If the mom kept her mouth shut, she could easily have gotten more money just off the fact that the father’s income has increased over the years. But she kept telling on herself by saying “I need my money” and “My money”. Her son would be lucky to see half that money.
You know, that was literally my thought-that poor kid. Got some deadbeat OF mom trying to squeeze money out of some philandering deadbeat dad. And the thing that is crazy about that is that guy 100% should have been paying more than a 100 bucks a month, but no way was any part of an increase going to go to the child. "My money" "My money." Dang. That poor kid.
@graveyj2000 What you fail to realize is that she does need the money for her child. You're just arguing semantics with that. She needs help so she needs the money. Ya'll are just being contrary for no reason.
2:40 Fiance's face was on point. The mamma was playing games, but I still believe the dad should pay a little more to support his child, regardless of the nastiness of the mother. Fair is fair.
By law, you would THINK she is owed a percentage of his earnings so it will help her take care of her son. Especially if that ass recently took her DIAPERS for him. He was just being ignorant. 🤦🏻♀️ couldn’t even take him REAL underwear.
His calling the mother the wombat, is hilarious to me because I'm Australian and know wombat mothers raise their children by themselves. Fair call on his part 😂
They helped make the mom look bad. She’s was playing on the fact she doesn’t know the correct terminology but fact is, she busting her ass night and day to the point she has to exploit her body and I don’t know how this judge can sleep knowing she let a man making $8000k a month that treated this woman like sht since she was organs get away with $100 a month. That is so sad and disgusting to me and protecting men.
Have you even thought that fathers aren’t allowed to see the kids to think of them. And how can they take away time but expect a men to give. If a mother can’t afford a child on their own they shouldn’t have them because when a men has child no money is expected of the mother.
@@aintthatcommonby the sounds of it he is allowed visitation but he doesn’t drive the 45 mins to see him. That’s literally a drive to the beach where I’m at, and he’s saying he won’t drive that for his son.
@@aintthatcommonwhere did you get that from the video it doesn’t matter if she can’t afford the child by herself what is $100 gonna do in this day didn’t he just say in the video he brought him some diapers stop trynna make the dad look good and realize that both parents are horrible
Thanks to you and your teaching. I was able to represent myself in court during my divorce and not be put on child support. After years of being the sole provider. I really appreciate your videos!
Everyone is missing the point that she didn’t mention any needs. She was too worried about the father she failed to mention how much she spends on food, clothes, etc.
@@aminahlashe what is everything? In a real court room, it involves legal documents. You can’t just say everything because she is responsible for 50% of that everything. She specified potential things before she named legit current expenses
Was she asked? Honestly for a 13 yr and the non custodial parent pays $100 a month, there doesn’t need to be a break down on expenses for some sort of increase. Internalized misogyny too deep with some bw
That's the equivalent of my mom looking over her glasses. ..you are about 2 seconds away from serious time out without phone or computer....the horror !
I believe she deserved an increase in child support from $100/month regardless of her pettiness. Not to the tune of the things she rattled off, but $100...???
I would hope this father would look past this foolish mother and try and establish a relationship with his 13 year old son. It's sad to see so many young men grow up without their father. This father actually lives 45 minutes away from his son. He needs to step up.
If the judge determines that the money that is being asked is not for the child then it is no longer child support. Looks like she had the baby just get child support. However, if she had kept her mouth shut at just that the payments have not been adjusted in 13 years, she could have walked away with at least 4 to 500 more per month.
I cannot fathom who on earth would pay to see any of that. But then I remember someone got Mama duck pregnant ten times. Simps are the enemy of every man and yet every man has the potential to be one.
@@Maninawig I get that they were wasting the courts time, but it seemed like it was the father and his fiancé who were being the most disruptive and not taking it seriously. The lady responded to their taunting and disrespecting her, and the proceedings, but instead of escorting the fiancé out; the judge assumes the mother is completely full of it, because she has an only fans page. She suddenly turned on the plaintive, and denied her case for one or two comments made in response to the defendant? When the other parties were contemptuous and disrespectful the whole time? Dad has no contact with the child, and has only paid $100 per month since the child was four years old. While he makes $8,000 a month?!? Possibly $9000? That child deserved to get some additional support from his dead-beat Dad. Mom has supported and cared for the child, with barley any money from Dad. I don’t care if she does have an Only Fans page. It’s so expensive and exhausting to raise a child. Especially if you have to do both parental roles, which she did. I get that the judge was frustrated, but there were questions that should have been asked and answered before dismissing the parents. She was obviously eligible for an increase of child support, that he could’ve and should’ve been paying, already. This child will now be disadvantaged, and more likely to end up in a gang or on the streets or just severely depressed, because even the system treated him as unimportant. The judge should’ve protected this child, and held this father responsible. It was mentioned several times that this was for support of his 13 year old son. He’s laughing and joking it up with his fiancé, and mixing up which kid is being spoken of. I assume he hasn’t brought that child anything since he was small enough to need diapers. This feels so wrong.
Mom ain't no saint either. I am surprised he didn't have to pay more based on income alone though. But sometimes, men can get away with one in this horrible state of child support laws.
@@DNV75 I think the reason it wasn’t upped is because he still needs money to take care of himself and pay bills so they couldn’t take more but maybe something else but that’s my take
Man oh man I’m so grateful for the mother I have! She gave me and my brother everything she could and my grandpa was the type of guy to be happy with whatever he had. He taught me to be happy with what my single mother could provide with no child support from our father.
Yea same here I was an ass when I was a kid and had anger issues but grew up a keeper to myself and controlled myself and when I was about to break I walked away
Yes! I didn’t ask for child support, I didn’t want anything to do with him, let alone his money. With that said he did pay for pre-K for three yrs (2 for our son, one for our daughter). He’s a good dad, just a 💩 “husband”.
Oh man I wasn't expecting that ending. See I knew you were my favorite judge for a reason. That was amazing!!! The look on her face was priceless. 🤣😅😂🤭😁
I remember a girl in my high school who got herself pregnant and even made a song title “imma get that child support” and it was so damn horrible. Well the guy was smart, saved the video, went to court and he got full custody because the judge felt she wouldn’t use the money on the baby at all.
@@mark196233 What about the argument "my body my choice" and a fetus much less sperm are not babies/humans therefore men in womens view should never be responsible unless they choose too
Thought this was based on income of the parent that has to provide the support. Yes, the mother was all about herself in this but at the same time $100 does not go far in taking care of the needs of any child any age. She should have had an increase to assist with the regular expected things the child needed such as clothing, food, place to live with utiltities, current activities, health insurance, etc.
I agree. Plus, what does it matter if she does OnlyFans to make money? Why should she be shamed when the dad is making that much per month but only paying $100 in child support?
Child support is just that, money meant to support the child. She kept asking for more and more, but she has a steady income, so it's assumed she doesn't "need" more money, she just "wants" more. Yes $100 a month is pitiful, but if she's doing well enough she doesn't need an increase.
Most of the time, I really like these videos, but I've noticed more and more that there is a bias towards many of the woman. She does have a reason to ask for an increase. This man hasn't paid anything for the maintenance of their child for all of these years - thirteen of them. Letting him off the hook is beyond the pale. And to shame her for OnlyFans is disgusting. She has a job. She has a hustle. She is taking care of herself and her child no matter what it takes. There is a bias regarding sex work and you fed into it. The man running the streets having multiple children he doesn't care for in the slightest gets off scott free while the Mama who does whatever it takes gets told to move on simply because she does something the judge doesn't morally agree with (but is entirely legal) and it is gross.
What sucks is that it absolutely does cost more than $100 a month to raise a teen. So the only person who is gonna suffer here is their child. Mom shouldve kept her mouth shut.
@@lilyon5-5everything, food, clothes, healthcare time to time,twice the amount of everything in the house (think ant garbage bags toothpaste shampoo everything)
@@lilyon5-5food? School supplies? other extra curriculum activities?? Clothes? Shoes? Gas to drive the child around? Health insurance? Phone? Internet? Just sayin..
Wait so you let that man walk away from all his responsibilities because you didn’t like the way that lady talk? He still is only paying 100 dollars for a thirteen year old that he called a wombat.. he doesn’t even see his son at all doesn’t pay a single medical expense or nothing and you let him get away with it to punish her…. This is sick.
It was clear to me from the start she just wanted money so she can live a certain life style I also think it’s out of jealousy in the fact he got engaged to somebody that’s not her I could be wrong but the fact that she clearly was saying I need some money was a clear incentive that she wanted more money from him not for son. Now we don’t know the background in which she is either not letting him see his son because she wants more child support money or he’s not a good father for the son
Properly ??? It’s HIS child too. She pays EVERYTHING for THEIR child, that’s a reimbursement to her Bc it’s HIS child as well, so he should be financially accountable for him as well. Smh.
@@drizzydre2678 i think the child support would have gone up from 100 to 700-1000 but we know the hoe would only use that to decorate her room for her ONLYFAN page
I mean even if he wasn’t in any after school sports, she still needs more than 100.00 a month for a 13 year old! Clothes, shoes and food! Those are the essentials! I don’t know why the judge couldn’t just give her an increase even if it wasn’t something she didn’t like!
@@kristiN1214 I don’t blame the judge… the woman only wants the money for herself…. There’s absolutely no point for an increase if she’s not even using it for the kid. She was doing just fine for thirteen years…. Now all of a sudden it’s an issue, cause you see your bd moved on and is engaged…. Typical bitter bm behavior. Now as for the dad, should he step up more for his son absolutely! But if the man ain’t willing to do it then keep on hustling with your only fans job and continue to do what’s best for your son the same way you bn doing it for all these years…..only fans does not have to be the only job you have…. Get a real nine to five like everyone else
@@reenae9346 ...She has multiple jobs including Onlyfans.... When was it stated that was the only job she had? Why should she perpetuate this shitty cycle of taking care of this kid by herself when he makes damn near 100k a year. After 13 years the amount he paid is only like 15,000 over the course of 13 years. Meanwhile his salary would have been over the millions by that point if he kept with the same job for a substantial amount of time. You're as biased as the judge and are seeing the bigger picture. Reguardless if she uses the money on herself, she's had to make ends meet for last 13 years while he's vacationing, bying 5500 dollar rings and living it up meanwhile his son doesn't have a father, and does have any financial support except from his mother
Absolutely!! I have children and grandchildren who were so expensive from the day they were born. The judge was wrong to not adjust the CS. A child needs more money from the $100 he’s was ordered to get at birth.
The reason she didn't raise the money was because the judge knew that the poor child wouldn't see any of it .and that the mom was gonna waste it on herself. Poor kid probably starves and both parents out there being petty AF . 😢
No shots fired, they hadn’t been together for 13 years was she supposed to be “virtuous “ while he moved on according to his standards? I don’t think only fans makes sense but he’s judging a situation that he’s donating change to
I love that she does the "but that's none of my business" sip of the cup impersonation. I'm not sure if it's intentional but very much on point, it makes me laugh every time
I agree that the child's mother was full of BS, but it does take more than $100 a month to raise a child. If I'm a father making $8k a month, then take your son shopping and do the things required as a father. Noone is thinking about the child in this case and irs very sad
Sorry but this case was not fair. Yeah, the mom is ridiculous. But if he is making 8K a month, he can pay more than $100 for the child. Guaranteed mom is paying more than $200 a month for that child.
@@juliekennedy9891 I think it was fair because she purge lied in court rooom that causes back fired. She lied how she will spend money for their son. She knew now That she won’t spend money on the kid but for herself. She should of STFU it consequences when you lie in court room
Everyone doesn't agree with this but you have to understand that Vonda knows $100 isn't enough but she also shouldn't have to deal with a liar. The lady can come back and try again without being greedy and ignorant because at the end of the day, her son suffers.
the judge knew that the adjustment was due, she didn't grant it bc the mom is a dumb ass who was lying to court. But this does not take away the father's responsability. She should have re-scheduled the court session, not deny her request.
Man I love your show. I've gone through the Child Support System with m ex-wife and none of the Judges I had were fair. I just want to say thank you for being fair and seeing through the B.S. that some of these woman come with. The money is for the children not for them to buy new cars and go on shopping sprees.
Miss Vonda B. You inspire me to put more consideration to pursuing a job in the field of law. I've lightly considered being a lawyer of some type, but to see the rulings you put forth for the cases your given, makes me want to make as much of a difference in the world as I feel you do.
Judge Vonda B! I thought you were going to drain this dude pockets! Kudos to you for being very objective and fair. I am certain that this ruling was not very popular with women. Despite one's feelings, this mother did not properly establish the need for a child support payment increase. Her own words destroyed her case. The judge tried to help her out several times but the mother couldn't control her tongue long enough for the judge to make a ruling. It is nice to see that equal treatment, as rare as it maybe, does exist in family support court!
I agree with the decision. Yes she is overdue for an increase but she was only in that court to be petty and get money for herself. She made that very clear when she had to be corrected several times.
This is the first case I’ve seen where the parent caring for the child got screwed. A 15 year old eats $100 a week in groceries alone. She shouldn’t have had to justify any further expenses
Unfortunately she presented a selfish, entitled and spiteful demeanor. If she had laid out the costs of food, clothing, etcetera and kept her attitude at home she would have won hands down.
@@charleshite7944 You know, I used to enjoy watching these videos, then I found out that they were faked, staged in fact, simply examples of potential senecios. Just like the WWF, not worthy of my time. The comment I made was posted prior to finding out.
Judge Vonda, I just Subscribed to your CHANNEL today 🙂 You have a good Attitude and you are Fair and you bring Justice to the PEOPLE 💛 THANK YOU for helping the INDIVIDUAL'S IN NEED
As a child of custody battles/child support, (I’m 23. My aunts had custody of me since I was 6 until I was 17/18) it’s very interesting to see the different videos around this sort of stuff knowing my aunt had to fight tooth and nail against my birth mother and father for child support (along with my 3 siblings she took custody of. All of us have different dads but same mom).
God bless Antie, real talk. Knowing and understanding how important it is for children to have a stable peaceful loving household w family who genuinely has their best interest, and also made sure y'all all stayed together
I feel for the 13 year old son. He probably asked her if he can join the football team and the baseball team and she thought to ask his dad for some help by taking him to court. But the way she behaved in court made her case dismissed. At the other hand, dad knows his kid is growing up and so will have more expenses. He ought to do for his kid without even being asked. It's common sense.
Judge Vonda B, I am usually on your side but in this case I do not agree. $100 a month does not even cover food for a growing teenager. I think you should have set her straight on adding activities to him. I know I am not the judge but I think an increase was due. I love your show, keep smiling and be blessed.
There are very little rules with child support judges. They can do and say whatever they want. She could have eliminated child support or tripled it. Usually it’s some old white man who still thinks traditional marriages mean the man pays. So getting child support decreased is difficult even if she increases her income of yours gets decreased. Don’t have kids if you don’t want to be treated unfairly like this.
The mother was being petty and greedy. She had it untill she said I think I'm going to put him in karate.. 13 years to ask for an increase.. judge made the right decision here..
This is completely unfair to the son. $100 a month?! That wouldn’t even pay his food! At the father’s rate of pay it should be, minimum, $1,200/ month.
It's so incredible how painfully transparent she was about wanting the money for herself. The forced corrections of herself to say things like "my SON needs more money" because Judge Vonda pointed it out earlier gives her away alongside the stupid crooked smiles she's giving each time she claims to need more money. Also love the using hypothetical costs for these teams to influence present and current payment. You don't get to guesstimate more than double the cost that you're aware of (i.e knows the football team requires at least $200, but then adds a hypothetical $300 more for "equipment") and not come off looking like a gold digger. And on that note, he's an aggressive deadbeat, too.
She presented her case terribly, but the finances of a child and custodial parent are inextricably wound up in each other. There really is no practical difference between "my son needs the money" and "I need the money because my son's needs take up most of what I'm able to earn." It's not like the son has a separate grocery bill, rent, utility bills, etc.
I'm so glad the judge saw thru her. He do need to be giving her more money for his son. If he don't want to give her the money. Give it to his son. Go pick him up and take him shopping..smh
If the mom kept her mouth shut, she could easily have gotten more money just off the fact that the father’s income has increased over the years. But she kept telling on herself by saying “I need my money” and “My money”. Her son would be lucky to see half that money.
oh to do a home visit un anounced to see just how life is in her house
Obviously she has been taking care of the child financially $100 wouldn’t cover clothes, food, school supplies or medicine. Stop
@@skiniminonochie annndddd? She still played herself
I would felt bad for her if she would have just shut the hell up. Arguing with him is not gonna make your case.
@@skiniminonochie which means she doesn't need the help. If she can't support the kid turn him over to the dad.
That poor poor child. Hope he gets the love and affection he needs. These parents are a disgrace.
His mama is the one for the streets, OF and selling that cat, but I cannot fathom who on earth would pay for either.
Complete and utter disgrace
You know, that was literally my thought-that poor kid. Got some deadbeat OF mom trying to squeeze money out of some philandering deadbeat dad. And the thing that is crazy about that is that guy 100% should have been paying more than a 100 bucks a month, but no way was any part of an increase going to go to the child. "My money" "My money." Dang. That poor kid.
@keonisan He's more for the streets than she is. He was slanging it all around. At least she's not physically touched by her watchers.
@graveyj2000 What you fail to realize is that she does need the money for her child. You're just arguing semantics with that. She needs help so she needs the money. Ya'll are just being contrary for no reason.
I love how the first words out his mouth was “yes your honor, I do take care of my 13 year old kid, just the other day I brought him some pampers” 😭😭😭
Bro was wild for that😂😂😂
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13 yrs or 13 months that would determine if he is in diapers or not.
Shit had me CRYING
Lmao that was like a wtf moment 🤦🏻♂️the guy isn’t all there tbh, and the new girlfriend coaching him was just rude af send her away.
2:40 Fiance's face was on point. The mamma was playing games, but I still believe the dad should pay a little more to support his child, regardless of the nastiness of the mother. Fair is fair.
It's clearly about revenge and jealousy. I had the exact same face. The ex is so cringe and embarrassing 😂
Apparently you don't have kids it's harder than what you think
This girl said “I wanna put him in karate too” the whole court room fell out ! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Am sorry to ask , but is this show for real or some type of entertainment?... am not from around here
@@ediare1 I just started watching this last night 😭 I was wondering the same thing.
@@ediare1 it’s a show for entertainment, Vonda B is an actual lawyer in Texas, and they are based on real cases.
This is a great case. As soon as the mother said “my money” she already exposed herself.
@Miles Dyson the fiance honestly the dumbest of these 3 stooges
@Miles Dyson so the child SUPPORT shouldn't be just "her business". There should be legit proof that she is using it for child ONLY
Miles, actually it IS the courts business.
That's why it's child support, to support the child, not the mother
Bruh he’s literally making 8k a month and giving his son 100. He can pick his son up tbh and spend money on him
@@babytboo1 you know these are actors right
I love how she went to say “$100? That my nails” but decided to say that’s his shoes instead 😂
Air Forces 100$
Proves she uses his money for herself
@@Gxld.Hxneyyy no it doesn’t. She takes care of everything. $100 is nothing. Even if she uses it god her nails, that’s reimbursement.
By law, you would THINK she is owed a percentage of his earnings so it will help her take care of her son. Especially if that ass recently took her DIAPERS for him. He was just being ignorant. 🤦🏻♀️ couldn’t even take him REAL underwear.
I’m glad y’all caught it too
His calling the mother the wombat, is hilarious to me because I'm Australian and know wombat mothers raise their children by themselves. Fair call on his part 😂
“I brought my 13 year old diapers the other day” 😂😂😂😂
Lol! I was so confused by that statement. Like bro what you mean you brought a 13 year old kid some diapers. 😂😂😂
Well based on this mother she seems to be all about me me me so the child could be wetting the bed at night and need bed time nappies.
I was like NINJA!!!!
I was like hell no, he didn't just say that.😂😂😂😂
Nah that was crazy 😂
"What kind of stuff was he doing" as she slowly sips her coffee was iconic hahahaha
yesss 😂😂
I was looking for this comment, that was epitome of "dish girl"
She drinks tea..hehehe
he probably got confused cuz he's high af
He was having a whole conversation with the fiance
When she corrected herself before she said her nails is $100 🤣😂
Yesss!!!!! 😂😂
I caught that.
Do nails really cost $100? I'm so surprised. 😯
@@happycook6737 Sometimes more. Prices depend on the application, design, embellishments, and any extra services such as treatment.
@@Rahkhell Wow. I am shocked. Starbucks and eating out shock me too. The amount of wasted cash over a lifetime...
He is for the streets, and she is for the world 😂 😂
Ha good one 😂
HERE IT IS 😂😂 I said this too
I feel bad for the son for having shitty parents, I hope he grows up and has the best life possible
And you know both parents are going to trash the other one in the kid's presence. Thats really sad
Yup...
They helped make the mom look bad. She’s was playing on the fact she doesn’t know the correct terminology but fact is, she busting her ass night and day to the point she has to exploit her body and I don’t know how this judge can sleep knowing she let a man making $8000k a month that treated this woman like sht since she was organs get away with $100 a month. That is so sad and disgusting to me and protecting men.
Pregnant *
. This embarrassing 😢
The fiancé in the back rethinking that engagement 😂😂 her face when the judge said “ you don’t know your 13 year old son is not in diapers” 🤣🤣
If he follows the example his parents are setting for him, he'll need the diapers to give to his own baby mama soon..
I HOLLERED! Sir… PAMPERS👀!? 😂😂
And how she looked at that ring when he said 5500
I feel SO sorry for their kid. Not one of them thought about him the whole case.
Have you even thought that fathers aren’t allowed to see the kids to think of them. And how can they take away time but expect a men to give. If a mother can’t afford a child on their own they shouldn’t have them because when a men has child no money is expected of the mother.
Think of all the bullying when his entire school finds this video, find her OF then bullies him to the point of suicide.
Not even the judge SMH
@@aintthatcommonby the sounds of it he is allowed visitation but he doesn’t drive the 45 mins to see him. That’s literally a drive to the beach where I’m at, and he’s saying he won’t drive that for his son.
@@aintthatcommonwhere did you get that from the video it doesn’t matter if she can’t afford the child by herself what is $100 gonna do in this day didn’t he just say in the video he brought him some diapers stop trynna make the dad look good and realize that both parents are horrible
Thanks to you and your teaching. I was able to represent myself in court during my divorce and not be put on child support. After years of being the sole provider. I really appreciate your videos!
Such a good judge. Level headed, non biased and intelligent. Also beautiful. Thank you for a great series.
She is not really a judge but i know what you mean
@@casierichardson5736 right she's amazing! She she does take office as a judge January 1st...
she is so biased against moms. i think her mama left her as a child and she is taking revenge on all mothers. such a sad thing
@@basharstats4482 no just all the women coming in are deadbeats.
@@basharstats4482 not exactly but think what you want to lol
Everyone is missing the point that she didn’t mention any needs. She was too worried about the father she failed to mention how much she spends on food, clothes, etc.
She definitely did mention that she takes care of everything...
@@aminahlashe what is everything? In a real court room, it involves legal documents. You can’t just say everything because she is responsible for 50% of that everything.
She specified potential things before she named legit current expenses
@@TooDeepForTheIntro her saying she receives $100 a month from a father who makes $8k a years is enough said
@@BubblesVsMilk it’s literally not. Then the lawyer explained why it wasn’t enough either. If that’s the case the CS system would be worse.
Was she asked? Honestly for a 13 yr and the non custodial parent pays $100 a month, there doesn’t need to be a break down on expenses for some sort of increase.
Internalized misogyny too deep with some bw
I love how she picks up the coffee cup and peeks over the edge while listening to stories
That's the equivalent of my mom looking over her glasses. ..you are about 2 seconds away from serious time out without phone or computer....the horror !
😂😂😂 fr
I believe she deserved an increase in child support from $100/month regardless of her pettiness. Not to the tune of the things she rattled off, but $100...???
I would hope this father would look past this foolish mother and try and establish a relationship with his 13 year old son. It's sad to see so many young men grow up without their father. This father actually lives 45 minutes away from his son. He needs to step up.
😄😄me too😄😄
Should have dismissed her request for extra curriculums, not child support, at 100 dollars a month for 13 years is not acceptable.
I agree. The judge is not helping the son by keeping his child support at $100 a month.
Yeah… $100 is crazy.
Agreed. If mom is smart she’ll refile with real evidence and an attitude change.
If the judge determines that the money that is being asked is not for the child then it is no longer child support. Looks like she had the baby just get child support. However, if she had kept her mouth shut at just that the payments have not been adjusted in 13 years, she could have walked away with at least 4 to 500 more per month.
She was about to say “ that’s my nail money” 😂😂😂
Yep....i caught that, but she's mad
Haha that was hilarious.
😂😂😂 she definitely did
I swear go going to hell for one… coming here breaking my ribs dammm you wrong. Shit too funny
Right 😂🤣🤣
He said “I just bought him diapers”
Judge “He’s 13??”
Yea he about to come out his pockets😂😂
He has so many kids from so many baby mommas he got himself confused
😂😂😂
He acts like he’s high as a kite. Can’t even answer any questions without looking at the woman behind him. She’s another piece of work I tell ya.
Hajahaha
GOT THAT RIGHT!!
That Onlyfans line killed me 😂😂😂😂😂 their reactions were priceless 🤣
I cannot fathom who on earth would pay to see any of that. But then I remember someone got Mama duck pregnant ten times. Simps are the enemy of every man and yet every man has the potential to be one.
Who in the hell is paying to see her naked
Interesting well done judge. Having children and bringing them up is not a joke.
Damn I feel bad for the kid. He's got two parents who truly don't care about him. I hope he grows up to be better than they are
Very sad indeed. 😔
The face the fiancé made after she said “ we coming for you” had me on the floor lmao
We shared the same look...
Rule #1 in court: show no vindictiveness if you want the case to go in your favour.
Bruhhhhh frfr I died 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Maninawig I get that they were wasting the courts time, but it seemed like it was the father and his fiancé who were being the most disruptive and not taking it seriously. The lady responded to their taunting and disrespecting her, and the proceedings, but instead of escorting the fiancé out; the judge assumes the mother is completely full of it, because she has an only fans page. She suddenly turned on the plaintive, and denied her case for one or two comments made in response to the defendant? When the other parties were contemptuous and disrespectful the whole time? Dad has no contact with the child, and has only paid $100 per month since the child was four years old. While he makes $8,000 a month?!? Possibly $9000? That child deserved to get some additional support from his dead-beat Dad. Mom has supported and cared for the child, with barley any money from Dad. I don’t care if she does have an Only Fans page. It’s so expensive and exhausting to raise a child. Especially if you have to do both parental roles, which she did. I get that the judge was frustrated, but there were questions that should have been asked and answered before dismissing the parents. She was obviously eligible for an increase of child support, that he could’ve and should’ve been paying, already. This child will now be disadvantaged, and more likely to end up in a gang or on the streets or just severely depressed, because even the system treated him as unimportant. The judge should’ve protected this child, and held this father responsible. It was mentioned several times that this was for support of his 13 year old son. He’s laughing and joking it up with his fiancé, and mixing up which kid is being spoken of. I assume he hasn’t brought that child anything since he was small enough to need diapers. This feels so wrong.
@@sharonsimmons6427 Nobody took the time to read this thesis statement lmao 🤣
Lord have mercy… that look the fiancé gave her when she said ,” we coming for you!” That face was like… you psycho!!!
“ I think I wanna put him in karate too “ I LOST ITTT 😭😭😭😭
That was so devious and evil and downright greedy.
Judge made a great ruling.
She going to far😂😂😂😂
That’s the moment she lost the case
“I gotta do jobs during the day and…. I gotta go do “stuff” at night too!”! I’m doing everything🤣🤣
"$100? That's my nai--that's...his...shoes."
That poor kid. I'm glad Vonda called her out.
Poor kid. The adults deserve each other. Dad's a real piece of work.
What adults?
Mom ain't no saint either. I am surprised he didn't have to pay more based on income alone though. But sometimes, men can get away with one in this horrible state of child support laws.
The mother is a typical pos.
But so is the father.
@@DNV75 I think the reason it wasn’t upped is because he still needs money to take care of himself and pay bills so they couldn’t take more but maybe something else but that’s my take
The Dad is working hard to make but the mother doesn't have the best interest.
Me and Judge Vonda B be sipping that tea at the same damn time 😂😂😂! THE TEA IS EXCEPTIONALLY GOOD!
😂
I love it when Judge Vonda grabs her cup when she's asking for the tea.. she's so sassy! Love it!!!! ❤
Man oh man I’m so grateful for the mother I have! She gave me and my brother everything she could and my grandpa was the type of guy to be happy with whatever he had. He taught me to be happy with what my single mother could provide with no child support from our father.
Yea same here I was an ass when I was a kid and had anger issues but grew up a keeper to myself and controlled myself and when I was about to break I walked away
Good
Yes! I didn’t ask for child support, I didn’t want anything to do with him, let alone his money. With that said he did pay for pre-K for three yrs (2 for our son, one for our daughter). He’s a good dad, just a 💩 “husband”.
So she let the deadbeat off the hook?
The fiancé in the back got me dying laughing 🤣
Her expressions!!!
Oh man I wasn't expecting that ending. See I knew you were my favorite judge for a reason. That was amazing!!! The look on her face was priceless. 🤣😅😂🤭😁
She brought him there because someone else got the ring 😂. This was about revenge, not the child.
Definitely
It's about a dead beat father
@@sinewave1k735cap
Right
I love when judge sips her tea and that side eye omg!!!!! 🍵 👀 😂😂😂
When he said the ring cost 5500 and you can see her in the background looking at the ring was priceless. I'm guessing he told her it was far more
Came here for this one - cracked me up 😂
Or maybe he lied to the judge because he is trying to say he hasnt got much money 😂
@@crazyboysince1998 maybe
I love it when it get personal and she grabs her cup like oh this getting good.
LIke there is blended popcorn in that cup with added syrup.
Vonda is a beast, I love how logical she is and how she doesn't take sides.
The fiancée flashing the ring is hilarious.
She a clown too
I remember a girl in my high school who got herself pregnant and even made a song title “imma get that child support” and it was so damn horrible. Well the guy was smart, saved the video, went to court and he got full custody because the judge felt she wouldn’t use the money on the baby at all.
so she lost child support, welfare and the baby she likely really didnt want?
Hate to break it to you but she didn't get herself pregnant.
@@mark196233 What about the argument "my body my choice" and a fetus much less sperm are not babies/humans therefore men in womens view should never be responsible unless they choose too
damm i wish there a video case on this lol
It's impossible for a female to get themselves pregnant. The ONLY way to get pregnant is with the bodily fluids of a male. The male got her pregnant.
Thought this was based on income of the parent that has to provide the support. Yes, the mother was all about herself in this but at the same time $100 does not go far in taking care of the needs of any child any age. She should have had an increase to assist with the regular expected things the child needed such as clothing, food, place to live with utiltities, current activities, health insurance, etc.
Exactly !’ Poor kid
I agree. Plus, what does it matter if she does OnlyFans to make money? Why should she be shamed when the dad is making that much per month but only paying $100 in child support?
Child support is just that, money meant to support the child. She kept asking for more and more, but she has a steady income, so it's assumed she doesn't "need" more money, she just "wants" more. Yes $100 a month is pitiful, but if she's doing well enough she doesn't need an increase.
Most of the time, I really like these videos, but I've noticed more and more that there is a bias towards many of the woman. She does have a reason to ask for an increase. This man hasn't paid anything for the maintenance of their child for all of these years - thirteen of them. Letting him off the hook is beyond the pale. And to shame her for OnlyFans is disgusting. She has a job. She has a hustle. She is taking care of herself and her child no matter what it takes. There is a bias regarding sex work and you fed into it. The man running the streets having multiple children he doesn't care for in the slightest gets off scott free while the Mama who does whatever it takes gets told to move on simply because she does something the judge doesn't morally agree with (but is entirely legal) and it is gross.
I don’t think it’s fair that the Case was dismissed. $100 a month for a 13 year old is ridiculous
What sucks is that it absolutely does cost more than $100 a month to raise a teen. So the only person who is gonna suffer here is their child. Mom shouldve kept her mouth shut.
What do teens need per months that’s over 100$ ?
@@lilyon5-5Food, electricity, a roof over their head, clothes, medical, internet, school expenses…..
@@lilyon5-5please tell me you're joking...
@@lilyon5-5everything, food, clothes, healthcare time to time,twice the amount of everything in the house (think ant garbage bags toothpaste shampoo everything)
@@lilyon5-5food? School supplies? other extra curriculum activities?? Clothes? Shoes? Gas to drive the child around? Health insurance? Phone? Internet? Just sayin..
Okay, did anyone else die laughing at the fiancée’s face when the baby mom said, “We’re coming for ya now!” 😂 I need a gif of that lady’s face 😂
Meeeeeeeeee I burst into tears 😂😂
Haha right
I watched that part as soon as I saw your comment. 😂
Yesss!!! I was dying!!!
“Not to put his business out there or anything” TOO LATE 😂 my mug looking REAL empty over here. Please pour me some tea ☕️
“I used to be for the streets” is insane to whisper to your fiancé 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wait so you let that man walk away from all his responsibilities because you didn’t like the way that lady talk? He still is only paying 100 dollars for a thirteen year old that he called a wombat.. he doesn’t even see his son at all doesn’t pay a single medical expense or nothing and you let him get away with it to punish her…. This is sick.
I love your reaction to everything. Especially when you sip your drink like you looking for the tea. 😂😂😂
I thought the same thing. 😂 It's like here comes FRESH TEA. ☕🤣🤣
Such a plot twist! Love it. I do believe he needs to pay but it was clear she wasn’t going to use the money properly.
It was clear to me from the start she just wanted money so she can live a certain life style I also think it’s out of jealousy in the fact he got engaged to somebody that’s not her I could be wrong but the fact that she clearly was saying I need some money was a clear incentive that she wanted more money from him not for son. Now we don’t know the background in which she is either not letting him see his son because she wants more child support money or he’s not a good father for the son
She still only gets 100 dollars per month that’s just sad
Properly ??? It’s HIS child too. She pays EVERYTHING for THEIR child, that’s a reimbursement to her Bc it’s HIS child as well, so he should be financially accountable for him as well. Smh.
@@juanicuellar1534 she doesn’t deserve a thing. She’s horrible. I feel bad for the child
@@drizzydre2678 i think the child support would have gone up from 100 to 700-1000 but we know the hoe would only use that to decorate her room for her ONLYFAN page
You see how her eyes lit up when she said she needed 800 and it went away when she had to say “my son needs 800” 😂😂😂😂
“ I think i’m gonna put him in karate too” 😂
I mean even if he wasn’t in any after school sports, she still needs more than 100.00 a month for a 13 year old! Clothes, shoes and food! Those are the essentials! I don’t know why the judge couldn’t just give her an increase even if it wasn’t something she didn’t like!
I agree…and I really thought Judge was going to teach that “dad” a lesson about not stepping up and raise his support payments.
@@kristiN1214 I don’t blame the judge… the woman only wants the money for herself…. There’s absolutely no point for an increase if she’s not even using it for the kid. She was doing just fine for thirteen years…. Now all of a sudden it’s an issue, cause you see your bd moved on and is engaged…. Typical bitter bm behavior. Now as for the dad, should he step up more for his son absolutely! But if the man ain’t willing to do it then keep on hustling with your only fans job and continue to do what’s best for your son the same way you bn doing it for all these years…..only fans does not have to be the only job you have…. Get a real nine to five like everyone else
@@reenae9346 ...She has multiple jobs including Onlyfans.... When was it stated that was the only job she had? Why should she perpetuate this shitty cycle of taking care of this kid by herself when he makes damn near 100k a year. After 13 years the amount he paid is only like 15,000 over the course of 13 years. Meanwhile his salary would have been over the millions by that point if he kept with the same job for a substantial amount of time. You're as biased as the judge and are seeing the bigger picture. Reguardless if she uses the money on herself, she's had to make ends meet for last 13 years while he's vacationing, bying 5500 dollar rings and living it up meanwhile his son doesn't have a father, and does have any financial support except from his mother
Absolutely!! I have children and grandchildren who were so expensive from the day they were born. The judge was wrong to not adjust the CS. A child needs more money from the $100 he’s was ordered to get at birth.
The reason she didn't raise the money was because the judge knew that the poor child wouldn't see any of it .and that the mom was gonna waste it on herself. Poor kid probably starves and both parents out there being petty AF . 😢
"How I'm supposed to be with somebody that got an onlyfans page" SHOTS FIRED
I was reading the comment while he said it 😭🤣🤣
😭😭😭 shocked us all loll
No shots fired, they hadn’t been together for 13 years was she supposed to be “virtuous “ while he moved on according to his standards? I don’t think only fans makes sense but he’s judging a situation that he’s donating change to
Not really
Not really a shot fired we don’t know what kind of OF it is and most are solo pages so….. yeah
I love it when she takes a sip out of her mug. 😂☕
Right 😂😂😂
It was the “my money… oh, i mean my sons money” and the dragon nails. Sis is wasting that shit on herself.
As soon as she said I think I'm going to put him in karate. It was a wrap!!😂 Love Vonda B she don't play! ❤ Glad she saw right thru her games! 💯
I love that she does the "but that's none of my business" sip of the cup impersonation. I'm not sure if it's intentional but very much on point, it makes me laugh every time
Lol me too! My favorite. Makes me wonder if this show real or not.
Same !!!!!!!!!
I agree that the child's mother was full of BS, but it does take more than $100 a month to raise a child. If I'm a father making $8k a month, then take your son shopping and do the things required as a father. Noone is thinking about the child in this case and irs very sad
His fiance in the background when judge asking how much the ring cost 💀💀💀😭🤣🤣🤣
I don't think she knew the price and was IMPRESSED.
@@sivan3125 either way she was cracking me up loll 🤣
She’s like, “this the ring! This ring, right here!” Just beamin… don’t seem to make any sense considering what comes with it
That was a trip. He probably didn't pay that. Don't look like that type of dude. She proud to be marrying this type of dude 🤮
Hell yeah, she wouldn't shut up so the beautiful judge shut her up😂😂😂❤❤good work judge👍🏿
I wish there were more family court judges like you. You see the games a lot of mothers be playing and fair.
Sorry but this case was not fair. Yeah, the mom is ridiculous. But if he is making 8K a month, he can pay more than $100 for the child. Guaranteed mom is paying more than $200 a month for that child.
@@juliekennedy9891 I think it was fair because she purge lied in court rooom that causes back fired. She lied how she will spend money for their son. She knew now
That she won’t spend money on the kid but for herself. She should of STFU it consequences when you lie in court room
@@juliekennedy9891u right but she sat in court and obviously played …all the my money …she had to be coached by the judge to even mention her son
“It’s not the streets it’s the internet” I screameddddd 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her a$$ on the internet is shown n the streets
She tried to be slick at the end 🤣🤣🤣
Being dumb and greedy don't mix
She did and got SMACKED DOWN . 🤣🤣🤣
Back to Only Fans!!
$100 is nothing, that’s change right there it can’t even feed a kid for 4 days 😂
Judge Vonda is made of GOLD. 🌟🥇❤️
She sees right through people.
Love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 ❤️
She learned some respect that day. Shout out to that judge, all that flip at the mouth got her what she deserved.
Everyone doesn't agree with this but you have to understand that Vonda knows $100 isn't enough but she also shouldn't have to deal with a liar. The lady can come back and try again without being greedy and ignorant because at the end of the day, her son suffers.
Exactly
$100 a month for child support is really pathetic. She should be getting more than that especially when he was little.
Nope
Nah f**k this trick.
She wants the money for HERSELF not the baby
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the judge knew that the adjustment was due, she didn't grant it bc the mom is a dumb ass who was lying to court. But this does not take away the father's responsability. She should have re-scheduled the court session, not deny her request.
@@catarinamigueis7684i disagree. It didn’t need rescheduled. The Judge clearly saw the “mother” was using the money for herself and not the child.
Man I love your show. I've gone through the Child Support System with m ex-wife and none of the Judges I had were fair. I just want to say thank you for being fair and seeing through the B.S. that some of these woman come with. The money is for the children not for them to buy new cars and go on shopping sprees.
I love when she has her tea out. Judge love it!
Miss Vonda B. You inspire me to put more consideration to pursuing a job in the field of law. I've lightly considered being a lawyer of some type, but to see the rulings you put forth for the cases your given, makes me want to make as much of a difference in the world as I feel you do.
I love when the judge listens to the drama while sipping her mug. 😂
This episode is hilarious there’s no way grown people act this way . 🤣🤣🤣
Oh you’d be surprised
In real court, this behavior would not be tolerated under any circumstances.
Oh they most certainly do.
Right? Blew my mind when he said he brought over diapers the other day. Like bro, you told on yourself hardcore. And so did she.
@@DJVIIIMan you right but people are crazy and will press it until they get kicked out. I used to work in a court house. You would be surprised.
Love her!!!! More judges need to do this
Judge Vonda B! I thought you were going to drain this dude pockets!
Kudos to you for being very objective and fair. I am certain that this ruling was not very popular with women. Despite one's feelings, this mother did not properly establish the need for a child support payment increase. Her own words destroyed her case. The judge tried to help her out several times but the mother couldn't control her tongue long enough for the judge to make a ruling.
It is nice to see that equal treatment, as rare as it maybe, does exist in family support court!
I agree with the decision. Yes she is overdue for an increase but she was only in that court to be petty and get money for herself. She made that very clear when she had to be corrected several times.
I’m a single mother but I totally support the judges ruling !!!! Moms shouldn’t be scamming either… she was for sure trying to scam
The mom CLEARLY was wanting the money. She kept saying “my money”. She just wanting a free check
This one made me happy. The money was for her from the get go. Especially the “cha-ching” after what he said he made monthly.
"Oh, we're coming for you" I'm dying of laughter😂😂😂
This is the first case I’ve seen where the parent caring for the child got screwed. A 15 year old eats $100 a week in groceries alone. She shouldn’t have had to justify any further expenses
Totally agree!
Unfortunately she presented a selfish, entitled and spiteful demeanor. If she had laid out the costs of food, clothing, etcetera and kept her attitude at home she would have won hands down.
@@charleshite7944 You know, I used to enjoy watching these videos, then I found out that they were faked, staged in fact, simply examples of potential senecios. Just like the WWF, not worthy of my time. The comment I made was posted prior to finding out.
She made it very clear that the money was for herself.
Agreed! This is not fair to the child.
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“I think I’m going to put him in karate” took me out😂😂
I like how he goes I brought dipers for him the other day but the son is 13 😂😂
she ain’t never just say “I think I wanna put him in Karate too”😭😭😂😂😂
Ong she know damn well
She forgot to say that she wants him to play the piano and violin.
😂😂
Lmao
This was bunk. Mom should have still gotten something being that the original court order was only for $100 and is been 13 yrs.
OK! 😮💨
NAH. The wombat just wanted more money to spend on herself.
As a child of custody battles/child support, (I’m 23. My aunts had custody of me since I was 6 until I was 17/18) it’s very interesting to see the different videos around this sort of stuff knowing my aunt had to fight tooth and nail against my birth mother and father for child support (along with my 3 siblings she took custody of. All of us have different dads but same mom).
She should have took them all to court smdh
God bless Antie, real talk. Knowing and understanding how important it is for children to have a stable peaceful loving household w family who genuinely has their best interest, and also made sure y'all all stayed together
I feel for the 13 year old son.
He probably asked her if he can join the football team and the baseball team and she thought to ask his dad for some help by taking him to court.
But the way she behaved in court made her case dismissed.
At the other hand, dad knows his kid is growing up and so will have more expenses. He ought to do for his kid without even being asked. It's common sense.
Judge Vonda B, I am usually on your side but in this case I do not agree. $100 a month does not even cover food for a growing teenager. I think you should have set her straight on adding activities to him. I know I am not the judge but I think an increase was due. I love your show, keep smiling and be blessed.
Me too. On this one, I wish to differ with the judge.
yeah she blew it with this one i’ve seen people more disruptive and petty smh
There are very little rules with child support judges. They can do and say whatever they want. She could have eliminated child support or tripled it. Usually it’s some old white man who still thinks traditional marriages mean the man pays. So getting child support decreased is difficult even if she increases her income of yours gets decreased. Don’t have kids if you don’t want to be treated unfairly like this.
The mother was being petty and greedy. She had it untill she said I think I'm going to put him in karate.. 13 years to ask for an increase.. judge made the right decision here..
Thought I was the only one...I get the mother wasn't acting the greatest in her favor, but damn that really sucks for the kid. $100 ain't shit
This is completely unfair to the son. $100 a month?! That wouldn’t even pay his food! At the father’s rate of pay it should be, minimum, $1,200/ month.
Just subscribed and now I'm binging! Love when she sips her coffee! That's when you know the dirt is getting dished!
OMG me too!!!😊
Me too!!! 🤣😂🤣
Same 🤭🤭
If she had merch with her face taking a sip out of her cup, I'd be all over it!! Iconic!
She will have a real show doing this same shit and I cannot wait for it ….. we need more
his fiancé face when he said the ring $5500🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤫😭😭😭
This can not be real, can it? The lady face when she found out the price
Of the ring literally priceless 😂😂
Damn, the mothers eyes lit up huge when he said how much she makes. I’m glad she ain’t getting shit.
She said Cha Ching
Prayers goes out too the 3 kids
It's so incredible how painfully transparent she was about wanting the money for herself. The forced corrections of herself to say things like "my SON needs more money" because Judge Vonda pointed it out earlier gives her away alongside the stupid crooked smiles she's giving each time she claims to need more money. Also love the using hypothetical costs for these teams to influence present and current payment. You don't get to guesstimate more than double the cost that you're aware of (i.e knows the football team requires at least $200, but then adds a hypothetical $300 more for "equipment") and not come off looking like a gold digger.
And on that note, he's an aggressive deadbeat, too.
She presented her case terribly, but the finances of a child and custodial parent are inextricably wound up in each other. There really is no practical difference between "my son needs the money" and "I need the money because my son's needs take up most of what I'm able to earn." It's not like the son has a separate grocery bill, rent, utility bills, etc.
I LOVE this judge, she is just too good at what she is doing... 🙏👍💪
I'm so glad the judge saw thru her. He do need to be giving her more money for his son. If he don't want to give her the money. Give it to his son. Go pick him up and take him shopping..smh
Vonda B was like “is it true tho?” 🤣🤣🤣 I’m trying to find out too sis😂😂😂
Right!!!🤣😂😂
@@JudgeVondaB Maybe if dad was paying more than $25 dollars a week, she wouldn't have to have Only Fans! It's really not funny, it's sad.
@@hkburrows Ummmmm? She was on Only Fans Before the child was born.
@@hkburrows or she could make better choices in life, it's not always other peoples fault, learnt to take responsibility
@@WraithFFXI yeah she worked the streets before only fans
The fiancé was killing me in the background!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
WOOOOOWWWWW!!! I never expected that, but hey, Cudos to Judge Vonda B, I couldn't have made a better decision myself 💯💯💯