And hence the woman starts withdrawing ..we pull back talking or opening up to the man because what's the use if it is going to be dismissed. yet a woman will listen to the man comfort him and be there for him. A relationship should be a 1-way street, not a 2-way street
So on point. My most recent date was with a previous coworker. We recently ran into each other at a store. He asked to get together for apps, and I honestly thought it was to catch up and maybe network. Long story short, we got together twice and he expressed his interest . I nicely told him that i liked him ,but we really dont know each other and I like to take things slow. This probably stems from not feeling safe giving my heart to a literal stranger. I ended up telling him about needing to take things slow twice after he kissed me twice. I just dont get it, why is it most men say they want to take a relationship slow, yet have no problem trying to rush affection etc. Is no one ok with just being friends in the beginning anymore? It seems everyone is in a rush for physical chemistry withiut even knowing if theyre compatible in all the other categories. 🙏🤦♀️🤷♀️
You say that. But when a guy befriends you first and is patient and sweet, you put him in the friendzone. What women want, and what they tell you they want are always two different things, and then you get mad at men for not being able to navigate the bizarre mathematical equation you have between your head, heart and biology. So the quickest way for a man to actually figure out if you're interested is to go for the kiss and see what happens. Girls don't want the answer to their mathematical equation, they want to drown in their internal struggle and then project that struggle onto the man who's interested in them. Are you blind? Men don't meet up with women to "network". They're interested in you. You KNOW they are interested in you. But you create this illusion world around yourself based on emotions you don't even understand yourself, and then blame the guy for not being able to decode 50 layers of illusion and delusion.
what about the men that be like “well i feel this way “ and they become emotional, which turns into a debate and that’s when i just chose to not even speak about certain things.
Love seeing you guys talk over us wonderful ladies brother. So funny to get this insight because we don't normally get to see this kinda stuff. Keep it up. Shows your vulnerability and that you guys too have feelings. Nice to know we are talked about🎉❤
Exactly. You see men fail to realize that when they always say they want a LOGICAL woman, this runs a great risk for that man. Because with this so-called logical, un-emotional woman she is FAR more likely to go into a relationship with a business mindset: to just go after a man for what she can get out of it financially , lie to him and use him for his bank account. Her feelings if any would be very small, rarely shown or expressed, and 9 times out of 10 have no love for him. So is that what all these men TRULY want?? I doubt it.
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And hence the woman starts withdrawing ..we pull back talking or opening up to the man because what's the use if it is going to be dismissed. yet a woman will listen to the man comfort him and be there for him. A relationship should be a 1-way street, not a 2-way street
two way street is equal and better than a one way street.
This is so accurate. You have truly been blessed with Godly insight and wisdom.
So on point.
My most recent date was with a previous coworker. We recently ran into each other at a store. He asked to get together for apps, and I honestly thought it was to catch up and maybe network. Long story short, we got together twice and he expressed his interest . I nicely told him that i liked him ,but we really dont know each other and I like to take things slow. This probably stems from not feeling safe giving my heart to a literal stranger. I ended up telling him about needing to take things slow twice after he kissed me twice. I just dont get it, why is it most men say they want to take a relationship slow, yet have no problem trying to rush affection etc. Is no one ok with just being friends in the beginning anymore? It seems everyone is in a rush for physical chemistry withiut even knowing if theyre compatible in all the other categories. 🙏🤦♀️🤷♀️
You say that. But when a guy befriends you first and is patient and sweet, you put him in the friendzone.
What women want, and what they tell you they want are always two different things, and then you get mad at men for not being able to navigate the bizarre mathematical equation you have between your head, heart and biology.
So the quickest way for a man to actually figure out if you're interested is to go for the kiss and see what happens.
Girls don't want the answer to their mathematical equation, they want to drown in their internal struggle and then project that struggle onto the man who's interested in them.
Are you blind? Men don't meet up with women to "network". They're interested in you.
You KNOW they are interested in you. But you create this illusion world around yourself based on emotions you don't even understand yourself, and then blame the guy for not being able to decode 50 layers of illusion and delusion.
TRUE, ESPECIALLY IF SHE'S HAVING A GUT FEELING
You are on to it. Praise God
what about the men that be like “well i feel this way “ and they become emotional, which turns into a debate and that’s when i just chose to not even speak about certain things.
If this is every time you try to discuss, that man could care less about your feelings.
You're projecting!
Truth!!!❤
We forget that women are emotional....
Are you freaking serious.
. Your trolling rite....
Love seeing you guys talk over us wonderful ladies brother. So funny to get this insight because we don't normally get to see this kinda stuff. Keep it up. Shows your vulnerability and that you guys too have feelings. Nice to know we are talked about🎉❤
Exactly. You see men fail to realize that when they always say they want a LOGICAL woman, this runs a great risk for that man. Because with this so-called logical, un-emotional woman she is FAR more likely to go into a relationship with a business mindset: to just go after a man for what she can get out of it financially , lie to him and use him for his bank account. Her feelings if any would be very small, rarely shown or expressed, and 9 times out of 10 have no love for him. So is that what all these men TRULY want?? I doubt it.