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6 Problems Only Smart People Have
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- Опубліковано 14 гру 2020
- We usually think of smart people as people who are destined for success and given more opportunities than others. But what if there are some problems that are more likely to arise if you are indeed intelligent? Are you too smart for your own good?
If you relate to this video but you're still not convinced that you're actually smart, we have a video on the signs you may be smarter than you think: • 8 Signs You Are Smarte...
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Do you feel smart after watching this video? Have we succeeded in elevating your ego? ;)
Everyone is smart in their own ways, and we want you to know that.
nope
but I do feel kinda smart
i relate to the 2nd one most tbh
No Im a dummy
Yes 🥰
nope
Hey I not smart but I have them all ;-;(and hi)I know I will have them all because I know all of them
According to this video, there are two types of people:
1) You're intelligent
2) You're healthy
Thank you
i mean i wanna be healthy but what about all the science things i wanna learn at 2 am
Im neither
@@i.2844 SAME
I wish I was healthy 👍
6 problems only smart people has
me: *laughs in dumb*
😂😂
Aqua Konosuba vibes
Yeah that’s pretty much me
Lmao
I'M YOUR 1000TH LIKE WHAAAT
Bc I haven't found the timestamps yet I'mma make my own so here y'all go:
0:57 - Psychological problems
1:54 - Night owls
2:52 - High expectations
3:38 - Overexcitable & high energy
4:48 - Overanalyzing things
5:52 - Can become super stressed
6:50 - Outro
You’re an angel❤️
Thank you!
@@wan.ff7 hi moa :>
Outro is the worst :/
I know this video isn't for self-diagnosis, but what happens if you have all six of those problems
"They have high expectations" is so true. Teachers keep saying im smart, but when i get a low grade and everyone is
surprised, it just makes me crash and burn and it ruins my self esteem
Same
The worse: make fun about it, like: omg, i got a higher grade than her
@@raptorium9914 So true🙄
oh my god you are so right! Even my parents do that I have 0 self esteem because of the same
That's happened to me once when we were playing a fun game in class (keep in mind this was for FUN) and I missed it and on the big screen in the classroom it didn't show names. But someone said "who got that one wrong? " I just sat in the back quietly. Ofc the person in front of me just HAD to be nosy and they looked at my screen and said very loudly "she did! " and everyone looked at me laughing and I felt terrible. Like big deal I got one wrong. Cmon ppl it was a fun TRVIA game. I can't be this awesome all the time yknow.
I feel you. My teachers and classmates always think it's crazy if I get anything less than a b+ on my tests.
POV: you're wondering if you're smart or just an anxious overthinking hamster with a bad sleep schedule
Why not be both?
My grades suggest that I’m an anxious overthinking hamster with a bad sleep schedule who has super high expectations and is stressed 24/7.
B O T H
I'm both
Why did this call me out so hard
"Please do not use this to self-diagnose"
Viewers: *Imma pretend I didn't hear that*
i diagnose u with
smart
Absolutely!
It's so annoying
Thats youtube in general
Lol
People: *You're an night owl*
Me: *No, it's about that time when people are N O T disturbing you so you can manage on your own and focus more*
like actually.
trueeee
Ikkkk
yeahh my parents hate to see me studying at night cause they wanted me to sleep well but i can't study properly at day, honestly I prefer at night.
YAS IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE NOW!!! THANK YOU!
7. No one who understands you.
8. Being judged for over-doing your work.
9. Called lazy.
10. Getting bullied/ picked at.
These are the problems I face at school being smart and yes, I have all of these over my life... I'd really appreciate it if you added these points too. Thank you Psych2Go!
Youd have to be an ididot to follow the Standart "smart" by Psych2Go. There are people with photographic/Eidetic/../ memories remembering every intricate detail they have done/said/learned/thought/internalised/acted/what everyone else has said.. and more. People who innately comprehend material the level of Masters with confirmation from students or teachers that it is a difficult subject to master let alone by a glance look into it and know more than the teacher has been taught. My moms cousin is an alcoholic he lives in his apartment covered with books, his bed has sanked in stolen/bought books he might or might not be intelligent but for someone like him to exist comparable to me who barerly reads the amount he does per day, it's hard to think I'm even slightly intelligent instead dumb stupid pathetic loser - that's literally what I am every day
8 and 9 are exactly how my life is. It’s weird how you can over do work and still be “lazy.” I can’t really agree with 7 because I never talk about my feelings, I was raised to know that it is only for bad people, so nobody can really understand me or not if I don’t give them anything to understand. For 10, luckily where I live finding a bully is like finding a four leaf clover. They’re very rare.
I don't express my feelings either but there is a sense in people whether how the person is feeling. I have that feeling but as no one really likes me alot and I get bullied half the time on school, I can't help anyone. But then there is this sense. I agree with you.
@@Pikachu-nj3cx Sorry about all that bullying, that sucks. I get what you mean on where people can sense others’ feelings, and I do agree that people can be bad at sensing my feelings. I’ll sit alone at lunch a lot of the time at school and people think it’s because I’m sad and lonely so they try to sit next to me and cheer me up, but in reality I’m only alone because I want to be alone and I couldn’t be happier.
@Beair Thank you so much... Things have been rough at home everyday since my parents business blew up and they are never home (Probably since I was 7)... It really sucks but I appreciate your care and concern for me...
Peach out to you too.
I’m insecure about my intelligence, I’m worried that I’m stupid.
You are most definitely not alone there!!!!!!
Well there are a lot of average or below average people. I don't think people should be ashamed of being below average because it isn't their fault. But unless you've had an official IQ test you don't know. More intelligent people apparently have more doubts about their intelligence, I've heard. Also there are other qualities that are very important too. Some smart people are terrible in other ways and lots of smart people do poorly in life.
Me too! I always think I’m stupid for thinking I’m smart.
I am insecure about my age... I always have to act different cause I would look really weird if not- I have only friends that are older than me and I have the feeling that they are still younger than me it’s so weird haha
I was also insecure about that, but now I don't even care I think I am probably average and I am okay with that.
Worst part about being “gifted” is the pressure. If you do bad nobody can accept that you are struggling they think you are being lazy.
Yup
Same for me, what makes it worse is sometimes I really am just lazy
This has happened to me, of course I actually am lazy which colors it more
Yeah, I also kinda hate that word in general too, because it assumes that you never had to work for your skills and were simply "built different". And people can't accept that not everything will be a breeze, like you said.
True
I believe that while traditional IQ is an important measure of intelligence, you need to have understanding and wisdom as well. Intelligence without the ability to truly grasp it would be a curse.
agreed. I find a lot of people hating against using an IQ saying it's inaccurate, but really, I reckon it just comes down to what you value most (aspects)
We could say that I "was" smart.
Back in my childhood (including middle school period) I was always stressed and anxious going to school. Even though I had really high marks, and it satisfied me, this happiness was too little compared to what I had gone through everytime (FYI: I was almost always suffering from fatigue, mostly because I'm introverted and y'know...) on top of that, I had really high expectations from my parents, which destroyed me psychologically because they always checked on me.
I didn't know what I really wanted, until the first year of high school
I finally knew that I wanted peace, that's why I stopped being the "smartest one" and I can't be prouder to say that. My parents for some miracle stopped to analyze what I did everytime so I was as fresh as ice: I went to school happily almost everyday (except tests but that's obvious, nothing wrong here 😂) and I mainly focused on tighting some friendships (even with teachers) and aimed at becoming a better person, that's when I was finally proud of myself. Yeah, I wasn't the smartest, but I was an educated and happy fella, probably the best feeling I ever felt (and still feel today).
I'm still in high school, fourth year, still have to fight some obstacles, but I feel like nothing can stop me.
I felt like sharing this here so there you go, it also made me feel better somehow
Other problems:
-being misunderstood
-being called lazy
-discussions with people who always want to be right
the 3rd one has given me ptsd
Yep
I get the 3rd one often
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1 and 3. I mean, I'm not that smart, I'm just around many stupid people.
"Problems only smart people have"
Self hate: *activate*
100% true for me :D
OMG YESSS 😔😣
Damn so true
*self hate intensifies*
I think that's what makes us lucky. The problems we have gives us more opportunities and chances to be stronger and more successful than an average person. Because in trying to resolve these personal problems that we have, we learn a lot and become better and stronger.
It's just my opinion though.
in the part about developing psychological disorders, yes, people who are smart often have ADHD or ASD, but that is not caused/developed because of them being smart. you’re born with ASD, it means that our brains literally work differently.
I know this is mainly a wording issue, but had to say this. (also if I’m wrong please correct me! this is just to the best of my knowledge)
Recently my grades have been dropping a little and I noticed how I felt like a failure for having an 84 in science. This video helped me realize that I need to destress and focus on what is important.
when you come here to see if you’re smart:
I'd like this but you're at 69 likes and I don't want to ruin a perfect thing
@@citrusnostalgia6644 someone already did I'm 90th like btw 😏
@@citrusnostalgia6644 😏
I know that me being smart is improbable but it's not impossible.
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"Everybody is a genius, but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."
-Albert Einstein
I thought its from prince ea
Basically the school system..
*and imagine making a chainmail of that message so we could have an educational reform* :D
I get it’s a metaphor I can’t get the image of a fish climbing a tree out of my head
@うつ病SHEMAA thats ok
@うつ病SHEMAA fishes are best at swimming, not tree climbing, if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, the fish is stupid, but if you judge a fish by its ability for swimming, the fish is a genius. cmiiw though
I can safely admit here, that I find quarantine to be a HUGE blessing that has given me weeks, months and even years of peace and tranquility I never believed I would experience. My deepest sympathies to those of you who have lost loved ones.
After seventy years that included hundreds of dreadfully painful days, trying my best to "fit in and enjoy" family gatherings (holidays being the worst), Covid, in all it's forms, has given me the one impenetrable excuse, with absolutely no guilt or judgement, to say "no" and stay home. Yes, I'm a Mensan.
And, yes....I am occasionally lonely. It quickly passes.
this definitely is me, one time in sixth grade i cried because i was so stressed over a project that had to be done in a few days, i worked for about 2-3 hours and then wrote seven paragraphs thinking it had to be perfect and then the next day when we shared our progress i realized everyone else who shared wrote a paragraph each
Oh yeah. I procrastinate and am a perfectionist, but if I get below an M (my school does B (Beginning) I (Intermediate) M (Mastery)) I feel like a failure. My family teachers and friends are always telling me that I shouldn't be scared of failure, but it TERRIFIES me. I've always been the "smart, good, responsible kid, who is the teachers pet" but it makes me soooo stressed and always want to be right. Like, I shouldn't need to answer every question the teaches ask, but I want them to know I try.
Gods this went long, I'm sorry.
@@ninaarandomhunterofartemis962 I feel you, though it's a good experience to write long essays on a UA-cam comment lol 😆😆 Hope you're having a good time, and I guess I'm actually still struggling with that.
Everybody gangsta till your own intelligence turns against you
your brain is sooo mean to you, like for what???why are you like this?
"A talent too large will sooner or later turn against itself"
@@Elliyan4 if only it's not well managed ❤
LAMAO🤣🤣🤣🤣
And you end up with extremely bad score in Final exams...
"Being a night owl"
90% of teen-agers are smart conformed
That’s the next generation baby!
We’re fucked now!
Why do I have to be the only teenager who isn’t a night owl
me who's watching this video at 2am:
🤣
They are not smart, they are just addicted to their phones😭
I was labeled as “gifted” in school and have an IQ of at least 149, which was the lowest I was tested. It started after I would frequently get in trouble at school for interrupting lessons too much combined with often not paying attention. It wasn’t so bad until high school where I become much more intently focused on my social shortcomings. I became obsessed over finding friends I could form close bonds with, but failed to seem to fit in to connect with anyone in a genuine way. I could get along with anyone by mimicking social norms, but always felt lonely. Plagued by that as well as an obsession of the meaning of life I became hopeless. I didn’t know it at the time but I had a major depressive disorder that wasn’t diagnosed until my adulthood as well as social anxiety. What made things so much worse is that during this time of existential rumination I stopped putting any effort in school above the minimum required to not fail classes. My parents, which alway though me so smart, responded with unkind words, restrictions, and other behavior that made me just reject life entirely. I developed a drug habit as they had such a profound effect in bringing back my motivation which only alienated me more from my family.
Life as an adult work has been trying as well. I pursued early childhood education and work with parents under the principles that would have helped me as a child. I am successful but constantly find friction with co-workers over my obsessive and over analytical nature. While they simply want to maintain the job status quo and keep the same effectiveness over time to lower job difficulty, I only want to make constant improvements and always strive to create even more work than is necessary. I chase a perfection (perfection that is unattainable, I know) but this frustrates my employers and coworkers. My life hasn’t improved much but I can cope much better than in my adolescence. I am of course a night owl as well and don’t seem to tire but I don’t find this aspect of my personality that trying.
I hope to continue to help parents to approach their children with a mindset of nurturing. More than anything we need to know we are loved no matter the results of our tests or whether we go to a high level university. Our personality and effort need be celebrated while avoiding labels such as “smart” or “talented”, which can be a burden one feels for life.
This is totally relatable for me
I’m tired of getting moody all the time and overthinking and anxiety.Sometimes I get really passionate about my dreams and goals,and sometimes I’m just like….hmm no
people always told me I was smart and that i was so lucky but literally im the laziest person, and on top of that, a procrastinator. LOL
Same but Im not a procrastinator. I’ll procrastinate a bit but finish on time. Im really lazy and wouldn’t do a lot of things
Maybe you're like me, where I'm too smart for my own good. I'm able to think myself into being as energy efficient as possible, i.e. laziness.
sameee
Same😂
Same
It's a gift and a curse to have a high intellect and high intelligence
It's actually true tho...cause u know what's happening because u have that ability but sometimes there are some things which would have been better if we did not know about...
Why?
Aren't those the same thing?
Very true.
@@just.chillinup4412 intelligence isn't the same as knowledge
I really like your content ~this vid ticks all the boxes. I wasn't aware of some of the insights here. It hasn't really elevated my ego, but it has made me feel more comfortable with myself. Thank you.
I relate to all except the first one. I am glad that someone discussed these problems. Thank you for the insight!
Before watching the video: "I'm stupid"
After watching the video: "I'm exactly stupid"
😏 are you sure you're not smart?...
I mean ur pfp is from diabolik lovers..so yeah u prob are but then..The guy in the picture is kanato- and his character design is not bad so..Nevermind we'r all idiots
At least you don't have to go through all the stress that us intelligent people have. Intelligence is like a superpower. It works when it works, but can weaken the user.
@@dorothycho2467 I will thank God everyday for not being like you intelligent people lol
@@chuu7379 LOL yeah, you can relax a ton in your life. We're always working.
*1. They often suffer from psychological disorders*
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As someone with an IQ of 131 I can vouch for nearly everything said in this video only 2 doesn’t apply to me. Also I am very lucky to be surrounded by people who understand those ‘overexitabilities’ and really don’t mind when they occur. Also I get frustrated quite easily which is linked to the huge amounts of stress. Also I don’t know if this is related to my intelligence but I have also had trembling fingers my entire life.
I've never given my IQ # out. Why would anyone want to do that? Hmm...
@@bobbyshroyer440 IDK I thought it might be relevant.
@@paparoes4008I'm wondering what makes you think it would be relevant. Depending on what test one takes, they could qualify for entrance into Mensa at 132 if taking the Stanford-Binet test. However, a score of 148 is required for the Cattell test. See what I mean? You ever heard of the old proverb, "it's better to keep silent & thought of as a fool than to open ones mouth & remove all doubt"? No, I'm not saying you're a fool either. It's just that some things are better left unsaid is all. (The wisdom side of intelligence.) Food for thought. Anyway, having said all that, your reply seemed to me to be very honest & fair enough. Good on ya mate & take it one day at a time! Tomorrow will take care of itself. Each day has enough trouble of it's own. (Jesus, Matt. 6:34)
In my opinion the biggest problem smart people have is the easily overwhelming expectations of other people, it will never be good enough and people always expect more and more because you’re intelligent
Psych2Go: "This is not a scale for rating intellegence."
Everyone in the comments: "Well, looks like I am smart."
So true.
We need these disillusionment comments under every video like this.
Fr
I have most of these signs but that doesn't make me smart automatically and also i lost being happy because of my sister for being hyper
Tell me about it my sister is the source of my problems but how can I reach out for help? I'm just some random kid
I'm aware of it but dang those signs are too relatable
7. Loner
8. Perfectionist
9. Selective
10. Easily gets bored
Actually a truly smart person can never get bored even if you just put them in a room with themselves with nothing to do.
Those are mostly traits of people on the Autistic spectrum, which do overlap heavily (as mentioned in the first point), but aren't the same thing. Not everyone with high intelligence is prone to being a loner (some thrive off people's company, as that excitability makes them want to share and discuss) either.
@@okapi6727 Sorry but this is very wrong.
@@okapi6727 Not exactly, but yeah.
@@GBS4893 Actually the smartest people never get bored because many would actually rather sit and think then be on their phones, because if Einstein would have been reading a news paper on the train he wouldn't have thought of his theory of relativity, and almost no scientific discoveries have been made while someone was doing something. I mean can you actually imagine a genius just sitting down on there phone going through social media? Someone isn't just smart they have become smart by doing what looks like nothing to everyone else while they are thinking to themselves.
Your voice is calming and beautiful💛 I understand every single word you say 💙
This Is so spot on especially the high expectations one. They all fall into each other and combine to form this total stressed out life. The accuracy in this video is actually unbelievable
"Smart people tent to have psycological disorders"
Guess I'm the new Albert Einstein
😂
Misspelled psychological and tend but okay 👍🏻
@@warelves8901 haha lol
@@warelves8901 🤣
hey, i like your pfp!!
Here are the problems:
•They often suffer from psychological disorders
•They are night owls
•They have high expectations
•They overanalyze things
•They can become super stressed
•Overexcitable problems
edit:*thx for all the likes lol i never had so much*
Amazing comment
@@otiliaiolanda8364 then I must be super smart. O.O lol
I would say a bit relatable
@@otiliaiolanda8364 thanks 😊
I have all them, but I’m also very lazy, but did decent in school, did a levels, did decent, I have psychological problems OCD and People think I have ADHD because I’m always super excited, I stress a lot and can’t sleep, I never stop thinking, and I hate it, it’s tireing but yet I can’t sleep, it’s wierd. Atleast I’m not the only one xD
I had and still have problems with how much I talk. I never thought of it as being linked to my mental capabilities. That enlightens a few things. Thanks for this video.
THE ANIMATION STYLE IS SO CUTEE🥹🫶🫶
Overthinking is a curse guys, sometimes i just want to cut my head off.
Update: WOW , i´m so happy to see people talking with each other in the comments. i wish the best for everyone, be safe guys. Thank you.
Ngl same. I can't enjoy anything and I have to overthink about everything
Same
Yaa
Try to slap yourself always works for me
@@blackfoxgames4431 ohhhh very nice idea, man i will bet my self to death (joking) but i will do this
And everyone in the comments suddenly has 300 IQ
I have over 9000 IQ don't worry.
Ah yes suddenly I am a genius 🤏🏻
Indeed
@@avara4633 good
@@avara4633 mine is 112, i think we have the exact category
I was told as kid that I was smart and that led to me seeing if i could pass without studying too much. When I started studying for competitive exams, I had to take and extra year just to get into the habit of studying.
Moral of the story, Don't tell kids that they are smart.
1. Not necessarily sensitive to diseases.
2. Yes, I'm a night owl.
3. Yes, extremely high expectations, but I set those same expectations for the people around me as well.
4. Yes I am always hyperfocused on little things meaning I miss 80% of what goes on around me.
5. Yes I over analyze things because I can't work with surface level information.. It frustrates me.
6. No I don't get stressed because I talk to myself 24/7 and I take lots of time isolating myself from people.
I don't think I'm smart. I just grew to become a disciplined perfectionist because I've always had to do everything on my own, even as a child. So anything less than perfect is not going to cut it, because if I don't do it no one will. This is why I took entire group projects on alone and let the other team mates enjoy the ride. Anything less than my own standards isn't good enough. It even made me arrogant and selfish. But if there's no one to have your back, it's simply necessary. You could argue only an intelligent person could handle that kind of responsibility but I hate to differentiate between "smart" and "not smart". It's all in how much you care.
Nice
You should also let your team mates do the work because otherwise they won’t learn anything.
you and I are not so different
Me, having anxiety: sMoRt.
mannequin head
😭😂 me too
😂😂😂
😂😂
Big brain
"hey can u help me"
"Hey can u teach me this"
" Ur showing off"
"We aren't friends u can't help me"
"U don't even needa study"
" Teachers pet"
" U think ur perfect"
"U just want attention"
"I expected more from you"
I literally feel Soo lonely since people only talk to me when they want help:(
@@pengiofficial same :(
I’ve stopped being that way. I srsly just built my character and started ignoring such comments politely by telling them to go ask the teacher or search it up and focus well. As I’ve started to ignore, they haven’t been coming to me for help. I built my character so that the other person thinks twice before approaching me for such questions and comments. It took time, effort, experience, downfalls.. but I’m trying my best :)
@@Princess-gm5nd imma try n do that but thing is it's online now so if u Everyone asks u for everything
Oh my god same💞 A classmate just called me a nerdy freak and that I can never be trusted 2 months ago , now there are 5 assignments , so she wants my help. She's "sorry" that she was "mean" and she "didn't think this through" . HOW CAN YOU NOT THINK SUCH A BIG THING BEFORE BICKERING ABOUT IT !!! AND NOT APOLOGIZE FOR 2 MONTHS ????
It feels nice to vent
People tend to confuse eloquence and intellegence. It's one thing to appear smart but beeing smart is another story.
Worthwhile creation - and thanks a lot! - but that beautiful voice... it sounds like a machine!
No one :
litteraly all the viewers : *became suddenly smart af*
@@b.b.b.b.b.b.b not really, people watched it beause of their curiosity or/and because they follow that Channel
Kazuma kazuma!
I would say the genuine people who watched this video truly suffer from theese problems. I don't think they would lie about having theese issues since it's nothing to brag about. I clicked on this video just for curiosity, and at the end i became really sad knowing that i might develop a mental disorder
@@xxMistiK Right, I have all of these problems and am just starting to realise that there is a possibility that I am somewhat high IQ Lmao. I love myself now.
@@xxMistiK "people who brag about their IQ are losers" -Stephan Hawking
One of my professors once said: smart people struggle with motivation/procrastination because they never had to struggle much initially. Unlike people who have to learn how to overcome struggles, we are not taught how when life eventually gets hard. It can be especially hard to ask for help when people see you, or you perceive yourself, as the smart one who should have the answers.
this is so true
as a someone who is seen as a “smart student” people always have high expectations of me and think that im hardworking and all but in reality it’s really hard to find motivation to do something and it’s even harder to ask for help because everyone sees me as the kid who knows it all so im always terrified that people will think lesser of me if i ask for help, thinking im dumb and will become disappointed of me
Ahhh, I've heard this a lot, and I never really believed it until maybe two years ago. It's begun to resonate with my current situation in school, because everything has been increasing in difficulty and I've always expected myself to be able to accomplish what I need to. It's been quite taxing struggling to build up motivation and incentive that I really did take for granted a while back. Your professor speaks an honest truth, and I hope my school takes note of this and begins to reach out more to the students whose performance has been changing because of their own internal struggles and expectations.
Why do you have to hit me this hard..
I grew up having to take care of myself, because at age 4 my parents got divorced and were constantly working.
So i had to not only raise myself but also my little brother.
And on top of that, i had already started teaching myself english in grade 2 due to my dad jumping on the early train for computers.
Unfortunately, i am not as gifted in terms of aim as Shroud
when my professor found that I have 178 iq he called me a " paranoid hyperactive idiot " ........ I suffer from hallucinations and ADHD
your professors seriously describe me ;-;
This post just solidified what I already thought... Thank you for validating my life with Truth☮️💚🕯
I get all of them. But also, aren't smart people developing some kind of barriers to prevent this problems form happening? (except the mental illness ones) I mean... smart people don't want to feel stressed about everything, so they create psychological barriers that control their emotions when that time comes again.
Another problem smart kids run into: having such an easy time in school they arrive in high school, or even college, without having developed any study skills at all.
That is my son.
This is probably the most accurate thing I ever heard.
not really me. i would consider myself a smart person, but i was never able to transfer my intelligence to tests. i always got a lot of bad results back
I feel it
This is literaly me and now I am paying the price for it
When u have none of the problems:
*I’ve won..but at what cost..?*
wait noooo that sounded harsh hfhjars i didnt mean it like that sorrry lmao
@@dqm1n1k4 what did you say?
@@faridabdifatah5385 well I am quite curious too.
@Anonymous Gamer same
Loooolll underrated comment
Totally related🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for this video! You let me know why I suffered and somehow give me the direction to deal with those problems and complex thoughts in my life and my head😚
Hope everyone feels better and better after watching this video!
Being smart is a curse and whoever breaks it will be successful
???
"don't self diagnose", continues to speak in reference with 'you' instead of 'they'
Now u r really smart
Everyone here is on a narcissistic trip rn
Admitting your abilities or qualities is not narcissistic, just saying, in general
I was searching the comment like this
@@wawawhat3411 Yeh, but comments like "Ohmygod I'm sooo smart I wanna cut my head off sometimes" is just high-key attention seeking.
Being smart, still knowing one's limitations is what keeps an intellectual from being a narcissist.
True Intellect is the ability to know your limitations cause most people are not smart enough to know their limits and they are delusional.
@@vritantpaul6676 you.. don't think people haven't thought about their limits? That most people don't think deep or about their own futures from time to time?
i love those flowers on the head in your videos, they are too cute!
Math help me a lot when over analysing things my teacher said “simplify dont over complicate things” and I thank her for that advice
1:00 : they often suffer from psychological disorders
1:55 : they are night owls
2:53: they have high expectations
3:40 : they are overexcitable and can have high energy
4:50 : they overanalyze things
5:53 : they can become super stressed
you’re welcome ^^
I didn't say thank u
But thank u
Thank you!!
These type of people are true heroes.
aw, thanks!
Thank you so much
Me: Wanna hear a joke?
My brother: Yes.
Me: 6 problems only smart people have
My brother: I don't get it.
Me; Exactly.
Why is this underrated?
So what's the “problem” here? I don't get it
😂
@@adamant8435 His/ Her brother didn't have the symptoms in this video and he said " I don't get it"
and "I don't get it" is another way of saying "I don't know what you're talking about"
underrated. very, underrated.
Really interesting and insightful, thank you :)
1. Phycological disorder,ADHD
2. Night Owl
3. High expectations from myself
4. Impulsive talking
6. SUPER DUPER STRESSED 😂
Me: An idiot
Also me: watching problems of smart people
lol same
Would give anything in the world to be an idiot.
Only a smartass would get depressed simply by being left alone for two hours to think about their self - worth compared to other people.
The more I thought about it the more guilty I felt because I have literally no problems but I am sad for no mf reason.
@@hallway_revenant7919 sAmE dEaR sAmE.
@@ohnochae Is thIs saRCAsaM
@@hallway_revenant7919 i guess im lucky to be an idiot then
"The problem with being faster than light, is that you can only live in darkness"
I'm not gonna cry.
Eye opener
Alright, i know what you meant. But, beeing faster than light doesn't necessarely mean you will always be in darkness, tecnically speaking. I'm lazy now, so i don't want to explain it... Just think about it, if you are faster than light you won't be reachead by the light behind you, but the light in your front will stil bright your way.
English is not my first language, ignore my mistakes.
@@DaviSouza-kq7xz excuse me sir… voce é brasileiro?
ive watched all of these kinds of videos and i'm suprised to see that i relate to all of it- although i don't even consider myself smart.
1:03 technoblade's head on the bed❤️🩹🥲
I'm one of the students who always got good grades in class but It always makes me feel ashamed when they ask me for answer that I don't know. Just because I have good grades doesn't mean I always know the answer. I'm also not your cheat sheet THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Honestly, last year I had this girl who sat next to me in math class, and she only talked to me in math class for help on work
I gave in once and got everyone an A sitting around me. Mighty sus
Yeah! Sometimes, if I get decent grades in tests or I’m just seen as kind of smart, it doesn’t mean I’d know the answer. As an unconfident person, I don’t have much pride in my answers and I don’t believe they’re correct most of the time, even if they are. This is why this video is something I can actually relate to because I’m always scared of getting something wrong for the feeling of being judged by people around me.
@@rio5793 bruh, for me its gotten to the point where im ashamed for getting a question on a kahoot quiz wrong, or I dont end up in the top 5 ☠️ im grateful we rarely have to put our real names in because I’d feel so bad for not meeting people’s expectations... on a kahoot quiz
@@pokaay3163 YES SO MUCH!! I cannot tell you how many times I’ve messed up on things I both understood and never understood! Thank gosh that it doesn’t show further than 5 ;-;
When you're smart but too depressed to care about exams so everyone thinks you're stupid 🙃
but I'm below average lol
Soo true...
me but with adhd and executive dysfunction😔😔
So true
Can you even call that smart anymore?
I love the way she narrates, its so calming and soothing
**them saying the 6 suffers that smart people have**
me: **realizes that I have all of that**
Also Me: AM I BIG BRAIN?!
"A year or two from now you won't be thinking about that A-minus on your Geography exam".
Me: ...
That one exam where I somehow missed that there was one more question and I knew the answer so I would have had a perfect score. It was undergrad and I've been done with grad school for years. Yes, now I'm thinking about it again and stopped paying attention to the video. 😐
Me who vividly remembers the first time I god a b... In 2nd grade
To this day I still remember my physics exam where I misread "electron" for "proton" and gave the exact opposite answer to all sub-questions of question 6.
*Press X to doubt*
@@XSemperIdem5 a similar experience happened to me, there was this Science test and I had this one definition which had two parts, I only wrote one part and ended up getting a 98% on that BECAUSE I DIDN'T ADD THE SECOND PART OF THAT DEFINITION, I still never forgave myself for that
The worst part is when you struggle and people don’t believe you or think you can do anything because you’re smart, like, I can’t do 5 things at the same time!
Relatable i am always expected to do the best get A's and if not im just a dissapointment i mean what about them tryinh to force someone to their expectations....
These words are true. People think of me about getting good grades, so if I'm not able to control stress , they mean I'm faking. This hurts me a lot.
YEAH
Neon cat is so 2007 omg thanks
@ARandomPerson 1273, and it hurts a lot because, when you get good grades or a good result, they give all the credit to your smartness and they don't see all the effort that you put in everything you do.
Your videos are so entertaining!
for me, kind of with the first, right on the dot with two, three, four, and five, and with number 6 describing my every day, i could not belive how similar this video resembles things i deal with every day. thanks! y’all just earned a subscribe!
Can we just talk about how soothing her voice is?
@Angelos Voglis yes!!!
So odd, the second I wondered if someone talked about her soothing voice, I saw your comment saying just that, even the same words
I had to break 666 .
Or how cute the animation is
I had to break the 777
Theres a difference between being smart, and scoring better
- Prince EA
The dude who said depression comes and depression goes 😂😂
oh stop smart shaming people 🤭
@@ashantiberenice5798 does that even exist xd
@@darlynespiritu426 yes, students here in philippines does that
That is so true.
A lot of my teachers they say that I am a very smart but my grade are bad, therefore I'm not studying hard enough
Well, Im dyslexic and I have some health prob but I'm so used to it that I think it's normal cause I have been living with it my entire life and I exercise/gym to overcome it
I like how all of this basically confirms the old saying "ignorance is bliss." It really is. It's strange, then, that we all seem to have an inherent desire to NOT be ignorant.
The worrying part with videos referring to "smart people", is that actually intelligent individuals (given that "intelligence" is extremely difficult to define by itself), should not really define themselves as "smart" anyway...
Socrates said the phrase "Εν οίδα ότι ουδέν οίδα" which I think from time to time, and it translates as "the only thing I know is that I know nothing". The essence of this phrase gets down to: When you get to a high enough level of understanding of the world, you realize how little you really know (and probably will know till the end of your life).
That realization really humbles you, and in my book actually directly contrasts with self-identifing as "smart". And I do get that knowledge and intelligence are two different things, but necessarily directly correlate with each other.
I agree... other than the fact that I myself self-identify as smart. I'm not narcissistic or anything (although usually they do tend to be smart anyways, but there's a whole other level of psychological stuff going on there). I just reckon it is possible to realise you are smart, while still in a humble way. for example, I only know because I began to notice how people didn't seem to understand me, I was very critical and analysing, hyperfocused on things, understood much harder things etc. etc. than other kids my age. And I suppose I must've stumbled upon some information like this I guess that kinda made me think I was smarter than most people and that was the only explanation, sooo...? on top of that, I certainly felt smarter. i eventually learned how to read people better and how intelligence actually works (while it is somewhat subjective), and from there I was able to understand how someone thought and what their capabilities were.
...I guess the difficult thing is I still question whether I'm still smart all the time, and many times tell myself I'm getting dumber even though that's not true.
"Can you do my homework?"
"You're smart why can't you just tell me"
"You're just showing off!"
"We're not friends anymore, you make look like a fool"
More importantly being immediately judged by making a tiny mistake/ you had a bad grade and teachers forcing you to join contests you don't even like.
Ugh, yeah the part of causing anxiety and triggering self-worth issues with others is really tough. I'm now able to sense when to stop or turn elsewhere when there's that sense of "Ah, I'm starting to lose them!". But especially on the internet without body language it's tough. I JUST got throw out of a group yesterday for that reason. Scared them with being able to see beyond the "good and bad" categories on a controversial subject. 😔 That one actually stings and I'm very used to parting ways with people for them becoming too stressed around me.
Yeah, I have similar problems. Also because of my OE problem, people hate me when I chat online.
@@KxNOxUTA I hate it when that happens.. I suffer with you.. :/ im either to different/have an opinion that people dont want to listen to and understand cus they believe in their own so hard that they dont want to listen to anything else.. (just as an example.. BLM and i think.. but hey.. you guys.. ALL lifes matter.. and if we create BLM.. we still make it about ''THEM and US''.. how is it going to help if we keep categorizing people when thats the thing we want to fight against?) /to honest.. or uninteresting for people to even wanna talk to me.. and honestly.. im very very curious what the subject was.. i just read your comment and you sound really amazing!! like the kind of person id love to talk to irl :) I love it when ppl can see beyond the good and bad in things ^^; .. as long as you accept everyones opinion and open to what they think and listen to them ofc :)
@@nathalieolsson6972 THANK YOU. the i say the same thing. They want no racism but. Made a group. Specifically. For advocating. For that one group. To say how great that group is and their lives matter. Isn’t that being racist with extra steps? Every time I see “black lives matter” I think to myself. No shit. All lives matter. All humans have something potential to contribute to our society. No life matter more or any less than the other.
People used to depend on me for homework and everything. Like just because i get good grade doesnt mean im going to do you homework.
Pyschtogo: Are you currently burning the midnight oil?
Me at 3AM: *you* *have* *no* *idea*
Me at 6:42 am because my sleep schedule is so messed up😂😩
I don’t have that problem due to the fact that my parents would never let me. They would rather have me healthy then living to their expectations, and I’m glad for that.
Me reading you reading this at 3am at 3am: 😀
I am also watching this vid at 3am but I have school in two days... and two texts to finish for Monday _help_
me actually realizing that is 5am now🤡
i was stupid enough to think i would sleep at least 3am.... everyone makes mistakes...
I literally check every box, I have ADHD I have lots of anxiety attacks, I’m a night owl, I have high expectations, I get overexcited easily, I have an urge to over analyze, etc
As much I'm a child, I seriously experienced this before. I tend to think a lot and over analysis everything, and have high expectations for myself. Its not fun to ponder on a idea so long or you might get very negative about it. Its basically torturing yourself with ideas you shouldn't think long and hard of. Every time I do something in a certain way or someone does, I will think and the end less ideas what it could possibly means even a emotion. Stress is a another thing, and OE's. I didn't realized I have OE's due to being labeled 'problematic.' Stress is way high on my list because I stress on so many things that exist and other that don't exist. To a point I started getting white hair. I have high expectations due to being praised as a kid for having the best scores on tests, spelling bees, projects, and etc. Now as a middle schooler, its hard because I need it so everyone knows I'm still the smart kid as before. Everytime, I see a bad grade on my report cards I just scolded myself for having that even its a B+ (its not fun)
As a smart person, just try to do things on your own pace. If you didn't exceeded at the first time it means your not there yet but you have more to learn. Try to be organized as much as possible. Study's test & gets notes and ask questions! Don't be so hard on yourself for having a C's or D's even a B's because we are learning and we tried. What Im telling you is that just don't be so hard on yourself for having a bad grade. Just have fun and do your best.
Find yourself a boyfriend like Psych2go who calls you smart
Lmao
😂😂😂
You're smart & beautiful ;)
Guess I'm gay.
@Joot I’m a pan genderfluid person. I’ve been wanting to ask a straight- are the straights okay?
"please don't self diagnose"
goes to a therapist: "I-I think I might be smart..."
Edit: I was never expecting this much likes holyshit
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Therapist be like: wut-
@@restinpeacetechno1620 then you just show them this video and have a panic attack about being smart XD
😂 😂
I seriously hate being how smart I am, because if I get 1 POINT off of a test, everyone just gasps in shock.
I am a teacher of Gifted children. I am also Gifted. These are spit on in what I see in myself and in so many of my students.
What this should be called: Why being smart sucks XD
I honestly love being smart it’s really fun. I just hate the negative stuff that comes with it. 😓😓😓 No one else thinks about it at all they just say I’m smart and very hard-working. 🤷♀️
@@angelacavon4073 True
Wow all the likes, thanks peeps :3
@@angelacavon4073 havent heard of smart and very hardworking in the same sentence tho
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. 🤣😂 I hear it to much I don’t know why people call me that! 🤷♀️
The word is intelligent! 😣
I always get straight A’s and I have always been put in advanced classes and I suffer from literally everything you mentioned in the video. My attention span is horrible, and I constantly overthink things. When someone makes a negative comment I spend hours at night thinking about it, and it drives me crazy.
I really needed to see this video, thanks 😊
YESS, same here!!
I've been in advanced classes (in a school that is a military school prep) since 2nd grade
it's a struggle for me cuz people expect too much and I can't even keep up with non-advanced classes
ugh samee
Literally same!
I feel you
My favorite quote as being a GT person is that GT not only stands for gifted and talented but greatly troubled
I Recently scored 81/100 on a test and started having this feeling of disappointment and that's when I knew something was very wrong with me, at the same time my sleep schedule was getting worse and worse every day. I'm relieved to have stumbled upon this video and am now more aware of why I act as I do in some situations. Will be working to fix my sleep schedule one day. And ofc tysm for the vid!
Also, love the references :)
Fun fact: Most people are smart! They just dont know how to use their intelegence
Of course everyone is smart. I wouldn’t say everyone is intelligent though or have high intelligence.
Not most, everyone
*intelligence
I Agree
@@user-gv5hm8po6b Exactly.
Me: expresses concern about my future studies and career
Them: "you're smart, you'll make it"
Me: *well tHANK YOU JANET, DIDN'T THINK ABOUT THAT*
"You should have a back-up plan tho , INCASE it doesn't work , chances of which happening are very high because people smarter than you exist but you're smart , you'll make it.... still get a back-up plan tho" ??? DO YOU WANT ME TO JUST DIE OR WHAT???
@@aishnachandna1916 honestly I get that occasionally, and I still haven't found a way to respond to something like that😂
@@amanialsoquar5073 i got it once a few days back and now im questioning my whole life plan ...
@@aishnachandna1916 i have around three back-up plans, just incase :))
Omg thats so fucken true "i have no doubt that you will succeed flawlessly" oh rly ? Imagin if i could just be that clueless i would be so much happier
I’ve always had issues with the saying “knowledge is power” because, although it is true in a way, it makes people forget it is also an incredible struggle.
Thanks for this video, now I know that every issue I have with my "being smart" are all kinda standard
- Sees #2.
- Looks at clock.
- It's 2am.
Yep that one checks out.
I looked over and it turned to 1am 😅
It is 1:00 A.M. for me right now.
uhm it's 4:38am and my alarm is on 7:30am (I'm gonna go on a trip with friends) I should probably go to sleep-
(edit just so my other replies make sense: I didn't check the messages and the trip was cancelled)
5am mate :')
@@ninad4564 don't die from exhaustion, good luck
I hate it when people call me "gifted" or "talented" I consider it more as an insult. They make it look like I'm lucky that I'm smart but the reality is they never knew what I've been through to reach the top.
Exactly! I was identified as a gifted student in elementary school, still am, and people always expect me to do the best. Like, I lost so much just because I am “gifted”. I’m depressed, have anxiety, and have no friends I can relate to all because I was isolated from my peers since a young age. I have terrible social skills, no motivation for anything and procrastinate everything. Then, everyone says that I’m lucky because I’m smart. I’m not lucky, people, okay? I just want to be normal, which I can’t be because I have no other identity apart from being “smart”.
Sorry for unloading all of this on you.
Happens to all of us unfortunately ... People just look at you and reject you while saying you're smart/intelligent ... They haven't thought a single second about what it feels to truly be someone like us. Tortured by our own mind.
@@Phoeniiks.E exactly! We are our own worst enemy and yet no one sees that.
dude a person is born smart
@@ahmedhossam-lb2km that's where you're wrong
Caring less about perfectionism or expecting less makes me alot more happy