I like the idea of using aesthetics as a way to differentiate yourself from the crowd. Your appearance and your demeanor is your brand and the way people identify you, so it makes sense to make that as unique as possible.
I love that you mentioned signature scent. My everyday aesthetic is y2k victoria secret model so all i wear now is their various types of perfumes to almost become that
I lean towards the ethereal look. I love it. I play with cute nails dainty makeup with slight hints or shimmer and color. Anything dairy, mermaid, princess style I loveeee. I know it was my main look because naturally people always compare me to something ethereal ❤ my favorite compliment!
I just want to say thank you for betting on yourself, committing to UA-cam and creating consistent content for us! the Patreon is literally the world’s best kept secret. I absolutely love the Exoticals UA-cam channel but the Patreon hits home for me in soooo many ways. Im a brown-skinned unambiguous BW that comes from a line of MLS. your content resonates with me because I was bullied for not being “black enough”, growing up privileged/sheltered and my mom is light skinned w/green eyes. I’ve always known my calling was to educate/talk/make videos but I made a bunchhhhh of big mistakes in my 20s and I just recently stopped beating myself up about it. I’m ready to step out my comfort zone and do what I was called to do. Thanks to women like you and Shera.
I can attest to the journaling your compliments!!! I have been journaling all the notable compliments guys have been giving me at my BJJ gym... It is secretly confidence boosting, and nones the wiser That is solely a gym journey, But I get tons of compliments from women of all races and generations on my hairstyles, jewelry shoes and outfits. I will make a fashion diary along this theme. Thanks EU!
As a former Makeup Artist, undertones are super important and will change your entire aesthetic. Learn your undertones...Yellow/Orange, Red/Orange, Blue/Red etc.
26:53 omg i do this! i started doing it when i was wearing wigs and wanted to try a bunch of different hairstyles and colors but i knew i would have to plan out the looks, buying the hair, the hair appointments, the events around that time, etc. i also do it now so that i can plan which hair products i want to try out when and what natural hairstyles i want to do, but i’m definitely adding some braids, boho twists, and wig hairstyles in the mix as well 🤭💕 p.s. this also REALLY helps with nail inspo 😭 i was matching up my nail inspo with the different hairstyles i would be wearing like i was DEDICATED lol ✨
Yes! That’s exactly how you have to do it 😂 I am currently saving up for fall. Yes; I’m planning an entire budget for my fall lattes, what outfits I’m going to wear to which events, my Halloween costume etc 💀
I learned from being in this world of United States, that you could blend in more with casual clothing vs your aesthetic will shine brighter than most people. So therefore just by you exposing your “be you, look”, will be reaching higher grounds than usual. 15:36
My idea of luxury is living a happy, peaceful, meaningful life on my own terms. I love a 18th century princess aesthetic. Ayesha Curry is my idea of beauty. I love matcha lattes. My solo hobby is crocheting and embroidery, my feminine hobby is pilates and my coed hobby is learning a new language.
yes stay away from people who practice hierarchy thinking in any way because theyll always shame you for something. youre never black enough, never white enough, never thick ebough or slim enough. theres always something with hierarchal thinkers.
25:12 this is exactly why i’ve never connected with the idea of an “alter” ego. i just feel like it’s an underdeveloped or underused part of myself 🤷🏾♀️💕
Loved this vid! I definitely identify with ethereal beauty, the mermaid, fairy, mysterious, lacy materials, ocean colours and dark blues, flowing materials too, I'm a painting artist as my career, so naturally love to play with face art looks
Omg I appreciate your videos! I have similar if not the same views on beauty and it’s so refreshing to hear your perspectives and advice and letting us viewers reflect on our experiences and perspectives on beauty💗🌸
Can you expound some more on why cowardice makes you less desirable and unrelatable to others? I fell into a deep, unaliving depression from feeling isolated because I am completely unrelatable to others
Thank you for the shoutout ❤ Enjoyed this one😊
No problem 😊
I like the idea of using aesthetics as a way to differentiate yourself from the crowd. Your appearance and your demeanor is your brand and the way people identify you, so it makes sense to make that as unique as possible.
yesss! i love this tip. my life definitely changed for the better once i started having a signature look instead of throwing on whatever 💗💕
Exactly
I used to be a hairstylist, and I got return clients when I use their name in conversation! People love to hear their name!
Hell yeah I do that too!
I love that you mentioned signature scent. My everyday aesthetic is y2k victoria secret model so all i wear now is their various types of perfumes to almost become that
Omg are you a love spell girlie ? that was super popular when I was growing up! I like their fruity and vanilla scents
Yes love spell gives that psychological seduction you mentioned lol inwear their bombshells but vs bare is my absolute favorite
I lean towards the ethereal look. I love it. I play with cute nails dainty makeup with slight hints or shimmer and color. Anything dairy, mermaid, princess style I loveeee. I know it was my main look because naturally people always compare me to something ethereal ❤ my favorite compliment!
Omg same !
Hey I saw my name! 🥰
I just found out what ethereal means and I've always been called angelic and a mermaid and I have like this seductive aura but bright and airy
I just want to say thank you for betting on yourself, committing to UA-cam and creating consistent content for us! the Patreon is literally the world’s best kept secret. I absolutely love the Exoticals UA-cam channel but the Patreon hits home for me in soooo many ways. Im a brown-skinned unambiguous BW that comes from a line of MLS.
your content resonates with me because I was bullied for not being “black enough”, growing up privileged/sheltered and my mom is light skinned w/green eyes. I’ve always known my calling was to educate/talk/make videos but I made a bunchhhhh of big mistakes in my 20s and I just recently stopped beating myself up about it. I’m ready to step out my comfort zone and do what I was called to do. Thanks to women like you and Shera.
awwwwww thats amazing! i hope you create a channel soon! ❤️
I can attest to the journaling your compliments!!! I have been journaling all the notable compliments guys have been giving me at my BJJ gym... It is secretly confidence boosting, and nones the wiser
That is solely a gym journey,
But I get tons of compliments from women of all races and generations on my hairstyles, jewelry shoes and outfits. I will make a fashion diary along this theme. Thanks EU!
Oooooooh a fashionista and a pretty girl?! I love it! 😻
As a former Makeup Artist, undertones are super important and will change your entire aesthetic. Learn your undertones...Yellow/Orange, Red/Orange, Blue/Red etc.
I am a yellow undertone! And I’m looking for a red lipstick.. which hue should I get from mac? I love their lipsticks
How do you find out what undertone you are?
After watching this the other day, a guy outside the grocery store told me “you look very elegant” ❤I’m putting that in my pedestal❤️
26:53 omg i do this! i started doing it when i was wearing wigs and wanted to try a bunch of different hairstyles and colors but i knew i would have to plan out the looks, buying the hair, the hair appointments, the events around that time, etc.
i also do it now so that i can plan which hair products i want to try out when and what natural hairstyles i want to do, but i’m definitely adding some braids, boho twists, and wig hairstyles in the mix as well 🤭💕
p.s. this also REALLY helps with nail inspo 😭 i was matching up my nail inspo with the different hairstyles i would be wearing like i was DEDICATED lol ✨
Yes! That’s exactly how you have to do it 😂 I am currently saving up for fall. Yes; I’m planning an entire budget for my fall lattes, what outfits I’m going to wear to which events, my Halloween costume etc 💀
10:42 YES! planning has never failed me when it comes to being more fabulous 🤭💅🏾✨
I learned from being in this world of United States, that you could blend in more with casual clothing vs your aesthetic will shine brighter than most people. So therefore just by you exposing your “be you, look”, will be reaching higher grounds than usual. 15:36
My idea of luxury is living a happy, peaceful, meaningful life on my own terms. I love a 18th century princess aesthetic. Ayesha Curry is my idea of beauty. I love matcha lattes. My solo hobby is crocheting and embroidery, my feminine hobby is pilates and my coed hobby is learning a new language.
Omg yes !
Samee
I need this sitting in a Starbucks wearing business casual and feeling pretty
Omg that’s amazing ! 😻
@@ExoticalsUnited I had a Job interview today so I did my makeup and listened to self concept affirmations on the way
Love your commentary all through this video esp about GETTING AWAY FROM BEAUTY SUPREMACISTS of a specific preference.
yes stay away from people who practice hierarchy thinking in any way because theyll always shame you for something. youre never black enough, never white enough, never thick ebough or slim enough. theres always something with hierarchal thinkers.
25:12 this is exactly why i’ve never connected with the idea of an “alter” ego. i just feel like it’s an underdeveloped or underused part of myself 🤷🏾♀️💕
Loved this vid! I definitely identify with ethereal beauty, the mermaid, fairy, mysterious, lacy materials, ocean colours and dark blues, flowing materials too, I'm a painting artist as my career, so naturally love to play with face art looks
Oooooooh yes to the Lacey materials as well!
I do the "window shop" thing too 😂 but I can't do it on fashionnova because those models are terrifying.
😂😂😂
my last compliment was my friend telling me i look like moana and i thought that was pretty cute
Omg I’ve been told I look like Moana too! I love when I get compared to cartoon characters 😂
“I’m a Target b!tch”
😂…same here, sis. ♥️👏
The Goat strikes again! Top tier game with nuances. Genius!
Aw thanks 😀
Omg I appreciate your videos! I have similar if not the same views on beauty and it’s so refreshing to hear your perspectives and advice and letting us viewers reflect on our experiences and perspectives on beauty💗🌸
Thank you for all you've done, are doing and will do.
You are an absolute GODSEND & I have never related more to someone in my life 🖤✨
lol yess I love making custom Starbucks drinks, I love Starbucks so much I got a Starbucks Stanley lollll
Oooh yes I used to have all the Starbucks Stanley’s but I had to stop 😅
I love all these tips ❤ especially the conpliments as affirmations
I lean to the “earthy, luxury rich childfree auntie” look! I love the colors red, green, brown and a dark yellow ❤❤❤
I love this channel ur topics and viewpoints😍😍
aw thank you
44:07 helllll yea 🙌 yes exotical united!!
yesss EU uploaded just as i started to cook searching for something to listen to ❤
Yay! 😀
Classy,elegant and model like aesthetic is my way pf expressing my femininity
We are so alike with the shein window shopping and the ✨ spark joy✨ pinterest boards haha
I just love this channel.
One of the top videos you've ever made.❤
I'm finally going to go ahead and do the Kibbe thing!
I love your content ❤ your content is very motivational ✨
Thank you so much!!
Starbucks has the prettiest holiday cups right now!
Omg do they still have the $1 ones ?
Can you expound some more on why cowardice makes you less desirable and unrelatable to others? I fell into a deep, unaliving depression from feeling isolated because I am completely unrelatable to others
Well said, go where you’re valued/celebrated. Enjoyed this video☺️
Amazing content as per usual!! I only wish I had this information decades ago❤
Thank you so much for this ❤
I started being my own Muse ❤
I love this channel
Do you think you could make a video on what grew your hair?
Amazing video as always. Take notes on my journal!!
Yes ! There’s nothing better than a pretty girl who journals !
You’re thing Big! Thank you ‘ MUAH😘
Thanks ❤
Pretty soccer mom lol