The mother said little Zaylie wears pull ups because she is in " training." She should already be trained at three years old, but obviously the mother hasn't spent the time she should have to do it. I think the man was trying to make a point about that, mentioning diapers, but no one seemed to get it.
In situations like these, I wish it didn't matter if you are the biological parent to be able to parent a child....like for it to ACTUALLY matter in the court system as much as being the biological parent
Doesn't matter, its all based on a lie so none of it is real. He needs to move on and make a family of his own, not play house to some other man's kid...
I feel so sorry for him, and that girl she will be so sad that the mother rip the father she know and love out of er life. It is disgusting of her cheering like that, she should not have that child.
That's so messed up. You could tell that that man really loved that little girl and never doubted that she wasn't his child. The judge rightfully humbled the mother real quick
Truly is. She should be grateful that someone cared that much about her little girl regardless of the little girl being biologically his or not. So many women fighting for their child to have a father in their lives and this woman fought to keep a father out. Disgusting.
@Juliana Silva That's because making a man responsible for a child that isn't his is a terrible thing. It's like forcing a woman to be a mother and making her pay money for it. In this case, this man wanted to be a part of the child's life. The mother deliberately held back information about the child possibly not being his and took the money he's given in child support. She gave him no ounce of respect for the fact that he put in lots of work to be there and then had the gall to cheer when it was stated that he was not the father. So, yeah, we would call her names still in the other situation because in both cases this woman would still be a terrible person.
The little girl is gonna get this on her recommendations when she's 12 and find out she became fatherless just because her mom was ungrateful and disgusting
You know what, ofcourse she will come across this episode this woman's guilt will be written in the history books forever she will be a recognized degenerate
@crystal15175 She truly is a disgusting piece of work (in both her personality and demeanor) - she is a horrible cow - just out to get money when she is "in between jobs" - that also makes her a mooch.
@Black shuck and he clearly wanted to be her biological father, as he said she is everything to him, that she is actual his world and the reason he went to work everyday. It's really sad to see two hearts getting broken, and that mother and other woman cheered for that.
The way the judge just roasted tf out of her after she cheered is hilarious. Edit: I just like seeing delusional ppl get what’s coming to them. I did not mean to trigger y’all in the comments-
well i think to be honest this guy wouldnt for through with that even if he is in his right. The child is whats most important to him. he doesnt care about the money. On child support only he paid 200 dollar a month. times 12 is 2400 per year. the child is 3 so that would make 7200 he would get back then. Thats 7200 dollar spend on something different then that child. And I think this guy prefers tht the money is spent in the wellbeing of the child, which he will still always see as his own, then in his own wallet.t At least thats what I believe he would do.
*l don't know how much of family law you know, but there is no such thing as "suing for child support reimbursement." The system does not have that in place in any of the states. I mean, there is such a thing as suing for PATERNITY FRAUD, but that is usually to get the court's to MAKE the mother submit the child for Paternity testing to DISESTABLISH PATERNITY. Mind you, this dissestablishing in only allowed in very specific circumstances. (If the man's 60 days to OBJECT to paternity are up and the judge has ALREADY SIGNED AN ORDER for child support effective until the child turns 18 or graduates from high school if 19 or 20.) The courts will usually REFUSE to listen to that case UNLESS the order is only being MODIFIED for lower or higher amounts!) But if a potential father can present ENOUGH EVIDENCE that he was DEFRAUDED into believing paternity, then the courts will listen (including the supreme court). Like this case would certainly get it's day in court. BUT, here's the thing, even though the courts will very likely hear this guy out, the best they'll do for him is order his name REMOVED FROM BIRTH CERTIFICATE and declared "not the father," for the sake of STOPPING CHILD SUPPORT. That is the best, the courts will do for him. The courts will not order the lady jailed or to "reimburse" him for the "fraud." The courts always find it in the best interests that a child was supported by a man who believed was the dad and NEVER DOUBTED BY ASKING FOR A DNA TEST..*
Like the comments said, the courts don’t do any justice for men that are not the biological father to children. In most cases, they would rather side with the mother over everything. The best I’ve seen was either joint of full custody and that’s rare unless you have good solid evidence. But to the fact of child support, i think every man should dna test their child if they’re not married or in a relationship with. I’ve almost had this situation done to me and almost put on child support until i got the result that i wasn’t the father. I truly feel bad for this man, that woman is heartless and pathetic as they are. Now she has a child with a guy that doesn’t want her and i hope he gets some kind of paternal rights and get primary custody (which i know won’t happen most likely)
she doesn't want him to see her but she wants him to pay for a child that isn't even his. Sounds like she is using the child for her own profit, my mother did the same thing.
Tsipher, there are millions of men mitigating your pain. Our biggest enemy is not the self centered woman, but the naive desperate to be liked men who want votes even at the cost of a man's mind and life. At the end of the day, women giggle about this because they worship a different God with the same name as our God. Their God does not hold them accountable for their words and actions. This court hearing was a fluke.
you just turned yourself into a single mother with a three year old and no child support. He is under no obligation to help you at all. I've never seen somebody happy to struggle.
Reality: He will probably have to keep paying child support since a lot of states don't recognise paternity tests. They only care about the birth certificate (which he signed)
@@Melmnyg cheating is a valid reason for her to leave him but not a valid reason for her to ruin her daughter's life just out of spite of him... she cant even make up a true valid excuse as to why she doesnt want him in her child's life. I mean he paid child support, he met her child and drove 160 miles a week, he loves her child and sees her as his own, he is acting as good present father... only if his cheating is affecting badly in the child's life that's when it is okay to want him gone... but i dont see that girl ever once mentions it so..
@@gracev8321 Excuse me? "only if cheating affecting child's life it is okay to want him gone?" Are u suggesting that she should've forgave a man who betrayed her? Can't u see? A man who betrayed the woman he CHOSE, can betray own child
I really pray that the daughter still gets to have her “true” father in her life because that’s who this man is. Biology doesn’t alone a parent make. Also her snarky attitude and disgusting cheering over the verdict was so horrible. She doesn’t deserve a child if that child has another parent who is a good man and loving father and she continues to push revenge. Keep on being vindictive. It’s as if the child deserves to have a second parent. After all, it’s all about you, not your child.
The Moment that woman started to cheer It made me wish that the Judge could hold her in contempt The judge should've made that woman pay him back EVERY cent that he payed for both child support AND his gas and see if she's gonna keep cheering
So that money he paid wasn’t a lot? Well then she shouldn’t have a problem paying it back. Since she knew it wasn’t his kid, she should have to pay it all back.
The judge is right though. A man who drives 100+ miles to see his child is definitely a good man. I hope he finds love and is able to have a child that he can give unconditional love.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
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Female is too great of a role for her. When I think of female, I think I someone kind and loving. When I think of this DISGUST, I think of the person in the court that cheered when its daughter lost her only greatness
Just using kids as weapons to gain control over who they want to. It’s disgusting. If you can’t have kids for the right reasons why then don’t have any at all. She needs to be evaluated as a mother
Tim parsons And the worst part: the daughter is the one who suffers the most from this. The poor baby will never know what it’s like to have a good father and a mother who will not manipulate her.
Even though I thought the guy deserved her. He still cheated on her just the same way she cheated on him, so its not really fair to just be rude because the person you thought was more deserving lost.
@Andy Wilderness yeah but most people dont know how to take care of a gold]fish they think its easy until they actually have one then it ends up being hard work
I shed genuine tears bro. Poor guy be working and driving to see his child, and she’s over there cheering that her child may or may not have her father anymore.
i agree, It hurts me severely since my dad was like the man and he would do everything to see me, he had to pay 400 a week and i wish i noticed when i was younger that my dad loved me so much and i regret not doing enough with him. Now i realise how much the men care.That disgusting pig of a woman only wants the kid for child support. I know i might sound bad but i understand how devastated the man would feel. I feel so bad for him.
I really really hoped that he was her father but she wasn’t his.... when he started crying i cried so bad. This guy would have been so nice father. And now.... all he did for her is gone. Im still crying😭😢
I was twice as far away as she was. At work. I went home. Packed. Changed and sped to the hospital at about 70-80 mph. In December. In Wisconsin. In the woods. On a winding road. She had about 15-20 miles if that on a 4 lane major highway.
Should have bounced the moment she said he wasn't the father. When a woman says you are not the father, chances are you are not. Feel sorry for the little girl who had an idiot for a mother but the guy is part of the problem.
MrSupermanbe chances tho... the fact that there was a chance he was the father and since he already loved that child so much he couldn’t just give up like he said he wasn’t gonna give up that easy without proof
I dont believe she is even taking care of her daughter, she just hates her ex. Her ex said the girl only wears cut off sweats and the same shirt. The mom had no answer for what she was spending child support on.
I feel like she was being petty putting her in the same outfits so that the “good outfits” she has for her don’t go and stay at her dads house. I know a couple like this, they have separate clothes at each house and one outfit that gets share between houses.
With interest to make up fur all the time, love and effort that he has put into raising that child. The "Lady" deserves a one way ticket to Bamako, Central African Republic, Libya, Mali, Somalia or Sudan. Let them treat her how she treats her child
It will not happen. As long as his name is on the birth certificate he will have child support payments. Men, be careful who you sleep with, or you could pay the rest of your life.
@@johnvanderslice7966 now that a dna test has proven in court that he isn't the father, he won't have to make any more payments. However, I don't think he will be reimbursed for what he has payed already.
@@montanabillings7775 I hope you're right, but remember, you are dealing with a big government bureaucracy, he will have to go back to court and get it reversed. My son has custody of his daughter, and it cost him $1500. Just to say he wanted no child support from his ex.
Jorgumander World Serpent - yep but if she expected to marry this man who betrayed her and her hopes and dreams she is now a scorned women and she only cares about HER SELFISHNESS.
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th yea at least she isnt the daughter of a guy who was willing to be a father to her. At least she is the daughter of someone who pumped n dumped and has never been in her life and probably doesnt care
The fact she was so convinced he wasn’t the father and still made him work so hard everyday for child support makes me so mad because it was so clear she was using him too
Luckily she's little and she didn't get to much from him. And i would want back pay! For everything i paid. Lol 😅 idk how she's gonns take care of the child alone good luck baby sitters are not cheap half her checks gonna go to that
I'm sorry... but a man, who would go THAT far... a literal 100+ drive to see her. at that point, doesn't matter if they are biologically related or not That man, is a father.
@@kalequeen5981 ? Sorry, I’m a bit confused. Are you saying this as an insult? If so, I think you read the comment wrong. The commenter is saying, because he drives 100+ miles every weekend, you can tell that that man loves his daughter. No, you need to drive 100+ miles a weekend to be a good father, but by that man doing that, it proves how dedicated he is to be in his daughters life and raise her.
@@DrAbKaN Yeah, I was thinking that too. The mom is probably going to play the victim to the daughter and feed her stories that favour her own perspective
He doesn’t have to adopt her. A tv show DNA test is meaningless. Legally, he has been declared the father in a court of law and he can continue to be her father if he wants to. In fact, he may not be able to set aside a judgment of paternity even with a DNA test at this point. The law in many states requires someone to challenge paternity early on and after its determined they can’t come back and undo it by saying that genetically the kid isn’t theirs. There are a lot of men paying child support for kids that aren’t biologically theirs.
@@annagitana1 I think the worst part of this situation is that she won't even try to find the biological father. She will probably try and use this to reduce the visitation he has earned and still continue to milk him for child support.
I've seen this video over and over and I hope she also watched this video over and over to see what a fool she made of herself. I wonder how her child is doing
I got hyped when the judge started yelling at her. She deserves it. How terrible of a mother to cheer at the fact her baby has no father. That proves she hates him even more then she loves her child. Disgusting.
Rebecca Stapley it’s more about her being the woman rather them being blood related. He’s on the birth certificate and it legally makes him the father.
@@SparDanger careful he probably has an std, oh and probably enough other children out there.. if he really wanted the baby to be his, he would have put it in her not someone else and then breakup with her after cheating on her
My eyes were flooded with tears for this man. I felt like I was emotionally and psychologically damaged because of the results, because I really wanted him to be the father for this child. I can’t imagine the pain that he still feels, till this day.
I think that he cheated is the fact that she was it was probably more than just what she says he wasn’t getting something from the relationship people is to cheat if they’re in a really good relationship with people like this man
I actually cried when he broke down, my dad seems to walk out of my life whenever he pleases and my mom is extremely toxic and actually drove him away. To see a dad love his child so much brought me to tears, it's all I've wanted growing up.
@@goddess.in.infinityYou idiot! That is the child he loved with his LIFE. And you have the audacity to say that?! Are you ok??? It’s as if he lost his child. He said in the video “she’s my whole world. i do everything for her… she’s the reason i go to work everyday………i feel like my world is in ruins now.” he’s dying inside and you naïvely say “oH, hE cHeAtEd fIrsT, hE dEserVes tHis pAiN?!
Wow! What kinda woman she's. She slept with someone and later got to know that her man was cheating on her. Wait a minute!!! Did you say i later find? And meanwhile you slept with other men and call him a cheater?? Woahh!! That's why it's hard to trust in relationship these days. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Its up to the friend of the court. And since they kept denying her a paternity test and he's on the birth certificate I really hope they do the right thing and still allow him to legally be her father. Just like when someone adopts a child and they get put on the child birth certificate. He is legally her father and I think the mother is going to have a hard time changing that.
my aunt got divorced when my cousin was 2yrs. He was physically abusive, wouldn't show up to pick my cousin up, and would give under the money amount for child support. My aunt would have killed to have somebody actually wanna be with her kid let alone help pay for her.
1.skallen don’t know how it is in america but, if you are 13 or older, you can legally chose which parent. The older the better. depends on the situation of course. My mom used to be verbally abusive towards me. all my money that she’d hold on to would disappear. Turns out that money went towards drugs. If she couldn’t get her fix. she’d be so angry. thankfully, and unfortunately, she hardly didn’t get her fix. So her outbursts were rare. But i hated it so much. She got clean, and 100% regrets everything she ever done or said to me. Drugs change you. But I finally got my mom back. I love her. But i’d be lying if i didn’t admit i desperately wanted to live with my dad. In the end i stayed with her, and don’t regret it. Where my dad lives is- not the best for me.
@@karinuzumaki4676 I mean probably but I just saw it here. and that was my reaction. So yeah you are right most likely. everyone kind of has the same reaction so yeah lol
I'm adopted... Didn't know it, until someone (dad's sister, who hated my adopted mom) out of anger blurted it out at 45 years of age.... When I finally asked my dad about it (who had Dementia) he simply said... You will always be my special love...but not by blood.... That was in 2008... I still take care of him today he turned 91 February 14th 2020.... You just NEVER know..... Our relationship hasn't always been easy, but in my life he's taught me a few things I keep in my treasure chest of life. Main thing he taught me was to give 100% of whoever you are... to whatever you're doing, because it's worth doing it right in the first place... Even if you stumble trying.
@@neons.hairclip you know, the most interesting part about it all is that he and I look exactly alike... My Father's eyes over the years have turned bluish gray... Mine are doing the exact same thing.... God knows how to pair people up doesn He.
I just wished the girl could stay with him instead of that woman Blood doesn’t mean nothing. Parents are the people that loves and cares for you. In this case, it is him
He is the father. Don't care what dna says. Father's are the men who help you ride a bike deal with heartbreak have special bonding trips. Not the dna that says you are related.
@MrSpeed-do2zk I think of dna or adoption as the story you became the parent to the child. Not dna automacilly means you are the father/mother whether you be present or not
Sarah Barnes don’t take any shame from that human. If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think of that... thing... to be human. Like, humans are supposed to feel feelings and stuff.
I can’t imagine how that little girl must feel now that she’s lost the only person she could’ve considered her dad. Imagine her asking at the end of the week ”when’s dad coming?”
@@voltexvoltex3283 If that happens or is happening, I want to slap that lady and give her a talk about being a better mom rather then a idiot cause I have little half- siblings and I now the pain. And I know alot of people can agree😥
The guy wouldn't take it, he would rather the mother have that money and some of it trickle to the daughter. Cause he actually cares about the daughter and that means he can't take money away from the horribad mother. A double-sided sword.
A much needed slap!! Wish she had gotten a KO instead! ...That will come later when she realizes just what a fool she is for being so happy that the BEST father around won't be around anymore. What she put him and her daughter through was just evil.
I get so annoyed by people who say 'I'm a single mother' when their kid still sees their dad consistently or have a custody arrangement. No, you're just single
@@ilsedevries2529 I know right. Had a friend who said that all the time when her kids spent 4 days with her abd 3 days with their dad in a week. And I was thinking, how is she a single mom. 🙄🙄
chomu lol But in this case, what the woman did weigh heavier than what the man did. She basically stole money from him, lied to him, and manipulated his emotions by detaching the daughter to him after he got so closed up to the point of believing he is the father of the daughter.
Right, "he wants to claim her on taxes" and that's gas money and maybe something to eat for the two of them. Which he'd probably put aside so they could have done something together.
The fact that he drove 45 through a foot of snow and BEAT HER to the hospital speaks volumes of how dedicated he is to that little girl. That woman is disgusting.
she'll put all her energy into getting the real father to care for his child who has obviously turned his back on them. I predict that she will have many cys visits in her future
i grew up with a man whom who stood by when my real dad left my mom.I am thankful of my father at heart.This she took is never a good thing happening to a child that age.I knew the feeling of knowing i wasnt really related to my dad now non the less i love my papa now.
plus the fact that now she'll probably have to pay back the child support and to add up to that she already barely makes any money, if the dude wants he can take her as she's legally his
The saddest part is that when that little girl wants to know what happened with his daddy, and she research and find out what her mother did whit him, she will hate her, and hate her real father for leaving her as well. I feel for that girl ☹️
@@depressoespresso3931 unfortunately, hope someone shows her this when she's old enough to understand so she know who her REAL father is regardless of DNA (Edit: spelling error hope not home)
Crazy to think that little girl is now almost a teenager. She's older and probably somewhat aware of the situation. I hope it hasn't affected her too adversely.
He acted more like a responsible parent than she did. So gross.
I was hoping the whole way and crossing my fingers for this man but apparently the world is cruel in ways I do not understand.
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The mother said little Zaylie wears pull ups because she is in " training." She should already be trained at three years old, but obviously the mother hasn't spent the time she should have to do it. I think the man was trying to make a point about that, mentioning diapers, but no one seemed to get it.
@@dewick134 yeah, three years old is very old to be still training. Is she waiting for the kindergarten teachers do train her kid?
He literally cheated.
This was the only time I wanted to hear “he is the father”
Not just you. Everyone wanted to hear those words.
Yah man literally .
In situations like these, I wish it didn't matter if you are the biological parent to be able to parent a child....like for it to ACTUALLY matter in the court system as much as being the biological parent
Same here brother
I want to hear she’s not the “
mother instead hhh “
He wasn't the biological father, but you can't deny that he was still her father.
Man wayyy to true.
Its like guardians of the galaxy 2 two scene, "he may have been your father, be weren't your daddy" RIP YONDU
@@MuhammadAli-po9dj I was just about to quote this lol
Wow thanks for ruining
Doesn't matter, its all based on a lie so none of it is real. He needs to move on and make a family of his own, not play house to some other man's kid...
I cried when he said "I feel like my life is in ruins now. I would go to work just for her." Everyone needs a dad like that.
She better pay him back 3 years of CS, infuriating!
He wouldn't do that to that little girl he obviously loves so much.
That's what I thought! That horrible woman better be paying him back since she's so dang happy. Unbelievable honestly.
Don’t forget the gas money too!
I would say that, but that would probably put the child in a very poor household which would not be good for her....
Brenda Bonamie I’d sue
The way the officer told her "be respectful" you know he was going to punch her and the courtroom would have joined in
Yup
I wish the bailiff could tackle her
toeseparator dude same. It’s 12AM And I was nearly YELLING at this video because of how disgusted and infuriated i am. Smfh
I pray the daughter grows to hate the mother for this. She’s disgusting and wicked
That officer has some serious self control. A lot of people would've straight-up tased her at that point.
When she cheered, I felt disgusted. It's like this was just a game to her.
I feel so sorry for him, and that girl she will be so sad that the mother rip the father she know and love out of er life. It is disgusting of her cheering like that, she should not have that child.
it was a game to her
And that disgusting woman sitting down cheering as well was so disgusting. I'm sure it's her trailer trash mother.
Minishcat cause it is for a lot of women.
Is it just me or should she have had paid back all child support
That's so messed up. You could tell that that man really loved that little girl and never doubted that she wasn't his child. The judge rightfully humbled the mother real quick
Truly is. She should be grateful that someone cared that much about her little girl regardless of the little girl being biologically his or not. So many women fighting for their child to have a father in their lives and this woman fought to keep a father out. Disgusting.
How could a man know that a child is his
@@LubnaHaddad-di9mc He didn't know. More like believed as he had no doubts. Regardless, that's what you took from all that?
Bless this judge for yelling sense into this terrible excuse of a mother.
She said what everyone wanted to say.
@Juliana Silva nah both cases would get enmity because you don't use a child as a weapon or a leash simple as that.
@@Logikalx01 Some minds are twisted beyond salvation.
@Juliana Silva That's because making a man responsible for a child that isn't his is a terrible thing. It's like forcing a woman to be a mother and making her pay money for it. In this case, this man wanted to be a part of the child's life. The mother deliberately held back information about the child possibly not being his and took the money he's given in child support. She gave him no ounce of respect for the fact that he put in lots of work to be there and then had the gall to cheer when it was stated that he was not the father. So, yeah, we would call her names still in the other situation because in both cases this woman would still be a terrible person.
I doubt she even cared she got yelled at by the judge,in one ear and out the other no doubt.
The little girl is gonna get this on her recommendations when she's 12 and find out she became fatherless just because her mom was ungrateful and disgusting
The heartbreak when she sees this many years from now and sees her mom cheering that she lost a loving, caring father all out of spite and greed.
Or she might never see this and never know the truth and think she was abandoned😕
Wouldn't Be surprised if the Mother Doesn't allow the little girl to have access to The Internet when she gets older
You know what, ofcourse she will come across this episode this woman's guilt will be written in the history books forever she will be a recognized degenerate
I really hope she does see this video as I am betting her mother is not gonna tell her the truth of what happened here
she's cheering at the fact that her daughter just lost someone who wanted so badly to be her father
She’s sick in the head
That person in the chair next to her was cheering as well. These people are sick!
I feel so bad for the guy...😓
@crystal15175 She truly is a disgusting piece of work (in both her personality and demeanor) - she is a horrible cow - just out to get money when she is "in between jobs" - that also makes her a mooch.
@Black shuck and he clearly wanted to be her biological father, as he said she is everything to him, that she is actual his world and the reason he went to work everyday. It's really sad to see two hearts getting broken, and that mother and other woman cheered for that.
The way the judge just roasted tf out of her after she cheered is hilarious. Edit: I just like seeing delusional ppl get what’s coming to them. I did not mean to trigger y’all in the comments-
no, it's reasonable, and totally understandable
@@mikethebike1402 what?
@@YourFavoriteLunarFairy am i correct though
@@mikethebike1402 huh? 💀
@@YourFavoriteLunarFairy bro atleast understand
Someone should save this video and give it to the child in 15 years - when she is 18 - so she will know there was a father out there who cared.
Mike Messer well said
I'm crying 😭
Pretty sure she will see it. Sad for that little girl and the dude that stepped up.
the internet saved it dont worry nothing leaves the interet
Mike Messer facts
He has every right to sue for the child support to come back to him. Cheering in court shows that this woman is heartless.
Good luck with that. Most of the time there is no way for the man to get back child support he's paid. No laws are in place for this.
well i think to be honest this guy wouldnt for through with that even if he is in his right. The child is whats most important to him. he doesnt care about the money. On child support only he paid 200 dollar a month. times 12 is 2400 per year. the child is 3 so that would make 7200 he would get back then. Thats 7200 dollar spend on something different then that child. And I think this guy prefers tht the money is spent in the wellbeing of the child, which he will still always see as his own, then in his own wallet.t At least thats what I believe he would do.
*l don't know how much of family law you know, but there is no such thing as "suing for child support reimbursement." The system does not have that in place in any of the states. I mean, there is such a thing as suing for PATERNITY FRAUD, but that is usually to get the court's to MAKE the mother submit the child for Paternity testing to DISESTABLISH PATERNITY. Mind you, this dissestablishing in only allowed in very specific circumstances. (If the man's 60 days to OBJECT to paternity are up and the judge has ALREADY SIGNED AN ORDER for child support effective until the child turns 18 or graduates from high school if 19 or 20.) The courts will usually REFUSE to listen to that case UNLESS the order is only being MODIFIED for lower or higher amounts!) But if a potential father can present ENOUGH EVIDENCE that he was DEFRAUDED into believing paternity, then the courts will listen (including the supreme court). Like this case would certainly get it's day in court. BUT, here's the thing, even though the courts will very likely hear this guy out, the best they'll do for him is order his name REMOVED FROM BIRTH CERTIFICATE and declared "not the father," for the sake of STOPPING CHILD SUPPORT. That is the best, the courts will do for him. The courts will not order the lady jailed or to "reimburse" him for the "fraud." The courts always find it in the best interests that a child was supported by a man who believed was the dad and NEVER DOUBTED BY ASKING FOR A DNA TEST..*
cheers? she screamed out of joy :) what he said about her hating him was true
Like the comments said, the courts don’t do any justice for men that are not the biological father to children. In most cases, they would rather side with the mother over everything. The best I’ve seen was either joint of full custody and that’s rare unless you have good solid evidence. But to the fact of child support, i think every man should dna test their child if they’re not married or in a relationship with. I’ve almost had this situation done to me and almost put on child support until i got the result that i wasn’t the father. I truly feel bad for this man, that woman is heartless and pathetic as they are. Now she has a child with a guy that doesn’t want her and i hope he gets some kind of paternal rights and get primary custody (which i know won’t happen most likely)
WHOOOOOOOA SHE COMPLAINING ABOUT THE AMOUNT OF CHILD SUPPORT AND SHE IS HERE SAYING THE BABY NOT HIS, SHE GOT SOME REAL NERVE🤔
I was thinking the same thing, how she go say it's not his but take him to court for a check. Then she also cheated on him as well. This dont give
Special Events exactly 🤦🏾♀️
And from what was said it doesn't seem that she is spending the money on the child.
And saying how he slept with someone else yet she did the same thing
Took the words right out my mouth 🙌🏾 preach
she cares more about winning this case than the fact that her daughter is gonna have no father that will guide her.
Truth said !
This girl has a father. we just need to find her mother.
Thats so deep @Canuck
Honestly
So true
Great comment💯
AMEN
She doesn’t even have a valid excuse for not wanting him to see her.
she doesn't want him to see her but she wants him to pay for a child that isn't even his. Sounds like she is using the child for her own profit, my mother did the same thing.
@@tsipher I'm sorry to hear that
2Pac, exposed this culture virus to the world when he talked about his mother. Alfini Shakur confirmed it after she graduated from rehab.
Tsipher, there are millions of men mitigating your pain. Our biggest enemy is not the self centered woman, but the naive desperate to be liked men who want votes even at the cost of a man's mind and life. At the end of the day, women giggle about this because they worship a different God with the same name as our God. Their God does not hold them accountable for their words and actions. This court hearing was a fluke.
@Silent Hill Warrior 5 No doubt about that Silent, and whether Tiffani realizes it or not she's a gardener, because she planted the seeds of a player
you just turned yourself into a single mother with a three year old and no child support. He is under no obligation to help you at all. I've never seen somebody happy to struggle.
Reality: He will probably have to keep paying child support since a lot of states don't recognise paternity tests. They only care about the birth certificate (which he signed)
Despair Reborn and because of that birth certificate he can sue her for full custody
All of that on public television, no less
Sagirah AKA EVILbunny22 I'm sure everyone is going to start blaming the father
If it's possible Why don't he adopt her
i can't stop myself from crying he loved that child so much everyone can see that from his tears
He should've think about his future family with her before cheating on her, u know. You people defending a cheater are just impossible...
@@Melmnyg ok i got it
@@Melmnyg cheating is a valid reason for her to leave him but not a valid reason for her to ruin her daughter's life just out of spite of him... she cant even make up a true valid excuse as to why she doesnt want him in her child's life. I mean he paid child support, he met her child and drove 160 miles a week, he loves her child and sees her as his own, he is acting as good present father... only if his cheating is affecting badly in the child's life that's when it is okay to want him gone... but i dont see that girl ever once mentions it so..
@@gracev8321 Excuse me? "only if cheating affecting child's life it is okay to want him gone?" Are u suggesting that she should've forgave a man who betrayed her? Can't u see? A man who betrayed the woman he CHOSE, can betray own child
Poor kid, I hope she doesn’t grow up and be anything like her mother
We both know he would be a better parent.
I really pray that the daughter still gets to have her “true” father in her life because that’s who this man is. Biology doesn’t alone a parent make. Also her snarky attitude and disgusting cheering over the verdict was so horrible. She doesn’t deserve a child if that child has another parent who is a good man and loving father and she continues to push revenge. Keep on being vindictive. It’s as if the child deserves to have a second parent. After all, it’s all about you, not your child.
The Moment that woman started to cheer It made me wish that the Judge could hold her in contempt
The judge should've made that woman pay him back EVERY cent that he payed for both child support AND his gas and see if she's gonna keep cheering
Mike, I agree. Unfortunately, it's more likely that she will become her mother. That mother is not going to swallow her pride for the child.
@@emmanuelzermeno1588 , I agree with you, but that would be too much like right and the feminist movement ain't havin' it.
This guy's soul just died in the worst way possible.
AnimeT0getherEU and she was cheering like Sunday night football. Just shows you how terrible a mother like this can be
Well, "mother" is an overstatement. That Jabba-looking thing does not deserve such a title.
He was THE father. The only one who actually cared.
Just shows how terrible single moms are, there is a reason they're single.
NGL she looks, talks and acts exactly like a modern day feminazi
669
" That's a lot of nerve considering the alternative is a man that don't want you or your child!" Beyond truth.
I cringed and she wasn't even talking to me.
Absouletely!
Amen to that
"He changed his number and his address" Yeah he knew he f*cked up
I know that hurt her soul
So that money he paid wasn’t a lot? Well then she shouldn’t have a problem paying it back. Since she knew it wasn’t his kid, she should have to pay it all back.
He raised her?
He is the dad.
Maybe not biological, but he is the dad.
In cases like this, biological is just a word
Yeah... the only father she knows... and that is enough
EXACTLY
He might not be the father... but he's her daddy.
Alex Cornwell that’s one thing I wish more people understood.
"She was the reason I went to work every day"
This man is a real man. A very responsible man.
and the woman is not a real woman. She is a devil in disguise.
I guse I m also crying this is not Fair discussion
He isn't just a man he is a father
This guy is pathetic. He got used.
I can't stop crying 😭😭
Her screaming with excitement over the child not being his was disgusting.
It isnt the maury show
@@AuraSilencer exactly i wanted to cry
The judge is right though. A man who drives 100+ miles to see his child is definitely a good man. I hope he finds love and is able to have a child that he can give unconditional love.
I love that she was put in her place
A spoiler would’ve been nice. Yours was the second comment.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
She cheered that her daughter has lost the only one who truly loved her. Horrible horrible female.
Jazzy Kathy noooo wonder pro-choice americans are SELFISH and i said what i said
Maskie Chuauhang What does this have to do with politics?!
Female? It's actually spelled 'A' 'P' 'E'
Female is too great of a role for her. When I think of female, I think I someone kind and loving. When I think of this DISGUST, I think of the person in the court that cheered when its daughter lost her only greatness
Just using kids as weapons to gain control over who they want to. It’s disgusting. If you can’t have kids for the right reasons why then don’t have any at all. She needs to be evaluated as a mother
She hates him more than she loves her daughter. Disgusting
Right. It's like she didn't want to get pregnant or something.
she loves her daughter? I don't think so.
That’s is sad... but true .
Tim parsons And the worst part: the daughter is the one who suffers the most from this. The poor baby will never know what it’s like to have a good father and a mother who will not manipulate her.
She has no class.sge should be ashsme
She shouldn't have custody of a gold fish let alone a child
😂 I agree
Even though I thought the guy deserved her. He still cheated on her just the same way she cheated on him, so its not really fair to just be rude because the person you thought was more deserving lost.
I had my goldfish for 7 years I'm not joking there life span is 10 years does that mean I'm going to be a good dad?
@Andy Wilderness yeah but most people dont know how to take care of a gold]fish they think its easy until they actually have one then it ends up being hard work
@@JoeCanShoot yes, if you can take care of a small creature for that long then you must be a good person
I shed genuine tears bro. Poor guy be working and driving to see his child, and she’s over there cheering that her child may or may not have her father anymore.
She literally just cheered the fact that her daughter was fatherless solely out of spite. What a disgusting being.
Carson Lewis she don't deserve her daughter
I'm glad the judge ripped her a new one!
You me both Coolaunt516. That reaction was totally wrong and uncalled for.
he still has to pay child support. Thats what she's cheering about
Thank you for not adding in the human in there.
This is the first time I saw Jerome gone mad.
"Please be respectful"
I noticed that too. He was on that in under a second.
Lol. Jerome didn't say "please"! It wasn't worth it.
Lolz
It's a first, but so necessary!! She's a disgrace!
It's my 2nd time
Imagine the girl growing up to a certain age and watching this video after being without a father and knowing what really her mom did
I can’t even begin to imagine it
now imagine she does that and reads your comment
Hope shes doing well
Hope that child doing okay
Let's wait ten years
Find her profile somewhere
And send her the video
Love and prayers for this man!!!
i don't cry during sad movies, i don't cry during sad documentaries, i don't cry at sad books... but that... that broke my heart
It’s because you know it’s real, and you can see that this mans soul left his body when he broke.
Same here
i agree, It hurts me severely since my dad was like the man and he would do everything to see me, he had to pay 400 a week and i wish i noticed when i was younger that my dad loved me so much and i regret not doing enough with him. Now i realise how much the men care.That disgusting pig of a woman only wants the kid for child support. I know i might sound bad but i understand how devastated the man would feel. I feel so bad for him.
A grown man crying over his child is the worst thing.
Imagine a man holding his dead child in his arms or something.
I really really hoped that he was her father but she wasn’t his.... when he started crying i cried so bad. This guy would have been so nice father. And now.... all he did for her is gone. Im still crying😭😢
Who else feels devastated for that poor man 😩😫😖
🙋🏾♀️
Sarah Sanderson "I Do"
My heart hurts for him. And for that sweet baby having that woman for a mother.
Sarah Sanderson me. You could tell he loved that child
It's very sad
"How often does a man beat the woman to the hospital?"
Truer words have never been spoken
I was twice as far away as she was. At work. I went home. Packed. Changed and sped to the hospital at about 70-80 mph. In December. In Wisconsin. In the woods. On a winding road. She had about 15-20 miles if that on a 4 lane major highway.
@Lok Mickson life has been pretty okay. Married to a great woman. Own a nice house.
Men like him,simply are rare,anyone who finds one,just treat him right,and never let him go,never!
@@scottrasmussen179 Do you still think about Zaylie?
@@Abdirahman_Mohamed every day
That little girl looks like a tiny angel .... How precious !!
The father owning the child, saying they're look alike when he was still a kid, his chin, his dimple. God bless him. He's a good father
Haennah Javier heartbreaking, I hope I’ll never experience the pain he’s been through.
I also hope he’s okay.
Should have bounced the moment she said he wasn't the father. When a woman says you are not the father, chances are you are not. Feel sorry for the little girl who had an idiot for a mother but the guy is part of the problem.
MrSupermanbe chances tho... the fact that there was a chance he was the father and since he already loved that child so much he couldn’t just give up like he said he wasn’t gonna give up that easy without proof
they look so alike idk how it isn’t him
@@MrSupermanbe but how
I dont believe she is even taking care of her daughter, she just hates her ex. Her ex said the girl only wears cut off sweats and the same shirt. The mom had no answer for what she was spending child support on.
And still in pull ups at 3. She is sorry af. She probably only feeds the girl on TV dinners.
That felt strange giving that a thumbs up. I noticed that and it's wrong.
I feel like she was being petty putting her in the same outfits so that the “good outfits” she has for her don’t go and stay at her dads house. I know a couple like this, they have separate clothes at each house and one outfit that gets share between houses.
@@jessafully22 I hope that is the reason. Im worried for that child.
Yes exactly that seemed off to me too
That little girl is so pretty. That woman needs to pay back all that money.
With interest to make up fur all the time, love and effort that he has put into raising that child.
The "Lady" deserves a one way ticket to Bamako, Central African Republic, Libya, Mali, Somalia or Sudan. Let them treat her how she treats her child
Ashe Nightshade YESSSSS!!!
It will not happen. As long as his name is on the birth certificate he will have child support payments. Men, be careful who you sleep with, or you could pay the rest of your life.
@@johnvanderslice7966 now that a dna test has proven in court that he isn't the father, he won't have to make any more payments. However, I don't think he will be reimbursed for what he has payed already.
@@montanabillings7775 I hope you're right, but remember, you are dealing with a big government bureaucracy, he will have to go back to court and get it reversed. My son has custody of his daughter, and it cost him $1500. Just to say he wanted no child support from his ex.
That guard is the best "Be respectful ".
The mother is not looking out for her daughter’s best interest. Disgusting.
Disgusting, sickening, enraging, heartbreaking. Too many ways to say it. One way to simplify it. Horrible.
Yep she apparently keeps her in dingy sweats all the time too. Using and that support money on herself.
Jorgumander World Serpent - yep but if she expected to marry this man who betrayed her and her hopes and dreams she is now a scorned women and she only cares about HER SELFISHNESS.
So many women do this. Selfish.
@@gregcarlson8438 and mans too.
The fact that her daughter is going to see this some day, and see what a fool her mother was. Embarrassing
She hates the guy now but her daughter might hate her in the future after watching this.
yes she's 6 years old now ,the times goes by ,she will grow and find out about this video
Actually shes almost 10. Said she was conceived March 2011 so would have been born in Dec
I kinda bad with math lol even basic. Sorry
Oh yes...I forgot about that! Good...hope she yells at her so-called mother too
She doesn’t even care that her child is losing her father
She ain't daughter of a cheating fiance at least
chomu lol still the daughter of a bad person tho
@@havel3364 what tf did the daughter do-
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th yea at least she isnt the daughter of a guy who was willing to be a father to her. At least she is the daughter of someone who pumped n dumped and has never been in her life and probably doesnt care
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th who hurt you?
this little girl will one day see this and i hope she says to her mom “im disgusted in your behavior.”
When you're willing to destroy your daughter's life just to prove you are right...
She already knew. She would have never said anything if they remained together and had gotten married. SMH
Am your 800th like
yup! 😊🤘👍
_what a _*_great_*_ human being!_
@@I_the_Taco yup... the sarcasm doesn't work here.
That’s women for you
I *LOVE* how she went HAM on her!!!! Amen!!! I cried for him!!! This is so sad!!! 😥
Yes it is, that poor little girl just lost the only father she ever knew😢
Absouletely!
@Silent Hill Warrior 5 she went all out
I literally started crying when she said he wasn’t the father
The fact she was so convinced he wasn’t the father and still made him work so hard everyday for child support makes me so mad because it was so clear she was using him too
That’s just how it is sadly 🤦🏾♂️
@@PlaymakinMarii well it shouldn't be like that
Luckily she's little and she didn't get to much from him. And i would want back pay! For everything i paid. Lol 😅 idk how she's gonns take care of the child alone good luck baby sitters are not cheap half her checks gonna go to that
@@Morfiusc well, welcome to the justice system. Custody is anyways in favor of the mother, regardless of whether or not they would make a good parent.
Even if he knew I bet he'd still pay for child support and do whatever it takes to spend time with that child
As a man who isn't a father, my eyes watered. Broke my heart for this guy. Keep your head up man. God will bless you for being a good man.
he wasnt crying because he wasnt the father. he was crying because he was going to lose his daughter, whom he loved more than that woman will ever.
I felt bad for the man and the daughter
@@cherrychan2200 I choose to believe, i'll see him in the gym, and he'll find someone better. i pray for this man
My fault I didn’t mean to dislike that
@@keithgedick3970 It's okay!
@@JayBird84 I wish I could hug him!!
"She was the reason I went to work everyday"
That broke my heart.
Beta
@@magacop5180 trust me he is and he knows it too but the fact that he loves her so much that it no longer matters to him
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True. btw im ur 1k like
@@magacop5180 most people are beta
I'm sorry... but a man, who would go THAT far... a literal 100+ drive to see her.
at that point, doesn't matter if they are biologically related or not
That man, is a father.
facts
I feel so bad for that little girl and that man. I hope they continues to have a relationship after this.
Let him be the father he wants to be
@@kalequeen5981 ? Sorry, I’m a bit confused. Are you saying this as an insult? If so, I think you read the comment wrong. The commenter is saying, because he drives 100+ miles every weekend, you can tell that that man loves his daughter. No, you need to drive 100+ miles a weekend to be a good father, but by that man doing that, it proves how dedicated he is to be in his daughters life and raise her.
Misspell, you DONT need to drive that long to be a good father.
feel sorry for him, despite knowing she wasnt his, he still showed so much love... he may be a bad boyfriend but wonderful father
The girl is gonna see this video, and when she does she is gonna hate here mother so bad
yep.
Facts
I doubt.... she is gonna grow up to be just like her mother.... remember... new horrible generation 🙏
@@DrAbKaN Yeah, I was thinking that too. The mom is probably going to play the victim to the daughter and feed her stories that favour her own perspective
@@rimshakayastha6850 Until she realizes all lies from her mother.
The fact I’m crying because he’s not the father, I feel he should adopt her so that the child doesn’t deal with her mother
He doesn’t have to adopt her. A tv show DNA test is meaningless. Legally, he has been declared the father in a court of law and he can continue to be her father if he wants to. In fact, he may not be able to set aside a judgment of paternity even with a DNA test at this point.
The law in many states requires someone to challenge paternity early on and after its determined they can’t come back and undo it by saying that genetically the kid isn’t theirs.
There are a lot of men paying child support for kids that aren’t biologically theirs.
The ultimate plot twist
@@annagitana1 I think the worst part of this situation is that she won't even try to find the biological father. She will probably try and use this to reduce the visitation he has earned and still continue to milk him for child support.
I started crying too I can’t believe how evil that woman is
Yes i agree %100
If she really believed that he wasn’t her dad then why did she still take money from him. Disgusting
Not even to pay for her basic necessities. That guy needs full custody
She's a golddigger
@@OCDroodles Which one? Scotty doesn't deserve that.
Because the legal system always just gives stuff to the woman no matter what. You know equal rights and all that
And complain that it wasn't enough, at that.
I've seen this video over and over and I hope she also watched this video over and over to see what a fool she made of herself. I wonder how her child is doing
This is just heart breaking. That guy deserves full custody. He's a real parent.
I wish that guy was my dad.
Grass Man I’m assuming you can’t do this but if I was a judge and could legally sign the kid over to Mr.Rasmussen I would.
@Grass Man - That's a bunch of nonsense. That woman is no feminist. She's just a disgusting person who doesn't deserve the title of mommy.
I don't believe she got custody. Due to the facts of what the mom does.
I wish I had a father like him
She should be charged with fraud. She knew that girl wasn't his but still sued him for child support.
Yep..plus she stutter alot while explaining..very sus no?
@@MrKecex I don’t think sus is the right word bro..
@@Zlervo suspicious
Make her pay it all back imo
@@tylerdaniel6428 Yes! She should pay him back.
I got hyped when the judge started yelling at her. She deserves it. How terrible of a mother to cheer at the fact her baby has no father. That proves she hates him even more then she loves her child. Disgusting.
Fr i was like YEAH YELL AT THIS BIH💀
So sad
😭
Stolen
@@superaidenlee8355 really?
That women boiled my blood. Bloody cheering. Like the judge said some father don't bother. But this guy was committed to this little girl xx ❤❤❤
He is still her legal father and he can 100% sue her for full custody.
haley polk use this video as defense
@@WowJustWow37 YOU BET! Let a judge or jury see this. She's wacked out.
Unfortunately it may not go the way we all want it to because blood relation, especially for women, is a huge factor when determining custody.
Rebecca Stapley it’s more about her being the woman rather them being blood related. He’s on the birth certificate and it legally makes him the father.
@Dodadeus said but true
Most people be begging for a kid to not be theirs, this dude legit begging ON HIS KNEES so the child could be his
Yea after all you raised Luke like your own son .you can sympathize with him 👍👍
@@shellblaster6932 anikin was a brother to me and it was Padme’s wish I took care of Luke and Leia
@@Soysauce_Shady Yet, you cut off his legs and let him burn.
Did you thought about another way to end this fight ?
@@jaxthedisintegrator8096 yes and no
@@Soysauce_Shady So cruel 😓
I literally cried watching him cry at the end. So horrible, a very selfish woman.
I wanted to hug the poor guy! So heartbroken! :(
Yeh same 😞
@@SparDanger careful he probably has an std, oh and probably enough other children out there.. if he really wanted the baby to be his, he would have put it in her not someone else and then breakup with her after cheating on her
Me too so many men refusing to take care of their child and this one was there without any proof
Jessie Vega it was her baby but not his that’s not his baby
My eyes were flooded with tears for this man. I felt like I was emotionally and psychologically damaged because of the results, because I really wanted him to be the father for this child. I can’t imagine the pain that he still feels, till this day.
I know that he cheated but, he clearly and genuinely loved that child. The way she reacted to those dna test results was disgusting.
They both cheated. Only one of them was honest enough to admit it and own the mistake.
Your children are more important than your romantic partners. Always.
@@CoconutButt not a good way to word it, but i see what you mean.
I think that he cheated is the fact that she was it was probably more than just what she says he wasn’t getting something from the relationship people is to cheat if they’re in a really good relationship with people like this man
I can tell why he cheated now
I actually cried when he broke down, my dad seems to walk out of my life whenever he pleases and my mom is extremely toxic and actually drove him away. To see a dad love his child so much brought me to tears, it's all I've wanted growing up.
same, and it's happening to me right now to me...
blueberry same here mane.
Bruh same here
Same
i also cried eventhough im blessed with good parents. I just felt really bad for him
“Yaaaay! I’m a single mother with no one who loves me or my child-WHATCHU CHEERING FOR!?”
Excellent response to that failure of a parent
I really hope there is a special karma for that woman. I loathe parents that are just DNA donors and not parents!
@@nicholerubes2959 I wouldn't. The child needs her right now, unfortunately. But yeah, later in life maybe. She's such a horrible person.
@@nicholerubes2959хахах, почему? Этот парень первый изменил ей, он заслужил эту боль 😐
@@goddess.in.infinity I only speak english
@@goddess.in.infinityYou idiot! That is the child he loved with his LIFE. And you have the audacity to say that?! Are you ok??? It’s as if he lost his child. He said in the video “she’s my whole world. i do everything for her… she’s the reason i go to work everyday………i feel like my world is in ruins now.” he’s dying inside and you naïvely say “oH, hE cHeAtEd fIrsT, hE dEserVes tHis pAiN?!
Wow! What kinda woman she's. She slept with someone and later got to know that her man was cheating on her. Wait a minute!!! Did you say i later find? And meanwhile you slept with other men and call him a cheater?? Woahh!! That's why it's hard to trust in relationship these days. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Time will come, the child will tell her mother "I HAD a good father and YOU made him leave me"
😭❤️
I agree
Its up to the friend of the court. And since they kept denying her a paternity test and he's on the birth certificate I really hope they do the right thing and still allow him to legally be her father. Just like when someone adopts a child and they get put on the child birth certificate. He is legally her father and I think the mother is going to have a hard time changing that.
The mother is going to tell the kid a different story
Omaygad😭
The little girl has a father and it’s disgusting how the mother doesn’t want them to be together
Ikr its not always about who the biological parents are but who actually loves and cares about the child
my aunt got divorced when my cousin was 2yrs. He was physically abusive, wouldn't show up to pick my cousin up, and would give under the money amount for child support. My aunt would have killed to have somebody actually wanna be with her kid let alone help pay for her.
1.skallen
don’t know how it is in america but, if you are 13 or older, you can legally chose which parent. The older the better. depends on the situation of course.
My mom used to be verbally abusive towards me. all my money that she’d hold on to would disappear. Turns out that money went towards drugs. If she couldn’t get her fix. she’d be so angry. thankfully, and unfortunately, she hardly didn’t get her fix. So her outbursts were rare. But i hated it so much.
She got clean, and 100% regrets everything she ever done or said to me. Drugs change you. But I finally got my mom back. I love her. But i’d be lying if i didn’t admit i desperately wanted to live with my dad. In the end i stayed with her, and don’t regret it. Where my dad lives is- not the best for me.
That other man is her father, but not her daddy.
His name is on the birth certificate he is the father and still has every right to that child.
She cared more about humiliating him, then finding her daughter's father. Sad.
Didn't sombody say the same thing on tt??
@@karinuzumaki4676 I mean probably but I just saw it here. and that was my reaction. So yeah you are right most likely. everyone kind of has the same reaction so yeah lol
Doesnt deserve to be a mom lol
Ikr
@@okamuspanulirus9614 no she deserves the title "birth giver" or "egg donor"
That’s your daughter. No matter what anyone says, she’s your daughter.
I'm adopted... Didn't know it, until someone (dad's sister, who hated my adopted mom) out of anger blurted it out at 45 years of age.... When I finally asked my dad about it (who had Dementia) he simply said... You will always be my special love...but not by blood.... That was in 2008... I still take care of him today he turned 91 February 14th 2020.... You just NEVER know..... Our relationship hasn't always been easy, but in my life he's taught me a few things I keep in my treasure chest of life. Main thing he taught me was to give 100% of whoever you are... to whatever you're doing, because it's worth doing it right in the first place... Even if you stumble trying.
You are the example of an amazing woman that we all strive to be👑👑 keep on shining queen🥰
Such a lovely story thanks for sharing
@@neons.hairclip Thank you Love... You did my heart some good today... I'm truly grateful.
@@jonas4xa43 Thank you Dear.
@@neons.hairclip you know, the most interesting part about it all is that he and I look exactly alike... My Father's eyes over the years have turned bluish gray... Mine are doing the exact same thing.... God knows how to pair people up doesn He.
I just wished the girl could stay with him instead of that woman
Blood doesn’t mean nothing. Parents are the people that loves and cares for you. In this case, it is him
Family Courts say otherwise, and because of the laws, since he's been there day one, he's now on the hook for child support.
Preach bruh!
Exactly
@@animemaster2400 It's true that Scotty fight to stay with daughter?
Studies prove parents invest more into their biological offsprings. Blood is everything, the fact is this man is a cuckhold because of that woman.
He may not be the father but he's a better parent than most people are nowadays. God bless this man
He is the father. Don't care what dna says. Father's are the men who help you ride a bike deal with heartbreak have special bonding trips. Not the dna that says you are related.
@MrSpeed-do2zk I think of dna or adoption as the story you became the parent to the child. Not dna automacilly means you are the father/mother whether you be present or not
amén 😭🙏
"He may be your father but he aint your daddy"
@@Memesifoundonfacebook I love that part of the movie. But I cry caise he died
He needs to stop paying child support. Let her figure it out on her own.
When Jerome stepped in and said "be respectful" I could feel true animosity towards such a garbage human.
Yeah same. Im glad judge ripped into her
yea u can see he wanted to smack her
i dont know if it was the lighting, but his face went totally red for it, too.
Unfortunately she calls herself a mother...
She cheered.
She *actually* cheered.
I legit threw my phone
@@sarahbridges-q6x Instead of wasting neurons on her, think about all the other women with fantastic achievements.
@@rr.studios preach
Sarah Barnes don’t take any shame from that human. If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think of that... thing... to be human. Like, humans are supposed to feel feelings and stuff.
I am so sad 😭
"What you cheering for...... whew Imma single mother with nobody to love me or my baby"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Judge Lauren Lake is the GOAT period!
That would've devastated me to hear😂😂😂
Yeah she tore her a new one. Well done, Judge Lake! 👌🏾
Definitely is!
Miss MB, that’s the Maddest I’ve ever seen Judge Lauren Lake!
Jose M. Figueroa Jr., absolutely.
I love this judge, she knows how to put things at their right position.
The cop that told her to "Be Respectful!" gave me chills. He does not get enough credit.
We all love Jerome 😌
@@shammyshammy5539 yesss
You know I really hope he makes her pay back the child support
I’m surprised when she jumped the whole floor didn’t break 💀
That was his P Barnes moment
I can’t imagine how that little girl must feel now that she’s lost the only person she could’ve considered her dad. Imagine her asking at the end of the week ”when’s dad coming?”
He wont leave the kid.He loves the kid too much to run out.
@@kyles8524 i don't think her "mother" will let him do that
Knowing a "Karen", the mother would tell lies and say along d line " ur dad dont love u and left u"
@@voltexvoltex3283 If that happens or is happening, I want to slap that lady and give her a talk about being a better mom rather then a idiot cause I have little half- siblings and I now the pain. And I know alot of people can agree😥
She will ask her mother.
they should make that woman pay every bit of those child support payments back .
And double it for emotional damage
Julius Filenius that damge cannot be fixed with money
The guy wouldn't take it, he would rather the mother have that money and some of it trickle to the daughter.
Cause he actually cares about the daughter and that means he can't take money away from the horribad mother. A double-sided sword.
Exactly!!
Agreed
Wow. This was really tough to swallow 😢. Poor man. Evil woman. Devastating for the little girl mostly %100 😢
"Im a single mother with nobody to love me or my child"
A slap in the face
A much needed slap!! Wish she had gotten a KO instead! ...That will come later when she realizes just what a fool she is for being so happy that the BEST father around won't be around anymore. What she put him and her daughter through was just evil.
I get so annoyed by people who say 'I'm a single mother' when their kid still sees their dad consistently or have a custody arrangement.
No, you're just single
@@ilsedevries2529 I know right. Had a friend who said that all the time when her kids spent 4 days with her abd 3 days with their dad in a week. And I was thinking, how is she a single mom. 🙄🙄
I supported that judge soo much, right in that moment
@@dannyhy2577 YES 🙌
Her-"He's not the father."
Also Her-"He doesn't pay enough in child support."
🤔
None cares about people cheating on each other anymore???
chomu lol But in this case, what the woman did weigh heavier than what the man did. She basically stole money from him, lied to him, and manipulated his emotions by detaching the daughter to him after he got so closed up to the point of believing he is the father of the daughter.
chomu lol you mean like have a baby with someone else?
Right, "he wants to claim her on taxes" and that's gas money and maybe something to eat for the two of them. Which he'd probably put aside so they could have done something together.
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th they both cheated tho
The judge was spot on with this. The "mother" is extremely selfish. You're so happy that your child is fatherless. Good job, champ!
LOL
And still probably won't take that man off child support smh
@@KimmieP415 she sees him as a sucker without a backbone that probably won't stand up to her
@@KimmieP415 bet you she will use the child as a pawn to keep him on child support
This is going into my Top 10 for PC foolishness.
Omg I rarely cry but I had tears for this man. Wow what a mother
The fact that he drove 45 through a foot of snow and BEAT HER to the hospital speaks volumes of how dedicated he is to that little girl. That woman is disgusting.
fr he’s been dedicated even before she was born and this woman has the nerve to cheer
Is this video real
@@Toms566 yea these are all real caes
@@Toms566 They are all real cases. Just documented on television
OMG
So many people praying for men like this. Good luck trying to get the other man to take care of your daughter.
Do you mean as a father? As he wasn't a great boyfriend.
@@ToniaAlex13 yes, obviously.
she'll put all her energy into getting the real father to care for his child who has obviously turned his back on them. I predict that she will have many cys visits in her future
Mgtow.
why would the court deny a dna test that would settle this? must be the money
My heart broke for him and for that little girl. Her mum is cheering at the fact she just lost a father and the only father she knew.
i grew up with a man whom who stood by when my real dad left my mom.I am thankful of my father at heart.This she took is never a good thing happening to a child that age.I knew the feeling of knowing i wasnt really related to my dad now non the less i love my papa now.
And a good one at that.
Roni's Princess same! 😢
Girl same here. I wish I has a dad like him. A man who cared enough and did what it took. Where is my GoT bell, "SHAME..."
plus the fact that now she'll probably have to pay back the child support and to add up to that she already barely makes any money, if the dude wants he can take her as she's legally his
She don't deserve you, because someone else will be very lucky to have you
when she yells "what are you cheering for?" it´s so satisfying to hear, get her jugde Lake, GET HER
I laugh everytime I hear THT part cause Judge Lake have the best recations
Karen: "I'm not..."
Judge: "NO, YOU WERE!"
@@Joetheknight406 the mother is a vindictive #%%* who doesn’t care for her daughter
Did you see the vertical lift she got tho, at least an inch or two, she got hops.
This is a show right?
I love how she was getting child support when she knew he wasn’t the father, but still complained that he wasn’t paying enough
Exactly
Woman
She makes me mad
She hates that mans guts for cheating on her
@@etherious5957 and hurt her child while she was at it
The saddest part is that when that little girl wants to know what happened with his daddy, and she research and find out what her mother did whit him, she will hate her, and hate her real father for leaving her as well. I feel for that girl ☹️
GABRIELA RIOS I bet the mother will tell her that he abandoned her
@@depressoespresso3931 unfortunately, hope someone shows her this when she's old enough to understand so she know who her REAL father is regardless of DNA (Edit: spelling error hope not home)
HIS daddy?
@@GasperV0 he'll keep paying and stick around. That kid is his purpose
@@drew7155 yeah but there's no way that woman would leave him on the birth certificate and once that's gone how would he even pay child support?
Crazy to think that little girl is now almost a teenager. She's older and probably somewhat aware of the situation. I hope it hasn't affected her too adversely.