Gary Vee & Jay Shetty ON How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You | ON Purpose Podcast Ep.19
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- On this special episode of On Purpose, I got to sit down with my good friend Gary Vee.
Gary is an investor, a serial entrepreneur and a 5 time New York Times bestselling author.
We got to talk in depth about how to stop caring what people think about you, why you should focus on happiness not hustle and why you need to contextualize advice before you decide to listen to it.
There are so many teachable moments in this episode and I know you will learn so much!
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*If you want to succeed, you need to believe in what you do. You will always have haters no matter what you do* 🙏
*Love seeing two such influential people sharing their knowledge together in one room.*
exactly!
We hope this helps everyone watching and thank you so much for always being awesome Jay :)
1:59 - 2:43 | Conscious Competence
2:55 - 4:40 | Parenting Advice Predicated on Who We Were As Children
4:54 - 6:03 | Balancing out Humility and Energy
6:25 - 7:10 | Balancing celebration and not smelling the roses
7:13 - 10:42 | Not Letting Compliments get to your head and criticism get to your heart
11:05 - 11:40 | Judging Predicated on Intent
11:40 - 12:55 | Gary’s Super Power
13:00 - 15:39 | Entitlement in America and Lack of Perspective
16:38 - 18:50 | Avengers Talk
19:50 - 21:00 | Hot Takes and Judgments vs. Trying to Have the Context
21:00 - 24:26 | Gratitude, Optimism, Positivity vs. Curse Words
24:45 - 28:00 | Something Gary’s Been Thinking About
29:20 - 31:10 | Not Judging Ourselves and Holding Ourselves Accountable
31:23 - 32:26 | Work Ethic and Self-Awareness
32:27 - 34:50 | Jay Has Incredible Beautiful Eyes
35:18 - 36:23 | Getting to Happiness and Gary’s Shortcoming
36:35 - 38:27 | Focus on People’s Strengths For Yourself to be Optimistic
38:52 - 40:01 | Abundance in the Market
41:15 - 42:00 | Being Great with Competition
42:26 - 43:05 | Being the Best vs. First
43:20 - 44:40 | Be Thoughtful of Who’s Giving You The Advice
44:50 - 45:30 | Nobody is for Everyone
48:40 - 52:40 | Why GaryVee Likes Star Wars
55:00 - 55:45 | Call Someone You Haven’t Talked To
56:00 - 58:14 | Emotions Behind Gary’s Message
59:39 - 1:00:50 | Which Avenger is Gary
1:01:04 - 1:02:35 | Dumbest Thing Gary Has Bought
1:02:44 - 1:03:54 | Worst Advice in Social Media
1:03:55 - 1:04:00 | One Thing Gary is Most Proud Of
1:04:08 - 1:07:04 | One Big Game of Perspective
Really helpful dude, thank you so much. Have a great day!
Hey garyvee team ..tell Gary not to interrupt in the middle of the sentence ...let jay finish what he want to say.🙏
Hi Jay, can you interview keeanu Reeves?
Dev Sanghvi he’s hungry for wrinkles
OMG IF THIS HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That would be cool🔥😍😍
Gary usually comes off anxious. This is the calmest I’ve seen him. Something about Jay is so peaceful - he makes people feel safe to just be themselves it seems!
*What others think of us is non of our business*
Others opinions are just an air of nonsense.
If you about those, you have no will, no life.
Focus INWARDLY and compete with only yourself.
🙏
I am honestly so proud that Jay is winning on so many levels. As someone who always wanted a role model to look upto, bullied for being different and being Indian. Wow, we have come such a long way! Jay is adding so much value in the world spiritually, mentally and energetically. I can't even explain the amount of gratitude I feel. Thank you, Jay
Indian people are some the biggest bullies especially against black people
@@saverio29 Yes, most of them are colourists. Like any other country which was colonised by foreigners. Still doesn't make it right, but things are slowly changing!
Gary Vee sounds like an inspirational fighter look his eyes and energy so powerful. Love him and Shetty so much
Jay you are one of the most incredibly gifted, genuine, and inspirational human beings out there. Keep doing your thing, man. I inspire tons of people in person every single day and and am beyond grateful and blessed ... and your messages are just adding even more beautiful positivity to my life.
Please share some feedback with Gary to invest in a pen and and paper during these talks so that instead of interrupting you countless times, he can jot small notes down so he can remember to bring his points up AFTER you finish your thoughts. Gary is a great guy with some good information to share, but he’s so encompassed with going on rants and responding immediately to whatever is being discussed... maybe you can show him a better way to manage his oral communication skills.
Great topic, great discussion - keep up the tremendous work fellas 🙏💪
Best feat on UA-cam EVER 🙏🏽
well now this is gonna be some extraordinary wisdom for us -beings
i love both of these guys garyvee best business man
I agree the whole 1:12 mins was a game changer for me
This is GOLD! 🤩
Thank you, Gary Vee.
Thank you, Jay Shetty.
“Being thoughtful of everything you consume, not every advice is good advice.”
*Growth* comes from consistency.
Positivity & Optimism , Everybody has a decision to make. Rewrite the next chapter of your life.
Believe it or not, we're not that special. We go through our days thinking about how other people might be judging us. But the truth is-those people are thinking the exact same thing. No one in today's "smartphone-crazed" society has time in their schedule to think more than a brief second about us. The fact of the matter is, when we do have time get our thoughts straight, we're too busy thinking about ourselves and our own shortcomings-not others.
Thanks a lot I really like you video
@@salmohooto2662 Thank you! :)
Yup! Got your point clear man! Thank you for your comment!
@@yustinushalim1146 Glad to be of help!
Such an underrated comment!
Ahahah!!! "Those f'ing eyes!" Killed me! 😂
Absolutely loved this video!... would be so amazing to have Gary vee, Jay shetty and Tony Robbins in a three way interview. Would literally blow my mind!! 🥴🤯
Get Matt D'avella on the podcast
100 % BRO !
Yes yes Matt d avella...
We need Matt
Thanks Jay for what you are doing its really amazing to see influential people like Gary vee in your show who are trying to bring amazing value in people's life.
Jesus Gary let Jay finish a sentence man hahaha.
For real lol
@@joellugo3490 Yoo i kept saying that LOL
Lol.
Joyful Savage 🤣🤣 could not agree more!!
bahahaha thats why Gary said in the end he wants to improve at not interrupting which btw he does when he only respects the person he is talking too .. to me i interrupt someone when i feel i will forget what m going to say lol
Coz of Gary I started following Jay!!! One Thing I learned from from both of you is Be urself 😝 😍 Yeah Focus on ur Strengths!!! Yeah I truly agree Show wht you truely are Rather than wht people want you to be.
What if people don't accept you?
How the Hell is G so calm in this. I mean he's always full of energy and enthusiasm, he still has it here but it's kinda calm. Feels like watching G meditate.
Wow. The best interviewer who matches, if not more than matches Gary. Good work Jay. New fan
I watch a lot of Gary content, but this was the most compelling, honest, in-depth video I've seen. Each topic felt so relevant and valuable. I genuinely feel like I've gained a lot of insight from this interview. Thanks for this!
I love this video BECAUSE of the contrast in message packaging, hits the different dynamics of my personality and the areas that I am feel weak in and strong in.
Also such an important message in showing appreciation for each other even in their difference. Thank you both for this!
Growth comes from consistency, hard working and perseverance.
I love the different energies they have both of them resonates with me, they both connect to personalities.
Gary-" Motherfucker"
what he really saying- i am proud of you
Love this guy...Grateful that i could watch this
Garry love you for being you who you are and not trying to impress people, but rather impact people. Great podcast jay. Love you both.
Gary Vee and Jay Shetty!!! Wowwww!!!
1:08:24 Gary is low-key Vedic AF, he always says it is about the process and not the actual end result of buying the Jets. In the Bhagavad Gita it says you should keep doing your Karm(work) without expecting results because that is the most sincere way of performing your duty.
Im listening to this right now and I can not move away, im so drawn to listen and my brain is just learning and I have so much focus listening, can not believe I did not find this so long ago @jayshetty
@11:43
The hand ever so slightly trying to remove the bag. 😁🧤
*Jay Shetty + Gary Vee = Awesome!*
This is the best video till date, and Jay you really nailed it.
two of the greatest men in the world in one place and one video, that's too much for me
Gary and jay hit it on the head with the two diverse personalities when I seen both of pop up on a show together I stoped what I was doing and sat down to soak it in...iam a lot like Gary personality wise and two years ago I listened to jay for the first time and he completely changed my life in so many different ways I always wanted to become successful but until I learned from jay it was for all the wrong reasons.now that’s iam self aware of what iam trying to accomplish I’ve dove into Gary’s content and it just made my week seeing the two of you work together..highly recommend seeing more content from y’all collaborating!!
Gary Vee looks like someone is chasing him. He is smart and intelligent. Much love
You want to see something really impressive, watch one of his long form videos and see how many people come up to him and ask for a selfie or a handshake every day, and not a one gets turned down. The guy will stop a limo to spend 20 minutes he doesn't have, giving advice to the kid sweeping the parking lot. He's a one of a kind.
@@GroundbreakGames thats cool will check him up thanks
Who’s here again after already listening the podcast?
So funny you talked about the differences between your audiences because when I saw this posted the first thing I said was “omg yes, 2 of my most favorite people!” 👏🏻❤️✌🏻
Gary and Jay you guys left me with a awestruck feeling in my heart at the end of the podcast. Came here to check if there will be anything that’s new to check out..find out so much to connect with i do resonate to most of the stuff you spoke about.
I love/loved this discussion..It was so necessary...part of my lack of success is because I've allowed others opinions of me or my anticipation of negative opinions paralyze me.
Hey I'm 19 can you tell me how to be successful
I love this video and I literally never comment on youtube videos. I appreciate the comfort that I feel as a 22 year old listening to this. A bit late to the game but I heard the newest version and decided this combination of business and spirituality would line perfectly with what iVe been seeking/looking for lately. Thank you 💛
You two are soooo ON POINT!
It looks like they had a lot of fun doing this. I may need to watch it a few times to really catch everything. Vee is SOO hyper & speaks & moves so quickly.
I won't waste my time by saying thank you , etc rather spend my time thinking over the things that the society what's me to think is that even existing or not. You said right i have to go deeper into my thought process #thebestpodcast till date love from India
I loved it when Gary said all advice is bad if you don't have enough self awareness to eliminate what is bad. I admire his sense of self and his acceptance of his total self. He makes decisions that aren't popular but they are what's right for him. I'm working on that for myself. Thank you Jay for some real meat. This was definitely not leftovers. I'm still chewing on it. This is my 3rd viewing and I'm processing it. Thanks Gary. I want to have a heart like yours. God Bless.
Gary has a unique way of embracing and externalising his ego and using it to love others by talking about himself......some people (myself included until listening to this), can't hang with that.
What a resource!!!!! Thank you for your continuously inspiring so many! ❤️❤️❤️
*_2 of my favorite UA-camrs!_*
When GV said "Avengers Talk" my Kundalini / Internal Energy went nuts. 💚🙏🏾 #garyveeforpresident
Already heard it ,now gonna watch it 🥰
I love seeing you together... To much wisdom in the same room.
You guys really did it for me together. I was consuming gary’s content for 2 years now and yours for under 1 year but when you spoke about entitlement i felt that and i realized the world shouldnt be as it is and it finally resonated how lucky we are to be living in this era. Thank you
Watching the two people that you look upto the most is the best thing ❤️
36:37
The whole segment about beautiful eyes & how there are some amazing circumstances that we’re born with / around that aren’t as obvious…
My immediate thought that I had was something such as being a great kisser. You’ll never know you’re a great kisser unless you’re putting yourself / getting the popular to be in a position to use the gift & ultimately find out you possess it.
There are certain things that you have to watch for, and give yourself a chance at to find out how strong you are at it
This man is so full of energy, really liked this podcast
Everyone and everything is your teacher 100%
Please don't put ads in like that, very annoying. Great video, othewise.
"please don't put in these short adverts which help you support yourself during this hour long free content I'm getting."
Jay and Gary on the same wavelength. Love it.
The only thing that I would have changed is the advertisement, I would put it in the end, because I was listening to the idea you were guys discussing and then the ad of the natural nutrition interrupted it and I had to skip to don't lose an idea. So the ad in the end would be perfect!
Gary's different around Jay. The comfort of being around the like-minded. It's beautiful to see.
Oh, of course he’s tony. There’s no other option.❤️❤️. Love you both so much. 😘😘
I can't even put all my thoughts into words. This was incredible to witness. The flow, sharing of ideas, the unique perspectives that literally squared and multiplied and evolved in this podcast. Wow. I think the advice to be reflective about the advice we receive and put in context, really understand it, analyze it, pick it apart, is SO important. It made me look at myself in the mirror and just say who even am I? Because I feel one mistake Ive made in the past is that I've built myself up on the advice of others that was good advice for them but might not be for me. And its so confusing to even think about because I and everyone else in the world is built on the work and love of other people. It definitely does take immense self awareness to take advice. I'm literally rethinking my life rn... also about to go purge my insta because I'm definitely subscribing to way too many ppl just in it for the dollars. Thank you for this amazing piece of yourselves you just shared with the world. Bravo.
How I’m I just now finding this! My two favorite people combined! Awesome.
i am one of those kids who was born in one of those environments and to parents where my perspective is upside down and you've certainly been the biggest voice that has flipped it bruh thanks
Gary is in love with hearing himself talk 😅
Being oneself... believing oneself..... trying to do right things for self & for others should only be our problem... & not what others think about you.... What others think about you is their problem.... & not yours!!!!!!
Love you Jay. I am an avid fan and I try to take the wisdom you put out and live it in my life. I may have days I falter but I say ok. This minute tight now starts a time to continue on with my growth. And tell Gary whom I’d never heard of before your podcast he did say things I will take with into my growth journey. Thank you for introducing him I will now follow him as well. I started a new challenge for myself to not complain or say negative things instead to say... I am hopeful for a better day.
Thank you for being a bright light 🙏
Holy shit. Wow. I can’t believe the breakthroughs I am getting from the way you both framed this conversation. It’s true magic, true intuition. This is golden. Love you both. I really feel like after all of this listening to you both... I am actually about to put thought to action. Thank you so much. So very much.
Is Gary going to let Jay finish his sentence or naw ?? LOL
Listened this on Gary’s Spotify and was instantly amazed, it was the first time the guest talked the same amount as Gary, he stopped several times to allow you to talk. It was amazing, maybe because your POV and your input is great! Gratitude and happiness :D
Subbed ;)
@garyvee - please consider mentioning things you "regret" or things you want to let others know so perhaps they parent better. e.g. I want to be sure to push my kids and let them know they can do anything; however, I don't want to push them so much that they don't have fun in their high school years (but at the same time don't FEEL entitled) That is the thing I never want them to feel. Love your insights, thank you! Also to Jay! Thank you!
This was remarkable - what hit home was the coming together for the greater good and really taking notes on who we listen/follow - intention. Those will be weeded out evenually. You two are power shifters - WoW!!! Thank you for #TRUTH
I get it when you said "When I hear you speak I feel aligned and it's helped me gain conscious competence. Because that's how I felt when I really started hearing you speaking I felt the same way and I hear others too and mixed all that positive wisdom and inject that to my veins like if I was addicted to heroin. It helped me communicate better with my love ones. JUST wanted to say that you have made a HUGE difference with my life and now I'm spreading that wisdom with my son. But hey, I walk the talk I just don't give the advice I make it happen in action and I'm forever grateful. THANK YOU!!! I'm a huge FAN I know you know lol
I feel more focused about my own life, and thoughtful, watching Jay's videos almost to the extent that I miss some of what is being said. So inspiring!
Two of my favorite inspirational people! This is incredible!
Thank you big brother, I am from Kerala India, love what you do ❤️keep inspiring
ನಾನು ಕರ್ನಾಟಕ ನಾಡು
Hoy....... I'm from Karnataka ✋😅
Hi I'm from Tamil Nadu 😁
Thank you all for being here commenting on this content from different states ❤️🤙😎I am also a UA-camr but not a big on yet ,keep supporting works and inspiration like these to make the world a better place❤️🤙😎🙏😇
മലയാളി 😁😁😄
A little late, but man I love it, it's amazing seeing two of the people I absolutely love in the same room having a free conversation. Love it 💖
Legends in one frame😬😬
A Blessing, two for one and it's beautiful because I came here to look for encouragement. Thought about listening to Gary Vee first then was thinking I wasn't in the mode for his energy right now (his delivery) and was feeling more like hearing insight from a softer tone. It's great that Gary Vee knows himself so well that he could speak on that he understands that his style of truth my cut through so hardly that some won't get the message.
But then it's was this video.
I can hear "just the two of us". Together you are a movement. Thank you for speaking change, peace and knowledge ❤️
One of the best natural bodybuilder
🛎 🛎 Gary is just dinging with ideas, realisation, understanding 🛎 🛎
Gary vee !!!
You are #1
Jay shetty !
Your also #1
So who is #2 ??
The one who congratulated the #1s'
Who are you going to be a
#1 or #2???
Iam from Somalia I love Jay Shetty
Lol pressing like before watching 😌
Damm, one of best interviews I ever watched on UA-cam , two Gem of legends their sharing their Deep concepts in context of life for us ❤️❤️
Gary has so much energy when he talks. Inspirational! Loved this.
Respectfully, 🙏🏾
Your questions fascinate me because how you execute entrepreneurship as a personality fascinates me 😊🙏🏾
⁉️around @14:30 from @GaryVee what is the concept of letting go
The concept of letting go is congruent with the concept of un-attachment in a spiritual sense...I think this comment section is not the best place to break this down but would love to chat via video, in person, call to discuss that lol 😅
Maybe I’m bold for saying this but I feel I come from a similar place that you and Jay Shetty is referring to.
I simply call it experiencing life from its Oneness Self.
Easy to understand but understanding it consciously has been a journey for me and from the look of Shetty’s content, him as well.
I truly believe the world is changing in a big way and getting content like this out (I even stopped the video at 14 min) is key for the next generations health mentally, spiritually, and physically.
Thank you Jay Shetty and Gary Vee 💙💪🏾🕉
My dream would be to treat you two Gentelman to lunch or dinner and discuss this topic ✊🏾🙏🏾💙
Maybe this is bold to some but I’m not confused of my talent, gift, and purpose.
It’s to be sitting at tables with great people who aren’t afraid to change the world.
Guess I’ll blame the “big talk” on growing up in the Chicago environment mixed in with serving 8 years of military and being a leader in three tours to Afghan
Sincerely and respectfully,
Blu Yogi 😊🙏🏾
I'm so happy and grateful that this podcast exists with gary
Another Wow!!
And I have noticed your appreciation of your parents. There's a lot of that.
2 of the most aspiring people ✨
I'm inspired to do some interesting things after watching this 👀👀
Spot on. Thank you for the wisdom. I love and appreciate different perspectives. You are my daily mental vitamin. Thanks Jay!
Thank you s much Jay ...Love from Jaipur India ❤. I'll meet you one day
Positivity 🙏
Omg sooo enthusiasm a series ....i love both them and their contents. 😃
In the beginning of the podcast, i was following the positivity not even bothered his language. Later, kind of noisy. Influencing the negativity, seems like taking about others. By my nature I only look good on others, I don't complain about anything or anyone. I always being happy, love people. At the same time always wish why can every channel doesn't matter what media, focus on some simple clear message for all the people. Not confuse or influence others anything or any messages. Just let them be them, let them figure out... Jay, When I listen your voice, gives peace, devotion, love, life, gratitude. God gift for you.
Grateful. Such an interesting episode.
Thx Jay
Thx Gary