9 Minutes That Every Parent Needs to Listen To | Brilliant Minds Talk
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- To all the Gen X parents shitting on the Gen Z kids right now, just remember you are the ones raising them. Gary finds it fascinating that there are so many adults that think kids these days are entitled and soft, but they don't even hold themselves accountable for raising them in that manner. Once we stop coddling the youth and handing out 8th place trophies, then we will see a shift in the mindset of the younger generations.
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*_The people who try the hardest to flex are the people who unhealthily feed off the approval of others_*
Huh, that's facts
I think everyone realizes that as they get older, very true
Tell that to lil pump
Precisely !
If you dont look for approval of others, then how do you prevent being the bottom of the barrel?
Parenting is the root of how the child develops. You can always pull the roots, but it’s hard.
I dont think you can blame your parents after you are 18 years old. You have to make your own choices and define your standards. People make exuces " oh my parents didn't raise me well" listen up dipshit you have to raise yourself sometimes when you want to do big things in life
I grew up with, if you get this wrong you get yelled at, if you get a bad grade on this test, you get yelled at, since then if I do something wrong, I beat myself up for it and have a breakdown
@@nicolomachiavelli8543 that is your own opinion based on the experiences you lived. Im not justifying blaming other people for your problems, but its too easy to say "listen dipshit you have to raise yourself". A lot of people struggle with self worth, mental health, and bad behaviour because of their parents. And at 18 years old, its simply too young for the majority of people to "raise themselves" and overcome all the extremities. 18 years old is fucking young. I get what you are trying to say, but have more candor.
@@arianna3300 Snowflake
Being grateful for the experience and not the reward is a huge mindset shift that should be more popular.
I get what you are saying, but at some point the juice is not worth the squeeze. That also sounds like some platitude a fake guru or your boss would say to try to get you to do more work without getting paid for it.
Whenever I feel uninspired I know all I have to do is watch a GaryVee video and it kinda keeps me going on. He's the reason I decided to start creating content about the stuff I love. Thanks, dude. When I first told my parents that I wanted to become a filmmaker they told me I was gonna starve, but the moment they understood I was serious about it, they weren't anything but support. That's what parents are supposed to be.
That's awesome!! Keep up the good work 🙂😀
@@rubenmorenog7223 Gracias Rubén!!
I feel the same way. He’s absolutely incredible 🙌🏽
@@createdjustforyoubypaul i don't know you but when you quit your family in the future you will regret it. i feel you, my family don't believe in me but i am f*cking keep going making my own way and take this note "when you start making money they will tell you that them proud of you". make your own way and keep going ❤
At the end of the day it comes down to happiness and accountability for our own actions.
Hello Jazmin😇
Agree. We can't blame the young for being entitled without looking at those who raised them.
Each generation has different struggles & our job as parents is to build the right foundation in them to be able to deal with the real world & actually create healthy & happy life.
Telling someone they suck at something, when they suck and explaining they need to put in the time and work to be great is so simple, yet so effective.
This is awesome and my exact opinion on raising my kids. Teaching our children the skills for the 21st Century and conditioning them to survive and prosper in it should be the #1 goal in every parents life.
Well said Will! :)
@@TimRoseOfficial Nice to see you here!
@@will-financialliteracy-fin9369 You too Will! :)
Well said mate... it is our responsibility as parents to prepare our kids for the jungle. We still live in the jungle, it’s just a concrete jungle these days. That meme about don’t give me everything you didn’t have, teach me everything you didn’t know is spot on. Financial smarts, street smarts, self worth, self responsibility and being kind but able stick up for themselves is far more imortant than giving them stuff and doing things to please them
The truth. The reality. The effects. His correctness in human nuances. Good job and big congrats on being able to say this message on platforms that are received by a lot of people 👏🏽 great job Gary. Mf great job.
Not that my validation is needed, just recognizing the truth and what needs to be adjusted and done in at a small scale to see the big picture we love to have
shit, felt this one... I will not throw my daughter in that "zoo animal" environment, always knew that intuitively. loved to see the argument in a much more intense, true, clever way, thanks Gary
You'll be an awesome parent!! Don't be afraid to make mistakes because that's how we grow
I don’t have kids but I can definitely take something away from this video. The entitlement portion was very sobering to hear. Thanks Gary! 💖
I love very few men in my life, I only have two brothers and a step brother... With that said though, I think I can proudly say that I love Gary Vee or at least all the sense that's pouring out of his mouth... I find my self thinking, where on earth does a man aged 43 have so much insight into live and the lives of other people? Been trying to catch him out by listening to what he says and then questioning his statements, and in my own very humble opinion there's just a wealth of wisdom to learn from and no bullshit at all... Love you Gary!!!
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🔥Thank you Gary for giving us our dreams
I truly believe this speech will be one of the most replayed speeches for decades to come. Parenting good or bad is where the future lies.♥️♥️♥️♥️
I have 3 young ones at home. I find it is hard to balance pushing and encouraging our children while also trying to protect them. Maybe they don't need to be protected...I dont know. Parenting is hard....but it's my # 1 priority in this world. Unconditional love and support sometimes leads to entitled and soft children...it is a hard balancing act. I try to be more of the "I love you but you sucked today parent". Admitting that we as parents don't know what the fu*k we are doing is a good start.
Gary.. this is awesome. Ty! I have a 14 year old and I hold her feet to the fire almost every day. I say things to her like, “be a woman of your word or you will attract exactly what you are dishing out and believe me when I tell you, you do NOT want to be surrounded by people who will lie to you to get whatever they want out of you.” She fights me and becomes insulted that I “called her a lier.” But eventually she comes around to reality, takes responsibility and shows it with acts of self respect. I believe Holding them accountable is the antidote.
You are absolutely right Gary! We have to start with SELF and teaching what values make up the SELF ! It starts with teaching our kids VALUES, what they are, what they mean, how they are the foundation of everything we choose and do! Then we must introduce Self Awareness so that they stop, self challenge a decision against their values, and make the best choice for them in that moment. Finally, as you say over and over, Accountability is the glue that causes one to become self-aware and course correct!
Thank you for highlighting your value of Empathy so loudly!
What other values do you hold dear that you can begin to introduce to the masses?
We are the Human Values Center facilitate workshops supported by self-directed discovery around identifying and living by your own personal values, while teaching and building mechanisms for accountability within organizations, schools, companies, and families.
Gary speaks the truth here and I couldn't agree more. Parents neglect to let their children struggle and in turn it leads to them refusing to challenge themselves
Agree completely!!! Wanted to share this with my parents but the sad thing is they won't understand, they will think that I am ungrateful.
Gary Vee you are such a motivation to me , you are the best and your lessons have taught me a lot. You have helped in so many ways, you made me quit my job and make me start this youtube channel, hopefully i can get a lot of subscribers and not regret my decision
k s I’m still young the only bills i pay is my phone bill and i already got a lot of money saved up while i was working because so i want to focus full time on youtube
k s thanks for asking bro, please also subscribe and like all my videos. 💪🏽💯
Emotional ! Great !
Exactly my opinion! It takes a village to raise a child, but parents must teach their kids all the qualities they need to be successful in today’s world! Love this video.
That’s was some real fire 🔥 right there Garyvee. I always try to keep it real with my daughters as the get older I tell more and more about life.. no one care u got to go take it..
you can pick your friends but you do not have this choice when it comes to parents. Although my parents are with the old fashioned thinking of "graduate-find a job-get a house-make a kid" thinking, I am really blessed to be raised in a very friendly environment. Hope this goes to you, too
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You see I would show my parents this but I know she would twist my mind and make me feel bad and hate myself more
Respect mister Gary... Valuable speach. And one more thing, your English so clear. Can understand everything what u r talking. Thank you..
MY parents have so much pressure on me because of my exams and all I've started to listen heavy metal music on full volume all the time....I need help i need to get out of this hole
Nothing wrong with heavy metal during homework time... For me, it is the only way to get myself to drown out all of the garbage.
I wish my parents could see that
One day they will, just keep your head up :)
It's interesting how my parents were like most in the sense that they always compared me to others and wished I could be like others, yet this was probably how I never developed any sense of entitlement as I was often told I didn't do as well I could have etc. That hurt and made me look for their approval for much of my life but now that that's overcome, looking back, there were also some positives afterall. Self awareness is key.
In simple terms, Merit. Work by it and live by it and raise around it.
Makes sense. This why I love Gary. Think different and listen up. I’ll continue making content for the few that love it.
My wife and I had an argument about if my kids wanted to go to camp this summer I told her to ask them if they wanted to go she sent them anyway
I LOVE YOU GARY!!! YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY CHANGED MY VIEW on so many things business related. You're the most encouraging and REAL speaker I've ever watched.
It helps me stay true to myself and keep my channel TRUE to ME also. What you see is what u get. I wish I would've started watching u years ago.
Funny how things come about at the 'right time' this is just fitting to something in my day
Amazing topic and talk. Hardly no one else with this reach wants to talk about it. The parents Gary's referring to have not even fixed themselves. Always take shortcuts, instant gratification, dishonest. Never teach how to problem solve or handle hardship. We need to take ownership of our lives. Fix yourself first. Otherwise we end up with a world full of overgrown children.
If you live life based on emotion and not logic, this will work. If you live by logic mixed with minimal emotion, realistic goals can actually happen. Emotional living doesn't survive.
So on point once again @Garyvee never thought I was entitled until life went a different way and felt one sided until u changed my perspective! Thank u
This is so accurate and must watch for everybody! Thank you Gary Vee for sharing this to everyone. 👍
i wish you were my dad gary :(
@TheSwoleBroscientist I once read a quote which I am sure is is true. It was something along the lines of "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
There are parents where I have to facepalm - it's crazy...
@TheSwoleBroscientist yup so true about the first point - often times I wonder how they can think that way and lack so much logic ...
To your second part - I respect that :)
Same here
I cant wait till i get my 2 minutes with you Uncle G. All in due time, thanks for the content as always!!
dear lord, I feel that way and didn't get any of that benefit growing up. it's all about the mindset drilled in more than the environment you're living through, fear and infantising that I still struggle against every day. that is why I work smart rather than hard to teach my kids how to realise their potential in the way that is true to them and give them the guidance, freedom and hopefully the rules to see opportunity everywhere and internalise that it's up to how they realise that opportunity.
-- rant from here on --
I just don't understand why the world divides people up and that includes in age, because that is the point where people can get stuck in one grouping. At the end of the day, we are who we were when we started and we will be the same person we are at the very end. Sure, what we learn changes and our biology/health varies. Our dependancy will obviously change depending on situations but there is no line that defines you're a child/adult/ senior and there is no requirement for us to live up or down to the idea of what that means nor should we look at others with that narrow-minded categorisation. I can't stand people to treat children like they are always going to be children because that is exactly how they will remain if they do. I believe society used to do this but the more we move into this idea that children are fragile and old people are in the way the more our society is missing out on the potential inherently in it.
Ok, I'm done
SPOKEN FROM MY HEART. GARY...THANK YOU BROTHA...MUCH LUV, ARI
You’re unbelievably straight forward and I love it!
And sometimes we don't like the truth but we need to hear it
We will have a one year old here in 4 days. We are in the same mindset! ❤
Thanks Gary. Just about to sit down after dinner and show this to my kids. This is a wake up call.... No more eight place medals...
Take a shot every time he says the word “predicated.”
Wow. I'm a parent and this spoke to my soul on behalf of my own kids.
Not yet a parent but parenting is everything and key, ..
One of the best talks you've given Gary. Amazing. Thank you.
Gary vee is very inspirational , he has made a very big impact on how I look at things today! Watching and really listening to his videos & i promise he will teach you a lot of things you never knew Positively! Gary Vee Is absolutely the best! 🐐
He is right take consideration of what he's saying!💯
Video was very helpful...thought it would be another useless video but I was wrong
Definitely looking forward to more videos
Gary is a god of inspiration!
Spoken directly from the heart, respect!
When you taught you child to be rude don't be shocked when they have conflicts with their bosses.
Always bringing value!
I tell my wife that all the time I'm finna let her listen Gary you the man period
A comma after man, would well placed or is he the man period or the man, period.
@@michaelselix8817 thanks but did you even read your own comment
I agree, we see if every day in construction. Kids come to site and are not prepared to work, take orders and get the piss ripped out of them. I'm really thinking if starting a boot camp for 18-25 year olds......
So much value! I have a toddler so advice will help me pay attention to his needs and not what other perspective. 👍🏼
My man feels it, and he made me feel with every cell that I own.
After watching this video it made me appreciate my parents more thanks Gary 👍❤️
Its a society that uses abuse as a primary means to conform people but are shocked at the impact it has on people emotional conductivity , people are zoo animals just depends what height of the cage you're shitting down from
right there at that 2:50 mark hits the message home. liked, faved, and shared.
Gary: that was the most passionate I think that I have seen you speak......! Intense!
Other day I dressed in black chained thermal suits and wore my fohawk razor sharp with hair gel. My parents gave one look at me and shrugged their shoulders and proceeded talking like I was a useless ghost.
I really appreciate You So Much! You are so Inspiration
Beautiful talk. So much love for you!
Thank you Gary
Damn! This is good! The reference to zoo animals 🦓 🦒 🐘. That was so perfect.
Cathy M , right like “look at my son Timmy, look what he can do he’s a doctor” audience “oooooh aaaahhh”
Thank you again kind sir! So grateful for you!
I agree with you Martin, so much value in every video
I also thinking recent days that I'm that fucking person who want everything from parents which means not own! So I get a job now and I'm 19! I always agree with you Gary! Thank you so much for everything! 🙏🙏
LMAO the Thumbnail ! GOTTA LOVE THIS GUY
I'm grateful for my family members! But toxic family is real too. I love them, they are a wonderful, i love my mom, my siblings, but i love myself more! I'm the owner of my life, im responsible for my happiness, choices! I won't live someone else's life so I STEPPED OUT! I am fuckin happy now! :)
Hi Team Gary, you should do a video compiling all the times Gary speaks to parents, and the advice he has for us all. I am the parent of 3 young children, I've seen a couple of videos here and there about this subject, but itd be nice to have them all in one place. thanks
Always follow your dreams and be patient! Everything takes time. Love from a small youtuber :)
Thank u Gary...
Awesome talk and motivation for all parents to raise and educate their kids from young what real life is
From a parent who learning this. You are ABSOLUTELY FUCKING RIGHT!!!!!
Indian parents needed this . if u from india or u agree like this ???
They really do.
Persians too. It's always the huge gawdy mansion on the shitty lot on a main road so everyone can see their "success". 🙄
Mr Gamer it’s fuckin nuts. My parents don’t want me to have averagely long hair because of what other people would think of me.
@@paramshah6376 Don't You care about them if you love your self with what you go ahead do your things! Just have your own logic why you are going it !
@@rinagetsreal6189 Even I am from India and my parents took the wrong decision Two times And now i am going to listen to my heart and follow my passion.
How can I like a video more then once like 1000 times?
make this vid go viral so every parent can see it
My parents told me to change. Problem was it was they that had to change.
Thankx so much Gary 😇
As a Dad of 9 I always love when Gary speaks into the family.
You have way too many children.
@@randomuser1105 debatable. I opted for a large family rather then fast cars and luxurious lifestyle. It was a conscious decision. The children are my legacy and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
That is powerful words and a life changing message! It hit me in the recesses of my soul. Every “issue” that I butt heads with my son on is a self manifested problem that can easily be a non issue if I just stfu and listen to him. Mad respect GaryVee!
Wow! Intense! Thank you!
A lot of the conversations we should be having are bittersweet.In that order
I'm so lucky to have great parents!
This is one of the most important speeches of all time.
Gary V is the man i love how upfront he is and following his lead i’m documenting my journey to success. I hope some follow me along ! And get inspired to actually take action and not be on the sidelines!
Great job 😍
Wow, that's 9 minutes already? --oh wait. I have it at 2x. Still, it felt like 2 minutes. Great speech!
take it easy steve jobs 0:35
I was born into a privilege background went to private schools all around the world
Now my financial situation is also different I feel like such a failure for not optimising my opportunities
Now I'm a parent I realise I need to utilise what I do have because as Gary says it can always get worse
I'm not going to lie I do feel very bitter of my wealthy family and the fact I didn't take action with the privileges I was given but I need to stop or by the time 30 I feel I would condition my mind to lose and that WILL NOT happen
Keep going buddy
You've got time 👍
It’s hard but it’s true. Need to ACTUALLY listen.
Thank you Gary!well done
Damn bruh gary was on a sadting. That tone was like none of you are taking your children seriously. Resentment is a powerful word for a child. Imagine growing up knowing your parents chose to put in a backpack leashe thing. Thats not me but resentment is powerful
Thank you Gary! You are right on!
My son is gonna be like you for he heard a lot of 'heey you fucked up yourself'
Thanks Gary ❤🙏❤
That has to be the best thumbnail I’ve ever seen. Gary is killing it
2nd time watching and ima keep watching this one till I grasp everything you saying
Gary Vee is beast!