage in the woods and we're supposedly gonna get married at like thirty and adopt loads of cats and it's gonna be just me and her and her and me... And she flirts with me... And we spend HOURS talking to each other EVERY DAY.. She says she misses me after 5 minutes of being without me and her life is boring without me there... We jokingly flirt all the time.. We say 'ily' or 'i love uuuuu sm omg' to each other a lot... But I'm STILL, even after that, too nervous :')
its okay to be nervous to ask! totally normal. but after reading what you wrote, she's 1000% into you. you gotta shoot your shot!!
Me about to do all these hoping my best friend/crush sees this:
SAMEEEE
I’m crying because me and my best friend TEXT so none of these signs are helpful I’m gonna cry- I like her a lot man she’s so pretty and kind- edit:(texting because of quarantine-)
is she part of lgbtq+ community?
Like attracted to girls?
@@ashleykings8263 Yes I forgot to mention I confessed to them (their pronouns are they/them now) and I was rejected we're still friends though so I'm happy about that!
@@lmuyb_5 freind zoned and still happy. A true warrior 💪👏
Yeah I had tried as prank but she reject me but I don't know why😑 may be my colour. She is white and me brown
I went to a public small meetup where there's just gays and autistic and this one girl there who caught my eye ended up talking with me for the entire evening and we had great convos but we were complete strangers. She gave me that quick glance multiple times and sometimes laid her hand on my arma or legs and gave me a small popcorn bowl when I was sitting a bit away from the crowd and now I feel really gay and I'm going back to that place in 2 weeks.
And if you do these things to your crush and they watch this, then you’re busted
Your so cute 😏😉❤️
Aw thank you 🥰🥺
@@laurenelloise HAUIIQO
My bestie does all of these things, I introduced her to girl in red and now we sing to we fell in love in October together. I told her I liked her and she yelled I AM STRAIGHT! I don't believe her, she's obviously bi. She literally started braiding my hair 🥺. She was leaning her head on my shoulder and almost fell asleep. She puts her arm around my shoulder and gives me "the look" everyday.
I am totally not gay.
Happy pride Month! 🏳️🌈❤️
i'm so happy you did this series again :)-
aw ty! me too! i had to after having to stop half-way last year from the fires lol
yeah i remember i hope there better this year :)
So much better it’s been really rainy this year!
GUYS I THINK SHE MIGHT LIKE ME
- she hugs me a lot (she always runs up to me and hugs me)
- she had a secret that she only shared with me because she trusts me (she said that herself!!)
- she has made me two handmade gifts..one was a picture of a cute dog and the other was a bunny. so sweet!!
- she tells me things that she tells nobody else
The fact I do all of this to her and she barley does it back 🥲
😅 i feel u
My friend from dance studio is non-binary and i have a huge crush on my best friend we are still little i mean we are about 12,
100% signs in this video are true ! :)) 🏳️🌈🤟♥️
The person I'm here for is a real life tsundere, I'm usually the optimistic one calling her cute and stuff, and she brings the logic into everything and has a natural pessimism XD.
However, one time she also read an article about the result on a personality quiz I took, and asked me if I ever get worried she doesn't love me(as friends of course) as much as I love her. I told the truth and said I do get doubtful, and she straight up yelled, "Well DON'T idiot..."
Aw! I hope you manage to do it soon :)
My checklist~
1. Physical touch: nope, she gets really awkward (not only with me, she's not very comfortable with hugging and stuff in general) *I'm the one that hugged her and played with her hair (in the past because went to the same hs but then the pandemic happened)
2. Body language: she touches her hair a lot but is kinda like a tic and she's like this in front of anyone. *We had a video call today and I literally didn't stop touching my hair for the whole 4 hours...
3. Handmade gifts: yes, always, but she does that for all her friends
4. Looks at you when she laughs: no, she doesn't look at anyone, just rolls backwards from laughter lol
5. Texting: yes, she always messages me first but we don't talk that much
6. Attention: ummm...idk
7. We no longer have the same friend group so she does but it isn't necessarily bc she wants to spend time alone we just don't have friends in common.
8. Compliments: sometimes, she is observant of my appearance, always notices changes.
9. She has never asked me, she does bring the lgbtg+ subject up but like in general and today she mentioned her being gay like 3 times (she had never told me she was gay before, I just assumed she was queer a long time ago) but to be fair we were watching Luca so it just came up
10. Future together: yes...but like, doesn't everybody? I mean we talk about the future as if we will always be in contact with each other and she once mentioned something about aging together, like both of us helping each other through our illnesses but it was more like a joke...
Conclusion~
I looked this up because I suspected she liked me, but ended up discovering I'm the one who's doing all these. So I guess I'm the one that likes her lol
Final thoughts~
All of this happens more with my straight friends: sitting in each other's lap, compliments, inviting me alone to their house or to the movies or wtv, face timing, joking flirt, future together...my bff and I even compared our dream homes, cars, countries to travel to...so we can find an in-between. So we truly never know 😂🤦🏻♀️
Any updates?
@@radioaktivespaltung2495 I'm pretty busy with college lately so we haven't talked much but I'll let you know if anything happens 😂
Any updates?
My "straight" best friend always says "I wish we were cuddling right now" or "I had a dream I was making out with you" and I'm a full on lesbian so I was like😳
When the “how to know if a girl likes you” turns into “how to know if you like a girl”👌 perfect
I think we both like each other after this vid tho-
touch - yes. She wanted me to get on the scooter with her n she wanted me to grab her waist I freaked out inside
“The look” - we stared at each other lmao she wouldn’t even look away
She let me drive her car n she never lets anyone drive it like wtff
I’m the one who gets jealous, I can’t tell if she wants my attention, but we hang out a lot. But btw we work together. She got off work at 9 n I worked until 11. She went home to change n come back just for me n literally helped bc it got busy n I told her not to bc she wasn’t clocked in
She threw ice at me lmao
Her step dad made a joke to her saying “oh Haley’s coming out the closet” n she giggled
The problem is everyone asks her if she’s gay n she always says no. I just don’t think she’s out yet. This is crazy bc she’s my first girl crush w intense emotion. I’m blushing just typing this thinking ab last night w the scooter. I’m trying to wait n see. I really don’t want to embarrass myself n tell her n ruin it, but it feels so right. Please. The gay radar is so high on her HELP
Update we both admired it finally I knew it!!!
Wait... are you saying she has acknowledged that she likes you?? And has she done out of the closet yet? I have a crush on this girl and she’s done most of these signs. Especially with the prolonged staring. Like I catch her staring but she doesn’t look away. I say she’s gay, but she says she not. What do you think?
@@candipaasche4914 oh and also, everyone asked if she was gay and she also said no. Hmmm. Don’t always believe it . She could be shy
Congratulations on getting together! I met her last month when I was staying abroad. So a reasonably short time. But I’ll be sitting opposite her minding my own business and I’ll just catch her staring directly at me and not looking away. Then I stare back, both eyes locked on her and we both continue to stare without saying anything. Surely a straight girl would never do this even if she found a girl pretty or would they. I know I wouldn’t. Also when we’re in a group setting with like 5+ people, her attention would be mostly on me and she’ll try to start a conversation on the other side of the room by teasing me in front of all these people. Like she’ll only tell me to try a food from her country and no one else. Sometimes I’ll get embarrassed because I’m like do other people notice this? Also she’ll be so interested in my dating life and even though I tell her about it first, she’ll always bring it up and ask me how I REALLYYY feel about my male date. No other girl is this concerned. Sometimes it’s like we look into each others eyes and say to each other ‘you’re not fully straight or I like you’, but that could be just wishing thinking on my part. I’m just thinking she could just be very nice, but sometimes I’m not so sure... any thoughts?
Nobody:
Me: *Realises i do anything in the Video when i Near my Bff* 😳💧
As an aspie..this just all sounds draining. Might be the fear of abandonment though...🙃😇🙃🤪
#sapphicalone
Ok I need advices. There's this girl that I am friends with and I think (hope) that she might like me... Here are the signs I am basing my theory on :
1 )She complemented me on my new hair cut she said "This really suits you" and I felt like she was looking at me with the funny look, like THE look
2) She only had one boyfriend and said that it only lasted a month (the way she said it made me think that she wasn't really interested in dating guys)
What makes me hesitate :
1) We don't really talk by text... only IRL
2) I never asked her if she liked girls (mainly because I am scared of her reaction)
3) She could just be friendly ?
What do you guys think ? Like she is sooo beautiful but I don't want to lose her as a friend by asking her out...
Should I ask more questions ? Like what type of questions ?
PS : she doesn't know I'm gay
Idk if it will help you, because it about a month late.
Try to ask her about the LGBTQIA Community or maybe come out to her.
I noticed that one of my classmates who is a lesbian keeps looking at me, smiles and hides it, she has done this more than once, one of the times I noticed that she was looking at me, her friends noticed this and started laughing in class for no apparent reason. She also seems to be very kind, I really wanted to try to get to know her, but I'm too shy to take the initiative.
2:16 That fly really needed some advice
AHAHAHAH
This just made me realise how obvious I was 😭
SAME bro. SAME!
Same T^T
brb gonna cry my self to sleep cuz I do all these things but she does none.
I think these are pretty good but only if the woman you crush on is 1) already close to you 2) extroverted. I know that for myself as an introvert and shy lesbian I don't become touchy feely with a crush, I blush, I panic if she accidentally touches my hand, I steal glances at her without her noticing (or at least I try), I do act differently toward her than other people (I smile more, I feel like my eyes smile too, like if I had stars in them, etc) and yeah these are I suppose not easy signs to spot.
ahhh i needed this video so much! also realized i did lots of these things myself lol
Yaaaaay so glad it reached you when you needed it. Aw haha you’re good at giving the hints 😉
My best friend girl crush just straight up told me she was lesbian right after I told her I was 😁
I have a lot of evidence
We were talking about a book where a few of the characters were lgbt, and she said "I think it's really cool that the author added lgbt characters!"
She's said that multiple times
She's said that of we were in a book, we would 100% get shipped together
Someone in our class was using gay as an insult, and she was the only person to say that it wasn't an insult and she said it out loud right to his face
She told me she loved me, and then awkwardly said "not in that way" but it was very reluctant 🤔
She then told me that she didn't know what she would do without me
She's held my hand several times
She's told me that I was her number 1 best friend out of all of her friends
She emails me every second of the day and says that she leaves email open over the weekend just to see my emails whenever she can
Idk man what do you guys think
Also I kinda like her so-
Also, I haven't told her anything about my sexuality, and she hasn't either, so I can't really use that as evidence. But, she does frequently describe certain girls as being super pretty (those certain girls aren't me lmao).
She definitely likes you. I’m just now seeing this but did it work out ?
Did you ever tell her?
Donno about her but.....
I do qualify in all of this....
😅😂😅😂😅😂
🤣🤣🤣i just have confusion tht someone like me or not but ... After watching i have doubt about me am i gay huh'' WTF 👀👀 💀 wtf am i gay coz i do these stuffs bc she likes these things nd these things make her happy 👀 bruhhhhh WTF am i gay 👀👀💀
I didn't even watched it yet, but I know no girl ever liked me, so I'm sad 😕 But I'm gonna watch it anyway because oh well, maybe in the future, right?
Aw you never know though! This might be useful so you can give signs to someone you like, so they can easily know 😇
Hi I like you
I was trying to do this to figure out if my friend(basically crush) does these things, and I just realize I do pretty much everything in this video-
Me and my crush do everything till
2:37
Me and my crush rarely message but she is the first ome to message me 60% of the time
4:00 she does say my hair is long-
4:09 I started to have a crush on her since we were 11
Now I am 14-
So no sexuality talk-
I mean I talk about lgbtq with EVERYONE---
4:48 in our group chat
She once said
"??? Send me your pretty picture"
...
WE WERE FREAKING 11
You earned a sub I know my crush likes me
Hello! Genderfluid lesbean here 🥰 So I have a crush on this girl in my secondary school, she's in my year
We go to school play rehearsals, and hang out there
She also does this thing where she grabs the handle on my backpack and yoinks me towards her and ummmm ✨gay panic✨
She is openly a lesbean too btw
But I have no idea if she likes me even though she checks off most of the list here and I don't want to lose her as a friend :'(
I am planning to ask her out in a year or so, but I think she has a crush on someone else tho
It's a little bit of a weird situation, I was told 2 years ago by someone else that she likes me, at the time I didn't see her that way but over time I started to.
I definitely wouldn't classify the stuff we do as 'just friends', nor do I think either of us are willing to admit it yet.
Im talking whenever we spend the night with each other, cuddling and kissing each other on the hand/back, holding hands, being really close to/leaning on eachother, compliments, small gift giving, etc.
I feel like it's more obvious for me since I won't even let anyone be within a foot of me without backing up or putting my hand up to keep the distance and I don't like people touching me but I let her be as close as she wishes. She's kinda the same but less extreme.
I think It's pretty obvious to us but as I said, just not ready to admit it yet
One of my best friends asked me to go to a musical with her last night and I've had suspensions that she's gay for a while. She was doing all these things the entire night and it was so cute. I'm catching feelings so hopefully I'm right.
Oh yeahhhhhh and we were eating lunch in the school cafeteria yesterday and everybody else was leaving to go out and I was about to go with them and then she stopped me and told me to stay with her. I was the only one she asked.
This video is perfect for me!! I have a crush on my best friend. We go to school together and just to be weird and annoy the homophobes at our school we would walk around holding hands. But it started becoming more and more frequent to the point that whenever we were walking about campus whether it was before class during lunch during passing periods we would be holding hands. And i would make little jokes about how it’s totally platonic but every time she would respond with “no it’s not” and i never though anything of it i just thought it was a joke. But after watching this i’m seriously considering that she might have a crush on me and like i’m so happy if she does because she’s so sweet and she just makes me so happy!
update ?
1:54 I literally spat out my coffee that was so-
Y'all my crush is also my best friend and told me she is straight should I tell her just to get it off my chest ( I am Nb ace and lesbian so triple gay(that was a joke) so yeah)
I reallyyyyyyyyy like her. Like a lot. She was kinda what made me realized I’m a lesbian three years ago. And I’ve liked her on and off since, mostly on. The thing is, I feel like she likes me too. Like I just feel like she does. I can’t really explain it. When I talk to her she smiles and looks right into my eyes. She always blushes (it’s too adorable). She laughs at most of what I say even though must of what I say is just really stupid thoughts. I don’t know if it’s just me liking her that’s makes me see things that aren’t there. I hope it’s real.
Is this all theory or have you tried this on your ~very~ close gal pal? :-)
ahhah i mean, a tiny bit! But a lot of this is actually from experience with multiple people over my years, and some fellow gays experiences ive been told about.
OMG THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED TYSMMMMMM AAAAAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAH
YOU ARE SOOOOOO WELCOME!!!!
These are also good advice to straight male also. Genuine girls/women's may show their attraction same way and it doesn't matter what gender target is. Sadly I haven't seen these sights in years.
YES I didn’t even think about it this way, glad it also helps the guys out too haha. Who knows, maybe someone will surprise you next year 😏
Im Christian and i feel lesbian but i cant support it what do I do??
Funny thing is, I do ALL these things my crushes bro 😭
Me after the 5th thing: Yeah no I'm never gonna be with her😭
Aw don't cry 🥺
Such a good video, this should help a load of people who are new to dating... These are so accurate as well, I do all of these if I'm into someone... Maybe not the last one though... 😅😅
She didn't do any of these. I did. 🤩🤩🤩
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I THINK I LIKE HER 😅😅😅😅😅CAUSE I DO ALL THIS STOFF😅😅😅😅
She braid my hair and rubs my shoulders is that a good sign
There used to be a girl that I really liked when I was in year 4. I hated her at first bc she was always hanging out with my best friend, but then her and I became really close. She always used to hug me and call me cute. I acted like as if I didn’t like it but in reality I did. She would always cuddle with me anywhere we went. But she changed in year 5. She stopped hanging out with me but we were still friends, just not as close. In year 6 she started hugging me again but due to Covid my school had to shut down and I never got to see her again. She would also tell me so much abt lgbt during pe lessons whenever I’m benched. She was rlly into lgbt and she would ask me if I was gay but I didn’t wanna tell her. She said that it was okay if I was but I still denied. I couldn’t really tell if she liked me back or was just being too nice.
After watching this video I actually found out that all you said were my signs when I'm with my best friend. I think I have a crush on her. 😁