self-love habits hot & confident girls do when life gets crazy messy

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @Winning29
    @Winning29 2 місяці тому +80

    I married a multimillionaire who I met when I moved to Costa Rica and years into it figured out that he was a covert narcissist. I ended up getting cancer and leaving him during my treatment. Now I live in my own palace, surrounded by plants, animals, and crystals… Healing energies. Taking your power back, raising your worth and loving yourself is the most powerful force in the universe. Never settle. Ever!

    • @oljaaaaaaa
      @oljaaaaaaa Місяць тому +5

      I'm so glad you got out of that and I hope you're in remission!! ❤

  • @sarahjimoh866
    @sarahjimoh866 4 місяці тому +186

    I love how you can tell how passionate she is when speaking about God

    • @TakaShiGUREEDO
      @TakaShiGUREEDO 3 місяці тому +3

      But God doesn′t exist. It′s a creation of human′s mind.

    • @ninam7749
      @ninam7749 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @ninam7749
      @ninam7749 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @ninam7749
      @ninam7749 2 місяці тому

      ​@@TakaShiGUREEDOHope you will find him soon it's so wonderfull i hope that for you ✨✨✨
      So many people attests 🤗🤗🤗🤸🏽‍♀️🙏🏽

    • @deinahailu3173
      @deinahailu3173 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes ,God is exist , try him. We don't know until we experience his love and miracle in our lives. I am not preaching, but I know this all in my wildness. He pulled me up from the vally and put me on the top of the mountain. So how could I shut my mouth and not saying anything about him . Trust me and try him, then you will see his hand. ❤❤❤

  • @girlygirl402
    @girlygirl402 3 місяці тому +43

    I really needed to hear this. when a guy stops showing interest in you It really gets in your head and you start doubting your own worth😔💔 I need to remind myself that the Lord loves me unconditionally and thinks that I am perfect, and I need to be the best version of myself for him.🌈❣️

    • @pamelavillaflores2856
      @pamelavillaflores2856 12 днів тому

      be kind to yourself, it is normal to feel sad when a romantic interest disappears... but remember that it did not work out because you were not compatible enough, it is alright, you cannot be the right match to everyone... no one can. The right person will come and you will choose each other, meanwhile stay open and experience life and love life, your friends, family, nature, yourself and so on. You are valuable and loved so much already, always remember it ❤

  • @InstavidDocs
    @InstavidDocs 2 місяці тому +9

    Set Boundaries**: Confident girls know when to say no and protect their energy.
    Self-Care Rituals**: They prioritize skincare, exercise, and rest.
    Positive Self-Talk**: Replace negative thoughts with affirmations.
    Stay Organized**: Declutter their environment to declutter their mind.
    Embrace Imperfections**: They don't strive for perfection, just progress.
    Dress to Feel Powerful**: Even in chaos, they wear outfits that make them feel confident and fierce.

  • @maddy6725
    @maddy6725 3 місяці тому +21

    I love that these habits are truly genuine & not so "obvious." You really touched on the things that will heal you from the core 💕

  • @marym3355
    @marym3355 3 місяці тому +20

    Feels good to know that people struggle with the same issues and managed to overcome.

    • @S.Sophia999
      @S.Sophia999 3 місяці тому

      You are not alone marym3355.
      You can do it!
      I can do it! We can do it!♥️

  • @LiloSaba
    @LiloSaba 13 днів тому +1

    لما حكيت على الله أثرت علي ،هذه البنت صادقة يارب يبعثلك كل خيرا ألك ولكل صبية بتشوف هذا الفيديو ❤

  • @shriya580
    @shriya580 3 місяці тому +12

    As a person who was always criticized judged loaded with responsibilities compared and always led down , narc parents never been loved and who wanted validation from the world to accept myself , habit of constantly doubting myself and never taught things like these your video is a blessing .
    All the girls who talk about matcha skincare all the improvements on the physical aspects and noone goes in depth that problem is inside , we need to be at peace within ourselves we should be 100% genuine we should fix what's going on inside
    I totally related to you
    You truely feels like an elder sister giving advise
    I came today on your channel but instantly got connected and felt each and evry word of yours
    I love you , thanks for speaking your heart out and explaining what's the main problem💖🤝

  • @sidneykranjcec3109
    @sidneykranjcec3109 Місяць тому +3

    I’ve been following you since 2021 and your content always grounds me and gets me back on track and focused on the right goals that will fulfill my soul rather than feed my ego. I moved out with my bf 6 months ago and we’re both on this journey together and watch your content!

  • @omflowapp
    @omflowapp 3 місяці тому +9

    Настя, спасибо тебе большое за то, что ты создала этот канал. Я смотрю твои видео уже 8 лет, мы с тобой одного возраста, и я проживала очень похожие периоды в жизни. Последний год у меня было депрессивное состояние, из-за проблем с работой и отношениями, я посмотрела почти все видео на этом канале, и почувствовала себя намного лучше. У меня появилась вера, что если ты смогла справиться со своим сложным периодом, то я тоже смогу. Когда ты переезжала в Нью-Йорк много лет назад я тоже уезжала жить заграницу, и мне тогда очень помогли твои видео. Мне очень близки твои ценности и история, я тоже начала рано работать и много лет прожила заграницей далеко от семьи. Когда я смотрела твой влог из дома у меня прям слезы подступили, потому что я тоже на лето приехала к родителям в родной город, а там моя комната с картой желаний и всё сбылось и ощущение такой бесконечной любви к семье. Спасибо тебе, что ты делишься своими историями из жизни. Это очень ценно❤

  • @juliagusieva1752
    @juliagusieva1752 7 днів тому

    Your video has popped up in my feed like a miracle.. it’s literally saving my mental health and improving it. Спасибо.🙏🏼 Вы такая юная, но уже такая мудрая. Мне 36 и я учусь у вас быть доброй и любить себя. Самым большим открытием стало для меня то, что быть доброй и открытой - безопасно. Тоже пряталась за маской неприступной женщины. Учусь открываться, благодаря вам, спасибо еще раз

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Місяць тому +2

    I love this type of self love video and also videos about dating like the one you made called " How to become the woman who knows her worth and have higher standards"

  • @bybelkabelka
    @bybelkabelka 4 місяці тому +9

    im literally crying right now... thank you!!!

  • @ShawnyTheGremlin.
    @ShawnyTheGremlin. Місяць тому +3

    I watched one video of yours and now I can’t stop… this is the advice young women should be hearing and having modeled to them , that’s something I’ve been craving from the women in my life, and my mother . So thank you for being you and sharing this wisdom ! New subscriber 😋💗

  • @svenja.flkrts
    @svenja.flkrts 3 місяці тому +4

    Just watched your video while I was working out on the stairmaster and girl you made me cry when you talked about the god meditation. That hit me hard and your video made me realize a tone of things I should UNLEARN for my self love behavior ❤ thank you so much and your work you are putting out there!

  • @Kirzikka.
    @Kirzikka. Місяць тому +1

    Hey sys! I randomly watched youtube feed and this just popped up on my feed. Thank Jesus for that, because you´re kind words was the power I needed in my situation!!
    Girl, I´m in my 50´s, divorced, single for nearly 1½ years. I had narcistic husband and bad childhood. I binge eat too..that´s why I gained some weight, have knee problems, I got no job, no education, no family (I have to cut them down, because of them beeing SO toxic towards me). So it´s just me and God at this moment.
    I´m so grateful, that I found this video! You surely are blessing

  • @Serapp13
    @Serapp13 2 місяці тому +2

    Sometimes i think all that stuff are just for you show yourself that you love yourself. I just feel it. Self love is not try to be better or not try to think that you should be thankful of what you have that other people dont. Sometimes love is just love and not try to love

  • @يقين-ث3ق
    @يقين-ث3ق 3 місяці тому +10

    I really loved you from the bottom of my heart, I felt comfortable with you, I loved your faith in God, and I loved your awareness , love you 🇮🇶🥹🫂✨

    • @LiloSaba
      @LiloSaba 13 днів тому

      حبيبتي الله رح يبعثلك كل خيرا ،انت مش صدفة هون ،ولا شيء صدفة ،كلامها اثر فيني ،صادق،كملي واعرفي ربك باعثلك كل خيرا..

  • @reetaskeeter2100
    @reetaskeeter2100 2 місяці тому +2

    I can relate to this! I’ve started running almost everyday because I feel so much better when I do it. I think if it ad a job I do for myself. All day I do tasks at my job that are grueling like folding clothes on my feet for hours so I think if my workouts as a task for myself that I’m actually getting something from u like the tasks at work.

  • @DLG24
    @DLG24 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent point! We are expected to do well without being given an immediate role-model of someone doing well, practicing self-love, etc.
    Thank you!

  • @wassabilove1111
    @wassabilove1111 3 місяці тому +11

    You're like the big sister I wish I always had, great conent, literally everything!

  • @OdinaAskarova-w5w
    @OdinaAskarova-w5w 4 місяці тому +11

    Queen is back! Yaaay

  • @ezizecebrayilova2514
    @ezizecebrayilova2514 6 днів тому

    Loving yourself = love your inner child

  • @Mitics
    @Mitics 3 місяці тому +4

    You are a person that make this world more bright🌟 thank you for help other people ❤️

  • @Amorfati18
    @Amorfati18 2 місяці тому +1

    This was great insight! I definitely relate to "waking up grumpy in the mornings" thing and the incredible feeling of connecting to God when you need it the most!
    Thank you for sharing that❤😢

  • @hobsyllwin2562
    @hobsyllwin2562 2 місяці тому +1

    Just found you…. And I needed this… deep down our self knows all this, but every now and then we need to be reminded … dearly… and I needed this… thank you ❤

  • @khelifihamza-eg4pv
    @khelifihamza-eg4pv Місяць тому

    Even as a man, this is so empowering and nice to hear , it´s very relatable , i came across this channel two days ago and i can´t help but coming back, it´s really a nice message and very important habits, love yourselves and elevate ur energy and worth y´all at the end of the day we only got ourselves in this world, so be kind to that little child inside you, men or women, self love and empowerment is important !!!

    • @LiloSaba
      @LiloSaba 13 днів тому

      She is a great soul, wish you the best there is a reason you're here.. God bless you

  • @jupita-.-9250
    @jupita-.-9250 3 місяці тому +2

    Im so glad that this video showed up🥰 your words are trully precious ... Girls just do it for your self ❤️ from love , do it because you are special , you are person who deserves to be treated right

  • @marymellow5325
    @marymellow5325 3 місяці тому +6

    Просто вау❤ помню твои старые видео и просто какой рост! Спасибо что делишься такой ценной информацией💫

  • @melissalozano2847
    @melissalozano2847 2 місяці тому +4

    the fact i cried...

  • @AlinaMatokhina
    @AlinaMatokhina 3 місяці тому +1

    As an anxious person, I feel so peaceful watching your vids💞

    • @jrbernadina6647
      @jrbernadina6647 3 місяці тому

      Me 2 i feel peaceful and she really makes my day better❤

  • @ecesuyazc6416
    @ecesuyazc6416 Місяць тому

    Feeling bored, feeling lonely, feeling like you are not living your truth, emotions are rising up, in order to cope with them and have a control, you learned how to repress them and have pleasure in your life with food, because it is the easy way, because it is the shortest way, because it is your comfort zone, because this is the way you always coped with your mom, and with school, you eat, you feel disgusting, you dissapoint yourself after thousands of time, no self respect left in you, you will gain weight, and you wont do things you want to do in life because you think you dont deserve it, because you betrayed yourself soo many times and it is a vicious loop and it is the worst addiction because food is everywhere and it is so hard to deal with it, I feel you girl, and hopefully you will help me❤

  • @daisybhan4723
    @daisybhan4723 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks to you I finally realised that how much I've already healed that how I am on the right path I am always like what more I should do surely I like resting and don't complain on that but still I was not so understanding of how much I've changed

  • @MotivationPlus71
    @MotivationPlus71 2 місяці тому

    How well you spoke, that's really what we should love ourselves. In my life, love was not right and calculated, and my parents got separated.

  • @LokeshVishwakarma-s2c
    @LokeshVishwakarma-s2c 3 місяці тому +144

    Just putting it out there-subliminal affirmations for perfect skin and beauty on Borlest work wonders. If you’ve never tried it, now’s the time. You’ll be amazed at the difference!

  • @sepideha9783
    @sepideha9783 Місяць тому

    I had mental break down which bothered me alot and after some days i decided to watch these kind of videos
    It was helpful too
    Thank you so much

  • @hillsidehavenhomestead
    @hillsidehavenhomestead 2 місяці тому

    That is so beautiful about your morning time with God! YES! I've never seen another girl admit this outside of the Christian mom circles. Beautiful

  • @FeruzaRustamova-pr9di
    @FeruzaRustamova-pr9di 3 місяці тому +2

    thank you I needed it , you are so kind and genuine , I wish I found you earlier but better now than never😘😘

  • @eliotbat99
    @eliotbat99 3 місяці тому +3

    you are very deserving of all the blessings of life, God bless you for your amazing content.♥

  • @Hiba-yl2zr
    @Hiba-yl2zr Місяць тому

    I’m so glad that I found you girl 🥹 I’m obsessed with your videos

  • @Aya55558
    @Aya55558 3 місяці тому +2

    I was always striving to please others, to the point where I did not satisfy myself

  • @solomongood5268
    @solomongood5268 2 місяці тому

    Nastya Swan listening to your presentation , shows you are a gifted and speak a true universal love that the world seriously need. Thank you.

  • @jasminkds4141
    @jasminkds4141 28 днів тому

    GIRL I OWE U A BIG THANK YOU ❤
    U ARE LIKE LIGHT ❤
    JUST KNOW THAT U REALLY DESERVE TO BE HEARD
    UR WORDS GET STRAIGHT TO THE HEART ❤️
    KEEP GOING WONDERWOMAN WE REALLY LOVE U ❤

  • @ManalHamidaddin
    @ManalHamidaddin 2 місяці тому

    Nastya You are so amazing, and you have become one of my top UA-camr favorite Chanels. Thank you so much for sharing our experiences. I started to take care of myself and have loved it for the past year, but you are on a whole new level of self-love and confidence.

  • @Roudyy77
    @Roudyy77 Місяць тому +1

    I am really a big big big fan for you
    althought i saw your videos lately but i like ur mindset 🥰

  • @F.E.E
    @F.E.E Місяць тому

    girl u r amazing u r going to be my mentor for my life

  • @sarahjimoh866
    @sarahjimoh866 4 місяці тому +30

    You are my UA-cam big sister💗

  • @НастяМельник-ы9с
    @НастяМельник-ы9с Місяць тому

    I love watching your videos before bed, thank you so much for being there🤍

  • @genie3852
    @genie3852 3 місяці тому

    This has got to be my favorite video of yours! I LOVE that you share your belief, knowledge and relationship with God! You are absolutely right about Him giving us everything we need! ❤

  • @FatemehSaeedi-ry8ey
    @FatemehSaeedi-ry8ey 28 днів тому

    Tour words make me calm and passionate to change❤

  • @alicexfit242
    @alicexfit242 2 місяці тому

    I love all your points. Very valuable and so much more important than what social media tells you about "self love".

  • @maryb6030
    @maryb6030 2 місяці тому

    Maybe a few advice about the try it more time / do one think differently part, read books every day, at least one page a day. The miracle morning is a good first option. This is not the first book I've started with (it was atomic habits) but it is quite consistent with all the concepts spoken about in the video. I hope this helps at least 1 person. Good luck and see you at the top ☺

  • @andreeaimbrea2319
    @andreeaimbrea2319 9 днів тому

    3:10 hit hard 🫶🏻❤️

  • @juliehernandez80
    @juliehernandez80 3 місяці тому

    Why are your videos making me cry? 😭 I mean this in a necessary and positive way.

  • @sima_saeed
    @sima_saeed 3 місяці тому +1

    Iam soo happy that i found your channel omg girl i literally love your vibe ❤❤❤

  • @malikanuratdinova6781
    @malikanuratdinova6781 Місяць тому

    Thank you very much. These are the best words i have heard today😊

  • @jrbernadina6647
    @jrbernadina6647 3 місяці тому

    I love your channel is uniek, its so true..i feel like everyone can learn allot from Nastya Swan self love is so much deeper than appearance care
    I love the fact thats she helps you to become a better person, i hope to see more of her channel ❤

  • @levusoul
    @levusoul 8 годин тому

    Настя Благодарю за то, что даёшь то, что не похоже на других. Вроде одно и тоже, но нет. Приятно, что кто-то озвучивает мои мысли видимо самой пора уже вещать так ❤

  • @juls182
    @juls182 3 місяці тому +2

    3:15. I almost cried hearing you say that. I need to make some changes.

  • @AyrieAbdykerimova
    @AyrieAbdykerimova Місяць тому

    You described everything so right. Can relate to it!

  • @FatimaZahra-mv4pc
    @FatimaZahra-mv4pc Місяць тому

    You're amazing!! And you're Soo pretty inside out

  • @sreejaalaha4034
    @sreejaalaha4034 2 місяці тому +1

    May god bless you for sharing this with us

  • @zainabzahra4115
    @zainabzahra4115 26 днів тому

    An amazing video... I can't explain in words ... Stay blessed and have a nice day

  • @safaeelouard3493
    @safaeelouard3493 3 місяці тому

    I really love how u talk I feel that yr reall and u talk from ur pure heart ❤️ thank u

  • @LiloSaba
    @LiloSaba 13 днів тому

    Thank you so much 🙏 truly from the bottom of my heart ❤️ you are helping me in so many ways.. you are smart kind and amazing I wish you the best... keep going inspiring every girl 💝 you are one of a kind... your words touched me I'm still working in myself...I know we are all connected every good deed is coming back to you moltpioed, you are fantastic, keep on with the amazing works. What a great soul ❤❤

  • @beatrizluis9224
    @beatrizluis9224 3 місяці тому

    You have such a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for sharing your insights in these videos-they truly resonate with me and I absolutely love them! I hope you continue the amazing work. ❤

  • @princesa111
    @princesa111 3 місяці тому +3

    I clicked this because I was like yes I could use these tips I wanna learn this real self love but what I didn’t know I needed was the binge advice thank you 🫶🥹

  • @psmsofficial-jw3ds
    @psmsofficial-jw3ds 3 місяці тому

    The fact that nobody talks about subliminal affirmations for perfect skin and beauty on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are missing out. Trust me on this-using subliminals can change your life. The power of the mind to heal and transform your skin is incredible when you tap into the right frequencies.

  • @Yazingzing
    @Yazingzing 2 місяці тому

    Girl! Thanks for sharing though I find it hard to listen to motivating videos and podcasts from ppl I don T know, I find ur Content very honest so I crave them actually❤

  • @experiencelifelittleone
    @experiencelifelittleone 4 місяці тому +2

    Boundaries are so important

  • @foodmoods09
    @foodmoods09 2 місяці тому

    I am so glad to have came across your channel❤❤..Thank you for spreading so much positivity through this lovely vid😊

  • @luizaalabarce7725
    @luizaalabarce7725 3 місяці тому +1

    I adore her!! thanks for the amazing content

  • @martarubets
    @martarubets 4 місяці тому +2

    Nastya thank you for this video. It’s was very important to hear these words ❤

  • @wedee5908
    @wedee5908 3 місяці тому +3

    今の私に必要な大切なメッセージをありがとうございます❤あなたの出す波動が私の心に届きました😌

  • @Jwini369
    @Jwini369 3 місяці тому

    Gurl this video idk why but it just clicked in my head like wow all of it makes sense.❤

  • @Amda33
    @Amda33 2 місяці тому

    Oh man, I totally resonated w that. Also had that kind of rs w food for more than 10yrs

  • @anujaramuth2416
    @anujaramuth2416 2 місяці тому

    I resonate with this video. Thank you so much dear ❤

  • @armandataskane944
    @armandataskane944 4 місяці тому +2

    the best video, thank you, it resonated with my soul! Looking forward for the next video!!!❤

  • @leralera2633
    @leralera2633 4 місяці тому +7

    I like your words about God!🤍

  • @constancmea
    @constancmea 4 місяці тому +1

    This was so beautiful. Thank you. ✨💖✨

  • @Aya55558
    @Aya55558 3 місяці тому

    Also, your style is beautiful and kind, even though you speak painful truths

  • @ArturoHerrera777
    @ArturoHerrera777 Місяць тому

    wow Great Way of thinking Nastya Swan :)

  • @funsizevagabond
    @funsizevagabond 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @rebeccastarns1072
    @rebeccastarns1072 3 місяці тому

    Oh my gosh thank you for sharing your vulnerability!❤❤❤

  • @YogndaraPasar
    @YogndaraPasar 2 місяці тому

    Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone

  • @sarazbady4528
    @sarazbady4528 2 місяці тому

    Amazing ideas you’ve mentioned ❤

  • @sakshisharma-sy1hd
    @sakshisharma-sy1hd 3 місяці тому

    I can correlate with you at so many levels ❤ thank you ❤

  • @eve3434
    @eve3434 3 місяці тому +1

    Girl i love u more and more everytime i listen to u and the way u talk about god oh i wish u learn more about Islam is such a peace full religion when u talk with god five times at day in certain way that makes u feel ur selfe more and deeply

  • @Astarla47
    @Astarla47 3 місяці тому +1

    I appreciate you taking about Our Heavenly Father, God 👏🏽👏🏽 respect

  • @happinesssomewhere18
    @happinesssomewhere18 3 місяці тому

    I love how you speak

  • @digdemsahin7151
    @digdemsahin7151 2 місяці тому

    That was great, thank you so much for the video💐💐💐

  • @Aleenaanju111
    @Aleenaanju111 2 місяці тому

    I like the way you talk about the God❤ur videos are like therapy ❤

  • @eyrinmc
    @eyrinmc Місяць тому

    I just love how I come across people like you, amazing and gorgeous women who I listened to like a big sister, and you talk about God and share how amazing he is. I love listening to you and thewizardliz and I just feel so thankful that I always get the right resources and right things I need to hear from people who love God and uses their platform to share just how good God is🤍 lots of love from me

  • @anadurand7809
    @anadurand7809 4 місяці тому +1

    thank you for this video, i have never seen a video that i relate that much

  • @theresamilbocker3816
    @theresamilbocker3816 2 місяці тому

    I ❤U! You are amazing! Thank you for being you! You changed my heart today ♥️✝️😍

  • @theresalives
    @theresalives 3 місяці тому +1

    Needed to hear this!

  • @annu54
    @annu54 Місяць тому

    Thnq so much dear.... Your are the best❤❤❤❤

  • @tzhd5397
    @tzhd5397 4 місяці тому +2

    love ur videos xx

  • @EmmaM-q1l
    @EmmaM-q1l 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video and ur so pretty

  • @vitalinaburakovska3107
    @vitalinaburakovska3107 4 місяці тому

    The big sis I was always dreaming about 🥺❤‍🩹