How to be treated like a queen

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @nastyaswanmind
    @nastyaswanmind  22 дні тому +63

    what’s your favorite part from the video?🦋🥹😍💅🏽🎀💘

    • @Dr_D-o1u
      @Dr_D-o1u 22 дні тому +1

      We can give princess treatment to ourself

    • @KimberlyOmoruyi
      @KimberlyOmoruyi 22 дні тому +2

      The entire video is my favourite part, I've watched so many of your videos and it's so empowering for me as a young teenage girl to see such a strong woman like you who started from nothing and had to build herself up in order to be who she is today. Your such a role model, I absolutely love your videos. And I just wanted to say your really beautiful inside and out❤❤❤, I'm a huge fan🤧🙇🏽‍♀️

    • @Cw-pd7sj
      @Cw-pd7sj 22 дні тому

      You

    • @eleonorabobrova9508
      @eleonorabobrova9508 22 дні тому +2

      I like very much the idea that a woman is valuable even if she doesn't have a man on her side right now. I think nowadays a lot of girls depend on social standards. You know this kind of opinion like a woman can enjoy life only if she has a pair, to eat in the restaurant alone doesn't make sense, the compliments of the man are necessary for a high self evaluation and so on. You stick it to the point that women have the options. And one of them to choose firstly yourself. Thank you very much for your energized video and golden words 😊

    • @cyriellemarchand4150
      @cyriellemarchand4150 22 дні тому

      Ups and downs but always on the road 💐💅🏻

  • @The.Anna.Roberts
    @The.Anna.Roberts 22 дні тому +136

    I think this is my favourite video yet, completely hit the mark with grace & strength! It was genuinely so uplifting to start my morning listening to this over a coffee, this is serving so many women and is so uplifting! Keep being your genuine self, you're shining!

  • @Ksante-s8m
    @Ksante-s8m 19 днів тому +61

    3 things that worked for me girls:
    1. I blocked out all distractions.
    2. I read books on Femilys
    3. I Embrace Elegance

  • @SilviaN1
    @SilviaN1 21 день тому +33

    So true. I wish I knew this when I was in my 20s. Today I’m 50 years old, and I finally feel like a queen. Better late than never.

  • @A-feather-of-truth
    @A-feather-of-truth 6 днів тому +4

    I have the heart of a queen, generous, a woman's woman, but I had no backbone for years. Would cave into people pleasing, and my heart of service was warped. I've had to learn to love myself the way I loved others to fix my martyrdom habits. Getting there slowly, but everything you said is key... romanticize yourself. Learn to be so firm and powerful in your core that you are a queen no matter your circumstances.

  • @loulounederlof-zc7wn
    @loulounederlof-zc7wn День тому +1

    Aah your videos.....they are like an other Universe, where i go to to escape sadness and become the best version of myself. Am writing down things now. Can not thank you enough. But thank you anyway❤

  • @Sahalielove
    @Sahalielove 22 дні тому +38

    Yes! Feminine energy content has been soo good for me. I used to think that the thing to do to be treated better was to beg. Now, I leave, and I’m not available to be treated badly.

  • @heyshay3337
    @heyshay3337 22 дні тому +35

    Great video and tips for emulating queen energy. Not many people get it. Also I think there's a difference between putting up boundaries/ not letting it get crossed more than once and getting mad about something that was hurtful. That's when you need to talk it out and let them know how you felt. I had a friend (now ex best friend) who would constantly say she was a queen but then was mean to others and shut friends and family out of her life for saying 1 thing (usually constructive criticism) that she didn't like. That' not queen energy. I'm glad i no longer have her negativity in my life. We need more women like you in the world 😊

    • @nastyaswanmind
      @nastyaswanmind  22 дні тому +2

      Thank you so much for your words 🎀💗👑

  • @ayaulymandabayeva1163
    @ayaulymandabayeva1163 21 день тому +7

    Thank you dear Nastya! You are so mature and so kind. Your energy radiates through the screen, it is so comforting and divinely feminine. Your honesty, vulnerability and kindness inspire so much. I've been watching you for more than 5 years and it feels so great to watch you grow. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. It healed me in some way.

  • @nastyaswanmind
    @nastyaswanmind  22 дні тому +54

    Hi girls, how have you been this week?🍒💗

    • @Zainab-z6u1h
      @Zainab-z6u1h 22 дні тому +1

      It was soooo good
      Love you girl💋🇮🇶

    • @y0utubeFr3ak
      @y0utubeFr3ak 22 дні тому +2

      My heart jumped up and down seeing that you just uploaded a new great video babe😍🥰❤️!

    • @leila9353
      @leila9353 22 дні тому +1

      Mi semana empezó triste, pero ver la notificación de un nuevo video tuyo me alegró. ♡

    • @aminabenlifestyle7011
      @aminabenlifestyle7011 22 дні тому

      Heart broken 💔

    • @marylalrinawmihrangkhol2797
      @marylalrinawmihrangkhol2797 22 дні тому

  • @Jubilee_BX
    @Jubilee_BX 6 днів тому +1

    Everything you are saying is poignant and you’re giving me goosebumps. I love this for you and all of the women you are inspiring

  • @iwantabiscuitplz
    @iwantabiscuitplz 15 днів тому +1

    I feel like this video came to me when I NEEDED it! I looked myself in the mirror and cried as I told myself, 'I am proud of you' because I haven't been making myself proud lately. I haven't been choosing connections that are healthy for me, or looking after my home and body well, or behaving with much dignity, and that hurts. Saying it out loud and feeling the pain of the reality that I need to grow to make that statement true, I think I needed that. That was all because of you Nastya! So thank you..Queen!!

  • @eunatalioliveira
    @eunatalioliveira 20 днів тому +19

    that's SO on point! I'll watch it every day until I feel it in my bones

  • @Cocoamelanated
    @Cocoamelanated 16 днів тому +3

    Your mom’s saying about the jewelry box! Gold!! I love that! You were spot on with this video. Loved it

  • @PierinaAgurto
    @PierinaAgurto 22 дні тому +14

    Gracias Nastya, estoy en una transición complicada, estoy en otro país sin nadie y con una bebé de 7 meses, es difícil hacer la transición sin un grupo de apoyo cercano, pero tengo esperanza y Dios es generoso, hay mucho por hacer por mi misma, enfocarme en mi misma sin desenfocar mi maternidad y todo lo demás fluirá. Se siente que eres realmente genuina. Gracias, otra vez ❤

  • @Funnypets95-i4v
    @Funnypets95-i4v 7 днів тому +1

    I cried during the whole video and I know why, because I am old you right now, I don’t respect myself and because of that I am about to divorce in my 29. Nastya, your words touched my heart, I wish I could follow all your advice and become the woman I always dreamed about

  • @shwetaakhaire
    @shwetaakhaire 22 дні тому +43

    This women changed my life ❤

  • @frenchie_at_heart7387
    @frenchie_at_heart7387 7 днів тому +2

    Authenticity creates true confidence. I think "being treated like a queen" could simply translate to: Respect your values, train your discipline, create boundaries with people who do not value you as highly as you value yourself. Then, you will have people in your life who treat you how you wish to be treated. I think the hardest part for most young women is actually seeing themselves in a positive light. It's hard if someone grew up with family trauma. Something we all have to work at.

  • @Gelicaa.2
    @Gelicaa.2 20 днів тому +9

    I love, love the blonde on you. It is soo gorgeous, im a hairstylist please let your stylist know she did an amazing job on her art work " your hair" it will make her feel good❤

  • @UmmuLBahrami
    @UmmuLBahrami 20 днів тому +4

    This video is one of the most satisfying videos on internet ❤️
    The beauty ,The maturity ,The confidence ❤️❤️

  • @Crema_Oh
    @Crema_Oh 2 дні тому

    the true being kind is when with no condition

  • @roshnaguven3802
    @roshnaguven3802 21 день тому +4

    It's amazing to see a drop dead gorgeous woman like you being so grounded, clever and kind hearted at the same time. I love the energy that you are sending out. It makes me feel so harmonic, inspired and loved even though Ive never met you. You are a true queen and a great role model. Im older than you and I still learn from you, this really shows that age is just a number. Im looking forward to see more of your amazing advice 💖💖💖👸👸👸and I do understand that part of how the men are behaving differently in the home country and how that make you feel, its even worse here in Sweden hahaha

  • @holy_triinity
    @holy_triinity 16 днів тому +2

    This is going to be on repeat in my house every day , I love you nastya. You are helping me so so much 💗🫶🏽✨

  • @BiancaLavayen-id2uw
    @BiancaLavayen-id2uw 12 днів тому

    I love all your videos. I always get new insight from watching them even if I feel like I’ve watched a ton of these. Ive been on a self love journey for so many years and I FINALLY understand what it means to really put things into practice in your reality. It’s one thing to watch these videos and it’s another to honor yourself and make sure your actions align with the person you wish to become. The job, the friends, the romantic relationships are a reflection of how you feel inside, what you believe your value is.

    • @BiancaLavayen-id2uw
      @BiancaLavayen-id2uw 12 днів тому

      Living in authenticity, and not living because you’re expecting an outcome, but rather because you’re in the present moment, enjoying life as it is.

  • @mantsiger
    @mantsiger 18 днів тому +2

    настя, спасибо большое! в конце видео пробило на слезы, понимаю, что предстоит много работы над собой. но ради всего того, что я хочу, я буду стараться. спасибо тебе еще раз за этот майнд ченджин видео

  • @rosalin24
    @rosalin24 19 днів тому +3

    I'm so glad this video showed up in my fyp, you're a graceful woman radiating love & fulfillment. I ABSOLUTELY adore your delivery and also you're sooo pretty MaShaaAllah 💕

  • @salamrb4224
    @salamrb4224 22 дні тому +7

    You're the first UA-camr who said that you have to be you not create another version of yourself that's really makes me feel comfortable not acting as mysterious and don't care girl show my emotions my passion
    I'm so grateful to know you 💞🥀 Rania from 🇩🇿

  • @lilkkot
    @lilkkot 17 днів тому +1

    Found u today and im watching your video continuously and trust me your video gives me such a positive vibe that it makes me feel so peaceful and like a big sister giving me advice. Thankyou so much 🫶❤️

  • @Beautyinthedarkk
    @Beautyinthedarkk 20 днів тому +2

    Currently you are my fav. UA-camr❤❤❤

  • @alejandra6418
    @alejandra6418 22 дні тому +3

    10:06 I wouldn't say that you need to choose the hard way. You SHOULD choose the easy way for you to give you the soft life that every woman deserves, but also having backup plans if something happens.

    • @viperb4148
      @viperb4148 11 днів тому

      'Soft life' is a myth. Girls now think that they can sit back and get everything they want by doing nothing when, in reality, it takes a lot of work to even get to a place where someone else will see your worth and not want to see you suffer with stress. Men won't give anything...including respect to a women that they think are below them

  • @emilyteahuru1773
    @emilyteahuru1773 22 дні тому +2

    ALWAYS FOCUS ON YOU!!! Thank you Nastya, I'm going to implement this into my everyday life ✨️

  • @1991acgs
    @1991acgs 7 днів тому

    A QUEEN REIGNS FOR ALL: CLIENTS, FRIENDS, FAMILY, AND THOSE IN NEED. KNOW WHEN TO CHANGE THE TONE.

  • @sharonbrocker6614
    @sharonbrocker6614 16 днів тому

    Powerful message. Well spoken. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

  • @chocolark6099
    @chocolark6099 22 дні тому +4

    you look so beautiful 😻 and the energy you pass through is amazing

  • @darcylexton
    @darcylexton 21 день тому +1

    i totally love what you preach. i always relied on men and yes, the trauma is real. this year i’m focusing on my career ❤️‍🔥💳✨

  • @bhavyatanikhra1077
    @bhavyatanikhra1077 22 дні тому +6

    Love this video soo much 💖gonna watch again and again

  • @hx.7lo
    @hx.7lo 7 днів тому

    Energy is what your true self IS! It is not about faking it. This was never it’s concept. People misconcept it. You can understand which one is which and diffrentiate them ( For white & black cat energy )
    For me personally, I mix them up and I can say that i have both. Maybe it’s called grey cat energy 😂❤.
    What I’m trying to say that it’s not about YOU picking a personality and trying) to be something ! No you don’t try nothing nor fake anything. You study yourself and be yourself and know your worth. Technically, you will notice you using all these traits weather it’s in a black cat or a white cat.
    I just see these as traits, normal traits for a divine feminine woman.

  • @celinegirard5286
    @celinegirard5286 20 днів тому

    This woman is REAL! Love this content!

  • @larajean2767
    @larajean2767 5 днів тому

    I needed to hear this so much ❤

  • @samyafawz3695
    @samyafawz3695 12 днів тому

    Do you realise how stunning you look? God bless you ❤

  • @knittingangel3859
    @knittingangel3859 22 дні тому +4

    Nastya, thank you for your videos, they are very useful and inspiring. Could you please do the video about what to do with the guys from American culture, who are not picking you up etc, to tell them to pick you up from home?

  • @Ruch-bq4sf
    @Ruch-bq4sf 22 дні тому +18

    Stop looking this good babe......I am questioning my STRAIGHTNESS!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @vanessaeriksson1212
    @vanessaeriksson1212 22 дні тому +20

    Thank you for being so grounded. You are an exceptional visionary on self love. Well done! Great content, as always!

  • @1991acgs
    @1991acgs 7 днів тому

    LOVED IT! THANK YOU NASTYA!

  • @lelolai03
    @lelolai03 19 днів тому +1

    So smart and wise at such a young age. I wish I was like that when I was younger.

  • @UmmuLBahrami
    @UmmuLBahrami 20 днів тому +1

    Baby girlll !! I’m proud of myself and you Nastya❤
    ~🎀

  • @holy_triinity
    @holy_triinity 16 днів тому

    Wooow, this video it’s my favorite. So much love and great advices, thanks 🫶🏽💗✨💗

  • @mayastarbright374
    @mayastarbright374 15 днів тому

    A lovely and mature viewpoint. Thank you for saying it.

  • @DaniellaNicoleS
    @DaniellaNicoleS 22 дні тому +1

    always feel I have to protect myself and I do that by putting on a poker face. When I am comfortable I feel so happy and nice to everyone. For a while I was tired of always being nice to people but it really is so much more rewarding to be stern and nice instead of a yes girl and too nice if you get it.

  • @magdalena3328
    @magdalena3328 11 днів тому

    Thank You Nastya, especially for "waiter name part" All the best ❤

  • @alinatrifann
    @alinatrifann 20 днів тому

    Great content Nastya🤎
    I think a lot of girls didn't have attention from their father and now in real life they find a men and put it on a pedestal, but when you heal and start to put yourself first, thats when the confidence comes.
    ☀️

  • @Vovolove
    @Vovolove 17 днів тому

    Wow that’s so true. Women should love themselves more and stop judging their value based on a man.

  • @sofisof_13
    @sofisof_13 22 дні тому +5

    and now we need a male version of Nastya to teach men

  • @1991acgs
    @1991acgs 7 днів тому

    NEVER LOSE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, JOB, HOBBIES, VALUES, FAMILY, INCOME, INTERESTS, SELF CARE.

  • @bridget6735
    @bridget6735 20 днів тому

    Omg, im so in love with your aura ❤

  • @amusedgal
    @amusedgal 22 дні тому +7

    Girl…. You’re saving me 🥺❤️

  • @oksanakashirets
    @oksanakashirets 20 днів тому

    I love this girl! Beauty +brain! 🤍

  • @SteisyFacho-fi5bz
    @SteisyFacho-fi5bz 22 дні тому +3

    I really needed this

  • @karlamarins9675
    @karlamarins9675 21 день тому +1

    I love her voice and her English ❤

  • @20MinutesCZ
    @20MinutesCZ 6 днів тому

    Just a quick feedback: I feel like you're watching yourself in the video and not looking at me so I'm losing interest in receiving advice from you. But you look gorgeous and you sure have some good tips ❤ thank you for that!

  • @nouragilmore264
    @nouragilmore264 17 днів тому

    I admire your mindset 💖

  • @rafaelamamonerodrigues3426
    @rafaelamamonerodrigues3426 21 день тому +2

    girl I just looked at you in this outfit and it screams RUSSIAN GIRL!! I always get chocked with how russian girls are so gorgeous🫶🏼❤️

  • @Sky-hm8yi
    @Sky-hm8yi 18 днів тому

    I'm ready to listen to this lady❤ thanku

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 19 днів тому +1

    Love the new look!!

  • @moumitabiswas1801
    @moumitabiswas1801 22 дні тому

    Queen Nastya is giving us hacks about queen treatment ❤❤❤❤

  • @lubnaisacutii
    @lubnaisacutii 20 днів тому

    just started seeing your vedio , can't expreess how much happy i am . love youuuuuuuuu sisssssss

  • @hanathan288
    @hanathan288 7 днів тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @theweepingwillow5444
    @theweepingwillow5444 21 день тому

    Great video! Thank you for being honest. Beauty of the heart is where true beauty lies

  • @techtimewithabbie1713
    @techtimewithabbie1713 20 днів тому

    Loved this video! Well done speaking the truth!

  • @penny-by3yk
    @penny-by3yk 21 день тому

    i'm older then you but I learn today a lot and I need this to heard today.Thank you👑

  • @loulouparis_
    @loulouparis_ 18 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this video ❤ it changed my day

  • @fridarodriguez9682
    @fridarodriguez9682 22 дні тому

    thank you for making this content, sometimes wee need someone like you to remember us that we matter more than wen think.

  • @euni_T
    @euni_T 22 дні тому

    Love the video!! Speaking straight facts! Also, I must know your lip combo. Couldn’t keep my eyes off your lips 🤩

  • @lilley12
    @lilley12 21 день тому

    Thank u girl I loved your sweet words 💕✨

  • @risingsun8493
    @risingsun8493 22 дні тому +2

    100%!!! 🎉
    LOVE IT!!! ❤️🙌🏼

  • @НастяМельник-ы9с
    @НастяМельник-ы9с 22 дні тому

    I love your videos so much❤️ You have insane energy, thanks for the inspiration and motivation to improve☺️

  • @purvahaha2975
    @purvahaha2975 16 днів тому

    OMG!!! I needed this advice so bad

  • @xinyue7882
    @xinyue7882 12 днів тому

    You are so confident and elegant, lipstick compliments your beauty, what lipstick you are using?

  • @C-Line-m2x
    @C-Line-m2x 14 днів тому

    This is a blessing in my feed 😇

  • @Thelashaymarie
    @Thelashaymarie 3 дні тому

    Girl you are beautiful

  • @Мария-л2ю5ъ
    @Мария-л2ю5ъ 22 дні тому

    Nastya I love you so much!💗
    Thank you!🫂

  • @VVVVVVV-Vi
    @VVVVVVV-Vi 16 днів тому

    Thankyou so much sis.

  • @golnazari7222
    @golnazari7222 13 днів тому

    How pretty you are❤

  • @_Summersfypage
    @_Summersfypage 17 днів тому

    Am i the only one who can’t relate to hating themselves ir their past self??? It’s crazy how many women say that they used to hate themselves

  • @ronja3190
    @ronja3190 22 дні тому

    Oooooooh I honestly love alll your video'sss you're literally the only person I watch on youtube, but honestly you are so amazing and beautiful and loving that I can literally only dream of becoming a person like you in the future!!! So much love to you (and to Laska as welll)!!!!♥♥♥♥

  • @nicoleblks
    @nicoleblks 20 днів тому

    Much needed. Thank you.

  • @nourelhoudamekkaoui4835
    @nourelhoudamekkaoui4835 22 дні тому +1

    Thank you ❤ for this inspirational video, just asking why don't you move from NYC since the type of men there are not the quality ones ? We love you keep up ❤❤❤

  • @lifewithkimmy6181
    @lifewithkimmy6181 11 днів тому

    i love this!!

  • @ВікторіяЯщук-в4о
    @ВікторіяЯщук-в4о 20 днів тому

    You are amazing, u are inspired me, thx u❤️

  • @Raphaellesauvigblanc
    @Raphaellesauvigblanc 8 днів тому

    "Look straight into your eyes, ""Do I live every single day with the dignity and actions of a woman who gets this kind of treatment?""

  • @thaolam9380
    @thaolam9380 21 день тому

    you are so beautiful Nastya, I love your mindset

  • @yassamine5337
    @yassamine5337 20 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this video, Swan. Your point about women's financial independence is relevant, especially when facing toxic relationships. However, in Islam, a man is obligated to provide for his wife, even if she is a millionaire and he is a simple worker, and he has no right to take from her money. A woman is not supposed to rely on financial dependency to earn respect from her husband, as respect is a fundamental value mandated by faith, unlike the Western norms you describe. Thank you for your educating videos

  • @petraborosa7772
    @petraborosa7772 21 день тому

    The best video and advices ever!❤

  • @aniabrandt7
    @aniabrandt7 21 день тому

    Love your videos. U r true Queen & teaching us to be Queen's ❤

  • @pphelia
    @pphelia 22 дні тому +1

    Perfect closing words! 👌

  • @mirelysgonzalez8238
    @mirelysgonzalez8238 21 день тому

    Thanks for your videos, you are my motivation❤

  • @aydzhanasenova4756
    @aydzhanasenova4756 20 днів тому

    I love you ! I love you ! I love you ! This video was a bit like a compass in the dark. Thank you so very much. 😇💖🌸

  • @rainbowdash-d6q
    @rainbowdash-d6q 10 днів тому

    you're amazing:)

  • @Marisa_Couto
    @Marisa_Couto 6 днів тому

    Amazing content 😊

  • @mp7140
    @mp7140 6 днів тому

    This is all 100% true!