Stop attaching to men & start choosing yourself

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  • @nastyaswanmind
    @nastyaswanmind  Рік тому +17

    What should we talk about in the next video?🤍

    • @sofiamoshnova
      @sofiamoshnova Рік тому +3

      how to stay consistent and motivated 🫶🏻

    • @isabelro_
      @isabelro_ Рік тому +1

      how to reinvent ourselves before this year ends, especially for those who didn’t make any new year’s resolutions in the beginning of 2023..
      xo
      🩷

    • @Seer_96
      @Seer_96 3 місяці тому

      How to love yourself more.... that is the key 🔑

  • @blakeyrebeccaross
    @blakeyrebeccaross 9 місяців тому +50

    i cannot believe you are 22. omg. so wise

    • @Seer_96
      @Seer_96 3 місяці тому +2

      So knowledgeable

    • @cameshaslater8274
      @cameshaslater8274 3 місяці тому +2

      When you were born in the era of the internet what do you expect

  • @emsies8116
    @emsies8116 Місяць тому +3

    So very very few 'better yourself' channels ever include kindness as a desireable trait, breath of fresh air for once.

  • @LailaMarcia
    @LailaMarcia 3 місяці тому +9

    This video helped me so much. I was losing sight of my value and realized I wasn’t loving myself, SUPER in my masculine. I didn’t know how to start loving myself or what exactly I was doing wrong. I definitely have been in my cool girl hot sexy mistress energy because it felt less vulnerable and that just bit me in the ass haha. Sooo now after bingeing a couple of your videos I’m going to apply the tips. Thank you for everything you touched on in this video! Don’t ever leave out any advice, never know who will need it, LIKE ME. Keep going love 🫶🏽 wish I had a girl friend like you IRL!!

  • @yuliia9600
    @yuliia9600 Рік тому +31

    Amazing. Just an amazing speach. All words are completely true. Thank you, Nastya, for these speaches! They give a lot to think about and analize.

    • @EmilyRaskett
      @EmilyRaskett 9 місяців тому

      Yes! It was so inspirational ❤

  • @mutjarinpanawong976
    @mutjarinpanawong976 Місяць тому +1

    I found this channel when i really need a best friend and good advice and I’m glad I found you ,i really happy that you are so unique the way you that you want to express love to all women that have to start within our and that’s so true ,you have to treated yourself how you want to be treated and now i literally don’t care how people going to treat me good or not ,all I do care is how I treat myself,I’m so happy in my early ages that’s i found you and i found this channel and thank you so much to remind me and be the best advice ever ,wish all the best for all women here and especially this channel ❤❤❤❤

  • @Daniela-rh2ih
    @Daniela-rh2ih Рік тому +7

    I love this era of you

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Місяць тому +1

    11:52 😂 I know this feeling and this moment❤ I love that you are vulnerable and I appreciate sharing your stories with us❤ I was an insecure nice girl as well but I have been changing and still I'm trying to set boundaries better

  • @Seer_96
    @Seer_96 3 місяці тому +2

    You are right...
    I love myself unconditionally 💛 ❤️
    I have learned to be nice to myself

  • @musicbeat8120
    @musicbeat8120 2 місяці тому +1

    as a young man im learning a lot from you keep doing the good work you defintly inspiring me to see how you see things

  • @melnivi
    @melnivi Рік тому +7

    Thank you for such an amazing and inspiring video! Each and every word is so true❤ I am on this path to love myself and appreciate myself and I really do write down your quotes just to remind myself that I’m worthy enough to achieve anything I want. Anyway, thank you, sending lots of love

  • @Meri_-
    @Meri_- 2 місяці тому +1

    she is the sister I wish I had 5 years ago, thank you gorgeous

  • @sophiakakueva1710
    @sophiakakueva1710 3 місяці тому

    the message towards the end made me tear up, so much wisdom thankyou!

  • @ymeetta5985
    @ymeetta5985 Рік тому +5

    Господи, Настя, благодарю тебя, прямо все в точку, так здорово ты рассказала все то, вокруг чего у меня крутилось много мыслей в голове в последнее время. Красотка! И все женщины в этом мире.

    • @Ksenia22072
      @Ksenia22072 Рік тому

      Жаль что субтитров нет к видео. Я с англ языком не дружу😐

  • @123meenasalih
    @123meenasalih 9 місяців тому +3

    This is healing my inner child🥺

  • @lauragarza6924
    @lauragarza6924 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey sweet girl! I'm 53 and yet I'm still a girl and you really touched my soul and I agree and resonate with your messages. Who are you?? I believe you are an Angel that came to gift me when I need it so very much!! Thank you babe 😘🌈✨
    With Love,
    Laura ☺️

  • @TopNotchV
    @TopNotchV 4 місяці тому +36

    Rule of thumb, don’t just making kissing casual. Sexual transmitted diseases can be caused by simply kissing. 🤯

  • @zoranmilic7366
    @zoranmilic7366 2 місяці тому

    You’re beautiful and smart.
    You said many time that you’re supposed be happy and not to care what people say and think about you; however, it’s obvious that you care about stupid things and that you’re not happy.
    It seems that your past and super high standards make you less happy than you should be.
    Wish you all best!

  • @mayalabeille7447
    @mayalabeille7447 Місяць тому

    you're so wise, beautiful and funny! thank you nastya 💋

  • @annesherly5109
    @annesherly5109 20 днів тому

    Your every single word blessed my mind 🤭🥹🩷thanks and I love u too🙏🏻

  • @شموخالقرشي-و3ن
    @شموخالقرشي-و3ن 2 місяці тому

    You are the first girl in the youtube channel in US i like her thought and I don't feel boring when I watch you , you are have i deep thoughts ,and i feel calm when i watch you

  • @НастяЯ-р5я
    @НастяЯ-р5я Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much! I'm so grateful. I watched this video just at the right time. I really felt so bad being dumped. But you’re so right! It’s time to make my own rules ❤️

  • @holy_triinity
    @holy_triinity 3 місяці тому

    Wow 22 and so wise!!! Thank you so much 💗✨ im 20 years old and your videos are helping me a lot thanks 🫶🏽💗🥹

  • @JW-mg1sk
    @JW-mg1sk 3 місяці тому

    This wisdom you’re sharing is exactly what I need at this moment in time ❤ Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @Gilgamesh505
    @Gilgamesh505 Рік тому

    Pigeon in main part of the video xD
    Good video. Perfect english and my heart for bc you make subtitles .

  • @Tarussofia
    @Tarussofia 2 місяці тому

    I love it how strongly and passionately you share ♥ it really inspires me and gives energy to someone who easily is too nice and putting others on top of herself. Thank you for sharing this!

  • @paoladellabilancia5965
    @paoladellabilancia5965 8 місяців тому +6

    🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😆 If he doesn't call you, he doesn't like you enough and he's just not interested in you!
    Not a big deal.🤦‍♀️

  • @kimslife_de
    @kimslife_de 3 місяці тому +1

    I let go, i trust and im calm

  • @dar8085
    @dar8085 3 місяці тому

    I feel so good when watching this. I appreciate this so much❤

  • @Polka-dw6ze
    @Polka-dw6ze Рік тому

    Thank you, darling. It’s what I need to hear❤

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Місяць тому

    Wow! I'm so strong and I'm doing very well in many aspects of my life and sometimes I think I may triggerr guys with whom I go on dates but recently I realized that those who get triggered are men who are not confident and are weak and egotistical. Fact

  • @dumcharaz8538
    @dumcharaz8538 Місяць тому

    My dear Nastya, you are just 22. I m a 39 year old Dr happily married from last 10 years. To make a relationship you have to make few adjustments. It is not necessary to keep your man or woman at pedestal. Believe me if you really care for your partner then he or she will understand & value over the period of time. I m not telling you will be always in right relationship sometime you are with a wrong person but it doesn't mean all the people are bad in this world. I m just saying that key to a happy & successful relationship is genuineness. If your partner comes to know you really care for them they will ultimately submit to you 😊

  • @MarkSheppard-h9t
    @MarkSheppard-h9t 2 місяці тому

    A strong man wants a strong woman like you who knows who she is because you complete him from the things he is missing!

  • @fluentinoverthinking
    @fluentinoverthinking 3 місяці тому

    Haha similar story have happened to me, I had this first date with a guy after which he ghosted me, even though he was watching my stories lol. I bumped into him on the city 2 or 3 times within one month. Our city is not that small. He even had the audacity to say it was a sign 😅

  • @sophiakakueva1710
    @sophiakakueva1710 3 місяці тому

    queen i love your energy sooo much muaha!

  • @crisunshine5738
    @crisunshine5738 3 місяці тому

    You talk really good, i wish i knew this things at your age

  • @amazingukraine.irynagegelska
    @amazingukraine.irynagegelska 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Nasta
    You inspire me already for 5 years 😂

  • @leasm17
    @leasm17 Рік тому

    Biggest inspiration ever!!❤
    Thank you ✨✨

  • @diagniya
    @diagniya Рік тому

    Thanks for subtitles❤️

  • @juliakrokhalewa8014
    @juliakrokhalewa8014 Рік тому +6

    Большое спасибо! Это именно те, слова, что мне нужно было услышать.💖

  • @rania_2320
    @rania_2320 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for these valuable tips

  • @HeymeStasy
    @HeymeStasy Рік тому +2

    Dear, Nastya, Hello! I would like to say Thank You very very very much for this valuable video for everyone.For me at this moment it’s like a Gift, I found myself in such a position that my friend, figuratively speaking, trampled me😢and I couldn’t find support or an other explanations :why is he acting like this towards me?And I always only blame myself...
    You are an incredibly multifaceted, gorgeous Blogger and I look forward to Your new videos with such trepidation.
    From Russia with ❤
    I really hope that someday I will meet you in real life.

  • @robbielara7589
    @robbielara7589 3 місяці тому

    YOU ARE AWESOME!❤

  • @gayathiri1812
    @gayathiri1812 10 місяців тому

    This 💯 resonates with my life ❤

  • @AfrinKhatun9831
    @AfrinKhatun9831 Місяць тому

    Please make a video on how we should overcome breakup and heartbreak... betrayal etcc please please it's really needed ... Please please please..

  • @vlolololo
    @vlolololo Рік тому +2

    you are wonderful, so beautiful and wise❤️

  • @Theforestelfwriter
    @Theforestelfwriter 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video! Thank you!

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Місяць тому

    Could you please make a video about how to be in feminine energy when it comes to relationships and be in masculine energy in job and studies?

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Місяць тому

    My studies is something I both love ad have to do❤😁

  • @beata4392
    @beata4392 3 місяці тому

    Woow i love your videos,you are so wise..❤❤❤ I love your energy

  • @kkwacd8895
    @kkwacd8895 8 місяців тому

    GOD I love this girl ❤ she’s like a sister & best friend

  • @zhiznonaochem
    @zhiznonaochem Рік тому +1

    ❤ just thanks

  • @sharonqui
    @sharonqui 2 місяці тому

    I really enjoy the music intro ❤❤❤

  • @kimslife_de
    @kimslife_de 3 місяці тому

    Im trusting the process

  • @karinafantasyart
    @karinafantasyart 10 місяців тому

    Amazing! Thank you♥️♥️♥️

  • @kaiakaras
    @kaiakaras 9 місяців тому

    I need to rewatch this video because it is important

  • @tjub2000
    @tjub2000 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey dear, how do you find that billlionare males? And where?

  • @Idcwinyoo
    @Idcwinyoo 3 місяці тому

    You're giving bestie vibes. Love ya❤
    Btw are u a Pisces?

  • @sofiamoshnova
    @sofiamoshnova Рік тому

    I love your videos! You should make podcasts ❤

  • @alexandrat9935
    @alexandrat9935 Рік тому

    yeah I have wished to find this.

  • @ChinenyenwaPearl
    @ChinenyenwaPearl 2 місяці тому

    You’re so smart darling 💕💕😘

  • @ElenaLautenschlager
    @ElenaLautenschlager 2 місяці тому

    Love your videos :)

  • @АнастасіяІванова-м7ю

    Nastya, thank you❤❤❤

  • @alsukhidirova11
    @alsukhidirova11 Рік тому +1

    Awww Queen👑

  • @Greenmoon413
    @Greenmoon413 10 місяців тому

    Thank you ♥️

  • @sujatanath449
    @sujatanath449 Місяць тому

    That bit😮hh sounds ❤😂

  • @yanhuang3845
    @yanhuang3845 8 днів тому

    why the next day you wait for him to text you, if you like him, why not text him first, if he not reply that you can see he not like you enough, vise verse maybe he thinking you not text him first then you not like him enough

  • @Wade-vo6zx
    @Wade-vo6zx Рік тому

    The Americanization is happening very fast with this one, keep going 😂 👍👍👍

  • @Beautyliciouserin
    @Beautyliciouserin 3 місяці тому

    Sending love girl 💓🫶🏽💓

  • @sle4108
    @sle4108 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @roninenlightened6350
    @roninenlightened6350 9 місяців тому

    Wait women put men on a pedestal? I have only heard the opposite. Ok this is new and mind-opening.

  • @milica730
    @milica730 Рік тому

    Preach!

  • @mdilnozik
    @mdilnozik Рік тому

    liked everything in this video❤

  • @alaskayoung777
    @alaskayoung777 9 місяців тому

    amen 🧡

  • @ekaterinajalunina
    @ekaterinajalunina Рік тому

    I just love youuuu

  • @ziziasra
    @ziziasra 3 місяці тому

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuu

  • @honeymayfair-rt9tc
    @honeymayfair-rt9tc 10 місяців тому

    👏👏👏👍👍👍amazing very wise content to share !! Many thanks ! You are gorgeous beautiful inside out !👍❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @katemilto9362
    @katemilto9362 Рік тому

    Amazing 🎉

  • @ruravs
    @ruravs Рік тому

    I started to know all of at my 27
    I moved out from my country at 23
    You did at 16 , so here it is , the knowledges

  • @majorlazer5245
    @majorlazer5245 11 місяців тому

    I want more videos pls

  • @dilnazboranbekkyzy3602
    @dilnazboranbekkyzy3602 Рік тому +1

    Это реально то что мне нужно было услышать

  • @Joanna.Swiderska333
    @Joanna.Swiderska333 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @IS-gk4jf
    @IS-gk4jf 2 місяці тому

  • @melimoretti53
    @melimoretti53 9 місяців тому

    💗

  • @fiddah
    @fiddah 3 місяці тому

    The Qur’an is THE Speech of ALLAH. There is only ONE Qur’an. There is no contradiction in The Qur’aan. 🌸🌿The Qur’an is the Final Book ALLAH SENT to humankind. Not a letter has changed in the Qur’an. The Entire Qur’an has been memorized by several people.
    ‎ ‎الحَمدُ لله
    .
    Do read the Qur’an 🌹

  • @EllidaGrand
    @EllidaGrand Рік тому +1

    That's a greattttasss English tho

  • @Keishita1021
    @Keishita1021 Рік тому

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Britneyy-d3v
    @Britneyy-d3v 9 місяців тому

    Stop !!!!!!!! Giving toxic advice that is not what people need!!! I am seriously offended by you!

  • @xbaeksky
    @xbaeksky Рік тому

    i truly needed this 🙌🏼🤎

  • @theresamilbocker3816
    @theresamilbocker3816 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @nancysauer5888
    @nancysauer5888 Місяць тому

  • @REHNUMA-lm1bc
    @REHNUMA-lm1bc 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @beneficencebymaliha.5183
    @beneficencebymaliha.5183 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤