MY PARENTS IMPOSED EVERYTHING ON ME FROM CAREER TO RELIGION AND THIS HAPPENED…
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- MY PARENTS IMPOSED EVERYTHING ON ME FROM CAREER TO RELIGION AND THIS HAPPENED…
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This is the reason we have a lot of depressed African kids here in the West. Their parents are not even aware of the emotional damage they have done to their children. A great number of our so-called cultures and values get these kids messed up.
How does our cultures get the kids messed up?
@@johnsontobi6432 i will respond when i have enough time.
I am living proof of the statement you just made. Ever since I came to the west I am half dead inside. Nothing excites me I don’t even know where to start. There is a reason the west forbids that kids be tortured they conducted lots of experiments.
Yes a lot of our parents think making the child fear and abuse equals discipline. And then they wonder why their kids stay distant from them
Lol... African culture doesn't know about emotional damage that's a foreign language
Phrankonero is right on so many levels. I am in my mid 40’s & I am constantly unlearning a lot of bullshit that has been indoctrinated in me. I noticed that my life has changed for the better since then.
Phrankleen is the best, I have learnt alot of things from his channel.
It’s amazing how much damage has been done on us Africans. Talking to our people about these issues definitely causes so many arguments some of our brothers and sisters are still fast asleep!!! Our dated beliefs and systems are holding us back!
We must wake up.
It’s also in the Caribbean culture….we call it “bakka wall” mentality
Wow
Please continue telling it like it is. As a Muslim daughter unmarried at 31 from East Africa I currently am almost about to cut off so called family and parents because they expect me to raise their 5 sons , youngest is 22 …. I feel my world is coming down because I can finally see them for who they are and I feel alone
Please stand your ground, prioritise your mental health, finance and personal goals. You only have one ☝🏾 shot at life, this is it.
Stay strong and hang in there sister. You are not alone. I have lived almost half of my life abroad. I had to free myself from my family after so many years. I had to tell them that i am neither a slave nor did they use me for money ritual. Your family is not really your family If they do not love you
Sorry sis if you speak Swahili pole sana dadangu
Yep,.
Salaam aleikun sister
Put your own welfare above all else. Live your life. Enjoy your life. The best you will get after all the sacrifice is 'thank you' if that!
I know someone whose Dad collects outrageous money monthly from his children because he sent them abroad.
This is part of the reason why the motherland is what it is. Our critical thinking is damaged and you dare try to break out from it, you get a whole community on you. We have a long way to goooo. I'm a SeneGambian and i can attest to what you are saying. The whole continent is sick but we don't want to accept it. It's easier to play the blame game.
You’re absolutely right ✊🏾🔥🤎🖤
Fact!
Yes the blame game. ALWAYS BLAMING something or someone else for a problem caused by the individual. Yes the colonizer came and did what they did. But you sldo plsyed a part by believing him and not unlearning the things that was bought unto you. Then you attack those who do criticially think and are focused on economic freedom. Not to mention you believe because they are your child you can be a criminal to your own blood.
This definitely rings a bell. I was told to become a professor, but then I rebelled, dropped out of my PhD program years ago to focus on writing (my true passion). Those conversations are not easy to have with our parents sometimes, but, hey, we're adults too now so...
Good for you.
Your parents tell you what they feel is good for you but it is left for you to take the right decision for yourself.
@@poky2914you probably are a typical sensitive offended parents
I see this sort of behavior of Africans here in the states on a regular basis bowing to Europeans, and it sickens me to my soul. I will die before I bow to a European, my Elders out of respect, yes. A couple of years ago, on the train in NYC, I saw an Elderly Man from the Continent (when I say Elderly he looked about 100 years old) jump up (like a jumping jack) to let a young European school girl sit down. The girl was no older than 15. The girl would not accept the seat and he kept insisting that she sit down but she would not. I think she was just as embarrassed as the rest of us Black folks on the train were. The expressions on the faces of people were ones of awe and disbelief. It disturbed me so bad until that image is still conscious in my head today. I hope that people will understand and absorb the knowledge that you are teaching. Thank you so much for what you are doing to educate the people.
U are so right,I have experienced the same similar thing here is California and is very embarrassing as an African man
One very vital point I took, cos I'm currently passing something like that...Frank was saying something about sitting our parents down and having that civil discourse about respecting your boundaries as an adult, we all know that's not gonna work ....I'll say we should still have that discussion , but not with their approval in mind, have it and then do whatever it is you have in mind, cos we know they'll fight you till enternity , our parents struggle with the idea of having boundaries as their children even though you are a full grown adult.
Can we imagine colonial Nigeria sitting British down to have a civil discourse on how Britain should respect Nigeria's boundaries and handover Nigeria to Nigerians???
Lol
Then u cut them off simple , I severe ties with people who dont respect my boundries simple
Thank you so much. I changed my number because my mum wasn't the person I thought she was all along and I am the black sheep in my family . I am fighting my battles right now . My mum would text me that I have to buy a sewing machine for my sister's daughter to do her business and I told her after 4 days that my sister is alive and should do that. I have tried to be respectful but I kept being shut down by all of them. My sister's are also like her very evil.
Wow. This is very crazy and you did well by standing your ground don't let anybody pressure you, your sister should go and work and cater for her children.
Why don't they just leave? Why stay and post insults?
Phrankleen, you’re a man after my heart.
Your critical thinking is just overwhelming.
Thanks bro.
You broke it down perfectly!!! Love from South Africa
Phrankleen, you are the most REALIST person on the Internet!! Love your reasoning. Our people need to hear this and many more of your reasonings. Stay bless King 🤴🏿 Àse🙏🏿
My brother, I am from New Orleans, I have chills watching this very video. I keep and have always, had feeling that my calling is bigger than this life itself. I see my past lives, I witness things that "comes" to past." Family that has past on, has come to me and it's not scary to me, but deepens my thoughts. I'm still confused.
Phrankleen, Boda Mi, you are soooo refreshing!!! I’m continuing in fortification. Stay Up Fam! ✊🏾🇺🇸🇳🇬
I would love for u to discuss mothers who sell out their daughters, esp when “big man” come in village
Greedy and shameless mothers
@@omobolajieniola276 yes is true
I have lived in UK for a while. N I can say with chest that I am an alpha strong minded man. I don't take shit from no one never did never will. My family all thought I will be the failure of the family cos when I was younger I never conformed. I never did what I was told I was a rebel. I did not even want to go to UK my dad had to force me to go 🤣🤣. Anyway what I have learned in UK as a black man the only way u gonna get ahead is to remove any race related thought from your head. If u walk around like a deprived black man with yo shoulders down n anticipate u will be done wrong then u most certainly will or u will link everything to race. If u always simp for yo boss or act desperate in an interview u will not succeed. White man hates desperate people n u know this especially in UK no matter the situation in most cases u will never see a white man acting desperate (except he a drug addict or smth) but jst pay attention u will almost never see a white dude act desperate or show a lot of emotion one way or the other. The white man has mastered the act of deception a skill we blacks are still to learn.
One of my father's wives did this to her children , she took her 4 kids to be checked spiritually and she stole the glory of the youngest child and he has never been the same since . My family is very toxic , I have distanced myself from them
Hi Phrankleen, continue to tell the truth.
all you said is the simple truth am currently at the unlearning and relearning stage of life, Thanks for these words
In My Humble Opinion, there many sides to a story, this a very sensitive and a very thought provoking topic. Parents that strict with the upbringing of their children doesn't mean any harm. They're overprotective.However, with the Advent of Social Media and program like yours. People are becoming more exposed,more aware, more educated and more enlightened which is Helping the Parents and the Children to interact and communicate better. We still have a long way to go. However, things will get better eventually. Thank You for the good job that you're doing. However, Be Nonjudgmental and Be Balanced.
Love you Phranklyn ❤❤❤
Please continue telling them the truth and the reality and those who have ears let them hear.
Those that call you names "Wahali" have blocked modular and are mentally stagnant won o ni opolo rara.
Phrankleen when it comes to: "You cannot give what you don't have" I both agree and disagree. Yes our parents suffered the same imposition from their parents and they do the same to us but the reasons they continue doing this are not necessarily due to lack of critical thinking but rather selfishness ie there's many parents who want to inflict the same pain that was inflicted onto them by their parents, they are full of hate and vengeance and are ready to take victimize their children the same way, similar to the mindset of an abuser. Most abusers grew up the same way hence they go on to abuse their families but this is ALWAYS a choice, it's not simply a byproduct of how one was raised, it's an attitude problem of the individual, that's why some who were abused as kids don't pass on the same abuse to their children. The biggest issue I've seem with parents who continue do impose their views onto their kids is stubbornness, you can actually get them to a point where they see that you are correct, where they realize you are actually telling the truth but their pride and stubbornness will not allow them to acknowledge this so all in all they do have critical thinking to a degree but will deliberately suppress it in issues that concern you(their child) because they always want to control you.
Thanks phrankleen for your wonderful video.
Thank so much phrankleen this is my second video am watching of you and I really feel a sense of relief. I have always had a feeling that my parents parenting are wrong because it has affected me which lead me to surf the internet and stumbled on you thank you so much. Expect an email from me soon.
All facts🙌🏾
Education is the bedrock of any societies. One thing is the truth, it might take time to emancipate ourselves from the abuse instilled to us by our parents. They die before we know it.
No it’s not it’s wisdom and understanding which you get from information. Most of the books we read are written by white men for the white society
@@nigeriawife WHat do books written by Black men for Black society contain.?
Excellent 👌 presentation...... exceptional quality.
Thank you!
We are sorry machines. I live in that shadow too. For me my parents allowed all these useless aunties and uncles to subject me to ridiculous struggle with confidence
Everything you said is correct - u must u must is all I heard when explaining to my mum about having a gap year before uni- the house was on fire. Certificate has done nothing fir me. I asked my mum put my name on council house list so I could have affordable housing she said no, now I’m renting privately but now it is a council house - she has no acknowledgment of how she has gucked me over
Excellent discussion.
Phrakleen Omo iyami oro leh so. Ki olorun ma sho wa lo woh awon ebi buruku
This is Glory Williams I sent you the approval you said I should send
You always bang it mann
Life is complicated.
Hi bro please make a video to tell us more about Ifa. Not nigerian but interested to understand more.
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Story of my life😪
Story of my life too.
Story of my life too…. Perfectly articulated Phrankleen!!!!!!
Be encourage and make a change for you. It's not too late.
So true about football
What if the guy's parents also did some type of divination and their decisions on his career,etc were based on that?
If you carried out divination for your child, you are duty bound to let the child know, particularly if it’s to do with their life in going forward.
...if you can shg......interesting topic...lol
Phrankleen respeck King
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