Loneliness

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  • Опубліковано 16 лют 2019
  • Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors - and that our modern world can turn it into something that really hurts us. Why do we feel this way and what can we do about it?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 74 тис.

  • @kurzgesagt
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  • @axkira7894
    @axkira7894 4 роки тому +19835

    Conversations that I have:
    4% with real people
    96% in my mind

    • @AnuragSingh-pn4wz
      @AnuragSingh-pn4wz 4 роки тому +431

      same here

    • @Lilflip20128
      @Lilflip20128 4 роки тому +1090

      Relatable. Most of my conversations nowadays are smalltalk, which I don't mind but I personally crave to have much deeper conversations and hang out with like minded people.

    • @QuietChaos7726
      @QuietChaos7726 4 роки тому +61

      @@Lilflip20128 I wish for the same thing

    • @1mokay911
      @1mokay911 4 роки тому +13

      can you stop with memes?

    • @madamenox2765
      @madamenox2765 4 роки тому +8

      Yep

  • @poojaach6794
    @poojaach6794 4 роки тому +8473

    The worst is..when u spend time with ur "friends" and feel like u don't belong there anymore. Such a contradicting feeling that is.

  • @michaelwongngaichi
    @michaelwongngaichi Рік тому +1294

    "If you feel lonely, you are lonely." Love this line!

    • @kintsugi2262
      @kintsugi2262 7 місяців тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @konyvnyelv.
      @konyvnyelv. 6 місяців тому +9

      😮 high iq time

    • @Tmalter
      @Tmalter 5 місяців тому +4

      No shit Sherlock

    • @justanothermortal1373
      @justanothermortal1373 3 місяці тому +2

      I have people around me who keep asking me if I'm okay. But I'm afraid of speaking to them because I'm afraid they'll judge me and then I'll judge myself. So, I have created my own loneliness.

    • @EdyYT66
      @EdyYT66 3 місяці тому +1

      water is wet type beat

  • @heaven_x
    @heaven_x 11 місяців тому +1301

    Being alone sucks man, I also hate it when I’m in public and I see people my age hanging out with their friends and having a good time, meanwhile I’m just sitting there all by myself just hating my life and my existence.

    • @BNSF1458
      @BNSF1458 11 місяців тому +46

      There's me

    • @houdini_227
      @houdini_227 10 місяців тому +42

      Literally me

    • @Itsant33
      @Itsant33 10 місяців тому +66

      I hate seeing groups of adult friends. I know I shouldn't but my dumbass is like "don't show off your friendship".

    • @tyrellhansraj3589
      @tyrellhansraj3589 9 місяців тому +14

      ​@@Itsant33😂 dw its normal to want something others have, especially something nice as friendship, ik how u feel

    • @HaveASweetNightMare
      @HaveASweetNightMare 8 місяців тому +28

      thats me i get so jealous when i see my few and only friends with their girlfriends and boyfriends and huge group of friends while i sit alone during all my classes and do the work with only myself while they and everyone is having a good time working and talking

  • @dudecool7915
    @dudecool7915 4 роки тому +7994

    The worst thing is going from feeling extremely lonely, to extremely fulfilled, then lonely again

  • @user-dm4wm6ln3t
    @user-dm4wm6ln3t 4 роки тому +43568

    The worst part of loneliness is when you watch a movie and want to share your opinion with someone but you have nobody
    and you end up talking to yourself

    • @XiyuYang
      @XiyuYang 4 роки тому +4243

      Why are you doing this to me.

    • @Zancibar
      @Zancibar 4 роки тому +413

      I saw it as the good part of loneliness but ok. . . ​ Toby_ Belle has a point.

    • @baah5443s
      @baah5443s 4 роки тому +95

      Záncibar well the OGC did say that it was the worst part for them....

    • @Meme-o-Taur
      @Meme-o-Taur 4 роки тому +454

      Same with video games I can’t find anyone that play bf1 or bf4 because everyone is playing fortnite and I can’t have so I can’t reach out to anyone

    • @MrScorpioreaper
      @MrScorpioreaper 4 роки тому +86

      Damn :(

  • @ToniMonteroroman
    @ToniMonteroroman 10 днів тому +112

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @BestOffer-ii9ny
      @BestOffer-ii9ny 10 днів тому

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

    • @fakiriayoub8087
      @fakiriayoub8087 10 днів тому

      Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @Nicoleniccypal
      @Nicoleniccypal 10 днів тому

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @BestOffer-ii9ny
      @BestOffer-ii9ny 10 днів тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @fakiriayoub8087
      @fakiriayoub8087 10 днів тому

      Yes, he is dr.porass.

  • @itsAnnaVictoria
    @itsAnnaVictoria 6 місяців тому +219

    I began tearing up from how well they explained the daily living hell of loneliness I have, and began straight up crying when they explained how I actually can help my self..thank you so much.

  • @tlvdatsi12
    @tlvdatsi12 4 роки тому +32733

    The worst thing is being around people and feeling like you are invisible

    • @toast1605
      @toast1605 4 роки тому +806

      ZENO I feel called out

    • @fatcat1250
      @fatcat1250 4 роки тому +936

      To those with social anxiety, that is the BEST thing.

    • @tlvdatsi12
      @tlvdatsi12 4 роки тому +260

      @@fatcat1250 Feeling invisible?? I guess.

    • @florale1065
      @florale1065 4 роки тому +295

      feeling invisible is what i want to be actually

    • @coolkiyo8727
      @coolkiyo8727 4 роки тому +28

      Agreed

  • @averygoodlookingwhale9449
    @averygoodlookingwhale9449 4 роки тому +3833

    “Let’s reach out to someone today”
    *Left on read*

    • @housecat1674
      @housecat1674 4 роки тому +205

      A very good looking whale bruh I tried to talk to someone new in irl, ten minutes they just got up and walked away I WAS LEFT ON READ IRL

    • @saftschinken2353
      @saftschinken2353 4 роки тому +9

      Same...

    • @wanderingintime
      @wanderingintime 4 роки тому +125

      @@housecat1674 damn. that sucks. I know it dont feel like it... but that was not you. that was them. I had 2 experiences where I tried. one was great. one was not, and I let it ruin me.
      *1 - in hs in florida we had a nice outdoors campus (art school). during lunch, I saw an obviously (facial/body expression) lonely boy sitting against a pillar looking down at the grass. I said "Hey man what's up? you new? want to go for a walk?" and he did. we had fun that one time. we never hung out with each other after that day, but he had made friends and always smiled and said hello to me in the halls. (I was art, he was music - no shared classes)
      *2 - another time in hs, after school by the bus loading area, there was a nervous looking, very quiet kid with glasses. I thought the other time was good.. I made someone happy and I felt good. so I stood right in front of him, waved and said "hello!" and he just stared at me. I repeated my word... and he blinked. I felt so sad. like I was bothering him. I said sorry and slunk away. I never fucking did that again. it was stupid of ME. in hindsight, i shouldn't have ever let myself feel shame for reaching out.
      * years later, I saw the boy from story 1. he was so happy to see me, and told me and the friends he was with, that I'd never know how much I changed his hs experience just from that one day. he made a lot of friends. I wish I could have been his friend, but it didn't happen - we were really different and lived far from each other.
      what I'm trying to say, is we'll never be able to reach someone who isn't ready or willing to be reached. but this reaching out and trying again is a real thing that can have such an impact...
      well I lied. I did reach out again. i met my last significant other inside of an abandoned building.. and I saw him a few weeks later walking in the streets where I lived. I pulled over and said "hey. wanna go for a drive?" he did. then i killed him... not. but we did joke about how i could have... we've been together 8 years. o.o

    • @housecat1674
      @housecat1674 4 роки тому +28

      wanderingintime bro thank you so much wtf out of all the people I talked to about it your UA-cam comment was the wisest and made me feel the most better, what a great start to my day! Also for a second I believed the killing joke lolll

    • @wanderingintime
      @wanderingintime 4 роки тому +14

      @@housecat1674 hey that makes me happy to know. keep having a good day!

  • @Hiraeth1515
    @Hiraeth1515 Рік тому +210

    it hurts so much when nobody reaches out to you in the first place. You are never directly talked to by your “friends” and continually excluded from the plans that they made together. You are just there; you’re not important in anyones life and they don’t seem to care about you at all. Nobody checks up on you to see how you are doing or if you want to hang out. Even when you reach out to them first, there is always an excuse of why they can’t go. Even when you thought you made a new friend-one who treats you like an existing person-they start to ignore you and act like you never existed. You eventually start to resort to books, movies, and music to escape from your reality and into a fantasy. You know you would be such a good friend if people just gave you a chance. You’re always left wondering, “what did I do?”

    • @THELASTMEDICALNINJA1995
      @THELASTMEDICALNINJA1995 Рік тому +19

      God that’s how I feel thank you for typing this

    • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
      @fburnsDubstepEnderFox Рік тому +12

      I don't know you, but I relate so much. I tried the converse after being left out by my "friends". Making plans and my "friends" just ignored me. I guess they just want to go away and d1e.

    • @user-bear27
      @user-bear27 Рік тому +4

      You put my feelings into words...

    • @Hemlocker
      @Hemlocker Рік тому +11

      "You have to be the one to make things happen" might be good advice practically, but it never addresses the shitty feeling of not being wanted in the first place. ❤

    • @nemzi8969
      @nemzi8969 Рік тому +3

      It is mostly because of our social status is low many people in adulthood just want to increase their status

  • @anton503hvt
    @anton503hvt 7 місяців тому +44

    외로운 서로의 아픔을 비난하지 않고 보듬어 주어 힘이 되어 줍시다

  • @raifwinn2475
    @raifwinn2475 4 роки тому +7013

    The sad part is most of the people watching this are lonley

    • @terribrown5989
      @terribrown5989 4 роки тому +22

      I am

    • @toastydoggo2313
      @toastydoggo2313 4 роки тому +60

      Well yeah, it's weird to see this video with a group of people. It's better to see this by yourself because everyone is different and everyone feels lonely at different times

    • @terribrown5989
      @terribrown5989 4 роки тому +18

      @@toastydoggo2313 I feel lonely most OF THE TIME

    • @Besomar_Surahat
      @Besomar_Surahat 4 роки тому +17

      I'm not, but i was curious about the subject and how help People

    • @yumenatomi1898
      @yumenatomi1898 4 роки тому +15

      Sad reality

  • @BarryBruh
    @BarryBruh 5 років тому +11681

    Anyone wanna hold hands

    • @fruitcake7789
      @fruitcake7789 5 років тому +108

      alone. o o

    • @RapidRichu
      @RapidRichu 5 років тому +68

      What are you doing here and why havnt you made another vid yet?

    • @rubaiyattasnim1297
      @rubaiyattasnim1297 5 років тому +137

      Let's hold hands then ~~

    • @somedudett5880
      @somedudett5880 5 років тому +40

      No

    • @notcute-qh8og
      @notcute-qh8og 5 років тому +256

      I'd rather hug, thanks. My hands get sweaty when someone else holds them.

  • @artemsavtsov983
    @artemsavtsov983 10 місяців тому +225

    it’s been probably 3-4 years since i found this, i come back to it from time to time ,once or twice a year, and find myself in tears almost every time

    • @artemsavtsov983
      @artemsavtsov983 10 місяців тому +9

      i try following this, i do not assume hostility or judge ,i reach out all the time, i’m always ready to open up and i cat escape feeling lonely regularly ,some things trigger it more than others and i don’t know what can i do with it

    • @joysanni
      @joysanni 9 місяців тому +5

      ​@@artemsavtsov983 same for me. It's usually the feeling that even if you opening up, no one care about it.

    • @artemsavtsov983
      @artemsavtsov983 9 місяців тому +4

      @@joysanni yeah, i feel like wasting time and effort now when meeting new people or reconnecting with old ones, because it may end in that way

    • @joysanni
      @joysanni 9 місяців тому +4

      ​@@artemsavtsov983 i just feel being annoying to everyone as i forcing myself to shut up and don't talk with anyone..
      Sad thing, when you can't talk with your FRIENDS, because don't want to bother them with your loneliness, and also you can't find new one as they don't seem mutual in conversation or some kind of.

    • @laylis12
      @laylis12 3 місяці тому +1

      How are you guys doing? ❤

  • @MrRrrr698
    @MrRrrr698 27 днів тому +11

    For the last 10 yrs I'm a complete social outcast, I'm so lonely I talk to myself for hours very loudly like I'm talking to someone because I got no one to talk to literally no one. 😢☹️

  • @hexamael9458
    @hexamael9458 3 роки тому +4346

    Loneliness: *More deadly than Cancer and Smoking*
    Me: Guess I'll die.

    • @imperiomaximus9583
      @imperiomaximus9583 3 роки тому +65

      Don't give up. Stay strong mate 💪🏻💪🏻

    • @denacane2778
      @denacane2778 3 роки тому +151

      @@imperiomaximus9583 And remember: dying is gay

    • @kaysha4477
      @kaysha4477 3 роки тому +35

      Heyy, let's try not to die together

    • @insertname485
      @insertname485 3 роки тому +84

      Exactly what I thought when watching this. I've not had any friends for such a long time, that my life span is probably already been completely fucked up by now .

    • @hogusa3
      @hogusa3 3 роки тому +3

      So say we all

  • @dragosmicu8567
    @dragosmicu8567 4 роки тому +34611

    "I think my biggest problem is that I love being alone but I hate being lonely."

  • @apinkchameleon
    @apinkchameleon 4 місяці тому +54

    Hey, just wanted to come back here to say that this video seriously improved my life last year. It made me realize during one of the worst times in my life that I was significantly isolating myself, making it worse. It encouraged me to reach out to people, and though I didn't make any life changing friendships, it made my senior year of high school a hell of a lot more bareable. So, yeah. Though you'll probably never see this, thank you.

    • @viandka
      @viandka 2 місяці тому +1

      i don't know you but i proud of you. i hope you feel better ^^

    • @TheLethargicWeirdo985
      @TheLethargicWeirdo985 Місяць тому +1

      Well done! You're doing better than me, that's for sure

  • @___slowrider___
    @___slowrider___ Місяць тому +10

    The worst thing is being alone in a crowd. I go out to try to make friends and meet people but i end up feeling more isolated than ever.

    • @apillow7237
      @apillow7237 15 днів тому +1

      thats why i dont go out with friends no more.. at this point every word i want to say makes me think that im weird.

  • @Wolfe420
    @Wolfe420 4 роки тому +15570

    I'm at the point where I'm so lonely that I spend a majority of my days fantasizing about my ideal friendships and romantic partner.

    • @riderbull5178
      @riderbull5178 4 роки тому +1393

      Go find them! Don't sink into the hole. There's nothing good in the hole. There are lots of people who relate to you and who could potentially be your friends. Just keep trying.

    • @stargirl7963
      @stargirl7963 4 роки тому +515

      Oh thats me. Lol

    • @snowleaf2834
      @snowleaf2834 4 роки тому +762

      Shut up dont remind me of myself

    • @Wolfe420
      @Wolfe420 4 роки тому +249

      @@snowleaf2834 thassa mood.

    • @xblasx
      @xblasx 4 роки тому +203

      Viridian Sky I’m in this picture and I don’t like it.

  • @Art-ec5cb
    @Art-ec5cb 4 роки тому +2009

    The best wombo combo is loneliness and low self esteem; everything else flows from it.

    • @brabbit5220
      @brabbit5220 4 роки тому +174

      + social anxiety + depression

    • @adamassaad1958
      @adamassaad1958 4 роки тому +43

      I have low self esteem and loneliness so I know how it feels

    • @juanorihuela4128
      @juanorihuela4128 4 роки тому +4

      Same

    • @jayluis189
      @jayluis189 4 роки тому +81

      No Religion/spirituality + No friends + no family + low self esteem + procrastinator = Shitty times

    • @tdmm
      @tdmm 4 роки тому +6

      @@jayluis189 literally me

  • @emma5326
    @emma5326 9 місяців тому +25

    Every time I feel so lonely to the point I can't endure it, I watch this video and cry at the thought of someone understands me. although I cry while watching it, I feel like being helped out

    • @HaveASweetNightMare
      @HaveASweetNightMare 8 місяців тому +3

      No one understand me irl but its nice seeing people that also dont have many friends and are usually lonely

    • @user-xx1id6ws9g
      @user-xx1id6ws9g 8 місяців тому +1

      you know? I wanted to comment: did anyone else cryed while watching this? Then i see your comment

    • @canopus_reborn
      @canopus_reborn 7 місяців тому

      But where ru from?
      *_Emma🦋_*

    • @DuMaster447
      @DuMaster447 3 місяці тому

      I’m following you ;)

  • @naimahmed3720
    @naimahmed3720 11 місяців тому +12

    This was the most helpful video I've ever watched. Felt like it addressed every single thing about me,
    man I need to put this in action.
    Good luck to everyone who suffers from this too!

  • @broskydoodle6697
    @broskydoodle6697 5 років тому +80617

    "Loneliness"
    *Recommended for you*

  • @nibornaan6634
    @nibornaan6634 4 роки тому +2959

    "Decline invitations untill the invitations stop"
    Bold of you to assume I ever got any.

    • @dovahgwyn_
      @dovahgwyn_ 4 роки тому +2

      Nu ești singur, nici nu vei fi vreodată, atâta timp cât nu vrei. 🇷🇴

    • @Nierez
      @Nierez 4 роки тому +7

      I used to get a few, to places that caused me anxiety. Now the have stopped coming, I'm fine with that :)

    • @minatonamikazi8818
      @minatonamikazi8818 4 роки тому +2

      This is what I said too

    • @oui6794
      @oui6794 4 роки тому +32

      I was once in class, and i stood behind a curtain to see og anyone would remember i Was there. And yes it was after a break so the teacher knew i was at school that day, and we had the same teacher Before, and after the break. No one, not even my best friend remembered me. So when i came out from hiding, i asked why they didnt say anything. They all didnt know i was at school that day. Yes this is a true story, and they actually didnt know i was at school. If you have any questions, i would gladly reply.

    • @lfamvs5520
      @lfamvs5520 4 роки тому +2

      High five! 🖐

  • @Derfiser
    @Derfiser 7 місяців тому +6

    The feeling that you have everybody around you, but not with you

  • @FlyingNoScope
    @FlyingNoScope 4 місяці тому +25

    I watched this video 4 years ago and it's just been suggested on my algorithm. I wanted to come back here and say that this video set the ball in motion which massive improved my mental health and my life. I live in a new country now and it's scary and would have been too lonely in my mind 4 years ago but now it excites me to be alone and make new friends again.
    I bought and read 'Loneliness' by John Cacioppo & William Patrick and then bought it for people in my life i want to support.
    Thank you Kurzgesagt, i hope your videos continue to help people in a rut as I was.
    Ry

  • @alexdyk9177
    @alexdyk9177 4 роки тому +3397

    Loneliness is when you’re surrounded by people, but don’t feel connected with them. You have hours of conversation, but still feel empty and unsatisfied. You try to speak up, but they don’t understand.

    • @hendywijaya3213
      @hendywijaya3213 4 роки тому +93

      yeah, and how to overcome this problem? we open up and accepting invitations from friends but now what?

    • @rosethenoble
      @rosethenoble 4 роки тому +7

      @@hendywijaya3213 this is also my question

    • @sumdude4
      @sumdude4 4 роки тому +36

      Sounds like every family reunion I went to.

    • @mertboy94
      @mertboy94 4 роки тому +116

      A little late but here i go:
      So i had this problem back in school too.
      My "friends" were nice and all.
      I talked a lot with them but it never felt right.
      Sometimes i didnt say what i meant other times i just couldnt speak up.
      The thing is (and thats the hard part) theyre not real friends.
      Trust me if they hurt you (in anyway) or you dont feel comfortable around them -> get fucking rid of them.
      Real friendship is so different from that i still cant believe it.
      I dont have to think what im saying. It just clicks and i just feel happy now.
      Youve to try again and again and thats the hardest part of the problem.
      Every relationship is like that.
      Youve to sort out the troublemakers/idiots/etc. and to do that youve to just try (again and again...).
      Its not going to be easy but hang in there and believe in yourself.
      Your future self will thank you.
      Youll think back and it will be crazy how it changed.
      Hope this somehow helps.
      Feeling lonely is probably one of the worst things out there but its cureable.
      Meeting new people makes you vulnerable and consumes a lot of time/energy but in
      the end its the only way.

    • @rosethenoble
      @rosethenoble 4 роки тому +2

      @@mertboy94 thanks for the answer :')

  • @mishcamorales4266
    @mishcamorales4266 5 років тому +6524

    I feel lonely if the teacher ask us to pick a group and i get left behind

    • @AM-fb3it
      @AM-fb3it 5 років тому +349

      Marceline Morales okay, so as the video itself recommends, I’m trying to lift somebody’s mood up although it’s not what I would normally do. But I can tell you that feeling left behind the group is a very familiar feeling. In fact, now that I think about it it’s been a long time since I actually cared about it because it happened so many times that it kinda became a normality for me to feel left out. Or maybe I just got used to it or I’m not trying anymore or whatever the video says. Anyways, in my case, I know that people would have accepted me if I tried a bit harder therefore I think you can choose not to be alone and maybe if you give yourself a chance( or multiple chances) you can get yourself out of that isolation bubble. And also you’re probably cool and funny and if you haven’t found the right people around you yet then just keep being yourself.
      I hope it didn’t make you feel sadder, lol

    • @sangjunlee8200
      @sangjunlee8200 5 років тому +15

      Dayum

    • @lorenebonsu7266
      @lorenebonsu7266 5 років тому +30

      Marceline Morales LoL me always 👅

    • @sanchez5863
      @sanchez5863 5 років тому +106

      That’s what happened to me for a field trip. The field trip is tomorrow and I was put in a group full of guys who I barely know. I’m afraid of being humiliated if I go cause of the boys and other girls in a group together. So I can stay home or take my chances of humiliation. What should I do?

    • @kororokiw.6687
      @kororokiw.6687 5 років тому +104

      @@sanchez5863 If the field trip is something worth going to, then sure! Be yourself, and don't be scared. We all say things at the wrong time when we're nervous and feel out of place, so just take some breaths, and reassess where you are. I was the "lone wolf" in middle school, and a bit through high school as well. I've done TONS of really awkward things, and my heart races when just being spoken to. If people are speaking to you, listen, and I mean REALLY listen. Ask good questions, and be polite! Be calm, and when people talk to you, respond. Boys or girls, in the end, they're only your peers!

  • @berkefeil5646
    @berkefeil5646 22 дні тому +5

    This is such serious issue, since we’re indeed built for good connections with others and quality time with friends. Scrolling through social media and texting don’t fulfill one’s social needs, unfortunately. That’s why we feel so lonely; we have unlearned to have qualitative real-life conversations and pay genuine attention to each other. Loneliness has taken a huge toll on my mental health and I hope it will get better in the future

  • @that_kai_person
    @that_kai_person 9 місяців тому +7

    This video was the first thing to make me truly cry in a while. Thanks.

  • @AdityaRaj-qu6tq
    @AdityaRaj-qu6tq 3 роки тому +2608

    "Loneliness makes you decline invitations till invitations stops"
    TOTALLY AGREE..

    • @endovelyco1906
      @endovelyco1906 3 роки тому +52

      specially when those invitations werent about you but what you have, egoistic invitations, then i prefer to be lonely thanks.

    • @generichomosapien4666
      @generichomosapien4666 3 роки тому +1

      E

    • @goroland6904
      @goroland6904 3 роки тому +75

      you guys were getting invitations in the first place ?

    • @ageamiu8923
      @ageamiu8923 3 роки тому +28

      @@goroland6904 I have the same problem. How am I supposed to have a social life when nobody cares about me enough to invite me to anything? My ex-”friends“ were like parasites, taking and never giving. I‘ve cut them off and now I‘m alone, but it‘s still better than pretending that people care about you.

    • @uranium54321
      @uranium54321 3 роки тому +3

      From my experience, this seems to work. I had friends before 2020 but none of them were very close, and even tho I barely have any friends now, I feel less lonely than before because I’m better at occupying myself. Not having friends but keeping myself happy is probably not a permanent solution but it’s definitely a good first step toward not being lonely, I guess it’s like fully figuring myself out before rejoining society and trying to make friends again

  • @zipperman1063
    @zipperman1063 4 роки тому +5259

    “If you feel lonely you are lonely”
    Quote of the year

  • @user-jw8wy8rx5p
    @user-jw8wy8rx5p 8 місяців тому +17

    The worst part of loneliness is when you watch a movie and you want to share your opinion with someone but you have nobody and you end up talking to yourself.
    The most heartbreaking words💔🔪

  • @user-golos
    @user-golos 10 місяців тому +20

    The hardest part is moving on from the perfect person you met, most of you has already moved on but a part of you can’t let go

  • @rekijorve791
    @rekijorve791 4 роки тому +6865

    I've been lonely for so long that it feels normal.

    • @jacobgalvez4363
      @jacobgalvez4363 4 роки тому +535

      Yeah. And it’s like it would be weird if you *didn’t* feel lonely.

    • @rekijorve791
      @rekijorve791 4 роки тому +142

      @@jacobgalvez4363 Exactly.

    • @SNESfan8
      @SNESfan8 4 роки тому +36

      Hang in there!

    • @isamic8068
      @isamic8068 4 роки тому +218

      Same here. I lost all my friends in 2016 and haven’t had any since.

    • @Dom.Plutonian
      @Dom.Plutonian 4 роки тому +34

      Reki Jorve it starts to feel normal but it’s not good

  • @amerhaddad4229
    @amerhaddad4229 3 роки тому +1982

    You know you are extremely lonely when you want to share this video with someone but you can't send it to anyone who would be interested.

    • @DarthBiomech
      @DarthBiomech 3 роки тому +95

      ...And then there's a situation where there's just nobody to send it to.

    • @h_k_hellion7268
      @h_k_hellion7268 3 роки тому +48

      you shared this video with everyone who watched it, so in a way, you aren't alone! :)

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 3 роки тому +6

      I think this problem affects a lot of people so u can share it with ur friends Im sure one or two will like it

    • @projectdelta2777
      @projectdelta2777 3 роки тому +4

      *-P A I N-*

    • @jaelynhelton2626
      @jaelynhelton2626 3 роки тому +4

      that’s exactly what i was gonna do-

  • @skinnystick9336
    @skinnystick9336 15 днів тому +3

    learning that loneliness is an evolutionary trait of human kind rather than a mental illness makes me feel so much better

  • @SithLord-jb1eh
    @SithLord-jb1eh Рік тому +35

    You literally just explained the cause of all the anxiety I’ve had for so long.

  • @pokerface-_-5118
    @pokerface-_-5118 5 років тому +1676

    "The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.
    -Mark Twain

    • @roccoscott7161
      @roccoscott7161 5 років тому +8

      Amen.

    • @Xperim
      @Xperim 5 років тому +10

      And being lonely is what makes you uncomfortable with yourself.

    • @technoraver99
      @technoraver99 5 років тому +6

      video gaming = waste of time. housework is much better (karma)
      bored? anyone??
      you can find on amazon: teaching books (paramedic), emergency cases, bags, all kind of equipment. time 2 learn first aid measures + emergency medical services EMS
      good work 4 kids: youth firefighter program. junior firefighter training activities. junior program ems !
      giveaways? sponsoring + support? (4 friends, employees, customers etc.) first aid or medic courses, medical literature, + psychological first aid, equipment? (one way keyring resuscitation masks, pocket masks, AED, nitrile gloves (hygienics, diseases, protection! take a pair of gloves with you. you can buy packaged pairs of nitrile gloves. non sterile. for single use only), ambu bags?, CPR simulators ?? stifnecks?, diagnostic lamps, pulse oximeters, stab protection vest, cs gas defense spray, bulletproof vest, seatbelt cutter etc.)
      smoke detectors? carbon monoxide detectors? fire blanket, structural fire prevention? fire protection coating? (on building walls?) or anti corrosion? (on bridges, tools etc?) fire suppression systems? + installation? instructions?
      emergency escape and smoke ventilation? smoke extraction staircase?
      infrared sight 4 lifeguards, firefighters or first responders?
      4 amazing tools: portable hydraulic strongarm 4 firefighters etc, hands free thermal vision (in mask imaging system), in mask heat vision (temperature display etc) or c-thru technology!
      there are more amazing tools!
      fire extinguishers 4 everyone? every home? companies? + every car !? (highway safety and more!) (+ child safety device!) + fireproof clothing? + cap, gloves, safety glasses etc !
      (note: there are different types of fire extinguishers and application fields! powder, foam, water etc)
      become a paramedic instructor in future? firefighter? + pump operator (+ driver) ? (volunteer?) high angle rescuer? ambulance driver or nurse?
      give it a try! externship? externships?
      or
      surgery nurse? geriatric nurse? ambulatory care? home care?
      (+ specializations? in several areas? wound care management, hygienics, instructor, first aid etc)
      (a financial supporter? support fire and rescue departments in your area? (money 4 helmet lamps, new equipment etc. new vehicles? a turntable ladder? 2 turntable ladders? mass casualty ambulance bus?
      support air ambulances? or retirement homes !? (see list below)
      become a
      midwife? or dental assistant ?
      shuttle service? (disabled people, seniors, wheelchair user)
      towing service or animal protection ?
      at least
      support animal welfare organizations? sponsorships??
      (animal aid unlimited org, hsi org, sea shepherd org)
      animal shelters in your area need money 4 food, maintenance work, expansion, staff, new vehicles, security staff, etc.
      trips? beach trips? parks? poor dogs :(
      (create new jobs? build new sanctuaries? new parks? zoological gardens? more veterinarians + animal hospitals + hospitality)
      volunteer work? go walkies?
      become an animal caretaker?
      maybe... plant a tree? many trees? a walnut tree?? in a park, garden or backyard? crows and other birds would appreciate that.
      or a japanese maple tree?
      or go vegan ?
      potato, zucchini, paprika, cucumber, tomato, rice, fries, ketchup, baked bread etc?
      hey its animal friendly :)
      vegan cookbooks? give it a try! its tasty
      support a protectory? orphanage ? (money 4 disneyland trips or playstation 4?
      charity work? palatoschisis or cataract aid organization support? (smiletrain org or operation restore hope e.v.?)
      or kids cancer care? educate a child?
      parking problems? ( smart parking solution com )
      think about the environment. in your city. seriously
      more railways + trams !? less cars? more bicycles? more gardens? etc.
      or buy solar panels? learn from the solar experts?
      emergency exit in a skyscraper? high rise rescue solution? SPARS parachute rescue system? ( cosmic-rs com )
      stop abortions? change laws? strict restrictions?
      increasing homelessness and pollution = serious problems.
      time 4 serious solutions!
      time 2 build new quarters? apartments? + assisted living ? (board and care homes)
      + medical examinations, checkups etc (+ dentist) ? care + support + coaching + social integration + employment etc? + small group wellness programs or trips?
      NEW projects? (new jobs?) new hotel projects?? (with doctors, carers, nurses, security staff etc, seminar rooms, briefing rooms, a big pool? (+ diving schools?), + sport areas? spa?) + new motels?
      serious + fast help? thousands need fast help!
      yes, giving money 2 very poor people will make their lives better. they are everywhere. railway stations? 10, 20, 50, 100 ?
      or sleeping pads, bags !? tents !? blankets? money 4 drugstore etc? mouth rinse? (caries ! etc.) maybe dog food? or veterinarian? eyes open!
      (+ toothbrushes !? (sensitive!), multi-purpose toothpaste? good for those with no specific dental issues! or a specific category of toothpaste !? (caries, parodontitis ! ), mineral water without carbonates (in bottles? 6 x 1,5 L ?), a pocket mirror?, meds ? (toothache ! ), safety scissors?, nail clippers?, warm clothes + accessories?, plastic hand brush?, tissues?, trash bags?, a radio !? + batteries?, flashlight?, first aid kit? (+ wound care cream?, wound disinfection?), a backpack?)
      + cool deodorant spray? after shave? (a little bit better feeling..)
      + lockers !? (2 protect property! ) many lockers + big ones! free? (+ hygienics, sanitation etc)
      search these people? help these people? inform these people. provide information? a shuttle service? 2 new quarters?
      new jobs? new missions?
      more proper facilities? + sanitation? more humanity? not less.
      more facilities + better facilities + more employees + upskilling employees etc ?!
      (in hospitals, retirement homes, homes for the disabled, homeless etc)
      better treatment + more comfort 4 residents, patients etc??
      better retirement homes? (better medical equipment? + AEDs, one way keyring r. masks, lifters, CPR simulators, pulse oximeters, seminars, training courses, training!, + regular checks!, trips, furniture (+ all weather outdoor furniture?), therapeutic massage armchairs, automat? drinks?, more wheelchairs (+ replacement) (+ silk or polyester pillows? more comfort? cushioning? (+ shoes? cushioning gel?) padding? less decubitus ! (+ anti decubitus mattress? positive negative pressure mattress?), less contractures ! (+ hand therapy balls?), rollator, protector pads? (elbows, hips ! etc? = less fractures, pain ! etc. safety first! think about your grandparents or older friends 2 ?), medical alert systems? (+ wearable medical alert buttons?), better documentation? (+ better systems?), more bathtubs? (+ more bathing? more assistance?), shampoo + eye shield? (demented patients!), better nail care? + more often? nail clippers 4 every resident?, therapeutics + dental therapeutics? (+ better oral, dental care? less oral thrush !, less periodontitis ! etc), better food? (+ bigger choice?) (+ additional: (4 residents + employees) instant mashed potatoes? (in a cup), vegan soups etc. + a microwave?), paintings + art, coast or beach atmosphere? gardens? botanical gardens? allergy? (plastic plants?), better alert systems (+ internal communication via phones? phones 4 all employees?), animals? pets or birds? allergy? bonsai maple trees? etc. + small jobs 4 residents? a workshop? textile processing? knitting? small kitchen jobs? or board game party? old people = bored 2 ?
      balcony or terrace sunset evenings? (all weather outdoor furniture? sunshade? plastic palm tree? beach chair? lighting + lamps? adjustable pedestal fans? (hot days?) all disability friendly?
      less isolation? (growing loneliness!) more community oriented activities? + small group trips? (gardens, theatre, museum, dance ball, coasts or beaches? ports?
      sometimes? more often?)
      higher wages 4 staff? ..much higher :)
      (home care patients? they are lonely 2.. most of them!)
      time 4 changes. time 4 more happyness. everybody wants 2 be happy! trips? visits? (with pets? no allergy?)
      donate clothing?
      support 4 daycare centers? (money 4 new furniture, medic courses, + training, equipment? (+ child and baby CPR simulators? etc)
      indoor playground or waterpark employees? upskilling? + many more first aid kits (+ better signposts? + fire extinguishers, AEDs, emergency escape, plan, exit, staircase, ladder etc? everywhere? LARGE SIGNS? (+ corridors? on the ceiling? + arrows?) poor eyesight ! + health and safety stickers !? handicap signs or stickers? ), training, equipment, AEDs etc.
      easy jobs?
      clean-up operations?
      bushes, parks, streets, lakes?, harbors?, seas?, coasts?, oceans?
      clean up some plastic, broken glass or other trash?
      trash = serious danger 4 animals. (pain in the stomach, injuries, die offs etc ):
      its time 4 serious cleaning up operations!
      (you can use hand nets, nitrile gloves. self protection!)
      or use a boat? recycling bins?
      (maybe... leave a slice of toast bread? in the shrubs? or on a grass area? for birds. they love it :)
      (or walnuts? small pieces. on cold days. winter, autumn etc)
      work at night?
      (or new school projects? monthly?) volunteers? maybe ask your school teachers?
      or maybe visit a diving school? become a diver? 4 mother nature ...
      (the plastic trash that floats in the world's oceans actually decompose and release potentially toxic substances into the water)
      ,,,
      lets save marine life :) lets remove some plastic and trash.
      many turtles are in trouble struggling with plastic :(
      + better recycling systems all around the world? (+ africa, india, etc?)
      + sanitation? new wells and fresh water 4 animals ? (there are aid agencies)
      create new ones? or new jobs?
      + new farms? (fruits, vegetables) + greenhouses? bakery? drug stores + pharmacies? new schools? diving or swimming schools? boat hire !? + life vests?, hand nets (plastic waste = global problem) + international help, assistance?
      we need jobs. NO replacement of workers or employees!
      we dont need robots etc. stop robot technology + developement. all kinds of it

    • @tessalew
      @tessalew 5 років тому

      Poker Face-_- Hey i am a new youtuber it would mean so much if you subscribed thank you i am a fan of you

    • @cmobilegamer9840
      @cmobilegamer9840 5 років тому

      Poker Face-_- Why does it bother me that he forgot to close the quotation?

  • @hudiohizari6738
    @hudiohizari6738 4 роки тому +2204

    *"Loneliness is twice as deadly as obesity and as deadly as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day"*
    I have the complete package then

    • @deborah3250
      @deborah3250 4 роки тому +5

      me too!

    • @reprogrammingmind
      @reprogrammingmind 4 роки тому +5

      Congratulations!

    • @sheilahollley7129
      @sheilahollley7129 4 роки тому +66

      Just add alcohol

    • @alundrachile7557
      @alundrachile7557 4 роки тому +21

      That is quite a claim, as well as the obesity one, I thought. I would have liked to see a source for this. Till then I just take it as a filler statement more for effect.

    • @theoneandonly6431
      @theoneandonly6431 4 роки тому +8

      Agreed. If loneliness were a disease, I'd been dead a long time ago.

  • @oliviafava3879
    @oliviafava3879 11 місяців тому +2

    This channel is outstanding. Can´t thank you enough for the help you are giving me in times of loneliness.

  • @chulkwon4088
    @chulkwon4088 20 днів тому

    Wow, I wanted to say "thank you." This is one of the most insightful, practical, and intuitive documentaries I've watched. I've sent this to my family members and friends.

  • @meat1703
    @meat1703 4 роки тому +3219

    "decline invitations, until the invitations stop" hit me like a truck

    • @malenyluna5275
      @malenyluna5275 4 роки тому +73

      That's me pretty much..... I suck.

    • @edennishan717
      @edennishan717 4 роки тому +22

      Been there, done that 😢

    • @ibaezzzz
      @ibaezzzz 4 роки тому +2

      Eden Nishan ur yoongi pfp🥺

    • @rhythm2238
      @rhythm2238 4 роки тому +18

      Going through this like right now. Been ignoring friends' "lets catch up..its been long" thing coz my mind says they aren't good for you😶

    • @phonathium
      @phonathium 4 роки тому +3

      Right with you there

  • @t_t__7788
    @t_t__7788 3 роки тому +4636

    The most connected era in the history and yet the most lonely one too.

    • @jimbothegymbro7086
      @jimbothegymbro7086 3 роки тому +183

      It's because everyone feels like they have to put on an act to fit in but that means no one is genuine and we feel that in our gut so we eventually just don't bother with people more than necessary

    • @saldownik
      @saldownik 3 роки тому +18

      Will we ever rewire?

    • @lucidfantasia
      @lucidfantasia 3 роки тому +6

      @@saldownik probably not

    • @litphaniusmcmelloy4275
      @litphaniusmcmelloy4275 3 роки тому +32

      @@saldownik it's hard to tell. But here are my two cents. It really depends on our further evolution. If the humanity will see that doing fine without much interaction and staying individualistic, then we will become more individualistic. If we'll see that it is an irrelevant way, we won't. Right now I think we'll stay the way we are now, social creatures. Even now there are a lot of cultures and societies which encourage collectivism. The western society is a different beast, we're pretty individualistic, but then again, we really we the rising loneliness problem

    • @saldownik
      @saldownik 3 роки тому +5

      @@litphaniusmcmelloy4275 If we will rewire, it will be now much more likely by our design, than by an evolutionary crawl.

  • @CharlesVeitch
    @CharlesVeitch Рік тому +6

    I avoided watching this video for 4 years, because I was so lonely.
    Glad I've watched it now, done so sensitively. I agree with another commenter saying this is maybe one of the best videos I've ever seen

  • @av7501
    @av7501 2 місяці тому +2

    This is one of my favorite videos. I’ve shared it as a teaching tool, reviewed it before discussions, read the books and one of the articles (skimmed the others), and, over time, I can see the changes it’s made in me. 🦆

  • @amv2772
    @amv2772 4 роки тому +5288

    Let's just appreciate that UA-cam gathered us all lonely ppl here in this video's comment section so we don't feel lonely.

    • @TC-xb3jv
      @TC-xb3jv 4 роки тому +14

      Yessd

    • @SLVARO
      @SLVARO 4 роки тому +12

      Thanks ❤️

    • @letwen
      @letwen 4 роки тому +29

      UA-cam is the only one who thinks us

    • @JKAZ_M
      @JKAZ_M 4 роки тому +39

      I don't see how this should make anyone feel less lonely. They're in the exact same spot as before, equally lonely and pathetic.
      But perhaps I'm just too pessimist.

    • @julienfriedland2773
      @julienfriedland2773 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah

  • @ramsaybolton6405
    @ramsaybolton6405 3 роки тому +3566

    When you realize that you prefer daydreaming and making fantasies inside your head instead of talking to real people and facing real life...

    • @saldownik
      @saldownik 3 роки тому +223

      escapism, eh? it's like a drug

    • @Sniper_4_Life
      @Sniper_4_Life 3 роки тому +160

      Basically me in a nutshell

    • @remembertodrinkwaterwhenur1514
      @remembertodrinkwaterwhenur1514 3 роки тому +120

      Yep I always do that all the time
      its now a habit

    • @Ismael-kc3ry
      @Ismael-kc3ry 3 роки тому +18

      Mood

    • @Bell-ih5ln
      @Bell-ih5ln 3 роки тому +120

      Thats why I love the internet, I’ve met so many cool ppl but there is no need to worry about them thinking my voice is trash and my face is ugly, cuz they don’t know either of them

  • @DogGod64YT
    @DogGod64YT Рік тому +2

    Really helped me figure out why I was lonely most of the time thank you so much man.

  • @geo77sand
    @geo77sand Рік тому +1

    I realize the importance of reconnecting with old colleagues and buddies without knowing the complete disconnection for many years until now. A very insightful video from Kurzgesagt - thank you! I am going to share this with my last few connections I still have on Facebook.

  • @goldenmoon739
    @goldenmoon739 3 роки тому +2491

    "The average number of friends is two"
    Me, with 0 friends: great

    • @yunusozd
      @yunusozd 3 роки тому +19

      but in usa, where are you from

    • @lucadesanctis563
      @lucadesanctis563 3 роки тому +111

      Well I haven't had a single friend in like 30 years...

    • @narutosgurl331
      @narutosgurl331 3 роки тому +51

      Ill be your friend☺️

    • @user-cd4bx6uq1y
      @user-cd4bx6uq1y 3 роки тому +11

      Me with my only friend when parents think I'm 4 years old and keep trying to make me make new friends

    • @aiquesono
      @aiquesono 3 роки тому +3

      same. hi everyone.

  • @gustxs8924
    @gustxs8924 2 роки тому +4271

    You never realise how lonely you are until it’s the end of the day and you have a bunch of stuff to talk about but no one to tell it to :(

    • @angelpuzzle
      @angelpuzzle 2 роки тому +99

      Yes, that's horrible

    • @ienjoywatchingyousleep9431
      @ienjoywatchingyousleep9431 2 роки тому +100

      A personal journal, then you can go back and relive those experiences as you're reading along :)

    • @MJ_338
      @MJ_338 2 роки тому +69

      This comment is like getting stabbed in the ribcage. Hits right where it hurts

    • @teooooo04
      @teooooo04 2 роки тому

      😔❤️‍🩹

    • @pimcramer2569
      @pimcramer2569 2 роки тому +31

      Now that you know you feel lonely you can start trying to fix it. Try a teamsport or call someone else to ask how've they been. Will be a painfull journey due to the fear of rejection as described in the vid. But remember that by showing interest in someone else is a good deed worth doing even if you don't get anything back.

  • @user-nf5uh1lg7k
    @user-nf5uh1lg7k 7 місяців тому +3

    This video helped me a lot. I really wanted to understand myself and your videos were always the best way. Thank you.

  • @domkeeify
    @domkeeify 8 місяців тому +19

    "If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company" - Jean-Paul Sartre
    This quote helped me A LOT, because it's you that makes you think you're alone, it's all in your head. Stay strong and keep going, there's so much to see in this world, so much to do in life, there's no time to waste on such fruitless thoughts!

  • @jonarbuckle8237
    @jonarbuckle8237 4 роки тому +5007

    Schools: *I don't see the problem here.*

    • @axelquinonez1470
      @axelquinonez1470 4 роки тому +96

      The true

    • @vibing6530
      @vibing6530 4 роки тому +163

      They teach us about stuff like this all the time with those crappy posters
      Also, our teachers are not our therapists
      Edit: maybe I am wrong

    • @xi3382
      @xi3382 4 роки тому +54

      *Hoodie*

    • @jonarbuckle8237
      @jonarbuckle8237 4 роки тому +145

      @@xi3382
      Schools: *HOLY SHIT WE HAVE A POTENTIAL SCHOOL SHOOTER SOMEONE CALL THE FBI*

    • @user-en8vb9th5v
      @user-en8vb9th5v 4 роки тому +59

      @@vibing6530 He said SCHOOLS, not teachers.
      The school can provide some kind of therapist...

  • @ilovegrass
    @ilovegrass 4 роки тому +2327

    I'm the type of person who likes to cheer everybody up, but when I'm not feeling good nobody seems to care about me and that's what makes me lonely

    • @dominicpalmisano
      @dominicpalmisano 4 роки тому +86

      it’s called codependency, it’s a boundary issue, i suffer from it too

    • @phoebebrooks8569
      @phoebebrooks8569 4 роки тому +8

      ya boi same
      :/

    • @dumbleking5172
      @dumbleking5172 4 роки тому +165

      I'm the one who connects everyone while im just a broken connection line.
      It's pretty painful when you see everyone around you care for each other and not you while you're the main connector, as if you're the power cable that connects cities but no one cares for your maintenance.
      Being a loyal person, this is a bullet to the gut.

    • @namesarefortheweak
      @namesarefortheweak 4 роки тому +21

      Dumble King I’m the same way, now I spend most of my free periods thinking about what could have been if I didn’t make so many mistakes while everyone else is having fun and joking around

    • @thegodkiller8388
      @thegodkiller8388 4 роки тому +2

      same

  • @soykanilhan8349
    @soykanilhan8349 23 дні тому +2

    Çok faydalı bir kanalsınız. Sayenizde hayal gücümde çektiğim acılarla ve fantezilerle yüzleşiyorum.

  • @moonmochix7648
    @moonmochix7648 3 роки тому +4249

    *The worst loneliness isn't being alone, it's being alone surrounded by the people who don't care.*

    • @duffy6542
      @duffy6542 3 роки тому +74

      Damn, sounds like what I got going for me.

    • @GabrielFerCav
      @GabrielFerCav 3 роки тому +113

      @@duffy6542 I got a worse kind of loneliness. It's the one where you're the one who don't care about anyone. It can be even worse than not having anyone in the first place. I have to pretend in order to keep my social bonds but, really, if 90% of people I know disappeared, I wouldn't miss them. And it's not because they're bad, in fact most are very awesome people. I just can't bring myself to care, idk why.

    • @FootPauler
      @FootPauler 3 роки тому +57

      @@GabrielFerCav Maybe you just dont feel like you actually relate to any of them on a deeper level or you dont really care about the things that you do with them. your friends arent catering to your emotional needs in the way you desire or doing the kind of activities that bring you joy, fullfillment, or actually have real value to you. im kind of having a bit of that issue too.
      It's not that my friends arent great people and I do genuiney care about their well being, but if im honest with myself for alot of them if our friendship was to end or we stopped talking it wouldnt really bother me.

    • @johnmichaelechaluce171
      @johnmichaelechaluce171 3 роки тому +2

      ouch

    • @novavanguard1313
      @novavanguard1313 3 роки тому +3

      It shall pass

  • @user-nh3gy3gq2j
    @user-nh3gy3gq2j 4 роки тому +2414

    Who else imagines (Im)possible conversations with strangers, teachers, hypothetical girlfriend. But then you realize that they are not gonna happen. They stay in your mind, get forgotten. You deceive yourself, end that is the loneliest feeling in the world

    • @etgohm8127
      @etgohm8127 4 роки тому +86

      Хамазаев Руслан yes,
      All the time, I am my only company.

    • @chronitized
      @chronitized 4 роки тому +8

      You aren't deceiving when you experience you are experiencing experience itself

    • @wolfchrt
      @wolfchrt 4 роки тому +46

      I remember trying to strike up a conversation with strangers a couple times and every time I get a dirty look. I just be like damn. Only trying to say where'd you get that ice cream cone.

    • @chronitized
      @chronitized 4 роки тому +1

      And we wonder how inordinary people can exist

    • @iftae9374
      @iftae9374 4 роки тому +1

      Hey! I get what u mean...

  • @xdsquirrel5056
    @xdsquirrel5056 8 місяців тому +11

    This video has really opened my eyes, I always want to talk to people in public but I'm always too scared of what they'll think of me. This is just a reminder for my future self, talk to more people when you get the chance. For all I know, people might want to talk to me too and they're afraid as well. I have to take the first step, I'll try my best to hold myself accountable. I hope anyone who reads this goes out of their way to talk to people as well, it'll be worth it in the long run even if we get rejected. Life is all about learning

    • @JuliaFinance-bz1sw
      @JuliaFinance-bz1sw 3 місяці тому +1

      Hello , how are you ?
      I want to be your friend, if you don't mind ?

    • @iansutari1455
      @iansutari1455 29 днів тому

      ​@@JuliaFinance-bz1swme to

  • @user-ob7yu8lc4g
    @user-ob7yu8lc4g 2 місяці тому

    Thank you kurzgesagt this was very wholesome and made me feel very happy and better about myself without me even realizing and changed how I think. Thank you.

  • @boneshrimp6486
    @boneshrimp6486 5 років тому +3197

    Man, You know that feeling when someone you consider a friend ignores you and makes you feel like you've been dumped

    • @boneshrimp6486
      @boneshrimp6486 5 років тому +47

      gloriousholy I know, This happens to me a lot but gosh it's a sore when it happens

    • @cglmt4152
      @cglmt4152 5 років тому +127

      @@boneshrimp6486 I've been forced to dump some friends because they drain my happiness and I have been trying to find a new crowd that makes me happy rather than miserable. Maybe it's time for you to look for better friends that bring you up.

    • @SadeMetsavirta
      @SadeMetsavirta 5 років тому +21

      feel this so much, but it's not just one friend for me, it's my whole friend group :,o

    • @kirimaruisao4094
      @kirimaruisao4094 5 років тому +11

      It's me who ignore my friends. Now none of them talk about me anymore

    • @nutanddash8552
      @nutanddash8552 5 років тому +18

      @@kirimaruisao4094 I feel you, I regret it so much. I wish I didn't ignore my only friend that I atleast feel comfortable to talk to. It all start when my old friend finally came to my class, shes always absence and I thought it was because I wasn't a good enough friend for her, but I want to spent more time with her(I was an idiot), so I left my other friend behind, I got carried away and didn't talk to my other friend for 2 days, now she think I hate her. I apologize to her and she won't even talk to me anymore, and my old friend keeps skipping class. I have no friends at all right now. I don't know what have my life turn into. I keep abandon my online friends (which I also feel very guilty about) to the point where I abandon my friends that I can talk always to. I just thought I wasn't good enough so I push people away, but I regret it for hurting their feelings. Although they may have forgotten about me now. I don't want friends or lover. I just want comfort. I'm so stupid, I miss everyone and I wish I'm not in this stupid phase.

  • @alexy.9306
    @alexy.9306 4 роки тому +2571

    I feel like UA-cam is making fun of me at this point.

    • @rib_rob_personal
      @rib_rob_personal 4 роки тому +24

      If you feel this way then I would think it’s trying to help. Gotta shift that perspective man. 😊

    • @JKAZ_M
      @JKAZ_M 4 роки тому +10

      @@rib_rob_personal Only an idiot would think a non-thinking algorithm is trying to help them.

    • @wyvernharries4788
      @wyvernharries4788 4 роки тому

      With videos like, how not to talk to yourself so often, and this one, starting to wonder that myself.

    • @alindkhan2114
      @alindkhan2114 4 роки тому

      there's nothing to be shame

    • @lower47
      @lower47 4 роки тому +14

      @@JKAZ_M No need to be mean. The algorithm starts collecting information about the user and if it detects searchs related to loneliness, it's gonna recommend you videos with that type of content. It may not "think" but stills help you

  • @shreevatsak343
    @shreevatsak343 Рік тому +76

    Damn. This was one of the most surreal experiences of my life, the man just narrated everything I've been going through and everything that I've thought and felt in the past 3 years. In the past 3 years to cope with loneliness I developed a lot of bad habits and addictions including pornography and vaping. I never mental health was a big deal and made no effort to try and find out why I was feeling the way I did. Every single question he presented towards the end of the video my answer is yes to all of those. Ignoring friends, family and every single human being, deleting my social media accounts and trying to embrace some "lone wolf" mentality completely destroyed my metal health. I don't usually go on social media and talk about myself but I guess it's about time to change that and so this is me taking my first step towards curing loneliness and I hope that whoever is reading this finds the courage to open up and find a way outta the vicious cycle of loneliness. Stay strong brothers!!

    • @kausarahsan4732
      @kausarahsan4732 11 місяців тому +3

      It's been 2 weeks since you wrote this and i wanna know how much your life has changed?

    • @sergiu1
      @sergiu1 9 місяців тому +2

      How are you? You are alright?

    • @shreevatsak343
      @shreevatsak343 9 місяців тому +1

      @@sergiu1 I'm better now

    • @shreevatsak343
      @shreevatsak343 9 місяців тому +5

      @@kausarahsan4732 not much but I have a different perspective on life now and that has made things better. I'm alone but I no longer feel lonely

    • @kausarahsan4732
      @kausarahsan4732 9 місяців тому

      @@shreevatsak343 I'm happy for you. This video changed my perspective too.

  • @cocopowder3543
    @cocopowder3543 2 місяці тому

    man your the best youtuber i know, never have i shed tears from videos as consistantly as watching you

  • @10seconds0
    @10seconds0 3 роки тому +2157

    Oh god comment section is so depressing and the worst part is I can relate

  • @mico4464
    @mico4464 3 роки тому +2301

    therapist: expensive
    kurzgesagt: free and entertaining

    • @Seiyusung22
      @Seiyusung22 3 роки тому +49

      Also kurzgesagt: here's your daily existential crisis video

    • @halloooo1duuuuu
      @halloooo1duuuuu 3 роки тому +30

      Therapist: social interaction
      Kurzgesagt: on your smartphone.

    • @Azakadune
      @Azakadune 3 роки тому +23

      Don't use kurzgesagt as a therapist lol. it is interesting sure, but see a doctor.

    • @sebastiancramer1609
      @sebastiancramer1609 3 роки тому +6

      Kurzgesagt knows me better than my parents it seems

    • @dantesabertooth3929
      @dantesabertooth3929 3 роки тому +5

      @@Azakadune I would love too, but I cant stand the look of "I dont care" on their faces anymore

  • @praulio8176
    @praulio8176 6 місяців тому

    “The outside world can become the way you feel about it” - that’s the key right there. Hermetic principles subtly included throughout the video. Excellent

  • @miskahaapa-aho2395
    @miskahaapa-aho2395 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Kurzgesagt! You helped me to realize how much I've been suffering past two years. Now I fully understand the reason for it and I can start the healing process.

  • @TJToons
    @TJToons 5 років тому +10792

    *This video was far more than informative... this was beyond relatable.*

  • @wisammikhael8624
    @wisammikhael8624 5 років тому +2982

    You know the world is dying when a video called "Loneliness" is #1 on trending

    • @hugedoofus
      @hugedoofus 5 років тому +115

      Just the ones who spend their time on the internet.

    • @JoshuaJadeMcCoskrie
      @JoshuaJadeMcCoskrie 5 років тому +145

      It's not dying. It's just going through some spiritual growing pains.

    • @ikopelli
      @ikopelli 5 років тому +12

      Right now it's number 9 trending

    • @oceirosrex371
      @oceirosrex371 5 років тому +27

      Good, this place sucks

    • @phylippezimmermannpaquin2062
      @phylippezimmermannpaquin2062 5 років тому +25

      or you could say people are taking responsibility for a wide spread problem? seeking help is after all courageous

  • @joaojonito3764
    @joaojonito3764 10 місяців тому

    This was the start of my recovery from loneliness, thank you

  • @elizabeth_evangelium
    @elizabeth_evangelium 11 місяців тому +1

    I truly love these videos they explain things as simple as they can be explained

  • @divinejacobmathew1503
    @divinejacobmathew1503 5 років тому +2253

    The Friendship Paradox: I have friends yet I feel I don't have friends at the same time.

    • @fryingraijin
      @fryingraijin 4 роки тому +61

      Divine Jacob Mathew You might not have propper friends. Not the greatest thing to say here...
      But I only redescovered the people I truly cared about ( and vice versa) at the age of 22.

    • @okaden1015
      @okaden1015 4 роки тому +57

      Fuck that is relatable

    • @maverich217
      @maverich217 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly

    • @mohammedsy1590
      @mohammedsy1590 4 роки тому +38

      It feels like you're their strange neighbor

    • @isabellajean9310
      @isabellajean9310 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly how I’m feeling

  • @Prksoonie
    @Prksoonie 2 роки тому +5367

    You can have loneliness even with friends and family, because loneliness is having nobody you feel safe with, comfortable with to tell them anything you want.

    • @haru64377
      @haru64377 2 роки тому +32

      True

    • @livinginvancouverbc2247
      @livinginvancouverbc2247 2 роки тому +90

      Very true. I work in the construction industry. God help you if you admit loneliness or any psychological or emotional problems. You'd become the target of merciless ridicule. I work in an office. A homeless person took cigarette butts from the Smoker's Station ashtray . Our company offers counselling by a professional company for those who need it. My coworker pinned a copy of the offer of counselling to the ashtray.
      "Why did you do that?" I asked.
      "Because it's for losers" he replied.

    • @craftyshallz7658
      @craftyshallz7658 2 роки тому +16

      but when you have bts . you not feel lonely🎶🎶🎶

    • @m4n4
      @m4n4 2 роки тому +60

      @@craftyshallz7658 literally wtf

    • @m4n4
      @m4n4 2 роки тому +8

      @@craftyshallz7658 didn't really understand what u just said but i'm sorry if i offended u 😅

  • @CallowXayne
    @CallowXayne 2 місяці тому

    This is a real gem of a video. Allows me to view certain aspects of my past from a different perspective. 🙏💎

  • @KAZZ_base
    @KAZZ_base Місяць тому +1

    Lately at night I have been feeling lonely and unable to sleep.
    This video gave me some hope for tomorrow.
    Thank you and good night.

  • @samsmusichub
    @samsmusichub 3 роки тому +2085

    I feel a little less lonely knowing that everyone else is also lonely.

    • @malxumx9727
      @malxumx9727 3 роки тому +8

      frrr

    • @samsmusichub
      @samsmusichub 3 роки тому +2

      @@malxumx9727 :')

    • @axule4373
      @axule4373 3 роки тому +17

      well yes, but actually no

    • @samsmusichub
      @samsmusichub 3 роки тому

      @@axule4373 XD

    • @banditmc12
      @banditmc12 3 роки тому +18

      Everyone is feeling lonely, but everyone doesn’t know. People are living facades and that is a worrying thing in this modern world. Social media?

  • @Nitroh-
    @Nitroh- 4 роки тому +1658

    the worst combination is beinh lonely and having social anxiety.. i cry a lot

    • @pavan9558
      @pavan9558 4 роки тому +10

      Hi

    • @cristophersedoriosa6587
      @cristophersedoriosa6587 4 роки тому +2

      Lol same

    • @RunningUphill
      @RunningUphill 4 роки тому +8

      Nitroh
      Your not alone

    • @bariumselenided5152
      @bariumselenided5152 4 роки тому +110

      I got hit with a lethal triple combo: loneliness, social anxiety, and crippling depression. So I’m watching this video and I’m like fuck, I should hit up my old friend and try to get back in it. Then depression is right behind me like that meme from icarly where Gibby beats Spencer with a stop sign. God, I guess I’ll just have to commit myself to one more day, and keep doing that.

    • @fafablablabla
      @fafablablabla 4 роки тому +19

      @@bariumselenided5152 I got it triple combo that you said because I have existential crisis. Hell, this feeling is kill me mentally.

  • @mikerivers8595
    @mikerivers8595 7 місяців тому +22

    Loneliness has helped me a lot personally. It has taught me how to entertain myself better, which has lead to more interests in things such as learning or meditation. I think it is okay to like being alone. I personally do enjoy my alone time. I get overwhelmed being around people often times and feel drained by social interaction. I am not antisocial by any means though, just more reclusive and introverted. I prefer quality over quantity in all things, especially company. And I try to be grateful for every day, whether it has been a challenging day full of suffering, or an easy day full of pleasure. I like contrast in experience because I feel it necessary to better understand ourselves as individuals, and to better understand our own truths, whatever they may be. I like your videos. They are good entertainment and are very thought provoking, whether I agree or not with everything they say. Thank you :)

  • @user-jf8pj7wb5n
    @user-jf8pj7wb5n Рік тому +35

    After finishing school and moving to another country, I realized how lonely I was and is. I only interacted with people within my class. This can be called "forced cooperation" and because of this, I didn't feel lonely, because, despite the fact that sometimes I had a conflict with some classmates, we still got along, laughed and helped each other during the tests. I also had a friend with whom I spoke. In class, we felt comfortable with each other, but outside of school, we felt awkward. Then I moved to another country. I thought that this was a new page in my life and I should become more confident, but I became more withdrawn. I went to work and the work team was close. I felt that I didn't fit in there and I felt lonely, although the chefs tried to make friends with me, but I lost such a skill. One of the chefs told me that I was somehow cold in communication. I can't communicate with people. When I open my mouth, I forget the words, the sentences are broken and uncertain, I speak quietly and indistinctly. Confidence only arises when I become emotional. My sister and mother know me well my character and how loud and talkative I become with loved ones. Thanks to my sister, I do not feel completely alone, but only when she is not next to me. Sorry for the long comment. You know that lonely people have no one to tell about their anxieties and experiences. Maybe I really need to see a psychologist, because I have noticed more than once when with a person whom I have known for only 1 hour, I begin to talk about my life. It's very strange and I understand it.

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly 6 місяців тому

      I know this is late but I hope you feel better!

    • @smerdajenda
      @smerdajenda Місяць тому

      good luck bro with your life!

  • @ThomerTD
    @ThomerTD 4 роки тому +2044

    That's why I love the comment section, I feel like I'm watching this accompanied

    • @passenger6619
      @passenger6619 4 роки тому +16

      True

    • @loik1loik1
      @loik1loik1 4 роки тому +17

      And ur not lonely anymore

    • @notsureiL
      @notsureiL 4 роки тому +3

      Feels like everyone is just bots and I'm the only human here 😨

    • @aitipsea3909
      @aitipsea3909 4 роки тому +17

      Awwwww, this comment made me a lil bit happier
      Good for you Buddy

    • @endermeap6488
      @endermeap6488 4 роки тому +7

      This made me so much more conscious of how much I read and respond to comments

  • @AmithV96
    @AmithV96 3 роки тому +2629

    "It's not a sign of weakness, but of courage" - best phrase ever

    • @gianz73
      @gianz73 3 роки тому +42

      Can confirm it by personal experience. For me, therapy was no easy path, but it saved my life and made me grow immensely. Glad I found the courage to start and keep at it despite the difficult moments. There's light and life waiting for those who venture. The most difficult and most important part is doing the first step! It just means making a phone call or sending an e-mail, but we'll be glad we took that small, first step.

    • @jesolo_edits
      @jesolo_edits 3 роки тому +2

      Love the Enrique iglesias pfp :)

    • @sarebagc9009
      @sarebagc9009 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah

    • @ayubpinjari7527
      @ayubpinjari7527 3 роки тому +2

      It's is also a sign of you denying your desire for connection lol.

    • @fartknob7288
      @fartknob7288 3 роки тому

      yes

  • @alexp1445
    @alexp1445 9 місяців тому

    Absolutely cool sound, visualization.. And most of all the vibe. Such a rare joy to see something kind and not overloaded with marketing. Making me feel better

  • @maelieduclos-phan3782
    @maelieduclos-phan3782 10 місяців тому +2

    i wrote to friends and it made me feel instantly better, thank you

  • @genericusername8494
    @genericusername8494 5 років тому +30475

    Free virtual hugs for my lonely people.

    • @ns-ko6rq
      @ns-ko6rq 5 років тому +311

      Thank u love

    • @mh19448
      @mh19448 5 років тому +404

      Thanks, "hugs back"

    • @tadpoles4379
      @tadpoles4379 5 років тому +159

      I thank you....

    • @laxxayy
      @laxxayy 5 років тому +192

      *hugs emotionally

    • @luisfavela8032
      @luisfavela8032 5 років тому +100

      Thank You

  • @Kook_604
    @Kook_604 4 роки тому +1867

    "Do you find yourself avoiding plans"
    No, because i dont get invited

    • @AGoogleUser-im2xw
      @AGoogleUser-im2xw 4 роки тому +40

      Haha I get invited but I make every possible excuse to not go

    • @AshThumbsUp
      @AshThumbsUp 4 роки тому +26

      @@AGoogleUser-im2xw :v me too, but since I kept on declining people are avoiding to invite me now XDD

    • @pixellee6955
      @pixellee6955 4 роки тому +41

      Invite them then. Eventually if they enjoyed with you company, they will invite you in the future

    • @Kook_604
      @Kook_604 4 роки тому +26

      @@pixellee6955 I wasn't expecting actual advice, but thanks I'll do that!

    • @williamcomer2688
      @williamcomer2688 4 роки тому +10

      Ah, that just happened to me this Thanksgiving day. I moved into a small city surrounded by relatives, so I thought I might get invited....wrong!

  • @quanvo4758
    @quanvo4758 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for making video like this, Have a good day you guys!!!

  • @riccardopasina8506
    @riccardopasina8506 7 місяців тому

    This video really helped me during a bad period of my life, thank you ❤️

  • @bmurraybmurray8505
    @bmurraybmurray8505 5 років тому +2836

    I forgot how to interact with people, my universe is made of my bed, youtube and books. I have so much to share but nobody to share it with, probably like all of you here.

    • @marcoottina654
      @marcoottina654 5 років тому +104

      Try to have a look around: in almost every big city there are "centers" talking about some topics in particular, Facebook and other networks have pages / channels focused on some topic, Telegram too has channels like that (for example, there's a Telegram's channel called Link4Universe, same name of a UA-cam channel, talking about Cosmo and Astrophysics).
      Nowadays, "Internet" turned tons of people into zombies who throw there their mind as trash (for a huge amount of reasons like culture, mental habit, force of will, laziness, etc), but it's not like there everywhere! This UA-cam channel is an example, where contents are high-quality ones :D

    • @aeciosxtnr
      @aeciosxtnr 5 років тому +24

      Let's chat!

    • @andersondealmeida8362
      @andersondealmeida8362 5 років тому +44

      you could recommend a book to us :D

    • @lifeofachristiannursingstu9498
      @lifeofachristiannursingstu9498 5 років тому +1

      Yep you are so right

    • @srphm_
      @srphm_ 5 років тому +35

      But right now you're sharing what you are experiencing thus we are relating to what you are saying

  • @WinglessPhoenix
    @WinglessPhoenix 3 роки тому +2222

    "Being depressed and lonely is like living your days with a knife stuck in your heart. The worst part about it, is that no one notices, no one cares to notice... making you slowly bleed to death."

    • @fluffylemon8665
      @fluffylemon8665 3 роки тому +78

      And sometimes that knife is invisible so you don’t notice, but then loneliness hits hard again.

    • @sochimauche4747
      @sochimauche4747 3 роки тому +12

      You just said It's invisible. How would anybody notice.

    • @WinglessPhoenix
      @WinglessPhoenix 3 роки тому +5

      @@sochimauche4747 Shoot didn't realize that 🤔🤔 thanks

    • @baconninja4481
      @baconninja4481 3 роки тому +2

      100th like

    • @en3rgycitizen626
      @en3rgycitizen626 3 роки тому +8

      this one hit different

  • @mariak7
    @mariak7 Рік тому +66

    I feel lonely, have no friends, have social anxiety and an eating disorder. I've felt this way for years and im only 16 😢😭

    • @noone-bs8cm
      @noone-bs8cm Рік тому +8

      I hope things get better for you eventually!

    • @wthhngen-
      @wthhngen- Рік тому +2

      Travel abroad

    • @edberaga
      @edberaga Рік тому +3

      When I was your age I feel the same as you,, Im 23 now

    • @_Infocars
      @_Infocars Рік тому +2

      ​@@edberaga Did things change?

    • @edberaga
      @edberaga Рік тому +2

      @@_Infocars hm, I do have one close friend. And one is enough🥰

  • @tamanna88
    @tamanna88 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you everyone for commenting
    And thank you content creator for creating all these videos so that i am able to connect with people like me .
    Thank you 🙏

  • @MrTattooASMR
    @MrTattooASMR 5 років тому +791

    Number 1 trending.
    Shows how many people get lonely.

    • @TheAngryCoffee
      @TheAngryCoffee 5 років тому +3

      Preach brother preach! Is what i would say if i used reddit like you. But because i'm a human being with an iq above room temperature i cringed at this.

    • @westonwheeler2311
      @westonwheeler2311 5 років тому +19

      @@TheAngryCoffee the dude just said shows how many people are lonely. How does that show he uses reddit?

    • @yep9620
      @yep9620 5 років тому +25

      Mehdi Cane I cringed at this comment

    • @yellow_jacket3260
      @yellow_jacket3260 5 років тому +5

      Really the UA-cam trending tab just nominates videos that the algorithm thinks is good rather then what people watch, but I do agree that in this day and more people are feeling more lonely than ever

    • @user255
      @user255 5 років тому +4

      Not really. It just shows this channel has many viewers and/or people find the topic interesting.

  • @cuac5869
    @cuac5869 Рік тому +4446

    You know you are lonely when something good happens in your life but you have no one to tell.

    • @aryastarkofwinterfell6480
      @aryastarkofwinterfell6480 Рік тому +47

      💔

    • @cracy0
      @cracy0 Рік тому +39

      Yup we can't share our emotions

    • @David-yq4rz
      @David-yq4rz Рік тому +20

      My last friend is moving to Spain for soccer.

    • @chickenman1012
      @chickenman1012 Рік тому +2

      ​@@David-yq4rz I like soccer NOT FOUTBALL

    • @phlopi6
      @phlopi6 Рік тому +43

      i glady have the opportunity to tell my friends about it. but unfortunately i often keep it to myself because i believe that nobody cares about it...

  • @roniharrison8766
    @roniharrison8766 9 місяців тому +3

    I think this video is inspirational. It brings light and attention to such an extensive problem that everyone faces. Well done Kurzgesagt

    • @Neverpullingitout
      @Neverpullingitout 9 місяців тому

      Doesnt do shit in reality tho..
      Its not easy at all.
      But great video though.

  • @user-vf4zw5ul8y
    @user-vf4zw5ul8y Рік тому +3

    この動画の通りになってました。人に会いたくなくて、病んでる自分を見られたくなくて引きこもって、だけど人と関わることでしか癒せないのにな
    孤独って感じていいものなんだって思えました