A Clear RED FLAG You're Dealing With An Emotionally BROKEN MAN
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- A Clear RED FLAG You're Dealing With An Emotionally BROKEN MAN... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will give you one of the red flags you're dealing with an emotionally broken man that you should not overlook. You may deal with an emotionally damaged man on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and ensure you watch the entire video.
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Bringing up his ex without me asking about her, or constantly talking about her, negative or not. He’s not over her, she’s on his mind too much.
Most definitely everything still lingering...all that raw sex will help with that. Welcome to the new age of "hookup culture". Cesspool of bulshit.
Yes,same happened to me
@positivevibeskx1102 do what's best for you...let the garbage man go collect his trash. Flex it to the exit. He still crave that. Let him go back to the drug he misses. Don't try to save him from hell. It's a losing battle you will never win. May God bless you.
@@Erica-cf1xb ❤️, very true, unfortunately I went too far to just be abandoned,but I praied to God and little by little started to gain back my self-confidence.May nobady have this horrible experience of being hurt from someone they love!
@positivevibeskx1102 only if you knew how many ppl have literally shattered my heart and continue to bother me. I still have my moments when I cry. I hate what was done to me. But I can't change it. They meant everything that they did. No remorse. Please understand that God saw everything and those terrible souls will be dealt with. I will pray that the sun shines bright for you again. It will. Focus on doing things that make you happy. In Jesus name. Amen.
I refuse to be with a man who is “friends” with any ex….like close that door already. I know my worth now and I’m not interested in competing 💯💯💯
I met a man that wanted to see me, I was with him 9 months no sex at all cause he was older, anyway all I heard is the same stories about his dead ex wife over and over, the catalyst for me is when he said he's taking me out on a special date, I was so excited,all he did before the food even came was tell another story about her, I was done and I don't want it back.also my husband had been dead about a year and I barely mentioned his name, never again will I do that again.
Any trauma not healed can cause an issue with relationships down the road. Platonic ones as well.
I've noticed this recently
I don’t see any of my exes anymore. They’re gone in my life now. And I don’t have no idea where they are. I don’t need to know anyway…
They hold you accountable for you actions..but don’t want ANY accountable for there own..after endless times of try to rationalize with them about thing they do that hurt you …then they blame shift & that comes with anger & rage that ends up being very dangerous and you don’t even feel safe in your own home…let me tell you it real & does happen
This.
My X woman was like this…so basically your saying ..but not saying they are narcissistic..some are so far down the malignant narcissist psychopath line there’s absolutely nothing you can do but walk away
Trying to save them will drain your soul completely empty..then they move on to the next victim for their narcissistic supply..no amount of love, empathy, emotional support, praise, is enough..it’s like a cup with a hole in it will never be full EVER…it starts with love bombing then devalue then the discard ..then you have to deal with trama bond, but it will eventually end ..I promise you that..but finally heal and learn a very valuable lesson BUT.. only to make you stronger and more wise
Awful situation to be in watching someone you care for "pining " and wondering what his Ex-lover is doing all the time. Mutual agreed upon separation is best so he can go find himself . He may choose not to be with neither women. But, at least you didn't allow him to leave you damage.
Yes agreed completely ❤❤❤❤❤
Well I agree partially that women should have babies and have families, instead of all women pursuing a career.
But I wonder if the population of men is big enough to really get the all positions.
if the population is 50 percent men and 50 percent women
maybe the population isn't mathematically so big to fulfill only male standards.
As a woman, I don't say it's a bad thing, men are in higher positions, because they have certain talents, as we see from historical figures philosophers, scientists physicists musicians, and also women share through social media these articles about these men and their quotes to inspire the society to think differently.
because these women care about men and women's society.
Even from the perspective of biology says men are better in some jobs. Men are high performers.
Sometimes it happens that also women are very talented at something, but agree with the science of why men are better at certain jobs.
because as John Gray says
estrogen makes women talk about emotions more often
and 10 times more noticing and talking about emotions and about problems when under stress.
So I guess if women want to be also great performers they need to do some yoga or breath work to have less stress.
I guess as a woman maybe women are not vired biologically to be high performers, or if they do it means they have less estrogen and think about emotions less often when under stress, because estrogen combined with stress makes women talk often about problems instead of trying to solve it.
So if we give women tools to be less affected by emotions by estrogen and by stress maybe there is better way to make men and women have common understanding in certain jobs.
Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in a man´s body, to be calmer and to focus more on task. He says testosterone is about problem-solving. So men probably feel much calmer in strssful situations.
So therefore even if the wife is emotional thanks to estrogen,
she shouldn't put all her emotions on her husband, because he is mostly focused on problem-solving thanks to his biological aspect of testosterone.
He is teaching men and women how to understand the differences and to communicate better and another thing is that kids are copying the behavior of parents. Because kids have mirror neurons in the brain therefore they are mimicking everything that adults do or say. Then it´s part of their subconscious mind and belief programs.
He says a husband shouldn´t ask his wife "What do you think but how do you feel?"
Because if he forces her to think rationally and logically all the time, it´s against her biology. She is becoming masculine and rational...She is basically becoming her husband.
So there can be some aspect that women sometimes become more masculine in higher positions of some jobs.
But if both practice empathy it connects them together and both are able to put themselves into the shoes of the other gender while falling in love and having an intimate relationship.
As Sam Vaknin says Love and intimacy is the greatest addiction, which means it reduces the need for other addictions such as Facebook etc.
The more you spend time with your wife the less you feel a temptation to use Facebook. Because the brain is conditioned for healthy stuff.
He says therefore Facebook doesn´t want men to be in love with their wives because Facebook wants his eyeballs to look at the advertisement, not have intimacy with the wife.
He says conditioning is much worse than addiction. It's easier to heal addiction than conditioning therefore teenagers shouldn't use Facebook. It probably suppresses the healthy hormones in their body and causes depression etc. Or it polarizes their point of view about genders and other stuff.
And John Gray also says wives shouldn't force the husband to show emotions to often because he is focused on problem-solving and if he would be emotional too often it is against his biology.
But the important thing is that it makes him most happy to make the wife and kids happy and show how he cares etc.
But also sense of humor is very healing.
So maybe society should be taught these principles so they would talk properly at work, showing empathy and gratitude. it creates bridges between people in the communities.
Thiis is so good!! You are so on target!! I dont believe in competing for a man. Any thing dealing with HIS ex, friends etc. Is on him and I will address him. I will bring ANY thing that makes me feel some kind of way to his attention to address. I get the trauma, been there, done that. I've done the painful work, I needed help and time to get it done. I will not be subjected to it if he isn't willing to do what it takes to heal and move forward. Always address with love.
If this ain’t the truth. That guy talked about his ex wife every chance he got. Then got the nerve to compare me to her when he got mad. He needs a lot of therapy and Jesus christ
Living in the past will cloud your future... causing you to repeat or adapt to the habits you were involved in before. People " mirror our mess" to us and instead of doing the work to heal, they accept that same spirit you never escaped from. Usually because it is familiar to your spirit.
Yes!!
So happened to me.
I was blind to it at first but I figured it out.
How my x wanna friendship with me again? Don't understand him Steve. They are already dating and married. How my friendship gonna help him when he sitting a cross the table with his partner in front of my 👀 just wanna talk to me bec we were together? I don't think it's acceptable not good for me, him or his partner.
Stephan, say two people have had trauma in the past from their relationships. What is the healthy boundary for discussing these traumas with your new partner to help the other better understand you and your perspective? Would you say it’s okay to discuss what an ex might have done in your past, in order to avoid the same mistakes?
Get therapy first ?
It’s ok to discuss it with a partner so you can see where they are coming from and it is good to be honest going into a deeper relationship. However, I think the problems occur when it is repeatedly discussed. People have a habit of bringing up things after they have already been talked about. This is the problem with some therapies. The person gets it off their chest and feels better , but then is asked to relive it again and again. The more you think and go over it, the more it feels like it is happening again. Best to move on and think about newer and better times. Another comment on here a girl said the person just told stories of his dead wife, understandable one time. But to continually talk about her to his new girl is very upsetting. He’s not ready to move on. Hope this helps ✨😊
Thats called triangulation
It was very hard for me to start seeing red flags and but before I notice my mom did. I am godly Christian women. All I wanted was a long term commitment and relationship. And he kept beating around the bush not giving me answer that I was looking for which was are we more then just friends. He was also bringing up his ex and he would tell me you had 6 years to recover. I didn’t i am still going through what has happened getting scammed and $ I have lost and. He said I like what we have. Which didn’t make sense to me I felt like he wasn’t committed and he didn’t love me or respect me all he wanted was sex. Which happened 😢 which I felt so guilty. And. Having the conversation with my family who really love me and wants what is best for me. She asked me has he been with any other women. I told her he told me he hasn’t. She told me when she caught us. That looked like someone experienced and was using you. He knew all the sex position I didn’t. I had. He was constantly on his phone watching baseball not spending time with me. I told him he could use my car if he was careful. And when I was gone for two weeks my car was trashed my parents kitchen was mess he left it for the next person who was house sitting for us. There was trash outside of my house and he didn’t pick it up. I really felt disrespected and upset cause I fell for this guy who was set up by his mom who went to church
They always choose there baby and marry her I was just used 😢not even good enough for a coffee
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What is soooo messed up these days is how vengeful the ex become. Always wanting to fake be friends, to be the side chick, to still receive all the benefits just to take receipts for later use, still indulge in raw sex with everything that goes with that, still be attached to all the family, still show up at family events, still everything. But the new person is supposed to just accept all of that because there isn't anything they can say. That's BS. That's literally a bad deal for the new person. Hence why that ex-girlfriend/ ex-wife often times be hell getting into. Ppl be too invested ( houses, babies, businesses) with housemates.
My friend ask me a question recently about her boyfriend bring up his ex after they got done having sex she said it was very uncomfortable and didn't know what to say would that be a red flag and how should I tell her to handle the situation I felt like it was a red flag and maybe he is not over her yet or he could still needs to heal from past stuff I told her to say something if he brings it up again like can I be vulnerable with you I really care about you yet it's very uncomfortable for me when you talk about your ex after we just got done having sex do you still have feelings for her? because I feel like we need to focus on us and not have her in the middle of our relationship especially after we just got done having sex and we're still naked it just feels really weird for me 😩
Soooo much bullhsit here. A lot of peeps has children with there x. Being friends is better for the children and the familiy. It makes a bigger family. At christmas we often had 2 x of my husband, their new partner and new children including our children. All the children are siblings. They should have thd opportunity to celebrate hollydays toghether. When my hubby got sick and died they all helped. I am also friends with my xes. We live in a small comunity. To not be friends would ve awkward! So grow up. If you can't trust your partner with the x YOU have a problem in that relationship. Nothing wrong with being friends.
Of course if it’s platonic that’s fine and dandy but a lot of folks be sexting, swapping sexual pics and vids with their “exes”. Or the ex still wants a relationship for and the partner stays in contact bc they enjoy the ego boost. Even some of these “friends” try to meddle and sabotage just so they can take your position. It’s a lot of fucked up self adsorbed ppl out here now.
You’re not in a normal situation
Stephen, it’s dark but I still can see your messy couch, just so you know
Stephen, it’s dark but I still can see your messy couch, just so you know