MY 70 YRS OLD FATHER WANTS TRIPLE FOLD OF MONTHLY REMITTANCE AND THIS HAPPENED…

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  • @Phrankleen13
    @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +4

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  • @madarakakg2608
    @madarakakg2608 Рік тому +98

    I am from Kenya living in the states and I cut /blocked my toxic father and fortified myself against my siblings. Free at last, my wife and I have expanded our finances and kids college funds. and are happier. I listened to you and boy I’m empowered. Long live your platform.

    • @Smhulley
      @Smhulley Рік тому +5

      Phrankleen for president 😊

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Рік тому +2

      Wow!

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Рік тому +3

      @@Smhulley 💯💯💯💯💯🤣

    • @charchar5887
      @charchar5887 Рік тому +5

      Watu wa 🇰🇪 it is the way! Umejaribu🙏 if any of my family members try this rubbish they will see madness. Thank God my Father is the best thing that happened to me😌

    • @jakejakobz
      @jakejakobz Рік тому +2

      Damn! This dude went all out. Sad part is my sister already took this approach so i still support my parents as needed but not monthly. Because at the end of the day they assisted me in every way they could while growing up and schooling in the US. if they need my assistance I will step in.

  • @dzemuus
    @dzemuus Рік тому +21

    I stopped sending money to my elder brother, and also stopped paying his kids school fees. He was not happy about it, and him and his wife do not call me constantly the way they used to. I only send money for my mom’s upkeep, who had a stroke, and my sister who takes care of my mom.

    • @kiv_daniels
      @kiv_daniels 3 місяці тому

      So the money you were sending to him before he wasn’t using it to stand on his feet but was still expecting him to spoon feed him. If someone is paying your kids fees your responsibilities lessen so you should be able to take charge after that kind of support.

  • @eacoincmubiru5894
    @eacoincmubiru5894 Рік тому +22

    One of the worst things is when your father has kids outside marriage and then expects YOU to take care of these kids!!@🤔🤔🤔

    • @ronkeajibabi7173
      @ronkeajibabi7173 Рік тому +8

      I tell you it’s worrisome & unbelievable that that happens in our community. It’s just so sad when family members expect you to shoulder their responsibilities 😢

  • @MissCriticizer
    @MissCriticizer Рік тому +11

    all that 450 Quid monthly could be put in your childs bankaccount for their UNI and their 1st deposit for a home. when times get hard for you, the "Family" back home are no where to be found

    • @Obatala_Vibez
      @Obatala_Vibez Рік тому +3

      Facts

    • @Freesmszone
      @Freesmszone Рік тому +7

      Save that money for 15yrs, that's 81k for 1 child, save half that's like 40k for 2 kids, 27k for 3 kids, Diasporans needs to set their priorities right and plan their children's future.

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +5

      Sadly most of our folks are blinded by playing god 😊

    • @Freesmszone
      @Freesmszone Рік тому +1

      @@Phrankleen13 please reply my email, I sent it today 12.12 GMT time

    • @The_Cruise_Fam
      @The_Cruise_Fam Рік тому

      @@Phrankleen13 Play God and being called yes sir & yes mom. I told mine, I don’t need your respects you can shove it in your asses. They were shock. Them never know, I’m learning from phrankleen .

  • @touskinhouskin
    @touskinhouskin Рік тому +22

    600 pounds = N510k every month...over N6m on both sides of the family...Dang. This is truly playing GOD.
    What I do...I tell everyone...I don't do emergencies. If you need support, ask 3 months in advance and I will take note...I will always point out that there are other needs...so every request is 3-6 months which means you get maybe two main assistance per year and there is a limit even with the amount.
    You have to invest in yourself so you can have more funds to help them because it will never stop. Never give your seeds away...plant it and give away parts of your harvest. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Get wisdom my people.

    • @Freesmszone
      @Freesmszone Рік тому +3

      100%, if they can't plan money stuff, you are not their savior.

    • @touskinhouskin
      @touskinhouskin Рік тому +6

      @@Freesmszone They are not wired to expand or grow funds...they are dependents, spenders so it is up to the individual to know that financial independence will depend on the giver not the people collecting.. They already have a source of income...YOU. Na you must always use brain to create multiple sources of income for yourself before they suck you dry.
      If you respect money, money will grow. If you spend it lavishly...overnight, one illness or loss of job, money will find another home where it will be respected and valued.

  • @ibexy
    @ibexy Рік тому +43

    Its not only mothers. Brothers and sisters too. Be careful giving your money to them. They are spending part of it in various spiritual places. Some even go as far as doing things in the belief that its for your good without your knowledge. Strange and inexplicable things be happening around you. Some are jealous of you. Some blame you for their own issues. This is very real. We have them in every family.

  • @khethiwephiri6247
    @khethiwephiri6247 Рік тому +13

    Thank you Phrankleen!!! You are the true son of the soil,we appreciate you!

  • @femijulopeters9895
    @femijulopeters9895 Рік тому +7

    I’m surprised it took her so much time to block the toxic father. Omo mehn , I’m glad the husband took the bold step eventually.

  • @opheliad7452
    @opheliad7452 Рік тому +13

    Phrankleen you are the best thing that ever happened for us. You are highly appreciated. You have open our eyes and changed our ways of thinking. You are truly blessed and send to sets us free from bondage. I thank you for everything.

  • @TheAyo80
    @TheAyo80 Рік тому +11

    Her story is like mine 😌 I don’t send them money for Christmas this year after 20 years of sending money nobody I say nothing body text or call me because of Christmas money 💴😂😂😂

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +7

      Tells you a lot about their state of mind

  • @mabellegall
    @mabellegall Рік тому +7

    Now that the lady has ceased sending money and planning to get her family a better future, She need to get protection for her family cause her father is going to get spiritual on her. I pray she get protection from IFA.

  • @ativiejonathan3705
    @ativiejonathan3705 Рік тому +11

    I am in that category that send money home, an amount of a thousand euros each month. The most annoying things I have heard is they telling me what the exchange rate is. From my experience some family members back home can bank bankrupt you.

    • @Tfamewo
      @Tfamewo Рік тому +1

      😮

    • @MissCriticizer
      @MissCriticizer Рік тому +5

      I hope you stopped sending money. you need to ask yourself that will they be there for you when times get hard.

    • @ativiejonathan3705
      @ativiejonathan3705 Рік тому +1

      @user-wv2zk8op1m thanks, I am trying to cut it down .

    • @anythinggoes4588
      @anythinggoes4588 Рік тому +3

      @@ativiejonathan3705 Do it - now!! Make it abrupt. Thank us later.

    • @dzemuus
      @dzemuus Рік тому +2

      If you don’t cut down or stop now, you’ll go back penny less.

  • @suguhcane
    @suguhcane Рік тому +10

    I’m from Uganda yet this woman’s story is like my own.

    • @dzemuus
      @dzemuus Рік тому +2

      It’s the same all over. It happens in at least 98% of our families.

  • @godgiven316
    @godgiven316 Рік тому +8

    Hello frankleen!
    So true we Africans are very powerful, but most of the time, we use for destruction!! We do enjoy watching people suffering!!
    We barely help each other
    Very disappointing !!

  • @Eleganceinmotion1
    @Eleganceinmotion1 3 місяці тому +1

    I listened to this 3 Times in row..
    I'm not from your country or tribe.. But i understand.. My bro.. You talking fire... Just amazing!.

  • @MissCriticizer
    @MissCriticizer Рік тому +8

    We can make life easy for ourselves. We need to normalize cutting of toxic family.
    this man had the audacity to abandon he's family, work he's way up to he's weak 1st wife and nowbullying the daughter into trippling the allowance. The audacity! The daughter was not on he's mind when he squandered all that money on he's sidechicks and other things.

    • @exerciseisantidote9337
      @exerciseisantidote9337 Рік тому +1

      His not he's.

    • @The_Cruise_Fam
      @The_Cruise_Fam Рік тому +5

      Yes! Tough life if you want to useless yourself in side-chic shit and thinking you’re living the life. Until old age catches on. Absolutely no pity! I’ve weed out and I’m super good!

  • @valentinenkem9193
    @valentinenkem9193 Рік тому +7

    Thank God, she has realized herself and should keep it up if not they will never change.

  • @jamesmorton5017
    @jamesmorton5017 Рік тому +2

    I am a citizen of the USA. My roots go back to the beginning of this country . Upon an early retirement I sought out the African Diaspora. I will not name the countries but I would meet and befriend men and women and increase their salaries by 2 or 3 times. The people were not doing well before the assistance but 8 out of ten would spend the increase and demand more. You can disrupt an eco system with unchecked foreign influence.

  • @augustineijebome6089
    @augustineijebome6089 Рік тому +15

    Her father is lucky he didn’t have me as one of his children

  • @ayjames
    @ayjames Рік тому +7

    She spoilt the father by initially giving him monthly allowances. I maintain that I'll assist when comfortable for me but I will not place anyone on monthly pay unless you're my staff. Imagine the audacity from someone who was never there. See finish.

    • @didiash
      @didiash Рік тому

      If they where there for you and provided growing up. Will you give them monthly allowance?

    • @ayjames
      @ayjames Рік тому +3

      @@didiash I still won't. Did I get monthly allowance just because I am someone's son when growing up? No! My allowances were meticulously calculated to feed me in school, anything outside feeding wasn't as important, and to be requested from my parents. Besides, kids didn't ask to be born and used as retirement plans. It's the duty of a parent to provide for their kids until they're 18 in most climes. Children are not obligated to do anything for parents. It's harsh, but if children decide to take care of their parents, those parents need to appreciate it and not become leeches and parasites.

  • @oluyemisidaji1109
    @oluyemisidaji1109 Рік тому +14

    Happy New Year, Mr Phrankleen! Another amazing story about an entitled parent who thinks his child is his retirement fund after wasting his own life! We need to make the tough decision to do away with these relics intent on draining our essence and resources!!

    • @oluyemisidaji1109
      @oluyemisidaji1109 Рік тому +5

      The audacity of trying to mandate her to send him money! I would cut them all off and change my number!!!

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +3

      @@oluyemisidaji1109 😅😅😅

  • @VG61
    @VG61 Рік тому +3

    I told my mother never to use the word "Mo pa lase fun e ni". I command you...
    She lost her mind and she went spiritual, but she was told never to go further on my case, because Olodumare is with me... Only then, she succumbed...

  • @Madamelolo
    @Madamelolo Рік тому +13

    Most Africans know this (myself included).
    Me personally, I am scared to leave Christianity because all I have known is Christianity. Common sense tells me that my grandparents didn’t keep Christmas or Valentines Day. Truly, like myself, it’s fear. Look at us, we claim to know the Bible, but don’t follow it’s simple teaching. We celebrate Christmas that Jesus himself didn’t celebrate in the 33 years of his life.
    Thank you for your courage. People are listening 🙌🏿

    • @Brizeryer
      @Brizeryer Рік тому +2

      We need to make a choice, there is a need to unlearn most of the things we were told and believed in, most of these stories are not helpful for our melanated family. (Mind control, if we sit back and question a lot things, all will be clear).

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Рік тому +1

      Christmas: 12 days of madness of spending which some start much EARLIER plus the debt accruing tendencies AND debauchery and gluttony it comes with is nothing but INSIDIOUS. I won't talk of the useless arguments that pop up during socalled Christmas dinners and competition of Christmas decorations...

    • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
      @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Рік тому +1

      @@Brizeryer So true!

    • @everunik8770
      @everunik8770 Рік тому +3

      @@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 spending all that money is a choice. I absolutely don't celebrate Christmas buying and buying. Whose birthday is it anyway.. not the people receiving gifts.

    • @onlinethings9238
      @onlinethings9238 Рік тому

      Christmas is the birthday of Jesus, not buying and selling. A preacher once joked that Christmas is the birthday that many people really stress themselves to lavishly celebrate for someone they don't personally know. So true. I know Jesus perso ally and He is real to my heart. I celebrate him alone during Christmas with my family.

  • @dyana3965
    @dyana3965 Рік тому

    Spot on with valuable indie for us all. I give thanks.

  • @geegab5178
    @geegab5178 Рік тому +2

    You are doing fantastic, brother. Phrankleen. Outstanding that you are!! Cheers.

  • @augustineijebome6089
    @augustineijebome6089 Рік тому +5

    Happy new year phrankleen,more blessing.

  • @adebahdmus123
    @adebahdmus123 Рік тому +5

    Great stream. Have a lovely night 🌙. Cheers.

  • @lateefkazeem4865
    @lateefkazeem4865 Рік тому +1

    All what you saying is very right am from ifa family from ibadan ifakemi

  • @averythmsthomas4589
    @averythmsthomas4589 Рік тому +3

    I think it's time a took yuroba classes. Lol
    Phranko.....late viewing nonetheless never disappointed. Thank you. I have heard you. 🙌🏾

  • @janethough2798
    @janethough2798 Рік тому +5

    Everything you say is true to a T. Currently all my family is living off my esssence. They achieve things that was meant for me. When I complained about strange things they are silent. They go out of there way to destroy relationships that would help me. I have achieved nothing of significance.. life is a mystery for me now.

    • @toluayanwale8221
      @toluayanwale8221 Рік тому

      Why don’t you contact phrankleen

    • @janethough2798
      @janethough2798 Рік тому

      @@toluayanwale8221 I cant do that.

    • @femtey4452
      @femtey4452 Рік тому

      @@janethough2798 why🙄🙄🙄

    • @nomahope3182
      @nomahope3182 Рік тому

      You need to fight fire with fire. Next time they will think twice before messing with you.

    • @ibexy
      @ibexy Рік тому +1

      You better wake up. Its either you go fully to the left or fully to the right. Simply playing victim will not help. Yours is not an isolated case. You solve it by taking action and being responsible for your own good.

  • @mandybright7895
    @mandybright7895 Рік тому

    You are saying the truth.

  • @OIOFit
    @OIOFit Рік тому +5

    21:31 No...that's a fried mentality. "I gave birth to you, you can't tell me what to do". But you want my money? Ole

    • @ibexy
      @ibexy Рік тому

      emotional abuse

  • @lateefkazeem4865
    @lateefkazeem4865 Рік тому +3

    Franklin you are right my mum tells me the kind of job I need to do before she die.

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому

      🤔 are you doing it?

    • @silviaonoh2396
      @silviaonoh2396 Рік тому

      My mum wants that me and my future husband open an activity to take care of her and my dad

  • @matuipimeroro4460
    @matuipimeroro4460 Рік тому

    very true,, on point

  • @leko762
    @leko762 Рік тому +1

    With $3 you can eat well at a restaurant in Nigeria.

  • @yvonnewilliamson6469
    @yvonnewilliamson6469 Рік тому

    I am watching you for first time a friend of mine send me your video

  • @Lokaluna7956
    @Lokaluna7956 6 місяців тому

    25:44 💯 this!!

  • @didiash
    @didiash Рік тому

    So how do people relocate back home (as we preach often) when they have this toxic family members they cut off from? Won't they have more access to take them out. Given not everyone wants to be IFA Fortified

  • @victoriagreen3047
    @victoriagreen3047 Рік тому +1

    He would never had got 1 cent.

  • @tonyabeakwu4269
    @tonyabeakwu4269 2 місяці тому

    good job. i like the topics you discuss. Thanks for not Talking about nigerian politics

  • @nprincess90
    @nprincess90 Рік тому

    Hello Franklin, I hope you are well. I need some advice quite urgently.. I have emailed before but I know you are busy/backlogged. 🙏🏿

  • @judystucki8429
    @judystucki8429 2 місяці тому +1

    Very bad man

  • @nifaser2871
    @nifaser2871 Рік тому

    My advice to her is first fortify yourself and your family then unblock them 😂,let the games begin , believe me she will email in with an interesting update.ijs

  • @loveyb9090
    @loveyb9090 Рік тому

    Listen I'm not African but this is interesting. I recently a couple years back started studying African and Haitian spirituality. Listen ,Christianity is a part of me bc of childhood, but this spirit stuff is deep. I've been getting readings on ppl around me and it's been opening my eyes. And I was even told a woman would betray me and she compares herself to me and yes it came true. And spirit doesnt lie ppl do. And our free will / work changes things . I'm hanging in there but ppl are so against spiritual teaching failing to understand ppl break up marriages ,slow down money and etc and you need to know when it's happening. AA ppl are doing this to eachother out of jealousy not bc they are sending bad energy back or any good reason. Connecting w/guides adunola is another very good teacher. I dated my African ex and didn't listen...I got hurt and bad. A reader told me he was a liar and he wasn't making the moves hewas saying . And celebrities use these orishas and spirits too.I do wish I listened to spirit sometimes. With domestic violence and wicked ppl it helps.

  • @judystucki8429
    @judystucki8429 2 місяці тому

    Lots like that

  • @funmicole479
    @funmicole479 3 місяці тому

    Tht why thy don't want u to go traditionally thy blind u with Christianity

  • @dbsino
    @dbsino Рік тому

    Go on soun

  • @matuipimeroro4460
    @matuipimeroro4460 Рік тому

    what is efa? fortune telling?

  • @aj7009
    @aj7009 Рік тому

    😳

  • @MrAbbeyisa
    @MrAbbeyisa Рік тому +2

    Trust me I will block the father number.

  • @Freesmszone
    @Freesmszone Рік тому +1

    @Phrankleen please reply my email, I sent it today 12.12 GMT time, please.