I really hope this helps you!! i believe in you, go get her!! SHARE UR STORIES/TIPS BELOW! 🌈🦋🤞Need to know if a girl is gay? ua-cam.com/video/HuwJiCsjj20/v-deo.html
I really need help, so ive been burned by a girl(my crush/bestfriend) before and its left me pretty messed up but i finally found another girl who i like even more, im pretty sure she does swing that way but not for sure yet. I dont know if she likes me or not, she is very touchy and talks to me a lot, we are bffs on snapchat (meaning we both text each other most), and she always tries to be near me at our team practices. But she also is touchy with a few other people so idk. Idk if it is just her personality or if she likes me, i will take abt any help now
One day maybe I'll tell her... maybe... Also from prior experience, here's some advice; if she says no, don't linger on it. Don't let it consume you to the point where you feel worthless without her. Fill your life with things that make you happy and one day you will find someone who loves you back
excellent advice, like i said, you dont wanna waste time on someone who doesn't like you back. you deserve someone who likes you as much as you like them. its possible, and the day will come! 🖤 gotta keep your head up!
i REFUSE to call myself a lesbian but im litterally in love with a girl and i cry all the time bc i thought i was homophobic and ive never been attracted to a girl before but i love her. help lmaooo
Aww. It's not easy. I'm loudly supportive of myself and other LGBTQ people and I still feel gross sometimes. But it really isn't gross. It's natural and it's beautiful and it's not as scary as it all seems. Much love to you 💖💖
Not me (who is possibly autistic) too afraid to say anything to her because she’s literally amazing, don’t want to jeopardize our friendship, and constantly confused by if she is flirting or not. she’s literally my best friend and she is a lesbian or bi (I can’t remember) so… Edit- GUYS!!! We’re dating now.
And honestly a big tip if you get rejected. Sure it sucks, but its way easier to accept and just move on once you've actually told them how you feel. When i was in uni i really liked a girl in my class, we got along really well, we would hang out everyday after class and i gave it a month before i decided to ask her out. But legit 2 minutes before i did, we were talking to someone and she mentioned she lived with her boyfriend. In my head i was like "FXXXXXXXK!!... Oh well, you win some you lose some" i ended up telling her a few minutes later, saying "yo i was literally about to ask if you were seeing anyone a few minutes ago before you mentioned you're boyfriend haha. But don't worry, i wont make it weird if you don't make it weird" and she completely understood it and were still good friends 3 years later. But after i said it and got a definitive answer, its such a heavy weight off your shoulders, even though its not the best case scenario
Great advice bby! Another idea - you can write them a little note, if you want a mix of in-person/"text". You can give it to them directly or leave it in their bag etc ♡
@Lisa Brealey I would have done, but like 2 weeks after posting that comment, someone in our friend group told me she has a crush on this other guy. Thanks for the advice though!
I am 13 and i am lesbian I am so scared to come out to my parents i knew my parents don't accept me as a lesbian I always cry But most of the time you use to make me smile thanku for all the confidence you gave me 💖 Now I fell much better and i love my self 💙💙
I understand it is really hard to hide who you are to your parents, or anyone for that matter when you know they already aren’t going to be supportive, I really hope you know you do not deserve your parents’ disrespect. You keep being proud of yourself, alright? ❤️🧡☁️💗💜
I used your advice yesterday (Jan 20, 2022) and WOW I’m actually going to go out on a date with her! Thank you so much! I think the most unique and useful tip for me was to ask how they’re doing before you tell them because it shows that you care about their well being ☺️
Hey! I don't usually comment but your videos have really helped me come to terms with liking girls. I've had these feelings for years but have been too scared or worried to tell anyone. These kinds of tips videos are so nice in letting me know I'm not alone and I can be myself!
I am in the situation. I have a huge-ass crush on my best friend. At first I was going to try to “shove my feelings into a box” because she was aroace, but recently she told me she’s figuring out her sexuality because there are AND I QUOTE “too many good looking women”. So I’m planning on telling her. Especially since the plans she and I have talked about in the past of moving in together seem like they just might be happening. I’m a very anxious person so I plan on telling her in through my art hobby, since it’s a way that will make me feel less anxious.
Thanks!! My lesbian friend, Farrah and I actually admitted that we liked each other but didn’t want her parents to know but now luckily she said that she told them and now I’m finally able to propose to her :,) FOR THE FIRST TIME I’M FINALLY MAKING THE FIRST MOVE- (after over 10 years-)
Hey old me. Yeah, she broke up with ya and moved away. Also, propose was definitely not the right word to use 💀 And I also got rejected by my best friend 😎💀
REPLYING AGAIN!! So ermm I actually ended up dating that girl that rejected me for a while, but we were in different schools and we both agreed we were better off as friends and agreed to never talk about the relationship again and continue as friends. Later on, I dated a girl named Jordyn, who I really liked. I enjoyed my time with her, and I felt really happy around her. We were practically almost inseparable, but I made a mistake in our relationship bc I suck and I ended up getting broken up with. If you're wondering what the mistake was, I was too "possessive" (She talked shit about me with the people that she talked bad about to me. She was apparently friends with the people even though she knew they talked shit about me for no reason. They just hated me for no reason too. I never even interacted with them, but one of them claimed that I was being rude to her) and she didn't like my "negativity." I ended up feeling really bad about myself, and she also said, "I don't want to break up with you. Let's just take a break," and I kept asking her if she was sure, and she eventually told me that she was saying that out of pity and that we could "still be friends." She then called me and started telling me some horrible things like "You're unbearable to talk to and your replies are bland" or "This is why no one likes you. You never listen" or "This is your fault. Everything is your fault, and that's how it'll always be" and "This is why you'll never keep a relationship." And then she started mocking me for crying. She then began to cry as well and started breaking down over the call, and I kept reassuring her that it was all my fault even though it was both of our faults. And then I started crying even more again because I really loved her and the fact that she thought all of this about me really hurt me, because before the breakup I'd always ask her if there was any problems in our relationship we needed to fix, and she always used to reassure me that we were fine. We used to talk about our problems together and everything, but she was apparently showing other people those text messages too. She said that she actually did love me and the whole "talking shit" thing started happening a month before the breakup. I hung up on her and then she kept trying to call me back and just texted me, "I'm sorry." We then had a little argument over text and I stopped talking to her for a few hours. She then called me again and texted me saying she would clarify what she meant, so I answered. She then just started to tell me that her online friend told her to apologize because she told them the entire situation. She then just started to show me freaking Hazbin Hotel p0rn saying it was funny and that her and her online friend watch it as a joke. I'm a people-pleaser, so when she kept asking me if I was fine with her showing it to me, I would say something along the lines of, "Yeah, I'm fine. I'm completely unphased by it." And she kept asking me if I could stay up later with her, and it was already like 3AM, but I kept saying "Okay, five more minutes." Eventually, she told me she started getting tired, so we both hung up and went to sleep. Keep in mind that this was a school day and that I wake up at 5:50. She also told everyone about the situation and kept making fun of me when I was having a breakdown in the bathroom, meanwhile she was just laughing with her friends. (this happened before the call. The breakup happened on Friday) And each time I told her I wanted to talk to her and apologize in private, she would say "Why not do it here? You can't be that pathetic, can you? If you really loved me you would do it in public," and then her little friends would just laugh and nod along. God, she was such a bitch bro. We ended up talking after school at some building, and she apparently brought her friends along, so while I was crying and blaming myself, she was smiling and looking behind me at her little friends quietly laughing from behind me. (Again, this is still on Friday. Later on we ended up calling). Back to Monday after the call and breakup, of course I was scared to go to school because everyone hated me and she deleted the texts of her mocking me. The school day went out just fine, but I felt pretty empty. I had no one to look forward to seeing, calling, and talking to every day. I sat alone for a while, then my old friend started sitting with me and sided with me. She was friends with Jordyn too, but she ended up dropping her because Jordyn talked shit about me again in front of her, and they threatened her that if she told anyone, they'd spread rumors about her. (Keep in mind that she's one of the "weird kids" so they'll believe any rumor that goes out about her). More people began to side with me when I told them the real situation. Months later, I'd already moved on, but I looked pathetic, and it really bugged me. I also had some things I wanted to say to her, so I unblocked and texted her because she didn't have me blocked for some reason. I told her stuff like "I've already moved on" and "I know you'll show this to your friends or something, but maybe that'll make me seem like less of the psychotic, suicidal maniac you describe me as" and "I am glad that we both moved on from this chapter of our lives, and I hope you are doing great right now as I am." She ended up saying something like "Yeah, I've moved on too. I've been wanting to say something to you for a while now too, so I'm glad you texted me." And she apologized for everything and said she's not like that anymore. We both had a little laugh about what we used to be like at the time (She was a Hazbin Hotel, BoJack Horseman, Penelope Scott-obsessed maniac that was popular, and I was an Omori, Penelope Scott, Project Sekai-obsessed loser that had no one to talk to but her. We were pretty goofy at the time, I could say), and then we agreed that we wouldn't be friends but we would no longer hate or talk shit about each other. This was like two months ago. Right now, I think I might have a crush on my friend, but I'm not really sure. I'd prefer for both of us to stay as best friends, though, so I'm going to just ignore the crush thing. I'd prefer to stay single, anyway. 😱
I have this girl that I like, and we’ve grown a lot closer over the past couple of weeks. She has said multiple times that she is open for anything and just discovering herself in terms of sexuality. It is now Christmas break and I’m gonna see her in the first week of January. We are going for a long walk trough the forest and then make a nice lunch together. I’m so scared that if I tell her I ruin the friendship. And I’m also in the same class (a class of 6) so I do have to see her a lot. I’m really debating with myself if I should tell her or not, also with my sight on the fact that I’m moving next year....👉👈
Im in a similar situation… I talk to her every day on the phone and part of me is convinced she likes me too and the other half thinks she doesn’t. I dont want to ruin the friendship Good luck with your crush
I made an original alphabet, sent it to her so she can read the language, and wrote a love letter to her in the language. Some lesbians (such as me) are really extravagant with their gayness
I NEED TO ASK HER OUT LIKE THIS. we already know we like each other and we're kind of acting like we're dating rn but I GENUINELY DONT KNOW IF WE'RE DATING OR NOT so im gonna use this strategy to ask her if we are, and IF NOT, im gonna ask her out soon, possibly around valentines day (for obvious reasons). thank you bunches for this idea
So....i told her and i lost her but i understand she's not for me so i will wait . For the right one Lauren you always give me a hope thank god you exist
When I told my best friend I liked her I decided to do it in person but over the last few weeks I'd been developing a letter in the Notes app on my phone and I gave her my phone to read. I actually wanted to tell her nearly everything cause I was also coming out at the same time and there were other things about our friendship I wanted to tell her. I even included brittana quotes from glee cause we're both gleeks! In our conversation after her reading it I joked it was a work of art, I was really proud of my literary composition 😂 So I'm just saying you don't have to just say "I like you" if you don't want to, you can do whatever you want. If you want, make it special! ❤️
Great advice I remember the first time I saw my wife..I was in awe. We were not out...she is and was my best friend. I toke it slow even tho it would hurt I toke my time to announce that I liked her....being with her was enough at the time. I heard see had a crush having the same friends she had told a friend she liked a girl.....my heart sunk. My move was holding her hand that I could play off....but she grasped my hand...instant butterflies in my stomach I still remember it. Point is sometimes saying I like you isn't the best. If she likes you don't overthink she will reciprocate in other ways.. looking at you oddly....I had no idea luv is blind they say Our relationship grew to us coming out together we were 14 at the time. Falling in luv is hard...saying I like you tough saying I do.....is everything.
Thank you for sharing ur experience ❤️. I am kinda in the same situation as u were ... She is my friend we knew each other for few weeks now and our relationship developed soooo faast lately 💕✨ which is good and heartwarming 🥺 but i still feel scared 💔 ... She did the first move asked 4 my number she is soooo touchy and i love that ... I am a baby gay 😅 i just came out 2weeks to my friends she was happy and excited for me ,she kew she was gay from the primary school (we are almost 20 now) but she was rejected many times ...i really like her and i bett that she does too but m still scared of saying it... She is hinting all the time but idk if it's the right time to go for it...
If only I had the confidence to do this,me and her are so awkward and shy but mostly her but it's so cute I realized I had feelings for her a few months ago and now I can't stop thinking about her, she's so pretty even if she says she isn't, and I like holding her hand and when she pushes her hair back which is almost all the time cause it short and get in her way It's just so- Ahh😭
Great advice as always and have been there and it’s so scary but it’s better to tell than it eating you away. Love this video and all your videos thank you so much
Thank you for this video Lauren!! Could you please make another video sharing how to forget someone? I fall in love with someone who's impossible like me back but I love her so much and I'm suffering a lot 😭
Lauren your a very bright young women and I am proud of your accomplishments so far you are a romodel to many and a very good one your video was great 😌
I am learning to be cool and not jump into anything anymore I just meet this girl through our discord group and wasn't expecting catching feelings day one even though we been talking for a while and felt a connection.
mmh, I have a bigger problem tbh And idk if ANYONE has lived that too but- When I was 11, I discovered i liked girls. So instead of embracing it and everything i stopped being friend with girls. I was scared that ppl would find out and i felt like i was a "predator" (like girls trusted me with sm and then my gay ass was in love with a girl every month and i tought it was disgusting and weird so i felt like i was a bad person for liking them) So i just stopped talking to girls. I only had boy friends and i was cold with girls. I came out this summer, bc i was finally ready and tired of hiding. (i'm 17 yo atm) But, well... Idk how to talk to ppl now. I'm not really sociable in general and i made my actual friends by talking abt videogames only, and i used to be scared of girls so... not a great combo. I'm friend with 2 straight girls tho that also plays videogames now, but it's bc they were friends of friends yk. I can engage the conversation with boys, but never with girls. I have a crush on this girl in my class, she's always so happy and smiling and I find her very cute and i like to talk to her when we do (well only 3/4 times) but then i always end up by running away. Our last conversation went like: Me: *Get a paper by a teacher that I must give to the girl i crush on* Me: *Go and give it to her* Her: *Smiling and nodding* omg thank you so much it's really nice of you ! :D (it really was her smile lmao, yes for a piece of paper that i brought to her. Hope you can understand why i crush... she shine so brightly) Me: *already leaving even before she spoke* No problem *head down and looking away* BISHHH i hate myself Anyway that was my nervous gay ass breaking my heart again Have a nice day y'all also great video
I love her so much. But you’re so right, it’s very hard to risk an amazing friendship. Funny thing is, I told her a while back I like her. I still didn’t get a clear answer. During that time I waited, she was going through a difficult time. But recently we’ve gotten so close, she says I love you a lot but I don’t know how she means it. Please give me some advice, I’m not sure if I should tell her again. P.s. I told her the first time through a letter, never said it in person.
Question: the girl I like is straight but she keeps giving signs that she might consider doing something with a girl, and when I asked her if she’d ever date a girl she said “probably not, but no one’s 100% not fruity.” She’s also personally said to me that if she ever comes out she’s calling me up, and that if she was a lesbian she would date me. She’s also had a crush on a girl before but still claims to be straight. What do I do?
I’d say confess your feelings. She either has feelings/isn’t sure about her feelings/ or doesn’t like you back. The fact she said she’d date you if she was gay makes me think there’s a LITTLE bit of feelings there
i legit just flat out told her an hour ago. she didn’t like me back, but she understood and its a normal feeling to have. she was happy i told her and said she wasn’t uncomfortable with me telling her.
That’s so true, good friends don’t care… I’m lesbian and o remember I quite disappointed a friend of mine because I didn’t love him back the same way… so yeah, he probably was different for a while and then we kept on going out. I loved him like my brother, unfortunately he passed away. So yes, friendship survive if it’s real.❤
I've been in love with a straight girl for four years, we've gotten really close despite my feelings for her. I write music about her and we do theater together and she's so beautiful and funny and amazing. Her boyfriend is the luckiest person in the world. I love her so much and I'm trying to move on but it's so hard (she's also going to college next year and I'm a few years younger so it would really be in my best interest to let her go) and I don't know whether to tell her how I feel or not. Like I know she's straight and there is no good reaction to hope for but I feel like I've been lying to her for our whole friendship and I feel worse about it every day.
I am so nervous, like my heart is beating so fast - i have another bi friend who is supporting me to tell her and I AM SO NERVOUS LIKE I AM SHAKING, She is bi, and i know her for 5 months now and I DON'T THINK THAT NORMAL FRIENDS CAN TALK 10 HOURS STRAIGHT BECAUSE WE DID IT, AND SHE PLAY PIANO FOR ME AND SING AND GAHHHHHHH THAT SHINE IN HER EYES I JUST CANTTTT I AM GOING TO CONFES TO HER AND I HOPE FOR BEST
For the girl I like she has homophobic parents but still loves lgbtq I’m so unsure if I should tell her she’s said she’s kissed a girl before and told me many things no one new about her I just don’t wanna ruin are friendship
First I gotta make enough sense from my brain to know which one of my 2 crushes I want more: the 99% probably straight cutie or the pansexual girl I don't even know do I like 😂😭🤦
(i know that i am late to the vid but idc) I told my crush i liked her, but she is straight and she is already dating someone at the moment (┬┬﹏┬┬) but i know that i'll find someone one day
So this didn’t happen to me but I have a friend and she liked her best friend (also a girl) a lot. So she decided to give her a letter so she could see the others reaction and give her space too. It ended up being that they both liked each other and they have been dating 4 months-ish.
I liked my best friend but the thing is, i don't have the guts to tell her. We ended the friendship a while ago because she was a really crappy friend and i don't even know why I like her. It hurts but it was the best decision.
Hoping she doesn’t see this lol, My best friend I met 8 months ago is literally everything to me. I broke up with my boyfriend a little more than a month ago because I had feelings for her (and also he’s very homophobic). She is taking me to California in 2 months, where we will be going to the beach and she claims she has a surprise over there. She is the person to sort of flirt with everyone, so it’s really hard to read how she feels. She is lesbian, and single- but asking her stresses me out so much. Everytbing you mentioned and i’m not sure if it’s the best time, she is about to graduate and we are moving in together (as roommates) next year, we love the same music- but I just don’t know how to muster up the courage to go for it. I love your advice, but I need to build the courage first!
it’s been a year and I wanted to confirm her so bad but I’m afraid she’s not having the same feelings. but every time I see her there’s like a chemistry between us
I meet a girl this year and were going to be best friend she know my secrets and at the same time shes my comfort place i dont know the days past and months i feel like i had a feelings for her but now she tell that she had a boyfriend and then i was like feel sad but at the same time happy for her to find one, but she dint know what i feel that im into her. Maybe i keep it until my feeling's gone 😕
I really like this girl in my class... I'm pretty sure she likes a guy and he likes her. She brought It Up today, I felt so jealous I just sat there for the rest of lunch staring off into space.. I kinda wanted to cry. And she kinda knows I like her and she acts like it's no big deal. She was hugging her friend from behind and was like "I bet your jealous" and one time she was like "ew I'm not gay" so I said I didn't actually like her and she dropped it and Did not really mention it alot and we're still kinda friends. I wish she liked me :(
I have been trying to tell my crush/best friend I am 11 6th grade she is 11 6th grade we are both girls part of LGBTQ name Harley me Sophia but I like to be called Wolfe this vid is very helpful I,m gonna tell/ask her to be my Valentine wish me luck and don,t worry she knows I like her
My crush just told me she's got a boyfriend, but she still likes girls. Right now I'm so heart-broken idk what to do, I'm so upside. I've been waiting to tell her I like her for ages but I've never had the courage 😔 and now she's with someone else
that is happening with me, too! my crush was a lesbian for 2 years, and she made out with me before. but, we weren’t ready to date just yet. a month ago, she got a boyfriend. i was too late to tell her i was ready for a relationship. i don’t even know if she likes girls anymore. she got her phone taken away, and i can’t talk to her (i don’t ever see her at school, our classes are weird). i just wish i could tell her, but i don’t want things to be awkward because i know she is straight now :/
I asked her whether she thought of dating women and she said yes... I asked her what's your type ? She said she doesn't have any... She is exploring And then yesterday I finally confessed her how I feel for her... But she kindly rejected me...
I am like sooooo close with her (she’s gay too) and she always flirts with me We liked each other or a little while but we were both to scared I hope she likes me
I'm turning 11 in a few weeks and have found out that I was lesbian after I kept on imaging scenarios with my best friend (she a girl) and with me doing things with her and loving her and doing everything with her, but I forced that thought out my head. I'm very good at hiding my true feeling from myself and others as I've done it alot of my life due to not feeling as if I fit in anywhere. I mean no where. Not school or at home, with ,y family, I'm kinda and odd person and thar makes me have barely any friends. That why I don't feel alot of feeling though I can if I want to express my feelings. I'm kinda a mess right now. I also have a crush though it isn't a big one on a girl in my class.
Aw man, I hope you find where you fit someday. It's hard Yk? I honestly don't know where a fit either. I think im pansexual, but idk if that label really fits me? Im sorta confused 😅. I hope me and you find where we fit in this world. Im considering just putting myself as unlabeled because that seems to kinda fit. But Ill see where it goes Yk? Hopefully u respond it's okie if not. See ya :))
aw im sorry she didn't feel the same way! you gotta move on, you deserve someone who is gonna like you for you! 🖤 fill your life with things that make you happy and people to help you keep distracted!
I consider myself “straight”. I’m 29 years old, married to a man & have only dated or been attracted to men my whole life. I met this woman at work about a year ago & I don’t know how to explain it but something pulls me to her. I feel a great connection but it’s not sexual it is more emotional/ intellectual, but I could also definitely kiss her. I have been suppressing the way I feel well… for obvious reasons, but recently she started showing me more attention & is kindof showing that she feels the same way. Idk though 🙄🤦🏼♀️
Everything is right but when it comes to give her reason why i love her its hard because i cant think of any reason it just happened all of a sudden i dont know when and where I've fallen in love with her i just realised that i love her so much i had so many crush in my past life and i know why i love these people in my past life but for her i can't think of any reason in my mind why i love her one thing i know i know is that I've never fallen in love like this before i think i believe that true love comes only once in our life and i think it's definitely her but the point is that i don't think im gonna tell her how i feel because were not even friend just classmate and how am i supposed to tell her that i love if i can't even accept myself that im lesbian
The problem is that I have already told her that I love her, but she just continues the conversation as it was without anything. I'm stumped lol Tysm for the video, your work is really helpful~~
I've been debating if I should tell her or not. we've been friends for good while and she flirts a lot with me but sometimes jokingly especially since she kinda backpedaled on it recently. she said she had a crush on me and always sends poems or makes stuff for me. but literally yesterday I made a post saying I wanted a gf (which was aimed at her) and she reposted it which gives me hope. but idk I don't want scare her away bc she said she never been with a girl before.
I am so fucking confused. So I definitely like my bff but idk if she likes be back at all. We both know so much about each other and we've grown our relationship so much in just a year if knowing each other (literally, we just did a mini celebration for knowing each other for a year). We've always kinda had that flirty joking thing going on and we make A LOT of dirty jokes together. Then she broke up with her girlfriend and I realized I had liked her. I'm SUPER CONFUSED so if anyone wants more information to try and help, please doooo 🙃🙃🙃🙃
I’m like this girl. I don’t normally like people in general, people don’t normally want to be friends with me. This girl moved here from Korea a year ago, and her English is not great. I am only 13 so it is weird to ask if she is gay. Also I don’t know what I am. She is my only friend and I need help. I really don’t want to lose her but things are getting weird between us. I have no one to talk to and I am really confused.
Tysm for tips!! I'm not scared too much to tell her, I just think that telling her could change her opinion about me, ruin our friendship ect. but I really wanna tell her soon. I'm more excited than scared. Again tysm for the tips!! (Btw sorry for my trash english)
So there is a girl on my school that I know that has a crush on me, I know that because one of her friends that is in my class told me. I don't really know the girl, I've never actually talked to her. I want to see the vide yk not dive into a relationship instantly because it would be my first one. Do I instantly tell her? Just like that I meet her on school and tell her "Wanna hangout after school?" or what is the best option to do in this situation? I don't want it to be akward yk
I hope that one day i could tell her... My brothers know it but they dont care at all, my mom does'nt and my dad too and he would NEVER support me. that is why i am stressed: because i have no one that supports me; they dont know or they just dont care...and i feel really bad because of this... But thank you soooo much for posting this video i appreciate it (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
When nobody support you it is hard, but don’t feel bad because of it. You are good person, love yourself no matter what others think of you. Never give up to fight for you. You have support of all of us here. Keep going! 💪❤🏳️🌈
I’m too scared to tell my best friend how I feel about her because she is the one person I tell everything to. If I lost her, it would feel like a part of me went missing…as cheesy as that sounds.
in general i was always describing myself as hetero and still im not attracted to woman but lately i've met a girl and i have a crush on her since 2 months maybe lol it feels weird and i have no idea how to show her that i have feelings for her. Three weeks ago i sent her a song which is called "i wanna be your girlfriend" and she liked it etc but nothing changed and now idk what should i doooo couse we're not even friends u know .. pls help me guys
N worst of all is when you really like her, but you're both on the same group of friends, and you feel kind of it will be destroyed if you'd start dating and then cut off
I have a tip! If you are telling a girl you like her, tell her in a cute but not overwhelming way. Maybe on a nature walk,or maybe bring her some flowers. That's how I did it! Remember the girl might not like you back and you can't change her mind!
I really hope this helps you!! i believe in you, go get her!! SHARE UR STORIES/TIPS BELOW! 🌈🦋🤞Need to know if a girl is gay? ua-cam.com/video/HuwJiCsjj20/v-deo.html
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I really need help, so ive been burned by a girl(my crush/bestfriend) before and its left me pretty messed up but i finally found another girl who i like even more, im pretty sure she does swing that way but not for sure yet. I dont know if she likes me or not, she is very touchy and talks to me a lot, we are bffs on snapchat (meaning we both text each other most), and she always tries to be near me at our team practices. But she also is touchy with a few other people so idk. Idk if it is just her personality or if she likes me, i will take abt any help now
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I love ur flag in the background, where did u get it?
I love girl and I need a girl friend in cameroon I need a girlfriend please help me
One day maybe I'll tell her... maybe...
Also from prior experience, here's some advice; if she says no, don't linger on it. Don't let it consume you to the point where you feel worthless without her. Fill your life with things that make you happy and one day you will find someone who loves you back
excellent advice, like i said, you dont wanna waste time on someone who doesn't like you back. you deserve someone who likes you as much as you like them. its possible, and the day will come! 🖤 gotta keep your head up!
I'm not looking for someone to just love me back in that case I might as well use dating apps 😭
She will reject you 🗿
Im a Christian and im bi and im okay with it!!! All the Christians that hate on lbtgq is not right. God made us this way!!!!! 😊😊😊😊
I’m Christian and bi as well and I completely agree!!!
Me too ❤
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I’m a catholic pan
i REFUSE to call myself a lesbian but im litterally in love with a girl and i cry all the time bc i thought i was homophobic and ive never been attracted to a girl before but i love her. help lmaooo
Aww. It's not easy. I'm loudly supportive of myself and other LGBTQ people and I still feel gross sometimes. But it really isn't gross. It's natural and it's beautiful and it's not as scary as it all seems. Much love to you 💖💖
Hey, it'll be okay. It's okay to be a lesbian, and accepting yourself is the first step in living your life the way you want to.
@@user-yq4dj1so8o that's nice but what if I'm bi???
Lmao thats me
I thought i was trans bc of that too but i was just lesbian💀
Then call yourself bi, if youve been attracted to boys aswell ofc
i fumbled so bad, i hope she realizes i really like her and Im just dumb and shy, i become aloof when i panick 😭
Not me (who is possibly autistic) too afraid to say anything to her because she’s literally amazing, don’t want to jeopardize our friendship, and constantly confused by if she is flirting or not. she’s literally my best friend and she is a lesbian or bi (I can’t remember) so…
Edit- GUYS!!! We’re dating now.
Yessssssssss! Love that for you 😊
Congrats mate 🎉
Congrats!
CONGRATSSSS🤩💯❤
Luckyyyyyy. Congrats tho dude
You are like the elder lesbian sister I never had but needed...
:') this is so sweet! im here virtually for you! 💗
yes me too 🧡🤍💓💜
Same
Thank you @@laurenelloise
And honestly a big tip if you get rejected. Sure it sucks, but its way easier to accept and just move on once you've actually told them how you feel.
When i was in uni i really liked a girl in my class, we got along really well, we would hang out everyday after class and i gave it a month before i decided to ask her out. But legit 2 minutes before i did, we were talking to someone and she mentioned she lived with her boyfriend. In my head i was like "FXXXXXXXK!!... Oh well, you win some you lose some" i ended up telling her a few minutes later, saying "yo i was literally about to ask if you were seeing anyone a few minutes ago before you mentioned you're boyfriend haha. But don't worry, i wont make it weird if you don't make it weird" and she completely understood it and were still good friends 3 years later. But after i said it and got a definitive answer, its such a heavy weight off your shoulders, even though its not the best case scenario
Great advice bby! Another idea - you can write them a little note, if you want a mix of in-person/"text". You can give it to them directly or leave it in their bag etc ♡
yes yes yes~ love this idea!!
Yeah
Im gonna do it (* -*)♡°.•
yesss- i love the idea of leaving it in their bag. that’s so cute
@@laurenelloiseI love this video lot
"I was heavily in love with my bff but I Don't want to hurt the friendship that's been going on for years"
Me :GIRL SAME
I've known my crush for 6 years, still haven't told her 😭😭😭
yeah same 😭
no same
@Lisa Brealey I would have done, but like 2 weeks after posting that comment, someone in our friend group told me she has a crush on this other guy. Thanks for the advice though!
Same...
How the heck did you know I needed this video? LOLL. You always make such creative and helpful videos! Thank you!!!! ❤️
yay happy to help! so glad this reached you at the right time
Also another way is tell her on April fools day. Then if they say no you can say APRIL FOOLS!
i mean,,, yes this could save you haha 💗
hahaha yess
I am 13 and i am lesbian I am so scared to come out to my parents i knew my parents don't accept me as a lesbian I always cry
But most of the time you use to make me smile thanku for all the confidence you gave me 💖
Now I fell much better and i love my self 💙💙
You don't have to tell anyone ig you're lesbian :) but if you want to do it, it's your decision. Remember, you're amazing the way you are ♡
@@Aliloukooo thanku 😢☺
I understand it is really hard to hide who you are to your parents, or anyone for that matter when you know they already aren’t going to be supportive, I really hope you know you do not deserve your parents’ disrespect. You keep being proud of yourself, alright? ❤️🧡☁️💗💜
@@jannejoel6637 💖💖
Everything is going to be fine okey , don't feel bad okey
I used your advice yesterday (Jan 20, 2022) and WOW I’m actually going to go out on a date with her! Thank you so much! I think the most unique and useful tip for me was to ask how they’re doing before you tell them because it shows that you care about their well being ☺️
Hey! I don't usually comment but your videos have really helped me come to terms with liking girls. I've had these feelings for years but have been too scared or worried to tell anyone. These kinds of tips videos are so nice in letting me know I'm not alone and I can be myself!
:)
I am in the situation. I have a huge-ass crush on my best friend. At first I was going to try to “shove my feelings into a box” because she was aroace, but recently she told me she’s figuring out her sexuality because there are AND I QUOTE “too many good looking women”. So I’m planning on telling her. Especially since the plans she and I have talked about in the past of moving in together seem like they just might be happening. I’m a very anxious person so I plan on telling her in through my art hobby, since it’s a way that will make me feel less anxious.
Did you ever tell her??
good luck i hope it went well !!
DID U TELL HER?
We need to know did you tell her?!?
Thanks!! My lesbian friend, Farrah and I actually admitted that we liked each other but didn’t want her parents to know but now luckily she said that she told them and now I’m finally able to propose to her :,)
FOR THE FIRST TIME I’M FINALLY MAKING THE FIRST MOVE- (after over 10 years-)
Hey old me. Yeah, she broke up with ya and moved away. Also, propose was definitely not the right word to use 💀
And I also got rejected by my best friend 😎💀
@@susoansnhsusiujisuBro are you ok?
@@susoansnhsusiujisu it's funny how u replayed to ur self after 2 yrs 😭😭😭
REPLYING AGAIN!!
So ermm I actually ended up dating that girl that rejected me for a while, but we were in different schools and we both agreed we were better off as friends and agreed to never talk about the relationship again and continue as friends. Later on, I dated a girl named Jordyn, who I really liked. I enjoyed my time with her, and I felt really happy around her. We were practically almost inseparable, but I made a mistake in our relationship bc I suck and I ended up getting broken up with. If you're wondering what the mistake was, I was too "possessive" (She talked shit about me with the people that she talked bad about to me. She was apparently friends with the people even though she knew they talked shit about me for no reason. They just hated me for no reason too. I never even interacted with them, but one of them claimed that I was being rude to her) and she didn't like my "negativity." I ended up feeling really bad about myself, and she also said, "I don't want to break up with you. Let's just take a break," and I kept asking her if she was sure, and she eventually told me that she was saying that out of pity and that we could "still be friends." She then called me and started telling me some horrible things like "You're unbearable to talk to and your replies are bland" or "This is why no one likes you. You never listen" or "This is your fault. Everything is your fault, and that's how it'll always be" and "This is why you'll never keep a relationship." And then she started mocking me for crying. She then began to cry as well and started breaking down over the call, and I kept reassuring her that it was all my fault even though it was both of our faults. And then I started crying even more again because I really loved her and the fact that she thought all of this about me really hurt me, because before the breakup I'd always ask her if there was any problems in our relationship we needed to fix, and she always used to reassure me that we were fine. We used to talk about our problems together and everything, but she was apparently showing other people those text messages too. She said that she actually did love me and the whole "talking shit" thing started happening a month before the breakup. I hung up on her and then she kept trying to call me back and just texted me, "I'm sorry." We then had a little argument over text and I stopped talking to her for a few hours. She then called me again and texted me saying she would clarify what she meant, so I answered. She then just started to tell me that her online friend told her to apologize because she told them the entire situation. She then just started to show me freaking Hazbin Hotel p0rn saying it was funny and that her and her online friend watch it as a joke. I'm a people-pleaser, so when she kept asking me if I was fine with her showing it to me, I would say something along the lines of, "Yeah, I'm fine. I'm completely unphased by it." And she kept asking me if I could stay up later with her, and it was already like 3AM, but I kept saying "Okay, five more minutes." Eventually, she told me she started getting tired, so we both hung up and went to sleep. Keep in mind that this was a school day and that I wake up at 5:50.
She also told everyone about the situation and kept making fun of me when I was having a breakdown in the bathroom, meanwhile she was just laughing with her friends. (this happened before the call. The breakup happened on Friday) And each time I told her I wanted to talk to her and apologize in private, she would say "Why not do it here? You can't be that pathetic, can you? If you really loved me you would do it in public," and then her little friends would just laugh and nod along. God, she was such a bitch bro. We ended up talking after school at some building, and she apparently brought her friends along, so while I was crying and blaming myself, she was smiling and looking behind me at her little friends quietly laughing from behind me. (Again, this is still on Friday. Later on we ended up calling). Back to Monday after the call and breakup, of course I was scared to go to school because everyone hated me and she deleted the texts of her mocking me. The school day went out just fine, but I felt pretty empty. I had no one to look forward to seeing, calling, and talking to every day. I sat alone for a while, then my old friend started sitting with me and sided with me. She was friends with Jordyn too, but she ended up dropping her because Jordyn talked shit about me again in front of her, and they threatened her that if she told anyone, they'd spread rumors about her. (Keep in mind that she's one of the "weird kids" so they'll believe any rumor that goes out about her). More people began to side with me when I told them the real situation. Months later, I'd already moved on, but I looked pathetic, and it really bugged me. I also had some things I wanted to say to her, so I unblocked and texted her because she didn't have me blocked for some reason. I told her stuff like "I've already moved on" and "I know you'll show this to your friends or something, but maybe that'll make me seem like less of the psychotic, suicidal maniac you describe me as" and "I am glad that we both moved on from this chapter of our lives, and I hope you are doing great right now as I am." She ended up saying something like "Yeah, I've moved on too. I've been wanting to say something to you for a while now too, so I'm glad you texted me." And she apologized for everything and said she's not like that anymore. We both had a little laugh about what we used to be like at the time (She was a Hazbin Hotel, BoJack Horseman, Penelope Scott-obsessed maniac that was popular, and I was an Omori, Penelope Scott, Project Sekai-obsessed loser that had no one to talk to but her. We were pretty goofy at the time, I could say), and then we agreed that we wouldn't be friends but we would no longer hate or talk shit about each other. This was like two months ago. Right now, I think I might have a crush on my friend, but I'm not really sure. I'd prefer for both of us to stay as best friends, though, so I'm going to just ignore the crush thing. I'd prefer to stay single, anyway. 😱
i really enjoy you're videos it's just i luv you're energy and the chill fem vibes u give of💞💞💞🌈
aww this is so sweet, im v happy to hear! thank you so much ❤️❤️
I have this girl that I like, and we’ve grown a lot closer over the past couple of weeks. She has said multiple times that she is open for anything and just discovering herself in terms of sexuality. It is now Christmas break and I’m gonna see her in the first week of January. We are going for a long walk trough the forest and then make a nice lunch together. I’m so scared that if I tell her I ruin the friendship. And I’m also in the same class (a class of 6) so I do have to see her a lot. I’m really debating with myself if I should tell her or not, also with my sight on the fact that I’m moving next year....👉👈
Hey so did u tell her
Im in a similar situation… I talk to her every day on the phone and part of me is convinced she likes me too and the other half thinks she doesn’t. I dont want to ruin the friendship
Good luck with your crush
Good luck!You got this!//
I'm in a very similar situation right now, so I wonder if you did tell her and what happened in the end
I made an original alphabet, sent it to her so she can read the language, and wrote a love letter to her in the language.
Some lesbians (such as me) are really extravagant with their gayness
I NEED TO ASK HER OUT LIKE THIS.
we already know we like each other and we're kind of acting like we're dating rn but I GENUINELY DONT KNOW IF WE'RE DATING OR NOT so im gonna use this strategy to ask her if we are, and IF NOT, im gonna ask her out soon, possibly around valentines day (for obvious reasons). thank you bunches for this idea
No fucking way, I did the same thing :O how tf is this a common thing, making a whole alphabet that only your crush knows the "code" to hah
@@fritzdaditz lol
@@fritzdaditz Fr is this a crush thing or something 😭
Me: "Someday i'll tell her🥰" My anxiety: "NEVER! EVER! NEVER!😈" Also me: "😭🤧"
Fax 😭
So....i told her and i lost her but i understand she's not for me so i will wait . For the right one Lauren you always give me a hope thank god you exist
When I told my best friend I liked her I decided to do it in person but over the last few weeks I'd been developing a letter in the Notes app on my phone and I gave her my phone to read. I actually wanted to tell her nearly everything cause I was also coming out at the same time and there were other things about our friendship I wanted to tell her. I even included brittana quotes from glee cause we're both gleeks! In our conversation after her reading it I joked it was a work of art, I was really proud of my literary composition 😂
So I'm just saying you don't have to just say "I like you" if you don't want to, you can do whatever you want. If you want, make it special! ❤️
@@shadowcat4529 woah this is so cute ❤
Great advice I remember the first time I saw my wife..I was in awe. We were not out...she is and was my best friend. I toke it slow even tho it would hurt I toke my time to announce that I liked her....being with her was enough at the time.
I heard see had a crush having the same friends she had told a friend she liked a girl.....my heart sunk. My move was holding her hand that I could play off....but she grasped my hand...instant butterflies in my stomach I still remember it.
Point is sometimes saying I like you isn't the best. If she likes you don't overthink she will reciprocate in other ways.. looking at you oddly....I had no idea luv is blind they say
Our relationship grew to us coming out together we were 14 at the time. Falling in luv is hard...saying I like you tough saying I do.....is everything.
Thank you for sharing ur experience ❤️. I am kinda in the same situation as u were ... She is my friend we knew each other for few weeks now and our relationship developed soooo faast lately 💕✨ which is good and heartwarming 🥺 but i still feel scared 💔 ... She did the first move asked 4 my number she is soooo touchy and i love that ... I am a baby gay 😅 i just came out 2weeks to my friends she was happy and excited for me ,she kew she was gay from the primary school (we are almost 20 now) but she was rejected many times ...i really like her and i bett that she does too but m still scared of saying it... She is hinting all the time but idk if it's the right time to go for it...
She is almost said it .but ..... Idkkkk🥺💔
Should i ask her out first ...or should I confess over text ... I really want to say it face to face ...but idk how?? Plz help
Aww thats so sweet!
If only I had the confidence to do this,me and her are so awkward and shy but mostly her but it's so cute I realized I had feelings for her a few months ago and now I can't stop thinking about her, she's so pretty even if she says she isn't, and I like holding her hand and when she pushes her hair back which is almost all the time cause it short and get in her way It's just so-
Ahh😭
I'm relating to this so hard except the hand holding thing cause I'm too awkward 😅😆
Great advice as always and have been there and it’s so scary but it’s better to tell than it eating you away. Love this video and all your videos thank you so much
It really is! dont want anyone else to suffer like i did for years haha, and thank you!!
Thank you for this video Lauren!! Could you please make another video sharing how to forget someone? I fall in love with someone who's impossible like me back but I love her so much and I'm suffering a lot 😭
Lauren your a very bright young women and I am proud of your accomplishments so far you are a romodel to many and a very good one your video was great 😌
🥺🥺🥺 Thank you so much! and im so happy you enjoyed!!
I am learning to be cool and not jump into anything anymore I just meet this girl through our discord group and wasn't expecting catching feelings day one even though we been talking for a while and felt a connection.
mmh, I have a bigger problem tbh
And idk if ANYONE has lived that too but-
When I was 11, I discovered i liked girls. So instead of embracing it and everything i stopped being friend with girls. I was scared that ppl would find out and i felt like i was a "predator" (like girls trusted me with sm and then my gay ass was in love with a girl every month and i tought it was disgusting and weird so i felt like i was a bad person for liking them)
So i just stopped talking to girls. I only had boy friends and i was cold with girls. I came out this summer, bc i was finally ready and tired of hiding. (i'm 17 yo atm)
But, well... Idk how to talk to ppl now. I'm not really sociable in general and i made my actual friends by talking abt videogames only, and i used to be scared of girls so... not a great combo.
I'm friend with 2 straight girls tho that also plays videogames now, but it's bc they were friends of friends yk.
I can engage the conversation with boys, but never with girls.
I have a crush on this girl in my class, she's always so happy and smiling and I find her very cute and i like to talk to her when we do (well only 3/4 times)
but then i always end up by running away.
Our last conversation went like:
Me: *Get a paper by a teacher that I must give to the girl i crush on*
Me: *Go and give it to her*
Her: *Smiling and nodding* omg thank you so much it's really nice of you ! :D (it really was her smile lmao, yes for a piece of paper that i brought to her. Hope you can understand why i crush... she shine so brightly)
Me: *already leaving even before she spoke* No problem *head down and looking away*
BISHHH i hate myself
Anyway that was my nervous gay ass breaking my heart again
Have a nice day y'all
also great video
I love her so much. But you’re so right, it’s very hard to risk an amazing friendship. Funny thing is, I told her a while back I like her. I still didn’t get a clear answer. During that time I waited, she was going through a difficult time. But recently we’ve gotten so close, she says I love you a lot but I don’t know how she means it. Please give me some advice, I’m not sure if I should tell her again. P.s. I told her the first time through a letter, never said it in person.
I feel like I will be panicking when telling her the truth.
Question: the girl I like is straight but she keeps giving signs that she might consider doing something with a girl, and when I asked her if she’d ever date a girl she said “probably not, but no one’s 100% not fruity.” She’s also personally said to me that if she ever comes out she’s calling me up, and that if she was a lesbian she would date me. She’s also had a crush on a girl before but still claims to be straight. What do I do?
I’d say confess your feelings. She either has feelings/isn’t sure about her feelings/ or doesn’t like you back. The fact she said she’d date you if she was gay makes me think there’s a LITTLE bit of feelings there
@@rienotrice thanks for the advise
Love that you said Olivia like 20 times 😉😘
oh myyyy goddddd ooops ;)
i legit just flat out told her an hour ago. she didn’t like me back, but she understood and its a normal feeling to have. she was happy i told her and said she wasn’t uncomfortable with me telling her.
Aww, I'm sorry it didn't work out, but at least she didn't feel weird about it and she said it was normal :)
@@babykata6605 :)
That’s so true, good friends don’t care… I’m lesbian and o remember I quite disappointed a friend of mine because I didn’t love him back the same way… so yeah, he probably was different for a while and then we kept on going out. I loved him like my brother, unfortunately he passed away. So yes, friendship survive if it’s real.❤
I've been in love with a straight girl for four years, we've gotten really close despite my feelings for her. I write music about her and we do theater together and she's so beautiful and funny and amazing. Her boyfriend is the luckiest person in the world. I love her so much and I'm trying to move on but it's so hard (she's also going to college next year and I'm a few years younger so it would really be in my best interest to let her go) and I don't know whether to tell her how I feel or not. Like I know she's straight and there is no good reaction to hope for but I feel like I've been lying to her for our whole friendship and I feel worse about it every day.
I am so nervous, like my heart is beating so fast - i have another bi friend who is supporting me to tell her and I AM SO NERVOUS LIKE I AM SHAKING,
She is bi, and i know her for 5 months now and I DON'T THINK THAT NORMAL FRIENDS CAN TALK 10 HOURS STRAIGHT BECAUSE WE DID IT, AND SHE PLAY PIANO FOR ME AND SING AND GAHHHHHHH THAT SHINE IN HER EYES I JUST CANTTTT
I AM GOING TO CONFES TO HER AND I HOPE FOR BEST
Not my crushes name being Olivia 😅
For the girl I like she has homophobic parents but still loves lgbtq I’m so unsure if I should tell her she’s said she’s kissed a girl before and told me many things no one new about her I just don’t wanna ruin are friendship
First I gotta make enough sense from my brain to know which one of my 2 crushes I want more: the 99% probably straight cutie or the pansexual girl I don't even know do I like 😂😭🤦
(i know that i am late to the vid but idc)
I told my crush i liked her, but she is straight and she is already dating someone at the moment
(┬┬﹏┬┬) but i know that i'll find someone one day
So this didn’t happen to me but I have a friend and she liked her best friend (also a girl) a lot. So she decided to give her a letter so she could see the others reaction and give her space too. It ended up being that they both liked each other and they have been dating 4 months-ish.
You actually give good advice 😬 compared to other videos on UA-cam
this is v flattering thank you!
I am in my mid teens, am pansexual and have a crush on my bi bff so this was a really great video tysm 💜
aw ur welcome!
Disgusting get help instead of embracing it
I liked my best friend but the thing is, i don't have the guts to tell her. We ended the friendship a while ago because she was a really crappy friend and i don't even know why I like her. It hurts but it was the best decision.
Hoping she doesn’t see this lol, My best friend I met 8 months ago is literally everything to me. I broke up with my boyfriend a little more than a month ago because I had feelings for her (and also he’s very homophobic). She is taking me to California in 2 months, where we will be going to the beach and she claims she has a surprise over there. She is the person to sort of flirt with everyone, so it’s really hard to read how she feels. She is lesbian, and single- but asking her stresses me out so much. Everytbing you mentioned and i’m not sure if it’s the best time, she is about to graduate and we are moving in together (as roommates) next year, we love the same music- but I just don’t know how to muster up the courage to go for it.
I love your advice, but I need to build the courage first!
Really good advice Lauren thank you!❤
You're so welcome!
YESSS I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO FOR SO LONG
THANK YOU FR !!!!!
YAAAAYYYY really happy to have provided the goods 🥺💗
Welp I took your tips and shes my girlfriend now>:)
That's amazing😮
it’s been a year and I wanted to confirm her so bad but I’m afraid she’s not having the same feelings. but every time I see her there’s like a chemistry between us
Yay another amazing video, I always love watching your videos. I can’t wait for the next video, love your channel+ videos. 💖
You're the best! thank you soooo much!!! ❤️
I meet a girl this year and were going to be best friend she know my secrets and at the same time shes my comfort place i dont know the days past and months i feel like i had a feelings for her but now she tell that she had a boyfriend and then i was like feel sad but at the same time happy for her to find one, but she dint know what i feel that im into her. Maybe i keep it until my feeling's gone 😕
I really like this girl in my class... I'm pretty sure she likes a guy and he likes her. She brought It
Up today, I felt so jealous I just sat there for the rest of lunch staring off into space.. I kinda wanted to cry. And she kinda knows I like her and she acts like it's no big deal. She was hugging her friend from behind and was like "I bet your jealous" and one time she was like "ew I'm not gay" so I said I didn't actually like her and she dropped it and Did not really mention it alot and we're still kinda friends. I wish she liked me :(
I have been trying to tell my crush/best friend I am 11 6th grade she is 11 6th grade we are both girls part of LGBTQ name Harley me Sophia but I like to be called Wolfe this vid is very helpful I,m gonna tell/ask her to be my Valentine wish me luck and don,t worry she knows I like her
Hey I know you’re going to be like she’s to young (I’m 7) but I like this girl in my basketball team and we’re bffs
I need help pls
I mean at least I already know she's gay I've just got to work out a) if I like her more than a friend and b) my own sexuality
fun times am i right!
My crush has a boyfriend but I don’t now if she actually likes him
My crush just told me she's got a boyfriend, but she still likes girls. Right now I'm so heart-broken idk what to do, I'm so upside.
I've been waiting to tell her I like her for ages but I've never had the courage 😔 and now she's with someone else
that is happening with me, too! my crush was a lesbian for 2 years, and she made out with me before. but, we weren’t ready to date just yet. a month ago, she got a boyfriend. i was too late to tell her i was ready for a relationship. i don’t even know if she likes girls anymore. she got her phone taken away, and i can’t talk to her (i don’t ever see her at school, our classes are weird). i just wish i could tell her, but i don’t want things to be awkward because i know she is straight now :/
I just started making friends in school and have feeling for one of them.
I asked her whether she thought of dating women and she said yes... I asked her what's your type ? She said she doesn't have any...
She is exploring
And then yesterday I finally confessed her how I feel for her... But she kindly rejected me...
Hmm I see my bestie is Bisexual she also flirting with me 🙃Even she had bf
Omg the girl I like, her real name is olivia..you used that as an example, its a sign
I am like sooooo close with her (she’s gay too) and she always flirts with me
We liked each other or a little while but we were both to scared
I hope she likes me
what if they're like at your house and they reject you after you tell them? Lmao
I have a best friend I have feeling on her but am so scared to tell her coz she has a boyfriend what should I do
...She does all the stuff in "Does she like you?" but she is straight-
I'm turning 11 in a few weeks and have found out that I was lesbian after I kept on imaging scenarios with my best friend (she a girl) and with me doing things with her and loving her and doing everything with her, but I forced that thought out my head.
I'm very good at hiding my true feeling from myself and others as I've done it alot of my life due to not feeling as if I fit in anywhere. I mean no where. Not school or at home, with ,y family, I'm kinda and odd person and thar makes me have barely any friends. That why I don't feel alot of feeling though I can if I want to express my feelings.
I'm kinda a mess right now.
I also have a crush though it isn't a big one on a girl in my class.
Aw man, I hope you find where you fit someday. It's hard Yk? I honestly don't know where a fit either. I think im pansexual, but idk if that label really fits me? Im sorta confused 😅. I hope me and you find where we fit in this world. Im considering just putting myself as unlabeled because that seems to kinda fit. But Ill see where it goes Yk? Hopefully u respond it's okie if not. See ya :))
I got rejected by the girl I like and I still like her and it’s a a couple months later
aw im sorry she didn't feel the same way! you gotta move on, you deserve someone who is gonna like you for you! 🖤 fill your life with things that make you happy and people to help you keep distracted!
My crush is straight I asked her if she considered dating someone and she said no so I’m not gonna tell her :(
I consider myself “straight”. I’m 29 years old, married to a man & have only dated or been attracted to men my whole life. I met this woman at work about a year ago & I don’t know how to explain it but something pulls me to her. I feel a great connection but it’s not sexual it is more emotional/ intellectual, but I could also definitely kiss her. I have been suppressing the way I feel well… for obvious reasons, but recently she started showing me more attention & is kindof showing that she feels the same way. Idk though 🙄🤦🏼♀️
Wow. I'm also in love with my best friend too.
Nah, my real name is jasmine, and i dated a girl named olivia, are a mind reader?????😮😮
My problem is that I love her and when I see her or even think about her my heart is doing backflips and I don’t even know if she’s into girls
i really need advice i think i have a crush on my bff but i dont kno ho to tell her and she is not gey
Everything is right but when it comes to give her reason why i love her its hard because i cant think of any reason it just happened all of a sudden i dont know when and where I've fallen in love with her i just realised that i love her so much i had so many crush in my past life and i know why i love these people in my past life but for her i can't think of any reason in my mind why i love her one thing i know i know is that I've never fallen in love like this before i think i believe that true love comes only once in our life and i think it's definitely her but the point is that i don't think im gonna tell her how i feel because were not even friend just classmate and how am i supposed to tell her that i love if i can't even accept myself that im lesbian
4:25 died when I heard this lmao cuz that's the name of the actual girl I like
ahhhhhh screaming
Thank you so much for this advice it would help so much! Keep up the great content❤
You're so welcome!
The problem is that I have already told her that I love her, but she just continues the conversation as it was without anything. I'm stumped lol
Tysm for the video, your work is really helpful~~
my bff lives in another state and i like . what should i do
I love you lauren, you are the best 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
nawww tysm!!!!
Ya know what I ain't keeping it a secret anymore, I'm dating my bestfriend :))))))))))))))) 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
Good for u
I've been debating if I should tell her or not. we've been friends for good while and she flirts a lot with me but sometimes jokingly especially since she kinda backpedaled on it recently. she said she had a crush on me and always sends poems or makes stuff for me. but literally yesterday I made a post saying I wanted a gf (which was aimed at her) and she reposted it which gives me hope. but idk I don't want scare her away bc she said she never been with a girl before.
I am so fucking confused. So I definitely like my bff but idk if she likes be back at all. We both know so much about each other and we've grown our relationship so much in just a year if knowing each other (literally, we just did a mini celebration for knowing each other for a year). We've always kinda had that flirty joking thing going on and we make A LOT of dirty jokes together. Then she broke up with her girlfriend and I realized I had liked her. I'm SUPER CONFUSED so if anyone wants more information to try and help, please doooo 🙃🙃🙃🙃
I’m like this girl. I don’t normally like people in general, people don’t normally want to be friends with me. This girl moved here from Korea a year ago, and her English is not great. I am only 13 so it is weird to ask if she is gay. Also I don’t know what I am. She is my only friend and I need help. I really don’t want to lose her but things are getting weird between us. I have no one to talk to and I am really confused.
My advice? Just ask her, if no, it’s ok
Tysm for tips!! I'm not scared too much to tell her, I just think that telling her could change her opinion about me, ruin our friendship ect. but I really wanna tell her soon. I'm more excited than scared. Again tysm for the tips!! (Btw sorry for my trash english)
So there is a girl on my school that I know that has a crush on me, I know that because one of her friends that is in my class told me. I don't really know the girl, I've never actually talked to her. I want to see the vide yk not dive into a relationship instantly because it would be my first one. Do I instantly tell her? Just like that I meet her on school and tell her "Wanna hangout after school?" or what is the best option to do in this situation? I don't want it to be akward yk
ok so i told my bff thats across the country from me (so over text) and now I have a gf thank you
I got her numberrr yesterdayyy
You have "comfort family friend" or like "comfort aunt" vibes, not sure how to explain it but your videos are great and have helped me quite a bit :)
awww haha, thank you! im so glad
I hope that one day i could tell her...
My brothers know it but they dont care at all, my mom does'nt and my dad too and he would NEVER support me. that is why i am stressed: because i have no one that supports me; they dont know or they just dont care...and i feel really bad because of this...
But thank you soooo much for posting this video i appreciate it (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
When nobody support you it is hard, but don’t feel bad because of it. You are good person, love yourself no matter what others think of you. Never give up to fight for you. You have support of all of us here. Keep going! 💪❤🏳️🌈
“Straight girls are not worth the time..."
Felt it ... She likes boys :(
My 17 self asking my crush/friend out of the blue have you ever kissed a girl? Testing the water by shocking them lamo
I’m too scared to tell my best friend how I feel about her because she is the one person I tell everything to. If I lost her, it would feel like a part of me went missing…as cheesy as that sounds.
Hiiiii
congrats on being first ahhhhhhh
in general i was always describing myself as hetero and still im not attracted to woman but lately i've met a girl and i have a crush on her since 2 months maybe lol it feels weird and i have no idea how to show her that i have feelings for her. Three weeks ago i sent her a song which is called "i wanna be your girlfriend" and she liked it etc but nothing changed and now idk what should i doooo couse we're not even friends u know .. pls help me guys
N worst of all is when you really like her, but you're both on the same group of friends, and you feel kind of it will be destroyed if you'd start dating and then cut off
I have a tip!
If you are telling a girl you like her, tell her in a cute but not overwhelming way. Maybe on a nature walk,or maybe bring her some flowers. That's how I did it!
Remember the girl might not like you back and you can't change her mind!
HELP IM FALLING IN LOVE WITH A ASEXUAL GIRL
So this girl I like she is so cute and this video help me tell her and she likes me to thank you for making this video.!