How to Speak With Confidence - 10 Secrets to Speaking Confidently

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 752

  • @explorerendeavour3009
    @explorerendeavour3009 3 роки тому +559

    #1 Speaking is a skill
    #2 Make it about your audience
    #3 Visualize yourself as a
    confident speaker
    #4 Know your stuff
    #5 Learn how to tell story
    #6 Dress confidently
    #7 Practice makes permanent
    #8 Know your audience
    #9 Don't dwell on your mistakes
    #10 Change your physiology

    • @ofwcelinepinagpala2114
      @ofwcelinepinagpala2114 3 роки тому +13

      thanks for the summary I screenshot.

    • @dnoray1
      @dnoray1 3 роки тому +2

      Live this summary really helpful to me-:))

    • @beckabejuela6716
      @beckabejuela6716 3 роки тому +2

      Great , I have been speaking for ten years just the way I can, its only now I learned from you formally. Thank you for this skill shared

    • @ooieng8238
      @ooieng8238 3 роки тому

      P

    • @Radhal08
      @Radhal08 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for the summary.

  • @motivatedtann8178
    @motivatedtann8178 3 роки тому +7

    For a native Chinese, you've delivered these pointers so fluently spoken English. It was excellent!

  • @nadinedavid1501
    @nadinedavid1501 2 роки тому +22

    You are truly an inspiration especially to a foreign person trying to learn a new language which is extremely difficult as an adult and when your alphabet is completely different. To sound native is very difficult to achieve but you aced it !!! But with inner confidence one can achieve almost anything !! 👏👏👏

  • @LisaB_12204
    @LisaB_12204 8 місяців тому +9

    I am an English as a New Language teacher for the beginning class. I have no fear of speaking to my students only when my focus is completely on them and their needs. I've learned to stop confessing to them my errors and inadequacies. I appreciate hearing your testimonial about you growth with English. That's what I listen for. Thank you. Wow! You read to your mother! I was thinking of having my students read such stories. I did use my favorite children's book. I used it for pronunciation and vocabulary. I will bring it back this quarter. Thank you.

  • @mayshu1925
    @mayshu1925 3 роки тому +177

    As a Chinese who also speak English as a second language, I am amazed with your spoken English!

    • @bmak0526
      @bmak0526 2 роки тому +4

      she is originally from Hong Kong, not China

    • @monicaestrada6284
      @monicaestrada6284 2 роки тому +1

      That's beautiful and a lot of patience and understanding how difficult many other different languages can be in China and Hong Kong

    • @MrLuhuazhao
      @MrLuhuazhao Рік тому +1

      @@bmak0526 I am very sure she is chinese.

    • @MrLuhuazhao
      @MrLuhuazhao Рік тому

      @@monicaestrada6284 you don’t think people in hong kong speak Chinese?

    • @motiveperson143
      @motiveperson143 10 місяців тому

      Same English is my second language and this year I am practicing on how to be confident speaker

  • @trangnguyen5293
    @trangnguyen5293 3 роки тому +6

    A big thank you from me. My name is Trang. I'm living in Australia and studying English just one month ago. I came here in 2015 without how to speak English. I overcame a lot of obstacles until I could speak a bit of English, and I am continually learning, practising and understanding more in English. Thanks again for your helpful tips to build my confidence when I talk in English. You are an amazing

  • @trivjay08
    @trivjay08 3 роки тому +10

    I can see this channel growing. Thanks for sharing these gems!!!!

  • @ivainezharris2279
    @ivainezharris2279 2 роки тому +14

    These are such powerful and refreshing points for public speaking. Thank you Dr. Lee.

  • @TITOFROG1
    @TITOFROG1 Рік тому +5

    Thanks Dr. Grace. You are an awesome and giving person for helping all of us improve ourselves on so many and varied ways. Wish you nothing but the best and continued success.

  • @feliciabazan783
    @feliciabazan783 2 роки тому +8

    I will never fall asleep if I have a teacher like you. Thank you for imparting your thoughts. Bless you 🤗💕

  • @swatipadhye2085
    @swatipadhye2085 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Dr. Grace, you are just like your name...Graceful...I stumbled upon your video just now after listening to it, couldn't stop myself from hitting the like and subscribe button. Felt like I found a pot of gold! You are wonderful and engaging..thank you for sharing and stay blessed...

  • @karinarondon5184
    @karinarondon5184 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much! Very helpful tips! Loved your presentation!

  • @fuifuiahkuoi3058
    @fuifuiahkuoi3058 2 роки тому +3

    As an AAPI I really appreciate your videos on communication! Your wisdom allows me to see my potential in improving my knowledge & efforts in becoming better. Thank you Dr. Lee!

  • @marjorierivera3135
    @marjorierivera3135 3 роки тому +13

    Such an amazing speaker, the points you raised are very helpful to us. Loved the fluency and pronunciation. I am motivated to improve my stuff.

  • @DeliciaTrini
    @DeliciaTrini 3 роки тому +5

    Excellent advice! Thank you so much!

  • @rayhclee
    @rayhclee 2 роки тому +3

    Dr Lee, thanks a lot. You video is invaluable too many people and will a long way. I myself have been going through the same tough journey of learning to speak better. Good on you.

  • @myraville
    @myraville 3 роки тому +4

    I love the way you communicate. You're so good. 🙏❤

  • @edgarbanosa9074
    @edgarbanosa9074 2 роки тому +6

    1. Practice makes permanent.
    2. Process makes perfect...,thank you very much...

  • @messue428
    @messue428 3 роки тому +4

    This was incredibly inspiring and helpful. Thank you.

  • @royallen1711
    @royallen1711 2 роки тому +4

    Informative and well presented. Thank you!

  • @savageintheconcretejungle5891
    @savageintheconcretejungle5891 3 роки тому +4

    Stumbled when telling ppl not to use filler words but immediately recovered seamlessly. That’s theory and practical lumped in one. Brilliant

  • @debtfree7338
    @debtfree7338 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my God. You have nailed it on the head for me. I have been making it about me and never comfortable with my delivery of my messages. Thank you.

  • @daklakdaily3671
    @daklakdaily3671 3 роки тому +1

    What the best video ! Thank you for sharing with us . Have a blessed year there👍🔔🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @WisdomSeries
    @WisdomSeries 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this Dr. Grace!

  • @ajinkyakhandare4748
    @ajinkyakhandare4748 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Dr.grace Lee for this fabulous video 😊

  • @aliyilmaz4045
    @aliyilmaz4045 3 роки тому +7

    You are a great teacher, wonderful teacher. I am proud of being your student in spite of my old age.

  • @LongNguyen-ij1hx
    @LongNguyen-ij1hx 2 роки тому +1

    You are so wonderfully confident in speaking. You are a great inspiration! Thank you very much for sharing your valuable secrets to speakinging confidently.

  • @janemugambi6825
    @janemugambi6825 3 роки тому +6

    Great content there. Thank you. I especially love no.4,7 and 8, because the struggle with stage-fright is real.

  • @andypham218
    @andypham218 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your genuine and informative video.

  • @thomaskipkemboi2023
    @thomaskipkemboi2023 2 роки тому +4

    This is beautiful. 10 strong and healthy points. Thank you

  • @MegaDonaldification
    @MegaDonaldification Рік тому +1

    You have just changed my way of thinking this morning. I never the act of types of winning speech, statement or pitch including the dreaded "tell me about yourself" at an interview was about having the audience at heart in tamden with some "emotional word" to create a story that will be meaningful to the winning process. The first 3 minutes 16 seconds is the best moment of my life. I have an interview in an hour 30 minutes and I am going to incorporate that emotional feeling the audience have only to elevate the moment with my solution.
    Thank you very much. I have seen this pattern on UA-cam but I wasn't able to capture the one word that made the difference which is the emotional word that expresses the feeling one may feel and requires someone to help them stay on the right path. This is were I come in with the required solution to save the day or start them from where they stopped.
    DR, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

  • @bobbytryte2927
    @bobbytryte2927 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, this is just what I need right now...Bless you

  • @GaudzRamirez
    @GaudzRamirez 3 роки тому +6

    As I watched your video, I felt as though I was attending a seminar on public speaking. Thanks!

  • @marialevy6109
    @marialevy6109 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your valuable skills and ideas.

  • @wingsofinspiration
    @wingsofinspiration 3 роки тому +2

    Wow thats incredible👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽..Thank you so much for sharing this..I need it.

  • @dawnrobertson4982
    @dawnrobertson4982 5 місяців тому

    @DrGrace, I am so impressed by the work you did to learn English, and to master phonetics. You are an example that one can accomplish what s/he puts their mind to. Thank you for being an inspiration.

  • @gabrielartillaga1194
    @gabrielartillaga1194 3 роки тому +3

    Great stuff! Thanks.
    I'm a senior citizen watching from Puerto Princesa, Palawan, Philippines. GOD bless.

  • @rashidaliosa8208
    @rashidaliosa8208 2 роки тому +19

    A good teacher is one who teaches well, a great teacher is one who inspires- Dr.Grace Lee, I admire your unique and inspiring presentation.Your great.

  • @samrag9101
    @samrag9101 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Doctor for your time and efforts.. very usful content looking forward to see your next interesting video😊

  • @ruckus181
    @ruckus181 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks Grace! Appreciate the insights :) And I always get stage fright

  • @monichu91
    @monichu91 3 роки тому +17

    ❤️ Thank you so much, I am sending this link to my daughter who is struggling with speaking, talking and she was and still has this shyness of speaking out even at this age considering as an adult now. Your help will be immensely valuable. 🙏

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому +4

      How did it go? Was your daughter able to get some valuable takeaways from this video? Is she in a more confidence space now?

  • @chillwithmari
    @chillwithmari 3 роки тому

    Thanks for this Dr Grace!!! U speak very well!!

  • @AthanaseBIRUTA-sn1he
    @AthanaseBIRUTA-sn1he 7 місяців тому

    Thanks Dr. Lee for you tips .I'm gonna use them as tools

  • @hassanmusa6804
    @hassanmusa6804 2 роки тому +1

    Very informative with speaking skills/tools. My appreciation.

  • @gaddielboe4064
    @gaddielboe4064 3 роки тому +2

    Wow indeed being confident of yourself matters a lot. so great and motivational

  • @maureenbrown7270
    @maureenbrown7270 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, thank you, thank you . Your presentation was awesome.

  • @akinbobolaoluwatobiloba3097
    @akinbobolaoluwatobiloba3097 3 роки тому +3

    Your guides are quite simplified and educative.

  • @shareewilliams6967
    @shareewilliams6967 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Dr. Grace Lee for this helpfu linformation and for sharing your gift with us. Blessings to you and your family

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      Thank you for your thoughtful message. Blessings to you too!

  • @korimlijanice9843
    @korimlijanice9843 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks coach, for sharing your experience how to improve speech this can help me to communicate with people.

  • @andresreyna1472
    @andresreyna1472 3 роки тому

    Super, I am so glad to find your page. Gracias!!!

  • @Hanrich146
    @Hanrich146 3 роки тому +2

    Love your content. So helpful

  • @TheFredrico77
    @TheFredrico77 2 роки тому +11

    I love the transcripts...it helps with memory. Listening and reading at the same time is fantastic for remembering the key points. Thanks Dr Grace 🙏🏽 😘

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому

      Appreciate your feedback, Dave. Glad to have you here on my channel!

    • @gicirochantal3844
      @gicirochantal3844 7 місяців тому

      Your contact plz

  • @micahdooley2729
    @micahdooley2729 Рік тому +1

    Great advice, Dr. Lee. You are an amazing person, and it is hard to believe that English is your second language. Thank you. 🙏

  • @cksammi
    @cksammi Рік тому +2

    Hi Dr Grace, love your video here. I've always had issues doing any presentation because I'm also Chinese American but wasn't born in the US so I have a natural fear of public speaking. I'm a grown man middle age now and came here when I was 10 but I never did learn the English properly so I still make grammatical mistakes when I speak now and then, that's probably why I have a fear of speaking unless it's scripted and I can read then it's a bit easier but still get nervous. I do think that's my weakness and need to improve because of my career in sales. One thing I have learned is that is to speak slowly and also to take a breath in between sentences but of course this may make the audience fall asleep but at least I don't make too many blunders. Thanks again.

  • @purpleplanet3138
    @purpleplanet3138 3 роки тому +1

    You are a gem! Loved, subscribed!

  • @user-qp2qd2hl9l
    @user-qp2qd2hl9l 7 місяців тому

    Thanks so much, I really learned alot from your teaching.

  • @passion-basedlearning
    @passion-basedlearning 8 місяців тому +1

    You are great, organized, and able to clearly explain this complex topic"Speaking up in public". Words are powerless to express my gratitude to you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @maxwellchristy8609
    @maxwellchristy8609 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much...so informative..❤️

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this insights.

  • @swagatikanayak2778
    @swagatikanayak2778 3 роки тому +2

    Thank u so much for the content . I can't stay with out subscribing whn I heard ur content .. Awesome 🙏🙏

  • @petersonjr8015
    @petersonjr8015 3 роки тому +22

    Thank you Dr. Lee for your great tips. I have been struggling with "stage fright" for quite a while now. My work requires me to give presentations more or less frequently and its very important for me to refine my public speaking skills. I get freaked out a little even when doing zoom presentations with just pp slides in front of me. I love especially your points on "knowing your stuff" and practice. These usually makes or break my presentations. Thanks again for the tips and looking forward to more vids from you..

  • @wamboimugo5948
    @wamboimugo5948 3 роки тому +14

    I appreciate listening to you, coming from Kenya where English is a second language, I
    feel uplifted by your encouraging talk thank you.

  • @determineddespite
    @determineddespite 3 роки тому +5

    I am so glad I found this. I like to believe that I am a confident speaker. I will there, eventually.

  • @banciemcallan4980
    @banciemcallan4980 2 роки тому +2

    So motivating,, Listening to you was worthwhile. Thank you for sharing

  • @fadhilikisusange8650
    @fadhilikisusange8650 7 місяців тому

    I just found a new learning platform. Dr. grace you're so amazing for the incredible lessons.

  • @user-lb9tl1qt6l
    @user-lb9tl1qt6l 2 роки тому +5

    You can not imagine how helpful are your tips for me!! Thank you so much Dr Lee. You are so amazing! Wow! ❤️

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому +1

      You are very welcome! Glad to have you here on my channel.

  • @masoabimatshediso6147
    @masoabimatshediso6147 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks very much informative powerful stuff thanks .For me knowing your stuff is key

  • @dnoray1
    @dnoray1 3 роки тому +3

    This is the most informative & useful video I have seen in awhile. Good point about not dwelling on mistakes-:))

  • @mercyclement4474
    @mercyclement4474 2 роки тому +1

    I really find this very helpful, thank you so much

  • @rosamiagarnace6596
    @rosamiagarnace6596 2 роки тому +1

    Blessings to you... You're so authentic...generous🥰to share ur gift💐

  • @williammastropieri2144
    @williammastropieri2144 2 роки тому +1

    Dr. Lee
    You are great!

  • @vijayaranganathan7858
    @vijayaranganathan7858 4 роки тому +1

    seamless ideas to implement. Wonderful video

  • @lilibethnieto55
    @lilibethnieto55 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you...for a wealth of knowledge on how to speak confidently ❤️
    Love what you have shared 😍

  • @2000desigirl
    @2000desigirl Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. Very helpful!

  • @Erudite48085
    @Erudite48085 3 роки тому +26

    She's motivating! She makes us feel improvement is accessible!

  • @amsaluabeti9663
    @amsaluabeti9663 2 роки тому +1

    All the things you mentioned are supportive thanks for the taughts and your expirience

  • @EricaSarisari
    @EricaSarisari 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for these tips!

  • @user-vd8oc5lg4e
    @user-vd8oc5lg4e 6 місяців тому

    Thank you very much Dr. Very helpful

  • @lilyleruyet6956
    @lilyleruyet6956 8 місяців тому

    Amazing lessons , thanks so much for sharing

  • @biubiu_xiner
    @biubiu_xiner 4 роки тому +58

    Thanks for the tips! I was not very confident almost in my whole life, but I recently decided to face my weakness, you are awesome Dr. Lee!

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  4 роки тому +10

      Awesome to hear, and I am cheering you onwards and upward!

    • @blessings9889
      @blessings9889 2 роки тому

      Same to me here🤗💯

    • @mariafebronia2690
      @mariafebronia2690 2 роки тому +1

      Watching for the first time and I like u

  • @nuhushehu8777
    @nuhushehu8777 2 роки тому +1

    Great! Thanks so much for this.

  • @sharonodonnell2786
    @sharonodonnell2786 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you, appreciate your grace, Dr. Grace. Have taken notes - much good content in this video. I have felt insecure talking in front of group #2 step may help this. Also, appreciate your articulate English & voice.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому +2

      Wonderful to hear that my video is helping you. Keep up updated on your progress!

  • @adebolaadejumo8576
    @adebolaadejumo8576 3 роки тому

    Thank for your point on been able to face the audience very helpful

  • @anniehe7797
    @anniehe7797 Рік тому +1

    You are awesome Dr. Lee. I run every morning listening to your video. Learned so much and encouraged by you to overcome accent, stage frightening and build more confidence!

  • @sobiacsay2208
    @sobiacsay2208 4 роки тому +73

    These are all priceless points that if applied, can take someone's speaking skills from zero to hero!

  • @mwapemachulachapuswike3034
    @mwapemachulachapuswike3034 3 роки тому

    Good evening, thank you this is very helpful.

  • @SnowS162
    @SnowS162 10 місяців тому +1

    I love your channel Dr. Grace Lee. Seeing you are Asian like me helps me feel like it's possible for me to improve my communication skills too. Thanks so much.

  • @TaraGhimite
    @TaraGhimite 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Dr Grace Lee

  • @evelynalmocera7291
    @evelynalmocera7291 3 роки тому +1

    Dr Grace, you are worth subscribing.
    Thank you so much for the tips.

    • @markbuck9843
      @markbuck9843 3 роки тому

      Hope you are safe in this pandemic Evelyn?

  • @leeville2466
    @leeville2466 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much..my struggle I have to overcome...thanks for helpful tips

  • @tly8205
    @tly8205 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video 🙏

  • @therezakahorongo8852
    @therezakahorongo8852 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this rare skill.

  • @prof.jojopangan2407
    @prof.jojopangan2407 2 роки тому +3

    Dr. Grace thank you for sharing your wisdom on building confidence in public speaking. -Prof. Jose Journal

  • @olukayodeolabanji7305
    @olukayodeolabanji7305 2 роки тому +1

    Great teaching and insightful too.

  • @juanitosantiago210
    @juanitosantiago210 9 місяців тому +1

    ❤ i am amazed that you speak well and very clear english. Great speaker!

  • @daphnejohnson3851
    @daphnejohnson3851 2 роки тому

    This is great. I am so happy I found this channel!

  • @joannekaravara4032
    @joannekaravara4032 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks I am being motivated by your speech

  • @edwardwong654
    @edwardwong654 2 роки тому +4

    This is so good that I want to rewatch it again. And Bethesda is so grand although I remembered it as being decrepit and dangerous in the 70's when I was a little kid. Great complement to the usual Vancouver waterfront. My two favoruite running venues, Central and Stanley Parks. Cantonese is also my first language although I was born in Manhattan, but English is my de facto language. Great video and thanks.

  • @firstlady1969st
    @firstlady1969st 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this

  • @abegaelpening5352
    @abegaelpening5352 3 роки тому

    Wow..what a helpful tips..Thanks Doc.